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<p>An email from a husband wondering why many marriage resources out there take the stance of it's the husbands fault.</p> <p>A husband emails wanting to know if taking a break from pursuing sex with his lower desire wife would help reset things for them both.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Are there delay tactics used in marriage and sex to avoid things we don't want to participate in or follow through with?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>MoHW Masterminds: Mastermind groups are forming now. For more info check out https://smr.fm/masterminds</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/delay-tactics/">Delay Tactics #530</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a member of the Nation adding to the conversation about how a HD Spouse can approach their LD Spouse better on the topic of sex.</p> <p>A wife emails asking for how to handle resentment and guilt over how long it has taken to grow more confident sexually.</p> <p>A husband emails wondering if his interest in wearing feminine underwear is a potential problem.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Part 4 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Paint Your Life: Looking for a unique and great gift for someone - or yourself? Text the word MARRIAGE to 64-000 and get 20% off.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/crossdressing/">Crossdressing #529</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a wife whose husband says that if she would let him masturbate or look at porn he would be more interested in sex with her and would be able to finish more regularly.</p> <p>Two emails from different wives wanting to know how to address when husbands have gained a lot of weight and have little interest in a healthier lifestyle. </p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Part 3 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway. This time we go into questions like gridlock and books to help relationships.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Paint Your Life: Looking for a unique and great gift for someone - or yourself? Text the word MARRIAGE to 64-000 and get 20% off.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/wife-wont-let-husband-masturbate/">Wife Won’t Let Husband Masturbate #528</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>We recorded an extended rapid fire episode while at the SMR Getaway, only this time we go more in depth with the answers.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Part 2 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway. This time we go into some deep questions like betrayal and desire differences.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Hello Fresh: Take the stress out of meal time at your house https://hellofresh.com/smr14 use code smr14 for 14 free meals, including free<br /> shipping!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/rapid-fire-with-longer-answers/">Rapid Fire with Longer Answers #527</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a wife who feels stuck between faking it during sex or withholding and wants to know the best Biblical way to approach this in her marriage.</p> <p>A wife emails because she found a dildo that her husband has been using while masturbating.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A recording of part of the Q&A time at this year's SMR Getaway.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/found-my-husbands-dildo/">Found My Husband’s Dildo #526</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a wife who gets nauseous and gags at the thought of her husband ejaculating into her mouth – yet he would really like to experience this with her.</p> <p>And a voicemail from a new mom who wants to get the non-sexy images from childbirth and doctors out of her head to get sex going again with her husband.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>A look a some of the attitudes we can bring into marriage and relationships. Are you entitled in your marriage or is marriage designed to expose you more than you thought?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/best-of-smr-oral-sex-and-gagging/">Best Of SMR: Oral Sex and Gagging #525</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A past episode with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about the Higher Desire/Lower Desire dynamic. Specifically about how this often plays out for the lower desire wife.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Our conversation continues with Dr Jennifer and her research on the subject of religion and desire.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>MELT: Take advantage of the first sale in 2 years here - Get MELT for Father's Day</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/best-of-smr-low-desire-wife/">Best Of SMR: Low Desire Wife #524</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation with Denis Merkas of MELT: Couples Massage about how touch is so important in life and marriage. Take advantage of the first sale in 2 years here - Get MELT for Father's Day</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A behind the scenes conversation with Denis about how MELT has impacted his life and what he's learned. Plus he turns the table on Dr Allan.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Songfinch: Use our code SMR for a total of $70 off the perfect Father's Day gift, this week only.</p> <p>Thrive CAUSEmetics: Their Bigger Than Beauty mission is truly inspiring! Visit ThriveCausemetics.com/SMR for 15% off your first order!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/touch-and-massage/">Touch and Massage #523</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a newly-married wife who is interested in sex more in the evening while her husband in interested in the mornings. Plus, he masturbates regularly during the day.</p> <p>A message from Instagram asking what kind of feedback we get from our willingness to talk frankly about sex and relationships.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A husband emails asking how to bring up the subject of sex when for 18 years it's been clear it's not something his wife will talk about.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/hostage-taking/">Hostage Taking #522</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Today we try go rapid fire again and still don't get to all the questions submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio</p> <p>Just a hint of the topics we cover:</p> <p>Oral sex, honeymoon tips, speaking up, anal sex, friends, talking about likes and a whole lot more!</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>We go more in-depth with more questions from IG only this time on sexual dreams, libido and cycles, moods, and toys.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/rapid-fire-newlywed-oral-talking-and-more/">Rapid Fire: Newlywed, Oral, Talking and More #521</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A voicemail from a husband about their therapist's advice that the should not have sex for the next 4 months.</p> <p>A husband emails about how his wife will not allow herself to have an orgasm.</p> <p>An email from a soon to be divorced man wondering what he will do about his sex drive when single.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Retroactive jealously and judgment. And how do we view our spouse's past.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/no-sex-allowed/">No Sex Allowed #520</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a wife who really wants her husband to explore and lead as a Dominant role in their sex life, although he is more of a Submissive.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A husband wants to know how to extend the sex sessions with his wife when they only happen twice a year. They both are in a Two-Choice Dilemma.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/dominant-or-submissive/">Dominant or Submissive #519</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>How do you find a therapist or marriage coach in the age of telehealth? You can work with Dr Allan - for more info click here.</p> <p>Guides mentioned in the show - Part 1, Part 2.</p> <p>A lower desire wife emails wanting help getting her husband to understand her interest in her experiencing an orgasm during sex as well, not just him.</p> <p>A wife in a sexless marriage wants to know how to get her husband interested in sex.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>The benefits of boredom and routine and the small steps you can take create a better path forward.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Thrive CAUSEmetics: Their Bigger Than Beauty mission is truly inspiring! Visit ThriveCausemetics.com/SMR for 15% off your first order!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/telehealth-help-and-desire-differences/">Telehealth Help and Desire Differences #518</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Everyone get the full show today.</p> <p>I'm joined by Dr Ian Kerner as we discuss his new book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex.</p> <p>To learn more about Ian visit his site - https://www.iankerner.com/</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/last-time-you-had-sex/">Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex #517</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Today we try something different. We cover lots of questions in rapid-fire style. All questions were submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio</p> <p>Just a hint of the topics we cover:</p> <p>Oral sex, sizes, fetishes, first time and wedding night, talking about sex and a whole lot more!</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>We go more in-depth with more questions from IG only this time on threesomes, pain during sex, past trauma and abuse, and shame.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/rapid-fire/">Rapid Fire Q&A #516</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I'm joined by Dr Emily Jamea and we discuss her work on helping couples experience optimal levels of sex in their marriage. </p> <p>To learn more about Emily visit her site - https://emilyjamea.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Emily and I continue the conversation and move into the specifics about her research and the whys behind her findings. </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Hello Fresh: Take the stress out of meal time at your house https://hellofresh.com/smr12 use code smr12 for 12 free meals, including free<br /> shipping!”</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/optimal-sexual-experiences/">Optimal Sexual Experiences #515</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a husband curious about all the penile enlargement and performance products promoted today.</p> <p>A wife who has experienced pain in the beginning of their sex life but has now found a position that is pain free - now she's anxious about trying out new positions.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>We unpack the concept of lust as mentioned in Matthew 5:27-30.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Thrive CAUSEmetics: Their Bigger Than Beauty mission is truly inspiring! Visit ThriveCausemetics.com/SMR for 15% off your first order!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/lust/">Lust #514</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Bouncing your eyes is one way to avoid the temptations around us, but what about steering your energy as well?</p> <p>An email from a husband who is wondering if ruining his orgasm would help his quick ejaculation issue. </p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A wonderful tool for helping you determine your responsibilities in the issues you face in life.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/edging/">Edging #513</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A peek behind the curtain into how Pam and I address the issue of snoring, and the messages built into our moves.</p> <p>An email from a husband who is the higher desire for sex but the lower desire for romance. Is that odd?</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A recording of a talk Corey gave at church about how do I see myself and how does God see me?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/snoring/">Snoring #512</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>How does a husband help his wife be more confident, while also helping his teenage daughter be less confident? </p> <p>A husband is confident at work, yet struggles to being that same presence to home.</p> <p>A higher desire wife struggles initiating due to fear of rejection and they both have struggled with masturbation throughout their lives. </p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Moments of meeting. Perhaps this is a better way to frame what many of us are really looking for in marriage and life. </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/moments-of-meeting/">Moments of Meeting #511</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A voicemail from a wife who wants to connect better with her husband through kissing, but they have trouble doing so.</p> <p>An email about the connection between higher desire vs lower desire and spontaneous drive vs responsive drive.</p> <p>Is solo sex harmful to your health? What about sex outside of marriage?</p> <p>A husband can't shake his desire to explore a more free lifestyle now that marriage and kids and responsibilities have taken over his life. </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/we-arent-good-kissers/">We Aren’t Good Kissers #510</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a higher desire husband looking to not take the rejections so personal from his lower desire wife. </p> <p>A husband wants to go down on his wife after they've had intercourse, yet isn't so sure. </p> <p>A wife of a video game husband wants to know how to be more solid in confronting the amount of time he plays online and disconnects from the family life. </p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Creating a more solid sense of self and the art of self-validation.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/my-own-taste/">My Own Taste #509</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I'm joined by Irene Fehr and we have a conversation about the three types of sex she believe all couples experience in marriage.</p> <p>To learn more about Irene visit her site - https://www.irenefehr.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Irene and I continue the conversation and move into the specifics of how you can create better connection in sex.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/three-types-of-sex/">Three Types Of Sex #508</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Please check out the SMRNation Community at my.smr.fm</p> <p>Pam and I have a coffee shop conversation about when you're faced with choices where there really isn't right or wrong yet, what's the best wise step?</p> <p>An email from a listener asking about ideas to help address issues when there are size differences between spouses.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A great quote from Charles Cooley - "I am not who you think I am, I am not who I think I am, I am who I think you think I am."</p> <p>Let's unpack.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/next-wisest-step/">Next Wisest Step #507</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A listener joins me on the air to work through why he fantasizes so much about his wife's past sexual encounters.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>We continue the conversation about fantasies but turn it towards the topics of self-control and desire.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/fantasies-about-a-wifes-past/">Fantasies About A Wife’s Past #506</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a couple who wonder if allergens can be passed through semen and what are steps to take to prevent this from affecting his wife.</p> <p>Another discussion of the higher desire and lower desire dilemma in married sex.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>An email from a husband who is really turned on by his wife's past sexual encounters. Is this wrong or sinful?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/allergic-to-sex/">Allergic to Sex #505</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A husband feels so stuck in a marriage with really lousy sex that's he's thinking of leaving because he's afraid he'll cheat.</p> <p>Another husband emails asking for our thoughts on times when there is expected sex and the amount of pressure his wife feels during those times. </p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Intimacy in marriage part 4. Why listening is so hard when building more intimacy. </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/rather-leave-than-cheat/">Rather Leave than Cheat #504</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A voicemail from a husband with three questions about his marriage.</p> <p>An email from a newer into marriage couple asking for resources to help spice things up.</p> <p>An email from a wife whose husband has turned into a lazy lover since introducing some sex toys into their encounters together.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>How to address the conflict and struggle that comes with being more intimate with your spouse.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/lazy-lover/">Lazy Lover #503</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the 2021 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway is now open. Click here to learn more. </p> <p>An email from a husband who married a woman who was married before but he married as a virgin in his 40s.</p> <p>What are our thoughts on the Purity Movements that many of us grew up in and its impact on our married lives as adults.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Dealing with roommate syndrome in marriage.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Hello Fresh: Visit https://HelloFresh.com/smr10 and use code smr10 for 10 free meals, including free shipping!</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/purity-movements/">Purity Movements #502</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>As we enter into 2021 - what are your 3 Words to help shape your year?</p> <p>An email from a husband, on behalf of his wife, asking about how to venture into the world of self-exploration and sex toys.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Perhaps there is a better definition for intimacy. And this definition could change everything.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/self-exploration/">Self Exploration #501</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Several members of the SMR Nation join Pam and I as we celebrate 500 episodes. Come enjoy the party!</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>What have we learned from hosting over 500 episodes of hosting SMR?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Hello Fresh: Visit HelloFresh.com/smr10 and use code smr10 for 10 free meals, including free shipping!</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/lets-celebrate-500-episodes/">Let’s Celebrate 500 Episodes #500</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A wife emails us to point out that we have missed the boat when it comes to husbands letting themselves go physically and how that impacts sex.</p> <p>An email from a newlywed with a couple of questions about how to last longer and how to change up the order of things when sex is happening.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>What are some simple things we can do each and every day to increase our connection in marriage and life?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/simple-dailies/">Simple Dailies #499</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Stephen Snyder joins me again to talk about all things sex. Namely, what if we're doing it all wrong?</p> <p>To learn more about Dr Snyder check out his site https://www.sexualityresource.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Stephen and I shift the conversation to the statement he's made before about how better communication can ruin sex.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/doing-it-wrong/">Doing It Wrong? #498</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Tripp Lanier, the host of The New Man Podcast, joins me today to talk about how playing it safe in life will dampen, if not destroy passion and energy in life and marriage.</p> <p>Hear more from Tripp here https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Tripp and I continue the conversation about living a dangerous life and how this has played out in Tripp's personal life.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>AcornTV: Escape to Britain and beyond without leaving your seat. Try Acorn TV free for 30 days, by going to https://acorn.tv and use our promo code smr.</p> <p>Hello Fresh: Visit https://HelloFresh.com/smr90 and use code smr90 to get a total of $90 off, including free shipping on your first box.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/being-dangerous/">Being Dangerous #497</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Pam and I have a Coffee Shop Conversation about the question: How often are complaints by your spouse heard as a request?</p> <p>An email from a husband who repeatedly is looking for ways to get his wife interested in sex, yet is met with phrases like "All you ever think about is sex" or "Quit looking at me like a piece of meat."</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>What is it that makes us so afraid of being alone? Does the idea of sitting alone in a room with no distractions terrify you?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/complaint-or-request/">Complaint or Request #496</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr J.W. Freiberg, "Terry", joins me to discuss the epidemic of loneliness. It is a far too common issue and has negative results on our health and life.</p> <p>Learn more about Terry at his site http://thelonelinessbooks.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Terry and I continue our conversation about loneliness - in particular the seasons of loneliness that we all will face.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>Story Worth: Give your loved ones the gift of spending time together, wherever you live. https://storyworth.com/smr</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/loneliness/">Loneliness #495</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Laurie Mintz joins me again to discuss the route to female orgasms as well as their importance.</p> <p>Learn more about Laurie here https://www.drlauriemintz.com/</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/dont-be-ilcliterate/">Don’t Be Ilcliterate #494</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Larry Hagner from Dad Edge Podcast joins me to discuss to role and importance men play in fatherhood, marriage and the world.</p> <p>Hear more from Larry here https://gooddadproject.com/podcast/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Pam gives me her take on Larry and I's conversation about men.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>AcornTV: Escape to Britain and beyond without leaving your seat. Try Acorn TV free for 30 days, by going to https://acorn.tv and use our promo code smr.</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/the-dad-edge/">The Dad Edge #493</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>We go through a marriage quiz to see how well we are handling the romantic side of our marriage.</p> <p>An email from a wife who is growing in self-confidence, yet it's really disrupting her husband and their marriage. </p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>There are 7 losing strategies we often use when we don't get our way. How many of these do you use?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Hello Fresh: Visit www.HelloFresh.com/smr90 and use code smr90 to get a total of $90 off, including free shipping on your first box.</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/what-was-the-last-time/">When Was The Last Time… #492</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Do you spend money like a Millennial?</p> <p>An email from a wife who experiences orgasms only in her sleep, and is also married to a narcissist.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>More questions to ask yourself when you are attempting to address the problems in life, not just alleviate the pain.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/i-only-orgasm-in-my-sleep/">I Only Orgasm In My Sleep #491</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a listener asking for our thoughts on if it's okay for her and her husband to film one of their sexual encounters.</p> <p>An email from a husband wanting to know how to find the middle ground between he and his wife's desire levels.</p> <p>A wife wants to know how to find sex positive friends.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>What's the difference between seeking help and resources to alleviate the pain in life vs addressing the problems in life?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/filming-sex/">Filming Sex #490</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today's show ...</p> <p>Jessa Zimmerman joins me today to let the SMRNation know about our free webinar - How To Help Your Partner Want More Sex WITHOUT Feeling Pressure or Obligation - on Tuesday, October 20, 2020 at 7 PM Central Time. Register for free by clicking here.</p> <p>Jessa also sticks around to answer some questions from the Nation.</p> <p>On the Xtended version (which is available to all today) ...</p> <p>Pam and I talk about the impact Dr David Schnarch has had our our marriage and my profession.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/intimacy-with-ease/">Intimacy With Ease #489</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation with Erin Ramachandran, who along with her husband have founded Mental Health Strong. A resource aimed to help married couples when one spouse suffers from a mental illness.</p> <p>Hear her story and what they've created to help lots of other marriages alongside their own.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Erin and I continue the conversation about what are some practical steps couples who face mental illnesses can take, alone and together.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/mental-illness-and-marriage/">Mental Illness and Marriage #488</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A husband who has struggled with his weight all his life emails to tell us about how his wife has told him she is not attracted to him physically and he's afraid his marriage may wind up sexless.</p> <p>A wife emails her surprise to hear how often other married couples have sex because in her marriage it only happens a handful of times per year.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Why do we lie? Are we all liars? And how do you address the lies your spouse may tell or have told throughout your marriage?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/are-we-all-liars/">Are We All Liars? #487</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A caller asking how she can help her husband's performance anxiety issue.</p> <p>An email from a husband asking about the difference between telling your spouse vs asking.</p> <p>A wife is wondering if her perspective as the higher desire is wrong.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Indecisiveness in life and sex. Many people face it - how do you confront it better?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/indecisiveness/">Indecisiveness #486</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Marni Feuerman joins me as we discuss the times when couples may need discernment counseling. What is it and how does it work?</p> <p>Learn more about Dr Marni at her site https://thetalkingsolution.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Dr Marni and I continue the conversation by talking about the things we see in couples seeking our help that will get in the way of successful therapy.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>Hello Fresh: Visit www.HelloFresh.com/smr80 and use code smr80 to get a total of $80 off, including free shipping on your first box.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/discernment-counseling/">Discernment Counseling #485</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a listener concerned about some of the guests we have on our show and the fact that their values may go against the values of SMR.</p> <p>A follow up on the topic of swallowing with an email from a listener who wants us to explore another aspect of oral sex.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Let's face it, it's hard to escape the world of guilt and shame when it comes to sex. Today we talk about how to address it in your life and marriage. </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/feel-guilt-and-shame/">I Still Feel Guilt and Shame #484</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Amy Killen joins me to discuss several of the myths that people face when it comes to aging and sex and sexual dysfunctions.</p> <p>Learn more about Dr Amy on her site - https://dramykillen.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Dr Amy and I continue the conversation and move into the solutions that many people may not know about when it comes to addressing their sexual function.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Intimately Us: The fun and flirty app for married couples that want to spice up their sex life and deepen their intimate connection. Find it in any App Store or at https://intimately.us/</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sexual-dysfunction/">Sexual Dysfunction #483</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A voicemail from a wife who doesn't want to swallow, even when her husband is using the line "If you love me you'd be willing to do this."</p> <p>An email from a husband who found our new App Intimately Us (https://intimately.us) and his wife refuses to engage with the App along with him.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Negotiating sex in marriage - choreplay vs foreplay - and who are we at our core? We go deep this time in the XTD content.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Intimately Us: The fun and flirty app for married couples that want to spice up their sex life and deepen their intimate connection. Find it in any App Store or at https://intimately.us/</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/swallowing/">Swallowing #482</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Today Hilary Jacobs Hendel joins me to talk about her book It's Not Always Depression, and the Change Triangle.</p> <p>You can learn more about Hilary on her site https://www.hilaryjacobshendel.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>We continue the conversation with Hilary Jacobs Hendel and move into how the Change Triangle plays out in sex.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/the-change-triangle/">The Change Triangle #481</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>