
Decision by Shura – 1
Fajr Reminders - Mahmood Habib Masjid and Islamic Center · Fajr Reminders - Mahmood Habib Masjid and Islamic Center
October 22, 2025
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Auto-generated transcript:My brothers and sisters, my brother and dear friend from Durban, Al-Pahla Institute, Dr.
Zafar Ahmad asked me a question and before I go further and tell you what his question is
and answer the question inshallah let me submit you that I dearly welcome this and especially my
request to those who listen to these Fajr Reminders khatiras regularly do send me your
questions don't send me fiqh questions I will not answer them I'm not a mufti ask your local mufti
for any advice on the from a fiqh perspective but ask me questions about application of Islam
this helps me to think this helped me to reflect it helps me also to try to share with you my
thoughts on that now his question is can you give us some insights on decision making from an Islamic
perspective using the shura concept the beauty of our religion
is Alhamdulillah that there is every single thing that we face in life everything in every single
dilemma question every single problem every single blessing that we face in life and we are searching
for answers the answers are in the kalam of Allah and in the teaching of Muhammad Rasulullah
sallallahu alaihi salam there is nothing that has been missed out every single thing is there
and it's up to us to do it and I'm very grateful to you for that and I'm very grateful to you for
us to search for those answers in the Quran and in the Sunnah as far as the issue of decision-making
and the issue of Shura which is consultation so we are talking here about consultative decision
making we're not talking about a one-man show we are not talking about dictatorial way of
leadership we are talking about consultative decision-making Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala in
Surah Ashura Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala said Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala said Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala said
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They respond to the call of their Rabb and are constant in prayer.
Wa aqamu salat.
They have, they don't just pray, they don't just read Salat or make Salat or do Salat.
They establish Salat.
Wa aqamu salat.
Wa amruhum shura baynahum.
And whose rule in all matters of common concern is consultation among themselves.
These are people who decide based on consultation.
Wa mimmaa razaqnaahum yunfiqoon.
And who spend on others from what we have provided them.
So Allah is saying these are people who respond to their Rabb who establish prayer, who conduct
their affairs by mutual consultation and who spend and donate from what we have provided
for them.
These are the qualities of the believers.
These are the qualities of the believers.
These are the qualities of people who Allah loves.
So to make decisions by Shura is very much a part of Islam.
Now remember, this is also what Allah asked Rasool Allah to do.
To make Shura with the people.
To consult with the people.
Now let's think about this and say, well why on earth would this be?
Why is there a wennab, the service which Guru Haheed alai his manipulating hands on
, becauseengage that you are willing to listen to them?
I mean, you've mentioned certain Najwa I mean?
No, no, listen to someone.
You take me to another
He says, you've seen some dua where I say to the Muslims who are hearing about it then
you do that.
Um, you see, there was this tape of somebody emphaticallyassert peaceful
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look for
you know for advice
on something where I know that I
know the best
what I know is superior
to what anyone else can possibly tell
me because I am closer to the situation
I am more deeply involved in it
I am more knowledgeable about it
why would I listen to anybody else so in the
case of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la is saying
no no you listen to them
you take them into confidence you consult with
them even though he
is the person
with the best
information with the best guidance
because he is receiving Wahi
nobody else is receiving Wahi
despite that Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la
is saying Shura Bainahum
consult with them
they have these are people who consult
among themselves this consultation
right so he is saying
make consultation with them
the biggest benefit of Shura
and I will go into the method and so on
the biggest benefit of Shura is
it draws people together
it builds teams
it creates friendships
it builds adherence
and contrary to what you might think
when there is conflict
in a Shura when there is
disagreement in a Shura
it actually makes
people closer to one another
than they would have been
had there been no disagreement
this might sound
contrary it might sound
you know somehow impossible
but it is not impossible
but it is not
I have done Shura
with people
with communist union leaders
I have done Shura with people
of multiple religions
I have done Shura with people
from all kinds of places
and believe me it is
the most powerful way
of building teams
and as I said
if there is disagreement
it is even better
because disagreement
is a sign of the community
and it is a sign of the commitment of people
the one who is not committed
will say okay do whatever you want
I don't care right
you may not say it in so many words
but that's his attitude
the one who disagrees is investing
the one who disagrees is sticking out his neck
the one who disagrees is saying
I'm interested enough in the outcome
to disagree with you
and to try to guide you in a way
which I think is the correct way
so appreciate those who disagree
number one number two
number first and first two
and foremost
don't denigrate them
don't abuse them
don't talk doubt to them
don't shout them down
don't force them to agree with you
these are the people who are truly valuable
people who will disagree with you
the problem of
especially the Muslim problem
is with how we disagree
it is possible to disagree
without being disagreeable
and that is what we call
adab al-ikhtilaf
the the
etiquette of disagreement
the manners of disagreement
this is so critically important
we need to learn that
I remember doing a lecture
and a workshop in South Africa
many years ago on this
alhamdulillah
which I believe it was very beneficial
I also remember doing a talk on this
which where I was part of a platform
on which there was
Hadmarana Yunus Patel
and Hadmarana Sayyed Salman Nadwi
and myself
and we were in three different places
Maulana Salman and Maulana Yusuf
and Maulana Yunus were in Durban
and I was up in the hills
in the Drakensberg
and we did this on Radio Islam
on the issue of
adab al-ikhtilaf
it's such a critical important thing
I seriously wish that people do this
now therefore it is very important
to make Shura
and it is very important to
understand the adab al-ikhtilaf
how to disagree
and to run this Shura in a way
which is beneficial
which comes out with decisions
which are beneficial to all concerned
how can we keep it on track?
How can we keep it focused and how can we deal with disagreement so that at the end of this meeting we come out closer friends than we were when we began?
That's the purpose. That should be the goal.
It should not, the meeting shouldn't disintegrate and then people go off and form their own cliques and their own groups.
And then they can't talk to each other and they won't pray behind each other and they have this grouping and that grouping,
which is very sad and very tragic that we do this so well among the Muslims.
Organizations which have been together for, you know, sometimes for decades and sometimes a century maybe,
split over something which is entirely solvable, which is entirely, completely unnecessary.
And the only reason that split happens is because of personal egos and because we don't want to listen to an opinion which is contrary to our own.
So the first and foremost rule when you go into the Shura is to ensure that you do not allow your personal ego to come in the way of good decision making.
So before you enter into the Shura, into the Shura meeting, I sometimes suggest to people,
put a big,
bin,
a big, nice garbage bin outside the room and label it ego.
And as you walk into it, into the room, tell people,
please place your ego inside this, in this bin, right?
So symbolically, put your ego into the bin.
It should be trashed.
So here is an opportunity to trash it.
Trash it, then walk into this room,
fearing only Allah , seeking only the pleasure of Allah ,
seeking only the pleasure of Allah ,
and inshaAllah,
then you will find that when you come out of the room,
you will come out with a beautiful decision and you will come out as brothers and sisters to one another.
You will come out as close friends and closer friends than you were when you began that discussion.
This is a guarantee for me.
Do it like this.
I don't care how serious your difference of opinion is.
I don't care how,
you know,
volatile,
the situation might be.