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Ep 189189 - The Surprising Silver Lining of Rejection

How we handle rejection reveals how we perceive ourselves. Today's episode outlines how to handle rejection in a healthy way and how to extract the invaluable insights that rejection offers. If we can learn to leverage these experiences, we become healthier men who are confident, stable, and secure. Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Jan 5, 202215 min

Ep 188188 - When The Floodgates of Emotions Swing Wide

Men are rarely taught how to handle their emotional life in a healthy way, leaving them in one of two positions: 1) Numb and oblivious to their inner life or 2) Overwhelmed as they start to explore their emotions. Today's episode gives an account of both scenarios and offers practical ways for you to heal, learn, and master your inner emotional life. Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Jan 4, 202218 min

Ep 187187 - Enmeshment 101 and Why It May Be The Cause of Your Addiction

If you are struggling with your sexual health, integrity, and development, it is very possible enmeshment is at play. Enmeshment is a form of 'symbiosis' often between a parent and child that blurs the lines of healthy relational functioning. Often masked as "overprotection" or "extremely loving", enmeshment catalyzes sexual dysfunction. Today's episode explores this reality in great detail, providing examples and several resources to help you better understand the subject. Enmeshment 101 Blog Pornography & Emotional Enmeshment (Andrew Bauman) Enmeshment & Sexuality Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Jan 3, 202224 min

Ep 186186 - BONUS: How Jason Gingerich Started A New Business, Moved Countries and Overcame Health Challenges While Resolving The Roots of Porn Addiction

Jason Gingerich is an ordinary man with an extraordinary story. In this bonus interview, he shares about how he came to DeepClean looking to tackle porn once and for all. Little did he know resolving the root issues of pornography was just the start. During Jay's time in DeepClean, he has quit his job so he could start his own business AND boldly decided to move his family to a new country. This interview unpacks how he has experienced new levels of confidence, the deep inner work that was required along the way, and what is required of you to experience the same kind of results. This is a must listen if you are looking to eliminate unwanted sexual behaviors from your life in 2022. Watch The Interview Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Jan 1, 202233 min

Ep 185185 - The Reason It’s So Hard To Focus During Sex, Work & Play

Modern psychology is beginning to trumpet the importance of "being in your body." Today's episode explores this concept in greater detail, specifically applying it to our sexual well-being. Using a powerful anecdote from Dr. Nicole LePera, this episode will provide insight into why you've found it challenging to stay focused, why experiences that are normally pleasurable seem lackluster, and practical steps you can take today to combat this dynamic. The Holistic Psychologist IG Account Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 31, 202122 min

Ep 184184 - Matt Cline on Intimacy with God, The Truth About Masturbation, & Healing From Sexual Trauma In Marriage

Matt Cline is the director of Restored Ministries, an international ministry helping men and women live free from sexual bondage and the effects of sexual betrayal. In today's interview, Matt shares on the importance of cultivating intimacy with God on a personal level, how it impacts the recovery journey, truth about masturbation from a biblical perspective, and the challenges that come in a marriage when you lead an organization that revolves around the subject of sexuality. Follow Restored Ministries on Instagram Sign up for Cleansing Hour Listen to Pure Victory podcast Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Dec 30, 202154 min

Ep 183183 - Help! My Girlfriend and I Just Had Sex

If you grew up in the church, you were taught that sex is for marriage. The numbers are clear that this standard has been a challenge to uphold, which can often lead to shame, self-loathing, and a feeling of being "damaged goods." Today's episode gives practical advice for how to respond if you've had sex outside of marriage and want to make things right. The mistake itself is not the end of the world, it is the response that is make or break. Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 29, 202123 min

Ep 182182 - I‘m Free of Porn. Now What?

For people who have finally achieved freedom, the question is what's next? There are both psychological and practical steps that are necessary to capitalize on the freedom you've obtained, they are explained in detail in today's episode. This is worth a listen even if you haven't experience freedom yet, as it will prepare you for when the time comes. Ep 133 - The Day After Freedom Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 28, 202116 min

Ep 181181 - How To Respond To Temptation Without Panic

Temptations can be panic-inducing if we have not learned how to see them appropriately. When we are panicked, we become hasty decision makers. Today's episode will help you respond more effectively to temptations by dissipating the chaos that often ensues in our brains and bodies when we are triggered. Episodes referenced: 79 – Two-Step Process For Calming Your Nervous System

Dec 27, 202117 min

Ep 180180 - Keys To A Happy Christmas

In this brief episode, Sathiya gives an exhortation as you go into the Christmas season, highlighting 5 best practices that will ensure a happy holiday. Effectively executing these simple concepts will go a long way to ending 2021 well and starting 2022 with great momentum. The best practices are listed below. 1) Be careful with tech 2) Mentally prep for family gatherings 3) Do things that bring you life 4) Engage spiritually 5) Devise a freedom plan for 2022 Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 24, 202110 min

Ep 179179 - Joshua Broome on Escaping The Porn Industry, Redefining Yourself, and Eradicating Adult Film Production

Joshua Broome was one of the most successful adult film actors in the world, starring in 1000+ films, until he realized that fame and wealth couldn't fill the emptiness in his heart. Today he is an influencer with a huge platform sharing about how he was saved, healed and delivered by Jesus. In today's interview with Sathiya, Josh details the unusual way he entered porn, how he rose to fame, and what eventually got him out. He also opens up about what it's been like to deal with the backlash of becoming a pastor, learning to overcome a perfectionist mindset, and why he believes the porn industry can be completely eradicated. Follow Josh on Instagram Check out Josh's website Listen to Josh's podcast, Counterfeit Culture Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Dec 23, 20211h 27m

Ep 178178 - How Billie Eilish‘s Childhood Impacted Her Porn Consumption and Other Key Takeaways From Her Interview With Howard Stern

Billie Eilish recently opened up on the Howard Stern Show about her pornography consumption and devastating impacts it had on her sense of self. In today's episode, Sathiya provides a summary of the interview with Howard Stern, how the silence of Billie's parents concerning sexuality led to bigger issues, and the importance of changing society's paradigms about pornography if we want to save the next generation. Listen to Howard Stern Interview Billie Eilish (FULL) Cole's notes summary of Howard Stern's interview with Billie Eilish Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 22, 202124 min

Ep 177177 - What If The Root of My Struggles Creates More Problems?

Today's episode was inspired by a recent client who expressed his fear about discovering the root of his struggles. What if it changes everything? What if he sees himself differently? What if others see him differently? Etc. If you'd have these thoughts before, the content will guide you to work through these fears and reach a place of peace with identifying the root issues of any issue you may be facing in life. Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 21, 202120 min

Ep 176176 - The Key To Fulfillment In Life

Everyone in life is earnestly pursuing fulfillment, but some ways of achieving fulfillment are healthier and more effective than others. Today's episode outlines a framework that any person can apply to their life to experience fulfillment and you may be surprised by how simple it is. In essence, fulfillment is a function of expectation and realization – when these two elements are in equal standing with one another – fulfillment is inevitable. Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 20, 202122 min

Ep 175175 - 5 Must-Read Porn Addiction Books

When I was addicted to porn for 15 years, there were almost zero resources out there offering any kind of useful insight or support to recover from porn addiction. In fact, the lack of resources that I experienced during my recovery is what fueled me to create this daily podcast. Thankfully, more resources are available today than ever before and I wanted to share with you a few that I highly recommend. You'll notice that some of these resources are more directly tied to porn addiction than others, and there is a good reason for that. Sometimes the best resources don't necessary speak straight to the issue, they speak straight to the heart. If they heal the heart, they'll likely help the addiction too. 1. Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson 2. Unwanted by Jay Stringer 3. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey 4. Leadership Pain by Dr. Samuel Chand 5. The Last Relapse by Sathiya Sam

Dec 17, 202123 min

Ep 174174 - Jeremy Holcombe on Creating Emotional Intelligence, Understanding Your Triggered Self, and Changing Generational Patterns

Jeremy Holcombe currently is the host of the top 2% podcast, Creating Emotional Inteligence, which helps people understand their triggered selfs, regulate themselves, and get true healing. He truly embodies emotional integration and shares a passion for guiding others through their own integration process. In today's interview, Jeremy gets granular explaining self-awareness, managing triggers, and how to love yourself real-time. He also opens up about his experiences as a child that led to a dissociative state and how he worked through it. This is a very practical interview while communicating examples from both Jeremy's life and the lives of his clients. If you are looking to manage triggers better and improve your self worth, this will be a valuable listen. Listen to Jeremy's top-rated podcast, Creating Emotional Intelligence Join the Creating Emotional Intelligence Facebook Group Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Dec 16, 20211h 6m

Ep 173173 - Giving Yourself Permission To Grieve

Grief is often discussed in the major moments of life – loss of a loved one, job changes, etc. But what about the day-to-day? Is grief more prevalent than we think? If you have experienced change of any kind in your life recently, you are grieving. The better you understand the process, the better you'll be able to move forward with your life. Today's episode explores the important subject of grief, providing a basic framework of its experience and permission for every man to let themselves grieve when it's appropriate. Leadership Pain by Dr. Samuel Chand Kübler-Ross Grief Cycle Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 15, 202123 min

Ep 172172 - How Do I Trust Myself?

If I asked you who are some of the most trustworthy people in your life, how long would it take you to list yourself? Trust makes the world go round, and while we are regularly equipped to built trust in relationships with others, few discuss the importance of building trust with yourself. Today's episode deep dives into the subject, focusing on how to build trust with yourself when you've had a history of failure and shortcomings. Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 14, 202127 min

Ep 171171 - Writing Your Eulogy, A Sobering But Necessary Exercise For Every Man

Keeping your eyes on the prize is a must for every believer, especially in a world full of distractions and shiny new objects. Today's episode outlines a rather sobering exercise that bring clarity to your values, mission and vision for your life. Personal development exercises like these go a very long way in the recovery process, anchoring the individual to the deepest and most meaningful parts of his being. Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 13, 202118 min

Ep 170170 - Is It OK To Date While Still Struggling With Porn?

The idea of getting into a dating relationship can be scary when you're struggling with porn. Will it cause damage in the long run? Will your partner reject you if he/she finds out? These are understandable concerns. Today's episode explains the right mindset to have around dating, and what is required if you'd like to pursue a romantic relationship while still attaining freedom. Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 10, 202117 min

Ep 169169 - Hayden & Savannah Paul on Is It Acceptable To Date While Struggling, Godly Repentance, and Creating A Healthy Sex Life

Hayden and Savannah seek to change the conversation surrounding pornography with a focus on de-shaming the problem so true healing can occur. They host a weekly podcast titled “I Stand at The Door.” In today's episode, Hayden & Savannah share their story of coming to faith, how Hayden overcame a 10 year struggle with pornography, and what it was like working through Hayden's recovery while dating and engaged. Further into the interview, Hayden and Savannah humorously discuss the differences between men and women that are often on display after sex. This is a candid interview with huge value for those wanting to improve the discussion(s) in their relationships around faith and sexuality. Listen to I Stand At The Door Reach out to Hayden Become A DeepClean VIP Member Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Dec 9, 20211h 13m

Ep 168168 - The Defining Quality of Knowledge

Today's episode discusses the "18 inch journey" that all knowledge must take if we are to experience transformation. Head knowledge alone will only go so far – it is when we experience and execute on the knowledge that knowledge becomes powerful. In the information age, we must be more careful than ever before to diligently pursue experiences that enhance our knowledge comprehension. Listen to Episode 162: How Do I Know If I Can Trust The Information I'm Getting? Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 8, 202121 min

Ep 167167 - Getting Ready For The Wedding Night

If you grew up Christian, you know how monumental the wedding night can be for a man. Today's episode provides paradigms and practicalities that will ensure your sex life gets off to a blazing start in your marriage. If you plan to get married, are close to getting married, or are currently married and want to help others in this area, this episode is for you. Pre-Order my book The Last Relapse Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 7, 202130 min

Ep 166166 - What You Need To Focus On In Your Recovery Right NOW

Today's episode outlines vital steps a man must take in his recovery based on the frequency of your struggle. The framework provided is based on working with scores of men in a variety of different environments. If you are looking for specifics about your next step in the recovery process, this episode was made for you. A quick summary: If you're struggling daily – Radical environment shift If you're struggling a few times a week – Increase accountability If you're struggling weekly – Find out why and execute If you're struggling less than weekly more than monthly – Join a community/Increase community engagement If you're struggling monthly – Get professional help/personal development If you're struggling less than monthly – Resource blitz www.nofap.com www.husbandmaterialmen.com Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction

Dec 6, 202129 min

Ep 165165 - You Are The Sum of Your Habits

All things are created twice – first internally, then externally. If you want to change habits and behavior patterns, you must first identify the first creation – the paradigms and perceptions that gave rise to the behavior. Today's episode explains these concepts in detail, using practical examples to illustrate how habits are really formed and what is required to effectively change them. Atomic Habits by James Clear Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction Got a suggestion for an episode? Email [email protected]

Dec 3, 202126 min

Ep 164164 - Andrew Bauman on Why Moral Failures Happen In Churches, The Sexually Healthy Man, and Learning To Relate With Beauty

Founder & Director of the Christian Counseling Center: For Sexual Health & Trauma (CCC), Andrew J. Bauman is a licensed mental health counselor with a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology from The Seattle School of Theology & Psychology. Andrew is the author of Floating Away, Stumbling Toward Wholeness, The Psychology of Porn, and (with Christy) A Brave Lament. In today's episode, he sits down with Sathiya to share about how he got started on helping men and women experience sexually health, what it's like being a person of privilege helping those who have been objectified and ostracized in our society, the sexually healthy man framework, and how to have healthy conversations with your kids about sex. Follow Andrew's blog Follow Andrew on Facebook Attend An Intensive Buy Andrew's book, The Sexually Healthy Man Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Dec 2, 202156 min

Ep 163163 - God Is Not Mad At You!

How you see God determines who you become. We must vigilantly guard our perception of God, because in many ways if we don't, it has ramifications for our own self-esteem. If you are struggling to feel good about yourself or to believe God loves you, today's episode will provide you a dose of encouragement and reminder of the unconditional, loving nature of our incredible God. Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction Book a free Strategy Session with Sathiya Got a suggestion for an episode? Email [email protected]

Dec 1, 202121 min

Ep 162162 - How Do I Know If I Can Trust The Information I‘m Getting?

This is the information age, which means everyone has opinions, stats and facts about how you should live your life. Today's episode breaks down the true qualities of good education, and common giveaways that indicate education may not be as helpful as it seems. The bottom line is that good education empowers, poor education entitles. The better we become at identifying quality sources of education, the deeper we will be impacted by the information we ingest. Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction Book a free Strategy Session with Sathiya

Nov 30, 202116 min

Ep 161161 - The Power of Dreaming The Impossible

The minute you stop dreaming is the minute you start dying. Young and old, rich and poor, male and female, all of us are wired to dream the impossible. Today's episode is an exhortation to hurdle the limiting beliefs and obstacles that are stopping you from having wild, crazy dreams. It just might be the thing that launches you forward in your calling and purpose in life. Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction Book a free Strategy Session with Sathiya

Nov 29, 202125 min

Ep 160160 - Why Shamelessness Is A Futile Endeavor

We know that the goal in recovering from sexual misbehavior is to abolish shame, but did you know there is a difference between shamelessness and being unashamed? Today's episode explains that only one of these qualities is desirable for long-term success, and how we can easily trick ourselves into thinking we're free of shame when in reality we have simply masked it. At the end, you're given a few questions to assess whether or not you are shameless or unashamed. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Book a free Strategy Session with Sathiya

Nov 26, 202121 min

Ep 159159 - Frank Rich on Overcoming Drug, Alcohol & Porn Use, The Power of Physical Fitness In Recovery, and Why Fasting Could Be The Key To Long-Term Success In Life

Frank Rich is a former body builder entrepreneur, men's health coach and the host oh The Super Human Life Podcast. After living with and battling addiction, depression and anxiety for almost 20 years, he is no won a mission to help men who are suffering from the same issues take back control of their lives though the power of faith and fitness. In today's interview, Frank details his story of recovery from several addictions and his awe-inspiring story of salvation (which was actually not that long ago). He also explains his philosophy for integrating fitness, fasting, and a plethora of other practices to help guys get free of pornography and unwanted sexual behavior. This is a deep dive with a ton of gold in it, enjoy! Listen to Sathiya's Interview on The Super Human Life Podcast Watch ReBuild Your Life on YouTube Follow Frank on Instagram Download The 7-Step Guide To Quitting Porn For Good Become A DeepClean VIP Member Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 25, 20211h 12m

Ep 158158 - A Hidden Benefit of Social Media In Recovery

While social media is often a gateway to porn consumption and other sexual misbehavior, it can serve a useful purpose in recovery. Today's episode explains that the reasons we engage with social media often run parallel to the reasons we consume porn. By identifying the underlying causes of our social media use, especially when it is out of control and problematic, we gain insights into the same roots that are driving our desire for porn, ultimately empowering you to find an alternative solution without having to endure another relapse. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 24, 202115 min

Ep 157157 - What If I Have No Community To Support My Recovery?

Today's episode contrasts a porn-free community versus an everyday community and the role that each plays in short term success and long-term recovery. While porn-free communities are often emphasized in our environments, the value of meaningful connection with even one friend outside a porn recovery context could be the difference between struggle and success. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 23, 202118 min

Ep 156156 - The Basics of Getting Rid of Porn

Today's episode is back to the basics as Sathiya explains the cause of porn addiction, the classic mistakes most men make trying to get free, and the true solution for long-term recovery. Whether you are fully free, just beginning, or somewhere in between, this episode is a good reminder of the importance of taking an inside-out approach in life. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 22, 202112 min

Ep 155155 - Unwanted by Jay Stringer (Book Review)

Unwanted by Jay Stringer is one of the most important books written about porn addiction recovery in the last 10 years. Today's episode explores the main message of the book, the brilliance of Jay Stringer, and a few key takeaways that could be useful in your long-term recovery. Internalizing these concepts and executing them in your day-to-day life almost guarantees that your recovery will be taken to new heights. Read Unwanted by Jay Stringer If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 19, 202122 min

Ep 154154 - Shiraz Siddique on Discerning The Calling On Your Life, Why 90% of People Get Stuck Pursuing Their Dreams, and How To Make The Most of Each Season

As a Pastor, John Maxwell Certified Coach and Serial Entrepreneur, Shiraz Siddique helps people illuminates a path for possession of the promises God has for us. Shiraz completed his Masters of Theology from Tyndale Seminary, hosts Pursuing Fullness on Canada's biggest Christian radio station, and is the founder of Christian Business Harvest Network. In this interview, Shiraz explains how to find your purpose in life, how to take practical steps towards fulfilling it, and common pitfalls to avoid along the way. If you are looking to discern God's call on your life, or finding it difficult to simply persevere in the things you've been called to, this episode is for you! Reach out to Shiraz directly Check out Shiraz on Instagram, LinkedIn Listen to Shiraz's radio show, Pursuing Fullness Learn more about Christian Business Harvest Network Become A DeepClean VIP Member Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 18, 202151 min

Ep 153153 - How To Identify The Origins of Your Porn Addiction

In today's episode, Sathiya explains the three dimensions of recovery – solo logic, trigger awareness, and origins. While the first two dimensions are useful, true long-term freedom will always take place in the third dimension. There are three great questions to ask yourself if you want to tap into the third dimension and experience healing. If you can, pull out your journal and work through these questions as you listen to the episode – it just may lead to your next breakthrough. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 17, 202125 min

Ep 152152 - How To Overcome People Pleasing

Today's episode explores a common issue many men face today – people pleasing. Ironically, people pleasing behavior is usually done to protect the relationship, when in reality, it causes long-term damage. If you cannot show up authentically in a relationship, it will suffer. This episode gives you the following four questions to ask yourself if you are struggling with people pleasing behavior of any kind, using a personal example from Sathiya's life to illustrate their application: 1) What am I afraid of? 2) What lie is driving my fear? 3) What is the truth? 4) What does it look like to act on the truth? If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 16, 202125 min

Ep 151151 - The Reason Why You‘re Viewing Things That Disgust You

If you've ever engaged in pornography, you know that it can be a slippery slope. Thresholds for pleasure and content intensity can increase, leading us to places we never imagined were possible. It is important to know that for starters, you are not defined by what you watch, no matter how dark/intense it may be. There are neurological concepts at play that often drive us to these places, namely: 1) Novelty enhances pleasure 2) Neural associations form in moments of curiosity Today's episode deep dives into these two concepts, using personal stories and examples to illustrate the power they have in addiction. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 15, 202122 min

Ep 150150 - How To Appropriately Use An Internet Filter

A lot of the messaging in this podcast and DeepClean can come across as "anti-filter", when in reality, internet filters can have an essential place in the porn recovery process. The mistake men commonly make is relying exlusively on the filter – this can lead to disastrous outcomes. When a filter is supplementary to an inner transformation process (program, counseling, coaching, etc), it can be highly beneficial, provided it is used appropriately. Today's episode explains exactly how you can do that. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching from Sathiya, and access to a community of men pursuing freedom by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Download Covenant Eyes

Nov 12, 202117 min

Ep 151149 - Shawn Bonneteau on Dealing With Erectile Dysfunction, Experiencing Betrayal Trauma As A Man, and How To Design A Sexual Template

Shawn Bonneteau is a passionate speaker, certified mentor and founder of Secret Habit with his wife Helena. His mission is to help men struggling with pornography addiction, erectile dysfunction, and ultimately, sexual brokenness. He has been a guest speaker/writer with X3 Church, Bravehearts, Husband Material, Family Life Canada, and many more. In this candid interview, Shawn details his experience with porn-induced erectile dysfunction AND a classic case of erectile dysfunction as well, detailing the origins, the experiences itself, and how he and his wife together have worked through it. Shawn also explains what it has been like to be married to someone with a porn consumption history and how its affected his own sexuality. Reach Shawn directly Check out Secret Habit Follow Secret Habit on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn Access the mini-course on Overcoming Erectile Dysfunction & Betrayal Trauma Read Unwanted by Jay Stringer Read Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 11, 20211h 0m

Ep 148148 - Anticipatory Expectation: The Root of All Addictions

Today's episode distills a fundamental neurological concept that more or less explains the essence of all addiction. When we are highly motivated, we will do things that even surprise us – sometimes good, sometimes bad. You will understand what is happening in your brain when you are motivated, and how to harness it for your good. While some of the terms and concepts around this matter are complex, this episode is purpose conveyed in simple-to-understand language that will give you a better understanding of the subject and how to apply it to your recovery process. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Be a part of our podcast interviews by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 10, 202126 min

Ep 147147 - The (Broken) Link Between Sexual Interest and Orientation

Generally speaking, people are quick to lump sexual interests, orientation and identity into one, when in reality these are three distinct subjects. Today's podcasts provides an overview of each concept while explaining how they can work separately and in conjunction with one another. A few important takeaways: -Sexual interests are conditioned and changeable -Just because you watch same sex porn doesn't mean you are homosexual -Novelty and anxiety enhance pleasure - they do not necessarily indicate orientation Your Brain On Porn by Gary Wilson Be a part of our podcast interviews by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 9, 202121 min

Ep 146146 - What If Someone Thinks Porn Is OK?

A majority of this world believes pornography is harmless and in some cases, useful. It is only a matter of time before you encounter people of this opinion, and today's episode focuses on equipping you with conversational tools to handle these situations effectively. Specifically, we talk about having the goal of understanding, the power of listening first, and sharing your story. These are universal principles for effective conversation around any controversial subject, porn included. Be a part of our podcast interviews by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 8, 202123 min

Ep 145145 - Sweet Surrender: Every Man‘s Key For Permanently Dealing With Pain & Discomfort

You can only truly remedy pain and discomfort by embracing them – both persist as long as they are ignored or simply tolerated. Today's episode uses personal examples to explain the power of surrender and its necessity for breakthrough and growth. While logic tells us to simply endure pain, exercise willpower, or devise tactics to make it through, embracing pain head on goes a much further way to bringing about the results we want in any area of our personal development. Buy The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Be a part of our podcast interviews by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 5, 202117 min

Ep 144144 - Dr. Eddie Capparucci on How To NOT Objectify Women, Leaving Corporate America To Pursue His Calling, and The Future of Porn Addiction Recovery

Dr. Eddie Capparucci is a licensed professional counselor who specializes in the treatment of sex and porn addiction and the author of the book, Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction. In short, he is a legend in this space of porn and sex addiction recovery and this interview did not disappoint. Dr. Capparucci explains how he found this calling in the first place, why honoring God first allows you to see women the way He does, all while providing practical examples of how you can heal your inner child. Buy Dr. Capparucci's book Reach Dr. Capparucci directly at [email protected] Husband Material Men Academy Great resources to get started - sexandhealingrelationships.com Become A DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

Nov 4, 202156 min

Ep 143143 - Being Humiliated Could Be The Best Thing For Your Growth

Today's episode is inspired by Stephen covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, touching on the importance of understanding process and letting people into your specific place in a process. Male tendency is to put on a façade making it appear that we know more/are further ahead than we really are. As a result, we rob ourselves of gaining the knowledge necessary to simply move to the next step in the process, ultimately hindering our growth. When we embrace humility and learn to honestly let leaders in, a world of change becomes possible. NOTE: Excerpt read from Page 36 & 37 of The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People (Chapter 1: Inside-Out, Subheading: Principles of Growth and Change) Buy The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Be a part of our podcast interviews by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 3, 202121 min

Ep 142142 - One Simple Question That Guarantees Relationship Success

Proverbs is often quoted for the famous saying, "where there is no vision, the people perish." While typically applied in a leadership and success environment, this same statement has major ramifications for our relationships. Today's episode explains the power of vision in selecting a future spouse, and the important role it plays in long-term success for a marriage. If you are high-profile, high-income and looking to get help with pornography, visit https://www.sathiyasam.com/mindset-coaching Be a part of our podcast interviews by becoming a DeepClean VIP Member Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Nov 2, 202122 min

Ep 141141 - Welcome To Unleash The Man Within!

Today marks day one of our newly branded podcast, Unleash The Man Within. Not to worry, this is merely an optics rebrand, the content, scheduling and cadence of the podcast will continue as it was previously. In this episode, Sathiya gives an overview of the podcast so far – including some milestones along the way, explains the embarassing story that led to the rebrand, and casts vision for the podcast moving forward. This is a highly recommended listen if you've found this podcast useful in the past or if you intend to listen moving forward. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

Nov 1, 202125 min

Ep 140140 - BONUS: How Chris Bielefeldt Almost Lost His Girlfriend, Rediscovered His True Worth, and Kicked Porn To The Curb For Good

Chris (USA) was given an ultimatum: The love of his life or porn. He knew he needed help, but now the pressure was on. It was time to fight for the girl he had waited almost 4 decades for. After working through wounds from the past, and working hard on his identity, Chris barely recognizes himself today - he truly is a new man. In this bonus episode, Sathiya sits down with Chris to hear more about his remarkable recovery through DeepClean. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www.sathiyasam.com Submit questions to [email protected]

Oct 29, 202130 min