Man Within Podcast

Using a recent case study, today's episode explores the more visceral elements of experiencing freedom from porn addiction. If you are still on the journey, this episode is a must-listen as it will give you a taste of what is to come, inspire you to keep going, and deepen your desire and motivation to reach a place of complete freedom. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Many men mistakenly credit/blame their sexual needs for the sexual (mis)behaviors. "I have needs and they have to get met somehow." This line of thinking is actually juvenile and untrue. Sexual urges and impulses are desires, they are not needs. Today's episode explores 4 core needs that drive much of our behavior and day-to-day functioning. These needs WILL get met, the question is how? It is our responsibility to ensure that we find healthy ways, otherwise we find ourselves mired in dysfunctional behaviors like porn addiction. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Today's episode addresses indicators that DO NOT equate with freedom, while also exploring a few vital metrics that reveal whether or not you are on your way to making a full recovery. The journey to freedom is challenging at times, having a few sign posts along the way keeps us fueled and confident that we will one day reach a place where porn is no longer an issue in our lives. Sometimes, the items we need to pay attention to are not always obvious, in this episode you'll learn the real indicators that freedom is on its way. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

If you live by by man's praise, you'll die to his criticism. Today's episode explains why we must never get too attached to those that affirm and praise us because we never know when they'll change their mind. Using a fresh example to illustrate the concept, this episode explains why we must constantly look to God to receive affirmation and value if we really want to experience security and stability in our minds. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

An author and corporate speaker, Ken Harrison travels the country in his role as Chairman of the Board for Promise Keepers. He is a Colson Fellow and currently serves on the boards of Colorado Uplift and Urban Youth Ministries. Ken and his wife, Elliette, have three grown children and reside in Colorado. In today's interview, Ken talks about why men in today's societies are getting weaker, how to bridge the generational gap, the importance of having God's eyes and heart to see everyone – especially those who offend us, how to handle criticism in a way that is godly and manly, and what it's going to look like in the future for men to experience success at home, spiritually, and elsewhere. This was a DENSE interview with a ton of nuggets, if you have a general desire to become more of the man God made you to be, this interview will have a huge impact. Get My Utmost For His Highest by Oswald Chambers Get A Daring Faith In A Cowardly World by Ken Harrison Check out Promise Keepers Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

There is no recovery without your brain rewiring. Many fail to fully recovery because they make critical mistakes in the recovery journey that prevent their brain from making the necessary adaptations to sustain new habits and lifestyles. While there are many, today's episode explores the 4 most common ones we observe in our clients: Lack of consistency, poor environment management, failing to prioritize, and information overload. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Using a recent experience, Sathiya explains why answering vulnerable questions can be so uncomfortable, especially when we are discussing areas that we typically do not discuss. While it may be challenging and awkward, the pursuit of transparency and vulnerability in all relationships continues to be the key to success in recovery. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Recovery does not only change your lineage in the realm of sexuality, addiction, etc. Today's episode explains why getting free of addiction preserve the inheritance of future generations. We must never lose sight of the multi-generational impact that recovery has. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team

When you become confident in your true self, criticism is inevitable. People will not understand you, they will be intimidated by you, and ultimately, they will find some way to bring you down. While criticism hurts, there are ways to respond that make us better and stronger. Today's episode explains the power of disengagement, and why failing to engage with those who are critical of us keeps us in the driver's seat and allows us to temper our responses to yield a favorable outcome. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

JK Emezi is a certified sex and pornography addiction recovery coach, with over 10 years of experience as the founder of Elevated Recovery. One of the frontrunners in the online addiction recovery space, JK has helped thousands of men ranging from college students to professional actors and athletes experience freedom from addiction using behavior psychology concepts married with biology and neuroscience. In this interview today, JK explains what it was like starting out at a time when no one was talking about the harmful effects of porn, why testosterone will continue to become a bigger part of the porn recovery conversation, the dangers of working with young coaches who are still cutting their teeth, and what the future holds for porn addiction recovery. Watch JK's YouTube Channel PornReboot Listen To JK's Podcast Check Out Elevated Recovery Coaching Follow @jakayemezi on Instagram Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

There are many "secret sauce" elements to the DeepClean system, including geysers, a unique recovery term that our community uses to describe moments, events and dynamics of the past that have contributed to our dysfunction. This episode explains why the first 7 years of childhood matter the most, and why recovering from geysers is the most efficient way to process your past. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Do you feel disqualified to do the things God has called you to do? Do you wonder if maybe sexual sin is simply the thorn in your flesh that you'll struggle with for your entire life? The truth is that God longs to turn your mess into a message that will change lives. Today's episode explains that our role is to bridge the gap between our current mess and our future message by embracing the journey God has invited us to until we are fully free and healed. Book A Call With The DeepClean Team

A man without a vision will always return to his past. Today's episode outlines the balancing act we must perform in recovery – healing from our past and identifying the parts that have contributed to our dysfunction, while keeping our eyes on the prize ahead so that we don't get trapped in trauma cycles. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Recovery is a demanding process, and sometimes, it takes over our key relationships. Today's episode explains how to strike the right balance of sharing about your recovery and healing journey while also ensuring that you are finding other touch points in your key relationships to connect apart from recovery itself. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

After more than a decade in pastoral ministry, Dr. Jake Porter now leads a rapidly growing counseling clinic, hosts a podcast, and works as an executive leadership coach and practice–building consultant. His unique, transdisciplinary model for coaching draws from his research in developmental neuroscience, affect regulation, attachment theory, spirituality, as well as his formal coach training to enhance clients' capacities for connection, with themselves and others. In this robust interview with Sathiya, Dr. Jake deep dives on attachment theory. What is attachment theory? How do we identify our attachment style? What is the link between attachment theory and addiction? How do we "regain" secure attachment? And how do our relationship with others, God, and ourselves play a role in healing attachment issues and recovering from addiction. While there are many aspects to addiction recovery, few are more imperative than attachment theory. So long as you are recovering and looking to have healthier relationships, this interview will inform, inspire and equip you. Get 50% off The Theology of Attachment Webinar with our coupon code: UNLEASH Watch Dr. Jake's YouTube Channel Email Jake Directly Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

The way we handle attractive people in our lives says A LOT about our hearts, our character and our maturity. Many men find themselves either engaging inappropriately with attractive women or just avoiding them altogether, but this is a mistake. God has designed beauty throughout all creation, our responsibility is to learn how to handle it in a way that is pleasing to Him. This is easier said than done, but this episode will provide you with a framework, understanding, and practicalitly for handling the attractive people in your life appropriately. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Life gets busy, and while the message of self-care is clearly important, it is not always practical. Today's episode outlines a very practical way to ensure that you are able to carry out self-care, even in seasons where you have very limited time to do so. Whether you are raising a family, juggling jobs, or just trying to survive the cares of life, this episode will help you get crystal clear on what it looks like to take care of yourself in your respective season of life. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Fresh off a men's retreat in Phoenix, AZ, Sathiya shares some of the main takeaways he learned from a former NFL athlete named John Madsen, a pastor turned Rockstar entrepreneur named Jamal Miller, a 29-year old 8-figure net worth consultant named Brandon Poulin, and Nicholas Bayerle, the host of the retreat. The main takeaways highlighted are the importance of action taking, the power of vision, keys for growth, and what it really takes to unlock your full potential. While these concepts have an application for personal growth, they are incredibly powerful in a recovery context. This episode will explain why and show you how to put them to use. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Processing childhood trauma is an imperative part of recovery - whether you have loads of trauma or just a bit. This episode talks about a guidepost that will help you get started on the journey if you aren't sure how to identify where trauma might be or which traumas you need to tackle to experience healing during recovery. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Tovares Grey is a social media Content Creator that focuses his work on Christianity and relationships. A U.S. Navy veteran, and bestselling author, Tovares started Godly Dating 101 almost 10 years ago as a single individual trying to learn how to date God’s way and help others on that journey as well. Having seen many failed marriages and unhealthy connections that led people far away from Jesus, Tovares has a burden to share with this generation the benefits of honoring Christ in all of our decisions, especially those related to our relationships. In this interview today, Tovares and Sathiya discuss why Christians make dating so complicated, the truth about whether or not it's okay to date while you have a struggle with porn, and whether or not "the list" is a good idea. He also shares some of his own experiences and scriptural insights into what it looks like to date in a way that honors God and sets us up well for a healthy, long-lasting marriage. Listen to Godly Dating101 Podcast Follow @godlydating101 on Instagram Read GodlyDating101 book Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Being "busy" has become a badge of honor in our society, but at what cost? Today's podcast addresses how you can fit recovery into a busy life, detailing the mindsets that are necessary to properly pull it off. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Today's episode talks about how every season and situation has "leverage points" that you can use to accelerate your recovery process. While it is easy to think that if your relationship status was different, maybe things would be easier, the reality is those who make progress in recovery accept their current situation and find a way to move forward. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

"The concepts around emotionally intelligence and emotional focused therapies are often quite liberating for those in recovery, especially if you were taught to suppress/repress/neglect your emotions growing up. While processing emotions is obviously important, is it possible to do too much of a good thing? Today's podcast explores a common mistake men make when growing in their emotional health, while offering keys to finding a happy middle ground to ensure that emotions are valued and validated without become more important than they need to be." Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Handling triggers is the only way you can gain momentum in the recovery journey. Today's episode talks about the importance of setting strict boundaries around ANYTHING that is 'grey' or 'borderline' triggering, as these things often serve as pre-triggers that prime us for more vulnerable states/conditions later on. While it may seem "intense" or "extreme" to have firm boundaries around the people, content, and environments we engage in, there is a GOOD reason this is so essential for long-term success. How To Handle Triggers 101 [Free PDF] Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Curt Storring is a husband of 10 years, a father to 3 boys with another on the way, and an entrepreneur. Through his organization, DadWork, Curt helps entrepreneurial and executive dads become elite husbands and fathers, by making them harder to kill, easier to love, and equipped to lead. In this candid interview, Curt and Sathiya cover a plethora of subjects concerning manhood, fatherhood and faith. This conversation included why men are invaluable for a society to function appropriately, why the toxic masculinity movement has diluted the definition of real masculinity, why men are softer today than ever before (and how to fix this), the reason that doing more hard things actually makes your life easier, and the power of having habits that serve you and your relationships built into your life. Listen to Dad.Work Podcast Download Dad.Work Habits Follow @dadwork.curt on Instagram Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

This episode debunks a common misnomer, "time heals all wounds", explaining why this way of thinking is faulty and offering ways to properly go about the healing process. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Today's episode talks through the three layers of accountability, and it is likely they are different from any pre-existing systems you may have. Good accountability is preventative, focuses on connection, and offers information before its requested. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Real men confront their pain. Today's episode is an exhortation to handle your pain now when it's fresh, otherwise the consequences become much more drastic. There is a reason pain demands our attention, and while it is uncomfortable and unpleasant, facing it head on is always the superior option. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Dr. Eddie Capparucci makes a bonus appearance on the podcast today talking about why men struggle to love, why sobriety isn't enough to repair a relationship and common blind spots men have that prevent them from being relationally successful. This interview is a CLIP from an expert call that took place earlier this year in the DeepClean Community. Typically, this material is only available for paying clients, but we have made it available to you free of charge as a gift for your support and listenership. Enjoy, and if you find value in it, please share it with someone you love. Buy "Why Men Struggle To Love" [Book] by Dr. Eddie Capparucci Buy "Healing The Inner Child" [Book] by Dr. Eddie Capparucci Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Debra K. Fileta is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in Relationship, Sex, Dating, and Marriage issues. She is a passionate author and national speaker who travels across the country spreading the message that healthy people make healthy relationships. Her work has been featured by numerous media outlets from national television to church ministries such as Saddleback Church, Fresh Life Church, Focus on the Family, ChristianMingle.com, The 700 Club, NGEN Radio, KLOVE, and many more. She, her husband, and three children live in Lancaster, PA. In this interview, she and Sathiya talk about red flags when selecting a marriage partner, what "healthy sex" in a marriage really looks like from a biblical perspective, and the practical process for getting your needs met appropriately, even if there is little to no sex in your marriage. If you want to be married one day, or long to have a stronger and healthier marriage, this interview will enlighten and inspire you. Get to know Debra Listen to Love and Relationships with Debra Fileta Follow @debrafileta on Instagram Check out Debra's counseling network Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

A continuation of yesterday's episode, today's segment looks at the importance of identify formation and shifting when progress is made. Once you have identified the insecurity undergirding the fear (as explored in pt 1), it is then time to embrace the new identify that is forming. Failure to do so inevitably leads to relapse and a return to old ways. Listen to Episode 388 - How To Overcome Fear of Losing Progress, pt 1 Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Progress is the name of the game when it comes to recovery. Unless God performs a miracle, the reality is that recovery takes time (and to be honest - even a miracle takes time before it finally happens usually!). Today's episode talks about a common experience many men face when progress starts to take place – the fear of losing it! When you are at rock bottom, the only way is up. When you start to head up, then you have something to lose. For someone who has a history of relapse, broken promises, and cyclical behavior, progress can be scary and fuel the pressure of recovery. This episode provides the first step you must take when you begin to experience this fear, otherwise you will likely revert back to your old ways eventually. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Often, we talk about the importance of asking "What is porn offering me?" from a heart-level/emotional perspective. Questions like thes give us insights into the more fundamental needs that are being met through our sexual behavior. While useful, they also have limitations. Today's episode explores a new question that has a similar effect from a neurobiological perspective – is porn functioning as a relaxant or a stimulant? Once you can identify the role porn is playing in your neurobiology, you will be able to devise appropriate solutions that will keep your brain happy without getting into trouble. Listen to Sathiya's interview with ADHD Expert Dr. Tamara Rosier Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Today's episode explores a statement that is often seen in scripture, "If you love me, you'll obey my commands." While most interpret this as a 'proof' statement – by obeying God's commandments you prove your love for him – this statement also has a cause and effect layer to it. As we love God more, we become positioned to better obey his commandments. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Dr. Juli Slattery is a clinical psychologist, author, speaker and the president/co-founder of Authentic Intimacy. Juli earned her college degree at Wheaton College, an MA in psychology from Biola University, and an MS and a Doctorate degree in Clinical Psychology from Florida Institute of Technology. From 2008-2012, Dr. Slattery served at Focus on the Family writing, teaching, and co-hosting the Focus on the Family Broadcast. In 2012, she left Focus on the Family to start Authentic Intimacy, a ministry devoted to reclaiming God’s design for sexuality. In 2020, Juli launched SexualDiscipleship.com, a platform designed to help Christian leaders navigate sexual issues and questions with gospel-centered truth. Juli is the author of twelve books, including the newly released "God, Sex, and Your Marriage," and host of the weekly podcast “Java with Juli.” Juli and her husband Mike are the parents of 3 sons; they live in Akron, Ohio. On today's episode, she and Sathiya explore the true meaning of Biblical sexuality, and why this conversation spans far beyond "don't have sex before marriage" and "God designed sex, therefore sex is good." Specifically, Juli explains how the broader narrative of scripture enables us to understand more specific scriptures that address matters related to sex, why everything in creation is designed to reveal God (sex included), and how a Biblical approach to sex permits us to embrace our sexuality rather than avoid it. In the second half, the interview talks about how leaders can both get the help they deserve while also helping those in their realm of care and responsibility get the help they deserve. Dr. Juli is a wealth of knowledge – if you have any interest in better understanding your sexuality through a biblical lens, this episode was made for you. Find out more about Authentic Intimacy Leaders Resources for Sexual Integrity Attend Reclaim Conference Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse

Too many men make the mistake of asking "What can I get away with?" when it comes to recovery. The real question should be, "How is this done in the best way possible?" By shifting the question, our brains become more open to solutions, we become more determined to face our outcome, and we are able to stay on course on the road to recovery. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow @sathiyamesam on Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok, and YouTube

There are hundreds of recovery solutions available at your fingertips in today's day and age, both digital and in-person. Today's episode explores the necessary elements your recovery should include if you want to get long-term results. This episode in no way promotes ANY program (including my own), but instead uses research findings to identify the key components of an effective solution, including several touch points, a track record with people like you, specialization, and high patient-client trust. If you are still seeking the right solution, this episode will provide great clarity. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow @sathiyamesam on Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok, and YouTube

In these harder times, many seem to find themselves overwhelmed. Finances are tight, jobs are uncertain, relationships are strained, and confidence is low. While the messaging to our brains and bodies amidst overwhelm is "I can't handle this", nothing could be further from the truth. Today's episode uses personal examples of Sathiya's life to demonstrate the 2 essential skills you must have if you want to handle overwhelm and come out on top. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow @sathiyamesam on Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok, and YouTube

A continuation from Episode 379, today's episode offers multiple ways that you can generate income to fund your recovery. This includes capitalizing on pre-existing platforms, leveraging existing skills and talents you already have, riding market trends, and using your physical strength and capabilities. If you want to make a recovery but are lacking the finances to do so, this episode is for you. Listen to Episode 379 - Creative Ways To Fund Your Recovery (or anything else), pt 1: Finding Hidden Money Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow @sathiyamesam on Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok, and YouTube

Yigal Adato is a serial entrepreneur, leadership expert, and girl dad extraordinaire. While Yigal has helped CEOs, entrepreneurs, and leaders around the world grow in leading their teams, he has equal expertise helping individual push themselves to new heights, step further into their calling, and find ways to take life by the horns. In this power-packed interview, he shares about keys for self-leadership, why many men set goals in their life and never achieve them, and keys to unlocking the leader that exists within each and every single person. If you have set out to achieve anything in your life - whether its a recovery, growing spiritually, gaining/losing weight, or leading a team at church/work/elsewhere, this episode will provide valuable insights in how to take your next step. Get Your Copy of Unlock The Leader Follow Yigal on Instagram Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow @sathiyamesam on Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok, and YouTube

Money is one of the main reasons men do not obtain the recovery that they so rightly deserve. In times where inflation is high, interest rates are high, layoffs are on the rise, and funds are right, how exactly should someone even go about investing in recovery? Today's episode explores how to evaluate the priority of recovery in your life, the importance of understanding the long-term consequences of not recovering, and some practical ways that you can find "hidden" money. If you follow the tools provided in this episode today, you could find as much as $1000 USD/month extra to help fund your recovery efforts. Listen to Episode 381 - Creative Ways To Fund Your Recovery (or anything else), pt 2: Generating Income on Friday Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow @sathiyamesam on Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok, and YouTube

There is no mistaking the truth that we all have role models in our lives – some by intention and others without it. Today's episode explores the necessity for quality role models in our lives, especially in the areas where we are limited, while also exploring the importance we must place on our own development so that we can become role models for those in our lives. Follow Sathiya on Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok, and YouTube Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse

"Today's episode explores the inextricable link between fear and anxiety. Often when we experience anxiety in our lives, it is undergirded by real or perceived fear. Our responsibility is to disarm the panic, lean in, and ask ourselves: ""What am I afraid of?"" Today's episode walks you through an easy way to do this, offering simple insights for tackling anxiety head on." Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Self-love has become a mainstream term, often referring to prioritizing one's well-being to avoid compassion fatigue, burnout, and low self-esteem. Today's episode challenges this concept with a deeper layer of the subject: Self-like. While we can all learn to love ourselves in principle, learning to like ourselves is a much deeper level of self-approval, but it also requires much more work. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse

Roughly 10% of men and 14% of women admit to having same-sex attraction, yet only a small percentage of each group identifies as gay/lesbian. Today's three-way conversation with Shane O'Neill (Proven Men Ministries), Drew Boa (Husband Material) and Sathiya talks about experiencing same-sex attraction as a heterosexual man, why our binary approach to sexuality often creates a lot of confusion in Christian circles, and why sexual fluidity and hetero-fluidity are necessary concepts for us to truly make sense of our God-given attraction. Regardless of your sexual orientation, this episode is worth a listen if you want to better understand your own attractions, curiosities, and thought life with a Bible-based and research-backed lens. Listen to: Episode 147 - The (Broken) Link Between Sexual Interest and Orientation Follow Husband Material, Proven Ministries, and Sathiya on Instagram Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse

Classic psychology has taught us to encourage positive behaviors with reward and discourage negative behaviors with consequence. While this will forever hold true, today's episode offers a secondary dimension to this principle - rewarding and discouraging mindsets through the same means (reward and consequence). All behaviors are the results of thoughts, if you can focus on mindsets first and behaviors second, you will become more powerful in your execution and more agile in the many seasons of life. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse

While it takes tremendous courage for someone with an addiction to step out and ask for help, it is only one half of the equation when you're married. Often our partners suffer in silence or believe they do not need the help since they are not the ones with the problem. Today's episode explores avenues for healing that are available to partners of addicts, outlining the realities of betrayal trauma and why marriages often are much healthier when BOTH partners receive healing. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse

Temptations are like fire alarms - you can take the batteries out of the alarm, but it doesn't put out the fire. Our response to temptations matters more than anything else. While traditionally, Christians have been taught to suppress and deflect temptations as they pop up, the stronger response is to lean in and understand why it's there in the first place. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Life has its shares of interruptions – some are welcome and enjoyable, others are stressful and unplanned. Today's episode talks about why it is important to keep recovery momentum at all times, regardless of the interruption. Having a mindset that is geared towards momentum allows you to LEVERAGE the interruption to propel your recovery, while ensuring the interruption itself is still looked after. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse

Jeeva & Sulojana same spoke for a grand total of 15 minutes before deciding to marry each other. Eight days later they were officially married. Thirty-nine years and three children later, they are sought-after marriage coaches helping husbands and wives around the world heal and grow. In today's live interview, Sathiya gets a chance to ask his parents in-depth questions about how their marriage came to be, what we can learn from the arranged marriage model in a society that has increasing divorce rates, why trying to be "the one" is better than trying to find "the one", common pitfalls that couples run into, and solutions for any and every marriage to be healthy and thriving. Get a copy of The Unbreakable Marriage: How to stand in unity and withstand adversity Follow @Marriage_Mentors for more updates Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse