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How To Respond To "Bare Minimum" Texting | Matt Monday

Ever found yourself sitting with your friends trying to "decode" what someone's texts mean, especially when they seem to be giving the bare minimum? And should you respond with the same aloof behavior?  Today’s video will give you some simple techniques for clear communication, show you how to model the behavior you want to see, and give you the confidence to set your standards so you're not waiting around for someone to put in more effort. ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 9, 202417 min

3 Mistakes People Make When It Comes To Exclusivity in Dating | Rewind

It’s very easy to avoid having certain conversations in life. And one of the more dangerous forms of avoidance is assuming we’re exclusive when it’s unclear in early dating. So when should you have The Conversation? And what are some of the pitfalls that lead to people being “in limbo” and never really getting the commitment they want?In this episode, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey talk about 3 common mistakes in the early dating stage and how to get clearer about where you really stand. ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 6, 202411 min

Ep 260He Seemed Attracted...Then Pulled Away. Why?

Ever felt like you had chemistry and were falling for someone, and then they seem to start texting less, stop scheduling dates, and seem to be fading out? What does this mean? And more importantly, should you have "the conversation" to see where you stand? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey talk to a caller who felt the guy she was seeing wasn't interested anymore after he went on vacation. They discuss how to respond and what some the reasons might be behind this behavior.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 4, 202440 min

Feel Them Pulling Away? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead! | Matt Monday

Ever been dating someone who suddenly goes cold when they go on a trip out of town? What happened? And how should you respond to this behavior? Today’s episode is all about what happens when we invest too soon, and how someone’s “radio silence” can trigger our insecurity. I even provide two text messages you can send: one for if they reach back out to you when they’re back in town, and one for when they don’t. BTW, don’t miss our HUGE announcement in this one (it’s right after Audrey’s cheeky cameo). ;) You’ll be one of the first people in the world to try this thing out . . . it’s crazy!---►► 17 Years of Love Life Coaching Experience in Your Pocket Whenever You Need It. Get on the Early Bird List for Matthew AI Now: AskMHFirst.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 2, 202420 min

Heal Your Broken Heart. Starting Now. | Rewind

When your heart gets broken, it can be as painful as any physical trauma.You can't eat. The world seems dark. Your every thought is tinged with a feeling of loss and hopelessness.But there are STILL choices. And the ones you make now will decide whether you stay feeling broken and defeated, or whether you heal and come back feeling stronger, more confident, and ready to love again.Here's how to get on the right path back to YOU . . .---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 30, 202419 min

Ep 259How to Get Over Narcissists, Cheating, and Heartbreak...the RIGHT Way

When you've been betrayed or hurt by someone, you can often ask yourself, "How did I miss the red flags?". And in this reaction you may end up blaming yourself. Especially if you feel like there's a recurring pattern in the people you've chosen to date so far. So what is the role of our own responsibility when we date people who hurt us? And how do we practice self-forgiveness and compassion for ourselves so we don't get caught in a trap of endlessly beating ourselves up for someone else's bad behavior? In this episode Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss the role of self-compassion versus accountability, dealing with betrayal, and how to move on from heartbreak the right way.---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 28, 202438 min

Why They Commit to the NEXT Person | Matt Monday

“I’m always the person they date right before they find the person they marry . . .” Sound familiar? It can be shocking to find out that someone who always held out on commitment suddenly decides they want marriage and children . . . but only after you break up. At that point, you might be thinking: “Oh, so they were able to change . . . they just didn’t want to change with me.” So how can you recover from this feeling of not being chosen? In today’s episode, I share 3 things you MUST know when you find yourself in this situation and can’t move on.---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 26, 202417 min

3 Text Messages to Make Them Try Harder in Early Dating | Rewind

Are you tired of people not putting in any effort? I get it, this can be extremely frustrating, especially if you consistently come across people like this. If you’re wondering what you could do to make someone try harder in early dating, I have a powerful concept to share with you that relates to maintaining attraction. Plus, you'll learn how to apply this concept with three powerful messages you can send to communicate your standards in a playful yet effective way that will encourage them to actually pursue you.---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 23, 20247 min

Ep 258“He Was My First Real Love, And Broke My Heart…"

The first time you experience heartbreak is a shattering experience. It's a new pain, it feels like your entire world falls apart, and you don't know if you'll ever feel better. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to shift your perspective on your heartbreak, the mindset that helps your recover, and how to stop seeing this person as your only path to happiness.---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 21, 202428 min

Did You Lose "The One"? Here's What To Do Now. | Matt Monday

Do you have the heartbreaking feeling that you lost “The One”? Maybe you’re haunted by a mistake you made, or something you said, or just a feeling that you could have done something differently to save the relationship. Here’s the good news: There is a path out of this pain. In today’s episode, I’ll show you 5 ways you can recover after (what you feel was) a love life mistake. Whether you’re mentally beating yourself up or just can’t seem to move on, I’ll show you how to feel better instantly, and what you can do when you see that person again.---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 19, 202429 min

3 Ways to Find Out If They Are Love Bombing You | Rewind

I’ve heard this story so many times before . . .You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection. What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair. When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?”You feel amazing.Over the next few weeks, it’s a whirlwind. He wants to spend every waking minute together, he’s outspoken about his feelings for you, and upon waking, you always have a “Good morning, gorgeous!” text waiting for you.He may even go so far as to introduce you to his friends and family . . . or say those three little words that so many others have struggled to say to you in the past . . .It’s intense and fast, but it feels so good that you just let the romance sweep you off your feet.Overnight, your life has turned into one of those romantic movie montages that show the highlight reel of a perfect relationship, except instead of the montage spanning a year or two, it’s hitting those milestones after a few weeks.And then, of course, it happens . . . something feels wrong, the communication slows down, he starts to pull away, and before you know it, he vanishes completely.You’re left dazed, shellshocked, and wounded—fully relating to the term “love bombing” and wondering if any of it was even real.If this sounds familiar, then this video is for you as I share 3 tests that will help you spot a love bomber.---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 16, 202412 min

Ep 257Don't Let Your Anxiety Sabotage Your Relationships (What To Do Instead!)

There are many ways anxiety can show up in our relationships. When we like someone and worry about them losing interest. When we're waiting for a text back. When we overthink in a relationship. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the fears that activate anxious behavior in relationships, how to become more aware of your triggers, and simple ways to get more emotional control and calm your anxiety. ---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 15, 202442 min

My Honest Advice to Someone Scared Of Dating Again | Matt Monday

Maybe this will sound familiar: After a few bad dating experiences, you say to yourself, “My life is pretty awesome as it is, so why do I even want someone else disturbing my peace?” The thought of not having to deal with the dating process may feel like a huge relief in that moment . . . but what actually happens when you decide not to put yourself out there anymore (when deep down, you still want to find love)?  In today’s episode, I share 5 ways you can get back into dating that won’t lead to burnout. You’ll see how to maintain your peace while also giving yourself permission to take small (or even big) swings in love.---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 12, 202434 min

3 Ways to Deal With Rejection in Dating | Rewind

When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself?Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out first on an app, or allowing yourself to “let go” whilst on a date, this fear is the very thing that will have you looking back wistfully and saying “What if?” years from now rather than saying “Why not?” in the moment.Of course, in a world where people are constantly trying to curate and filter their lives, it’s no wonder most of us find it scary to try something where validation isn’t guaranteed.And while it might not be possible to feel completely immune to the fear of rejection, there are things you can do to move beyond that paralyzing anxiety.In today’s episode, I’m going to give you three secrets to changing your relationship with rejection . . .---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 9, 202411 min

Ep 256"I've Fallen For Someone I Work With...But He's Married"

What do you do if you meet someone who makes you feel accepted, safe, happy, and you truly connect . . . but they're already in a relationship? And even worse, they may tell you that they are unhappy in their marriage and want to spend time more with you. Should you give them an ultimatum? Or should you walk away? Matthew and Audrey answer a listener facing this exact dilemma right now, explain why this happens, and break down what the best options are in this difficult situation. ---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 8, 20241h 3m

How I Got Over Shyness and Social Anxiety (And You Can Too!) | Matt Monday

Are you someone who dreads big social gatherings? Or you want to hide under the covers at the thought of being seen in a crowd, meeting new people, or going on a first date? In this episode, Matt talks about his own early experience with being a "shy kid", the psychology behind social anxiety (and what makes it worse), and some powerful mindset shifts that can put us in state of relaxed confidence.---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Striking up Conversation Can Be Intimidating. Get 9 Effortless Ways to Create Conversation That Feel Natural and Simple: WhatToSayNext.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 5, 202428 min

What to Do When Your Ex Moves on RIDICULOUSLY FAST | Rewind

When your ex moves on quickly, it can feel like a gut punch. It leaves you questioning everything – the relationship, your self-worth, and the life you two built together. If you’re going through this, know you’re not alone.This episode dives deep into understanding those tough emotions and, most importantly, helps you reclaim your power and confidence as you move forward.---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 2, 202411 min

Ep 255Bad Habits Don’t Have To Ruin Your Life. Do This Instead…

Do you often give into your worst impulses? Feel like you’ve lost control and don’t know how you’ll reach your goals if you keep failing like this? It’s ok. You’re human. There are ways we can work with our psychology to manage these impulses and not let our bad habits defeat us. In this episode, Matt talks about one of the single biggest keys to picking yourself back up and getting what you want when you feel like you keep letting yourself down.   ---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 31, 202435 min

7 Steps To Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People | Matt Monday

Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t feel right.” If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us looking to others to validate our choices and tell us we’re doing the right thing (which can be dangerous for many reasons). So how can you get out of this cycle? In today’s new episode, I share 7 simple steps you can take to make better decisions in love and start building self-trust again.---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 29, 202426 min

You’re Dating Them, But They’re Not Texting Enough | Rewind

What happens when someone is great on a date, but they’re terrible at communication in between? They don’t reach out, they’re unresponsive, and it makes you feel like they’re not really invested.In this clip, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey talk about how to create your own culture in dating, leading with your behaviour, and how to reach out while keeping your self-respect. ---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 26, 202412 min

Ep 254What To Do When The Attraction Isn’t Strong Enough…

Have you ever been there? You meet someone online, the connection sparks, and attraction starts to grow with every conversation. But then, when you meet in person, something‘s off. Maybe their height isn‘t quite what the pictures showed, or their photos were way outdated. And even though you try to push past it, the initial spark is gone.And now you feel stuck . . . You know you‘re not interested, but the thought of letting them down fills you with fear and anxiety. If this sounds familiar, you won‘t want to miss this episode. Audrey and Matt discuss how to navigate this situation if you‘re a people pleaser or struggle with guilt when delivering bad news. ---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 25, 202458 min

7 Things Narcissists Do That’ll Never Make Sense to You | Matt Monday

What is a relationship with a narcissist really like? If you’re an empathetic person, it can make you feel crazy: You doubt yourself constantly. You’re always second-guessing. Your boundaries and sense of self are slowly broken down by emotional manipulation and gaslighting. Whether you’re still feeling the wounds from a past narcissistic relationship, or are trying to figure out if you’re in a relationship with a narcissist right now, today’s episode is your next step. I walk you through the 7 signs you're dating a narcissist and show you how to spot these traits faster in your next relationship.---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 22, 202427 min

How to Get Over Someone You STILL Can't Get Over | Rewind

What if you’ve been dating someone with whom you feel a truly unique and natural connection, but they have a fatal flaw that means a relationship is impossible?There is a real danger to the feeling that this person is irreplaceable, when you tell yourself “I can’t find this connection with anyone else”. If we never make space for something new, never let go, and always hold onto hope of what might have been, we can get stuck on an old relationship forever.So if you’re ready to truly move on and get over “the one that got away”, this video will help you move forward with confidence and certainty.---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 19, 202410 min

Ep 253“How Do I Get Him to Try Harder?”

Theresa says, “I feel like I’m his lowest priority”. Even though the guy she’s dating long-distance says all the right things, he is constantly busy and now she feels like an obligation to him rather than someone he’s excited to see. “He doesn’t want to lose me”, she says, “but he doesn’t want to try either”. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to handle this on-the-fence situation, when someone says they want to see you but isn’t able or truly willing to fulfil your needs, and whether you should date someone who is too busy to make you their priority right now. ---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 17, 202448 min

Feel Like You’ve Lost “The One”? | Matt Monday

Have you felt the heartbreak of losing the “love of your life,” and now you want them back? Or perhaps you feel trapped in sadness after a breakup and don’t know how to move on. Either way, this is the first aid you need right now. In today’s episode, I explain the #1 thing that defines our reality during a breakup, and show how the obsession we might feel during a breakup can have its roots in the early days of dating someone. And if you’re on the fence about getting back with your ex, the 3 steps I share today can help you make that decision.---►► Striking up Conversation Can Be Intimidating. Get 9 Effortless Ways to Create Conversation That Feel Natural and Simple: WhatToSayNext.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 15, 202433 min

4 Dangerous Reasons You Fall In Love Too Fast | Rewind

Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas.He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour.Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her.Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…”She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to him.But then . . . he never called . . . (I know, it’s horrible, right?)The truth is, this often happens because of some very simple mistakes we make when it comes to falling in love.In this week’s rewind episode, I’ll show you how to avoid them . . .  ---►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 12, 20245 min

Ep 252"Things Were Going Well... Then He Ended it Suddenly"

►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 11, 202448 min

My Honest Advice to Single Women Who Want a Family | Matt Monday

“How and when should I have the conversation that I want marriage and kids?” Good question! And definitely a tricky subject for most people. We are told to be honest about what we want, but we also worry about scaring someone off if we bring it up too soon. In today’s episode, I give you 6 practical steps to help you determine if someone shares your goals and timeline, figure out exactly what you want (and come up with a plan for each possibility), and approach these conversations in a natural and confident way.---►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 8, 202428 min

If You're Worried You Invest in a Relationship Too Quickly. . . | Rewind

Do you find yourself always falling for a guy too fast?You go on a few dates, maybe you end up sleeping with him, and then . . . you’re totally hooked.Suddenly, he’s the #1 topic of conversation with you and your friends.You find yourself constantly wanting to text him. You sit at home wondering what he’s up to. You’re tempted to rush things forward.Wait. Stop. Relax.There’s nothing wrong with being a romantic, but you have to be so careful here to make the right decisions going forward.If you find your heart always investing in a guy when your head tells you to calm down, here’s the secret to taking back your power . . . --- ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 5, 202412 min

Ep 251"I Can’t Get Over My Ex...Please Help Me Move On!”

When you've made progress getting over someone, then they send you a text, how should you react? Or maybe they still like your Instagram posts, respond to your stories, or you see glimpses of their life with a new partner and it triggers you . . . In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to deal with triggers that derail your progress and what to do when you're trying to move on for good and want to TRULY get over your ex. ---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 3, 202435 min

Get Too Obsessed, Too Soon? WATCH THIS | Matt Monday

Do you get obsessed too quickly in the early days of dating? This is often dangerous because it places WAY too much of our happiness in trying to attract and keep someone (even when we don’t really know them yet).  Thankfully, this kind of “anxious dating” is something you can actually solve. In today’s episode, I dive into where this obsession comes from, and give you 5 things you can do to stop falling for someone too quickly and self-sabotaging in early dating.---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days . . . Learn More About My Live Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 1, 202422 min

Why We Get Attracted to the Wrong People | Rewind

Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people? It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want. In this episode, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening. At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this . . . Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person . . . --- ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 28, 20245 min

Ep 250“How Soon Can I Ask for Exclusivity?”

When is the best time to ask the person you’re dating if they’re still dating other people? Is there a “sweet spot” during the dating process to have the exclusivity conversation? In today’s podcast, you’ll learn how to balance emotional intuition with practical strategy . . . plus avoid emotional manipulators and love bombers in the process. You’ll also learn how important connection is (and when feeling it in the early days of dating can lead you down the wrong path, especially when chemistry is valued over compatibility). This episode will give you tools and mindsets to navigate the early days of dating with confidence!---►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 26, 202448 min

How to Heal From a Narcissistic Relationship | Matt Monday

In today’s new episode, an incredible member of my Club 320 inner circle asked 3 beautifully vulnerable questions (and gave me permission to share them with you). From a painful childhood to a 10-year relationship with a narcissist, she wanted to figure out how to release shame, heal, and find her true self.  No matter what your story is, you don’t have to carry this baggage forever. After listening to Cara’s story, you might start to look at your life, your history, and your future differently.---►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 24, 202419 min

Don’t Avoid Difficult Conversations In Relationships. Do THIS… | Rewind

Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we're afraid we will "make waves" in the relationship. We come from a place of fear and anxiety. "What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?" we think to ourselves. So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer. But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on. If this is you, this episode is for you.---►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 21, 20244 min

Ep 249Don’t Fall for THIS Early Dating Trap!

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Jun 19, 202435 min

Long Distance Relationship? AVOID This Mistake | Matt Monday

Have you ever wondered how you can move on from someone you never dated? Perhaps you’ve been pining for them for months (or even years) . . . hoping they’ll finally notice you and see your value.  This great question is one of seven I answer in today’s new episode, based on the comments you left me last week.I also dig into topics like:• What’s the best way to start a long-distance relationship?• What’s your dating advice for people over 40?• Why did they change their mind about being ready for a relationship? Don’t miss these, and once you’re done, be sure to send an email to [email protected] with a question you’d like me to answer next time!---►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 17, 202423 min

Do You Feel You’re Giving Too Much in Relationships? | Rewind

What do you do when you’re a giving person but you feel like your kindness gets taken advantage of in relationships? Maybe you feel like you’re always the one trying and then your resentment builds up until one day you explode in anger. In this video, I show you why we get trapped in the curse of people pleasing, how to set appropriate boundaries, and how to ask for what you need from someone you’re dating. ---►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 14, 20247 min

Ep 248Are They Right for You? (Love Languages Explained)

The concept of "love languages" has been incredibly popular in recent years. But is there really only 5 ways to give and receive love? And how useful is the idea of love languages when trying to find a compatible partner for a relationship? Join Matt, Stephen and Audrey for an explanation of the science around love languages, criticisms and challenges of the theory, and how you can apply them when dating. ---►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, “Love Life”: LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 12, 202431 min

Why They ALWAYS Come Back + How to Reach Out After It Ends | Matt Monday

"How can you tell the difference between love bombing and genuine interest?" This is just one question out of 10 that I answer in today's rapid-fire Q&A episode, which also includes answers to: "What Dating Advice Would You Give to Your 16-Year-Old Self?" "When Did You Last Cry?" "How Can I Get Over the Shame of Having Stayed Too Long in a Relationship?" "Is It Worth Reaching Back Out to an Ex Who May Have Changed?"... and much more. It was super fun to read and answer all your questions. Be sure to leave me a comment with any questions you might have for part 2! ---►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 10, 202419 min

7 Surprising Signs They Like You... | Rewind

If you’ve ever wondered, “do they actually like me?" then you don’t want to miss this episode… How do you know if someone genuinely has eyes for you, or if they're just like that with everyone they meet? Taking the risk of putting yourself on the line could mean embarrassment, rejection, or make things super-awkward between you both later on. You need to know when you have the green light. You need to be sure when it’s ok to flirt and test the waters. In this clip then, I'll show you the 7 obvious signs someone REALLY likes you...---►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 7, 20244 min

Ep 247Why He Disappeared After Sleeping With You

Have you ever gotten intimate with someone who seemed to show ALL the signs of wanting more with you, only for them to go cold afterwards? Why does this happen? And is there anything you can do to protect yourself from this happening again? In this episode, Matt and Audrey discuss why men can disappear after sex, how to judge whether to sleep with someone or not, and how not to get seduced by the wrong people. ---►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 5, 202439 min

7 Tests to Know If You’re Compatible | Matt Monday

Is love enough to keep a relationship going? You may have asked yourself this question when you’ve faced a difficult breakup. In today’s episode, I go deep on this question, and talk about 7 compatibility tests that can help determine whether your relationship will last. These are some of the most underrated qualities in a partner, and after watching, you’ll never look at compatibility the same way again . . . ---►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jun 3, 202417 min

How to Get Over the Pain of Rejection | Rewind

Perhaps you've felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date… Or after pouring your heart and creativity into a project only to have it ripped to shreds by those you admire most ... Rejection can come in many forms, but the gut punch feels the same as it shatters your ego. Ultimately, the history of your rejection has been written, but the legacy of it is for you to decide The way you craft this legacy can result in some of the most meaningful wins of your life, and in this week's episode, you'll learn how to make that happen. ---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results": DatingWithResults.com ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 31, 20249 min

Ep 246Q&A Episode! Answering YOUR Dating Questions

We answered YOUR dating questions! Join me and my wife Audrey as we dive into fears of cheating, red flags on dating apps, confusing post-break up texts and more! ---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 29, 202423 min

They Say They're Not Ready for a Relationship... | Matt Monday

When we’re stuck in a situationship with someone who doesn’t know what they want, it’s incredibly frustrating. As soon as we like someone and hear the words “I’m not ready for a relationship right now,” it feels like we’re suddenly back to square one!  If you’re tired of not knowing where you stand, you’ve come to the right place. In this episode, I share 5 signs that can reveal if someone is ready for a relationship, plus a key question you can ask yourself and use anytime you feel stuck or confused. ---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 27, 202419 min

They Say "I Just Can't Let You Go"? Listen To This... | Rewind

Have you been with someone who wants attention, connection, spends time with you...but they'll never commit? And when you ask them why they keep in touch they say something like "I just can't let you go". If you've been in this situation, listen to this message. It's ESSENTIAL listening to help you take back your life and make the most important decision you could make right now. ---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 24, 20246 min

Ep 245There Is No Such Thing as Right Person Wrong Time!

Have you ever felt like you lost "The One" because of bad timing? They moved country, they weren't ready to commit, or they hadn't matured enough yet? It's common to tell ourselves this is a case of "right person, wrong time". But that can make the pain of loss even worse. We despair that we've lost a great love and it's down to pure bad luck. If you're struggling to get over someone like this, make sure to listen to this episode. Matt and Audrey talk about the myth of "right person wrong time" and the essential mindsets that can bring you back to confidence and optimism about moving on and finding love again. ---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 22, 202438 min

How To AVOID Dating "Players" | Matt Monday

Most people want to avoid players in dating . . . yet why do so many end up in relationships (or situationships) with them? Sadly, it’s all too common to get seduced into a roller coaster romance where we feel amazing chemistry but never know where we stand with someone. Today I’m giving you the best advice I’ve given on this topic through 7 clips that will help you avoid players and find the right person. If you’re ready to rewire your brain and start attracting someone who says “yes” to a relationship, this is for you. ---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships: The3Relationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 20, 202420 min

If You've Ever Been Ghosted or Lied to, Watch THIS | Rewind

It would be nice if we had a crystal ball telling us which romantic flings would work out at the very beginning so we didn’t invest precious time in the wrong people. It can be hard to read someone’s intentions in the early stages.I can’t make you a foolproof lie detector, and I can’t guarantee you’ll never be ghosted again, but I can make you a competent “detector of intentions” so you have the best possible chance of investing your time into people who are serious about a relationship with you.---►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign Up Now For My Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships.com: The3Relationships.com►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 17, 20248 min