Love Life With Matthew Hussey

There are 2 kinds of men that can be dangerous to fall for: (1) the guy who is a “project”, (2) the bad boy.It’s common that we date similar types throughout our romantic life. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about why we look for these characters over and over again and how we can break free from chasing people who are wrong for us.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today: MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Does absence really make the heart grow fonder . . . especially when the person you’re into seems to forget you exist when you’re not in the same room?When you’re together, life couldn’t be better. You have off-the-charts chemistry, they’re totally focused on you, and your connection feels genuine.The catch?When you’re apart, you feel invisible as communication slows to a crawl and often drops off completely.As a result of these mixed signals, you’re essentially living in two completely different realities, and you’d do anything to get some clarity. You might even ask yourself: “Should I try to invest in this relationship even more to show how serious I am? Or would it be better to mirror their behavior and go cold?”In today’s episode, I walk you through what you must absolutely NOT DO in this hot and cold scenario . . . plus I give you two very specific text messages that can (finally!) get you out of this frustrating situation.---►► Unlock 67 Text Messages That Put You in Control & Move Your Life Forward: MomentumTexts.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Yeah, I said it.Have you ever been in love with someone who doesn't share your feelings You live in hope that one day they'll light up your phone with a text that says how much they can't live without you. Or, you fantasize that they'll leave their partner and run back into your arms. They'll say what a fool they've been and how much they need you by their side.It's romantic, right?Nope.And this kind of "perpetual hope" can be so dangerous for your relationships that I feel I have to say something to anyone out there still waiting for a crush to change their mind.Before you give your heart to someone who doesn't deserve it today, listen to this episode. It could save years of your life.---►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback: [email protected]►► Join our Love.Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.►► Download my FREE guide: MoveOnStrong.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Would you call yourself a people pleaser? Tell us how it shows up in your life…”And you answered!Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to look at your top responses to how you fall into the trap of people pleasing and the problems this causes in our lives.Do you say “yes” to things you don’t really want to do? Feel like you’re always giving emotional energy with nothing in return? Do you feel you have to avoid being your honest self in order to keep the peace and make everyone around you happy?If you’ve been here, you’re not alone. Listen to how you can find a balance between showing up for people you love without giving up your own happiness and sense of self.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them?Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s their success, wealth, or status (such as the example in today’s video) that has you feeling lucky whenever they turn their attention to you.Whatever it might be, the reaction we often have to this feeling is highly toxic for our happiness . . . because we start to shrink our needs.We become pleasers and find it almost impossible to set any kind of boundaries for fear that this will drive them away and they’ll disappear. After all, if they left, “Would I ever find anyone as amazing as them ever again?”Sound familiar? Then you’re going to like today’s brand-new episode.---►► To Unlock Your FREE Video Training, Go to: MoveOnStrong.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship?Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more?It’s a dreadful, sickening feeling. I know because I’ve felt it. It leads to regret, anxiety, self-loathing… not to mention a lack of appetite and insomnia. We turn over every memory, imagining where we could have been with that person had we just behaved differently.And this feeling isn’t limited to situations that have ended. Sometimes we are still seeing someone but we have this crippling anxiety over having irreversibly damaged the relationship. We feel we’ve created a perception of ourselves in that person’s eyes that we can’t now undo.If for any of these reasons you are currently torturing yourself, this video will be life-saving for you today. Trust me when I say it is essential watching.In this classic clip, I break down for you why you don’t need to be wallowing in pain, and why, despite everything that destructive voice inside is saying, you actually have reason to feel good today.Please also share this with someone you know who may be beating herself up right now. Life’s too short for any of us to suffer needlessly.I’m with you, friend. You’re loved.---►► My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you know if a guy has stopped trying, or if your anxious attachment-type fears are making you panic for no reason? In today's episode, Matt, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey talk about what to do when someone you're dating changes their level of affection and gives mixed signals, but says they want to be with you.If you tend to overthink and find yourself worrying your partner might have changed their view on the relationship, make sure to listen to this one!---►► My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you struggle to feel confident because you don’t like the way you look, make listening to this episode the top priority of your day today (and be sure to stay until the end for a special bonus!) I promise you won’t regret it.Your coach,Matthew x---►► My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You decided it’s time to break up.And now you’re single again. But for some reason you don’t feel at peace.You’re still haunted by that eternal question: Did I make a HUGE mistake?Even if it was YOU who decided to call off a relationship, at some point you’re always going to get that horrible feeling inside of you that questions your decision to dump someone.Your friends and family say it’s for the best. But maybe they don’t really know. Plus, there was that one friend who advised you to give things another try with this guy and now you’re even more lost and confused!In this clip, I’m going to show you an easy way to tell whether you made the right choice, and personally guide you out of this anxiety and indecision with simple but powerful change in mindset, so that you feel confident in your feelings and can let a relationship go in peace.Believe me, I know myself how easy it is to get stuck in this place for months only to come out of it and wonder why you wasted so much of your precious time worrying.---►► My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do if you’re dating a Narcissist?It’s one thing to recognise the signs: questioning your sanity, feeling devalued, never having your needs account for.But what about when you FINALLY decide you have to leave?That can be the hardest part.A narcissist can make you feel guilty. They can make you feel like you’re being impulsive, unfair, or even outright cruel for abandoning them.Taking the decision to get your life back can mean unwinding years of entanglement, but it’s the first step to real freedom, a clear mind, and a better life.In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson explain how you can overcome your doubts and get out of a toxic relationship once and for all.---My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up.Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Matt on Insta: @thematthewhusseyFollow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ve carefully designed these 7 steps to address the stages you’ll go through—in the exact order they’re likely to arrive. And while we all know this process can take an enormous amount of time to put into action, I hope these steps will serve as a compass that will keep you pointed toward your strength (in spite of any distractions the narcissist may try to throw your way).I also hope this video provides you with strength, acceptance, peace, and progress as you finally move on with your life and remember what it feels like to be free from the coercive control of the narcissist in your life.P.S. Even if you’re not in this situation, learning these principles in advance may save you a lot of time and grief down the road. And if you are going through this right now? Please know you’re not alone. I’m right here with you.---►► Create Your Next Chapter with Unstoppable Confidence. Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and join our transformational Virtual Retreat program in November! Get your spot TODAY! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There's a huge difference between settling FOR something in life and settling ON something. When we "settle for" something, it's often the result of us lowering our standards. We accommodate bad behavior and accept less than what we truly desire because we don't think we're worthy of it. We think "this might be as good as it's going to get" whether in our love life, family, or career.But when we "settle on" something, we take control of it. At this point, we're deciding that at the very least, this relationship or situation has the potential to meet enough of our criteria for true happiness. We choose it and actively commit to making it great. What happens next is that we feel connected to it, and as a result, we enjoy the process of sculpting it (even if it's not perfect at first).In this clip taken from my latest Virtual Retreat, I explain why I'm a big believer in this concept and how it can change your relationship with life.And if you want to spend 3 days of immersive coaching with me, then I'd love for you to join me for the final Virtual Retreat of the year happening November 11-13.Here we'll get to work together to help you decide where in life you're "settling for" less than you truly want and where you want to "settle on" sculpting the best version of yourself, your relationships, your career, and your confidence.---►► Head over to MHVirtualRetreat.com to learn more. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When a relationship ends, or someone stops calling after several dates, do you need to know why?What does it mean to get “closure” in dating?As humans we put a lot of emphasis on how things end.We want answers: “Was it the way I dressed? Is it something about my body? Or something I did that turned you off? Was it too desperate?!”But what answers are we looking for? And how much brutally honest truth do we really want to hear?Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson try to figure out whether closure is overrated, what explanation we’re owed when someone leaves, and how we can move on from rejection when it happens.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Download our free guide at MoveOnStrong.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dating is tough. The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition?The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there.I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of. But in today’s video, I cover the “what to say” part—specifically, how to stand out by asking one of 8 tried-and-tested questions I’ve put together for you.---►► Get my best solution to your current love life issue. To get started, go to: YourDatingSolution.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all long for financial independence, relationship bliss, greater familial connection, and a generally peaceful life with fewer hardships.But as it happens, life doesn’t care about the straight-line trajectory we've planned for ourselves.But life is cyclical and doesn’t trend in just one direction. This is why it is imperative for us to take our focus off of where we feel we “ought to be” and make peace with life as it is today.It is our job to cherish and learn from the wisdom gained from our past experiences instead of wishing things had gone a different way.None of this is easy, but it is possible. In this video I explain how.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Spot at MHVirtualRetreat.com and join us in November to start your personal transformation and get the confidence and life you deserve.►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's easy when we like someone to feel like we have to make excuses for their avoidant behaviour. Sometimes they may have genuine psychological issues that need to be resolved. But how much should you wait in limbo if the person you're dating still hasn't figured themselves out? Should their issues with their previous ex be an excuse to not move forward? And what can you do about it? Matt, Jameson, Stephen and Audrey sit down to talk about dating a celebrity, being a "challenge", valuing yourself, and much more!---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►►Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Download our free guide at MoveOnStrong.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Who pays on a first date?Six years ago, I made a controversial video tackling this very subject, and it went viral.Millions of people watched and reposted it (wikiHow even used it as the definitive video answer to the question) . . . It was so popular that it went viral AGAIN earlier this year when someone posted it under the title “Man Humbles a Room Full of Women.”So this week, I decided to make a reaction video to my own video.---►► Get My Best Solution to Your Current Love Life Issue. To Get Started, Go to: YourDatingSolution.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In the early stages of dating someone we like and feel excited about, everyone is worried about coming across too keen and blowing it. This is a very human experience felt by men and women alike. And it is that very emotion that will have us mute our needs and desires as we go into overdrive to impress the other person. But as we know, people like what they value, and communicating our standards early on is a key part of attraction we often overlook. Expressing your needs in early dating can seem daunting, and in this conversation with my friend Lisa Bilyeu on her channel Women of Impact, we talk about how we can get brave and do exactly that. If you want to know how to have the conversation about getting exclusive with the person you're seeing, I've created a brand-new free guide centered around how to define the relationship. It includes a script you can make your own and a comprehensive step-by-step guide that breaks down exactly how to ask for the things you want in a high-value way. ---►► You can get my guide at LeaveLimbo.com . . . it's totally free and I can't wait to hear what you think.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We asked men "what is the brutally honest truth about why you get scared of committing to someone?", and boy do we have some answers for you! Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about whether they agree with the reasons men give for avoiding commitment, what makes some men want to stay single, and what we can do to influence it.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Download our free guide: MoveOnStrong.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Does it sometimes feel like men are afraid of commitment?You could be dating someone for a few months—and have a ton of chemistry and a great emotional connection—and yet, like clockwork, you hit a wall the moment the relationship gets to a stage where it feels like it should be progressing to the next level. Just when you start to feel that this could be something real, he puts his guard up and isn’t ready to commit.Situations like these can be unbelievably painful, and they can leave you feeling crazy as you analyze the situation to death, wondering if you’re somehow not good enough.Well, in this brand-new episode, I’ll share with you 3 of the main reasons why a lot of men are afraid of commitment and what you can do to turn things around by circumventing those fears.---►► Get the Script to Go from Casual to Committed. Unlock Your FREE Video Training: GetTheFreeTraining.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is there someone in your life who keeps going hot and cold with the attention they're showing you? One minute they want to see you, and the next, you feel them pulling away...What's up with that?When someone you like disappears and then reappears, it's easy to drive yourself crazy trying to work out the BEST way to get their attention again. You think, "Do I ignore them to teach them a lesson? Do I play it cool and pretend it was no big deal? Or do I show them I'm hurt that they disappeared?"In this clip, I share with you an exact text message you can send them that will demonstrate your standards in a really attractive way.---►► If you want more of these texts, head over to WhatToTextNext.com, where you can download my FREE guide that gives you my 'Relationship Reframe Text' and helps you move from casual text exchanges to real emotional connection. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

One of the unchanging truths about love is that even though it's beautiful when we find it, there's always a chance we can lose it.But how do we move on from an old chapter when it's over? How do you develop the right mindset to get back in the game when you've faced a major setback?Matt and the team sit down to discuss starting over and why it can be both a painful and beautiful experience.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Download our brand new guide on "How To Define The Relationship". Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now.►► Download our guide to get back in the dating game at 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . .A woman goes on a date with a guy and they hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon, they’re seeing each other all the time. He’s texting her daily, making plans with her for the future, and every time his name pops up on her phone, she feels a surge of happiness and excitement.That very same excitement keeps hitting new peaks until, suddenly, she feels a shift. He grows more and more distant, and at first she’s not sure whether she’s imagining it or whether he really is pulling away. She doubles down on effort and communication, but it only seems to drive him further away until eventually he calls it a day and stops messaging altogether.If this has ever happened to you, then you know it can drive you crazy working out how to act when someone is clearly pulling away from you.But as it turns out, there is a right way and a wrong way to proceed when this happens, and it can determine whether someone stays or goes.In today’s episode, I’ll share with you the #1 reason why people pull away and a high-value way to respond to it.---►► Discover How to Heal Your Heart & Regain Your Confidence. Access Your FREE Training: MoveOnStrong.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's easy to feel like our struggles, or past, our pain, is holding us back in life. And I'm not here to pretend it's easy to deal with those burdens we carry with us. But they don't have to define you. In fact, if you choose, you can make them the start of a completely different story that gives you more power than you could possibly imagine.So today, here is a personal message on what it takes to create light even in the darkest moments...---►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback: [email protected]►► Join our Love.Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.►► Follow us on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you have a dating type? Have your previous relationships always been with a similar person, in terms of looks, personality or behavioural dynamics?It's easy for us to look at the past and tell ourselves, "This is who I am. This is who I like." And it can affect how we date now simply because of what we're used to. But is it helpful to lock ourselves in on a single kind of person? Or should our tastes be more flexible when finding love?Matt and the team talk about the topic of dating types and how to choose your compass when looking for the right person so that you focus on what really matters in love.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today: MHVirtualRetreat.com.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Download our brand new guide on "How To Define The Relationship". Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On dating apps, first impressions matter. And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . . That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?! You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think: Would a simple “hey” or “great photo” show a lack of imagination? I’d like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard to be authentic without seeming too eager . . . Many times, thoughts like these make us overthink everything to the point where we end up sending something awkward . . . or worse, not sending anything at all, letting the opportunity of connection pass us by. So how can we make an impression on people who haven’t yet had the chance to meet us and see how awesome we are?In today’s episode, I’m going to share with you 3 openers you can send right away to stand out on a dating app.---►► Join our VIP club! Come and start your membership and get access to weekly webinars with me and my team and amazing guest speakers (+ masterclasses and MUCH more). Go to ASKMH.com to join now!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Download my free guides and give your love life a kickstart today!►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You wouldn’t believe how many people read every blog, watch every YouTube video, and follow every Facebook post I put out, and yet still say: “Yeah, Matt… I get it. But there’s this one guy that I really like…” And because they’re so head-over-heels for this man, all of the advice goes out of the window.In this episode, I’m about to reveal 2 simple words that will tell you everything you need to know about men and how to get the love you really deserve…---►► Download our brand new guide on "How To Define The Relationship". Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now.►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today Matt and the team answer a listener who asks what she can do about fear of abandonment. When you're scared of someone else leaving, it can make you bail at the first sign of an argument or problem. You make assumptions and think the worst any time you have a negative moment.If you've struggled with the insecurity of worrying someone else will leave, this episode will give you some tools and mindsets to help feel more secure and clear about your worth and be comfortable in your relationship again.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE guide to download: “Top 5 Reasons Why Men Disappear”: WhyHesGone.com►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward. I really wanted to make this because the tone you set in the beginning will serve you throughout your entire relationship, and the influence you can have on being taken seriously by someone is huge. It can determine whether your relationship will be a casual one that’s on their terms, or a committed, loving one where you’re building something together.And in addition to being practical, this episode breaks down the psychology behind each of these tips and provides you with examples (and in many cases, specific texts) you can customize and make your own.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You may have at some point said to yourself: “I know a guy who acts really charming and friendly, but I have no idea if he actually LIKES me!”It’s annoying, right?Especially if the guy is a naturally charismatic guy anyway. How do you know if he has eyes for you, or if he’s just like that with every woman he meets?Taking the risk of putting yourself on the line for someone could mean embarrassment, rejection, or make things super-awkward between you both later on.You want to know when you have the green light. You want to be sure when it’s ok to flirt and test the waters.So in this clip, I’m going to show you the 7 obvious signs a guy REALLY likes you. It’s easy to miss these classic behaviors that show his interest, but trust me: men are much more predictable than you may think...---►► Download our brand new guide on "How To Define The Relationship": Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now.►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you truly feel like you had a once-in-a-lifetime connection, it can feel like you'll never get over a past relationship. Sometimes we can still idealize a relationship from years ago because we feel like we'll never replace that person. And then we get locked in a story: "I can never move on from this because that's the strongest chemistry I'll ever have".In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about how to change the story you tell yourself, what it takes to finally move on (and the importance of being sober about the person's flaws), and how to rethink the past so you don't get trapped in it.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE guide to download: “Top 5 Reasons Why Men Disappear”: WhyHesGone.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Over the years, have you found yourself repeatedly attracting:. . . people who appear to be emotionally unavailable?. . . selfish people who don’t respect you in both friendships and romantic relationships?. . . maybe even narcissists?Have you ever wondered why you seem to be a magnet for these kinds of toxic people? If any of this rings true, and you want to break this cycle, then this episode is for you.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Download my free guides and give your love life a kickstart today!►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to attraction, it's not enough to just have visual chemistry. Deep attraction - that keeps someone interested well beyond a few weeks - requires 4 different stages you need to progress through.In this video I explain the 4 stages in a live coaching call and show how you should decide when to invest more or less in a budding relationship.---►► Download our BRAND NEW guide on "How To Define The Relationship". Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now.►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Commitment in 2022 can mean many different things. Typically it means a decision to either be exclusive, or commit to a future together, and a decision to take yourself off the dating market entirely.But many of us can get into situations where WE DON’T EVEN KNOW if we’re in a committed partnership or not. We never know where we stand because we make assumptions and forget to define the relationship.In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson talk about some of the most common mistakes people make when it comes to going from dating to relationship and then discuss the conversation you SHOULD be having if you want real commitment.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► NEW FREE guide: “How To Define The Relationship”: LeaveLimbo.com►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been with a guy you were certain would never settle down? The type who would declare to all his friends that he just “wasn’t made” for a relationship . . . only to one day announce he’s in a serious relationship or even getting married?When this happens, we think, “What did the woman he committed to do that I didn’t?!”What makes a man suddenly decide to commit?In this week’s video, I not only dive into the answer to this question, but I also give you 4 practical pieces of psychology you can use to influence someone’s desire to commit to you.P.S. I can’t overstate how excited I am about the new gift at the end of this episode. I’ve been working on it for a while now and it will show you how you can define the relationship when you don’t know where you stand. I’m asked about this situation all the time, and this is the best practical tool I could come up with to help anyone in that situation.---►► Learn the 3 Practical Steps to Get Someone to Commit. Download My BRAND NEW Guide, for FREE: LeaveLimbo.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Just because we've accepted it's over, it doesn't mean we've truly moved on. We can still obssess, think about past times, and romanticize someone in a way that stops us ever moving forward. If you're stuck right now, don't miss this message and take your power back!---►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all like to think a great relationship is just about finding the right person. But it's not. It's also about how you communicate with that person. It's about the inner thoughts you share. The way you divide tasks. How you both share your worries. The time you schedule you together.In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to talk through a recent New York Times article by Catherine Pearson that made the case for 7 essential check-in questions to ask your partner.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I recently received this comment from one of my Love Life Club members, and I’m curious if you can relate:“I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable with the fact that I’m still single. I can’t help but wonder what’s wrong with me that I haven’t found something lasting yet . . .”This mindset is dangerous.Why? Because our anxiety about being single can lead us to make some really poor and damaging choices.It can turn our dating life into a game of musical chairs, where we scramble to find ANY “chair” for fear of being the only one left standing when the music stops.And as if the uncertainty wasn’t bad enough, it’s usually joined by its friends: shame and comparison. We often spend so much time dealing with these feelings that we forget to even make space for the behaviors that would actually move us closer to what we want.That’s why we need a shortcut, and today’s episode is just that.I share with you 7 mindsets that will take the anxiety out of being single. If applied, each of them has the potential to make a dramatic difference in your love life.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve all done it. We start to like someone and suddenly we’ve built a whole narrative around what our future could look like with them. They feel like a rare antidote we’ve stumbled across that will take us out of being single and into the relationship we so badly want.The issue is, in the process of doing this, we rob ourselves of the ability to enjoy the experience—too stuck in our heads to be in the moment.We also run the risk of self-sabotaging as we try to see danger where there isn’t any.In this clip, I share an easy and grounding phrase you can use RIGHT NOW to calm yourself down if you find yourself in this situation.---►► What’s been your experience when you’ve found yourself in this situation? I’d love to hear your story, email us: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's normal for us to date someone with a different attachment style from our own. But how do we know if someone is compatible with us longterm? And are there certain behaviours that tell us the relationship is ultimately doomed?In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss attachment styles, how we can communicate with someone who shows a behaviour that makes us unsure about them, and if your partner can ever change.---►► Join Matt's FREE 2-hour “Dating With Results” live training: DatingWithResults.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself?Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out first on an app, or allowing yourself to “let go” whilst on a date, this fear is the very thing that will have you looking back wistfully and saying “What if?” years from now rather than saying “Why not?” in the moment.Of course, in a world where people are constantly trying to curate and filter their lives, it’s no wonder most of us find it scary to try something where validation isn’t guaranteed.And while it might not be possible to feel completely immune to the fear of rejection, there are things you can do to move beyond that paralyzing anxiety.In today’s episode, I’m going to give you three secrets to changing your relationship with rejection . . .---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’ve got someone in your life who’s either treated you carelessly or simply not investing, check this episode out because I’ll tell you what to do.May my voice of reason forever haunt you in your dreams.I don’t want to spend more time giving energy to these terms and phenomena that aren’t what you want in the first place, I’d rather give time to finding people who are serious in your life.If you want to stop over analysing things that don’t matter, and start actually pursuing things that could matter, I have 3 habits for you that you can take on in your love life to start creating real results.Go to 3LoveHabits.com to get your free guide. Let’s start making progress and stop wasting time.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sometimes you're dating someone who gives you mixed signals. You feel you have amazing chemistry and he pays you lots of attention in person, but in between your dates it's like he's disappeared. Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk about what this could mean and how you can respond when there's a mismatch so you don't get stuck in limbo.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today's episode will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress.I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leaving is the right decision for you.I also break down a new model that will help you identify what to watch out for and the dangerous cocktail of certain traits we must avoid in someone . . . these are the traits that can make a relationship so toxic that over time, it will erode our confidence and identity to the point that leaving the relationship is the only option.Understanding this model may just save your self-respect, sanity, and happiness. And once you know how it works, red flags will be much easier to spot.This is an episode you’ll also want to return to anytime you’re stuck in that fog of fear and confusion and want to feel a sense of clarity . . . so you can stop second-guessing your choices and move on with confidence.P.S. I’d love to hear your comments on this. What’s a “dark pairing” you’ve experienced that made life really difficult? Email us at [email protected]►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tired of being trapped in limbo when someone doesn't know what they really want? It's easy for people to not want to commit while STILL craving the comfort of keeping you around. If you're stuck in this trap, listen to this NOW . . .---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You may have been dating a guy that seemed promising, until he said that ONE thing, or you saw ONE behaviour, and it totally turned you off. Or you've been together for 6 months, and your attraction has now turned to repulsion.This is "the ick", and in this episode, Matt, Stephen, and Audrey sit down to look at how this strange phenomenon occurs and what it says about attraction.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I talk about some of the top questions I’ve been asked on the topic of keeping someone's interest and when to sleep together—the ones that cause people to reach out to me in SOS mode—including:• When to have sex with someone you’re dating.• How to have the conversation about sex before you sleep together (and as a bonus, I even provide a sample script you can adapt).• How to handle rejection and ghosting.I promise you won’t have to worry about “losing your power” ever again, because you’ll be OK no matter the outcome.Your coach,Matthew x---►► Confused About Why Men Disappear? Download my FREE guide to find the top 5 answers: WhyHesGone.com►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you've ever expressed your needs to someone, or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you, and you were made to feel crazy, this video is for you.It's a horrible feeling when we are upset or anxious and we don't even know if what we are saying is reasonable or whether we are overreacting . . . That's why I'm so excited for you to see this - it's going to show you how to get your personal power back and make sense of the situation.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love": 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Where can I meet quality men?”I’ve probably been asked this question every day for the last 15 years.Between endless swiping on apps and being in the same friendship circles, many people struggle to even meet people they feel attracted to.But is there actually an untapped magical place teeming with single guys? Should you go to a Tough Mudder to find your (slightly-dirt-stained) person?In today’s episode, I get to the bottom of these questions and reveal how you can dramatically increase your chances of meeting someone amazing without having to venture too far out of your comfort zone.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► Take my FREE Love Life Quiz: HowToGetTheGuy.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s the #1 sexiest thing a woman can do on a first date?Play footsie under the table? Wear a low-cut V-neck sweater? Whisper, “Hey handsome” in his ear when he gives you a hug?Nope.While those things won’t by any means hurt your chances, what really makes a guy want you depends on how you make him feel in your company.He needs to feel intrigued. He needs to feel attractive. He needs to feel a sense of fun . . . This week, I’m going to teach you 5 killer lines you can say to any guy to fill him with great emotions and get him dying to see you again . . . ---►► Confused About Why Men Disappear? Download my FREE guide to find the top 5 answers: WhyHesGone.com►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.