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<p>Recorded LIVE at the 2022 SMR Getaway.</p> <p>A husband had a testicle removed due to cancer (which was caught early). He was told by his doctor that his libido may increase and the remedy to any discomfort is ejaculation. This puts his wife is a tough spot.</p> <p>A husband wants his wife to wear lingerie and wants to go down on her after sexual intercourse. His side - he loves it. Her side - not so much.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>An encore conversation how to bring up your desires when you may disrupt the status quo.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Adventure Challenge …In Bed Book: Get 20% off and add play back to foreplay in your marriage. Use our code SMR20 at https://www.theadventurechallenge.com/</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/testicular-cancer/">Testicular Cancer #580</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Recorded LIVE at the 2022 SMR Getaway.</p> <p>A caller has an issue with a statement made from a past show and left us a message asking if we would tell our daughter the same thing I said on the air.</p> <p>A husband is suffering from retroactive jealousy over things his wife did before they were married and even before they had met.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>An encore conversation about our fear of being alone.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at https://manscaped.com</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/retroactive-jealousy/">Retroactive Jealousy #579</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An encore episode of a conversation with Vanessa Marin, a fellow sex therapist, about the most common issues couples face in their sex lives today. You can find more about Vanessa on her site https://vmtherapy.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>Vanessa and I continue the conversation about sex, only this time we’re focusing solely on the female orgasm.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Adventure Challenge ...In Bed Book: Get 20% off and add play back to foreplay in your marriage. Use our code SMR20 at https://www.theadventurechallenge.com/</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/encore-of-the-female-orgasm/">Encore of The Female Orgasm #578</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I'm joined by Dr Carole Hooven, a Harvard Lecturer, as we discuss her study and work on the science of testosterone.</p> <p>Why is it that this hormone is so important and so divisive?</p> <p>Learn more about Dr Carole here - http://www.carolehooven.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>Dr Carole and I continue the conversation only get more personal. She even turns the tables on the interview!</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Adventure Challenge ...In Bed Book: Get 20% off and add play back to foreplay in your marriage. Use our code SMR20 at https://www.theadventurechallenge.com/</p> <p>Better Help: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/lets-talk-about-testosterone/">Lets Talk About Testosterone #577</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An encore presentation of the conversation with Dr Laurie Mintz, author of Becoming Cliterate. We talk about the orgasm gap, why it exists and what couples can do about it.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>Dr Laurie continues with me again to discuss the route to female orgasms as well as their importance.</p> <p>Learn more about Laurie here https://www.drlauriemintz.com/</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Hello Fresh: Take the stress out of meal time at your house https://hellofresh.com/smr16 use code smr16 for 16 free meals, and 3 free gifts.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/cliteracy/">Cliteracy #576</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A husband who has had a past struggle with porn and sex addiction is in the midst of an agreed upon abstinence period with his wife. She says it will take a long time before sex is introduced again in the marriage. What can he do?</p> <p>A wife went through old voicemails left for her from her husband while they were dating and he sounds like a completely different man compared to now. How should she react to the heartbreak she feels now?</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>A more dominant personality wife gets blamed for her husbands decisions and results when he followed her thoughts. He claims "when mama ain't happy, no one is" How can she address this dynamic? </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at https://manscaped.com</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/abstinence-in-marriage/">Abstinence In Marriage #575</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Pam and I work through a potpourri of questions today ....</p> <p>A husband is struggling with the idea of consent in marriage, even when his wife has given it in some areas.</p> <p>Wife regularly gives her husband a "hand" yet it's feeling too transactional now.</p> <p>A husband told his wife she was great at blow jobs early on in their marriage, yet she's not. Now what should he do?</p> <p>A wife has a husband who has lost lots of weight yet still has more to go and lots of loose skin now.</p> <p>A wife who has never orgasmed and a husband who really wants her too.</p> <p>A woman is saving herself for marriage, but what if she winds up stuck with a micro-penis?</p> <p>Been married for 7 months, and sex sucks.</p> <p>A wife found out her husband struggled with porn and now she is struggling to not worry about what he's thinking about or wanting to do during sex with her.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Adventure Challenge ...In Bed Book: Get 20% off and add play back to foreplay in your marriage. Use our code SMR20 at https://www.theadventurechallenge.com/</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/qa-potpourri/">Q&A Potpourri: Consent, Oral Sex, Waiting #574</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A best of SMR episode with an email from a higher desire wife that's in a catch 22.</p> <p>An interview with Pam Costa about her journey and research into female desire. How her experience of talking about the topic, taboos, and hesitancies with other women dramatically improved her desire levels.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>I continue the conversation with Pam Costa about the research project she created to study female desire levels and the practical steps everyone can talk to help themselves in this area of life.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at https://manscaped.com</p> <p>Hello Fresh: Take the stress out of meal time at your house https://hellofresh.com/smr16 use code smr16 for 16 free meals, including free<br /> shipping!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/best-of-smr-awaken-female-desire/">Best Of SMR: Awaken Female Desire #573</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a husband wanting to explore some new things during sex with his wife, yet she takes this as she's not enough for him.</p> <p>A husband emails us about his never being attracted to his wife, even while they were dating. What are his options now?</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>How do our family of origin patterns play out in our lives and marriages today?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Adventure Challenge ...In Bed Book: Get 20% off and add play back to foreplay in your marriage. Use our code SMR20 at https://www.theadventurechallenge.com</p> <p>Better Help: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/not-enough/">Not Enough #572</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A followup voicemail regarding episode #569 - what are some better questions and conversations starters to address difficult issues in marriage?</p> <p>An email from a husband who's wife experiences pain during sex, and while it's better, how do they change things up a bit when there's anxiety about possible pain?</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>Pam and I discuss an email from a listener and their framework of where feelings come from. Which leads to the question, which comes first, the chicken or the egg?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/feelings-and-meanings/">Feelings and Meanings #571</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I'm joined by Brad and Marilyn Rhoads, co-founders of Grace Marriage. Hear us talk about their story and how it applies to most every marriage.</p> <p>Learn more about Grace Marriage here - https://www.gracemarriage.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>Today we revisit a segment from a prior episode in the archives with this Best Of topic - I am not who you think I am, I am not who I think I am, I am who I think you think I am.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Adventure Challenge ...In Bed Book: Get 20% off and add play back to foreplay in your marriage. Use our code SMR20 at https://www.theadventurechallenge.com/</p> <p>Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at https://manscaped.com</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/grace-marriage/">Grace Marriage #570</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A husband is stuck in a scary place in his marriage. His wife says she has no attraction towards him, at least physically. Yet she also is fine with the state of their marriage. He's not. What can he do?</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>How do we use our time? Where are there spaces (white space) in our days to reset, recharge, or create?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/wife-is-fine-with-being-fine/">Wife Is Fine With Being Fine #569</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I'm joined today Kimberly Beam Holmes, of It Starts With Attraction, and we dive into the world of attraction. Or as she had framed it ... PIES.</p> <p>Learn more about Kimberly on her sites<br /> https://marriagehelper.com/<br /> https://piesuniversity.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>Kimberly and I go into a more personal conversation about growing up behind the scenes in the marriage help world, and living as a couple who helps marriages. </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better Help: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The SMR Academy: Get XTD content and support from the experts and an engaged community. https://smr.fm/smracademy</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/attraction/">Attraction #568</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I'm joined today by Tornus and Smartypants, of Full Circle Kink, as they take us on an exploration in the world of kink and BDSM.</p> <p>Communication is king when venturing into today's topic ... and all sexual encounters for that matter.</p> <p>Learn more on their site - https://www.fullcirclekink.com/ </p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>We continue the conversation with Tornus and Smartypants and their personal journey into the world of kink. Plus, they give some great tips on equipment or first steps people often think they should take, but not according to them.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Hello Fresh: Take the stress out of meal time at your house https://hellofresh.com/smr16 use code smr16 for 16 free meals, including free<br /> shipping!</p> <p>The SMR Academy: Get XTD content and support from the experts and an engaged community. https://smr.fm/smracademy</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/exploring-kink-and-bdsm/">Exploring Kink and BDSM #567</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A wife suffered from insomnia for a while in her marriage, and it wrecked their sex life. How do they get it back now that the insomnia is no longer the issue? Plus, when she feels desire to initiate, she often doesn't - because he would like that. What's that about?</p> <p>An email and voicemail adding more to last week's conversation about the couple where vacation sex has decreased. A few additional points to consider.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>A wife repeatedly hears the message from her husband that she doesn't show him any respect. What exactly does that mean?</p> <p>And are we even owed something like that in our marriage?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at https://manscaped.com</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/respect/">Respect #566</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A husband is frustrated because while he usually could rely on vacation sex being adventurous and frequent with his wife, something's changed with her and them lately.</p> <p>A voicemail asking some questions about Erich Fromm's book The Art Of Loving. Class is in session.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>A wife with the trauma of sexual assault in her past is now struggling with how her husband is sometimes trying to guilt her into more sex. What's her best response?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/even-vacation-sex-has-decreased/">Even Vacation Sex Has Decreased #565</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A husband wants to learn how to change up sexual encounters with his wife so the experience will last longer - but changing it up ruins it for his wife.</p> <p>A follow up to the One Flesh episode from a husband who is the same situation with his wife - she too has not interest in sex or seeking help for their sex life.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>Some newlyweds reach out for help in how to get a wife more open to the possibilities of doing more than missionary position during sex.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better Help: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sex-scripts-and-stories/">Sex Scripts and Stories #564</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Today I'm joined by J Parker, of Hot Holy and Humorous, and we discuss the plight of the higher desire wife.</p> <p>It's more common than we think, it's impacting younger people's marriage more than ever and there are several reasons why we think this is the case.</p> <p>What are these reasons? Join us today to hear more.</p> <p>You can find J's work on her site - https://hotholyhumorous.com/</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/higher-desire-wife/">Higher Desire Wife #563</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Chelom Leavitt joins me as we discuss her research and work on being more sexually mindful. </p> <p>You can find more about Dr Chelom here - https://www.chelomleavitt.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>Dr Chelom and I discuss the differences between differentiation theory and attachment theory. </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/being-sexually-mindful/">Being Sexually Mindful #562</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A follow up to a couple of segments from Episode #559. Was I too harsh in my wording?</p> <p>A couple is exploring the idea of orgasm denial - where there will be no orgasms for him unless he accomplishes certain tasks or fulfills something set for him by his wife.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>How exactly do you work to better yourself? It's a phrase we often use - but what are some tangible ways this is accomplished?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/orgasm-denial/">Orgasm Denial #561</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Today we dive into a topic that is sadly far too reaching in our world - domestic and spiritual abuse. Colleen Ramser joins me in our discussion about how these types of traumas impact both men and women.</p> <p>We also get into how each of us who have been impacted by this type of trauma can heal going forward. </p> <p>Learn more about Colleen here - http://www.colleenramserlpc.com/</p> <p>And check out her course here - https://www.colleenramser.com/</p> <p>Enjoy the show! 9g29qpwv</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/domestic-and-spiritual-abuse/">Domestic and Spiritual Abuse #560</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A follow to a message from an Instagram Q&A I was a part of over Valentine's Weekend.</p> <p>A wife tried out something new in sex, didn't like it, yet her husband keeps pushing for it.</p> <p>A husband wants to introduce a prostate massager during mutual masturbation, his wife isn't ok with it.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>How do you frame healthy conversations around affection, passion and sexual release in marriage? Particularly as it pertains to masturbation?</p> <p>PLUS - XTD feed members get to hear a new version and music in the intro and outro of the show. We'd love your feedback as we kick around ways to keep the show fresh and evolving.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/tried-it-dont-like-it/">Tried It, Don’t Like It #559</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Today, everyone gets the full show …</p> <p>Dr Robert Glover joins me again as we dive into the roommate syndrome often found in marriage.</p> <p>What are the factors at play that cause this to happen? But more importantly, what can we do about it?</p> <p>Find more of Dr Glover here - https://www.drglover.com/</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/roommates-not-lovers/">Roommates Not Lovers #558</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A followup to Episode #555 - what about the Scriptural concept of marriage is described as being one flesh?</p> <p>A wife emails as lower desire, yet her husband has given up initiating and expects her to take it over. He's even said to her "when you're interested in it, you know where to find me." </p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>We switch gears and discuss the topic of trauma again, only through a slightly different framework.</p> <p>We also give some ideas on what to do when triggers from the past occur in the present.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/one-flesh/">One Flesh #557</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Juli Slattery joins me as we talk through her decision to re-write her very first book, Finding the Hero In Your Husband. </p> <p>What's new, and what has changed in society and the Christian culture since it was originally written?</p> <p>Find more of Dr Juli here - https://www.authenticintimacy.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>We all face disappointment in life and marriage- but what if disappointment is actually a path to more intimacy? </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/finding-your-power/">Finding Your Power #556</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A voicemail from a couple looking for more resources to help them explore the spiritual and tantric side of sex.</p> <p>A wife calls in wanting to know how to address the desire differences between her and her husband. She wants to keep sex special and not so often, after all, it's her body so she should be able to determine when and how often.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>Trauma impacts lots of people and creates lasting impacts for some. But has the word trauma changed in meaning and usage?</p> <p>That's what we discuss this week in the Xtended content.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/its-my-body/">It’s My Body #555</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Today we hear the story of Clinton and Charity Munoz of Restored 2 More, and how pornography almost destroyed their marriage, and Clinton's life.</p> <p>Along the way, they were given the most destructive advice about how to address this issue as a couple. Luckily, they overcame that advice and have gone on to create a ministry that helps other couples dealing with struggle and crisis from pornography or other issues in marriage.</p> <p>Check them out here - https://restored2more.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>We go deeper into their story, but this time we explore how their journey impacted Charity and what they've learned along the way together.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at https://manscaped.com</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/worst-advice-about-porn/">The Worst Advice About Porn Ever Given #554</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today’s show …</p> <p>A voicemail from a listener pushing back on how we answered a wife in a prior episode. He believes she should have been told to put on her "big girl panties" - and he's right. </p> <p>A husband has asked for some specific sexual favors for his birthday. His wife isn't usually on board with what he's asked for, yet she's done most of them. Should he speak up about the remaining one yet to be done? </p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>We believe in setting a course for the new year, but not with new year's resolutions. We love the idea of using Three Words to act as a compass for your life and relationships. </p> <p>We unpack the idea behind the three words, share our words, and ask you to join us with your words. </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/birthday-favors/">Birthday Favors #553</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a husband wanting more than just functional/duty sex with his wife.</p> <p>A caller wondering about more information about masturbation and is it a sin.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>Expectations. We all have them. Where do they come from and what do we do with them?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/best-of-smr-masturbation-and-expectations/">Best Of SMR: Masturbation and Expectations #552</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Pam goes through a Sex Ed Quiz again. Follow along to see how you do.</p> <p>A wife wants to know how to best co-parent with her step-kids mom, who is now in a same-sex relationship.</p> <p>A husband wants to know how to break out of the sexual rut he and his wife are in currently.</p> <p>How do you address times when there's an agreement for a sexual encounter yet it doesn't happen?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/break-out-of-a-sexual-rut/">Break Out Of A Sexual Rut #551</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation with Gary Thomas about his newest book, Married Sex.</p> <p>You can learn about Gary and his work here - https://garythomas.com</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>Gary and I have a conversation about the pushback and reaction to his book thus far.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/married-sex/">Married Sex #550</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Sheila Wray Gregoire joins me as we talk about her newest book, The Great Sex Rescue.</p> <p>Learn more about Sheila on her site https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A conversation I had with Sheila about the concerns I had regarding her book and the tone of her writing and responses since publication.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at https://manscaped.com</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/great-sex-rescue/">Great Sex Rescue #549</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a wife who wants to know if asking questions to her husband about his past struggle with porn will increase the temptation.</p> <p>A voicemail from a wife wanting help understanding arousal and attraction.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>Pam and I work through a gridlock script from a member of the SMR Nation.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/arousal-vs-attraction/">Arousal vs Attraction #548</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A voicemail from a Rape Crisis Counselor concerned about one of our past messages of leading towards what you want in sex.</p> <p>How do you spice up sex when trying to conceive? Dr. Laurie Mintz joins me to cover this email.</p> <p>On the Xtended version …</p> <p>A deeper conversation with Dr Mintz about her work helping women who are too tired for sex.</p> <p>Find more of her work here – http://drlauriemintz.com/</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/best-of-smr-too-tired-for-sex/">Best Of SMR: Too Tired For Sex #547</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>After our segment on BDSM in Episode #541 we received a couple of emails about how we totally missed the mark are came across as judgmental. Today we address this more.</p> <p>A husband wants to rim his wife yet she's not comfortable with the act. She wants to go skydiving which he's not comfortable with. What about an exchange?</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A role play of how to address gridlock issues, based from a segment in last week's Xtended content.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at https://manscaped.com</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/if-i-do-this-will-you-do-that/">If I Do This Will You Do That #546</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I'm joined by Dr Laurie Watson and we talk about how breast cancer impacts a couple's married life, sex life and desire - plus the journey for both spouses facing this battle.</p> <p>Learn more about Dr Laurie here - https://www.foreplayrst.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version of today's show ...</p> <p>Laurie and I talk about the yin and the yang of the energy in a couples sex life.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Rekindle and Connect Online Course: Get in-depth help for your marriage via 7 video sessions to work through at your own pace. https://smr.fm/rekindle</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/dealing-with-breast-cancer/">Dealing With Breast Cancer #545</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Today I'm joined by a colleague Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and we talk about the marriages where everything seems to be great - except in one area. What's happening here?</p> <p>Plus, how do you address resentment in marriage and life?</p> <p>Learn more about Dr Jennifer here - https://www.finlayson-fife.com/</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/resentment/">Resentment #544</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Two emails from wives who do not feel chosen in their marriages. One wife has trouble trusting because of this and past betrayals from her husband. The other wife is married to a man who says he wouldn't get married if he were to do it all over again.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>With the huge volume of information and noise in our world, we talk about the benefits of an attention diet. And how to go on one.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/not-feeling-chosen/">Not Feeling Chosen #543</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I'm joined by Kelly Casperson, MD as we discuss the limiting beliefs many people have when it comes to their bodies and their abilities in sex and life.</p> <p>To learn more about Dr Kelly visit her site - https://www.kellycaspersonmd.com/</p> <p>On the Extended Version ...</p> <p>Dr Kelly and I discuss where orgasms reside in the brain!</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The SMR Academy: Get XTD content and support from the experts and an engaged community. https://smr.fm/smracademy</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/you-are-not-broken/">You Are Not Broken #542</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>This week we are celebrating SMR's 10 year anniversary!!!<br /> On the Regular version of today's show ...</p> <p>Some thank you's are in order as we have been on the air for 10 years now. Thank you to the SMRNation for showing up each week and speaking up about the topics and issues you want to learn more about.</p> <p>An email from a listener curious about BDSM as a Christian couple.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>What are the secrets of couples that have great sex? We will share 8.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/secrets-of-great-sex/">Secrets Of Great Sex #541</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Can sex be an idol. How would you know?</p> <p>A dating couple want to know more about what options are there for birth control as they prepare for the marriage. The pill had too many side effects for the wife and she's concerned about condoms, even though her soon to be husband says he's fine with them.</p> <p>A newlywed couple is averaging sex 2 times a month, not at all what she thought would be the case. Is there something wrong?</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Could the higher desire/lower desire labels also be limiting to the people who find comfort in knowing they are one or the other in their marriage?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Hello Fresh: Take the stress out of meal time at your house https://hellofresh.com/smr14 use code smr14 for 14 free meals, including free<br /> shipping!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sex-as-an-idol/">Sex As An Idol #540</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I'm joined by Dr Emily Jamea as we discuss the distracted mind, or put another way - how to address the times when you can't turn off you mind.</p> <p>Learn more about Dr Jamea on her site - https://emilyjamea.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Dr Emily and I discuss the dynamic in marriage where the wife is the higher desire spouse.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/cant-turn-my-mind-off/">Can’t Turn My Mind Off #539</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A wife gets turned off when her husband wants to do some novel things in their sex life. How can she address him and the situations better?</p> <p>A husband emails about a wife who has lost all desire and libido due to a medication she is on. How can her get her more engaged in their sex life so it doesn't feel one-sided?</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>There is a Scripture that says, All things are permissible, but not all things are beneficial. How does this apply to our marriage and sex life?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at https://manscaped.com</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/all-things-are-permissible/">All Things Are Permissible #538</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Adding music to your sex life in marriage. Join the conversation at my.smr.fm.</p> <p>A husband is in a 2 year stretch of sexlessness. How can he get his wife, who is also miserable, on board with wanting to improve things?</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>What happens when the low desire spouse initiates sex, yet is shut down by their high desire spouse?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/when-the-low-desire-initiates/">When The Low Desire Initiates #537</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>There is a cure for ticklishness. Plus this same cure works to create deeper erotic connections!</p> <p>Two newlywed couples email us about issues they are having with sex - within the first year of their marriages.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A husband has no attraction towards his wife, and while he kinda thought this may be an issue while they were dating, their honeymoon confirmed it. What should he do now?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/not-attracted-to-my-spouse/">Not Attracted To My Spouse #536</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A military wife wants to know how to encourage her husband to be interested in more romantic sex, oh, and she's the higher desire for all the other kinds of sex as well.</p> <p>A wife parents different than her husband, and his manner of parenting is a real turn off sexually.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Our Instagram account got quite a bit of pushback over a post we ran about adding a third person to the bedroom. This is my response to the reactions.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/fantasies-of-a-third/">Fantasies of a Third #535</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A follow up from an email on last week's show.</p> <p>A newlywed asks for tips to help prepare or avoid the issues that he hears other couples inevitably face in marriage.</p> <p>A woman is experiencing some self-image issues and marital strife resulting from a botched breast reduction procedure.</p> <p>Could it be that women are more sexual than men?</p> <p>A couple both experience orgasms during sex regularly, yet the issue for the husband is how his wife achieves them.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/are-women-more-sexual-than-men/">Are Women More Sexual Than Men? #534</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A husband takes too long to orgasm during oral sex, and too quick during PV sex. </p> <p>A wife wants help understanding how to help her husband address the length of time it takes him to climax.</p> <p>A woman has been dating a Christian man for 9 years, who simply won't commit to marriage. </p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>What do you do when one spouse wants to avail themselves to medical resources and vaccines and the other spouse is completely opposed?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/too-quick-too-slow/">Too Quick Too Slow #533</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Announcing that registration for the 2022 SMR Getaway is open now ... come join us in downtown Indianapolis! Learn more and register here. </p> <p>A follow up email from a listener about dealing with guilt and resentment.</p> <p>A question asking if a spouse who refuses to address their role in a sexless marriage is actually better termed as infidelity.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>We've received several emails and messages about how the aspect of consent plays out in marriage. Today we begin the conversation on this tricky subject.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/consent/">Consent #532</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A look back at one of our favorite episodes according to the Nation.</p> <p>Two voicemails with some additional ideas to explore from a prior email from a husband who's wife only likes missionary position sex.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A discussion about how I believe the messages found in three popular marriage books, The 5 Love Languages, His Needs Her Needs, and Love And Respect, are used in the wrong ways.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/best-of-smr-missionary-position-and-love-languages/">Best Of SMR: Missionary Position and Love Languages #531</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>