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Risk, Failure, And Creating An Extraordinary Life with Nic Carlson

Overcoming fear and anxiety, reprogramming negative stories from the past, and building confidence can be hard work. It can be easy to fall into a discouraged or hopeless state of self-pity, asking "why is this happening to me?" Join Dr. Aziz in this inspiring episide with one of his colleagues, a master of marketing named Nic Carlson. In this episode you'll go deep into Nic's personal story, which is absolutely inspiring. Facing massive adversity at a young age, he continued to find a way to choose risk, action, and willingness instead of shutting down and giving up. The result is not only outward success, but also becoming an open-hearted, inspiring human.

Apr 12, 202355 min

Why You're Stuck (Reason #1)

While it seems like listening to podcasts or watching videos about building confidence would automatically work, it turns out there are some pitfalls. Join Dr. Aziz as he highlights the first of the 3 major reasons why people get stuck in building confidence...and how to break free!

Apr 5, 202322 min

Assume People Like You

Do you know what your secret assumptions are when you meet people? What about before you speak up at work? It turns out these assumptions are a reflection of your confidence and make ALL the difference when it comes to being more confidenta and connected. Join Dr. Aziz to uncover what your subconscious assumptions are and discover how to upgrade them!

Mar 29, 202320 min

How To Care Less About Other's Opinions

The primary symptom of social anxiety is excessive fear of the judgments of others. AKA: What will THEY think of me?? This stops most people from sharing boldly, taking risks, asking for what they want, saying no, and so much more. Join Dr. Aziz in this experiential episode where he guides you into the actually feeling state of caring less what others think. You'll leave this episode feeling more powerful, resourceful, and capable to create your own life, regardless of what "they" might think!

Mar 22, 202322 min

Nervous System Mastery With Jonny Miller

You've probably heard that confidence and success come when you step outside your comfort zone. But how do you do this when you're freaking out inside? How do we boldly take action when doubt and anxiety are rampant? Join Dr. Aziz for this fascinating interiew with Nervous System Specialist, Jonny Miller. You'll discover powerful strategies that you can use immediately to quickly regain control of your inner system, calming yourself as needed in order to take your next bold step.

Mar 15, 202350 min

3 Fundamental Confidence Truths #3

In the final episode of this three-part seires you'll discover the last fundamental confidence truth. Here you'll discover how all your stories are false, and why this is actually extremely liberating! You'll leave this episode with more flexibility to choose your mindset, selecting one that will serve you with greater confidence and courage.

Mar 8, 202323 min

3 Fundamental Confidence Truths #2

In this episode you'll learn the second fundamental truth about confidence: ACTION IS REQUIRED You'll discover what the different types of action are and the primary reason most people don't take consistent or effective action to create the confidence and life they truly want.

Mar 1, 202321 min

3 Fundamental Confidence Truths #1

In today's episode you'll discover the first of 3 key principles about confidence. These truths are derived from Dr. Aziz's decades of focus on helping peope overcome social anxiety to lead more confident, free lives. This first truth will help you see how you're approach your entire life, not just social interactions. Armed with this awareness, you'll be able to start choosing something new, which will set you on a course for ever-increasing confidence.

Feb 22, 202322 min

3 Ways To Overcome Your Fear Of Sharing Your Creations

Sadly, a large percentage of people never fully share their creations or gifts with the world. Not because they don't have anything worthwhile to share... but because they TELL themselves they don't have anything worthwhile to share. Join Dr. Aziz in this inspiring episode where he tackles the fears that stop most people from sharing boldly with the world... so you can more freely and easily put yourself out there where you need to most!

Feb 15, 202324 min

Stop Seeking Approval From Your Family

How do you feel around your family of origin, including parents, siblings, aunts and uncles, etc? Do you feel upset, hurt, overlooked, frustrated, or resentful? Many clients I work with struggle around their families and focus on the ways in which their families are hard to get along with. While this might be true, they often overlook a major factor—which just happens to be the ONE thing they actually have control to change! Listen to this episode if you'd like to experience a greater sense of freedom around your family and beyond.

Feb 1, 202330 min

Are You Willing To Do What It Takes?

After helping people creating life-changing confidence for almost two decades, I can say one thing for certain: Transforming social anxiety into confidence is 100% possible for anyone. AND... at the same time key ingredients are required to make that change occur. It doesn't just happen automatically. In today's episode you'll discover one of the biggest ingredients that ensures a radical and rapid change in your confidence is not only possible, but inevitable!

Jan 25, 202328 min

What Nice People Regret As They Die

Do you experience a lot of regrets? What if those regrets were to compound over your life and be there as you approach death? It turns out that most people end their lives with some pretty significant regrets... especially nice people. Join Dr. Aziz in this catalyst episode that will jolt, agitate, and inspire you to creating your life as you want it NOW so that you can live, and die, without regrets.

Jan 18, 202323 min

Deep Confidence for Dating & Beyond with Dr. Robert Glover

Are you deeply confident in yourself? What about when approaching love, dating, and relationships? This is where most of us have at least a few insecurities (or more!). Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews renowned author and therapist, Dr. Robert Glover about confidence, dating, and being less nice. To learn more about Dr. Glover and what he's up to, visit his website here.

Jan 11, 20231h 29m

How A Mirror Can Change Your Life with Tara Well

How do you relate to the mirror? Do you briefly look at yourself and then look away before self-judgment sets in? Are you often harsh with yourself? Join Dr. Aziz in this fascinating interview with an expert in the mirror meditation technique. You'll discover why we're all so uncomfortable with the mirror and how to use this tool to completely transform your relationship with yourself (and ultimately others). To learn more about Tara Well and her work, visit her website: https://mirrormeditation.com

Jan 8, 202347 min

What Are You Waiting For?

Welcome to a brand new year! To kick things off, ask yourself this question... What are you waiting for? Have you been hold back, hesitating, and putting off taking certain actions? Are you aware of why you are waiting or what you're actually waiting for? Join Dr. Aziz in this powerful episode to investigate the hidden fears that hold us back and cause you to put things on the backburner for way too long.

Jan 4, 202324 min

Celebrate Your Victories To Unlock Unlimited Confidence

Use Your 2022 Wins To Create Fulfillment And Fuel! You made it! Welcome to the end of 2022...and the beginning of everything. What victories did you experience this year? Are you aware of all your wins? Join Dr. Aziz in this heart-warming episode where you will discover how to easily access your wins for sustained confidence and fuel for this coming year.

Dec 28, 202221 min

How To Release Your Fear of Criticism

Are you held back by a fear of criticism or judgment from others? Perhaps a better question is how MUCH are you held back, since all of us are on some level. Join Dr. Aziz in this practical episode where you will learn 3 key strategies to overcome your fear of crticism so you can bold express yourself both personally and professionally.

Dec 21, 202224 min

No One Is Going To Save You

Most people are not consciously waiting around for someone to solve all their problems, and yet... If you are not fully aware, it can be quite easy to slip into "victim mode" where you see yourself as powerless and look to others to solve your problems, or indeed save you. Join Dr. Aziz as he challenges these old patterns with compassion and direct honesty, so you can take total ownership of your life and fully become The Captain of your own ship!

Dec 14, 202223 min

Do Everything That Scares You With Sadiq M.

Is it possible to go from avoiding what scares you to facing it? Better yet, can you start actively moving towards what scares you on a daily basis, becoming stronger and stronger as the months go by? Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews an inspiring client who has done exactly this!

Dec 8, 202244 min

How To Stop Replaying Conversations In Your Head

After conversations do you repeatedly replay them, looking for awkward moments or social fails? Do you sometimes even cringe with embarrassment at that joke you shouldn't have made, or that risk you shouldn't have taken? If so, you're not alone! This negative confidence habit is extremely common. In this episode, you'll discover exactly why you run this pattern and, more importantly, how to be free of it!

Nov 30, 202223 min

Courage vs. Comfort

Did you know that you are making a certain choice every single day of your life that radically impacts your confidence and freedom? It turns out you are. What is this choice? Are you making it correctly? Join Dr. Aziz in this inspiring episode to make a daily choice that continually increases your confidence and self-esteem.   Discover Dr. Aziz's Life Changing Confidence University

Nov 23, 202222 min

Start Having Preferences

Are you aware of your preferences and do you share them freely and easily? Or do you tend to float them out there timidly, withdrawing them at the first sign of someone else being bothered or upset? Many nice people tend to downplay their preferences for fear of it being a burden to others. Join Dr. Aziz in this liberating episode where you will discover why you may be disconnected from your own preferences and how to start advocating for yourself now!

Nov 16, 202221 min

The Path To Confidence Is Uncomfortable

The Secret To Transforming Social Anxiety Into Social Confidence The good news is there is a path to confidence! The slightly less awesome news is it turns out it involves discomfort. Join Dr. Aziz in this humorous and liberating episode to inspire yourself to do what you know you must to truly liberate yourself.

Nov 9, 202219 min

Emotional Mastery: From Stress To Safety

Using Mindfulness To Free Yourself From Anxiety Join Dr. Aziz in this experiential episode to quickly ease anxiety and free yourself from tension, fear, and stress.

Nov 2, 202223 min

Confidence Transformation Step By Step with Roger H

Are you fully aware that confidence is a muscle that anyone (including you) can build? There's a big difference between believing that intellectually and really living it. Join Dr. Aziz for this inspiring interview with a client from his mastermind program who has been building confidence step by step for an entire year. You will discover exactly what Roger did and just how much is possible when you fully apply yourself.

Oct 26, 202258 min

A Life Of Confidence And Meaning

The Secret To Feeling More Fully Alive Now Did you know that you have a collection of voices in your head that stop you from living fully? No, you're not crazy—this is actually true for all humans. Join Dr. Aziz as he expertly teaches you how to notice the voices that are guiding you in your life, and how to choose to live with more openness, confidence, and courage now to create a life of meaning, connection, and fulfillment.

Oct 19, 202225 min

When The Doubts And Fears Unite

How To Deal With Doubt Storms And Other Unpleasantries Doubt. Yuck. When this comes rolling into town, it can be hard to find any place safe to hide. You end up being buffeted around in doubt, self-criticism, and a general sense of despair about your future. The good news is none of it is true! Join Dr. Aziz in this inspiring episode to gain key liberating insights about how to interrupt doubt, overthrow its control over you, and steer your ship in the direction you really want in this life.

Oct 12, 202217 min

Embrace Uncertainty And Live With Confidence Now

Use These Two Universal Forces To Live Your Best Life Do you like when things are stable, predictable, and under control? Sure feels good, doesn't it. Until...Life happens. Join Dr. Aziz in this mind-expanding episode where you will discover how to use the two forces of creation in the universe to free yourself from fear, step into the unknown, and live your best life now.

Oct 5, 202222 min

Trust In The Process

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How To Go Beyond The Mind To Solve Social Anxiety Have you ever heard that phrase before - "trust the process"? It's a key piece of wisdom that teachers have shared for centuries. Join Dr. Aziz as he helps you see the grasping patterns of impatience and certainty addiction that can actually slow your progress and keep you stuck. Instead you'll discover how to trust in the process and flow freely towards your goals. To learn more about our Confidence University program, click here!

Sep 28, 202219 min

Perfectionism And The Endless Pursuit Of Proving Yourself

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How To Release Perfectionism And Claim Your Confidence Now Are you a perfectionist? Do you overthink before you share, delay posting anything on the internet because it's not quite good enough yet, or demand yourself to always feel happy and "up" and never sad, anxious or down? If so, you might be running a perfectionistic pattern that doesn't serve you or your confidence. Join Dr. Aziz in this insightful episode to see all the ways perfectionism might be manifesting in your life and how to change this bad habit now.

Sep 21, 202224 min

Risk And You Will Rise To The Occasion

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Find The Courage To Take Bold Action And Build Confidence You probably know by now from this show that confidence is a byproduct of taking action. Action means taking risks by stepping into the unknown. But how do we actually get ourselves to do this? Join Dr. Aziz as he shares a powerful perspective that will help you repeatedly step into the unknown, take those risks, and create a life of extraordinary confidence! Click here to learn more about the Confidence University program!

Sep 14, 202219 min

Is The Real You Enough?

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How To Finally Stop Feeling Like You're Not Enough Do you have a chronic background feeling that somehow you're not enough? And as a result, others won't like, respect, or love you... It turns out this fear is universal to humans... AND there's something you can do about it. Join Dr. Aziz for a refreshing new look at "being enough" and how to free yourself from this fear.

Sep 7, 202218 min

Your System For Social Confidence

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How To Boost Your Social Confidence Step-By-Step Have you ever experienced the "two steps forwards, two steps back" approach to building confidence? No matter what you try, it seems like you're destined to settle back down into a place of social anxiety and limitation. Join Dr. Aziz as he shows you what might have been missing for you all these years. You'll discover how important it is to have a system to create sustainable progress in your social confidence and beyond.

Aug 31, 202222 min

Become The Kind Of Person Who Owns The Room

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How To Boldly Engage With Anyone Are you the kind of person who "owns the room"? If you struggle with social anxiety this can sound like a complete fantasy... and maybe even something that you don't actually want! Join Dr. Aziz in this inspiring episode to see how you can actually become a bolder version of yourself who can become completely confident in your own skin around anyone, in any setting. Also, Super Earlybird tickets are on sale for Dr. Aziz's online live event - Supremely Confident Conversation Master! Go to DrAziz.com and click on the EVENTS tab to get your ticket today!

Aug 24, 202224 min

You Can Talk To Anyone

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The Secret To Building Social Confidence Do you believe that you can easily talk with anyone? Or does that statement seem false to you? If so, there's only ONE reason why (and it's not the one you think!). Join Dr. Aziz to discover the only thing that blocks your conversation confidence and how to break free now! Also, Super Earlybird tickets are on sale for Dr. Aziz's online live event - Supremely Confident Conversation Master! Go to DrAziz.com and click on the EVENTS tab to get your ticket today!

Aug 17, 202218 min

When It Gets Hopeless...

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Discover Self-Compassion In The Midst Of Challenge Do you sometimes feel discouraged, down, or hopeless? If so, welcome to being a human. Join Dr. Aziz in this necessary episode to confidently navigate the strong currents of despair and hopelessness that can arise for any of us during our lives.  Click here to join the private Facebook Group!

Aug 10, 202218 min

What If All Your Predictions Are Wrong?

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Eliminate Negative Thinking About The Future Do you predict worst-case scenarios and then spook yourself? Do you imagine others will reject you and that you'll fail? Join Dr. Aziz to discover how to challenge these scary stories and live with more joy and confidence now. To learn more about Confidence University, click here!

Aug 3, 202217 min

It's Hard...And It's Worth It

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Stay Motivated And Excited About Your Confidence Journey Let's face it, sometimes growing and becoming a bolder, more confident version of yourself is hard. Rejection, setbacks, and discouragement are all inevitable steps on the path. Join Dr. Aziz to discover how you can see through the discouraging stories and find the motivation and power to keep moving forward with faith and optimism!

Jul 27, 202219 min

How To Take Things Less Personally

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The Secret To Thicker Skin Are you highly sensitive to the perspectives and statements of others? This may cause you undue anxiety or pain, and to hold back in the long run. Join Dr. Aziz to find a way to take things less personally so you can live your life, on your terms.

Jul 20, 202220 min

In Life Boldness Is Rewarded

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Why Fortune Favors The Bold (aka YOU!) Risk... Uncertainty... Exposing yourself to failure and rejection. No thank you! Actually, is it possible these are GOOD things? Join Dr. Aziz to discover how you can get so much more out of life... IF you are willing to be bold! Click here to learn more about Dr. Aziz's coaching programs.

Jul 13, 202220 min

Stop Trying To Overcome Your Fear

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Drop The Fight And Find A New Way To Be Free Do you want to overcome your fear? Of course, you do! Who would say "no" to that?? However, after helping thousands of people over the last few decades, Dr. Aziz has noticed an alarming pattern of "trying to overcome your fear." Tune into this must-listen episode to find out what to do instead to set yourself on a path of total social freedom. To learn more about Dr. Aziz's Confidence University Program, click here!

Jul 6, 202220 min

100% Willing with Trevor

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How To Quickly Skyrocket Your Confidence At Work And Beyond How come some people seem to stay stuck in anxiety and self-doubt for their entire lives, and others make a radical change to become confident, free humans? Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews a highly successful student of his Unstoppable Confidence Mastermind to discover the fast track to creating confidence and lasting success now.   Discover Dr. Aziz's Life Changing Confidence Mastermind

Jun 29, 202251 min

Stop Telling Yourself You're Boring

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How To Eliminate This Confidence-Killing Habit Now Do you think you're boring? Do you discount your own experience, imagining others won't find it interesting? Join Dr. Aziz to see what's REALLY going on with this pattern, and how to break free now! To learn more about Dr. Aziz's Confidence University Program, click here!  

Jun 22, 202219 min

How To Easily Approach Others With Confidence

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Use This Secret Technique To Naturally Exude Confidence Do you sometimes feel tense or hesitant when meeting new people or approaching someone you're intimidated by? Join Dr. Aziz in this fun and fascinating episode where you will learn how to use one of his most powerful confident boosting techniques! To learn more about Dr. Aziz's Confidence University Program, click here!

Jun 15, 202220 min

Resolving The Source Of Social Anxiety

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Discover How To Break Free Now In this inspiring episode, you'll discover the true source of social anxiety and how to resolve it at it's core. Dr. Aziz provides humorous and insightful guidance to help you identify why you've felt anxious and how to transform social anxiety into lasting social confidence. To learn more about Dr. Aziz's Confidence University Program click here!

Jun 8, 202222 min

End Your Obligatory Friendships Now

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How To Upgrade Your Social Life Are you energized by your friendships and voluntary relationships? Or are there certain friends or people that leave you feeling drained or otherwise less than awesome? Join Dr. Aziz as he illuminates common patterns of niceness and social anxiety that create draining dynamics in your relationships, and shows you how to upgrade all your relationships now. Click here to learn more about Dr. Aziz's Confidence University Program!

Jun 1, 202223 min

Emotional Mastery - An Interview with Dr. Aziz

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How To Free Yourself From Suffering And Experience The Extraordinary In Your Life Now You are used to hearing Dr. Aziz interview all kinds of experts, but today you're in for a treat! Master Coach Ben Gibson interviews Dr. Aziz himself about his life, how he works with emotions, how to free ourselves of anxiety and suffering, and live an extraordinary life of confidence and joy now. Click here to learn more about Dr. Aziz's Confidence University Program!

May 25, 202253 min

Why Is Rejection So Painful?

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How To Neutralize Your Fear Of Rejection Is rejection painful for you? Most people would reply "no, duh" to this question. But have you ever paused to ask yourself why? Even better yet, have you ever questioned if it HAS to be so painful? Join Dr. Aziz in this liberating episode where you will discover why rejection is so painful...and what you can do about it! Also, be sure to go to draziz.com and click the Events tab to secure your spot for his upcoming Online event - The Ultimate Confidence Breakthrough!

May 18, 202220 min

Be Your Most Confident Self Now

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How To Access Instant Confidence When You Need It Are you currently working on becoming more confident? What if there were another way that allowed you to more rapidly experience the freedom and confidence you seek? Discover exactly how to do that with Dr. Aziz in this episode! Also, be sure to go to draziz.com and click the Events tab to secure your spot for his upcoming Online event - The Ultimate Confidence Breakthrough

May 11, 202220 min

The Voice In Your Head Is Wrong

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How To Overcome Self-Doubt Do you question yourself or predict negative futures in which you won't succeed or find connection and love? Don't worry, you're not alone. This is the voice of doubt. And this is a voice that everyone has. Join Dr. Aziz in this episode to discover exactly how to challenge and free yourself from that voice once and for all. Be sure to go to draziz.com and click the Events tab to secure your spot for his upcoming Online event - The Ultimate Confidence Breakthrough!

May 4, 202220 min