Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Ever felt like you lost a relationship with someone that you couldn’t replace?It’s a profound form of mental torture.All kinds of fears enter your mind. Most scary of all: “What if I’ll never be as happy again?”, “Have I ruined my chance at true love?”If you find yourself constantly thinking about how to invite someone back into your life…Or if you have an old flame who keeps coming in and out of your life…Please… watch this before you do anything else.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today I'm joined for an excellent conversation with my friend Mel Robbins (@melrobbins), that will change the way you approach life’s challenges, relationships, and personal growth. Mel Robbins is a New York Times bestselling author and world-renowned expert on motivation and mindset. In this episode, she shares transformative insights from her groundbreaking new book, The Let Them Theory. This one is packed with actionable advice to help you reduce anxiety and drama in your relationships, stop obsessing about micro-managing other people's emotions, build stronger connections, and focus on what truly matters.Topics Include:The core of The Let Them Theory: a simple, powerful mindset tool for managing what’s in your control.How to stop wasting time and energy trying to change or control others.The difference between acting out of guilt and making decisions aligned with your values.Strategies for creating healthy boundaries without guilt or resentment.Why jealousy is a signal of untapped potential—and how to use it to your advantage.The role of radical acceptance in improving relationships and finding peace.How to build a thriving social life by proactively creating connections.The transformative impact of giving up control to gain clarity and freedom.Mel’s personal stories of overcoming loneliness, setting boundaries, and rediscovering joy.Whether you’re struggling with difficult relationships, chasing unfulfilled goals, or seeking more happiness in your life, this episode will give you the tools to take back your power and live authentically. ▼ Connect with Mel ▼The Let Them Theory → LetThem.comYouTube →  youtube.com/c/melrobbinsInstagram → instagram.com/melrobbinsTikTok → tiktok.com/@melrobbins Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A few years ago, a top investing firm found that 41% of divorced Gen Xers and 29% of Baby Boomers said they ended their marriage due to disagreements about money.  Given that money can cause so much upset and even break up relationships, why don’t we talk about it more? What if your partner refuses to discuss money or has unhealthy money habits? What if you both have very different incomes and it makes your partner insecure? No matter what question you have about money and relationships, you can’t miss today’s video featuring my good friend—and bestselling author—Ramit Sethi (@ramit). We go deep into topics such as: The biggest red flags with moneyHaving conversations about spending on luxuries and dividing financesDealing with power imbalances between men and women with different incomesInsecurities and shame around money (or lack of it)How to use money to have a rich life and achieve your goals as a coupleAnd more!--- Order Ramit's new book "Money for Couples" to take control of your finances in your relationships! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You know what drives me soooo crazy?Hearing men and women repeat the same dumb myths about relationships over and over again.And I don’t blame anyone for believing them.The fact is that society, romantic movies, and even our friends and family are responsible for spreading certain “facts” about love and dating that just aren’t true.So today, I teamed up with my brother Stephen Hussey (co-writer of the "Get The Guy" book) to break down the top 5 annoying dating myths that need to end now.This is a fun one – can’t wait for you to see it. . .---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Finding and attracting the relationship you really want can be filled with disappointment. You can have a bad date, or someone who flakes after you felt a real connection, and it can completely crush your hope. You may even feel like “It’s just never going to happen for me,” or worse, “I’ll never find someone like my ex.” But these stories aren’t true. And it’s so important to reframe these moments so we don’t get swept up in our frustration. In today’s episode, I share the 10 best pieces of advice I’ve gathered over the years to help you get over your dating disappointment . . . and give you hope.---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you get your heart broken, who do you turn to for advice?Family? Friends? Trawling around Reddit forums to see what other fellow sufferers have to say about your pain?All of this may help. Maybe.It struck me recently how we’re never really taught how to move on from the agony of losing someone we love. And if we’re not careful, following the behavior of the people around us can make us feel even worse.So. . . let’s pause. Take a breath. Get our s**t together again.It’s nearly 2025. Maybe you’re missing someone right now as the holidays roll around.But now is not the time to mourn. Now is the time to truly begin your healing and put yourself back together before next year begins.Here’s what you need to know to finally move on. . .---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I speak to Andre Duqum about the 4 levels of importance in a relationship, how to know if you’re with the right person, and dating strategy when you feel like your on a timeline because of your biological clock.---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com▼ Connect with Andre ▼Know Thyself Podcast → knowthyself.oneYoutube → ‪@Andreduqum‬ Instagram → @andreduqum Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What can you do when you’re in a situationship and know you should end things . . . but you’re too hooked to risk letting them go? When you’re with them, it’s like all your dreams are coming true . . . but when they withdraw, you feel lost and confused. In today’s new episode, I share 7 steps to finally move on and get the love you deserve. And if you need help convincing your heart as well as your head, these steps will give you the courage you need to do it. ---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever had someone who keeps you just on the edge? Who swings between making you feel like you’re the most important person in the world and suddenly pulling away and freaking out? Yep, it’s totally normal. Today, I’m going to share an exclusive video clip from a live seminar where you’ll see me in a Q&A addressing someone who went through this exact situation. It’s easy to assume in these moments that you’re the problem or to think you somehow have to figure out what’s going on in their head and convince them to make the right choice. Instead, I want you to do this...---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I had so many amazing conversations while promoting my new book "Love Life" in 2024, and this month I want to share some clips from a few of my favorites with you. In this conversation, I talk to entrepreneur and best selling author Ed Mylett (@EdMylett) about the model for REAL self-love (and why it's so difficult), how to achieve both outer confidence and deep inner confidence, exercising real self-care on your worst days, how stop comparing yourself with others, and more! ---►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► Check out Ed's podcast "The Ed Mylett Show" Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been in a one-sided relationship? Where you are always giving more and the other person takes your effort for granted? And looking back, has this pattern always existed?  In today’s episode, I get to the bottom of what’s really going on, and how you can connect to your value and speak your needs. Whether you’re struggling with insecurity or just looking to get out of the never-ending giving rut, this is for you. ---►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s happened to the best of us. The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?”Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out.Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it all around.If you’ve lost momentum with someone, feel your momentum is headed in the wrong direction, or just want to improve your communication, this week’s video is a must-watch. I give you 6 specific text messages you can use or adapt to transform your current situation.The great news is that you only need to try one of these 6 texts to change your dynamic right now. Be sure to let me know which one you try first in the comments!---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special episode, as we come into the final month of the year, I want to sit down and share some of my personal thoughts and lessons from 2024. Whatever challenges or struggles you've gone through this year, I hope this encourages you do your own reflection of the last 12 months and gives you a few helpful steps you can take into 2025. Take this moment now and give yourself the gift of some time spent looking back at what takeaways you can learn from your own story. And as always, be kind to yourself. ---►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why does it feel nearly impossible to leave a narcissist? If you’ve ever been in a narcissistic relationship (whether it be romantic, a friendship, or a family member) you know how hard it is to leave. In today's episode, I dive into this subject . . . and how to avoid the common traps that often keep us stuck in these toxic dynamics.---►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever met someone you really liked and spent weeks terrified you were going to blow it? You’d analyze every message they sent with your friends. You’d worry when they went silent for several hours, constantly checking your phone, looking for signs of hope. Suddenly, you become a person you weren’t before: needy, anxious, possessive—and you can feel that energy making you more and more helpless. I know what this is like, and trust me: if you ever want to build a great relationship without playing games, you need to break out of this mindset fast. Here’s how you change it... ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you find it easy to fall for one person too quickly? Maybe you start dating with the intention of keeping your options open, but you find yourself repeatedly chasing the first person you like (even if they aren't showing the same level of effort in response). In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss how to date intelligently and find the balance between meeting enough people to give yourself options but also investing in the right person when they come along. ---►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you find out where you really stand with someone? It's often hard figuring out how someone else sees your relationship potential, and finding the answer early on can save you a lot of time and unnecessary heartbreak. In today’s episode, I share 6 ways to know if someone is serious about you, no matter which stage of dating you’re in. By the end, you’ll know how to separate genuine intention for commitment from mere attention. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI: AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you they want a break?You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you tells you to fight for this person you care about so much. What would you say to them?In these moments we often do exactly the opposite of what we need to.If you’re in this situation, or you ever want to know what to do if someone says this to you again, please check out my new video. It’s going to give you the only response you’ll ever need...I’d really appreciate it if you would share this video with as many people you care about as possible. I believe that if a video like this was given to all of us at the beginning of adulthood, it would save us all years of unnecessary suffering.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Even if you trust your partner, should you feel ok if they reconnect with an ex? Is it a red flag? Does it overstep a huge boundary? Are they being unreasonable, or are you? In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the nuances of having friendships with your ex, when to see it as a problem, and how to have honest conversations that set your boundaries and express your feelings to your partner. ---►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI: AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The rules are different when you’re in a relationship with a narcissist. You may walk on eggshells, question yourself, or feel like you can never do anything right in their eyes. And if they break up with you? It only leaves you with more confusion. So what’s the right move in this situation? Should we stand up to them? Try to convince them with facts? This is just one of the 7 reasons why you can never expect to get true closure from a narcissist—and what you can do to give closure to yourself—that I share in today’s new episode. ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It always surprises me how often a potentially great relationship is cut short because of avoidable mistakes and insecure behaviors that we haven’t learned to manage. “But doesn’t love solve everything?” Well, not exactly. What often happens is that these toxic patterns slowly undermine every chance at love we find (or at least make the search much harder than it needs to be). In this week’s Rewind episode, I want to share the three most common behaviors that can scare someone off before they have a chance to truly fall for you. Avoid these, and you’ll find it much easier to let someone see your best qualities and build a healthy, happy relationship. ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you stop obsessing over someone you’ve recently started dating? When someone seems to tick all our boxes, it can be hard to NOT become flooded with thoughts of a possible future together. We anxiously wait for their text. We put them on a pedestal . . . and as a result, potentially push them away. In this week’s episode, I share 5 things you can do to stop falling for someone too quickly. By following these steps, you’ll be able to keep your value and actually enjoy dating instead of getting stuck in anxiety. ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Over my career, I’ve had so many people ask me how to get someone to actually call them.We seem to live on our phones these days, and yet, it feels like no one wants to pick them up and actually have a conversation.We're all good with texting, posting on social media, or sending messages, but when it comes to hearing someone’s voice? Well, that seems like too much to ask.Or is it?I've seen people make this way more complicated than it needs to be, so let’s simplify things.If you're tired of texting endlessly and want to create a real connection through conversation, here are 3 killer techniques to get them to pick up the phone and call you...---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today it's my pleasure to sit down with the excellent Oliver Burkeman (@oliverburkeman), author of the new book "Meditation for Mortals", which I've found myself recommending to all my friends and family as his work has hugely influential on me in recent years.We sit down to discuss:Why "settling" in relationships is necessaryHow to find your Life Task - How to get over perfectionismThe power of intuition vs. reasonBeing more present in your life + acceptanceGiving up on the illusion of "arriving"How to get through difficult things, anxiety, and deal with your flaws and more!---►► Grab a copy of Oliver's wonderful new book: Meditation for Mortals►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

THIS is one of the top reasons why a breakup can feel so raw . . . You may have only recently let your guard down and shown your real feelings, only to have the other person end things. This can feel especially painful because it’s like they’ve rejected you for who you truly are at your core. But it doesn’t have to feel that way, because it’s not actually true. And in today’s new episode, I explore 5 different mindsets that can ease heartbreak and restore confidence so you can find the right person faster. ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you’re in love and someone decides to end the relationship, it’s natural for your brain to go into "panic mode."Why are they doing this? How can I be the person they want? What can I say to win them back?If you allow these swirling thoughts to take over, you’ll likely end up pushing them further and further away.Now, I’m not here to tell you whether or not you should give things another try with your ex. There are many factors to consider, which we can talk about another time.But what I do know is that if you want to have a real chance of reconnecting, you must understand this important truth before taking the next step...---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, I answered your questions live on a host of dating topics! Come join and listen in! ---►► Learn What It Takes to Get Real, Lasting Commitment. Watch the Limited-Time Replay of Casual to Committed now: LoveLifeReplay.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tired of dating the wrong people? When we really want to find a relationship, saying “no” to the people who don’t align with our core values can feel scary . . . especially when we’re not meeting a lot of people we connect with. We may even start to loosen our standards and become attached to someone who’s only giving us crumbs. In today’s episode, I dive into the subtle-but-profound difference between those who successfully find love, and those who continue to remain in limbo. You’ll also learn how to cultivate the right culture in your life to attract a lasting, fulfilling relationship (plus I share a story from my younger days as a DJ). Let me know your thoughts in the comments!---►► If You’re Ready to Escape the Maze and Discover What It Takes to Get Real, Lasting Commitment Watch the Limited-Time Replay of Casual to Committed now: LoveLifeReplay.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been hurt badly by someone in love?Those wounds can stay with us a long time. They can stop us from taking chances again in love.They can make us afraid of getting close to someone again… Afraid of being vulnerable again…Afraid of letting someone in…Because if the result of letting our guard down and choosing to love someone is that we give up all of our power, then why bother, right? Sure, we may be giving up the special experience of being in love, but at least we don’t have to experience those dreadful lows.If you can relate to this, today’s episode is for you. You’ll hear me doing a live demonstration with someone who is going through exactly this issue. And what I tell her may be exactly the words you need to hear right now.This episode isn’t a pep talk. It’s a rational, practical strategy for how to navigate your love life after someone has hurt you, or broken your heart or your trust (or all 3).---►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All. Watch the reply of my FREE Masterclass, "From Casual to Committed" before it expires: LoveLifeReplay.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week Stephen sits down with Matt and Audrey to talk about all things commitment (including some questions about their own relationship!)Topics include:Why people fear commitmentWhy choosing your partner feels so high stakesWhat makes sharing your life feel harder in 2024Why we hold back emotionallyDeciding if your standards are too high or too lowHow to know if you're compatibleWhat flaws should you accept in a partnerWhether you’re sick of superficial situationships or want to learn how to grow closer in your relationship, this is for you! ---►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All. Watch my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed: LoveLifeTraining.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why is it that we seem to be attracted to certain people who only give us scraps of attention? It often happens when we tell ourselves that someone is so rare and desirable that they’re worth holding on to even if they don’t want the same things as us. In today’s episode, I’ll show you the trap that many people end up falling into, plus one key quality that results in more commitment. Whether you’re sick of superficial situationships or want to learn how to grow closer in your relationship, this is for you! ---►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All. Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed: LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been with someone you were certain would never settle down? The type who would declare to all their friends that they just “weren’t made” for a relationship . . . only to one day announce they’re in a serious relationship or even getting married?When this happens, we think, “What did the person they committed to do that I didn’t?!”What makes someone suddenly decide to commit?In this week’s video, I not only dive into the answer to this question, but I also give you 4 practical pieces of psychology you can use to influence someone’s desire to commit to you.---►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All. Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed: LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matt went live on Instagram and YouTube and answered YOUR questions! We talk about male role models, knowing if someone is willing to truly commit, and whether to leave to door open for your ex to come back. ---►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid "Relationship Limbo". Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed: LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com.com►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results": DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matt and Audrey answer a question from a listener in an exclusive "situationship" with someone she truly connects with, but who still doesn't want to fully commit and call it a relationship. We discuss how to interpret their behavior, what to do to protect yourself from future pain, and what your options are now that you've invested 2 years in someone who is still holding back. ---►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid "Relationship Limbo".►► Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed: LoveLifeTraining.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results": DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you struggled to find people who actually want commitment? Do you feel like you’re always trying to persuade someone why a relationship is a good thing? Dating can feel harder than ever in 2024. In today’s episode, I explain why so many people are anxious about commitment, give 3 different mindsets on commitment that can totally change someone’s perspective on it, and show what makes someone want commitment with YOU. (Spoiler alert: persuading has nothing to do with it!) ---►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid "Relationship Limbo" Once and for All. Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed: LoveLifeTraining.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results": DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There’s a line from the movie Vanilla Sky that I’ve always loved. It’s when Tom Cruise’s character realizes: “The little things... There’s nothing bigger, is there?” That’s often true in attraction too. So many people are looking for the huge epiphany, instead of the subtle-yet-powerful changes to their behavior that can skyrocket their results. As you'll learn in this episode, making a deeper connection doesn't have to be complicated. Try one of these 5 simple steps on your next date! ---►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All. Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed: LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results": DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Esther Perel returns for part two of our chat on all things modern dating and sexual communication in relationships. In this episode, Matt and Esther discuss:The realities of the biological clock (and how to date accordingly)How to find a romantic partner for your ageThe concept of "soulmates" and what matters in relationshipsHaving the right expectations The challenge of modern masculinity, jealousy, and sexual judgmentConversations that improve your sex life How to stoke desire in a relationship--- Esther is a New York Times Bestselling author who books "Mating In Captivity" and "The State Of Affairs" have had a profound impact on our understanding of modern relationships. Get a copy of Esther's brand new course "The Desire Bundle" ▼ Connect with Esther ▼ Blog → estherperel.com YouTube → ‪@estherperel‬ Instagram →  @estherperelofficial Facebook → @esther.perel ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼ Blog → matthewhussey.com/blog/ Facebook → @coachmatthewhussey Instagram → @thematthewhussey Twitter → @matthewhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever found yourself in the “casual zone” with someone you’re dating . . . and it seems impossible to escape it? When it started, you were fine with them saying, “Let’s see how it goes,” but you soon found yourself stuck in limbo with all your friends asking if you were in a relationship . . . While there are many positive reasons to take things slow when dating someone, there are 4 specific scenarios where “just seeing where something goes” can lead to heartbreak. In today’s episode, I walk you through each situation so you can figure out where you stand and move things forward. The sooner you watch this, the faster you’ll know if a relationship actually has potential. ---►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All. Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed: LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . . You go on a date with someone and hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon, you're seeing each other all the time. You text them daily, make plans for the future, and every time their name pops up on your phone, you feel a surge of happiness and excitement. That very same excitement keeps hitting new peaks until, suddenly, you feel a shift. They grow more and more distant, and at first you're not sure whether you're imagining it or whether they really are pulling away. You double down on effort and communication, but it only seems to drive them further away until eventually they call it a day and stops messaging altogether. If this has ever happened to you, then you know it can drive you crazy working out how to act when someone is clearly pulling away from you. But as it turns out, there is a right way and a wrong way to proceed when this happens, and it can determine whether someone stays or goes. In today’s episode, I’ll share with you the #1 reason why people pull away and a high-value way to respond to it. ---►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI for Free: AskMH.com ►► Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me: Facebook → @coachmatthewhussey Instagram → @thematthewhussey Twitter → @matthewhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we're joined by world renowned psychotherapist and relationship expert Esther Perel! In this conversation, Matt and Esther talk about how to create desire in relationships, getting connected to your sexuality (even if you haven't in a long time), and practical advice for finding real attraction and love in modern dating. Get a copy of Esther's brand new course "The Desire Bundle".---►► Connect with Esther: Blog → estherperel.com YouTube → ‪@estherperel‬ Instagram →  @estherperelofficial Facebook → @esther.perel►► Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me: Blog → matthewhussey.com/blog/ Facebook → @coachmatthewhussey Instagram → @thematthewhussey Twitter → @matthewhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Were we even on the same date?” I’ve heard this more times than I can count when people feel frustrated that their date didn’t ask them many questions . . . or in some cases, any questions at all. In today’s episode, I respond to a viral TikTok on this topic and talk about how to tell the difference between someone who’s self-absorbed vs. someone who is just oblivious but really is interested in learning more about you. I also give you two sample scripts you can use when you want to bring up the issue in a high-value and low-pressure way.  ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s strange how we often feel more comfortable with the idea of going on a date with a stranger than talking on the phone. But isn’t it a good idea? Shouldn’t we test how they are on the phone before we meet in person? In this clip, we answer a question from someone who feels that men get scared off when she suggests a phone call, and give some practical tips for how to build more comfort before the first date. ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What are some practical ways we can deal with the grief we'll face in our lives? How do we stay present and not get lost in the painful stories and traumas of the past? And how do we get over guilt and regret? I shared a clip from my talk with Grief Expert David Kessler earlier this week, and I wanted to share a part two because I know how powerful this work will be for anyone in my audience suffering from loss and dealing with heartache. ---►► Order Your Copy of David Kessler’s Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief on Amazon: tinyurl.com/5wr8ja2a ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever suffered a loss you’ve never really moved on from? It could be someone you loved. It could be a failure, or the loss of a life you thought you would have. It could be trauma that goes back to childhood.  The good news is, you can heal. I had the enormous privilege of hosting world-renowned grief expert David Kessler at my Retreat in Florida this year. In this week’s epsiode, you’ll hear his profound advice for what it really takes to move on and truly heal from our biggest losses. ---►► Order Your Copy of David Kessler’s Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief: GriefBook.com ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward.I really wanted to make this episode because the tone you set in the beginning will serve you throughout your entire relationship, and the influence you can have on being taken seriously by someone is huge. It can determine whether your relationship will be a casual one that’s on their terms, or a committed, loving one where you’re building something together.And in addition to being practical, this episode breaks down the psychology behind each of these tips and provides you with examples (and in many cases, specific texts) you can customize and make your own.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you find some relationships and situations in life that just drain you? Maybe there are people you're investing energy into in your dating life that make you feel burnt out, frustrated, and make you want to withdraw entirely. So if you want to spend your time in a happier, freer, more productive way that leaves you uplifted, this episode is for you. Matt gives 7 key insights from the book "Protect Your Peace" by Trent Shelton that will change your mindset and stop you surrounding yourself with toxic people that add to your stress in life.---►► Answers Tailored to You, In Real Time, When You Need Them Most. Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why does dating feel so difficult today? It can often seem like it’s a competition to see who can be more “aloof,” who can care less, who can try the least. And when you put in actual effort, it can feel like it even turns people off!  Everyone seems to be looking for someone “rare and special,” but there’s a right way and a wrong way to approach this. In today’s episode, I explore the #1 way to approach dating, advice for texting, and small-but-effective ways to move things forward. ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What can you do when you feel like you're getting excuses and feel they're pulling away in their texts? If you don't want to play games, here's a simple way you can be honest, vulnerable, but still keep your standards when you respond.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you know is someone is ready for a relationship? What if they use phrases in their dating app like "If the right person came along, I'd be open to a relationship", or "I want to see how things go"? In this episode, Matt, Audrey and Stephen discuss how certain you need to be of someone's intentions in the early dating stages and how you should decide who to invest in so you don't waste your time with the wrong person.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today, Matthew and Audrey sit down for an enlightening conversation with Kimberly Snyder, author of “The Hidden Power of The Five Hearts”. Kimberly is a New York Times Bestseller and Holistic Wellness Coach who offers practical intelligence on how to deeply connect to your hearts power, enabling you to feel more centered, think clearer, and find emotional balance. Kimberly also shares her powerful tools on how to overcome overthinking and to tap into your deepest confidence, flow and ability to attract meaningful relationships.  Topics include how to:  Get Out Of A Rut And Tap Into Your IntuitionStop Settling And Feeling Unworthy LoveBecome More Emotionally ResilientOvercome Fear, Anxiety and BurnoutFeel More Internally Fulfilled And EmpoweredStep Into A State Of Flow---►► Get your copy of “The Hidden Power Of The Five Hearts”►► Follow Kimberly on Insta: @kimberlysnyder and @soulunabyks Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.