Shift Your Perspective

How do you not worry or be anxious about other people's opinions? What causes us to have this fear in the first place? Listen in as Doreen Downing, Founder of Essential Speaking, re-joins me to discuss how to let go of the anxiety and fear of being yourself in front of other people Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

How do you live a confident life that isn't based on ego? What is the correlation between self-esteem and self-confidence? Listen in as Randy Haveson, Founder of The Rise Organization joins me to discuss this and how to cleanse the ego and make it your best friend. Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

When creating the life you want, what is your role in making it happen? It is a balancing act of receiving "miracles" and following your intuition towards a specific action. But how do you do that? Guess what? You're already a master at these things, but something keeps you from using them positively. Listen in as I discuss the Jim Henson quote, "The only way the magic works is by hard work. But hard work can be fun." Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

Are your beliefs negative or positive? Do you know that you can choose between "I can't" or "I can" because both are valid options given to you from The Divine for you to experience life? If your negative mindset is a deeply entrenched belief, how do you change it? Listen in as I discuss the Audrey Hepburn quote, "Nothing is impossible. The word itself says 'I'm possible'!" Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

Passion is what drives you forward in life and helps you reach your goals. But what if you don't have this all-consuming desire for the thing you want to achieve? Is it hopeless, or is there something you can do to get it? Listen in as I discuss the Lauren Hutton quote, "If you don't have passion, change." Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

How important is having a vision for your life? Without an end vision of the life you want to keep you on track, you are more than likely going to drift or be tossed about by the currents of life's challenges. Listen in as I discuss the Thomas Carlyle quote, "A man without a goal is like a ship without a rudder." Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

There are many reasons you're aren't reaching your goals, but mainly it has to do with your internal beliefs. A negative self-image will sabotage any goal you have, leaving you feeling worse about yourself and pushing you further away from achieving your goals. Listen in as I discuss this and more with Stephanie Reh, The Accountability Evangelist. Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

Over-consumption and under-implementation of the self-help techniques block your transformation and growth. But when you leave behind all pursuit of knowledge, you are free to be, to go from caterpillar to butterfly. However, it is still a gradual growth process, so don't force it, release to the Divine rhythm's natural flow. Listen in as I discuss this and more with Andrew Kap, author of, The Last Law Of Attraction Book You'll Ever Need To Read. Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

Can gratitude practices hinder you from experiencing the fullness and joy of your life? Writing out lists and saying, "I'm grateful," isn't enough; it's not something to do to feel good about yourself, to earn your gold-star for the day. Listen in as I discuss the Marcus Aurelius quote, "In an expression of true gratitude, sadness is conspicuous only by its absence." Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

When you go through challenging times, how do you handle them? Are you calm, confident, and accepting, knowing that it will pass? Or, do you focus on the problem, complaining about how unfair it is? Listen in as I discuss the Ralph Waldo Emerson quote, "Patience and fortitude conquer all things." Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

Guilt, shame, and a poor-self-image fuel our people pleasing triggers, leading us toward abusive relationships. But holding space for self-love, creates an awareness of the underlying patterns that drive our actions. Doing the inner-work, frees us from them and develops a stronger relationship with our intuition and confidence, guiding us away from damaging relationships and toward healthier ones. Listen in as I discuss this and more with Amanda JP Brown, author of, You're Brave Enough.

Are you still people-pleasing, trying to live up to their expectations, letting them tell you what you should think, how to behave, or be? How about, are you trying to control others so that they will treat you right? Listen in as I discuss the Bruce Lee quote, "I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, and you are not in this world to live up to mine." Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

Are the following thoughts of "It's impossible" or "It will never change for me" predominate in your mind? Do you still blame other people, experiences, or circumstances for the way your life has turned out? Listen in as I discuss the Gloria Swanson quote, "Never say never. Never is a long undependable time, and life is too full of rich possibilities to have restrictions placed upon it." Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

Is there something that you love to do more than anything else in the world? How often are you engaged in this activity? Do you realize that when you are doing something that you love, whatever it is, that fear and self-doubt cannot exist in your mind? Listen in as I discuss the Richard Avedon quote, "I believe that you've got to love your work so much that it is all you want to do." Show Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Goals, Mindset, Confidence, Intuition, Gratitude

Do you think your life has no meaning? Do you think you cannot achieve your dreams because you don't have the things other people have? Nothing could be further from the truth. Listen in as I discuss the Donna Summer quote, "God had to create disco music so I could be born and be successful." Unshakable Self-Confidence Topics: Toxic relationships, Law of Attraction, Abuse, Achieving Goals, Mindset, Positive Thinking, Confidence, Self-Development, Intuition, Mindfulness, Meditation, Gratitude

Are you hoping that your self-image, confidence levels, and the conditions of your life will change? Guess what? They won't until you believe that they already have. Listen in as I discuss the Muhammad Ali quote, "I am the greatest. I said even before I knew I was." I also talk about Romans 4:17 and 1 John 4:17 to prove the point of the power of your belief.

Are you making the most of your life? Still being controlled by self-doubt and insecurities? Author of Dying With Ease, Jeff Spiess, MD, joins me to discuss how to contemplate your mortality to fuel your desire to live a full life without any regrets. He also shares how he has dealt with his fears and limiting beliefs.

Are you still trying to change other people so they will do right by you; treat you right? If you are, it is a losing battle. What do I mean by this? Listen in as I discuss the Rumi quote, "Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself." Start living your life with Unshakable Self-Confidence

Are you still letting other people define you; tell you who you are? The fact is, people will ALWAYS try to make you their bitch; displacing all the responsibility of their shortcomings on you, that is, until you say, "I'm not your bitch!" Listen in as I share a technique with you rapidly move beyond allowing others to dump all of their crap you on and everything you have been through in 2020. Live your life with Unshakable Self-Confidence

Are you searching for something that is already there? Perhaps it is because you are so focused on the negative or lack, which blinds you to the positive and abundance already in your life. Today, I discuss the Aretha Franklin quote, "Sometimes, what you're looking for is already there." Listen in and learn how to live your life with Unshakable Self-Confidence.

What are you chasing after but can never see to catch? There is a reason why those things are elusive to you. Listen in as I discuss the Mario Quintana quote, "Don't waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come." Find out why you are not reaching and achieving your goals in life. Learn how to live your life with Unshakable Self-Confidence.

Are you surrounded by toxic people and friends? Want to know how to get away from them, to get them out of your life? Listen in as I discuss the Jean Harlow quote, "When you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas." I also discuss the Systems Theory, discovered in 1665 by Christiaan Huygens, and the William Turner proverb from 1545, "Birds of a feather flock together."

Your negative self-image is keeping you from reaching your goals. Bridgit Dengel Gaspard, author of The Final 8th, discusses getting to the root of your worthiness and low self-esteem to be free to enjoy your life and achieve your goals in life.

Have you ever been judged, not by your capabilities and strengthens, but by other people's opinions of what you should be? Listen in as I discuss the Hedy Lamarr quote, "Any girl can be glamorous. All you have to do is stand still and look stupid." As well as her contribution to the world with her invention of frequency hopping.

Your impatience and desire to 'get it over with' is causing the delay of the very changes you want to see in your self-image and your life. So what do you need to do? Relax and trust the natural Divine rhythm of gradual growth to do the work. Listen in as I discuss the Chinese Proverb, "Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still."

Fear has blinded you, so you don't realize that you are already in the Kingdom, that you already have the wisdom you need – you are not missing or lacking anything, you never have. Start 'living' your life and stop 'seeking.' Listen in as I discuss the Hopi Proverb, Wisdom comes only when you stop looking for it and start living the life the Creator intended for you.

A bad attitude in life comes from a negative self-image. How do you change what you believe about yourself so you can move forward in life with happiness, joy, and fulfillment? Listen in as I discuss this English Aphorism and what to do in order to see changes in your life.

Your whole life is a conspiracy. The problem is, you don't understand who is behind it all. Tune in as I discuss this famous Ralph Waldo Emerson quote and how it effects your levels of self-confidence.

What mindset is going to get you through life's difficulties? Nathanael Zurbruegg, Founder of Unlimit You, shares his story and lessons learned on how to move beyond excuses, negative attitudes, limitations, and into full potential of one's life.

How do you thrive in tough times? Hersch Wilson, author of Firefighter Zen, discusses how to stay in the present moment and be confident, even when the world around you is seemingly chaotic and unstable.

Are you letting other people define who you are? Martha Hunt Handler, author of Winter of the Wolf joins me to discuss listening to our inner-voices, not the opinions of others, which is the way to realizing our dreams.

Your negative self-image stems from trauma in your childhood, but how do you overcome it? Blake D Bauer, author of You Were Not Born To Suffer talks about his own journey of overcoming fear, insecurity, depression into a state of healthy self-love.

How can you have self-confidence when the world seems to be falling apart? Toni Navy joins me to share the key things she does to reset her mindset, stay focused, and not react to external circumstances, regardless of what they are. She and I also talk about the importance of choosing your influences wisely, as they will shape your mindset and beliefs.

It's the same old story of conformity; "Do it my way, because your way is wrong, or else." So what do you do? Oleg Lougheed, the Overcoming Odds podcast host, joins me to discuss how to explore your own questions, seek your own answers, and follow your own individual path.

How do you handle understanding life's difficulties and the resulting confusion? Barron Steffen, author of The Final Gift Of The Beloved, discusses how to face the obstacles and challenges of life. He also talks about coping with the grief of loss from tragedy, and how to recover and heal by seeing life as an extraordinary gift.

How do you overcome life's challenges so they don't overtake you? Benita Conde, Founder of CREATE RADICAL LOVE returns to the show to discuss how to master the cycles of change with calmness and awareness. We also talk about how to see past fear and into the Divine for strength and self-confidence.

Worrying about the past while trying to live in the present moment isn't possible. So how can you free yourself to be empowered and self-confident in the here and now? Darlene Green, the author of In-Service To Love, talks about how the past has already contributed to our journeys in life, so we don't need to keep carrying it around like luggage. She also shares many techniques to help you gain "oneness" with your more profound, I AM nature, the source of all your strength.

What are the skills you need in order to handle life's challenges and struggles? Maggie Craddock, the author of Lifeboat, shares her 4 Core Categories that will help with the pressures of life. She also talks about how "pausing" is the gateway to freedom from your triggers. She and I also how to tap into your emotions and not judging them will center you in the middle of any crisis.

No matter what life does to you, you can always take control and be the author of your life and create a new story. Matthew Korban and his story prove that! Matthew also shares how not to let other people's opinions or society's expectations of you define your self-worth. In addition, he talks about the importance of finding your "why" to keep you out of limiting thoughts and behaviors.

Ellen Meredith, the author of The Language Your Body Speaks, discusses how the mind and body are key to unlocking the healing power of The Divine energy in your life. She and I also talk about specific techniques you can use to learn to trust your intuition, how to heal yourself from past traumas, as well as opening the path to plugging into the Divine itself.

Why should someone else's opinion of you matter more than yours?! Susie Moore, the author of Stop Checking Your Likes, talks about why other people's opinions don't matter. She and I also talk about how to get over worrying about what other people think about you, so you don't let them define you. Additionally, we talk about what is really happening when they are judging you. Sign up for the Unshakable Self-Confidence newsletter at www.unshakableselfconfidence.com

When you bring gratitude into your life, it's not about lip-service or writing lists of things to be grateful for. Being grateful is when you can "feel" how blessed you are. Karl Staib joins me today to discuss the attitudes and behaviors that can actually block us from receiving the endless abundance that The Divine Source wants to gives us, and what we can do to open ourselves up to bigger blessings.

Why is releasing you past so important? Paul Selig returns to discusses his personal experience in implementing the channeled message from 'The Guides' in their new book, Alchemy. We also talk about how to stay in alignment with God, the importance of staying out of judgment of others. In addition, there is a special message directly from 'The Guides' just for you, so tune in and listen. Please support the show by becoming a Patreon member today at www.patreon.com.unshakableselfconfidence.com

What is Conscious Luck? Luck isn't serendipitous or random but based on attitude, action, and association. Gay Hendricks and Carol Kline discuss how to use the techniques in their book to remove the personal barriers to luck, as well as their experience in overcoming abusive relationships, and the inherited limiting beliefs about themselves. Support the podcast at www.patreon.com/unshakableselfconfidence

How do you "close the gap" between people-pleasing and aligning with your values? Suzanne Sena shares her experience with abusive relationships, overcoming her poor self-image, as well as the importance of creating an inner-circle of "family." We also talk about how listening to one's intuition and aligning with our inner-core values, can change our lives for the better. Please support the show at www.patron.com/unshakableselfconfidence.com

What does the Law of Attraction have to do with self-confidence? Christy Whitman, the author of Quantum Success, joins me to discuss how you're never devoid of Source Energy because it is continuously flowing through you. She and I also talk about how to overcome the traumas that can block us from joy and happiness, and living the life the Divine created us to live. Support the podcast by becoming a Patreon member at www.patreon.com/unshakableselfconfidence

How can happiness and gratitude help you move beyond your trauma and transform your life? Billy Manas, the author of Kickass Recovery, talks about how "gratitude is the key to all things that are awesome." He also shares his story of addiction, what addiction is, and what he did to recover from it. Support the Unshakable Self-Confidence podcast at https://www.patreon.com/unshakableselfconfidence

How do you create radical self-love and life you love? Benita Conde, Founder of Create Radical Love, joins me to discuss how to do this by following your intuition and giving up our "people-pleasing" habits. We also talk about recovery from "dark" behaviors when we stubble along our paths, without hanging on to guilt or shame. Support the Unshakable Self-Confidence podcast at www.patreon.com/unshakableselfconfidence

What is self-care really and why is it important to our relationships? Linda Carroll, the author of Love Skills, joins me to discuss how healthy relationships start with mindful self-awareness, how we are attracted to familiar and repeating patterns adopted in our childhood. She and I also talk about how abusive relationships take root and affect you and your self-esteem, as well as how to get over abusive relationships.

With everything that is going on, we are being called to shift into a new relationship with ourselves and the world. Intuitive Coach, Marci Moberg returns to talk about tending to our ancestorial wounds and patterns that affect ourselves, having the courage to be ourselves, as well as how to deal with "the collective" when they don't agree with us or hurt us.