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Ep 139Getting Over Your Biggest Regrets + What Causes More Divorce? (Online vs. Real Life)

Your old pals Matt and Stephen talk about: - Whether you should have regrets - What kind of mistakes we regret the most - Getting over your screw ups - Online vs. Real life (and which causes more divorce!) --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nov 10, 202155 min

Ep 138Jealousy, Relationship Sabotage, and the MOST Attractive Strategy for Dealing With Insecurities

Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about: - Why comparing yourself to your partner's ex's is such a losing game - How to escape the trap of comparison - The value vs. the danger of talking about your insecurities (and why many men struggle with this) - How to be attractive without needing to be perfect -- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nov 3, 202152 min

Ep 137Does THIS Count As Cheating? + What It Means To Be Loyal In A Relationship

Matt and Stephen get into the topic of LOYALTY in a relationship. We discuss: Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like a models photo? Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like an Ex’s Photo? What counts as micro-cheating? Do you have to be over someone before you can date? The importance of loyalty The difference between values and standards --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Oct 22, 202147 min

Ep 136Why Modern Men Become Simps (Failed Dating Strategy or Sexual Kink?)

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about why so many men are now accused of being "simps". We discuss: - What ACTUALLY makes a guy a "simp" - How we should feel about men who do it - What causes unhealthy fandom and hero worship --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Oct 15, 202154 min

Ep 135Confessions Of A Reluctant Ghoster (Have You Done It?)

Matt and Steve talk about how ghosting happens, and why we all can not only be victims of it, but also unknowing perpetrators... *SPOILER alert for The Sixth Sense (I mean, it's over 20 years old, but ya know...here's your warning). --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Oct 6, 202143 min

Ep 134What Trauma Does To Your Relationships + Healing Your Emotional Wounds

Matt and Steve sit down to talk: Where trauma and bad beliefs come from The effect of trauma on romantic relationships Getting over pain and changing emotional associations Boomer, Gen Z, Millenials + the failure of empathy --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 29, 202145 min

Ep 133What If He Changes For Someone Else?

It's one thing to leave the wrong person, but some people worry: "What if he becomes the RIGHT person for someone else? What if he changes and fixes his flaws and I missed out on the "better" version of him? Matt and Steve talk about where this fear comes from and why it can be so dangerous to live worrying about someone's future potential. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 17, 202123 min

Ep 132What You Lose With "Backburner Relationships"

Some recent research claimed that over 50% of people in committed partnerships have a "backburner relationship". In this episode Matt and Steve talk about: - What defines a backburner relationship? - Why in 2021 has this grown in modern dating culture? - What is the cost of having a backburner relationship? --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 10, 202119 min

Ep 131Don't Make This Common First-Date Mistake

Ever found yourself slipping into the therapist role with a guy when what you really want is to create deep attraction with him? Instead of being in a fun, flirtatious situation with someone who’s trying to get to know more about you, you find yourself sitting patiently while someone unloads all of their problems onto you. You’re not alone. But there is a way out. In this brand-new clip from a small live show, I show you how to escape the “therapist trap” with a guy so that you can keep building the attraction and tension that lead to a second date. Matthew x P.S. If you’d like the chance to ask me a live question—and join what is essentially a gym for your psychology, your emotions, and your confidence—consider this your personal invitation to sign up for a 14-day trial to my Love.Life Club at AskMH.com. I hope to see you there! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 5, 202111 min

Ep 130What REALLY Gets You A Second Date...

Matt and Steve talk about the art of flirting and the REAL difference between chemistry and connection... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 30, 202130 min

Ep 129Matt's Challenge From Hell (And What He Learned...)

Matt did a big, scary, difficult challenge. It was humbling. It was brutal. And it taught him a lot about friendship, confidence and doing things that scare you... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 20, 202156 min

Ep 128How to Respond When You Embarrass Yourself...

Get on the first to know list for Impact & secure your spot on my Art of Speaking Masterclass → http://www.GetImpactFirst.com --- I’m about to share a recent public moment that bothered me . . . While watching a video clip from my recent appearance on the Pretty Intense podcast with Danica Patrick—an experience I thoroughly enjoyed—I couldn’t help but notice something: I kept saying a particular word. And not just once or twice. Over the course of just a couple minutes, I couldn’t even keep my total in the single digits. As someone who’s spent an entire career in public speaking and content creation, the more I said this word, the more the demons in my mind went into “media frenzy press conference mode.” Prepare yourself: This is an honest reenactment of how embarrassment plays out in our heads. I hope this gives you a laugh and also helps you realize that you can take something like this and use it to turn a mortifying moment into an opportunity for growth. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 15, 202110 min

Ep 127Sex Life Part Two: Choosing between romantic partners + the danger of wanting to heal your partner's trauma

Matt and Steve talk about: - Sex Life (again!) - The fantasy of choosing between two different partners - The danger of wanting to heal someone else's trauma --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 9, 202135 min

Ep 126When To Quit A Relationship + What We Can Learn From The Dark Side of Anthony Bourdain

Matthew and Stephen sit down to discuss:Why we stay in relationships longer than we should.When we should quit the wrong relationship.The inspiring and tragic legacy of Anthony Bourdain.---►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 31, 202147 min

Ep 125Sex Life, Penis Size, Becoming A Mature Adult

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about what's necessary to be a mature adult, male worries about penis size, and insecurities about exes . . .---►► Follow Matt @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey►► If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 25, 202139 min

Ep 124How to Feel Secure Again After Your Trust Has Been Destroyed

Transform Your Confidence With Me Over 30 Days Claim Your FREE Spot on The Confidence Challenge → http://www.MHChallenge.com --- When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship. Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak? In this episode, I share 8 rules you’ll want to write on sticky notes and keep handy whenever you need a reminder. As always, I’d love it if you left me a comment letting me know your thoughts - email [email protected] Here for you, Matthew x P.S. There’s still time to sign up for my 30-Day Confidence Challenge on July 21. These 30 days of massive momentum will set you up for an amazing end to 2021. It only takes 10 seconds to sign up at mhchallenge.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 20, 202116 min

Ep 1232021 Half-Time Talk With Matt and Stephen (relationships after covid, dating apps, body confidence, and MORE)

The year is half over already...what?? Join us to sit down and chat about: Where love is in 2021 The state of dating apps Body image and confidence Being selective about WHO we want to attract How the pandemic has changed desires for a relationship -- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 14, 202151 min

Ep 122To Anyone Feeling Single and Lonely...

►► You are not alone. Join my membership FREE → http://www.AskMH.com --- In this clip, I’m asked what my “why” is—what motivates me to keep doing what I do. And my answer often comes as a surprise: to help people feel less alone... --- Follow me for more love advice on Instagram @thematthewhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 9, 20214 min

Ep 121What Are YOUR Top 2 Non-Negotiables In A Relationship? (w/ Matt and Stephen)

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about YOUR responses to "what are your top 2 non-negotiables in a relationship?" Find out which ones we agree and disagree with! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24th-26th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and claim your spot to spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- We also love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 3, 202126 min

Ep 1205 Secrets to Getting a Relationship Even When You Hate Dating

Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship. But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff? In today’s episode, I share 5 tips that will help you find an energy-replenishing relationship rather than an energy-depleting one. You’ll learn how to: • Ease into getting to know someone rather than pinning all your hopes and dreams on them • Communicate from a place of strength rather than insecurity • Match your investment and energy to the stage of the relationship you’re actually in. You’ll want to bookmark this one and relisten to it before any date. --- Protect Your Energy and Build a Real Relationship. Download Your FREE Chapter of How To Talk To Men→ http://www.GetTheFreeChapter.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 30, 20219 min

Ep 119If You've Ever Felt “Not Good Enough” for a Relationship...

Last week, we talked about how the right partner will “elevate your best and soothe your worst.” But what if you feel like your best isn’t good enough? Or you’re afraid your worst will be “too much” for someone? In this situation, it can be tempting to overcorrect—to go overboard in your efforts to impress someone until they finally discover what you’re “really like.” In this week’s new episode, I’ll teach you how to shift from looking at yourself through a lens of self-judgment, self-loathing, and self-hatred, and instead view yourself from a place of self-compassion, self-love, and self-empowerment. --- Create a Beautiful Relationship With Yourself & Unlock Your Core Confidence... Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat https://MHVirtualRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 25, 202116 min

Ep 118What's 1 ESSENTIAL quality you look for in a partner? (w/ Matt and Steve)

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about ONE quality we've come to find essential in relationships. We look at your answers to the question as well and give our responses! --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- We also love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 21, 202135 min

Ep 117Think You're Ready to Meet "The One"? Watch This First...

There’s an ongoing debate when it comes to meeting “The One.” Which camp do you fall into? 1) Is it all about meeting the right person—someone amazing who will remove any lingering doubts and inspire you to get serious? 2) Or is it less about “The One” and more about “The Timing”—meeting a compatible person at the right time in your life? This week, I get to the heart of the issue with 7 tips that may change your perspective on dating and relationships. --- Break Out of the Fast Food Dating Culture & Create Something Real. Get Your Free Training at http://howtogetexclusive.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 16, 202116 min

Ep 116Advice We Would Give Ourselves 10 Years Ago...(Featuring YOUR responses)

Matt and Steve sit down for a live session to talk about YOUR answers to advice you would give yourself from 10 years ago on dating, love and relationships! --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 11, 202127 min

Ep 115What the Post-Covid Dating Boom Means for Your Love Life

What will your dating life look like in the second half of 2021? As worldwide restrictions started to ease, news outlets declared that the post-lockdown world would likely give birth to a “new Roaring ‘20s”—a bacchanalian frenzy the likes of which our generation has never seen. While it’s true that some will embrace this openness with abandon, new studies are revealing something unexpected: many people are interested in finding a serious relationship as a result of the pandemic, because this past year has made them aware of the traits they value most in a partner. This particular moment is critical, because many people are likely to “panic buy” their way into a relationship—throwing themselves into the first nice person they meet as soon as the “gates open.” Thankfully, there’s a simple step you can take before a first date that will ensure you’re meeting people who are a better fit. In this episode, you’ll learn how to find a committed partner who will be excited to redefine the “new Roaring ‘20s” with you (whether or not they can dance the Charleston). Here for you, Matthew x P.S. Which trait is #1 on your list? Let me know in the YouTube comments on my channel! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 7, 202110 min

Ep 114Confidence in Dating Is Hard: 2 Ways to Boost Yours Immediately

Amplify your confidence with me & Charlotte Tilbury. Register now for your FREE, live Masterclass on June 9th. Go to http://www.MHandCT.com We’re told all our lives that confidence is the key to everything from our careers to our love lives, but few things can feel more nebulous or fleeting. Even when we finally achieve the things we thought would give us confidence, it often slips just a little more out of reach. Life becomes a chase of “I’ll finally feel confident when . . .” and that “when” rarely materializes. In today’s episode, I’ll show you how to craft a confidence that’s unique to you: one that doesn’t rely on the achievement of some external goal, and one deeply rooted in who you ALREADY are. P.S. Be sure to listen all the way to the end to discover the secret project I’ve been working on and how you can be a part of it. This one’s HUGE. I’ve never done anything like it, and it won’t cost you a thing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 1, 202117 min

Ep 113How to Get Over the Pain of Rejection

Perhaps you’ve felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date . . .Or after pouring your heart and creativity into a project only to have it ripped to shreds by those you admire most . . .Or getting laid off from the job you thought you’d retire from . . .Rejection can come in many forms, but the gut punch feels the same as it shatters your ego.Ultimately, the history of your rejection has been written, but the legacy of it is for you to decide.The way you craft this legacy can result in some of the most meaningful wins of your life, and in this episode, you’ll learn how to make that happen. (Plus I’ll also share an embarrassing story of a lesson I learned whilst recording in Beverly Hills 10 years ago . . .)---►► Our final Virtual Retreat of the year is coming up September 24-26! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 28, 202112 min

Ep 112YOUR Answers to the Most Overrated Things in Relationships

What do you think is the most overrated thing in relationships?We look at your top answers and decide if we agree or disagree!---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24-26! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► We also love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 22, 202136 min

Ep 1116 Texts That Move Your Relationship Forward

It’s happened to the best of us.The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?”Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out.Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it all around. If you’ve lost momentum with someone, feel your momentum is headed in the wrong direction, or just want to improve your communication, this week’s episode is a must-listen.I give you 6 specific text messages you can use or adapt to transform your current situation. The great news is that you only need to try one of these 6 texts to change your dynamic right now.Be sure to let me know which one you try first! You can email the show at [email protected]►► Get Your Free Training Video at WhatToTextNext.com►► Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24-26! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 15, 20216 min

Ep 110Decoding Your Most Confusing Texts From Men

"What does he mean when he texts THIS?"In today's episode, Matt and Steve sit down live to discuss YOUR most confusing texts and what they really mean!---►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 7, 202143 min

Ep 109When you and your partner have different standards...

What do you do when you're dating someone, but you're worried they don't appreciate the effort you make? And will they step up their standards when you move in together, or are they going to stay the same forever?Join Matt and Stephen to talk all about standards!---►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 3, 202118 min

Ep 108Being High Value: Does It Make It Harder To Be Attracted To Someone?

When you work on making yourself more attractive, does your dating pool narrow? Are there simply less people who will live up to your standards?Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about standards, self-growth, and choosing people for the right reasons.---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24th-26th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships . . . (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here)►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 29, 202121 min

Ep 107Can you mess it up with the right person?

Is it possible to mess it up with the right person? Can you miss your chance if you make the wrong move? When you make a mistake, the worst feeling in the world is, "what if I had done things differently?"We talk about how to get over your past failures in love and the mindset that will stop you living in regret. ---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships . . . (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here)►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 24, 202123 min

Ep 106Should He Come Over On The First Date(s)?

It's always a question: How fast should you move when it comes to intimacy? The answer: it depends on what your goals are... Matt and Stephen talk about the value of inside vs. outdoor dates early on in a relationship, how to find out what their intentions are, and what kind of "progress" really matters in dating. ---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here)►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 21, 202122 min

Ep 105Avoiding a Difficult Conversation Because You’re Afraid of Their Answer?

Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we’re afraid we will “make waves” in the relationship.We come from a place of fear and anxiety.“What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?” we think to ourselves. So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer.But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on.If this is you, this episode is for you.---►► Early bird tickets for the second and final Virtual Retreat of the year (September 24-26) are only available until the end of the month. Don’t miss your chance: MHVirtualRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 19, 20216 min

Ep 104"He STILL Doesn't Want Kids After 8 Years. What Should I Do?"

What if you're with the "perfect" partner, they treat you wonderfully, but they're always putting off wanting kids?In this episode, Matt and Steve talk about how to do what's really right for you, and dealing with the fight between your head and your heart.---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here)►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 14, 202117 min

Ep 103"What If We Have Different Love Languages?" (+ how to talk about being dumped)

Today Matt and Stephen sit down to answer a listener who ask whether her partner can become more affectionate. Can you change someone's love language? Plus Matt goes on a rant about how to talk about your past heartbreaks with a new partner...---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here)►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 9, 202125 min

Ep 1027 Mindsets to Overcome the Fear That Holds You Back

​Do you feel you’re holding yourself back in life?Do you avoid taking risks with people you’re attracted to?Do you find yourself shying away from new things in life, new experiences, new possibilities?Are there things you’ve been talking about doing in your career or life that always seem to stay on the horizon and never actually happen?It’s tough when life makes it hard for us to achieve things we want to achieve, but it’s far worse when we know that WE are the ones holding us back.It could be through fear of rejection, failure, not feeling worthy, or simply being terrified of the unknown. And we’ll find all sorts of logical and rational excuses for why we can’t do something now, why it’s not the right time, or why we’re not capable or ready.But the truth is, we can waste our entire lives holding ourselves back from the life we could have and becoming the person we want to be.And that can happen in the blink of an eye. We wake up one day and realize that all that time we thought we had is gone.This episode will save you from that fate . . .--- ►► Learn More About the Life-Changing Virtual Retreat + Lock in Your Early Bird Discount Now (Ends April 30): MHVirtualRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 6, 202118 min

Ep 101If He's Not Chasing, Why Are You Investing?

"Get serious about people who treat you as serious. Some people advise taking a chance on the unknown. Others think that’s crazy. I don’t think it is. What is undeniably crazy though is taking a chance with your heart on someone you already know isn’t bothered about giving you theirs."---►► Ready for a Fresh Start in Your Love Life? Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Simple Secrets: 3SecretsToLove.com​ ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 3, 202118 min

Ep 100What If You Feel Bad For A Toxic Partner? (Advice for Empaths)

Empathy is a powerful emotion. It can be a tool: allowing you to put yourself in someone's shoes, understand their struggle, and emotionally connect to their suffering.But when it comes to letting go of a toxic relationship, this can also be a danger if we prioritise empathy over our long-term well-being.Join Matt and Steve to chat about leaving toxic partners, deciding on when to compromise in love, and of course, bubble baths...---►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 1, 202128 min

Ep 99Women's Safety - It Belongs To All Of Us

I believe in talking about ideas that matter and can help people lead better lives.It’s hard for me to think of anything that fits that description more than the issues this video deals with.I’ve done my best, but I know it won’t be perfect. It’s not meant to be. I just want to begin the conversation in our community. I look forward to learning more from all of you as I go.Women of my community, I did not create this episode for you to do anything. It’s a message we men need to hear.I hope you’ll help me share it with more of my brothers, because the change has to come from us.And I’d love for you to join me in the comments to share your experiences and further educate us.We have your back here, and we love you.Matthew x---►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mar 29, 202124 min

Ep 98Have You Dated These 2 Toxic People?

There are 2 types of people from our past—distant or recent—that cause us pain in the present.And chances are, if you can’t seem to move on from someone, they fall into one of these 2 categories...The good news is that this episode will show you a neat trick you can do right now that will change the way you think about this person forever.And when you do it, you’ll instantly feel at peace in a way you don’t right now. Hope you’re having a beautiful weekend, friend.As always, I’m in your corner.---►► Ready for a Fresh Start in Your Love Life? Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Simple Secrets: 3SecretsToLove.com​  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mar 26, 20217 min

Ep 97Underrated Skills Everyone Should Learn To Be A Better Partner

We’ve all been told the important stuff that helps a relationship work in the long-run:Kindness RespectClear and compassionate communicationBut there are also other little skills that make a big difference. Things that our partner may not even be able to vocalize, but that deep down in their subconscious they are eternally grateful for and that keep the relationship working and make us No.1 in their books. Cultivate these skills and your name will be on its way to becoming an ill-judged impulsive tattoo on someone’s bicep in no time...---►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mar 21, 202115 min

Ep 96Things To Look Forward To

Someone once told Steve a secret to happiness he's never forgotten: “You always need to have two things to look forward to.” “Why two?” “You need one so that you can look ahead and know something exciting is on the horizon. And you need to a second so that you don’t get depressed when the first one ends.” In this episode we talk about: - The benefits of "positive anticipation" for your happiness - Why purpose really matters - Whether you should keep chocolate in the fridge --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mar 18, 202126 min

Ep 95How To TRULY Get Over Your Heartbreak...

Heal your heart and move on strong from your breakup. Tap Below to Watch Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.MoveOnStrong.com​ --- I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this brand-new episode is a must-listen for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end. In this episode, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over your pain, but how to deal with it while you’re still in the middle of it—perhaps even in the worst phase, when it feels like it’ll never go away. I’m here for you. P.S. This message may be the greatest gift you can give a friend or family member who is experiencing this kind of pain right now. Who could you send this to to help them get through the day? --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com​ ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com​ ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect with Me… ▼ Blog → https://www.howtogettheguy.com/blog/​ Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey​ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thematthewh...​ Twitter → https://twitter.com/matthewhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mar 13, 202140 min

Ep 94The Obvious Red Flag You Should NEVER Ignore When Dating

People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them. Here we explain why it happens and how you SHOULD respond when the warnings signs appear... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mar 10, 202111 min

Ep 93How to Be Irreplaceable in Love AND Invincible in Life

Create Your Uniquely Extraordinary Life. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat . . . → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com​ Whether you’ve been following my work for 5 days or 5 years, this is one you can’t miss. It’s one of the most fundamental concepts I’ve ever taught, and it is the key to: - Increasing your confidence - Expanding your life - Being irreplaceable to the person you want - Being able to handle any part of your life going wrong This is where my dating advice meets my deeper advice for how to live an extraordinary life. Don’t listen to this episode for dating tips. Listen to level up your entire life. Every week, I help millions of people create the love life they’ve always wanted. But I don’t want the state of your life and your happiness to ever be dependent on the status of your love life. T he great irony is that it’s when your happiness no longer depends on the status of your love life that your love life finally has a chance to click. Enjoy this episode. It’s a big one. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mar 8, 202116 min

Ep 92Are Dating Apps Now Underrated?

Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Today's Episode: Are Dating Apps Underrated? A new study suggests that people using dating apps could be MORE likely to want a serious relationship. Is it true? And what do we think about the common criticisms of dating apps? --- Don't forget: you can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mar 5, 202128 min

Ep 91What's More Productive: Being Single Vs. Being In A Relationship

Do you get more done when you're single or in a relationship? This turns out to be a topic that has a lot of STRONG opinions. Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about: How to approach being a "builder" when you're in a relationship Choosing the right partner for your needs Connection vs. compatibility How to not get distracted when you're single --- Don't forget: you can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- P.S. Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mar 3, 202117 min

Ep 90When Should You STOP Giving So Much In A Relationship?

►► Learn How to Break Out of the Casual Phase. Get Access to Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.GetTheFreeTraining.com​ OK, picture this . . . I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in case we ever go to coffee and you want to know what my order is)—and I get talking to a woman who tells me she’s mad at me. She knows who I am, she’s a fan, she even said my program worked for her, and yet she told me she was mad at me. In this week’s new episode, I tell the full story . . . and it highlights how so many people get hurt because they follow 95% of my advice, but ignore one of the most crucial things I say. Think of it this way: you can have all the right ingredients to bake a cake, but if you forget to add baking powder, the cake isn’t going to rise. In this episode, you’re going to learn what the baking powder of dating is. Without it, your relationship will not rise, which explains what happened to this woman I met in the coffee shop. Check it out, and don’t forget to email us a comment at [email protected] when you get there. Happy weekend, friend! P.S. I’m giving away a free video module of one of my favorite programs, Attraction to Commitment, at the end of this video. If you’re sick of guys wanting to see you casually, and are ready for a real relationship with someone who’s willing to commit, this is for you. Get your copy of the full program by entering your email here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mar 1, 20217 min