Man Within Podcast

Many well-intentioned men have introduced artificial consequences to curb their behavior. Sadly, they never work. Today's episode explains why, while offering an alternative approach that has a much higher chance of success. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

A common mistake men make getting free of pornography is giving up too quickly. Today's episode uses a very Canadian metaphor to explain the recovery journey and why you just might be one step away from your next big breakthrough. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

An often-overlooked fruit of spirit, self-control is maybe the most important of them all, especially in the journey to freedom from pornography. Today's episode looks at the concept of self-control through a biblical and anecdotal lens, offering fresh insights and perspective to help you grow in this area. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

Highly regarded as one of the pioneers of the men’s ministry movement in America, Steve started one of the first ministries in the country for the growing church population at Elmbrook Church in Brookfield, Wisconsin. In 1994, he began the annual No Regrets Men’s Conference which today draws thousands of men across the country and around the world. Steve regularly consults churches on leadership issues and leads seminars helping to develop men’s ministries both in the US and abroad. He has a bachelor’s degree from the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee and a Master of Divinity degree from Bethel Seminary. In today's episode, Steve shares with Sathiya about why he is still passionate about helping men 30 years after starting his ministry, keys for staying on fire for Jesus, and why the church is failing to reach men. It is very clear that Steve doesn't just talk to men, he talks with them. His understanding of the challenges that men face in today's world is unparalleled, as are the solutions he offers through his ministry. Register For No Regrets Men's Conference Learn more about No Regrets Ministry Connect with No Regrets on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter and Instagram Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 12:30pm EST (IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Checkout our Podcast Video on my YouTube Channel at Sathiya Sam Submit questions to [email protected]

Today, Sathiya tackles classic questions about where to draw lines for sexual intimacy in a marriage. The main questions tackled are: 1) Is porn ever OK in a marriage? 2) Is masturbation OK if you fantasize about your wife? 3) What about sexts/images with your wife? 4) Which positions/forms of sexual activity are acceptable? Whether you're single, in a relationship, or married, if you've ever wondered any of these questions this episode is for you! Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST(IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]

Fear of rejection is always undergirded by a lie that usually starts with "I Am...". Examples: I'm not good enough. I'm not worthy of love. Today's episode breaks down the fallacy of rejection/fear of rejection, offering practical encouragement to see your value regardless of how the people around you respond. Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST(IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]

A client recently asked what you're supposed to do once you experience freedom from pornography? How do you move forward and press on? today's episode outlines that in clear detail, offering two very practical things that ensure you enter your new life with confidence. Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST(IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]

Today's episode discusses the issue of perfectionism, a subject that frequently comes up in the pursuit of sexual integrity. While the subject can come up covertly and overtly, perfectionism will rob you of joy, peace, and gratitude. Receive a simple encouragement from Sathiya today, reminding you of your true value and worth because of who God says you are. For more practical ways to resolve perfectionism, check out Episode 17 - Killing Your Inner Perfectionist Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST(IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]

Paul Louis Cole, D.Th., is a noted speaker, pastor, author and one of the world’s foremost experts on men’s issues. His mission is to rescue families, defeat fatherlessness and end child abuse by providing leadership tools and strategies to bring a clear and defining word to men. He has conducted seminars on wisdom, parenting and manhood in over 70 nations. In today's in-depth and personal interview, Paul details his process for staying grounded while handling prominence, why men get tripped up on identity and how to recover, finding your calling in life, servant leadership, and how to prevent generational issues. Find out more about Christian Men's Network Find out more about the Global Fatherhood Initiative Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 12:30pm EST (@sathiyaMEsam) Submit questions to [email protected]

Toxic masculinity is the notion that all men should be tough, aggressive, antifeminine, and dominant. These characteristics can be true of men, but they are not a requirement, which is why they have been termed as 'toxic.' However, in response, a new male prototype has been created – one that is highly sensitive, feminine, soft, and passive. This pendulum swing has been equally problematic. Today's episode explores these concepts in greater detail while offering a different definition for masculinity: The authentic male is inherently masculine. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages have been monumental for many men in the DeepClean coaching community. But what happens when physical touch is your primary love language and you're single? Today's episode offers two trains of thought for handling this scenario (and other scenarios like it) to ensure that your love tank stays full even when your primary love language cannot be fully satisfied. 83 - How The 5 Love Languages Are Helping Guys Get Free Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

Whether it's a new stage of life, new location, new job, new church, or just a new shirt, life has this way of keeping us on our toes. While some revel in transition, others dread it. Regardless of your stance, today's episode explores a few keys for handling transition in a healthy way. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

While they sound the same, a choice and a decision are in fact quite different. Choices are reversible, decisions are not. Choices leave options behind, decisions eliminate them. Today's episode explores this concept in greater detail, offering specific insights into the journey to freedom from sexual misbehavior. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

Dean Brenton became the President of Impactus | Promise Keepers Canada in January 2021, after serving for 30 years in pastoral ministry and denominational executive leadership. In today's interview, Dean explains what it was like taking over a prominent ministry during the pandemic while moving across the country, what it's like being the only male in a 5-person household, and how men can get resourced to walk further in their callings. This interview is especially for any guy who is currently a leader or intends to become a leader one day. More about Impactus | Promise Keepers Watch This Is Me TV (Podcast featuring the likes of Lecrae, Manafest, Brittni De la Mora Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 12:30pm EST (@sathiyaMEsam) Submit questions to [email protected]

The stats are clear that pastors are struggling just as much as everyone else – in many cases, even moreso. In today's episode, Sathiya shares about his own struggles with porn as a pastor, the experience of being in a congregation led by a struggling pastor, and ultimately, what is required of pastors to get the help they deserve. While in many ways, pastors are ordinary people like everyone else, there are nuances to their role that must be handled with care in the recovery process. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

If I asked you what is the one thing a man must do to be successful in his relationships, how would you answer? There is no right or wrong, but in today's episode Sathiya explains the fundamental requirement for all men in relationships to apply for long-term success. If you are in a relationship, this episode is for you. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

Following yesterday's episode, Sathiya offers a practical and applicable strategy for evaluating whether a belief, action, decision or lifestyle is morally appropriate. If you live by these two gauges, you are guaranteed to make good decisions and experience long-term success in the areas that they are applied. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

Ethical relativism is the mantra of today's society, leading to the popularization of phrases like "do you." Although seemingly harmless, the philosophies behind these concepts are dangerous to our understanding of morality. Today's episode cautions against the fallacies of ethical relativism and provides a stark reminder to stand firm on the morals and values of the Bible. Episode 107 - Is Purity Culture Really That Bad? Episode 111 - Dan Martin (pureHOPE) on Talking To Kids About Sex, Dismantling Purity Culture, and Learning From Past Mistakes Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

Nicholas Bayerle has found a way to build his business around his life, instead of his life around his business. Coining the "3-Dimensional Businessman", he has started the Billion Dollar Brotherhood – a mastermind for value-driven entrepreneurs to grow their businesses and make a lasting impact on society. In this interview, Nicholas shares how he went from living at the poverty line to growing a successful business, including the personal development secrets he picked up along the way. Join the Billion Dollar Brotherhood Read The Modern Day Businessman Attend BDB Live 5.0 Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST (@sathiyaMEsam) Submit questions to [email protected]

In today's episode, Sathiya explains the underlying principles that guided his decision to move to Jamaica, and how it always comes back to freedom. You have a calling, dreams, and goals in life that will be better accomplished with freedom from sexual misbehavior. Furthermore, as you achieve freedom in these areas, you must also take small steps towards your dreams/goals/calling, and watch God bless it in the process. If you're looking to take some risks in life and step further into the calling on your life, this episode is a must. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 12:30pm EST (IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]

If you assess the life of someone who has been successful in a certain area of life long-term, it is because they have harnessed the power of positive feedback loops. Today's episode explores this concept in greater detail, with real-life examples. If you can apply this concept to your recovery journey (or any other area of life), the results will eventually speak for themselves. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST (IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]

Traditionally, we learn to condemn and shame ourselves for having bad thoughts, temptations, etc. Yet the experience of Jesus paints a different picture. He was tempted in every way, yet without sin. Understanding how this is possible offers us critical insights for living sinless, shameless, and without condemnation. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 12:30pm EST (IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]

Today's episode explains in greater detail WHY relapse is a part of recovery. The question at hand is "Can I recover without a relapse?" and the answer is a resounding yes, however, don't forget that relapses happen externally and internally. The goal for a full recovery is to no longer slip in both arenas, and this takes time. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 12:30pm EST (IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]

Ricardo Camara helps business leaders and teams restore and strengthen interpersonal relationships with colleagues and clients. His clients typically experience a personal and professional transformation through his coaching programs that utilize unique Relationship Intelligence (RQ) methodology, tools, and biblical principles and teachings. In today's episode, we discuss why conflicts exist in the first place, actionable steps towards resolving those conflicts, and Ricardo's absolutely wild salvation story. Enjoy! Reach Ricardo at [email protected] Find out more about OTR Business Consulting Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST (@sathiyaMEsam) Submit questions to [email protected]

Leadership, leadership, leadership. This is a subject that often comes up, as poor leadership is the first domino to fall in a chain of events/thoughts that end as as lip. Growing as leaders is a mandate for the recovered man and today's episode explains why and how. 53 - Every Man Is A Leader Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST (IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]