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Self Love Mini Series Day 3: Where to Find Self Love
EWelcome to Day 3 of my Self Love Mini Series, 5 days, 5 bite-sized episodes packed with research and practical tools to help you strengthen your relationship with yourself. Today we’re exploring where to find self love. Self love isn’t something you wait for it’s something you actively cultivate through daily practices, mindset shifts, and small acts of care and recognition for yourself. By knowing where to look and how to nurture it, you can build a steady foundation of confidence, resilience, and inner peace. Grab your notebook, because I’ll share practical, research-backed ways to uncover and grow your self love so it becomes a natural part of your everyday life. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Self Love Mini Series Day 2: Self-Worth A Key Pillar of Self Love
Welcome back to my Self Love Mini Series 5 days, 5 bite-sized episodes packed with research and practical tools to help you strengthen your relationship with yourself. Today we’re diving into self-worth one of the key pillars of self love. Self-worth is the deep belief that you are valuable, deserving and enough, no matter what you achieve or how others see you. Without it, confidence can feel shaky and conditional. Grab your notebook, because I’ll share research-backed ways to start recognising your worth, so you can build a stronger foundation of self love. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Self Love Mini Series Day 1: The Quiet Confidence within Yourself.
EWelcome to my Self Love Mini Series 5 days, 5 bite-sized episodes that bring together years of research and lessons on building a stronger relationship with yourself. Today we’re talking about what self love really means. Spoiler: it has nothing to do with being “up yourself.” True self love is a quiet confidence within yourself the kind that’s steady, grounded, and free from ego. Grab your notebook, because I’ll be sharing practical, research-backed ways to build this kind of confidence so you can start showing up as your most authentic, capable self. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discipline will change your life. From chaos to clarity how discipline changes everything. (E)
This encore episode is all about discipline & how it will change your life. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Brain Fact: Vertigo
bonusBrain Fact of the week: Vertigo Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Growth Mindset vs Fixed Mindset - The Mental Shift That Will Change Your Life (E)
Welcome to the episode of today. (the episode that will likely change your life) I have spoken about this SO many times but cannot believe this is the first time I have done a legit episode. This is a term that was brought forward by Carol Dweck. She has an amazing body of research around this topic so please check out all her work if you enjoy further reading! On this ep you will learn the difference between the two mindsets but also SEVEN steps on how to change from fixed to growth to get more out of life and your own experiences. Hope you enjoy, and please rate and review if you get a chance. Danke! Alexis Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Limerence Vs Love How Obsession is Getting in the Way of you Finding Love (E)
Do you find that you fall heeadd over heels with someone on a first date? Or even BEFORE the first date? Do you watch Rom-Coms and think Oh MY GOD that’s what I need. My beautiful bean you are confusing love with limerence. I’m going to take you through what limerence is, how it differs from love, why romantic movies are selling you a LIE and finally – how to chill and calm your farm when you’re dating. It might just help you find someone you’re actually compatible with! Listen to my interview with Sabrina Zohar where we talked about Limerence at https://pod.fo/e/216a82. Listen to my episode 48. Lets break down attachment theory / styles’ at https://pod.fo/e/1f8308 . Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Science Fact: Chronic Fatigue
bonusScience Fact of the week: Chronic Fatigue Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Entering your UNBOTHERED and THRIVING era (E)
It’s time to stop overthinking, stop people-pleasing, and finally enter your unbothered era. In this episode of Do You F**ing Mind?*, I break down how to detach from the opinions of others, build unshakable confidence, and create a life where you thrive instead of just survive. You’ll learn: The psychology behind why we care so much about what others think How to set boundaries without guilt or explanation Practical tools to quiet self-doubt Why being “unbothered” isn’t about not caring, it’s about prioritising your peace If you’re ready to let go of drama, raise your standards, and fully step into your thriving era, this episode will show you how to shift your mindset and claim the freedom you’ve been craving. how to stop caring what people think entering your unbothered era self-love and confidence tips thriving era mindset setting boundaries without guilt personal growth podcast psychology of self-worth how to be unshakable stop people pleasing confidence neuroscience Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
8 Steps to overcome burn out (E)
What actually IS burnout and how can you get through it/over it. I’m going to take you through my 8 steps to overcome it and how to differentiate stress from burnout. Brain Fact: The impact of alcohol on sleep and it’s interaction with your neurochemistry when sleeping. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Brain Fact: L-Theanine in Matcha
bonusBrain Fact of the week: L-theanine, it's benefits and why matcha is a source of this amino acid Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Science of Crying: Why a Tactical Cry (and Sad Music) Is Good for You
Sometimes you just need a tactical cry, and science says that’s actually good for you. In this episode of Do You F**ing Mind?*, I break down the psychology and neuroscience behind why crying feels so relieving, and why putting on sad music can actually help your brain process emotions. You’ll learn: The neuroscience of emotional tears and how they regulate your nervous system Why a “tactical cry” can reset your stress response How music enhances emotional release and supports mental clarity The link between crying, self-regulation, and long-term resilience If you’ve ever felt better after bawling your eyes out to sad songs, this episode explains exactly why your brain needed it, and how to use it as a tool for mental health. Brain Fact : EMDR as a treatment for PTSD Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Psychology of Standards: Why You Keep Setting the Bar Too Low(E)
Stop playing small. In this episode of Do You F**ing Mind?*, I break down why so many of us keep setting the bar too low; in relationships, in our careers, and in the standards we hold for ourselves. Using psychology and neuroscience, we explore: Why your brain tricks you into settling for less than you deserve How low standards slowly kill your confidence and self-worth The hidden link between fear, comfort zones, and “just enough” living Practical strategies to raise the bar in love, work, and personal growth If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I settling?”, this episode will help you raise your standards, reclaim your confidence, and finally demand the life you actually want. Brain Fact: Explaining Urbach Wiethe Disease. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Science Fact: Why Milk is better at hydrating than water
bonusScience Fact of the week: Why Milk is better at hydrating than water. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How to REALLY stop caring about what people think of you (E)
How do you stop caring about what people think of you? How can you let go of the things that keep you from living the life you want? This question is so crippling for so many of us, but there IS a simple solution. In this episode we’ll learn how to deal with these feelings in a way that don't consume you and stop you from going on with your life. I'll give you my 7 steps to overcome falling into the trap of caring what people think about you! Brain Fact: Central Sensitization and chronic pain. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 442442. My partner thinks the world is ending & more (Headnoise)
EBeans it's Headnoise Friday! I answer your email questions about loneliness in high school, feeling burnt out and uninspired during the final months of university & taking control of one's life. If you would like to send in a question email please email: [email protected] or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Science Fact: The Women Who Can Smell Parkinson's
bonusScience fact of the week: The Women Who Can Smell Parkinson's. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TTOrder your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Download the app today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
441. The Neuroscience behind determination
Today's episode is all about determination from a neuroscience and psychology perspective. I talk about the difference between motivation and determination and give you practical tools & strategies. Episodes mentioned with links: Episode 368 & Episode 370. Brain Journal Link Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Download the app today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 440440. When Setting a Boundary Makes You the Villain (Headnoise)
It's Head Noise day! I answer your questions on setting boundaries, handling difficult friendships and dealing with family influence in relationships. How can you set a boundary without becoming the villain? What to do when your friend turns on you because you try and create a healthy boundary? How to deal with your partners family influencing your relationship and MORE. If you would like to send in a question email please email: [email protected] or if you would like to send a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 439439. How to put someone in the past and leave them there for good
Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is let go. In this episode of Do You F**ing Mind?, I talk all about moving the fck on from people who no longer deserve a place in your life. Whether it’s an ex who drains you, a toxic friend who keeps pulling you down, or a colleague who sabotages your confidence, you’ll learn how to recognize when it’s time to cut ties and how to actually do it without guilt. Inside this episode: The psychology of why we hold onto relationships that hurt us Neuroscience-backed strategies for breaking emotional attachments How to spot toxic patterns early and stop excusing bad behavior Practical tools to build boundaries and move forward with confidence If you’ve ever struggled to let go, this episode will give you the clarity and mindset shift you need to finally release what’s holding you back, and step into a healthier, stronger version of yourself.. Episode referenced: 21. Dealing with Cooked Duds that Are Stuck in Your Life. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 438438. How to Stop Overthinking in a Healthy Relationship & more (Headnoise)
EIn this Head Noise episode of Do You F**ing Mind?*, I answer your biggest questions on love, life, and everything in between. From navigating the ups and downs of modern relationships, to making life-changing decisions about whether or not to have children, to dealing with the messy reality of complicated friendships. In this ep: How to recognise red flags and build healthier relationships Things to consider when making major life decisions, (like having kids) Psychology-backed strategies for handling toxic or complicated friendships Tools to trust yourself when faced with uncertainty This episode will give you clarity, confidence, and the mindset shift you need to move forward. navigating complicated friendships deciding whether to have children psychology of relationships life decisions and clarity toxic friendship advice personal growth and relationship confidence in decision making If you would like to send in a question email please email: [email protected] or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 437437. The neuroscience of loneliness…the silent stress you can fix
In today's episode, we dive deep into the topic of loneliness. I discuss the difference between loneliness and solitude, the health implications of feeling isolated, and what happens in the brain when you experience loneliness. I give you actionable steps to help you overcome loneliness and build meaningful connections. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Download the app today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 436436. Codependency in New Relationships, Future Plans & Life Decisions (Headnoise)
In today's Headnoise episode I answer your questions on distinguishing between strong communication and codependency in a new relationship, to handling future plans with a partner who wants to move to the country & deciding when to return home after traveling long-term. If you would like to send in a question email please email: [email protected] or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 435435. How to get past the fear of disappointing others
In today's episode, I talk about the common fear of disappointing others and how it affects our decision-making and overall happiness. I discuss the psychology behind this fear, including factors like high achievement, low self-esteem and sheltered upbringing. Learning how to differentiate between fear and weaponised disappointment and gain tools to take control of your life without being paralysed by the fear of letting others down. Brain Fact: Death Cap Mushrooms Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 434434. Breaking Free from Old Patterns & more (Headnoise)
Welcome back, beautiful beans! I answer your questions you sent in, I go over the the concept of 'core coding' and how to overcome ingrained beliefs from childhood, particularly those rooted in religious guilt. I also talk through the challenge of making life altering decisions without disrupting the good things already present in our lives. Then I discuss balancing multiple passion projects and identifying when we might be overcommitting ourselves to avoid burnout & lastly how to manage overwhelming stress. If you would like to send in a question email please email: [email protected] or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 433433. Why Impermanence is the most grounding thing you will learn
In today's episode I talk all about impermanence & how embracing change can lead to a freer, more confident and fulfilling life. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 432432. How to Stop Being the 'Righteous Friend' (Headnoise)
It's Headnoise Day! I answer some email questions you sent in from how to stop being the 'righteous friend' who constantly calls out friends to overcoming burnout! If you would like to send in a question email please email: [email protected] or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 431431. 6 questions to ask yourself to know if you are on the right path.
Beans! In this episode I give you 6 questions to ask yourself to know if you are on the right path. These questions are designed to help you gain clarity and realign your life path. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 430430. Setting Boundaries & Reclaiming Peace with Narcissistic Relationships (Headnoise)
Welcome back, beautiful beans! In today's head noise episode, we hear an amazing story from a listener, a leap-of-faith move (even after rekindling an old flame), navigating a narcissistic parent and handling unsolicited comments. If you would like to send in a question email please email: [email protected] or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 429429. Signs you are in a Functional Freeze & how to break out of it
I discuss the concept of 'functional freeze.' What it is, why it happens & how you can break out of it & lead a more fulfilling life. Brain Fact Munchies effect of THC and how it interacts with the brain's cannabinoid receptors. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 428428. Should I have told my friend her partner was cheating on her? & other friendship dilemmas. (Headnoise)
Beans! In this Headnoise episode, I cover everything from dealing with a friend’s cheating partner to navigating friendships drifting apart. I give some tips & advice on what I would do in these situations for anyone facing similar struggles. If you would like to send in a question email please email: [email protected] or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 427427. Breaking out of your phone addiction and learning what rat park can teach you about it.
Welcome to today's episode! I am so pumped about this episode, I talk all about breaking social media addiction and that constant phone scroll. I’ll also share the learnings of the Rat Park study by Dr. Bruce Alexander and what it teaches us about how our environment and connections impact addiction. I’ll give you some practical tips to cut down on social media and start creating your own ‘Rat Park’ - a life full of connection and limit compulsive behaviours. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 426426. Navigating attachment styles, long distance relationships & breakups. (Headnoise)
Beans! Today's episode is a head noise episode. We've got questions about breaking up a long distance, moving versus not moving, avoidant attachment style & breakups! If you would like to send in a question email please email: [email protected] or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 425425. How to write the most effective to do list EVER so you can feel great after (and other focus tips)
I’m sharing how I tackle that overwhelming feeling of “I have so much to do but nothing’s getting done.” I walk you through how I create my to-do lists in a way that actually works. With a breakdown of soft vs. hard actions, how to tell what needs deep focus vs quick wins and how I use time-blocking to stay on track without burning out. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 424424. Friendship Red Flags, Jealousy & Feeling Like a Fraud. (Headnoise)
It's Headnoise Friday, where I answer questions you sent in. From confronting the idea that your bestie might be a gold digger, to navigating jealousy in relationships and the sting of a lost friendship. I give you tips & practical advice on how to handle the situations. If you would like to send in a question email please email: [email protected] or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 423423. How to f*ck up a good thing by looking for something else only to lose it all
In this episode, I am talking about that all too familiar feeling of second guessing the good things in our lives like wondering if there's something better out there. Whether it's your relationship, job, or even a personal goal. I discuss the difference between knowing when to walk away and when you’re just not seeing the value in what you already have. I share some super practical tips and easy exercises to help you figure out what’s really going on. If you’ve ever found yourself sabotaging something good for the sake of “what if,” this one’s for you. I have also created a worksheet for you to take notes on here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 422422. Thriving Solo & Choosing Yourself First. (Headnoise)
Guys welcome to a Headnoise episode where I answer your questions! Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to [email protected]. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 421421. Live Show Questions - Imposter syndrome, big decisions, Tips for improving memory and more
Guys, I after the live show I had SO MANY questions come through that I never had the chance to answer so I thought it would be good to go through some of them here on the pod. (still thousands more to go LOL) Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 420420. Outgrowing Friendship Patterns: Reality Checks and Emotional Shifts . (Headnoise)
In this episode, I answer listener questions on friendships, moving homes, reality TV's impact on our brains & navigating dating as a single parent. We’re talking red flags, boundaries, growth & how to protect your peace while still showing up for the people you care about. Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to [email protected]. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 419419. Don't get rejected by the same person twice
In today's episode, I talk about the topic of rejection and how to avoid being rejected by the same person or situation twice. I chat about building your self-worth, picking up on red flags early & protecting your energy from relationships that aren’t good for you. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 418418. Tools for dealing with painful in-laws. (Headnoise)
In todays Headnoise episode, I cover the topic of In-Laws (one of my most requested topics). From the self-appointed family CEO to navigating living with controlling parents I answer your questions! Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to [email protected]. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 417417. You are more than enough. How to feel it (6 tips) E
In this encore episode, I talk about those times when you’re feeling a bit off and feel like something is lacking or that you are 'not enough'. When this happens you start to feel more self critical in all areas in your life not just the one area that caused you to feel this way & this can then affect your own relationship with yourself. I go over 6 tips to start feeling like you are enough & you can start to action these today. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 416416. Narcissistic parents and in-laws. How to spot them and deal with them (E)
In this encore episode, I talk about Narcissism. What actually makes someone a narcissist? And what’s the real difference between covert and overt narcissism? I break down the traits to look out for to how to actually deal with a narcissist in your life. Especially when it’s someone close, like a parent or in-law. I also answer a listener question about moving cities for a partner while still in the middle of uni. How do you know if it’s what you want, or if you’re just trying to close the distance for them Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 415415. What is the alter ego effect and how to use it to become the person you want
In this episode, we’re diving into The Alter Ego Effect by Todd Herman. I’m sharing how creating an alter ego can help you show up more confidently, get through tough stuff, & feel more in control. Whether it’s at work, the gym or just day to day life. I chat about building your own persona, little rituals to help you step into it, & how this whole idea can actually shift how you see yourself. My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 414414. Let go of the idea it could have been different (E)
In todays encore episode, I talk about how to stop keeping our focus in the past, and the importance of shifting your awareness and thoughts to the present and future so you can expand your opportunities and experiences. Brain Fact: Hemispatial Neglect My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 413413. The Life Reinvention Expert: 5 Small Shifts for Big Change with Robin Sharma
In this powerful episode, I chat with the incredible Robin Sharma, one of the world’s most widely read authors & a true expert on happiness, purpose, & self-mastery. At 25, he walked away from a successful law career, not because he had to, but because something deeper was calling. Fast forward to now: he’s one of the most widely read authors on the planet, & his mission is clear - to help people live with more joy, purpose & peace. Robin shares powerful lessons on how small shifts in mindset & daily habits can spark big changes - no matter where you are in life. From embracing stillness & journaling to creating a morning routine that sets the tone for success, Robin’s insights are both impactful & actionable. In this episode, he shares:• 5 powerful questions to ask yourself every morning• How to stop chasing approval• The ultimate morning routine for a seriously good day• Habits that actually stick (& how to build them) It’s the kind of conversation that stays with you.Grab a pen, press play & get ready to feel a shift. Robin’s new mentoring programme, The Deep Magic of Daily Consistency is available now at: https://bolindaoriginals.supercast.com/ Follow @robinsharma Website: https://www.robinsharma.com/ Books: https://www.robinsharma.com/books Follow me here: Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 412412. Navigating Personal Growth, Friendship Dynamics and Heartbreak. Head Noise
My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 411411. Mindset around purpose, life satisfaction & goal setting with Stefanie aka my sister
In this episode, I’m joined by none other than my sister Stefanie to unpack the mindset hacks that fuel purpose, motivation & real life satisfaction. We discuss goal setting, staying driven & doing the actual work to get where you want to be. Whether you’re in a slump or just need a mindset refresh, this one’s for you. Follow @steffernandez on IG My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 410410. Navigating Life’s Big Questions: Breaking Through Creative Blocks and Imposter Syndrome
In this episode, I am answering some of your biggest life questions with honest advice and a bit of tough love. We talk about getting over a breakup, staying motivated when you have too many hobbies, going back to school after a long time, and dealing with imposter syndrome. If you're feeling stuck, unsure, or just trying to figure things out, this episode has something for everyone! Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to [email protected]. My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S1 Ep 409409. Dealing with people you don’t like in the most productive way possible
In this episode, we’re chatting about how to deal with difficult people in the most productive and sane manner possible. We’ll walk through ten super helpful tips - from getting clear on what you want to spotting what’s driving the other person - so you can handle tricky situations like a pro. Brain fact: How Ritalin actually works for ADHD. My first ever National Live Show Tour, "Lost, But Make It Intentional" You can purchase your tickets here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices