Man Within Podcast

Sathiya Sam explores the concept of feeling worthy of God's love, especially for those battling sexual sin and addiction. He emphasizes the importance of deeply experiencing God's unconditional love. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam shares his personal journey into fatherhood, discussing the highs and lows he has faced as a new dad. He draws connections between his experiences as a father and his faith, emphasizing the unconditional love for his child and the lessons this love teaches about God's love. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam delves into his voyage through fatherhood, offering profound reflections on the transformative experiences and invaluable lessons he has acquired since embracing parenthood. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam explores the symptoms and consequences of porn addiction, sharing personal insights and stressing the need for recovery. He discusses how porn affects various aspects of life and urges listeners to seek help. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jacob Valk is the Executive Director of Into The Light Ministries. He produced the films Ordinary Commission and Into The Light, and runs the podcast Chats Under The Sun. He is finishing an M.Div. at SBTS in Louisville, Kentucky, where he lives and works at the ReCenter homeless shelter. In this episode Jacob and Sathiya discuss: [03:43] The Creation of "Into the Light" [03:56] The Purpose of the Documentary [08:12] The Logic Behind a Documentary [09:21] Chapter Structure and Storytelling [10:03] Teaching vs. Engagement [14:14] Planning and Assembling the Team [17:45] Pervasiveness of Pornography for Women [19:56] Women's Experience of Shame and Sexual Sin [23:21] Creating a Narrative through Composite Stories [26:38] The Redemption Story [27:28] Representation Matters [31:06] Impactful Responses [35:07] The Crowdfunding Journey [37:07] Transition from Purity Culture to Sexual Integrity [43:01] Changing Attitudes towards Sexuality and Modesty [45:19] Sexual Revolution and Decoupling Procreation from Sexuality [47:27] Transcendence and Sacredness of Sexuality [51:46] Aftermath of Purity Culture [54:11] Importance of Purity [55:00] Where to Watch the Documentary [55:45] Need for Community in Overcoming Sin Follow the Into the Light documentary on Instagram Check out this Video from the Into the Light documentary about freedom from pornography Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam shares his personal recovery story from addiction, emphasizing the power of community, identity change, and professional help. He discusses the impact of his upbringing, his struggles with pornography, and the importance of addressing underlying beliefs for lasting change. He highlights how his faith played a role in his journey, sharing two significant prayers that were answered, leading to the start of his podcast and meeting his wife. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses the role of God in helping men achieve sexual integrity and overcome pornography addiction. He addresses doubts about God's concern for their struggles, emphasizing that God's standards are based on His perfect nature and His desire for their best. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses the benefits of waiting for marriage, sharing his personal experiences and the impact of not waiting. He emphasizes the importance of intimacy-matching commitment and the value of delaying gratification for relationship success. He also encourages listeners to redeem themselves if they haven't waited and to understand the importance of having balanced intimate experiences. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam emphasizing professional assistance and three key recovery pillars. He underscores the pitfalls of short-term solutions and advocates for addressing recovery gaps through therapy and self-connection. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Kenny Mammarella-D'Cruz, known as the "Man Whisperer," is a leading men's personal development consultant who guides individuals and couples in achieving their life, relationship, and career goals. With over 15 years of experience, he conducts workshops, private consultations, and facilitates men's groups, both in London and online. Kenny's remarkable journey, from refugee camps to working with Mother Teresa and overcoming personal challenges, has made him a gentle yet influential voice in helping men navigate life, and he is praised by Newsweek as a "man whisperer." In this episode Kenny and Sathiya discuss: [00:00] The lie of social media [01:00] Adult boys in survival mode [09:57] The Jesus Year [10:10] Second Saturn Return [11:32] Challenges in Experiencing Depth in Friendships [21:13] The inner child and the man within [24:27] The role of protectors [28:17] Unlearning and finding stability [32:48] The journey through difficult and challenging parts of personal stories [33:21] Understanding and integrating the shadow self [35:16] Guidance on confronting and working through personal issues [42:29] Inner Child Work and Recovery [43:17] Breaking Free and Spreading the Love Learn more about The Man Whisperer Check out the Kenny Videos about Men's Groups Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam explores the detrimental effects of pornography on the brain, including impaired decision-making, desensitization, a poor stress response, and increased sensitization. He highlights the brain's ability to heal and the importance of proactive measures to rewire neural pathways. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam explores the path to overcoming pornography addiction with guest Corbin, highlighting the significance of addressing underlying needs and connecting with faith. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of recognizing the true cost of pornography addiction. He shares his personal journey of overcoming porn addiction and how it positively impacted his life. He encourages listeners, particularly professional Christian males aged 25 and above, to assess the cost of their addiction and take action to change. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude for the success of the podcast in 2023, highlighting its growth from 10-12,000 to 50,000 downloads per month. He reviews powerful interviews and solo casts throughout the year, emphasizing listener support and involvement. He also shares upcoming changes for 2024, including live Q&A sessions and continued efforts to provide valuable content. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jason VanRuler, a therapist, coach, speaker, and author, has been helping people overcome their past and build emotional resilience since 2011. Whether working with CEOs or those facing addiction, he shares his mission of speaking truth and grace, both in person and through his online following. Outside of his work, Jason enjoys cycling, fly fishing, and family time in South Dakota. In this episode Jason and Sathiya discuss: [03:41] The inspiration behind the book [07:28] Fear and Denial [10:23] Changing Perception of the Past [12:04] Heart Change and New Messages [14:34] The Concept of God and Feeling Safe [15:03] Challenging Our Concept of God [17:46] Psychodrama as a Therapeutic Modality [21:34] The damaging effects of pornography on relationships [23:14] The challenge of overcoming addiction to pornography [24:34] The six types of intimacy and their impact on pornography addiction [29:29] The challenges of disclosure and its impact on the partner [30:50] Approaching addiction recovery and relationship work [32:56] Inviting the partner to join in recovery [36:17] The clarity of processing emotions [39:23] Navigating transitions in life [42:29] Preserving progress during change [43:28] The importance of community [44:51] The impact of community on recovery [46:43] The future of mental health and the role of technology [50:14] The Instagram Live Announcement [51:02] The Need for a System to Quit Pornography Follow Jason VanRuler on Instagram Check out Jason's books available on Amazon Learn more About Jason VanRuler Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam welcomes listeners to a discussion on New Year's resolutions for 2024, particularly focusing on quitting porn. He advises against vague resolutions and emphasizes the importance of specificity, daily actions, and resolutions aligned with personal growth and transformation. He encourages listeners to set goals that naturally lead to recovery and outlines three key elements for success: finding a trusted system, involving others, and seeking professional help. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam welcomes listeners to the Christmas week episode, raising the question of readiness for 2024. He emphasizes the importance of seeking a clear understanding of the current season from the Lord before setting resolutions and goals for the upcoming year, drawing from his own experiences. He encourages listeners to take time to reflect and inquire spiritually, offering a teaser for the next episode focused on why quitting porn should not be a New Year's resolution. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam extends Christmas greetings to listeners, expressing gratitude and emphasizing the significance of making the holiday season meaningful. He encourages making Christmas count, whether through family connections, charitable acts, or personal reflections, and closes with a heartfelt prayer for blessings, peace, and grace in the coming year. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam expresses excitement about discussing strategies to navigate the holiday season. He emphasizes the importance of understanding potential challenges during the holidays and provides insights on maintaining recovery momentum through intentional planning, maintaining some structure, and prioritizing meaningful connections. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Dennis Allen is the author of The Disciple Dilemma: Rethinking and Reforming How The Church Does Discipleship. A six-time Chief Executive Officer specializing in “turnarounds” for Wall Street backed corporations, Dennis speaks at universities, churches and conferences, on the topics of leadership and discipleship. Dennis is also a combat-rated Air Force F-15 fighter pilot, and an alumnus of the Oxford Centre for Christian Apologetics. Dennis makes the case that Christian leaders must restructure their organizations to conform to Christ’s mission of discipleship. In this episode Dennis and Sathiya discuss: [01:49] The need to pioneer discipleship [05:20] Defining discipleship [08:50] The disciple dilemma in the modern West [10:51] Modeling Life through Relationships [11:22] The Missing Element of Deep Relationships [12:58] The Disconnect Between Church and Personal Growth [21:40] The need for improved discipleship programs [21:50] Understanding lordship and dying to self [24:50] Living as a bondservant to Christ [32:46] The need for improved discipleship programs [32:53] The concept of discipleship and toxic church culture [35:52] The importance of mentors and wingmen in discipleship [42:17] The need for trusted mentors [44:39] The long-term component of discipleship [45:47] The importance of patience and perseverance in discipleship Learn More About The Discipled Dilemma Follow Dennis Allen on Instagram and also on Youtube Check out The Disciple Dilemma on Amazon Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses how porn can either make one's life better or worse, emphasizing the importance of the individual's choice in this matter. He shares his personal journey, acknowledging that while porn initially negatively impacted his life, overcoming the addiction led to significant positive outcomes, such as the creation of the podcast and helping others. He encourages listeners to commit to the recovery process, highlighting the transformative potential of making a firm decision and staying dedicated to the journey. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam presents a game called "Lust vs. Attraction" to help men differentiate between healthy attraction and lustful objectification. Using gym-themed scenarios, he explains the nuances of lust and attraction, emphasizing the importance of examining one's intentions and behaviors. The episode aims to bring clarity and empower listeners to understand their natural attractions without shame. Gym Theme: -You workout at the gym, you see an attractive girl and notice her looking in your direction. You quickly turn away. Then you look back again and check her out, giving God thanks for creating a beautiful woman. Lust or attraction? -You workout at the gym, you notice an attractive girl at the dumbbell benches. For your next exercise you need one of the benches, two are open. One is right beside the attractive girl, the other is on the complete opposite end of the gym. You choose the bench next to her. Lust or attraction? -You're working out at a specific machine. An attractive girl approaches you and asks you how many sets you have left, you mention that you have a few left but she can work in between sets. She says no thanks, she'll, come back later. You continue your workout giving God thanks for the attractive woman. Lust or attraction? Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam emphasizes the need for a deeper, more individualized approach to overcome porn addiction, comparing surface-level solutions to mowing weeds without addressing the roots, and encourages listeners to pursue transformative, root-level change for lasting results. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude and delves into the comparison of cocaine, alcohol, and porn addiction. He asserts that while each addiction is severe, porn addiction stands out as uniquely challenging due to its direct impact on our fundamental sexuality. He encourages those battling with porn addiction, emphasizing the difficulty of overcoming it and commending any effort made to address the issue. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

John Michael Clark specializes in helping Christian men with family leadership and sex in marriage. He’s on a mission to help guys lead with strength and love. He cuts through the cliches to “be a spiritual leader” and gets specific to help men gain confidence, earn the admiration of their wives and children, and lead like Jesus. His unique approach to coaching brings a simplicity, humor, practicality, and strength that men appreciate and respond to. He is the pastor of Salt Church. He’s a Carolina Panthers fan, enjoys Jiu-Jitsu, and loves cruising on the motorcycle or boat. He’s married to his dream girl, Natalie, and they’re raising their 3 sons Elijah, Brock, and Hudson on the Chesapeake Bay in Virginia. In this episode John and Sathiya discuss: [03:45] The importance of family leadership [06:05] Family leadership as the high calling for every husband [08:57] The practicalities of prioritizing family leadership [08:58] The importance of long-term consistency [09:48] The vision and impact of family leadership [14:09] The role of conviction and practicality in family leadership [16:41] The importance of family leadership [17:34] The hard work of leadership [20:21] Living on mission [28:36] The importance of family values [29:58] The power of family meetings [30:51] Monthly feedback survey [32:33] The importance of family leadership [33:34] The impact on wives' happiness [36:56] Benefits of generational impact [39:55] The importance of family leadership [40:53] Unlearning unhealthy perspectives on sex [45:38] Defining the essence of a man and a woman [48:39] The Family Captain podcast [48:39] The Expedition program Listen to the "The Family Captain" podcast Checkout The Family Captain Expeditions Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude and promises a valuable discussion on restoring connection in marriages. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and speaking each other's love languages, recounting a personal experience with his wife's need for words of affirmation amid the challenges of parenthood. He encourages investing effort into marriages, especially those affected by porn addiction, and emphasizes the transformative power of the love languages. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam introduces four unique recovery hacks, including Trigger Diggers, a method to identify root issues by exploring triggers; Mirror Therapy, emphasizing the power of speaking affirmations while looking into one's eyes; utilizing Love Languages as a self-care tool by understanding one's preferences; and having a Spotter, an accountability partner who plays a minimal yet supportive role in the recovery journey. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses whether a sexless marriage justifies watching porn, emphasizing that no circumstances justify it and advising those in such situations to focus on building emotional connections and serving their partners to restore intimacy. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude to listeners and shares his personal journey from a hypocritical pastor struggling with porn addiction to becoming an advocate for recovery. After years of attempting behavioral modifications, he embarked on a transformative journey addressing heart-level issues, trauma, and self-awareness, leading to his liberation from addiction. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Tim Ferrara, an Executive Pastor at LifePoint Church in Arizona, boasts over 20 years of business management experience alongside a Bachelor's Degree in Marketing from Arizona State University and an MBA from the University of Phoenix. He founded Discerning Dad to inspire Christians to make God-honoring decisions, authoring "Everyday Discernment" and hosting a top-ranked Christian podcast called "Everyday Discernment" on Charisma and Edifi networks. In this episode Tim and Sathiya discuss: [00:00] The journey from business world to full-time ministry [00:53] The importance of discernment in decision-making [07:25] The three aspects of discernment [08:15] Importance of listening to older generations [09:04] Activating the Holy Spirit in decision-making [09:55] Need for discernment and setting a high standard [17:26] Importance of serving and going where God leads [18:16] Confusion and skepticism surrounding the local church [20:01] Dealing with church hurt and understanding church imperfections [26:29] Importance of unity in the church [27:19] Mission and vision of the church [33:10] Accountability and watchmen on the walls [34:51] Struggle with depression and pastors' openness [36:34] Role of the local church in recovery from sexual sin [39:12] Need for open communication and accountability in churches [44:57] Importance of discernment in decision-making [46:06] Finding healthy outlets for recovery Listen to the "Eyes on Jesus with Drew and Tim" podcast Check out Tim's three books available on Amazon Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses the rapid growth of his Instagram following and encourages listeners to check out his content there. The main topic of the episode is "Skills that Kill in Recovery," where he emphasizes four essential skills: processing emotions, communicating one's inner life effectively, understanding childhood correlates with the present, and cultivating self-control. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam delves into the biblical perspective on sexual immorality, defining it as the violation of God's laws regarding sexual relationships. He outlines three biblical principles for healthy sexual relationships - consensuality, exclusivity in covenant, and the opportunity to procreate - and argues that masturbation violates all three, making it incompatible with God's design for sexuality. He shares his personal experience of quitting both porn and masturbation, encouraging listeners to consider the positive impact of giving up masturbation on mental clarity and overall well-being. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude for listeners and introduces a reflection on King David's story from the Bible. Highlighting the impact of modernizing biblical narratives, he discusses David's grave mistakes, including adultery and murder, yet emphasizes the remarkable forgiveness and legacy David received, being referred to as a man after God's own heart and in the lineage of Jesus. He encourages listeners to embrace the power of forgiveness, acknowledging that no matter the past mistakes, Jesus has blotted out transgressions, allowing for the creation of a new, meaningful legacy. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam explores the challenges faced by men striving for success, meaningful connections, and sexual integrity. He introduces a five-day Bible reading plan designed to help overcome pornography addiction, citing a survey that links regular Bible reading to a reduced likelihood of viewing pornography. He emphasizes the transformative power of engaging with the Bible, discussing three key scriptures—Romans 8:28, Colossians 1:21, and James 2:26—that played a crucial role in his own 15-year journey to break free from porn addiction, stressing the importance of applying these scriptures in daily life for lasting change. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Joshua Johnson, a resident of Whitefish, Montana, is a spirited adventurer and spiritual seeker. He has wholeheartedly embraced the world of outdoor exploration while also delving into the realm of spiritual cartography as an apprentice to Jesus of Nazareth. Joshua's unwavering passion for life shapes his distinctive approach to spirituality. In this episode Joshua Johnson and Sathiya discuss: [01:47] Nature for character and toughness. [09:04] Abiding in Jesus, becoming like Him. [10:04] Spiritual growth with Jesus over time. [11:25] Discipleship vs. inner character. [16:41] Connecting outdoors with others or God. [21:29] Four quadrants of our being. [24:28] Formation triangle, Holy Spirit's role. [25:18] Dynamic spiritual formation, God's closeness. [32:27] Creation for connecting with God, rest. [37:10] Nature reduces stress, boosts well-being. [40:56] Wilderness, challenges, and parallels to Jesus. [42:47] Growth zone, stepping out for change. [46:10] Confronting fears, personal growth. [49:04] Outdoors and intimacy with God. [50:32] Starting intimacy with God through nature. [56:32] Facing challenges, overcoming fear. [58:02] Contemplation and curiosity in nature. [01:00:37] Backcountry ski trip, growing with God in winter, joining details and resources. Check out Ski Telos Adventures Download Resist the Busyness PDF Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses the impact of artificial intelligence (AI) on the pornography industry. He highlights the rise of AI-generated explicit content, including celebrity deepfakes, and the potential dangers it poses. He also explores the connection between addiction and attachment, expressing concern about the role of AI in furthering pornography addiction. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathya Sam discusses managing his sex drive responsibly. He compares it to stewardship of money, emphasizing that while he cannot control his sex drive, he can learn to manage it. He stresses the importance of understanding this before marriage and encourages continuous improvement. He concludes that good stewardship of his sex drive leads to healthy relationships. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam explores the association between anger and pornography, proposing that pornography could serve as a temporary validation for feelings of anger. He supports his argument by referencing research conducted by Joe Robertson, highlighting the intriguing connection between these two aspects. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses the significance of gratitude for peace and well-being. He differentiates between momentary gratefulness and lifelong gratitude, encouraging listeners to adopt the latter for a more fulfilling life. He shares his personal journey and how gratitude helped him face challenges positively. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Shane O'Neill is the Editorial Director from Proven Ministries—a non-profit that creates resources for sexual integrity. Shane is also the host of The Naked Gospel podcast. He has a graduate degree in apologetics and is working on another degree in counseling. In this episode Shane O'Neill and Sathiya discuss: [02:53] Porn genres discussion [05:00] Differentiating pornography types [08:51] Understanding pornography genres [09:08] Formation of pornography genres [09:59] Importance of search terms in preferences [14:13] Desensitization and novelty pursuit [18:30] Extreme genres and sexual performance [19:48] Significance of search terms in motivations [23:08] Cultural and personal implications of incestuous content [28:45] Impact of maternal affection on nighttime habits [29:28] Importance of oxytocin in pornography addiction [35:05] Lack of character development in pornography [38:35] Impact of pornography on desires and power dynamics [41:12] Racial undertones and stereotypes in mainstream pornography [44:02] Influence of pornography on sexual expectations and performance [48:23] Exploring sexual desires and longings [49:53] Importance of professional help [50:39] Asking the question "What does it offer me?" [57:31] Dangers of jumping to conclusions [59:35] Sex as play and the joy of sex Learn More About PROVENMEN Listen to the Naked Gospel Podcast Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses strategies for men to bounce back after a relapse during recovery. He emphasizes the importance of regulating the nervous system, avoiding negative behaviors, and connecting with others. He also encourages listeners to engage in hope-inspiring activities and to seek help if needed. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses gospel artist Kirk Franklin's struggle with pornography addiction, his journey to recovery, and the impact on his marriage. He emphasizes the importance of addressing underlying issues rather than expecting marriage to resolve them. He also criticizes the dismissive response from Franklin's pastor when he confessed his addiction. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses the difference between lust and attraction, with the aim of alleviating the guilt and condemnation that Christian men may feel. He introduces a game in which listeners identify whether a scenario represents lust or attraction. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of focusing on aspects beyond merely quitting porn for a successful recovery. He emphasizes the significance of connection, processing inner emotions, and building a deeper spiritual life. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Geoff Steurer is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 24 years of experience helping couples and individuals heal from the impact of sexual betrayal, unwanted pornography use, and partner betrayal trauma. He is the co-author of, ""Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity"" and the host of the weekly recovery podcast, ""From Crisis to Connection"". He has produced workbooks, audio programs, and online courses to help couples rebuild broken trust. He received a bachelor’s in communications studies from Brigham Young University and a masters in marriage and family therapy from Auburn University. In this episode Geoff Steurer and Sathiya discuss: [03:02] Why overcoming porn addiction isn't sufficient for marriage restoration. [07:37] Understanding trauma's impact and the need for joint effort. [10:13] The importance of patience in trust rebuilding. [12:22] Challenges with prolonged addiction durations. [17:03] The fallacy of yearning for the past. [20:01] The significance of trust in relationships. [24:15] Advice for men in committed relationships about trust rebuilding. [29:22] Regulating emotions' importance in relationships. [30:00] Exploring co-regulation and self-regulation. [31:14] Seeking co-regulation when a partner is absent. [38:23] Deepening emotional capacity during trust rebuilding. [39:26] Staying with a partner during their grief and sadness. [42:21] Expanding emotional capacity with compassion for others. [47:18] Trust's importance in relationships and the impact of porn addiction. Free Video Training Check out Trust Building Bootcamp Listen to the From Crisis To Connection Podcast Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses maintaining a relationship with God during recovery from addiction and sexual sin. He emphasizes the importance of a well-rounded relationship with God, which starts with simple spiritual disciplines and involves practicing radical transparency. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of letting go of past mistakes and embracing a new identity for a brighter future. He provides practical steps for this transformation and encourages listeners to seek support. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses the physical symptoms of porn addiction and recovery. He explores how porn addiction can affect men's health, relationships, and connection with God, with symptoms ranging from headaches to sexual performance issues and mood swings. He also discusses the physical symptoms of recovery, emphasizing that these are normal and a sign of the body adapting to a life without porn. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Sathiya Sam discusses the negative impact of pornography on romantic relationships. He explains how porn creates a false sense of intimacy, leading to emotional, spiritual, and physical issues. He also offers advice on how to counteract these effects. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jim Ramos, founder of Men in the Arena in McMinnville, Oregon, aims to empower men to become their best selves in Christ and make a positive impact on their world. He's a renowned speaker, podcaster, and author with a passion for God's Word and engaging storytelling. Jim's books include Strong Men Dangerous Times and more. He embraces life with courage, following Jesus' promise in John 10:10. He enjoys hunting, fitness, tropical vacations, and meaningful conversations over Cafe Americano. In this episode Jim Ramos and Sathiya discuss: [00:00] The four phases of fatherhood [06:38] Focusing on marriage for the sake of children [06:44] The need for information on fatherhood [09:16] The blame game and victim mentality [09:51] Father wound and father trauma [11:23] Accepting responsibility for one's actions [19:11] Father Fidelis: Showing Up for Your Family [23:47] Sinking Deep Roots: Stability and Security [26:54] Father Figure: Being a Role Model [28:25] The importance of Christian community [29:20] Framing spouses positively [30:18] The impact of fathers as role models [38:00] Phase 1: Father Son/Father Daughter [39:16] Phase 2: Father Asking for Help [40:47] Phase 3: Leisure Time with Adult Children [48:04] The importance of time in fatherhood [48:38] The phases of fatherhood [53:52] Navigating different phases with multiple children Learn More About Men in the Arena Follow Jim on Instagram and also on Twitter Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram