Becoming You Again

There is an enemy to grief is judgement; judgement of yourself, where you are at on your grief journey and what your unique grief journey looks like. If you've been feeling like you 'should be over him by now' or 'it's been long enough - just get over it', then you may have some unacknowledged judgement of yourself and what you're feeling. This judgement can keep you stuck and unable to process through the grief you need to allow so you can heal. Listen in as I discuss why judgement is the enemy of grief and what you can do to drop the judgement, opening yourself up to allowing grief in all it's forms. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep161To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Have you ever found yourself feeling anxious, stressed - even to the point of panicked during your divorce? If you answered yes, then this week's grounding exercise may be the perfect fit for you. I'm walking you through a grounding technique called Box Breathing. You will first be introduced to what box breathing is, the science behind it and why it is so effective on helping you feel less anxious, less stressed and more connected to yourself, your body and the here and now. If this grounding technique is resonant with you, add it to your tool box of help to heal and reconnect with yourself as you move through your divorce. The more somatic and grounding practices you have, the better off your healing process will be, taking you into your new, beautiful life after divorce.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep160To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Haunted by the echoes of decisions past, we've all faced the ghost of regret, especially in the aftermath of a marriage ending. In this episode, I'm opening up about the often unspoken sorrows of divorce, the 'what ifs' and 'if onlys' that can cling to us like chains. Your journey through divorce is one of healing and growth, and in this episode, you'll be armed with the tools to break the chains of regret, have compassion for yourself and you'll gain the insights needed to embrace self-love and resilience during this profound life transition. Listen in, to equip yourself with strategies to let go of the past and step boldly into a future defined by your own sense of empowerment.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep159To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

This week I'm joined by the vibrant Jessica Frew who shares her story of marriage, betrayal, divorce and so much more. Jessica talks about the moment she knew divorce was right for her and how she tapped into that knowing. She shares how she and her ex were able to come up with a 'divorce plan' for the sake of their daughter. You'll learn the importance of coming back to yourself after divorce. You'll also learn about the pitfalls of 'perfect partner syndrome', what it is and how to avoid falling into the trap of trying to be the perfect partner as you move into new relationships after divorce. Don't miss this incredible conversation on divorce, growth and reconnection to self with Jessica Frew. Want to know more about Jessica? Check out the links below. Jessica's IG. Jessica's podcast - Husband-in-LawJessica's Free WorkbookTo schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep158To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

The uncertainty of divorce feels scary, worrisome and anxiety ridden. In this episode we're going to understand the innate human quest for predictability and how that can be both a curse and a source of empowerment during divorce. I'll walk you through how evolutionary biology plays a huge role in the pain we feel around uncertainty and what you can do to move through the uncertainty of your divorce moving toward a future that you actually want and are excited about. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep157To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Have you ever worried that the decision you make will be the wrong one, and so you stay stuck making no decision at all? Have you ever beat yourself up for "saying the wrong thing" or "doing the wrong thing"? Have you ever second guessed a decision during divorce? Have you ever taken the blame for something that seemingly "went wrong"? If so, you're not alone. These are all forms of self doubt that many women experience throughout their divorce. Today I'm talking everything self doubt. I'll reveal where those self doubt narratives are really coming from and I'll equip you with the way out of the self doubt trap so you can rewrite the narrative that shows up in your brain. Learning to drop the self doubt will ultimately lead to you owning your personal power in your own life. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep156To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

We've all thought it about some aspect of our married life before: woulda, coulda, shoulda. In this flashback episode I'll be talking about my own experience of reliving the past over and over in my present day life and how doing that was creating more pain and suffering for me. I'll teach you how to recognize when you're living in the past and how to let go of those painful stories to help you heal from your divorce by letting go of the past, learning to live in the present, and intentionally deciding who you want to be moving forward. It's time to sift through the debris of the past, separate the facts from the fiction that our minds create and learn to recognize and rewrite the internal stories that color our perceptions and dictate our emotions. This is the path that leads to acceptance, self-compassion, and ultimately, the freedom to live fully in the present. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep155To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

I'm talking everything triggers today. If you're going through a divorce, then you know how often triggers show up - sometimes expected but more often unexpected. These triggers, when you're not equipped to manage them, can rock the rest of your or sometimes the rest of your week. But don't worry, in this episode I'll give you a comprehensive guide to understanding these emotional cues, identifying and understanding their sources, and crafting a strategy to handle them with grace and self-compassion.This week, we're not just talking about the problem; we're offering solutions. We'll walk through a series of practical steps to help you find your footing after a trigger turns your world upside down. I'll give you a four step process to follow to identify when you've been triggered and a guide to help you track trigger habits in your day to day life to help you become more aware of when they're happening and how to intentionally choose your response to the triggers moving forward. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep154To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

This week I'm giving you another somatic practice called 'anchoring in blue'. This is a grounding exercise designed to steer you through the emotional waves of divorce towards more peace and self-assuredness. In this episode, you'll learn to reconnect with your body's own language and find calm in the midst of divorce storms. Use the art of anchoring in blue to anchor yourself as you deal with everyday stressors and complicated triggers that are constantly occurring during your divorce. The more somatic and grounding practices you have, the better off your healing process will be taking you into your new, beautiful life after divorce. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep153To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Grief has been on my mind lately as I struggle with my own personal grieving as my father is coming closer to his end of life. My experience reminded me that no matter the reason for our grief, it is essentially the same feeling that each one of us feel. Grief is often a misunderstood emotion with many societal preconceived notions of what grief should look like. I'm breaking down the myths of grief and offering you some examples of why you may be holding on to grief. I'll also show you the power you will create in your own healing process when you open up to your grief and clear the emotional grief clouds that may be holding you back. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep152To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Feeling the heat of anger simmering through the veins of your post-divorce life? In this episode, we're going to step into a space where we confront the anger that bubbles up during and after divorce, an emotion too often dismissed or suppressed due to social stigmas. I'm going to teach you more than just how to 'vent', since we all know venting isn't really about allowing or releasing the feeling of anger inside your body. I'll teach you how to harness your anger and allow it in ways that will empower and transform, as you follow a path for healthy expression and constructive release. But we don't stop there. You're going to leave this episode knowing specific ways to allow and release your anger in a safe way, followed by supporting your emotional wellbeing by knowing how to integrate yourself back into the here and now. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep151To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

When the weight of divorce presses heavily upon your shoulders, you may discover an unexpected friend in the form of self-compassion. By treating ourselves with the same care and understanding we would offer to a dear friend, we implement a powerful tool for healing and growth. This conversation about self compassion is about learning to be an inner ally and learning to quiet the inner enemy during the turbulence of change. First you'll learn how to gauge how self compassionate you are, and then you'll learn the five tenants of self compassion and how to try each one out and see if it feels resonant for you. Join me on this path to learning about self compassion as nurturing this part of you will help to transform not just your current experience but your entire approach to your divorce and life beyond. National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 or text START to 88788Loveisrespect.org To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep150To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Embark on an insightful exploration of the tumultuous emotional landscapes portrayed in Netflix's "Beef" with me. I'll examine the emotional survival of the main characters, Danny and Amy, and uncover profound lessons in emotional resilience that you can apply to your own life. You learn how unchecked anger and impulsivity can mask the deep-seated pain and disconnection we face, especially during life's more trying situations like divorce. Their story serves as a mirror to our own, reflecting the critical need for emotional awareness to navigate the ebbs and flows of personal adversity.I'll discuss the pivotal role that staying present with our feelings provides to be able to engage our prefrontal cortex for thoughtful decision-making. By sharing this fictional transformation, I offer you insights and practical resources to support your journey toward emotional clarity. Whether you're rebuilding resilience or simply seeking a deeper understanding of emotional awareness, join me in this episode that promises to inspire and guide you along your path to healing and growth.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep149To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

When you're in the throws of divorce it can be hard to stay focused on anything useful. So often it seems like we have to put so much effort into figuring out who gets what, how we're going to pay the bills, and how much we'll miss the kids that we don't have any more time or energy to remember some basic key things that can definitely help ease the turmoil of divorce - even just a little bit. So in today's episode I'm going to lay out 4 key things to remember when going through a divorce that I have identified from my own experience and from coaching my clients that are bound to help you, to bolster you, to support you as you go through your divorce. And these things don't cost you any money. They don't take major time or energy to remember. But by remembering these 4 things, it's possible that your divorce pain and heartache could become less unbearable which probably sounds pretty good right now. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep148To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

You're in for a treat this week because I am giving you a sneak peak into my divorce coaching course. In this course I help you understand why you feel stuck over your divorce and how to get moving. This divorce course has been over a year in the making and is to be released later this year and now is your chance to get an idea of what this course has to offer, how it can help you reconnect to your mind, body and intuition and what doing that will create for you in your life. Do you feel stuck in your life right now? This course will help you get unstuck and moving toward the life you truly want. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep147To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Finding a divorce attorney that you know is on your side can feel scary and daunting, amongst all the other things that you have to think about, plan and deal with during your divorce. But finding the perfect attorney for you doesn't have to be hard. In this week's part two episode my guest, Lauren Fair, a family law attorney and life coach will take you through the last two and half tips of how to find the perfect divorce lawyer for you. With Lauren's expertise at your disposal, we dissect the financial anatomy of lawyer rates and retainer fees, and lay out strategies to manage your legal budget without compromising on representation quality. This episode is the conclusion to laying out your road map to finding a divorce attorney who not only knows the local terrain but also will be the perfect match to your your pace and in your style, ensuring that your voice is heard and your future is protected. Join us and arm yourself with the knowledge to steer through your divorce with confidence and clarity.For more info about Lauren Fair click here.Lauren Fair's Instagram.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep146To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Hiring the right divorce lawyer can feel like a labyrinth of uncertainty and emotions, but don't worry because I have invited my previous guest, Lauren Fair, back. Lauren is an esteemed family law attorney and life coach who is going to give you everything you need to look for when hiring a divorce attorney. Her guidance on selecting the perfect divorce lawyer promises to transform confusion into clarity. Throughout this episode, Lauren shares her litigation acumen, coupling it with life coaching finesse to help you understand the pivotal steps in hiring legal representation that not only meets your needs but also resonates with your personal journey through this transition.Confronting the emotional landslide of a partner's betrayal is daunting, but with Lauren's expert advice, you're not alone. She underscores the importance of a steady mindset when choosing a divorce attorney, ensuring decisions made are strategic and reflective rather than reactive. We dissect the a few of her top five considerations for picking your legal champion, from harnessing personal referrals to utilizing the local bar association's resources, steering you away from potential missteps along the way. Lauren's expertise is invaluable in charting a course through the overwhelming options and ensuring you find a lawyer who's not just competent but also compassionate.And don't miss next weeks companion episode as we wrap up our conversation and you hear the rest of Lauren's top tips to hiring the right divorce lawyer for you. For more info about Lauren Fair click here.Lauren Fair's Instagram.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep145To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

In today's episode I'm going to guide you through a simple, yet powerful somatic practice. Through somatic practice you will be able to create a more safe way to feel those hard to feel feelings that are so prevalent during divorce. You will also learn the art of pausing in the middle of intense moments to intentionally choose more aligned reactions to the person you want to be. Make sure to listen to and practice this exercise in a safe space (i.e. not while driving) and come back to this practice as often as you need to help you live in intentionality, authenticity and truth. Join me on this journey toward resilience and renewal, and let's embrace the changes that lead you back to becoming you again.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep144To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Are you navigating the choppy waters of life post-divorce and wondering how to rebuild and set goals that resonate with your new chapter? Let's shatter the myth that change can't happen until the New Year, or on a Monday morning, and instead, decide that any moment is the perfect opportunity for transformation. In this episode, I revisit the poignant lessons from episode number 40, offering you hope and belief in yourself as you forge a path forward. This conversation is a deep dive into the emotional core of commitment, the bedrock for reaching any milestone. We'll walk through a three-step process to ensure your goals aren't just wishes, but tangible realities. By envisioning your future successful self, you'll gain the clarity and motivation to advance with confidence. Whether you're selecting one desire to focus on or vocalizing your commitment to make it real, this episode offers the strategies you need to cultivate a life brimming with fulfillment. Join me, and let's embark on this journey of personal progress and goal attainment together.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep143To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Guess who's learned to juggle at 45? That's right, it's me! This episode is a celebration of defying societal expectations that try to box us into a certain age group. I chat about the new, joyful adventures I've undertaken this year, from becoming a card-carrying member of the Taylor Swift fan club, grasping the art of juggling, to fulfilling my baking dreams. But hold on, there's more. I veered into the realm of personal growth, teaching myself to row (thanks, YouTube!) and experiencing the joy of low-impact exercise. I also rediscovered the pure pleasure of reading for fun, with the added thrill of being part of a book club and making new friends later in life. I finish the episode with my top books I've read this year in four different categories. For the change of pace you're looking for and something to make you smile during your divorce, don't miss this episode. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep142To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Join us for part two of my conversation with Cathy Butler Teichert who has triumphed over the emotional turmoil of divorce and successfully rebuilt herself. Cathy's story serves as an inspiring testament of overcoming codependency and making peace with past relationships. Her journey, rich with valuable insights about commitment, trust, and the power of self-love, is a beacon of hope for those navigating the tricky path of divorce. We dive into the nitty-gritty of taking responsibility for your own emotions and how it can be the first step towards cultivating healthier relationships.Cathy and I explore often overlooked commonalities of the human experience, the transformative power of vulnerability, and the crucial importance of self-value beyond relationships. We unpack the art of transforming negative emotions into love, a gift we all hold within ourselves. During our conversation you'll learn how adversity often serves as a springboard to personal growth, with discomfort paving the way to self-discovery. And Cathy shares what she believes is the most important thing you can do if you find yourself going through a divorce right now. Don't miss the incredible part two of my conversation with Cathy Butler Teichert. For more information about Cathy and how to work with her see below for the links.Cathy's Podcast, LILY Pod.Cathy's social media.Cathy's Website.Cathy's book, Intentional Courtship.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep141To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Tune in to part one of my heartfelt conversation with the inspiring Cathy Butler Teichert, a woman who has emerged stronger and happier from the ashes of two divorces. Cathy talks about dealing with feelings of abandonment, rejection, and betrayal, while also highlighting the harmful narratives that can often hold us back during such trying times. What if there was a way to heal from the pain of a broken marriage and channel it into self-acceptance and love? Well, Cathy is here to share her wisdom on just that.We talk about the concept of radical acceptance and discover how it plays a critical role in the healing process. Cathy shares one of the most helpful narratives for being able to turn something difficult in your life into something full of love and life. Don't miss this incredible first half of my conversation with Cathy Butler Teichert. For more information about Cathy and how to work with her see below for the links.Cathy's Podcast, LILY Pod.Cathy's social media.Cathy's Website.Cathy's book, Intentional Courtship.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep140To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Are you ready to break the cycle of anxious dating and reclaim your joy in dating post-divorce? I'm your host, Karin Nelson, ready to challenge the societal norms that tie women's worth to their marital status. We'll confront these deep-rooted beliefs and understand how divorce further intensifies these feelings. By the end of the episode you'll have a better understanding of why you feel anxiety and stress when you date after divorce. You'll also have two easy, actionable tips to overcome this pressure and find the pleasure in dating again, ensuring your self-worth is not tied to anyone else’s choices.Remember, Becoming You Again is about celebrating your independence and emotional resilience. Your journey to freedom and being an independent individual after divorce starts with you breaking free from what society tells you it means to be in a romantic relationship, and instead, you taking the reigns and intentionally deciding that for yourself. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep139To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Are you ready to trade in your holiday stress for serenity? Because let's be real for a minute...holidays can suck during/after divorce. I'm going to be talking about how you can transform your festive season by setting boundaries and letting go of the guilt around your boundaries which is especially crucial if you're going through a divorce. You're going to learn the art of self-care beyond spa treatments, guiding you to truly honor your needs, even if it means saying no to others occasionally. The goal is to equip you with the ability to embrace your emotions and other's emotions without guilt, acknowledging them as vital catalysts for personal growth.In this episode, you're going to learn how to craft a holiday season that if FOR YOU without needing to manage your loved ones emotions. You'll walk away with practical advice on how to enjoy the festive season with guilt tolerance, emphasizing that setting boundaries and prioritizing your emotional health is an act of self-love, not selfishness. Make this holiday season your best one yet. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep138To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Do you consider yourself a perfectionist? You may be surprised by what a perfectionist actually is. Don't miss this episode where I debunk the misconceptions surrounding perfectionism and shed light on how being a perfectionist could be limiting your potential. I'll talk about three risks of having perfectionist beliefs and how to find your way out from being a perfectionist. In the episode you'll earn about the beauty of embracing your existence, flaws and all, and how to identify and manage your perfectionist tendencies. Let's journey together towards self-acceptance and the freedom that comes with understanding your worthiness, leading to a more fulfilling life post-divorce. It's time to rediscover yourself, free from the chains of perfectionism.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep136To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Are you ready to embrace your emotions without hesitation or fear? Today I'll be your guide into the depths of your emotional landscape. You're going to a learn to truly feel and process your emotions in a healthy, compassionate way. Society has taught you to suppress or react negatively towards your feelings. Now is your chance to change that narrative starting now, by understanding that your emotions are a normal part of being human, and accepting them is the first step towards self-healing. You're going to learn a step by step instruction of processing emotions starting with the concept of self-soothing and learning to recognize and name our emotions. Your emotional tolerance is as unique as you are, and realizing how to maneuver within it is crucial to productive emotional processing. If your emotions often feel like a high tide, this episode will equip you with the tools and understanding needed to navigate your emotional seas with confidence. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep135To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Have you ever wondered how to rebuild your life and finances after divorce? We're diving right into the heart of this topic with Leah Hadley, the founder of Great Lakes Investment Management and Great Lakes Divorce Financial Solutions. Leah's personal journey, from adopting a sibling group from foster care, going through a divorce, to launching two successful businesses, is the epitome of resilience and determination. Her story is a testament to the power of financial literacy and the role it plays in achieving peace of mind.During our discussion, Leah opens up about the challenges she faced while creating her successful business empire and how she turned these obstacles into stepping stones. She shares insights into understanding the value of one's services, acknowledging personal shortcomings, and the importance of receiving the right coaching. With a unique approach to the financial world, Leah has tailored her services to meet people where they are, making finance more accessible and understandable.Leah shares the common financial mistakes people make during divorce and provides guidance on how to avoid them. Leah emphasizes the importance of stepping outside your comfort zone, expanding your knowledge base, and understanding the financial risks associated with settlement agreements. We wrap up with some valuable tips on building financial confidence after divorce. Find out more about Leah: Great Lakes Divorce Financial SolutionsGreat Lakes Investment ManagementClick here for Leah's upcoming workshopJoin Leah Hadley's Facebook GroupFollow Leah Hadley on IGTo schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep134To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Why do breakups feel so emotionally heavy, hard and sticky? In today's episode I'll explore three reasons why breakups hurt so bad. I'll challenge the societal norms that tie our self-worth and identity to our relationship status and teach you how to confront the narratives that amplify the pain during a divorce.I'll also uncover the key difference between clean pain and dirty pain, helping you understand how clean pain paves the way for healing, while dirty pain only adds to unnecessary suffering. I'll end the episode helping you understand how having a constantly dysregulated nervous system adds to the pain and heartache you're feeling as you go through a breakup. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep133To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

This is part two of my incredible conversation with Lauren Fair. In this episode we delve deep into the art of creating a secure space for decision-making, the power of effective negotiation and communication, and the extraordinary strength that women can harness during this challenging time. Lauren shares pearls of wisdom from her top tips for women going through this monumental transition in life.We also put a spotlight on the critical need for self-love and self-compassion during a divorce. We uncover how tapping into your emotional safety can pave the way for empowering, deliberate decisions. We illustrate how personalized coaching can cultivate impactful, enduring changes, equipping you with the arsenal to tackle the intricate nuances of the divorce process. So, gear up to build emotional resilience, access your inner fortitude, and stride confidently into your new life. Stay to the end to hear Lauren's two most powerful tips when it comes to empowering women going through divorce. Tune in and let's chart a path to a more independent, emotionally resilient life post-divorce.Listen to the first half of our conversation here.For more info about Lauren Fair click here.Lauren Fair's Instagram.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep132To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Ready to navigate the complexities of divorce with more peace and clarity than you ever thought possible? Join me for part one of my amazing conversation with Lauren Fair, a family law attorney, certified divorce coach, and master certified life coach, who'll enlighten us on the immense benefits of resolving divorce issues outside the courtroom. Lauren not only clarifies the distinct roles of a divorce coach and a grief coach but also highlights how each can provide invaluable support during this challenging life transition.My conversation with Lauren delves into the realm of alternative approaches to the divorce process. We discuss the power of a divorce coach in helping individuals uncover their long-term goals and make thoughtful decisions that echo their needs. Together, we unravel the potential of mediation, and how the American Bar Association recognizes mediating with a divorce coach as a viable alternative. We stress the importance of understanding the various divorce procedures available, their associated costs, and respective advantages and disadvantages.Lauren also shares her insights on how divorce coaching can be a powerful tool in conflict management, fostering efficient communication skills, and creating a structure to navigate conflict throughout the divorce journey. We also touch on the relevance of emotional regulation in breaking unhealthy conflict patterns and the value of focusing on values-based decision making. With Lauren, we explore how grief coaching can help individuals engage in the divorce process in a more holistic and informed way. Lastly, we delve into the merits of one-on-one coaching for lasting change and how it can help individuals address root causes that may have led to the divorce. Join us for part one of this enlightening discussion and equip yourself with the tools to traverse the emotionally challenging terrain of divorce.For more info about Lauren Fair click here.Lauren Fair's Instagram. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep131To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

In today's episode I'll be guiding you through a transformative grounding process to build emotional resilience post-divorce. It's a brief yet potent exercise that will help you reconnect with your nervous system and bring you back to the present moment. As the episode unfolds, I'll be encouraging you to acknowledge your experiences during the exercise. Whether the exercise makes you feel relaxed or restless, the aim is to bring you back to the present moment. It's okay if you resonate with this technique or not, as there's no right or wrong way of doing this. If you find it helpful, feel free to revisit it as often as you need. And if it doesn't, that's perfectly fine too. Stay tuned for future episodes where I'll be sharing more techniques that will help you find peace and independence in your post-divorce life. Don't forget to check the full show notes for more details on how you can build a better life than when you were married.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep130To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Have you ever thought about how our cultural socialization around marriage makes divorce 10 x harder? In this episode, we get real about these deeply entrenched narratives and challenge the notion that divorce is a tragedy. I'm going to talk about how we can unwind the social conditioning that values us based on our romantic relationship status, especially as women. The more knowledge and understanding you have around romantic relationship socialization, the more power you have to move beyond the societal expectations. In this episode I'll explore the historical context of this socialization and the double standards around getting married, becoming a mother and getting divorced. This episode might just be your game-changer, redefining your perception of your own divorce journey.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep129To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Are you seeking comfort, insight, and empowerment from someone who's been in your shoes? You've come to the right place. Join me as I sit down with the incredibly resilient Amanda Davis, a woman who's navigated the turbulent waters of divorce not once, but twice. She opens up about her experiences, the lessons she's learned, and the wisdom she's gathered along the way, making this a must-listen for anyone going through a similar journey.Love, betrayal, divorce - these are heavy words that carry a lot of pain and heartache. Amanda shares intimate details about her journey, from the shock of being blindsided by an affair, to the struggle of learning self-care, and the importance of trusting your intuition. There's a raw honesty in her story that's both comforting and empowering. It's a reminder that it's okay to hurt, it's okay to heal, and it's more than okay to step into your power and define the narrative for yourself. But, it's not all about the struggle. In the final segment, Amanda shares a treasure trove of tips for life after divorce. They may seem simple - like drinking more water or taking morning walks - but they can be life-altering in their impact. Amanda's conversation is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit. No matter how bleak the situation may seem, you're not alone in your journey. Tune in for an episode filled with compassion, understanding, and the shared wisdom of women who've come out the other side stronger and more empowered.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/amanda-davisTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

What do trauma, religion and the system of patriarchy have in common? You'll find out in this episode. Join me as I sit down with Lindsay Poelman, my friend, and fellow coach who helps others become trauma-informed. You'll hear Lindsay's story of checking the societal boxes of education, marriage, family, and a good job that supposedly lead to security and a happy life and then through her journey from her husband's mental breakdown to her process of self-recovery, healing, and intuitive reclamation. She imparts how a trauma-informed approach has helped her reconnect with herself and navigate the complexities of life.Throughout our conversation we touch on trauma and grief enveloped in the lost expectation of what life should be. We also dive into high-demand/high-control religions and the system of patriarchy within those cultures touching on the internalized oppression and the revolutionary act of trusting our own knowing. We go from discussing the importance of compassionate self-recognition to the dangers of self-gaslighting and self-denial. We explore the importance of creating a safe space for ourselves and others. The episode closes on a note of releasing generational trauma and embracing self-acceptance and healing. Don't miss this insightful episode where Lindsay shares her incredible journey and helps us understand the importance of being trauma-informed.Lindsay's website for more info.Lindsay's podcast.Lindsay's Instagram.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/Trauma-Religion-and-the-System-of-PatriarchyTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

In this episode I'm answering three listener questions and offering my best divorce advice from a coaching perspective. First, you'll hear from Anonymous who is struggling in her 20+ year marriage. She has been contemplating divorce and has been taking time to reflect over her marriage and feels as though she may finally be seeing things for what they are, instead of possibly ignoring red flags that have been there along way; things like the silent treatment and public shaming. Listen in as I guide this woman on how to better tap into her inner knowing so she can make the best possible decision for herself.Second, you'll hear Jackie who wants to know if she should try to win back her ex-husband of three years or if she should continue to wade through the dating pool of misery all so she doesn't have to live a life of being alone. Listen in as I help Jackie question what she truly wants and how to think about herself in a more whole, complete way.And lastly, you'll hear another anonymous woman who is struggling to know what she wants out of life to feel productive now that all her kids are grown and out of the house. Don't miss my advice on getting to know herself and opening up to more fun in her life.If you have a question that you want answered in an upcoming Q&A episode send your questions via email to [email protected] schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/Divorce-Advice-Listener-Q-ATo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Can feelings of envy uncover our deepest needs? That's the question that set me on an unexpected journey, revealing a longing for deeper connections with other women. In this episode I share my personal exploration into the realms of envy and jealousy and I unravel how we often misinterpret our feelings, and how acknowledging our true desires can actually help us grow.We often associate selfishness with guilt and unworthiness, especially when it comes to women prioritizing their needs. But what if we reframe this perspective? Imagine if recognizing and acting on our heart's desires was seen as a gift, not just for ourselves, but for others too. We have the potential to inspire those around us and break free from societal expectations. Tune in and let's redefine the narrative around envy, jealousy, and selfishness together.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/Exploring-Envy-and-Jealousy-A-journey-Of-Self-GrowthTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Domestic abuse isn't going away any time soon. In fact, in Utah, where I live, the first half of this year it was on the rise compared to previous years. Hearing the alarming numbers of domestic abuse, I realized I haven't done much to possibly help. That's where this episode comes in; recognizing abuse in your relationship. Join me in this informative episode where I define and identify six different types of abuse, what they are and what they can look like. I'll also provide common ways someone may downplay the actions and behaviors of an abusive partner. Whether this episode opens your eyes to the abuse, you've recognized it for a while, or maybe you're just not sure - help is available. This conversation is crucial, and my goal is to approach it with utmost care and sensitivity, offering awareness, resources and support to those who may be in need. The Utah Domestic Violence Coalition operates a confidential statewide, 24-hour domestic abuse hotline at 1-800-897-LINK (5465).Utah Domestic Violence Coalition WebsiteNational Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 or Text START to 88788National Domestic Violence WebsiteLoveisrespect.orgKSL Domestic Violence articleTo schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/Recognizing-Abuse-in-Your-RelationshipTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Have you ever considered what the Barbie movie can teach divorced women about self-discovery, self-love, and self-worth? I this episode I'm sharing insights inspired by Barbie's movie, where the iconic doll's journey mimics the self-discovery encountered by many women post-divorce. Through the power of metaphor, I'll delve into Ken's struggle to find his identity outside of his relationship with Barbie, shining a light on the parallel journey women often face when navigating life after divorce. In a world dominated by patriarchal systems, I question its profound influence on our thoughts, actions, and self-perception. I confront the often unchallenged norms and double standards that society imposes on us, drawing powerful examples from the Barbie movie and my own life. Emphasizing the importance of self-empowerment, I explore stepping into our power and dismissing the fear of public opinion (FOPO). I talk about the significance of embracing our identity, practicing self-care, and nurturing self-love as you move closer to living a life of intention and possibility after divorce. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/Bridging-Divorce-and-Self-Identity-Insights-from-BarbieTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Living alone after a divorce is akin to navigating uncharted territory. On this episode, I share my personal story of grappling with loneliness and being alone for the first time in my life. I'll talk about learning how to adjust to life on your own, transforming your living space into a safe space that can serve your emotional, mental, and physical needs. I’ll shed light on how to develop an emotional safety plan that helps regulate your nervous system, so you can handle the whirlwind of emotions that accompany life post-divorce.In this episode, I'll talk about five tips from having an emotional safety plan, to having a routine that brings you joy and a sense of fulfillment, to opening yourself to finding the fun in living alone. Join me, Karin Nelson, as we embark on this journey of rediscovering you, and learning to live alone after divorce.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/tips-for-living-alone-after-divorceTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Do you ever find yourself caught in a loop of overthinking? It can be a real challenge, especially when navigating the emotional turmoil of divorce. Join me as we delve into this issue, unearthing not just the causes but also practical strategies to overcome overthinking. We will explore the three types of overthinking - worrying, rumination, and cognitive distortions, and how they can heighten negative emotions and anxiety. If you're battling with overthinking, tune in to discover how you can make deeper, more lasting changes and embark on a journey to Becoming You Again!To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/stop-overthinkingTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

As divorced women it can be challenging to find any kind of respite during our day, even if it's just for a few minutes. Well this doesn't have to be your experience any longer. Join me while I interview my guest, Jake Eagle - co-author of the book, The Power of Awe. Jake is a seasoned psychotherapist, mindfulness instructor, and fellow member trainer of the International Association of NeuroLinguistic Programming who stumbled upon an incredible discovery of The Power of Awe. Listen in as we talk in depth about the capacity of awe to reset our nervous system, help us embrace the beauty and positivity of our world, even in the face of adversity and even help reduce inflammation. Jake will reveal his research findings and the interesting concept of micro-meditations (similar to micro-dosing but with awe), which has been proven to yield superior results than the traditional 10-minute meditation. Jake and I also explore some how to make our relationships easier. We discuss the intriguing concept of the 'redo', a practice that encourages us to take responsibility for our own behavior and make amends promptly, fostering healthier connections. I promise you The Power of Awe is not just another self-help theory but a practical strategy backed by research and personal experience that can change your life and relationships. Tune in and discover how The Power of Awe can support your journey to becoming a better, healthier, and happier divorced woman, 10 seconds at a time.For more information about The Power of Awe and Jake Eagle click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/the-power-of-awe-jake-eagleTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Have you ever had to make a decision and gone back and forth, over and over again trying to decide which one is the 'right' one? It's a crappy feeling when you feel like you just don't know what is going to be best for you and your life. That's where making decisions based on your core values becomes a game-changer. Because when you understand your core values, you can use them as a navigator, directing you towards decisions rooted in your true self. I'll help you see how being intentional with your values can bring about profound self-awareness and connection; not to mention reducing your stress levels and ease around making decisions. Listen in to learn how to make decisions far easier when it comes to relationships to job choices, to your future life, and then actually working to achieve those things. It's all guided by your value sets and I'm talking about it on this podcast episode. Stay tuned!To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/making-decisions-based-on-your-core-valuesTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Were you the one who decided to ask for a divorce? There's so much help and guidance out there for those who were left behind. But for many women, the reality is, we are the ones who made the choice to leave the marriage. There are hundreds of reasons why we may have made that choice, but in the end, the things we deal with mentally and emotionally are the same. In this episode, I'll be giving you guidance on how to best navigate your healing if you're the one who left the marriage. I dive into why you may be feeling grief that you didn't know you had, and how that may be the one thing holding you back. You'll learn more about dropping the guilt you may be feeling over your decision; how to let go of the idea that you've been selfish for choosing to get divorced and the most powerful thing you can do to gain authority and control over your own life. Tune in for your guidance on living into your decision of getting a divorce. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/what-to-do-if-you-left-the-marriageTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

When we go through a divorce odds are we will at the least be taken on an emotional rollercoaster and at the most we will have some trauma that needs to be worked through and released. This is where body movement comes in. We know that emotions and trauma are held in the body. There is incredible power of body movement for ultimate healing and emotional well-being. In this episode I'm going to teach you about the the connection between our body, emotions, and trauma, and you will learn how engaging in potent and novel movement can interrupt anxiety and trauma pathways in the brain, allowing you to make rational, logical decisions during the emotionally challenging divorce process.In this empowering episode, I'll give you lots of examples potent and novel movement for trauma healing. Tune in to this insightful episode to help you understand the power of body movement as you navigate the rollercoaster of emotions and heal from trauma to be able to make the best decisions for you and your family, and ultimately emerge stronger after divorce.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/body-movementTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Are you ready to regain control of your emotional life after divorce? Listen in on this throwback episode of Becoming You Again, as you learn invaluable tools and insights needed to emotionally detach from your ex in a healthy way. Learn how taking responsibility for your own emotions enables you to change your feelings, even when external circumstances seem out of control. I'm revisiting one of my most impactful episodes, discussing strategies for managing the emotional ups and downs that come with divorce, while sharing examples of how to find peace amidst chaos. Discover the importance of taking ownership of your emotions and how acknowledging and processing negative feelings can lead to healing and growth. Don't miss this opportunity to empower yourself and start transforming your emotional life post-divorce.To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/embracing-emotional-healing-and-detachment-after-divorceTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Whether we're aware of it or not, most of us are unintentionally causing more suffering and pain in our relationships. In this episode you'll discover how embracing the concept of autonomy can help transform your emotional health and stability. Autonomy, or the capacity to make informed, uncoerced decisions, is a fundamental aspect of our human experience. When we truly understand and respect the autonomy of both ourselves and others, we can create healthier, more balanced relationships.Listen in as I dive into the importance of recognizing autonomy in your relationships and the positive impact it can have on your emotional well-being. I'll share examples of what this might look like in your every day life, and what it might look like when you use your autonomy around setting boundaries for your ultimate self care. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/understanding-autonomyTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

In this week's episode Karin is exploring the various attachment styles and how they shape the way we connect with others. She will lay out the four primary attachment styles: secure, anxious, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant. You will have a better understanding of how these styles influence your beliefs about intimacy, trust, and vulnerability, and how they may be affecting your romantic relationships, friendships, and other relationships in your life.Tune in to this episode to unlock a more powerful understanding of your attachment style. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/attachment-stylesTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

EFT (emotional freedom technique) or tapping is a tool that can be used to help you process through challenging emotions. This technique may be especially useful for someone going through divorce where emotions often run high, the central nervous system is constantly activated and that desired feeling of calm is fleeting. Listen in as Karin and EFT expert and energy healer, Stephanie Hall, talk about the benefits of tapping. You will also hear what a typical tapping practice sounds like so you can get started trying this technique out on yourself. To get Stephanie's free tapping PDF text 'TAPPING' to 801-449-1992.Have questions for Stephanie about how she can help you through your healing journey? Email her at [email protected] To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/eft-tappingTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

One of the most overwhelming and stressful circumstances dealt with during divorce is the financial aspect; how you're going to live now and moving forward. Learning to be prosperous during financial setback can be a useful tool especially during/after divorce. When I think of prosperity, I think of success, forward movement, abundance, flourishing and growth. Prosperity sounds like a very active word, like there is momentum and movement attached to it. So get ready to take real measured action on your way to creating financial prosperity during divorce. In today's episode steps are laid out taking you from becoming aware of the way you're thinking about your financial situation, learning to be informed about the truth, problem solving and finally coming up with your action plan on for growth, opportunity and prosperity. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/creating-financial-prosperity-during-divorceTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

Most of us have an idea of what grief 'should' look like. We've adopted the idea that we must grieve first and then after a certain amount of time and after so many stages, that's when we will finally be able to let go and move on. In this episode Karin will break down three myths of grief that society has adopted as 'the only way' to grieve. You will learn why continuing to believe these untruths is keeping you stuck in your healing process. You will learn what's possible for you, once you are able to dismantle these old belief systems about grief. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.For more information and full show notes go to:https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/three-myths-of-griefTo download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.