Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Amplify your confidence with me & Charlotte Tilbury. Register now for your FREE, live Masterclass on June 9th. Go to http://www.MHandCT.com We’re told all our lives that confidence is the key to everything from our careers to our love lives, but few things can feel more nebulous or fleeting. Even when we finally achieve the things we thought would give us confidence, it often slips just a little more out of reach. Life becomes a chase of “I’ll finally feel confident when . . .” and that “when” rarely materializes. In today’s episode, I’ll show you how to craft a confidence that’s unique to you: one that doesn’t rely on the achievement of some external goal, and one deeply rooted in who you ALREADY are. P.S. Be sure to listen all the way to the end to discover the secret project I’ve been working on and how you can be a part of it. This one’s HUGE. I’ve never done anything like it, and it won’t cost you a thing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Perhaps you’ve felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date . . .Or after pouring your heart and creativity into a project only to have it ripped to shreds by those you admire most . . .Or getting laid off from the job you thought you’d retire from . . .Rejection can come in many forms, but the gut punch feels the same as it shatters your ego.Ultimately, the history of your rejection has been written, but the legacy of it is for you to decide.The way you craft this legacy can result in some of the most meaningful wins of your life, and in this episode, you’ll learn how to make that happen. (Plus I’ll also share an embarrassing story of a lesson I learned whilst recording in Beverly Hills 10 years ago . . .)---►► Our final Virtual Retreat of the year is coming up September 24-26! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you think is the most overrated thing in relationships?We look at your top answers and decide if we agree or disagree!---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24-26! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► We also love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s happened to the best of us.The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?”Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out.Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it all around. If you’ve lost momentum with someone, feel your momentum is headed in the wrong direction, or just want to improve your communication, this week’s episode is a must-listen.I give you 6 specific text messages you can use or adapt to transform your current situation. The great news is that you only need to try one of these 6 texts to change your dynamic right now.Be sure to let me know which one you try first! You can email the show at [email protected]►► Get Your Free Training Video at WhatToTextNext.com►► Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24-26! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"What does he mean when he texts THIS?"In today's episode, Matt and Steve sit down live to discuss YOUR most confusing texts and what they really mean!---►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do when you're dating someone, but you're worried they don't appreciate the effort you make? And will they step up their standards when you move in together, or are they going to stay the same forever?Join Matt and Stephen to talk all about standards!---►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you work on making yourself more attractive, does your dating pool narrow? Are there simply less people who will live up to your standards?Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about standards, self-growth, and choosing people for the right reasons.---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24th-26th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships . . . (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here)►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is it possible to mess it up with the right person? Can you miss your chance if you make the wrong move? When you make a mistake, the worst feeling in the world is, "what if I had done things differently?"We talk about how to get over your past failures in love and the mindset that will stop you living in regret. ---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships . . . (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here)►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's always a question: How fast should you move when it comes to intimacy? The answer: it depends on what your goals are... Matt and Stephen talk about the value of inside vs. outdoor dates early on in a relationship, how to find out what their intentions are, and what kind of "progress" really matters in dating. ---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here)►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we’re afraid we will “make waves” in the relationship.We come from a place of fear and anxiety.“What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?” we think to ourselves. So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer.But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on.If this is you, this episode is for you.---►► Early bird tickets for the second and final Virtual Retreat of the year (September 24-26) are only available until the end of the month. Don’t miss your chance: MHVirtualRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if you're with the "perfect" partner, they treat you wonderfully, but they're always putting off wanting kids?In this episode, Matt and Steve talk about how to do what's really right for you, and dealing with the fight between your head and your heart.---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here)►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today Matt and Stephen sit down to answer a listener who ask whether her partner can become more affectionate. Can you change someone's love language? Plus Matt goes on a rant about how to talk about your past heartbreaks with a new partner...---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here)►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

​Do you feel you’re holding yourself back in life?Do you avoid taking risks with people you’re attracted to?Do you find yourself shying away from new things in life, new experiences, new possibilities?Are there things you’ve been talking about doing in your career or life that always seem to stay on the horizon and never actually happen?It’s tough when life makes it hard for us to achieve things we want to achieve, but it’s far worse when we know that WE are the ones holding us back.It could be through fear of rejection, failure, not feeling worthy, or simply being terrified of the unknown. And we’ll find all sorts of logical and rational excuses for why we can’t do something now, why it’s not the right time, or why we’re not capable or ready.But the truth is, we can waste our entire lives holding ourselves back from the life we could have and becoming the person we want to be.And that can happen in the blink of an eye. We wake up one day and realize that all that time we thought we had is gone.This episode will save you from that fate . . .--- ►► Learn More About the Life-Changing Virtual Retreat + Lock in Your Early Bird Discount Now (Ends April 30): MHVirtualRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"Get serious about people who treat you as serious. Some people advise taking a chance on the unknown. Others think that’s crazy. I don’t think it is. What is undeniably crazy though is taking a chance with your heart on someone you already know isn’t bothered about giving you theirs."---►► Ready for a Fresh Start in Your Love Life? Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Simple Secrets: 3SecretsToLove.com​ ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Empathy is a powerful emotion. It can be a tool: allowing you to put yourself in someone's shoes, understand their struggle, and emotionally connect to their suffering.But when it comes to letting go of a toxic relationship, this can also be a danger if we prioritise empathy over our long-term well-being.Join Matt and Steve to chat about leaving toxic partners, deciding on when to compromise in love, and of course, bubble baths...---►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I believe in talking about ideas that matter and can help people lead better lives.It’s hard for me to think of anything that fits that description more than the issues this video deals with.I’ve done my best, but I know it won’t be perfect. It’s not meant to be. I just want to begin the conversation in our community. I look forward to learning more from all of you as I go.Women of my community, I did not create this episode for you to do anything. It’s a message we men need to hear.I hope you’ll help me share it with more of my brothers, because the change has to come from us.And I’d love for you to join me in the comments to share your experiences and further educate us.We have your back here, and we love you.Matthew x---►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There are 2 types of people from our past—distant or recent—that cause us pain in the present.And chances are, if you can’t seem to move on from someone, they fall into one of these 2 categories...The good news is that this episode will show you a neat trick you can do right now that will change the way you think about this person forever.And when you do it, you’ll instantly feel at peace in a way you don’t right now. Hope you’re having a beautiful weekend, friend.As always, I’m in your corner.---►► Ready for a Fresh Start in Your Love Life? Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Simple Secrets: 3SecretsToLove.com​  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve all been told the important stuff that helps a relationship work in the long-run:Kindness RespectClear and compassionate communicationBut there are also other little skills that make a big difference. Things that our partner may not even be able to vocalize, but that deep down in their subconscious they are eternally grateful for and that keep the relationship working and make us No.1 in their books. Cultivate these skills and your name will be on its way to becoming an ill-judged impulsive tattoo on someone’s bicep in no time...---►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Someone once told Steve a secret to happiness he's never forgotten: “You always need to have two things to look forward to.” “Why two?” “You need one so that you can look ahead and know something exciting is on the horizon. And you need to a second so that you don’t get depressed when the first one ends.” In this episode we talk about: - The benefits of "positive anticipation" for your happiness - Why purpose really matters - Whether you should keep chocolate in the fridge --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Heal your heart and move on strong from your breakup. Tap Below to Watch Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.MoveOnStrong.com​ --- I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this brand-new episode is a must-listen for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end. In this episode, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over your pain, but how to deal with it while you’re still in the middle of it—perhaps even in the worst phase, when it feels like it’ll never go away. I’m here for you. P.S. This message may be the greatest gift you can give a friend or family member who is experiencing this kind of pain right now. Who could you send this to to help them get through the day? --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com​ ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com​ ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect with Me… ▼ Blog → https://www.howtogettheguy.com/blog/​ Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey​ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thematthewh...​ Twitter → https://twitter.com/matthewhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them. Here we explain why it happens and how you SHOULD respond when the warnings signs appear... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Create Your Uniquely Extraordinary Life. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat . . . → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com​ Whether you’ve been following my work for 5 days or 5 years, this is one you can’t miss. It’s one of the most fundamental concepts I’ve ever taught, and it is the key to: - Increasing your confidence - Expanding your life - Being irreplaceable to the person you want - Being able to handle any part of your life going wrong This is where my dating advice meets my deeper advice for how to live an extraordinary life. Don’t listen to this episode for dating tips. Listen to level up your entire life. Every week, I help millions of people create the love life they’ve always wanted. But I don’t want the state of your life and your happiness to ever be dependent on the status of your love life. T he great irony is that it’s when your happiness no longer depends on the status of your love life that your love life finally has a chance to click. Enjoy this episode. It’s a big one. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Today's Episode: Are Dating Apps Underrated? A new study suggests that people using dating apps could be MORE likely to want a serious relationship. Is it true? And what do we think about the common criticisms of dating apps? --- Don't forget: you can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you get more done when you're single or in a relationship? This turns out to be a topic that has a lot of STRONG opinions. Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about: How to approach being a "builder" when you're in a relationship Choosing the right partner for your needs Connection vs. compatibility How to not get distracted when you're single --- Don't forget: you can email the show at [email protected]! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- P.S. Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

►► Learn How to Break Out of the Casual Phase. Get Access to Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.GetTheFreeTraining.com​ OK, picture this . . . I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in case we ever go to coffee and you want to know what my order is)—and I get talking to a woman who tells me she’s mad at me. She knows who I am, she’s a fan, she even said my program worked for her, and yet she told me she was mad at me. In this week’s new episode, I tell the full story . . . and it highlights how so many people get hurt because they follow 95% of my advice, but ignore one of the most crucial things I say. Think of it this way: you can have all the right ingredients to bake a cake, but if you forget to add baking powder, the cake isn’t going to rise. In this episode, you’re going to learn what the baking powder of dating is. Without it, your relationship will not rise, which explains what happened to this woman I met in the coffee shop. Check it out, and don’t forget to email us a comment at [email protected] when you get there. Happy weekend, friend! P.S. I’m giving away a free video module of one of my favorite programs, Attraction to Commitment, at the end of this video. If you’re sick of guys wanting to see you casually, and are ready for a real relationship with someone who’s willing to commit, this is for you. Get your copy of the full program by entering your email here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's ok to be weird... In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic. So if you struggle with the social pressure to conform, this is the episode for YOU! --- P.S. Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Want to hear something that drives me a little crazy? It’s when people say: “You need to be happy first, before you find a relationship.” In my brand spanking new video, I call BS on this idea (please be aware there is no actual spanking). Come on over and I’ll tell you why all the annoying people telling you this are wrong. P.S. We’re one month out from my next Virtual Retreat, March 19-21! This could be your last chance to make it happen. The first one back in October was a huge success, and I’ve been working with my team for months to make this one even better. It includes 3 days of immersion coaching to work on new habits, new purpose in your life, leveling up in every area, and becoming the most confident and in control version of yourself you’ve ever been. This is NOT a love life program—it’s a complete life makeover, inside and out. If you don’t have your ticket yet, there’s still time. To book a call with one of my Specialists to discuss your goals this year and whether the Virtual Retreat is right for you, click HERE → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com​ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn? Join us to find out and email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Whether you’re single or seeing someone on a day like Valentine's Day, here are 9 romantic surprises you can do for anyone in your life to make them go weak in the knees for you. They are subtle . . . They are unexpected . . . And they will make someone fall even harder for you than they already are (because why wouldn’t they be already . . . you’re adorable, aren’t you? Aren’t you! Sorry.) Check ‘em out, friend. Free download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com​ Free download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

►► Learn 5 Techniques to Help Him Open Up to You. Get Access to Your FREE Training... → http://www.GetHimToTalk.com --- Join Matt and Steve for a chat on vulnerability, when to reveal yourself in a relationship, and what counts as over-sharing... --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Learn 5 Techniques to Help Him Open Up to You. Get Access to Your FREE Training... → http://www.GetHimToTalk.com​ Happy February! :-) I just made this episode for you. Do you find it hard to truly let down your guard with a man? What do you do when you get angry or hurt? Do you get quiet? Passive-aggressive? Lash out? If you know that the way you’re bringing things up isn’t productive, and has the tendency to push someone away, here is your essential listening for today... Let me know what you think! -- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Hey listeners! Join Matt and I for a chat today on: Why we get attached too quickly (even after only one date) The biggest key to avoiding disappointment Why Eminem was wrong If you want to get in touch, email us at [email protected] --- Follow Matt Instagram - @thematthewhussey Twitter - @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen Instagram - @stephenhhussey Twitter - @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join Me on a Bigger Journey & Get Results in Your Love Life. Try My VIP Coaching Experience for Free... → http://www.AskMH.com​ Quiz for you... What do the following 3 things all have in common?: - Getting nervous on a date - Getting upset that someone isn’t texting you back - Not being able to get over a breakup Can you guess? The answer is in this episode, let’s see if you got it right... You’re going to witness a moment taken from a live, exclusive webinar I held for my Love.Life members that wasn’t open to the public. There was an exchange that happened that is going to change the way you deal with dating disappointments forever. If you find it hard to recover from the rejection and the sadness of someone not calling after a date, or sex, or from it simply not panning out with someone you were seeing, this is a game changer... Sending you love, friend! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Today Matt and Steve sit down for a little chat. We talk: - Keeping on track with 2021 goals - Why you don't need to be "100% happy" to attract a great relationship - How to decide what really matters in your to-do list - 3 things you need to work on to have an extraordinary love life Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Discover How to Love Your Life Every Day. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat... http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com Are you a list maker? I am. It’s how I get things done. But doesn’t life sometimes just feel like an endless “To-Do List”? We wake up, make a list, do what we can on that list, and before we know it, there’s another day, gone. And, if we’re not careful, we get to the end of every day feeling like our confidence has been eroded because we didn’t even get to half of the list. I don’t want my life to be one long box-ticking exercise, do you? If you want to feel like you’re truly LIVING, not just ticking boxes, check out this episode. The technique I give in this episode shows us how to feel connected to the things we have to do in our day so that we don’t become list-checking zombies with no real joy in our lives. I know once you learn this, it will become an indispensable part of your daily practice. I look forward to your feedback. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever wanted to be a better public speaker? Wish you could feel confident and charismatic when you walk into a room? In this episode, Matt and I sit down to discuss: - Why you can *still* have massive impact as an introvert - How to get rid of your bad conversation habits - The secret to overcoming shyness - How to answer difficult questions under pressure (and look good doing it!) --- If you're serious about upgrading your people skills, transforming your confidence, and learning the secrets of unstoppable charisma, go to GetImpactNow.com to get your copy of our bestselling IMPACT program! (Doors close Saturday 23rd January at midnight Pacific Time). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’m guessing you don’t just follow my work for love life advice... Unless you discovered my content yesterday, you will have realized by now that the communication skills I teach have massive practical application for your business relationships, your ability to network, your ability to persuade, to captivate, and to navigate challenging conversations in every part of life. I’ve not just used these skills in my own love life. They have been the fundamental people skills I have used to create every opportunity I’ve ever had and get to where I am today. And I know that in 2021 you have goals outside of your love life that are deeply important to you.I want to help you achieve them. This episode is going to show you 7 techniques I use time and time again to make an impact on whoever I’m speaking to and create new opportunities in my life. I also have a value-packed surprise at the end for you (also free!).See you there!---►► Discover My Personal Secrets for Impact & Success. Tap Below to Watch Your FREE Training at SecretImpactVideo.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Heyyyy, It's a chat episode! We sit down to talk about:- How to identify addictive behaviours- Avoiding red flags vs. not being affected by past relationships- How to figure out your goals- Crunchy vs. smooth peanut butter It's all here - come join and let us know your thoughts at [email protected] Follow Matt - @thematthewhusseyFollow Stephen - @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind? I have. Many times. And when this has happened to me I know I’ve not brought up the issue in a productive way. In fact, I’ve often approached the subject in a way I later regretted. What about you? Have you said something you wish you hadn’t? Reacted in a way you wish you could take back?It’s a horrible feeling when we “sober up” emotionally, the cloud of angry or upset subsides, and we are left with this sinking feeling that somehow we’ve just messed it all up.If you can relate to being the kind of person whose emotions and anxieties can be easily triggered in a relationship, this episode is really going to help you. My aim with this video is not to guarantee you never get anxious again (would you even believe me if I said that was possible?!). My aim is to ensure that even in those moments where your fears and anxieties become inflamed, you have a way of calming them, and approaching your partner in a way that brings you closer together, rather than hurting the relationship. Let’s take back control over those emotions and put you back in the driver’s seat.And let’s learn to use our moments of friction to make our relationships even more beautiful.---Follow Matt: @thematthewhusseyFollow Stephen: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas. He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour. Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her. Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…” She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to him. But then... he never called…(I know, it’s horrible, right?)The truth is, this often happens because of some very simple mistakes we make when it comes to falling in love. In this episode, I’ll show you how to avoid them..---Follow MattInstagram - @thematthewhusseyTwitter - @thematthewhusseyFollow StephenInstagram - @stephenhhusseyTwitter - @stephenhhussey  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Maybe you began this year with visions of finally creating the love life you always dreamed about. You told yourself: “This is the year I’m going to meet my person.” But then 2020 happened, and it made dating even more complicated, more exhausting, and more futile than it seemed to be already. And now you sit here, at the end of another year, with this feeling in the pit of your stomach. A feeling of frustration, resentment, and even panic. “I’ve lost an entire year of progress in my love life because of this pandemic.”In this episode, I’m going to give you a blueprint for what to do to still move your love life forward, even while this marathon we’re on continues. Time is too precious to waste. There are so many ways to still move forward. You just need the right plan... We in this community aren’t just survivors, we are adapters. So let’s do what we do best and make this situation work for us. Love you, friend.---Follow Matt: @thematthewhusseyFollow Stephen: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you find yourself currently in a long-distance relationship – or “situationship” – then I made this for you, my loyal friend. In it, I give you the 4 questions you should ask to figure out if it’s all worth it. Because let’s face it, long-distance relationships are HARD. WORK. T hey require dedication, commitment, loyalty, and a real vision for the future. Do you ever find yourself worrying if yours has what it takes? Or wondering if the person you are giving all of this mental and emotional energy to from afar is actually serious and will pay off in the end, instead of wasting your precious time? You can also check out this episode to see my “baby” brother Harry say some deeply hurtful things to me. Enjoy. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's finally happened... Matt and I are back in the same room, together at last! And we're taking YOUR questions.In this special Q&A episode, we talk:How to communicate when you have different expectations from a guy you're datingMatt's #1 secret to overcoming your deep insecurities and avoid comparing yourself to other attractive peopleBooks to build your happinessHow to keep motivation when you lose focusIs Los Angeles overrated? Hope you enjoy, and let us know your thoughts and feedback at [email protected] MattInsta - @thematthewhusseyTwitter - @matthewhusseyFollow StephenInsta - @stephenhhusseyTwitter - @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I wanted to step outside of the dating conversation for this week’s new episode. Relationship or no relationship, the quality of our lives is the quality of our emotions. And many of us feel plagued by our emotions. Whether it’s depression, anxiety, sadness, shame, guilt, fear… we can find ourselves living in a constant state of suffering. If you can relate to this, please listen to this before you do anything else today... I’ve had moments in my life where I was scared I’d never feel better, especially if there was a certain negative emotion that I kept returning to no matter what I tried. It can make us feel hopeless, like we’ll never be happy no matter what we do. If you feel stuck in a place like this, please take a few minutes to hear what I have to say in this podcast. It’s not some magic pill, it’s a real approach that will relieve the tension you feel inside right now. Don’t lose hope. We’ve got this. I promise you. I love you, friend. --- ►► We’re in This Together. Try My Love.Life VIP Coaching and Community for FREE... → http://AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Transform Your Life and Claim Your Happiness NOW. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat… http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com --- I get SO many questions about standards in early-stage dating every week... How do you set standards? How do you know if your standards are too high, too low, or are scaring people away? How do you communicate your standards in a kind and honest way? What if all of my standards are fulfilled by someone except one important one? To answer some of these questions, this week I take a real woman’s story and give 3 practical techniques for solving it that I think you’re going to find really valuable. If you struggle too much inside your head when you like someone, especially if it doesn’t feel like it’s quite going your way, this episode is going to help you make sense of things… Also, we are finishing this year with a bang. As you know, I just released my brand new program The Momentum Texts (thank you to all of you who got your copy, and for the incredible early feedback). Well, to add one more surprise, at the end of this new episode I announce something many of you have been waiting for in the last few weeks. I’ll see you there to tell you about it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I'm going to give you a sneak peek behind the curtain of our new program and share 3 key text messages for different stages of a relationships to create intrigue, sexual tension, assert your standards, and keep the conversation going! ---►► Get your copy of Matt's brand new program, out TODAY!  "The Momentum Texts: 67 Counter-Intuitive Texts That Lead To REAL Relationships" Click here to download: MomentumTexts.com(Grab your copy before midnight on Saturday November 21st PT and you'll also get our free audio coaching bonus!)Follow Stephen @stephenhhusseyFollow Matt @thematthewhussey     Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ll keep this short, because I really want you to just get to the new episode and start listening. This is one of the coolest and most informative episodes I’ve ever made about how to create and sustain attraction in early dating... I talk about the 5 texting mistakes that kill attraction, and how to avoid them.If you’re sick of the lack of progression in early stage dating... If you’re tired of things never actually going anywhere… And you’re wondering what simple things you could be doing differently to change that… This episode is for you. Can’t wait to hear what you think.---►► P.S. Get on the early-bird list for my brand new program at MomentumTexts.com This is my BRAND NEW texting program that's the price of two cups of coffee (one cup if it's somewhere fancy!)Can't wait for you to dig in and learn all the secrets of keeping attraction through texting and connecting through your messages. Go check it out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever wondered what the right amount of effort to put in with a guy is? Should you let him know you’d like to go on a date with him? And what about after the date… Should you let him know you’d like to see him again if you felt the date went well but he’s not being proactive about setting up another one? Where is the line between showing a guy you like him, and chasing someone who’s simply not that interested? It can be tricky. But I want to make it simple.You may have heard me say, “Invest in those who invest in you.” But that could leave you wondering to yourself: “Fine Matthew, but so often that means I’m doing nothing because no one is investing in me! And doesn’t someone need to take the first step to invest something if anything is ever going to happen?” It’s a valid point. I’ll show you exactly how to solve this at the end of this episode, so make sure you listen all the way through!---►► Discover 7 Signs He’s Ready to Invest in You. Tap Below for Your FREE Guide: DoesHeLikeYou.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lockdown is back (for some of us). And if there ever was a year for online dating, 2020 is the biggest opportunity there will ever be to do it. In this episode, we talk:What makes you stand out in a dating profileAnnoying turn-offs to avoidWhy you STILL shouldn't want to try to compete with everyone else---Follow Stephen:Facebook - @stephenhusseywritesTwitter - @stephenhhusseyInstagram - @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is there a spooky presence lurking around you? Do you have a “ghost” in your love life? Are you the victim of a “haunting”? Is there a “zombie,” back from the dating-dead, knocking at your door all of a sudden? Are you like me and had to look up at least two of these three 2020 dating terms that have been created by twenty-something writers at magazine websites? I made a Halloween-themed episode about these – apparently new – dating phenomena. I tell you practically what you should do about each of them, and, most importantly, I simplify this whole convoluted, ridiculous mess. Basically, if you’ve got someone in your life who’s either treated you carelessly or simply not investing, this episode will tell you what to do. May my voice of reason forever haunt you in your dreams...;) ►► Don’t Waste Time & Energy. Find Love Faster: Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.