
Man Within Podcast
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Ep 538538 - The REAL Definition of Freedom
Freedom is thrown around today in various contexts - human rights, finances, and of course, recovery. Today's episode distills the most crucial elements of this subject to better give a framework of what it looks like to genuinely walk in Biblical freedom. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 537537- How To Tell Your Girlfriend You Struggle With Porn
Today's episode is for those of you who are dating someone you really care about, but you haven't had the chance to tell them about your struggle with sexual sin. This whole subject starts first with the correct mindset, setting expectations, and having a good understanding of your significant other's perspective. From there, you can get into the more practical components, essentially addressing the importance of HOW you share (not necessarily when). Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 536536 - Getting The Most Out of A Coaching Experience
We all need coaching, period. Whether it's faith, fitness, relationships or recovery, coaching is invaluable to help us grow and learn in the most effective and efficient way possible. This episode explains why coaching is so imperative for any man to become his full self and specific practicals for getting the most out of a coaching experience. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 535535 - John Harvey on Raising An Army of 21,000 Men, Why Friendship Changes Everything, and The Key To True Success As A Man
John Harvey set out to create a community of men that would have a safe, open place to share with each other. He had no idea just how much it was going to take off. Today, John has over 500,000 followers across several platforms, including a community of 21,000 courageous men making an earnest effort to improve every area of their life called King's Community. In this interview with Sathiya, John & Sathiya discuss: -How to create spaces for men to share openly and vulnerably -John's struggle with his weight and suicidality that resulted -Why finding real friends changed everything -#1 struggle in King's Community is porn addiction, #2 is relationship struggles -Mental, physical and relational well-being are all tied together -Healing always starts with de-shaming/sharing story -The challenge of finding mentors -No one is successful alone Follow King's Community on Instagram Follow King's Community on TikTok
Ep 534534 - The Reason This Season Feels So Painful
If you have found this season to be difficult, requiring major sacrifices and submissions on your part, you are not alone. Today's episode explains why God is pruning and purging men around the world to help us step into the fullness of our identity and calling. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 533533 - Weaning or Cold Turkey? Best Approach For Quitting
If we are to have a long-term approach to recovery, does it make more sense to wean off of pornographic material gradually rather than trying to quit cold turkey? Today's episode explains why having a long-term mindset is critical for a successful recovery, why a cold-turkey approach is necessary for the elimination of toxic behaviors, and why a gradual approach is more useful for reintroducing behaviors/elements once major improvements have taken place. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 532532 - You Still Matter
Today's episode explores how to find significance in seasons where you lack motivation or a sense of purpose. Using the 4 core needs model from The Last Relapse, you'll gain insights on how to dig into your sense of significance and an understanding of why God is not done with you yet, no matter what you may be going through. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 531531 - Check-In: How’s 2023 Going So Far?
As we reach the 4-month mark of 2023, it's time for a check-in! This is a chance to evaluate your recovery progress so far, identify areas that require more attention and improvement, and create an action plan to course correct moving forward. If you are serious about making a full recovery, these checkpoints are vital. Be sure to keep your answers honest! Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 530530 - Jo Robertson on Teaching Kids To Think Critically About Sex, Why Ethical Porn Isn’t So Ethical, and The Reason The Porn Industry Is So Successful
Jo Robertson is a qualified sex therapist who has completed her Master of Science in Medicine, with a focus on international consumption rates and impacts of porn on adolescents. Jo has trained health professionals, sexual health and sexual harm services, Police and Corrections staff and school communities on research based porn industry insights, the impacts on young people and navigating healthy conversations around porn. Her TEDx talk "Why We Need To Talk About Porn" in 2019 amassed almost 300k views and she regularly speaks on the topic of “youth and porn”. In this conversation with Sathiya, they discuss: -Why the man is so influential in helping his wife/partner heal from betrayal trauma -The reason the porn industry targets children as part of their marketing strategy -The interplay of current events and mainstream porn content -Why filters will never be enough to help kids develop sexually -The importance of teaching kids how to think critically about sex -The improvements of ethical porn and why it has strengths -The downside of ethical porn and why it is still an issue -Jo's predictions on how the porn industry changes over the next 20 years Work With Jo Follow Jo on Instagram Resources For Youth Follow Sathiya on Instagram Book A Time With Sathiya's Team
Ep 529529 - Jealously Guarding Your Most Valuable Resource(s)
If you knew how valuable your resources truly were, you would probably treat them differently. Today's episode focuses on our 2 most valuable resources – the Holy Spirit and time. Once you understand how valuable each of these resources are, it becomes much easier to make decisions and establish priorities in your life. This kind of infrastructure not only ensures you are stewarding your time well, it positions you for continual success in recovery. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 528528 - When Life Gives You Lemons
Have you ever made a plan only to have everything go the exact opposite of what you planned? Today's episode explains why having flexibility and resilience are necessary qualities to make a full recovery. It is likely you'll run into hurdles or challenges along the way, being flexible and resilient not only allows you to hurdle the challenges, it also fortifies the necessary character qualities that will enable you to stay free long-term. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 527527 - Can I watch R-rate movies while I’m recovering?
Today's episode discusses the importance of having clear guidelines for content consumption not only while in recovery, but post-recovery. While it is easy to take your foot off the gas, in the early stages of recovery you must be vigilant about the content you intake, ensuring that you are never "pre-triggered". Listen to Episode 521 - Trigger Diggers: Quickest Way To Get To The Roots Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 526526 - Hope For The Hopeless
If you need some encouragement in recovery or would like to hear about how other people are getting clean of porn and other sexual misbehavior, this episode is for you! Featuring 5 different recovery stories, today's episode will inject you with hope, inspiration, and a fresh reminder that recovery is possible for anyone who is willing to put their mind to it. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 525525 - Matt Beaudreau on Limitations of Mainstream Education, Eliminating The Victim Mindset and What Real Manhood Looks Like
Matt co-founded Apogee Strong with Tim Kennedy, a mentorship program designed for young men from 12 to 22 to take on challenges presented by men who have come before them, in order to learn to lead. It is a right of passage through mentorship, action, and self-discovery so that young men can become true leaders. This has blossomed into a mission to bring back classic masculinity in the home, and fueled the launch of the Apogee Strong Dads Program in 2023. As a Keynote Speaker, Consultant, and Coach to organizations around the world, Matt Beaudreau has worked with the likes of Wells Fargo, Honeywell, American Eagle, Cedars-Sinai and the United States Air Force. He has a reputation as a provocative thought leader in educational and personal development practices. He is a two-time featured TEDx speaker and he was named Corporate Trainer of the Year at Stanford University, having spoken to over 250,000 people across the world. In this discussion with Sathiya, they discuss: -Why achieving at a high level from a young age let him feeling empty -Discovering the limitations of existing education systems -Why education is wildly personal -Self-directed school -Parents must be inspired for their kids to be inspired -Physical health is the precursor to mental health -Victim mentality has become a virtue -It's easier to build strong children than to fix broken men -Signs of maturity in men -Signs that a man is truly leading -Creating prototypes for the most important areas of your life -You have to kill the old stuff first before you install the new stuff Find Out About Apogee's Programs Check out Apogee's Foundation Book A Call With Sathiya's Team
Ep 524524 - Money Management and Internet Porn: Why Stewardship Is Vital For Recovery
This unique episode discusses the connection between how we manage money and how it reflects our experience of recovery. Using personal examples, Sathiya explains 2 major lessons around money he has been learning: 1) Systems are everything 2) There's no such thing as spending, and how application of these principles in a recovery context is critical for long-term success. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 523523 - Is Freedom In Jesus Enough?
Today's episode explores the usage of theological truth in a recovery context. While statements like "Jesus is enough for me" are absolutely true, they can be misused to mask fear, insecurity, and pride. This episode will give you perspective on how to know if you are really trusting and leaning into God in your recovery, or if you are simply ignoring solutions in front you in the name of "Jesus being enough" Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 522522 - Combatting Complacency
Complacency is often the result of 1 of 2 things: tiredness or hopelessness. Today's episode explains how to find the main cause of your complacency, which in turn provides clarity on what you will need to do to "snap yourself" out of a funk. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 521521 - Trigger Diggers: Quickest Way To Get To The Roots
This extremely practical episode provides a look into Trigger Diggers – a DeepClean concept that draws connections between everyday triggers and root issues. By effectively using this process, you will get crystal clarity on your root issues in a matter of minutes, while also having an idea of what the solutions might be to move forward in your recovery. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 522520 - Nate Larkin on How Seminary Worsened His Addiction, Why Accessibility Trumps Accountability, and The Unmistakable Link Between Trauma & Addiction
Nate Larkin is a recovered porn and sex addict, the founder of the Samson Society, and the author of Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling Men to Authentic Brotherhood. As of 2023, more than 500 local Samson Society groups have started and thousands of men from around the world are attending daily online video meetings at samsonsociety,org. In this interivew, Nate and Sathiya discuss: -Porn is a maladaptive response to trauma -How a seminary trip to New York brothels with his wife made things much worse -The somatic response in a unique moment of high danger and high pleasure creates a "bookmark" (memory) -In a tug of war between the head and the heart, the heart always wins -The emotional disconnect with wife (Allie) as addiction worsened -Porn programs you for prostitution -Retiring from ministry at 30 due to addiction -Being who you are outside of the church is harder than being who you are inside the church -Experiencing freedom through community -The moment that changed everything in his recovery -Recovery is learning to walk; you may fall down along the way -Relapse in recovery is not necessary but it is normative -Have realistic expectations of recovery: This is a process; -Rookie mistakes to avoid when you start recovery -Why ACCESSIBILITY is superior to accountability -Progressive healing isn't any less miraculous Learn more about Samson Society Read Samson and the Pirate Monks book Read Unbroken Brain – Maia Szalavitz Book A Call With Sathiya's Team
Ep 519519 - Easy Growth Hack: Do The Hard Things First
Today's episode dives into the importance of doing the hard things first, rather than delaying them. Often when we fail to do the things we KNOW we should be doing, we set ourselves up for pain, hardship, and elongated dysfunction. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 518518 - Identity First, Then Behavior
The world would like you to believe that your identity is determined by your behavior, but in the Kingdom of God, your behavior is determined by your identity. This episode explains why you must know your identity through and through, and how to deepen your belief in what God says about you even when you don't really believe it. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 523517 - Defeating Nice Guy Syndrome One ”No” At A Time
Many men struggle with chronic people-pleasing, or Nice Guy Syndrome as Dr. Robert Glover calls it. While seemingly harmless, this insidious persona leads to relationship dysfunction, low self-esteem, and chronic stress — a receipe for disaster if you are in recovery. Today's episode explains how to overcome Nice Guy Syndrome through a Biblical lens, so that you can become the man God has made you to be. Listen to Episode 490 - Robert Glover on Nice Guy Syndrome, 3 Covert Contracts Nice Guys Make, and How To Heal Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 516516 - Easiest Place To Start In Recovery (Alone)
Sometimes the hardest thing in life is just getting started – recovery is no exception. Today's episode provides practical ways that ANYONE can get started on the recovery process, whether they want to do it alone, with a professional or in a community. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 515515 - Dr. Sheri Keffer on Being A Medic, Not A Mechanic, How Men Can Help Their Spouses Heal, and Why Honesty Is The Best Policy
Dr. Sheri Keffer is a regular cohost of the nationally syndicated radio talk show New Life Live! with an audience of more than two million people each week. For over twenty-two years, she’s worked as a Doctor of Marriage and Family therapy in Newport Beach, California. Dr. Sheri is also the Founder of BraveOne.com, helping betrayed spouses heal from their trauma. In this conversation with Sathiya, they discuss: -What it means to be "trauma-squared" -The definition of real intimacy -Being married to a sex addict -Spiritualizing can be a form of denial -Self-deception is just as dangerous as deceiving others -What is worse - infidelity or lying about it? -How NOT to start the betrayal trauma convo -The mechanic vs the medic -Dr. Sheri issues a challenge to all the listeners -Beware of gaslighting -Qualities of a man that can help his woman heal Check out BraveOne Community Read Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal Follow Dr. Sheri on Instagram Book A Time With Sathiya's Team
Ep 514514 - Breaking Soul Ties, pt 2
A continuation from episode 513, today's episode explains HOW soul ties are broken, walking you through the practical steps necessary to ensure no soul-level baggage from your past follows you into your future. It is highly recommended you listen to Episode 513 first before listening to this episode. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 513513 - Breaking Soul Ties, pt 1
Soul ties are an extrabiblical term that describe the attachment that takes place between two individuals who engage sexually with each other. These attachments can last a lifetime if they aren't addresses, posing major issues for recovery, healthy sexual intimacy, and a plethora of other areas as well. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 512512 - What Happens If Porn Persists Long Enough
Today's episode discusses the top 4 outcomes of prolonged pornography addiction (Infidelity, paying for sex, relationship deterioration and spiritual neglect) and why they happen even though no one intends for them to. This also serves as a reminder for how important it is to be proactive AND preventative in your approach to recovery before things reach more dire straits. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 511511 - Accessibility Trumps Accountability
Inspired by Nate Larkin, today's episode centers around the subject of accessibility and why it is superior to accountability. Accessibility is critical not only for the relationships you have, but also for the way you participate in the relationships. The greater the accessibility, the greater the healing. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 510510 - Benji Nolot on Founding Exodus Cry, The Horrifying Link Between Porn and Sex Trafficking, and The Predatory Nature of Pornography
Benjamin Nolot is a French American film producer, director, and writer and the CEO and Founder of Exodus Cry, a leading global anti-trafficking nonprofit organization. His films and videos have received more than 40 million views worldwide and have been screened for legislators at the highest levels of government in the US, UK, Canada, and Australia. In today's interview, he and Sathiya discuss: -Why he chose to fight human trafficking using film -5 years of studying brothels and prostitution rings before releasing first film -Discovering the massive connection between trafficking and pornography -Prostitution industry is predatory not only preying on women but also men -5 different ways that pornography and sex trafficking intersect -The virality of the Trafficking Hub campaign in 2021 -Creating Docuseries ("Beyond Fantasy" & "Barely Legal") -Launching campaign to raise the age of consent for performers from age of 18 to 21 -Systems of oppression always resist movements of freedom Donate to Exoduscry.org Follow @exoduscry on Instagram Join Abolition Retreat - Lake Tahoe Book A Time With The DeepClean Team
Ep 509509 - Redefining Integrity
Integrity is doing the right thing, and owning your mistakes when you fall short. Using a recent vulnerable experience from Sathiya's personal life, this episode explains what it means to demonstrate integrity when you fall short, something that is often overlooked on the subject. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 508508 - 5 Ways To Stay Addicted To Porn
This satirical episode explains the 5 ways to get addicted (and stay addicted) to pornography. Sometimes looking at things through a different lens can be helpful for gaining clarity on what is really true. Embedded in each of these faux pas are actually 5 key tenets you must have in place to successfully recover. The 5 ways to stay addicted are: 1) Tell No One 2) Set Yourself Up For Failure 3) Focus On Modifying Behavior 4) Keep God Out 5) Obtain A Victim Mentality Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 507507 - Novelty Enhances Pleasure
Few things are more pleasure-inducing than novelty. Today's episode explains why new things often give us that "spark" that we are looking for in life. While this can be good in the right context, it can be incredibly toxic in the wrong context, sexuality being no exception. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 506506 - Two Must-Haves For Quitting Porn
While there are a variety of ways to quit pornography, most successful stories feature two primary components. Today's episode explains why consistency and a proven system are absolute necessities if you are looking to make a lasting recovery, and why if you have one without the other, you simply delay failure. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 505505 - Shane O’Neill & Sathiya Sam on Spiritual Disciplines, Being Made In God’s Image, and Building Depth In Your Spiritual Life
Shane O'Neill (Proven Men Ministries & Host of Naked Gospel Podcast) returns to the podcast for an in-depth conversation with Sathiya surrounding spiritual development. This robust conversation covers a myriad of subjects, including: -The purpose of spiritual disciplines (and why many Christians miss the point) -The real reason spiritual disciplines are necessary for spiritual growth -How spiritual practices foster spiritual formation -Imago Dei and what it means to be made in God's image -The importance of knowing your season in life -The practical of spiritual disciplines -The power of practicing stillness and using the imagination to connect with Jesus -How to fight perfectionism in this area of your life Listen To Naked Gospel Podcast Book A Time With Sathiya's Team
Ep 504504 - The Dangers of AI and Pornography
With the rapid development of artificial intelligence, a new set of challenges has surfaced in the porn recovery world. Today's episode explains why NOW is the time to quit, as the barrier to have highly stimulating sexual experiences diminishes and the temptation significantly increases with the development of AI. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 503503 - Takeaways From Meeting Jordan Peterson
Sathiya had the chance to attend a VIP event with Jordan Peterson recently. Regardless of how you feel about Jordan Peterson, there is much to learn from a man who is making waves on several important fronts including gender, technology regulation (especially AI), and sexuality. Today's episode features a few major takeaways from the VIP event and why Jordan Peterson embodying his message is so inspiring to the next generation of men. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 502502 - The 5 Ways That Pornography and Sex Trafficking Intersect
Inspired by an upcoming interview with Benji Nolot of Exodus Cry, Sathiya shares the 5 ways that pornography and sex trafficking intersect. While these two subjects are often discussed separately, the reality is they are inextricably linked in rather disturbing ways. By understanding the correlation between the two, you may think twice the next time you feel tempted to watch porn. 1) Predatory nature of prostitution 2) Non-consenting is the norm for prostitutes (and then the films are released online) 3) Child victims of sex trafficking are shown pornography as a way to groom them into sex trafficking in the name of love 4) Pornography fuels men's appetite for prostitution 5) Pornography is created through multiple layers of coercion (not abduction) Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 501501 - 5 FAQs About Recovery That You Need To Know
To commemorate passing 500 episodes of the podcast, today's episode explores the 5 more frequently asked questions in our communities surrounding recovery, including: -How do I talk to people about my struggle? -How long does it take to recover? -What does it mean to address the roots? -Should I have an internet filter while I recover? -Is it ok for my wife to be my accountability partner? Submit Your Questions to [email protected] - Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 500500 - Shawn & Helena Bonneteau on Idolizing Recovery, How Brutal Honesty Saved Their Marriage, and Why Feeling Wanted Is Irresistible
Shawn and Helena Bonneteau have played a helping hand in transforming over 2000 relationships through their coaching services and podcast. Both Shawn and Helena struggled with an addiction to porn and masturbation and by the grace of God are now celebrating over 5 years of freedom individually and as a couple. Shawn is a certified Inner Child Recovery Specialist and together, they are certified sexual addiction mentors and certified Husband Material coaches. In today's interview, Shawn, Helena & Sathiya discuss: -How Shawn quit p*rn on his 25th birthday -Helena's own struggle with porn problem and abusive relationships (which were influenced by porn) -Shawn totally botching the disclosure process -Something felt off when they started having sex in their marriage -Everything blew up in one big conversation when they were both finally honest with each other about their struggles -How journaling rescued Shawn's recovery -Helena's journey through betrayal trauma with a close friend -Why they both watched porn: Distance (emotionally & physically) from parents; porn was a 'soother' and provided worth/feeling of desired -Women are not expecting perfection, but they are expecting honesty, otherwise they feel disrespected -At 3 year mark into Shawn's recovery is when Helena had a day where there were no triggers -Why intimate knowledge of one another is necessary to build trust -Recovery can become an idol — don't get caught up into just "doing the stuff", make sure you're actually applying the work Listen To The Secret Habit Podcast Join Secret Habit Community Listen to Episode 149 - Shawn Bonneteau on Dealing With Erectile Dysfunction, Experiencing Betrayal Trauma As A Man, and How To Design A Sexual Template Book A Time With The DeepClean Team
Ep 499499 - Uncovering Your Holy Identity, pt 2
Continuing from yesterday's episode, today's episode explains why the work of Christ on the cross affords us the opportunity to be holy. When we understand that holiness is our identity, not just an instruction, rather than trying to acquire holiness we learn to uncover it. Listen to Episode 499 - Uncovering Your Holy Identity, Pt 1 Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 498498 - Uncovering Your Holy Identity, pt 1
In part 1 of this 2-part series, Sathiya explains why holiness will be the focus of the next major move of God, and why men should be at the forefront. Today's episode defines holiness, provides a practical metaphor to understand it through a biblical lens, and explains why we must walk in holiness to truly be our best selves. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 497497 - Are Sexual ”Needs” Really A Thing?
Everyone has needs – fundamental desires that must be met for our survival and success. While many men claim to have sexual "needs" that must get met in their relationships or otherwise, today's episode explains why this kind of language is not only dangerous, but damaging. When we view our sexual desires for what they really are, we are able to stay in greater control and steward our sexuality in a way that is honoring to God. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 496496 - Is Recovery An Idol In Your Life?
Anything can become an idol in our lives and recovery is no exception. Sparked by a recent interview with Shawn Bonneteau, Sathiya explains why we must ensure we keep Jesus at the center of all our efforts, and recovery as a second priority; never the other way around. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 495495 - Bryan & Bonnie Pue on Wholistic Sexuality, Raising Porn-Resistant Kids, and The Beauty of Sex
Bryan & Bonnie Pue are the founders of The Union Movement, an organization that helps people find wholeness by presenting a gospel-centered, holistic approach to the topics of identity, sexuality, and relationships. They regularly develop resources, speak at events, and support local churches and leaders who desire to cultivate healthy sexual cultures. In this interview, the Pues and Sathiya discuss: -What a "holistic approach" to sexuality really means -Why the Gospel focuses on body, soul and spirit -The necessity of holding grace and truth in tension -The local church is often intimidated about sexual subjects because of cancel culture, being labeled bigots', etc.. -Gender is binary -How to get your local church talking about more sensitive subjects -We must equip the saints (moms, dads, uncles, aunts, grandmas, grandpas) to look after their kids -Raise kids to be protectors of women, not consumers; this can be taught -Sexuality is beautiful — people have a hard time getting a hold of this – it's a gift from God! Sexual Health Evaluation For Churches Follow The Union Movement on Instagram Listen To The Union Movement Podcast Free Course For Talking To Your Kids About Sex (Awkward Course) Book A Time With The DeepClean Team
Ep 494494 - Give Yourself Some Credit!
The beauty of technology is that it has made our lives more convenient in so many ways. We no longer to have to memorize phone numbers or directions because our devices look after these things for us. But is that really a benefit or is it making us dumber and lazier? Today's episode explains why we must remove crutches in our lives that ultimately hinder us from tapping into our full potential, and how to identify them. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 493493 - 4 Things John Bevere Taught Me
John Bevere is a respected Bible teacher and preacher. Sathiya had the privilege of sitting under his teaching in a private environment recently. Today's episode features some of the major takeaways from this experience, including the following: -Why you need the anointing to be effective in ALL areas of life (not just ministry) -To tolerate sin is to minimize and reduce the anointing on your life -You must fear God if you do not want to tolerate sin -The unseen gift is better than the seen; do not underestimate your calling just because it is not on a stage Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 492492 - Can You Lead While Struggling?
It is one thing to struggle, but it is another thing to be a struggling leader. Today's episode explains why EVERY man is a leader, and that when you are in leadership you have to take careful consideration to how you manage your responsibilities while you are in recovery. This is a nuanced topic with a lot of moving parts, but with the right guidance, it starts to become pretty clear whether or not you can lead in your respective position as you pursue recovery. Listen to 53 - Every Man Is A Leader Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 491491 - Feeling Unwanted? Try this.
Unwanted-ness is one of the leading causes of all sexual misbehavior. Using a recent personal story, Sathiya explains how he is working through feelings of unwanted-ness and some of the strategies that are helping his clients in this area as well. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Ep 490490 - Robert Glover on Nice Guy Syndrome, 3 Covert Contracts Nice Guys Make, and How To Heal
Dr. Robert Glover, coach, speaker, and educator is a relationship expert with over 40 years of professional experience. The author of the groundbreaking, No More Mr. Nice Guy, the best-selling Dating Essentials for Men, and the recently released, Dating Essentials for Men: Frequently Asked Questions, Dr. Glover has helped thousands of men world-wide get what they want in love, sex, and life. In today's interview, he and Sathiya discuss: -Why misunderstood Biblical concepts can lead to nice guy syndrome -The temperament of a prototypical nice guy -The 3 covert contracts every nice guy makes -The only two options for sexual behavior when you are a nice guy -The role of shame and anxiety in nice guy syndrome -5 things you must do to recover from nice guy syndrome -How to raise kids that don't become ""nice guys" Learn More About Dr. Glover integrationnation.net Subscribe to Dr. Robert Glover on YouTube channel Book A Time With Sathiya's Team
Ep 489489 - How To Survive Difficult Seasons
In this thing called life, you will likely encounter a difficult season ever now and then. Today's episode talks about how we can survive difficult seasons, using James 1 as a guide text. You must not make the mistake of rushing through trial, lest you lose on the opportunity to grow character, perseverance, hope and patience. Rather, it is about learning to count it joy in all things that enables us to turn trials into fantastic victories. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram