Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Breakups are hard. Really hard. Especially if you didn’t do the breaking up.You’re left with questions about your own self-worth. You punish yourself for your deficiencies. You retrace the steps of the relationship like a detective on a mission to find out where you screwed up.And so we meet Roy, the subject of our clip today. Now you know Roy’s story. What can he do to wake from this fever dream? Let’s find out.Please share this episode someone who needs to hear this message.---►► If you want a free guide to accompany this episode—one that can help you finally move on from someone and recover—head to: MoveOnStrong.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you have a relationship that you are unwilling to lose, but that causes you daily resentment and frustration? Where you feel like you are giving, but not getting much in return?In this solo episode, Matt explains how to take a step back and reassess a toxic or difficult relationship we want to keep in our lives, whether it’s reasonable to expect someone to change, and what we can do to protect ourselves if we are going to endure relationships that drain our energy.---►► FREE download: "9 Texts No Man Can Resist": 9texts.com►► FREE download: "5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You": SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Let’s just take it day by day.” “We may not be ‘official,’ but I basically act like your boyfriend. Aren’t actions enough for you?” “I like you too much to be with you . . .”Any of these sound familiar?Trying to decode the excuses guys give for the reason why they don’t want an exclusive relationship can get incredibly confusing. How is it that you can have great communication with a guy in nearly every area . . . yet when it comes to talking about the relationship, you feel like you’re speaking different languages?For today’s brand-new episode, I asked you to send me the “most confusing thing a guy’s ever said to you,” and you didn’t disappoint. From classic excuses to creative new ones, you’ll learn how to figure out whether what he’s saying is actually a red flag indicating that he’s just looking for something casual with you, or whether it’s safe to proceed. Together we’ll walk through 9 of the top excuses so you know how to spot them in the future and avoid unnecessary pain.--- ►► HOLIDAY SPECIAL! Unlock 67 Text Messages That Put You in Control & Move Your Life Forward + 4 Special Bonuses: MomentumTexts.com►► FREE download: "9 Texts No Man Can Resist": 9texts.com►► FREE download: "5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You": SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You're on a date with someone.You're both sharing stories. He tells you that he plays the guitar. You notice that he seems really proud when he tells you about playing his first gig.Then without missing a moment, you start enthusiastically telling him about your friend who's also in a band, is the best guitarist you've ever seen, and has just released and album.Suddenly, his eyes narrow and he seems emotionally checked out, maybe even less interested.Why? What happened?In this episode with my brother Stephen, I'm going to reveal a simple flirting mistake that is all too easily made, and why it's can be such a turnoff to guys in dating.---►► Want to learn more about the psychology of attraction in dating? Download a free chapter of our bestselling program at GetTheFreeChapter.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There may be few more controversial and divisive topics than that of watching porn in relationships. For some, it’s cheating. For others, it’s a useful way to balance out differences in sexual appetites. For others still, it can be a fun thing for couples to share and explore sexually together. So in this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson get together to discuss healthy vs unhealthy attitudes to porn, how to communicate your boundaries around porn in a relationship, and what to do when it becomes something that drives you apart.--- ►► FREE download: "9 Texts No Man Can Resist": 9texts.com►► FREE download: "5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You": SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In the early days of dating, figuring out if someone is actually open to a relationship is key.But what does it mean when you ask them whether they're interested in a committed relationship and they respond, "I could be open to that. . . with the right person"?This sentence can make us feel safe to dive in, but do we really know whether they're truly looking for a relationship. . . or just telling us what we want to hear?In today's episode, I give you three things to look for in those early days to limit the guesswork and know if things are actually progressing toward real commitment.---►► FREE download: "9 Texts No Man Can Resist": 9texts.com►► FREE download: "5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You": SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Compliments are like gifts. In fact, they’re even better, because the right compliment can be something the receiver never forgets. When in a relationship, most people don’t give enough compliments, despite them being so powerful in creating connection and making people feel loved. So here are 3 compliments men love to hear that can get you started! --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever had a guy say things that give you completely mixed messages? Or you've heard a phrase several times and are left scratching your head wondering what it actually means? You're not alone. In this episode we asked YOU for your best examples of confusing phrases you've heard from guys and got together to crack the code once and for all! --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You felt like the date couldn’t have gone better. They told you they had the best time, and as soon as you got home, you started counting down the minutes until you could see them again . . . Except you never got that second date. Why would someone disappear after saying they had a really great time? Today’s episode reveals the #1 reason why this happens, and what you can do about it. I’ll give you a hint: chemistry is the key factor that turns a first date into a second one—and in this new video, I show you 7 simple ways to create incredible chemistry on a date. These tips are the difference between someone thinking, “Well, that was nice,” and someone telling themselves, “I must see this person again!” Whether you’re headed out on a first date tonight or just want reignite attraction with someone you’ve already been out with, this video is for you. (And if you’ve ever wondered what to text someone after a date to leave them wanting more, don’t miss tip #7.) --- Download "The Momentum Texts" >> MomentumTexts.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Back in ye olden times, the fear that a partner might be cheating was enough to keep someone up at night. But in recent years, we’ve added a new layer of anxiety to the mix: “micro-cheating,” a.k.a. “back burner relationships.” In fact, when Psychology Today recently polled people who are in a relationship, 56% revealed they had a back burner person: someone they’re in contact with who could be an option if their current relationship doesn’t go the distance. That’s not to say that everyone realizes what they’re doing. Many feel it’s harmless—that they’re just being friendly and keeping in touch with a friend. Today’s clip will give you a simple test to figure out if you’re in a back burner relationship, and provide you with the mindset you need to give your current one its best shot. --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why are toxic relationships so hard to leave? One reason is because you hold onto the small good moments and fail to acknowledge the extent of the bad. And when we feel sympathy for someone, this also makes us doubt ourselves. We think "Maybe I'm wrong?", "Maybe I'm being too harsh on this person?", "Maybe it's actually ok?" In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about how to get the courage to let go of a narcissistic or toxic relationship and feel certain in your decision when you keep doubting yourself.---►► Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever created an entire relationship in your head before going on a date with someone? Perhaps you’ve been texting with them for weeks and have already deduced they could be “The One,” or maybe you live for the two minutes of conversation you have with them before spin class. And in order to fan the flames of your excitement, you turn into a social media detective, where their posts and information become “compatibility clues” that either build up or tear down the relationship you’ve created in your mind . . . Unfortunately, living in our heads in this way can turn into obsessing, and render us incapable of feeling excited about anything other than seeing or hearing from that person. In other words, they occupy a space in our minds they’ve not yet earned! In this week’s new video, I share with you the mindsets that can both help and hurt you in dating, as well as the best way to determine if you and this person could really work out. --- LAST CHANCE to join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them. In this clip, Matt and Stephen explain why this happens and how you SHOULD respond when the warning signs appear. . . --- ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In a previous episode, we talked about the struggles dating can pose when women are thinking about their desire for children and their biological clock, and all the associated anxieties that can come with it. And we had some incredible and thoughtful responses to what is rightfully a very difficult and emotional topic to discuss (but also an essential one). In this episode, we take the conversation further and look at the disparity between men and women in future planning, why freezing your eggs and planning fertility can be its own enormous challenge, and how to think about making decisions about the future you want when you haven't met the right person yet. --- Download my free guides and give your love life a kickstart today! ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s Halloween time, and for the occasion, in today’s video I talk about what might be the most insidious form of ghosting. If someone ghosts you after a couple of tepid dates (which doesn’t feel good, don’t get me wrong) you can usually assume they just weren’t feeling the chemistry . . . But what does it mean when someone pulls away after saying they want to be exclusive, or after texting constantly and telling you they want to see you all the time? In this brand-new episode, I give you three reasons why someone might do this, what you should do when it happens, and the strange reason why they may choose to ghost but leave the door open. You can’t miss this topic! ►► Protect Your Time & Energy. Move On Strong in Your Love Life. Unlock Your FREE Video Training at . . . → http://www.MoveOnStrong.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever notice how you completely fall apart when you try to speak to that guy you’re really attracted to? It’s like with your best friends you can be effortlessly funny, talkative, and smart, then suddenly you’re talking to this guy and your brain turns to mush. Then begins the negative self-talk: “I’m not pretty enough,” “I have nothing interesting to say,” “He’s not going to like me.” It’s like you instantly lose all of your game. You go into “impress” mode. You over-analyze everything you say. You get in your head. Instead of just having fun in the moment, you start playing it cautious, like you’re in a game of chess and the stakes are life and death. If you want to finally stop putting guys on a pedestal and instill new empowering beliefs that will make you bring your best to the table (no matter who you’re talking to) listen to this clip before you do anything else... --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do when you're not attracted to men who want you, and the men you ARE attracted to are unwilling to commit? In life, as we get older, we can find the dating world changing around us. We want different things, we're not as young and carefree as we were in our twenties, and we feel like we want something serious in this phase of our life. In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson go deep on the dilemma of attracting the wrong people when you want to get serious, how to get excited to date again after facing painful life events, and what to do if you're facing the possibility of never finding the love you're looking for. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you feel like your brain is wired wrong because despite your better judgment, you’re only attracted to the bad boys or the players? You know . . . you love the idea of a great, stable guy who treats you right, but somehow you’ve become so accustomed to the highs and lows of roller-coaster relationships that you can’t imagine feeling chemistry with such a man. At this point, you may be asking yourself if it’s possible to feel a spark with someone who isn’t always playing games with you . . . In this episode, I’ll give you 3 ways to create real attraction with the right kind of guy . . . because glorifying unavailable people is a recipe for heartbreak, so instead, we can start learning to enjoy healthy attention and find a loving partner. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The technique I give in this clip shows us how to feel connected to the things we have to do in our day so that we don’t become list-checking zombies with no real joy in our lives. You can use it to be ultra-productive AND happy at the same time. This technique has become an indispensable part of my daily practice. Perhaps it will for you too. --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected] --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There are certain types of romantic partners who present themselves as having amazing qualities: deep, thoughtful, self-aware, spiritually evolved… But, can these qualities be just another form of seduction that hides ego and selfishness? What if someone is good at appearing have all the right character traits, but then you find out yourself feeling neglected or hurt when you’re in a relationship with them? Matt, Steve, Audrey and Jameson talk about how you can get fooled by first impressions, and what to look for to know if someone is actually going to have the traits of a great partner. --- ►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today: MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What can you do when you’re sick of the excuses and deep down want to see them more? Well, you can listen to this brand new Matt Monday, in which I’ll share with you how to avoid the most common mistake in this scenario and finally see some progress. --- Get the Exact Scripts to Communicate Confidently in Dating. Unlock a Chapter from How to Talk to Men for FREE → http://www.GetTheFreeChapter.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-watch for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end. In this clip, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over your pain, but how to deal with it while you’re still in the middle of it—perhaps even in the worst phase, when it feels like it’ll never go away. I’m here for you. P.S. This video may be the greatest gift you can give a friend or family member who is experiencing this kind of pain right now. Who could you send this to to help them get through the day? --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected] --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you want marriage and kids? Feel like you have a sense of urgency because of your biological clock?It’s common for our desires for the future to bring up all kinds of anxieties in dating. Especially when we are torn between “playing it cool”, or being honest and up front about what we want (which could scare someone away!)In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson dive into the thorny topic of how to handle dating and honest communication when you feel hyper aware of your biological clock and want to make plans for the future.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Wondering why the guy you’re seeing doesn’t seem to respect you? You might be surprised by the reason . . .If your tendency is toward anxiety, you’ll go to great lengths just to restore the peace and get things “back to normal” as quickly as possible.This often includes the compulsion to say “sorry” even when something’s not your fault.The danger with this is that when we make it clear to someone that we’ll do anything to avoid difficult conversations, it becomes easy for them to take us for granted . . .If any of this sounds familiar, you will not want to miss the 3 tips I share in today’s episode. Not only will you learn how to honor your own needs and boundaries, but you’ll also raise your value in the process. What’s more, you’ll do so by actually living your life rather than simply existing in a state of perpetual people pleasing and anxiety.---►► Break Your Negative Patterns & Build Unstoppable Confidence. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat: MHVirtualRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you struggle too much inside your head when you like someone, especially if it doesn't feel like it's quite going your way, this clip is going to help make sense of things.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today: MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There are 2 kinds of men that can be dangerous to fall for: (1) the guy who is a “project”, (2) the bad boy.It’s common that we date similar types throughout our romantic life. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about why we look for these characters over and over again and how we can break free from chasing people who are wrong for us.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today: MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Does absence really make the heart grow fonder . . . especially when the person you’re into seems to forget you exist when you’re not in the same room?When you’re together, life couldn’t be better. You have off-the-charts chemistry, they’re totally focused on you, and your connection feels genuine.The catch?When you’re apart, you feel invisible as communication slows to a crawl and often drops off completely.As a result of these mixed signals, you’re essentially living in two completely different realities, and you’d do anything to get some clarity. You might even ask yourself: “Should I try to invest in this relationship even more to show how serious I am? Or would it be better to mirror their behavior and go cold?”In today’s episode, I walk you through what you must absolutely NOT DO in this hot and cold scenario . . . plus I give you two very specific text messages that can (finally!) get you out of this frustrating situation.---►► Unlock 67 Text Messages That Put You in Control & Move Your Life Forward: MomentumTexts.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Yeah, I said it.Have you ever been in love with someone who doesn't share your feelings You live in hope that one day they'll light up your phone with a text that says how much they can't live without you. Or, you fantasize that they'll leave their partner and run back into your arms. They'll say what a fool they've been and how much they need you by their side.It's romantic, right?Nope.And this kind of "perpetual hope" can be so dangerous for your relationships that I feel I have to say something to anyone out there still waiting for a crush to change their mind.Before you give your heart to someone who doesn't deserve it today, listen to this episode. It could save years of your life.---►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback: [email protected]►► Join our Love.Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.►► Download my FREE guide: MoveOnStrong.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Would you call yourself a people pleaser? Tell us how it shows up in your life…”And you answered!Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to look at your top responses to how you fall into the trap of people pleasing and the problems this causes in our lives.Do you say “yes” to things you don’t really want to do? Feel like you’re always giving emotional energy with nothing in return? Do you feel you have to avoid being your honest self in order to keep the peace and make everyone around you happy?If you’ve been here, you’re not alone. Listen to how you can find a balance between showing up for people you love without giving up your own happiness and sense of self.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them?Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s their success, wealth, or status (such as the example in today’s video) that has you feeling lucky whenever they turn their attention to you.Whatever it might be, the reaction we often have to this feeling is highly toxic for our happiness . . . because we start to shrink our needs.We become pleasers and find it almost impossible to set any kind of boundaries for fear that this will drive them away and they’ll disappear. After all, if they left, “Would I ever find anyone as amazing as them ever again?”Sound familiar? Then you’re going to like today’s brand-new episode.---►► To Unlock Your FREE Video Training, Go to: MoveOnStrong.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship?Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more?It’s a dreadful, sickening feeling. I know because I’ve felt it. It leads to regret, anxiety, self-loathing… not to mention a lack of appetite and insomnia. We turn over every memory, imagining where we could have been with that person had we just behaved differently.And this feeling isn’t limited to situations that have ended. Sometimes we are still seeing someone but we have this crippling anxiety over having irreversibly damaged the relationship. We feel we’ve created a perception of ourselves in that person’s eyes that we can’t now undo.If for any of these reasons you are currently torturing yourself, this video will be life-saving for you today. Trust me when I say it is essential watching.In this classic clip, I break down for you why you don’t need to be wallowing in pain, and why, despite everything that destructive voice inside is saying, you actually have reason to feel good today.Please also share this with someone you know who may be beating herself up right now. Life’s too short for any of us to suffer needlessly.I’m with you, friend. You’re loved.---►► My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you know if a guy has stopped trying, or if your anxious attachment-type fears are making you panic for no reason? In today's episode, Matt, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey talk about what to do when someone you're dating changes their level of affection and gives mixed signals, but says they want to be with you.If you tend to overthink and find yourself worrying your partner might have changed their view on the relationship, make sure to listen to this one!---►► My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you struggle to feel confident because you don’t like the way you look, make listening to this episode the top priority of your day today (and be sure to stay until the end for a special bonus!) I promise you won’t regret it.Your coach,Matthew x---►► My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You decided it’s time to break up.And now you’re single again. But for some reason you don’t feel at peace.You’re still haunted by that eternal question: Did I make a HUGE mistake?Even if it was YOU who decided to call off a relationship, at some point you’re always going to get that horrible feeling inside of you that questions your decision to dump someone.Your friends and family say it’s for the best. But maybe they don’t really know. Plus, there was that one friend who advised you to give things another try with this guy and now you’re even more lost and confused!In this clip, I’m going to show you an easy way to tell whether you made the right choice, and personally guide you out of this anxiety and indecision with simple but powerful change in mindset, so that you feel confident in your feelings and can let a relationship go in peace.Believe me, I know myself how easy it is to get stuck in this place for months only to come out of it and wonder why you wasted so much of your precious time worrying.---►► My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do if you’re dating a Narcissist?It’s one thing to recognise the signs: questioning your sanity, feeling devalued, never having your needs account for.But what about when you FINALLY decide you have to leave?That can be the hardest part.A narcissist can make you feel guilty. They can make you feel like you’re being impulsive, unfair, or even outright cruel for abandoning them.Taking the decision to get your life back can mean unwinding years of entanglement, but it’s the first step to real freedom, a clear mind, and a better life.In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson explain how you can overcome your doubts and get out of a toxic relationship once and for all.---My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up.Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Matt on Insta: @thematthewhusseyFollow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ve carefully designed these 7 steps to address the stages you’ll go through—in the exact order they’re likely to arrive. And while we all know this process can take an enormous amount of time to put into action, I hope these steps will serve as a compass that will keep you pointed toward your strength (in spite of any distractions the narcissist may try to throw your way).I also hope this video provides you with strength, acceptance, peace, and progress as you finally move on with your life and remember what it feels like to be free from the coercive control of the narcissist in your life.P.S. Even if you’re not in this situation, learning these principles in advance may save you a lot of time and grief down the road. And if you are going through this right now? Please know you’re not alone. I’m right here with you.---►► Create Your Next Chapter with Unstoppable Confidence. Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and join our transformational Virtual Retreat program in November! Get your spot TODAY! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There's a huge difference between settling FOR something in life and settling ON something. When we "settle for" something, it's often the result of us lowering our standards. We accommodate bad behavior and accept less than what we truly desire because we don't think we're worthy of it. We think "this might be as good as it's going to get" whether in our love life, family, or career.But when we "settle on" something, we take control of it. At this point, we're deciding that at the very least, this relationship or situation has the potential to meet enough of our criteria for true happiness. We choose it and actively commit to making it great. What happens next is that we feel connected to it, and as a result, we enjoy the process of sculpting it (even if it's not perfect at first).In this clip taken from my latest Virtual Retreat, I explain why I'm a big believer in this concept and how it can change your relationship with life.And if you want to spend 3 days of immersive coaching with me, then I'd love for you to join me for the final Virtual Retreat of the year happening November 11-13.Here we'll get to work together to help you decide where in life you're "settling for" less than you truly want and where you want to "settle on" sculpting the best version of yourself, your relationships, your career, and your confidence.---►► Head over to MHVirtualRetreat.com to learn more. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When a relationship ends, or someone stops calling after several dates, do you need to know why?What does it mean to get “closure” in dating?As humans we put a lot of emphasis on how things end.We want answers: “Was it the way I dressed? Is it something about my body? Or something I did that turned you off? Was it too desperate?!”But what answers are we looking for? And how much brutally honest truth do we really want to hear?Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson try to figure out whether closure is overrated, what explanation we’re owed when someone leaves, and how we can move on from rejection when it happens.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Download our free guide at MoveOnStrong.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dating is tough. The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition?The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there.I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of. But in today’s video, I cover the “what to say” part—specifically, how to stand out by asking one of 8 tried-and-tested questions I’ve put together for you.---►► Get my best solution to your current love life issue. To get started, go to: YourDatingSolution.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all long for financial independence, relationship bliss, greater familial connection, and a generally peaceful life with fewer hardships.But as it happens, life doesn’t care about the straight-line trajectory we've planned for ourselves.But life is cyclical and doesn’t trend in just one direction. This is why it is imperative for us to take our focus off of where we feel we “ought to be” and make peace with life as it is today.It is our job to cherish and learn from the wisdom gained from our past experiences instead of wishing things had gone a different way.None of this is easy, but it is possible. In this video I explain how.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Spot at MHVirtualRetreat.com and join us in November to start your personal transformation and get the confidence and life you deserve.►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's easy when we like someone to feel like we have to make excuses for their avoidant behaviour. Sometimes they may have genuine psychological issues that need to be resolved. But how much should you wait in limbo if the person you're dating still hasn't figured themselves out? Should their issues with their previous ex be an excuse to not move forward? And what can you do about it? Matt, Jameson, Stephen and Audrey sit down to talk about dating a celebrity, being a "challenge", valuing yourself, and much more!---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►►Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Download our free guide at MoveOnStrong.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Who pays on a first date?Six years ago, I made a controversial video tackling this very subject, and it went viral.Millions of people watched and reposted it (wikiHow even used it as the definitive video answer to the question) . . . It was so popular that it went viral AGAIN earlier this year when someone posted it under the title “Man Humbles a Room Full of Women.”So this week, I decided to make a reaction video to my own video.---►► Get My Best Solution to Your Current Love Life Issue. To Get Started, Go to: YourDatingSolution.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In the early stages of dating someone we like and feel excited about, everyone is worried about coming across too keen and blowing it. This is a very human experience felt by men and women alike. And it is that very emotion that will have us mute our needs and desires as we go into overdrive to impress the other person. But as we know, people like what they value, and communicating our standards early on is a key part of attraction we often overlook. Expressing your needs in early dating can seem daunting, and in this conversation with my friend Lisa Bilyeu on her channel Women of Impact, we talk about how we can get brave and do exactly that. If you want to know how to have the conversation about getting exclusive with the person you're seeing, I've created a brand-new free guide centered around how to define the relationship. It includes a script you can make your own and a comprehensive step-by-step guide that breaks down exactly how to ask for the things you want in a high-value way. ---►► You can get my guide at LeaveLimbo.com . . . it's totally free and I can't wait to hear what you think.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We asked men "what is the brutally honest truth about why you get scared of committing to someone?", and boy do we have some answers for you! Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about whether they agree with the reasons men give for avoiding commitment, what makes some men want to stay single, and what we can do to influence it.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Download our free guide: MoveOnStrong.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Does it sometimes feel like men are afraid of commitment?You could be dating someone for a few months—and have a ton of chemistry and a great emotional connection—and yet, like clockwork, you hit a wall the moment the relationship gets to a stage where it feels like it should be progressing to the next level. Just when you start to feel that this could be something real, he puts his guard up and isn’t ready to commit.Situations like these can be unbelievably painful, and they can leave you feeling crazy as you analyze the situation to death, wondering if you’re somehow not good enough.Well, in this brand-new episode, I’ll share with you 3 of the main reasons why a lot of men are afraid of commitment and what you can do to turn things around by circumventing those fears.---►► Get the Script to Go from Casual to Committed. Unlock Your FREE Video Training: GetTheFreeTraining.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is there someone in your life who keeps going hot and cold with the attention they're showing you? One minute they want to see you, and the next, you feel them pulling away...What's up with that?When someone you like disappears and then reappears, it's easy to drive yourself crazy trying to work out the BEST way to get their attention again. You think, "Do I ignore them to teach them a lesson? Do I play it cool and pretend it was no big deal? Or do I show them I'm hurt that they disappeared?"In this clip, I share with you an exact text message you can send them that will demonstrate your standards in a really attractive way.---►► If you want more of these texts, head over to WhatToTextNext.com, where you can download my FREE guide that gives you my 'Relationship Reframe Text' and helps you move from casual text exchanges to real emotional connection. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

One of the unchanging truths about love is that even though it's beautiful when we find it, there's always a chance we can lose it.But how do we move on from an old chapter when it's over? How do you develop the right mindset to get back in the game when you've faced a major setback?Matt and the team sit down to discuss starting over and why it can be both a painful and beautiful experience.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Download our brand new guide on "How To Define The Relationship". Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now.►► Download our guide to get back in the dating game at 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . .A woman goes on a date with a guy and they hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon, they’re seeing each other all the time. He’s texting her daily, making plans with her for the future, and every time his name pops up on her phone, she feels a surge of happiness and excitement.That very same excitement keeps hitting new peaks until, suddenly, she feels a shift. He grows more and more distant, and at first she’s not sure whether she’s imagining it or whether he really is pulling away. She doubles down on effort and communication, but it only seems to drive him further away until eventually he calls it a day and stops messaging altogether.If this has ever happened to you, then you know it can drive you crazy working out how to act when someone is clearly pulling away from you.But as it turns out, there is a right way and a wrong way to proceed when this happens, and it can determine whether someone stays or goes.In today’s episode, I’ll share with you the #1 reason why people pull away and a high-value way to respond to it.---►► Discover How to Heal Your Heart & Regain Your Confidence. Access Your FREE Training: MoveOnStrong.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's easy to feel like our struggles, or past, our pain, is holding us back in life. And I'm not here to pretend it's easy to deal with those burdens we carry with us. But they don't have to define you. In fact, if you choose, you can make them the start of a completely different story that gives you more power than you could possibly imagine.So today, here is a personal message on what it takes to create light even in the darkest moments...---►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback: [email protected]►► Join our Love.Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.►► Follow us on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you have a dating type? Have your previous relationships always been with a similar person, in terms of looks, personality or behavioural dynamics?It's easy for us to look at the past and tell ourselves, "This is who I am. This is who I like." And it can affect how we date now simply because of what we're used to. But is it helpful to lock ourselves in on a single kind of person? Or should our tastes be more flexible when finding love?Matt and the team talk about the topic of dating types and how to choose your compass when looking for the right person so that you focus on what really matters in love.---►► Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! Claim Your Spot Today: MHVirtualRetreat.com.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Download our brand new guide on "How To Define The Relationship". Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.