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Ep 638638 - How Do I Forgive Myself For My Past

Sathiya Sam discusses the topic of forgiving oneself for past mistakes, whether related to sexual behaviors or other aspects of life. He shares a personal story of dealing with unforgiveness and emphasizes the importance of recognizing the underlying lies that contribute to unforgiveness. Sathiya encourages listeners to replace those lies with the truth and ultimately release themselves from the burden of unforgiveness, reminding them that God's love and forgiveness are always available. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202413 min

Ep 637637 - Do I Really Need To Avoid P, M and O

Sathiya discusses various aspects of sexual behaviors and restrictions while sharing personal life transitions, including expecting a baby and relocating their office. The central focus of the episode revolves around the acronym "P, M, and O," representing pornography, masturbation, and orgasm, and the host explores differing perspectives on these topics within the context of moral and ethical considerations. They emphasize the importance of mutual consent and serving one another in intimate relationships. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202413 min

Ep 636636 - Kanye West, Serial Killers, and Ice Cream Sandwiches

Sathiya Sam discusses the lifelong impact of early pornography exposure on individuals like Kanye West and the link between pornography and violent behaviour, as evidenced by Ted Bundy. It also touches on the host's personal struggle with sugar, underscores the negative effects of pornography on behaviour, and emphasises the urgency of taking recovery steps to avoid adverse consequences. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202414 min

Ep 635635 - Kenny Luck on Being An AlphaOmega Male, Improving Biblical Literacy, and Why Grace Requires Effort

Kenny Luck is the men's pastor at Saddleback Church in California and the founder of Every Man Ministries, which helps churches worldwide build strong men's communities. He's an award-winning author with 17 books to his name, including "Every Man, God's Man." Kenny has appeared on numerous radio and TV shows discussing men's issues and contributed to publications like New Man Magazine. He's a UCLA graduate, married to Chrissy, has three children, and enjoys sports like soccer, mountain biking, and flag football. In this episode Kenny Luck and Sathiya discuss: [00:03:59] Importance of biblical literacy for intimacy with God [00:08:27] Addressing challenges in reading and understanding the Bible [00:10:44] Prioritizing a personal relationship with God over religion [00:12:03] Addressing felt needs in biblical teaching [00:15:15] Emphasizing humility and application in understanding God [00:22:13] Importance of being part of the local church and the body of Christ [00:24:13] Choosing a church that promotes authenticity and helps those who struggle [00:26:31] Introduction to the "Dangerous Good" movement [00:33:33] Restoration of spiritual fellowship with God [00:34:39] Living with sexual integrity and undivided loyalty to God [00:37:59] The transformative impact of the "Dangerous Good" movement [00:45:42] Worldwide impact and goals of the "Dangerous Good" movement [00:46:02] Introduction to the Everyman Ministries platform for men's faith-based content Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202449 min

Ep 634634 - 3 Keys To A Stress-Free Life

Sathiya Sam discusses the topic of managing stress. He introduces three approaches: stress management, elimination, and reframing. Sam shares his personal journey of realizing the stressors in his life and making changes to eliminate them. He also explains how he reframed his view of time and structured his schedule to reduce stress. Sathiya Sam emphasizes the importance of reframing our mindset and seeing responsibilities as blessings. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202413 min

Ep 633633 - How Were You Disciplined As A Child It Might Be The Key To Recovery

Sathiya Sam, host of "Unleash the Man Within," discusses the impact of childhood discipline on recovery from porn addiction. He shares his own experience of being spanked as a child and explores how different disciplinary methods can affect individuals emotionally. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of addressing compulsive behaviors and offers his expertise and resources to support listeners on their recovery journey. He encourages reflection on childhood discipline and its impact on relationships and self-esteem. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202413 min

Ep 632632 - 7 Addiction Quotes That Will Change The Way You See Life

Sathya Sam shares three quotes, emphasizing the difference between addiction and recovery, the need to let go in the recovery process, and the concept of repentance. Sathya also discusses the importance of seeking professional guidance for intimacy issues and offers support and encouragement to listeners. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202413 min

Ep 631631 - What I Would Do If I Started Recovery Today

Sathiya Sam discusses her approach to starting recovery from porn addiction. He emphasizes the importance of community and professional help, as well as the practices of journaling and self-care based on love languages. Sathiya also mentions a special promotion for his program and encourages listeners to book a call if interested. The episode concludes with reminders to support the podcast by leaving ratings and reviews, sharing with others, and subscribing for daily encouragement and insight in the recovery journey. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202411 min

Ep 630630 - Chris Borghese on Building Intimacy At Breakfast First, Then The Bedroom, The Trust-Like Paradox In Marriage, and How You Say Something Matters

Chris Borghese is the President and co-founder of Marriage Insights Institute. He is a Certified Marriage Relationship & Behavioral Consultant and ordained Pastor. Chris has a calling and a passion to see marriages transformed by applying a practical and revolutionary personality mentoring training. He has helped hundreds of individuals and couples get the freedom and transformation they desire. Chris resides in the Austin, Texas area with his beautiful bride Tara of 30 years and has 3 adult children and 2 grandchildren. In this episode Chris Borghese and Sathiya discuss: [03:52] Chris shares his struggle with pornography and its impact on marriage. [08:08] How honesty led to breakthrough and problem-solving. [11:49] Importance of confession and honesty in relationships. [14:40] Navigating differences in personality profiles. [19:55] Understanding relationships through human behavior. [21:05] Eliminating the need for external pleasures. [23:47] Men as spiritual leaders and showing love in tough times. [29:41] Creating a safe space for open conversations. [34:26] The significance of commitment in marriage. [39:36] The role of male friendships in personal growth. [40:20] Authenticity in relationships. [41:38] Continuous self-improvement. [46:31] Prioritizing a strong marriage for raising children. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202455 min

Ep 629629 - Know Your Season or You'll Stay Stuck Forever

Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of recognizing his season of life. He shares personal experiences and insights on knowing his season and offers guidance on how to determine it. Sathya emphasizes the significance of knowing his season to determine priorities and measure success. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202414 min

Ep 628628 - Buffet or Prix Fixé Learning To Use Your Recovery Tools

Sathiya Sam discusses the challenge of navigating the abundance of resources available for personal growth and recovery. He compares it to a buffet or prefix menu approach, emphasizing the importance of starting with the buffet approach to explore different tools and techniques. After some time, she suggests transitioning to a more focused approach by identifying the most effective practices. Sathiya highlights the need to periodically reassess and adjust the approach, and concludes by emphasizing the importance of knowing your season and adapting accordingly. "Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram" Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202411 min

Ep 627627 - Reconceptualization - The Most Important Term You'll Learn In Recovery

Sathiya Sam discusses the concept of reconceptualization and its role in personal growth and recovery. He shares a personal example of how he reconceptualized a traumatic experience to find meaning and purpose. Sathiya expresses gratitude to listeners for their support and emphasizes the importance of ratings, reviews, and sharing the podcast to keep it ad-free and accessible. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202412 min

Ep 626626 - Less Is More

Sathiya Sam discusses the concept of "less is more" and its relevance in various aspects of life. He shares personal experiences and insights on simplifying and consolidating one's life, both on a business and personal level. Sathiya mentions a book called "Ten X is Easier Than Two X" that explores achieving greater outcomes through strategic thinking. He highlights the countercultural nature of the concept, using social media as an example. The episode also features a guest who emphasizes the importance of focusing on high leverage activities in recovery and prioritizing them. The speakers conclude by encouraging listeners to apply the "less is more" concept in their own lives. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202414 min

Ep 625625 - Jon Gordon on The One Truth, How To Combat Anxiety, and Why Everything In Life Is Connected

In this interview, the Sathiya Sam welcomes John Gordon, an author and positive psychology pioneer, to discuss his book "The One Truth." The book explores the concept of oneness with God and others as a way to overcome feelings of isolation, addiction, and anxiety. Gordon shares personal experiences, including his journey towards healing in his marriage, emphasizing the importance of honesty, community, and embracing the healing process. He encourages individuals to seek connection and truth, both with themselves and with a higher power, for ultimate healing and transformation. In this episode John Gordon and Sathiya discuss: (2:25) Inspiration behind the book. (4:52) What does it mean to be one with God? (8:29) Oneness vs. separateness. (11:28) How addiction is like a drug of addiction. (13:37) The creator of the universe. (15:41) A powerful story about the separation between marriage and divorce. (18:40) A prayer that changed our marriage. (21:22) Sharing your wounds. Get Your Copy of The One Truth Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202441 min

Ep 624624 - Why Your Freedom Matters To Your Kids

Sathiya Sam discuss the importance of fatherhood and its connection to freedom. Sathya Sam shares his personal reflection on becoming a father and shaping his son's understanding of masculinity. They mention a recent expert call with Matt Boudreaux where they discussed education, manhood, and their intersection. The hosts emphasize the free resources available on their website to help individuals quit pornography, improve relationships, and find fulfillment. They delve into the importance of stable marriages for children's security and address the responsibility of fathers to do their inner work and represent the values taught in the Bible. The episode concludes with a thank you to listeners and an invitation to download a free e-book on porn recovery. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202413 min

Ep 623623 - 3 Lies Porn Taught You

Sathiya introduces the topic of the three lies that porn teaches and emphasises the importance of recognising these falsehoods to uncover the truth. He highlights the prevalence of porn as an emerging epidemic and discusses the concept of homoeostasis, drawing a parallel with conditioning through behaviours like late-night eating. The influence of porn on perceptions of sex, body image, and relationships is explored, revealing its distorted messages and unrealistic expectations. The connection between porn addiction and male eating disorders is mentioned, emphasising the importance of self-acceptance. The hosts address the idealised notions of sex perpetuated by porn and stress the significance of not falling for these illusions. The episode concludes with a call to seek support and not navigate these challenges alone, focusing on maintaining character and integrity. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202414 min

Ep 622622 - Are Porn Addicts Capable of Love?

Sathiya introduces the topic of whether porn addicts are capable of love and mentions his book "The Last Relapse." He discusses changes centred around the concept of time in their company and addresses a commonly searched question about sex addiction on Google. The episode explores the idea of whether sex and porn addicts are capable of love, challenging the notion that addicts are devoid of love. The recovery process is touched upon, emphasising that addiction is not an unchangeable identity. The hosts express that while porn addicts may struggle with love due to the influence of pornography, they still possess the capacity for pure, genuine, and biblical love once they remove the hindrances. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202412 min

Ep 621621 - Your Brain On Porn

Sathiya introduces the topic of "Your Brain On Porn" and mentions that he works on a course about rewiring the brain. He discusses the lack of recognition of porn addiction as a diagnosable condition in the DSM-5 and reference Dr. Gary Wilson's work on the detrimental effects of pornography. The podcast delves into how prolonged porn use alters the brain and the concept of desensitisation, using examples of sensory adaptation. They highlight numerous studies linking porn addiction to escalation of use, tolerance, withdrawal symptoms, sexual problems, lower arousal, and poor mental health. The idea that the brain can be changed in both directions is emphasised, and the hosts share a personal success story of overcoming addiction. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202415 min

Ep 620620 - Josh Khachadourian on Biblical Masculinity, Why Men Need Standards, and How To Get Out of Ruts In Life

Josh Khachadourian is a husband, father, leader, coach and the author of the breakout best seller, The Standard, Discovering Jesus as the Standard for Masculinity. He has spent the last 18 years ascending the corporate ladder in a Fortune 500 company, where he focused on building high-performing teams and developing best-in-class leaders. He is the founder of Standard59.com and he hosts a weekly podcast called ‘Raising The Standard. In this episode Josh Khachadourian and Sathiya discuss: [0:02] The importance of video and audio. [2:12] The role of a man in the world. [10:55] What the standard is and why it matters. [17:48] Elevating your standard. [26:37] The definition of prosperity. [28:44] How do you know when to quit or stay? [35:20] The importance of having a board of advisors. [36:30] How Jesus has a sense of humor. [37:40] The importance of setting boundaries in place. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202446 min

Ep 619619 - This Quality Guarantees Success In Any Area of Life

Sathiya discusses the topic of a key quality that ensures success and encourages listeners to leave reviews for podcast growth. He emphasises the value of reading reviews and how it contributes to their sense of purpose. The episode discusses the importance of reading books aligned with one's values, sharing examples from various subjects like parenting, marriage, and business. The significance of knowing the source of information is highlighted, with a cautionary tale about not always following this principle. The core message revolves around adaptability's role in achieving success across areas like spirituality, relationships, finances, and personal growth. The hosts share personal stories, including overcoming challenges and being open to change, to underscore the importance of adaptability for success. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202415 min

Ep 618618 - Having Same-Sex Attraction Doesn't Make You Gay

Sathiya explores the distinction between same-sex attraction and gay orientation. He introduces the topic, focusing on helping those dealing with same-sex attraction. The concept of sexual fluidity is discussed, citing researcher Lisa Diamond's work. It is clarified that orientation and attraction are separate aspects, with a reference to popular search keywords on porn websites. The podcast highlights the temptation faced by Jesus and how attraction and orientation differ. A well-known worship leader's experience is shared, demonstrating appropriate response to attraction. The prevalence of same-sex attraction in the population is mentioned, along with clients' journeys of coping and deliverance. The episode concludes by encouraging listeners to conduct their own research. "Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202414 min

Ep 617617 - Here's How Recovery Improves Relationships

Sathiya Sam introduces himself, a porn addiction recovery coach who founded "Deeply In Coaching" to assist professional Christian men in overcoming pornography. The show emphasizes the impact of recovery on relationships and highlights how porn addiction is linked to intimacy issues. The core aspects of the addiction include a deficiency in meaningful relationships, isolation, dysfunction, and disconnection. The concept of intimacy is highlighted as the first pillar of recovery, implying its crucial role in addressing addiction. The availability of the last spot in their coaching program is mentioned as an opportunity for enrollment. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202413 min

Ep 616616 - Protecting Progress Amidst Busyness, Transition & Trauma

Sathiya discusses the concept of protecting progress in the face of challenges like busyness, transitions, and trauma, emphasizing that progress is not safeguarded by merely focusing on it. The parable of the talents in Matthew 25 is used as an analogy, highlighting the importance of learning from others and being willing to try new things for growth. The key to protecting progress is seen in those who focus on furthering it rather than being fixated on safeguarding it. The advice cautions against becoming overly preoccupied with protecting one's business or assets. It stresses that during recovery, the focus should be on advancing rather than worrying about protecting progress, illustrating this with an example related to addiction recovery. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202412 min

Ep 615615 - Eddie Capparucci on Why Men Are Emotionally Immature, Keys For Entering Fatherhood, and The Importance of Stillness In A Busy World

Dr. Eddie Capparucci is a licensed professional counselor certified in treating Problematic Sexual Behaviors. Eddie has worked with professional athletes and television personalities among his many clients. He is the creator of the Inner Child Model for treating Problematic Sexual Behaviors, a unique approach that focuses on identifying unresolved childhood pain points and teaching individuals how to process emotional distress in healthy ways. His treatment method has been endorsed by many leaders in this field. In this Episode Dr. Eddie Capparucci and Sathiya discuss: [0:05] The challenges that men run into relationally while recovering [4:53] The importance of teaching boys how to deal with emotional distress [9:38] How do we deal with disappointment? [14:23] Attachment styles and recovery [19:26] How to deal with trauma [23:33] The importance of setting boundaries [27:27] Practice to practice practice practice [32:28] Practical things men can do to get started [35:51] Being still is not being still [40:06] The value of meditation and meditation Email Eddie Capparucci Receive coaching from Dr. Eddie Book A Call With Sathiya's Team

Jul 24, 202451 min

Ep 614614 - Focus On The Mid-Term?

Sathiya Sam delves into the concept of focusing on midterm goals in addition to long-term objectives. Drawing inspiration from his own fitness journey and observations from coaching clients, he emphasizes the significance of acknowledging and achieving intermediate milestones. By setting and attaining midterm goals, individuals can enhance their confidence, validate their progress, and ultimately pave the way for the attainment of long-term aspirations. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202414 min

Ep 613613 - Someone Is Always Ahead of You, and Someone Is Always Behind

Sathiya Sam explores the theme of perpetual competition in life, drawing from his personal journey of striving for excellence. He relates this mindset to recovery, advocating for authenticity, acceptance, and progress, ultimately urging listeners to value their growth journey. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202412 min

Ep 612612 - Casting Out The Demon of Speed

Sathiya addresses the theme of speed and its impact on personal and professional growth. They express gratitude to the listeners for contributing to the podcast's growth and discuss the challenges that come with rapid expansion. Sathiya explores the concept of the "speed demon" as one of the time assassins in an entrepreneur's life, emphasizing the importance of stillness as a spiritual discipline. The significance of the Sabbath being made for man, not the other way around, is discussed, highlighting the danger of becoming overly legalistic about self-improvement efforts. He encourages the audience to ensure that their recovery and life pursuits serve their well-being, sharing personal lessons on spending regular time in silence and avoiding excessive legalism. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202414 min

Ep 611611 - Is Childhood Really That Big of A Deal?

Sathiya introduces the importance of personal development and growth, sharing personal experiences from growing up in conservative Christianity and being involved in a multi-level marketing company. The focus is on the significance of childhood upbringing and its impact on adult behavior and thinking. While childhood is considered essential, the episode warns against ascribing everything to childhood experiences, especially in the context of porn addiction and inner healing in church circles. The host emphasizes the value of looking at the past to learn and grow without getting stuck in it, advocating for a balanced perspective and the importance of identity restoration. Various resources are highlighted to aid listeners in their personal development journey. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202412 min

Ep 610610 - Crystal Renaud on Why Women Struggle With Porn Too, The Importance of Accountability, and How To Involve Your Spouse In Recovery

Crystal owns and operates Living on Purpose Coaching & Pastoral Counseling and is the founding director of SheRecovery.com, an online ministry helping women overcome porn addiction and other unwanted sexual behaviors. She is also a pastoral counselor, certified coach, author, podcast host, and speaker with over 15 years of experience working with women, couples, and teen girls. She holds a Master of Arts in Pastoral Counseling: Life Coaching from Liberty University and numerous certifications in counseling and coaching specialties from the American Association of Christian Counselors. In this episode Crystal Renaud and Sathiya discuss: [0:06] Crystal’s journey to recovery. [3:32] How she started to seek recovery from porn. [9:51] The female problem of porn. [13:17] What’s driving women to come forward about their sexual health? [18:22] The female experience of porn addiction. [25:23] What is your why? [28:28] Pornography provides a false sense of intimacy. [33:26] Things men can do to make the disclosure process easier. [36:09] Men who find out their wives are watching porn. [42:30] Changes in women’s lives after healing. Check Out SheRecovery Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202454 min

Ep 609609 - Everyone Is Blind

Sathiya introduces the concept of everyone being "blind," not in terms of physical vision but in terms of our focus and what we neglect. The inspiration for this topic comes from Jordan B Peterson's book "The 12 Rules for Life." We all have certain things we choose to focus on, which leads to neglecting other areas and creates blindness. An example of how cultural differences can highlight this blindness is given with a story about food customs. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of compensating for blindness, which can be achieved through learning from others and getting clarity about problems. Podcasts are mentioned as valuable resources for alleviating blind spots and encouraging collaboration with others to broaden perspectives. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202413 min

Ep 608608 - Demons, Trauma & Neurobiology

Sathiya introduces the topic of "Demons, Trauma & Neurobiology." A story is shared about a man named Mark who was diagnosed with deep vein thrombosis. The importance of clearly articulating problems and seeking proper medical advice is emphasized. The episode discusses three areas where causal elements often exist: spiritual, psychological, and physical. These areas are explored as potential root elements affecting individuals. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202413 min

Ep 607607 - Busyness Is Not A Solution

Sathiya welcomes the audience and shares a recap of his trip to Atlanta. The main topic of discussion is busyness, which is seen as a widespread issue related to porn addiction and other behaviors. Sathiya mentions a book called "The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry" by John Mark Comer, which has had a significant impact on his life. Busyness is described as a facade and not a real solution to life's challenges. It is linked to chaos and franticness and is viewed as a spiritual and discipleship issue. The audience is encouraged to embrace rest and not settle for busyness as a solution to their problems. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202413 min

Ep 606606 - The Role of Faith In Recovery

Sathiya delves into the role of faith in the recovery process for men seeking to fulfill their purpose and dreams. He emphasizes the importance of having a sense of purpose and values, regardless of one's religious beliefs. The impact of addiction on self-esteem and hopelessness is discussed, along with the significance of meaningful connections in fostering spiritual growth. Sathiya highlights that a spiritual life and a sense of connectedness to a higher power are vital for a profound recovery experience. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202410 min

Ep 605605 - Thomas Williams on Finding Your Greatness, Healthy Competition and The Power of Positive Peer Pressure

Thomas R. Williams is an author, former NFL player, consultant, and speaker. He ignites and inspires people to embrace their own greatness. Thomas combines his natural infectious energy, inspiration, and openness to connect with audiences. He helps organizations become more productive and profitable by refocusing on a shared vision and embracing the principles of Positive Leadership. Thomas works with universities, organizations, adults and youth helping them get from where they are to where they want to be. Thomas R. Williams and Sathiya discuss: [3:00] What led him to do this kind of work now [8:01] What would you say to someone with no skills? [10:41] The thing that brings you to life. [16:45] What does it look like when people maximize their mindset? [20:01] We're going to go for it. [25:57] The importance of culture and positive peer pressure. [28:26] Positive peer pressure and the pursuit of greatness. [34:26] How to get rid of pornography? [36:17] Stopping smoking marijuana and chewing tobacco. Read Dig: Discover Your Depth, Determination, and Destiny Through Adversity Check Out Thomas Williams Book A Call With Sathiya's Team

Jul 24, 202444 min

Ep 604604 - How I Recovered From A 15-Year Porn Addiction

Sathiya Sam shares his personal journey of overcoming addiction to pornography. He discusses his background, the challenges he faced, and the methods he tried to break free from his addiction. Sathiya also talks about the root causes of his addiction and how his relationship with God and diving into the word helped him gain control over his urges. He shares his prayers, the transformation he experienced, and how he is now helping others through Deep Clean. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202421 min

Ep 603603 - Social Conformity Experiment

Sathiya explores the concept of social conformity and its impact on men striving to fulfill their purpose and dreams. He discusses an experiment conducted in a doctor's office with planted actors, illustrating how people tend to conform to the behavior of others around them. The dangers of bad company influencing good character are emphasized, and the importance of choosing positive and supportive communities is highlighted. Sathiya encourages listeners to be mindful of the people they surround themselves with and stresses the significance of being part of a nurturing community for personal growth and recovery. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202414 min

Ep 602602 - The MAJOR Difference Between Admission and Confession

Sathiya Sam discusses the difference between admission and confession for men seeking to fulfill their dreams and purpose. Confession is emphasized as a path to healing, with biblical elements like clarity, honesty, vulnerability, and community integrity. True confession involves remorse and seeks repentance, as indicated by the Greek word "metanoia." Sathiya shares personal challenges and asks for prayers for guidance. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202413 min

Ep 600600 - Dr. Doug Carpenter on The Link Between Sexual Identity and Sexual Abuse, Why 60% of Sexually Abused Men Suffer, and Why Abuse Is Not Final

Dr. Carpenter and his spouse, Mary A. Carpenter, LMSW are the founders of Insight Counseling Services. Dr. Carpenter has a doctoral degree in Clinical Psychology from Forest Institute of Professional Psychology; earned a Master of Science in Counseling and Substance Abuse Rehabilitation from Pace University, and has an Associates of Arts in Theological Studies from Kent Christian College. In this episode Sathiya and Dr. Carpenter discuss: [04:05] The Definition of Sexual Abuse [08:32] The Complexity and Importance of Sexual Abuse [10:32] Indicators and Symptoms of Sexual Abuse [10:49] Topic 1: Signs of abuse in children [12:21] Topic 2: Sexual identity confusion in male victims [15:08] Topic 3: Impact on self-identity and masculinity [22:45] The impact of sexual abuse on sexuality [23:35] The influence of cultural experience on defining sexual abuse [25:56] Conditioning and sexual orientation [34:23] Early Orientation Feelings [34:41] Psychosexual Developmental Timeline [41:58] Link between Sexual Abuse and Sexual Addiction [46:12] The importance of personal growth [47:57] Resources for personal growth"

Jul 24, 202452 min

Ep 606601 - Worry Is Fake Control

Join Sathiya Sam as he delves into the intricate interconnectedness of worry, anxiety, and fear, exploring their relationship with the concept of fake control. Discover how mastering these emotions fulfills his calling, establishes sexual integrity, and fosters meaningful connections, leading to a profound connection with the divine. Gain invaluable guidance and embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery, resilience, and spiritual enlightenment, cultivating inner peace and purpose Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Aug 4, 202313 min

Ep 605599 - Does Communicating My Needs Make Me ”Needy”?

In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam talks about the importance of communicating needs in relationships. He shares his personal journey of learning to express emotions and needs effectively. Sathiya emphasizes the significance of providing context and asking for support rather than making demands. By improving communication, individuals can foster healthier relationships and emotional maturity. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Aug 2, 202315 min

Ep 604598 - Handling Accountability Partner Transitions

Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of him finding closure and seeking support during the recovery process. He emphasizes the significance of accountability partner transitions and provides practical guidance on how to handle them effectively. Sathiya also shares personal experiences and advises him to lean on his accountability partner and community for connection. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Aug 1, 202313 min

Ep 603597 - Hurding Plateaus In Recovery (and Life)

In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the topic of handling plateaus in recovery and in life. He shares personal examples of plateaus in various areas and emphasizes that plateaus are a normal part of growth. He highlights the importance of being willing to try something new, having the perspective of an experimenter, and surrounding yourself with people who are further ahead in their journey. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 31, 202314 min

Ep 602596 - How To Find A Soulmate

In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the topic of finding a soulmate. He shares his personal belief that soulmates do not exist and instead suggests focusing on personal growth and becoming the right person. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of thinking long-term in relationships and prioritizing character over superficial qualities. He also highlights the need for alignment in callings and having early conversations about compatibility. Furthermore, Sathiya shares a personal anecdote about conflict resolution and the importance of eliminating relationship toxins before marriage. He concludes by advising listeners to show up in places where they are likely to meet like-minded individuals. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 28, 202317 min

Ep 591595 - Dr. Joe Martin on Improving Sex Life, How To Prepare For Fatherhood, and Why Every Man Must Protect His Time

Dr. Joe Martin is the founder and president of Real Men Connect, who is an award-winning international speaker, educator, and certified "man builder." His non-profit organization (Real Men Connect) helps Christian men win at what matters the most as husbands, fathers, and spiritual leaders. Real Men Connect provides help and hope to men in the hardest places of their lives. As an author, he's written or co-authored nine books, including Man Accomplished: 50 Challenges to Help You Become the Man God Made You to Be, Are You the Man: 201 Lessons I Wish My Dad Would Have Taught Me, and The Real Man Spiritual Leader Blueprint. Dr. Joe Martin and Sathiya discuss: [19:29] The "Can I enjoy you tonight?" hack [26:01] The Love Method: Lord [27:04] The Love Method: Observe [30:11] Building spiritual intimacy [32:40] Expressing vulnerability and courage [36:52] Setting expectations with family [38:28] Supporting the wife during pregnancy and postpartum [42:05] Asking the Holy Spirit for guidance [46:24] Initiating with Intimacy [47:46] Exploring ways to support and help your partner [50:16] Finding a balance between professional life and home life [56:06] The importance of intentional communication [1:00:17] God's divine order and finding balance [1:04:45] Time Management Tips [1:08:09] Prioritizing Spouse over Baby [1:12:39] Getting to the root of the issue and helping individuals overcome sexual bondage and sin Check Out Dr. Joe Martin's Real Men Connect Book A Call With Sathiya's Team

Jul 27, 20231h 14m

Ep 601594 - The Quickest Way To Get To the Roots

In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of understanding the roots of addiction and cyclical behavior. He introduces a framework consisting of 4-6 steps to help listeners gain clarity and identify their next steps. Sathiya emphasizes the need to reflect on past mistakes and identify common triggers. He also introduces the concept of asking "why" to gain deeper insights into behaviors and motivations. Additionally, Sathiya discusses the significance of predictability, trauma, and resolving underlying issues. He advises listeners to prioritize and address the most impactful issues first. Overall, Sathiya aims to provide practical steps for personal growth and transformation. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202314 min

Ep 600593 - Handling Triggers Like A Boss

Sathiya Sam discusses triggers and temptations and how to effectively handle them. They emphasize the importance of having a pre-set trigger plan that outlines specific actions to take when tempted or triggered. The host shares their personal experience with triggers and provides six potential components of a trigger plan. They also discuss the importance of understanding the underlying reasons behind triggers and finding solutions for sexual misbehavior.

Jul 25, 202316 min

Ep 598592 - Reading The Bible Accelerates Recovery

In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the link between reading the Bible and recovery from addiction. He shares his frustration with the generic advice to "read your Bible more" without specific guidance. Sathiya introduces a resource of scriptures that can aid in recovery and mentions a study that found reading the Bible four times a week reduces the likelihood of viewing pornography by 61%. He emphasizes the importance of reading the Bible with the intention of deepening his relationship with God and encourages listeners to approach it as a long-term commitment. Sathiya also provides a five-day Bible reading plan for busy or new readers. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 24, 202315 min

Ep 595591 - How Do I Know If I’m Hearing From God?

In this podcast episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the topic of hearing God's voice. He shares personal experiences of testing and hearing God's voice, including a miraculous healing she witnessed during a prayer walk. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of having a personal relationship with God and being a good listener in our communication with Him. He also highlights the significance of testing and evaluating the messages we believe are from God, seeking trusted spiritual leadership for guidance, and using journaling as a means of hearing from God. Sathiya encourages listeners to develop a fluid and dynamic relationship with God through communication. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 21, 202317 min

Ep 586590 - Layton and Chelsea Boeve on How Their Marriage Survived Betrayal, Why Betrayed Women Must Take Responsibility, and The Importance of Red Lines

"Layton and Chelsea are a married couple who live in Northern Michigan and host the Liberator podcast. Liberator was created to remove the barriers of shame and embarrassment that stifle conversations and community around the effects of pornography. Their show is a discussion of pornography's hard truths through the lens of stories, science, and Scripture. Layton, Chelsea and Sathiya discuss: [06:34] Attempts at sobriety and addressing the issue of lust [:07:15] Coming clean and the courage to tell [09:49] The turning point in addiction [11:36] Chelsea's insecurities [17:13] Rebuilding trust and security [20:06] The importance of taking initiative and having a plan [21:13] Opportunity for forgiveness and growth [22:24] Recognizing the complexity of addiction and the need for compassion [30:50] The Launch of their own Podcast [40:49] The importance of community and hope [45:38] The role of proactive positivity and affirmation [49:27] The importance of finding support [52:01] The preventative measures they take [53:23] The importance of communication and trust in their marriage" Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram Listen To Liberator Podcast

Jul 20, 20231h 0m

Ep 594589 - How To Deal With A Narcissist

This podcast episode of "Unleash the Man Within" Sathya Sam focuses on dealing with narcissists in relationships. Sathya Sam emphasizes that one cannot change a narcissist and cautions against diagnosing someone without professional input. He discusses how to handle interactions with narcissistic individuals, adjusting expectations, seeking professional help, and setting boundaries. Sathya acknowledges that dealing with narcissists is complicated and hopes that these insights will provide some guidance. He also encourages reflection on past relationships and childhood experiences to identify any narcissistic behavior exhibited by parents, caregivers, or peers. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 19, 202317 min