Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Do you worry about attracting the wrong people? Feel like you struggle to trust that a partner won’t betray you or turn out to be different than you predicted? In this episode, Matt talks about how you can overcome your fear of choosing the wrong person and build self-trust.---►► Design Your North Star With Men & Be Confident in Every Decision. Claim Your Early Bird Discount for The Virtual Retreat: MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

One of the biggest frustrations about red flags is that they can be filtered out by our rose-colored glasses, only allowing us to see them clearly in hindsight.But there are ways to appropriately respond to red flags in early dating (if you can spot them), and in this episode, I show you one way to “crack the code” . . .That is, of course, to always have a North Star.This week, I walk through what, exactly, a North Star is, why it’s so important to have in order to be successful in dating, and how to choose one . . .---►► Design Your North Star With Men & Be Confident in Every Decision. Claim Your Early Bird Discount for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Don't "jump the gun" and get ahead of yourself just because you meet someone you like. If you fall hard for people too early, this message from Matt is for you . . .---►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Want to know what he's really thinking on a first date? What do men worry about when looking for love? Matt and Stephen asked thousands of men in our audience about their BIGGEST insecurities and the answers were pretty amazing. If you want a real eye-opening window into male fears and his psychology in dating, you're going to love this. --- ►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.  ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey ►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected]  ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So, this wasn't the episode we planned to release this week. But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn't wait to talk about it. I asked men about their specific insecurities when it comes to early dating. And what we got back was more vulnerable and real than anyone expected. Not only that, but the women's responses to the men's candid comments were beautiful.The incredible responses also brought up some themes, which I decided to take closer look at in this episode. These include:Men's top insecurities, including how they feel insecure about being insecure.Helpful ways to validate our partner if they feel insecure.How to manage our feelings when the insecurity we see in someone else reminds us of our own insecurities.This episode is all about bravery and kindness, and my goal is that by the end of it, you will understand and be able to relate to men a little better.Your coach,Matt---►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey ►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever felt let down from someone who promised to call but never did? Listen to this clip of Matt live coaching on how to move on when you feel disappointed from ghosting and build your confidence back today.---►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected]►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.►► Follow Matt on Instagram: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is it too picky to want to date who shares similar qualities to you? And when should you be more open-minded about who you choose a relationship with?Join Matt and Stephen to talk about pickiness, standards, and mindsets that can make finding love harder.---►► Download your FREE guide: 9Texts.com ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey ►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you’re dating in 2022, you can almost be sure that the person in front of you on that first date is dating multiple people at the same time. This omnipresent truth can make you nervous as you so desperately want to stand out from the crowd.The truth is, we all want so badly to be unforgettable on a date . . . but actually making that happen can feel tricky.In the pursuit of “making someone like us,” we may give in to the knee-jerk reaction of trying to impress them, or worse . . . people please.Even though we told ourselves we’d be chill and genuine, we suddenly find ourselves working our most spectacular moments into conversation, hoping they’ll see us for the treasure we are.Or we get so nervous that our walls go up and we lose all warmth and become sarcastic and cutting instead.These performances will often have us showcasing the more insecure sides of ourselves, taking the focus away from the purpose of being on that date in the first place: connection.But luckily, truly connecting—and making yourself memorable—is much simpler than that.---►► Get My Secrets to Mastering the First 5 Minutes of Any Situation. Download Your FREE Guide Now: First5Guide.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)?Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people?It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want.In this video, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening.At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this...Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person...---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected]►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s very common that we hear from women who say “men are intimidated by me!”But what causes this? Is it male insecurity? Do men instinctively get turned off by a woman’s success, income, or assertiveness?In this episode, Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about how this happens, what it means for our dating lives, and the dating dynamics between men and women.---►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you get nervous that you’re not good enough? Feel a deep inner worry that you’re a “fraud” waiting to get found out?This is called “Imposter Syndrome”, and it’s a common trap that can make us live with SO much unnecessary anxiety and it holds us back from opportunities.In this clip, Matt explains how to defeat imposter syndrome with a simple mindset reframe.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship.There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, which says that sex should be amazing from the start and is entirely about natural chemistry.Then there’s the “sexual growth” mindset, which says that sex can improve over time and couples can work out sexual differences.In this episode, Matt and Stephen discuss the difference between these mindsets and what they mean for a potential relationship.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When a relationship with someone we had strong feelings for (or even loved) ends, we tend to get overwhelmed with emotions.Whether we were with them for a short period of time or in a long, committed relationship, these feelings are universal.They can come in the form of raw heartbreak, the feeling that we’ve lost control over our happiness, a paralyzing fear that they might move on, an overwhelming desperation to get them back, or simply the pain of missing someone who used to be a constant in our life.The trouble is, when heartbreak, control, fear, desperation, or pain are at the wheel, the desire to make ourselves feel better becomes insatiable and this will in turn start to dictate how we conduct ourselves. The solution? Setting yourself a goal.Perhaps you’ve heard of the “No Contact Rule” but don’t know exactly what it entails, or maybe it sounds a little too counterintuitive for how you feel right now, especially if you’re holding out hope that you could still get back together . . .Well, I’m here to tell you that’s not the case, and in this episode, I distill the best I’ve learned about breakups and the "No Contact Rule" into everything you need to know on the topic, including what you can say at different stages.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Has this ever happened to you?You’re on a first date . . . and . . .He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry . . .But at the end of the night . . . he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth).If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that make him reach across the table and say:“I’d really like to see you again.”In this clip, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and again) . . . (You might be surprised at how simple this is AND how often you’re skipping this step when you’re interacting with a guy you like, especially in the early stages of dating . . .)It’s genuinely crazy to me how obvious the phrase in this video is, how simple it would be for people to say, how many more second dates it would get them . . . and yet, they still aren’t doing it. I’m excited to read your thoughts in the comments.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected]►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do if you feel a special connection, but he keeps you waiting on the big question of commitment?In a spontaneous Instagram live, Matt recently coached a follower who was struggling with this exact dilemma.If you’re sick of sitting in the “waiting room” and hoping for something to change, make sure you listen to this message.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness.But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person?Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to whether their sporadic phone usage is consistent in their life or reserved just for you.At some point, they might’ve even shared a generic line with you like, “I’m so rubbish with my phone,” or “I’m really bad at replying to people!” But is this really true?In this week’s video, I not only answer these questions, but I dig into a really common mistake people make in this area.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What should you look for BEFORE you even enter into a new relationship, to figure out if your attachment styles are compatible?Having a reliable and steady partner may not get as much attention as other “sexier” attributes, but it really is a beautiful thing.Knowing you can depend on someone romantically, physically, and emotionally can draw you even closer together—strengthening your growing bond.In this episode, Matt explains what it takes to avoid codependency and have the kind of healthy partnership that means you both flourish, instead of creating a scenario where you are excusing toxic behaviour.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected]►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again.In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel this way towards certain people with negative traits and how we can heal so we align with the right kind of partner for us.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What does it mean when someone you dated—a guy you still like even though things fizzled out—is still engaging with your social media.Maybe you went on a few dates, had a connection, and even got physical, but it didn’t quite go anywhere.Yet, strangely, he still seems to be keeping a watchful eye on what you get up to on social media.Immediately, the gears of your mind start turning as you analyze the timing and the meaning of each emoji he sends in response to the photo of your night out with your friends.In this week’s brand-new episode, Matt dives into the psychology behind his actions to reveal exactly what it means when someone likes your social posts (but doesn’t reach out in any other way) . . .. . . and most importantly, what you should do about it.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It doesn't matter how many great qualities they have if they have one or more lethal negative traits that make it impossible to get your needs met. In this episode, Matt talks about toxic relationship behaviours to watch out for in every stage of dating.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

No matter how far we’ve come, there is still a stigma in society for people who choose to remain single for longer than the average person. And this leads to all kinds of judgment: you must be sad, you must want a partner, you must have a problem . . .  Matt, Stephen, and Audrey discuss why “single-shaming” persists and how to avoid feeling the pressure from society in influencing your decisions about your romantic life.--- ►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire.These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out.Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.)---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you find you fall in love too quickly or feel you NEVER fall in love, this clip explains why either extreme might be preventing you from finding a relationship.Whether you want to stop chasing perfection or need to slow down and enjoy gradually getting to know someone new, it is possible to get out of your usual pattern (and enjoy the process!)---►► Protect your time, energy & your heart . . . Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live "Dating With Results" virtual event on April 19th here: DatingWithResults.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"How do I let go of someone I absolutely adore?"What if you met the "right person at the wrong time?"Many people have been through the feeling of someone breaking up with them because of a specific obstacle. It makes us think, if only that wasn't an issue, we would be perfect.If you've struggled to move on from someone who seemed perfect for you, join Matt for this solo episode to learn how to finally let go and get over the one who got away.---►► Protect your time, energy & your heart... Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live Training Here: DatingWithResults.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ve heard this story so many times before . . . You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection.What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair.When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?”You feel amazing. Over the next few weeks, it’s a whirlwind.He wants to spend every waking minute together, he’s outspoken about his feelings for you, and upon waking, you always have a “Good morning, gorgeous!” text waiting for you.He may even go so far as to introduce you to his friends and family. . . or say those three little words that so many others have struggled to say to you in the past . . .It’s intense and fast, but it feels so good that you just let the romance sweep you off your feet.Overnight, your life has turned into one of those romantic movie montages that show the highlight reel of a perfect relationship, except instead of the montage spanning a year or two, it’s hitting those milestones after a few weeks. And then, of course, it happens . . . something feels wrong, the communication slows down, he starts to pull away, and before you know it, he vanishes completely.You’re left dazed, shellshocked, and wounded—fully relating to the term “love bombing” and wondering if any of it was even real. If this sounds familiar, then this episode is for you as I share 3 tests that will help you spot a love bomber.---►► Protect your time, energy & your heart... Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live Training Here: DatingWithResults.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: [email protected]  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sick of being asked "why are you still single?"Tired of society deciding people are more successful just because they are in a relationship?Me too. Here's why you should never judge anyone or yourself by their relationship status, and what really matters when thinking about your current stage of life.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you found yourself unable to resist getting another hit of attention from someone you know is wrong for you?Want to send out one more text even though you *know* you shouldn't?This is called microdosing. And it's easy to fall into this trap when you feel hooked on someone, but it doesn't mean it's good for us in the long-term.In this episode, Matt and Stephen answer your biggest questions about microdosing and give practical ways to prevent getting fixated on the wrong person.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently?Whether it’s due to:A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier.A family member you could’ve created more distance with.A job you stayed in too long . . . it’s easy to mentally pummel yourself as you think about all the time you wasted.But this mindset won’t get you where you need to go. In today’s episode, you’ll learn why you can’t blame the you of the (even recent) past for not meeting the bar you’ve set for yourself today.And if you’ve been wondering how to get your confidence back—the kind that can help you make peace with the decisions of your past as well as change what’s possible for your future—then you can’t miss this message.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start . . . ---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join me in-person for the return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s be real for a moment . . . We all sometimes wish we could be happier.We blame all sorts of variables for holding us back from achieving this.We tell ourselves that once we finally find a partner, secure a better job, or lose weight, life will be good and we will finally be happy.But even when we achieve some of those goals, the “happiness goalposts” appear to move a little further down the field.We can even forget that we have certain things in our lives now that 10 years ago we would’ve said were THE things that needed to happen in order for us to be happy.In this brand-new episode taken from last week’s Virtual Retreat, I share two words that changed my outlook on this completely.They become my compass whenever life throws something difficult my way.With this simple shift, you can give yourself permission to start your life from where you are right now . . .---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this killer clip with Matt and Ed Mylett, you'll learn:The #1 question you should ask yourself before you sleep together.Why you should never decide to sleep with someone just because you’re afraid someone else will beat you to it.What a GOOD reason to jump into bed with someone looks like.How to gauge someone’s intentions.Why owning your actions is sexy.---►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matt gives some psychological and practical tips on irresistible traits that boost your attraction both in the long-term and courtship stages of dating.---►► Download our free "5 Compliments" guide: SayThisToHim.com ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matthew and Stephen talk about Esther Perel's excellent answers to the question: "When do people feel most drawn to their partner?" and we give our own thoughts about what keeps desire early on in a relationship. ---►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In the modern world we are taught to look for the optimum choice in every situation. The perfect morning routine for us, the perfect career, the perfect house, and even the perfect relationship?But is this the right way to think about looking for a romantic partner? We want high standards, but what things (if any) should we settle on in a relationship? In this episode, Matthew talks about how to practically look for love in the modern world and what it takes to build a lasting healthy relationship. ---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Can you be "too picky" in love? What is the difference between having standards and just being annoyingly judgmental? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about:When to be picky vs. when to be open-minded when falling in love.How true commitment changes your view of relationships.The things that really matter when choosing a partner.The cognitive bias that keeps you with the wrong person.---►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sick of feeling like you have to wait to be approached by a guy?Want to be able to actually "choose" someone you're attracted to, and meet them in REAL LIFE?Here are 7 elegant and simple ways to have a guy approach you (without feeling like you're doing all the work) . . . ---►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So . . . Matt has some BIG news to share that you may not know about yet! And it got us thinking: What are the REAL signs a guy wants to get serious with you?Matt explains that 11 behaviours to look for that tell you he's thinking about a long-term relationship and doesn't have one foot out of the door . . . ---►► Come join our special "Commitment Masterclass" with Matthew on February 23rd for a 2-hour deep dive for our Love Life members on what really takes you from casual to committed. Book your spot at AskMH.com (and get a free trial to our VIP club!)  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matt talks about what gets someone hooked in the first few dates, the 3 texts that get a guy to pursue you, and how to handle the day after you sleep with someone . . . Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships . . . ---►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You may have told yourself 100 times you’re ready to finally meet someone.Maybe you even read a few dating tips and decided to go try them out. But then, you see that cute guy you like at work, in your social circle, or at a party.You want to flirt.You want to get him to notice you. Then at the crucial moment, you shrink. “H--hey”, you say, trying to play it cool. You make small talk. Chit-chat about everyday stuff, but nothing that ever amounts to flirting.And you realize: I can’t do this. I’m too much of an introvert.If you’ve ever used this excuse before, then get ready. Because I have 3 techniques today that are going to change your dating life forever.You’re an introvert? Guess what, so am I.Now you’ll find out why that can be your greatest superpower . . . ---►► Come be a part of our FREE “Dating With Results” virtual event on February 8th. Learn 4 secrets to end casual dating traps, and the authentic path to a real, committed relationship. Go to DatingWithResults.com and register today! ►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What does it really mean to be high-value? Matt and Steve talk about the top 5 traits that make you attractive for a relationship to *anyone*.Instead of focusing on short-term attention, focus on these in the long-term and you won't find yourself playing games to keep someone interested. ---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Does "The One" exist?Maybe there's someone you can't imagine your life without. Or maybe you have someone who seems SO amazing but you have a couple of doubts.There may not be one quick formula for knowing if someone is right for a long-lasting relationship, but here are four questions that you should definitely ask yourself before you dive in deeper . . . ---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's recently been shown that young people are having less sex than previous generations. This got us thinking: Is Casual Sex Losing Its Appeal?Matt and Stephen sit down to talk:How men and women think about casual sex in 2022.What needs are met by casual sex (and what can cause it to become destructive).How the desire for casual sex can conflict with a desire for real connection.---►► Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships . . . ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected]  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matt and Stephen talk about an email from a listener who feels like he dates women who self-sabotage the relationship with their insecurity. We discuss what really kills attraction, who is at fault when someone gets insecure, and what it means to feel safe to bring up your fears and vulnerability in a relationship.Also, someone changed Jameson's Netflix username to "Lord Fart" . . . ---►► Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What makes a guy hooked on you from Day 1?In this episode, Matt shows you how to communicate in a way that makes him feel special, brings out the most attractive sides of your personality, and show your attraction from a place of confidence.These tools will help you remain high value in his eyes and if done right will even make you irreplaceable.---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships. ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"When I decide I really like someone, they suddenly lose interest?" Has this ever happened to you? Join Matt and Stephen as they explain the psychology behind someone backing off after you reveal your feelings and what types of people typically show this behaviour. --- Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (HOLIDAY SPECIAL OFFER – book your spot in December and get a $100 discount off the full price + 3 special bonuses!) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's all too common in modern dating to label someone a "narcissist". But what are the actual signs you're dating a narcissist vs. just dating a flawed person? What behaviours should you look for in the early dating stage? Join Matt and Stephen as they discuss all things narcissism and how to heal after a relationship with someone who damages your self-esteem... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A recent article asked: "Is Your Partner The Most Annoying Person In The World?" Matt and Steve look at this question and discuss: - Top most annoying habits in relationships - The mindset shift that increases our love with our partner - What really destroys relationships --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matt and Steve discuss the why people love bomb, cat dating apps, and whether you should date someone based on ONE big common interest... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's RED FLAG season! The dating world is crazy for red flags, so we decided to sit down and talk through some of the internet's favourite red flag memes and see which ones we agree vs. disagree with! Also, we talk about our biggest AMBER FLAGS - behaviours that make you cautious even if they aren't deal-breakers... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matt and Steve talk about: - Breakups and how long it takes to move on - Getting over heartbreak: men vs. women - The Metaverse and what it means for dating: will it make it easier to meet "The One" or kill physical intimacy? --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.