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Ep 526526 - Hope For The Hopeless

If you need some encouragement in recovery or would like to hear about how other people are getting clean of porn and other sexual misbehavior, this episode is for you! Featuring 5 different recovery stories, today's episode will inject you with hope, inspiration, and a fresh reminder that recovery is possible for anyone who is willing to put their mind to it. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Apr 21, 202313 min

Ep 525525 - Matt Beaudreau on Limitations of Mainstream Education, Eliminating The Victim Mindset and What Real Manhood Looks Like

Matt co-founded Apogee Strong with Tim Kennedy, a mentorship program designed for young men from 12 to 22 to take on challenges presented by men who have come before them, in order to learn to lead. It is a right of passage through mentorship, action, and self-discovery so that young men can become true leaders. This has blossomed into a mission to bring back classic masculinity in the home, and fueled the launch of the Apogee Strong Dads Program in 2023. As a Keynote Speaker, Consultant, and Coach to organizations around the world, Matt Beaudreau has worked with the likes of Wells Fargo, Honeywell, American Eagle, Cedars-Sinai and the United States Air Force. He has a reputation as a provocative thought leader in educational and personal development practices. He is a two-time featured TEDx speaker and he was named Corporate Trainer of the Year at Stanford University, having spoken to over 250,000 people across the world. In this discussion with Sathiya, they discuss: -Why achieving at a high level from a young age let him feeling empty -Discovering the limitations of existing education systems -Why education is wildly personal -Self-directed school -Parents must be inspired for their kids to be inspired -Physical health is the precursor to mental health -Victim mentality has become a virtue -It's easier to build strong children than to fix broken men -Signs of maturity in men -Signs that a man is truly leading -Creating prototypes for the most important areas of your life -You have to kill the old stuff first before you install the new stuff Find Out About Apogee's Programs Check out Apogee's Foundation Book A Call With Sathiya's Team

Apr 20, 202354 min

Ep 524524 - Money Management and Internet Porn: Why Stewardship Is Vital For Recovery

This unique episode discusses the connection between how we manage money and how it reflects our experience of recovery. Using personal examples, Sathiya explains 2 major lessons around money he has been learning: 1) Systems are everything 2) There's no such thing as spending, and how application of these principles in a recovery context is critical for long-term success. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Apr 19, 202313 min

Ep 523523 - Is Freedom In Jesus Enough?

Today's episode explores the usage of theological truth in a recovery context. While statements like "Jesus is enough for me" are absolutely true, they can be misused to mask fear, insecurity, and pride. This episode will give you perspective on how to know if you are really trusting and leaning into God in your recovery, or if you are simply ignoring solutions in front you in the name of "Jesus being enough" Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Apr 18, 202312 min

Ep 522522 - Combatting Complacency

Complacency is often the result of 1 of 2 things: tiredness or hopelessness. Today's episode explains how to find the main cause of your complacency, which in turn provides clarity on what you will need to do to "snap yourself" out of a funk. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Apr 17, 202314 min

Ep 521521 - Trigger Diggers: Quickest Way To Get To The Roots

This extremely practical episode provides a look into Trigger Diggers – a DeepClean concept that draws connections between everyday triggers and root issues. By effectively using this process, you will get crystal clarity on your root issues in a matter of minutes, while also having an idea of what the solutions might be to move forward in your recovery. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Apr 14, 202311 min

Ep 522520 - Nate Larkin on How Seminary Worsened His Addiction, Why Accessibility Trumps Accountability, and The Unmistakable Link Between Trauma & Addiction

Nate Larkin is a recovered porn and sex addict, the founder of the Samson Society, and the author of Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling Men to Authentic Brotherhood. As of 2023, more than 500 local Samson Society groups have started and thousands of men from around the world are attending daily online video meetings at samsonsociety,org. In this interivew, Nate and Sathiya discuss: -Porn is a maladaptive response to trauma -How a seminary trip to New York brothels with his wife made things much worse -The somatic response in a unique moment of high danger and high pleasure creates a "bookmark" (memory) -In a tug of war between the head and the heart, the heart always wins -The emotional disconnect with wife (Allie) as addiction worsened -Porn programs you for prostitution -Retiring from ministry at 30 due to addiction -Being who you are outside of the church is harder than being who you are inside the church -Experiencing freedom through community -The moment that changed everything in his recovery -Recovery is learning to walk; you may fall down along the way -Relapse in recovery is not necessary but it is normative -Have realistic expectations of recovery: This is a process; -Rookie mistakes to avoid when you start recovery -Why ACCESSIBILITY is superior to accountability -Progressive healing isn't any less miraculous Learn more about Samson Society Read Samson and the Pirate Monks book Read Unbroken Brain – Maia Szalavitz Book A Call With Sathiya's Team

Apr 13, 202358 min

Ep 519519 - Easy Growth Hack: Do The Hard Things First

Today's episode dives into the importance of doing the hard things first, rather than delaying them. Often when we fail to do the things we KNOW we should be doing, we set ourselves up for pain, hardship, and elongated dysfunction. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Apr 12, 202313 min

Ep 518518 - Identity First, Then Behavior

The world would like you to believe that your identity is determined by your behavior, but in the Kingdom of God, your behavior is determined by your identity. This episode explains why you must know your identity through and through, and how to deepen your belief in what God says about you even when you don't really believe it. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Apr 11, 202313 min

Ep 523517 - Defeating Nice Guy Syndrome One ”No” At A Time

Many men struggle with chronic people-pleasing, or Nice Guy Syndrome as Dr. Robert Glover calls it. While seemingly harmless, this insidious persona leads to relationship dysfunction, low self-esteem, and chronic stress — a receipe for disaster if you are in recovery. Today's episode explains how to overcome Nice Guy Syndrome through a Biblical lens, so that you can become the man God has made you to be. Listen to Episode 490 - Robert Glover on Nice Guy Syndrome, 3 Covert Contracts Nice Guys Make, and How To Heal Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Apr 10, 202315 min

Ep 516516 - Easiest Place To Start In Recovery (Alone)

Sometimes the hardest thing in life is just getting started – recovery is no exception. Today's episode provides practical ways that ANYONE can get started on the recovery process, whether they want to do it alone, with a professional or in a community. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Apr 7, 202314 min

Ep 515515 - Dr. Sheri Keffer on Being A Medic, Not A Mechanic, How Men Can Help Their Spouses Heal, and Why Honesty Is The Best Policy

Dr. Sheri Keffer is a regular cohost of the nationally syndicated radio talk show New Life Live! with an audience of more than two million people each week. For over twenty-two years, she’s worked as a Doctor of Marriage and Family therapy in Newport Beach, California. Dr. Sheri is also the Founder of BraveOne.com, helping betrayed spouses heal from their trauma. In this conversation with Sathiya, they discuss: -What it means to be "trauma-squared" -The definition of real intimacy -Being married to a sex addict -Spiritualizing can be a form of denial -Self-deception is just as dangerous as deceiving others -What is worse - infidelity or lying about it? -How NOT to start the betrayal trauma convo -The mechanic vs the medic -Dr. Sheri issues a challenge to all the listeners -Beware of gaslighting -Qualities of a man that can help his woman heal Check out BraveOne Community Read Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal Follow Dr. Sheri on Instagram Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Apr 6, 20231h 1m

Ep 514514 - Breaking Soul Ties, pt 2

A continuation from episode 513, today's episode explains HOW soul ties are broken, walking you through the practical steps necessary to ensure no soul-level baggage from your past follows you into your future. It is highly recommended you listen to Episode 513 first before listening to this episode. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Apr 5, 202311 min

Ep 513513 - Breaking Soul Ties, pt 1

Soul ties are an extrabiblical term that describe the attachment that takes place between two individuals who engage sexually with each other. These attachments can last a lifetime if they aren't addresses, posing major issues for recovery, healthy sexual intimacy, and a plethora of other areas as well. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Apr 4, 202313 min

Ep 512512 - What Happens If Porn Persists Long Enough

Today's episode discusses the top 4 outcomes of prolonged pornography addiction (Infidelity, paying for sex, relationship deterioration and spiritual neglect) and why they happen even though no one intends for them to. This also serves as a reminder for how important it is to be proactive AND preventative in your approach to recovery before things reach more dire straits. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Apr 3, 202314 min

Ep 511511 - Accessibility Trumps Accountability

Inspired by Nate Larkin, today's episode centers around the subject of accessibility and why it is superior to accountability. Accessibility is critical not only for the relationships you have, but also for the way you participate in the relationships. The greater the accessibility, the greater the healing. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 31, 202310 min

Ep 510510 - Benji Nolot on Founding Exodus Cry, The Horrifying Link Between Porn and Sex Trafficking, and The Predatory Nature of Pornography

Benjamin Nolot is a French American film producer, director, and writer and the CEO and Founder of Exodus Cry, a leading global anti-trafficking nonprofit organization. His films and videos have received more than 40 million views worldwide and have been screened for legislators at the highest levels of government in the US, UK, Canada, and Australia. In today's interview, he and Sathiya discuss: -Why he chose to fight human trafficking using film -5 years of studying brothels and prostitution rings before releasing first film -Discovering the massive connection between trafficking and pornography -Prostitution industry is predatory not only preying on women but also men -5 different ways that pornography and sex trafficking intersect -The virality of the Trafficking Hub campaign in 2021 -Creating Docuseries ("Beyond Fantasy" & "Barely Legal") -Launching campaign to raise the age of consent for performers from age of 18 to 21 -Systems of oppression always resist movements of freedom Donate to Exoduscry.org Follow @exoduscry on Instagram Join Abolition Retreat - Lake Tahoe Book A Time With The DeepClean Team

Mar 30, 202355 min

Ep 509509 - Redefining Integrity

Integrity is doing the right thing, and owning your mistakes when you fall short. Using a recent vulnerable experience from Sathiya's personal life, this episode explains what it means to demonstrate integrity when you fall short, something that is often overlooked on the subject. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 29, 202313 min

Ep 508508 - 5 Ways To Stay Addicted To Porn

This satirical episode explains the 5 ways to get addicted (and stay addicted) to pornography. Sometimes looking at things through a different lens can be helpful for gaining clarity on what is really true. Embedded in each of these faux pas are actually 5 key tenets you must have in place to successfully recover. The 5 ways to stay addicted are: 1) Tell No One 2) Set Yourself Up For Failure 3) Focus On Modifying Behavior 4) Keep God Out 5) Obtain A Victim Mentality Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 28, 202312 min

Ep 507507 - Novelty Enhances Pleasure

Few things are more pleasure-inducing than novelty. Today's episode explains why new things often give us that "spark" that we are looking for in life. While this can be good in the right context, it can be incredibly toxic in the wrong context, sexuality being no exception. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 27, 202311 min

Ep 506506 - Two Must-Haves For Quitting Porn

While there are a variety of ways to quit pornography, most successful stories feature two primary components. Today's episode explains why consistency and a proven system are absolute necessities if you are looking to make a lasting recovery, and why if you have one without the other, you simply delay failure. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 24, 202311 min

Ep 505505 - Shane O’Neill & Sathiya Sam on Spiritual Disciplines, Being Made In God’s Image, and Building Depth In Your Spiritual Life

Shane O'Neill (Proven Men Ministries & Host of Naked Gospel Podcast) returns to the podcast for an in-depth conversation with Sathiya surrounding spiritual development. This robust conversation covers a myriad of subjects, including: -The purpose of spiritual disciplines (and why many Christians miss the point) -The real reason spiritual disciplines are necessary for spiritual growth -How spiritual practices foster spiritual formation -Imago Dei and what it means to be made in God's image -The importance of knowing your season in life -The practical of spiritual disciplines -The power of practicing stillness and using the imagination to connect with Jesus -How to fight perfectionism in this area of your life Listen To Naked Gospel Podcast Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Mar 23, 20231h 26m

Ep 504504 - The Dangers of AI and Pornography

With the rapid development of artificial intelligence, a new set of challenges has surfaced in the porn recovery world. Today's episode explains why NOW is the time to quit, as the barrier to have highly stimulating sexual experiences diminishes and the temptation significantly increases with the development of AI. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 22, 202312 min

Ep 503503 - Takeaways From Meeting Jordan Peterson

Sathiya had the chance to attend a VIP event with Jordan Peterson recently. Regardless of how you feel about Jordan Peterson, there is much to learn from a man who is making waves on several important fronts including gender, technology regulation (especially AI), and sexuality. Today's episode features a few major takeaways from the VIP event and why Jordan Peterson embodying his message is so inspiring to the next generation of men. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 21, 202315 min

Ep 502502 - The 5 Ways That Pornography and Sex Trafficking Intersect

Inspired by an upcoming interview with Benji Nolot of Exodus Cry, Sathiya shares the 5 ways that pornography and sex trafficking intersect. While these two subjects are often discussed separately, the reality is they are inextricably linked in rather disturbing ways. By understanding the correlation between the two, you may think twice the next time you feel tempted to watch porn. 1) Predatory nature of prostitution 2) Non-consenting is the norm for prostitutes (and then the films are released online) 3) Child victims of sex trafficking are shown pornography as a way to groom them into sex trafficking in the name of love 4) Pornography fuels men's appetite for prostitution 5) Pornography is created through multiple layers of coercion (not abduction) Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 20, 202316 min

Ep 501501 - 5 FAQs About Recovery That You Need To Know

To commemorate passing 500 episodes of the podcast, today's episode explores the 5 more frequently asked questions in our communities surrounding recovery, including: -How do I talk to people about my struggle? -How long does it take to recover? -What does it mean to address the roots? -Should I have an internet filter while I recover? -Is it ok for my wife to be my accountability partner? Submit Your Questions to [email protected] - Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 17, 202312 min

Ep 500500 - Shawn & Helena Bonneteau on Idolizing Recovery, How Brutal Honesty Saved Their Marriage, and Why Feeling Wanted Is Irresistible

Shawn and Helena Bonneteau have played a helping hand in transforming over 2000 relationships through their coaching services and podcast. Both Shawn and Helena struggled with an addiction to porn and masturbation and by the grace of God are now celebrating over 5 years of freedom individually and as a couple. Shawn is a certified Inner Child Recovery Specialist and together, they are certified sexual addiction mentors and certified Husband Material coaches. In today's interview, Shawn, Helena & Sathiya discuss: -How Shawn quit p*rn on his 25th birthday -Helena's own struggle with porn problem and abusive relationships (which were influenced by porn) -Shawn totally botching the disclosure process -Something felt off when they started having sex in their marriage -Everything blew up in one big conversation when they were both finally honest with each other about their struggles -How journaling rescued Shawn's recovery -Helena's journey through betrayal trauma with a close friend -Why they both watched porn: Distance (emotionally & physically) from parents; porn was a 'soother' and provided worth/feeling of desired -Women are not expecting perfection, but they are expecting honesty, otherwise they feel disrespected -At 3 year mark into Shawn's recovery is when Helena had a day where there were no triggers -Why intimate knowledge of one another is necessary to build trust -Recovery can become an idol — don't get caught up into just "doing the stuff", make sure you're actually applying the work Listen To The Secret Habit Podcast Join Secret Habit Community Listen to Episode 149 - Shawn Bonneteau on Dealing With Erectile Dysfunction, Experiencing Betrayal Trauma As A Man, and How To Design A Sexual Template Book A Time With The DeepClean Team

Mar 16, 20231h 6m

Ep 499499 - Uncovering Your Holy Identity, pt 2

Continuing from yesterday's episode, today's episode explains why the work of Christ on the cross affords us the opportunity to be holy. When we understand that holiness is our identity, not just an instruction, rather than trying to acquire holiness we learn to uncover it. Listen to Episode 499 - Uncovering Your Holy Identity, Pt 1 Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 15, 202313 min

Ep 498498 - Uncovering Your Holy Identity, pt 1

In part 1 of this 2-part series, Sathiya explains why holiness will be the focus of the next major move of God, and why men should be at the forefront. Today's episode defines holiness, provides a practical metaphor to understand it through a biblical lens, and explains why we must walk in holiness to truly be our best selves. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 14, 202313 min

Ep 497497 - Are Sexual ”Needs” Really A Thing?

Everyone has needs – fundamental desires that must be met for our survival and success. While many men claim to have sexual "needs" that must get met in their relationships or otherwise, today's episode explains why this kind of language is not only dangerous, but damaging. When we view our sexual desires for what they really are, we are able to stay in greater control and steward our sexuality in a way that is honoring to God. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 13, 202314 min

Ep 496496 - Is Recovery An Idol In Your Life?

Anything can become an idol in our lives and recovery is no exception. Sparked by a recent interview with Shawn Bonneteau, Sathiya explains why we must ensure we keep Jesus at the center of all our efforts, and recovery as a second priority; never the other way around. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 10, 202312 min

Ep 495495 - Bryan & Bonnie Pue on Wholistic Sexuality, Raising Porn-Resistant Kids, and The Beauty of Sex

Bryan & Bonnie Pue are the founders of The Union Movement, an organization that helps people find wholeness by presenting a gospel-centered, holistic approach to the topics of identity, sexuality, and relationships. They regularly develop resources, speak at events, and support local churches and leaders who desire to cultivate healthy sexual cultures. In this interview, the Pues and Sathiya discuss: -What a "holistic approach" to sexuality really means -Why the Gospel focuses on body, soul and spirit -The necessity of holding grace and truth in tension -The local church is often intimidated about sexual subjects because of cancel culture, being labeled bigots', etc.. -Gender is binary -How to get your local church talking about more sensitive subjects -We must equip the saints (moms, dads, uncles, aunts, grandmas, grandpas) to look after their kids -Raise kids to be protectors of women, not consumers; this can be taught -Sexuality is beautiful — people have a hard time getting a hold of this – it's a gift from God! Sexual Health Evaluation For Churches Follow The Union Movement on Instagram Listen To The Union Movement Podcast Free Course For Talking To Your Kids About Sex (Awkward Course) Book A Time With The DeepClean Team

Mar 9, 202355 min

Ep 494494 - Give Yourself Some Credit!

The beauty of technology is that it has made our lives more convenient in so many ways. We no longer to have to memorize phone numbers or directions because our devices look after these things for us. But is that really a benefit or is it making us dumber and lazier? Today's episode explains why we must remove crutches in our lives that ultimately hinder us from tapping into our full potential, and how to identify them. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 8, 202311 min

Ep 493493 - 4 Things John Bevere Taught Me

John Bevere is a respected Bible teacher and preacher. Sathiya had the privilege of sitting under his teaching in a private environment recently. Today's episode features some of the major takeaways from this experience, including the following: -Why you need the anointing to be effective in ALL areas of life (not just ministry) -To tolerate sin is to minimize and reduce the anointing on your life -You must fear God if you do not want to tolerate sin -The unseen gift is better than the seen; do not underestimate your calling just because it is not on a stage Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 7, 202312 min

Ep 492492 - Can You Lead While Struggling?

It is one thing to struggle, but it is another thing to be a struggling leader. Today's episode explains why EVERY man is a leader, and that when you are in leadership you have to take careful consideration to how you manage your responsibilities while you are in recovery. This is a nuanced topic with a lot of moving parts, but with the right guidance, it starts to become pretty clear whether or not you can lead in your respective position as you pursue recovery. Listen to 53 - Every Man Is A Leader Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 6, 202314 min

Ep 491491 - Feeling Unwanted? Try this.

Unwanted-ness is one of the leading causes of all sexual misbehavior. Using a recent personal story, Sathiya explains how he is working through feelings of unwanted-ness and some of the strategies that are helping his clients in this area as well. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 3, 202315 min

Ep 490490 - Robert Glover on Nice Guy Syndrome, 3 Covert Contracts Nice Guys Make, and How To Heal

Dr. Robert Glover, coach, speaker, and educator is a relationship expert with over 40 years of professional experience. The author of the groundbreaking, No More Mr. Nice Guy, the best-selling Dating Essentials for Men, and the recently released, Dating Essentials for Men: Frequently Asked Questions, Dr. Glover has helped thousands of men world-wide get what they want in love, sex, and life. In today's interview, he and Sathiya discuss: -Why misunderstood Biblical concepts can lead to nice guy syndrome -The temperament of a prototypical nice guy -The 3 covert contracts every nice guy makes -The only two options for sexual behavior when you are a nice guy -The role of shame and anxiety in nice guy syndrome -5 things you must do to recover from nice guy syndrome -How to raise kids that don't become ""nice guys" Learn More About Dr. Glover integrationnation.net Subscribe to Dr. Robert Glover on YouTube channel Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Mar 2, 20231h 13m

Ep 489489 - How To Survive Difficult Seasons

In this thing called life, you will likely encounter a difficult season ever now and then. Today's episode talks about how we can survive difficult seasons, using James 1 as a guide text. You must not make the mistake of rushing through trial, lest you lose on the opportunity to grow character, perseverance, hope and patience. Rather, it is about learning to count it joy in all things that enables us to turn trials into fantastic victories. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Mar 1, 202314 min

Ep 488488 - Make Sure You’re Wearing The Right Armour

Using the story of David & Goliath, today's episode explores why it is so important to find a solution that fits you. When we try to wield the weapons of others, we often become ineffective and incapable of reaching our goals in life. While it takes a bit of trial and error, when you find the right weapons, you become unstoppable. Ready to conquer whatever the Goliath may be in your life. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Feb 28, 202313 min

Ep 487487 - 5 Common Mistakes Men Make In Recovery

We've seen a lot of men make a lot of different mistakes over the years in recovery. If you are still pursuing full freedom, today's episode will help you avoid 5 of the most common mistakes that men make in this area. 1) Doing it alone 2) Monitor progress on the insignificant 3) Failing to focus on the internal 4) Getting ahead of themselves 5) Poor problem-solving Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Feb 27, 202315 min

Ep 486486 - Casting Vision For Your Porn-Free Life

Where there is no vision, the people perish. Today's episode explains why having a vision for your life when you're porn-free is imperative for you to stay on track throughout the rather tumultuous recovery journey. Using specific examples, this podcast will help you better understand why it is so easy to lose sight of the things God has called us to, and how we can keep it our central focus no matter what recovery throws your way. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Feb 24, 202317 min

Ep 485485 - Laura Howe on Why The Church Won’t Talk About Mental Illness, Burnout Prevention, and Why Resilience Is Necessary For Mental Well-Being

Laura Howe is a registered Social Worker with 13 years experience as a frontline social worker offering therapy, advocacy, and addictions counseling to some of the most marginalized, ill and incredible people in her community. She started an organization called Hope Made Strong to equip the church to better address mental illness and to bridge local communities with the local church. In this conversation, Laura and Sathiya discuss: -Why the church has been slow to discuss mental health openly -Thoughts lead to feelings which lead to behavior -The definition of burnout -How to prevent burnout -Handling church hurt -7 ways to build resilience Find Out More About Hope Made Strong Mental Health Sunday Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Feb 23, 202350 min

Ep 484484 - Residual Habits: The Reason You Keep Losing Momentum

Continuing from Episode 484, today's episode talks about residual habits and the dangerous role they play in our recovery. Our habits, rhythms and routines must always serve a purpose. However, as seasons change, sometimes habits become irrelevant or unnecessary but we continue them without realizing it. It is important to regularly take inventory, evaluate, and assess our rhythms to ensure that our practices are aligned with the priorities of the season we are in. Without this process in place, we risk maintaining habits that ultimately dwindle our momentum in recovery. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Feb 22, 202312 min

Ep 483483 - If You Don’t Understand Momentum, You Don’t Understand Recovery

In recovery, it is easy to get caught up in the tools, tactics and techniques necessary to reach a place of freedom. While they are important, often times it is the intangibles that make the greatest difference. Today's episode explains why momentum is EVERYTHING in recovery, and why you must steward it appropriately in order to reach your goals. Sometimes it may involve what some consider to be "extreme" measure, but when you view these measures in the context of pursuing momentum, not only do they become reasonable, they become necessary. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Feb 21, 202315 min

Ep 482482 - Beware The Flatline

Flatlining refers to a period of recovery where you feel numb, apathetic and lethargic. It is often time a part of the earlier phases of recovery when you begin to go longer than usual without a relapse. Today's episode explains flatlining in more detail, offers insights into what is taking place in the brain and body when it takes place, and provides you with useful ways to "leverage" what is an otherwise difficult part of the recovery journey. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Feb 20, 202311 min

Ep 481481 - God Loves The Sinner, But Hates The Sin?

In today's episode, Sathiya throws stones at the phrase "God loves the sinner, but hates the sin" While this statement certainly has truth to it, its usage comes with a lot of risks. Two in particular are addressed: 1) Using this to justify the continuation of sin in our lives 2) Implying the identity of a sinner, rather than that of a saint Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Feb 17, 202310 min

Ep 480480 - Chandler Rogers on Why Digital Communities Are So Powerful, Shame-Based Accountability, and The Development of Relay App

After years of struggling in isolation to overcome pornography and coming to realize the power of peer-based support, Chandler Rogers founded Relay — an app that helps people stay connected and accountable along the road to recovery. Chandler, 25, graduated from BYU in Business Strategy and Computer Science and lives with his wife in Salt Lake City, UT. In this discussion, he and Sathiya discuss: -Why community is so important for recovery -The reason communities are becoming more digital in today's age -The wisdom required to involve phone apps in your recovery journey -Shame-free accountability -The importance in being accountable for behaviors beyond the addiction itself -The development of Relay app and why it is having such an impact Check Out Relay App Follow @joinrelay on Instagram and TikTok Email Chandler Rogers at [email protected] Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Feb 16, 202344 min

Ep 479479 - How To Handle Recurring Trauma

We know that working through trauma is an important part of the recovery journey. But what happens when no matter what you try, you can't seem to move on? Are you just hopelessly stuck with trauma forever? What if the traumatic situation is ongoing? Today's episode addresses both matters while providing 3 things you can do immediately to change your situation. 1) Give It To God (the right way) 2) Try Something New - You can't expect different results doing the same things 3) Be Patient - Trauma recovery can take 5-10 years Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Feb 14, 202313 min

Ep 478478 - Make This Your Best Valentine’s Day Yet

Today's episode is for both singles and those in relationships. While some loathe Valentine's Day, the reality is that they matter. You will learn how to approach valentine's day in a health way, while learning how NOT to handle his holiday based on a epic fail Sathiya shares from his personal life. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Feb 14, 202312 min

Ep 477477 - 7 Things That 7 Years of Freedom Taught Me

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