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Welcome back to part 2 of this amazing episode of Women of Impact with my girl Rahdi Devlukia-Shetty with more practical tips to help you prepare for the moments when you get knocked down so that you can get back up one.more.time., better and stronger than before! In part 2, we’re getting into: - How to respond and stand strong when everyone has an opinion - Releasing emotions & feeling proud - Listening to & trusting your body - Tactics for not allowing negativity energy into your life - And so much more! You won’t want to miss the conclusion of this incredible episode! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Radhi Shetty: Website: ⁠https://www.joyfullbook.com/⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radhidevlu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What up, guys! It’s Lisa here with another BOMB episode of Women of Impact and if you’re practically a walking masterclass on people pleasing and questioning yourself, this episode will help you finally stop the validation-seeking behaviors and break the “Nice Girl” habits that keep you stuck in your comfort zone. Today my girl Radhi Devlukia-Shetty is back for another super honest & inspiring conversation about the power of facing your fears, not allowing anxiety to stop you, and standing strong when everyone has an opinion. In case you didn’t already know – Radhi is a mission-driven entrepreneur, a fitness & well-being enthusiast, a plant based cook and recipe developer, and a trained dietitian, nutritionist and ayurvedic student & counselor. In this episode, we’re diving into: - Breaking the bad habits that keep you playing small - The secret to taking action even when you want to run in the other direction - Separating love from the boundaries you need to have for yourself without feeling guilty - Combating negative self-talk - Comforting food for the mind and body - And so much more! And that’s just in the first part! Make sure you catch the rest of my convo with Radhi in part 2 for more practical tips to help you prepare for the moments when you get knocked down so that you can get back up one.more.time., better and stronger than before! Follow Radhi Shetty: Website: ⁠https://www.joyfullbook.com/⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radhidevlu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those moments when you KNOW you’re self-sabotaging, you feel the same triggers come up in every relationship, or you second-guess if you’re “too much” or “not enough”… but you can’t figure out WHY? Girl, you are not alone. Today we are diving into the juicy, sometimes messy, but always REAL world of attachment styles… with none other than the legend herself, Thais Gibson, queen of making neuroscience and relationships make SENSE. I’m coming for every anxious thought, every “do I text him back or run for the hills?” crisis, and all things Girl Gang growth. Plus, Thais is giving you the science and practical quiz to decode your attachment style, as we do it together, live and in real time. No therapy jargon here. We talk: Real-life family drama (We get deep on the Brooklyn Beckham controversy) What to do when YOU’RE the one with the avoidant, anxious, or even fearful avoidant traits (spoiler: you can change, homie) The messy process of setting boundaries (and accidentally overreacting, then feeling guilty #beenthere) The difference between a dismissive avoidant and a narcissist (it’s not the same and we break it DOWN) Why you keep attracting the same toxic relationships (and what to actually do about it, step by step) How to rewire your attachment style… even if it feels impossible after years of baggage and bear-in-the-woods-level triggers (if you know, you know) If you want to finally understand yourself, your partners, and stop the self-sabotage spiral, this episode is your roadmap. Say goodbye to drama and hello to high-value relationships and self-love. Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com FOLLOW THAIS GIBSON: Website: https://personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ready for the real talk? In part two, Dr. Spirit and Lisa Bilyeu get even deeper, unpacking the emotional rollercoaster of love, boundaries, and all those “why does he DO that?!” questions you’ve probably vented about to your girlfriends. They get into everything from why it’s so hard to walk away, to how to communicate without losing yourself, and the sneaky ways gaslighting shows up (yep, even Taylor Swift can relate). With juicy listener questions, viral video clips, and laugh-out-loud moments, Spirit dishes on how to spot performative affection vs. the real deal, why relationships fall apart when you stop trying, and why it’s totally OK to expect (and get!) more from love. SHOWNOTES Infidelity, ownership, and why it’s NOT your fault The hard convo: when “life stuff” gets in the way of intimacy The MANY forms of infidelity, yes, emotional and financial too The ultimate red flag: when you start to shrink Why the real offense is when you stick around Take your power back, he doesn’t need to change for you to leave Why we crave validation from the very people that hurt us Are your “forevers” even aligned? Are you his partner, or his mom? (Breaking down viral “mental load” drama) The relationship falls apart when you stop trying, now what? How to spot real love from fake affection (for the romantics) Spirit’s nonprofit: how to get involved and give back Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com Follow Dr. Spirit: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talk2spirit Nonprofit (T2S C.A.R.E.S.): https://www.t2scares.org FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to a seriously honest and empowering episode of Women of Impact! In this first half, Lisa Bilyeu sits down with superstar relationship expert Spirit, who brings her no-nonsense wisdom and some hard-hitting truth bombs about love, dating, and why so many women end up feeling stuck in relationships that are less than they deserve. If you’ve ever found yourself over-analyzing “red flags,” settling for someone’s “potential,” or just wanting someone to help you finally decode men’s confusing behavior, you’re in the right place. Spirit breaks down the real difference between care and control, why settling never works out the way you hope, and how to finally stop repeating patterns you hate. Grab a notebook, this is the relationship reality check you didn’t know you needed. SHOWNOTES “Marry Him or Move On”—Red flag vs. green flag game!Is he too involved or just thoughtful? Why it’s so easy to fall for potential (and why that’s dangerous) Chasing the fantasy vs. living in reality Defining true safety and partnership Red flags: when things move too fast Stories we tell ourselves to justify staying The “almost compatible” trap Raising your standards: how to break the cycle When toxic partners echo your worst fears Spirit gets personal: Surviving a narcissist Healing from emotional abuse and reclaiming confidence The official red flag checklist: how to spot if something’s wrong Why “I’ll change” is usually just a line Why men avoid hard conversations (brains and emotional muscles explained) Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com Follow Dr. Spirit: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talk2spirit Nonprofit (T2S C.A.R.E.S.): https://www.t2scares.org FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back for part 2 of this mind-blowing conversation on Women of Impact, where my homie, trauma-informed psychologist, Mariel Buque PhD continues to expose the world of manipulation. Stick around and dive deep with us into the idea of holding a relationship funeral to ensure toxic exes stay in the past where they belong. Discover how relentless a manipulative partner can get to keep you under control, and learn how to break free from their grasp. Mariel shares insights, tools, and strategies that will help you see through the manipulation, set up manipulator proof boundaries and reclaim your sense of self. Get ready for a revelation-packed episode that will leave you feeling stronger and more confident than ever before. If you’re ready to deep dive on healing intergenerational trauma and breaking the toxic cycles you find yourself in, check out Mariel’s book, Break the Cycles: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593472497⁠? “Everyone should know what narcissism looks like, what manipulation looks like, the ways that these people hoover their way into your life, how they suck you into cycles, we should all feel some kind of protection from these experiences in relationships.” -Mariel Buque Follow Dr. Mariel Buque: Website: ⁠https://www.drmarielbuque.com/⁠ Podcast: ⁠https://breakthecyclewithdrmariel.buzzsprout.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/dr.marielbuque/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKa79peiy6CJf2RDI13YNeQ⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ X: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this gripping episode of Women of Impact, I want you to think about how much your own words or insecurities, pains and traumas have been used against you to keep you under control. Today, I’m joining forces with psychologist Mariel Buque to tackle the topic of manipulation head-on. Mariel, who went through a two-year grieving process after escaping a toxic relationship herself, shares her insights on shutting down toxic people. From recognizing the signs of manipulation to standing up for yourself without losing control, Mariel doubles down on the kind of advice that can help you finally break these toxic cycles. “We may never actually get any kind of ‘I’m sorry’, any kind of validation for our experiences, and so what we need to do is move on and find ourselves yet again.” -Mariel Buque Discover the tricks and tactics of controlling partners, the impact of gaslighting, and effective strategies to reclaim your power. If you're tired of being manipulated and want to break free from toxic cycles, this episode is a must-listen. And be sure to check out part 2 of this life-changing conversation. We move from unpacking the control game manipulators play to setting up manipulator proof boundaries that will help you move accordingly once you’re free. If you’re ready to deep dive on healing intergenerational trauma and breaking the toxic cycles you find yourself in, check out Mariel’s book, Break the Cycles: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593472497⁠? Follow Dr. Mariel Buque: Website: ⁠https://www.drmarielbuque.com/⁠ Podcast: ⁠https://breakthecyclewithdrmariel.buzzsprout.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/dr.marielbuque/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKa79peiy6CJf2RDI13YNeQ⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ X: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like you’re doing all the things and STILL about to quit on your big goal halfway through January? Or wake up in a mood (thanks, weird dream), ready to pick a fight with your husband because, well, it FELT real? Or maybe you’re just wondering if you’ll ever trust another human again after a toxic relationship? Girl, this LIVE episode was basically one big, confidence-boosting therapy session, mixed with messy real talk, community Q&A, some off-the-wall games, and yes, the occasional hard truth. So grab your coffee (or wine, no judgment), get comfy, and jump in with me: SHOWNOTES Why Most New Year’s Goals Die Right Now (And How To Be the Exception) When Failing Feels Like the End of the World (My PB&J Disaster) How To Handle Emotions When Your Client (or Life) Real Talk Q&A: Dating Again After Trauma, Boundaries, & Rebuilding Self-Esteem Lisa’s Love Lesson: When Your Mood Has Nothing to Do with Reality When Tough Talks Make Your Partner Run (and What To Do About It) Viral Hot Take: Dax Shepard, Kristen Bell, and the Anniversary Controversy Losing Confidence? Here’s What to Do When Your Hair (or Life) Starts Falling Out If you made it this far, you’re part of my crew now. Spread the word, bring a friend next week, and let’s keep building this girl gang of impact. Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu and James Sexton are back to get even deeper into the cheating, the heartbreak, and the real talk about holding a relationship together. This isn’t just “divorce horror stories, ”this is real wisdom for keeping love alive and dodging those landmines before things blow up. You’ll hear hilarious, hard truths on why people stray, what happens when the spark fades, and how communication can make or break everything. Lisa Bilyeu shares her own stories, they debate forgiveness, boundaries, and when to call it quits. Plus, rapid-fire Q&A and a killer audience question: should you talk about divorce before you even get married? SHOWNOTES The Five Types of Infidelity (Some Will Surprise You) Is “Soulmate” Just a Hollywood Scam? How Routines & Boredom Sabotage Relationships Why Instagram Makes Cheating Easier Is Cheating Really the Problem, or Just a Symptom? You Don’t Owe Your Partner Sex...But Here’s What You DO Owe Safety, Boundaries, and Trust Issues To Forgive or Not to Forgive (and What Happens If You Stay) Can You Actually Recover After Betrayal? Audience Q: When Should You Bring Up Divorce? Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow James Sexton: Website: https://www.nycdivorces.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sextonshow TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nycdivorce FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu sits down with New York’s top divorce attorney, James Sexton. James Sexton isn’t just any lawyer, he’s the guy who’s been in every kind of messy breakup imaginable, from dealing with narcissists to untangling epic family drama. If you’ve ever wondered how to spot, handle, or walk away from a toxic relationship (or what really happens behind closed doors in divorce court) this is the conversation you can’t miss. In Part 1, James Sexton gets real about narcissists, manipulation, and what you need to do to protect yourself (and your sanity). He shares wild stories from the courtroom, tactical advice on boundary-setting, and why “just trying to be fair” often backfires. SHOWNOTES Narcissists & Manipulation: What Really Goes Down The “Fairness” Trap in Divorce How to Actually Manage a Narcissist (and Not Lose Your Mind) Tactical Moves for Victims & Covert Communication Courtroom Secrets: Cross-Examining the Master Manipulators Why You Can’t “Buy Off” a Bully Co-Parenting with a Narcissist Why Is Everyone Obsessing Over the Nanny? Busting Cheating Stereotypes Women vs Men: Who Really Cheats More (and Who’s Smoother About It) How to Not Lose Yourself in Marriage Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow James Sexton: Website: https://www.nycdivorces.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sextonshow TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nycdivorce FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When it comes to inspiring millions of people to have healthier, happier, more exciting sex lives and unlocking endless pleasure, Emily Morse delivers overtime. The New York Times called her “the Dr. Ruth of our generation”, and in the 2nd part of this 2-part episode with Emily, the conversation gets extra spicy! Get ready to take notes with Emily as we learn how to unleash our fun, playful, curious side in the bedroom. This means we’re saying so long to BAD SEX and hello to the BEST SEX EVER! In this episode Emily reveals exactly why your sexual health and wellness is the #1 priority: *Stop faking orgasms and a great sex life when you can have the real thing *Doing this will teach you to have better orgasms *Enjoying more sex starts with this (are you doing it?) Stay tuned to find out more… Don’t miss Emily’s new book, Smart Sex: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Sex-Boost-Your-Pleasure/dp/0778387100⁠ Follow Emily Morse: Website: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/sexwithemily⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/SexWithEmily⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily Morse has been revolutionizing millions of people's sex lives and unlocking endless pleasure with her award winning podcast, Sex with Emily. The New York Times called her “the Dr. Ruth of our generation”, and homie, she delivers big time. She’s joining me today in this 2 part episode to help women like you (and me) unleash your inner seductress, embrace desire and pleasure, while you tap into the best sex of your life, which means we’re saying so long to bad sex and hello to more orgasms (yes please!). Achieving pleasure can be such a challenge for women. But enough is enough! We’re boldly going where most men fear to go to put an end to madness and have the BEST SEX of our lives: *What’s the biggest key to mind-blowing sex *What can same sex couples teach heterosexual couples about great sex *What has to be your #1 goal in the bedroom You’ll have to listen up to find out all of this and more… Don’t miss Emily’s new book, Smart Sex: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Sex-Boost-Your-Pleasure/dp/0778387100⁠ Follow Emily Morse: Website: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/sexwithemily⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/SexWithEmily⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you tired of wasting time on relationships that go nowhere? It's time to arm yourself with the skills and knowledge you need to have a better dating life. So. I’m bringing you the best conversations I’ve had right here on Women of Impact with relationship expert Matthew Hussey. Join us as we tackle the tough questions and provide real solutions for women who are tired of dating the wrong men and tired of the painful aftermath every time. If we’re honest ladies, sometimes it’s the men, but sometimes we’re the ones causing our own painful demise. We're digging into the complexities of narcissistic behaviors, toxic traits, and diagnosing relationship problems. Plus, we address the vulnerability dilemma - how to open up without feeling judged, embarrassed, or shamed. Get ready to boost your confidence when it comes to asking the hard questions and addressing uncomfortable topics. Don't go on another date without equipping yourself with the tools to navigate the dating world successfully. Join us in this eye-opening truth-telling episode that gets a little hard to hear. It's time to take control of your dating life and find the love and happiness you deserve. QUOTES: “You have to assume that what someone is telling you about what they want is the reality.” “Be honest with yourself about how miserable something is making you.” “We often scare people off in relationships not because of our wounds, we scare them off because of our weapons.” “You don’t have to trust someone else if you trust yourself.” “If the reaction is hysterical, then it’s historical.” “Be kind in your tone and ruthless in your actions.” Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: ⁠https://www.howtogettheguy.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like you’re halfway through January and your New Year’s resolutions have already checked out, but your ambition is still partying in your head? Or maybe you’re stuck in a toxic relationship with a narcissist, and every Google search ends with another “red flag” moment? Homie, this is the Live to catch. Welcome to my very FIRST official Live! Whether you showed up solo or dragged your bestie along for some epic girl gang energy, today is about building radical confidence, busting through self-doubt, and pulling back the curtain on everything happening behind the scenes. There’s no script, so it’s all Q&A, anything-goes style. Sometimes I have a guest. Sometimes it’s just me, your coach, hype woman, and community builder. SHOWNOTES Surprise Giveaways & Radical Confidence How to Survive Narcissistic Relationships Goal Setting That Doesn’t Suck Mission Statement Magic Community Q&A Lightning Round Dealing with Disrespect: The Eminem “Who?” Move Relationship Boundaries with Tom Bilyeu The Girl Gang Growth Tip of the Week Gut Health Real Talk Products That Actually Change My Life - Paleovalley: 30 for $36 https://paleovalley.com/lisa Stay tuned, share this with FIVE girlfriends, and help me build the boldest, most supportive girl gang on the internet. Tune in every Thursday at 4p on YouTube or every Friday wherever you listen to podcasts. Thank you to our sponsors: True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you tired of wasting time on relationships that go nowhere? It's time to arm yourself with the skills and knowledge you need to have a better dating life. So. I’m bringing you the best conversations I’ve had right here on Women of Impact with relationship expert Matthew Hussey. Join us as we tackle the tough questions and provide real solutions for women who are tired of dating the wrong men and tired of the painful aftermath every time. If we’re honest ladies, sometimes it’s the men, but sometimes we’re the ones causing our own painful demise. We're digging into the complexities of narcissistic behaviors, toxic traits, and diagnosing relationship problems. Plus, we address the vulnerability dilemma - how to open up without feeling judged, embarrassed, or shamed. Get ready to boost your confidence when it comes to asking the hard questions and addressing uncomfortable topics. Don't go on another date without equipping yourself with the tools to navigate the dating world successfully. Join us in this eye-opening truth-telling episode that gets a little hard to hear. It's time to take control of your dating life and find the love and happiness you deserve. QUOTES: “You have to assume that what someone is telling you about what they want is the reality.” “Be honest with yourself about how miserable something is making you.” “We often scare people off in relationships not because of our wounds, we scare them off because of our weapons.” “You don’t have to trust someone else if you trust yourself.” “If the reaction is hysterical, then it’s historical.” “Be kind in your tone and ruthless in your actions.” Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: ⁠https://www.howtogettheguy.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part two of Women of Impact with Leila Hormozi. Picking up where we left off, this episode goes next-level with hard-won insights on gaining — and keeping — the respect you want from others, while truly living from a place of self-compassion and unbreakable boundaries. Leila Hormozi reveals the six must-know tactics to make anyone respect you, drawing from her unique personal and professional leadership experience. Discover how to use consequence (not conversation) to set boundaries, why self-respect is a system (not a feeling), and how to handle toxic relationships and family dynamics like a true “unfuckwithable” woman. With scripts for uncomfortable scenarios, mindset re-frames, and advice on exiting emotional battles with grace, this is the ultimate guide for any woman tired of sacrificing herself for others. If you want to show up with authentic power in every room, this episode is your playbook. SHOWNOTES Change Happens 7x Faster with the Right People Choose Discomfort Over Self-Abandonment Speak Truthfully Without Emotionally VomitingHandling Public Disrespect in Real LifeIgnore to Extinguish: The Ultimate Power MoveOne Person Can Change the Relationship’s DynamicMastering Emotional SobrietyArguing vs. Productive Disagreement Choosing the Relationship Over Winning the Argument Owning Your Imperfections To Disarm Shame Real-World Scenarios (What Should a Confident Woman Do?) Walking Away from Toxic Family/Partner — Even When It’s Hard Life is Messy: No Perfect Path To Confidence Thank you to our sponsors: True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Leila Hormozi: Website: https://www.acquisition.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leilahormozi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LeilaHormozi FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this compelling first part of a two-part Women of Impact interview, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes powerhouse entrepreneur and confidence expert Leila Hormozi. Known for her candor and unfiltered wisdom, Leila Hormozi joins the show to share her personal journey from self-doubt to self-mastery and break down the real tactics that helped her become “unfuckwithable.” From exposing “bull narratives” to actionable steps for raising your tolerance to discomfort, you’ll learn the science-backed (and painfully honest) fundamentals of taking action, mastering self-talk, and separating truth from the stories you tell yourself. If you’ve ever struggled with fear, imposter syndrome, or toxic self-criticism, this is a must-listen masterclass. SHOWNOTES Why Women Underestimate Themselves The “Four Cs” Framework to Grow Confidence Viewing Failure As Data, Not Criticism Fake It Til You Make It: Skill or Trap? Simple Confidence Challenges Anyone Can Try Tracking Truth, Not Mood (Alien & Screenplay Technique) Start Small and Sit in the “Swamp” of Change Focusing on the Next Task in Uncomfortable Growth How to Make Change Stick and Avoid Burnout Tolerate Discomfort vs. Suffering Willingness to Feel Insecure, Fearful, or Anxious Don't Just Sit In Your Feelings — Take ActionChoosing Narratives That Move You Closer to Goals Thank you to our sponsors: True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Leila Hormozi: Website: https://www.acquisition.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leilahormozi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LeilaHormozi FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What up homie! We’re wrapping up the second half of this power-packed two-part episode of Women of Impact, Stephan Speaks is back diving into those dating dilemmas and decoding the things men say that drive us mad and leave us feeling a little lost and confused af. Stephan is sharing the harsh truths about the realities of dating and what men actually mean when they say the darndest things. He's exposing secrets the men don’t want you to know so that you can avoid falling into 'thirst traps' and send those relationship imposters running. From being friend-zoned to a whole lesson in why some men can’t control the urge to sleep around, even with the woman of their dreams right in front of them… Stephan is spilling the tea and giving us the harsh reality of what men are telling us. You can be mad or you can take a man’s perspective and play the dating game a little than you did yesterday. Your journey to a healthier, happier love life is ready to happen! Follow Stephan Speaks: Website: ⁠https://www.stephanspeaks.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MeetStephanSpeaks⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/stephanspeaks/⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today’s two-part episode of Women of Impact, I'm super excited to help you navigate the tricky world of dating. If you’re a homie of the show, then no doubt you’ve heard of my guest before. He’s the world-renowned relationship coach and best-selling author, Stephan Speaks. He’s back diving into those dating dilemmas that have you feeling lost and confused af. “When you ask a question you may get an answer you don’t want to receive.” -Stephan Speaks Stephan is sharing the harsh truths about the realities of dating and what men actually mean when they say the darndest things. He's exposing secrets the men don’t want you to know so that you can avoid falling into 'thirst traps' and send those relationship imposters running. Join us as we learn how to decode what men say that drive us up the wall. Hopefully you'll have empathy and at the same time have a better game plan ready next time you hear “she’s just a friend.” Tired of feeling confused, rejected, or stuck, this episode is for you. Get ready to challenge everything you thought you knew about dating. Your journey to a healthier, happier love life is ready to happen! Follow Stephan Speaks: Website: ⁠https://www.stephanspeaks.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MeetStephanSpeaks⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/stephanspeaks/⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s easy to tell our friends about why the person you're with isn’t making the cut. Your partner has annoying habits, the sex isn’t that great, it’s not as good as it was when you first hooked up, or they stopped doing the things that grabbed your attention at the beginning. Of all the reasons we can chat over a bottle (or two) of wine about explaining why our relationship isn’t working out, rarely do we reflect on ourselves and how we showed up in that relationship. Stephan Speaks has been helping women (and men) have more fulfilling relationships with the kind of advice that cuts straight through the B.S. and gets right to the heart of the matter. The 100+ million views on his YouTube channel speaks for itself. How do you avoid another bad relationship? How do you choose the best partner for you and invest your time wisely to find the right partner for you? Lisa is digging in and asking all the questions we think about and Stephan is delivering on the hard truths we don’t want to hear, but we need to hear if we’re serious about having a loving, long-term, healthy relationship. You deserve to thrive in your relationship and that means bringing all of you and the best of you to the table with your partner. Some the hard issues Original air date: 2-8-23 Stephan and Lisa are hitting on include: Why relationship tricks and hacks don’t build meaningful relationships Great sex alone is never a valid reason to stay with anyone Exposing the lies and B.S. we’ve been told are the “norm” for relationships It’s time to stop compromising and setting yourself up for heartache and start making better decisions to find and create the relationship of your dreams. Follow Stephan Speaks: Website: ⁠https://www.stephanspeaks.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPBO9gLGy8ujsJ7xjARI7ow⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/StephanSpeaks⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/stephanspeaks/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/StephanSpeaksRelationships/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you want to be able to stand up for yourself WITHOUT saying a word, then listen up homie!! Because there are sooo many PRACTICAL tips you can take from this episode to start feeling AND looking more confident - IMMEDIATELY! Today’s guest is world-famous body language expert and Ted Talk speaker with over 68 million views, Dr. Amy Cuddy. Her writing, research, teaching, and speaking focus on how we can take control of our own thoughts, feelings, and body language to affect presence and performance, and today she’s revealing the simple tricks you can use to command respect from others and be portrayed as genuinely confident. Original air date 2-19-24 In this episode, we’re touching on: The importance of body language in conveying confidence Attractiveness and the role of posture in dating Dominant versus intimate body language Power posing and its impact on emotions The difference between genuine confidence and arrogance, and the double-standards women face Overcoming adult bullying How to use powerful body language to change the way you FEEL and ACT, so you don’t get taken advantage of or used The passive, powerless postures that you’re unconsciously using that are BETRAYING you and what to do instead The REAL reason you’re still hurting and lacking confidence yearsssss after that traumatic break-up with your high school boyfriend So, if you’re ready to start conveying your worth and show up with more confidence in your life, without having to SAY anything, get ready to take notes because today’s episode is FILLED with actionable advice from Amy and it’s just what you need to hear, homie! Get Your Copy of “Presence”: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Presence-Bringing-Boldest-Biggest-Challenges-ebook/dp/B00U6DNZK8⁠ Follow Dr. Amy Cuddy: Website: ⁠https://www.amycuddy.com/⁠ LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/amy-cuddy-3654034/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/amycuddy/⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Hey there, homies! Lisa here and I’ve got another mind-blowing episode of Women of Impact with the hormone whisperer herself, Dr. Mindy Pelz. We're about to turn up the heat and talk about something that might make you blush—sex and success! Bet you didn't think those two could be linked, huh? Well, buckle up. In the first part of today’s two-part convo, we're revealing the secret superpowers of your menstrual cycle. From "Power UP Phases" to the 'Hormone Crash’ that will have you thinking you may have been gaslighting yourself all these years, this conversation is a real game changer, and we're spilling all the details. And get this, even your work schedule can inspire some serious bedroom magic and uphill success in your career and relationships. Yup, you heard me right. Your 9-5 can lead to a 10 in the bedroom (and life). We'll also explore why women are twice as likely to find sex boring and how we can shift this narrative. If you want more superpower knowledge from the incredible Dr Mindy Pelz check out her book, Fast Like a Girl: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fast-Like-Girl-Healing-Hormones/dp/1401969925⁠ Original air date: 1-17-2024 Follow Dr Mindy Pelz: Website: ⁠https://iweighcommunity.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jameelajamil/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/jameelajamil⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those moments when something feels off, but you can’t tell if it’s danger… discomfort… or just two strong personalities clashing? This episode goes straight into one of the most controversial conversations happening right now… and instead of reacting emotionally, we slow it down and analyze the actual behavior. Former CIA intelligence officer Andrew Bustamante joins me to break down behind-the-scenes footage involving Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni, examining body language, power dynamics, control, discomfort, and competition, frame by frame. This is not about picking sides. It’s about learning how to see clearly, protect yourself, and understand what’s really happening when emotions, power, and perception collide. Because as women, the goal is never blind loyalty or blind skepticism. The goal is clarity. Here’s exactly what we dive into: How to spot the difference between control, competition, and discomfort Why discomfort doesn’t always mean powerlessness The subtle body-language cues that reveal who’s actually leading the dynamic How women sometimes use control as a way to feel safe Why two people can both be telling the truth and still be in conflict What this case teaches us about perception, power, and boundaries in real life Show Notes Is This Toxic Masculinity or Weaponized Victimhood? Competition or Control? Breaking Down the On-Set Power Dynamic Is Control a Defense Mechanism When a Woman Feels Unsafe? Final Scorecard: Where This Case Really Lands Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Andrew Bustamante: Want to learn more from Andrew? Find your Spy Superpower: https://yt.everydayspy.com/4po5Mul Read Andrew’s CIA book ‘Shadow Cell’: https://geni.us/ShadowCellBook Follow Andy on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@Andrew-Bustamante Explore Spy School: https://everydayspy.com/ Support Andy's sponsor Axolt Brain: https://axoltbrain.com/andy Listen to the podcast: https://youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Hey there, homies! Lisa here and I’ve got another mind-blowing episode of Women of Impact with the hormone whisperer herself, Dr. Mindy Pelz. We're about to turn up the heat and talk about something that might make you blush—sex and success! Bet you didn't think those two could be linked, huh? Well, buckle up. In the first part of today’s two-part convo, we're revealing the secret superpowers of your menstrual cycle. From "Power UP Phases" to the 'Hormone Crash’ that will have you thinking you may have been gaslighting yourself all these years, this conversation is a real game changer, and we're spilling all the details. And get this, even your work schedule can inspire some serious bedroom magic and uphill success in your career and relationships. Yup, you heard me right. Your 9-5 can lead to a 10 in the bedroom (and life). We'll also explore why women are twice as likely to find sex boring and how we can shift this narrative. If you want more superpower knowledge from the incredible Dr Mindy Pelz check out her book, Fast Like a Girl: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fast-Like-Girl-Healing-Hormones/dp/1401969925⁠ Original air date: 1-17-2024 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. What up homies! Lisa Bilyeu here. If you’ve ever wondered if his romantic gestures were just a ploy to trap you, this conversation with Terri Cole is just what you need. In today’s powerful two-part episode of Women of Impact with the insightful Terri Cole, we expose the love bombers and boundary manipulators for what they are. Their tactics of 'unearned intimacy' have not earned your time, your attention or love. As we dive into how they manipulate emotions, paint B.S. visions of a future together you really want to hear just to gain control, I hope you’re taking notes. It's time to have your own back and demand truth in action. Remember, manipulation isn't about love, it's about power. Let's arm ourselves with knowledge and kick these red flags to the curb. “Our job is to have our own back. Our job is to go, ‘I can count on me to not people-please myself out of my own integrity.’” -Terri Cole If you’re dealing with any kind of abuse and feel unsafe in your relationship, please check out Terri’s podcast episode, How to Safely Leave An Abusive Relationship: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/safely-leave-abusive-relationship/⁠ And… Don’t forget to check out Terri’s latest Boundary Boss Workbook: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-Workbook-Strategies-Over-Giving/dp/1649631421⁠ Original air date: 11-16-2023 Follow Terri Cole: Website: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/⁠ Podcast: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/podcast/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/terricole/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. What up homies! Lisa Bilyeu here. If you’ve ever wondered if his romantic gestures were just a ploy to trap you, this conversation with Terri Cole is just what you need. In today’s powerful two-part episode of Women of Impact with the insightful Terri Cole, we expose the love bombers and boundary manipulators for what they are. Their tactics of 'unearned intimacy' have not earned your time, your attention or love. As we dive into how they manipulate emotions, paint B.S. visions of a future together you really want to hear just to gain control, I hope you’re taking notes. It's time to have your own back and demand truth in action. Remember, manipulation isn't about love, it's about power. Let's arm ourselves with knowledge and kick these red flags to the curb. “Our job is to have our own back. Our job is to go, ‘I can count on me to not people-please myself out of my own integrity.’” -Terri Cole If you’re dealing with any kind of abuse and feel unsafe in your relationship, please check out Terri’s podcast episode, How to Safely Leave An Abusive Relationship: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/safely-leave-abusive-relationship/⁠ And… Don’t forget to check out Terri’s latest Boundary Boss Workbook: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-Workbook-Strategies-Over-Giving/dp/1649631421⁠ Original air date: 11-15-2023 Follow Terri Cole: Website: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/⁠ Podcast: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/podcast/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/terricole/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices