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Ask The Shrink - Why Am I Struggling With Dating?

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How To Navigate Through Your Reasons And Stories   Afraid of rejection, afraid to be ourselves, unworthy of love and attention from others, etc. There are many stories we tell ourselves to make us believe that dating is not worth the risk. Join Dr. Aziz in this BONUS Episode has he uncovers the true reason we struggle in the world of dating. Super Early-Bird Special - Save your seat for Dr. Aziz's next live event - Unlimited Dating & Relationship Confidence now!   Follow this link to Save Your Seat: https://confidence.lpages.co/udc-main-event-page/

Jul 26, 201912 min

The REAL Reason We Can’t Find Love

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Learn How To Attract Love Into Your Life   Has your dating life become stagnant and you’re not sure why? Have you given up on finding love?  Join Dr. Aziz as he shares how to break through our own “heart walls” and emotional patterns that may be keeping us from experiencing real love.    Super Early-Bird Special - Save your seat for Dr. Aziz's next live event - Unlimited Dating & Relationship Confidence now! Follow this link to Save Your Seat: https://confidence.lpages.co/udc-main-event-page/

Jul 24, 201927 min

When Is The Right Time To Move In Together?

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How To Determine When It’s Time To Take “The Leap”   Are you feeling pressured to ask your partner to move in with you? Is it the best option for both of you? There are many details we need to consider before we decide to share a home with our significant other.  Join Dr. Aziz as he navigates us through the important layers of a relationship that will help determine if it’s time to merge your home lives together.

Jul 17, 201931 min

The Gift Of Failure

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Learn How To Grow From Failing Over and Over Again   Are you afraid of failing? Would you like to break free of that fear and celebrate the failure instead? If your answer is yes, then this is the episode for you. Join Dr. Aziz as he guides us through the art of embracing failure. Even if we fail, we win!!

Jul 10, 201923 min

How To Handle Bullying At Work

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Learn How To Identify Bullying When It Occurs   Are you too nice at work? Do you tolerate your supervisors behavior or your colleagues bad jokes out of fear? You could be in a bullying situation. Dr. Aziz and master coach, Jonathan, will teach you how to be aware of your work environment so that you can learn how to say ‘NO’ to your employees with style and

Jul 3, 201933 min

How To Fear Less with Dean Sluyter

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Fearless Or Fear Less?   There are several moments in our lives when the fear takes over our mind and body. It can be a huge distraction that keeps us from experiencing our ideal life. What if we took a moment to examine where the fear is rooted? What if we could learn how to use that fear as a tool instead of a limit or an excuse? Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews Dean Sluyter, the author of “Fear Less”.

Jun 26, 201946 min

Have To vs Want To

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Explore The Difference Between Natural Drive And Obligation   What happens when you stop feeling that drive? When does it change from saying, “I want to be my ultimate confident self” to, “I have to do this OR ELSE”? Dr. Aziz and Master Coach, Jonathan, explore these questions and by the end of the show you will be able to change your mindset, change the way you talk to yourself, and in the end, change your fuel.  

Jun 19, 201931 min

Eliminate Your Limiting Beliefs with Nina Cooke

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Change Your Old Limiting Beliefs To Unleash More Confidence Now   So much of our anxiety, doubt, hesitation, and struggle in the present moment comes from our inner beliefs. If we believe people won’t like us, that we’re not good enough, that we aren’t worth the money or the time, then hold back and don’t go after what we truly want. But when we challenge these beliefs, revealing their falseness, we are set free. Join Dr. Aziz as he interview business coach Nina Cooke on this subject of how to eliminate your limiting beliefs.

Jun 12, 201937 min

Free Yourself From Performance Anxiety

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Free Yourself From Performance Anxiety   Join Dr. Aziz and Master Coach, Jonathan, as we talk about a common experience we have all shared but rarely talk about in the open. This fear is none other than ‘Performance Anxiety’ and this can come up for you in many different areas of your life. If you perceive anything you do as a performance or having to turn yourself ”ON”, then you are going to want to listen to this.

Jun 5, 201932 min

How To Create An Extraordinary Dating Life with Jacob Sokol

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How To Bring Your Best Self To Dating And Truly Enjoy The Experience Along The Way   Do you struggle to boldly go after who you want, express interest, and be your most charming and confident self? What about being direct and clear about what you want and don’t want, and being authentic? These are major challenges in dating and can really inhibit your success and enjoyment. Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews a masterful coach who approaches dating in a fascinating and liberating way.

May 29, 20191h 16m

NO.

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How Saying No Will Boost Your Confidence And Improve Your Life   Where would your life benefit from saying “no”? Are there places you currently are saying yes in that cause problems? Whether it’s a work, in relationships, or in your love life, harnessing your power to freely and easily say no is one of the most important skills you can develop.

May 22, 201924 min

3 Steps To Eliminate Physical Pain

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Understanding The Relationship Between Emotion And Physical Pain   Have you experienced physical pain that randomly surfaced for an unknown reason and it was not due to an injury? Emotions such as anxiety, depression, stress, and unhappiness can cause chronic pain in our bodies. Join Dr. Aziz to learn how to navigate the path of physical pain and pinpoint the source.

May 15, 201924 min

Is Being Too Nice Causing You Pain? With Laura Heidrich

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The Connection Between Niceness And Pain   As surprising as this might sound to you, the vast majority of chronic pain conditions are caused not by structural damage to the body, but chronic tension due to negative emotions? The biggest source of these emotions? You guessed it—pressure from trying to be nice, pleasing everyone, and getting everyone to like you. Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews a Master Health Coach who has helped hundreds of people permanently end their nightmare with chronic pain and recurring injury.

May 8, 201955 min

Being Scared In Life Is Good

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How To Break Through Your Comfort Barrier   Do you give into your fears? Or do you face your fears head-on? Practice engaging and accessing your natural courage to help process through moments of fear. Join Dr. Aziz as he shares how to be comfortable with being uncomfortable.

May 1, 201928 min

Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energy

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How to Discover and Maintain Energetic Balance   The quality of the your internal energy can be masculine, feminine, or both. Debunk the societal standards of gender and harness your energetic power to take self awareness to the next level. Join Dr. Aziz as he guides you through understanding your core essence and how to use it for effective communication.

Apr 24, 201933 min

Healing Toxic Shame

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Learn how to reclaim your self love, self acceptance, and self worth.   Are you held down by self criticism? Do you feel you are not worthy of love, success, or acceptance? Toxic Shame is a cycle of chronic abusive thoughts and feelings towards yourself. Join Dr. Aziz as he guides you through how to identify and label where this Toxic Shame is coming from. Reclaim your sense of worth and repair your lovability by committing to being on your own side no matter what (OMOS).

Apr 17, 201928 min

The Awful Skill of Settling

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How To Recognize Your Patterns of Settling   Do you often measure opportunity vs. risk? Do you feel that you are overly cautious? Have you been staying in the “safe zone” because you are afraid?  The more you practice your skills of settling the more risk averse you will become. Join Dr. Aziz to learn how to silence your Safety Police and overcome the fear of taking risks.

Apr 10, 201928 min

Are You B.A.F.?

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How To Embrace Your Inner Boldness   Do you want to take risks? Do you want to speak up in a group setting or a business meeting? Do you want to ask that person who excites you out on a date? Learn the how, the when, and the why behind exercising your B.A.F skills. Join Dr. Aziz as he shares how to unapologetically practice boldness in your daily life and feel good about it.

Apr 3, 201923 min

Upgrade Your Maps

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How To Release Your Negative Predictions   Do you have predictions of how people will respond to you if you were to speak up and put yourself out there? Most people imagine the response they’d get would be critical, negative, or harshly judgmental. Join Dr. Aziz as he dismantles these fears one by one, leaving you feeling eager to test out what really happens.

Mar 27, 201925 min

Plan C: Assertiveness Tools for Daily Life

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Discover How And When To Speak Up For Yourself   Setting boundaries, challenging others, and otherwise speaking up for yourself can be confusing, scary, and difficult. Join Dr. Aziz as he provides practical, specific guidance on exactly how to become more assertive in the areas that matter most to you.

Mar 20, 201924 min

How To Feel More Confident Sexually

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Overcome Self-Consciousness To Enjoy More Exciting, Fulfilling Sex   Many people struggle during sex, despite trying to look like they are enjoying themselves. This often comes from unspoken pressure to perform and “do better,” combined with a sense of inadequacy or inexperience. Join Dr. Aziz and Coach Amber as they discuss specific ways to increase your sexual confidence immediately.

Mar 13, 201936 min

When Your Confidence Disappears Once You Like Somebody...

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How To Maintain High Confidence After The First Date   Have you ever had a great connection with somebody and wanted to see them again? But then, after a date or two, you start to have feelings for them, which ends up causing you stress and anxiety. You start to worry about “doing it right” and “not messing it up.” Join Dr. Aziz and Coach Amber as they discuss how to sustain high confidence no matter what you feel.

Mar 6, 201932 min

My Favorite Confidence Tool

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How To Rapidly Dissolve Social Anxiety, Fear, And Stress   Join Dr. Aziz in this impactful episode where he guides you through his favorite confidence tool. You’ll not only learn what it is, but actually get to practice using it with Dr. Aziz’s guidance. Enjoy!

Feb 27, 201932 min

The Hidden Benefit of Comparison

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Why Comparing Yourself Can Actually Be Good For You   Generally, comparisons to others can lead to feeling inadequate, frustrated, or somehow disappointed in ourselves. We are often taught to stop comparing and just live our own lives. And yet, this is quite difficult to actually do. Join Dr. Aziz and Jonathan as they discuss the nature of comparison, and how to work with it for optimal benefit.

Feb 20, 201928 min

Everyone Has It All Together But You…

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How To Stop Beating Yourself Up For Not Being “Like Them”   So often we can criticize and pressure ourselves because we are not being confident, successful, or otherwise good enough. We look to others and imagine that they have it all together and we’re someone failing. And yet, nothing could be further from the truth. Join Dr. Aziz as he reveals what people are really feeling on a daily basis.  

Feb 13, 201927 min

The Risk Of Life

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How To Live Fully With Confidence And Courage   How do you handle risk in life? And would your life benefit from being able to lean in more to positive, healthy risks? Join Dr. Aziz as he examines the fundamental elements of this game of being human, and how risk is an essential quality of our lives.

Feb 6, 201923 min

FOMO and GAMO

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Are You Missing Out On Life?   Do you often feel a fear of missing out? Do you feel a pressure to say “yes” to things, and a sense of guilt or inadequacy about not engaging in the right social engagements, events, and other experiences? Join Dr. Aziz and Confidence Coach Jonathan as they discuss this topic in this humorous and fast-paced episode.

Jan 30, 201920 min

Seek Out Fear

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The Fast-Track To More Confidence And A Better Life This one is counter-intuitive! Ever cell in our body wants to move away from what makes us scared, uncomfortable, or anxious. And yet, the confidence you seek, and the life you want to create requires you to fundamentally change your relationship with fear. Find out how!

Jan 23, 201922 min

The Power of Unconditional Love

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How To Enjoy More Love In All Your Relationships   Many of us think of love as something you give or get based on who you’re around. While this is partly true, there is a deeper, stronger, and more persistent form of love—unconditional love. In this heartwarming episode you’ll discover more about this virtue, and how to access more of it in your life.

Jan 16, 201928 min

The 3 Elements of Magnetic Confidence

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Discover What Naturally Attracts Others To You   What makes you magnetic to others? Is it your appearance, your status, or your smile? Join Dr. Aziz in this fascinating episode as he reveals the key things that create a confidence that draws people in. And here’s the best part—you have control over all three!

Jan 9, 201930 min

Blow Your Own Mind In 2019

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Discover Your Intention For The New Year And Create Something Incredible   What do you want this coming year to be about? What is one thing you would love to experience more of in your daily life? Join Dr. Aziz to uncover what your guiding intention for 2019 is, and find inspiration to take control of your destiny in this coming year.  

Dec 26, 201828 min

How To Enjoy The Holidays

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Discover What You Want And Take Care Of Yourself   So many people feel pressure on holidays to go a certain place, be with certain people, act a certain way, or even feel a certain way. Join Dr. Aziz in this liberating and relieving episode about how to discover what you actually want, and make it a reality this holiday season.

Dec 19, 201829 min

I Want Candy!

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How To Face Fear And Discomfort And Generate Power   What methods do you use to try to feel more comfortable in the moment? And do these behaviors, substances, or vices serve you? In this fun and fascinating episode, join Dr. Aziz and Coach Jonathan as they explore all the ways we try to escape discomfort, and how reclaim a sense of confidence and power.

Dec 19, 201836 min

Terrified Of The 6 Seconds Of Rejection

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How To Overcome The One Thing That’s Really Holding You Back You may have an endless array of stories about why you can’t have what you want, why you aren’t good enough, and why you’re unable to do something. But, underneath all of this is just one simple thing. And it only lasts about six seconds. Listen to discover what this is, and how to break free now.

Dec 12, 201834 min

The Confidence Silver Bullet

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The One Simple Solution To A Life Of Confidence And Success   Is there a single answer to social anxiety, self-doubt, and fear? Is there just one thing that can help you create unstoppable confidence and achieve anything you want in life? Dr. Aziz believes so. Listen to this funny and fascinating episode to discover what the “confidence silver bullet” is, and how to start using it today.

Nov 28, 201824 min

How Niceness Is Killing Your Relationship

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The Downside Of Nice In Relationships… And How To Fix It Now   Are you a “nice person”? Do you care for others, try to be good, avoid offending or bothering people, and try to make others feel happy and good? Turns out this niceness can actually be smothering your romantic relationship. Join Dr.

Nov 21, 201827 min

You Are Going To Fail

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How To Eliminate Hesitation And Avoidance And Get Into Bold Action Now   If you’re like most people, you don’t like failing. Or mistakes, awkward moments, rejections, or any other “undesired outcome.” However, in this compelling episode Dr. Aziz makes a case for the benefits of failure, and why on your path to greater confidence you will fail. Repeatedly. Enjoy : )

Nov 14, 201825 min

Trust In Your Unconscious Competence

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What If You Are More Capable Than You Realize?   Do you often doubt yourself, be it at work, socially, or in your relationship? Perhaps you spend hours trying to get better in the ways you think you’re lacking. But what if you are way more capable, confident, and skilled in ways you don’t even realize? Listen to this episode to find out more!

Nov 7, 201821 min

Just Say No

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How Stop Saying “Yes” When You Don’t Want To And Start Saying “No” When You Need To   Do you find yourself saying “yes” when you really want to say “no.” This can be for minor events, such as an invitation or a request, or even major life decisions such as relationship and career. In this episode Dr. Aziz shares humorous and heartwarming stories to help you unlock your inner confidence to just say no when you most need to.

Oct 31, 201821 min

Surrender = Happiness

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One Simple Shift That Can Transform Your Day (And Your Life)   Do you feel anxious, tense, or stressed more often than you want to? Does it take a toll on your mood, your energy, your relationships, and your happiness? If so, join Dr. Aziz as he shares a spontaneously recorded look into how you can use the power of surrender today to relax, let go, and just feel so much better in this moment.

Oct 24, 201820 min

The Myth of Perfect Confidence

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Let Go Of The Pressure To Be Emotionally Perfect   While learning tools and strategies to overcome anxiety and create confidence is a very worthwhile endeavor, there is a major pitfall. Often self-improvement can lead to the subtle, unconscious expectation that you become perfect. You expect perfect confidence and perfect emotions throughout the day, which leads to frustration, impatience, and a lack of compassion with yourself. Join Dr. Aziz today to find out how to unravel this and just be on your own side.

Oct 17, 201827 min

Is Too Much Action A Bad Thing?

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Discover How To Take The Most Effective Action To Transform Your Confidence   Is taking action always the answer? What if it involves facing fears and having awkward interactions or experiences? Can this really help us, or does it end up hurting us? Join Dr. Aziz as he dives into listeners questions about the topic of bold action, so you know exactly what to do to increase your confidence now.

Oct 10, 201826 min

Motivation Secrets: How To Do What It Really Takes

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Find The Courage To Face Your Fear To Create The Life You Want   Do you get inspired by this show, and decide to take action and make big changes in your life? And then, how long does that decision last? Does it fade, along with your motivation to do what it takes? Join Dr. Aziz as he addresses a listeners question about this, showing us all how to access our deep natural source of power and drive.

Oct 3, 201825 min

Say YES!

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One Simple Word To Increase Acceptance, Confidence, and Power Now!   In any given moment you are either saying “yes” to yourself and your life, or saying “no.” This unconscious stance determines how you feel, your resourcefulness, and your ability to create the confidence and the life you truly want. Join Dr. Aziz as he guides you to say YES to more and more of your life now.

Sep 26, 201827 min

First Date Do’s And Don’ts with Amber Grubenmann

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Sep 19, 201834 min

How To Do The Impossible

Sep 12, 201823 min

The Psychology of Self-Sabotage

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Sep 5, 201823 min

Confident Dating Mindsets with Amber Grubenmann

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Aug 29, 201831 min

When THEY Don’t Want You To Grow

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Aug 22, 201828 min

How To Soar Through Life

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Aug 16, 201821 min