
Women of Impact
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Ep 923Spot a Liar in 5 Seconds! How to Read Anyone Like a Human Lie Detector | Chase Hughes PT 1
EIn this compelling episode of "Women of Impact," host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Chase Hughes, a renowned expert in human behavior and interrogation techniques, to delve into the art of spotting manipulators and understanding the psychology behind their tactics. Chase brings his deep knowledge to the table, offering insights that go beyond the surface. They dissect how to spot red flags in relationships, particularly focusing on identifying narcissists and psychopaths in the early stages of dating—a subject that resonates with many of Lisa’s audience. Chase provides practical advice for women to protect themselves in potentially harmful relationships. The conversation goes in-depth into the tactics manipulators use, exploring cognitive blind spots and the mental gymnastics people perform to justify poor relationship choices. Lisa and Chase navigate through valuable questions to ask on first dates and warning signs to look out for, ensuring listeners walk away equipped with the knowledge to make safer choices in their personal lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Chase Hughes Introduction 00:47 Spotting Narcissists on a First Date 01:51 Cognitive Blind Spots in Relationships 03:02 Differentiating Insecurity from Psychopathy 05:25 Physical Cues of Manipulation 11:00 Warning Signs of Narcissistic Behavior FOLLOW CHASE: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ChaseHughesOfficial CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 921I Thought I Had to Be the ‘Perfect Wife’—Until I Realized This | Lisa & Tom Bilyeu (Relationship Theory)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on May 3, 2017. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to Women of Impact, where we are celebrating our power and balancing that inner energy! Today, I've got an episode that is really close to the heart, diving right into the art of balancing masculine and feminine energies with none other than someone who knows me best, my amazing husband, Tom Bilyeu! Guys, if you've ever felt a disconnect or even a spark missing in your relationship, it's time to tune in because we’re breaking it down like never before. Trust me, this isn’t your usual chat about dynamics; Tom and I are here to talk about what really goes on behind the scenes when it comes to balancing energies and keeping that attraction alive. We’re addressing big concepts like Tony Robbins’ views on energy polarity, but making them relatable and bringing them into the reality of everyday life. This is about enhancing our partnerships, understanding each other better, and fostering connections that truly resonate. And guys, I'm all for those juicy, tactical insights that you can start implementing today – so get ready to hear about how you can seriously boost your relationship game with some real talk about emotions, communication, and more. So, prepare to dive into the dynamics of relationships and discover that balance that allows us to truly thrive together! SHOWNOTES 00:00 The Essence of Impact Theory 00:37 Kicking Off with Comments 01:02 Jessie & Working Out Together 03:40 Stories of Commitment 04:14 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy 10:58 Emotions and Relationships 15:05 Real Talk on Protection 22:37 Transparent Communication 27:48 Leading by Example in Relationships 32:19 Cultivating Connection & Sacrifice 46:53 Encouraging Each Other 53:22 Dealing with Hard Times Together 59:42 Tactics for Love and Appreciation Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 920Your Gut Is Controlling Your Mood—How to Heal Anxiety & Depression Naturally | Dr. Ellen Vora (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on March 16, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I have an episode that's a must-listen for anyone battling the weight of anxiety and depression. We've got the phenomenal Dr. Ellen Vora, a true change-maker in the mental health space. Guys, if you've ever felt like you're stuck in a quagmire of emotions, if you've ever felt isolated and uncertain about where to turn, then Dr. Ellen Vora is your guiding light. She's flipping the script on how we approach mental health, advocating for addressing the root causes rather than merely putting a band-aid over symptoms. Her incredible insights into how our bodies and minds are interconnected will have you rethinking everything from your daily diet to your deepest personal relationships. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, or just feel a little off, Dr. Vora's practical, actionable advice will empower you to take charge of your mental well-being. So grab your favorite notebook and settle in because Dr. Ellen Vora is about to drop some serious wisdom on how we can uplift our souls, reclaim our power, and become the heroes of our own stories. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction to Mental Health Awareness 02:01 The Placebo Effect in Mental Health 06:44 Starting Holistic Treatment for Depression 10:23 Tailored Approaches for Different Personality Types 15:31 Recognizing Suffering and Getting Unstuck 19:32 Importance of Gut Health in Mental Well-being 22:45 Diet's Role in Managing Depression 28:03 Balancing Perfectionism and Self-Care 32:45 Navigating Social Situations with Dietary Needs 38:52 The Power of Vulnerability in Overcoming Shame 41:27 Understanding Miscarriage and Postpartum Mental Health 46:49 The Dangers of Loneliness on Health 50:02 Choosing Social Connection Over Isolation 51:15 Outro and Call to Action FOLLOW DR. ELLEN VORA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/envoramd/ Website: https://ellenvora.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 919How to Spot a Narcissist Before It’s Too Late—The 5 Signs You Need to Know | Dr. Ramani (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: August 3, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where every conversation is a step toward empowering ourselves and each other. I am so freaking excited to bring you today’s episode with the incredible Dr. Ramani! Not only is she one of my absolute favorite people on this planet, but Dr. Ramani is also a leading narcissism expert, a clinical psychologist, and now the fabulous host of her podcast "Navigating Narcissism." Today, we’re diving deep into the world of narcissism—how to spot it, how to handle it, and how to prevent those narcissistic traits from entering your life. We're going right into it: How to spot a narcissist on a first date with the right questions and how to keep those boundaries firm. If you've ever felt manipulated or unappreciated in your relationships, this episode is packed with strategies you'll find invaluable. Please, please do rate and review this podcast—it would mean the world to me. And remember, it's not just about listening; it’s about taking action and becoming the hero of your life. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Identifying Narcissism Through Uncommon Questions 06:34 Narcissists' Intrusive Tactics 12:45 Trauma Bonds: Familiarity with Rage 20:21 "Defining Love: Different Perspectives" 22:13 Understanding Love in Trauma Bonds 28:10 Recognizing and Navigating Unhealthy Relationships 36:54 Redefining Relationship Success 37:48 Escaping Toxic, Narcissistic Relationships 46:46 Navigating Narcissistic Smear Campaigns 52:26 Narcissistic Relationship Red Flags 56:16 Ending Relationships with Narcissists: Risks 01:03:40 Escaping Narcissistic Family Dynamics 01:09:44 Be a Ray of Sunlight 01:12:58 Addressing Chronic Lateness Conversations 01:18:43 Balancing Relationship Expectations 01:21:55 Empowering Women through Action 01:26:14 Avoiding Narcissistic Relationships Early 01:33:47 Surviving and Healing Narcissistic Abuse FOLLOW DR. RAMANI: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani Twitter: https://twitter.com/DoctorRamani Website: https://www.doctor-ramani.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 9176 ‘Nice Girl’ Habits You Need to Ditch to Finally Get What You Want | Lisa Bilyeu (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: July 6, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're all about building that big, badass life together. Today, we're diving into those sneaky nice-girl habits that we need to kick to the curb to truly become the heroes of our own stories. Trust me, this episode is all about finding your voice, setting monumental boundaries, and stopping the cycle of people-pleasing that has held so many of us back. I'm here sharing my own journey, tips, and insights so you can show up in your full power. Get ready to step up and shake off what's been weighing you down! We're dissecting the habits that'll have you saying 'Yes' to everyone except yourself, exploring how to break free from that velvet handcuff of people pleasing, and learning how to set boundaries that honor our needs first. Ladies, the journey from being the 'nice girl' to the unapologetic badass we know we are is filled with life-changing revelations that will flip your world right-side-up! So buckle up, because this ride is all about uncovering what serves you and empowers you. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Create a "Think Time" Phrase 04:20 Prioritizing Self-Care Over Obligations 07:34 Stop People Pleasing Now 11:44 Choosing Self Over People Pleasing 13:43 Navigating Change in Domestic Roles 19:37 Balancing Parental Expectations and Perspectives 20:37 Embracing Self-Identity Over Expectations 25:56 From Helper to Business Leader 29:36 "From People Pleaser to Empowered" 31:26 Understanding and Setting Boundaries 34:22 Setting Boundaries with Loved Ones 37:36 Communicating Intentions and Impact 42:52 Navigating Boundaries with Mom 46:06 Stop Overusing "I'm Sorry" 47:51 "Empowerment: Avoiding Unnecessary Apologies" 51:20 Apology-Free Communication Strategies CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 916Stop Explaining Yourself—The #1 Trick to Shut Down Gaslighting & Passive Aggression | Jefferson Fisher PT 2
ELisa Bilyeu continues her conversation with Jefferson Fisher, diving deeper into the nuances of maintaining control in conversations while nurturing healthy relationships. Jefferson unravels the complexities of navigating emotionally charged discussions, emphasizing the significance of setting clear goals for each interaction. Together, they explore the manipulation tactics often present in dynamics with narcissists, and how the power of pausing can defuse potentially explosive situations. This episode tackles the intricate balance between expressing vulnerability and safeguarding it from being weaponized, offering practical frameworks to ensure clarity and understanding in your most important dialogues. With actionable insights on enhancing communication in both personal and professional spheres, Jefferson empowers listeners to take control of their narrative and communication style. Tune in to discover how intentional pauses, tone management, and strategic framing can transform your interactions, leaving you feeling more connected and understood. SHOWNOTES: 03:31 The Pitfalls of Reactionary Arguments 03:53 The Art of a Strategic Pause 04:21 Navigating Emotionally Charged Conversations 04:34 Secret Weapon: The Power of Pausing 04:58 Steps to Collect Your Mindset and Respond 05:27 Utilizing Long Pauses to Shift Dynamic and Power 06:32 The Role of Tone in Communication 06:43 Managing Control in Heated Discussions FOLLOW JEFFERSON FISHER: Website: jeffersonfisher.com Instagram: @jeffersonfisher Facebook: @jeffersonfisher CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 915Stop Explaining Yourself—The #1 Trick to Shut Down Gaslighting & Passive Aggression | Jefferson Fisher PT 1
EToday, Lisa Bilyeu delves into the world of communication and confidence with the insightful Jefferson Fisher. A renowned communicator and educator, Jefferson offers invaluable advice on how to harness the power of assertive communication to boost confidence and navigate challenging interactions. In Part 1 of this two-part series, Jefferson shares his philosophy that "confidence is as assertive does," encouraging listeners to engage in assertive actions to cultivate self-assurance. The discussion explores the importance of setting boundaries, understanding the impact of silence, and the art of pausing to manage emotions effectively. During this enlightening conversation, Jefferson and Lisa examine the strategies for responding to dismissive remarks without losing composure and the power of asking intent-based questions to shift dynamics in conversations. This episode lays the foundation for reclaiming personal power by mastering the ability to pause and reflect, instead of reacting impulsively. Join us for an episode that promises to elevate your communication skills and confidence levels, setting the stage for deeper self-awareness and growth. SHOWNOTES: 00:00 Introduction to Confidence and Assertiveness 00:31 Using Silence to Empower 01:12 The Power of Boundaries and Follow-Through 01:40 Responding to Dismissive Statements with Confidence 01:55 Jefferson’s Philosophy: Assertive Action Builds Confidence 02:26 Effective Responses to “You're Too Sensitive” 02:56 Impact of Reacting Emotionally and How to Avoid It FOLLOW JEFFERSON FISHER: Website: jeffersonfisher.com Instagram: @jeffersonfisher Facebook: @jeffersonfisher CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 914I Was Raised to Be a ‘Good Wife’—How Gender Roles Almost Ruined Our Relationship | Lisa & Tom Bilyeu (Relationship Theory)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on July 19, 2017. What up, homies! It's your girl Jewel, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive into the nitty-gritty and come out stronger than ever. Today, I've got an absolutely fire episode lined up with none other than Tom Bilyeu, my co-host and the relentless force behind Impact Theory! We're tackling a topic that's close to my heart and sure to resonate with so many of you: gender norms and how they silently suffocate our relationships. If you've ever felt boxed in or pressured to fit into stereotypical roles, this conversation is your lifeline. In this episode, Tom and I break down why traditional gender roles often hold us back and how effective communication can tear down those walls. We're unpacking everything from practical advice on working out relationship differences to inspiring ways to fuel each other's ambitions without compromising your own dreams. It’s time to flip the script on outdated norms and set a new standard for thriving partnerships. So grab your pen and that notebook of yours because Tom Bilyeu is here to share groundbreaking insights on creating a badass, balanced relationship that defies societal expectations. SHOWNOTES 00:00:00 Welcome to Relationship Theory 00:00:42 Opening Thoughts on Time Together 00:01:26 Importance of Proximity in Relationships 00:02:02 How to Deal with Differences 00:03:17 Rules of Engagement 00:07:38 Working Out and Communication 00:12:09 Question Game to Grow Closer 00:16:04 Surprising Traits and Honesty 00:20:13 Ambition in Relationships 00:28:21 Understanding Emotional Triggers 00:36:35 Apologies and Honesty in Conflicts 00:43:02 Roles and Responsibilities 00:53:55 Navigating Last Name Dynamics CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 913I Was 56 Pounds & Doctors Gave Up On Me—Here’s How I Took My Life Back | Brittany Burgunder (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on January 29, 2019. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another awe-inspiring episode of Women of Impact. Today, I'm thrilled to sit down with Brittany Burgunder, a true warrior in the battle against eating disorders. Brittany has faced the heaviest of struggles, going from a terrifying 56 pounds due to anorexia to battling binge eating at over 220 pounds. But here's the kicker—she discovered that it wasn't about the food, it was about the mind. This episode is a raw and unfiltered journey through Brittany's incredible transformation. Trust me, if you've ever felt lost or battled with accepting yourself, you need to hear what she has to say. Brittany's revelation that her struggle was rooted in self-worth, not body image, will hit home for so many of us. We are diving into the real work of healing, finding validation from within, and reshaping our thoughts. We're not just skimming the surface here. Brittany sheds light on how she took control of her own mind, moving from self-sabotage to self-acceptance, and how we can all rewrite our stories. So grab those tissues, because Brittany’s bravery and honesty are going to touch your soul and kick-start your own journey to recovery and self-empowerment. And remember, if this episode resonates with you, show some love by rating, reviewing, and subscribing. Share this with your squad. Let's uplift each other because together, we're unstoppable! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction and Brittany's Journey 02:09 Early Struggles and External Validation 06:23 Control and Anorexia 10:11 Realizing the Desire to Live 13:26 Internal vs. External Validation 20:48 Breaking Identity and Recovery Journey 25:48 The Power of Imperfection 32:38 The New Normal and Self-Sabotage 38:54 Coping with Challenges and Finding Strength 45:14 Writing Her Memoir and Importance of Sharing Stories 51:53 Finding Purpose Beyond Recovery FOLLOW BRITTANY BURGUNDER: Website: https://www.brittanyburgunder.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brittanyburgunder/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 912I Built a Hollywood Empire While Raising 3 Kids—What No One Tells Women About Success | Brenda Gilbert (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on June 5, 2019. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where it's all about the game-changers making a difference. Today, I am beyond thrilled to introduce you to Brenda Gilbert, a Hollywood powerhouse who has done the extraordinary by co-founding Bron Studios and making waves behind the camera. Guys, imagine starting in a place where you feel like an outsider, only to rise and create a media juggernaut. That's Brenda's story. Over a decade, Brenda, alongside her husband, cultivated Bron Studios, the name behind stellar films like "Fences" and "The Willoughbys." This episode is not just about movies—it's about building a career, finding your voice, and leading with authenticity. Brenda shares her strategies for aligning with remarkable people, overcoming adversity, and balancing massive projects while fiercely supporting female narratives. She’s living proof that boldness and humility can coexist, and her mission to uplift women in creative roles is truly inspiring. You guys are in for a treat because this conversation dives deep into finding your true north, even when the odds are stacked against you. Brenda reveals her secrets to sustaining passion, nurturing a positive family life, and fostering a work culture that thrives on integrity and fairness. So grab your earbuds, settle in, and get ready to be inspired by one of the most dynamic and humble leaders in the industry. And remember, if you love what you hear, make sure to rate, review, and subscribe. Share this episode far and wide – let’s amplify the impact together. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Women in Hollywood: Impact Behind the Camera 00:43 Journey from Outcast to Industry Leader 02:18 Empowering Women in Creative Roles 04:03 Aligning with Great People 08:13 Passion, Perseverance, and Persistence 15:25 Overcoming Challenges and Staying True 21:02 The Importance of Having a Voice 27:30 Thriving on Challenges and Staying Humble 33:25 Family, Work-Life Balance, and Avoiding Burnout 36:13 Future Projects: Empowering Narratives ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 910The 5 Things Every Woman Must Do to Create the Life She Deserves | Lisa Bilyeu (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on June 19, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I'm absolutely pumped to bring you an episode with none other than my wonderful hubby, Tom Bilyeu! We're filling in the blanks on "Lisa_the 5 things every woman must do," but plot twist, it's Tom who’s unraveling the deep layers of our dreams, the stories we tell ourselves, and all those raw emotions! Imagine pursuing dreams not just to achieve them, but to let them guide you to places you didn’t know existed. Tom walks us through how to balance those overwhelming moments of imposter syndrome with tangible tools. So ladies, lean in because there's so much magic in the “high five habit” that Mel brings up – a bump to self-love and self-trust that’ll knock your socks off! And of course, we’re unpacking those powerful pillars of life: from the dynamics in our spaces, relationships, and habits, to managing that internal chatter that does NOT own your life. Because let's face it, those sneaky little day-to-day choices pile up to create our reality. Yes, girl, WE are making our own dreams! So buckle up and let's embrace the journey to becoming unshakeable and impactful women together. Remember, if this episode lights you up, do the things – rate, review, and subscribe. Sharing is caring, so pass it along to every powerhouse you know! Let’s keep raising the tide for all the brilliant women out there. SHOWNOTES 00:00 The Power of Emotional Stories 00:01:00 Dreams as Life's Map 00:01:52 Understanding the Zeigarnik Effect 00:03:13 Overcoming Initial Hurdles 00:03:52 The “High Five Habit” Unpacked 00:05:38 Mirror Moments of Self-Reflection 00:09:45 Rewriting Our Internal Dialogue 00:18:28 Health as a Pillar of Life 00:21:03 Building Meaningful Relationships 00:24:00 Decluttering for a Focused Mind 00:26:38 Addressing Financial Excuses 00:29:38 Preparing for Opportunities 00:32:16 Habits and Identity Transformation 00:36:07 Navigating Financial Dynamics in Relationships 00:41:12 Debunking the Victim Mindset 00:45:27 Pain as a Path to Growth 00:51:00 Reworking Limiting Beliefs CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** Check out Women of Impact featured on FeedSpot's "Top 100 Women Podcasts," and their lists of top podcasts for women empowerment, personal development, and badass females! Explore the lists here. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 909Menopause Almost Destroyed My Relationship —How to Stop the Hormonal Chaos and Feel Like YOU Again | Tamsen Fadal PT 2
EAs the conversation deepens, Tamsen shares her personal journey through menopause, highlighting the realities women face and the empowerment that comes with embracing this new chapter of life. Discover the untold stories behind menopause, the myths debunked, and the shared experiences that unite women across different cultures and backgrounds. This segment focuses on practical advice and insights on navigating menopause with confidence. Tamsen and Lisa also explore the importance of breaking societal taboos, empowering women to take control of their health and live with purpose and joy. Tune in for a celebration of resilience, wisdom, and the unyielding spirit of women redefining midlife. SHOWNOTES 25:50 Navigating through hormonal changes 34:20 The power of community and shared experiences 41:49 HRT: The debate and choices 48:30 Personal health empowerment and advocacy 55:46 Recognizing the gifts of menopause 01:01:45 Knowledge is power: The next steps for women FOLLOW TAMSEN FADAL: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamsenfadal/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/tamsenfadal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TamsenFadal/ Website: http://tamsenfadal.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** Check out Women of Impact featured on FeedSpot's "Top 100 Women Podcasts," and their lists of top podcasts for women empowerment, personal development, and badass females! Explore the lists here. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 908Menopause Almost Destroyed My Relationship —How to Stop the Hormonal Chaos and Feel Like YOU Again | Tamsen Fadal PT 1
ELisa Bilyeu is joined by the remarkable Tamsen Fadal, an award-winning journalist and author, renowned for her impactful work on empowering women through life's transformative stages. Tamsen delves into the societal narratives surrounding women as they navigate menopause, discussing the challenges and liberations this phase brings. This episode explores the intricacies of confidence, self-perception, and societal expectations, offering invaluable insights for women on this journey. Dive into this engaging conversation as Tamsen and Lisa discuss everything from personal anecdotes about age and visibility to the cultural implications and the need for more open discussions about women's health. This episode underscores the importance of understanding and embracing change, empowering listeners to redefine aging and self-worth. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Time. Designing for the future 00:29 Navigating aging with humor 01:14 Societal perceptions and confidence 06:09 Divorce rates and menopause 11:47 Communicating change with partners 15:39 Shifts in self-perception and relationships 20:37 Better sex post-menopause: A candid conversation FOLLOW TAMSEN FADAL: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamsenfadal/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/tamsenfadal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TamsenFadal/ Website: http://tamsenfadal.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** Check out Women of Impact featured on FeedSpot's "Top 100 Women Podcasts," and their lists of top podcasts for women empowerment, personal development, and badass females! Explore the lists here. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 907I Was a Housewife. He Made the Money. Here’s the Truth No One Tells You | Tom & Lisa Bilyeu (Relationship Theory Replay)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on November 11, 2017. Hey, lovely people! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another powerful episode of Relationship Theory on Impact Theory, where we dig into the heart of what makes relationships tick. Today, Tom and I are super thrilled to be jumping into a topic that's all about balance, empowerment, and understanding different perspectives within relationships. This episode is all about diving into roles like the housewife versus the breadwinner and how these dynamics affect relationships. We’re answering your burning questions and giving you practical tools to navigate these roles with love and respect. Join Tom and me as we start with a fun "Would You Rather" segment, spark conversation about financial transparency, and explore why truly understanding and valuing each partner’s contribution is pivotal. I really want to emphasize the empowerment that comes from being open and clear in what you bring to the table, whether you're the one working outside the home or managing everything inside. We'll go into detail about how couples can create a partnership based on equality, regardless of who's bringing in the cash. Plus, let's talk communication! How can we better express what we need from our partners without feeling guilty or sidelined? And how do we manage those heated moments when emotions are high? Before we wrap up, we'll give you a takeaway challenge to try out in your own relationship. If today’s episode resonates with you, please drop a review, subscribe, and share it with your loved ones. Together, we can keep these essential discussions rolling! SHOWNOTES: 00:00 Welcome to Relationship Theory: Diving into Partner Dynamics 00:01:08 Would You Rather: The Privacy Dilemma 00:01:38 The Importance of Financial Transparency and Openness 00:01:48 Roles and Communication: Finding Balance in the Relationship 00:05:18 Key Question: Navigating the Stay-at-Home and Breadwinner Dynamic 00:08:31 Defining the Empowerment of Managing Home and Finances 00:20:14 A Listener's Dilemma: The Breadwinner and Relationship Dynamics 00:33:34 Encouraging Action: Empower Your Partner with Love 00:44:05 Managing Heated Moments: Our Go-To Communication Strategies 00:49:53 Understanding Materialism and Overcoming Guilt 00:56:42 Episode Conclusion and Relationship Takeaway Challenge Let’s stay connected and keep lifting each other up with love and understanding! CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** Check out Women of Impact featured on FeedSpot's "Top 100 Women Podcasts," and their lists of top podcasts for women empowerment, personal development, and badass females! Explore the lists here. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 906Do You Really Know Your Hormones? These Fasting Mistakes Are Destroying Your Energy & How to Fix Them | Dr. Amy Shah (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on July 13, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I'm absolutely jazzed to bring you a powerhouse episode with none other than the fasting dynamo herself, Dr. Amy Shah! Guys, if you've ever felt like you're running on empty, if you've ever hit that wall of fatigue where you just think, “I can't keep doing this,” you're not alone, and Dr. Amy Shah, author of "I'm So Effing Tired," is here with the freaking game plan to recharge our batteries! Trust me, you won't want to miss a single word of this. We're going deep on something seriously empowering – fasting. Now, before you roll your eyes, let me tell you why this isn't just about skipping meals. Dr. Shah is flipping the script and revealing why women's bodies are a whole different ballgame when it comes to fasting compared to men. We’re talking about optimizing our energy, syncing with our natural cycles, and literally taking back control of how we feel every single day. And ladies, you know I'm all about those simple, tactical steps you can use like... right NOW. Whether you're a seasoned faster, or maybe you don't even know where to start, Dr. Shah's got your back with super easy tactics and insights that’ll make you say, "Why the hell didn’t I start this sooner?" So, grab that notebook and pen, because Dr. Amy Shah is about to drop some serious knowledge bombs on how we can elevate our lives, find our confidence, and step into our power. Remember, if this episode resonates with you, please, please do all the things – rate, review, and subscribe. Share this with your crew, and let's keep this movement growing. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Balanced Fasting: A Natural Approach 08:25 Self-Care During Late Luteal Phase 14:55 "Sun-Synced Fasting Boosts Gut Health" 16:09 Optimal Eating Habits 25:45 "Assessing Meaningful Relationships" 26:54 Identifying Toxic Relationships 32:38 "Microbes: Key to Health and Wellbeing" 41:03 Nature Walks: Women's Wellness Secret 46:23 Screens Disrupt Sleep Patterns 51:00 Understanding Inflammation and Diet Connection 53:52 "Moderate Toxin Intake for Health" 59:43 Quick Energy Leads to Crashes 01:07:47 Optimal Fasting: Finding Your Balance 01:09:42 Late-Night Snacking and Weight Loss 01:18:19 Cycle-Based Intermittent Fasting Guide 01:21:45 "Embrace Strength Over Shrinking" 01:25:54 "Be the Hero Blueprint" FOLLOW DR. AMY SHAH: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amymdwellness/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/amymdwellness Website: https://amymdwellness.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** Check out Women of Impact featured on FeedSpot's "Top 100 Women Podcasts," and their lists of top podcasts for women empowerment, personal development, and badass females! Explore the lists here. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 905Feeling Stuck? 3 Life-Changing Strategies to Transform Fear into Confidence | Ellen Bennett (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on July 21, 2021. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I'm absolutely psyched to bring you an episode with none other than the unstoppable force herself, Ellen Marie Bennett! If you've got big, audacious dreams swirling around in your heart, but that sticky perfectionism is holding your feet to the ground, then buckle up, because Ellen is here to shake things up. This powerhouse took her first steps from working the line in a restaurant to building a multimillion-dollar empire — all by embracing imperfection along the way! We're gonna be diving into some truly transformative topics today. Ellen’s here to guide us on breaking free from the chains of trying to be perfect and stepping into action instead. Her journey from dreaming big to making her entrepreneurial mark is the ultimate inspiration for anyone feeling stuck in their tracks and looking for that "let's do this" mindset. The energy Ellen brings is infectious, and her humble enthusiasm is something we can all learn from. So whether you’re on the cusp of launching your own passion project or just need that extra nudge to go after what you love, Ellen’s got the blueprint. Grab your favorite mug, settle in, and get ready for some mind-altering insights on how to take that first leap forward and turn your dreams into reality. And you know the drill, if this episode hits home for you, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review. Spread the positivity and let's keep lifting each other up. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Breaking Free from Perfectionism 00:25 Action Over Stagnation: Ellen’s First Step 00:42 From Restaurant Line to Multi-Million Brand 01:19 Embrace Your Unique Self 01:54 Welcome Ellen Marie Bennett 02:47 Origin of "Dream First, Details Later" 03:32 A Decisive 9-Year-Old Mindset 04:05 The Power of Showing Up 05:21 Recognizing and Seizing Opportunities 06:02 Strategy Behind Ellen’s First Big Leap 08:20 Delivering Beyond Perfection 09:36 Salvaging Success from Criticism 12:14 Story of Start-Up Resilience 13:57 Insights on Humble Enthusiasm 16:23 Collaborating Through Sharing 17:27 Turning Pessimists into Believers 20:02 Imagining Future Paths FOLLOW ELLEN MARIE BENNETT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellenmariebennett/ Website: https://hedleyandbennett.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** Check out Women of Impact featured on FeedSpot's "Top 100 Women Podcasts," and their lists of top podcasts for women empowerment, personal development, and badass females! Explore the lists here. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 903Your Thoughts Are Lying to You! How to Reprogram Your Mind for Success & Confidence | Marisa Peer (Replay)
Famed hypnotherapist, creator of Rapid Transformational Therapy, and all-around psychological superwoman Marisa Peer is one of the world’s leading experts on controlling your thoughts, your emotional state, and thus your life’s results. And right now, when people are physically isolated and spending so much time confronted with their own mental state, her message is more necessary than ever. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Marisa Peer discusses how her methods of controlling language and using powerful, positive words can help people make it through these unexpected times. She gives concrete examples of how to use self-talk effectively, discusses the importance of taking control of your thoughts, explains how to talk to children about the coronavirus pandemic, and even shares some surprising ways women can boost their immune system. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 4-22-20]. SHOW NOTES: Marisa Peer advocates looking for what’s good about quarantines and isolation [2:30] You need to give yourself a daily routine to make it through the coronavirus pandemic [5:15] Why words matter and how they are so powerful [6:57] You can only control your thoughts, which control your emotions and your beliefs [10:48] Marisa and Lisa discuss how you always have a choice about how you think [13:00] How do you deal with living with other people who have a negative mindset? [17:06] Marisa and Lisa talk about how to break out of procrastination [21:02] Nobody can reject you without your consent, and you can always make progress [26:12] Marisa explains how to talk to children about dangers and uncertainty [29:11] To be happy you need someone to love, something to do, and somewhere to go [33:13] The words you use will shape your reality [34:44] Marisa shares her superpower [36:34] FOLLOW MARISA: WEBSITE: https://marisapeer.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/33kLFmz FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2XK3IBe TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2pLuJYu ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 902Do You Really Know Him? 20 Red Flags You Need to Know Now | Laura Richards - PT 2
Join Lisa Bilyeu in the riveting continuation of "Women of Impact," as she delves deeper into the world of coercive control and psychopathy with special guest Laura Richards. Laura, a seasoned criminal profiler, and advocate, offers invaluable insights into understanding harmful behavioral patterns in personal relationships and broader societal structures. In this segment, Laura elaborates on the hurdles faced in legal systems, the chilling cases she helped navigate, and the tools she created to empower victims. The conversation also covers the importance of trusting your instincts, recognizing manipulation tactics, and understanding the devastating impacts of powerful individuals like P. Diddy. This episode not only sheds light on the dark sides of human behavior but also serves as a beacon of hope and empowerment for those who may feel trapped. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Trusting Your Instincts and Early Signs 10:16 Case Analysis: Manipulation Tactics 20:02 Coercive Control in Relationships 21:45 Empowerment: Breaking Free 39:10 High-Profile Cases: Justice System Challenges 50:35 The Realities of Power and Control FOLLOW LAURA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crimeanalyst/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/CACrimeAnalyst ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 901Do You Really Know Him? 20 Red Flags You Need to Know Now | Laura Richards - PT 1
In this compelling episode of "Women of Impact" with Lisa Bilyeu, we are joined by the powerful advocate and expert Laura Richards. Known for her extensive work in criminal behavioral analysis, Laura dedicates her life to combating violence against women and ensures poignant conversations around coercive control in relationships. Together with Lisa, they unravel the chilling realities of psychopathy, coercive control, and how these translate into real-world relationships. Laura dives into her career journey, transitioning from setting up charities and changing laws to getting involved with high-profile cases like JonBenet Ramsey. She shares the intricate psychopathy checklist she uses, guides how to spot red flags in relationships, and reveals how even powerful individuals can mask dark intentions behind charm and charisma. This episode aims to empower women with knowledge and bravery to recognize and redefine harmful relationships. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Laura Richards' Journey into Advocacy 00:52 Case Involvement: JonBenet Ramsey 01:20 Psychopathy and Criminal Versatility 02:14 Checklist for Spotting Red Flags 02:55 Truth Behind Superficial Charm 05:43 Empowering Women in Relationships 06:48 Understanding Narcissism and Coercive Control FOLLOW LAURA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crimeanalyst/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/CACrimeAnalyst ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 900How to Handle Shared Finances and Make Long-Distance Love Thrive | Relationship Theory Rewind
Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu (@lisabilyeu) discuss everything from personal finances in relationships including wealth gaps and joining bank accounts to navigating long distance relationships. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 5-7-17 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 899Stop Dreaming, Start Winning: Take Back Control of Your Life Today | Vanessa Lachey (Replay)
You’ve probably heard “it’s not how you start, but how you finish” and as cliche as it has become, it is such a powerful statement. Just because life starts out rough and harsh doesn’t mean it remains that way. Vanessa Lachey is a wife, mother, actress, model, and so much more and yet having her mother leave at the age of nine has not held her back. She shares with Lisa the perspective she’s developed over the years that has lead to her success and the release of her first book, Life from Scratch. Vanessa wants everyone to know that “creating your own happy ending,” traditions and happiness is always possible and within reach. If a life of shame and darkness or a string of failures and mistakes make it difficult to see how, she urges you to simply start with a time when you were your happiest and recreate from there. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 12-1-21]. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA To Purchase a Copy Vanessa’s book ‘Life From Scratch’: https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/lifefromscratch SHOW NOTES: New Tradition | Vanessa explains how she found her way to start a life from scratch [0:46] No Regrets | Why living a life with no regrets started with knowing what you want [5:18] Friend Traditions | Nurturing bonds with friends being intentional to stay connected [9:02] Romantic Traditions | Making sure you don’t let important moments pass by big or small [13:15] Saying No | How to say no to stress and anxiety to make room for what matters no guilt [16:21] Self Care | Vanessa on what self care is for her to feel refreshed and better for others [19:36] Communicating | How communication helped strengthen Vanessa’s family and marriage [23:41] Future Rehearsal | Reframing mistakes, reshape the future, be prepared for what’s next [26:32] ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 898Fan Favorite: Your Blueprint for Becoming Happier Than You Ever Thought Possible | Sophie Keller
This week’s guest on Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu is Sophie Keller. Sophie Keller is a happiness and well being expert, the author of a collection of books on happiness and relationships, and also the founder of the Village Workspaces. She is also a spokesperson for a number of Fortune 500 companies. In this episode, she talks about how to maintain a relationship by being self aware and the secrets of long-term well being. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 3-27-19]. Check out Village Workspaces: https://www.villageworkspaces.com/ SHOW NOTES Why all of Sophie's books start with a quiz [02:19] The reason anger is a health problem [03:29] Why "the now" is all that matters [06:26] How to identify and change your internal thoughts [09:13] How Sophie used feng shui to bring harmony to her life [11:11] The importance of having an awesome workplace [12:46] Why making an impact doesn't have to be a huge endeavor [13:57] What types of people are you attracting? [16:10] How to create harmony within yourself [18:45] Why you'll never get a "perfect" partner [19:58] How to tell if your partner is right for you early on [21:29] Why you can't have any doubts about the person you're marrying [22:53] Should your partner come before your children? [25:01] How to work well with your partner [27:29] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA FOLLOW SOPHIE WEBSITE: https://bit.ly/2OqEOSA TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2CENgsC ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 896How to Choose Between Dating and Career Without Losing Yourself | Relationship Theory Rewind
Join us this week as Tom and Lisa answer questions about dating while working towards your career goals. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 12-3-17 Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 895Why Are Female Friendships SO Hard?! How to Navigate Jealousy, Fake Friends & Competition | The Girl Gang PT 2
What's up my homies, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu and welcome back to another amazing episode of Women of Impact! Alright, today’s topic is one that literally EVERY single one of us battles with at some point—LONELINESS! And trust me, it’s more harmful than not exercising, smoking, or obesity. Yep, it’s THAT serious. But don’t worry, coz today, I am PUMPED to dive into this and share with you the incredible stories of how my gal pals and I have been able to forge STRONG friendships as adults. I’m talking those ride-or-die squads we all need to keep us sane, happy, and living our best lives. You know these ladies if you've been tuning in—my girl Martha Higareda, the always insightful Danielle Canty, the ever-loving Audrey Hussey, and, of course, the fabulous Radhi Devlukia-Shetty are all in the house sharing their own struggles and triumphs. So, have you ever felt the sting of competition creeping into your friendships, or maybe had that awkward “uh-oh” moment when a guy steps into the picture? Maybe you’re navigating different lifestyles with your besties, like trying to balance married life while your friends are still rocking the single life? You are NOT alone, homie! We’ve all shaded those tough convos and moments when you have to tell your friend that the guy she’s dating is giving off some mega sketchy vibes—how do you bring it up? How do you set those all-important boundaries without blowing up a perfectly good friendship? Well, today we’re laying it all on the table, from envy and competition to toxic relationships and beyond. So, buckle up, hold tight to your squad, and let’s navigate this tricky terrain of adult friendships together in this vibe-filled episode of Women of Impact! SHOWNOTES 10:19 Handling jealousy and insecurity in friendships 14:26 Balancing personal success and friendship dynamics 18:21 Solutions for minimizing envy and competition 23:31 The grandmother hypothesis and women’s value as they age 33:12 Lisa's "Am I the Mean Girl" segment 37:27 Navigating friendships while staying true to values and boundaries CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 894Why Are Female Friendships SO Hard?! How to Navigate Jealousy, Fake Friends & Competition | The Girl Gang PT 1
What's up my homies, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu and welcome back to another amazing episode of Women of Impact! Alright, today’s topic is one that literally EVERY single one of us battles with at some point—LONELINESS! And trust me, it’s more harmful than not exercising, smoking, or obesity. Yep, it’s THAT serious. But don’t worry, coz today, I am PUMPED to dive into this and share with you the incredible stories of how my gal pals and I have been able to forge STRONG friendships as adults. I’m talking those ride-or-die squads we all need to keep us sane, happy, and living our best lives. You know these ladies if you've been tuning in—my girl Martha Higareda, the always insightful Danielle Canty, the ever-loving Audrey Hussey, and, of course, the fabulous Radhi Devlukia-Shetty are all in the house sharing their own struggles and triumphs. So, have you ever felt the sting of competition creeping into your friendships, or maybe had that awkward “uh-oh” moment when a guy steps into the picture? Maybe you’re navigating different lifestyles with your besties, like trying to balance married life while your friends are still rocking the single life? You are NOT alone, homie! We’ve all shaded those tough convos and moments when you have to tell your friend that the guy she’s dating is giving off some mega sketchy vibes—how do you bring it up? How do you set those all-important boundaries without blowing up a perfectly good friendship? Well, today we’re laying it all on the table, from envy and competition to toxic relationships and beyond. So, buckle up, hold tight to your squad, and let’s navigate this tricky terrain of adult friendships together in this vibe-filled episode of Women of Impact! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Loneliness and its impact on health 00:48 Introduction of Marta, Danielle, Audrey, and Radhi 01:27 Poll results on difficulties in female friendships 02:21 Danielle's story about warning her friend about a con artist 03:58 Discussion about the bravery of hard conversations 05:54 Marta's story about being on the receiving end of tough friendship advice 07:02 Poll results: Envy and competition reign supreme 08:11 Radhi's insight on jealousy in friendships CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 893Moving in With Your Partner: What You Must Know First | Relationship Theory Rewind
Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu sit down and discuss all thing relationships including moving in with one another and the whole running and watermelon story. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 4-12-17 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 892Why Nobody Will Push You Around After This | Constance Schwartz-Morini (Replay)
We strive to be women who stand up for themselves, who walk into any room with total confidence, and who never allow excuses. Becoming that kind of woman takes a lot of work, but the more women we surround ourselves with that remind us of who we want to become, and the more examples of women we see like this, the easier it becomes for us. When you think of badassery at a level that leaves NFL Hall of Famers like Dione Sanders and Michael Strahan nodding in approval, this woman has to come top of mind, Constance Schwartz-Morini. She’s been holding her own, rising to the top, and commanding respect in the sports entertainment industry where men dominate for decades. Constance oozes authentic badassery and beautifully embraces her confidence and vulnerability even when things are uncertain. This episode is dedicated to helping the 20 somethings find their way to more confident 30 something, and to helping the 30 and 40 somethings realize their time for confidence and releasing a victim mindset has come. “The main challenge was what a lot of young women still face, guys getting brought in above me because they have connections. That happened three times. Instead of quitting or giving up I worked ten times harder, it put the battery in my back.” -Constance Schwartz-Morini ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 9-28-22 SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Constance Schwartz-Morini 0:46 | Make Them Respect You 10:14 | Vulnerability Can Boost Confidence 15:43 | Girl, Lose Your Ego 21:40 | Lose The Victim Mindset 27:52 | Badass Leaders Need Support Too 32:16 | High Achievers Can Find Love 42:03 | Find the Right Partner For You 48:20 | Hustle Hard or Quiet Quit? 1:03:00 | Don’t Get Boxed Into Being Arrogant CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Constance Schwartz-Morini: Website: https://www.smac-ent.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ConSchwartz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/conschwartz/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SarahJakesRoberts Podcast: https://www.womanevolve.com/podcast LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 891Fan Favorite: Feel Like You’re Failing? This Will Light a Fire Under Your Confidence | Aileen "Lavendaire" Xu
Aileen Xu, creator of Lavendaire, describes herself as an “artist of life.” She helps people design their dream life and embody their best self. And she knows all about how difficult the process can be, given that she had to embrace her own creativity over the objections of a family that desperately wanted her to pursue a conventional life of middle-class success. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Aileen Xu explains how to find your passion if you haven’t discovered it, how to deal with other peoples’ criticisms and negativity, and how to rewrite the negative voices in your own head so that they become more compassionate and empowering. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 7-9-21]. SHOW NOTES: Aileen talks about parental expectations in an immigrant family [2:18] Aileen describes the tension between wanting to be creative and her family’s desires [5:50] You have to tell yourself you’re a pro before you become one [11:06] How to rewrite the voices in your head so that the self-criticism ends [12:38] People are mirrors and only projecting their own insecurities onto you [15:03] Follow your curiosity if you don’t know what your passion is yet [16:59] Aileen explains why she decided to not pursue singing and music [18:44] Done is better than perfect. [21:17] You are never too old to take the first step towards your ideal life [24:09] Aileen shares her superpower [25:28] Aileen talks about the lessons she learned from COVID-19 [25:59] FOLLOW AILEEN: WEBSITE: https://www.lavendaire.com INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/lavendaire FACEBOOK: facebook.com/Lavendaire/ TWITTER: twitter.com/lavendaire LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 889How to Spot a Narcissist FAST & Protect Yourself from Toxic Love | Dr. Ramani (Replay)
Do you casually throw a narcissist label on people simply because they were unkind, harsh, or brief with you? How do you know if a person is truly narcissistic or just experiencing emotions or a situation that hasn’t been communicated? In this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu speaks with Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist, best-selling author, expert of narcissism and so much more. Dr. Ramani and Lisa go deep into the world of narcissism. Together they walk you through a complete journey to getting a better understanding of the narcissist, their motivators, and how you may be allowing yourself to be the victim. Dr Ramani begins with the 6 types of narcissistic behaviors and teaches you what the narcissistic game is and how you can play to win by removing yourself or taking responsibility for staying. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 3-3-21 Order Dr Ramani’s book, “Don’t You Know Who I Am?” https://www.amazon.com/Dont-You-Know-Who-Entitlement/dp/1682617521/ref=sr_1_2crid=3DVXDMXL6FQAD&dchild=1&keywords=dr.+ramani+durvasula&qid=1614728895&sprefix=Dr.+Ram%2Caps%2C221&sr=8-2 SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa welcomes Dr. Ramani Durvasula Define | Dr. Ramani explains what a narcissist is? [3:52] Covert | Dr. Ramani defines the covert narcissist [4:34] Malignant | Dr. Ramani defines the malignant narcissist [5:01] Pathological Insecurity | Dr. Ramani explains the difference between Pathologically insecure and conventionally insecure [8:30] Misconceptions | Dr. Ramani talks about the misconceptions of narcissism [11:02] Relational Responsibility | Dr. Ramni explains the responsibility of respect, empathy and clarity[17:07] Red Flags | Dr. Ramani reveals red flags to look for [20:40] Wanting is Fine | Dr. Ramani explains it is okay to want what you want, but accept truth [23:22] The Game | Dr. Ramani reveals the narcissist's game [25:15] Avoid the Trap | Dr. Ramani explains how to void the narcissistic trap [26:00] Conversations | Dr. Ramani talks about having conversations when you’ve been shut out [31:17] Charisma | Dr. Ramani explains the connection between charismatic people and narcissist [32:28] Changing a Narcissist | Dr. Ramani reveals her thoughts if narcissists can change their rigid behavior [37:17] Men vs. Women Narcissists | Dr. Ramani explains social impact on behaviors that impact narcissistic behaviors in men and women [42:07] Raising Kids | Dr. Ramani shares tips how to raise children to not be narcissistic [44:17] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 888The BIG Signs He’s Using You: Why You Must Walk Away Before It’s Too Late | Audrina Patridge (Replay)
The relationships you were in that made you doubt yourself because of what someone else told you about you. The times that you tried to stand up for yourself and your partner flipped the whole argument around and had you buying into lies and made the truth so blurry you couldn’t trust what you were seeing and hearing with your own eyes and ears. Staying in a relationship like that is self-destructive. You can’t stay just to keep the peace for everyone else while you suffer in silence. You can’t continue letting yourself down because you try to set a boundary and your partner stomps all over it and mocks you for even trying to have one. Today’s guest, Audrina Patridge, is the MTV reality show star of The Hills and author of the book, Choices: To The Hills and Back Again. She’s sharing the results she experienced from being a chronic people pleaser, and a woman stuck in toxic relationships living with the regret of bad decisions and wrong choices without any consideration for the consequences she would have to face. Audrina shares how she was able to break out of that and start identifying the areas she most needed boundaries and who the enablers were in her life that needed to go. You can break out of toxic relationships, these are solid tips and examples of how you can start on that path of healing and self-love today… ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 10-26-22 SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction Audrina Patridge 0:18 | Stop Settling On Toxic Relationships 10:21 | People Pleasing Is A Choice 16:23 | Choices We Regret Instantly 20:28 | Handling Broken Trust 32:54 | After Trust Is Betrayed 38:40 | Communicate Clear Boundaries 45:20 | Manage Insecurities & Jealousy Follow Audrina Patridge: Website: https://audrinapatridgeonline.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AudrinaPatridge Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/audrinapatridge/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AudrinaPatridge/ LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 887Stop Love-Dumping & Break These Nice Girl Habits! (Set This Boundary!) | Rhea Williams
In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, we dive into the societal pressures, personal challenges, and manipulation tactics that lead women to settle instead of truly finding joy and alignment in their relationships. With insights from the phenomenal relationship coach, Rhea Williams, we explore how to decipher between settling and truly growing in love. Rhea bares it all, using her personal journey from marriage at 39 to divorce, to illuminate the path towards authentic love and self-understanding. Explore the new dating terms like "love dumping" and understand how self-manipulation can derail your path to finding true fulfillment. Join us as we tackle these compelling topics: - The actual societal and personal pressures that lead women to ignore their intuition. - Understanding "love dumping" and how women minimize their worth to maintain relationships. - How to navigate life's expectations while staying true to yourself. - Why and how it’s crucial to set boundaries, know your worth, and refuse to compromise on your standards. By the end of this episode, you’ll have the tools to reclaim your life, refocus on your wants, and build the relationship you deserve, all while harnessing the power of your innate wisdom. Homies, it's time to stop settling and start living a life that aligns with your true self. Discover how to stop love-dumping, prioritize self-love, and chart a life path that honors your desires and dreams. Catch all the transformative insights and powerful realizations that will help you evolve in your journey of love and self-discovery. Be the hero of your own life! Don’t forget to click that subscribe button and join a sisterhood of impactful women on a mission to redefine what love truly means. Let's do this! SHOWNOTES [00:00] Intentions Versus Misalignment Feels [03:39] What's Love Dumping? [16:16] Trusting Your Gut in Relationships [21:03] Unforgiveness: The Relationship Killer [28:29] Spotting Relationship Red Flags [33:16] Own Your Self-Love and Boundaries [37:13] Relationship: Stay or Go? [42:51] Keeping It Real in Relationships [46:04] Exploring Open Relationships [49:02] Own It, Embrace Imperfection Follow Rhea Williams: Website: https://rhealism.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rhealone/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rhealism/featured Couple’s Workbook: https://soulsconnected.org/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 886Money Fights? Here’s How to Fix the #1 Cause of Divorce | Relationship Theory Rewind
Lisa kicks off this week’s episode of Relationship Theory by herself to talk about how financial struggles may be putting a strain on your relationship. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 4-27-18 Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 885Stop Being Pushed Around and Start Standing Your Ground | Jenn Cassetta (Replay)
You should never have to walk around not feeling safe just because you are a woman. Being a victim of a crime is horrendous that can cause lifelong trauma and setbacks. There are some stats that report over 40% of women in the U.S. have encountered sexual violence in their life. While fighting back can feel scary and impossible whether you’re five feet tall or 6 feet tall, the alternative of not fighting back is even scarier. In this episode Lisa brings on a 3rd Black Belt Badass to share her moves, tips, and tactics to defend yourself, stand up for yourself, and love yourself through it all. Jenn Cassetta has appeared on national television, and has helped brands such as Apple, Nike, and Uber teach self defense for women. After being attacked herself near her home late one night, she took her fear to a dojo and learned how to fight back and master her thinking. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 9-7-22 Jenn shares the Ultimate Comeback for life: Give yourself grace Reimagine your life Recreate your life Ignore the naysayers Set a plan in motion Having practical tactics to help you better deal with people when they’ve crossed your boundaries and ways to stand up for yourself that allow you to be more confident may save your life on the street or in the workplace. SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Jenn Casetta 3:38 | Embrace the Suck (White Belt) 8:45 | Suited Up in Amour 11:12 | Choose to Defend Yourself - Peace - mind body connection 15:50 | Make Your Sh*ts List 23:29 | Bounce Back (Yellow Belt) 28:35 | The Ultimate Comeback 37:11 | The Ultimate Comeback Moves 39:27 | Block the B.S. (Orange Belt) 48:52 | Moves to Block B.S. 52:15 | Find Your Roar (Green Belt) 1:04:29 | Unleash Your Battle Cry 1:09:35 | Elevate Your Energy (Blue Belt) 1:19:09 | How to Kill Energy Vampires 1:30:34 | Connect to Your Inner Warrior (Red Belt) 1:38:28 | Take the Lead (Black Belt) 1:43:38 | 3 Tactics to Show Up for Yourself CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 884Fan Favorite: When They Hate on You, Here’s How to Rise, Shine, and Leave Them Speechless | Cassey Ho & iJustine
Social media is famous for spite and drama, but it has also transformed people’s lives and allowed whole communities to be built around common interests. On this episode of Women of Impact, social media titans iJustine, Cassey Ho and Lisa Bilyeu discuss the opportunities and dangers of today’s internet. This elite panel tackles the foremost issues of the social media age, including body image, the difference between spite and constructive criticism, and how to tell when you are sharing too much online. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 8-7-19]. SHOW NOTES: The panel talks about how they dealt with their first negative comment [5:30] How do you know the difference between constructive criticism and spite? [9:06] The panel talks about how to know when you are sharing too much [11:24] The panel discusses how to deal with social media being fueled by drama [14:50] The panel describes the responsibility they feel they have [18:15] The panel talks about how social media has positively changed their lives [21:34] The panel discusses how much you can learn on the internet [25:13] Do you choose to use social media for good or for bad? [26:08] Cassey explains why the “Perfect Body” video was healing for her [27:43] The panel advocates using empathy and kindness [29:05] Each member of the panel defines the best and worst thing about social media [31:11] Cassey and iJustine share their superpower [32:45] FOLLOW CASSEY: Website: http://www.blogilates.com Instagram: http://bit.ly/2M3tM7u Facebook: http://bit.ly/2GOKbbE Twitter: http://bit.ly/2OIipEl Youtube: http://bit.ly/2yIKpww FOLLOW IJUSTINE: Website: http://www.ijustine.com Instagram: http://bit.ly/2YA5g4N Facebook: http://bit.ly/2OGNfwZ Twitter: http://bit.ly/2Kvsuin Youtube: http://bit.ly/2ZCDS2r CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 882She Evacuated 3 TIMES During the LA Fires—Here’s How to Stay Sane When Life Falls Apart | Dr. Mindy Pelz
Hey homie, you ever been through those days, maybe even months, where your schedule is planned out to the T, you've got everything ready to crush your goals, and then BAM! Life throws a curveball. Whether it's an unexpected health scare, a sudden job upheaval, or an evacuation because of, oh I don’t know, wildfires in LA! We’ve all been there where life completely flips our plans upside down. Your nervous system is out of whack, your peace of mind is hijacked, and suddenly you’re navigating chaos instead of pursuing your dreams. Well, my girl Dr. Mindy Pelz and I have been through some REAL stuff lately—from being evacuated during fires to dealing with life’s unexpected twists and turns. And guess what? We’re here to share our personal stories and more importantly, some GAME-CHANGING strategies to calm your nervous system and adapt when life doesn’t go as planned. In today’s episode, we dive DEEP into: Real-life examples of how we dealt with the stress of evacuations and being in quarantine together Practical tips for calming your nervous system when life throws obstacles your way How as women we can stop feeling like a burden and start asking for the help we deserve Navigating health and aging gracefully, even when life is chaotic And tips on how to create and maintain meaningful female friendships as an adult If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the curveballs life throws at you and you need the tools to start embracing the chaos while still taking care of You, then homie, this episode is exactly what you need!!! You’ll walk away with actionable steps and the inspiration to turn those stressful moments into opportunities for growth and self-care. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 881Lisa Bilyeu Shares How to Stop Emotional Overwhelm and Take Back Control (Replay)
Losing your cool has probably never ended well for anyone. Whether you are in the workplace or home with your family, there never is an ideal or acceptable time to lose control of your emotions. But how can you keep it together when everywhere you go there is someone or something there to trigger you? Lisa has had lots of practice doing the inner work needed to gain control of her emotions, but she will also be the first to admit, it’s a process and no one is perfect, We all slip and fall short. Being dedicated to being empowered, successful and strong has taught her so much that in this episode Lisa is sharing tips and dropping gems on how you can take practical steps to control your emotions and start making progress everyday. Staying cool when someone has trigger you is far from easy and you may fail the test 100 times, but assessing the situation, your reactions, your feelings, and learning how to rewrite the script is going to set you on the path to self mastery, and it begins now. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 4-6-22 SHOW NOTES: Discover Your Triggers | Lisa’s steps for discovering her triggers when emotionally sober [0:34] Take a Step Back | How to make decisions when you are in an emotional state [11:05] Overcome Jealousy | Lisa shares tips on how to acknowledge it and determine if it’s real [18:09] Let Yourself Feel Emotions | Steps to uncovering the emotions you’ve been suppressing [29:58] How to Handle Arguments | Lisa 2 rules she has to not allow arguments to go too far [42:04] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 8809 Chilling Signs You’re Being Targeted by a Psychopath | Paul Holes
Fred & Rose West still haunt my nightmares to this day! Now if you don't know who they are then let me explain... they where the typical "couple next door". They were married, lived in a little house in England. Nothing out of the ordinary... until the day the news broke that ACTUALLY they lured, tortured, and killed 10+ young women and girls and had gotten away with it for yeeeeears!!! They had the the most powerful secret weapon.... Rose! Her super "sweet" female appearance utterly tricked victims into trusting her and her husband. And they got away with it for DECADES because of how damn sneaky their manipulation tactics where! And so as a young girl growing up in England, this always haunted me. I mean I DEFINITELY would have trusted her. At 13 years old, I was taught to be careful of the creepy man who is drooling in the corner of a room. I was NOT even remotely skeptical or suspicious of a sweet looking old lady! So that started my curiosity and absolute FASCINATION with psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists and con-men! And so for yeeeeeears I read every book I could get my hands on! Ted Bundy, Charles Manson, John Wayne Gacy, Green river killer, Elaine Wuornos and Golden State Killer JUST to name a few! Why the HELL did they do it in the first place? How did they get away with it? What tactics did they use that TOTALLY fooled people? How did they get caught? And finally, what can little Lisa learn so that she would NEVER find herself in that nightmare? Because the truth is..... I DEFINITELY would have fell for it! And its still frikin happening today! I mean just take a look at the P.Diddy's or Jeffrey Epstein's of the world! Different method, same sad outcomes for many! And THAT ladies is why I am have invited on the EPIC #1 detective Paul Holes! You may know him from catching the Golden state killer (#HotforHoles even became a popular hashtag lol) but he is truly the expert to help tell us the sneaky tactics psychopaths, sociopaths and con-men use on their next victim. In this episode, you’re gonna learn: - The chilling tactics predators use to isolate and lure their victims - How to heighten your situational awareness so you’re never caught off-guard - The TRUTH about what makes someone a target and how you can avoid becoming one - And the psychology behind the predators that will blow your mind! If you’ve ever doubted your intuition or felt like you were being overly cautious, Paul is here to tell you, NOPE, you’re not crazy. You have evolved abilities that can save your life, and it’s time to trust that gut feeling! So grab a notepad because this episode is LOADED with life-saving insights that will empower you to live your life with confidence and security. Let’s dive in, homie! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and welcome to Women of Impact. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Targeting Victims: Killer Strategies [11:17] Sneaky Offender Moves [18:08] How Predators Exploit Vulnerability [27:15] Self-Defense Tips in Dangerous Encounters: Fight or Play Dead! [48:39] MO and Signature in Criminal Behavior [55:26] Murder: Was It Planned or Not? [01:04:19] Avoiding Victimhood Mindset CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Paul Holes: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.holes Podcasts: https://www.smalltowndicks.com/ & https://open.spotify.com/show/4k4K2WpZFxlTGoCzY40hJb Get your copy of “Unmasked”: https://a.co/d/4e2uQNx LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 879The Unspoken Truths About Sexual Attraction Revealed | Relationship Theory Rewind
In this week’s episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa talk about the real root of attraction and why it’s necessary for any successful relationship. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 1-18-19 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 878Matthew Hussey’s Proven Steps to Find and Keep the Love of Your Life (Replay)
Longing for a loving relationship that will stand the test of time is a dream for many people and yet it’s one of the hardest things to find. Building a long lasting love takes vulnerability, trust and a lot of communication. It also takes getting into a loving relationship with yourself. One of the worst things we can do when we’re dating is lack the self-trust, self-love and honesty we need to see the person we’re dating for who they really are. It’s easy to get carried away with a perception of your partner when you’re dating and everything is new. Matthew Hussey, relationship expert and bestselling author of Get the Guy, strongly urges women to boldly ask the right questions and not fear scaring the right person for them away. Stop fighting for dead-end, painful relationships that make you question your sanity and if the version of reality you’re living is actually real. Learn the rules for dating that allow you to invest in the right relationship and trust yourself to know when it’s time to leave because the intention and alignment is not right. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 9-25-22 SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Matthew Hussey 0:10 | Want to Find Love? 21:51 | Build Long Lasting Love 48:47 | Commit to the Right Person 1:09:20 | Love Vs. Lust 1:35:06 | Bonus: Communication is Key CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://www.howtogettheguy.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 877Fan Favorite: Why Playing It Safe Could Be the Riskiest Move You Make | Alex Hudgens
Former Access Hollywood reporter and founder of Hybrid House Productions, Alex Hudgens, sits down with Lisa to discuss why you can’t let fear run your life. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 9-26-18 SHOW NOTES: Taking the risk of moving to Hollywood from a small town [1:48] What’s the worst that can happen? [3:16] Introvert vs Extrovert: Where do you draw energy from? [4:08] Everything is a choice you have to make [5:31] Fake it till you make it [6:45] Be active and present in finding the joy in what you’re doing [10:54] What’s the best that can happen? [12:25] Setting your goals to the highest level [13:19] Not letting fear run your life [14:22] Look for excitement and what feels right [18:04] Training your subconscious to trust yourself [21:13] Holding yourself accountable to setting goals [23:04] Balance your choices in service of your vision [25:54] Choose your version of joy [30:32] Giving your all instead of living with “what if?" [32:14] Pulling out the superpower in others [33:37] FOLLOW ALEX HUDGENS WEBSITE: https://bit.ly/2Q9VVrF INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2xQfKg9 LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 875Will Your Relationship Last? Ask These 9 Questions First | Women of Impact Panel (Replay)
The uncertainty of dating and being part of a relationship that you want to make last forever causes many of us so much anxiety. The doubts if this person is for real, can you trust them, is this relationship as important to them as it is to you? You don’t have to keep living in fear of not knowing if the person you are dating is the love of your life forever or if it’s doomed to fail cause you’re missing all the signs and avoiding the right conversations, Today, let’s break down 9 questions you can ask your partner to determine if you’re placing you heart, your time, and your energy in the right place with the right person. For hard truth telling and relationship revelations around self worth, value and accountability, check out the full episode with Sarah Jakes Roberts: https://youtu.be/IbriO6QIxoU To hear more Red Flags from relationship expert, Matthew Hussey, check out this full episode with Lisa exposing if He’s Wasting Your Time: https://youtu.be/ny2KL8mYyFE Get all the juicy tips for communicating with your partner more openly about sex with the sex expert, Emily Morse, a.k.a. Sex with Emily here: https://youtu.be/KLukArHg-vk Relationship expert, Stephan Speaks, exposes all the ways men are wasting your time in this interview with Lisa, and you don’t want to miss this: https://youtu.be/dqEke-0o9y8 ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 10-5-22 SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to the Relationship Test 0:18 | Is It Even A Relationship Without Actual Trust? 5:41 | Should Your Partner Value Anything Above You? 9:58 | What Deal Breakers Would End Everything? 17:59 | Does Your Partner Feel Supported? 34:19 | Do You Envision A Future Together? 41:55 | What’s Missing From Your Sex Life? 51:51 | If Your BFF Flirted With Your Partner!? 52:24 | Lisa Questions Tom On The Spot 1:00:48 | Does He Want An Independent Woman? CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 874Elle Macpherson: From Supermodel to Survivor—The Art of Reinvention and Why It’s Never Too Late | PT 2
In the second part of this enlightening conversation, Elle Macpherson discusses love, wellness, and overcoming life’s hardest moments with grace and determination. She opens up about her sobriety journey, redefining relationships, and why wellness is the foundation of empowerment. Elle shares actionable tips for navigating fear, building resilience, and creating a life that aligns with your true essence. From candid reflections on past relationships to starting her wellness company, Elle inspires listeners to take control of their journey and embrace the beauty of transformation. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Lisa and Elle explore how relationships reflect self-love and inner well-being. [07:01] The dolphin tattoo story: A moment of clarity and self-discovery. [12:03] How Elle turned pain into purpose by channeling her energy into creating her lingerie business. [20:17] Overcoming addiction: Elle’s powerful sobriety story and advice for breaking harmful patterns. [28:26] Facing fear with clarity: How Elle approached her cancer diagnosis with research and inner trust. [34:54] The wellness journey that led to founding WelleCo and transforming her health. [40:37] Aging gracefully: How Elle reframed beauty and vitality as soul-deep qualities. [50:02] The power of meditation and self-connection in creating a life of fulfillment. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 873Elle Macpherson: From Supermodel to Survivor—The Art of Reinvention and Why It’s Never Too Late | PT 1
Elle Macpherson, one of the most iconic supermodels of all time, joins Lisa Bilyeu for a candid conversation about overcoming life’s toughest challenges. From battling alcoholism to navigating divorce and a cancer diagnosis, Elle shares the tools and mindset shifts that empowered her to reinvent herself and thrive in her 60s. In this episode, Elle dives deep into how to let go of external validation, the power of trusting your intuition, and her journey from self-doubt to self-love. She reflects on career-defining moments, personal growth through hardships, and how the lessons she’s learned can inspire women to embrace their strength at any stage of life. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Lisa introduces Elle’s inspiring story of reinvention and resilience. [02:14] Elle explains the importance of focusing on what you love and aligning with your heart. [03:38] How Elle learned to handle criticism early in her modeling career and use it as fuel for growth. [07:51] The power of self-reflection: Learning from mistakes without judgment. [09:26] Understanding the Four A’s (Approval, Agreement, Acceptance, Allegiance) and how they guide decisions. [12:32] Why listening to your intuition is like building a trusted friendship. [16:54] Elle’s life-changing decision to trust her gut and embrace unexpected opportunities. [22:25] Relationships as mirrors: What Elle discovered about self-love through her marriages. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 872The Hard Conversations You’re Avoiding—Here’s How to Have Them | Relationship Theory Rewind
Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu (@lisabilyeu) dive into topics such as: * When to find the best time to have a hard conversation with your spouse. * How to share each others day which without it becoming a one-sided conversation. * How to encourage your partner to be more verbal. * How to effectively become better business partners with your spouse. * Finding the best tactics to reach out to your significant others family members. *And much more... ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 1-20-17 Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 871Escape the Stress and Anxiety Trap Starting Today | Amishi Jha (Replay)
Attention and focus may be at the top of every employer’s list and every woman’s dating requirements. We live in a society that highly values attention and praises anyone who can focus long enough to accomplish the seemingly impossible. Yet, many of us continue to struggle with both. Mindfulness is viewed as something that would be nice but very few are actually mastering the practice of being present and attentive in the here and now. With stress and overwhelm overtaking us at every turn in the day our minds are flooded and vulnerable to digital attacks and sabotage initiated by our own self. Amishi Jha is a professor of psychology at University of Miami and author of the new book, Peak Mind: Find Your Focus, Own Your Attention, Invest 12 Minutes a Day. She’s joining Lisa to dispel the rumours that improving your attention and meditation skills means that you have to clear your mind. She’s calling it out, and giving simple strategies and techniques you can start using before this episode ends. It’s time to take back your attention, regain your focus and do it in 3 simple steps. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 1-12-22]. SHOW NOTES: Attention | Amishi reveals while attention can be a superpower it is vulnerable too [0:36] Prioritized Info |How attention systems helps to prioritize information into subsystems [5:08] Suppressing Memories | Amishi shares ways to stop thinking about troubled memories [10:46] Floodlight Focus | Information that is not limited but has a broad and receptive range [12:49] Emotional Overwhelm | Strategy to manage emotions and overwhelm from 3rd person [15:32] Hijacked Focus | When we create a simulated reality and are not in the present [20:29] Executive Control | Amishi on the power of your mind’s attention being guided by goals [29:51] Overriding Attention | Mindfulness of your attention requires initiating executive control [32:20] Meditation | How mindfulness meditation is about staying present without the extra story [34:34] Becoming Aware | Amishi shares simple exercise to find your attention flashlight [43:05] Wandering Mind | Amishi on why you don’t need to clear your mind, redirect instead [49:35] Well Wishing Practice | Deliberately speak to deep care and concern to yourself [52:55] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 870Fan Favorite: Anne Heche’s Last Interview and Her Life-Changing Advice That Will Leave You Speechless
It is beyond disheartening that it’s believed that 90% of sexual abuse victims never say a word about their abuse to anyone. According to NAASCA.org, 50-60 million American adults have been sexually abused in their childhood. Unfortunately, the emotional trauma inflicted upon us as children doesn’t magically disappear. If you or someone you know has been a victim of childhood abuse, or any kind of abuse, our hearts are with you. If you are here, hopefully it means that you are on a journey seeking healing and ready to claim your power. Anne Heche is an Emmy Award winning actress that has been in more movies that we can name such as Donnie Brasco, I Know What You Did Last Summer, and even Dancing with the Stars! She’s brave, she’s bold, and so beautiful. She’s also a woman that learned to stand up and tell her truth, live her truth and take back her power from the abusive and traumatic childhood she experienced. In the conversation with Lisa, Anne shares the wisdom and hard lessons she’s learned from getting up and taking responsibility and taking action on the things that gave her the power she needed to reclaim her life and start loving herself. Her open, raw, powerful display of what it means to find your worth, love hard, and release the pain that was pushed on her at a young age may be the thing to hear today. Anne’s mantra: You are not your abuse ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 8-9-22 Anne’s Power Questions to Get to the Other Side: Am I worthy of taking responsibility for myself? Do I value me enough to take care of me today? SHOW NOTES: Rejecting Self | How Anne found power of telling her truth through her father [1:02] Covered Reality | Anne explains the trap of going with what you know and telling truth [3:44] Seeing A New Path | Anne reveals how she thought her way out of the lies and abuse [6:38] First Step in Fear | Anne on how she took action and activated her power in self-love [10:17] Demonstrating Love | Why defining what love looks like for different people is needed [13:13] Being Validated | Anne on how she decided to show up after coming out in her truth [16:18] Power Over Abuse | Anne’s secret to taking power over the abuse you experienced [22:06] Power Questions | Anne’s two powerful questions to get you to the other side of abuse [27:28] Follow Anne Heche: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@annehecheoffical Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anneheche/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/anneheche Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/officialanneheche CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 869Lisa Bilyeu Shares How to Boost Your Confidence and Feel Worthy—No Matter What (Replay)
The confidence gap between men and women has been studied and well documented. It was reported that 79% of women admit to struggling with self-esteem and confidence. Chances are that even if you are a confident woman, you have times where confidence is lacking and M.I.A. Lisa is exposing why you don’t have to feel confident 100% of the time. Whether you are in a professional setting or in the privacy of your home and family, being confident around the clock sounds stressful and unrealistic. It is, however, your responsibility to observe the things you do and don’t do that add and take away from how confident you feel. Taking back your power and showing up confident starts with you and that means not allowing other people in your life or in the room to affect your level of confidence. This episode is packed with tips for better strategies and tactics you can employ right now to start exuding more confidence. Before you show up in the next meeting, before you walk into the next event, and before you leave the mirror tomorrow morning do the internal work needed to be at your best. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 1-19-22 “Walk in the room and freakin’ own it” -Lisa Bilyeu SHOW NOTES: Confident Vs. Vain | The line between confidence and being vain about your success [0:29] Ditch Other’s Opinions | How to be sensitive to other without diminishing your confidence [5:27] Daily Confidence Routine | Lisa’s tips to get suited up everyday to be confident [12:51] The Right to Be Confident |Why you have the right to be confident no matter what [18:40] Recover From Embarrassment | How to not allow shame to break your confidence [19:54] Stop Hating Yourself | Recognize when you’re hating on yourself without judgement [26:46] Dress for Confidence | Lisa reveals what you are in control of that makes you confident [35:18] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 867Spot These 3 Signs He'll Use To Seduce, Manipulate & Control You | Andrew Bustamante PT 2
Have you ever found yourself wrapped up in a relationship, only to wonder later if you were being manipulated? Well, today we're diving deep into the world of seduction, manipulation, and the often overlooked power dynamics at play with the help of CIA veteran Andrew Bustamante, who knows all too well how these tactics are used both in espionage and everyday life. In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, we’re pulling back the curtain on how the human brain can be influenced by hormones and emotional connections to uncover how to spot those red flags before you get too entangled. Andrew is here to break down the three-step process of human sexuality, explain how predators like narcissists find their targets, and give us the tools to protect ourselves from falling into manipulative traps. Trust me homie, with Andrew’s insights, you’ll gain a better understanding of the power dynamics at play and how to navigate them with confidence and clarity!! In this episode, we go DEEP into: - How YOU can identify and outsmart manipulators before they even have a chance to play their games - The surprising role hormones play in attraction and why understanding them can give you a serious edge in relationships - How to build authentic connections without falling prey to emotional persuasion - The real difference between seduction and genuine romantic interest - And soooo much more!! By the end of this episode, you’ll have a toolkit to recognize and deflect manipulation, understand the role of hormones in emotional and sexual engagement, and maintain control in your relationships. So guys, no more second-guessing or blaming yourselves when things feel off. This episode will arm you with the knowledge to stand strong against manipulation and build relationships that genuinely respect your worth and boundaries!! So let’s dive right in, guys!! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and welcome to Women of Impact. SHOWNOTES Ambitious folks just want to feel seen. Life cycle: belonging, connecting, leading, creating. Assumptions help the brain save energy, easily. Vasopressin boosts belonging, fuels frequent hookups. Ravens need more time with female targets. Sex boosts brain power differently for everyone. Exploited admin vulnerabilities for secrets over decades. Czechoslovakian spies faked marriage, stole U.S. secrets. Think logically, not emotionally, to avoid mistakes. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 866Spot These 3 Signs He'll Use To Seduce, Manipulate & Control You | Andrew Bustamante PT 1
Have you ever found yourself wrapped up in a relationship, only to wonder later if you were being manipulated? Well, today we're diving deep into the world of seduction, manipulation, and the often overlooked power dynamics at play with the help of CIA veteran Andrew Bustamante, who knows all too well how these tactics are used both in espionage and everyday life. In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, we’re pulling back the curtain on how the human brain can be influenced by hormones and emotional connections to uncover how to spot those red flags before you get too entangled. Andrew is here to break down the three-step process of human sexuality, explain how predators like narcissists find their targets, and give us the tools to protect ourselves from falling into manipulative traps. Trust me homie, with Andrew’s insights, you’ll gain a better understanding of the power dynamics at play and how to navigate them with confidence and clarity!! In this episode, we go DEEP into: - How YOU can identify and outsmart manipulators before they even have a chance to play their games - The surprising role hormones play in attraction and why understanding them can give you a serious edge in relationships - How to build authentic connections without falling prey to emotional persuasion - The real difference between seduction and genuine romantic interest - And soooo much more!! By the end of this episode, you’ll have a toolkit to recognize and deflect manipulation, understand the role of hormones in emotional and sexual engagement, and maintain control in your relationships. So guys, no more second-guessing or blaming yourselves when things feel off. This episode will arm you with the knowledge to stand strong against manipulation and build relationships that genuinely respect your worth and boundaries!! So let’s dive right in, guys!! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and welcome to Women of Impact. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Dopamine and noradrenaline make things exciting. 08:52 Taylor Swift shirt makes me seem harmless. 15:51 Can't keep up with Taylor Swift convo. 18:59 She hits the gym hard daily, for sure! 25:50 Attraction and connection often lead to affairs. 27:53 Energy level ups with more intense activity. 33:53 Seduction in spy work: Building trust, not sex. 37:59 Women worry about being manipulated or seduced. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ep 865Meeting the Parents and Talking Finances: What You Need to Know | Relationship Theory Rewind
Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu sit down and discuss all thing relationships including meeting the Parents and figuring out if your partner has a growth mindset from date one. Tom Bilyeu is the co-founder of 2014 Inc. 500 company Quest Nutrition — a unicorn startup valued at over $1 billion — and the co-founder and host of Impact Theory. Impact Theory is a first-of-its-kind company designed to facilitate global change through the incubation of mission-based businesses and the cultivation of empowering content. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices