
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
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Being Single Does NOT Mean You're A Failure | Rewind
Sick of being asked "why are you still single?"Tired of society deciding people are more successful just because they are in a relationship?Me too. Here's why you should never judge anyone or yourself by their relationship status, and what really matters when thinking about your current stage of life.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 160Answering Your Biggest Questions About "Microdosing" In Dating
Have you found yourself unable to resist getting another hit of attention from someone you know is wrong for you?Want to send out one more text even though you *know* you shouldn't?This is called microdosing. And it's easy to fall into this trap when you feel hooked on someone, but it doesn't mean it's good for us in the long-term.In this episode, Matt and Stephen answer your biggest questions about microdosing and give practical ways to prevent getting fixated on the wrong person.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Wasted Your Love on the Wrong Person? Listen To This... | Matt Monday
How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently?Whether it’s due to:A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier.A family member you could’ve created more distance with.A job you stayed in too long . . . it’s easy to mentally pummel yourself as you think about all the time you wasted.But this mindset won’t get you where you need to go. In today’s episode, you’ll learn why you can’t blame the you of the (even recent) past for not meeting the bar you’ve set for yourself today.And if you’ve been wondering how to get your confidence back—the kind that can help you make peace with the decisions of your past as well as change what’s possible for your future—then you can’t miss this message.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"No Matter What I Do I Can't Get Over Them. PLEASE HELP!" | Rewind
How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start . . . ---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join me in-person for the return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 159Everything You Know About Happiness Is Wrong
Let’s be real for a moment . . . We all sometimes wish we could be happier.We blame all sorts of variables for holding us back from achieving this.We tell ourselves that once we finally find a partner, secure a better job, or lose weight, life will be good and we will finally be happy.But even when we achieve some of those goals, the “happiness goalposts” appear to move a little further down the field.We can even forget that we have certain things in our lives now that 10 years ago we would’ve said were THE things that needed to happen in order for us to be happy.In this brand-new episode taken from last week’s Virtual Retreat, I share two words that changed my outlook on this completely.They become my compass whenever life throws something difficult my way.With this simple shift, you can give yourself permission to start your life from where you are right now . . .---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Listen To This BEFORE Sleeping With Them... | Rewind
In this killer clip with Matt and Ed Mylett, you'll learn:The #1 question you should ask yourself before you sleep together.Why you should never decide to sleep with someone just because you’re afraid someone else will beat you to it.What a GOOD reason to jump into bed with someone looks like.How to gauge someone’s intentions.Why owning your actions is sexy.---►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 158Men Find THESE Things Irresistible in Women
Matt gives some psychological and practical tips on irresistible traits that boost your attraction both in the long-term and courtship stages of dating.---►► Download our free "5 Compliments" guide: SayThisToHim.com ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 157How To Keep Desire With Someone You're Dating
Matthew and Stephen talk about Esther Perel's excellent answers to the question: "When do people feel most drawn to their partner?" and we give our own thoughts about what keeps desire early on in a relationship. ---►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 156Should You Settle In Love?
In the modern world we are taught to look for the optimum choice in every situation. The perfect morning routine for us, the perfect career, the perfect house, and even the perfect relationship?But is this the right way to think about looking for a romantic partner? We want high standards, but what things (if any) should we settle on in a relationship? In this episode, Matthew talks about how to practically look for love in the modern world and what it takes to build a lasting healthy relationship. ---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 155THIS Mindset Keeps You Single (+ Matt's thoughts on being engaged)
Can you be "too picky" in love? What is the difference between having standards and just being annoyingly judgmental? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about:When to be picky vs. when to be open-minded when falling in love.How true commitment changes your view of relationships.The things that really matter when choosing a partner.The cognitive bias that keeps you with the wrong person.---►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 1547 Ways to Quit Dating Apps and Have Guys Approach You FOR REAL!
Sick of feeling like you have to wait to be approached by a guy?Want to be able to actually "choose" someone you're attracted to, and meet them in REAL LIFE?Here are 7 elegant and simple ways to have a guy approach you (without feeling like you're doing all the work) . . . ---►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 15311 Signs He's Serious About You
So . . . Matt has some BIG news to share that you may not know about yet! And it got us thinking: What are the REAL signs a guy wants to get serious with you?Matt explains that 11 behaviours to look for that tell you he's thinking about a long-term relationship and doesn't have one foot out of the door . . . ---►► Come join our special "Commitment Masterclass" with Matthew on February 23rd for a 2-hour deep dive for our Love Life members on what really takes you from casual to committed. Book your spot at AskMH.com (and get a free trial to our VIP club!) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 152What Gets Him Hooked in the EARLY STAGES of Dating
Matt talks about what gets someone hooked in the first few dates, the 3 texts that get a guy to pursue you, and how to handle the day after you sleep with someone . . . Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships . . . ---►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 151Flirting For Introverts: 3 Authentic Ways To Get Him Interested
You may have told yourself 100 times you’re ready to finally meet someone.Maybe you even read a few dating tips and decided to go try them out. But then, you see that cute guy you like at work, in your social circle, or at a party.You want to flirt.You want to get him to notice you. Then at the crucial moment, you shrink. “H--hey”, you say, trying to play it cool. You make small talk. Chit-chat about everyday stuff, but nothing that ever amounts to flirting.And you realize: I can’t do this. I’m too much of an introvert.If you’ve ever used this excuse before, then get ready. Because I have 3 techniques today that are going to change your dating life forever.You’re an introvert? Guess what, so am I.Now you’ll find out why that can be your greatest superpower . . . ---►► Come be a part of our FREE “Dating With Results” virtual event on February 8th. Learn 4 secrets to end casual dating traps, and the authentic path to a real, committed relationship. Go to DatingWithResults.com and register today! ►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 150Don't Fight For His Attention, Do These 5 Things Instead...
What does it really mean to be high-value? Matt and Steve talk about the top 5 traits that make you attractive for a relationship to *anyone*.Instead of focusing on short-term attention, focus on these in the long-term and you won't find yourself playing games to keep someone interested. ---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 1494 Questions To Ask Yourself BEFORE You Decide He’s “The One”
Does "The One" exist?Maybe there's someone you can't imagine your life without. Or maybe you have someone who seems SO amazing but you have a couple of doubts.There may not be one quick formula for knowing if someone is right for a long-lasting relationship, but here are four questions that you should definitely ask yourself before you dive in deeper . . . ---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 148The Truth About Modern Men And Casual Sex
It's recently been shown that young people are having less sex than previous generations. This got us thinking: Is Casual Sex Losing Its Appeal?Matt and Stephen sit down to talk:How men and women think about casual sex in 2022.What needs are met by casual sex (and what can cause it to become destructive).How the desire for casual sex can conflict with a desire for real connection.---►► Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships . . . ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 147What Guys Really Think About Your Insecurity
Matt and Stephen talk about an email from a listener who feels like he dates women who self-sabotage the relationship with their insecurity. We discuss what really kills attraction, who is at fault when someone gets insecure, and what it means to feel safe to bring up your fears and vulnerability in a relationship.Also, someone changed Jameson's Netflix username to "Lord Fart" . . . ---►► Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 1463 Easy Ways To Become MORE Attractive
What makes a guy hooked on you from Day 1?In this episode, Matt shows you how to communicate in a way that makes him feel special, brings out the most attractive sides of your personality, and show your attraction from a place of confidence.These tools will help you remain high value in his eyes and if done right will even make you irreplaceable.---►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships. ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 145Why People Disappear When You Show Interest
"When I decide I really like someone, they suddenly lose interest?" Has this ever happened to you? Join Matt and Stephen as they explain the psychology behind someone backing off after you reveal your feelings and what types of people typically show this behaviour. --- Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (HOLIDAY SPECIAL OFFER – book your spot in December and get a $100 discount off the full price + 3 special bonuses!) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 144How To Tell If You're In A Relationship With A Narcissist...
It's all too common in modern dating to label someone a "narcissist". But what are the actual signs you're dating a narcissist vs. just dating a flawed person? What behaviours should you look for in the early dating stage? Join Matt and Stephen as they discuss all things narcissism and how to heal after a relationship with someone who damages your self-esteem... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 143Why Our Romantic Partners Annoy Us So Much...
A recent article asked: "Is Your Partner The Most Annoying Person In The World?" Matt and Steve look at this question and discuss: - Top most annoying habits in relationships - The mindset shift that increases our love with our partner - What really destroys relationships --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 142The Aftermath of a Love Bomb
Matt and Steve discuss the why people love bomb, cat dating apps, and whether you should date someone based on ONE big common interest... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 141BIGGEST Red Flags and Our Relationship Deal-Breakers
It's RED FLAG season! The dating world is crazy for red flags, so we decided to sit down and talk through some of the internet's favourite red flag memes and see which ones we agree vs. disagree with! Also, we talk about our biggest AMBER FLAGS - behaviours that make you cautious even if they aren't deal-breakers... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 140Men Vs. Women: Who Gets Over Breakups Faster? (+ The New Metaverse of Dating!)
Matt and Steve talk about: - Breakups and how long it takes to move on - Getting over heartbreak: men vs. women - The Metaverse and what it means for dating: will it make it easier to meet "The One" or kill physical intimacy? --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 139Getting Over Your Biggest Regrets + What Causes More Divorce? (Online vs. Real Life)
Your old pals Matt and Stephen talk about: - Whether you should have regrets - What kind of mistakes we regret the most - Getting over your screw ups - Online vs. Real life (and which causes more divorce!) --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 138Jealousy, Relationship Sabotage, and the MOST Attractive Strategy for Dealing With Insecurities
Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about: - Why comparing yourself to your partner's ex's is such a losing game - How to escape the trap of comparison - The value vs. the danger of talking about your insecurities (and why many men struggle with this) - How to be attractive without needing to be perfect -- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 137Does THIS Count As Cheating? + What It Means To Be Loyal In A Relationship
Matt and Stephen get into the topic of LOYALTY in a relationship. We discuss: Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like a models photo? Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like an Ex’s Photo? What counts as micro-cheating? Do you have to be over someone before you can date? The importance of loyalty The difference between values and standards --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 136Why Modern Men Become Simps (Failed Dating Strategy or Sexual Kink?)
Matt and Steve sit down to talk about why so many men are now accused of being "simps". We discuss: - What ACTUALLY makes a guy a "simp" - How we should feel about men who do it - What causes unhealthy fandom and hero worship --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 135Confessions Of A Reluctant Ghoster (Have You Done It?)
Matt and Steve talk about how ghosting happens, and why we all can not only be victims of it, but also unknowing perpetrators... *SPOILER alert for The Sixth Sense (I mean, it's over 20 years old, but ya know...here's your warning). --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 134What Trauma Does To Your Relationships + Healing Your Emotional Wounds
Matt and Steve sit down to talk: Where trauma and bad beliefs come from The effect of trauma on romantic relationships Getting over pain and changing emotional associations Boomer, Gen Z, Millenials + the failure of empathy --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 133What If He Changes For Someone Else?
It's one thing to leave the wrong person, but some people worry: "What if he becomes the RIGHT person for someone else? What if he changes and fixes his flaws and I missed out on the "better" version of him? Matt and Steve talk about where this fear comes from and why it can be so dangerous to live worrying about someone's future potential. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 132What You Lose With "Backburner Relationships"
Some recent research claimed that over 50% of people in committed partnerships have a "backburner relationship". In this episode Matt and Steve talk about: - What defines a backburner relationship? - Why in 2021 has this grown in modern dating culture? - What is the cost of having a backburner relationship? --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 131Don't Make This Common First-Date Mistake
Ever found yourself slipping into the therapist role with a guy when what you really want is to create deep attraction with him? Instead of being in a fun, flirtatious situation with someone who’s trying to get to know more about you, you find yourself sitting patiently while someone unloads all of their problems onto you. You’re not alone. But there is a way out. In this brand-new clip from a small live show, I show you how to escape the “therapist trap” with a guy so that you can keep building the attraction and tension that lead to a second date. Matthew x P.S. If you’d like the chance to ask me a live question—and join what is essentially a gym for your psychology, your emotions, and your confidence—consider this your personal invitation to sign up for a 14-day trial to my Love.Life Club at AskMH.com. I hope to see you there! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 130What REALLY Gets You A Second Date...
Matt and Steve talk about the art of flirting and the REAL difference between chemistry and connection... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 129Matt's Challenge From Hell (And What He Learned...)
Matt did a big, scary, difficult challenge. It was humbling. It was brutal. And it taught him a lot about friendship, confidence and doing things that scare you... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 128How to Respond When You Embarrass Yourself...
Get on the first to know list for Impact & secure your spot on my Art of Speaking Masterclass → http://www.GetImpactFirst.com --- I’m about to share a recent public moment that bothered me . . . While watching a video clip from my recent appearance on the Pretty Intense podcast with Danica Patrick—an experience I thoroughly enjoyed—I couldn’t help but notice something: I kept saying a particular word. And not just once or twice. Over the course of just a couple minutes, I couldn’t even keep my total in the single digits. As someone who’s spent an entire career in public speaking and content creation, the more I said this word, the more the demons in my mind went into “media frenzy press conference mode.” Prepare yourself: This is an honest reenactment of how embarrassment plays out in our heads. I hope this gives you a laugh and also helps you realize that you can take something like this and use it to turn a mortifying moment into an opportunity for growth. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 127Sex Life Part Two: Choosing between romantic partners + the danger of wanting to heal your partner's trauma
Matt and Steve talk about: - Sex Life (again!) - The fantasy of choosing between two different partners - The danger of wanting to heal someone else's trauma --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 126When To Quit A Relationship + What We Can Learn From The Dark Side of Anthony Bourdain
Matthew and Stephen sit down to discuss:Why we stay in relationships longer than we should.When we should quit the wrong relationship.The inspiring and tragic legacy of Anthony Bourdain.---►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 125Sex Life, Penis Size, Becoming A Mature Adult
Matt and Steve sit down to talk about what's necessary to be a mature adult, male worries about penis size, and insecurities about exes . . .---►► Follow Matt @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey►► If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 124How to Feel Secure Again After Your Trust Has Been Destroyed
Transform Your Confidence With Me Over 30 Days Claim Your FREE Spot on The Confidence Challenge → http://www.MHChallenge.com --- When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship. Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak? In this episode, I share 8 rules you’ll want to write on sticky notes and keep handy whenever you need a reminder. As always, I’d love it if you left me a comment letting me know your thoughts - email [email protected] Here for you, Matthew x P.S. There’s still time to sign up for my 30-Day Confidence Challenge on July 21. These 30 days of massive momentum will set you up for an amazing end to 2021. It only takes 10 seconds to sign up at mhchallenge.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 1232021 Half-Time Talk With Matt and Stephen (relationships after covid, dating apps, body confidence, and MORE)
The year is half over already...what?? Join us to sit down and chat about: Where love is in 2021 The state of dating apps Body image and confidence Being selective about WHO we want to attract How the pandemic has changed desires for a relationship -- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 122To Anyone Feeling Single and Lonely...
►► You are not alone. Join my membership FREE → http://www.AskMH.com --- In this clip, I’m asked what my “why” is—what motivates me to keep doing what I do. And my answer often comes as a surprise: to help people feel less alone... --- Follow me for more love advice on Instagram @thematthewhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 121What Are YOUR Top 2 Non-Negotiables In A Relationship? (w/ Matt and Stephen)
Matt and Steve sit down to talk about YOUR responses to "what are your top 2 non-negotiables in a relationship?" Find out which ones we agree and disagree with! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24th-26th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and claim your spot to spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- We also love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 1205 Secrets to Getting a Relationship Even When You Hate Dating
Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship. But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff? In today’s episode, I share 5 tips that will help you find an energy-replenishing relationship rather than an energy-depleting one. You’ll learn how to: • Ease into getting to know someone rather than pinning all your hopes and dreams on them • Communicate from a place of strength rather than insecurity • Match your investment and energy to the stage of the relationship you’re actually in. You’ll want to bookmark this one and relisten to it before any date. --- Protect Your Energy and Build a Real Relationship. Download Your FREE Chapter of How To Talk To Men→ http://www.GetTheFreeChapter.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 119If You've Ever Felt “Not Good Enough” for a Relationship...
Last week, we talked about how the right partner will “elevate your best and soothe your worst.” But what if you feel like your best isn’t good enough? Or you’re afraid your worst will be “too much” for someone? In this situation, it can be tempting to overcorrect—to go overboard in your efforts to impress someone until they finally discover what you’re “really like.” In this week’s new episode, I’ll teach you how to shift from looking at yourself through a lens of self-judgment, self-loathing, and self-hatred, and instead view yourself from a place of self-compassion, self-love, and self-empowerment. --- Create a Beautiful Relationship With Yourself & Unlock Your Core Confidence... Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat https://MHVirtualRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 118What's 1 ESSENTIAL quality you look for in a partner? (w/ Matt and Steve)
Matt and Steve sit down to talk about ONE quality we've come to find essential in relationships. We look at your answers to the question as well and give our responses! --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- We also love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 117Think You're Ready to Meet "The One"? Watch This First...
There’s an ongoing debate when it comes to meeting “The One.” Which camp do you fall into? 1) Is it all about meeting the right person—someone amazing who will remove any lingering doubts and inspire you to get serious? 2) Or is it less about “The One” and more about “The Timing”—meeting a compatible person at the right time in your life? This week, I get to the heart of the issue with 7 tips that may change your perspective on dating and relationships. --- Break Out of the Fast Food Dating Culture & Create Something Real. Get Your Free Training at http://howtogetexclusive.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 116Advice We Would Give Ourselves 10 Years Ago...(Featuring YOUR responses)
Matt and Steve sit down for a live session to talk about YOUR answers to advice you would give yourself from 10 years ago on dating, love and relationships! --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ep 115What the Post-Covid Dating Boom Means for Your Love Life
What will your dating life look like in the second half of 2021? As worldwide restrictions started to ease, news outlets declared that the post-lockdown world would likely give birth to a “new Roaring ‘20s”—a bacchanalian frenzy the likes of which our generation has never seen. While it’s true that some will embrace this openness with abandon, new studies are revealing something unexpected: many people are interested in finding a serious relationship as a result of the pandemic, because this past year has made them aware of the traits they value most in a partner. This particular moment is critical, because many people are likely to “panic buy” their way into a relationship—throwing themselves into the first nice person they meet as soon as the “gates open.” Thankfully, there’s a simple step you can take before a first date that will ensure you’re meeting people who are a better fit. In this episode, you’ll learn how to find a committed partner who will be excited to redefine the “new Roaring ‘20s” with you (whether or not they can dance the Charleston). Here for you, Matthew x P.S. Which trait is #1 on your list? Let me know in the YouTube comments on my channel! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.