Love Life With Matthew Hussey

This week’s new video is an extra special one: the first half of my interview with poet, meditator, speaker, and bestselling author Yung Pueblo. We talk about specific signs that a relationship will last, the myth of “if it’s right, it will be easy,” how to stop toxic communication patterns, navigating the early stages of dating, and so much more. No matter which stage of a relationship you’re in, this interview is a must-watch. I can’t wait to hear what you think!---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  MHWeekendRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week’s video is about moving in together.But you should watch it even if you’re not at that stage with someone, because it contains a truth that is essential to understand when moving from one stage of a relationship to the next.If there is someone in your life you plan on getting more serious with, this is for you.I felt this video was especially relevant to these times where the term “turbo relationships” is on the rise. A “turbo relationship” is a relationship that is moving unnaturally quickly because of the circumstances of this year – lockdown necessities, spending large chunks of time with each other, choosing one person instead of casually dating multiple people, and moving in together far earlier than we otherwise would.All of this puts pressure on the relationship that can be counterproductive to it going somewhere long term. If we want to build our relationships to last, it’s important they don’t burn out before they’ve really begun.This video will show you how to ramp up your relationship without ramping up the pressure.Enjoy!---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you struggling with heartbreak after falling for someone who says they can’t be with you? In this episode, Matthew unpacks what it really means when someone claims they “can’t” be in a relationship. Through the of a woman who gave everything to a man who wouldn’t commit, Matthew breaks down key insights that will help you regain clarity, self-worth, and the courage to move forward. Topics covered:The Difference Between "Right" and "Ready" – Why the perfect person for you isn't just about compatibility but about commitment.Unwilling Compromises vs. Real Obstacles – Understanding when someone is genuinely unable to be with you versus when they’re just unwilling to make sacrifices.Why Love is a Verb, Not Just Words – Actions define relationships, not promises or poetry.The Power of Perspective – If you were in their shoes, what would you be willing to do to make it work?How to Move Forward – Letting go of someone who won’t show up for you and reclaiming your time and emotional energy.For a deeper dive, check out the free "How To Heal From Heartbreak" Masterclass before it disappears! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After a breakup, a lot of us know we should go “no contact,” but then all sorts of sneaky questions start to pop into our heads and everything becomes a “What if . . .” What if . . . It’s their birthday? They’re going through a hard time? I run into them? They reach out? I find out they really miss me? “No contact” isn’t possible? I believe deep down that we’re meant to be together? In today’s new episode, I answer 7 of your top questions about going “no contact” so you know exactly what to do during the breakup.►► Struggling to Move On After a Breakup? Discover Practical Strategies to Rebuild Your Self-Worth & Regain Confidence. Join My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal from Heartbreak at. . . → LoveLifeTraining.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another.Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship.With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while wasting our most precious resource: time.Today’s Rewind episode could end up saving you months or even years of pain by providing you with the questions you should be asking when making this big decision.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Heartbreak is never easy—especially around Valentine’s Day. In this episode, Matthew dives deep into the struggles of heartbreak, the emotional pain of moving on, and how to navigate feelings of loss, regret, and loneliness. And if you're struggling with heartbreak, don’t miss our free live event on February 25th, where he’ll guide you through the process of healing and moving forward. Sign up at LoveLifeTraining.com.Main Topics Covered:Why Valentine’s Day can be a painful reminder of heartbreakThe different types of heartbreak: fresh, chronic, and long-term lonelinessThe power of self-compassion and reconnecting with yourselfWhy no contact feels so hard—and how to stay strongThe danger of dating as a distraction from heartbreakHow to stop obsessing over your ex and wishing things had ended differentlyDealing with regret and the fear that you lost “the one”How to recognize and avoid emotionally avoidant partnersThe key to moving forward and finding love again Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey tackle some of the toughest listener questions about love, rejection, and moving on. From rebuilding after heartbreak to recognizing red flags, they also break down the emotional roadblocks that keep people stuck and show you how to move forward. You'll hear:How to ungive up on dating in 2025Why closure isn’t always about an explanation—sometimes, it’s just seeing the truthThe surprising red flag that’s often overlooked when choosing a partnerHow to stop wasting time on someone who isn’t invested in youWhat it really means when a person pulls away after intimacyWhether it’s worth revisiting a past connection—or if it’s just a distractionThe importance of living a full life outside of dating to naturally attract the right person.If you've ever found yourself overanalyzing someone’s behavior, questioning your worth after rejection, or wondering if you should give love another chance, this episode is for you. And if you're struggling with heartbreak, don’t miss Matthew’s free live event on February 25th, where he’ll guide you through the process of healing and moving forward. Sign up at LoveLifeTraining.com. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There are 5 words no one wants to hear: “It’s not you, it’s me . . .” But the moment we hear that, we don’t believe it. We figure they just don’t want to tell us the real reason. We wonder: “Did they feel we had a lack of chemistry? Was it something I said? Were their friends pressuring them to break up with us?” Our mind starts to spiral and we analyze every single thing we might have done “wrong.” In today’s episode, I share 3 reasons why it truly isn’t about you (REALLY!) and how you can use that knowledge to move on from heartbreak faster.--- ►► Join My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal From Heartbreak at . . . → LoveLifeTraining.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → MHWeekendRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you one of those people who dreads Valentine's Day?Whether they're single or in a relationship, people have all kinds of reasons for wanting to skip February 14th:There’s too much pressure to be romantic.It’s all about money and gifts.Single people are made to feel like failures.It would be easy for me to say all the reasons Valentine’s isn’t worth the trouble.But I think we can all make this an event we actually enjoy instead of dread. First, you need to avoid some of the big mistakes people make when approaching the day (and their whole dating life).Avoid these 5 traps, and you’ll be on your way to fulfilling love at any time of year . . .---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When we’re heartbroken, it can feel like the pain will go on forever . . . we’re afraid and overwhelmed, and too often we fall into habits that actually make it harder to heal. In this new episode, you’ll learn about 4 behaviors that can keep people stuck in heartbreak, and give you a “heartbreak roadmap” so you can finally move forward and feel like yourself again. (And be sure to stay until the end for a brand-new tool that can help you move on!) ---►► Join My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal From Heartbreak at . . . → LoveLifeTraining.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → MHWeekendRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s so easy in the early stages to confuse big gestures with real romance. In this clip, I’ll show you how being able to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential and save you SO much grief and time in relationships. You’ll also see how to communicate your needs if someone isn’t giving you real closeness and it feels like they are rushing forward while not showing real consistency.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Matthew Hussey explores why we often delay moving forward, waiting for the "perfect" time to start fresh. What if that perfect time never comes? Drawing from a powerful conversation at a recent Love Life Club event, Matthew unpacks how we unintentionally put our lives on hold, whether in love, career, or personal growth. Matthew also talks about limiting beliefs and reshaping your mindset so you can stop waiting and start living—even in the messy, imperfect middle of life! Topics include:The illusion of a "fresh start" and why life never truly pausesA Love Life Club member's dilemma: Can you date while preparing for single parenthood?The reality of navigating life nel mezzo—in the middle of everythingHow our subconscious wiring shapes our goals and behaviorsThe trap of waiting for ideal conditions before taking actionWhy New Year's resolutions often fail (and what actually works)---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → MHWeekendRetreat.com►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Leaving a narcissistic relationship is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Yet it can be so incredibly hard to leave. We might convince ourselves we can’t live without them, or think we’re being too hard on them, or keep trying to stay in touch . . . In today’s episode, I explain why this happens and provide you with a tool that can help you get peace and clarity to finally move on from a narcissist for good. ---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s the #1 most attractive thing someone can do on a first date?Play footsie under the table? Wear a stylish, confidence-boosting outfit? Whisper, “Hey, you look amazing” when greeting them with a hug?Nope.While those things might not hurt your chances, what really makes someone want to see you again comes down to how they feel in your presence.They need to feel intrigued. They need to feel attractive. They need to feel a sense of fun…This week, I’m going to share 5 powerful lines you can use to spark great emotions and leave them dying to see you again.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

 In this episode, Matthew and Audrey dive into:Setting Up for Success in 2025: Practical strategies for making real, lasting changes in your life.Routines for a Better Love Life: Small but powerful habits to help you meet new people and feel more confident.Avoiding Burnout: Lessons from 2024 on why overcommitting can drain your happiness.The Power of Social Interactions: Why making an extra effort to engage with people can transform your opportunities.Navigating Toxic Friendships: A listener question about dealing with a partner’s problematic friend—when to ignore and when to speak up.The Truth About Social Media: How to take control of your digital habits for better mental health.Finding What Really Works for You: Discovering and sticking to your own personal "truths" that lead to a happier, more fulfilling life.---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19: matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why do people “fade out” in dating with no explanation? The good news is: It often has nothing to do with us. Yet there are also things we may be doing that push someone away without us even realizing it.In today’s episode, I share 5 behaviors that may make someone pull away . . . and ways you can leave people better than you found them (and wanting more!) Whether you want to learn how to become a better listener, not come across as too intense when you really like someone, or just be a better date, don’t miss it! These practical tips can help you instantly change your dating results. ---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19: MatthewHussey.com/weekend-retreat-25►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now. . .” Nobody wants to hear these words. Especially when it’s coming from someone you genuinely care about. Someone you’ve invested time and energy in. . . and someone you feel could be the right person for you in the long term. It leaves you wishing they could just get over their indecision... If that sounds familiar, I have a simple solution: Because there IS a right way and a wrong way to handle this situation... The wrong way is to try and convince them of all the reasons you’re a great fit (even if every reason is true). This can accidentally push them further away. . .The right way to handle this situation is to meet their confusion with love and kindness, while also standing strong and respecting yourself. (Here’s the surprising part: this is actually an incredible opportunity to show your value and remind them of what they risk losing.) ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Matthew dives deep into why the "New Year, New Me" mindset often sets us up for failure and how true change is possible with practical steps to break through our old habits and wiring.Topics include:Why Resolutions Fail: How old patterns and beliefs hold us back, no matter how ambitious our goals are.Why creating new goals without addressing underlying habits leads to frustration.The role of action and getting new reference points to rewire our beliefs.Breaking generational patterns of beliefs, behaviors, and trauma.Deciding to "be the pioneer" who changes the trajectory of your family or personal life.Recognizing the opportunities missed due to self-protective behaviors.Why fear of rejection and always "playing defense" hold us back.Practical tools for managing emotional triggers and replacing them with healthier responses.---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“I thought by this point in my life I definitely would have . . .” can be a dangerous phrase. Whether we’re “feeling behind” because we’ve never gotten married, had kids, or owned a house, or just wish we were further along in our career, it can be demoralizing. It’s the same feeling when you go through a breakup and feel like you just “wasted” all that time with someone. But this thinking is a trap. If you’ve caught yourself feeling “I’m so behind compared to everyone else,” use the four powerful mindset reframes I share in today’s episode to get out of your rut and start moving forward again.---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Can you relate to this?You start dating someone who seems too good to be true. Maybe they treat you like no one ever has before, or they check all the boxes you’ve been looking for, or maybe it’s their success or status that makes you feel like the luckiest person just to have their attention (as in today’s example).But here’s the catch: they’re sending you mixed signals when it comes to commitment. You keep spending time together, but you’re still unsure of what they actually want.It’s a tricky situation. Even though you can sense something is off, the fear of losing them—and the uncertainty of finding someone as amazing as they seem—makes it nearly impossible to set boundaries or create distance. You’re stuck, holding onto something that might not be what you thought it was.If this sounds familiar, don’t miss today’s episode—it’s a rewind you won’t want to miss.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from living fully and achieving our goals. Whether you're contemplating a life-changing decision, trying to date amidst personal challenges, or simply struggling to move forward, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts to take action today.Topics Covered:The pressure of starting fresh in January and why it can be counterproductive.The challenge of single motherhood and facing fears about dating with children.The concept of "Nel Mezzo" (in the middle): Living life amidst its chaos.Common mental traps: Waiting for the ideal time, trying to avoid pain, and over-planning.The role of self-compassion when dealing with setbacks or unproductive days.Redefining the idea of a “new chapter” and leaning into life’s ongoing conversations.Practical steps to challenge limiting beliefs about what’s possible in life and relationships.---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After a really good date or two, have you ever found yourself scrolling through the other person’s social media pages . . . to a slightly unhealthy degree? Maybe you’ve even tried to find their exes’ profiles to see how you compare with them? (It’s OK, we’ve all been there.) This is often bad for our mental health. And it doesn’t help when we’re trying to build an organic relationship while secretly stalking every part of someone’s life. In today’s new episode, I share practical strategies you can use when you feel the urge to keep checking your date’s social media pages . . . and how you can redirect your attention in a way that will make you even more attractive.---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had.If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self. When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because they bring back bittersweet memories. Life feels like white noise, and your every waking moment goes back to that feeling of loss and pain.We’ve all been there, right? But there is a secret to emotionally recovering from a breakup, one that is shockingly simple but so crucial that if you forget to do it, you will inadvertently DOUBLE the amount of time it takes to get over your ex. See, most of us make bad decisions in a breakup. We drink to numb the pain, we have one-night stands with people we don’t care about, or we eat ourselves into oblivion with junk food.It sucks now, I know. But it will get better, trust me...---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Matthew sits down for a conversation with Jillian Turecki (@jillianturecki)—renowned relationship coach, teacher, and author of It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life. Over the last two decades, Jillian has empowered thousands to transform their relationships, starting with the most important one: the relationship with themselves. She also hosts the popular Jillian on Love podcast. Topics Covered:The most common dating patterns that hold people back—and how to break them.How to know when you should accept someone's flaws vs. when they are fatal to the relationship.The danger of “playing house” in early relationships and how to have the difficult conversations.Moving past unchallenged limiting beliefs, including “I’m not lovable” or “all men cheat.”The crucial difference between chemistry and character—and how to avoid falling for the wrong people.What you should do in the first 5 dates to test compatibilityHow to make peace with your past, including complicated relationships with parents, to find freedom in your love life.How to move on from heartbreak and embrace the possibility of love again.The art of setting boundaries and recognizing when a partner's behavior doesn’t meet your needs.✨ Follow Jillian Turecki online:Follow Jillian on Instagram: @jilliantureckiOrder Jillian's new book: It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your LifeListen to Jillian's podcast: Jillian on Love Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Wondering how to make 2025 your best year yet? In this brand-new episode, I share 7 subtle habits you can implement without needing to turn your life upside down. These small shifts have the power to: Boost your chances of finding love.Make you a better conversationalist.Get you out of your comfort zone (in a good way).Increase your love for life. Whether you want to be a little less shy or just want to level up in your social life, this is a must-listen. And it shouldn’t feel like work! It should get you excited and inspired. Let’s do this together. ---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . . → MHRetreat.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever felt like you lost a relationship with someone that you couldn’t replace?It’s a profound form of mental torture.All kinds of fears enter your mind. Most scary of all: “What if I’ll never be as happy again?”, “Have I ruined my chance at true love?”If you find yourself constantly thinking about how to invite someone back into your life…Or if you have an old flame who keeps coming in and out of your life…Please… watch this before you do anything else.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today I'm joined for an excellent conversation with my friend Mel Robbins (@melrobbins), that will change the way you approach life’s challenges, relationships, and personal growth. Mel Robbins is a New York Times bestselling author and world-renowned expert on motivation and mindset. In this episode, she shares transformative insights from her groundbreaking new book, The Let Them Theory. This one is packed with actionable advice to help you reduce anxiety and drama in your relationships, stop obsessing about micro-managing other people's emotions, build stronger connections, and focus on what truly matters.Topics Include:The core of The Let Them Theory: a simple, powerful mindset tool for managing what’s in your control.How to stop wasting time and energy trying to change or control others.The difference between acting out of guilt and making decisions aligned with your values.Strategies for creating healthy boundaries without guilt or resentment.Why jealousy is a signal of untapped potential—and how to use it to your advantage.The role of radical acceptance in improving relationships and finding peace.How to build a thriving social life by proactively creating connections.The transformative impact of giving up control to gain clarity and freedom.Mel’s personal stories of overcoming loneliness, setting boundaries, and rediscovering joy.Whether you’re struggling with difficult relationships, chasing unfulfilled goals, or seeking more happiness in your life, this episode will give you the tools to take back your power and live authentically. ▼ Connect with Mel ▼The Let Them Theory → LetThem.comYouTube →  youtube.com/c/melrobbinsInstagram → instagram.com/melrobbinsTikTok → tiktok.com/@melrobbins Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A few years ago, a top investing firm found that 41% of divorced Gen Xers and 29% of Baby Boomers said they ended their marriage due to disagreements about money.  Given that money can cause so much upset and even break up relationships, why don’t we talk about it more? What if your partner refuses to discuss money or has unhealthy money habits? What if you both have very different incomes and it makes your partner insecure? No matter what question you have about money and relationships, you can’t miss today’s video featuring my good friend—and bestselling author—Ramit Sethi (@ramit). We go deep into topics such as: The biggest red flags with moneyHaving conversations about spending on luxuries and dividing financesDealing with power imbalances between men and women with different incomesInsecurities and shame around money (or lack of it)How to use money to have a rich life and achieve your goals as a coupleAnd more!--- Order Ramit's new book "Money for Couples" to take control of your finances in your relationships! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You know what drives me soooo crazy?Hearing men and women repeat the same dumb myths about relationships over and over again.And I don’t blame anyone for believing them.The fact is that society, romantic movies, and even our friends and family are responsible for spreading certain “facts” about love and dating that just aren’t true.So today, I teamed up with my brother Stephen Hussey (co-writer of the "Get The Guy" book) to break down the top 5 annoying dating myths that need to end now.This is a fun one – can’t wait for you to see it. . .---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Finding and attracting the relationship you really want can be filled with disappointment. You can have a bad date, or someone who flakes after you felt a real connection, and it can completely crush your hope. You may even feel like “It’s just never going to happen for me,” or worse, “I’ll never find someone like my ex.” But these stories aren’t true. And it’s so important to reframe these moments so we don’t get swept up in our frustration. In today’s episode, I share the 10 best pieces of advice I’ve gathered over the years to help you get over your dating disappointment . . . and give you hope.---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you get your heart broken, who do you turn to for advice?Family? Friends? Trawling around Reddit forums to see what other fellow sufferers have to say about your pain?All of this may help. Maybe.It struck me recently how we’re never really taught how to move on from the agony of losing someone we love. And if we’re not careful, following the behavior of the people around us can make us feel even worse.So. . . let’s pause. Take a breath. Get our s**t together again.It’s nearly 2025. Maybe you’re missing someone right now as the holidays roll around.But now is not the time to mourn. Now is the time to truly begin your healing and put yourself back together before next year begins.Here’s what you need to know to finally move on. . .---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I speak to Andre Duqum about the 4 levels of importance in a relationship, how to know if you’re with the right person, and dating strategy when you feel like your on a timeline because of your biological clock.---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com▼ Connect with Andre ▼Know Thyself Podcast → knowthyself.oneYoutube → ‪@Andreduqum‬ Instagram → @andreduqum Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What can you do when you’re in a situationship and know you should end things . . . but you’re too hooked to risk letting them go? When you’re with them, it’s like all your dreams are coming true . . . but when they withdraw, you feel lost and confused. In today’s new episode, I share 7 steps to finally move on and get the love you deserve. And if you need help convincing your heart as well as your head, these steps will give you the courage you need to do it. ---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever had someone who keeps you just on the edge? Who swings between making you feel like you’re the most important person in the world and suddenly pulling away and freaking out? Yep, it’s totally normal. Today, I’m going to share an exclusive video clip from a live seminar where you’ll see me in a Q&A addressing someone who went through this exact situation. It’s easy to assume in these moments that you’re the problem or to think you somehow have to figure out what’s going on in their head and convince them to make the right choice. Instead, I want you to do this...---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I had so many amazing conversations while promoting my new book "Love Life" in 2024, and this month I want to share some clips from a few of my favorites with you. In this conversation, I talk to entrepreneur and best selling author Ed Mylett (@EdMylett) about the model for REAL self-love (and why it's so difficult), how to achieve both outer confidence and deep inner confidence, exercising real self-care on your worst days, how stop comparing yourself with others, and more! ---►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► Check out Ed's podcast "The Ed Mylett Show" Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been in a one-sided relationship? Where you are always giving more and the other person takes your effort for granted? And looking back, has this pattern always existed?  In today’s episode, I get to the bottom of what’s really going on, and how you can connect to your value and speak your needs. Whether you’re struggling with insecurity or just looking to get out of the never-ending giving rut, this is for you. ---►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s happened to the best of us. The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?”Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out.Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it all around.If you’ve lost momentum with someone, feel your momentum is headed in the wrong direction, or just want to improve your communication, this week’s video is a must-watch. I give you 6 specific text messages you can use or adapt to transform your current situation.The great news is that you only need to try one of these 6 texts to change your dynamic right now. Be sure to let me know which one you try first in the comments!---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special episode, as we come into the final month of the year, I want to sit down and share some of my personal thoughts and lessons from 2024. Whatever challenges or struggles you've gone through this year, I hope this encourages you do your own reflection of the last 12 months and gives you a few helpful steps you can take into 2025. Take this moment now and give yourself the gift of some time spent looking back at what takeaways you can learn from your own story. And as always, be kind to yourself. ---►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why does it feel nearly impossible to leave a narcissist? If you’ve ever been in a narcissistic relationship (whether it be romantic, a friendship, or a family member) you know how hard it is to leave. In today's episode, I dive into this subject . . . and how to avoid the common traps that often keep us stuck in these toxic dynamics.---►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever met someone you really liked and spent weeks terrified you were going to blow it? You’d analyze every message they sent with your friends. You’d worry when they went silent for several hours, constantly checking your phone, looking for signs of hope. Suddenly, you become a person you weren’t before: needy, anxious, possessive—and you can feel that energy making you more and more helpless. I know what this is like, and trust me: if you ever want to build a great relationship without playing games, you need to break out of this mindset fast. Here’s how you change it... ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you find it easy to fall for one person too quickly? Maybe you start dating with the intention of keeping your options open, but you find yourself repeatedly chasing the first person you like (even if they aren't showing the same level of effort in response). In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss how to date intelligently and find the balance between meeting enough people to give yourself options but also investing in the right person when they come along. ---►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you find out where you really stand with someone? It's often hard figuring out how someone else sees your relationship potential, and finding the answer early on can save you a lot of time and unnecessary heartbreak. In today’s episode, I share 6 ways to know if someone is serious about you, no matter which stage of dating you’re in. By the end, you’ll know how to separate genuine intention for commitment from mere attention. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI: AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you they want a break?You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you tells you to fight for this person you care about so much. What would you say to them?In these moments we often do exactly the opposite of what we need to.If you’re in this situation, or you ever want to know what to do if someone says this to you again, please check out my new video. It’s going to give you the only response you’ll ever need...I’d really appreciate it if you would share this video with as many people you care about as possible. I believe that if a video like this was given to all of us at the beginning of adulthood, it would save us all years of unnecessary suffering.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Even if you trust your partner, should you feel ok if they reconnect with an ex? Is it a red flag? Does it overstep a huge boundary? Are they being unreasonable, or are you? In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the nuances of having friendships with your ex, when to see it as a problem, and how to have honest conversations that set your boundaries and express your feelings to your partner. ---►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI: AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The rules are different when you’re in a relationship with a narcissist. You may walk on eggshells, question yourself, or feel like you can never do anything right in their eyes. And if they break up with you? It only leaves you with more confusion. So what’s the right move in this situation? Should we stand up to them? Try to convince them with facts? This is just one of the 7 reasons why you can never expect to get true closure from a narcissist—and what you can do to give closure to yourself—that I share in today’s new episode. ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It always surprises me how often a potentially great relationship is cut short because of avoidable mistakes and insecure behaviors that we haven’t learned to manage. “But doesn’t love solve everything?” Well, not exactly. What often happens is that these toxic patterns slowly undermine every chance at love we find (or at least make the search much harder than it needs to be). In this week’s Rewind episode, I want to share the three most common behaviors that can scare someone off before they have a chance to truly fall for you. Avoid these, and you’ll find it much easier to let someone see your best qualities and build a healthy, happy relationship. ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you stop obsessing over someone you’ve recently started dating? When someone seems to tick all our boxes, it can be hard to NOT become flooded with thoughts of a possible future together. We anxiously wait for their text. We put them on a pedestal . . . and as a result, potentially push them away. In this week’s episode, I share 5 things you can do to stop falling for someone too quickly. By following these steps, you’ll be able to keep your value and actually enjoy dating instead of getting stuck in anxiety. ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Over my career, I’ve had so many people ask me how to get someone to actually call them.We seem to live on our phones these days, and yet, it feels like no one wants to pick them up and actually have a conversation.We're all good with texting, posting on social media, or sending messages, but when it comes to hearing someone’s voice? Well, that seems like too much to ask.Or is it?I've seen people make this way more complicated than it needs to be, so let’s simplify things.If you're tired of texting endlessly and want to create a real connection through conversation, here are 3 killer techniques to get them to pick up the phone and call you...---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today it's my pleasure to sit down with the excellent Oliver Burkeman (@oliverburkeman), author of the new book "Meditation for Mortals", which I've found myself recommending to all my friends and family as his work has hugely influential on me in recent years.We sit down to discuss:Why "settling" in relationships is necessaryHow to find your Life Task - How to get over perfectionismThe power of intuition vs. reasonBeing more present in your life + acceptanceGiving up on the illusion of "arriving"How to get through difficult things, anxiety, and deal with your flaws and more!---►► Grab a copy of Oliver's wonderful new book: Meditation for Mortals►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

THIS is one of the top reasons why a breakup can feel so raw . . . You may have only recently let your guard down and shown your real feelings, only to have the other person end things. This can feel especially painful because it’s like they’ve rejected you for who you truly are at your core. But it doesn’t have to feel that way, because it’s not actually true. And in today’s new episode, I explore 5 different mindsets that can ease heartbreak and restore confidence so you can find the right person faster. ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.