
Man Within Podcast
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Ep 169169 - Hayden & Savannah Paul on Is It Acceptable To Date While Struggling, Godly Repentance, and Creating A Healthy Sex Life
Hayden and Savannah seek to change the conversation surrounding pornography with a focus on de-shaming the problem so true healing can occur. They host a weekly podcast titled “I Stand at The Door.” In today's episode, Hayden & Savannah share their story of coming to faith, how Hayden overcame a 10 year struggle with pornography, and what it was like working through Hayden's recovery while dating and engaged. Further into the interview, Hayden and Savannah humorously discuss the differences between men and women that are often on display after sex. This is a candid interview with huge value for those wanting to improve the discussion(s) in their relationships around faith and sexuality. Listen to I Stand At The Door Reach out to Hayden Become A DeepClean VIP Member Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 168168 - The Defining Quality of Knowledge
Today's episode discusses the "18 inch journey" that all knowledge must take if we are to experience transformation. Head knowledge alone will only go so far – it is when we experience and execute on the knowledge that knowledge becomes powerful. In the information age, we must be more careful than ever before to diligently pursue experiences that enhance our knowledge comprehension. Listen to Episode 162: How Do I Know If I Can Trust The Information I'm Getting? Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction
Ep 167167 - Getting Ready For The Wedding Night
If you grew up Christian, you know how monumental the wedding night can be for a man. Today's episode provides paradigms and practicalities that will ensure your sex life gets off to a blazing start in your marriage. If you plan to get married, are close to getting married, or are currently married and want to help others in this area, this episode is for you. Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction
Ep 166166 - What You Need To Focus On In Your Recovery Right NOW
Today's episode outlines vital steps a man must take in his recovery based on the frequency of your struggle. The framework provided is based on working with scores of men in a variety of different environments. If you are looking for specifics about your next step in the recovery process, this episode was made for you. A quick summary: If you're struggling daily – Radical environment shift If you're struggling a few times a week – Increase accountability If you're struggling weekly – Find out why and execute If you're struggling less than weekly more than monthly – Join a community/Increase community engagement If you're struggling monthly – Get professional help/personal development If you're struggling less than monthly – Resource blitz www.nofap.com www.husbandmaterialmen.com Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction
Ep 165165 - You Are The Sum of Your Habits
All things are created twice – first internally, then externally. If you want to change habits and behavior patterns, you must first identify the first creation – the paradigms and perceptions that gave rise to the behavior. Today's episode explains these concepts in detail, using practical examples to illustrate how habits are really formed and what is required to effectively change them. Atomic Habits by James Clear Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction Got a suggestion for an episode? Email [email protected]
Ep 164164 - Andrew Bauman on Why Moral Failures Happen In Churches, The Sexually Healthy Man, and Learning To Relate With Beauty
Founder & Director of the Christian Counseling Center: For Sexual Health & Trauma (CCC), Andrew J. Bauman is a licensed mental health counselor with a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology from The Seattle School of Theology & Psychology. Andrew is the author of Floating Away, Stumbling Toward Wholeness, The Psychology of Porn, and (with Christy) A Brave Lament. In today's episode, he sits down with Sathiya to share about how he got started on helping men and women experience sexually health, what it's like being a person of privilege helping those who have been objectified and ostracized in our society, the sexually healthy man framework, and how to have healthy conversations with your kids about sex. Follow Andrew's blog Follow Andrew on Facebook Attend An Intensive Buy Andrew's book, The Sexually Healthy Man Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 163163 - God Is Not Mad At You!
How you see God determines who you become. We must vigilantly guard our perception of God, because in many ways if we don't, it has ramifications for our own self-esteem. If you are struggling to feel good about yourself or to believe God loves you, today's episode will provide you a dose of encouragement and reminder of the unconditional, loving nature of our incredible God. Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction Book a free Strategy Session with Sathiya Got a suggestion for an episode? Email [email protected]
Ep 162162 - How Do I Know If I Can Trust The Information I‘m Getting?
This is the information age, which means everyone has opinions, stats and facts about how you should live your life. Today's episode breaks down the true qualities of good education, and common giveaways that indicate education may not be as helpful as it seems. The bottom line is that good education empowers, poor education entitles. The better we become at identifying quality sources of education, the deeper we will be impacted by the information we ingest. Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction Book a free Strategy Session with Sathiya
Ep 161161 - The Power of Dreaming The Impossible
The minute you stop dreaming is the minute you start dying. Young and old, rich and poor, male and female, all of us are wired to dream the impossible. Today's episode is an exhortation to hurdle the limiting beliefs and obstacles that are stopping you from having wild, crazy dreams. It just might be the thing that launches you forward in your calling and purpose in life. Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction Book a free Strategy Session with Sathiya
Ep 160160 - Why Shamelessness Is A Futile Endeavor
We know that the goal in recovering from sexual misbehavior is to abolish shame, but did you know there is a difference between shamelessness and being unashamed? Today's episode explains that only one of these qualities is desirable for long-term success, and how we can easily trick ourselves into thinking we're free of shame when in reality we have simply masked it. At the end, you're given a few questions to assess whether or not you are shameless or unashamed. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Book a free Strategy Session with Sathiya
Ep 159159 - Frank Rich on Overcoming Drug, Alcohol & Porn Use, The Power of Physical Fitness In Recovery, and Why Fasting Could Be The Key To Long-Term Success In Life
Frank Rich is a former body builder entrepreneur, men's health coach and the host oh The Super Human Life Podcast. After living with and battling addiction, depression and anxiety for almost 20 years, he is no won a mission to help men who are suffering from the same issues take back control of their lives though the power of faith and fitness. In today's interview, Frank details his story of recovery from several addictions and his awe-inspiring story of salvation (which was actually not that long ago). He also explains his philosophy for integrating fitness, fasting, and a plethora of other practices to help guys get free of pornography and unwanted sexual behavior. This is a deep dive with a ton of gold in it, enjoy! Listen to Sathiya's Interview on The Super Human Life Podcast Watch ReBuild Your Life on YouTube Follow Frank on Instagram Download The 7-Step Guide To Quitting Porn For Good Become A DeepClean VIP Member Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 158158 - A Hidden Benefit of Social Media In Recovery
While social media is often a gateway to porn consumption and other sexual misbehavior, it can serve a useful purpose in recovery. Today's episode explains that the reasons we engage with social media often run parallel to the reasons we consume porn. By identifying the underlying causes of our social media use, especially when it is out of control and problematic, we gain insights into the same roots that are driving our desire for porn, ultimately empowering you to find an alternative solution without having to endure another relapse. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 157157 - What If I Have No Community To Support My Recovery?
Today's episode contrasts a porn-free community versus an everyday community and the role that each plays in short term success and long-term recovery. While porn-free communities are often emphasized in our environments, the value of meaningful connection with even one friend outside a porn recovery context could be the difference between struggle and success. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 156156 - The Basics of Getting Rid of Porn
Today's episode is back to the basics as Sathiya explains the cause of porn addiction, the classic mistakes most men make trying to get free, and the true solution for long-term recovery. Whether you are fully free, just beginning, or somewhere in between, this episode is a good reminder of the importance of taking an inside-out approach in life. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 155155 - Unwanted by Jay Stringer (Book Review)
Unwanted by Jay Stringer is one of the most important books written about porn addiction recovery in the last 10 years. Today's episode explores the main message of the book, the brilliance of Jay Stringer, and a few key takeaways that could be useful in your long-term recovery. Internalizing these concepts and executing them in your day-to-day life almost guarantees that your recovery will be taken to new heights. Read Unwanted by Jay Stringer If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 154154 - Shiraz Siddique on Discerning The Calling On Your Life, Why 90% of People Get Stuck Pursuing Their Dreams, and How To Make The Most of Each Season
As a Pastor, John Maxwell Certified Coach and Serial Entrepreneur, Shiraz Siddique helps people illuminates a path for possession of the promises God has for us. Shiraz completed his Masters of Theology from Tyndale Seminary, hosts Pursuing Fullness on Canada's biggest Christian radio station, and is the founder of Christian Business Harvest Network. In this interview, Shiraz explains how to find your purpose in life, how to take practical steps towards fulfilling it, and common pitfalls to avoid along the way. If you are looking to discern God's call on your life, or finding it difficult to simply persevere in the things you've been called to, this episode is for you! Reach out to Shiraz directly Check out Shiraz on Instagram, LinkedIn Listen to Shiraz's radio show, Pursuing Fullness Learn more about Christian Business Harvest Network Become A DeepClean VIP Member Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 153153 - How To Identify The Origins of Your Porn Addiction
In today's episode, Sathiya explains the three dimensions of recovery – solo logic, trigger awareness, and origins. While the first two dimensions are useful, true long-term freedom will always take place in the third dimension. There are three great questions to ask yourself if you want to tap into the third dimension and experience healing. If you can, pull out your journal and work through these questions as you listen to the episode – it just may lead to your next breakthrough. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 152152 - How To Overcome People Pleasing
Today's episode explores a common issue many men face today – people pleasing. Ironically, people pleasing behavior is usually done to protect the relationship, when in reality, it causes long-term damage. If you cannot show up authentically in a relationship, it will suffer. This episode gives you the following four questions to ask yourself if you are struggling with people pleasing behavior of any kind, using a personal example from Sathiya's life to illustrate their application: 1) What am I afraid of? 2) What lie is driving my fear? 3) What is the truth? 4) What does it look like to act on the truth? If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 151151 - The Reason Why You‘re Viewing Things That Disgust You
If you've ever engaged in pornography, you know that it can be a slippery slope. Thresholds for pleasure and content intensity can increase, leading us to places we never imagined were possible. It is important to know that for starters, you are not defined by what you watch, no matter how dark/intense it may be. There are neurological concepts at play that often drive us to these places, namely: 1) Novelty enhances pleasure 2) Neural associations form in moments of curiosity Today's episode deep dives into these two concepts, using personal stories and examples to illustrate the power they have in addiction. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 150150 - How To Appropriately Use An Internet Filter
A lot of the messaging in this podcast and DeepClean can come across as "anti-filter", when in reality, internet filters can have an essential place in the porn recovery process. The mistake men commonly make is relying exlusively on the filter – this can lead to disastrous outcomes. When a filter is supplementary to an inner transformation process (program, counseling, coaching, etc), it can be highly beneficial, provided it is used appropriately. Today's episode explains exactly how you can do that. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Download Covenant Eyes
Ep 151149 - Shawn Bonneteau on Dealing With Erectile Dysfunction, Experiencing Betrayal Trauma As A Man, and How To Design A Sexual Template
Shawn Bonneteau is a passionate speaker, certified mentor and founder of Secret Habit with his wife Helena. His mission is to help men struggling with pornography addiction, erectile dysfunction, and ultimately, sexual brokenness. He has been a guest speaker/writer with X3 Church, Bravehearts, Husband Material, Family Life Canada, and many more. In this candid interview, Shawn details his experience with porn-induced erectile dysfunction AND a classic case of erectile dysfunction as well, detailing the origins, the experiences itself, and how he and his wife together have worked through it. Shawn also explains what it has been like to be married to someone with a porn consumption history and how its affected his own sexuality. Reach Shawn directly Check out Secret Habit Follow Secret Habit on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn Access the mini-course on Overcoming Erectile Dysfunction & Betrayal Trauma Read Unwanted by Jay Stringer Read Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 148148 - Anticipatory Expectation: The Root of All Addictions
Today's episode distills a fundamental neurological concept that more or less explains the essence of all addiction. When we are highly motivated, we will do things that even surprise us – sometimes good, sometimes bad. You will understand what is happening in your brain when you are motivated, and how to harness it for your good. While some of the terms and concepts around this matter are complex, this episode is purpose conveyed in simple-to-understand language that will give you a better understanding of the subject and how to apply it to your recovery process. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Be a part of our podcast interviews by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 147147 - The (Broken) Link Between Sexual Interest and Orientation
Generally speaking, people are quick to lump sexual interests, orientation and identity into one, when in reality these are three distinct subjects. Today's podcasts provides an overview of each concept while explaining how they can work separately and in conjunction with one another. A few important takeaways: -Sexual interests are conditioned and changeable -Just because you watch same sex porn doesn't mean you are homosexual -Novelty and anxiety enhance pleasure - they do not necessarily indicate orientation Your Brain On Porn by Gary Wilson Be a part of our podcast interviews by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 146146 - What If Someone Thinks Porn Is OK?
A majority of this world believes pornography is harmless and in some cases, useful. It is only a matter of time before you encounter people of this opinion, and today's episode focuses on equipping you with conversational tools to handle these situations effectively. Specifically, we talk about having the goal of understanding, the power of listening first, and sharing your story. These are universal principles for effective conversation around any controversial subject, porn included. Be a part of our podcast interviews by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 145145 - Sweet Surrender: Every Man‘s Key For Permanently Dealing With Pain & Discomfort
You can only truly remedy pain and discomfort by embracing them – both persist as long as they are ignored or simply tolerated. Today's episode uses personal examples to explain the power of surrender and its necessity for breakthrough and growth. While logic tells us to simply endure pain, exercise willpower, or devise tactics to make it through, embracing pain head on goes a much further way to bringing about the results we want in any area of our personal development. Buy The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Be a part of our podcast interviews by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 144144 - Dr. Eddie Capparucci on How To NOT Objectify Women, Leaving Corporate America To Pursue His Calling, and The Future of Porn Addiction Recovery
Dr. Eddie Capparucci is a licensed professional counselor who specializes in the treatment of sex and porn addiction and the author of the book, Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction. In short, he is a legend in this space of porn and sex addiction recovery and this interview did not disappoint. Dr. Capparucci explains how he found this calling in the first place, why honoring God first allows you to see women the way He does, all while providing practical examples of how you can heal your inner child. Buy Dr. Capparucci's book Reach Dr. Capparucci directly at [email protected] Husband Material Men Academy Great resources to get started - sexandhealingrelationships.com Become A DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 143143 - Being Humiliated Could Be The Best Thing For Your Growth
Today's episode is inspired by Stephen covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, touching on the importance of understanding process and letting people into your specific place in a process. Male tendency is to put on a façade making it appear that we know more/are further ahead than we really are. As a result, we rob ourselves of gaining the knowledge necessary to simply move to the next step in the process, ultimately hindering our growth. When we embrace humility and learn to honestly let leaders in, a world of change becomes possible. NOTE: Excerpt read from Page 36 & 37 of The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People (Chapter 1: Inside-Out, Subheading: Principles of Growth and Change) Buy The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Be a part of our podcast interviews by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 142142 - One Simple Question That Guarantees Relationship Success
Proverbs is often quoted for the famous saying, "where there is no vision, the people perish." While typically applied in a leadership and success environment, this same statement has major ramifications for our relationships. Today's episode explains the power of vision in selecting a future spouse, and the important role it plays in long-term success for a marriage. If you are high-profile, high-income and looking to get help with pornography, visit https://www.sathiyasam.com/mindset-coaching Be a part of our podcast interviews by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
Ep 141141 - Welcome To Unleash The Man Within!
Today marks day one of our newly branded podcast, Unleash The Man Within. Not to worry, this is merely an optics rebrand, the content, scheduling and cadence of the podcast will continue as it was previously. In this episode, Sathiya gives an overview of the podcast so far – including some milestones along the way, explains the embarassing story that led to the rebrand, and casts vision for the podcast moving forward. This is a highly recommended listen if you've found this podcast useful in the past or if you intend to listen moving forward. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 140140 - BONUS: How Chris Bielefeldt Almost Lost His Girlfriend, Rediscovered His True Worth, and Kicked Porn To The Curb For Good
Chris (USA) was given an ultimatum: The love of his life or porn. He knew he needed help, but now the pressure was on. It was time to fight for the girl he had waited almost 4 decades for. After working through wounds from the past, and working hard on his identity, Chris barely recognizes himself today - he truly is a new man. In this bonus episode, Sathiya sits down with Chris to hear more about his remarkable recovery through DeepClean. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 139139 - Here‘s Why Artifical Consequences Won‘t Help You Quit Porn
Many well-intentioned men have introduced artificial consequences to curb their behavior. Sadly, they never work. Today's episode explains why, while offering an alternative approach that has a much higher chance of success. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 138138 - The Snowball Effect of Recovery
A common mistake men make getting free of pornography is giving up too quickly. Today's episode uses a very Canadian metaphor to explain the recovery journey and why you just might be one step away from your next big breakthrough. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 137137 - Self Control 101
An often-overlooked fruit of spirit, self-control is maybe the most important of them all, especially in the journey to freedom from pornography. Today's episode looks at the concept of self-control through a biblical and anecdotal lens, offering fresh insights and perspective to help you grow in this area. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 136136 - Steve Sonderman (No Regrets) on Dating Your Wife, Church Relevancy, and The Importance of Finding Your Calling in Life
Highly regarded as one of the pioneers of the men’s ministry movement in America, Steve started one of the first ministries in the country for the growing church population at Elmbrook Church in Brookfield, Wisconsin. In 1994, he began the annual No Regrets Men’s Conference which today draws thousands of men across the country and around the world. Steve regularly consults churches on leadership issues and leads seminars helping to develop men’s ministries both in the US and abroad. He has a bachelor’s degree from the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee and a Master of Divinity degree from Bethel Seminary. In today's episode, Steve shares with Sathiya about why he is still passionate about helping men 30 years after starting his ministry, keys for staying on fire for Jesus, and why the church is failing to reach men. It is very clear that Steve doesn't just talk to men, he talks with them. His understanding of the challenges that men face in today's world is unparalleled, as are the solutions he offers through his ministry. Register For No Regrets Men's Conference Learn more about No Regrets Ministry Connect with No Regrets on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter and Instagram Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 12:30pm EST (IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Checkout our Podcast Video on my YouTube Channel at Sathiya Sam Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 135135 - What Is Sexually Appropriate In A Marriage?
Today, Sathiya tackles classic questions about where to draw lines for sexual intimacy in a marriage. The main questions tackled are: 1) Is porn ever OK in a marriage? 2) Is masturbation OK if you fantasize about your wife? 3) What about sexts/images with your wife? 4) Which positions/forms of sexual activity are acceptable? Whether you're single, in a relationship, or married, if you've ever wondered any of these questions this episode is for you! Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST(IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 134134 - How Real Men Handle Rejection
Fear of rejection is always undergirded by a lie that usually starts with "I Am...". Examples: I'm not good enough. I'm not worthy of love. Today's episode breaks down the fallacy of rejection/fear of rejection, offering practical encouragement to see your value regardless of how the people around you respond. Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST(IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 133133 - The Day After Freedom
A client recently asked what you're supposed to do once you experience freedom from pornography? How do you move forward and press on? today's episode outlines that in clear detail, offering two very practical things that ensure you enter your new life with confidence. Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST(IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 132132 - The Bane of Perfectionism
Today's episode discusses the issue of perfectionism, a subject that frequently comes up in the pursuit of sexual integrity. While the subject can come up covertly and overtly, perfectionism will rob you of joy, peace, and gratitude. Receive a simple encouragement from Sathiya today, reminding you of your true value and worth because of who God says you are. For more practical ways to resolve perfectionism, check out Episode 17 - Killing Your Inner Perfectionist Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST(IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 131131 - Paul Cole (Christian Men‘s Network) on Real Manliness, Leaving A Legacy Behind, and Secrets To Longevity In Marriage & Ministry
Paul Louis Cole, D.Th., is a noted speaker, pastor, author and one of the world’s foremost experts on men’s issues. His mission is to rescue families, defeat fatherlessness and end child abuse by providing leadership tools and strategies to bring a clear and defining word to men. He has conducted seminars on wisdom, parenting and manhood in over 70 nations. In today's in-depth and personal interview, Paul details his process for staying grounded while handling prominence, why men get tripped up on identity and how to recover, finding your calling in life, servant leadership, and how to prevent generational issues. Find out more about Christian Men's Network Find out more about the Global Fatherhood Initiative Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 12:30pm EST (@sathiyaMEsam) Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 130130 - The (Myth) of Toxic Masculinity
Toxic masculinity is the notion that all men should be tough, aggressive, antifeminine, and dominant. These characteristics can be true of men, but they are not a requirement, which is why they have been termed as 'toxic.' However, in response, a new male prototype has been created – one that is highly sensitive, feminine, soft, and passive. This pendulum swing has been equally problematic. Today's episode explores these concepts in greater detail while offering a different definition for masculinity: The authentic male is inherently masculine. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 129129 - How Do I Experience Healthy Physical Touch When I‘m Single?
Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages have been monumental for many men in the DeepClean coaching community. But what happens when physical touch is your primary love language and you're single? Today's episode offers two trains of thought for handling this scenario (and other scenarios like it) to ensure that your love tank stays full even when your primary love language cannot be fully satisfied. 83 - How The 5 Love Languages Are Helping Guys Get Free Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 128128 - How To Handle Transition Like A Boss
Whether it's a new stage of life, new location, new job, new church, or just a new shirt, life has this way of keeping us on our toes. While some revel in transition, others dread it. Regardless of your stance, today's episode explores a few keys for handling transition in a healthy way. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 127127 - The Difference Between Choosing And Deciding
While they sound the same, a choice and a decision are in fact quite different. Choices are reversible, decisions are not. Choices leave options behind, decisions eliminate them. Today's episode explores this concept in greater detail, offering specific insights into the journey to freedom from sexual misbehavior. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 126126 - Dean Brenton (Impactus/Promise Keepers) on Life Change During COVID, Keys To A Long Marriage, and Why Every Man Is A Leader
Dean Brenton became the President of Impactus | Promise Keepers Canada in January 2021, after serving for 30 years in pastoral ministry and denominational executive leadership. In today's interview, Dean explains what it was like taking over a prominent ministry during the pandemic while moving across the country, what it's like being the only male in a 5-person household, and how men can get resourced to walk further in their callings. This interview is especially for any guy who is currently a leader or intends to become a leader one day. More about Impactus | Promise Keepers Watch This Is Me TV (Podcast featuring the likes of Lecrae, Manafest, Brittni De la Mora Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 12:30pm EST (@sathiyaMEsam) Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 125125 - A Special Episode For Pastors (or those who have a pastor)
The stats are clear that pastors are struggling just as much as everyone else – in many cases, even moreso. In today's episode, Sathiya shares about his own struggles with porn as a pastor, the experience of being in a congregation led by a struggling pastor, and ultimately, what is required of pastors to get the help they deserve. While in many ways, pastors are ordinary people like everyone else, there are nuances to their role that must be handled with care in the recovery process. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 124124 - Men Have One Job: Stay Present
If I asked you what is the one thing a man must do to be successful in his relationships, how would you answer? There is no right or wrong, but in today's episode Sathiya explains the fundamental requirement for all men in relationships to apply for long-term success. If you are in a relationship, this episode is for you. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 123123 - Two Necessary Gauges For Morality & Good Decision-Making
Following yesterday's episode, Sathiya offers a practical and applicable strategy for evaluating whether a belief, action, decision or lifestyle is morally appropriate. If you live by these two gauges, you are guaranteed to make good decisions and experience long-term success in the areas that they are applied. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 122122 - Why ”Do You” Is Awful Advice
Ethical relativism is the mantra of today's society, leading to the popularization of phrases like "do you." Although seemingly harmless, the philosophies behind these concepts are dangerous to our understanding of morality. Today's episode cautions against the fallacies of ethical relativism and provides a stark reminder to stand firm on the morals and values of the Bible. Episode 107 - Is Purity Culture Really That Bad? Episode 111 - Dan Martin (pureHOPE) on Talking To Kids About Sex, Dismantling Purity Culture, and Learning From Past Mistakes Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 121121 - Nicholas Bayerle (Billion Dollar Brotherhood) on Creating A 7-Figure Business, Learning To Take Risks, And The Power of A Network
Nicholas Bayerle has found a way to build his business around his life, instead of his life around his business. Coining the "3-Dimensional Businessman", he has started the Billion Dollar Brotherhood – a mastermind for value-driven entrepreneurs to grow their businesses and make a lasting impact on society. In this interview, Nicholas shares how he went from living at the poverty line to growing a successful business, including the personal development secrets he picked up along the way. Join the Billion Dollar Brotherhood Read The Modern Day Businessman Attend BDB Live 5.0 Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 1230pm EST (@sathiyaMEsam) Submit questions to [email protected]
Ep 120120 - Why Did Sathiya Move To Jamaica?
In today's episode, Sathiya explains the underlying principles that guided his decision to move to Jamaica, and how it always comes back to freedom. You have a calling, dreams, and goals in life that will be better accomplished with freedom from sexual misbehavior. Furthermore, as you achieve freedom in these areas, you must also take small steps towards your dreams/goals/calling, and watch God bless it in the process. If you're looking to take some risks in life and step further into the calling on your life, this episode is a must. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Follow me on Instagram or Clubhouse to participate in my live streams Thursdays @ 12:30pm EST (IG - @sathiyaMEsam ; Clubhouse – @sathiyasam) Submit questions to [email protected]