Love Life With Matthew Hussey

On dating apps, first impressions matter. And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . . That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?! You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think: Would a simple “hey” or “great photo” show a lack of imagination? I’d like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard to be authentic without seeming too eager . . . Many times, thoughts like these make us overthink everything to the point where we end up sending something awkward . . . or worse, not sending anything at all, letting the opportunity of connection pass us by. So how can we make an impression on people who haven’t yet had the chance to meet us and see how awesome we are?In today’s episode, I’m going to share with you 3 openers you can send right away to stand out on a dating app.---►► Join our VIP club! Come and start your membership and get access to weekly webinars with me and my team and amazing guest speakers (+ masterclasses and MUCH more). Go to ASKMH.com to join now!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Download my free guides and give your love life a kickstart today!►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You wouldn’t believe how many people read every blog, watch every YouTube video, and follow every Facebook post I put out, and yet still say: “Yeah, Matt… I get it. But there’s this one guy that I really like…” And because they’re so head-over-heels for this man, all of the advice goes out of the window.In this episode, I’m about to reveal 2 simple words that will tell you everything you need to know about men and how to get the love you really deserve…---►► Download our brand new guide on "How To Define The Relationship". Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now.►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today Matt and the team answer a listener who asks what she can do about fear of abandonment. When you're scared of someone else leaving, it can make you bail at the first sign of an argument or problem. You make assumptions and think the worst any time you have a negative moment.If you've struggled with the insecurity of worrying someone else will leave, this episode will give you some tools and mindsets to help feel more secure and clear about your worth and be comfortable in your relationship again.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE guide to download: “Top 5 Reasons Why Men Disappear”: WhyHesGone.com►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward. I really wanted to make this because the tone you set in the beginning will serve you throughout your entire relationship, and the influence you can have on being taken seriously by someone is huge. It can determine whether your relationship will be a casual one that’s on their terms, or a committed, loving one where you’re building something together.And in addition to being practical, this episode breaks down the psychology behind each of these tips and provides you with examples (and in many cases, specific texts) you can customize and make your own.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You may have at some point said to yourself: “I know a guy who acts really charming and friendly, but I have no idea if he actually LIKES me!”It’s annoying, right?Especially if the guy is a naturally charismatic guy anyway. How do you know if he has eyes for you, or if he’s just like that with every woman he meets?Taking the risk of putting yourself on the line for someone could mean embarrassment, rejection, or make things super-awkward between you both later on.You want to know when you have the green light. You want to be sure when it’s ok to flirt and test the waters.So in this clip, I’m going to show you the 7 obvious signs a guy REALLY likes you. It’s easy to miss these classic behaviors that show his interest, but trust me: men are much more predictable than you may think...---►► Download our brand new guide on "How To Define The Relationship": Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now.►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you truly feel like you had a once-in-a-lifetime connection, it can feel like you'll never get over a past relationship. Sometimes we can still idealize a relationship from years ago because we feel like we'll never replace that person. And then we get locked in a story: "I can never move on from this because that's the strongest chemistry I'll ever have".In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about how to change the story you tell yourself, what it takes to finally move on (and the importance of being sober about the person's flaws), and how to rethink the past so you don't get trapped in it.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE guide to download: “Top 5 Reasons Why Men Disappear”: WhyHesGone.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Over the years, have you found yourself repeatedly attracting:. . . people who appear to be emotionally unavailable?. . . selfish people who don’t respect you in both friendships and romantic relationships?. . . maybe even narcissists?Have you ever wondered why you seem to be a magnet for these kinds of toxic people? If any of this rings true, and you want to break this cycle, then this episode is for you.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Download my free guides and give your love life a kickstart today!►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to attraction, it's not enough to just have visual chemistry. Deep attraction - that keeps someone interested well beyond a few weeks - requires 4 different stages you need to progress through.In this video I explain the 4 stages in a live coaching call and show how you should decide when to invest more or less in a budding relationship.---►► Download our BRAND NEW guide on "How To Define The Relationship". Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now.►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Commitment in 2022 can mean many different things. Typically it means a decision to either be exclusive, or commit to a future together, and a decision to take yourself off the dating market entirely.But many of us can get into situations where WE DON’T EVEN KNOW if we’re in a committed partnership or not. We never know where we stand because we make assumptions and forget to define the relationship.In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson talk about some of the most common mistakes people make when it comes to going from dating to relationship and then discuss the conversation you SHOULD be having if you want real commitment.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► NEW FREE guide: “How To Define The Relationship”: LeaveLimbo.com►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been with a guy you were certain would never settle down? The type who would declare to all his friends that he just “wasn’t made” for a relationship . . . only to one day announce he’s in a serious relationship or even getting married?When this happens, we think, “What did the woman he committed to do that I didn’t?!”What makes a man suddenly decide to commit?In this week’s video, I not only dive into the answer to this question, but I also give you 4 practical pieces of psychology you can use to influence someone’s desire to commit to you.P.S. I can’t overstate how excited I am about the new gift at the end of this episode. I’ve been working on it for a while now and it will show you how you can define the relationship when you don’t know where you stand. I’m asked about this situation all the time, and this is the best practical tool I could come up with to help anyone in that situation.---►► Learn the 3 Practical Steps to Get Someone to Commit. Download My BRAND NEW Guide, for FREE: LeaveLimbo.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Just because we've accepted it's over, it doesn't mean we've truly moved on. We can still obssess, think about past times, and romanticize someone in a way that stops us ever moving forward. If you're stuck right now, don't miss this message and take your power back!---►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all like to think a great relationship is just about finding the right person. But it's not. It's also about how you communicate with that person. It's about the inner thoughts you share. The way you divide tasks. How you both share your worries. The time you schedule you together.In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to talk through a recent New York Times article by Catherine Pearson that made the case for 7 essential check-in questions to ask your partner.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I recently received this comment from one of my Love Life Club members, and I’m curious if you can relate:“I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable with the fact that I’m still single. I can’t help but wonder what’s wrong with me that I haven’t found something lasting yet . . .”This mindset is dangerous.Why? Because our anxiety about being single can lead us to make some really poor and damaging choices.It can turn our dating life into a game of musical chairs, where we scramble to find ANY “chair” for fear of being the only one left standing when the music stops.And as if the uncertainty wasn’t bad enough, it’s usually joined by its friends: shame and comparison. We often spend so much time dealing with these feelings that we forget to even make space for the behaviors that would actually move us closer to what we want.That’s why we need a shortcut, and today’s episode is just that.I share with you 7 mindsets that will take the anxiety out of being single. If applied, each of them has the potential to make a dramatic difference in your love life.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve all done it. We start to like someone and suddenly we’ve built a whole narrative around what our future could look like with them. They feel like a rare antidote we’ve stumbled across that will take us out of being single and into the relationship we so badly want.The issue is, in the process of doing this, we rob ourselves of the ability to enjoy the experience—too stuck in our heads to be in the moment.We also run the risk of self-sabotaging as we try to see danger where there isn’t any.In this clip, I share an easy and grounding phrase you can use RIGHT NOW to calm yourself down if you find yourself in this situation.---►► What’s been your experience when you’ve found yourself in this situation? I’d love to hear your story, email us: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's normal for us to date someone with a different attachment style from our own. But how do we know if someone is compatible with us longterm? And are there certain behaviours that tell us the relationship is ultimately doomed?In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss attachment styles, how we can communicate with someone who shows a behaviour that makes us unsure about them, and if your partner can ever change.---►► Join Matt's FREE 2-hour “Dating With Results” live training: DatingWithResults.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself?Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out first on an app, or allowing yourself to “let go” whilst on a date, this fear is the very thing that will have you looking back wistfully and saying “What if?” years from now rather than saying “Why not?” in the moment.Of course, in a world where people are constantly trying to curate and filter their lives, it’s no wonder most of us find it scary to try something where validation isn’t guaranteed.And while it might not be possible to feel completely immune to the fear of rejection, there are things you can do to move beyond that paralyzing anxiety.In today’s episode, I’m going to give you three secrets to changing your relationship with rejection . . .---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’ve got someone in your life who’s either treated you carelessly or simply not investing, check this episode out because I’ll tell you what to do.May my voice of reason forever haunt you in your dreams.I don’t want to spend more time giving energy to these terms and phenomena that aren’t what you want in the first place, I’d rather give time to finding people who are serious in your life.If you want to stop over analysing things that don’t matter, and start actually pursuing things that could matter, I have 3 habits for you that you can take on in your love life to start creating real results.Go to 3LoveHabits.com to get your free guide. Let’s start making progress and stop wasting time.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sometimes you're dating someone who gives you mixed signals. You feel you have amazing chemistry and he pays you lots of attention in person, but in between your dates it's like he's disappeared. Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk about what this could mean and how you can respond when there's a mismatch so you don't get stuck in limbo.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today's episode will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress.I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leaving is the right decision for you.I also break down a new model that will help you identify what to watch out for and the dangerous cocktail of certain traits we must avoid in someone . . . these are the traits that can make a relationship so toxic that over time, it will erode our confidence and identity to the point that leaving the relationship is the only option.Understanding this model may just save your self-respect, sanity, and happiness. And once you know how it works, red flags will be much easier to spot.This is an episode you’ll also want to return to anytime you’re stuck in that fog of fear and confusion and want to feel a sense of clarity . . . so you can stop second-guessing your choices and move on with confidence.P.S. I’d love to hear your comments on this. What’s a “dark pairing” you’ve experienced that made life really difficult? Email us at [email protected]►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tired of being trapped in limbo when someone doesn't know what they really want? It's easy for people to not want to commit while STILL craving the comfort of keeping you around. If you're stuck in this trap, listen to this NOW . . .---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You may have been dating a guy that seemed promising, until he said that ONE thing, or you saw ONE behaviour, and it totally turned you off. Or you've been together for 6 months, and your attraction has now turned to repulsion.This is "the ick", and in this episode, Matt, Stephen, and Audrey sit down to look at how this strange phenomenon occurs and what it says about attraction.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I talk about some of the top questions I’ve been asked on the topic of keeping someone's interest and when to sleep together—the ones that cause people to reach out to me in SOS mode—including:• When to have sex with someone you’re dating.• How to have the conversation about sex before you sleep together (and as a bonus, I even provide a sample script you can adapt).• How to handle rejection and ghosting.I promise you won’t have to worry about “losing your power” ever again, because you’ll be OK no matter the outcome.Your coach,Matthew x---►► Confused About Why Men Disappear? Download my FREE guide to find the top 5 answers: WhyHesGone.com►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you've ever expressed your needs to someone, or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you, and you were made to feel crazy, this video is for you.It's a horrible feeling when we are upset or anxious and we don't even know if what we are saying is reasonable or whether we are overreacting . . . That's why I'm so excited for you to see this - it's going to show you how to get your personal power back and make sense of the situation.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love": 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Where can I meet quality men?”I’ve probably been asked this question every day for the last 15 years.Between endless swiping on apps and being in the same friendship circles, many people struggle to even meet people they feel attracted to.But is there actually an untapped magical place teeming with single guys? Should you go to a Tough Mudder to find your (slightly-dirt-stained) person?In today’s episode, I get to the bottom of these questions and reveal how you can dramatically increase your chances of meeting someone amazing without having to venture too far out of your comfort zone.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th.►► Take my FREE Love Life Quiz: HowToGetTheGuy.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s the #1 sexiest thing a woman can do on a first date?Play footsie under the table? Wear a low-cut V-neck sweater? Whisper, “Hey handsome” in his ear when he gives you a hug?Nope.While those things won’t by any means hurt your chances, what really makes a guy want you depends on how you make him feel in your company.He needs to feel intrigued. He needs to feel attractive. He needs to feel a sense of fun . . . This week, I’m going to teach you 5 killer lines you can say to any guy to fill him with great emotions and get him dying to see you again . . . ---►► Confused About Why Men Disappear? Download my FREE guide to find the top 5 answers: WhyHesGone.com►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends July 6th. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you worry about attracting the wrong people? Feel like you struggle to trust that a partner won’t betray you or turn out to be different than you predicted? In this episode, Matt talks about how you can overcome your fear of choosing the wrong person and build self-trust.---►► Design Your North Star With Men & Be Confident in Every Decision. Claim Your Early Bird Discount for The Virtual Retreat: MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

One of the biggest frustrations about red flags is that they can be filtered out by our rose-colored glasses, only allowing us to see them clearly in hindsight.But there are ways to appropriately respond to red flags in early dating (if you can spot them), and in this episode, I show you one way to “crack the code” . . .That is, of course, to always have a North Star.This week, I walk through what, exactly, a North Star is, why it’s so important to have in order to be successful in dating, and how to choose one . . .---►► Design Your North Star With Men & Be Confident in Every Decision. Claim Your Early Bird Discount for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Don't "jump the gun" and get ahead of yourself just because you meet someone you like. If you fall hard for people too early, this message from Matt is for you . . .---►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Want to know what he's really thinking on a first date? What do men worry about when looking for love? Matt and Stephen asked thousands of men in our audience about their BIGGEST insecurities and the answers were pretty amazing. If you want a real eye-opening window into male fears and his psychology in dating, you're going to love this. --- ►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.  ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey ►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected]  ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So, this wasn't the episode we planned to release this week. But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn't wait to talk about it. I asked men about their specific insecurities when it comes to early dating. And what we got back was more vulnerable and real than anyone expected. Not only that, but the women's responses to the men's candid comments were beautiful.The incredible responses also brought up some themes, which I decided to take closer look at in this episode. These include:Men's top insecurities, including how they feel insecure about being insecure.Helpful ways to validate our partner if they feel insecure.How to manage our feelings when the insecurity we see in someone else reminds us of our own insecurities.This episode is all about bravery and kindness, and my goal is that by the end of it, you will understand and be able to relate to men a little better.Your coach,Matt---►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey ►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever felt let down from someone who promised to call but never did? Listen to this clip of Matt live coaching on how to move on when you feel disappointed from ghosting and build your confidence back today.---►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected]►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.►► Follow Matt on Instagram: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is it too picky to want to date who shares similar qualities to you? And when should you be more open-minded about who you choose a relationship with?Join Matt and Stephen to talk about pickiness, standards, and mindsets that can make finding love harder.---►► Download your FREE guide: 9Texts.com ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey ►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you’re dating in 2022, you can almost be sure that the person in front of you on that first date is dating multiple people at the same time. This omnipresent truth can make you nervous as you so desperately want to stand out from the crowd.The truth is, we all want so badly to be unforgettable on a date . . . but actually making that happen can feel tricky.In the pursuit of “making someone like us,” we may give in to the knee-jerk reaction of trying to impress them, or worse . . . people please.Even though we told ourselves we’d be chill and genuine, we suddenly find ourselves working our most spectacular moments into conversation, hoping they’ll see us for the treasure we are.Or we get so nervous that our walls go up and we lose all warmth and become sarcastic and cutting instead.These performances will often have us showcasing the more insecure sides of ourselves, taking the focus away from the purpose of being on that date in the first place: connection.But luckily, truly connecting—and making yourself memorable—is much simpler than that.---►► Get My Secrets to Mastering the First 5 Minutes of Any Situation. Download Your FREE Guide Now: First5Guide.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)?Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people?It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want.In this video, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening.At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this...Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person...---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected]►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s very common that we hear from women who say “men are intimidated by me!”But what causes this? Is it male insecurity? Do men instinctively get turned off by a woman’s success, income, or assertiveness?In this episode, Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about how this happens, what it means for our dating lives, and the dating dynamics between men and women.---►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you get nervous that you’re not good enough? Feel a deep inner worry that you’re a “fraud” waiting to get found out?This is called “Imposter Syndrome”, and it’s a common trap that can make us live with SO much unnecessary anxiety and it holds us back from opportunities.In this clip, Matt explains how to defeat imposter syndrome with a simple mindset reframe.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship.There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, which says that sex should be amazing from the start and is entirely about natural chemistry.Then there’s the “sexual growth” mindset, which says that sex can improve over time and couples can work out sexual differences.In this episode, Matt and Stephen discuss the difference between these mindsets and what they mean for a potential relationship.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When a relationship with someone we had strong feelings for (or even loved) ends, we tend to get overwhelmed with emotions.Whether we were with them for a short period of time or in a long, committed relationship, these feelings are universal.They can come in the form of raw heartbreak, the feeling that we’ve lost control over our happiness, a paralyzing fear that they might move on, an overwhelming desperation to get them back, or simply the pain of missing someone who used to be a constant in our life.The trouble is, when heartbreak, control, fear, desperation, or pain are at the wheel, the desire to make ourselves feel better becomes insatiable and this will in turn start to dictate how we conduct ourselves. The solution? Setting yourself a goal.Perhaps you’ve heard of the “No Contact Rule” but don’t know exactly what it entails, or maybe it sounds a little too counterintuitive for how you feel right now, especially if you’re holding out hope that you could still get back together . . .Well, I’m here to tell you that’s not the case, and in this episode, I distill the best I’ve learned about breakups and the "No Contact Rule" into everything you need to know on the topic, including what you can say at different stages.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Has this ever happened to you?You’re on a first date . . . and . . .He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry . . .But at the end of the night . . . he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth).If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that make him reach across the table and say:“I’d really like to see you again.”In this clip, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and again) . . . (You might be surprised at how simple this is AND how often you’re skipping this step when you’re interacting with a guy you like, especially in the early stages of dating . . .)It’s genuinely crazy to me how obvious the phrase in this video is, how simple it would be for people to say, how many more second dates it would get them . . . and yet, they still aren’t doing it. I’m excited to read your thoughts in the comments.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected]►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do if you feel a special connection, but he keeps you waiting on the big question of commitment?In a spontaneous Instagram live, Matt recently coached a follower who was struggling with this exact dilemma.If you’re sick of sitting in the “waiting room” and hoping for something to change, make sure you listen to this message.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness.But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person?Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to whether their sporadic phone usage is consistent in their life or reserved just for you.At some point, they might’ve even shared a generic line with you like, “I’m so rubbish with my phone,” or “I’m really bad at replying to people!” But is this really true?In this week’s video, I not only answer these questions, but I dig into a really common mistake people make in this area.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What should you look for BEFORE you even enter into a new relationship, to figure out if your attachment styles are compatible?Having a reliable and steady partner may not get as much attention as other “sexier” attributes, but it really is a beautiful thing.Knowing you can depend on someone romantically, physically, and emotionally can draw you even closer together—strengthening your growing bond.In this episode, Matt explains what it takes to avoid codependency and have the kind of healthy partnership that means you both flourish, instead of creating a scenario where you are excusing toxic behaviour.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected]►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again.In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel this way towards certain people with negative traits and how we can heal so we align with the right kind of partner for us.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What does it mean when someone you dated—a guy you still like even though things fizzled out—is still engaging with your social media.Maybe you went on a few dates, had a connection, and even got physical, but it didn’t quite go anywhere.Yet, strangely, he still seems to be keeping a watchful eye on what you get up to on social media.Immediately, the gears of your mind start turning as you analyze the timing and the meaning of each emoji he sends in response to the photo of your night out with your friends.In this week’s brand-new episode, Matt dives into the psychology behind his actions to reveal exactly what it means when someone likes your social posts (but doesn’t reach out in any other way) . . .. . . and most importantly, what you should do about it.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It doesn't matter how many great qualities they have if they have one or more lethal negative traits that make it impossible to get your needs met. In this episode, Matt talks about toxic relationship behaviours to watch out for in every stage of dating.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

No matter how far we’ve come, there is still a stigma in society for people who choose to remain single for longer than the average person. And this leads to all kinds of judgment: you must be sad, you must want a partner, you must have a problem . . .  Matt, Stephen, and Audrey discuss why “single-shaming” persists and how to avoid feeling the pressure from society in influencing your decisions about your romantic life.--- ►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire.These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out.Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.)---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you find you fall in love too quickly or feel you NEVER fall in love, this clip explains why either extreme might be preventing you from finding a relationship.Whether you want to stop chasing perfection or need to slow down and enjoy gradually getting to know someone new, it is possible to get out of your usual pattern (and enjoy the process!)---►► Protect your time, energy & your heart . . . Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live "Dating With Results" virtual event on April 19th here: DatingWithResults.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"How do I let go of someone I absolutely adore?"What if you met the "right person at the wrong time?"Many people have been through the feeling of someone breaking up with them because of a specific obstacle. It makes us think, if only that wasn't an issue, we would be perfect.If you've struggled to move on from someone who seemed perfect for you, join Matt for this solo episode to learn how to finally let go and get over the one who got away.---►► Protect your time, energy & your heart... Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live Training Here: DatingWithResults.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ve heard this story so many times before . . . You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection.What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair.When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?”You feel amazing. Over the next few weeks, it’s a whirlwind.He wants to spend every waking minute together, he’s outspoken about his feelings for you, and upon waking, you always have a “Good morning, gorgeous!” text waiting for you.He may even go so far as to introduce you to his friends and family. . . or say those three little words that so many others have struggled to say to you in the past . . .It’s intense and fast, but it feels so good that you just let the romance sweep you off your feet.Overnight, your life has turned into one of those romantic movie montages that show the highlight reel of a perfect relationship, except instead of the montage spanning a year or two, it’s hitting those milestones after a few weeks. And then, of course, it happens . . . something feels wrong, the communication slows down, he starts to pull away, and before you know it, he vanishes completely.You’re left dazed, shellshocked, and wounded—fully relating to the term “love bombing” and wondering if any of it was even real. If this sounds familiar, then this episode is for you as I share 3 tests that will help you spot a love bomber.---►► Protect your time, energy & your heart... Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live Training Here: DatingWithResults.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected]  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.