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Navigating The World Of Sex, Dating, and STDs   Are you sexually active? How comfortable are you talking about sex with new dating partners? Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews Alexandra Harbushka, an expert on Herpes and other STDs. With clarity, vulnerability, and humor, Alexandra shares how to navigate the world of dating, including conversations about sex, STDs, and more.

What Does It Look Like When Confidence Levels Transform?   Is it possible to fundamentally change your confidence set-point? Can you truly become a way more confident, upbeat, powerful person? Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews a long term client, turned coach who has done just that!

How To Resolve The Real Problem Behind Physical Symptoms Of Anxiety   Do you have concerns about blushing and what others will think of this? Or perhaps it shows up for you as a fear of sweating, or your voice cracking. Whatever the symptom you're concerned about, you'll discover in this episode that the real is actually something underneath this symptom. Join Dr. Aziz as he guides you to address the root of the problem and find deep confidence within yourself no matter what your face or body does.

Navigating Relationships And Life As A Sensitive Person   Are you an empath? Do you pick up on people's emotions? Can you see behind the mask someone puts up in a social setting? Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews the world's premier author and expert on empaths—Dr. Judith Orloff. You'll discover what an empath is, how to tell if you're one, and how to thrive in life through understanding your abilities and taking optimal care of yourself.

How To Stop Stressing About Your To-Do's And Enjoy The Ride   Are you spread too thin? Are you trying to succeed in all areas of life, from work to finances, to your social and dating confidence? Join Dr. Aziz in this insightful look at the pressure we feel to do it all, and how to let go and relax more while at the same time achieving what matters most to us).

How To Eliminate Performance Anxiety And Enjoy The Game   Whether you are a high performing athlete or simply play sports recreationally, it’s possible to feel intense anxiety about your performance. This tension reduces your ability to play fully, do your best, and above all, actually enjoy the process. Join Dr. Aziz and Confidence Coach Dylan Reid (who happens to be a semi-pro racquetball player!) as they help you free yourself from anxiety about athletics.

Is There Life After Love?  YES!   After you ended a romantic relationship, did you experience the feeling of pressure to heal quickly so you could start dating again? There is no ‘End Date’ for allowing yourself to heal from a breakup. Take your time! Feel everything you need to feel and give yourself space to do so.    Join Dr. Aziz and Master Coach, Jonathan Hernandez, as they discuss and share tips to help guide you through the transition.

Is It Worth The Risk   Are you afraid to be vulnerable? How many relationships (romantic, friends, or family) have suffered because of this fear? Are you experiencing the feeling of restriction and isolation because of this choice?  Disconnection and loneliness are a common pairing when the decision to dismiss opportunities to be vulnerable has been established. Join Dr. Aziz and Confidence Coach, Ben Gibson, as they share how to be authentically vulnerable with yourself and then with others.

How To Get Motivated   Are you frustrated that your confidence skills are improving slowly? Has it left you feeling discouraged? We can help!!  Join Dr. Aziz as he guides you through the process of practicing patience and regaining momentum in your daily confidence rituals.

Be Ready For Whatever Challenge Comes Your Way   Learn how to break through fear and depression so you can live your best life. Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews our guest, Nurjahan Boulden, and shares her journey of survival and healing after gun trauma.

Put Fear And Pride Aside   Have you allowed your pride of independence stop you from asking for help when you really needed it? Or was it the fear of rejection that stopped you? If we could just allow ourselves to be vulnerable for a moment and request help when it’s needed, we could do so much more together than we can do independently.  Join Dr. Aziz and Confidence Coach Ben Gibson, as they discuss the benefits of asking someone for help.

Let Your Heart Take The Lead   Have you needed to make an important decision and experienced the biting sensation of doubt take over? Did you let that feeling conduct the outcome of that decision? Do you regret allowing that?  If your answer is “yes” to all of the above, this episode is exactly what you need.  Join Dr. Aziz as he shares how to trust that everything will work out and begin to live in a guided state of flow.

What Is Your Confidence Practice? Exercising your self-confidence is similar to practicing an instrument, if you do it daily your improvement will be vast.  Make a plan and commit to yourself! Join Dr. Aziz as he shares how to develop a daily practice to build your confidence practice and succeed daily.

Bringing Balance To The Experience Of Dating and Relationships   Through the years, we’ve been told that dating and relationships are built on the balance of “give and take”. Not true! We need to shift our perspective when approaching a person we are dating or in a relationship with. Rather than “give and take”, we need to give, give, give, and receive. Give them your attention. Be curious about the person. Who are they? What makes them smile?    Join Dr. Aziz and learn how to shift your approach and enjoy the experience of dating and relationships.   Super Early-Bird Special - Save your seat for Dr. Aziz's next live event - Unlimited Dating & Relationship Confidence now! Follow this link to Save Your Seat: https://confidence.lpages.co/udc-main-event-page/

How To Navigate Through Your Reasons And Stories   Afraid of rejection, afraid to be ourselves, unworthy of love and attention from others, etc. There are many stories we tell ourselves to make us believe that dating is not worth the risk. Join Dr. Aziz in this BONUS Episode has he uncovers the true reason we struggle in the world of dating. Super Early-Bird Special - Save your seat for Dr. Aziz's next live event - Unlimited Dating & Relationship Confidence now!   Follow this link to Save Your Seat: https://confidence.lpages.co/udc-main-event-page/

Learn How To Attract Love Into Your Life   Has your dating life become stagnant and you’re not sure why? Have you given up on finding love?  Join Dr. Aziz as he shares how to break through our own “heart walls” and emotional patterns that may be keeping us from experiencing real love.    Super Early-Bird Special - Save your seat for Dr. Aziz's next live event - Unlimited Dating & Relationship Confidence now! Follow this link to Save Your Seat: https://confidence.lpages.co/udc-main-event-page/

How To Determine When It’s Time To Take “The Leap”   Are you feeling pressured to ask your partner to move in with you? Is it the best option for both of you? There are many details we need to consider before we decide to share a home with our significant other.  Join Dr. Aziz as he navigates us through the important layers of a relationship that will help determine if it’s time to merge your home lives together.

Learn How To Grow From Failing Over and Over Again   Are you afraid of failing? Would you like to break free of that fear and celebrate the failure instead? If your answer is yes, then this is the episode for you. Join Dr. Aziz as he guides us through the art of embracing failure. Even if we fail, we win!!

Learn How To Identify Bullying When It Occurs   Are you too nice at work? Do you tolerate your supervisors behavior or your colleagues bad jokes out of fear? You could be in a bullying situation. Dr. Aziz and master coach, Jonathan, will teach you how to be aware of your work environment so that you can learn how to say ‘NO’ to your employees with style and

Fearless Or Fear Less?   There are several moments in our lives when the fear takes over our mind and body. It can be a huge distraction that keeps us from experiencing our ideal life. What if we took a moment to examine where the fear is rooted? What if we could learn how to use that fear as a tool instead of a limit or an excuse? Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews Dean Sluyter, the author of “Fear Less”.

Explore The Difference Between Natural Drive And Obligation   What happens when you stop feeling that drive? When does it change from saying, “I want to be my ultimate confident self” to, “I have to do this OR ELSE”? Dr. Aziz and Master Coach, Jonathan, explore these questions and by the end of the show you will be able to change your mindset, change the way you talk to yourself, and in the end, change your fuel.  

Change Your Old Limiting Beliefs To Unleash More Confidence Now   So much of our anxiety, doubt, hesitation, and struggle in the present moment comes from our inner beliefs. If we believe people won’t like us, that we’re not good enough, that we aren’t worth the money or the time, then hold back and don’t go after what we truly want. But when we challenge these beliefs, revealing their falseness, we are set free. Join Dr. Aziz as he interview business coach Nina Cooke on this subject of how to eliminate your limiting beliefs.

Free Yourself From Performance Anxiety   Join Dr. Aziz and Master Coach, Jonathan, as we talk about a common experience we have all shared but rarely talk about in the open. This fear is none other than ‘Performance Anxiety’ and this can come up for you in many different areas of your life. If you perceive anything you do as a performance or having to turn yourself ”ON”, then you are going to want to listen to this.

How To Bring Your Best Self To Dating And Truly Enjoy The Experience Along The Way   Do you struggle to boldly go after who you want, express interest, and be your most charming and confident self? What about being direct and clear about what you want and don’t want, and being authentic? These are major challenges in dating and can really inhibit your success and enjoyment. Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews a masterful coach who approaches dating in a fascinating and liberating way.

How Saying No Will Boost Your Confidence And Improve Your Life   Where would your life benefit from saying “no”? Are there places you currently are saying yes in that cause problems? Whether it’s a work, in relationships, or in your love life, harnessing your power to freely and easily say no is one of the most important skills you can develop.

Understanding The Relationship Between Emotion And Physical Pain   Have you experienced physical pain that randomly surfaced for an unknown reason and it was not due to an injury? Emotions such as anxiety, depression, stress, and unhappiness can cause chronic pain in our bodies. Join Dr. Aziz to learn how to navigate the path of physical pain and pinpoint the source.

The Connection Between Niceness And Pain   As surprising as this might sound to you, the vast majority of chronic pain conditions are caused not by structural damage to the body, but chronic tension due to negative emotions? The biggest source of these emotions? You guessed it—pressure from trying to be nice, pleasing everyone, and getting everyone to like you. Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews a Master Health Coach who has helped hundreds of people permanently end their nightmare with chronic pain and recurring injury.

How To Break Through Your Comfort Barrier   Do you give into your fears? Or do you face your fears head-on? Practice engaging and accessing your natural courage to help process through moments of fear. Join Dr. Aziz as he shares how to be comfortable with being uncomfortable.

How to Discover and Maintain Energetic Balance   The quality of the your internal energy can be masculine, feminine, or both. Debunk the societal standards of gender and harness your energetic power to take self awareness to the next level. Join Dr. Aziz as he guides you through understanding your core essence and how to use it for effective communication.

Learn how to reclaim your self love, self acceptance, and self worth.   Are you held down by self criticism? Do you feel you are not worthy of love, success, or acceptance? Toxic Shame is a cycle of chronic abusive thoughts and feelings towards yourself. Join Dr. Aziz as he guides you through how to identify and label where this Toxic Shame is coming from. Reclaim your sense of worth and repair your lovability by committing to being on your own side no matter what (OMOS).

How To Recognize Your Patterns of Settling   Do you often measure opportunity vs. risk? Do you feel that you are overly cautious? Have you been staying in the “safe zone” because you are afraid?  The more you practice your skills of settling the more risk averse you will become. Join Dr. Aziz to learn how to silence your Safety Police and overcome the fear of taking risks.

How To Embrace Your Inner Boldness   Do you want to take risks? Do you want to speak up in a group setting or a business meeting? Do you want to ask that person who excites you out on a date? Learn the how, the when, and the why behind exercising your B.A.F skills. Join Dr. Aziz as he shares how to unapologetically practice boldness in your daily life and feel good about it.

How To Release Your Negative Predictions   Do you have predictions of how people will respond to you if you were to speak up and put yourself out there? Most people imagine the response they’d get would be critical, negative, or harshly judgmental. Join Dr. Aziz as he dismantles these fears one by one, leaving you feeling eager to test out what really happens.

Discover How And When To Speak Up For Yourself   Setting boundaries, challenging others, and otherwise speaking up for yourself can be confusing, scary, and difficult. Join Dr. Aziz as he provides practical, specific guidance on exactly how to become more assertive in the areas that matter most to you.

Overcome Self-Consciousness To Enjoy More Exciting, Fulfilling Sex   Many people struggle during sex, despite trying to look like they are enjoying themselves. This often comes from unspoken pressure to perform and “do better,” combined with a sense of inadequacy or inexperience. Join Dr. Aziz and Coach Amber as they discuss specific ways to increase your sexual confidence immediately.

How To Maintain High Confidence After The First Date   Have you ever had a great connection with somebody and wanted to see them again? But then, after a date or two, you start to have feelings for them, which ends up causing you stress and anxiety. You start to worry about “doing it right” and “not messing it up.” Join Dr. Aziz and Coach Amber as they discuss how to sustain high confidence no matter what you feel.

How To Rapidly Dissolve Social Anxiety, Fear, And Stress   Join Dr. Aziz in this impactful episode where he guides you through his favorite confidence tool. You’ll not only learn what it is, but actually get to practice using it with Dr. Aziz’s guidance. Enjoy!

Why Comparing Yourself Can Actually Be Good For You   Generally, comparisons to others can lead to feeling inadequate, frustrated, or somehow disappointed in ourselves. We are often taught to stop comparing and just live our own lives. And yet, this is quite difficult to actually do. Join Dr. Aziz and Jonathan as they discuss the nature of comparison, and how to work with it for optimal benefit.

How To Stop Beating Yourself Up For Not Being “Like Them”   So often we can criticize and pressure ourselves because we are not being confident, successful, or otherwise good enough. We look to others and imagine that they have it all together and we’re someone failing. And yet, nothing could be further from the truth. Join Dr. Aziz as he reveals what people are really feeling on a daily basis.  

How To Live Fully With Confidence And Courage   How do you handle risk in life? And would your life benefit from being able to lean in more to positive, healthy risks? Join Dr. Aziz as he examines the fundamental elements of this game of being human, and how risk is an essential quality of our lives.

Are You Missing Out On Life?   Do you often feel a fear of missing out? Do you feel a pressure to say “yes” to things, and a sense of guilt or inadequacy about not engaging in the right social engagements, events, and other experiences? Join Dr. Aziz and Confidence Coach Jonathan as they discuss this topic in this humorous and fast-paced episode.

The Fast-Track To More Confidence And A Better Life This one is counter-intuitive! Ever cell in our body wants to move away from what makes us scared, uncomfortable, or anxious. And yet, the confidence you seek, and the life you want to create requires you to fundamentally change your relationship with fear. Find out how!

How To Enjoy More Love In All Your Relationships   Many of us think of love as something you give or get based on who you’re around. While this is partly true, there is a deeper, stronger, and more persistent form of love—unconditional love. In this heartwarming episode you’ll discover more about this virtue, and how to access more of it in your life.

Discover What Naturally Attracts Others To You   What makes you magnetic to others? Is it your appearance, your status, or your smile? Join Dr. Aziz in this fascinating episode as he reveals the key things that create a confidence that draws people in. And here’s the best part—you have control over all three!

Discover Your Intention For The New Year And Create Something Incredible   What do you want this coming year to be about? What is one thing you would love to experience more of in your daily life? Join Dr. Aziz to uncover what your guiding intention for 2019 is, and find inspiration to take control of your destiny in this coming year.  

Discover What You Want And Take Care Of Yourself   So many people feel pressure on holidays to go a certain place, be with certain people, act a certain way, or even feel a certain way. Join Dr. Aziz in this liberating and relieving episode about how to discover what you actually want, and make it a reality this holiday season.

How To Face Fear And Discomfort And Generate Power   What methods do you use to try to feel more comfortable in the moment? And do these behaviors, substances, or vices serve you? In this fun and fascinating episode, join Dr. Aziz and Coach Jonathan as they explore all the ways we try to escape discomfort, and how reclaim a sense of confidence and power.

How To Overcome The One Thing That’s Really Holding You Back You may have an endless array of stories about why you can’t have what you want, why you aren’t good enough, and why you’re unable to do something. But, underneath all of this is just one simple thing. And it only lasts about six seconds. Listen to discover what this is, and how to break free now.

The One Simple Solution To A Life Of Confidence And Success   Is there a single answer to social anxiety, self-doubt, and fear? Is there just one thing that can help you create unstoppable confidence and achieve anything you want in life? Dr. Aziz believes so. Listen to this funny and fascinating episode to discover what the “confidence silver bullet” is, and how to start using it today.

The Downside Of Nice In Relationships… And How To Fix It Now   Are you a “nice person”? Do you care for others, try to be good, avoid offending or bothering people, and try to make others feel happy and good? Turns out this niceness can actually be smothering your romantic relationship. Join Dr.