Shrink For The Shy Guy

Today we are diving into how be the kind of guy that women see as a MAN, as a SEXUAL PARTNER and someone THEY WANT TO BE WITH. It's not about all the eternal things that you may be stuck on such as; if only I had more money or if I was better looking. We are digging deeper into how to become that attractive man by being you. You can get this...you can get this by being you! The key element that it takes is boldness and practice, it's a skill that you can learn!

Are you tired of trying things that don't work? Do you feel stuck not knowing how to feel confident in your dating life?  Are you paralyzed by fear or self doubt?  Are you stuck in the friend zone? Today we are talking with Tripp Kramer about how to be your most authentic self in dating and approaching women. His approach is a down to earth, practical and basic system about what works.    

Thanksgiving brings up all kinds of feelings of thankfulness and gratitude but what if I told you that gratitude is not just a feeling but something you should do.   What if I told you that in order to have true gratitude you would need to be disciplined in putting things in place to have those feelings?   Today we are discussing how to DO GRATITUDE and how to put things in place in your daily life to live a life that is full of gratitude. Gratitude doesn't come from all you gather or obtain ,it's not what you wish for or want it is something you can create. You can learn how to do gratitude.

Do you want to achieve highly and perform exceptionally well?  To be at your peak and to succeed in all the areas of your life that you want? Then today's expert interview with Robert MacPhee is for you!  If you missed last week's episode we sat down with Robert for Part 1 of the interview.  You can find it here. We are so excited to dive in to part two where we are exploring how you : Learn how to build up your confidence Grow in the areas you want Find the areas that you want to succeed in To thrive Make powerful decisions, Make excellent decisions. Step up into more and more capacity to choose the life we want Don't skip over this interview, it is one that will change your perspective and help understand how direct your life and what is required of you, access the confidence in us to do what we want.    

Do you start things and don't finish?  Do you struggle with starting at all and just fill your mind with a list of reasons why you will fail at X (fill in the blank). X- is anything you want, anything you want to succeed at.  If you don't have confidence then it's hard to succeed, it's a struggle to achieve what you want. Confidence is the doorway to success in every area of your life.  Join Dr. Aziz and Robert MacPhee in this Expert Interview.

How can I have self love and self confidence with something I have no control over? Our listener today describes how he is insecure about his height at 5'4" and lately it's been difficult to deal with knowing how society deals with superficial things like height. Women especially think that height is a deal breaker, how can he have confidence in himself when it's something he can't change?  

Today we are talking about Confidence, Courage and Boldness to Really Be Yourself Learn how to: Say What You Want To Say Be How You Want to Be Do What You Want to Do Being fully you and fully authentic is a skill that you can build!  Learn how to be more you in deeper ways at work and in your relationships.

How do you know when you have achieved full confidence? Is there a point where you feel as though you have arrived? Josh writes in and explains how he put himself out there at work with women and yes he experienced rejection and everything else but he was able to take all that negative and say to himself "Josh You Are A Legend".   He says, "If you asked me to do that a year ago there is no chance,of course I still get nervous but I just do it." How do you know that you have achieved full confidence- Dr. Aziz answers this and gives insight no matter where you are at in your journey.

Success Story- Michael Riley had struggled for over 20 + years with feeling Limited Shy Anxious And Full of Self Doubt Listen today and hear his incredible story of how he experienced a Rapid Breakthrough! There are many keys to his success but ONE that determined his success, find out what it is.    

In today's episode of Ask the Shrink, Dr. Aziz gives his opinion to one of our listeners that wants to know "Do you have to have a direct verbal approach with women if you want them to see you as a highly seductive person?   Do you have to talk about sex?  How direct do you have to be?  

Life changing perceptions and ideas that will allow you to apply them to your life and immediately be able to transform your dating life. Learn how to: Be able to be more free Be bold  Approach people Be more outgoing Create attraction and excitement Feel a sense that there is an endless opportunity for you to have the dating life you want.

How to Be Highly Authentic and Highly Attractive   Last week's episode explored the traits of highly successful people, what they do how they act.   Today we are jumping in for the second half of the interview with Jason to look closer at boldness. How to bring more boldness in your life and what that really means. 

What if I told you that if you want to be attractive to others you have to start by looking in the mirror. You don't have to be who you think everyone else wants you to be, actually you will be left feeling empty. If you want to have the traits of highly successful people the biggest area you need to work on is being yourself. Being your most authentic self is the magnet that will draw others to you more than anything else. Today we will be diving into how you can tap into ways that attract to other people by increasing the traits that are already there!    

On today's episode of Ask the Shrink we have an awesome question from one of listeners involving the charisma and Will Smith. Can I observe and emulate the charisma from Will Smith? Listen to Dr. Aziz tackle this question of how modeling is hands down one of the fastest ways to learn anything and charisma is a skill you can learn!

I Am a Social Person Say It Out Loud With Me... I AM A SOCIAL PERSON How Does It Feel?  Does it feel accurate? Does it feel false? This Question Along With Many Others In My New Book Art Of Extraordinary Confidence Digs Into How You See Yourself. This Is Surrounded With Your Identity Which Is Made Up of Over a Million" I AM "statements. Who We Think We Are  What We Think We Deserve  

Do you struggle with how you are seen in the world of business?  Do you feel like you aren't making the impact on people that you know you could? It is possible to have other's see the real you, all your skills, all the experience.   You can learn how to impact people so they want to talk to you, want to hire you, to see you as a leader and see you as the executive that you are! Learn How To Make A Much More Powerful Impact- In your networking meetings In Your Career In your Business Take your career head on and leave the lasting impression you've always wanted people to see!

Do you struggle with how you are seen in the world of business?  Do you feel like you aren't making the impact on people that you know you could? It is possible to have other's see the real you, all your skills, all the experience.   You can learn how to impact people so they want to talk to you, want to hire you, to see you as a leader and see you as the executive that you are! Learn How To Make A Much More Powerful Impact- In your networking meetings In Your Career In your Business Take your career head on and leave the lasting impression you've always wanted people to see!

What Exactly Is Extraordinary Confidence? Do you want to learn how you can go from any level of confidence from sub-average to super confident, one step at a time. Learn the Five Major Areas of Extraordinary Confidence and How to Create it in Your Life!

How To Understand When Your Critic Comes Up  In This Episode We Will Explore- Why You Are Criticizing Yourself Powerful Strategies to Transform How You Relate to it Learning How to Not Let the Inner Critic Stop You From Being Who You Want to Be and Enjoying Life

Have you lost your motivation to improve your dating confidence?   Have you come to the conclusion that Women Are Not Worth It? Dr. Aziz shares his personal experience to answer this writer's question and give motivation for breaking through your confidence in dating. Check out if you agree if you think it's worth really pushing for what you want and asking for what you want in the dating world.      

Is your desire to socialize low?  Do you feel like you don't have things in common with most people? Do you feel like you are indifferent and do you question if socializing is a necessity? Today's writer has such a great question that many people feel, check out how Dr. Aziz tackles this tough question and gives wonderful advice and tips on breaking through on social confidence.  

Last week we worked on getting the hammer out and CRUSHING OUR COMFORT ZONES! This week it's all about technique and strategies how to BREAK FREE and HOW TO BE FEARLESS!  

Do you sit around playing conversations in your head before you have them?   Trying to think of what you might say to someone before that conversation actually takes place?   The question from today's writer is should I do this, should I continue to plan a conversation before I have them or am I training my brain to have them and should not? Is this creating a pattern that I need to break?   Or am I headed in the right direction for freeing myself from social confidence.   Find out Dr. Aziz's answers to this great question on if you should plan your conversations  ahead of time.    

Do you struggle with just staying as comfortable as possible in your life and avoid all the things that scare you? Instead of sitting in a place of comfort let's begin to lean into what scares us and continue not just once or twice but push through to experience the growth you desire. In today's episode we will be interviewing Tim Gill who teaches people how to crush their comfort zones. Today we will learn: What is your Comfort Zone What Keeps Us Stuck There is the First Place How To Massively BREAK FREE This is not just an activity of breaking free from your comfort zone, you will learn how this is a way of life.

Have you been sitting somewhere and all of a sudden that dreaded fear, self doubt and imploding feeling rise up and make you feel like you aren't good enough to be here. No matter what setting at work, at a social gathering or in dating we are going to learn what to do When Social Anxiety Strikes. What Do you Do When Social Anxiety Strikes Learn how to Shift the Pattern Break free of the implosion and turn it into an explosion force for growth for freedom for confidence To crush it and be you and have a more powerful experience than ever before!

Do you struggle with building relationships with friends, having girlfriends or having people like you?   Learn five things you can do today that will change how people see you.  If you put these five practices into place today you will see a change in your social confidence.   Learn what not to do and what to start doing today to get people to like you!