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Dua of Ibrahim (AS) – #1

Auto-generated transcript:Wолаazibullah khair Tawāq. My respected brothers, sisters, elders. The ayat which I recited for you from Surah Al-Baqarah, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, which means, and remember when Ibrahim alayhi salam said, My Rabb, make this city of Mecca secure and provide food, fruits to its people, those among them who believe in Allah in the last day. He, Jalla Jalaluhu, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, the glorious and merciful. The magnificent answered, as for those who disbelieve, I will let them enjoy themselves for a while and then I will send them to the torment of the fire. What an evil destination. And remember when Ibrahim alayhi salam raised the foundation of the house with Ismail alayhi salam. Both of them praying, O Rabb, O our Rabb, accept this from us. You are indeed the all-hearing, all-knowing. Our Rabb, our Lord, make us both fully submit to you. And from our descendants, raise a nation that will submit to you. Show us our rituals and turn to us in grace. You are truly the acceptor of repentance, most merciful. O our Rabb, O our Lord, raise from among them a messenger who will recite to them your revelation. Teach them the book and wisdom and purify them. Indeed, you alone are the Almighty, all-wise. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala answered his dua. And made the actions, his actions and the actions of his little family, the actual rituals of worship that are connected with the house that he built. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala made that an act of worship that is sufficient to be done once in a lifetime. He caused the multitudes to come to the sacred house from all parts of the earth, using every means of transport with only one desire, to see the house. And to worship Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in its sacred environs. This is real honor where people through the ages, now for over 4,000 years, make the journey that Ibrahim made with his family. And they do what they did. Their actions become the actions, the rituals of a once-in-a-lifetime worship that bestow on them the blessings of Allah. And bestows the honor of forgiveness from all sins. This was the, this was his, Ibrahim alaihi salam's attitude of adab, of respect of huge reverence and submission to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala alone, abudiyat, where though they were building the Kaaba on the command of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, in the way that he guided them to do it, they didn't take this for granted. And Ibrahim alaihi salam made a dua, begging Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to accept their work. Rabbana taqabbal minna innaka anta assami wal alim. O our Rabb, accept this from us. You are indeed the all-hearing, all-knowing. To do good deeds, but with the anxiety that they may not be good enough to be accepted, is a sign of Iman. It's a sign of faith. It's a sign of Taqwa. We don't take it for granted. I'm doing good. Allah has to accept. Allah does not have to do anything. This is the opposite. The opposite of that is a sign of arrogance, and probably a guarantee that the deed will not be accepted. Then he, Ibrahim alaihi salam, made dua for a nation of righteous people to be raised, so that they would spread goodness in the land. Let us remind ourselves, we who live in a world of technology, and in awe of its creators and manipulators, and we call them wizards, that it is values, ethics, and morals, that define a civilization, not the tools they use. Today we call the Greeks and the Romans as the civilization of Greece and Rome. They were not civilizations. They were death cults. They were hugely over-militarized nations, whose constant work was war. There's not a single year in over 2,000 years, of Roman rule, that there wasn't a war. That's not civilization. That's breaking things. That's not building anything. Civilization is where you build things, not where you destroy things, not where your greatness is counted by the number of people you murder. Julius Caesar, when he conquered Gaul, which is currently France, there was a, Gaul had a population of 3 million. In one day, Caesar slaughtered 1 million, took 1 million as slaves, and he said to the third million, welcome to Rome. This is history. I didn't make it up. Go read it up. That is not civilization. So civilizations are known by their ideologies, by their values, ethics, and morals. So civilizations are known by their ideologies, by their values, ethics, and morals. All geared towards goodness, building, not destruction. All geared towards goodness, building, not destruction. All geared towards goodness, building, not destruction. They are not known by the tools they use. The pharaoh of Egypt had better tools and more resources than Moses and the people of Israel. But when Allah , decided to destroy the pharaoh, his tools and goals couldn't save him. Neither will all the A.I. in the world, when Allah decided to destroy, neither will all theERS in the world, not even one of

Jun 11, 2025

Questions #3 – What do you say about the man who was sent among you

Auto-generated transcript:My brothers and sisters, we are looking at the third question from the questions of the grave. And the first question was, who is your Rabb? And the second question was, what is your Deen? And the third question is, what do you say about the man who was sent among you? And the answer, of course, is that we say that he was the Rasul of Allah, sallallahu alayhi wasallam, and that we followed him. And then the question will be asked, what did you do? And the answer to that is, I read the Quran. And I believed in it. And I lived according to it. As I remind myself and you again and again, the issue is not knowing these answers now and repeating them or memorizing them and repeating them, but living our life in a way where these answers will come out. But starting withیا. And this was a Milanese. And I am going to start from Iran, now that I have opened this book to you, but I want to start from the person who sent me the question to ask and to tell you a discussion, because I know I must tell you the matter. Alright? Please do comment if you want. Okay. In this regard, we are also cloudy with our camp. Yay! Yay! Yeah. God bless you His Majesty. This is wonderful idea. Do it, boy. Shukar pard naya Jin. See if you didn't get this answer as well. Another said, the answer we know. He was the Rasool of Allah and I followed him. Question to ask ourselves is, is that the truth? Is that the truth? See in life, there are different kinds of ways in which we love the things around us. We love our parents, we love our children, we love the place we live in, we love our language, we love our culture, many things we love. And there is nothing like Allah , but we also love Allah and His Messenger . Now, all the different ways. Things that we love, each love has a requirement, there is a takhaza. The way you love your wife is not the same way you love your mother. You love both of them. But you love your wife in a different way, you love your mother in a different way. You love your wife by being good to her, kind to her, by taking care of her needs and so on and fulfilling her needs. You love your mother by serving her. And there is a difference between taking care of and serving. Today, our problems are because we, for our own self, we flipped it. So we take care of the mothers and we serve the wife. Then we complain. The question is, Allah gave us, we love our children. What is the meaning of loving the children? We also love our cats. We love our cats. We love our cats. We love our cats. We love our cats. We love our cats. We love our cats. We love our cats. We also love our cats or dogs or birds or whatever you keep, pets. Is there a difference between how you love a pet and how you love your child? In most places, there is not. The same, we do the same thing. Feed it. Make sure it is dry. Make sure it is warm. Make sure it is healthy. My job is over. Job is not over. Job is not, that is a job over for the pet, for the cat. for the child. For the child, the job is the tarbiyah of the child. Loving your children means that you will spend time with the children, tarbiyah of the children, training their children, teaching their children, teaching their children not to, while the khatir is going on, not to sit in the masjid with their back to the wall, scrolling on your phones. This is part of the tarbiyah of children. If you are not doing that, it means that you have not done the tarbiyah of the children. So taking care of children means tarbiyah of the children. Taking care of parents means serving the parents. Right? So what is the meaning of loving Allah and loving his Nabi alayhi salatu wasalam? Loving Allah is not simply to say, I love Allah. It's not simply to sing, you know, anasheed, hams of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. A nice voice. That is not love of Allah. That is nice to have. If you do it, you know how to do it, do it. I'm not saying it's haram. It's not haram. But love of Allah is obedience of Allah. Complete and total submission, umudiyat. Umudiyat is the sign of love of Allah and umudiyat is only and only to Allah. There is no umudiyat of anybody else. You cannot have umudiyat of the king or of, you know, of the king. You cannot have umudiyat of the king or of the queen. You cannot have umudiyat, you know, whoever. Only to Allah. So love of Allah is expressed by umudiyat, by complete obedience to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Love of Rasul alayhi salatu wasalam is expressed by the itiba of the Rasul alehi salatu wasalam. So itaat is for both, Allah and Rasul. Itiba is for the Rasul alayhi salam. Because you cannot make itiba of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Itiba is emulation, is to be like him, walk like him, talk like him, and so on. cannot be applied to Allah. Only to the Rasool a.s. Ittiba of the Rasool. This is the it's not again it's not the question of saying oh I am the Ashiq of the Rasool and you know Rasool is no. It's not abo

Jun 10, 2025

Questions #2 – What is your a Deen

Auto-generated transcript:We were talking about the questions that we have to answer. And as I mentioned, I remind myself and you, there are three questions that we have to answer in the grave that have to do with our Aqidah, with our creed, with our belief. Then there are four questions that we have to answer on the Day of Judgment, which have to do with our Aamad, our actions. The first of those questions we mentioned and talked about that last night, and that was, Man Rabbuk, who is your Rabb? The second question is, Ma Dinuk, what is your religion? Now, I remind myself and you that there is a difference between Deen and Madhab. There is a difference between Deen and Madhab. A Madhab has to do with rituals concerning worship and with certain issues of halal and hara and so on. Right? A Deen has to do with a complete way of life. So Islam is a Deen. In Islam, we have different Madhabs, which we follow until last. No problem with that. But the Deen is Islam. Allah said, Allah said, With Allah, there is only one Deen. That is Islam. And Allah said, Anyone who comes on the Day of Judgment with any other Deen other than Islam, will be among the losers. He should be rejected. So, very important. Allah said, Today I have completed your Deen. So, I have completed your Deen. Today I have completed your Deen. And I have given you my favor. And I have completed your Deen. Islam is a Deen. Now, therefore, it is very important for us to ensure that we learn and we practice. There is no practice possible. without learning. May Allah have mercy on us. We don't seem to give any importance to learning. Islam, learning about Islam is like learning about... in terms of learning, I mean it's not like learning about anything else because nothing else will take us into Jannah or Jayaan, but Islam will. If you practice Islam, you go to Jannah, otherwise you don't. But in terms of the time, the effort, the focus, it's the same. So just like you can't say, you can't say, well, I will learn cycling by watching some YouTube videos. No. You have to get onto a cycle, you have to get a cycle, get onto a cycle, fall off a few times, learn, get your balance, right? If you are training to be something more complicated than that, cooking for example, or just to be a good cook, you can't say something more complicated than that, say you want to become a physician, a doctor, a surgeon, right? Nobody becomes all these things by watching TikTok videos or by watching some YouTube videos. You do that by giving it your full attention, full time, following a prescribed program under the guidance of a scholar. What is a residency program which you do in the hospitals? It's guidance under scholars. These scholars are called doctors. Okay. You can't say, well, I joined medical school and now I want to do heart surgery on you and please lie down, give me a knife. No. Systematic. But somehow we have a different thinking with our, in the case of Islam. We think that Islam is just, you know, baby listening to a khatira or something, listening to khutbah. All this is good. But these are like the frills. In addition to everything else, I go and sit in the khatira, I listen to a khatira, I listen to a khutbah, I go and listen to a bayaan, and nothing wrong with that. But if this is the only way in which you are getting the, excuse me, don't fool yourself. Do not fool yourself. You will not get the deal like this. You have to apply yourself. Systematic process of study. I'm not even going into, the standards of our Salafi Salihin, of the great scholars of Islam. Because today when we talk about that, it seems like it's some fantasy, you know, like, is it even possible? It is possible. It was possible. They did it. And that's how you and I, we call ourselves Muslims. Alhamdulillah. Abdul Abid Mubarak, one of the greatest of the Tabiur. He said, I learned adab. He said, I learned adab. For 30 years before I touched the subject of Islam. Adab. Just how to behave. How to approach the Deeb. How to approach Islam. 30 years. That's not because he was stupid. Right? He's one of the greatest scholars of Islam. He didn't learn for 30 years because he was dumb. No. That's how long it takes. Your entire life. This is how you raise your children. He didn't say he went to a school for 30 years to learn Islam. No. He said, I learned adab. How? From the way he was raised as a child. Right? Imam Malik Ramatullah Ali. He says, my mother, he must have been about maybe five years old or something. He says, my mother used to dress me up before Salatul Fajr. She would dress me up. She would tie an amama on my head. Little five year old kid. And then she would take him. She would walk with him. She would take him to Majlis. And then she would take him to the mosque. And then she would take him to the mosque. She would walk with him. She would take him to Majlis and Nabi Shaykh. And after Sa

Jun 9, 2025

Questions – #1 – Who is your Rabb?

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the worlds. And peace and blessings be upon the honour of the prophets and messengers. And praise be to the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his companions. Peace be upon you all. My brothers and sisters, people ask me different questions. Somebody asked me today about the issues of investing in stocks. And say which are halal stocks and different bodies certify certain companies and they have different reasons for certifying companies and all that. So, my answer is very simple. My answer is that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, through his messenger Muhammad Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, gave us a standard. And the standard is seven questions. There are seven questions. Three questions that we will be asked in our grave when we die. And four questions that we will have to answer on the Day of Judgment. So, seven questions. So, my... Advice to myself and you is that when it comes to any decision in life, irrespective, any decision, whether it is marriage, whether it is investment, whether it is which school to go to, what job to take, what to eat, what to drink, what not to eat, what not to drink, anything, you name the question. Anytime you come to a decision point, refer it to the question that concerns that decision. You don't have to look for... look at all the seven questions, but the question with respect to that decision. And if the answer is yes, do it. If the answer is no, don't do it. I'll give you examples. First of all, what are the seven questions? What are the three questions in the grave? Anybody? What is the first question which you will be asked? Okay. First, man rabbuq. Who is your Rab? The malaika are not asking, who is Rabbul Alameen? Who is the creator of the heavens and the earth? They're not asking that question. They're saying, who is your Rab? Right? Man rabbuq. What is the second question? Ma deenuk. What is your religion? What did you believe in? And what is the third question? They will say, what do you say about the man who was sent among you? And that is Rasulullah . Three questions in the grave. All three have to do with aqidah, with our belief. It's not a question of, is it good or bad? Who is your Rab? Who is, what is your deen? Who is your Prophet ? Then there are four questions on the Day of Judgment. One of those questions has two parts. Four questions. What are the four questions on the Day of Judgment? We have the hadith of Musa . He said that the feet of the Banu Adam will not move from before their Rabb Jalla Jalaluhu until they answer four questions. You know, I remember, on a side note, I'll come to you in a minute. I remember seeing, I watched a film which was about a prison. So, in this prison, they have different floors and the corridors are made of steel mesh, very thick steel mesh. And the prisoners, I saw that they were wearing shoes with metal soles. And obviously, when they walk, it makes a huge racket. Bang, bang, bang. I'm thinking to myself, why do they have to have metal soles and so on? And then in the film, there is a fight. And as soon as there is a fight, the prison guard simply goes and throws a switch. And there is a very powerful electromagnet in the mesh. It grabs the soles of the shoes and the prisoners are locked in place. They can't move. They can't move. So, if a guy is running, his feet are locked. He falls flat on his face. He can't move. And I remember this, Hadith of Nabi said, the feet of the children of Adam will not move from before the Rabb until they answer these four questions. What are the four questions? What is the first one? Omri. Omri. First one. Omri. Omri. Omri. First one. Yeah. First one. What did you do with your life, with the time that you spent in this world? Next. Second one. Maa shabaabi. What did you do with your youth? Third one. Hilm. Hilm. What did you do with the knowledge which was given to you? What is the fourth one? Fourth is a double question. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Maa lihi. Asaika maaya. Where did you earn it from and where did you spend it? Four questions. Now, we look at all these individually, inshaAllah, in Qatara. I'm not doing everything today. So, let us look at our lives in the light of these. These are the only things which matter in this life. First and foremost, convince yourself that nothing else matters. The only things which matter are these seven points. If these seven things are good, we are good, inshallah, forever and ever. If these seven things are the problem, we should fix it. Because you don't want to die with that problem. It's as simple as that. So the first and foremost, man Rabbuk, who is your Rabb? Allah . Allah . Is it enough to s

Jun 7, 2025

Lessons from Hajj

Auto-generated transcript:Alhamdulillah we finished the Yawm al-Arafah today. We ask Allah to reward us in keeping with His Majesty and Grace and to grant our duas and to give us the opportunity for this again and again year after year. The people who are in Hajj, they have completed Yawm al-Arafah standing in Arafah and right now they would be in Muzdarifah, they would have finished the maybe even the Tawaf and so on. And Saeed and waiting for Yawm al-Nahar tomorrow for Eid and we also wait for Eid al-Fitr inshallah tomorrow and Eid al-Adha tomorrow inshallah. We ask Allah to help us to celebrate that in a way that pleases His Majesty and Grace. The Hajj is a beautiful journey. We ask Allah to enable us to do it. Those who have not done it. Make it your Niyah that you will do it next year. That is the number one. It's a Rukur of Islam. It's not just something which is just a Faridah. It's a Rukur. And of course obviously it's a Faridah. So it is something which is absolutely critical, must be done at the first possible opportunity. And I can tell you that it is an Ibadah to be done in your youth. Don't wait till you get old to do Hajj. It's very difficult. When you get old it becomes very difficult. But in your youth, it's very difficult. When you are young, alhamdulillah, it's good. So do it in your youth as soon as you can. Right? If you just think about this, when the person... Hajj is a reminder of the entire cycle of life. When a person puts on his Ihram, he is effectively reminding himself that a day will come when that is how he will live this world. In two pieces of glass. Everything he has will be gone from him. Nothing to destroy. Nothing to distinguish him. Whether he is rich or poor, whether he was a king or he was a pauper, whoever he was. Whether he was a scholar or whether he was ignorant, makes no difference. He will go in the same two pieces of glass. Just like when he puts on his Ihram, they all put on the same clothes. There is nothing to distinguish one from the other. Because in the sight of Allah, everybody is equal. And then when he makes Tawaf, he reminds himself that he is equal. He is equal. He reminds himself that this is the house to which Ibn-i-Aim called the other. He invited. Allah said, you call and I will send. And they come from every part of the globe. In every conceivable means of transport. To this day, there are people who are going to Hajj walking. People are going to Hajj on horseback. Three people from Spain have gone to Hajj this year on horseback. People have gone to Hajj walking. I have a friend of mine in Saudi Arabia. He lives in Jeddah. He is a Muslim. He told me his grandfather and three uncles. His grandfather had four sons. So one son, he told him to stay back. He was in Afghanistan in a place called Swat in Pakistan, Swat Valley. So he, grandfather said, one son, stay here with your mother. They will look after the property. The other three sons he took. And they walked from Swat to Makkah. On the way, closer to Makkah. They got attacked by a gang of Muslims. They were very angry. They were very angry. They have a big mouth. I am a robber. Just these four Bhatans, right. All they had were sticks. They slammed the daylights out of the people. Their leader they captured. They tied him up on ropes and they took him to Makkah. And they handed him over to the police. They say who are these? We are safe. We are unjudged. Who are these people? They are trying to attack us. So what happened? This happened. Take them. So the Saudi Government gives them award and all sorts of things. They arrested these ones and they are doing justice to them. So they have a lot of money. So they took them as a court. That is it. They walked and went for Hajj. Until today, there are people who walk and they walk. Right? Sheikh Abdullah was saying his grandfather took one year from Morocco to Mecca and back. He was 22 years old when he left for Hajj. He had no money. So he would go to some place, work a few days, get some money and go further. He took one year to go from Morocco to Mecca. Yeah? He did Hajj and so on, spent one year there. And then he took one year to go back. So he left at the age of 22 and he was back home at the age of 25. So on and so forth. Imagine the life, the memories that these things create. Today we have our heads and our phones. Right? That will be a memory, your cell phone. Get out. Go and look at the world. This is the age. This is the age when you should do these things. Just start. Start walking. Make a plan. Walk. But if you are tied with your, you know, apron strings to your mama and you cannot survive unless mama makes some parathas for you, goodbye, brother. Seriously, I'm telling you, get out of your houses. So when the, when the, the, the Haji, he's making tawaf, he remembers that because this is the house that Ibrahim alayhi salam, Ibrahim alayhi salam built. And even though they were building it

Jun 6, 2025

Qurbani – Udhiya, Importance and Method

إِنِّي وَجَّهْتُ وَجْهِيَ لِلَّذِي فَطَرَ السَّمَوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضَ عَلَى مِلَّةِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ حَنِيفًا وَمَا أَنَا مِنْ الْمُشْرِكِينَ إِنَّ صَلَاتِي وَنُسُكِي وَمَحْيَايَ وَمَمَاتِي لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ وَبِذَلِكَ أُمِرْتُ وَأَنَا مِنْ الْمُسْلِمِينَ اللَّهُمَّ مِنْكَ وَلَكَ بِاسْمِ اللَّهِ اَللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ “I have set my direction firmly and truly towards Him Who created the heavens end the earth. And never shall I give partners to Allah. Verily, my worship and my sacrifice, my living and my dying are for Allah Sustainer of the worlds. O Allah this sacrifice is from you and is for you.” Bismillah wallahu akbar. Allahumma minka wa ilaika, fataqabbal min … (pronounce the name of the person on whose behalf the animal is being sacrificed). It means: “In the name of Allah and Allah Almighty, O Allah, this sacrifice is from You and for You, accept the sacrifice (pronounce the name of the person on whose behalf the animal is being sacrificed) Auto-generated transcript: In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the worlds, and peace and blessings be upon the honour of the prophets and messengers, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, and a lot of peace and blessings.All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the worlds, and peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions,Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions, увид salman 247Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions,Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions,Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his companions,in the case of cattle at least six months old in the case of sheep or goats at least a year oldnow some other things to remember that these are the instructions of rasulullah concerningthe actual act of slaughter it is virtuous for a person man or woman to slaughter the animalwith their own hand but they don't have to do it they can also delegate that slaughter tosomebody else who can slaughter on their behalf a very important thing the act of slaughter itselfand only is the act of worship so you can't say well i am vegan or you know i don't want tosubject some sheep to unnecessary pain and therefore even though i eat you know biryaniand i eat nahryouand I eat everything else throughout the year,all of which has dead sheep in it.On the day of Khurbani,on the day of Yawm-ul-Eid,for the Udiya,Shaitan puts this in your mind and heart and says,no, no, no, don't slaughter the sheep.Why don't I just give this in charity?There are so many people who are deserving.So I will give the cost of the sheep in charity.Please understand,that action would not constitute Khurbani.It is not a substitute for Khurbani.As a matter of fact,it would be an evil intention,an evil action and a sinbecause you are trying to subvertthe deen of Allah subhanahu wa ta'alaby introducing your own version to it.So don't fall into these traps.Now, therefore,try to slaughter with your own hand.If you can't do that,if you are not able to do thatbecause you live in a country where it is not allowedor you live in a place where it's not easyand so on and so forth,or even if you,you don't want to do itwithout condemning itor without saying anything against it,you can delegate it to somebody else.One very, very important thing,slaughter can also be done in other countries.For example,you can send money to some other countryand ask your Khurbani to be done there.But very important to rememberthat your Khurbani is a Khurbani.The slaughter is a slaughteronly if it is done after Salatul Eid.If it is done before Salatul Eid,then it's just a regular slaughter of an animalfor the sake of eating itand it has

Jun 6, 20259 min

Yawm ul Arafah Reminder

Auto-generated transcript:My brothers and sisters, Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has caused us to be Muslim, be raised as Muslims. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has caused us and granted us, inshallah, and we ask Allah to do that. To grant us Yawm al-Arafah, which here in America will be tomorrow, inshallah. And tomorrow, which is the 5th of June 2025, will be the Yawm al-Arafah in America. As per the sighting of the moon, Abdul Hijjah, which was sighted widely. And this day of Arafah on the 5th of June is based on actual physical sighting of the moon. As per the sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. The Yawm al-Arafah, please note the word Arafah refers to the day of Arafah. And when we say Arafat, it refers to the plains of Arafat outside Mecca, where we stand on this day, B meaning the people who have gone for Hajj, they stand on that, in Arafat, the plain of Arafat on that day. So the Yawm al-Arafah is the name given to the 9th of Dhul Hijjah. Please note and understand. This has nothing to do with people standing in the plains of Arafat. This is coincidental. But the day is the 9th of Dhul Hijjah. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned in the Hadith about the first 10 days of Dhul Hijjah, that these are the best days of the entire Islamic year. He said, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, in the Hadith mentioned in Musnad Ibn Ahmad, there are no days greater and more beloved. to Allah than these first 10 days of Dhul Hijjah. As we know, Daratul Qadr is the pinnacle of the last 10 nights of Ramadan, and therefore it is the best night of the year. Similarly, the day of Arafah is the pinnacle of the first 10 days of Dhul Hijjah, and thus it is the best day of the entire year. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala also mentioned these days, where He said, wa'l-fajri wa'l-ayyal in Ashr. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala took an oath, by the dawn, Pajr, and He said, the 10 nights, the layal in Ashr. Now the Mufassirin have agreed upon, that this refers to the, these 10 days and those nights, and the only night which is superior to that is Daratul Qadr, and therefore, the dalil of the superiority of these days, is from the Quran, and, from the Hadith, and from the Hadith of Rasulullah . Now, some of the merits of the day of Arafah, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala mentioned in Surat Al-Buruj, wa'l-samai zaati al-buruj, wa'l-yaumi al-mau'ud, wa-shahidin wa mashhud, by the sky containing, the Qura'at, the constellations, and by the promised day, and by a witness, and one witnessed. The first three ayat of Surat Al-Buruj. Regarding these ayat, Rasulullah s.a.w. said in the Hadith in Tirmidhi, the promised day is the day of resurrection, the one witnessed is the day of Arafah, and the witness is Friday. The sun does not rise or set upon a day, that is more virtuous than it, meaning, the day of, Arafah. Rasulullah s.a.w. said in the Hadith in Muslim Sharif, that there is no day on which Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala frees, more people from the fire, than on the day of Arafah. Indeed, he draws near, and boasts of them to the angels and says, what do these people want? Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala proudly displays, these are my people. Undoubtedly, it would be a wasted opportunity, if we did not, try to be one of those people, who Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala draws close to him, and he forgives. Layatul Qadr is the night when the Quran was first sent down, and the day of Arafah is the day, when Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala revealed the ayat of the Quran, where Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, high spiritual, the different verses, and temporarily hand down the Quranic Kayn, Allah sabeed to you, the enemies of始رائيل. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala also says, the conditions of Qaeda. He said, ückenbr kun Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala recipe guide the supposedMINISREVT'HABE görd внутри you. made that day a day of Eid, a day of festival. Sayyidina Umar, radhiallahu anhu, replied, he asked him, which ayah? He said, Where Allah said, today I have perfected for you your religion and completed upon you my blessing, and I have chosen for you Islam as your religion. Sayyidina Umar, radhiallahu anhu, replied, He said, surely we know that the day and place where it was revealed upon the Prophet ﷺ, he was standing at Arafat on the Friday, and this is the hadith in Bukhari. The fact that Allah ﷻ chose the day of Arafat to reveal this ayah makes it an even more blessed days. Now, what must we do on this day? Of course, the people who are, standing in Arafat, may Allah ﷻ make us among them. Those who haven't done Hajj, this is even more reminder for us that do Hajj as soon as you have the capacity to do Hajj. Don't delay it. Don't wait for, you know, some thing to happen. People say, I will go when I'm called. The only place that to which you will be called is, is your death. Only Malak

Jun 5, 2025

Dhul Hijjah – #2

Auto-generated transcript:Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Alhamdulillah. My dear brothers and sisters and elders, we come to the last of the reminders I want to make about these 10 days, and that is the days of Hajj and the day of Arafah. These 10 days are very significant because they also include the days of Hajj. And Allah SWT said about the day of Arafah, which is the day of Hajj when people are standing in Arafah. He said there is no day on which Allah SWT frees more people from the hellfire than on the day of Arafah. Hajj is the pillar of Islam as we know, and which must be performed at the earliest opportunity. Rasulullah SAW warned us against delaying the performance of Hajj, and warned us that delay may result in deprivation and deep regret. Rasulullah SAW is reported to have said, to perform Hajj, which is the first obligation, obligatory for Hajj, as none of you knows what may happen to him. He said, you don't know, maybe you will die before that. Maybe you will not get time after that, do it. So as soon as you have the opportunity, go make Hajj. And this is in Musnad Imam Ahmad, in Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah. And then also in Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah, Nabi SAW said, which means, whoever wants to do Hajj, let him hasten, let him hurry to do so. Hajj reminds us about the virtue of obedience, because it's rituals, are an enactment of the actions of Ibrahim and his family, which Allah SWT declared to become and to be rituals of worship. They did those actions because they needed to. We do them because they did them, in honour of them, and in honour of that Allah SWT forgives our sins. This is the wages of obedience. Allah SWT caused those actions, not just to be remembered, but He made them the rituals, the rituals of Hajj. Abu Hurairah narrated that he heard Rasul saying, whoever performs Hajj and does not commit any obscenity or transgression, shall return free from sins as he was on the day his mother gave birth to him. And this is Haib Bukhari, we make this dua for all those people who have gone for Hajj this year, including those who went from here. And we ask Allah SWT to enable us to go next year, InshaAllah, especially those who haven't done Hajj. In the name of Allah, make it your topmost priority. If you are eligible, meaning if you have the money and you have the health, then that has to become the number-one priority for you, InshaAllah. Abdullah bin Umar narrated that Rasul said, the one striving in the cause of Allah, Jihad feeh Sableeelillah, and the one performing Hajj, and the one performing Umrah, these are all the guests of Allah. He called them, and they responded to His call. and he answers their dua. And this is in Ibn Majah. It's a beautiful opportunity to ask Allah SWT for whatever you want, and Allah SWT promised to give it. Hajj is a lesson in life which is worth reflecting on. When the pilgrim puts on, when the hajj puts on his ihram, he is reminded that this will be the way in which he will begin the journey of his eternal life in two pieces of cloth. During hajj, he stands equal to everyone else there, without any sign to distinguish him from anyone else, shorn of all his pomp and splendor, alone as a supplicant. On the plain of Arafah, he stands bareheaded and disheveled with two million others, begging Allah SWT for his mercy and forgiveness. When he does tawaf, he is reminded of Khalilullah Ibrahim AS, our father and the father of the ummah, who built the house to be a place of sanctuary and a place of peace. He is reminded of the blessing which Allah SWT has bestowed upon humankind in the form of this blessed water, which millions of people have drunk through the ages. And Rasulullah SAW said, make a niyah and Allah will accept that dua. He said, zamzam is for whatever it is, drug for. When he does tawaf, between Safa and Marwah, he is reminded of the actions of our mother Haja AS and the mother of Ismail AS, the wife of Khalilullah Ibrahim AS. She didn't sit and wait for the help of Allah SWT to come, although she had complete faith in it. But she made the best effort that she could make. This is the essence of sabr. Sabr is not just to sit and wait. Sabr is to do your best, the ultimate best, and then to ask Allah SWT, for his help. The haji is reminded to do the same in his or her life, make the best effort and trust in the help of Allah. The standing, the wukuf in Arafah reminds the pilgrim of the throngs of people on the day of judgment. If the pilgrim feels tired from being in a crowd of thousands, how will it be in a crowd of barefoot, naked, uncircumcised people standing for 50,000 years? When he throws the pebbles at the Jamarat, the Muslim trains himself to obey Allah unquestioningly, even if he does not understand the reason and wisdom behind the rami, behind the throwing, and cannot make the connection between the rulings and their purpose. This is a manifestation of his complete abudiyya, his submission to Allah. When he slaughters, he sac

Jun 4, 2025

Dhul Hijjah – #1

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise belongs to Allah. My dear brothers and sisters and elders, we are in the middle of the best days of the year that Allah has blessed us with. We thank Allah for giving us life, for guiding us to Islam and for allowing us to witness another sacred month, the month of Dhul Hijjah, particularly the first ten days, which are the most virtuous days in the calendar. These days are a divine gift from Allah for our spiritual growth, for our to earn hasanat through acts of worship and the opportunity to earn immense reward. Allah mentioned these days and He said, By the dawn and by the ten nights. When Allah takes an oath by something, it is an indication of its great significance and status. The Mufassireen are agreed upon that and including Ibn Kathir and others, that when Allah said, Layali Nashab, the ten nights, it also refers to the first ten days of Dhul Hijjah. That these ten nights, Walfajri wa Layali Nashab refers to the first ten days of Dhul Hijjah. Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la mentioned night, but it also includes the day of Dhul Hijjah. And we have the supporting dhalil of Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la mentioning with respect to Zakariya, when he said, You will not speak for three days in one place and three nights for another place. So it means that the days and the nights, it means the same thing. Rasulullah , whose words are the truth, further emphasized the importance of these days in several authentic hadiths in Sayyid Bukhari, which are the words of the Prophet . Rasulullah is reported to have said, there are no days in which righteous deeds, good deeds, are more beloved to Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la than these days. They asked him, not even jihad in the path of Allah. He said, not even jihad, except for a man who goes out with his life and wealth and does not return, returns with nothing. Rasulullah is telling us that, acts of worship during Dhul Hijjah are not accepted by Allah. The Prophet is reported that the day of judgement is not even jihad in all the paths of Allah. They said, there are less days in which righteous deeds are not accepted by Allah than these days. The Sahaba, Ridhu Allah, Alayhim Ulay, Wain, Wain. They asked him, not even jihad in the path of Allah. worship during these 10 days such as salah fasting charity zikr recitation of quran and so on and more beloved to him than doing the same deeds in any other days that is why rasul sallallahu used to fast all the first nine days of the hijjah and especially the day of gharafat which obviously if you to the fire if you fast the nine days the ninth day is the day of gharafa and he said that fasting on the day of gharafa expiates and wipes out the sins of the past year and the coming year and this is a muslim the day of gharafa or yawal is the name for the ninth of the hijjah just as yamun nahar is the name given to the day of which is the 10th we have been instructed to celebrate it and to fast on it wherever and whenever it occurs in our country of residence we have not been instructed to follow saudi arabia or any other country and if anyone interested i will give you the latest fatwa from the legend of roma of saudi arabia which specifically states this do not follow saudi arabia follow the sighting in your country so we have not been we have asked we have been asked to use that day for our benefit not to create dissonance and division and conflict in the country while notMi6aeidaiwa vyekass aun eye ati I remind myself and you that we must become greedy about accumulating good deeds. Just think of how greedy we are with accumulating wealth. We do not miss any opportunity. We don't care how painful it may be and how hard we may need to work or what other activity or interest we may need to give up. And may Allah help us, we don't even worry about whether it is halal or haram. But we must get wealth, anyhow. If there is an opportunity to make money, we give that precedence over everything else. So how about accumulating hazanat, which will come with us into the next world. I remind myself and you, let us remember that we will die. Let us not die with regret that we lost the opportunity to accumulate the only wealth which will help us when we meet Allah. So let's take advantage of the opportunities that Allah gives. He gives us to learn and to earn His pleasure before we are summoned before Him. That day will come, but we don't know when. So let's not delay in accumulating our real wealth. Now some acts of ibadah that we can do. One is to increase the amount of dhikr, the remembrance of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala that we do. In the hadith in Musnad ibn Ahmad, Rasulullah s.a.w. mentioned and he said that there are no days greater and more beloved. to Allah than these ten days of Dhul Hijjah. So increase in them your declaration of La ilaha illallah, tahlil, and saying Allahu Akbar,

Jun 3, 2025

Reward of obedience

Auto-generated transcript:I will tell you since you are young boys, I'll tell you a story about another young boy. And about this young boy, the story refers to these days that we are going through. This young boy was his father. He didn't meet his father. His father left him in a particular place just after he was born. And after that, the father came back when he was maybe 10 years old or something like that. And the father was in his 90s. And the father took him for a walk. And as they are walking, the father says to him, I have seen in my dream that I am slaughtering you for Allah. He said, O daughter, do what you are commanded to do. You will find me, if Allah wills, of those who are patient. Allah says that Ibrahim, when Ismail was old enough to walk with him, his father said to him, I have seen in my dream that I am slaughtering you. Look, what do you see? And his son says, O my father, do as you have been commanded. And inshallah, you will find me among those who are patient. Right? So the father, he hasn't seen the father. He hasn't seen the father for his whole life, effectively. And the first time he sees his father, this is the conversation. The father says, I have seen in my dream that I am slaughtering you for the sake of Allah. And then his father asks him a very strange question. He says to him, He said, you look, what do you see? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? He says, you look, what do you see? And the answer of the boy, the amazing thing, first of all, if somebody asks you a question, look, what do you see? What is the automatic response to that? What will you say? So look where? If I say look, look where? In my pocket? Behind me? Outside? The boy does not ask. Because he knows what his father is talking about. Imagine somebody who is raised in such a way that such a question does not confuse him, it does not perplex him, it does not get, what's wrong with my dad? He says, do as you have been commanded. Do as you have been commanded. And you will find me, insha'Allah, among the people who have sabr. You know the name of the boy? Yes. Is this Ibrahim's son? Ibrahim's son? Yes. What was his name? Ismail . Ibrahim's son, Ismail . And that was a good recovery, insha'Allah. The point I'm making is that, think about it from another angle. He was a boy. He was a boy like you. He was a boy like you. He was a boy like you. What makes them special? He was a boy like you. He was the product of a single parent. Today we talk about a single parent. There was no father. From the time he was born to the time of this conversation, there was no father involved. Ibrahim was not there. He was raised by his mother alone, Hajar . Single parent. How did she raise him in such a way that, number one, when he sees his father, he respects his father, he has regard for his father, right? And number two, he's already connected with Allah to such an extent that when his father asks him this question, which, if you look at the question, it's a very strange question. He knows what he's talking about. And then he gives him such a beautiful answer. He does not say, you will find me among the sabirin. He says, inshaAllah. He says, inshaAllah. If Allah wills. Because he's talking about slaughter, you can't say, well, you know, I've done this before, I know I can bear the pain. No. He doesn't know. What does it mean to be saying, I will slaughter you? What slaughter? He doesn't know. He doesn't know. He doesn't know. He doesn't know. He doesn't know. He doesn't know. He doesn't know. He doesn't know. InshaAllah. It also shows us how, both for Ibrahim and Ismail, the number one important thing, the overwhelming thing, was the will of Allah. Ibrahim never asked Allah , why should I slaughter my son? What would I... After all, you gave me a son. After so many decades of making dua, now I had the little boy. Now you want me to slaughter him? What is this? Slaughtering is his wattéh. What's his wattéth? Don't ask, don't ask. son yes I'm ready for the son he didn't say how come you know first time I'm seeing you now you're telling me what kind of thing is this what did I do you saw the dream go slaughter somebody else no do as you have been come up if I'll my Atuma said I did only inshallah who you know somebody do as you have been commanded to my father and inshallah you will find me among the people who have suburb so for both the father and the son obedience to Allah sultana who teller is the number one priority no right if Allah said I will do class no arguments no waiting for time though let me think about this yellow you gave me this very difficult command so give me some time you know let me think about it no straight away strai

Jun 2, 2025

Three Eyes

Jun 1, 2025

Compare lifestyle

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds, and peace and blessings be upon the honour of the prophets and messengers. Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his family, and peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his family, My brothers and sisters, one of the most important things for us to do is to become grateful people. To become among the shakireen, the people who are grateful to Allah. You know, if you think about this, today we live in a world where we seem to be surrounded by bad news. In the newspapers, this and that, and all kinds of stuff all over the place. But give it a little bit more thought. Today, if you look at our lifestyle, and I'm not talking about the lifestyles of the high and mighty, the rich and famous. I'm talking about the lifestyles of ordinary people like us. We have lifestyles, and we live in comfort that is superior to the loyalty of the West and the East in medieval times. Far better than the kings and queens lived in Europe, and far better than the kings and queens lived in the East. Europe, I don't even want to talk and compare because their lifestyles are different. But if you look at the lifestyle, it's pretty sad if you look at the parameters. Say, for example, let's take two or three parameters to judge the lifestyle. One, let us take health. You know, these were the days before penicillin, days before antibiotics. It meant that if you got a wound on one of your limbs, which was very, very common for all kinds of reasons, not just wars, but, you know, exercise, practicing with weapons, working in the fields, just playing, anything, right? If you got a wound in one of your limbs, and they had some very brutal ways of dealing with it, with those things, and if it didn't work, if it got infected, which it did, you had a very good chance of losing the limb itself or having to get it amputated. And amputation also, including, for example, treating the wound if it needed to be stitched, amputation, everything. Remember, these are the days before anesthesia. So amputation was that they would grab you, put you on a... table or on some platform, hold you down, and then somebody would either take an axe or a saw and do the job. Not a nice image at all, right? But that was medical treatment. Infant mortality was through the roof. There was not a house in which some child had not died. Many women died in childbirth. And it didn't matter because disease does not differentiate between royalty and nobility and the common folk. The treatment that they had in the West for disease was practically one thing, which is bloodletting. So if you are sick, they opened a vein in your arm or... somewhere and they drained blood, sometimes quite a lot of blood. And they believed that this was something which cured you. It actually killed you because you had now also to deal with loss of blood. In the East, it was slightly better because medical treatment was a little bit more developed, but not particularly more. Food could not be refrigerated. There was no such thing. People used to eat food, which if you eat today, you would die. Because meat would be almost putrefying when they were eating it. And that's why they used a lot of spices to mask the stink of rotting meat. This is as far as food and health is concerned. Again, in the East, it was better. Especially if you were wealthy enough, you managed to get some decent food. But in Europe, it was very awful. There was obviously no heating and cooling and so on and so forth. So in the summer, you got hot. In the winter, you got cold. You froze. In the West, in Europe, they believed that bathing was dangerous to health. So they never bathed. Never bathed. They never brushed their teeth because they didn't know anything about oral hygiene. So by the time a person was about 30 years old, they would have lost most, if not all, their teeth. They had pyria. Their mouths stank worse than the worst drain. And this was normal. This was normal. And they never bathed, so their bodies stank. They believed that lice, and things like that in the beard, in the hair, on the skin was normal. This was how human beings were supposed to be, full of lice and so on. It's eye-opening that it was only during the Crusades that Europe and Europeans, including European royalty, were exposed to things like bathing and toothpaste and toothbrushes. And they were the first to have a bath. And they were the first to have a bath. And they were the first to have a bath. And some of them brought that back to Europe. Many of them got condemned for that reason. They said, you have become, you have left Christianity because you have taken on the ways of the heathens. But that's when things like oral hygiene, physical hygiene, and so on, started coming into Europe. It came f

May 31, 2025

Count our blessings

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, Lord of the worlds. And peace and blessings be upon the honour of the prophets and the messengers. Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and may Allah grant him peace, and may Allah grant him much, much peace. And then, my brothers and sisters, we know the ayat of Surah Al-Bahim. Allah, the Exalted, said, Allah, the Exalted, said, Which means, let it be announced that the one who is grateful to Allah, the Exalted, for his blessings, Allah will increase the blessings. And the one who is ungrateful, let him beware that the punishment of Allah, the Exalted, is severe. Before we go further, let us just reflect on this. Allah said, The one who, thanks Allah, Allah will increase the blessings. But the one who is ungrateful, Allah did not say, Allah will punish him. Allah said, let him beware, the punishment is severe. Right? Normally, if you look at the construction of a sentence, it should be, I will give you, I will not give you. I will reward you, I will punish you. But this is the rahmah of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Allah does not say, I will punish. Allah said, beware, punishment is severe. Meaning, there is always room for us to make izdighfar and tawbah and not reach that point where the punishment becomes wajib. Today, I went to a place called Longmeadow Conservation Area, which is 15 minutes from here, just behind Bay Path University. And I took some photos, I posted them. Whoever is interested, send me a message, I will send you the photos. I saw two families of swans. Absolutely fabulous. Most beautiful two hours that I spent. 15 minutes from here. How many of you never heard of this place? You lived here how many, 30 years, 40 years? Why? Why don't you go out? Why don't? Why don't you go and see the khudrat of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala? What are you doing? Sitting in the house every day from morning till evening, making money to do what? Please, enjoy the mercy of Allah. See how Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has blessed us. Today, unfortunately, we live in a world where we hear only negative stuff. This is bad, that is bad, that is bad, that is bad, right? So, let us look at something. Some of the opposite, which is true, which we should really focus on. And I'll just go back to my own childhood and growing up. I'm not going back to ancient history of how it was in ancient Egypt and with the pharaohs and with, you know, kingdoms. No, I can give you all of that as well, but just by... When I was growing up in our house, and alhamdulillah, I didn't come from a poor family. I came from a very wealthy. I came from a very wealthy family and a very noble family. My father was a medical doctor, physician. We lived in a huge house. I was born in a house which had three acres of land around it. But then we moved to my father's house, which had four bedrooms, half an acre of land around it. And this is in Hyderabad. Mango trees, this, that. But no hot and cold running water. I'm not talking ancient history. I'm talking about the 60s, late 50s. No hot and cold running water. Not because we were poor. Not because there was no hot and cold running water. System didn't exist. No air conditioning. And why is air conditioning important? Because right now, as I'm speaking, the temperature in my city in Hyderabad is 120 Fahrenheit. You're always right. The chicken lays an egg, it becomes an omelet straight away. Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? Right? My family, you've met a few children. lt's not. They live in an apartment building or whatever. You took your children. What would you do if she was not with you? She wasn't? You wouldn't even neck her? You wouldn't even? generators. So we had something called the Hawa Daan. How do you translate Hawa Daan into English? It was a box of air. So it was a covered, wooden covered with mesh on all four sides. So any food that was left, you put it in that. Next morning, if it was good, you ate it. If it wasn't good, you gave it to the chickens. Right? How did we live in that heat? Two ways. And if you ever got caught in that situation, use this. One, we would flood the room in which you would sleep. And flood not like in five feet of water, just about one inch of water on the floor. So remove, take away the carpets, just put it in the stone floor, one inch of water on the floor. Automatically the water evaporates with the heat. It's nice and cool. If you can't do that, then take a sheet, soak it, wet it, wring it so it's not dripping with water. Cover yourself with that sheet and sleep. You're fine. You don't need air conditioning. You learn to survive. As I told you, this is just from... Late 50s, early 60s. Say early 60s. Today, push a... You'

May 30, 2025

How to become influential – 3

https://youtu.be/YE9O2_YnEts Auto-generated transcript: Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Alhamdulillahi Rabbil Alameen.Wa salatu wa salamu ala ashrafil anbiya wal mursaleen Muhammadu Rasulullahi sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam.Tasliman kathirun kathirun.I am in this fabulous place called the Longmeadow Conservation Area,which is literally a stone's throw from where I live, about a 15-minute drive.And it's directly behind Bay Path University for locals who are listening to this one.And I am here with my good friend Arshad, Arshad Abdullah.Wa alaikum salam wa salam.And we are looking at a family of swans which are here.They have hidden themselves behind this, but inshallah, I think we'll be able to get a picture of them.There you go, the mother and the chicks are on that little bunch of land there.The father, the cob, is in those bushes.I think this is a kind of refuge for them.And they were floating around all this.Time.And now they've come here.And it's a beautiful scene.So you can see them grooming and very, very beautiful.Absolutely peaceful scene all around here.These are wetlands.It's a flooded land, which is...They have also red-shorted blackbirds coming up and landing.I want to talk to you about the last part of what I said the last time, which is adding value.And let me give you a couple of examples.I was in Singapore in 2020.And I was...I've been invited to teach a course at GE.GE Asia.And they...So I landed in Singapore.And the course was the next day.So I landed in the afternoon.And I thought I'd go out and, you know, see the town.So I asked the concierge of the hotel to get me a cab.Now, this is where the...If you see the...This is the...Value addition.How can it can be done?So the concierge says to me,Sir, I can get you a cab, of course.But if you want to just walk down to the main road,which is, you know, literally a couple of...Maybe 30, 40 feet because, you know, you get to the hotel and...He said, if you just stand on the curbside,taxis will come.He said, within two minutes,or less, you will have a taxi.And that will cost you nothing.Because if he says, if I get you the cab,then we will charge...The hotel will charge you.So I said, sure.Thank you so much.I went down to the...To the sidewalk, to the footpath.I stood on the curb.And sure enough, less than two minutes,the cab was there.Now, this is where the story starts.This cab driver,he stops the cab.He gets out, comes around,opens my door, passenger door.He says, Sir, please have a seat.So I get in.I sit down.And he says to me,Sir, this is...There's water here, if you want to drink water.He says, these are magazines.He has a business magazine and he has a...Just an entertainment magazine.He has also a...Guide magazine for Singapore.He shuts the door.He goes and gets into the seat.And he says, Sir, where can I take you?So I said, nowhere.I just want to sit in this cab andenjoy this experience of riding with you.Of being in your cab.We had a laugh.But this is 2020.I'm recording this 2025.25 years later, this experience is fresh in my mind.That is adding value.You take an ordinary,which is driving a cab,and you convert that into an unforgettable experiencefor your customers.Now, when the trip finished,I paid him.I tipped him.I gave him something more.He was happy to take that.But, you know, that's not why he did it.He did it because of who he is.And this is where we have to define ourselvesand say, how can I add value?Second story.A friend of mine wanted to buy a car.And he wanted to buy a car, which was a small car.It was like a Hyundai, a small Hyundai.So he wanted to get funding for this from a bank.So he called Citibank.So the Citibank lady answers his phone and she says,he says, can I, you know, I want to buy this car.And can you guide me?She says, sir, I am sorry.We do not fund for that car.We fund for Bhopal Astra,which is a much more expensive, bigger car.She says, but if you hold on a second,I will get you the number of the bankwhich funds the Hyundai, the Maruti car,which you want to buy.And my friend is astounded.He says, this is a Citibank employeesending me to a competitor.So she comes back a couple of minutes later.Sir, I'm sorry.I'm sorry to make you, to put you on hold.This is the number.Please call them.And I hope you get your funding.Now that is value addition.People ask me as a business consultant,I want to go into business.What shall I do?I tell them very simple.Look around you.See what people need and fulfill that need.And that's how you make money.Fulfill that need to the best of your ability.With the intention of helping the peopledo an absolutely number one quality job,not for the money, but for the reputation,for what you're doing for yourself.And that's how you make money.So three things I mentioned to you.First one was the way to becomeabsolutely incredibly influential in society.Three things.Number one, help people.Just help

May 29, 202513 min

How to become influential – 2

https://youtu.be/BTC30ZY_XpM Auto-generated transcript: In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.And peace and blessings be upon the honorable prophets and messengers.Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace.And upon his family and companions.And many, many blessings.Brothers and sisters, this is the second installment of the Qatira,the Fajr Reminder about the importance of or rather how to become influential in life.And I said the first one was help people.Look for opportunities to help people.Find those opportunities and believe it.They're all around you.They're your neighbors, your co-workers, your friends, your relatives.Just be helpful.Just help people.And you will.Find that you will become one of the most influential people that can exist.And I gave you one of the stories also from the Sira of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,which points to this.Now, we come to the second one, which is hide people's faults.Cover up people's faults.This is one of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala Jalla Jalaluhu's beautiful namesand attributes.As well as Sattarul Uyub.He is the one who covers the faults, who covers the Uyub,who covers the shortcomings, the failings, the mistakes of people.And if Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala does it, you can bet this is the thing to do.And if we do it, then we become people that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will love.Cover people's faults.As we know, Islam,strongly,not just prohibits, but condemnsfinding fault with people,spying on people.Allah said,In Surah Al-Hujurat,Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala mentioned, He said,Do not spy on people.In same Surah, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said,Do not curse, do not use foul language.Do not use bad words for people.And He said, how terrible it is that you use,bad language for somebody who is a Momin,for somebody who is a believer in Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.And then Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said,Do not backbite people.Do not say, speak ill about people.And to the extent Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, to reinforce this point,He said,Speaking ill of your brothers and sisters is like eating the flesh of your dead brother.And then Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said,Fakariz Tumma,And you find this example distasteful.Unless this is something which is worse than that, to do that,to speak ill of somebody.Now, what I want to make is that,May Allah have mercy on us.Speaking ill of people seems to be now a,literally a mainstay, right?A pillar of our social life.In many cases, or most cases.All we do is we talk about people.There's a saying in English,and I may be misquoting it a bit,but you can see the meaning of it,which says that the worst people talk about other people.People who are better than that,they talk about events and so on,which are happening in the world.And he says the best people,are the people,who talk about the higher things,talk about principles and ethics and values and morals,and things like that.So, talking about people is absolutely the worst possible thing to do.The only place where talking,and not talking about,but informing somebody about the negative aspects,or potentially or possibly negative aspects of another person,is one where you are a,a potential witness in a crime or something like that,and you have to bear witness,you have to give evidence,so this is permitted.And the other one is where somebody you know,a friend or somebody asks you about,or you know that person is entering into a relationship,whether it's a relationship of marriage,or whether it's a relationship of a business relationship,with a person about whom you have evidence of a negative nature.So you have this person who is going to,is about to do business with someone who is dishonest,who is,you know,something is wrong with,and I'm not talking about just rumors or something you heard.You have actual evidence that this person is dishonest,this person is likely to take the other one for a ride or something.In that case,you are permitted,to inform the other person about that,to that extent,that don't,don't give them their entire life history to that extent.Many times this happens,and it happens to me also,where people come and say,do you know what so and so said?So I,my standard response is,I don't know what so and so said,and I don't want to know what so and so said.Don't tell me,I'm not interested.Because the,what is the,uh,the,what is the,the,the,the benefit of that?There's zero benefit.And the harm of that is plenty because then I will be party to the riba.Because the riba,backbiting,consists of the one who's doing it and the one who is helping the other one by listening to him.So it's not only the one who's doing it,but it's also somebody who is,you know,aiding and abetting by being the one who's doing it.Being there and lending a

May 28, 2025

How to become influential – #1

https://youtu.be/bOzw3ViAYu0 Auto-generated transcript: In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.And peace and blessings be upon the honour of the Prophets and Messengers.Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his followers.Peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his followers.Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his followers.My brothers and sisters, I'm sitting here in one of my favourite places in Mitinayu Park.On the bank of this stream, which flows through the park.This is spring, so there are no mosquitoes.But later on, it becomes a bit of a test sitting here because of the mosquitoes.But right now, it's absolutely fabulous.It's early in the morning and you see the sun shining on the waters.Very, very, very beautiful part of the world.And one of my favourite haunts, I walk here from my house and. . .I go around the park.It's not a very big park, but I walk from my house, I go around the park and I walk back.And that is about six miles.So this is my Mashghala.Alhamdulillah, I want to talk about three things.Let's see how many of them we can hear.Maybe the first one.Question which gets, which I get asked because of my leadership development practiceand . . .the mistaken impression people have of my wisdom.People ask me, how can I become influential?And of course, by definition, they also mean wealthy, but they don't actually say that in so many words.But how can I become influential?How can I become powerful?Now, the answer is very simple.And first of all, there's nothing wrong with wanting to be influential and powerful.Because what is the alternative?To be powerless and uninfluential, nobody cares about you, you are a sort of, you know,a slave to people or something.No, that's not an alternative.So, wanting to be influential and powerful is good.How do you do that?The answer is pretty simple.You do that by three things, by doing three things.Number one is help people.Number two, become a cover for people, hide people's faults.Become a cover of Allah for people, hide people's faults.And number three is add value to people.So, three things.I want you to keep these three things in mind and we'll talk about them and we'll see how much, what we can do to this.So, first of them is help people.Secondly is hide people's faults.And I call it become Allah's cover for people.And that's my brother's term for it.I shall have a very beautiful and wise brother.Hide people's faults, become Allah's cover for people.And the third thing is to add value to people.So, let's see how do you do that.Help people.Very, very simple.Go around looking for ways in which you can help people.And some of these ways are so simple, it's unbelievable.We live in America and one of the joys of American life is that you get to take out your own light, own trash.So, in West Springfield where we live on our street, Wednesdays are trash days.Every Wednesday the trash goes.Every other Wednesday also recycling material goes.Each one of them has a different bin and each bin is about almost four and a half feet tall, quite big.And you might say, why do you need such a big bin for trash?Well, you live in America, you know why.Truly, the American lifestyle creates more trash and garbage than I've ever seen in my life.More paper, cardboard, plastics, you name it.Unbelievable amount of stuff that gets wasted.So, the issue of taking out trash.Now, you put the bins out in early morning, the trash truck comes around usually about eight-ish.But depending on where you are, I mean, obviously it can't come at eight o'clock in everybody's house.So, it comes along when it comes along.You go after it.You go after work and your trash bins are still sitting there in front of your house on the sidewalk or something,which looks bad, which looks nasty.So, what I started doing was, since I have flexible working hours,I started if I saw, say, about nine o'clock, trash is goneand my neighbor's bins are still out there,I would just go across because I would come out to bring my bins back into the garage.So, I would also walk across to the neighbor's house, take their bins, put them in front of the garage and that's it.I didn't send them a note or I didn't call them or not.Just take the bins, put them there, that's it.You'll be amazed how much difference that makes.What a huge impression it made.My neighbor came across me and said, you know, you are a good man.He said, we have lived here, people have been here 20 plus years, no one has done anything like this before.Something as simple as that.And of course, everything has a return curve to that,which is that now it's almost like a competition between me and my neighbor

May 27, 202514 min

Life is a test – #2

Auto-generated transcript:Alhamdulillah, we're looking at the incident of Ibrahim Alayhi Salaam's life where he left on the command of Allah SWT. He took his wife and their son and left them in the valley of Bakka and turned around and left. And then he made this dua. The first lesson from this incident that we learn is that of prioritizing the command of Allah SWT over any and everything else. To obey Allah SWT in every situation, whether we understand the command or not, whether we like the command or not. This command of Allah SWT to Ibrahim Alayhi Salaam. To take his wife and son, newborn son and leave them in this place. Is neither something that one can understand. And obviously it is not something that one can like. But he did it. Now this comes from a deep and unshakable belief. That what Allah SWT commands comes from a place of love that he has for his creatures. That it is a mark of his continuing and ongoing concern for their well-being. And that what he says is best for us. It comes from acknowledging and accepting the truth that Allah knows and I and we do not know. Allah SWT said, And there's no more �شئ مفضلتاتِ عَلِيهِ حَ!!! Or what you add to your knowledge. So Allah SWT says, Andaining Nemseni. And many people express anger-swearing. Likeая شاركت ان امان ايام اشئ اللذي اذا� %. What I have been learning is that I know the遺welings that they have and those things they have. I won't name the school, yesterday. And the person who picked me up from my house was a DARE officer. These are retired police officers who are working in this department called DARE, which stands for the people who work against drug addiction. And he's working in the school. This is a middle school. So children of 10 to 12, and from there, you know, maybe say between 10 to 12 to 16 or 10 to 16. So I said, you have cases of addiction? He said, it's not even a question of cases. He said, it's a problem enough for me to have a full-time job here. I mean, I'm not talking about some, you know, sort of, you know, sort of, city or city center school or some school in some sort of badlands. This is a big, very well-known school. And he tells me, we have cases of eight-year-olds vaping, smoking cigarettes and vaping. Please understand, smoking, vaping, all of this is haram in Islam. And when something is haram in Islam, doing it is haram, buying it is haram, selling it is haram, manufacturing it is haram, and there's a reason why it is haram. This is the state of where we are. So if Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says something is haram, there is a reason for that. And Allah says, you like something, you like something which is harmful for you. You like something that will put you into trouble in this dunya and akhira. Imagine you have a business doing this. You're buying it, you're selling it, you're raising your children on it. And then you die. And then you stand before Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. And then, what are you going to say? What will you say? Think about this. Think about this because the time will come when you will not be able to think about this. And the reason you will not be able to think about this is because you will be dead. Think about that before this, before that time comes. That is when you will be dead. And this is the reason why I'm telling you this. This is the essence of tawakkul. This is the essence of tawakkul to trust Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. And this is the reason, the basis of Ithbinaal ul Qalb. Peace of mind. A total trust on Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, which results in peace of mind and tranquility of the heart. And this is based on our understanding of His glory and majesty and power. And trust that when we open our hearts, we will be able to see the truth. And when we obey Him, He will protect us and support us. And that He will take care of us. That's why my addiction to nature and nature photography. Because I go out in the world, I take photographs and ask myself, this is my Rabb. This is my Rabb who feeds a black-capped chickadee, which is smaller than a sparrow. In the middle of winter, when there's two feet of snow on the ground, and there's no way this bird can get anything to eat. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protects it. It survives that winter. And the temperatures are, I still have Celsius in my head. So I say minus 20, go walk out the Fahrenheit of that. If I go out without heavy protective clothing, I will die in 10 minutes. And that bird is out there. This is my Rabb. And I believe that my Rabb is the one who protects me. And I believe that my Rabb cannot feed me unless I do haram. What kind of Iman is this? What kind of Iman is this? Are you really worshipping some Rabb who is so weak and poor that He cannot feed you unless you do haram? La haluna khutai dhalil. So put ourselves in the position of Iman alayhi salam. And ask, if we had been there and before that, thank Allah subhanahu

May 25, 2025

Life is a test

Auto-generated transcript:Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Alhamdulillahi Rabbil Alameen. My dear respected brothers, sisters, elders. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala sent his anbiya alayhi salam not only as guides for how to worship him, but as guides to lead our lives in a way that is wholesome, harmonious and beneficial in this life and a means of forgiveness and reward in the life of the Akhirah, inshaAllah. Islam, therefore, is a deen. It's a complete way of life. It's not just a set of rituals of worship. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, having sent this deen, also tests us. Allah said, Ahasiban nasu an yutraku an yakulu amanna wahum la yuftanoon. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, Do people think that if they simply say, whether once they say, we believe, amanna, that they will not be tested, that they will be left alone without being tested? Now, this is a fundamental principle of life. If you say in school and college, for example, if you say that you are ready, you are given a test to go to the next class. In organizations, if you say you are ready, then you are tested before you are given a promotion. And so on and so forth. So, we continuously pass tests after tests. The benefit of passing a test is that it makes you stronger, more confident, because after the test... After the test... After the test... After the test, you know that you have learned something. So, also in deen, with the benefit, additional benefit in deen, that when Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tests, he helps the person to succeed. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala promised to test us. And he said, وَلَنَبْلُوَنَّكُمْ بِشَيِّمْ مِّنَ الْخَوْفِ وَالْجُوعِ وَنَقْصٍ مِّنَ الْأَمْوَالِ وَالْأَنفُسِ وَالصَّبَرَاتِ وَبَشِّرِ الصَّابِرِينَ وَبَشِّرِ الصَّابِرِينَ الَّذِينَ إِذَا أَسَابَتْهُمْ مُصِيبَةٌ قَالُوا إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ أُولَٰئِكَ عَلَيْهِمْ صَلَوَاتٌ مِّنْ رَبِّهِمْ بَرَفَةٌ وَأُولَٰئِكَ هُمُ الْمُخْتَدُونَ In Surah Al-Baqarah, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, We will definitely test you with a touch of fear and famine and loss of property and life and crops. Give good news and glad tidings to those who patiently, patiently endure, who, when faced with a disaster, they say, surely to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala we belong and to Him we will return. They are the ones who will receive Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala's blessings and mercy. And it is they who are rightly guided. Everyone will be tested, but those who turn towards Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and behave with dignity and patience, they will receive, they will receive Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala's reward and Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is witness for their faith. Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam said that nobody was tested more than the Abiyyah alayhimus sallam, than the prophets. And that he sallallahu alaihi wasallam was tested the most among the prophets, which means that he was tested most among all the human beings. Ibrahim alayhi wasallam's life, that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, mentioned in the Quran, was a series of tests. Among the most serious of these tests was when he was commanded by Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to take his wife, our mother Hajar alayhi salam, and their newborn baby Ismail, and leave them in the valley of Bakka, later to be called Mecca. Imagine what's happening here. When you go home, look at, go to Google and see a map. Ask for a map from Jerusalem to Bakka. He is in Jerusalem. He started from there. And then, while he's there, and before that, after decades of making dua for a child, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala granted him a son. And this is not any ordinary dua. It's a dua of Khalidullah. Dua of one of the greatest of the Anbiya and Rasul, who was later to be the father of the prophets. His dua took decades. And then Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala gave him a son. And then he gets this command to take his son and his newborn baby, while his mother is still nursing him, and take them to a place that he has never seen before, and leave them there and return to Palestine. So I went on Google to check the route and the distances and so on. And Google says that Mecca and Palestine, the distance is 941 miles. 1500 kilometers. Ibrahim A.S. walked with his family. The Quran does not tell us that he had, a whole, you know, servants with him and guards with him and so on. So Allah mentions only two people, him and his wife. The road from Mecca to Jerusalem later on became a major trade route, because this was the route on which the Quraysh used to send their caravans. But this was a few hundred years later. At the time we are talking, Ibrahim A.S. was from the Bronze Age, before the discovery of iron. And we know that Mecca did not exist. There was nothing there. There was only a barren valley, sand and rocks. And when Ibrahim A.S. reached there in a journey, which was obviously difficult and potentially highly dangerous, then I thought to myself, let's s

May 24, 2025

Allahﷻ forgives

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise belongs to Allah, the Lord of the worlds. And peace and blessings be upon the honour of the Prophets and Messengers, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his family and companions. Peace and blessings be upon you all. My brothers and sisters, the number one requirement, the number one necessity that we have in this life is to be forgiven by Allah. The forgiveness of Allah is the number one thing. If we have everything else but Allah does not forgive us, then that's it. And no matter what sins we have done, if Allah forgives us, alhamdulillah. Now in this, there is good news. And the good news is that Allah promised to forgive. So one is that, say for example, I need money. And I say, well, I have to go and ask somebody. And I know, I have some friends who I know, so and so has money, so and so has money. And I go to them. Will they give me? Will they not give me? I don't know. They have money, but does not mean they will give me. But if there is somebody who tells me, look, anytime you need money, come to me. I will give you. He's telling you beforehand. At the time he's telling me I don't need it. But if you need it, come to me, I will give you. So if I go to somebody who has not told me this, I go with one state of mind. But if I'm going to somebody who said, you come, I will give you. Then there is no uncertainty. He told me to come, I'm coming. So Allah said this to us. Allah said, قُلْ يَا عِبَادِيَ الَّذِينَ أَصْرَفُوا عَلَىٰ أَنفُسِهِمْ لَا تَقْنَتُوا مِنْ رَحْمَةِ اللَّهِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ Allah said, say to them, Ya Muhammad Ya Ibadiyy, my slaves. Who? Who are the Ibad of Allah? In this ayat Allah is not saying, My Ibadiyy. Ibadiyy allatheena min nabiyyin wa siddiqeen No, Allah is saying, allatheena asrafu ala anfusin People who have transgressed against themselves. People who have committed sins. People who have disobeyed Allah . People who have been indulged in haram. People who have not done what Allah made farth. And so on and so on. Allah said, say to them. What should I say to them? I will punish you. I will burn you. No. لَا تَقْنَتُوا مِنْ رَحْمَةِ اللَّهِ Do not despair of the Rahmah of Allah . At no point don't feel, Oh my God, what's the point of making istighfar? I did so many wrong things. Allah cannot forgive me. This is haram in Islam. This is kufr. To say Allah cannot forgive me is kufr. To say to somebody else, Allah will not forgive you is kufr. Prophet said, there is a man who somebody asked him, some person who committed a lot of sins. He asked this man and the man said, Allah cannot forgive you. Allah said, you are saying what I can and cannot do. So Allah says, I will forgive that man and I will put you in Jahannam. Okay. So never say this. Anybody. Who? Whoever it is. Because forgiveness is for Allah. Only Allah is the one who forgives. لَا يَغْفِرُ ذُنُوبَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ He is not a human being. In our religion, in Islam, we don't go to the Imam and say, please, I made this sin. You know, give me forgiveness. You don't do all this. It is between you and Allah. You commit a sin, you ask Allah to forgive. If you involve somebody else, you ask them to forgive first, then you ask Allah to forgive. So two kinds of sins. One is sins in the Hukukullah. I was supposed to pray, I did not pray. This is baini wa bain Allah. So ask Allah to forgive. Then Hukukul Ibad. I was supposed to give somebody something I did not give him. So first give that. Finish this, then go to Allah. So Allah says, لَا تَقْنَتُ مِنْ رَحْمَةٍ لَا وَلَا تَقْنَتُ مِنْ رَحْمَةٍ لَا إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا And really Allah forgives all sins. Everything. As long as you make istighfar. Allah will forgive shirk, Allah will forgive kufr, Allah will forgive anything. As long as we make istighfar. If we die with that, that's a different story. If a person dies on kufr, dies on shirk, that's a different matter. But while he is alive, a person has been worshipping idols for a hundred years. Then he makes istighfar, Allah will forgive. And there is no shirk. إِنَّ الشِّرْكَ ظُلْمٌ عَزِيمٌ The biggest shirk is, biggest zulm, sin is shirk. Even that Allah will forgive if you seek forgiveness. إِنَّ اللَّهَ Then Allah said after this, إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُرُ الرَّحِيمُ And He is Al-Ghafur. He is Al-Ghafur. And He is Al-Raheem. He is the most forgiving, most merciful. See the mercy of Allah . The same ayah, if you think about this, if Allah had said, قُلْ يَا إِبَادِيَ الَّذِينَ أَصْرَفُوا عَلَىٰ أَنفُسِهِمْ لَا تَقْنَطُوا مِنْ رَحْمَةِ اللَّهِ This was enough. This communicates the meaning. You are sinners? You are sinners? Don't despair of the mercy of Allah. What does it mean? It means Allah will for

May 23, 2025

Concentration is critical

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the worlds. And peace and blessings be upon the honour of the prophets and messengers. Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and companions. Peace be upon them all. And after that, my dear brothers and sisters, there is a question that I keep getting asked every once in a while about whether I am willing to, and if I am not willing to, then why I am not willing to, present my lectures in shorter forms. So people ask me, can you, you know, whatever you have been, you are trying to teach, can you do this in five minutes? Or can you do it in, you know, something like this, which is a very short time. And I have always resisted that. I've always said no. Now, I want to address that and try and explain mostly for my friends who ask me this question. I know they're very sincere people. So it's really in honour of their sincerity that I want to that I want to make this even stronger. So, it's not a disclaimer, but it's something that I want to state. And my answer to them is as follows. Which is, take the, as we always say, you know, the best example is the example of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. And the best example is the example of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. And the example of his, those who followed him in Exodus. So let me give you a couple of examples. Take for example, Abu Hurairah Radiyallahu Anhu. Abu Hurairah Radiyallahu Anhu used to, he said, somebody asked him, they said, how is it that you have, you have quoted so many hadiths, whereas Abu Hurairah Radiyallahu Anhu and others who have, who were and who spent far longer with Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, have not quoted that many hadiths. So Abu Hurairah Radiyallahu Anhu, now he's not criticizing Abu Hurairah Radiyallahu Anhu, but generally speaking, he said that while you people, meaning he's talking to whoever asked that question, he said, while you people were busy in the markets and in earning livings and in doing business, I used to spend that time with Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. He said, I used to spend so much time with him Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, that I would not even have time to eat. And there were times when I would fall down and I would faint. I would faint with exhaustion and with hunger. And people thought that I was having an epileptic fit. And they would, those days the sort of cure or antidote to this epileptic fits was that people used to, you used to make them smell leather sandals. So they would hold up, you know, their slippers under his nose. And he said, people didn't realize that the reason I fell down was not because of epilepsy, but because of hunger. And the reason I was so hungry, to the point of starvation, to the point of literally falling down, was because I spent all that time with Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. Second example. Imam Qi gur самой Larif was sent by his mother small little kid. So he came and Imam Malik had a system where he would give dars of hadith muwatta between Asr and Maghrib in the courtyard of the masjid and Nabi Muhammad Sharif and then after the Salat of Maghrib Salat, he would give the dars inside the masjid between Maghrib and Nisha. So two sessions, not ten minute beats, two sessions. So the two of them together were a couple of hours. Maybe more than that. The time between Asr and Maghrib in the Hijaz is a long time. And then between Maghrib and Nisha. So these dars he used to give. So now he comes there, he starts the dars and this little kid less than ten years old is sitting right in front at his feet. And as Imam Malik is speaking he notices that this little kid is doodling in the sand with his index finger. So because there was no carpets and stuff. So he would sit on the sand. And this little kid is with his finger, he seems to be doodling, making little patterns. So Imam Malik got very irritated. But he was a very kind person. He never said anything. He didn't say anything. He didn't stop the kid. You know, he didn't want to embarrass this kid in front of people by criticizing him or something. So he didn't say anything. But obviously he didn't like what was happening. And this continued. So after this, then the Adhan for Daghrib was called. And they went inside. So in the second session, this kid came and he made salab and he said I am so and so. I have come. My mother has sent me. I have come to be your student and I request you to accept me as your student. Imam Malik said, sorry, go back. I will not accept you as a student. Now this little boy who was who would later become the student of Imam Malik, the great Imam Ash-Shafei, he started crying. And he said, what have I done? He said, I came here to study from you. And what is my mistake? What did I do wrong? You know, you are rej

May 22, 2025

Focus on the effort

Auto-generated transcript:Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem. Alhamdulillahi Rabbil Alameen. Wasalatu was-salamu ala al-sharafi al-anbiya wal-mursaleen. Muhammadur Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sallam. Tasliman kathiran kathiran. I want to deal with two questions that two different people asked me. One, a friend of mine from Hyderabad, he asked me, he said, we keep making effort, we don't succeed, we lose energy. How to deal with that? And the second one was, Umar Abd al-Ali asked me, he is in medical school. So he said, we have been given information that we will have a very important qualifying exam, which will be for eight hours, the exam, in May 2026, which is 12 months from now. And we know what all we have to study in that one year, and how it goes forward and so on. But he said, there are two things. One is that this thought of this exam 12 months from now is overpowering in the head. And secondly, the regular work of the college also is there. That's going on. So how to deal with this? Like, too much. The answer is very simple. And the answer is structure. Structure. Create a timetable for the day. And do not use an app for that. Do not use an app. There is a psychological advantage in writing with your hand. So take a normal, you take a normal notebook. Make two columns. In the left column, put time. In the right column, put the activity you have to do. And how much time is needed for that. So from the time you open your eyes in the morning to the time you go to bed in the night, that must be in the timetable. And then, second part, which is, follow that like a religion. Nothing must move you away from that timetable. No matter what happens in life. That timetable must be followed. Otherwise it's a waste of time. You write it down, you do nothing, makes no sense. So follow that very, very, very strictly. So that is why I remind myself and you, focus on your effort. Not on talent, not even on your long-term goals. Your daily effort. I'll give you another example. Take, many of you have the desire to become Hafez. Alhamdulillah. Very good. But tell me, what is the most important thing if you are doing HIFS? The number one, most, absolutely important thing. What is it? It is not the desire to make HIFS, it is not the quality of your Usta. The most important thing in making HIFS is your daily Daur. Right? I memorized one page today, tomorrow I repeat that, I revise that, day after tomorrow I memorize page two, third day I revise two pages, then I have third page, and I revise third page. This is the number one most important thing to do. If you do not do your repetition, you cannot become Hafez. Impossible. And that repetition will kill you. I mean that is so difficult. It's not easy. It's very, very difficult. And the beauty is, within quote beauty, the more you memorize, the more difficult it becomes. Because the portion you have to repeat is more. But there is no other way. That is the way. As long as you go on repeating, it trips through the mind. But if you don't repeat, and even if you miss one single day, whatever may be the reason, the reason makes no difference. My grandmother came by at my wedding to attend, my friend comes. Makes no difference. You missed today's Daur, believe me brother, you are in serious trouble. Because the next day, it gets doubled. You can't make it up. You will kill yourself. You will not be able to do it. Must be done on time at that time. So create a timetable. Focus on your effort. It's good to have a long-term goal, no doubt about that. Right? But focus on your step by step by step. Are you taking those steps? I used to go trekking. I remember one day I went with two other friends of mine. All of them young. I was the manager, they were my sisters. We climbed a mountain of what? I think it was 5,000, 5,500 feet. And the track was almost vertical. It was very, very steep track. And we started from sea level and we were going up 5,000 feet. So it is, it was extremely hot and we were walking on the sand. We were walking through forest. But not tree forest. This was scrub forest. So there's no shade. But there are nettles and there are thorns and there are, you know, things which will cut you and all kinds of stuff. And of course, there are also wild animals in that forest. Three hours walking. And believe me, after walking for about an hour, and you're climbing, walking is not walking, you're just climbing. The whole time you're climbing. Now I'm thinking to myself, I am insane. Why did I even start this? Right? What nonsense? I mean, I was sitting peacefully at home. Instead of that, I have to, I get into my stupid mind. I must climb this. Why should I climb the mountain? What nonsense? I mean, I've got a car. I can drive around. I want to go to the top. Take the road. No, you have to climb. I'm cursing myself, literally. So what kind of, you know, crazy insan you are. But w

May 21, 2025

Following Madhab

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise belongs to Allah, Lord of the worlds. And peace and blessings be upon the honour of the Prophets and Messengers, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his family and his companions. Peace and blessings be upon him and upon his family and his companions. From Abadu, somebody asked me a question about following a religion. So, how many of you can name what are the four madhabs in the Ahlus Sunnah wa Jama'ah? No, I know you all are this group. Yes. I won't take your name because this goes worldwide, so they won't know who it is, but you can ask me first. What are the four madhabs? Maafi, Hanafi, Ambalee. I'm asking you, Vaan. I don't know what's wrong. Nafsi. Whatever I want. That madhab? No. Maliki. Hanafi, Shafi, Maliki, Ambalee. Right? Okay. So, what is your madhab? No. What is your madhab? Islam. Islam is not a madhab. Islam is a deen. Hanafi. Hanafi. What Hanafi madhab follows who? Imam Hanafi. Imam Hanafi. What is Imam Hanafi's name? Maafi. Imam Hanafi. Maafi. No, I'm not trying to insult anybody. I'm just trying to show you the problem with people who say, I follow, I am Hanafi. They do not even know the name of the Imam who they follow. They do not even know whether Hanafi is his name, whether it is a kunya, whether it is the name of his cat. We don't know. Right? But we are willing to fight to the death with somebody who is not Hanafi. Inna liillahi wa inna ilahi rajim. So please understand this. This is a very big musibat in this ummah. I am Hanafi. I am Shafi. Be Hanafi. No problem. Alhamdulillah. Alhamdulillah. Right? Al turab min khadam al Imam Abu Hanifa ala raasi wa ala aini. The dust from his feet is on my head and on my eyes. No problem. Alhamdulillah. Follow. But at least learn something. So let me explain something to you. Please understand this. Number one. In al ahlu sunnah wal jama'ah, which is what we are Sunni Muslims, we follow, there are four madhahib, four schools of jurisprudence. These are not schools of thought. All kinds of nonsense is spoken in the neighborhood. It's not a school of thought. It's a school of jurisprudence. These are fuqaha. They are not philosophers. They are not phala. They are not falasifah. They are fuqaha. Right? Four schools of jurisprudence. We believe, all of us, that it is acceptable to follow any of these four ayimma al quwara. Number one. Number two. It is not okay to criticize somebody who is following another imam. And I will explain to you from the Quran and Sunnah why it is not possible and not permissible to criticize. It is not permissible to criticize somebody following another imam. So if you say you are Hanafi, most welcome. You find out the name of the imam first of all. But if you are Hanafi, most welcome. Be Hanafi. But if my brother here is Shafi, it is not permissible for you to criticize him for following Imam Shafi Rahmatullah Ali. And it is not permissible for you to criticize him for following Imam Abu Hanifa Rahmatullah Ali. And I will give you the dalail for this. When we say we follow an imam. Say for example, I will give you one of the most common things which we see every day. Which is how we pray. Right? So if you are Hanafi, how many times do you raise your hands? Once. Once. Right? When? Starting of Salah. Starting of Salah. What is it called? That particular motion? Learn, learn, learn, learn, learn. Learn. So first rule. If you follow some imam, follow him. Follow with knowledge. Don't just say blindly, I am Hanafi, I am Shafi. What is the name of the imam? I don't even know the name of the imam. What do you mean? Go and learn. Number two. It is not okay to criticize somebody else. I said an example, I will give you. In Salah. The Hanaf, people who follow Imam Abu Hanifa Rahmatullah Ali, they raise their hands once to the level of their ears. When they do that, what is called Takbir Tahrimah or Takbiratul Haram. Takbiratul Haram. And Allahu Akbar when we start the Salah. Right? In the Fiqh, is it necessary to raise your hands at all? Or is it necessary to say Allahu Akbar? Which one? Allahu Akbar. If somebody does not raise his hand at all, his Salah is valid or invalid? It is valid. So first of all understand that. But, it is not like that. People who follow Imam Abu Hanifa Rahmatullah Ali, they raise their hands once. Very good. People who follow Imam Shafi, Imam Muhammad bin Hanbal and the Malikis, they will raise their hands, how many times? With Shafi, how many times? First Takbir Tahrimah, after that? Before you go for Ruku and after you get up from Ruku and then in the third rakat. Right? So four times in the Salah. Now, tell me who is right, who is wrong? All right. Why all right? Why do you say that? Out of politeness, because we are nice people. No. Give me the dalil. Because Rasool Allah did that. He praye

May 20, 2025

Marriage 3X3

Auto-generated transcript:My brothers and sisters, I have been asked to give some advice about marriage. So here goes. I call this my marriage advice three by three. Marriage advice three by three. Three things that you do not want to do or you should not do and three things that you should do. So the first question to ask is, do you want to remain happily married? And if the answer is yes, then there are three things that you must not do. The first one, don't collect garbage. Have a selective memory. Remember only good and forget all bad. Because garbage always stinks and only you will smell it. So don't collect garbage. Now, remember, sometimes you will hear people saying, be very careful what you say to your spouse. One word can destroy years of relationship. My point is, a relationship, which is destroyed by one word, is a jail sentence. It is not a relationship. A marriage is a relationship which is bulletproof, which should be bulletproof. A marriage is like a ship. Ships are built to sail the high seas and to battle with storms from the outside. A ship is not meant to sit in the harbor in safety. It is meant to sail the high seas. The beauty of a marriage is the same thing as the beauty of any deep and real and genuine friendship. And that is the obviation, the lack of need for defenses. In a good marriage, there is no need for defenses. My point is, that if I have to watch every word that I say to my wife, every word that I say to my wife, every word that I say to my wife, every word that I say to my wife, or my husband, if I have to be careful about every single thing I say or do, then how is this a marriage? It can be, you know, a political relationship. It can be a diplomatic connection or whatever. How is it a marriage? How is it a close friendship? A close friendship is one in which there are no defenses. I don't need to defend. Because I know that this person will never deliberately harm me. Now, is that person, is it possible that this person may say or do something which appears to be hurting, even insulting? Is that possible? Of course, because they're human. They're human. But if you have this fundamental belief that it is never done deliberately, they're not trying to do that. They may have, their emotion of the time may have got over them or overcome them or overpowered them, or they may be, under some other outside stress or whatnot. That is the reason why they have said what they have said. It is not meant for me. Then believe me, nothing will happen to your relationship, except that it will make it stronger. So don't collect garbage. Don't collect bad stuff. Forget the bad stuff. Collect the good stuff. Remind yourself again and again about the good stuff. Anything bad that comes to you from, your spouse, forgive. Forgive. Number one. Number two, don't try to mold or change or sculpt your spouse. If you didn't like what you saw in the first place, why did you marry that person? If you liked what you saw, why do you want to change it? Your spouse is not a rock or a lump of clay or a patient in your hospital. They didn't marry you to be changed. So change yourself to like them. Remind yourself that you were not forced into that marriage. You went into it with your eyes open because you liked that person. And if you like that person, then like that person. Don't try to change them. Number three, not to do. Don't criticize. Nagging never works. If they wanted a nag, they would have married a horse. So forgive and seek forgiveness. Forgive and seek forgiveness. Nothing works like sorry. Nothing works like sorry. So, say sorry. And the other person, don't say, oh, you know, you always say this and you always say sorry and you always repeat. That is why we are human. Ask yourself, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said this in Surah An-Nur. Allah said, do you not want Allah to forgive you? So if you want Allah to forgive you, then forgive your spouse and thank them for giving you so much practice. So this is the three things not to do. Now the three things to do. Number one, laugh. Always first at yourself and laugh with others. A sense of humor is like air. You need it to remain alive. Laugh especially when you are having problems. Laugh at yourself for madding someone so irritating and you say, oh, I don't know. I thought you were clever. And laugh because she was stupid enough to marry you. Couples who can laugh together, stay together. Number two, thank. Thank your spouse. Because there's no thanking Allah without thanking the people. So thank them for all the so-called small things. You will know the value of those small things when they are not there. And that day comes to every single marriage. A day when that person is no longer there. And that is when you are not there. And that is when you are not there. And that is when you will remember and value those small things because they are no longer there. Numbe

May 19, 2025

Prepare for Dhul Hijjah – #2

Auto-generated transcript:Alhamdulillahi Rabbil Alameen. Wa salatu wa salamu ala ashrafil anbiya wal mursaleen. Muhammadur Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam. Tasliman kathiran kathira. Fahamma baadu. Now take the case of another one. Who asked the same question. How does Allah give life to the dead? Same question. But in a different tone. And this tone is the one. Tone of the one who knows. Allah. And has a relationship with Allah. The tone of one who talks to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala all the time. And is having another conversation. It's a very normal conversation. And so he asks. Allah said and remember when Ibrahim said alayhi salam. My Rabb. Rabbi. My Rabb. Arini kaifatu hilmauta. Show me how do you give life to the dead. Now think about this. Is the question being asked. So if Allah wants to answer it. He should have said. This is how I do it. Maybe demonstrate it. Here is something living. Die. Come back to life. Khala. No. What is Allah's response? Ya Rabb show me how do you give life to the dead. Allah said. Avalam tu min. You don't believe. You don't know. You don't believe. What does it tell you about the relationship. For the whole world to ask this question. You ask him this question. How come you ask this question. It's a response of such love and such affection. And you know. You my Khaliq. You. And see if I'm a response. He said. No no no. Of course I believe Ya Rabb. But for the. It's been out of my. Kalb. Allah SWT said. Rasulullah SAW said. He said the report. The information. Is not like seeing. So effectively. I'm saying. He said. Of course I believe that. I mean. There's no doubt of my mind. But if you show me. Show it. That is the reason why. Rasulullah SAW said. If Ibrahim could ask this question. We have even greater right. To ask Allah and say. Allah show me your khudrat. But be careful how you ask. Huh. That's why they say. Be careful what you ask for. So what does Allah say. What does Allah say to him. Allah SWT says. Get four birds. He didn't say. Get a chicken. Get a duck. Get a turkey. No. He said. Get four birds. Wild birds. Train them to come to you. So they are free flying pets. For him. Then. Slaughter them. Chop them into pieces. And then. They will be. They will be. They will be. They will be. They will be. They will be. They will be. They will be. Chop them into pieces. Mix it all up. And take a portion of that. And scatter it. Put it on top of each of these hills. And we don't know how many hills. So one lump of mixed bird. Khima. On each hilltop. Now think about this. From the tone of this ayah. It seems to me that Ibrahim A.S. at this time must have been a young boy. Because if an older person asks this question. This is not what you would say to them. This is a project being given to a child. And you are not going to be able to do it. You are going to be a child. You are going to be a child. You are going to be a child. You are going to be a child. You are going to be a child. You are going to be a child. You are going to be a child. Right. Your little son or daughter says something. You can give an answer. You don't do that. He says no. Now go do that. See how it works. How does this oak tree grow? Okay. Here. Here is an acorn. Go plant it. Now water it. Look after it. So on. So on. Maybe it takes you. God knows. Six months for the answer to come. But you are working on it yourself. So it is much more exciting. Much more interesting. So Allah says four wild birds. Now think about it. What is. Different bird species nest in different places. Supposing it is a golden eagle. On the cranks of hilltops. Peregrine falcon. You know. There are aquatic birds. There are birds with nests on the ground. There are birds with nests in tree hollows. If it is a hornbill it seals its female into the nest with the eggs. Different species. Nesting different. Different species have different gestation. Not gestation. The period for the eggs to hatch. Right? Incubation period. So a chicken's egg takes 21 days. Robin's egg takes about seven days. And so on. So different times. Then if you want to tame a wild bird. You have to take the chick from the nest. At the exact right time. If you take the chick too early. It will die. Because many birds when they feed the chicks. They don't just take an insect or a seed and stuff it down the chick's throat. No. They take it. They eat it. They partially digest it in the crop. And then they regurgitate that digested thing into the bird. Into the small chick. Because it can't digest otherwise. Obviously you can't do that. But you can. So if you take a chick which is too early. It will die. If you wait too long and the chick gets all its feathers. If it is fully fledged. It will not become tamed. So exact right time. Now think about that. Who's telling Ibrahim all this? This little boy. Is he an expert on ornithol

May 18, 2025

Prepare for Dhul Hijjah – #1

Auto-generated transcript:Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Alhamdulillahi Rabbil Alameen. My dear respected brothers, sisters, elders, as we approach the blessed days of Dhul Hijjah and Eid al-Adha, it will be good to remember the one whose story Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala immortalized in the Quran al-Kareem and gave it to us as an example to follow in goodness. Ibrahim Khalilullah alayhi salatu wasalam. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala raised him and said, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, Indeed, Ibrahim alayhi salam was a model of excellence. He was an ummah by himself. He was a nation by himself, devoted to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, perfectly upright and not a polytheist. And in another place, Surah Al-Ruhud, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala described his character and his manners which Allah praised and said, Indeed, truly Ibrahim was forbearing. He was patient. He had sabr. He was tender-hearted. And he always turned to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Somebody who constantly sought the forgiveness of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. I want to begin with this. As it is the standard that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala praised, and so it is something for us to try to develop in ourselves. To stand firmly. To stand firmly for Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and live by His commands, even if you stand alone. Especially if you stand alone. Say to yourself, If not me, then who? If not now, then when? Secondly, become patient and forbearing and kind and compassionate, and constantly repent to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. And then, you will be able to see the true God. Last one. Since we brushed up, Qasemah, The second. If for the first time you think you are rolling on a mountain, O' the Lord! Isn't it up there. It is obvious. Things are changing now, everything changes. Even the control of your mind right now has another meaning. should make me benefit from this ayah in this world and the next. I ask the same for all of you, inshallah. In this ayah, in Surah Al-Anfal, Allah said, But Allah would never punish them while you, O Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, were with them, where you were in their midst. And nor would He ever punish them if they prayed for forgiveness. To have Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam with us in today's world, means to follow His sunnah. It means to follow His sunnah. With the Sahaba, He was there with them physically, with us. He is with us to the extent that we follow His blessed way, His sunnah. And then Allah said, And Allah will never punish them as long as they keep seeking forgiveness. So the way to avoid the punishment of Allah is to keep asking Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala for forgiveness. And Abdullah ibn Abbas said, The Messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said, Ibn Abbas radiallahu anhu reported, Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said, Whoever increases his prayers for forgiveness, whoever repents, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, Allah will grant him relief from every worry. Allah will find a way out of every hardship. And Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will provide for him in ways and from places that he does not expect. So let us make istighfar a part of our lives. And the first thing that we do when we need the help of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, let us remember that we are not alone. Let us not alone. Let us be steadfast in searching His nivel. Let us encourage Him and He will find the particular obedience for us in the near future. Let's insert Ivna in a prayer of God as you do in prayer. Let us purify. Ibrahim is his connection with Allah . His Taalluq with Allah. And that is the purpose of our lives. The essence of the purpose of our lives is to build that Taalluq, that connection which comes through only one thing, total and complete submission to the will of Allah. Allah told us what Ibrahim did when he was told to submit. When his Rabb ordered him submit to my will, he responded I submit to the Rabb of all the worlds. Now what made Ibrahim the way he was and gave him these stations of honor. Allah called him his Khalil. The closest level of connection of friendship in a way that suits the majesty and grace of Allah. No human being can be a friend of Allah. Allah is Allah. Makhluq is Makhluq. So when we translate Khalil into friend, it is not friend. It is what it is given the majesty and glory of Allah . And that means a person who Allah especially loves. All prophets had people who believed in them around them. But with the help of Allah, they were not friends. O Haqbaa, he clubbed this well and gave brol tickets to the city and found out which is vah %ah Vah غdoan is proper security, different from the place for quantification with which the auch unfolds gallery or but concerning lainness. And the question he asked was, how can the dead be resurrected? This is the, this is the, within quotes, problem from day one, and may Allah protect us to this day. We say we believe,

May 17, 2025

Two ways to lead our lives

Auto-generated transcript:My brothers and sisters, there are two ways to lead our life. There is a way that we devise for ourselves, a way that we think is the best, with whatever knowledge we have, and there is a way that is devised for us by Allah . If we lead our life by the way that we have thought of for ourselves, there is a problem because we do not know the future. We have no idea what the future holds. So whatever we decide will be based on our past experience and our current experience. So history experience. But whether that works for the future or not, we don't know because we don't know what the future is. But if we lead our lives according to the way that Allah devised for us and which He sent His Zamiya and the last and final of them, Muhammad . Then there is a guarantee in that because Allah knows. What is to come in the future. The doorway between our current life and the future is called death. Mouth. Death is not the end of life. Death is the end of the ability to do anything about life. Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala gave us a pointer. Do you know what the pointer is? Here is a pointer. He gave us some level of free will and ability to do something in this life. When that is taken away, when that ability to do something is taken away, that is called death. Most of you have done the ghusl of somebody or the other, janaza. You know and I know that if you lie down next to the janaza, say what's the difference between this person and me? No difference. He has got eyes, I have got eyes. He has ears, I have ears. He has a mouth, tongue, I have a mouth and tongue. Except that his eyes cannot see, my eyes can see. His ears cannot hear, my ears can hear. With my tongue I can speak, I can do the zikr of Allah . I can do something. But with his tongue he can't do anything. The... ability to function has been taken away. What is that ability to function? That is the roh. That is the roh. So they asked the Prophet . In Surah Al-Isra, Allah mentioned. Qul arroohu min amri rabbih. They will ask you or they are asking you about the roh. Say to them that the roh is the order, the command of my Rabb. So when this command is taken away, life is gone. Life is over. When the command is taken away, life is over. Life in this world is over. And the command is gone. Life is gone. The eternal life starts. Many times you hear this, especially when somebody has been in pain and suffering, if they were in a hospital or something and so on. People will say, at least his suffering is over. But my submission to you and reminded to myself is we don't know this. We do not know whether his suffering is over or whether the suffering is over. We don't know. We don't know whether his suffering is over or whether the suffering is now starting. And the suffering which starts now will never be over. Death is the opening of a door into a world and a time that has no ending. We ask Allah to make that the best of our life. Because when that door opens and we go through, if it is good, then the good will be forever. If it is good, then the good will be forever. If it is good, then the good will be forever. If it is good, then the good will be forever. And if it is evil, it will be forever. And what is death? The inability to do something about life. In this life, if you have any difficulty, you can do something about it yourself. Or if you can't do something about it yourself, you can ask your friend. Your friend will help you. Somebody will help you. Government will help you. Relatives will help you. Your relatives will help you. Your children will help you. Somebody. There is a means. You can buy something. If you have enough money, you can pay for this and pay for that. But once we go through that door, in the grave, there is no one to help. Nobody. We cannot do anything and nobody to help us. If Allah decides and we ask Allah to forgive us and not to give us the adab of the khabar, but if the adab of the khabar starts, if there is a fire in the khabar, nobody can put it out. If there are snakes, nobody can kill them. If the khabar contracts and squeezes, nobody can stop that. Now, how to ensure that none of this happens? By paying attention to what Allah has sent us in the form of His kalam and in the form of the teacher of the kalam, the Prophet . The people who understood that and may Allah bless the Shaykh, we heard one of the most beautiful ayat of the Quran referring to that, may Allah bless the Shaykh, that the Prophet такая were while he was writing his spiritual statement, they remembered that this is the miracle happened in such a marked era in which we are lucky in the Czytt. So I'll let you understand who said that about the والو'کرى pearls of the Prophet and in the Quran. instructor was there, a guy As soon as he been at the yoke of water, far away in the Welcome to that time, I remember going to the muck of water in Öyle. them because there was a bounty on both of

May 16, 2025

To study the Seerah is Wajib

Auto-generated transcript:Alhamdulillah Rabbil Alameen Salatul Salam From my brothers and sisters, Allah sent us a way of life called Islam, a deen called Islam. Islam is not just a set of rituals or worship or anything else. It is something that encompasses everything that a human being needs in leading their lives. To lead their lives in a way which guarantees them success in this life and the next. And it's a very simple formula because sometimes what happens is that, especially for those who consider themselves to be educated and who study various areas of philosophy and anthropology and religion, various other things, they tend to get distracted, they tend to get misguided because they bring their own thoughts and feelings and ideas into the practice of Islam. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala gave us a very simple formula. And the formula is, obey Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. In the way of, Muhammadu Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. It's a very simple formula. Obey Allah, which is the what, and in the way of the Nabi alaihi salatu wa sallam, which is the sunnah, which is the how. To give you an example, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala ordered us to worship no one other than Allah. And that is what Islam is. We say, Ashadu billahi ila Allah, I bear witness that there is no one worthy of worship except Allah. So when a person accepts, Ashadu billahi ila Allah, that there is no one worthy of worship except Allah, the question is, how do I worship Allah? And somebody might say, I will write a beautiful nasheed, and I will sing this, and somebody might say, I will beat drums, somebody might say, I dance, and I whirl, or spin like a top, and I do this, and I do that, and I feel, very spiritual doing it, and I feel very good doing it. Is any of this acceptable with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala? No. Because what you feel doing that is not a criterion before Allah. I may feel, many people feel many things, subjective feeling. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is not bound by my feelings to accept or not accept. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala gave us a standard. Allah said, Allah said, Allah said, Allah said, Allah said, Allah said, Allah said, Allah said, Allah said, Allah said, Allah said, Allah said, for you, the best example is in the life of my Nabi, alayhi salatu was salam. And Allah mentioned to whom for this, to whom this is an example. لِمَنْ كَانَ يَرْجُ اللَّهَ وَالْيَوْمَ الْآخِرَةِ وَذَكَرَ اللَّهَ كَثِرًا For the one who looks forward to the meeting, who is in the middle of the night, who is in the middle of the night, who is in the middle of the night, who is in the middle of the night, who is in the middle of the night, and who looks forward to the day of judgment, and who remembers Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala a great deal. Now think about that. Who will look forward to the day of judgment? يَوْمَ الْآخِرَةِ Who will look forward to that? Who is waiting for it? Let it come quickly. Who is waiting for it? Because if you read the descriptions of the day of judgment, إِذَا وَقَيَتِ الْوَاقِيَةِ إِذَا ذُلْذِلَتِ الْأَرْضُ ذِلْزَالَهَا وَذُكَّتِ الْأَرْضُ ذَكَّةً And so on and so on. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has painted a picture of the day of judgment which is so terrible and which is so fear-inspiring and which is so horrific. Who will look forward to that? But Allah says, يَرْجُ اللَّهُ Allah did not say the one who will meet. We will all meet Allah. Whether you like to meet Allah or not, you will meet Allah. I will meet Allah. But Allah says, يَرْجُ اللَّهُ The one who is looking, looking forward to that, who wants to meet Allah. وَالْيَوَّ الْآخِرَةِ And who wants the day of judgment to come. Who will do that? Only somebody who hopes for the mercy of Allah and the protection of Allah from all these things. Who is guaranteed that? لَخَدْقَانَ لَكُمْ فِي رَسُولِ اللَّهِ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةً The one who leads their life according to the أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةً of Allah. of Rasulullah ﷺ. So Allah gave us a template. So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says, the first example, if I say, we just prayed Salatul Isha. And if somebody, if I ask myself, was my Salah good or not? How do I know? I must compare it to the Salah of Rasulullah ﷺ. How did he pray? Is my Salah close to that? It will never be equal to that obviously. But is it close to that? So to be able to do that, what must I know? I must know how he prayed. This is where the importance of the Seerah of Rasulullah ﷺ comes in. If you don't know the Uswa of, Uswatun Hasana of Rasulullah ﷺ, how will you compare your life with it? Study of the Seerah is ordered and commanded by Allah. Because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is saying, your life must be like the life of my Nabi alayhi salatu wasalam. How will I know that unless I study it? And that's the reason why Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala also caused the life of Rasulullah ﷺ to be preserved in such immense and intricate detail. There is nobody in the world whose life is

May 15, 2025

Followership – #2

Auto-generated transcript:Alhamdulillah Rabbil Alameen. Wa Salatu Wa Salamu Alaa Ashrafil Anbiya wal Mursaleen. Muhammadur Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Alaa Alihi wa Sahbihi wa Sallam. Tasleeman kathiran kathira. Faham abadu? My brothers and sisters, I remind myself and you that Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala tests and we ask Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala to save us from His tests. Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala tested the Sahaba. And the name of the test was Hudaybiyah. I call this the graduation of the Sahaba. After the years in Makkah and the Hijrah and the battles in Madinah, this was the final exam to test their obedience in stressful conditions. So Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala tested them with a test so severe that had it not been for the help of Allah, it could have proven fatal for them and Islam. But Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala tests the pious to strengthen, not to destroy. And so He supports them and He grants them patience. The test was so severe that Umar bin al-Khattab r.a became the unconscious voice of many. He asked the questions, he asked and I'm not going into the details of this, InshaAllah. Someday when you have some patience, we'll sit and talk about this here. He asked the questions he asked and then he left the place. Now think about this, you know, we read these stories. Think about one very simple question. The thing that struck me was, how come Sayyidina Umar r.a just left the place without asking permission to leave the Majlis of Rasool Allah ? No Sahabi ever did that. To simply get up and walk away when the Imam is sitting here and giving a khutbah or giving a dars or giving a khatira, just walk away, show your back and then also chat with your friends on the way. This is our culture. These are our akhlaq. These are not the akhlaq of the Sahaba. Ridh ma'am laayhi alayhi majma'in. If they came to the Majlis of the Rasool Allah and if they had to leave for any reason they told him in advance, Ya Rasool Allah, I have to run for this thing, please forgive me. This is the akhlaq of the Muslim. This is what you are supposed to do. They never ever left without permission. Here is Umar ibn al-Khattab, not just anyone, here is Umar ibn al-Khattab r.a who goes away. And from whatever I have read of the seerah, he didn't ask anybody's permission. He didn't ask the Bishr al-Sarab alayhi salam. He didn't say, Ya Rasool Allah, can I leave? I am sorry, I am very anguished. No, he went. And think about this. Rasool Allah didn't stop him. He did not even question him, Ya Umar, why did you leave? No. Why? Because he understood the anguish of Umar. He understood that this is not only the anguish of Umar ibn al-Khattab, this is the anguish of all the Sahaba. But, did he change his position? Did he say to himself, Hold on, what am I doing now here? I am going to lose all these people. I will have no followers left. Let me go back. No. This is the test. They had been told, you will obey whether you like it or not. So now you don't like it. That is the test. Will the, will the, Will the action change? Will the Nabi change his decision? No. He will not change his decision. We say he is guided by Allah, and of course he is guided by Allah. We say he was receiving Wahi, yes, receiving Wahi. But there is no actual record of Jibreel coming there and talking to him. So he was receiving Wahi in different ways, right? He was being guided by Allah in different ways. Abu Bakr al-Siddiq r.a said, Hold on to his stirrup. He said to Sayyidina Muhammad, He said, hold his stirrup. Because he is guided by his Rabb, and his Rabb will not abandon him. My brothers and sisters, I am not saying that, I am not saying that, I am not saying that, My brothers and sisters, think about that. And then what happens? Allah s.w.t. turns the screw some more. They are already anguished about a treaty which is so unequal. Before the treaty can be written down, Before the treaty can be written down, Abu Jindal, who is the son of the man writing the treaty, negotiating on behalf of the Quraysh Suhail bin Amr, he turns up. Now he had been imprisoned by his father because he accepted Islam. And he manages to escape. He doesn't know what's going on. Somebody told him Rasool Allah s.a.w. is in Hudaybiyah. So he said, good, let me go and, you know, meet the Nabi s.a.w. and be with him. So he goes there. He has no clue what's going on. He goes there. He sees his father there. And Suhail bin Amr says, Give the man back to us because he is ours. And we just agreed on the treaty that if one of our people comes to you, you have to return him. As if the treaty was not tough enough. Allah s.w.t. has said, You have to send your son back to you. You have to send your son back to you. That's the way it is. This is the way it is. If you can't do it, you can't do it. You can't do it. But if you can, you can do it. But if you can't do it, you can't do i

May 14, 2025

Followership – #1

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the worlds, and peace and blessings be upon the honour of the prophets and messengers. Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his companions. Peace be upon him, and upon his family and his companions. My dear respected brothers, sisters, elders. Ask any Muslim today to name the biggest problem with the Ummah. And he or she is likely to say, lack of leadership. Coming from 40 years in leadership training and development, and my study of the seerah of Rasulullah , resulting in two books, I differ. In my view, the crisis is not lack of leadership, but lack of followership. Let me explain with two examples from the seerah. The first example is the second bay'ah of Al-Aqaba, which was taken in the 13th year of the Hijr of Prophethood, in June 622 CE, by 75 people from Madinah, which was called Yathrib at that time. Ka'b bin Malik , who was the leader of the Muslim community, said, That night we slept with our people in our camps. He is talking about Mina, where they had camped at the time of Hajj. After a third of the night had elapsed, we began to leave quietly and met at a hillock nearby. We were 73 men plus two women. Nusaybah bin Ka'b , who was also called Umm Mahmara, from the Bani Najjar, and Asma bin Amar, Umm Muni, from Bani Salama. We gathered, waiting for Rasulullah , until he came in the company of his uncle, Al-Abbas bin Abdul Muttalib, who at that time was still following the religion of his fathers, but who always wanted to be with his nephew, and to participate and look after him in any matters that concerned him. Al-Abbas spoke first, and he said, O you people of the Khazraj, The Quraysh used to call all the people of, from Madinah, from Yathrib, whether they were Aus or Khazraj, as Khazraj. So he said, O you people of the Khazraj, all of you know the position that Muhammad , holds among us. We have protected him from the people as much as we could. He is honored and respected among his people. He refuses to join any party except you. So if you think you can carry out what you promise, while inviting him to your town, and if you can defend him against his enemies, then assume the burden that you have taken. But if you are going to betray him, after having taken him away with you, you had better leave him now, because he is respected and well defended in his own place. Ka'b bin Malik says that we listened to him, and then we said to him, we have heard your words, and now, O Messenger of Allah , it is for you to speak to us, and take from us any pledge that you wish, regarding your Rabb and yourself. Now Rasool Allah then spoke, and he said three things. Now before I tell you what those three things are, listen very carefully. Put yourself in that position, and ask yourself what you would have done, what I would have done, if we had been in that position. Every time I read these kinds of stories from the seerah, I thank Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, that I was not among those people. SubhanAllah, wallahi. That I was not among those people. It is the great mercy of Allah, that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala chose to send me into this world, 1400 years after all of this happened, I am reading this as an account. On a side note, think about this. Maryam alaihi salam comes out of the blue, this young girl known for her piety, and all the rest of it, out of the blue comes with a baby. And when the people say, what is this? How do you have a baby? She points to the baby. She doesn't speak. Now we are hearing this, and we know this, because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala described it for us. For us, this is a matter of aqeedah, this is the Quran. If somebody says this did not happen, or didn't happen, like this and like that, he is out of Islam. Khareed ul Islam. Khalas. Very easy for us to believe, because this is the kalam of Allah. But the people who are standing there, in front, alive, looking at this, imagine the kind of test they went through. You really feel sorry for them, I mean, wallahi. Right? You are condemning them. Don't condemn them. Just put yourself in that situation and say, wallahi, alhamdulillah, Allah did not put me in that position. I don't know what I would have done. So also here now, Rasool Allah is about to ask them to do something which, listen to this, and thank Allah that you and I were not, I at least speak for myself. I am very grateful I was not in that place. Rasool Allah , here is a man who is seeking protection to do his work of Deen. He is not seeking protection from himself. To do his work of Deen. From practically everyone who came for Hajj. Right? For two years. The only people who gave him that protection, who offered that were the people of Yathrib. So what would you do if you were in this place? Nobody wants to help me. You want to help me. No, n

May 13, 2025

What is Bida’a

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the worlds, and peace and blessings be upon the honour of His prophets and messengers. Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his companions. Peace be upon him, and upon his family and his companions. And then, my brothers and sisters, we hear this Hadith every Friday, where the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, is reported to have said, Indeed, the most truthful Hadith is the Book of Allah, and the best of the Hadith is the Hadith of Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his companions. The evil of matters is their events, and every event is a misguidance, and every misguidance is a misguidance, and every misguidance is a misguidance in the Fire. We hear this Hadith in every Friday, where the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, has stated that the best speech is the speech, is the Book of Allah, and the best guidance is the guidance of Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his companions. And then the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, has said, Every new thing that is introduced into Islam is misguidance, and every misguidance is in the Fire, in the Hellfire. So what is Bida? Because many times people say many things, and recently people ask me about, normally nowadays people say Jummah Mubarak. I change my mind. I change my mind. I change my mind. I think the South Africans started this, if I'm not mistaken, Jummah Mubarak. So somebody said, well, Jummah Mubarak is Bida. And so on other things, celebrating a birthday, child's birthday, this is Bida, and so forth. So what is Bida? It's very important to understand this because it's a matter of Aqeedah. What is Bida? There are two fundamental principles of Islam. The first fundamental principle of Islam is that this Deen is complete. That Allah, Subhanahu wa ta'ala, completed this Deen. And the Dhalil for that, the evidence for that is the Kitab of Allah. Allah, Subhanahu wa ta'ala, said, Al-Yawma aqmaltu lakum Deenam wa a'tmamtu alaykum ni'mati wa radeetu lakumul Islamadeena. Allah, Subhanahu wa ta'ala, said, which means today, I have completed my blessing on you. Al-Yawma aqmaltu lakum Deenakum. I have completed your Deen for you and completed my blessing on you. Wa a'tmamtu alaykum ni'mati. The ni'ma is tamam, complete. Wa a'laykum As-Salaam. Wa radeetu lakumul Islamadeena. And I am pleased for you to have Islam as your Deen, as your way of life. So this is the word of Allah, that this Deen is complete. There is nothing missing in this Deen. Then we have the second fundamental principle, which is in the Khutbatul Wada' of Rasulullah in his Hajjatul Wada' in his Khutbah. The Prophet said to the people, he said, Have I completed and conveyed to you completely, whatever was revealed to me? And they said, Ya Rasulullah, yes, you have completed. And the Prophet raised his finger towards the sky, he looked up and he said, O Allah, you are the witness. So we have the Kitab of Allah and the Qawl al-Kareem wa Sharif of Rasulullah to say that this Deen is complete. Nothing is missing. In this context, you must see the Hadith. Therefore Rasulullah is saying that if somebody is introducing something into the Deen, then this is misguidance. Balala wa kulla dhalalateen finnaar All of these dhalala will be in the fire. So what is the meaning of introducing into the Deen? The word Bida' comes from the word Bada' which is to start something. And the thing which is started is the Bida'. For example, the Prophet said, Bada' al-Islami ghareeban Islam started as something strange. Wasayahudu kama Bada' And it will return to how it was when it was started. And then he said, Fatuba lil ghoraba He said, give the glad tidings of Tuba, which is a tree in Jannah, to the people who the world will call the Haraib, the strange people. So who are the strange people? The strange people are the people who stand for justice, for compassion, for honesty, integrity, decency, halal, and who stand against the opposite of all this. People will say, what is this? Strange people. Everybody is eating interest. Everybody is dealing in interest. You say, I will not deal in interest. Everybody is buying and selling haraab. You say, I will not do it. Everybody is doing all kinds of haraab in relationship. You say, no, no, no, I will get married. I will not do this haraab relationship. You are strange. This culture, you are against the culture. Alhamdulillah. Alhamdulillah. If that, if people are saying, are calling you strange for this reason, then InshaAllah, the Bashar of Rasulullah is for you. So Bida' is something which is strange. Bida' is something which is introduced into the Deen. Now, what is De

May 12, 2025

Deen of love

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds. And peace and blessings be upon the noble and noble messengers. Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, may peace and blessings be upon him and his family, and many, many peace and blessings be upon him. My brothers and sisters, I remind you and myself that we have a religion of love. Love for Allah and love for his Rasul, peace be upon him. We do not have a religion of convenience. My brothers and sisters, the religion of love is not an easy religion. The sign of love is the acceptance of the afflictions of the beloved. The sign of love is to accept the afflictions, accept inconvenience for the sake of the beloved. Any number of examples where we have the Rasul, peace be upon him, peace be upon him, and his Sahaba going through all kinds of difficulties for the Rida of Allah. Take everything in Islam. Take, for example, I always give the examples of the five Arqam of Islam. Right? Take Shahada. For somebody to accept Islam itself, I'm not talking about people like us, who are Muslim, who are born into Islam. That did not take any Taglif. That's a fortunate, lucky accident. I'm talking about the people who come into Islam. Is it easy for them? It is the most difficult decision. There is no decision which is more difficult than to change the religion of your forefathers. And almost all of them accept, maybe some accept, but almost all of them, they face all kinds of hardship. I remember one question which one lady asked one of the Shukh. She said, is it permissible to pray, to make Salah in the toilet? So I thought, what kind of a question is this? People ask any kind of stupid question. My immediate, you know, reaction, what kind of a stupid question is this? You know? So the Shaikh said to her, why are you asking this question? This shows that you must have some patience. She said, why are you asking question? She says, because I am the only Muslim in my house. And if I pray where my parents see me, they will kill me. I fear for my life. If I pray and my parents know I'm a Muslim, they will kill me. I cannot leave my house and go anywhere. I don't have that ability. But I don't want to miss Salah. So the only place I can pray without them catching me is inside the toilet. So am I permitted to pray in the toilet? What is the fatwa? So, Kaliwa, very inconvenient, full of Taglif. Then becomes a fatwa. So, Salah. Tell me, would it be convenient to pray one time a day or five times a day? No brainer, right? Obviously, one time is this. Or even five times a day at any time convenient to you. I am praying. Why should I pray at this time? Rasool Allah , they asked him, what is the best deed? He said, Salah, ala waqtiyah. Salah, ala waqtiyah. The best thing is to pray two rak'ahs of nafil between adha and nikamah. Bilat akhir, without delay. Time comes in, pray. Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, there is time for two rak'ahs of nafil between adha and nikamah. He didn't say pray Talabhi between Aghab and, Two rak'ahs of nafil. How long does it take? Give that time. Pray. It is not only for one. On all the Salah, this is the, Kaur of the Rasool alaihi salatu wasalam, not my opinion. So very inconvenient, right? No, you can't do all this. You have to pray at the time. You can't pray when it is convenient, I can come, I can't come. No, no, no, no, no, no. You pray at the time of the sala. And not going into the ijazah of this, ijazah of that and the, you know, the whatever people have done. No, I am saying this is the hadith of the Rasool alaihi salatu wasalam. So sala, five times a day at its time. Convenient or inconvenient? Very inconvenient. On top of that, which is the sala for which Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala descends to the first heaven and Allah announces, who is there who wants me, wants something from me, let him ask. Who is there who wants my protection, let him ask. Which sala is that? Qiyam ul-layl tahajjud. I am working hard all day, I am studying all day, I am just, I have just come, I had, I slept late, I am sleeping at midnight. How convenient is it to sleep at midnight, again get up at two o'clock or three o'clock? Is it convenient? No. It's not even fardh, it's a nafil. But see the reward. The reward is for what? It's for the taklif. It is for the izaaj. It is for the difficulty. Allah is saying, no, when you give up your sleep for me, I will give you whatever you want. Ask me, I will give you. Inconvenience. Take some fasting. Is it convenient? For no rhyme or reason, one whole month, you cannot eat, you cannot drink and so on and so forth. That also Allah did not say pick the month. Do it in whichever month is convenient for you. Complete 30 days in 365 days. One day here, one day there, two days there. Finish it like that. Don't need to do together. No, no, no. 30 days i

May 11, 2025

Khashiyya + Shukr = Taqwa

https://youtu.be/6r8R4RB-hFE Auto-generated transcript: In the name of God, Most Gracious, Most Merciful. Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds. And peace and blessings be upon the most honorable of the prophets and messengers. Muhammad, the Messenger of God, peace be upon him, and his family, and his family. Peace be upon him, and his family. And after that, we will continue. Sisters, one of the, or the purpose for which Allah created us is to worship Him. Because He said, وَمَا خَلَقْتُ الْجِنَّ وَالْإِنسَ إِلَّا لِيَعْبُدُوا Allah said, I have not created the jinns and the insan, the jinn and the insan, humans and jinn, for anything other than my worship. إِلَّا لِيَعْبُدُوا So we know that, we know what the purpose of our creation is. It is to worship Allah. Now, what are the bases of worship? Who do you worship? Why do you worship? If you think about this, you will realize that we worship for two reasons. We worship because we are so aware of the glory and majesty of the one we are worshiping. Right? We are so aware of that. It's not fear as in running away from something, but it is fear as in fearing to displease the one whose glory and majesty we are so conscious of and aware of. And the second reason is, theLove. Because we love him. We worship because he is there. It means to be an infidels. Because we live an infidel, because we love him. Because we stay faithful to him, we keep in touch with him His love runs throughout, every little thing. Faizullah said we love the one we worship. And this is a given part of it. That's all. We worship Allah. Now, how do we inculcate this? Because this is the basic basis of Taqwa. Taqwa is founded on this, on creating and inculcating in our hearts, the awe and majesty and glory of Allah and love and hub for Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala Jalla Jalaluhu. The way to do that, both of these, the way is through observation. Is by opening your eyes and looking around you. And that is the reason why Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala said, إِنَّ فِي خَلْقِ السَّنَوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضِ وَاخْتِلافِ اللَّيْلِ وَالنَّهَارِ لَآيَاتٍ لِوُلِي الْأَلْبَادِ Allah said, really in the creation of the heavens and the earth and the alternation of the day and the night, there are signs, for people of intelligence. So Allah is saying, open your eyes. You want to see my glory and majesty? Open your eyes. Look around you. Use your senses. And when I say open your eyes, I don't mean necessarily open eyes as in eyes, because there are many things, some of the most critical and important things, are things that cannot be seen. By the eyes, so the eyes don't matter. Because take love for example. It's felt. It's not seen. Take the, I'm walking now in the morning, the sun hasn't risen yet. The thing that I'm very conscious about in all the years that I've lived here, the thing that I'm absolutely extremely conscious about, is the clarity. The clarity. The cleanliness of the air. Just the, the air is so beautiful and clean. Right? So beautifully. That I take a deep breath and I thank Allah . Alhamdulillah. Ya Rabb, you enabled this for me. You enabled this, me to breathe this absolutely beautiful fresh air. Right now the sky is overcast. There's some lightning flashing. And looks like it might rain. And this is Florida and the rain literally hammers down. So I'm hoping it will not happen while I'm out walking. But, InshaAllah, we'll see whatever Allah does is for the khair. So look around. Look around as in live a life of awareness. Don't live a life of default. That's the reason why in Islam, all forms of intoxication are haram. You know, all forms of intoxication are haram. Because intoxication, what does intoxication do? Intoxication takes away your awareness. You're no longer aware of your surroundings. You're not aware of what you're doing, your own actions. You're not aware of who might be seeing that, be affected by that. You're not aware of anything because you are in your drunken stupor. Or your drugged condition where your mind is taken over by the substance that you are using and abusing. So where is the question of awareness? Now, that's why it's prohibited. So live a life of awareness. See what's around you. Feel what is around you. Listen to what's around you. Smell what's around you. And recognize the glory and majesty of Allah. Of Allah in it. I'm walking through this garden. Somebody's garden is so beautiful. These are amaryllis, lilies. And I can smell their beautiful, very subtle aroma at this time. Just awareness, right? So one of the ways I practice and I recommend to you is describe for yourself your surroundings. Describe your surroundings. Say it in so many words. Say it to yourself. Record it if you like. If you are writing, write it down. But describe your surroundings. What are you seeing? And, you know, draw that picture in words.

May 10, 202516 min

How to have a happy marriage

https://youtu.be/BBNLkC7RWoM Auto-generated transcript: Bismillah walhamdulillah wassalatu wassalamu ala rasulillah. Wa ba'd. My brothers and sisters, a friend of mine asked me to share some thoughts on what makes a happy marriage. And I guess I have some claim to speaking on this subject because my wife and I, we've been happily married now for 40 years. We got married in 1985 and now it's 2025. Very quick short list of what makes a happy marriage. And then maybe we'll talk about it. Maybe we'll talk a little more in detail. Very short list. Number one, marry after you start your career. I'm not saying after you achieve your long-term goals because that's, you know, takes a long time. You want to get married before that. You need a companion in your life who you can literally trust with your life. So you need a partner. Believe me, I'm all 100% for it. Believe me, I'm all 100% for it. Believe me, I'm all 100% for it. I'm in favor of getting married. I think there's people who are not married are really missing out a very, very major part of their life. So it's very important to get married. The question is when. So the first thing is when your career has started. I started working in 1979. I got married in 1985. So that's to give you some idea. And there's no compromise. There's no exceptions to what I'm about to say. Get married only, and only and only, if you can support your wife. Totally and completely. I'm talking to the men because in Islam, it is the job of the man to support his wife, not vice versa. So, make sure that you can financially support your wife. Not with anybody's help, yourself. If you say, well, you know, I can support my wife, I'm getting married, my parents said we could stay with them and my dad will pay the bills. No, sorry. You're marrying the woman, not your dad. Your dad will pay for the woman that he's married to. You pay for the woman that you're married to. And if you cannot pay, then take cold showers and fast. Because that is what Rasool Allah told us. They had this very clear, he said, when a person, when a young man is ready to be married, he should marry. He should not delay. They asked him, what is ready? He said, ready is when you can support your wife. That is ready. Ready is not when you are, you know, just full of emotions, full of hormones. No, that's not ready. So, ready when you… So, start your career and then get married. So, the number one age at which you get married, because then you need some level of maturity. I got married at the age of 40… at the age of 30. Presumably, I had some maturity. Women tend to be more mature and they get mature earlier than men. I am not talking about physical maturity. I'm talking about emotional maturity. Wisdom, understanding and so on. Women get that faster than men do. And so, if you compare two 90-year-olds, they are not that young. The man is 19 physically and… Morning! Morning! Physically and mentally and emotionally, the woman is at least 25. So, it's important to have parity in that. So get married when you are emotionally mature. And third thing is get married when you have the wherewithal, the means to support your wife. You, yourself. You, yourself. Without help from anyone, not parents, not anybody else. So three, in my view, very important criteria for success in marriage. So, I did that. Fourth criterion is to marry somebody who has… A personal interest, a personal, you know, career even, which she is serious about. And ensure that you give each other space to be able to fulfill yourselves in that area of your life, in the area of… Your career, your choices. Now, career doesn't necessarily mean that your wife has to work for some corporate organization, you know, traveling all over the world and so on. That is not a good idea because the whole point of marriage is to be together. And if you have… Some people have this weekend marriages kind of thing, you know. You see each other only on the weekends. And that's not a marriage, I mean, you know. You are not living in a hotel, you have a home. So, but at the same time, if you do not have… If your wife does not have a career, she doesn't have something to do to occupy herself usefully and sufficiently, then the demand on you for your time, your energy, your attention will become overpowering. And you will either give in to that demand and your own career and your own ambition will suffer. And more than likely you will not be able to achieve that. Or you will say goodbye to the marriage. You will buy for yourself a lot of grief in the marriage. Remember that the… In Islam, the woman has the right. It is her right to demand. To demand attention. So if you put yourself in a position where she needs that attention and she is demanding it, you have to give it. And then what do you do? So, then what do you do? So, be clear about

May 9, 202555 min

Focus on the Path

https://youtu.be/sPeC1SlWOSc Auto-generated transcript: I remind myself and you that Allah taught us to ask people to take the right path .In the life journey we make various Mand commendings and we then tell the Lord.and you that allah taught us to ask for the path to ask for the siratallah did not ask did not teach us to ask for the destinationto ask for jannah jannah is the destination and to ask for jannah is not prohibiteddefinitely we can ask for jannah but the ayat is not does not say guide us to jannahhe does not sayit saysallah guide us to the pathsothe path of righteousness the path of steadfastness the path of being firm on the right thingthe path that leads to jannahnow this teaches us therefore thatwe need to focus on the efforton the effortthe effort is what we areresponsible for in this life the result the destination the goal the target is jannahnow this is very different from how we live our lives and how we are taught to live our livesbecause we are taught that we should focus on resultsso what we can do is we need to think about our policies about what will happen in our livesand if we do these things based on the results of our experience and developmentsit will be the arrow on the crown a number of examples or drugyeahwhich of themis eitheror butNow, even in the dunya, if you follow this process, believe me, you will succeed farbetter than focusing just on results.The problem with focusing only on results is twofold.One is that we sometimes start taking shortcuts.We end up compromising principles.We end up compromising the basic fundamentals of our work.And then the whole legacy itself is lost.Second thing is that when results don't come for a while, then we lose hope.We get discouraged.Now, results not coming for a while is very normal because everything has a gestationperiod.Just like a gestation period.Just like a gestation period.The chicken's egg takes 21 days to hatch.Now, if you are in a hurry and you say, well, let me put this into an oven and jack up thetemperature, the egg will get cooked.It will not hatch.Life will not be formed in the egg.Instead of life, the egg will die.Right?It will not be capable of producing life.So if you want the egg to hatch, you must have patience.Leave it alone 21 days under the chicken.Or in the incubator and it will hatch.So also in life, everything has an organic time period for it to fructify, for it to flower,for it to fruit.And until that time period is over, it will not, the result will not come.Now we are living in a world where we can't do anything.We can't do anything.We can't do anything.But this is a very important thing.We have to make sure that we have given speed a disproportionate importance.Whatever is fast is best.Now speed is a competitive advantage in many cases, so I'm not against that.There is nothing good about unnecessarily delaying things by postponing things.But at the same time, like everything else in life, speed also has a long-term benefit.Right?there is a appropriateness to it.There are things where speed is goodand there are things where speed is not good.And the place where speed is not goodis in the process of achieving goals.So focus on the efforts.When you focus on the effort,you will focus on the minute parts of the effort.Am I doing the thing in the way it is supposed to be done?Am I following the process the way the process should be followed?Am I compromising principles and ethics and morals?Am I being kind?Am I being compassionate?Am I looking at how I do something,not only what I'm doing?Now when you do all of this,then the result has to comebecause if the process is right,the process is for a purposeand the purpose is to achieve the result.So the result,will come.There is no way the result will not come.But when you focus on the process,you will find thatyou will not lose hope.You will not get discouraged.You will continue to do the right thingand the result will come.Inshallah.So our goal and the resultis the Akhira.It is the Ridha of Allah SWT.If you Jannah, we ask Allah for this.And Allah promised this.Allah said,And Allah said,أَخِبَتُThe success in the Akhirais for the people of Taqwa.So what must we do?Focus on Taqwa.How can I become a Buttaqi?How can Iget the Khashat of Allah?The love of Allah?The fear of Allah's punishment?The fear of displeasing Allah SWT?How can I get this into myself?And that is what produces us,produces us,the Taqwa and Akhira.This is for the Muttareen.We ask Allah SWT to help usto get our priorities rightand to be able tolive this life in a waythat pleases Him,which would result in a destinationwhich pleases us.وَسَلَّ اللَّهَ عَلَى نَبِي الْكَرِيمِ وَعَلَى عَلَيْهِوَصَحْبِي أَجْمَئِم بِرَحْمَةِكَ أَرْحُمَنُ

May 8, 2025

The most powerful concept in Islam

https://youtu.be/VpWE9616JxE Auto-generated transcript: In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, Lord of the worlds. Peace and blessings be upon the honorable prophets and messengers. Praise be to the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his family. Peace and blessings be upon him. Now, my brother and sister, this is a Muscovy duck. These are, if I'm not mistaken, South American. But I might be mistaken, so do look it up. Now, that is a male, and this is a female coming towards me. They come in these very interesting colors, and they are almost feral, they're almost wild. And they're very capable of looking after themselves and looking after their little ones. They have these, you can see this. I don't know. I don't know what to call them. They're, you know, there's growth on their face. And they lay eggs, they make nests, they raise their young, all on their own. Here, where I am now, they are also wild. But also, I think some people feed them and so on. So, they are, I won't say they're domesticated, because they're not, but they're almost… But they're more friendly. They're more friendly towards people. And not so scared. Like this, this one is walking. Usually, she would have flown away by now. There's another one there at the edge of the water. There is a suspicious looking bump in the water there. I don't think it's an alligator, but then, I'm in Florida, so it's a safe bet to assume. In Florida, that if there is a piece of water, says the water body, then more than likely, it has alligators in it. I want to remind myself and you that if I can say so, I was going to say one of the most, but I want to actually say this. I'm not going to say it's a snake. I'm not going to say it's a snake. I'm going to say it's a snake. I don't want to say any snake. And these two things don't go together. And it's temple, destruction and countenance are deeply connected, but� And they're all suspects who are lurking. If I have to say it's hell, I do think that's killing people. Sometimes the Tan smiles and the monkey smiles and constantly fling in its eyes, which is Yorkshire hare. also created a lot of difficulty for the people of Makkah, the Quresh of Makkah, to accept. Because truly, I mean, it seems strange to say that, but truly, I think I can safely say that they understood Islam and what it entailed better than we do. They understood it much better than we do. And that's the reason why two things happened. One was that they opposed it so strongly. And secondly, that when they accepted it, they were so true to it. They were so completely and totally committed to Islam when they accepted it. Because they accepted Islam not routinely, not, you know, culturally, not because they were born into it, because they were not born into it. They accepted Islam because they truly understood it. And they accepted it with that understanding. And that understanding had to be, had to do, and has to do with this concept of accountability. Everything in Islam boils down. And comes around to the concept of accountability. And that also accountability to the one from whom nothing is hidden. So it's not just accountability to say that, well, you know, I'm accountable. But like, for example, you're accountable to the government of the country that you live in. But you know, and I know that governments are not infallible. There are people who deceive governments. There are people who... do all kinds of scams and shenanigans and they evade taxes and do all sorts of stuff. And they do it successfully. I mean, what they're doing is wrong, but, you know. But in the case of Islam, when we accept Islam, and I'm saying that we need to accept Islam consciously, very consciously with premeditated thought, not just because our parents happen to be Muslim, or something. So when we accept Islam consciously, the thing that strikes us very strongly is that we are accountable to the one from whom nothing is hidden. And so there is no question of getting away with anything. No matter how immune a person might feel in this life. And if you look at, if you look around you, there are people who seem to feel very immune. Who seem to feel that, you know, they cannot be touched. And nothing would happen to them. They can do whatever they like and so on. If you look at their lifestyle, this is how their lifestyles seem to be. But that's far from the truth. It is very, very far from the truth. Nothing at all is hidden from Allah . To under... So therefore, if you take any concept, for example, take for example the fundamental principle of the wisdom. And say, and I'm talking about the very first understanding of it, and we'll see, you know, what comes after that. But very first understandin

May 7, 202517 min

Making right choices – Marriage or career

Auto-generated transcript:Bismillah wa alhamdulillah wa salatu wa salamu ala rasulillah. Wa ba'd. I am in my favorite place, which is in Florida. And you can see why I call it my favorite place. There are some mallards here, which are kind of resident. And this is a water hazard on a golf course. It's a man-made lake. And it has terrapins in it, turtles. It has these lovely oak trees, which border the course. I don't know if you can see the turtles. They dive pretty quickly. And then there is this family of mallards. Very beautiful scene. Some friend of mine asked me to talk about marriage. Because this year, my wife and I will be married. At least according to me, happily, for now 40 years. Alhamdulillah. We got married in 1985. On the 21st of March. So we married 40 years. And so this friend of mine said, she said to me, you talk about your parents in the different podcasts. And, you know, you talk about parenting itself, coming from that background of your parents. You have said many times that your wife has been a great support for you. But you didn't say much or anything about marriage itself. So can you do that? That's what I'm planning to do today. Talk about marriage. But before I go into the topic of marriage, I must talk about ambition. Because ambition is a very important thing. And it's important in terms of careers. Because in my view, and of course, I was going to say, I'm sure I will get pushed back on this. But there's no need for pushback because this is my view. And you're most welcome to have your own. My view comes not from reading a book or some intellectual exercise, but from, from, from the actual experience of 40 years of marriage and 70 years of life. And my opinion, a marriage is a career. So if you say marriage and career, at least for most people, I would say that's an oxymoron because a marriage is a career. And the secret of a successful marriage is if it's treated like a career. When you give it that importance, when you give it that prominence in your life, when it becomes the, the criterion for decision making, marriage is a career. Marriages come usually with the actual biological reasons, which are the reason for marriage, which is procreation of the species, meaning having children. And that makes it even more of a career. So I would say if you are thinking of marriage or career, first get that thing right in your mind and say that, and remind yourself, that marriage means career. Second very important thing is to, therefore ask yourself, what is my ambition? One of my very good friends says, my ambition is to get married. It's okay, Alhamdulillah. If that is your ambition, may you succeed. But if that is the ambition, that's my ambition is to get married, then, um, the chances are that that ambition is, I don't know what to say to that. I mean, I don't want to criticize somebody saying my ambition is to get married. But, if that is the ambition, then obviously you're not going to achieve anything much other than hopefully the marriage. But since marriages require, at least materially, marriages are not necessarily a marriage. But materially, marriages are a resource sink in terms of, uh, non-material, meaning emotional, um, emotional, uh, and other dancing awards. And I want to say spiritual, but certainly emotional, emotional, and other, uh, uh, aims. Marriages are, they are not sinks. Uh, they also give you some benefit, but materially in terms of money, time, energy, they are a sink. So you, and I'm speaking here now, both parties, both the spouses, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, the men and the women, and those are all the un Graduate classes and start when you're older and uh, but you're not going to be a Koh Kesar and be taken into a farewell one. You have to consider that you are going to be a Simen and never you have been epitomized for example a continuative romantic sticky artist Hardy or So you are going to you're looking at spending a lot and putting it into that relationship material stuff, which is time, mostly time money energy, um, and getting some emotional, So, ask yourself, what is your ambition? If your ambition, for example, is to build a dynasty and an empire, if your ambition is to build a great organization, to be an entrepreneur, if your ambition is to, you know, people say retire at 40, if your ambition is material in any of these ways, and all of these are very good material ways, if your ambition is to invent a cure for poverty, for example, which is, I think, people talk about inventing a cure for cancer, I think inventing a cure for poverty is even more important than inventing a cure for cancer. So inventing something. If you're... If your ambition is to solve some of the big problems of the world, believe me, all of those things are going to take a hit if you're married. Now I have some of the... I

May 6, 2025

Thought share – Raising multiple children

Auto-generated transcript:Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. You had asked about advice on raising multiple children. I think in my experience, children are like sponges. They pick up everything from everywhere. And as far as multiple children are concerned, the younger ones pick up from their elder siblings much faster than they pick up from their mother or father. I don't know, maybe it's an age thing or something, but they pick up things from their elder siblings much faster. Now, in most households, the eldest one gets... the maximum attention. That's not his fault, I mean, in that sense, all the fault of the parents. Because there is a period of time before the second one comes where he is the only child. So he gets all attention, he gets a lot of love and affection and so on and so on. And then the next one and the next one. And one of the things that happens is that the elder one then starts feeling the pain because he finds that the total attention that he was... that he was accustomed to is getting divided. And it has to be divided. There's no way that he can continue to get the same attention. So there is some level of resentment that gets built in the heart of the oldest one. That must be addressed. And it's addressed not by talking to him, but by ensuring that he is included in the raising of the younger ones. In the role of a kind of... of a kind of... de facto mentor, a de facto parent. So this must be done subtly, but it must be done clearly. While of course keeping an eye on... on everyone for safety issues. So I think that is very important. Then the... Therefore if you have... if you create that kind of an atmosphere where the elder one now becomes a role model for the younger ones, then there is... this goodness spreads. Second very important thing. Is to strongly encourage collaboration. And to strongly discourage competition between children. This is the most important thing that I can possibly talk about. Because it's... It is the cause of... very destructive sibling rivalry, which I have seen. In many cases in my business consulting practice, I have people who are siblings who are at each other's throats. In many cases in... in the courts, in other cases not in the courts, but you know at home and so on. And I always point out to whoever is concerned, that... that this didn't begin now. At age 40, at age 50. It began at age 2 and age 3. Because a typical scene you will see in the nursery or what passes for a nursery in most homes. Is you will have one child who has a toy. And the other one wants to come and play. And the first one resents it and starts screaming and so on. And the parent comes, the mother or the father, and they say, no, no, no, no, don't... don't fight with the child. Don't fight with the child. Don't fight with the child. Don't... don't fight. I will get you your own. Now that is a fatal mistake. Absolutely fatal mistake. Because you are teaching them to not to share. On the other hand, what you must do is to say, no, this toy belongs to all of you. So share it. And share it the way where everyone is happy with it. Both work. This method also works, the other method also. But when you grow out of that, fast forward 40 years, fast forward 30 years, you do not... you... the difference between two siblings at each other's throats and two siblings who are cooperating and working together is what shows you as the end result of that. And believe me, in my consulting... in my business consulting, family business consulting practice, I've seen it all... I have seen it and I continue to see it all the time. People literally with millions, they will not share not one cent with their own brothers and sisters. I actually had one case where the father was absolutely desperate about it. That the two brothers should love one another. They should, you know, forget love. I mean, love was a long way off. At least collaborate with one another. The situation I saw there was that the two brothers, they were tacitly encouraging disrespect for each other with their children. So the children of one brother would disrespect the other. They would disrespect the other brother and there would be no comment from this brother about that. I mean, how evil is that? The father was desperate. And of course, the father was responsible for creating that situation in the first place. I mean, they... but you see, this is the problem. Parents don't recognize the evil that they create in their own homes. But they... that evil goes squarely into their laps because there's no one else. If it was good, you were responsible for it. You got the credit for it. So therefore, you must take the credit. You must take the credit or the debit for the evil as well. The parents were responsible. But anyway, the situation was very bad. So what I actually did was that I asked to meet the two brothers individually, separa

May 4, 2025

Reflect on Quran

Auto-generated transcript:Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Alhamdulillahi Rabbil Alameen. Wa salatu wa salamu ala ashrafil anbiya wal mursaleen. Muhammadur Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam. Tasliman kathiran kathira. From Abadu, my brothers and sisters, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala asked us a rhetorical question. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, Afala yathadhabbaruna al-Qur'ana am ala qulubin akfaluhah. In Surah Muhammad, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala asked this question. Allah said, do they not reflect on the Qur'an? Or are there locks on their hearts? Tadabbur is translated as reflection. Now reflection can have different meanings. One meaning of reflection is to simply think about something, even in depth. But in the Qur'an, the purpose of tadabbur, the purpose of reflection, is for it to become the motivation for action. It is not just thinking for the sake of thinking. The thinking must create positive action. The rhetorical quality of the question is saying, do they not reflect on the Qur'an? Meaning, if they had reflected, they would have believed. And obeyed. And changed their lives by the Qur'an. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala gave us a meter to check if our hearts are locked or not. Because if Allah is saying, Afala yathadhabbaruna al-Qur'ana am ala qulubin akfaluhah. Then we should check to see whether there is a qufl, whether there is a lock on my heart or not. How do I check that? Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala showed us, in Surah Al-Anfal, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, The real believers are those, are only those whose hearts tremble at the remembrance of Allah. The heart is responsive. Something happens, when Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala's name is mentioned, something happens to the heart. The hearts tremble at the remembrance of Allah. And their faith increases when the ayat of Allah are recited before them. Or recited to them, or they recite. And they put their trust in their Rabb. So the consequence of a responsive heart is that your Iman increases and our trust in Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, increases. The purpose of the Nuzul of the Quran is so that it may be reflected upon and acted upon in our lives. The Quran didn't come merely to be enjoyed for the melodious quality of the recitation or the beauty of the art of its calligraphy or for people to write articles and papers not on one ayah, not even on one word, but on one letter, on one harf. As many have done on the different huruf al-muqattaat, even though Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said that nobody knows their meaning except Allah. The Quran al-Kareem is the living word, the speech of al-hayyul-qayyum, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. It speaks to us, but only if we approach it in the right way. And that's the meaning of the Quran. and that is why the method of approaching of the Quran is so critical. Imam al-Shafi'i said this very beautifully he said I will inform you about its details in my statement Zakat and care and hard work and diligence and companionship are required and are required and are required and care keenness diligence diligence effort just minimal resources to survive and study the company of a teacher and a long time you do not learn this deen through tick tock and through YouTube shots and through Samkhatira or through Khutbah or through Bayan you want to learn this deen you have to spend time you have to make effort you have to learn this deen you have to spend time you have to make effort you have to make effort You have to cry tears in the night. It's very important. There's a very famous story about three of the Tabirin, three young men. They went in search of learning knowledge. And they were in Baghdad. And they were at this Ustadz. And three of them studying, day and night studying. But they have to eat. So what to do? So they got to a stage now where they ran out of money. They had nothing. There was no food. And they decided, and all of them were, today we say, have this Quran. In the classical methodology of teaching, haves of Quran is a given. They won't even look at you if you are not a have this Quran. It begins with the haves of the Quran. Right? Today, because we have gone to such a stage where we cannot even recite Surat al-Fatiha correctly. So we say, mashallah, mashallah, hafiz. Alhamdulillah, it's good. But in our traditional teaching and learning of Islam, haves of the Quran was a basic fundamental condition. If you were not a hafiz of the Quran, the Ustadz will not even allow you into the class. You make haves first, then come back. Because everything is connected. Everything is connected to the Quran. Now, if you don't know the Quran, how can I teach you? So you go learn the Quran. Go memorize the Quran, then come and sit here. That was the method. So these people were, of course, of hafiz, and they were ulema themselves. Now they're

May 3, 2025

Nobody owes me anything

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the worlds. And peace and blessings be upon the honour of the Prophet and the Messengers. Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his family. Peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and his family. My dear brothers and sisters, I want to share with you three of my most critical and most important life lessons. Three lessons. First lesson is, which I learned and I have practiced all my life. First lesson is, nobody owes me anything. I am not entitled to anything from anybody. Not from my parents, not from my wife, not from my friends, not from my brothers and sisters, not even from Allah. I am not entitled to anything from anyone. Nobody owes me anything, including Allah. Allah does not owe me anything. First, very important. If you get this right, then automatically two other things come up. The first thing that comes up is, therefore, anything I want to have, I need to work for. Anything I need to have, I want to have, I need to work for it. I am not entitled to it. I can't just get it by wanting it. I can't get it because of who I am. So if I want it, I have to work for it. Whatever it is. I want Jannah, I have to work for it. I want forgiveness of Allah, I have to work for it. I want money, I have to work for it. I want a happy marriage, I have to work for it. Whatever it is, I have to work for it. And a corollary to that is, that I can have anything I want, as long as I work for it. Nothing stops me. It's just a question of price tag. Right? To give you a materialistic example, I have a small house. I have a small house. I have a small house. I have a small house. I have a small house. I have a small house. If you say I want to buy a Bentley... I'll give you a materialistic example. If you say I want to buy a Bentley... If you say I want to buy a Bentley... Can you buy a Bentley? Yes. Who can buy a Bentley? Anybody. Anybody. The only requirement is, you have to have the money to pay for it. That's all. They won't say no, no, no. You are a Muslim, I will not sell it to you. No, they don't care. You can be a Muslim, Christian, whoever. You can be a one-legged man with one eye. They don't care. As long as you have the money to pay for it, you can buy it. Even if you cannot drive it, you can be blind. You have no driver's license. Can you still buy a Bentley? Yes or no? Of course. Can I buy a plane if I want to buy a plane? Yeah, I can't fly a plane because I don't have a license to buy a plane. I can buy it. That's life. As long as you can pay for it, you can have it. You want great health? You can have it. You got to pay for it. What's the payment for great health? Eat what you should eat. And exercise. That's the payment. It's not in money. It's an effort. Can you become the president of Harvard? Yes. There's no no. Anything you want, absolutely anything you want, you can have as long as you pay for it. So the first, where does it start? I'm not entitled to anything. Nobody owes me anything. Not my father, not my mother. As I said, not even Allah. Allah doesn't owe it to me. If I want from Allah, I've got to beg for it. I've got to go pray here. Put my head on the floor. Even though Allah created me, he doesn't owe it to me. And when I understand that, then the other two things. If I want something, I have to work for it. And as long as I work, I can have whatever I want, whatever I need on the face of the earth. Final point. I then become grateful for what I get. Gratitude. Shukur. I'm not entitled to a smile from you. So when you smile at me, Alhamdulillah, my brother smiled. I'm not entitled that you should treat me with respect. But when you treat me with respect, I am thankful. SubhanAllah. Alhamdulillah. Allah put love for me, respect for me in the heart of my brother. He treats me with respect. I'm not entitled to that. You do that. I'm grateful to you. Alhamdulillah. JazakAllah khairah. A sense of gratitude. And Allah said about himself. Lain shakartum la'zidannab. If you are grateful, I will increase the bounty. And that applies also in this life. If you are grateful to people, people are nicer to you. You express gratitude, people are nicer to you. So I wanted to share this thought with you. Three things that have helped me enormously in my life. Which is this? Don't take anything for granted. You want something? Go work for it. Buy it at the price. What do I need to do? And then, be grateful. Thank Allah. Thank the people. Don't take people for granted. Don't try to use people. Don't try to deceive people. You are smart. The other guy is at least equally smart. Most of the time, he is smarter than you are. I don't think you can fool them. No, no. You

May 3, 2025

Al Asr – 3

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds. And peace and blessings be upon the honour of the prophets and messengers. Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and his family and companions. Many peace and blessings be upon him. Then after that, brothers and sisters, praise be to Allah, we come to the last part of this great surah. Allah took an oath by time and said, وَالْعَصْرُ إِنَّ الْإِنسَانَ لَفِي خُسْرٍ إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ وَتَوَاسَوا بِالْحَقِّ وَتَوَاسَوا بِالصَّبْرِ Allah took an oath by time and said, Surely and definitely all of mankind is in a state of loss. Surely all of mankind is in a state of loss. As I mentioned before, the translation does not do justice to the original, because the original uses the word of emphasis twice. إِنَّ الْإِنسَانَ لَفِي خُسْرٍ إِلَّا الْإِنسَانَ لَفِي خُسْرٍ Surely all of mankind is definitely in a state of loss. Surely all of mankind is definitely in a state of loss. And this is the, on a side note, the beauty of the Arabic language, which indeed we as Muslims must make it further on ourselves to learn. So that not only can we truly understand the importance of what Allah is saying, but also enjoy the beauty of the Bani Al-Mu'minah, the Bani of the Quran. Then Allah said, truly after He said that all of mankind is definitely in loss, meaning that whatever mankind sees, whatever he must see and think of as beneficial, as profitable, as beneficial, as beneficial, as beneficial, as beneficial, as beneficial, as profitable, as profitable, as our wealth is actually false. That is not wealth. That is not something which is good. Actually it is something which is a source of loss, which is something which is a sign of sickness, illness, fatal, or sign of, you know, fatal faults. It's very important to understand this because this is not the opinion of an analyst or a, you know, commentator of some kind. This is the statement of the one who created everything, including all that we see as beneficial. All this also comes from Allah . Our wealth is from Allah . Our knowledge is from Allah . Our scientific development is from Allah . Everything is from Allah . But Allah is saying all of this are not signs of goodness. They are actually signs of the biggest problem. Which is that we are, these are signs of loss. They are signs of destruction, impending destruction. إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا Except for those, all of mankind is in loss except those who have iman, who have faith in Allah , who worship Allah alone, who recognize that لا ينفع ولا يذر إلا الله that nobody harms. And nobody can benefit except Allah. That everything comes from Allah . And then وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ And those who do good deeds. And what are good deeds? Good deeds are those which please Allah. They're not necessarily those which might seem to be good in our understanding. The condition for a good deed to be called a good deed is that it should please Allah . إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ And then in the last two episodes we covered this. And today we'll talk about the last piece which is إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ وَتَوَاسَوْا بِالْحَقِّ وَتَوَاسَوْا بِالصَّوْا Those who invite towards the truth. Those who state the truth. وَتَوَاسَوْا بِالصَّوْا And those who invite each other to have patience, to have perseverance, to have persistence. I cannot possibly emphasize the importance of these two things. Because in Islam it's not only about yourself. It's not only about passively doing something good for yourself. But it's about promoting that good. It's about a sense of social consciousness and social responsibility. Where you not only are happy to enjoy what you have, but you want to spread this goodness around you. Believe me, this was the secret of the spread of Islam, which we forgot. Today, when we have wealth, Today, when we have wealth, we build a big house. And then the thing we do is we build a huge wall around the house. And then we put a barbed wire on top of the wall. And we electrify that. And then we have guard dogs. And we have securities. And we live in a compound with all of the security. Why? Because we are afraid. Of who? Of the poor people of the world. The question to ask is why are you afraid of the poor people? Why? What was your responsibility with regard to the poor people? Rasool Allah sends Ahmad bin Jabal to Yemen. And he is giving him advice. And he says, you are going to a people of the book. Because Yemenis were Christian. He said, you're going to a people of the book. He said, invite them towards the worship of Allah alone. Invite them to the worship of Allah alone. And then he says, If they accept, then teach them how to worship. Teach them Salah. So invite them to the worship of Allah. And when they accept, teach them Salah. And then h

May 2, 2025

Al Asr – 2

Auto-generated transcript:We spoke about the first ayat of Surah Al-Asr. Allah said, Allah took an oath by himself, by time, and he said that truly all humankind, all human beings are in a state of loss. Today let's talk about the next time, maybe let's see how far we get. Then Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala put, gave us criteria. Everyone is in loss except, إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُ إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُ Except those who have, have faith. So this also we spoke about in the last Khatira, what is the meaning of faith. Then Allah said, وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ And those who do good deeds. Now it's very important to understand what constitutes a good deed in Islam. For a deed to be good in Islam, there are three conditions. One is the Niyah. It is the intention of the deed. Why are you doing this deed? If the intention is not good, then even though the deed itself may be good, it has no value and in some cases it might actually become a bad deed. To give you an example, reading the Quran, is it a good deed or a bad deed? Good deed. But if I am reciting or reading the Quran, when my intention is that I am doing it because people are watching and people will think, oh Mashallah, what a holy man and what a pious man is reading the Quran, then what happens to the deed? Gone, right? It's real. It's not only does it nullify and cancel the deed, but it makes it into an action which is haram, which nullifies. Same thing for Salah. Same thing for charity. Same thing for charity. You take the whole lot. We have the very famous hadith of the Salahs, the three people who will be presented to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala on the Day of Judgment. The first of them is a scholar of Islam who learned the Deen and who taught the Deen and so on. The second one is a philanthropist, somebody who Allah gave a lot of wealth and he spent it in the path of Allah. And the third one is a person who was a fighter. He was a soldier. He was a warrior. And not only did he fight, but he fought and he was killed in a battle between, you know, with people who were evil. But all three, and I'm condensing that hadith. I'm not narrating it in detail. But all three, Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, will be the first of them. The first of the people to be consigned to Jahannam will be these people. Okay. And the first of those will be the one who is actually a scholar, Islamic scholar, because of Nia. So the Nia is a very, very important, very first condition of the acceptance of any deed. And therefore, we need to continuously check our Nia to see what is our Nia. The Nia is like carrying, imagine that you are carrying a packet of money in your pocket and you are going through a very crowded marketplace. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. I think. Okay. So Nia, as far as making Nia, how do you see it Humans? Who say Nia that they will get stolen from the home, Nisha after this. What did you do so far. Why did you say what you say we are not going to bring more like a Harmonize? What is this so that we may have some. interesting letter to Sheikh Hussain Rahimahullah Itaada, where this man wrote and he said, Sheikh, I recite Quran well, so people put me forward for Imamate. Now, when I am praying, I make the intention that I am going to say, for example, I make the intention that I will recite 20 ayats. But when I am reciting and maybe I have recited three ayats or four ayats, I get a thought to say, you are reciting to please the people because your recitation is good. You are reciting well. So people will say, oh, mashallah, mashallah, what a great Qari. So he says, when I get that thought, I immediately, you know, shorten my recitation. Instead of reciting 20, I decided I have only five. Maybe I recite one more and I go into ruku, complete the rakat. What shall I do? And the reply of Sheikh Hussain Rahimahullah Itaada is very, very nice. He says, He said, when you get that thought, he said, immediately make istighfar. So internally say, astaghfirullah al-hadhim. He said, then increase the number of ayat. So you decide to recite 20, he said, decide 30. Because shaitan is trying to corrupt your niyyah. He is trying to put fear into you because he sees that because of your recitation, people behind you, they have khushu. They are connecting with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Shaitan wants to spoil that whole show. So he's trying to shut you down. Don't do that. Expand. Do more. Similarly, if you are giving charity and you are, you know, you are going to give some money and then the thought comes, oh, you see, you are doing this because you want people to know what a generous person you are. Immediately make istighfar and give even more. Right. Or if you are giving publicly, don't give publicly, give privately, but give even more until shaitan runs away. So the first requirement for a good deed to be good in Isl

May 1, 2025

Al Asr -1

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds. And peace and blessings be upon the honour of the Prophets and Messengers, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and his family and companions. May peace and blessings be upon them. My brothers and sisters, the Sahaba, whenever they began a meeting or they ended a meeting, they would start and end with which surah? They would recite one surah. Which one? Wa al-asr. Shukr. Wa al-asr. Inna al-insana lafi khusri. Illa alladhina amanu wa amilu salihati wa tawasubi al-hakki wa tawasubi sabr. Allah SWT said, Allah took an oath. An oath is just a promise. It is taken to emphasise the importance of something. So Allah took an oath by time. In another hadith, Allah SWT said, Do not curse time. People say, oh, bad time. Allah said, do not curse time because I am time. So Allah is taking an oath by time, by himself. And then Allah is saying, see the Arabic grammar of that. Inna, which is emphasis. Wa al-asr. Inna al-insana. And then Allah is using another word of, another command of emphasis, which is the lamb of Taqi. La fi khusri. If you say, Inna al-insana. If you say al-insana, kullu insana fi khusri, the meaning is convertible. No, Allah SWT is saying very simply. Inna al-insana. La fi khusri. Truly and verily and surely and definitely all of human beings. Inna al-insana. Every human being on the earth. La fi khusri. Surely that person is in loss. In khusran. He is in loss. He is in... And then Allah SWT says, makes the condition, the criterion, except those who have Iman. Wa amilu as-salihat. And who do good deeds. Remember, this is all related. Allah did not say, illa alladhina amanu, aw amilu as-salihati, aw no. He didn't say this or that or that. Allah said this and that and that and that. Illal alladhina amanu, wa amilu as-salihati, wa tawaso bil haqqi, wa tawaso bil haqqi, wa tawaso bil sami. And those who invite towards the Haqq, to the Truth, and those who have patience, who have sabr, who have perseverance, who have grit, who have persistence. Now think about this and say, why is Allah SWT... What do we learn from this surah? And why was this surah considered so important that Sahaba, Ridhaan la hiya alayhim in main, used to begin and end their meetings, meetings with this? And that is, because this surah focuses on the most critically important elements of life. Because remember, in our life, it's not how much money you have, how much of power you have, what properties you have, none of that. Your health, your wealth, your, whether you are handsome or pretty, or whatever you are, makes no difference. So Allah SWT in His beautiful Kalam has clearly specified what is important. The importance of, the important things are the ones that Allah mentioned. So the Sahaba used to say, read this surah to remind themselves, what is important? Iman wa amir as-sarihaat, wa tawassu bi-raq, wa tawassu bi-sawar. So let me examine myself to see, do I have Iman? What is the meaning of saying, Iman? It means that I believe, and totally and completely without any doubt, in the Tawheed of Allah SWT, that there is no one worthy of worship, except Allah. And in the Risalah of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi, that Rasool Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the Messenger of Allah and is the last and final Messenger after whom there is no message. I do not make shirk, I do not join partners with Allah because there are no partners. I do not worship something other than Allah because there is no one worthy of worship except Allah. I do not allow my desires to supersede the orders of Allah. I don't worship my desires, I worship Allah. When I say I worship Allah, it means I keep Allah's boundaries, the hudud of Allah. What Allah made halal is halal, what Allah made haram is haram. Nobody else can do that. Nobody else can come and change that. Wherever the kalam of Allah, wherever the word of Allah comes, I follow the word, I don't follow my own logic. Think about this. Iblis was a jinn, but because of his knowledge and his ibadah and his zikr of Allah and so on and so on, he reached a level where he was with the Malaika. Right? He was with the Malaika. He was with the Malaika. So this elevation of darajat, think about this. Some of these things we have to reflect on. You might say, you know, it's very good, my darajat should be elevated. It is good, provided the ending is good. The darajat of Iblis were elevated to the point where he was with the Malaika in the presence of Allah . Then what did he do? Think about it. He was with the Malaika. Allah commanded, the word of Allah. Allah said, make sajdah to Adam. Right? Make sajdah to the to Adam . What did the Malaika do? They made sujood. What did Iblis do? Iblis used logic. He used logic in the presence of the command of Allah. He used, in our terms today, he used logic in the prese

Apr 30, 2025

Real cost – #2

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds. And peace and blessings be upon the most honorable of the prophets and messengers, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and upon his family and companions. May peace and blessings be upon him and upon his family and companions. And may peace and blessings be upon him and upon his family and companions. I would like to remind myself and you that for all of this to happen for us, and we ask Allah the Exalted to make dua, but remember, I remind myself, dua alone is not enough. Dua has to be with dawah. There has to be action. The key is to get those good deeds into our account. It's not simply making dua. Allah said, see the generosity of Allah. Allah said, Masalu allatheena yunfiqoona anwaalahum fee sabeeli Allah Kamasali habbatin anbatat Sabaa salabila fee kulli tumbulat Immiyatu habba Wallahu yuda'ifu liman yasha Wallahu wa'asi unaleem Allah said, the example of those who spend their wealth in the cause of Allah is like that of a grain that is planted and it sprouts into seven years. The plant has seven years, each bearing 100 grain. You know, think of a corn plant. You plant one corn seed. The plant grows. It has branches. Each branch has a corn cob and each cob has 100 grains. There is one you planted, you got 700. And then the word of my Rabb, Jalla Jalaluhu. And Allah multiplies the reward even more to whoever he wills. For Allah is all bountiful, all knowing. Whenever I read this ayat, I revel in the fact that, you know, I am a person who is not a person. No thought is available to you. You move carefully that you are looking at God. We will first look at Mohamad Sanqu lotta who also says, a witness from the Prophet Mohammad, the ummah проблема has this command that I came from you. What does mooha meanơi That Allah is the hall ofиш and hu. which can really and truly only be done when we understand it in its original. And this is true of all languages. Urdu, for example, which I, alhamdulillah, is my mother tongue, and I think I speak it, and I understand, I read it, I write it, I love Urdu poetry. If you recite a Urdu couplet, with each word, the nuance of the word, the tone of the word, the way the word is used in that couplet, each one has a delight of its own, which you translate it, none of that can be conveyed. Now, this is the Kalam of Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala. Ta'ala Allahu alhamdulillah, we don't compare the Kalam of Allah to the Kalam of any shahir. In any case, the Quran is not shahir. Very important to learn the Arabic language. That is what touches our heart and strengthens our faith. Just think about the dua which we make every morning, and see how Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is described in this dua. The glory and magnificence of Allah. And how we place ourselves in a position, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala gave us the permission to place ourselves in a position where we are invoking Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and making Him the witness on our tawhid. Allahumma inni ushiduk wa ushidu hamalata arshik wa malaikatik wa jamiya qalkik annaka anta Allah la ilaha illa ant wahadaka la sharika lak wa anna Muhammadan abuduka wa rasuluk O Allah, I make you the witness. And I make witness the malaika, the angels who hold the throne. And I make witness all the angels. And I make witness everything in creation. Every breath of air, every wave of the ocean, every drop of rain, every flick. of snow, every sound, every radio wave, every creature, every human, every jinn, every animal, every bird, every reptile, every amphibian, everything I know and everything I don't know, every grain of sand on every beach. I make all of them witness that you are one. Wahadaka. La sharika lak. And there is no comparison to you. There is no one who can be joined with you. There is no one who is like you. There is no one who is equal to you. There is no one who resembles you in any shape or form. Wa anna Muhammadan abduka wa rasuluk. And I bear witness that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sahibu salam is your slave and he is your messenger. And you're the one who steps up against him. You are his master. Then again, you don't have to sleep with this supposed uses on your shoulders to rescue harm. I appreciate you guys being with me. I believe right now the return is 4.5%, up from 2.5%, which means that American debt has gone through the roof just now. U.S. Treasury bonds, they attract a lot of investment, even though the usual return is 3% or less, because the world considers the U.S. government to be a solid guarantor of investment. So people are willing to put money in something which has a lower rate of return because the guarantee comes, it's an iron-bound guarantee, hopefully. Then what about Allah? What is our view about Allah's guarantee, which is not 3%, which Allah said 700 tim

Apr 29, 2025

Real cost – #1

Auto-generated transcript:My dear brothers and sisters, respected elders, this life is a transaction. It's a deal. To get something, we must give something. So let us look at our lives and see what we are paying to get what we have. I'm going to count some things. It's not an exhaustive list. Just to give you some thinking points. Ask yourself, what did we give up for the conveniences of modern living? What did we give up to be able to eat processed food and drink sodas? What did we give up to get iPads and smartphones into our lives? That is the real cost, not the dollars you charged on your card. What did we get? What did we give up to get 24-7 news reports? Which rapidly morphed into super-focused propaganda. For example, we used to get literally hourly, maybe even minute-wise, I don't know, reports on the number of COVID deaths in the world. What did that do to us and our psychology? Today we get the same about Gaza. One of the things that happens, and I'm speaking as a psychologist, and that is the reason I've said over and over and over again, do not watch these videos. It deadens the heart. It makes you immune to the pain. Tears no longer come to your eyes. You no longer cry before Allah in tahajjud because you got used to that. Seeing it over and over and over and over. And that's the purpose of it. We get all these things. We get all these things. We get all these things. We get all of this in the form of graphic videos on our phones and social media feed. What did we give up to get this news? Think about that. And what would have been lost if we did not get this news over and over and over again? Our children compare their faces and their beauty and their bodies and their clothes with everything superficial. With everything superficial. With so-called influencers. And they get anxious. And they get depressed. And they despair. And they commit suicide. Have you ever heard of an influencer who talks about grades in school and working for real, worthwhile goals and feeding the hungry and helping the sick? Have you ever heard any influencer talk about these things? Things of true value? Our children are exposed through these influencers to cultures and values that alley cats would be ashamed of. But thanks to the power of the media, all that is normalized and applauded. And those who challenge that are maligned and denigrated and cast into the garbage bin of old people from the old country who don't understand us. Go ahead, do what you want. It's your fate. What did those children get in return? Today, mental illness is in epidemic proportions. Seven and eight year olds want to commit suicide. And they need psychiatric treatment. Do you think that's accidental? What did we get when we lost respect for parents and children and elders? What did we get when we gave up reading? What did we get when we substituted Instagram and YouTube shorts for serious study? What did we get when we lost our adab to the extent where you would go to a sheikh and say, shorten your lecture because I am getting bored? Hmm? Hmm? Hmm? Hmm? Hmm? I know all of these things. Or at least I don't know. I don't see all because I really don't see how all have benefit. But some of these things have benefits. But pause for a minute and calculate the cost. You got that benefit at what cost? As they say, there are no free lunches. So let's look at what we paid and ask, is it worth it? I remind myself, I knew that returns on interest are not the same as the cost of a job. I remind myself, I knew that returns on investment are assessed in terms of their magnitude and guarantee of safety. For example, if I sell my house and use the money to go on a world cruise in a luxury cruise liner, I will return with some nice photos, some worn memories, some amazing experiences and be homeless. Would you call that return on investment? Or a foolish waste of resources? On the other hand, if I sell my house and buy two shops, rent them out, move into an apartment on rent, nice apartment, live off the income, would that be a return on investment? To give up something permanent that appreciates in value in exchange for something temporary that depreciates, no matter how enjoyable the latter might be, is stupidity. Stupidity. Stupidity. A reason for the loss of money. Allah called this life a transaction, a business, and He promised a return. Allah said in Surah As-Saff, ... ... ... ... ... ... وَأَنفُسِكُمْ ذَلِكُمْ وَخَيْرٌ لَكُمْ إِنْ كُنْتُمْ تَعْلَمُونَ Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, which means, O you who believe, shall I guide you, shall I show you a business, tijarah, that will save you from a painful torment. It is to have faith in Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and his messenger and strive in the cause of Allah with your wealth and your lives, your effort, that is best for you if only you knew. The quality of this particular business is that it is with Allah. So there is

Apr 28, 2025

Courage is the greatest virtue

Auto-generated transcript:My brothers and sisters, I read something yesterday which I want to share with you. There is an author called Sahil Bloom. He writes, Your entire life will change when you realize that courage, which is himmah, courage is the single most important human trait. Your whole life will change when you realize that courage is the most important human trait. In 1942, the author C.S. Lewis, offered this brilliant characterization. And he said, Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point, which means at the point of highest reality. Courage is who you are when it is inconvenient, not when it's convenient. Courage is who you are, when it is inconvenient, when no one is watching, when the rewards are uncertain, when the outcomes are unpredictable. It is easy to declare our values and principles and virtues in times of peace. It's very hard to live by them in times of war. Courage is defined at the testing point. You are defined at the testing point. The truth, talent, and intelligence are abundant. Courage is not. There is someone out there living the life you want simply because they had the courage to act. They are not smarter than you. They are not more talented than you. They just took action when you didn't. They recognized that fear comes from inexperience, not in-game. They are not in-game. They are not in-game. They are not in-game. They are not in-game. They are not in-game. They are not in-game. They are not in-game. They are not in-game. They are not in-game. You are afraid because you haven't done it yet, not because you can't do it. Inexperience is a problem to be solved, and it's only solved through having the courage to act. They realized that the worst prison in the world is having the talent and intelligence to achieve something, to achieve something great, but lacking the courage to go out and do it. They understood that the guarantee of success is that the calculation is very good, They understood that the regret from inaction is always worse than the regret from action. But here's the most empowering thought. Courage is not born, it is chosen. Every single day, you get to choose how you show up at your testing point. You have agency. You are at the wheel. You are in control of your future with your actions in the present. The challenges do not get easier. If anything, they get harder as you rise. But you get stronger. You grow. You change. When you arrive at your testing point and choose to show up as the highest version of yourself, you become different. The Stoic philosopher Seneca once wrote, it is not because things are difficult that we do not dare. It is because we do not dare that things are difficult. You cannot build a life of meaning, purpose, and character by taking the easy paths at the testing point. Choose to dare. Choose hard. Choose courage. Courage now and easy later. I thought let me share this with you because if you think about this and you see this, this is the story. This is the story of the life of Rasulullah . This is the story of the Sahaba of Rasulullah . Take any part of the Sira. Even though he was the Nabi , Allah did not give him guarantees of success incident by incident. This is a very important thing to remember this. Allah gave us guarantee of success when? In the Akhirah. Wa al-aqibatu lil-muttaqeel. Not in the Dunya. Allah did not say if you take this step you will be successful. No. Take the step. See. When Rasulullah went to Taif, I'll give you examples from the Sira. When he went to Taif, did he know whether he will succeed or fail? He didn't know. If he knew he would succeed, why would he go there? No need. Just call them. If he knows he will fail, why will he go there? Nobody goes to fail. He took a chance. He had the courage to go there. He took a chance. He did his best. And he suffered. In the battle of Badr, did he know that they will win? If he knew that they were going to win, why did he make the Dua that he made? Oh Allah, if you don't help them, there will be no one to worship. He will not be able to do anything. He will not be able to do anything. He will not be able to do anything. Why are you saying that? Why are you saying that? Take the Sahaba, Musa ibn Umair radhiyallahu who goes to Medina. Young man. Please understand one very clearly important thing. We only get stuck on this youth business. Musa ibn Umair was young. Mu'adh ibn Jawal was young. Abdullah ibn Abd al-Masih. He had a young family. He had a young wife. He had a young father. He had a young father. He had a young wife. was young. I'll come back to Usab ibn Abbas. Let me give you Abdullah ibn Abbas' example. Abdullah ibn Abbas was young, right? So people say see Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam he trusted young people, he had young people around him. Let me show you what kind of young people. Abdullah ibn Abbas was maybe ten years old. Abdu

Apr 27, 2025

Q&A on Salah

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of all mankind. And peace and blessings be upon the most righteous of the prophets and messengers, Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and his family. And many thanks and blessings. My brothers and sisters, it's very important. There seem to be small mistakes, but they are not small mistakes. They can, in some cases, they can invalidate your salah. In some cases, there is no salah. So be careful with that. Now, let's start with the saf. Formation of the lines. It's extremely important to form the lines shoulder to shoulder. Actually, touch the shoulder to shoulder. And when you stand, stand in a way where you touch the shoulder to shoulder. And then only your feet. Sometimes people stand with their feet so wide apart that the shoulder cannot touch. And in trying to touch the feet, they stamp the foot of the other person. Don't do this. Shoulder to shoulder. Then the feet should be at the level of the shoulders. If you touch the other person, you can't do it. But don't try. Don't try to push your foot and stand like this. No. Complete the saf. Second thing is complete one saf and then go to the next saf. So if there is some gap or there is some space at the end of the saf, make sure you fill that space. Only if there is space, then you go to the rest. Third thing is when you form any saf, the second saf, third saf, start in the middle. Behind the imam. Don't stand in one corner. Whether you are sitting on a chair, stand in the mat. Stand behind the imam. Start from there. And then fill up the saf as far as possible equally on both sides. Don't go and stand in one corner. Right? It's very important to remember that. Fourth thing is when you come and join and the imam has already started this allied praying. When you join, say for example you are joining in ruku or you are joining in qiyam or sujood. First thing is immediately join. Don't stand waiting there. Many times people are in sujood, they stand and wait to see, let him stand up. No. Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam specifically prohibited. He said, maybe Allah has kept your forgiveness in that sajdah. Don't be lazy. Trying to avoid one sajdah less. No. Go down and immediately join. Number one. Number two, when you join, it is the rukun of salah that you say Allahu Akbar. Simply moving your hand like this is like, you know, driving away flies or something. No. Just this. No. Raising your hand is mustahab. If you do that, very... Very good. If you don't do that also, salah is valid. You must say Allahu Akbar. Not necessarily loudly, but say Allahu Akbar. Without saying Allahu Akbar, if you simply do this and going to ruku, your salah has not even started. You are not in salah. You're doing some exercise. So please don't do that. Make sure you say the salah begins with the Allahu Akbar. With the takbiratul ihram. So very, very important. Start with say Allahu Akbar. And then you join the salah and then you follow the Imam as the Imam is doing. Inshallah. Right? Now in terms of adhan, many mistakes that people make, especially people from our part of the world, from the Indo-India, Indo-Pakistan area, we say Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar. In the Arabic language, the dhamma, in Urdu we say pesh. The dhamma is the condition of every word last ends with u. Muhammadu, Allahu. Unless there is a reason why it changes to something else. So therefore, when you are joining the two, suppose you say Allahu Akbar and you stop, then you say Allahu Akbar. That's no problem. You can do that. But if you are joining Allahu Akbar with Allahu Akbar, you must say Allahu Akbarun, Allahu Akbar. Allahu Akbaru, Allahu Akbarun, Allahu Akbar. Not Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar. That is wrong. Right? So don't do that. Very common mistakes. Each, each area, which whether it's Arab or not, it doesn't matter. People have what we call in the Arabic language lahjats, which is dialects. So the dialect has a way of pronouncing things which is not necessarily, for the dialect it is fine, you can do that, no problem. But when it comes to the Quran, then you have to do, you have to pronounce it according to tajweed. For example, Egyptians, they don't pronounce ja as ja, they pronounce ja as ga. So they say ganna. Yeah, so in this, in the Arabic language, they pronounce it like that. In the Arab world, we have like, you know, humorously we say, Kullu muslimeen fee janna wa musraeen fee ganna. Right? So all the Muslims, because they say janna, they call it ganna. So it's, in the lahjats, it's fine. But if you are reading Quran, fee jannatin naim, fee gannatin naim, no, fee jannatin naim, this is the, the word ja has to be pronounced. So similarly, in the Indo-Pak world, two major mistakes, one mistake we do is this issue of, Allahu Akbar, Al

Apr 26, 2025

How important is Islam

Auto-generated transcript:Alhamdulillah Rabbil Alameen wa salatu wa salamu ala ashrafil anbiya wal mursaleen. Muhammad wa Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sallam. Tasliman kathira kathira. Fammabadu, my brothers and sisters, if I ask you how critical is Islam for you? Or if you ask me the same question, how daruri? To use the Arabic word, how daruri? What is the answer? How important is it? How critical is it? Again, speak from the heart. Don't give me a standard answer. No. How daruri? How critical? Think about it. You don't need to tell me. Think about it. The reason I'm saying that, let me give you a comparison. Suppose I ask you three cards. A Costco card. Store card Costco. A health insurance card. Medicare, MassHealth, H&E, whatever. And a Social Security card. All three are cards. All three are numbers. Which is the most, if I tell you choose one, which will you choose? Which one? Social. Social, absolutely. Without the Social Security card, you will be in the icebox. Right? Right? Another example. Somebody goes to a storehouse. Somebody goes to TJ Maxx. He's going there because he has some need. The same person goes to ER in Bay State. He also has a need. Whose need is more? Yeah, right? Yeah, I mean, there's a no brainer. The TJ Maxx guy also has a need. He's going there to, you know, I want to buy a shirt or jacket or whatnot. If I get it, I don't get it, it won't kill you. But if I'm in ER, I can't breathe. My heart is doing all kinds of magic. Now, take this as a framework for comparison and ask yourself, how important, how critical is Islam in my life? Take this as a, is Islam as important as TJ Maxx? Or is Islam as important as ER? Is Islam as important as, I'm not saying it's not important. How important? What is the degree, the level? The reason I'm asking you that is because our decisions in our life, our actions, the choices we make are all related to the level of importance of that thing. As a family man, right, foreign boy, you have a family, a wife and children, you have parents, you also have friends. You have a family. You have a family. You have friends. You have colleagues. You are good to all of them. But if you had to choose and say, here is something, choose one. Will you give precedence to your friend over your son? No. No. That why, that's why we have to ask ourselves, how really important is Islam in my life? Because all my decisions, how much time do I spend in the worship of Allah Subhanahu Ta'ala, in the Ibadat of Allah? In Salah, in Dhikr, in Tilawatul Quran and so on. How much charity do I give? How much money, time, energy, life do I spend in the path of Allah? My earning, where do I give it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? Where do I spend it? And here's the question, how much money do I choose to earn from? Somebody comes to me with this fantastic scheme. The only hitch is that I have to borrow money on interest. But he's showing me this, you know, you'll become a billionaire in 10 days. Will you take that or not? Eating, what goes into my mouth? And so on and so on. My relationships. My effect? All of them depend on how important is Islam. Because if I am going to choose something which is halal, even though I have the option to choose something which is haram without any consequences in this world. Like Sheikh Hussain used to say, this country is the freest country in the world because you can do anything you want. I remember we used to go in 1997 when I used to live here. Dr. Ali and I used to go for, those days we used to do two jaulas in a week. We had a makhami jaula and an intiqali jaula. So the intiqali jaula we used to do in UMass. So interestingly, in UMass in those days, you had the MSO room, MSA room. And on one side, you had the MSA room. And on one side of the MSA room was Friends of Marijuana Society. This was the days when marijuana was illegal. Before now, of course, it's illegal. So Friends of Marijuana Society, it was their room. And on the other side was Worshippers of Satan. There was a board, there was a big board on the room. Muslim Student Association on one side, the shaitan, on the other side, the marijuana. Free, do what you want, no problem. You want to worship shaitan, most welcome. Nobody will stop you. You want to worship Allah, also nobody will stop you. This country I've seen more support for Islam and more support for Islamic culture, action, than any other country in the world, including Muslim countries. Freedom in this country. Absolutely no problem. Handu ilan. And the other side, there was a board. There was a board. There was a board. There was a board. There was a board. But the

Apr 25, 2025

Post-Ramadan gameplan

Auto-generated transcript:In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise belongs to Allah, Lord of the worlds. And peace and blessings be upon the honour of the prophets and messengers, Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon his family and companions, peace and blessings be upon him, and upon many many. And what is next? My brothers and sisters, Ramadan has ended and so have the rites of Ramadan. But the rites of Allah remain and they will remain until we die. As Allah commanded, وَاعْبُدْ رَبَّكَ حَتَّى يَأْتِيَكَ الْيَقِينَ Allah said, worship Allah, worship your Rabb until the inevitable comes to you, until the truth comes to you and that is death. Ramadan came to increase our taqwa. As I mentioned in several of my khutbah before, every ibadah, every act of worship is not for itself. Every act of worship is a tool to achieve something. Salah is not for itself. إِنَّ الصَّلَاةَ تَنْهَىٰ عَنِ الْفَهْشَاءِ وَالْمُنْكَرِ Salah is the tool to separate us from, to protect us from everything which is shameless and everything which is not good. Everything which is rebelliousness of Allah and disobedience. So if I'm praying and I find that there is no change in my lifestyle, if I'm still disobeying Allah, if I'm still engaging in things that Allah has prohibited, then I must question my salah. I must question what quality of salah is this? That it is not achieving the purpose for which it is meant. Allah said about Ramadan, what is the purpose of Ramadan? Ya ayyu allatheena amanu kootiba alaikumus siyamu kama kootiba ala allatheena min qablikum la'alakum tattaqoon Allah said, Do you believe fasting has been prescribed for you as it was prescribed for those before you so that you may become muttaqoon, so that you may become conscious of Allah in your lives, so that you may become completely and totally obedient to Allah, so that you do everything for one reason only and that reason is because it pleases my Creator. Now Ramadan reinforced that because in Ramadan during the hours of the fasting from before sunrise to after sunset, we stayed away even from things which are normally halal. Why? Because Allah said so. There's another reason. If anyone fasted for any other reason then the fast becomes batil. The reason we fast, the reason we don't eat, we don't drink, we don't have intimacy and so on is because Allah said so. Not for its physical benefits or you know any other reason. Because Allah said so. And that is to reinforce this concept in our minds. Because Allah said so. So if I'm going to stay away even from the permitted things which are wholesome, which are good to do because Allah said so and for no other reason, then what must I do with those things which Allah prohibited? Ramadan therefore did not come for Ramadan. Ramadan came for the rest of our lives. That is the goal. We use Ramadan as a habit change, an attitude change and a life change opportunity. So that we can become uttaqoon, we can become people of taqwa. We can become people who are conscious of Allah in every aspect of our lives. And so that we live our goals, we live our lives with only one goal in mind and that is to please Allah . Developing taqwa is the most important goal in life. Because all the promises of Allah are for the muttaqoon. Not merely for the Muslimoon. Not merely for the person who enters Islam. When you enter Islam, you just enter the fort. But you want value added benefits? It has to be more than that. We have to become conscious of Allah in our lives. And we have to worship Allah only without any partners. And we have to obey Allah over and above. And before we obey Allah, we have to obey Allah. We have to obey anyone and anything else including our own desires. And that is why Allah said وَبَنْ يَتَّقِ اللَّهَ يَجْعَلْ لَهُ مَخْرَجًا وَيَرْزُقُهُ مِنْ هَيْثُ لَا يَهْتَصِبُ Allah said whoever is mindful of Allah, what is the benefit of being a muttaqoon? What is the benefit of being mindful of Allah? What is the benefit of being conscious of Allah in our lives? Allah says whoever is mindful of Allah, Allah will solve his problems. Allah will make a way out for them. And provide them from sources that they cannot imagine. When we face difficulties individually or collectively, let's ask ourselves do we seek material solutions or do we introspect to see which of our actions may be responsible for the difficulty and how we can solve the problem and invoke the help of Allah by bringing into our lives the blessed path of RasulAllah . By all means seek material means. There is nothing wrong with that. But do we have a place to go to the root cause of it? Because the fact is if Allah is saying I will solve your problems if you are obedient to me, automatically it means that if you are not obedient to Allah, then no matter what you do, your problem will not go away. Right? It's a mutually exclusive statement. Alla

Apr 24, 2025

No part time Islam

Auto-generated transcript:In English, there is a saying which says that it's a sign of intelligence. It's a sign of intelligence to be able to hold two opposing ideas in your mind simultaneously. It's a sign of intelligence to be able to hold two opposing ideas, two opposite sides, in your mind simultaneously. And I want to say to you and myself that it's a sign of hypocrisy, of nifak, to be able to hold two opposing beliefs in your heart simultaneously. It's a sign of nifak, it's a sign of hypocrisy, to be able to hold two opposing beliefs in your heart simultaneously. The reason I say that is because today we seem to live in a world where for everything that we do in our life, we know and we believe. That anything related to that is connected. For example, take health. We all know and we believe that if I want to have good health, then I must watch my diet. I can't eat anything I like. I must eat the right kind of food. I must watch my physical exercise. I need to do that. I can't just sit in a chair all day. I must do some physical exercise. And I must watch any medication that I need to take. I must take that on time. According to my diet. According to the dose prescribed by the doctor. And I must also watch my life to say, is my life full of stress or something is happening there. All are connected. Right? Yes or no? If somebody says, you know, forget about the... Look man, I like to eat a lot of sugar and I like to eat nice fried stuff. And that's where the taste is. So I'm going to eat all that. I'll eat all the sugar. I'll eat all the fried stuff. I'll eat all the cakes and the puddings and the stuff. But... But... I've got high cholesterol. I've got diabetes. But, you know, just give me medicines. Instead of one, give me two. Instead of two, give me four. You think it works? I say, no, no. I will eat all the food. Forget exercise. It's just too much trouble. I have too much time, too much trouble, too much pain. I won't do it. Will it work? And if somebody has this argument and if he tells you... So, I mean, I'm doing something, you know. I'm not saying I won't take medicine. I'm taking medicine. I'm also exercising. So what if I eat a whole cheesecake? What will you say to him? You will say, brother, listen. You either do the whole thing or it doesn't work. You can't take a piece from here that you like and the piece from here you don't like and you say, because I like... No, it doesn't work like that. It's... The whole body is connected. The mind is connected. The stomach is connected. The... The... The... The blood flow is connected. The muscles are connected. Psychologically, it's connected. So you have to take care of all of that. Yes? Similarly, you drive a car. And this car is an... I'll only put gas. He said, brother, you've been driving that car for 10,000 miles. That thing needed an oil change at 5,000 miles. You already doubled the mileage for the oil change. Please, go and change the oil. No, no, no. Rubbish. I'm putting gas. I'm driving. Okay, do that. One day in the middle of the highway, it'll cease. The point I want to make is we have this logic for everything, right? Take education. You take anything in life. Anything in life. Take education. Take anything. You will... You have this logic and this is correct logic that if you want to succeed, you have to do everything because it is all connected. Now, my question is, what happens to this logic when it comes to deal? What happens to this logic when it comes to... When it comes to Islam? Allah said, Tawheed, first of all, worship only Allah and nobody else. Don't join partners with Allah. Allah said, Risalat, follow Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Itaat wa ittiba, not itaat or ittiba. Obey him and emulate him. Both are required. Yes, itaat wa ittiba. Both are required. Then, earn halal. Eat halal. Yes? Then, faraid. Make sure you fulfill all the faraid. What do you say? No, no, no. Hold on a second. I mean, it's like all this is too much. Right? So, what I will do is, okay, shirk I won't do. I won't go and worship an idol. I will not go and stand before a khabar and say, yeah, fulan bin fulan, give me a chai. I won't do all that. That's fine. But, you know, this whole issue of paying five times a day on time and in jama and so on, like too much. I mean, this is... So, I will pray when I can pray. And Ramadan? You know, I am on this. I am playing this game and I need to go to the gym every day. I can't do... I can't fast. So, I am not going to fast because it's too much stress. And earning halal... Come on, I mean, we live in America, right? Everyone is doing it. So, what's halal? What about zakat? No, no, we are paying tax. In America, paying tax is equal to zakat. No need to pay zakat. Very nice. What about not de

Apr 23, 2025

Let the Quran enter the heart

Auto-generated transcript:So the thing that strikes my mind is what is the result of that? What change does the Quran bring in ourselves, in our actions? And I want to tell you two stories. One story is with regard to the Quran changing somebody's life and the other one is the result of that. The first story is narrated by none other than Imam Al-Awzaie, Rahmatul Ali. Imam Al-Awzaie was one of the great Imams of the Sharia and he was the Imam of the Zahiri Masab and he is ranked on the same level as Imam Abu Hanifa, Imam Shafi' and so on. Allah swt spread some things and doesn't spread some things so the Zahiri Masab is not a big Masab but Imam Al-Awzaie is very hugely respected, he is fatawar in the books of fiqh and he is very very well known and very respected Imam. So he says that they were going for Umrah and so in a caravan and those were the days when there were people, bandits used to loot these caravans because people went for Umrah and so on. Usually they would go for Umrah just before Ramadan and then they would stay on and so on until Dhul Hijjah. So they would do Hajj and then they would, after Dhul Hijjah they would come back. So they had all sorts of provisions and stuff with them so it was good loot for the people who were the highway robbers. So Imam Al-Azai says that we were in this caravan and we got raided by this bandit group and of course there was chaos absolutely, some people were getting wounded and beaten up and some people, maybe somebody got killed or what not. Imam Al-Azai says that in the middle of all this I suddenly found myself the head of that gang of thugs, gang of robbers. He said he was standing in front of me, he had a naked sword in his hand and he said to me, who are you? Imam Al-Azai said, I am so and so. He said what do you do? Imam Al-Azai says I teach children Quran, I teach children how to read Quran. He does not say I am an Imam of fiqh and I am this and that. He said I teach children to recite Quran. So this Robert Chief says, okay so recite some Quran for me. Decide some Quran for me. I am talking about the effect of the Quran on the heart. Who is this guy? He is the head of bandits, you are not talking about some great sheikh of Tasiyyat-ul-Nafs. The worst of the worst, he is a man looting people and killing people and so on. Al-Azai, may Allah have mercy on him, recites only one ayah. He says, that's it. One little ayah from Surah Dhu Zariyat, and in the heavens is your rizq, your sustenance and whatever you wanted and want and need is in the heavens. Al-Azai said the man started shivering. His sword dropped from his hand, fell from his head. And he says, this is the Quran? Al-Azai says yes. He says this is Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Allah said this. He said yes. He said then why am I doing this? Then why are we doing this work? If our rizq is in the heavens, why are we robbing people? Allah said, I did not say anything. He said the man picked up his sword and put it in the scabbard. He called his people and said, they all came. He said Allah says that our sustenance is with him. In the heavens. So, I am making taba now. This work we are doing is haram. We should not be doing this. He said we knew this. Now this is proof. And I am leaving this work. You decide what you want to do for yourselves. His followers said we are your followers. Whatever you do, we do. You are our sheikh. You are our chief. So, if you leave this work, we leave this work. So, Alaudah and Haath-ul-Aal says they returned everybody their things and so on. They apologized to people who were hurt. They gave some money and whatnot. They left. The effect of the Quran on her made it. Then Alaudah and Haath-ul-Aal said well then we hamdillah we thanked Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and so on and we continued. And we reached Makkah. We went to Omra. All this happened. He says that one day after Salat-ul-Fajr I am making taba for the Kaaba and I hear somebody weeping with such a broken way. Not just crying. He said this is like coming out of his heart. And Alaudah and Haath-ul-Aal said that weeping was as if as a woman who would weep if her baby was taken from her arms and the baby's throat was cut and it was given back to the woman. What would she do? May Allah have mercy. That is the kind of weeping I heard. Completely broken weeping. So, I said who is this person? Let me go and see and guess who it was. It was this chief of the bandits. He is sitting in front of the Kaaba. He is making dhaat all the time. He is making istighfar and taba. Alaudah said I tapped him on the shoulder and he looked at me. He recognized me. And he said I then recited the next ayah which I had recited. The next ayah is The next ayah is The next ayah is The next ayah is Allah is saying The wow is the wow of Qasm there. Allah is taking an oath by himself and he is saying By the Rabb of the This is true. What is true? It is true that your rizq is in the heavens. Allah is taking an oath and

Apr 22, 2025