Women of Impact

This is a fan fav episode. What up homies! Lisa Bilyeu here. If you’ve ever wondered if his romantic gestures were just a ploy to trap you, this conversation with Terri Cole is just what you need. In today’s powerful two-part episode of Women of Impact with the insightful Terri Cole, we expose the love bombers and boundary manipulators for what they are. Their tactics of 'unearned intimacy' have not earned your time, your attention or love. As we dive into how they manipulate emotions, paint B.S. visions of a future together you really want to hear just to gain control, I hope you’re taking notes. It's time to have your own back and demand truth in action. Remember, manipulation isn't about love, it's about power. Let's arm ourselves with knowledge and kick these red flags to the curb. “Our job is to have our own back. Our job is to go, ‘I can count on me to not people-please myself out of my own integrity.’” -Terri Cole If you’re dealing with any kind of abuse and feel unsafe in your relationship, please check out Terri’s podcast episode, How to Safely Leave An Abusive Relationship: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/safely-leave-abusive-relationship/⁠ And… Don’t forget to check out Terri’s latest Boundary Boss Workbook: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-Workbook-Strategies-Over-Giving/dp/1649631421⁠ Original air date: 11-15-2023 Follow Terri Cole: Website: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/⁠ Podcast: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/podcast/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/terricole/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. What up homie! Let me tell you how excited I am to share the incredibly powerful two-part episode that exposes even more of the narcissistic tricks and emotionally abusive behavior so that you’ll never question if you’re crazy again! Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact and she’s an absolute powerhouse when it comes to shining the light on narcissistic abuse and behaviors straight out of their playbook. Not only has Dr Ramani been here more times than I can count, she’s delivered levels of insight that has helped millions of people spot it and create their escape strategy to take back their power, every single time. Today we’re unmasking the tricks narcissists use to stay in control, and arming all of the ladies watching with the knowledge to recognize B.S. manipulation and control tactics immediately. *How narcissists use threats, mockery and even the silent treatment to keep you under their control, *Why a typical narcissistic response to you setting boundaries is more manipulation and a fight for control (Girl! Not only is this exhausting, but it’s even more reason for you to get away), *Dr Ramani unpacks the unconscious process of narcissistic behavior that makes them unreasonable to stay and deal with. *When toxic partners weaponize your shame to maintain control over you, Dr Ramani shares exactly how you should respond) *Dr Ramani reveals why self-reflection is absolutely critical in breaking free from narcissists, Whew! Ladies understanding narcissistic behaviors and being able to spot their manipulation tactics may actually save your sanity (or even better, save your life!). I want you to have a little more knowledge, and at least one more tool in your belt to become stronger and more badass. Original air date: 9-14-2023 Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: ⁠http://doctor-ramani.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorRamanDurvasula⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’re back for the second half of Lisa’s conversation with Dr. Mindy Pelz… and it’s nothing but pure gold for anyone who wants more confidence, stronger friendships, and a real shot at loving yourself and your life. Dr. Mindy reveals her full playbook for finding your voice (and keeping it!), plus hilarious stories and simple neuroscience-backed ways to break the “shoulds” that keep you stuck. From embracing movement you actually love (goodbye “I have to go to the gym!”) to finding friends who lift you higher and learning to spot toxic relationship traps, this episode is overflowing with the practical advice you’ll wish you learned years ago. And don’t miss the metaphorical “lime tree”—the ultimate sisterhood, where rooted, authentic women support each other and show up 100% real. SHOWNOTES What Butterflies (Role Models) Do Differently How Potentialists See Your True Self Finding Out Which Friends Are Lifting You Up The Magic of Anchors — Friends Who Will Just Listen Oxytocin Moments — Finding the Right “Wells” Narcissists & the Oxytocin Trap (Why It Feels So Good) Why Authenticity Beats Performing in Relationships Outsourcing Validation — Moving Back to Self-Love “Do Nothing” Sessions — Giving Space for Inspiration Fill Your Schedule With More Joy How to Break Free From Golden Handcuffs Is It Filling You Up, or Keeping You Chained? Lime Tree Sisterhood — Rooting Into Your Authentic Self Aging Is Freedom — Stop Fighting It, Start Living Thank you to our sponsors: Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Mindy Pelz: Website: https://drmindypelz.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrMindyPelz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.mindypelz FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by health expert, author, and all-around empowering badass Dr. Mindy Pelz. Together, they dig deep into why so many women feel pressured to live up to exhausting expectations set by society… from how we look, to how we show up as moms, wives, and at work. Dr. Mindy shares her own stories and insights from groundbreaking research, showing how these childhood messages quietly shape our boundaries, self-confidence, and relationships (and why so many of us feel “not okay” trying to keep up). You'll hear a refreshingly honest take on body image struggles, people-pleasing, and the relentless chase for outside approval. Plus, Dr. Mindy offers a glimpse at her game-changing toolkit for helping women find their voice and finally start living for themselves. SHOWNOTES How Girls Lose Their Voice (and Why It Matters) Living for Outside Approval — Why It’s So Exhausting The “Bag of Burden”: Beauty, Kids, Cooking, and More Trying to “Do It All ”— Rosie the Riveter Myth Why We Feel Not Okay (and How to Change That) How Chasing Validation Hurts Us 8 Steps to Get Your Voice Back: The Mini Rebellion How Solo Moments of Peace Reset Your Intuition What to Ask Yourself During Alone Time Unpacking the Father Wound When Your Marriage Is Built on Pleasing Others Movement Should Be Fun—Ditching the Gym “Shoulds” Soul-Fueling Conversations vs. Friend Drama Why Your Inner Circle Shapes Your Self-Esteem Butterfly, Potentialist & Anchor Friends Explained Overcoming Self-Doubt & Body Image Issues Thank you to our sponsors: Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Mindy Pelz: Website: https://drmindypelz.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrMindyPelz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.mindypelz FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. What up homie! Let me tell you how excited I am to share the incredibly powerful two-part episode that exposes even more of the narcissistic tricks and emotionally abusive behavior so that you’ll never question if you’re crazy again! Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact and she’s an absolute powerhouse when it comes to shining the light on narcissistic abuse and behaviors straight out of their playbook. Not only has Dr Ramani been here more times than I can count, she’s delivered levels of insight that has helped millions of people spot it and create their escape strategy to take back their power, every single time. Today we’re unmasking the tricks narcissists use to stay in control, and arming all of the ladies watching with the knowledge to recognize B.S. manipulation and control tactics immediately. *How narcissists use threats, mockery and even the silent treatment to keep you under their control, *Why a typical narcissistic response to you setting boundaries is more manipulation and a fight for control (Girl! Not only is this exhausting, but it’s even more reason for you to get away), *Dr Ramani unpacks the unconscious process of narcissistic behavior that makes them unreasonable to stay and deal with. *When toxic partners weaponize your shame to maintain control over you, Dr Ramani shares exactly how you should respond) *Dr Ramani reveals why self-reflection is absolutely critical in breaking free from narcissists, Whew! Ladies understanding narcissistic behaviors and being able to spot their manipulation tactics may actually save your sanity (or even better, save your life!). I want you to have a little more knowledge, and at least one more tool in your belt to become stronger and more badass. Original air date: 9-13-2023 Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: ⁠http://doctor-ramani.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorRamanDurvasula⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and this one is CHOCK FULL of nuggets to empower you to break the toxic cycles and find the courage to live your life YOUR WAY!! Today my girl Najwa Zebian is back and she’s on a frikin’ mission to empower women like you and me to heal from past traumas, express yourself fearlessly, and create a life you love! Najwa is an activist, author, poet, educator, and speaker whose words have pierced the hearts of millions of women around the world. Her latest book, “The Only Constant” is a guide to embracing the changes you must make (or endure) on the journey to living the life you want! Order your copy of “The Only Constant” here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593580567 Change is scary, and it can be really tempting to stay with the devil you know rather than face the pain, set the boundaries, and make the hard decisions. But it’s NECESSARY if you want to live the life you want and make the little girl inside you feel SOOO safe and proud. So if you’re ready to not only change for a moment, but ACTUALLY be in the driver’s seat of your life, this one's for you my homie! Original air date: 3-6-2024 Follow Najwa Zebian: Website: https://najwazebian.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/najwazebian/ Order “The Only Constant”: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593580567 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and this one is CHOCK FULL of nuggets to empower you to break the toxic cycles and find the courage to live your life YOUR WAY!! Today my girl Najwa Zebian is back and she’s on a frikin’ mission to empower women like you and me to heal from past traumas, express yourself fearlessly, and create a life you love! Najwa is an activist, author, poet, educator, and speaker whose words have pierced the hearts of millions of women around the world. Her latest book, “The Only Constant” is a guide to embracing the changes you must make (or endure) on the journey to living the life you want! Order your copy of “The Only Constant” here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593580567 Change is scary, and it can be really tempting to stay with the devil you know rather than face the pain, set the boundaries, and make the hard decisions. But it’s NECESSARY if you want to live the life you want and make the little girl inside you feel SOOO safe and proud. So if you’re ready to not only change for a moment, but ACTUALLY be in the driver’s seat of your life, this one's for you my homie! Original air date: 3-6-2024 Follow Najwa Zebian: Website: https://najwazebian.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/najwazebian/ Order “The Only Constant”: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593580567 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to Part 2 of this unfiltered, in-depth conversation with Dr. Orion Taraban. After laying the psychological groundwork in Part 1, Lisa Bilyeu and Dr. Taraban dive even deeper, breaking down gendered attraction strategies, healthy relationship “marketing,” and why understanding the captain vs. passenger analogy could forever change the way you approach dating and love. In this segment, Dr. Taraban unpacks the mechanics of authentic vs. performative displays of competence, the profound importance of relationship “mission statements,” and why both partners should rigorously inspect what they’re signing up for before setting sail. The conversation doesn’t shy away from sticky subjects: sex, exclusivity, money, “testing” your partner, and how so many women mistake potential for reality. If you’re ready for raw, research-backed advice on navigating modern romance from a place of strength, you won’t want to miss this. In this episode: Dating Traps: Opposites, Attractions & Emotional Hangovers The Captain & Passenger Analogy: Building Versus Boarding the Relationship The Power of Mission Statements (and Why Every Couple Needs One) Women, Safety, and “Testing” in Early Relationships Sex, Boundaries, and the Dance of Intimacy Love-Bombing, Female Strategies, and the Reality of Transactional Dynamics Appearances, Authenticity, and Relationship “Marketing” Why You Must Inspect the Itinerary Before Committing Accepting People for Who They Are Versus “Changing” Them How to Tell If Their Promised “Destination” Is Real Reclaiming Power and Responsibility in Your Love Life Thank you to our sponsors: Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Follow Dr. Orion Taraban: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychacks Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/ FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of "Women of Impact," Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Dr. Orion Taraban, psychologist, YouTube creator, and author of the bestselling book "The Value of Others." Dr. Taraban brings a refreshingly candid — and sometimes controversial — perspective to the complex world of romantic relationships, power dynamics, and emotional safety. Together, they pull back the curtain on common traps women fall into, how to recognize manipulation (especially from narcissists or cluster B personalities), and the essential mindsets needed to reclaim your relationship power once and for all. Dr. Taraban and Lisa set the groundwork by tackling why no one can technically manipulate your emotions — unless you allow them to. This is essential listening for anyone looking to understand how to protect themselves while dating—or simply elevate their personal relationships to a new level of autonomy. In this episode: The Nature of Manipulation & Emotional Vulnerability Why “Poker Face” Tactics Matter for Safety Real-World Examples: DARVO & the Anatomy of Gaslighting The 10 Principles of Power: Who Really Holds the Cards? Women, Power, and the Unspoken Rules of Pursuit The Role of Optionality in Relationships Double Standards, Gendered Power, and Inequality Attraction, Fantasy, and the Dangers of Projecting Red Flags, Rationalizations & Why We Stay Cluster B Personalities and the Hallmarks of Narcissistic Abuse Thank you to our sponsors: Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Follow Dr. Orion Taraban: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychacks Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/ FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. New love is easy, staying in love is hard work (believe me!) Today, my homie, Dr. Nicole LePera is joining me for a relationship dive into the complexities that lead to 70% of couples never seeing their 1 year anniversary. Falling in love is a thrilling ride, but what happens when the adrenaline fades and reality sets in? That's where the majority of relationships hit a snag. Does your relationship feel more like a roller coaster than a peaceful journey? As fun as roller coasters are in the amusement park, you may be addicted to the highs and lows of toxic love, and that’s not fun or healthy in your grown up relationships. In this two-part episode, Dr. LePera shares valuable tips to help you identify if you're in an incompatible relationship and how to navigate through the emotional minefield. We also discuss why change can be as challenging as squeezing into skinny jeans after Thanksgiving dinner, and how to handle your emotional responses in a healthier way. “To make sure that our needs are met in a relationship, we have to be really clear on what they are and we have to be really clear on what we want…” -Nicole LePera If you're struggling with your relationship or just want to understand love better, this episode is a must-watch. So, hit that play button and make sure you catch part two with Nicole LePera Check out Nicole’s latest book, How to Be the Love You Seek: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/How-Love-You-Seek-Relationships/dp/0063267748⁠ Original air date: 11-29-2023 Follow Nicole LePera: Website: ⁠https://theholisticpsychologist.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@TheHolisticPsychologist⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. New love is easy, staying in love is hard work (believe me!) Today, my homie, Dr. Nicole LePera is joining me for a relationship dive into the complexities that lead to 70% of couples never seeing their 1 year anniversary. Falling in love is a thrilling ride, but what happens when the adrenaline fades and reality sets in? That's where the majority of relationships hit a snag. Does your relationship feel more like a roller coaster than a peaceful journey? As fun as roller coasters are in the amusement park, you may be addicted to the highs and lows of toxic love, and that’s not fun or healthy in your grown up relationships. In this two-part episode, Dr. LePera shares valuable tips to help you identify if you're in an incompatible relationship and how to navigate through the emotional minefield. We also discuss why change can be as challenging as squeezing into skinny jeans after Thanksgiving dinner, and how to handle your emotional responses in a healthier way. “To make sure that our needs are met in a relationship, we have to be really clear on what they are and we have to be really clear on what we want…” -Nicole LePera If you're struggling with your relationship or just want to understand love better, this episode is a must-watch. So, hit that play button and make sure you catch part two with Nicole LePera Check out Nicole’s latest book, How to Be the Love You Seek: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/How-Love-You-Seek-Relationships/dp/0063267748⁠ Original air date: 11-29-2023 Follow Nicole LePera: Website: ⁠https://theholisticpsychologist.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@TheHolisticPsychologist⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. I have to warn you, this episode may be very triggering for some of us today as we talk about some hard truths for women to hear about cheating with relationship expert and psychologist, Sadia Khan. If you ever asked yourself, "How can he still say he loves me after cheating on me?, this episode is for you. If you’ve been cheated on, lied to, and confused if he’s worth sticking around for when he says, ‘it won’t happen again,” this episode is going to expose a side of cheating we don’t often talk about. You know on Women of Impact my goal is to keep straight up and never sugar-coated. Just episodes with guests that are raw, real, and designed to empower YOU to take the next step. This two-part episode pulls back the curtain on the painful reality of infidelity and the men who claim to love while they cheat. Brace yourselves, because in the first part of this episode, Sadia is going to deliver some ideas that may challenge you, anger you, but ultimately, liberate you from the pain of these unhealthy broken cycles of relationship traumas. *Discover Sadia’s genius way to identify potential cheaters *Learn how to distinguish red flags from character flaws, and what real deal breakers look like when you’re in control, and *What responsibility and control you have over him cheating or not cheating We're diving deep into the toxic aftermath of betrayal, exploring why snooping around his phone isn’t the answer, and to look for THIS instead. Sadia exposes the danger of confusing your anxieties with your intuition and by the end of this episode you’ll have some new strategies for dealing with the insecurities and relationship-sabotaging behaviors that are keeping us hurt single and afraid to mingle with the right partner. Original air date: 8-23-2023 Follow Sadia Khan: Website: ⁠https://www.sadiapsychology.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@sadiapsychology⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sadiapsychology⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sadiapsychology/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. I have to warn you, this episode may be very triggering for some of us today as we talk about some hard truths for women to hear about cheating with relationship expert and psychologist, Sadia Khan. If you ever asked yourself, "How can he still say he loves me after cheating on me?, this episode is for you. If you’ve been cheated on, lied to, and confused if he’s worth sticking around for when he says, ‘it won’t happen again,” this episode is going to expose a side of cheating we don’t often talk about. You know on Women of Impact my goal is to keep straight up and never sugar-coated. Just episodes with guests that are raw, real, and designed to empower YOU to take the next step. This two-part episode pulls back the curtain on the painful reality of infidelity and the men who claim to love while they cheat. Brace yourselves, because in the first part of this episode, Sadia is going to deliver some ideas that may challenge you, anger you, but ultimately, liberate you from the pain of these unhealthy broken cycles of relationship traumas. *Discover Sadia’s genius way to identify potential cheaters *Learn how to distinguish red flags from character flaws, and what real deal breakers look like when you’re in control, and *What responsibility and control you have over him cheating or not cheating We're diving deep into the toxic aftermath of betrayal, exploring why snooping around his phone isn’t the answer, and to look for THIS instead. Sadia exposes the danger of confusing your anxieties with your intuition and by the end of this episode you’ll have some new strategies for dealing with the insecurities and relationship-sabotaging behaviors that are keeping us hurt single and afraid to mingle with the right partner. Original air date: 8-23-2023 Follow Sadia Khan: Website: ⁠https://www.sadiapsychology.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@sadiapsychology⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sadiapsychology⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sadiapsychology/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I've got something really special for you. I recently had an incredible live Instagram session with the amazing Thais Gibson, a true expert on relationships and attachment styles. I'm so excited to share this conversation with you because we dive deep into understanding these vital aspects of how we connect and communicate in our relationships. Thais breaks down the four major attachment styles—securely attached, anxious/preoccupied, dismissive/avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and how each of these shapes our subconscious beliefs about love. We chat about how our childhood experiences mold these styles and the profound impact this has on our adult relationships. I also get a bit personal in this episode, opening up about my own journey and struggles with health and hormones, as well as my path from being dismissive avoidant to becoming securely attached. Thais shares practical strategies for identifying and transforming our attachment patterns, which I found incredibly empowering. And guess what? We even touch on the exciting idea of a dating app based on attachment styles! Plus, we delve into the crucial topics of self-validation and emotional regulation. If you're looking to understand your own attachment style better or hoping to improve your relationships, this episode is jam-packed with actionable insights. SHOW NOTES: 00:00 Exciting guest, curiosity for growth, and health journey. 03:09 Attachment styles impact relationships; understanding leads growth. 09:22 Securely attached parents facilitate secure relationships. 12:46 Adults seek consistency, love due to childhood lack. 15:12 Anxious attachment style can hinder self-care. 19:51 Conscious mind reprograms subconscious for emotional growth. 21:00 Learning to rely on internal cues, distractions. 24:28 Childhood emotional neglect can lead to shame. 28:23 Greek upbringing stifled emotional expression, causing avoidance. 30:17 Childhood observation shaped emotional strength and suppression. 36:23 Trust is built on being seen, known. 37:13 Considerate communication and trust build stronger relationships. 40:56 Girl, you were fire! Keep up the work. 43:46 Prioritize what matters; podcast release soon. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

They look normal. Charming, even. Narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths, these are the people who smile at you, love-bomb you, and study you… all while hiding the truth underneath. So I pulled together some of the most dangerous minds in profiling, psychology, and criminal behavioral analysis to expose the red flags women miss, the manipulation tactics predators rely on, and the gut instincts that can literally save your life. Homie, this is your crash course in spotting the people who do harm… before they do it to you. Here’s exactly what we dive into: How psychopaths hide in plain sight (and why smart women still get trapped) The subtle behaviors predators use to test your boundaries Why your intuition is faster (and more accurate) than you think How charm, charisma, and “perfect partners” mask dark intentions The psychological patterns that reveal coercive control and danger Show Notes: Laura Richards: How Psychopaths Hide Behind Charm and Coercive Control Scott Rouse: The Stare, the Startle, and the Silent Cues That Expose Psychopaths Dr. Ramani: The Dark Triad, Dark Tetrad, and Why Malignant Personalities Love Control Jim Clemente: Your Intuition Is a Survival Tool, Here’s How to Trust It Thank you to our sponsors: OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Microperfumes: 60% Off at https://microperfumes.com/woi Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Follow Today’s Guests: Laura Richards Website: https://laurarichards.co.uk Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurarichards999 Scott Rouse Website: https://scottrouse.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ScottRouse Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scottrouse3 Dr. Ramani YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani Jim Clemente Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realjimclemente Twitter/X: https://x.com/JimClemente FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Ladies, if you’re like me then your woman's intuition is something that could use a little help. We try to read people we meet and in meetings, but the truth is we may be misreading a lot of people and missing a lot of potentially great relationships. What if I told you that you may be misreading as many as 26 people for every 100 you meet? First impressions matter and learning how to read cues and verify if your gut is telling you truth or not is a skill we can learn and my homie, Vanessa Van Edwards, the charismatic human behavior detective and recovering socially awkward person, is giving us a masterclass on how to decipher the hidden secrets behind the smile, the handshakes, and quirky quirks that seem like red flags to run away from. Dating isn’t easy, but we’re making it super easy in this 2 part episode by breaking down: *What body cues mean ask more questions *How to speed read your date (and yourself) *What he’s hiding behind those dreamy bedroom eyes that you should watch out for Original air date: 6-22-2023 Follow Vanessa Van Edwards: Website: ⁠https://www.scienceofpeople.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/featured⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/vvanedwards⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Ladies, if you’re like me then your woman's intuition is something that could use a little help. We try to read people we meet and in meetings, but the truth is we may be misreading a lot of people and missing a lot of potentially great relationships. What if I told you that you may be misreading as many as 26 people for every 100 you meet? First impressions matter and learning how to read cues and verify if your gut is telling you truth or not is a skill we can learn and my homie, Vanessa Van Edwards, the charismatic human behavior detective and recovering socially awkward person, is giving us a masterclass on how to decipher the hidden secrets behind the smile, the handshakes, and quirky quirks that seem like red flags to run away from. Dating isn’t easy, but we’re making it super easy in this 2 part episode by breaking down: *What body cues mean ask more questions *How to speed read your date (and yourself) *What he’s hiding behind those dreamy bedroom eyes that you should watch out for Original air date: 6-21-2023 Follow Vanessa Van Edwards: Website: ⁠https://www.scienceofpeople.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/featured⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/vvanedwards⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols. In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she’s lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way. She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential. But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves. And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes. 16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships. 29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media. 35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics. 52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments. 57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times. 01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience. Original air date: 11-6-2024 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols. In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she’s lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way. She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential. But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves. And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes. 16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships. 29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media. 35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics. 52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments. 57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times. 01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience. Original air date: 11-6-2024 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You ever watch a couple and feel your gut whisper, “Something’s not right here”… but you can’t quite explain why? Homie, THIS is the episode that finally gives language to what your intuition already knows. Former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante is back, and together we break down the viral Lily Allen & David Harbour house-tour video — frame by frame — to reveal the micro-expressions, distancing behaviors, passive-aggression, and emotional patterns that almost no one catches on the first watch. This isn’t gossip. This is about giving YOU the tools to spot manipulation, insecurity, emotional withdrawal, and mismatch long before it ruins your confidence, drains your energy, or makes you dim your damn light. Andrew exposes the real signals of discomfort, resentment, performative affection, sensory-driven conflict, and how small “jokes” can reveal massive cracks in a relationship. We go deep, from abandonment cues, to validation bids, to open-relationship dynamics, to the heartbreaking red carpet moments you absolutely must pay attention to. If you’ve ever ignored your gut… If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re “overreacting”… If you’ve ever felt unseen or minimized by a partner… This episode is your permission slip to trust what you see. SHOWNOTES “Everything Looks Fine… But It Isn’t” — The First Red Flags in the House Tour Abandonment Jokes, Closed-Off Posture & the Cracks Beneath the Performance Patterns vs. “It’s Just a Joke”: When Behavior Stops Being Cute No Touch, No Warmth: Andrew’s Early Prediction About the Marriage The “Couple Activities” Comment & the Micro-Expression That Says Everything The Lyrics Reveal the Truth: Why She Never Wanted the House The Red-Carpet Moment That Exposed Competition, Not Partnership How Strong Women Get Broken Down: The Slow Burn of Manipulation Millie Bobby Brown’s Interview: Eye Movements, Avoidance & What She Didn’t Say Thank you to our sponsors: Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa Microperfumes: 60% Off at https://microperfumes.com/woi Follow Andrew Bustamante: Want to learn more from Andrew? Find your Spy Superpower: https://yt.everydayspy.com/4po5Mul Read Andrew’s CIA book ‘Shadow Cell’: https://geni.us/ShadowCellBook Follow Andy on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@Andrew-Bustamante Explore Spy School: https://everydayspy.com/ Support Andy's sponsor Axolt Brain: https://axoltbrain.com/andy Listen to the podcast: https://youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Today we’re unveiling the truth behind cheating. Join me for a thought-provoking two-part episode of Women of Impact where I sit down with Latteras Whitfield for a candid conversation about cheating, which I'll admit is going to be a bit triggering for some of you. Together, we delve deep into the reasons behind Latteras' infidelity and provide valuable insights for women dealing with the aftermath of this painful betrayal. Laterras, the author of Dear Future Wifey, opens up about his personal experiences of cheating multiple times on his ex-wife. He emphasizes that his cheating was never about her but rather a reflection of his own lack of integrity. We explore the factors that contribute to cheating, such as unmet needs, contention, and the misconception that sex with other women means nothing to a married man. This conversation touches on angles we rarely think about, such as the failure of counseling and the lack of open discussions about what sex truly looks like within a marriage. Laterras shares a heart-breaking story about a feather that taught him a valuable lesson on intimacy and unmet needs. And ladies, there's a powerful lesson in it for you too. I know this isn’t easy for some of you to hear, but my goal is to provide healing and foster better conversations in the future. I want you to be able to spot the signs of cheating and take action accordingly, with absolutely no judgment if you decide to stay or leave that relationship. Subscribe to Women of Impact for more thought-provoking content that addresses the silent struggles we face in relationships and in life. Communication and understanding are key to saving broken hearts and facilitating healing in today's complex world of love and commitment. For further insights on navigating the challenges and building strong, resilient partnerships check out Laterras' book, Dear Future Wifey: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Future-Wifey/dp/B08K58WDPT⁠ Original air date: 12-14-2023 Follow Laterras Whitfield: Website: ⁠https://www.kingdomroyale.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/DearFutureWifey⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Today we’re unveiling the truth behind cheating. Join me for a thought-provoking two-part episode of Women of Impact where I sit down with Latteras Whitfield for a candid conversation about cheating, which I'll admit is going to be a bit triggering for some of you. Together, we delve deep into the reasons behind Latteras' infidelity and provide valuable insights for women dealing with the aftermath of this painful betrayal. Laterras, the author of Dear Future Wifey, opens up about his personal experiences of cheating multiple times on his ex-wife. He emphasizes that his cheating was never about her but rather a reflection of his own lack of integrity. We explore the factors that contribute to cheating, such as unmet needs, contention, and the misconception that sex with other women means nothing to a married man. This conversation touches on angles we rarely think about, such as the failure of counseling and the lack of open discussions about what sex truly looks like within a marriage. Laterras shares a heart-breaking story about a feather that taught him a valuable lesson on intimacy and unmet needs. And ladies, there's a powerful lesson in it for you too. I know this isn’t easy for some of you to hear, but my goal is to provide healing and foster better conversations in the future. I want you to be able to spot the signs of cheating and take action accordingly, with absolutely no judgment if you decide to stay or leave that relationship. Subscribe to Women of Impact for more thought-provoking content that addresses the silent struggles we face in relationships and in life. Communication and understanding are key to saving broken hearts and facilitating healing in today's complex world of love and commitment. For further insights on navigating the challenges and building strong, resilient partnerships check out Laterras' book, Dear Future Wifey: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Future-Wifey/dp/B08K58WDPT⁠ Original air date: 12-13-2023 Follow Laterras Whitfield: Website: ⁠https://www.kingdomroyale.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/DearFutureWifey⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and if you’re dealing with a narcissist, this episode is PACKED with truthbombs that you NEED to hear so you can change the way you interact with a narcissist FOREVER. Today my girl Dr. Ramani is pulling the curtain back and exposing the mind games that narcissists play ON THE DAILY to make you doubt yourself and even question your own frikin’ sanity. Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact. As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the BEHAVIORAL PATTERNS that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship. PRE-ORDER Dr. Ramani's new book here: ⁠https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f⁠ Original air date: 2-5-24 In this episode, we’re diving into: Why narcissists will NEVER CHANGE, EVEN IF you leave them! What narcissists will do to look good in the world, so that NO ONE ELSE sees how they play on your fears and steal your sense of self. Why it’s SOOO easy to be in denial and accept domination, gaslighting, and indoctrination as your “new normal”. And why ANYONE is vulnerable to a narcissist’s mind games because you can’t always see them coming… So whether you’re in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, or maybe you suspect a family member or friend is, this episode is here to help you spot the toxic behavior patterns so you can heal from the abuse and put the pieces back together. Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Pre-Order “It’s Not You”: ⁠https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. On this very personal episode of Heath Theory, Tom Bilyeu interviews the co-founder of Impact Theory (and his wife), Lisa Bilyeu. For years Lisa has suffered from catastrophic dysbiosis, and her battle with illness is actually the inspiration for Health Theory. Now that her health is manageable, she is sharing the most important lessons she has learned. In this episode, she explains why she needed to take total ownership of her health, how she dealt with shame and fear, why she has learned to use controlled experiments, and why it is so important to challenge accepted beliefs on health. Original air date: 4-17-2023 Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter:https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Sponsors: Women of Impact Podcast is sponsored by Growthday Network:⁠ https://growthday.com/podcasts⁠ LinkedIn Jobs helps you find the qualified candidates you want to talk to, faster. Post your job for free at ⁠https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI⁠. Get FREE GROUND BEEF FOR LIFE plus $20 off your first box at ⁠https://bit.ly/ButcherBoxWOI⁠. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the ⁠Get Confident⁠ playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with ⁠Love Lab. ⁠ Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in ⁠Health Hub.⁠ And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the ⁠Badass Boosts⁠ playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: ⁠https://apple.co/457ebrP⁠ Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : ⁠https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

[Original air date: 11-18-17]. Today, we're discussing how to keep your relationship strong through the holiday season! FOLLOW LISA: Lisa’s Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Women of Impact Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/womenofimpact/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ FOLLOW TOM: Tom’s Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/⁠ Impact Theory Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/impacttheory/⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en⁠ Tom’s Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/tombilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices