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Patrick King is a MASTER AT CONVERSATIONS and wrote the book on Fearless Social Confidence. Learn some extreme strategies and tools to activate social confidence.   He is awesome at helping people realize YOU CAN SHIFT THIS! If you aren't great talking to people, YOU CAN BECOME GREAT AT TALKING TO PEOPLE.  If you are nervous and get anxiety around people, YOU CAN BE EXTREMELY RELAXED AND COMFORTABLE in your own skin. You can learn this and start applying these things today!

Discover The Exact Path To Complete Social Confidence   What would Social Mastery look like for you? Speaking up in groups, approaching strangers, talking in big meetings? Or maybe just simply being comfortable in your own skin as you share with a friend, or go on a date. Whatever you want to achieve in this area, it is possible… IF you’re willing to do what it takes. In this episode Dr. Aziz helps you access your core motivation and then create a “Ladder to Victory” to create the social life you’ve always wanted.   Earlybird tickets for Dr. Aziz’s next LIVE event - Supremely Confident Conversation Master are on sale now. Click here to secure your spot!   (link to: http://www.yourconfidencecode.com/event)

Are You Ready to Have the Best Year of Your LIFE You can make it the best year of your life, it is you that can make that happen. CREATE EVERYTHING YOU WANT You are the creator in your life...you create your circumstances, you create your relationships, you create your experiences.  YOU CREATE EVERYTHING  

**IT'S TIME TO CELEBRATE!!!** 150th Episode of This SHOW!   Thank you for being with me, and writing in and asking questions, sharing your stories. It's all about learning and growing together! Learn How to Celebrate Your Successes- It's a thing you can do, a habit you can start! The thing I have seen over and over of things that have grown the most is they start with HABITS-Simple practices that if we integrate just a few of them in our day we will see the change.  

As we approach the New Year we are going take a look back at the last year, to reflect on where we have been with what we have learned, what successes we have had and to take the opportunity to take a look forward to look at what we want to create in our lives in 2017. You may think, I don't want to take a look back, it wasn't a great year, but there are so many excuses that we tell ourselves, there are so many places that we have resigned ourselves or have settled on something. WHERE HAVE YOU SETTLED? Is it in your Relationships: Friendships Coworkers Career Influence Dating Life There are so many places that we settle telling ourselves that is how it is for me, nothing can change for me, nope, not me... I'm... MESSED UP WIERD NOT SMART ENOUGH NOT ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH For what I want... YOU ARE SELLING YOURSELF A STORY THAT YOU AREN'T ENOUGH BUT, the good news is DISSATISFACTION IS WHAT MOVES US!!

Today we are diving into how be the kind of guy that women see as a MAN, as a SEXUAL PARTNER and someone THEY WANT TO BE WITH. It's not about all the eternal things that you may be stuck on such as; if only I had more money or if I was better looking. We are digging deeper into how to become that attractive man by being you. You can get this...you can get this by being you! The key element that it takes is boldness and practice, it's a skill that you can learn!

Are you tired of trying things that don't work? Do you feel stuck not knowing how to feel confident in your dating life?  Are you paralyzed by fear or self doubt?  Are you stuck in the friend zone? Today we are talking with Tripp Kramer about how to be your most authentic self in dating and approaching women. His approach is a down to earth, practical and basic system about what works.    

Thanksgiving brings up all kinds of feelings of thankfulness and gratitude but what if I told you that gratitude is not just a feeling but something you should do.   What if I told you that in order to have true gratitude you would need to be disciplined in putting things in place to have those feelings?   Today we are discussing how to DO GRATITUDE and how to put things in place in your daily life to live a life that is full of gratitude. Gratitude doesn't come from all you gather or obtain ,it's not what you wish for or want it is something you can create. You can learn how to do gratitude.

Do you want to achieve highly and perform exceptionally well?  To be at your peak and to succeed in all the areas of your life that you want? Then today's expert interview with Robert MacPhee is for you!  If you missed last week's episode we sat down with Robert for Part 1 of the interview.  You can find it here. We are so excited to dive in to part two where we are exploring how you : Learn how to build up your confidence Grow in the areas you want Find the areas that you want to succeed in To thrive Make powerful decisions, Make excellent decisions. Step up into more and more capacity to choose the life we want Don't skip over this interview, it is one that will change your perspective and help understand how direct your life and what is required of you, access the confidence in us to do what we want.    

Do you start things and don't finish?  Do you struggle with starting at all and just fill your mind with a list of reasons why you will fail at X (fill in the blank). X- is anything you want, anything you want to succeed at.  If you don't have confidence then it's hard to succeed, it's a struggle to achieve what you want. Confidence is the doorway to success in every area of your life.  Join Dr. Aziz and Robert MacPhee in this Expert Interview.

How can I have self love and self confidence with something I have no control over? Our listener today describes how he is insecure about his height at 5'4" and lately it's been difficult to deal with knowing how society deals with superficial things like height. Women especially think that height is a deal breaker, how can he have confidence in himself when it's something he can't change?  

Today we are talking about Confidence, Courage and Boldness to Really Be Yourself Learn how to: Say What You Want To Say Be How You Want to Be Do What You Want to Do Being fully you and fully authentic is a skill that you can build!  Learn how to be more you in deeper ways at work and in your relationships.

How do you know when you have achieved full confidence? Is there a point where you feel as though you have arrived? Josh writes in and explains how he put himself out there at work with women and yes he experienced rejection and everything else but he was able to take all that negative and say to himself "Josh You Are A Legend".   He says, "If you asked me to do that a year ago there is no chance,of course I still get nervous but I just do it." How do you know that you have achieved full confidence- Dr. Aziz answers this and gives insight no matter where you are at in your journey.

Success Story- Michael Riley had struggled for over 20 + years with feeling Limited Shy Anxious And Full of Self Doubt Listen today and hear his incredible story of how he experienced a Rapid Breakthrough! There are many keys to his success but ONE that determined his success, find out what it is.    

In today's episode of Ask the Shrink, Dr. Aziz gives his opinion to one of our listeners that wants to know "Do you have to have a direct verbal approach with women if you want them to see you as a highly seductive person?   Do you have to talk about sex?  How direct do you have to be?  

Life changing perceptions and ideas that will allow you to apply them to your life and immediately be able to transform your dating life. Learn how to: Be able to be more free Be bold  Approach people Be more outgoing Create attraction and excitement Feel a sense that there is an endless opportunity for you to have the dating life you want.

How to Be Highly Authentic and Highly Attractive   Last week's episode explored the traits of highly successful people, what they do how they act.   Today we are jumping in for the second half of the interview with Jason to look closer at boldness. How to bring more boldness in your life and what that really means. 

What if I told you that if you want to be attractive to others you have to start by looking in the mirror. You don't have to be who you think everyone else wants you to be, actually you will be left feeling empty. If you want to have the traits of highly successful people the biggest area you need to work on is being yourself. Being your most authentic self is the magnet that will draw others to you more than anything else. Today we will be diving into how you can tap into ways that attract to other people by increasing the traits that are already there!    

On today's episode of Ask the Shrink we have an awesome question from one of listeners involving the charisma and Will Smith. Can I observe and emulate the charisma from Will Smith? Listen to Dr. Aziz tackle this question of how modeling is hands down one of the fastest ways to learn anything and charisma is a skill you can learn!

I Am a Social Person Say It Out Loud With Me... I AM A SOCIAL PERSON How Does It Feel?  Does it feel accurate? Does it feel false? This Question Along With Many Others In My New Book Art Of Extraordinary Confidence Digs Into How You See Yourself. This Is Surrounded With Your Identity Which Is Made Up of Over a Million" I AM "statements. Who We Think We Are  What We Think We Deserve  

Do you struggle with how you are seen in the world of business?  Do you feel like you aren't making the impact on people that you know you could? It is possible to have other's see the real you, all your skills, all the experience.   You can learn how to impact people so they want to talk to you, want to hire you, to see you as a leader and see you as the executive that you are! Learn How To Make A Much More Powerful Impact- In your networking meetings In Your Career In your Business Take your career head on and leave the lasting impression you've always wanted people to see!

Do you struggle with how you are seen in the world of business?  Do you feel like you aren't making the impact on people that you know you could? It is possible to have other's see the real you, all your skills, all the experience.   You can learn how to impact people so they want to talk to you, want to hire you, to see you as a leader and see you as the executive that you are! Learn How To Make A Much More Powerful Impact- In your networking meetings In Your Career In your Business Take your career head on and leave the lasting impression you've always wanted people to see!

What Exactly Is Extraordinary Confidence? Do you want to learn how you can go from any level of confidence from sub-average to super confident, one step at a time. Learn the Five Major Areas of Extraordinary Confidence and How to Create it in Your Life!

How To Understand When Your Critic Comes Up  In This Episode We Will Explore- Why You Are Criticizing Yourself Powerful Strategies to Transform How You Relate to it Learning How to Not Let the Inner Critic Stop You From Being Who You Want to Be and Enjoying Life

Have you lost your motivation to improve your dating confidence?   Have you come to the conclusion that Women Are Not Worth It? Dr. Aziz shares his personal experience to answer this writer's question and give motivation for breaking through your confidence in dating. Check out if you agree if you think it's worth really pushing for what you want and asking for what you want in the dating world.