Man Within Podcast

Teaching out of Matthew 5, today's episode breaks down what constitutes lust, why we beat ourselves up unnecessarily when it comes to how we view women, and why it is the intent of the heart that matters most. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse

Jo Robertson is a qualified sex therapist who has completed her Master of Science in Medicine, with a focus on international consumption rates and impacts of porn on adolescents. Jo has trained health professionals, sexual health and sexual harm services, Police and Corrections staff and school communities on research based porn industry insights, the impacts on young people and navigating healthy conversations around porn. Her TEDx talk ""Why We Need To Talk About Porn"" in 2019 amassed almost 300k views and she regularly speaks on the topic of “youth and porn” In this conversation with Sathiya, they discuss: -Why the man is so influential in helping his wife/partner heal from betrayal trauma -The reason the porn industry targets children as part of their marketing strategy -The interplay of current events and mainstream porn content -Why filters will never be enough to help kids develop sexually -The importance of teaching kids how to think critically about sex -The improvements of ethical porn and why it has strengths -The downside of ethical porn and why it is still an issue -Jo's predictions on how the porn industry changes over the next 20 years Work With Jo Follow Jo on Instagram Resources For Youth Follow Sathiya on Instagram Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Friendships are the plumbline of life. This episode explains how to establish and maintain quality friendships that stand the test of time. Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Edging is a neurobiological process that any man pursuing freedom must guard against. Today's episode breaks down edging, explaining why it is so dangerous, and offering practical ways to mitigate its effects to reduce and prevent relapses. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Without a clear understanding of what a feeling is, we actually further our emotional dysregulation and dysfunction. Today's episode explains the importance of defining a feeling so that we do not make the mistake of justifying behavior, attitudes or actions because "that's just how I felt." How you feel matters, so long as what you are communicating is in fact a feeling. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

If you are interested in someone or currently dating, you have probably wondered when the right time is to have "the conversation" with your significant other. Today's episode provides a framework to bare in mind for assessing the correct timing of these conversations AND to ensure that they are done in a way that is positive for the relationship itself. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Larry Hagner is the founder of The Dad Edge, a movement of fathers around the world who are striving to be better for themselves, their wives, and their kids. Larry is known for providing tactical approaches that help men create communication, connection and intimacy in their relationships, while enhancing their overall quality of life in the process. In today's episode, Larry and Sathiya talk about: -Whether it's worse to have an absent father or the presence of an abusive father -The moment as a father where he realized he had become a monster -Healing from father wounds incrementally -The power of acknowledging your mistakes in front of your kids -Why generative questions create psychological safety -Why you need to turn off ""Dad brain"" to protect connection with your kids -Why your wife should give you bold feedback -Quitting porn gives you time to re-invest back into your family Check Out The Dad Edge Free Courses & Resources from The Dad Edge Follow Sathiya on Instagram Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Focus continues to be the name of the game for the modern man looking to make a difference in this world. Today's episode is a friendly reminder, using personal examples and stories, to guard your focus and make every effort to protect it at all costs. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

At some point in recovery, you will experience anxiety about a relapse, especially as you make progress. Today's episode outlines 2 areas you must address when experiencing relapse anxiety. The first is the real reason for the anxiety. Typically we resort to "fear of losing progress" or something of that nature, but if you dig a bit deeper you often find other areas that need more attention. Secondly, we want to "fear-set" any anxiety we experience, especially when we make progress. What is the worst case scenario? How would you respond? Would you survive? Often fear-setting is exactly what is needed to give us a lift past the obstacles we're facing. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

With the first month of the year coming to an end, it's about time for a check-in. Today's episode explores 3 areas to assess your progress in 2023 so far – metrics, activity consistency, and relapse response. If you have a clear picture of where you stand in these 3 areas, there's a good chance you'll be able to course correct accordingly to ensure 2023 is the year you kick porn once and for all. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Faking it til you make it has little to no value in most behavioral psychology circles. While it is easy to throw out the concept, today's episode explores some of the hidden truth that can be applied to a recovery context. Calling yourself a "free man" doesn't make you free, but asking questions like "What would a free man do in this situation?" and acting accordingly can begin to shape your thinking until you become the person you long to be. Today's episode explains this dynamic in more detail while offering some examples for you to follow. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Today's special episode features Sathiya's wife, Shaloma, on the podcast for the first time! Shaloma has quietly supported Sathiya behind the scenes, but today you get a chance to hear from Sathiya's far-better half. In this interview/discussion, Sathiya & Shaloma talk about: -What it's like to be married to a former porn addict -Why enduring so much hardship during engagement was a blessing in disguise -How trauma played into health challenges -Why upholding firm boundaries during dating/engagement was so valuable -How wives/women should handled hearing about their partner's struggle with porn Listen To Seasons EP by Shaloma Sam Follow @_shalomasam on Instagram Get Your FREE Copy of The Last Relapse Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

The porn-addicted brain often asks "what can I get away with?" We are used to towing the line and playing with fire. Today's episode explains why we must become intolerant to anything that is remotely dangerous to our recovery, otherwise we risk it developing into something that derails our progress and dominates our lives. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Recovery starts as a seed. While many wait until they hit big milestones, the reality is that every moment you are in recovery is PROGRESS. Today's episode outlines 8 improvements you can expect "instantly" once you begin to quit porn. While some of these changes are in seed form, the point here is that we are not to wait until we hit landmarks to deem our recovery "commendable". The minute you begin you must steward the 'seed' form of the benefits that are coming your way. Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Anyone who has had a struggle with sexual misbehavior wants to change things not only for themselves, but for their lineage. Using his own parents' example, Sathiya explains in this episode that sometimes leading by example is the best way to ensure your lineage walks in the freedom you want for them. Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sometimes, recovery doesn't work out the way we intended. Either we make progress but not the progress we intended, we find ourselves in the same situation as when we started, or we find our situation worse than when we started. Today's episode explains what to do in each of these situations, and how to know when to stop and when you need to keep on going. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Heidi is a therapist that specializes in betrayal trauma. She is especially passionate about addressing the specific needs of trauma unique to sexual and relational betrayal. Heidi's work with partners of addicts translates across the spectrum of addiction: chemical and process addictions including sex, drugs, alcohol and gambling. Additionally, Heidi works with depression, anxiety, addiction and transition and with clients from youth to later adulthood. If you are in a committed relationship and struggling with a sexual issue, this episode will give you tremendous insight into what your partner is experiencing and what will be required for your relationship to be completely restored. In today's episode, Heidi and Sathiya discuss: -What is ""betrayal trauma""? -The importance of a weekly check-in -FANOS method and why it significantly improves intimacy and connection -Appropriate boundaries for sex and conversation about the addiction -The imperative value of safety -The best part about going through the healing and recovery process Check Out Nova Counseling Email Heidi Directly Follow Sathiya on Instagram Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

It's one thing to set priorities for your life, it's another thing to execute. Today's episode explains 4 things to consider when you are looking to set new priorities in your life habitually, including: 1) The importance of integrating with pre-existing routines 2) Starting with the one thing that will have the greatest impact 3) Keeping it small and building up 4) Evaluating longevity Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Today's heartfelt episode is a "letter" to the wife of a struggling husband. Sometimes, men do not have the words or the right skills to explain our side, to bring understanding and ultimately provide hope to our loved ones. If you are a man that has been struggling for a long time and you are sick and tired of hurting your spouse with your struggle, this episode is something you should listen to for yourself first and then share with your spouse. This episode provides empathy and understanding to the wives, an explanation of the man's side and why he cannot quit even though he wants to, and recovery indicators that a wife can search for in her husband's situation. Book A Time With Sathiya's Team More Resources For Wives

Effective solutions are always measured by their philosophy/approach to recovery. A challenge many face is choosing something that appears different, when in reality it is the same dogma packaged differently. Today's episode explains what to look for in an effective solution, highlighting different examples of what NOT to do when you are looking for something new. Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Vulnerability is the name of the game when it comes to healing the heart, but what happens when you put yourself out there and feel naked and raw afterwards? Today's episode explains how to go about vulnerability with wisdom, and an easy way to recover/debrief after you choose to be vulnerable. Listen to Episode 12 - Man's Secret Weapon (on journaling) Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sara Makin is the founder & CEO of Makin Wellness, Pennsylvania's #1 rated online counseling company. Under her leadership, Makin Wellness has established a proven track record of successfully shaping the mental health market & driving mental health transformation by executing on their mission of helping millions of people heal & become happy again. She has been featured in major media outlets including NBC, ABC, FOX, The CW, International Business Times, The Scientific Journal and hundreds more media sources internationally. In today's comprehensive interview, Sara and Sathiya discuss: -The prevalence of anxiety since COVID-19 -Simple ways to resolve relational conflict -The importance of being able to label your emotions -How to pick the right counselor/therapist (and how to avoid the wrong ones) -How to know identify a narcissist Find A Therapist at Makin Wellness Listen to Stuff My Therapist Says Call 833-274-HEAL Get Your Copy of The Last Relapse

A common concern among those struggling with sexual sin is whether or not God is holding things back due to their struggle. Blessings, increase, reward, favor, etc. Today's episode tackles the subject head on, using scripture to explain that "acquiring" God's blessings is not conditional upon our behavior, but our ability to sustain them is. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

While there is no such thing as a quick fix in recovery, there is such a thing as concentrated seasons of growth and breakthrough. Today's episode explains how to approach these short term bursts/seasons that often expedite the process, and specifically explains why these 3 things are the easiest way to do so: 1) Cold showers 2) Talking to someone 5 mins/day 3) Eliminate distracting input Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

It may not always feel like it, but the reality is that putting in the work to accomplish ANYTHING, recovery included, is worship unto God. Today's episode dives into the scriptural connection between work and worship, reminding us that in all things we do, we are to do it as unto the Lord. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Regular check-ins are incredibly valuable if you long to make progress in any area of your life, recovery included. Today's rare episode is a check-in to see how you are really doing with recovery so far in 2023 while offering some prompts that may help address any challenges you're experiencing so far. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Seth Dahl is a writer and worldwide speaker to adults and children. He is known for his powerful wisdom communicated through a contagious joy and childlikeness. Seth loves to empower families to build a strong connection that fosters peace and creates a thriving family culture. In this interview today, Seth and Sathiya cover: -How to change your lineage and future generations no matter how badly you've messed up -The difference between discipline and punishment -What it really means to "honor your father and mother" -Why it's easier to raise healthy kids than repair broken adults -The power of hassle time to deal with temperamental children Check out Seth Dahl's New book: Designing God's Home (comes with masterclass) Visit sethdahl.com Sign up for email at his socials @sathdahl on Instagram & Facebook Subscribe to his YouTube channel @TheDahlHouse Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

It is impossible to sin apart from believing a lie. Today's episode explains why our faith in the TRUTH is incredibly powerful and ultimately what drives us to live in a way that is pleasing to God. If you find yourself stuck in sin or unable to make progress, it is likely because a lie has infiltrated your belief system. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Typically when people quit porn or other sexual misbehavior cold turkey, the brain begins to edge. This process refers the brain seeking other ways to experience dopamine/pleasure without 'crossing the line'. Today's episode explains whether or not this counts as a slip, and practical ways to deal with edging in the heat of a moment. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Today's episode explores the concept of having a 'Word for the year' – essentially, a theme that the year will focus on for you. While it is easy to immediately resort to your own desires, wants and needs, the best way to accomplish this practice is by seeking God's insight and counsel. Using a personal experience with God that took place in the night, Sathiya details a process for identifying your word of the year and why this can be so impactful as you pursue your goals. 12 - Man's Secret Weapon Journaling Prompt 1: "What do you have in store for this year?" Journaling Prompt 2: "What is your word over my life for 2023?" Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Your goal should not be to start 2023 clean. That is too easy. The question is how do you FINISH the year clean? And while this require a bit more thought, it just might be the question that unlocks unbelievably clarity on what is required for you to finally quit porn for good in the year ahead. While everyone's journey looks different, today's episode explains that your solution must involve 2 elements: A proven system and consistency over long periods of time. If you only have one or the other, you simply delay failure. Listen to Episode 438 - New Year Resolution Hack: Start Now Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

DeAngelo Moss is a man on a mission to deliver a message of freedom to his generation. Known for his fearless and uncompromising approach to God’s Word, DeAngelo believes that the understanding and practice of biblical principles is the key to living a successful life. DeAngelo is founder of Free By Truth - a ministry dedicated to providing biblically based solutions for overcoming the use of pornography. In today's interview, DeAngelo and Sathiya talk about: - Why how you identify is critical for recovery -The dynamics of freedom -The value of walking in the spirit -Why counting streaks is irrelevant -The unmistakable value of a truth-based mindset Follow DeAngelo on Instagram Follow Sathiya on Instagram Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Using a recent example in his own life, Sathiya explains in today's episode why trusting the gentle whispers of the Holy Spirit can open doors that you wouldn't ordinarily be able to open. This is a great reminder to never ignore the gentle prompts of the Holy Spirit, no matter how unorthodox or unordinary they may be. Buy Porn No More Course Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

In today's episode, Sathiya explains why he only read one book for the whole year, and the dramatic improvements he experienced in several areas of his life as a result. In the age of information overload, practices like these sometimes are necessary to consolidate the information intake, otherwise we risk an imbalance of information and implementation. While many believe knowledge is power, the truth is that knowledge is potential. Knowledge with action is real power. 231 - Why I'm Only Reading One Book This Year (Other Than The Bible) Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Identity is commonly thrown around in recovery circles. We know that if your identity shifts, then your attitude and behaviors will follow. But no one talks about WHY identity shifting is so powerful. Today's episode explains how identity shifts cause changes in perspective, and there in lies the "secret sauce". When your perceptions begin to change, that's when you can be confident that the decision-making processes and behaviors will follow. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Christmas is not wonderful for everyone, but whether you are loving this season or dreading it, today's episode will help you ensure you get the most out of the time the lies ahead. Specifically we focus on 3 practices: 1) Planning for difficult situations that we know we'll encounter 2) Maintaining regular rhythms as best as possible 3) Scheduling time to have meaningful conversation Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Ryan Michler is a husband, father, Iraq Combat Veteran, and the founder of Order of Man. Ryan was raised without a permanent father figure and has seen first-hand how a lack of strong, ambitious, self-sufficient men has negatively impacted society. His podcast, Order of Man, has been downloaded over 20,000,000 times, he has a social media presence of over 500,000 men, and thousands of men have successfully completed his online and live workshops, courses, and events. In today's interview, Ryan and Sathiya talk about: -Why men are starved for community -The difference between being a man and being masculine -How to turn seemingly negative masculine qualities into strengths that better society -The importance of leadership as a man -Why mentorship and connection are critical for a man's success in this day and age. Listen to Order of Man Podcast Read The Masculine Manifesto by Ryan Michler Apply For The Iron Council Get Your FREE Copy of The Last Relapse Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

Attunement is responsiveness to another person. Often overlooked in the conversation around addiction, attunement is an immensely valuable skill that deepens relationship, furthering recovery in the process. Today's episode explains why attunement is powerful and how it can be done well. A = ATTENTION T = TURN TOWARDS T = TOLERANCE U = UNDERSTANDING E = EMPATHY Learn more ways to grow in attunement Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

New Years Resolutions are overrated. Fizzling out after a week, month or quarter, we tend to set lofty goals that we simply cannot maintain or attain. But should we abandon the practice altogether? In this episode, Sathiya shares why he is PRO New Year's Resolutions, offering 4 hacks that have allowed him to maintain the resolutions he has set the last 5 years. They include: 1) Integrate it with pre-existing parts of your life 2) Make it convenient 3) Start small 4) Start now Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

If you are in a relationship and your significant other doesn't know about your struggle, there are only two options: confess or be caught. Today's episode explains that your greatest fears of telling your wife are much less probable when you take it upon yourself to have the conversation, whereas if you are caught, things often become much worse. You will also learn HOW to have the conversation effectively, to ensure that it contributes to the success of your relationship rather than taking away from it. Listen To Episode 290 - Geoff Steurer on Proper Disclosure Protocol, Helping Your Partner Work Through Betrayal Trauma, and Why Restored Marriages Are So Powerful Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

If you are single still and looking to find a girlfriend in 2023, this episode will give you practical ways to do exactly that. Whether you are shy and afraid to put yourself out there, or you are dating all the time but can't seem to find the right person, today's content will give you your next step to ensure that things finally change in the year ahead. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jamal Miller is the Co-Founder of The One University, a community committed to doing relationships God’s way, alongside his wife Natasha Miller. Jamal has been in Pastoral Ministry for over 8 years, graduating from Christ for the Nations Institute with his Practical Theology Degree and Ecclesia College with his Bachelors in Christian Leadership. His passion for marriage and healthy relationships has influenced thousands to do it God’s way! In today's interview, Jamal talks about: -What trips people up from finding a spouse -Why you should become ""the one"" so you can date the one so you can marry the one -The difference between praying for your spouse vs praying for a spouse -Why people are being too picky in today's society -The impact of trauma on our dating experiences -Why you should practice conviction with the Holy Spirit while you're dating If you are single, or you have any influence over someone who is single, this episode is for you! Follow @jamalmiller on IG Pray For Your Spouse Challenge The One University Watch Jamal's YouTube Channel Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

This episode explains why we must know our personal limits (not the limits of others) and always err on the side of caution when we are in recovery. Knowing our limits often causes us to resort to seeing how much of something we can get away with, rather than pursuing what is optimal for our success. Men who truly know their limits will always get the most out of the resources God has given them. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Psychedelics have emerged as the new trendy solution in modern psychology, offering supernatural experiences that allow people to heal deep parts of their subconscious. The question today's episode explores is whether or not the use of psychedelics is an acceptable practice for healing from trauma and past wounds. While this approach may offer an expedient process for trauma recovery and healing, there are dangers that come with any process that bypasses the God-designed defenses of the subconscious and conscious mind. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Today's episode explores the myth of motivation. While we all long to feel motivated to accomplish our goals and desires, the honest truth is sometimes we simply lack motivation. That being said, there are 3 things you can do that will position you to either be motivated more often and/or to persevere when motivation is low. 1) Vision 2) Involving others 3) Set yourself up for success/convenience In this episode, we outline how all 3 play into motivation and perseverance, while doing a deep dive on the immense value of being set up for success/convenience. Listen to Episode 204 - Should My Wife Be My Accountability Partner? Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

You may have heard it said that "how you do one thing is how you do everything." While there is merit to this concept, today's episode explains why this statement ultimately is untrue and some of the dangers that come with it. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Considered an innovative, multi-disciplined thought leader, Dr. Trish Leigh has mission is to inspire you to heal your brain to live your best authentic life. As a double-PhD Cognitive Neuroscientist, Dr. Leigh is on a mission to help people overcome anxiety, attention, and internet addiction issues that drain your brain and energy. She helps people get unstuck and back on track through online education, powerful digital programs, remote neurofeedback and private sessions. In this episode today, Dr. Trish explains: -Why porn addiction is REAL even if academics and researchers disagree -The destructive impact of pornography on the brain's development in adolescence -How brain waves play a role in our understanding of brain health (and practical ways you can improve this area) -Why dopamine is significant for pleasure-seeking, and why we are left feeling numb after we get a "hit" -The 4 D's of dopamine (drip, deluge, drown, and dip) -The reason porn is both a stimulus and relaxant for the brain -How your brain rewires and why it is ALWAYS possible -The process of unwiring, rewiring and hardwiring your brain in recovery -Practical first steps someone can take to further their brain's development and rewire it properly -Why watching "The Crown" is helping Dr. Trish's brain stay healthy and thriving This fascinating conversation will help you better understand why your brain is stuck in cycles and what is required for you form new pathways. Five Terms Used In This Podcast That You May Not Be Familiar With: Neuroplasticity: The brain's ability to change and form new pathways and connections Dopamine: A chemical in the brain that is vital for reward and pleasure seeking BDNF (Brain-Derived Neurotrophic Factor): A chemical in the brain associated with learning, memory and new connections Neo-Homeostasis: The process of creating a "new norm" for the brain/body Therapeutic Alliance: The relationship between a health practitioner and their patients/clients Watch Dr. Trish's YouTube Channel Join Dr. Trish's 90 Day Program: Porn Brain Rewire Follow @drtrishleigh on Instagram Book A Time With Sathiya's Team

This episode is for someone who is in an affair or knows someone that is. While issues like this are very complex and volatile, today's episode is designed to provide practical ways for someone in a situation like this to get the help they need, and ensure the least amount of damage is done in the process. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Today's rather candid episode talks about the practical impact of kegel exercises in developing better erections and more control during sex. If you are having sexual struggles, especially erectile dysfunction or anything related, you will get practical insights into how to strengthen this area of your life in as little as 3 minutes a day. Read "The Penis Book" by Dr. Aaron Spitz Kegel Exercises For Men Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Maybe your wife is your accountability partner (hopefully not). Maybe your wife is really hurt by your addiction and has asked you fill her in every time you relapse so she can start trusting you again. Is this best practice? Today's episode dives into how this aspect should be handled appropriately. You must be in communication with your wife about your issue but reporting every relapse typically causes more harm than good. There are better ways to accomplish this that are better for recovery and for your relationship. To better understand the disclosure process, listen to Episode 290 with Geoff Steuer Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram