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Ending The Pain-Fear Cycle with Daniella Deutsch

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How To Train Your Brain And Body To Feel Safe And Happy Do you experience physical pain, chronic pain, or reoccurring injuries? It turns out that this kind of pain is directly related to anxiety and can be radically healed and released. Join Dr. Aziz in this insightful interview with a social worker who trains clinicians in Pain Reprocessing Therapy to discover how to free yourself from pain and anxiety now! Daniella Deutsch, ASW received a master’s in social work from the University of Southern California. Daniella individualizes her treatment approach to meet the needs of each patient. She encourages her patients to relate to themselves with self-compassion while using evidence-based practices to achieve pain reduction and mind and body wellness. Daniella trains all new clinicians at the Pain Psychology Center in Pain Reprocessing Therapy, demonstrating a holistic and actionable approach to overcoming chronic pain. Click here to learn more about the Pain Reprocessing Therapy Clinic! 

Apr 27, 202252 min

Why You're Afraid To Upset Others (And What To Do About It)

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Eliminate People Pleasing Now Are you cautious not to upset others? Perhaps you avoid confrontation or disagreement, or maybe you try extra hard to be perfect and never make mistakes. Join Dr. Aziz today to really see how much this pattern might be inhibiting your life, and claim a new approach to confidence and freedom now.

Apr 20, 202223 min

Anxious To Awesome with Derek Wang

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How To Overcome Social Anxiety And Become Your Authentic Self Join Dr. Aziz in today's inspiring interview with a graduate of his Unstoppable Confidence Mastermind program who has made amazing progress in confidence, relationships, and living life authentically on his terms.

Apr 13, 20221h 6m

How To Heal From The Past

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Why Most Approaches Never Work...And What To Do About It Have you pinpointed the past as the source of some of your social anxiety or other problems? Have you attempted to heal the past to resolve your challenges in the present day? Join Dr. Aziz in this powerful, counter-intuitive episode where he challenges the status quo of the accepted perspective of many therapeutic approaches. You'll discover why trying to heal the past often doesn't work and how you can do something else instead that can be much more liberating and empowering. 

Apr 13, 202227 min

The Problem With Self-Esteem (And What To Do About It)

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How To Stop Evaluating Yourself And Start Living Do you struggle with self-esteem, often feeling inferior or like you don't deserve great things in life? Join Dr. Aziz in this fascinating episode where you'll discover the benefits (and pitfalls) of self-esteem and what to do instead to access more confidence and peace now.

Mar 30, 202221 min

The Surprising Secret To Feeling Worthy

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Discover How To Finally End Feelings Of Unworthiness Forever Do you struggle to feel worthy in dating, relationships, friendships, or at work? Is the battle for your self-worth a seemingly endless fight, that often has you on the losing end? Join Dr. Aziz in this liberating episode where you will discover a surprising secret about self-worth that can change how you feel about yourself forever!

Mar 23, 202225 min

Terrible Before, Awesome After

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How To Boldly Take On What Scares You To Grow Outstanding Confidence You probably already know that to create the confidence you must step outside your comfort zone and take healthy risks in life, right? The key question is HOW do you get yourself to do this on a regular basis? Join Dr. Aziz in this fun and fascinating episode where you will discover the predictable formula for extraordinary change, and how to use it in your life now.

Mar 16, 202224 min

How To Defeat Doubt

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WARNING: Doubt Left Unchecked Destroys Lives! How much is doubt influencing you right now? Its insidious impact might be much greater than you think. Join Dr. Aziz in this illuminating episode to learn even more about how to spot doubt, stop it in it's tracks, and transform it into unstoppable confidence to move forward in your life now. Be sure to go to draziz.com and click the Events tab to secure your spot for his upcoming Online event - Not Nice LIVE

Mar 9, 202226 min

Why Healthy Selfishness Is Essential

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Have The Confidence To Take Care Of Yourself If you are a nice person, you might find it hard to say no, be direct with others, or do things that they might not like. And yet, this level of self-sacrifice can often lead to severe consequences for you in the long run. Join Dr. Aziz as he reframes selfishness to something that can actually benefit you and others, and is absolutely essential to live a confident life on your terms. Be sure to go to draziz.com and click the Events tab to secure your spot for his upcoming Online event - Not Nice LIVE

Mar 2, 202224 min

Being Nice Is Good For Dating & Relationships, Right? with Amber Grubenmann

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Discover How Too Much Niceness Kills Attraction And Success In Dating At first glance, being nice seems like a good thing when it comes to dating and relationships. But there's much more to the picture than you might think. Join Dr. Aziz and dating coach Amber Grubenmann as they reveal the high cost of being too nice in love and relationships. Be sure to go to draziz.com and click the Events tab to secure your spot for his upcoming Online event - Not Nice LIVE

Feb 23, 202234 min

Stop Caring What They Say And Take Your Power Back Now

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How To Free Yourself From Negative Stories From The Past Do you doubt yourself or imagine others will dislike you? Do you fear upsetting others or being judged? It turns out these fears stem from an old identity that you began to take on in childhood. Discover how this process happened, and more importantly, how to liberate yourself now! Be sure to go to draziz.com and click the Events tab to secure your spot for his upcoming Online event - Not Nice LIVE

Feb 9, 202222 min

Are You Too Nice?

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Discover The Top Signs That You Are Too Nice... And What To Do About It! Do you think you're too nice? Have others told you this? Perhaps you've even read Dr. Aziz's book, "Not Nice" and felt like it was written about you. In this episode, join Dr. Aziz as he sheds light on the tricky problem of niceness, where it comes from, and how to upgrade your confidence so you can be less nice and more you. Be sure to go to draziz.com and click the Events tab to secure your spot for his upcoming Online event - Not Nice LIVE

Feb 2, 202222 min

Get More Confidence To Embrace Risks

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Radically Increase Your Capacity To Take Healthy Risks Do you regularly step into uncertainty and take positive risks? Or does the discomfort, fear, and self-doubt stop you? Join Dr. Aziz in this inspiring episode to discover exactly how to not only take risks but embrace them to create an extraordinary level of confidence!

Feb 2, 202224 min

How To Face Your Fears

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Discover Two Life-Changing Tools To Transform Fear Confidence is a byproduct of bold action. Hence, in order to create lasting confidence, you must consistently face your fears... but how? Join Dr. Aziz today to discover two life-changing tools you can use to get yourself over the terror barrier and into smooth, steady, confident action now.

Jan 26, 202226 min

Why You Must Face Your Fears To Build Confidence

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Discover The Key To Permanent Confidence You probably already know that getting out of your comfort zone is good for your confidence. But, do you really get what this means? Join Dr. Aziz in this inspiring episode that will help you build willingness and relentless determination to take control of your confidence and your life now.

Jan 19, 202231 min

Accessing A Higher Source of Confidence with Michael C.

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How To Generate More Confidence And Faith Now What do confidence and faith have to do with each other? Is faith something we can generate at will to experience more certainty, confidence, and peace in life? Join Dr. Aziz as he dives into confidence, faith, and everything in between with this insightful and earnest interview.

Jan 12, 20221h 6m

Social Anxiety 101

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Discover What Social Anxiety Is And How To Free Yourself Now Welcome to 2022! Start the year off right by getting a crystal clear sense of what social anxiety really is, where it comes from, and what you can do to free yourself now. Join Dr. Aziz in this up-to-date look at the current state of social anxiety in the world, and what your prognosis is for liberation (spoiler: it's positive!)

Jan 5, 202240 min

How To Create An Amazing 2022

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Create The Confidence To Steer Your Life In The New Year Are you excited about 2022? Are you approaching this new year with faith and optimism, knowing you can create something extraordinary? Join Dr. Aziz as he helps you clear up any self-doubt or limited thinking about your future so you can step into this new year with inspired confidence and bold action.

Dec 29, 202132 min

More Confidence & Freedom Around Family

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Liberate Yourself From The Past And Feel More Confident Now Are you spending time around family during the holidays? How is that? For many people, being around certain family members can trigger feelings of inferiority, shame, anger, or upset. Join Dr. Aziz in this heartfelt episode to discover how to heal past hurts and free yourself up to be more liberated, relaxed, open, and confident around your family.

Dec 22, 202129 min

You Are Not Fixed

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How To Rapidly Transform Your Confidence Now Do you see yourself as capable of rapid and radical change? Or do you see yourself as fixed? Join Dr. Aziz in this illuminating episode as he highlights all the subtle ways your mind might trick you into thinking you are fixed or stuck the way you are due to your past history or your genes. Then discover the truth about who you are and what you're capable of. A perfect episode to accelerate your liberation now!

Dec 15, 202128 min

Life Beyond The Cage with Jeff

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The Power Of Coaching To Create Life-Transforming Confidence Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews an amazing client and friend, Jeff. His growth and transformation are truly remarkable and inspiring. You'll not only leave this episode feeling energized by what's possible in your own life, but you'll also benefit from very practical tools and skills that Jeff has applied in his life to achieve epic results.

Dec 8, 20211h 9m

The Confidence To Do It Your Way

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Free Yourself From How You "Should" Be Have you struggled with hiding who you truly are because of old learned patterns of being a "certain way"? Join Dr. Aziz in this enlightening episode to shatter those old patterns of belief and learn how to express WHO you authentically are.

Dec 1, 202129 min

Upgrade Your Limiting Beliefs Now

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Change Your Stories, Change Your Life What do you believe about yourself and the world around you? It turns out, some of those beliefs might be depressing, demoralizing, or even destructive. Join Dr. Aziz in this inspiring episode where you will discover what keeps those old negative beliefs stuck, and how to break free now to a more powerful, confident, free version of you!

Nov 24, 202129 min

The Sting of Failure

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Discover The Secret Gift Of Failure To Accelerate Your Growth Now Does failure feel like acid dripping on you? Do you avoid it like the plague, or endure it with gritted teeth? Join Dr. Aziz in this playful episode where you'll discover why failure actually hurts so bad (and how to discover the gift inside the discomfort!).

Nov 17, 202126 min

Access Your Own Inner Wisdom To Live With More Confidence

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How To Guide Yourself Through Anything Are you a high-quality, reliable, warm, intelligent leader of yourself? Or are you honestly a bit less than this? Most people lead and guide others with much more compassion and sanity than they do with themselves. Join Dr. Aziz in this fun, personal episode where he reveals the challenges and secrets of being your own coach, guide, and leader.

Nov 3, 202131 min

From Triggered To Tranquil with Dr. Susan Campbell

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How To Stay Confident No Matter What Do you get emotionally triggered? Perhaps a better question is not IF, but WHEN... Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews premiere expert and author on the subject of authenticity and communication as she discusses the secrets of turning emotional triggers into powerful opportunities to grow and become stronger than ever before.

Oct 27, 202156 min

What If They're "Out Of My League"?

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How To Date And Attract The Ones You REALLY Want Do you perceive some people as "out of your league", or otherwise too good for you? Join Dr. Aziz in this fascinating episode to discover why you do this, and how to upgrade your mindset and dating confidence to connect with anyone, no matter who they are or what they look like! Last chance to claim your ticket to our ONLINE event, Unlimited Dating & Relationship Confidence! 

Oct 27, 202125 min

Sneaky Stories That Sabotage Your Relationships

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Do You Believe You Are Not Capable Of Having A Great Relationship? What is your current experience in dating and relationships? Good, bad, complicated? Underneath these experiences lie your stories and expectations about yourself, others, and life. Join Dr. Aziz in this powerful and inspiring episode to discover and free yourself from the stories that have blocked love and intimacy for years.

Oct 20, 202129 min

How To Be More Fun & Interesting On Dates

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Unlock Your Most Confident, Attractive Self On Dates Does your best self show up on dates? Or do you struggle with feeling anxious, tense, or otherwise held back? Join Dr. Aziz in this fascinating episode to gain insight into the key mindset and confidence shifts you can make to become way more confident, attractive, and interesting on your very next date.

Oct 13, 202128 min

Jealousy, Envy, And Insecurity—Oh My!

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Increase Your Romantic Confidence Now Do you feel jealous or envious? Who doesn't? In this fascinating episode, you'll discover the difference between envy and jealousy, and what creates these painful emotions. You'll also discover practical tools to increase your confidence so you can feel more secure and relaxed in all your relationships.

Oct 6, 202128 min

Free Yourself From Excessive Guilt Part 2

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Moving Forward With Awareness In Part 2 of this mini-series, Dr. Aziz will help you learn which direction to follow now that you understand the different types of guilt and how to be aware of them in the moment.

Sep 29, 202129 min

Free Yourself From Excessive Guilt Part 1

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Releasing What Is Holding You Back In this two-part series, we will explore the many feelings of guilt. In Part 1, Dr. Aziz will guide you through discovering the deep feelings of fear and shame behind guilt and help explain the different kinds of guilt such as "healthy" guilt vs. "unhealthy" guilt.

Sep 22, 202124 min

When To Say Yes And When To Say No

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Express How You Are Authentically Feeling Do you find it challenging to reply to an invitation or request in the moment? Do you often say "yes" when you really mean "no"? Join Dr. Aziz in this enlightening episode as he guides you through the process of learning how to confidently and clearly commit to what you want.

Sep 15, 202123 min

Shatter Your Stories

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Do The Impossible Again And Again Do you have old stories about who you are and what you're capable of? If so, you're not alone. The question is not IF you have these stories, it's what do you do about them? Join Dr. Aziz in this vulnerable and fascinating episode about his journey with chronic pain and how it led him to take on greater and greater physical challenges, repeatedly doing the impossible.  

Sep 8, 202133 min

3 Ways To Feel More Confident Around Authority Figures

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Eliminate Anxiety And Over-Thinking Now Do you feel tense, hesitant, or nervous around people in authority? Join Dr. Aziz as he illuminates exactly what creates this fear, and 3 ways you can free yourself to be confident and boldly yourself around anyone.

Sep 1, 202126 min

YOU Are The Captain Of Your Life

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How To Quickly Access Confidence When You Need It Most Do you feel empowered, confident, and certain in yourself? Or does doubt, anxiety, or despair often take over? Join Dr. Aziz as he shares a powerful visual metaphor to quickly regain your confidence and steer your life in the exact direction you want.

Aug 25, 202127 min

How To Release Fear And Live In The Moment

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Approach Life With More Ease And Flow How much of your life do you spend on worry, anxiety, or fear? What else might be possible if you weren't so absorbed in fear? Join Dr. Aziz as he illuminates what's underneath fear and guides you to release it at the deepest level.

Aug 18, 202128 min

Courage, Risk, & Vulnerability with Ian Lobas

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Secrets To Live With More Confidence, Purpose, And Clarity Join Dr. Aziz and high-level coach Ian Lobas in this fascinating exploration of risk, courage, vulnerability, and growth. You will leave this episode energized and inspired to become a better, more on-purpose version of yourself. 

Aug 11, 202149 min

I Disagree!

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Why Disagreeing Is An Essential Skill For Confidence And Life Do you find it hard to disagree with others? Do you fear causing upset or conflict? Join Dr. Aziz to discover why disagreeing is so important, and how to upgrade your rules so you have permission to do so freely.

Aug 4, 202122 min

Listen To Your Anger

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How Anger Can Help You Build Confidence And Master Assertiveness Do you let yourself feel anger? Or do you perceive it as a "negative" emotion that is destructive to you and your relationships? Join Dr. Aziz in this illuminating episode that will give you a completely new perspective on anger, and how to use it to build confidence. 

Jul 28, 202123 min

Improve, Upgrade, And Optimize Everything with Dr. Ian Chambers

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Secrets From An Energy Master   Have you ever felt like there's more to life than just what you can see and touch? Is there underlying energy that we can harness to feel more alive, effective, and joyful in our lives? The answer to those questions, and dozens more are answered in this compelling interview with Dr. Ian Chambers.

Jul 21, 20211h 4m

How To Motivate Yourself To Take Bold Action

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Discover Your Optimal Fuel How do you get yourself to do things that scare you? Do you use "dirty fuel" that leaves you feeling stressed or inadequate? Join Dr. Aziz as he guides you towards more kind and intelligent ways to motivate yourself towards consistent bold action in your life.

Jul 14, 202122 min

How To Free Yourself From Toxic Shame

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Liberate Yourself From Feeling Like You're Not Enough Do you experience a reoccurring feeling that you're not enough and that you aren't worthy of the love and approval of others? Join Dr. Aziz in this insightful episode to discover the origins of toxic shame and how to shift it now.

Jul 7, 202127 min

Confidence For Empaths

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Maintaining High Social Confidence Do you feel energetically weighted down after you've spent time with people? Maybe you feel overwhelmed or emotional pain and you're not sure what the cause is? Join Dr. Aziz for this fun and enlightening episode as he shares helpful tools and skills that can be used to allow empaths to recover quickly during or after a social interaction.

Jun 30, 202133 min

The Life-Changing Skill Of Feeling Your Feelings

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A Guided Process To Confidently Feel Any Emotion Do you avoid feelings? Or perhaps get through unpleasant emotions like anxiety, fear, doubt, and guilt as best as you can? Join Dr. Aziz in this life-changing episode where you will learn how to skillfully navigate any emotion—no matter how uncomfortable or painful it may be. This will definitely be an episode to download and listen to again and again!

Jun 23, 202130 min

Beyond Introversion with Steve Friedman

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Finding The Balance Within Do you find that you need to take time away from people? Does it help you re-charge your social stamina? Join Dr. Aziz in this enlightening episode as he interviews the amazing Steve Friedman, the founder of Beyond Introversion. They discuss how to manage the balance between accepting and allowing your natural introversion to come and go as needed.

Jun 16, 202148 min

Imperfect Action = Success

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How To Free Yourself From Perfectionism Are you a perfectionist? Do you take a long time to finish a project, finding it hard to put something out there that isn't "perfect"? Join Dr. Aziz in today's episode where you will discover exactly why you do this, and how to shift into a much more fun, effective, and confident way of getting results in all areas of life. To learn more about our next LIVE Online Event, click here! 

Jun 9, 202122 min

How To Step Into The Unknown With Confidence

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Moving Forward With Faith, Joy, And Positive Anticipation Do you avoid change because it feels overwhelming and scary? Or do you take bold action, but brace yourself, feeling afraid and tense? Join Dr. Aziz as he highlights why stepping into the unknown is scary, and how to shift into boldly moving forward with confidence and faith. CLICK HERE to find the details on our next Live Online Event in July 2021.

Jun 2, 202124 min

Whatever It Takes

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How To Create Confidence To Make Big Changes In Your Life Have you tried to make changes in your confidence, assertiveness, relationships, work, or other areas? Has there been some progress, but not as much as you'd like? Perhaps certain areas that feel stagnant or stuck? Join Dr. Aziz in this experiential episode where he guides you through a process to access Level 5 Commitment - the place from where all major change is created and sustained. To learn more about our next Live Online Event, CLICK HERE.

May 26, 202127 min

2 Sneaky Confidence Killers

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Discover What Drains Confidence And How To Shift It Now While learning how to build our confidence is always important, it's equally necessary to see what we do that drains our confidence. Join Dr. Aziz in this episode to uncover two sneaky patterns that can significantly reduce your confidence each day, and how to choose differently to skyrocket your confidence.

May 19, 202121 min