Love Life With Matthew Hussey

People ask me a lot, “How did you meet your wife?” Well, it wasn’t just one decision. It was actually a few simple steps that even an introvert like me could use to be in exactly the right place to meet Audrey when I did. I believe anyone can apply this advice in their dating lives to find love. So if you want to maximize your chances of meeting (and attracting) someone amazing, the 3 practical steps I mention in this episode could lead you to your person . . . possibly without you ever having to swipe right! ---►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► Ready to Get Off The Sidelines and Back Into Dating? Catch the Replay of The Love Life Reset: LoveLifeReplay.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’ve been in the early dating stages with someone, you may have noticed after a few weeks when you get one of those “uh-oh” moments. Maybe they didn't call when they said they would. Or they're a little ignorant about something that’s important to you. Or appeared to take something you did for granted. It might not be terrible behavior, but you know it’s behavior you don’t want to be a pattern for the rest of your relationship. So how do you handle the conversation without letting your emotions get the better of you? I.e. without reacting in a way that would hurt rather than help the relationship... In this week’s episode, I’m going to give 3 steps of exactly how to handle this difficult conversation, so that you can handle it in a productive way when it happens. This is how you make them want to be a better person for you... ---►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Watch the Replay of my Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How: The Love Life Reset REPLAY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What does it mean to truly accept every part of yourself? How do we let go of beating ourselves up for our mistakes and flaws and embrace who we are? There are so many things that can knock us off our path, make us feel shame, and cause us to feel unloveable. In this episode, Matthew explains how to build the foundations of self-compassion and stop basing our worth on the wrong things.---►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Watch the Replay to my Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How: The Love Life Reset REPLAY  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you fallen for someone who just can’t give you the same affection back? Emotionally unavailable people are the relationship version of junk food. You know it’s bad . . . but your addiction keeps you going back for more. This is nothing more than a formula for heartbreak. In today’s new episode, I dive into the psychology behind why we’re attracted to emotionally unavailable people, and why just because something’s scarce (such as someone’s attention) doesn’t mean it’s valuable. ---►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Join My FREE Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How: LoveLifeTraining.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you ignore red flags? Do you feel like you give too much in your relationships? Do you brush things under the carpet when someone violates your boundaries? If so, this week’s episode is specifically for you… The richness and depth of a true connection can only come from giving other people the chance to reciprocate your warmth, kindness, and giving nature… Because, while it might feel selfless or nurturing to pour into others without receiving in return – it can actually backfire, weaken your connection, and make you feel resentful. I promise that if you find the courage to be honest, you’ll find more satisfaction, fulfillment, and happiness in your relationships. ---►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► Ready to Get Off the Sidelines and Back into Dating? Join my Free Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset Reserve Your Spot Now: LoveLifeTraining.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matthew and Audrey sit down to talk about love lessons learned from the Netflix show "One Day". Topics include the danger of holding out for someone who remains a fantasy, how the love stories we tell can be intoxicating but also dangerous, and why we need to chase the right things in life. ---►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► Ready to Get Off the Sidelines and Back into Dating? Join my Free Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset Reserve Your Spot Now: LoveLifeTraining.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever dated someone who seems really into you . . . only for you to find yourself in a dead-end situationship where you just want to scream, “What are we?!” every time you’re together? Turns out there is a solution for this (and you don’t need to be a mind reader). In today’s episode, I’ll show you some simple ways you can find out what your future would look like with someone—even early on in dating. Be sure to watch now to learn how you can tell the difference between someone who will continue to string you along and someone who’s good relationship material. ---►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► Ready to Get Off the Sidelines and Back into Dating? Join my Free Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset Reserve Your Spot Now: LoveLifeTraining.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

People think going on a date with someone is simple.You dress up, groom yourself, and head to an overpriced bar. Then you talk, ask questions, blah blah blah. Gulp down a few drinks. Maybe a kiss. End of story.Well . . . that’s not bad.But do you really want to be just the “not bad” person in their head?Wouldn’t you rather they go home in a romantic haze, unable to take their mind off this new, unendingly fascinating person who they just pray will answer their texts the next day?Thought so.If you really want them to miss you after only 24 hours, don’t leave the first encounter without throwing in a few of these techniques . . .---►► Jumpstart Your Dating Life with My FREE Virtual Event, Love Life Reset . . . Sign Up Now: LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey sit down for a conversation with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast. We cover why men don’t open up, the inner beliefs that affect our romantic relationships, healing our wounds, self-love, and how to be truly fulfilled. ---►► Jumpstart Your Dating Life with My FREE Virtual Event, Love Life Reset . . . Sign Up Now: LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► Follow Rob Dial on Insta: @Robdialjr►► Follow Rob Dial's Podcast: The Mindset Mentor Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There’s a mistake nearly all of us make in early dating . . . and it’s something we don’t even realize we’re doing. When we get nervous, we naturally slip into one of two masks as a way to protect ourselves against rejection. In today’s new episode, I’ll show you how one simple change can not only hugely increase the connection you feel with someone, but also take the pressure out of early dating. Don’t miss it!---►► Jumpstart Your Dating Life with My FREE Virtual Event, Love Life Reset . . . Sign Up Now: LoveLifeTraining.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’re sick of the lack of progression in early-stage dating...If you’re tired of things never actually going anywhere…And you’re wondering what simple things you could be doing differently to change that…This video is for you.(It also contains a very special guest who hasn’t been seen in a long time, but is demanded on a daily basis. You’re welcome.)Can’t wait to hear what you think. ---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS! I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me: MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Not long ago, I decided to do something II nearly NEVER do. My inner child was screaming at me to do anything else but I decided to quiet that voice and go for it anyway. Here’s what I learned from getting out of my comfort zone, doing something I was afraid of, and quieting my inner emotional resistance.---►► Access My Happiness After heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now: HeartbreakSeries.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why does the end of a passionate short-term romance sometimes feel more devastating than a longer-term relationship? It’s because short-term romances are like fireworks—explosive and exciting—only to fizzle out soon after. We get addicted to the feeling of intensity they give us, and feel empty when they disappear. In today’s episode, I’ll show you the best way to move on from a short-term romance and stop obsessing over “the person who got away.”---►► Access My Happiness After heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now: HeartbreakSeries.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s so annoying. You finally decide you like someone. You tell your friends how excited you are. You even allow yourself to imagine them as “future life partner” material. And then suddenly . . . they start fading out. They stops calling . . . They become colder in conversation . . . They don’t step up and commit . . . It’s like the universe knows when you’ve met an amazing person, and decides to dangle them just out of reach. Whyyyyy? In this week’s episode, I reveal the top 5 reasons why they disappear so you never have to wonder why someone pulls away again . . . ---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS! I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me: MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you know if you’re in a narcissistic relationship? And how do toxic relationships with your parents affect your dating life today? In this episode, Matthew sits down with world expect Dr. Ramani Durvasula to talk about her new book “It’s Not You”, narcissistic patterns, and how to protect yourself from unacceptable behaviour in relationships.---►► Follow Dr. Ramani on Insta: @Doctorramani►► Follow Dr. Ramani on YouTube: youtube.com/@DoctorRamani►► Get Dr. Ramani’s book “It’s Not You”: https://rb.gy/5pyj7t►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS! I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me: MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you held back from your dreams by fear and self-doubt? Join Matt for a conversation with Jamie Kern Lima all about her new book “Worthy” and the topic of self-doubt, eliminating self-sabotage and how to get real confidence.---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS! I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me: MHRetreat.com►► Follow Jamie on Insta: @jamiekernlima Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nothing leaves you feeling more alone than heartbreak. You feel lost, afraid, and sometimes you also feel deeply unworthy. The worst part is wondering if you’ll ever feel happy again. But there is a way to heal, and it starts with first understanding what the source of your pain actually is. In today’s new episode, I share a way you can rewire your brain . . . not to ignore your grief, but to see it with fresh eyes and start to mend your broken heart.---►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now: HeartbreakSeries.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind? I have. Many times. And when this has happened to me I know I’ve not brought up the issue in a productive way. In fact, I’ve often approached the subject in a way I later regretted. What about you? Have you said something you wish you hadn’t? Reacted in a way you wish you could take back? It’s a horrible feeling when we “sober up” emotionally, the cloud of anger or upset subsides, and we are left with this sinking feeling that somehow we’ve just messed it all up. If you can relate to being the kind of person whose emotions and anxieties can be easily triggered in a relationship, this episode is really going to help you. Let’s take back control over those emotions and put you back in the driver’s seat. And let’s learn to use our moments of friction to make our relationships even more beautiful.--- ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS! I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me: MHRetreat.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever tried to keep someone’s attraction by “playing the game”? Maybe you’ve been tempted to respond less to texts, or try to hide the fact you like someone, or followed dating advice that tells you to act aloof and indifferent. In today’s episode, I want to get to the truth about “playing hard-to-get” and what really happens when you try to win attraction by playing games . . .---►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS! I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me: MHRetreat.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dating is tough.The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition? The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there. I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of. But in today’s episode, I cover the “what to say” part—specifically, how to stand out by asking one of 8 tried-and-tested questions I’ve put together for you.---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now: HeartbreakSeries.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I recently went through an experience that felt a lot like a break up. And today I want to talk about it. If you've been through something like this, you'll learn one of the biggest insights that changes the entire meaning you take away from the experience of "getting dumped".---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now: HeartbreakSeries.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you know why heartbreak hits us as hard as it does? In today’s episode, I found the answer in an interview with the world-leading expert on grief, David Kessler. It turns out, a lot of us are carrying around “unattended grief” that affects us in ways we don’t even realize. We often don’t give ourselves the space to fully feel what we need to in order to break free. This new episode is an important one. Even I wasn’t prepared for what I’d feel during the conversation, so I hope you’ll join me and watch it (and let me know your thoughts afterward!) ---►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now: HeartbreakSeries.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matt, Stephen, and Audrey talk about how to handle a sudden break-up that knocks you sideways and shakes your confidence. How do you get over someone when you felt like you were fully invested in a future with them? And should you cut all contact when they try to reach out and stay friends?---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Follow Audrey on Insta: @theaudreyhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We asked you about what behaviours and patterns have caused the most pain in your love life. And you answered! In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk on the topic of jealousy in a relationship, insecurity about our looks, and getting over people who don't choose you.---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Follow Audrey on Insta: @theaudreyhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s normal to want to put our best selves forward on a first date . . . but sometimes this makes us hide who we really are. And that’s a shame, because someone may not see the real version of us—the one they’d want to see again and again. So how do you create authentic attraction early on? What are the things you could do that would make someone excited for a second date with you?In today’s new episode, I share 3 natural ways to get and keep someone’s interest on a first date and beyond. ---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums Reserve Your Spot to my Virtual Event for FREE: LoveLifeTraining.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you feel like everything has changed in the dating scene? Is it making you feel like you have to settle because so many people no longer want commitment? In this clip, Matthew talks about what it's like when we go through difficult experiences and come back onto the dating scene, what happens as we get older and are looking for a relationship, and how you can approach finding love with a new perspective.---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all have made mistakes in our past. And some of those we've made in relationships can not only be the most painful, but being honest about the, can effect how future partners see us. So how do you know if someone has grown and changed after a past mistake? And when should you share those with someone you're dating (especially if it's something egregious like cheating). Matt and Audrey sit down in this episode to talk about moving past mistakes and whether you can trust someone who has cheated in the past.---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You may not know this, but you probably have an unconscious dating mindset.We all do. It might be learned from our parents, an early relationship, or any other kind of formative childhood experience, but it affects so much of our behavior when we meet someone we like.In today’s episode, I’m going to share 3 of the most dangerous dating mindsets to avoid, and one powerful mindset that will let you enjoy the process while naturally attracting the person you really want.---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We often learn our attachment style very early in life. And it can go on to affect all of our romantic relationships. But how? And to what extent should we excuse people's behaviour because of their attachment style? In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss attachment styles, what they mean, and how we can our awareness of them use to navigate relationships.---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums Reserve Your Spot to my Virtual Event for FREE: LoveLifeTraining.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How often do you look at yourself and feel great in what you wear? Does your wardrobe fill you with dread or make you feel joy? In this episode, my wife Audrey and I had an amazing conversation with fashion expert Cassandra Sethi. We talked about how to find clothing that makes you feel confident in your own skin, which items are worth spending money on (and which aren't), and how to put together a wardrobe with outfits that best suit your own personal style.---►► Connect with Cassandra's Blog: nextlevelwardrobe.com►► Follow Cassandra on Insta: @nextlevelwardrobe►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums Reserve Your Spot to my Virtual Event for FREE: LoveLifeTraining.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s a dating mystery: Why would someone invest in dating you and then walk away? They take you on a romantic trip, buy you an amazing gift, or tell you they’re falling for you . . . right before breaking up with you? What were they thinking?! In today’s new episode, I share the reasons why someone might lead you on, and how you can use it as fuel to get over them faster and find your person.---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So this wasn’t the episode we’d planned to release this week . . . But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn’t wait to talk about it.The episode this week is all about bravery and kindness, and my goal is that by the end of it, you will understand and be able to relate to men a little better. Your coach, Matthew x P.S. Which revelation surprised you the most? I look forward to reading your thoughts as we continue this discussion . . . which has already become one of my favorites.  ---►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums. . . Reserve Your Spot to My Virtual Event For FREE: LoveLifeTraining.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this brand new episode, I sit down with my wife Audrey to talk about why people fear commitment and whether people are less inclined towards marriage in 2024. With the prevalence of dating apps it can feel like we have more options than ever, but people feel it's even more difficult to find their ideal partner. We discuss what has changed in modern dating, reasons for optimism when it comes to commitment, how you can influence someone's view on what commitment means, and how to improve your communication to have a healthy relationship.---►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums. . . Reserve Your Spot to My Virtual Event For FREE: LoveLifeTraining.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been stuck in “relationship limbo”? If you have, you know how much it sucks . . . But how can you find the people who are actually ready for commitment, and increase the odds of them wanting it with YOU? The truth is, there are actually people who—like you—are working on themselves and looking for a true relationship. In today’s new video, I’ll show you how to avoid the time-wasters and game-players . . . and I’ll also reveal the #1 trait that makes someone want to get serious. Be sure to listen to the whole thing (and watch the full video and hear about a brand-new free training happening this month that you won’t want to miss!)---►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You can set your watch to it. They flake or break up with you . . . you spend weeks — in fact, months — hurting and getting over them, and just as you realize you no longer think about them all the time and begin to feel happy again, you get the text. “Hey, how you doing?” Does this sound familiar? I suspect it does . . . So what is this phenomenon? Why do they always come back? What does it mean? And more importantly, what do you SAY when they do? In today’s episode, I talk about 5 possible reasons why they come back.---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Want to find love in 2024? Now is the time when everyone is making New Year’s resolutions. It’s fun and I love that feeling of optimism before January begins. But we also know how hard it is to break old habits and patterns—and end up feeling a sense of failure and frustration if we don’t reach our goals . . . In today’s new video, I share with you the #1 resolution you should focus on this year to move toward a successful love life.---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them? Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s their success, wealth, or status (such as the example in today’s episode) that has you feeling lucky whenever they turn their attention to you. Whatever it might be, the reaction we often have to this feeling is highly toxic for our happiness . . . because we start to shrink our needs. We become pleasers and find it almost impossible to set any kind of boundaries for fear that this will drive them away and they’ll disappear. After all, if they left, “Would I ever find anyone as amazing as them ever again?” Sound familiar? Then you’re going to like today’s brand-new episode. --- ►► Try My Love Life VIP Coaching. To Learn More and join the exclusive club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s the best way to think strategically about finding love in the coming year? In this episode I had a chance to speak with the excellent Ali Abdaal who offers practical insights on productivity and simple habits you can adopt to improve your live and maximize your chances of finding your partner. Grab a copy of Ali’s awesome book “Feel Good Productivity” - available now! ---►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for My Dating With Results Training: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’re dealing with loss, sickness, or loneliness, this time of year can serve to magnify whatever you’re going through.  So in this weekend’s new episode, I wanted to do something a little different . . . While this message is for anyone who needs a boost during the holidays, it’s especially for those in the middle of a “complicated Christmas.” And today I want you to know that you’re not alone.  Listen to this message and please do drop me a comment after you watch. I’d love for us all to feel more connected and help people know that others understand what they’re going through right now. Happy holidays, Matthew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You know those tricky early dates?You go for drinks. Maybe a walk. You pretend you listen to cool music and hope you both enjoy a similar taste in movies.Then texting.Then maybe a kiss.Uh-oh, now you actually like them. Crap. I mean, great!Now what?If you want to know how to keep the attraction well after the first date, so you can finally stop overthinking and show your best self, this is the episode for you . . .---►► Try My Love Life VIP Coaching. To Learn More and join the exclusive club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Here’s a common problem I hear, You feel ready for a relationship. You’ve worked hard to improve yourself and you have high standards for the person you want to be with long-term . . . but no one you date meets your standards. I know it can be so frustrating—but this feeling can lead to some dangerous mindsets that get in our way of finding love . . . often without us even realizing it. So in today’s episode, I’ll show you 3 powerful mindset shifts that will help you attract the right person faster so you can avoid self-sabotage and burnout as you search for the love you’re looking for. Excited for you to hear this one. Matthew x --- ►► Navigate the Modern Dating Landscape, Avoid 'Situationships', and Find the Beautiful & Lasting Relationship You Want: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever had someone come into your life, dazzle you with their initial investment and attention, only to disappear as fast as they came? This phenomenon has been nicknamed “Love Bombing,” and it can be very painful, especially when you were led to believe it was going somewhere. You may be asking yourself why someone would do this. In this week’s rewind episode I’ll show you… My hope is that this episode will not only give you a sense of closure, but also help you to move past the heartache you are feeling right now if this has happened to you. I also show you how to avoid it in the future.---►► Try My Love Life VIP Coaching for FREE. Learn More and Ask Me Your Question at JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you know if someone’s really over their ex? Sometimes you meet a person who ticks all your boxes, but they also haven’t 100% gotten over the heartbreak of their last relationship. Of course, the first questions you ask yourself are: “Is this a huge red flag? Does it mean they are emotionally unavailable? Should I walk away?” This is a really important topic in today’s episode, and my answer to this probably isn’t what you’d expect.  Give it a listen to find out the signs you can look out for to discern whether someone is truly a bad bet or if they have real potential. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever wondered what the right amount of effort to put in with someone is? Should you let them know you’d like to go on a date with them? And what about after the date. . . Should you let them know you’d like to see them again if you felt the date went well but they're not being proactive about setting up another one? Where is the line between showing someone you like them, and chasing someone who’s simply not that interested? It can be tricky. But I want to make it simple. You may have heard me say, “Invest in those who invest in you.” But that could leave you wondering to yourself: “Fine Matthew, but so often that means I’m doing nothing because no one is investing in me! And doesn’t someone need to take the first step to invest something if anything is ever going to happen?” It’s a valid point. I’ll show you exactly how to solve this at the end of the episode, so make sure you listen all the way through.---►► Claim Your FREE TICKET to This World Premiere Event by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at LoveMythsMovie.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s not always easy to tell the difference between friendliness, playful affection, and genuine romantic feelings. In today’s episode, I dive into the psychology of attraction to share 31 subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs that can reveal someone’s intentions. Whether you’re flirting with someone you’ve just met, or wondering if the person you’ve been dating for a while wants to be more serious, this compilation will help you decode how they really feel!---►► Claim Your FREE TICKET to This World Premiere Event by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at LoveMythsMovie.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Life is too short to put off our happiness until we reach certain milestones. It's great to make finding a relationship a goal, but the journey to getting there from being single doesn't have to be an arduous and unpleasant one. Too many people don't realise how much joy and happiness they can find when they are single and haven't met the right person yet. In this episode, I'll show you some simple ways to actually enjoy your single life and meet your needs when you're still looking for love.---►► Learn the 3 Secrets to Get Excited About Love Again. Tap Below to Download Your FREE Guide at 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s the best way to go from casual to committed when you’re dating someone? There are two important things to remember here: • Our standards are a HUGE influence on someone’s decision to commit. • We’re more likely to drop our standards when we really like someone. So how do you show your standards in a confident way (without seeming demanding or needy)? In today’s episode, I share the best advice I’ve given on this topic through the years to raise your value in their eyes and build lasting attraction. Don’t miss it! ---►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results": DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you find it hard to truly let down your guard with a man?What do you do when you get angry or hurt? Do you get quiet? Passive-aggressive? Lash out?If you know that the way you’re bringing things up isn’t productive, and has the tendency to push someone away, my new video is essential watching today . . . Let me know what you think.---►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results": DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Some very exciting news to share today . . .  I made a movie! And it’s not just any film . . . it’s a romantic comedy special that will transform your love life while you watch it. We’ve gathered the very best moments from my last live tour to create The Love Myths: a 90-minute movie that’s been years in the making, and we’ve now set a date for its exclusive premiere and live Q&A next month. This is an event you can’t miss, and in today’s video, I give you all the details on how you can join me. ---►► Claim Your FREE TICKET to This World Premiere Event by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now: LoveMythsMovie.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

One thing no one ever warns you about happy relationships is just how many awkward conversations they can require you to have. And despite all the big ones of politics, religion and family – I find one topic almost no one wants to talk about is money. Who should pay on a date? Should you be honest with your partner how much money (or debt) you have? How do you handle it when one of you earns significantly higher income in a relationship than the other? These are all hugely important, and yet most people bury their heads in the sand and hope these issues will magically work themselves out if you’re truly in love (pro tip: they won’t). So in this week’s video, I sat down with my good friend Ramit Sethi, bestselling author and CEO of "I Will Teach You To Be Rich," to learn exactly how to have these difficult conversations so you can feel happy and secure about money in your relationship. I’ve never talked about this before, so I can’t wait to hear your comments on this one... ---►► Appearance by RAMIT SETHI; iwillteachyoutoberich.com @ramit ►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results": DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.