Shift Your Perspective

In order to free yourself from inherited conditioned patterns of limiting self-belief, worthiness, violence, abuse, and perpetual rejection, you going to have to go on a "bloody rampage of revenge." How can we use the journey of the 'Yellow-Haired Warrior' in Quentin Tarantino's film, "Kill Bill" as a guide to free ourselves from our personal hells and pasts into a life of our choosing? Listen in as I share lessons learned on my personal journey of transformation.

You want the truth? Only LOVE can pass through The Gates of Heaven! What do I mean by this? Listen in as I share the lessons learned from my transformational journey.

Why do we take on other people's crap when they do us wrong - why do we examine it, investigate it and try to figure out the reason they did it and what we did?! Why not call it what it is and do what we are supposed to do with crap - flush it down the toilet? Granted it isn't an easy thing to do, but what you are doing to 'heal' from it is actually keeping you stuck in the cycle of pain and abuse. Listen in as I share wisdom gained from my personal transformation.

Why are you 'holding on' and not 'letting go' of your past? Is it because of what others will think, say, or do? Or is it because you think 'this is just how life is' or 'it's always been this way, so it must be the truth?' Whether you realize it or not, this life is a journey of letting go of 'what was' for 'what is' and 'what will be.' Anything else will keep you stuck in your karma cycle of pain and frustration. Listen in as I share wisdom learned on this journey of self-transformation.

If you keep focusing on your inner child wounds you are only going to keep yourself stuck in a cycle of the never-ending healing of childhood trauma. If you believe that what you focus on expands, why do you think it would be any different when you focus on things that happened in the past? (You've been doing that for a while now, right? How's that working out for you?) Listen in to lessons learned on this journey of self-empowerment, and transformation.

I get it! Everybody is out here telling you to "follow your inner voice," to trust your Divine GPS. What most people don't know (or do and not telling you) is that your inner voice (AKA: God) is both the light and the dark, both positive and negative energy. So, if you are holding onto a negative self-image (AKA: your beliefs of failure and impossibility) the Divine will guide you towards that negative fulfillment - it's the Law! Then what can you do; how do you know if your intuition is guiding you toward failure or success? Listen is as I share wisdom learned on my journey of transformation.

Have you ever noticed that people can be jealous of you? I am not talking about your gifts or skills, I am talking about your healing journey. You've done the work to break free from limiting beliefs and karmic patterns, so why are people envious when they should be happy for you? Listen in to hear lessons learned on this journey of living our lives beyond fear; beyond our past traumas.

The journey out of your personal hell; breaking free from your karmic pattern is tough. And though not everyone makes it, it can be done. Staying focused on your path out of darkness is critical, but there will be tests along the way that will provoke you to give up. How do you cross the threshold of old beliefs into a state of joy and peace; Heaven consciousness? Listen in for lessons learned on this journey of transformation.

Why do we do it? Why do we stay loyal to those who have clearly chosen to betray us; why do we keep coming back for more abuse? And when we do walk away, why do we feel guilty for standing up for ourselves, for choosing ourselves over others' BS that they try to impose upon us? Listen in as I share lessons learned about the emotional ties that bind us to the cycles of abuse.

You've been through a lot; people have done some terrible things to you - I get it! But that isn't a good enough reason to stay down and accept life as it seems at this moment. And though you may not be able to see it at the moment, if you begin today to have the courage to get up and take tiny steps forward toward a brighter future, it will come to pass even quicker than you realize. Listen in as I share lessons on never giving up.

There's only one way to release yourself, to break free from toxic cycles and individuals - you have to release your addiction to co-dependency. It's easier said than done, but the truth is it can be done, and here is how. Listen in to lessons learned about letting go of the past, and I mean all of your past.

People (family, friends, lovers, and society) tell you who you are, what you are capable of, and what you are worthy of; they attach labels to you, and they expect you to be a certain way. And if you are not careful, you might just end up believing them and lose control of your life; you'll end up being stuck in a cycle of abuse and neglect. But how do you reject those labels; how do you live your life according to your own self-definition? Listen in as I share lessons learned about owning your self-identity: AKA, your life!

Feel like you're not getting anywhere; like everything you are doing isn't making a difference? Breaking away from the old, toxic relationships, families, friends, and even society, is a very hard thing to do - most people will never do it, so isn't it time to give yourself some credit?! Isn't it time you stop beating yourself up for always getting back up and trying to move forward? Listen in as I share lessons learned about leaving it all behind, without guilt, shame, or regrets.

It is hard to end toxic relationships, especially romantic ones. There is so much involved. Everything from the karmic family patterns and cycles to childhood traumas. Not to mention all of the guilt and shame of just being yourself. But there is hope; there is a way out. However, are you willing to face and give up the very thing that keeps you stuck? Listen in as I share lessons learned about being free and unshakably self-confident.

You want things to change; you want your suffering of the past to end and to begin experiencing a world filled with all of your dreams coming true. I get it! But it isn't going to happen until you take back control. Control over your mind and self-identity, AKA, YOUR LIFE! Listen in as I share lessons learned on this path of transformation.

Why are you rushing? Are you trying to escape the pain and suffering you have experienced in life; trying to move beyond the trauma you have experienced? I totally get it; been there and done that! So what should you do? Listen in as I share lessons learned about how long it takes to transform yourself and then your world.

If you truly want to change your life, you need to take control over your mind - nothing you haven't heard already, right? But what does that mean exactly; it's not like you haven't been already trying to do that, no? Listen in as I share my discoveries on what you need to look for and how deep you really have to go in order to set yourself free and transform your world and everything you experience within it.

You know all about your childhood trauma, the inherited negative self-image root, those ancestral karmic patterns. But why are you still holding on to it? Listen in to lessons learned about how to truly set yourself free from those cycles and move on with your life, beyond fear, self-doubt, pain, and suffering.

"Do this! Do that! That's not how I'd do it! Who do you think you are?! You're too confident!" scream the outside voices. So much so that you're own voice is drowned out, leaving you confused and not knowing which way to go! Have you ever stopped to question why? That perhaps they are trying to manipulate you for their gain, whatever that may be. Listen in on lessons learned about turning your back to the voices of others and trusting the only voice that matters - the one within.

We are told that making a list of all we are grateful for changes our lives and opens us up to more miracles and blessings. How's that working out for you? Hastily making your list every day isn't the answer, that's just lip service, that's just trying to earn that 'gold star?' So what is gratitude really? Listen in as I share lessons learned about really taking in the astounding gift that is called life.

What's really holding you back? Your childhood trauma? Things people have said and done to you in the past? Could it possibly be that you are refusing to let things be just as they are and move on? Listen in as I share what I have learned about leaving the past in the past and moving on, free of guilt, shame, or blame.

Confusion! Confusion! Confusion! Everybody tells you what to do, where to look, and how to be, and most, sadly, do it to control and manipulate you, for purposes that serve them. But the truth is, you do the very same, even if it is only trying to get others to treat you right or correct the wrongs that they have genuinely inflicted upon you. So how do you move through the muddle of the self-serving noise of others? Listen in and find out.

Yes, you've been wounded, hurt, neglected, abandoned, betrayed, lied to, and cheated on, these are facts. But what if I told you that everything you are doing to heal from these is keeping you stuck in the vicious cycles you find yourself in? What if I told you that all you have to do is let it all go and move on; that you are in reality chasing ghosts, memories that no longer exist? Listen in as I share lessons learned in truly moving beyond your painful past.

People have caused you a lot of pain and suffering, that is a fact! Are you still trying to get these individuals to understand what they have done and treat you right, aka seeking justice? Guess what? It's a trap that will keep you stuck in your karmic loop cycle. Listen in as share lessons learned about letting go and letting God make things right in your life.

Why do we do it; why do we stay or go back to abusive people and relationships? Does it ever change? NO! So why do we keep thinking that this time will be different? Listen in as I share what you need to do in order to break free and closed down those karmic cycles once and for all.

How do you change your world to the one you want it to be? You've been told that it is through the Law of Attraction, Visualization, and Beliefs, but why isn't it working for you? Listen in as I share lessons learned on using our Divine Creative Power, aka, your imagination.

Let's be truthful, you have the ability to peep-game on people; your intuition has always been able to see right through other people's lies. So why are you still allowing these people in your life; why aren't you walking away, which allows good, healthy people to enter into your life? Listen in as I share lessons learned about our intuition and what it does for us.

Are you looking for love in all the wrong places? Of course you are, that's why your life is the way that it is. Only when you learn the lesson of looking for love outside of yourself, in other people, places, things, and situations will your world transform from hell to heaven. Listen in to my lessons learned about where love really comes from.

People have time and time again punished you for being you, for shining your light. In turn, this has set up the heavy burdensome cycle of guilt, shame, and self-blame, which has nearly broken you to the point of no return. Listen in as I help you drop other peoples' baggage and avoid the trap of feeling bad for moving on with your life.

Round and round and round they go; that neverending cycle of toxic relationships with abusive and narcissistic individuals! If you are ready to get off that wheel of karmic cycles, and genuinely move forward into something new and wonderful, listen in as I share lessons learned on how to walk our individual paths of life.

I AM BACK! After taking a break from silence to release my past and everything that has happened to me, I am back with a lot to say about overcoming your painful past, hurts, wounds, and betrayals. Listen to this new episode that kicks off the show's seventh season!

Guilt, shame, and regret can destroy your life, deplete your confidence, and at the very least they can hinder your progress in transforming your self-image and life. So how do you let it all go? How do you not allow others to make you feel guilty (or even try to transfer their guilt onto you) when you do commit yourself to making the necessary changes in order to have the life you want? Listen in and find out what I have discovered...

Toxic people are going to come against you when you shine your light. Not fair, but nonetheless true. What if you reframed what is really going on? What if you looked at these challenges to help elevate you to higher levels that most people will never get to? What do I mean? Listen in and find out.

Self-love is not taking luxurious baths or buying shoes for yourself. Not that those are bad things to do for yourself, but those are temporary fixes to a bigger problem. Love is also not something you have to earn, so why are you begging others to love you?! Listen in as I share a radical thought on what self-love really is and where to find it.

Narcissistic people! You gotta love them, right?! ABSOLUTELY NOT! (Least not in the way you think you are supposed to). Are you having difficulty cutting those final cords that bind you to those toxic people? Perhaps after listening to what I have to say about what is really happening, you might change your mind.

You've been consumed by fear and self-doubt and accustomed to the pain and failure that they bring that you're not even sure that confidence, happiness, and fulfillment even exist. Let me assure you that it does, but let me also share with you the important lessons I have recently learned about staying in The Light once you make it to the other side.

You are supposed to forgive those who have hurt you. But how do you forgive those toxic and narcissistic people in your life, whether they be family, friends, or intimate partners? Listen in as I discuss lessons learned in my own journey of forgiving those who crossed the line.

The truth is, the self-confidence you are looking for is already yours. So where is it? Listen in to today's episode and find out.

How do you break free from self-doubt and ancestral karmic curses or cycles? Listen in to discover the location of the power that will set you free forever!

What do you do when your whole world comes crashing down; when you discover the people you knew really aren't who you thought they were? Listen in as I discuss and share lessons learned about breaking free from toxic people, even if they are family.

I have finally crossed into The Light. If you want to hear more my fellow Phoenixes, then listen in. The choice is yours (and always has been).

Do you realize you have two inner voices? Self-help gurus will tell you that you need to listen to your 'inner voice' for guidance, but which one? Because there are both the voices of self-doubt and confidence within you. What are you supposed to do? Listen in as Sabrina Victoria returns to the show, and we share lessons learned in distinguishing the difference, breaking free from co-dependency, and not letting others steal your thunder!

What are you seeking, my fellow Phoenixes? Are you still trying to change the world and its people to live your life the way you want to; are you still trying to change everything to be yourself without fear? Listen in as I continue to discuss what it takes to live unburdened and unshackled by fear and self-doubt by truly sharing my story to date.

What are you seeking, my fellow Phoenixes? Are you still trying to change the world and its people to live your life the way you want to; are you still trying to change everything to be yourself without fear? Listen in as I continue to discuss what it takes to live unburdened and unshackled by fear and self-doubt by truly sharing my story to date.

What are you seeking, my fellow Phoenixes? Are you still trying to change the world and its people to live your life the way you want to; are you still trying to change everything to be yourself without fear? Listen in as I discuss what it takes to live unburdened and unshackled by fear and self-doubt by truly sharing my story to date.

How do you overcome your childhood trauma, the root cause of your negative and limiting beliefs about yourself? Heads up, it's not by remaining in the state of judgment and blame or guilt or shame. Nor is it by comparing your story to that of another – trying to see who is the bigger victim. Listen in as I discuss this and more, including the power of movement and gratitude, with Latasha Walker of Purpose To Heal.

Your thoughts, and your thoughts alone, are the determining factor in how you will experience life; your thoughts become your reality. So how do you deal with negative thoughts? Do you fight with them? Do you try to change them? What if I told you that you were handling them all wrong and that your current way of dealing with them keeps you stuck in their vicious, never-ending cycle of pain and hell? Listen in as I read the chapter, Sufficient Unto Today, from Eric Butterworth's book Discover The Power Within. Next is Rev Ike's lecture, Turning Stone to Bread from the early 1980s. Finally, Kiki Dee's 1974 single, I've Got The Music In Me, can help you to elevate your frequency/spirit.

You've heard it said, "We become what we think about." But what does that really mean? "Consciousness is the resurrecting power – resurrecting that which man is conscious of being," states Neville Goddard in his book, "At Your Command." Listen in as I read from that book, and share what I have learned from Neville. The true nature of consciousness, identifying with the " I AM," and how to make visions a reality. Also included is the song Magic from 1980, which will help you remember the power within and how to use it.

My guest was 15 feet away from the bomb that exploded during the Boston Marathon on April 15, 2013. Myself, I was almost strangled to death at the end of my second abusive relationship. Listen to my conversation with Jennifer Kauffman as we discuss these experiences and our journey of setting ourselves free, what we did, the obstacles along the way, and finding common ground with our respective Hero's Journey.

The resurrection of the dead is a traditional eschatological belief in the Abrahamic religions. Like Abrahamic religions, Hinduism also believes in rebirth and reincarnation, known as 'samsara.' In fact, you can find this concept in Buddhist, Greek, and even Egyptian writing. So what does this mean for us; how can it help us on our spiritual journeys of transformation? Listen to my monthly conversation with Mudhar-Nain Webster as we discuss this topic.