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Ep 738738 - Things Every Married Man Should Do On Valentine's Day

Sathiya Sam discusses the significance of Valentine's Day for married men. He shares personal anecdotes and lessons learned, emphasizing the need for undivided attention, thoughtfulness, and safety in relationships. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202412 min

Ep 737737 - Here's Why Your Wife Says You're A Bad Listener

Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of being a good listener in relationships, with a focus on the unique challenges men face in this area. He highlights the negative effects of pornography on empathy and stresses the significance of building healthy attachments during recovery. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202413 min

Ep 736736 - Soul Ties 101

Sathiya Sam explores the concept of soul ties, discussing their impact on sexual recovery and relationships. He examines the spiritual and emotional significance of sex and the role soul ties play in hindering individuals from moving past previous relationships and sexual encounters. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202413 min

Ep 735735 - Jim ODay on The Dangers of Celibacy From A Catholic Perspective, Inviting God Into The Bedroom, and Why Recovery Cannot Happen Alone

Jim O'Day, Executive Director of Integrity Restored, boasts 25+ years in development, executive management, sales, marketing, and relationship building. With diverse experience spanning consumer products, defense, homeland security, and nonprofits, he excels in creating impactful programs for growth, profitability, and client satisfaction. A Certified Life Coach and expert in sex and pornography addiction recovery, Jim is also a Pastoral Wellness Counselor. In this episode Jim and Sathiya discuss: [03:39] Trends in recovery conversation [05:50] Shift in perception of pornography addiction [07:19] The three pillars approach [08:37] Integrity restoration and spiritual life [09:48] The role of confession in recovery [14:34] The importance of accountability [17:27] Challenges in addressing pornography in the church [21:56] Celibacy and its impact [23:11] The power of celibacy [25:07] Perceptions of the Catholic Church [27:12] Training spiritual leaders [27:49] Certification program for clergy [33:08] Understanding the science of addiction [36:11] Future strategies and political action Learn more about Integrity Restored Check out the "6 Free eBooks" Available in his Website Follow Jim Oday on Youtube Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202444 min

Ep 734734 - Principles vs Individualization

Sathiya Sam explore the delicate balance between adhering to principles and tailoring approaches to individual needs, particularly in recovery and personal development. He underscores the importance of identifying and applying core principles demonstrated by successful individuals Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202413 min

Ep 733733 - The Value of Knowing Your Season

Sathiya Sam explores the concept of recognizing and understanding one's current life season. He emphasizes how this awareness can guide one's choices in fitness, finances, relationships, and more, ensuring actions align with personal growth and goals. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202414 min

Ep 732732 - Redefining Masculinity In 2024

Sathiya Sam explores the concept of redefining masculinity in 2024. He delves into the evolving roles and responsibilities of men, emphasizing the significance of spiritual authority in the home and advocating for assertiveness and leadership. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202413 min

Ep 731731 - Porn and Testosterone - Facts & Fiction

Sathiya Sam discusses the complex relationship between testosterone and pornography use. He explores how lifestyle factors can affect testosterone levels and shares personal experiences and anecdotal evidence suggesting that quitting porn may improve libido, sexual performance, and well-being. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202414 min

Ep 730730 - Chris Baden on Productivity Boosts From Quitting Porn, Why Waiting Works, and God's Definition of Success

Chris Baden, based in Henderson, Nevada, is the CEO and Co-Founder of Flowchat. Going beyond his corporate successes, Chris ardently advocates for the significance of lifelong marriage and family, considering them the cornerstone of his personal and professional accomplishments. In this episode Chris and Sathiya discuss: [00:00] Chris Baden's family background. [02:19] Parenthood reflections and family life. [03:32] Decision to wait for marriage. [05:45] Chris' mindset shift from pornography experience. [14:29] Power of surrender and desire management. [19:45] Waiting for marriage and handling desires. [21:42] Productivity journey. [24:10] Success and overcoming pornography. [30:56] Productivity insights and surrender. [40:21] Defining success and surrender process. [43:14] Managing Dopamine strategies. Learn more about FlowChat Check out the "The Ultimate DM Guide" Follow Chris Baden on Facebook and Instagram Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202452 min

Ep 729729 - Are You Worth Investing In

Sathiya Sam emphasizes the transformative power of investing in oneself and challenges listeners to recognize their worth, especially in the context of overcoming challenges like pornography addiction. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202412 min

Ep 728728 - The Biggest Reason Most Recoveries Fail

Sathiya Sam explores the significance of self-investment. He delves into how investing in oneself can lead to growth in personal development, finances, and spiritual health. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202412 min

Ep 727727 - Pamela Anderson Joins The List of Celebrities Against Porn

Sathiya Sam discusses Pamela Anderson's advocacy against pornography, expressing support for her and other celebrities using their influence to highlight porn's negative effects. He examines key points from Anderson's article, including the damage porn can do to men's roles in families and society. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202412 min

Ep 726726 - Better Communicators Live Better Lives

The power of being able to communicate well and how it impacts EVERY area of life Sathiya Sam explores how men can achieve their aspirations while upholding sexual integrity, nurturing relationships, and fostering a spiritual connection. He underscores the pivotal role of communication skills in enhancing life quality and sharing insights from his ministry school experiences. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202412 min

Ep 725725 - Adam Lane Smith on How To Ditch Microcheating, Healing From Attachment Issues Biologically, and Keys To Longevity In Relationships

Adam Lane Smith, licensed psychotherapist and Attachment Specialist, transforms relationships from blue-collar families to CEOs. With his Attachment Bootcamp and personalized coaching, he guides clients on a transformative journey to authentic connections and fulfilling relationships. In this episode Adam and Sathiya discuss: [01:02] Attachment through a neurobiological lens [07:57] The impact of dopamine and addiction [09:42] Oxytocin addiction and its social component [12:17] The importance of security and psychological safety [14:57] Challenges in modeling healthy relationships [16:46] The Smell of Family [17:41] Anxious Attachment [18:28] Rising Loneliness [19:27] Men's Loneliness [20:18] Impact of Upbringing [21:51] Vasopressin Bonding [23:09] Teaching and Bonding [24:00] Male Solution Network [26:22] Balancing Bonding [27:15] Renewing Bonds [30:33] Addressing Affairs [32:55] Fighting Dopamine Dependency [33:21] The porn issue [34:12] Effects of porn addiction [35:05] Erectile dysfunction and porn addiction [36:45] Building healthy relationships [38:17] Vasopressin and oxytocin in relationships [40:39] Micro cheating and its impact [44:45] Roots of attachment theory interest [48:44] Instilling secure attachment in children Check out the Bootcamp Course of Adam Follow Adam Lane Smith on Instagram and also on Youtube Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202453 min

Ep 724724 - The Scary Link Between Porn and Sx Trafficking

Sathiya Sam explores the connection between porn addiction and sex trafficking. He challenges listeners to consider their role in perpetuating sex trafficking by consuming pornography and urges them to quit to help reduce demand. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202412 min

Ep 723723 - Get Your Relationships Back On Track This Year

Sathiya Sam explores the struggles men encounter with sexual integrity and relationship repair post-pornography addiction. He highlights the necessity of consistency, honesty, and understanding a partner's love language to restore trust and strengthen bonds. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202412 min

Ep 722722 - Is P_rn The Same As Cheating

Sathiya Sam explores the connection between pornography and infidelity. He discusses the detrimental effects of porn addiction on committed relationships, highlighting the need for transparency and communication between partners. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202413 min

Ep 721721 - Control Your Triggers, Control Your Addiction

Sathiya Sam explores the relationship between triggers and addiction. He stresses the critical role of identifying and managing triggers to overcome addictive behaviors. He discusses the creation of a trigger plan and advocates for proactive strategies in addressing these triggers. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202413 min

Ep 720720 - Xan Spencer on The Link Between Hunting & Masculinity, Why Creation Eliminates Distraction, and Leaving An Outdoor Legacy

Xan Spencer, an accomplished entrepreneur in online business development, currently serves as the CEO of Live Outfitters in North Carolina. Renowned for his strategic vision and dynamic leadership, Xan is also a motivational speaker, inspiring audiences with his passion and purpose-driven approach. With a commitment to both business success and community impact, He continues to shape the landscape of entrepreneurship through his innovative and inspiring leadership. In this episode Xan and Sathiya discuss: [02:43] Live Outfitters' innovative outdoor gear sales approach. [03:48] Xan's childhood outdoors and entrepreneurial journey. [11:07] Fatherhood challenges amid addiction. [16:23] Exploring masculinity and outdoor connections. [17:54] Nature, creation, and family dynamics. [19:13] Values from fishing, hunting, and fostering. [23:41] Faith, Jesus, and the spiritual side of nature. [27:53] Unplugging for focused outdoor experiences. [29:55] Starting outdoor activities tips. [33:22] Modern camping trends like "glamping." [35:39] Xan's boat captaining challenges. [37:55] Xansea's electrical fire and water intake hurdles. [39:23] Xan's pivotal sailing decision and family impact. [41:24] Boat life: freedom, challenges, and tech limits. [43:45] Nurturing an outdoor legacy and family traditions. Check out the Live Outfitters Download the app from the App Store or Google Play Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202451 min

Ep 719719 - How Do You Know If You're Worthy of God's Love

Sathiya Sam explores the concept of feeling worthy of God's love, especially for those battling sexual sin and addiction. He emphasizes the importance of deeply experiencing God's unconditional love. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202414 min

Ep 718718 - Things Only Fatherhood Can Teach You

Sathiya Sam shares his personal journey into fatherhood, discussing the highs and lows he has faced as a new dad. He draws connections between his experiences as a father and his faith, emphasizing the unconditional love for his child and the lessons this love teaches about God's love. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202412 min

Ep 717717 - The 48 Side Effects of Viewing Porn

Sathiya Sam delves into his voyage through fatherhood, offering profound reflections on the transformative experiences and invaluable lessons he has acquired since embracing parenthood. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202414 min

Ep 716716 - The 5 Major Symptoms of Porn Addiction

Sathiya Sam explores the symptoms and consequences of porn addiction, sharing personal insights and stressing the need for recovery. He discusses how porn affects various aspects of life and urges listeners to seek help. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202413 min

Ep 715715 - Jacob Valk on Purity Culture Aftermath, Creating Into The Light Documentary, and Modern-Day Modesty

Jacob Valk is the Executive Director of Into The Light Ministries. He produced the films Ordinary Commission and Into The Light, and runs the podcast Chats Under The Sun. He is finishing an M.Div. at SBTS in Louisville, Kentucky, where he lives and works at the ReCenter homeless shelter. In this episode Jacob and Sathiya discuss: [03:43] The Creation of "Into the Light" [03:56] The Purpose of the Documentary [08:12] The Logic Behind a Documentary [09:21] Chapter Structure and Storytelling [10:03] Teaching vs. Engagement [14:14] Planning and Assembling the Team [17:45] Pervasiveness of Pornography for Women [19:56] Women's Experience of Shame and Sexual Sin [23:21] Creating a Narrative through Composite Stories [26:38] The Redemption Story [27:28] Representation Matters [31:06] Impactful Responses [35:07] The Crowdfunding Journey [37:07] Transition from Purity Culture to Sexual Integrity [43:01] Changing Attitudes towards Sexuality and Modesty [45:19] Sexual Revolution and Decoupling Procreation from Sexuality [47:27] Transcendence and Sacredness of Sexuality [51:46] Aftermath of Purity Culture [54:11] Importance of Purity [55:00] Where to Watch the Documentary [55:45] Need for Community in Overcoming Sin Follow the Into the Light documentary on Instagram Check out this Video from the Into the Light documentary about freedom from pornography Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202459 min

Ep 714714 - 99 Problems But Porn Ain't One

Sathiya Sam shares his personal recovery story from addiction, emphasizing the power of community, identity change, and professional help. He discusses the impact of his upbringing, his struggles with pornography, and the importance of addressing underlying beliefs for lasting change. He highlights how his faith played a role in his journey, sharing two significant prayers that were answered, leading to the start of his podcast and meeting his wife. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 26, 202415 min

Ep 713713 - Does God Care About Your Freedom

Sathiya Sam discusses the role of God in helping men achieve sexual integrity and overcome pornography addiction. He addresses doubts about God's concern for their struggles, emphasizing that God's standards are based on His perfect nature and His desire for their best. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202412 min

Ep 712712 - Why Waiting Works (from someone who didn't wait)

Sathiya Sam discusses the benefits of waiting for marriage, sharing his personal experiences and the impact of not waiting. He emphasizes the importance of intimacy-matching commitment and the value of delaying gratification for relationship success. He also encourages listeners to redeem themselves if they haven't waited and to understand the importance of having balanced intimate experiences. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202412 min

Ep 711711 - How To Quit Porn Forever In 2024

Sathiya Sam emphasizing professional assistance and three key recovery pillars. He underscores the pitfalls of short-term solutions and advocates for addressing recovery gaps through therapy and self-connection. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202413 min

Ep 710710 - Kenny Mammarella-D'Cruz on The 30 Year Cycle of Men, Experiencing Depth In Friendships, and Why Most Men Are Boys In Survival Mode

Kenny Mammarella-D'Cruz, known as the "Man Whisperer," is a leading men's personal development consultant who guides individuals and couples in achieving their life, relationship, and career goals. With over 15 years of experience, he conducts workshops, private consultations, and facilitates men's groups, both in London and online. Kenny's remarkable journey, from refugee camps to working with Mother Teresa and overcoming personal challenges, has made him a gentle yet influential voice in helping men navigate life, and he is praised by Newsweek as a "man whisperer." In this episode Kenny and Sathiya discuss: [00:00] The lie of social media [01:00] Adult boys in survival mode [09:57] The Jesus Year [10:10] Second Saturn Return [11:32] Challenges in Experiencing Depth in Friendships [21:13] The inner child and the man within [24:27] The role of protectors [28:17] Unlearning and finding stability [32:48] The journey through difficult and challenging parts of personal stories [33:21] Understanding and integrating the shadow self [35:16] Guidance on confronting and working through personal issues [42:29] Inner Child Work and Recovery [43:17] Breaking Free and Spreading the Love Learn more about The Man Whisperer Check out the Kenny Videos about Men's Groups Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202445 min

Ep 709709 - 4 Ways Prn Destroys Your Brain

Sathiya Sam explores the detrimental effects of pornography on the brain, including impaired decision-making, desensitization, a poor stress response, and increased sensitization. He highlights the brain's ability to heal and the importance of proactive measures to rewire neural pathways. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202413 min

Ep 708708 - How Qorban (and 100+ more men) Quit Porn In 2023

Sathiya Sam explores the path to overcoming pornography addiction with guest Corbin, highlighting the significance of addressing underlying needs and connecting with faith. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202413 min

Ep 707707 - Prn The World's Most Expensive Addiction

Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of recognizing the true cost of pornography addiction. He shares his personal journey of overcoming porn addiction and how it positively impacted his life. He encourages listeners, particularly professional Christian males aged 25 and above, to assess the cost of their addiction and take action to change. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202413 min

Ep 706706 - Year In Review Wrapping Up 2023

Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude for the success of the podcast in 2023, highlighting its growth from 10-12,000 to 50,000 downloads per month. He reviews powerful interviews and solo casts throughout the year, emphasizing listener support and involvement. He also shares upcoming changes for 2024, including live Q&A sessions and continued efforts to provide valuable content. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202413 min

Ep 705705 - Jason VanRuler on Psychodrama For Recovery, The 6 Types of Intimacy, and Why Community Is A Great Teacher

Jason VanRuler, a therapist, coach, speaker, and author, has been helping people overcome their past and build emotional resilience since 2011. Whether working with CEOs or those facing addiction, he shares his mission of speaking truth and grace, both in person and through his online following. Outside of his work, Jason enjoys cycling, fly fishing, and family time in South Dakota. In this episode Jason and Sathiya discuss: [03:41] The inspiration behind the book [07:28] Fear and Denial [10:23] Changing Perception of the Past [12:04] Heart Change and New Messages [14:34] The Concept of God and Feeling Safe [15:03] Challenging Our Concept of God [17:46] Psychodrama as a Therapeutic Modality [21:34] The damaging effects of pornography on relationships [23:14] The challenge of overcoming addiction to pornography [24:34] The six types of intimacy and their impact on pornography addiction [29:29] The challenges of disclosure and its impact on the partner [30:50] Approaching addiction recovery and relationship work [32:56] Inviting the partner to join in recovery [36:17] The clarity of processing emotions [39:23] Navigating transitions in life [42:29] Preserving progress during change [43:28] The importance of community [44:51] The impact of community on recovery [46:43] The future of mental health and the role of technology [50:14] The Instagram Live Announcement [51:02] The Need for a System to Quit Pornography Follow Jason VanRuler on Instagram Check out Jason's books available on Amazon Learn more About Jason VanRuler Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202453 min

Ep 704704 - Quitting Prn Is The WORST New Years Resolution

Sathiya Sam welcomes listeners to a discussion on New Year's resolutions for 2024, particularly focusing on quitting porn. He advises against vague resolutions and emphasizes the importance of specificity, daily actions, and resolutions aligned with personal growth and transformation. He encourages listeners to set goals that naturally lead to recovery and outlines three key elements for success: finding a trusted system, involving others, and seeking professional help. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202411 min

Ep 703703 - Are You Ready For 2024

Sathiya Sam welcomes listeners to the Christmas week episode, raising the question of readiness for 2024. He emphasizes the importance of seeking a clear understanding of the current season from the Lord before setting resolutions and goals for the upcoming year, drawing from his own experiences. He encourages listeners to take time to reflect and inquire spiritually, offering a teaser for the next episode focused on why quitting porn should not be a New Year's resolution. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202410 min

Ep 702702 - Making Christmas Count

Sathiya Sam extends Christmas greetings to listeners, expressing gratitude and emphasizing the significance of making the holiday season meaningful. He encourages making Christmas count, whether through family connections, charitable acts, or personal reflections, and closes with a heartfelt prayer for blessings, peace, and grace in the coming year. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 20246 min

Ep 701701 - Keys To Staying Clean During The Holidays

Sathiya Sam expresses excitement about discussing strategies to navigate the holiday season. He emphasizes the importance of understanding potential challenges during the holidays and provides insights on maintaining recovery momentum through intentional planning, maintaining some structure, and prioritizing meaningful connections. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202412 min

Ep 700700 - Dennis Allen on Why Discipleship Doesn't Work, Dying To Self, and Bi-Directional Growth

Dennis Allen is the author of The Disciple Dilemma: Rethinking and Reforming How The Church Does Discipleship. A six-time Chief Executive Officer specializing in “turnarounds” for Wall Street backed corporations, Dennis speaks at universities, churches and conferences, on the topics of leadership and discipleship. Dennis is also a combat-rated Air Force F-15 fighter pilot, and an alumnus of the Oxford Centre for Christian Apologetics. Dennis makes the case that Christian leaders must restructure their organizations to conform to Christ’s mission of discipleship. In this episode Dennis and Sathiya discuss: [01:49] The need to pioneer discipleship [05:20] Defining discipleship [08:50] The disciple dilemma in the modern West [10:51] Modeling Life through Relationships [11:22] The Missing Element of Deep Relationships [12:58] The Disconnect Between Church and Personal Growth [21:40] The need for improved discipleship programs [21:50] Understanding lordship and dying to self [24:50] Living as a bondservant to Christ [32:46] The need for improved discipleship programs [32:53] The concept of discipleship and toxic church culture [35:52] The importance of mentors and wingmen in discipleship [42:17] The need for trusted mentors [44:39] The long-term component of discipleship [45:47] The importance of patience and perseverance in discipleship Learn More About The Discipled Dilemma Follow Dennis Allen on Instagram and also on Youtube Check out The Disciple Dilemma on Amazon Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202452 min

Ep 699699 - Prn Can Make Your Life Better or Worse. Choice Is Yours.

Sathiya Sam discusses how porn can either make one's life better or worse, emphasizing the importance of the individual's choice in this matter. He shares his personal journey, acknowledging that while porn initially negatively impacted his life, overcoming the addiction led to significant positive outcomes, such as the creation of the podcast and helping others. He encourages listeners to commit to the recovery process, highlighting the transformative potential of making a firm decision and staying dedicated to the journey. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202412 min

Ep 698698 - Game Time! Lust vs Attraction, pt 2.

Sathiya Sam presents a game called "Lust vs. Attraction" to help men differentiate between healthy attraction and lustful objectification. Using gym-themed scenarios, he explains the nuances of lust and attraction, emphasizing the importance of examining one's intentions and behaviors. The episode aims to bring clarity and empower listeners to understand their natural attractions without shame. Gym Theme: -You workout at the gym, you see an attractive girl and notice her looking in your direction. You quickly turn away. Then you look back again and check her out, giving God thanks for creating a beautiful woman. Lust or attraction? -You workout at the gym, you notice an attractive girl at the dumbbell benches. For your next exercise you need one of the benches, two are open. One is right beside the attractive girl, the other is on the complete opposite end of the gym. You choose the bench next to her. Lust or attraction? -You're working out at a specific machine. An attractive girl approaches you and asks you how many sets you have left, you mention that you have a few left but she can work in between sets. She says no thanks, she'll, come back later. You continue your workout giving God thanks for the attractive woman. Lust or attraction? Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202412 min

Ep 697697 - The Reason Internet Filters Aren't Working For You (or Accountability Partners)

Sathiya Sam emphasizes the need for a deeper, more individualized approach to overcome porn addiction, comparing surface-level solutions to mowing weeds without addressing the roots, and encourages listeners to pursue transformative, root-level change for lasting results. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202411 min

Ep 696696 - Cocaine. Alcohol. Porn. Which Is Worst

Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude and delves into the comparison of cocaine, alcohol, and porn addiction. He asserts that while each addiction is severe, porn addiction stands out as uniquely challenging due to its direct impact on our fundamental sexuality. He encourages those battling with porn addiction, emphasizing the difficulty of overcoming it and commending any effort made to address the issue. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202412 min

Ep 695695 - John Michael Clark on Why Men Are Family Captains, Living On Mission, and The 6 Sails Every Man Must Master

John Michael Clark specializes in helping Christian men with family leadership and sex in marriage. He’s on a mission to help guys lead with strength and love. He cuts through the cliches to “be a spiritual leader” and gets specific to help men gain confidence, earn the admiration of their wives and children, and lead like Jesus. His unique approach to coaching brings a simplicity, humor, practicality, and strength that men appreciate and respond to. He is the pastor of Salt Church. He’s a Carolina Panthers fan, enjoys Jiu-Jitsu, and loves cruising on the motorcycle or boat. He’s married to his dream girl, Natalie, and they’re raising their 3 sons Elijah, Brock, and Hudson on the Chesapeake Bay in Virginia. In this episode John and Sathiya discuss: [03:45] The importance of family leadership [06:05] Family leadership as the high calling for every husband [08:57] The practicalities of prioritizing family leadership [08:58] The importance of long-term consistency [09:48] The vision and impact of family leadership [14:09] The role of conviction and practicality in family leadership [16:41] The importance of family leadership [17:34] The hard work of leadership [20:21] Living on mission [28:36] The importance of family values [29:58] The power of family meetings [30:51] Monthly feedback survey [32:33] The importance of family leadership [33:34] The impact on wives' happiness [36:56] Benefits of generational impact [39:55] The importance of family leadership [40:53] Unlearning unhealthy perspectives on sex [45:38] Defining the essence of a man and a woman [48:39] The Family Captain podcast [48:39] The Expedition program Listen to the "The Family Captain" podcast Checkout The Family Captain Expeditions Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202454 min

Ep 694694 - A Simple Way To Restore Connection In Your Marriage

Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude and promises a valuable discussion on restoring connection in marriages. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and speaking each other's love languages, recounting a personal experience with his wife's need for words of affirmation amid the challenges of parenthood. He encourages investing effort into marriages, especially those affected by porn addiction, and emphasizes the transformative power of the love languages. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202413 min

Ep 693693 - 4 Recovery Hacks That No One's Talking About

Sathiya Sam introduces four unique recovery hacks, including Trigger Diggers, a method to identify root issues by exploring triggers; Mirror Therapy, emphasizing the power of speaking affirmations while looking into one's eyes; utilizing Love Languages as a self-care tool by understanding one's preferences; and having a Spotter, an accountability partner who plays a minimal yet supportive role in the recovery journey. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202413 min

Ep 692692 - Is A Sxless Marriage A Good Enough Reason To Watch Prn

Sathiya Sam discusses whether a sexless marriage justifies watching porn, emphasizing that no circumstances justify it and advising those in such situations to focus on building emotional connections and serving their partners to restore intimacy. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202412 min

Ep 691691 - How A Hypocritical Pastor Became Porn Addiction Advocate

Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude to listeners and shares his personal journey from a hypocritical pastor struggling with porn addiction to becoming an advocate for recovery. After years of attempting behavioral modifications, he embarked on a transformative journey addressing heart-level issues, trauma, and self-awareness, leading to his liberation from addiction. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202414 min

Ep 690690 - Tim Ferrara on Healing From Local Church Hurt, Why Men Need Discernment, How To Make Good Decisions

Tim Ferrara, an Executive Pastor at LifePoint Church in Arizona, boasts over 20 years of business management experience alongside a Bachelor's Degree in Marketing from Arizona State University and an MBA from the University of Phoenix. He founded Discerning Dad to inspire Christians to make God-honoring decisions, authoring "Everyday Discernment" and hosting a top-ranked Christian podcast called "Everyday Discernment" on Charisma and Edifi networks. In this episode Tim and Sathiya discuss: [00:00] The journey from business world to full-time ministry [00:53] The importance of discernment in decision-making [07:25] The three aspects of discernment [08:15] Importance of listening to older generations [09:04] Activating the Holy Spirit in decision-making [09:55] Need for discernment and setting a high standard [17:26] Importance of serving and going where God leads [18:16] Confusion and skepticism surrounding the local church [20:01] Dealing with church hurt and understanding church imperfections [26:29] Importance of unity in the church [27:19] Mission and vision of the church [33:10] Accountability and watchmen on the walls [34:51] Struggle with depression and pastors' openness [36:34] Role of the local church in recovery from sexual sin [39:12] Need for open communication and accountability in churches [44:57] Importance of discernment in decision-making [46:06] Finding healthy outlets for recovery Listen to the "Eyes on Jesus with Drew and Tim" podcast Check out Tim's three books available on Amazon Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202452 min

Ep 689689 - Skills That Kill In Recovery

Sathiya Sam discusses the rapid growth of his Instagram following and encourages listeners to check out his content there. The main topic of the episode is "Skills that Kill in Recovery," where he emphasizes four essential skills: processing emotions, communicating one's inner life effectively, understanding childhood correlates with the present, and cultivating self-control. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Jul 25, 202412 min