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Ep 160This is Why You're Stuck: From Plateau to Progress in 3 Steps

Feel like you’re hitting a wall? No matter what you do you just can't seem to make the progress you want? This episode is the ladder to progress you've been searching for. Discover how your beliefs, traits, and skills play a pivotal role in either propelling you forward or keeping you stuck and the 3 steps for hypergrowth. If you're committed to getting unstuck you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The AcceleratorJoin The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorInside This Episode You'll Discover:The Ladder Analogy: skills, character traits, and beliefs crucial to overcoming plateauPerfectionist imbalances between their skills, character traits, and beliefs, keeping us stuck in stagnation3 Steps to Uncover Your Deficiencies and being ruthlessly honest about where you are NOWReplacing Mental Spinning with Action instead of dwelling on why you have deficienciesPinterest for Ladder Visual Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Sep 17, 202314 min

Ep 159Pretending To Have It All Together? Harmful Perfectionism Psychology You Need To Know

As perfectionists, we're expected to have all the answers, to be strong, in control and the one everyone we love can depend on. But what about when we have out own doubts, fears or frustrations? We often resort to wearing a mask pretending to have it all figured out to meet others' expectations. Explore the impact of pretending to have it all together and the POWER waiting for you when you unmask your true, secure, whole, perfect self. If you're ready to equip yourself with the best tools possible for rewiring your perfectionistic habits, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The AcceleratorJoin The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorInside This Episode You'll Discover:00:00:00-Introduction00:03:18-Unspoken Pressures and Expectations on Perfectionists 00:04:19-Sedation and Avoidance of Connection 00:05:44-Desire for More and Judgment of Classic Perfectionists00:06:14-Consequences of Dismissing Signs of Perfectionism00:07:26-Importance of Having Perfectionistic Support00:08:57-Decisions reflection of fear vs your true, secure, whole, perfect self00:09:33-Connection as a Choice (Mamba Mentality)00:10:34-High Cost of Not Getting Perfectionistic Support00:11:04-Difference Between Challenge and Struggle for Parisian Perfectionists00:12:34-Value of Proper Coping Mechanisms for Perfectionists Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Sep 15, 202314 min

Ep 158The 1 Thing That Actually WORKS To REWIRE Perfectionism

Ever decided to start working out everyday, do it for a week or two and then when life gets super busy, you're back to sloth status? Or expected yourself to be relaxed just as soon as you finish power planning your week? Those are signs that your perfectionism is setting you up to fail.Consider this your WARNING: you'll be tempted by productivity culture to think perfectionism hacks like "how to stop being a perfectionist" and "overcoming perfectionism" work. That's bullshit. We eventually run out of steam fighting against ourselves and need a "break" (and that break = going back to old perfectionistic habits).I show Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator clients what ACTUALLY optimizes perfectionism...Tiny & Mighty Moves. Today I'm teaching you ALL about it on the Perfectionism Rewired podcast. Listen now!If you're ready to reset and take control of the end of your year, I highly recommend joining my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The AcceleratorYou'll hit the ground running with concierge text support and 100% customized to you 1-1 coaching sessions, all designed to fast track your own real, resilient, relevant RESULTS.Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Sep 14, 202313 min

Ep 157Why 'Doing Your Best' Might Be Destroying Your Progress

If there’s 1 thing perfectionists love doing, it’s our best! It’s an outdated way to avoid failure but also the surest way to stay stuck. Giving your best doesn’t lead to success! Discover BETTER approach than doing your best and why Perfectionists who ditch doing their best accelerate faster. In This Episode You’ll Learn:How to tell whether you’re using doing your best as an excuseWhy doing your best is NOT a smart strategyWhat to do if you’re always doing your best and never feel like you're falling shortWhy we’ve got the doing your best equation backwards. If you're ready to BE your best, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The AcceleratorPerfect for the busy high-achiever on the go: concierge text support and 100% customized to you 1-1 coaching sessions, you'll have me supporting you every step of the way, so it's guaranteed you'll succeed. Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Sep 13, 20237 min

Ep 156How To Stop Letting People Push Your Buttons

Do other people push your buttons? Then you spin out in frustration? Learn how most perfectionists serve up their buttons on a silver platter, how to revoke other people's access to pushing yours and the Power Buttons you need to be in complete control. In This Episode You'll Learn:Why Perfectionists are so prone to having their buttons pushedHow buttons become exposedPractical strategies for resilience to button-pushersWhere to find your Proud Of Myself buttonWhat trying to overcome your perfectionism results inIf you're ready to play with your perfectionism and win, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The AcceleratorWhen you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, get leverage over your whole life and relax sans guilt, with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!Perfect for the busy high-achiever on the go: concierge text support and 100% customized to you 1-1 coaching sessions, you'll have me supporting you every step of the way, so it's guaranteed you'll succeed. Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Sep 12, 202312 min

Ep 155Are You Sacrificing Too Much? Discover How to Truly Have it All!

Feel like if you're winning in your career you're failing in your relationships? The perfectionist's dilemma: success in one area comes at the cost of another. Don't settle for less when you can have it all. Listen to learn how.If you enjoy this podcast, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The AcceleratorWhen you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, play with pressure and relax sans guilt, with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!Perfect for the busy high-achiever on the go: concierge text support and 100% customized to you 1-1 coaching sessions, you'll have me supporting you every step of the way, so it's guaranteed you'll succeed. Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Sep 11, 20236 min

Ep 154Thriving Under Pressure: Proven Ways You Can Leverage Pressure to Your Advantage

Feel like you're floundering undercurrent of stress and pressure? That's a sign pressure is choosing you, instead of YOU choosing pressure. Explore the benefits of playing with pressure, turning it into a catalyst for achievement and how you can gauge pressure across 4 key pillars of your life: Person (Body), Peace (Spirituality), Presence (Relationships) & Prosperity (Career + Growth). If you want to control your pressure, leverage it for peak performance and achieve with ease, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The AcceleratorWhen you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, play with pressure and relax sans guilt, with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!Perfect for the busy high-achiever on the go: concierge text support and 100% customized to you 1-1 coaching sessions, you'll have me supporting you every step of the way, so it's guaranteed you'll succeed. Apply to The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Sep 10, 20237 min

Ep 153Are You Leaking Energy? Managing Your Energy NOT Your Time

Feeling drained all the time? You might have hidden energy leaks. There are 4 areas of energy: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. Each one build on top of each other. Find out where you're leaking energy and how to prosperously invest your energy for the highest returns. If you want to be immune to burnout, get more done in less time and have oodles of sustainable yummy energy, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists The AcceleratorWhen you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, create time for what YOU WANT to do and relax sans guilt, with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!Perfect for the busy high-achiever on the go: 100% customized to you and dedicated to your growth. You have me supporting & guiding you every step of the way, so it's guaranteed you will create the exact results that you want.Apply to The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Sep 9, 202314 min

Ep 152The Hidden Truth About Arrival Fallacy

Do your achievements feel hollow? Success not as satisfying as it used to be? You've worked tirelessly to achieve your goals, convinced that reaching them would bring you happiness. But once you get there...the joy is fleeting and you're left wondering "Is this it?" Welcome to the world of arrival fallacy, a perfectionism trap that convinces us overachievers to tie our self-worth to external milestones and go on a miserable never-ending chase of enough. Inside this episode is the solution: Uncovering what's motivating you and that satisfaction is not a box to be checked off.If you want to feel as excellent as your life looks, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for perfectionists, The AcceleratorWhen you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, leverage your strengths and create confidence that's bigger than Dolly Parton's hair with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!Plus, with concierge text coaching and one-on-one private sessions, you'll never feel alone in your extraordinary pursuit of excellence.Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorInside This Episode You'll Discover:00:00:00-Introduction and The Perfectionist's Guide00:01:10-The Growth of Change vs. Allowing00:01:59-CLG's Journey 00:03:20-The Fear Factor00:04:05-The Danger Zone00:05:09- Phantom Promise of Moving the Goalposts00:06:34-The Unconscious Motivation00:08:01-Arrival Fallacy Examples00:09:10-The Power of Awareness00:10:11-Perfectionism Trap00:11:22-Cracking the Code To Perfectionism00:12:19-The Change of Allowing00:14:09-Self Awareness00:15:01-Why You Deserve Better Professional Fulfillment Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Sep 4, 202317 min

Ep 151How To Reinvent Yourself

How to reinvent yourself everyday. Reinventing yourself happens minute by minute and using your self-concept as a guide, makes it so much simpler. I'm taking you step-by-step through how to reinvent your life creatively. And why reinventing yourself can happen at any age, place or time. Ready to reinvent your whole life? You CAN have it ALL: presence, peace, prosperity while being a high integrity person. Choose to prioritize YOU today and join https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorINSIDE THIS EPISODE ON HOW TO REINVENT YOURSELF:00:00 - Introduction01:17 - The Fragility of Self-Concept02:25 - The Power of Internal View03:03 - Knowing Your Current and Future Self-Concept04:06 - The Importance of Reinventing Yourself + Self-Concept05:18-How To Reinvent Yourself in 15 mins a Day 06:11-Mental Plane and Physical Actions07:22-Being vs Doing in Reinventing Your Life08:10-Building Self-Concept Like a Muscle09:02-Fighting Mind Games When You Reinvent Yourself10:06-Creative Ways to Embody Your Self-Concept11:20-External Cues and Anchors12:13-Costumes and Role-Playing Future Self13:08-Avoiding Dependencies When You Reinvent Yourself14:08-Real-Life Example: The Realtor's Self-Concept Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Aug 29, 202316 min

Ep 150How to stop being controlling

Where control IS trust IS NOT. Discover how to spot your controlling behaviors before they cause trouble and how to stop being controlling at work, in relationships and with yourself.Go from control freak to powerhouse inside The Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator. In just 6 weeks you'll upgrade from control to power built on rock-solid trust. Apply today https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorGet the BEST insights from today's episode + time-stamped show notes by subscribing to The Perfectionist Guide here: https://courtneylovegavin.com/newsletter Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Aug 27, 202313 min

Ep 149True Cost of Perfectionism in Your Career

How much is perfectionism costing you in your career? Uncover the *real price* you're paying as an average perfectionist with 15 real-life examples of how perfectionism manifests at work and key insights on recognizing it within yourself. CLG also addresses the pain and frustration perfectionists feel being misunderstood and dismissed by others. Tune in to learn how to navigate the challenges of being a perfectionist and create a fulfilling + prolific career without compromising who you are. Fed up with perfectionism holding you back? The Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator might be for you. Apply today to cash in on the August bonuses. https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorGet the BEST insights from today's episode + time-stamped show notes by subscribing to The Perfectionist Guide here: https://courtneylovegavin.com/newsletter Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Aug 26, 202317 min

Ep 148If you're wondering if you're a Maladaptive Perfectionist...take the perfectionism test

I created a highly effective perfectionist test for you to gain valuable insights into your own tendencies. This concise assessment consists of 11 straightforward statements for you to accurately rate your perfectionism traits. By taking this quiz, you'll confidently develop a profound understanding of your own behaviors and be fully prepared to excel at the Perfectionism Game in upcoming episodes TAKE THE QUIZ: Go to courtneylovegavin.com/perfectionism-testFeel the weight of expectations lift as you turn your perfectionistic traits into your most magnificent assets. With the Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator, you'll experience a hand-crafted, 6-week one-on-one journey designed exclusively for high-performing perfectionists like you. Go here to experience it for yourself: https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorGet the BEST insights from today's episode + time-stamped show notes by subscribing to The Perfectionist Guide here: https://courtneylovegavin.com/newsletter Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Aug 21, 20233 min

Ep 147The Perfectionism Secret You're Not Supposed To Know

Revealing the perfectionism secrets you're not supposed to know, how mushrooms are just like perfectionists (and how to make sure you're a truffle and not a poisonous fungus), what parenting and perfectionism has in common, what Disney's She-Hulk teaches us about leveraging perfectionism and the No. 1 way perfectionists continue to be burnout trying to rely on sheer willpower, “grinding 24/7”, doing it alone (and how to snap out of it). You CAN change. You can start TODAY. In fact, this is the perfect time to stand up and say “enough! I’m NOT letting perfectionism control my life or my family’s life any more!” Go apply for the Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator while there’s still time here: https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorGet the BEST insights from today's episode + time-stamped show notes by subscribing to The Perfectionist Guide here: https://courtneylovegavin.com/newsletter Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Aug 21, 202311 min

Ep 146Perfectionistic Patterns: Reinventing Resistance to Change

Perfectionists: Are you tired of your rinse and repeat life? You’ve got no complains except... it’s not thrilling. You can feel there’s a new version of you that wants to come out.If this sounds familiar, I’m opening up my toolbox + inviting you to do something extraordinary with me. I've developed a framework to help you meticulously identify precisely where you're resistant to change 🎯In this episode, I share what reinvention is for perfectionists, what it’s not and two new *exclusive to podcast listeners* ways you can dissolve your resistance to change and reinvent yourself from the ground up.This isn’t about status quo improving yourself. It’s better than that.If you're ready to take the next step toward your reinvention, you belong inside Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Get the BEST insights from today's episode + time-stamped show notes by subscribing to The Perfectionist Guide. You can read the entire thing in three minutes or less. To access this go to: https://courtneylovegavin.com/newsletter Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jul 19, 202322 min

Introducing Perfectionism Rewired

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I was tired of searching for an empowering podcast made for perfectionists who reject victim mentality and want to own their perfectionism. So I made one! Ditch perfectionist recovery and revolutionize with Perfectionism Rewired. The podcast that makes unlearning exhausting perfectionistic habits -as thrilling as an African safari (but without all the shots + mosquito nets). Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jul 18, 20231 min

Ep 145How To Let Go Of Perfectionism

Perfectionists tend to get trapped in the confines of impossible standards, burdened by the weight of unrealistic expectations. This maladaptive perfectionism takes a toll on our mental health, leaving us overwhelmed with anxiety even when we successfully achieve our goals. Listen in on a very candid conversation with my client KB as she shares her personal journey of taking the courageous first step towards rewiring her perfectionistic tendencies. This could be YOUR epic story of rewiring. Ready to rise? Go to https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Through KB's inspiring story, you'll discover stress-free ways to overcome perfectionism with grace, openness and allow yourself to embrace growth and learn from every experience (yes even making mistakes). Gain valuable insights into your own perfectionist tendencies, learn new practical personal growth tools you can start using today and how to cultivate a calm, more fulfilling life, while being true to yourself. Inside this episode on letting go of perfectionism:Allowing yourself to look at unrealistic expectations sans shameMaking mistakes (and being okay)First step to letting impossible standards gounLearning your unique perfectionist tendenciesWays to prioritize your mental health Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jun 10, 202321 min

Ep 144The Complete Perfectionist's Guide To Victim Mentality + How to deal with people who play the victim

Smart, ambitious, driven perfectionistic people don't want to be a victims, yet 99% of high achievers (unknowingly) are. Discover all the ways victim mentality seeps into your identity and creeps into how you show up at work, in your relationship, parenting, etc. I'm showing you step-by-step exactly how to raise your If you're serious about shredding every speck of victim mentality and rewiring to an elevated, empowered Mamba Mentality then you belong inside Perfectionism Optimized. Get your stress-free start today over at at https://courtneylovegavin.com/optimizedListen to the FULL episode to learn:Are you playing the victim?Importance of playful curiosity and proactive problem-solvingAre you making commitments Out of Love or ObligationHow to deal with people who play the victimPerception Point for Leaders vs Perception Points for Victims Episode 143 Timestamps00:00-Playing the Victim06:15-Discovering the Gold: Ownership Mindset Guide07:43-How To Stop Being A Victim At Work10:49-How to deal with someone who plays the victim14:41-Shift Your Mindset: Embracing Growth Through Challenges17:12- How Leaders Break Free from Victim Mentality21:54- Building Resilience Daily and finding diamonds in the mud Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

May 31, 202323 min

Ep 143Victim Mentality: Power of Paradox

Are you ready to break free from victim mentality? Join CLG as we delve into the power of Transcendent Function, a technique popularized by Carl Jung, and discover how it can reshape your perspective on the insidious nature of victim mentality. Ready to be Victorious instead of Victim? Step inside the Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator and in 6 weeks we'll squeeze every drop of victim mentality out of your system, permanently. go to https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorYOU'LL DiSCOVER:Transcendent Function: Understand the power of holding paradoxes and how it can liberate your mind.Victim Consciousness: Recognize the insidious nature of victim vibes and how they manifest in our daily lives.The Power of Truth: Embrace the importance of being brutally honest with oneself to foster growth and transformation.Play with the power of paradoxDetect subtle victim mentality in your own communications and other people'sCultivate refreshing self-honesty to cancel victimhood + build inner strengthDiscover the value (+ necessity) of a guide when rewiringRealize the significance of a 1% reduction in victim vibes in healing generational traumaKey moments in this episode are:00:02:32 - Using Victim Language As Currency00:03:21 - Transcendent Function Applied To Victim Mentality IRL00:06:57 - Beauty Occurs When You Stop Fighting Your Unconscious 00:08:15 - I Don't Know Is a Lie When It Comes To Yourself00:10:17 - Ways to Stop Being A Victim in your Life00:12:36 - CLG Facing Her Own Victim Mentality When Client Ghosted Their Bill00:15:11 - Recognizing and Owning Entitlement00:16:29 - Replacing Wishbones with Backbones00:19:00 - Microscopic Truthfulness and Expansion00:21:08 - The Danger of DIY00:22:09 - Reducing Victim Mentality Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

May 9, 202324 min

Ep 142Going From Good To Great + Great to Excellence

Gay Hendricks calls this your "upper limit" your internal barometer for how much joy, success and satisfaction you allow yourself to experience as an overachiever. Discover the 7 signs that you're not allowing yourself to fully experience life's pleasures and blocking yourself from truly enjoying your life to the fullest.If want to go from great to UNSTOPPABLE ferocity, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for overachievers The AcceleratorWhen you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, leverage your strengths and create confidence that's bigger than Dolly Parton's hair with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!Plus, with concierge text coaching and one-on-one private sessions, you'll never feel alone in your extraordinary pursuit of excellence.Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorInside This Episode You'll Learn:00:00:00-Introduction and "The Perfectionist Guide" newsletter.00:01:32-UnderstandingYour Upper Limit and Havingness level00:03:15-How to reset and increase your Havingness level00:04:16-Underearning and overworking.00:05:05-Clutter and disorganization.00:05:48-Being overly critical of yourself and others.00:07:16-Starting but not finishing projects.00:09:29-Overconsumption without enjoyment.00:10:09-Intimacy issues.00:10:59-Discomfort with compliments. Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Apr 29, 202314 min

Ep 141How To Rewire Any Limiting Belief

Ever feel like your brain is betraying you? Here's your roadmap to rewiring any limiting belief and nurturing intricate relationship between your mind + change. If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorIn Episode 141 You'll Learn:The pitfalls of blindly following thoughts and perceptions.Escapism and its role in drowning out inner voices.The tug-of-war between conscious resistance and limiting beliefs.Your A-HA Moment: realizing your mind's incessant chatter isn't the ultimate decision-maker.The dangers of returning to old patterns and how the universe sends wake-up calls. Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Apr 17, 202312 min

Ep 140The Sneaky High Performance Habit Holding You Back

If you’re constantly listening to podcasts, reading books, signing up for courses, watching YouTube videos and researching how to fix your problem du jour -- I'm revealing 5 ways your thirst for knowledge is unknowingly sabotaging your efforts when it comes to strengthening YOU. If you're always seeking ONE more piece to make it all make sense or to fix you, this episode is for YOU.Tired of waiting for “things to calm down” so you can FEEL better? Whether it's becoming much more DECISIVE in everything you do, the ability to fall asleep without obsessing over your to do list or PRESENCE with your family (no more catastrophizing) When you join Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator you get customized 1-1 coaching + the EPIC SKILLS that LIBERATE you from intrusive thoughts, self-sabotage and put you back in command. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorInside Episode 140 You'll Discover:Why more information isn’t always betterThe real reason high performers become information addictionHow Knowledge Keeps You Powerless against actual changePotent practice to FINALLY let go of compulsive tendencies to learn moreTHE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION YOU'LL EVER ASK YOURSELF Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Mar 16, 202316 min

Ep 139Human Design LIES to Stop Telling Yourself Immediately

Don't get duped by these insidious Human Design lies that rob you of your own experience. If you've ever felt like you're just another cog in the wheel, this episode is your wake-up call that will show you how to break free from stereotypes and status quo.If want to go from great to freaking amazing, you gotta check out my 1-1 coaching for overachievers The AcceleratorWhen you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you triple your progress in half the time, leverage your strengths and create confidence that's bigger than Dolly Parton's hair with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!Plus, with concierge text coaching and one-on-one private sessions, you'll never feel alone in your extraordinary pursuit of excellence.Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorInside The Episode On Human Design Lies You'll Learn:00:00:00-Introduction to Human Design00:01:06-Why Human Design is NOT a one-size-fits-all approach 00:02:29-Debunking Human Design Myths00:05:17-Crafting Your Decision Doctrine00:08:16-The ripple effect00:09:50-How Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator will help you Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Mar 12, 202311 min

Ep 138Why am I self-sabotaging

What's your self-sabotage showing you? That you fear success? Lingering limiting beliefs? Listen to discover how to get out of your own way and change the perfectionistic patterns creating your self-sabotaging behaviors. If you want to make self-sabotaging extinct in your world I highly recommend checking out my 1-1 coaching for Type-A perfectionists The AcceleratorWhen you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you relieve the pressure, use your perfectionism to your advantage and create confidence that's bigger than Dolly Parton's hair with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!Plus, with concierge text coaching and one-on-one private sessions, you'll never feel alone in your extraordinary pursuit of excellence.Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorIn this episode on stop sabotaging yourself you'll learnHow to stop success-threatening self sabotage in your subconscious... before it surfaces.13 lies all intelligent perfectionists always tell their inner critic (and how to stop).A scientifically proven way (discovered by Carl Jung) to permanently stop sabotaging yourself (Regardless of your cognitive dissonance or limiting beliefs now)Being aware you’re self sabotaging means you’ll stop doing it. Right? Wrong! Get the BEST insights from THIS episode + time-stamped show notes by subscribing to The Perfectionist Guide newsletter. To access go to: https://courtneylovegavin.com/newsletter Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Mar 3, 202311 min

Ep 137Self-Compassion even when You're the WORST

Fierce self compassion is possible, even when you're the worst. Listen to find out how. If you want to go from great to extraordinary and do the big BOLD things that’ve been on your ❤️ + mind for years, your next step is getting inside The Accelerator. Apply here today https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Feb 27, 202316 min

Ep 136Underrated Human Design Element That’s Secretly Running Your Energy

The part of your Human Design that's influencing ALL of your RELATIONSHIPS + how quick you are on the update REVEALED + made delicously simple with awesome analogies. HD devotees and I-just-got-my-bodygraph-5-minutes-ago will benefit from this tiny + mighty episode. Press play + enjoy!If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Feb 20, 202312 min

Ep 1357 Signs Your Root Chakra Needs to Calm The F Down

Is your root rotten😂? Find out if your Root Center (in Human Design speak) aka Root Chakra is hemorrhaging your precious life force energy. This is an Equal Energetic Opportunity episode: Defined Roots, Undefined Roots, Open Roots, unsure wtf kind of root you have-- listening will profoundly help you get to the root of your time, money, control, survival issues AND increase your ability to be grounded and gathered.If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Feb 15, 202313 min

Ep 134Elevating Your Perception On Problems

Uncover exactly why your approach to problem solving is actually creating way more problems + how to stop having the same problems show up. This episode will shows you how to elevate your perception point.If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionistic tendencies, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Feb 11, 202311 min

Ep 133Taking Charge Even When Life Throws You Curve Balls

When life throws you curve balls (like C-PTSD for me), you get to take charge and author your own story. This episode is your playbook on how.If you want to go from great to fucking amazing and do the big BOLD things that’ve been on your ❤️ + mind for years, I highly recommend checking out The AcceleratorWhen you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you beat procrastination, optimize perfectionism and become time affluent - it includes on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!You’ll have the option to learn everything on the go with easy mobile access. Plus with judgement-free support + fire 1-1 coaching you’ll never have to feel alone again.Join The Accelerator 1 to 1 coaching program today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorYOU'LL DISCOVER IN THIS EPISODE:00:00-Introduction & The Perfectionist Guide00:23-The Audacity to Rewrite Your Narrative01:35-When Rewriting Isn't Enough: Real-Life Challenges02:57-The Power of Authoring Your Narrative03:49-Understanding Complex PTSD06:11-The Impact of 08:31-Resistance and Growth10:48-The Metamorphosis of Courtney Love Gavin11:35-Labels and Empowerment14:35-The Choice to Heal or Not16:08-Disempowered vs Empowered Stories18:48-The Gangster Within: Embracing Challenges20:59-Leveraging Your Weaknesses as a Perfectionist 22:42-The Safe Zone: You Are the Authority24:14-Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jan 24, 202325 min

Ep 132How You Can Take Control of Your Challenges

When you’re not leveraging your perfectionism properly, the stories you tell about your life are wildly inaccurate and often crippling. You are the AUTHORity of your life. Conduct yourself accordingly. This episode is putting the POWER back into your own hands so you can tell stories about yourself you actually WANT TO BE LIVING. Plus find out the neuro linguistic programming science of why being wrong feels so right. If you want to stop telling yourself sh!tty stories and be the AUTHORity of your life, I highly recommend checking out The AcceleratorWhen you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you beat procrastination, optimize perfectionism and become time affluent - it includes on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!You’ll have the option to learn everything on the go with easy mobile access. Plus with judgement-free support + fire 1-1 coaching you’ll never feel alone again.Join The Accelerator 1 to 1 coaching program today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Inside This Episode You'll Discover:00:00-Introduction & Perfectionist's Guide01:35-The Power of Stories in Your Life03:35-The Role of Dopamine in Storytelling05:29-How to Change Your Story When You're A Perfectionist07:12-The Paradigms You Live In09:05-The Vibrational Charge of Words11:20-Tools for Realigning Your Stories13:15-Breaking Free from Genetic Programming16:01-A Real-Life Example: The Pharmacy Story18:12-The Choice to Believe20:07-A Potent Practice for You22:22- How The Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator Changes Your Story Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jan 19, 202324 min

Ep 131LINE 1 - 1ST LINE - Human Design & Gene Keys 1/3 - 1/4 - 4/1 - 5/1 profiles

This is a channeled attunement for your audaciousness for LINE 1 - 1ST LINE Human Design & Gene Keys 1/3 - 1/4 - 4/1 - 5/1 profiles. Now is the time for you to anchor into your gifts and be a beacon shining out with your creative genius. Your groundedness, your ability to dig deep as a First Line, that stability you embody helps puts everyone in your orbit at ease. Let this + the episode containing the other number in your profile marinate together and alchemize the audaciousness inside of you. Enjoy 1st lines! If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jan 10, 20238 min

Ep 130LINE 2 2nd Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 2/4 - 2/5 - 5/2 - 6/2 profiles

This is a channeled attunement for your audaciousness for LINE 2 2nd Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 2/4 - 2/5 - 5/2 - 6/2 profiles. Your passion sparks passion in others. It electrifies, initiates, excites and enriches everyone in your orbit. Focus on the gifts that come most naturally to you and #truthbooth you likely won't see them on your own. This is why it is paramount for you to have someone in your life to reflect back your gifts and so you can really see where your blind spots are. Let this + the episode containing the other number in your profile marinate together and alchemize the audaciousness inside of you. Enjoy 2nd lines! If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jan 10, 20237 min

Ep 129LINE 3 - 3rd Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 3/5 1/3 - 6/3 - 3/6 Profiles

This is a channeled attunement for LINE 3 - 3rd Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 3/5 1/3 - 6/3 - 3/6 Profiles. The bigger you play, the more daring you are, and the more lightness, fun + levity you inject yourself and your creations with-- the more piles of success you are going to have to play with. Let this + the episode containing the other number in your profile marinate together and alchemize the audaciousness inside of you. Enjoy 3rd lines! If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jan 10, 20238 min

Ep 128LINE 4 - 4th Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 4/6 - 4/1 - 1/4 - 2/4 Profiles

This is a channeled attunement for LINE 4 - 4th Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 4/6 - 4/1 - 1/4 - 2/4 Profiles. Nuturers by Nature! You're designed to show up to your relationships with a full cup, overflowing with love + generosity. Let this + the episode containing the other number in your profile marinate together and alchemize the audaciousness inside of you. Enjoy 4th lines! If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jan 10, 20238 min

Ep 127LINE 5 - 5th Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 5/1 - 5/2 - 2/5 - 3/5 Profiles

This is a channeled attunement for your audaciousness for LINE 5 - 5th Line Human Design & Gene Keys 5/1 - 5/2 - 2/5 - 3/5 Profiles-- NOW is a very, very exciting time for a 5th line to be alive because it's the moment for smashing old paradigms and luminous leading, innovating an entirely new structure and language that can maximize this amazing creative genius that is inherent in all humanity. Let this + the episode containing the other number in your profile marinate together and alchemize the audaciousness inside of you. Enjoy 5th lines! If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jan 10, 20237 min

Ep 126LINE 6- 6th Line - Human Design & Gene Keys 6/2 - 6/3 - 3/6 - 4/6 Profiles

This is a channeled attunement for your audaciousness for line 6 6th Line Human Design & Gene Keys 6/2 - 6/3 - 3/6 - 4/6 Profiles. You see the truth behind it all. You're here to play the long game and you hold outrageously elephant size, powerful codes for humanity. There can be a lot of angst. Because you have this knowing inside of you that there's something in the future that that's coming for you, whatever phase you are at in your six line journey. Let this + the episode containing the other number in your profile marinate together and alchemize the audaciousness inside of you. Enjoy 6th lines!If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jan 10, 20239 min

Ep 125Languaging Secrets to Rewire Your Subconscious Mind!

Leap into your audaciousness with these neuro-linguistic programming audios personalized for your individual energetics to reprogram your subconscious. If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator 1-1 coaching is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jan 10, 20236 min

Ep 124Redefining Perfectionism: How Gene Keys and Human Design Hold the Key

Straight up science about Neutrinos. SuperNova 1987A. Avoiding Human Design thirst traps. Cherry picking the best of HD + Gene Keys to illuminate the expansion that's available to you -- right now. PLUS wtf difference btwn Astrology, Human Design and Gene Keys-- ANSWERED. Listen to learn how both systems can help you stay in alignment. If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, The Accelerator is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jan 8, 202319 min

Ep 123From Burnout to Brilliance: How Individualized Energetics Can Transform Your Life

Tired of chasing external validation? Find out how tools that use your Individualized Energetic like Gene Keys can help you to embrace self-compassion and thrive. If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support, The Accelerator is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorKey Highlights of the EpisodeMoving from hierarchal structures to synarchy aka joint sovereigntyHow freedom to be our own authority can subconsciously lead us to buying into personal development programs/coaches that put someone other than YOU as the expertWhy us believing in our own unique individual energetics dissolves the insidious hierarchal "buy my high frequency formula" plagueMaking purchasing decisions from Trust, Sufficiency and Delight (instead of FOMO, not enough and validation)Why following someone else's blueprint will never work as good as your ownEmpowering each person with their unique energetics = permanent proven method that's not bound to a one size fits all approachGoing through a transition? When there's a time your identity can feel like it's lost or you're not sure who you are, this brings you back to the core of, oh this is who I've always been" Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jan 4, 202319 min

Ep 122Healthy Habits For A New Year

Exactly how to surface your exponential growth and create a new year full of healthy habits. If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want in-depth personalized support, The Accelerator is for you! Come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorKey Highlights of the EpisodeBeing radically reverent of yourself and making THAT your baseline for heading into the New Year."This is your life, not a shopping trip to Costco"- Top 3 ways you are sabotaging your future + how to stop it right nowWhy zipping past your celebrations always delays what you wantIt's not a fucking fluke-- going from random beneficiary to Powerful CreatorHow to create your future from your Future instead of a Default Future Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Jan 1, 202334 min

Ep 121Time Efficient (The Only 2 Perception Points You Need)

Learn how to be productive, super time efficient and make the most of the time you have, no matter how busy you are. Ready to enjoy the life you've worked so hard to create? Uncover how to joyfully play in the arena of your life by rewiring your perfectionistic tendencies inside Perfectionism Optimized, private 1-1 coaching where you gain the life-long skills to *finally feel* as amazing on the inside as your life looks on the outside. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/optimized Key Highlights of the EpisodeParkinson's Law + how to be productiveTime affluence + how you can relax, pursue pleasurable activities and nurture relationshipsWhy your words can depreciate your time (and what to say instead)Two perception points you need to be time efficientYour number one time management skill (hint: it's not your watch or calendar) Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Dec 19, 202225 min

Ep 120How To Control Your Time: The Guilt-Free Guide to Creating A Spacious Schedule

Feel like you never have enough time? I’m diving into 7 reasons you never have enough time and precisely what to do to reclaim your time so you can use it in a more intentional and meaningful way. If you want to be in 100% control of your time and always have time to do everything YOU WANT to do, I highly recommend checking out The Accelerator.When you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you relieve the pressure, optimize perfectionism and create confidence that's bigger than Dolly Parton's hair- with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more! Plus, with concierge text coaching and one-on-one private sessions, you will never feel alone in your pursuit of relentless excellence. Join The Accelerator 1 to 1 coaching program today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorIn This Episode You'll Learn:Why prioritizing yourself makes you more present, productive and successful, not lessOne question that reveals if you actually have a time management issueGenius ways to minimize distractions (sounds weird but they WORK)Why prioritizing yourself makes you more present, productive and successful, not lessThe ways fear of judgement holds you back.Gain a deep understanding of how people-pleasing manifests in your schedule Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Dec 10, 202221 min

Ep 119ADHD Procrastination (why traditional plans fail)

The allure of planning lies in the illusion of control it offers. Making us ADHD perfectionists believe we've achieved something monumental. But life, with its unpredictable twists and turns, often has other plans. And when reality doesn't align with our meticulously laid out plans, the fallout can be harsh. We berate ourselves, question our worth, and waste precious energy trying to stick to a plan that's no longer relevant.Feeling trapped in a monotonous cycle of chasing success without savoring the journey? The Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator might just be the answer. You CAN change. You can start TODAY. Go apply for the Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator while there’s still time here: https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Dec 7, 202210 min

Ep 118Resting Feels Risky? How To Learn To Relax

Why can't I just relax? Why does resting make me MORE anxious? How come I can't take naps unless I'm beyond exhausted?Resting when you genuinely love to work can feel like a punishment, especially if no one taught you how to relax, it's a skill and for us perfectionists, resting must include two vital ingredients. Find out how you can design your rest in a way that builds up your energetic capitol instead of feeling like you're doing nothing. If you want to rest without guilt and accomplish more while actually ENJOYING your life, you've got to check out The AcceleratorWhen you're inside the The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you relieve the pressure, use your perfectionism to your advantage and create confidence that's bigger than Dolly Parton's hair with on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!Plus, with concierge text coaching and one-on-one private sessions, you'll never feel alone in your extraordinary pursuit of excellence.Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Dec 2, 202210 min

Ep 117Getting everything done in less time than you EVER thought possible

The surprisingly simple time leveraging secret of the most innovative people on earth. (You can do away with all the fancy time management systems — just do this every day and it’s almost impossible for you to not get everything done in less time than you ever thought possible.)If you want to you want in-depth personalized support for your own perfectionism and to master time management, my 1-1 coaching program The Accelerator is for you! Applications are open, so come and join us today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Dec 1, 20228 min

Ep 1165 Warning Signs Your Energy Needs An Upgrade

Hit a plateau? Can't focus? No longer decisive AF? Feel like you're pushing rocks up a hill instead of sliding down a sparkling stream? Face full of frustration? FIND your SOLUTION inside this episode. HINT: the answer is not doing more. It's way easier than that. If you want in-depth personalized support for your own leadership and what makes you unique, The Accelerator is for you! Applications are open, so come and join us over at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Dec 1, 202212 min

Ep 115Be More Efficient: Accomplish in 1 Hour What Takes You 10

Want more spaciousness in your schedule? Feel like you never have enough time. FIND OUT WHY and the only 3 things you need to focus on if you want to get done in 1 hour what’s taking you 10 hours and feel good when you're done. You don't have to white knuckle your perfectionism. And if you feel like you are, I invite you to come coach with me 1-on-1 inside Perfectionism Optimized, where you'll learn how to take charge of your perfectionistic tendencies, which means you'll finally feel as awesome as your life looks and stop trying to control everyone in your orbit. Get your stress-free start today at courtneylovegavin.com/optimized Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Nov 24, 20228 min

Ep 114Reclaiming My Time: How To Be Time Efficient *no matter what*

How can I take control of my time, if I'm not 100% in charge of my schedule? If you work in corporate or have clients that are buying your time, THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU! Find out exactly how my client Patrice went from working 40 hours a week to 15 AND received a pay increase, while being in integrity with her boss about reducing her hours. I'm giving you the exact steps I give my clients for reclaiming my time and being time efficient. If you're a busy perfectionist who wants to level up your time management skills, press play!If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want a revolutionary approach, I highly recommend joining the Accelerator, 1-1 coaching for perfectionists who play to win.Join The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Nov 24, 20226 min

Ep 113Time Poverty: Hidden Connection Between Your Time Scarcity + Money

Doing everything the time experts say and STILL living in time poverty ? Listen to find out the hidden connection between money, time and your relationship with yourself. Plus the top 4 mistakes perfectionists make when trying to take control of their time and how you can start using time for you, to fuel you, on your terms.If you want to be time rich and get leverage over your whole life, I highly recommend checking out The AcceleratorWhen you join The Accelerator, you’ll get instant access to rich resource library of neuroscience-backed tools designed to help you beat procrastination, optimize perfectionism and become time affluent - it includes on-demand masterclasses, private podcasts, journaling exercises, playbooks, meditations and more!You’ll have the option to learn everything on the go with easy mobile access. Plus with judgement-free support + fire 1-1 coaching you’ll never have to feel alone again.Join The Accelerator 1 to 1 coaching program today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Inside This Episode on Time Poverty You'll Discover:Time is not just a unit of measurement; it's a reflection of your energy.Focusing on time instead of energy is a common mistake that leads to burnout.Scarcity beliefs about time can transfer from your financial mindset, affecting your productivity.How your relationship with time is a direct reflection of your relationship with yourselfThe Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator program promises significant improvements in burnout and professional fulfillment in just 30 days. Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Nov 22, 20225 min

Ep 112Are You Mimicking or Modeling as a Leader?

We can be so quick to mimic what other successful leaders are doing. Especially when there’s nobody else like us at the top. If you wants a different way of expressing your leadership that isn't modeling the white cis-male dominance, listen to this.When are you going to stop falling for leadership “experts” who only want you to do EXACTLY what they did to have their “impact?”Impact that’s based in scarcity, desire for control and reinforcement of supremacy. No ethical Coach can teach a cookie cutter leadership strategy (i.e how to lead as a WOC) and expect it to be effective when it’s only focusing on surface level maneuvers 🥸disguised as “strategies” to sound more sophisticated. If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient + want a revolutionary approach, I highly recommend joining the Accelerator, 1-1 coaching for perfectionists who play to win. Join the Accelerator today at The Accelerator today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/accelerator Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

Nov 22, 20229 min