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<p>As a gift from us to you this Holiday Season both versions of today's episode are free. </p> <p>Today we are joined by author Gary Thomas as he discusses his new book, When To Walk Away: Finding Freedom From Toxic People. </p> <p>You can learn more about Gary and his books here - http://www.garythomas.com/</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/when-to-walk-away/">When To Walk Away #445</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a husband concerned about how the Holiday Hallmark movies impact his wife and their marriage.</p> <p>Plus a husband seeks our help in understanding how to play with his wife’s vagina.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/holiday-movies-and-vaginas/">Holiday Movies and Vaginas #444</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A sex ed quiz for my wife and co-host, Pam.</p> <p>An email from a listener asking for a reading list to help him not only in the counseling world but also in marriage.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/reading-list/">Reading List #443</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation with Dr Sarah Hunter Murray, a therapist who has a new book exploring the science of men, sex and relationships.</p> <p>Check out her work and pick up her book here https://sarahhuntermurray.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Dr Sarah joins me to answer a question from a husband whose wife initiated sex and then informed him she did so only because she knows he needs it.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/not-always-in-the-mood/">Not Always In The Mood #442</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a listener about how to bring up the idea that his parents need counseling.</p> <p>Plus a 2 part email from a higher desire wife who wants help addressing the desire difference and oral sex.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A discussion about how to recover from fights in married life.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/help-my-parents-and-confronting-desire-differences/">Help My Parents and Confronting Desire Differences #441</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation with Dr Laura Dabney, a Psychiatrist who works with clients by helping the deal with emotions better - especially the emotions we've often deemed as bad.</p> <p>Check out her work here https://www.lauradabney.com/</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/selfish-and-needy/">Selfish and Needy #440</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today’s show … A conversation with Dr Claudia Grauf-Grounds about her research and work around the subject of conflict and fighting in married life. Check out her work here https://drclaudiagg.com/ On the Xtended version … We continue the conversation with Dr Claudia about her thought about the Marriage and Family […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/had-this-fight-before/">We’ve Had This Fight Before #439</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today’s show … An email from a listener who wishes we would have addressed the “you complete me” line differently in episode #431. A caller wanting information about Sensate Focus exercises for their sex life. And an email from a wife whose husband found a vibrator she bought and completely […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sensate-focus/">Sensate Focus #438</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Jennifer Findlayson-Fife, a fellow therapist and we discuss the dynamic of desire differences and the lower desire wife. Learn more about Dr Jennifer at http://www.finlayson-fife.com On the Xtended version … Dr Jennifer and I discuss her research with LDS Women and sexuality and […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/the-lower-desire-wife/">The Lower Desire Wife #437</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Deb Thomas, a fellow LMFT and Sex Therapist and we discuss how metaphors can be helpful when it comes to addressing your sex life. Learn more about Deb at https://nwioi.com/ On the Xtended version … Deb Thomas and I continue our conversation although for […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/metaphors-and-sex-therapy/">Metaphors and Sex Therapy #436</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Steven Stosny as we discuss how abuse happens in marriage and relationships – and how compassion is the key to breaking the patterns. Learn more about Dr Stosny at his site https://www.compassionpower.com/ On the Xtended version … Pam and I have a conversation […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/abuse-in-marriage/">Abuse In Marriage #435</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s show … We’ve combined the Regular and the XTD versions into one show – this week only. The whole show we are talking about trust and hurt … and how there is a tremendous difference in handling these two aspects of betrayal, lies, and broken promises. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/trust-and-hurt/">Trust and Hurt #434</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … My wife Pam is tested on her knowledge with a 10 Question Sex Quiz And an email from a husband looking for our thoughts about helping his marriage and their struggles with weight, desire, infertility and adoption. On the Xtended version … What’s the difference between arousal […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/arousal-and-desire/">Arousal and Desire #433</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … A conversation with Ann Gadd, author of Sex and the Enneagram. You can learn more about Ann by visiting her website. You can also email her at [email protected] On the Xtended version … The continued conversation with Ann Gadd. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sex-and-the-enneagram/">Sex and the Enneagram #432</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … A conversation with Jeff Abraham, the CEO of Promescent, and how to create intimacy in marriage by being willing to address the struggles many men and women face when it comes to sex and life together. On the Xtended version … How do you adjust better with […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/challenges-intimacy/">The Challenges of Intimacy #431</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … An email from listeners asking for our take on the use of the “f” word in married life and sex. A voicemail from a higher desire husband who takes too much of his cue from his lower desire wife when it comes to their sex life. A […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/the-f-word/">The F Word #430</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … A husband emails looking for help for he and his wife regarding the fantasies she often turns to for sexual arousal. A caller asking for followup on one of Dr Glover’s ideas about the differences between men and women. On the Xtended version … An in-depth conversation […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/darker-fantasies/">Darker Fantasies #429</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … A husband emails to share his journey to getting his wife on board to talking more about sex and wonders why he’s not at the same level of desire as before due to the work it took to reach their current level. And Jessa Zimmerman joins me […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/spilled-milk-and-differences/">Spilled Milk and Differences #428</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a wife who has repeated attempted to educate her husband about how she wants sex to unfold, yet is still getting little to no foreplay and routine, unfulfilling sex most of the time. On the Xtended version … Should you expect your spouse to […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/being-there-for-you/">Being There For You #427</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … A couple of voicemails from members of the SMR Nation sharing some reframes of topics we’ve previously covered. One, the differences between thinkers and feelers. And two, masturbation. On the Xtended version … A deeper look at the orgasm gap in marriages today. Enjoy the show! __________ […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/reframing-orgasm-gap/">Reframing and the Orgasm Gap #426</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … How well do you do at showing the people that matter in your life that they matter? I’m joined by Dr. Robert Glover again as we discuss tests that happen in marriage between men and women. Learn more about Dr Glover here. On the Xtended version … […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/testing-solidness/">Testing Solidness #425</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A wife calls in wanting to know how to trust again after her husband disclosed his porn usage for over 12 years of their marriage. Another wife emails wanting to know how to […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/trusting-after-porn/">Trusting After Porn #424</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A wife calls in wanting more variety in her sex life – yet every time she brings it up with her husband he reverts back to what they’ve always done. And an email […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/wife-wants-variety/">Wife Wants Variety #423</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a listener asking for our thoughts regarding One Sided Sex in marriage. Taken from an article found on Psychology Today. On the Xtended version … Part two of the SMR […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/one-sided-sex-marriage/">One Sided Sex In Marriage #422</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A husband calls in with 2 questions, how can he last longer during sex and would we talk about squirting and how to explore it or if you should. On the Xtended version […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/lasting-longer-and-squirting/">Lasting Longer and Squirting #421</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … A husband looking for more information on how to present something worth wanting. A wife wanting to know how to keep triggers from happening in the bedroom. On the Xtended version … A little more on the idea of the thinking brain and the feeling brain, particularly […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/something-worth-wanting/">Something Worth Wanting #420</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … A husband is looking for how to add more variety to his sex life when his wife has fear of pain during sex. A wife describes a gridlock with her husband surrounding his higher interest in sex than hers. Can your spouse be an accountability partner in […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/boundaries/">Boundaries #419</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … Two different questions about masturbation. What if it could be reframed as a path forward and what about the woman’s side of this act? Plus a conversation with Denis Merkas from MELT, Couples Massage Courses about how massage is such a good addition to any marriage. On […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/masturbation-and-massage/">Masturbation and Massage #418</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … We don’t french kiss anymore. How can I get it started again in my marriage? Plus we’re joined by Seth and Melanie Studley from the Anatomy Of Marriage for a conversation about the idea of your accelerators and brakes in your sex life. On the Xtended version […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/accelerators-and-brakes/">Accelerators and Brakes #417</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … How do I help my spouse believe they are attractive when it’s not what they believe about themself? Plus I’m joined by Dr. Ian Kerner, the author of She Comes First, to answer a listener’s question about premature ejaculation. On the Xtended version … A deeper conversation […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/premature-ejaculation/">Premature Ejaculation #416</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … Several voicemails about the pressures that are felt in married life. From changes to sex to foreplay. On the Xtended version … Sex addiction is a term used quite a lot in the media and our culture lately. But is it accurate, real, and even an addiction […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/is-sex-addiction-real/">Is Sex Addiction Real? #415</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … Several voicemails from the SMR Nation ranging from how does a wife better handle her husband’s struggle with looking at pornography to how do you address a spouse who’s upbringing around the subject of sex created a real discomfort even talking about the subject now. On the […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/what-is-normal/">What Is Normal #414</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … What do you do when your husband goes straight for the genitalia in foreplay? A caller asking for more information about the State of the Union conversations you can have with your spouse. On the Xtended version … What if? Conflict and how this all creates a […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/state-of-the-union/">State of the Union #413</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a husband wanting more than just functional/duty sex with his wife. A caller wondering about more information about masturbation and is it a sin. On the Xtended version … Expectations. We all have them. Where do they come from and what do we do […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/masturbation-and-expectations/">Masturbation and Expectations #412</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … A couple of voicemails from members of the Sexy Marriage Nation asking for help in the conversations that take place in their marriage. An additional voicemail to add to the Oral Sex shows we’ve had lately. On the Xtended version … What are the elements necessary for […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/talking/">Talking #411</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … The full conversation with Winifred Reilly, the author of It Takes One To Tango. On the Xtended version … A conversation about the sexual styles couples […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/takes-one-tango/">It Takes One To Tango #410</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Two follow up emails from episode #407. One sharing their surprise that Schnarch’s work was not mentioned in the episode 2 weeks ago and another from […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/tastes/">Tastes and Not Going to Happen #409</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … The full conversation with Eva Mendes LMHC, NCC about her work with neurodiverse marriages – meaning when one member of the relationship is on the Autism […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/married-to-someone-on-the-spectrum/">Spectrum Relationships and Giving vs Giving In #408</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a wife who gets nauseous and gags at the thought of her husband ejaculating into her mouth – yet he would really like […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/oral-sex-gagging/">Oral Sex and Gagging #407</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Less than 5 spots available. Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a husband who had his confidence rattled by a statement his wife said about her sexual past and their present. Plus I’m […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/confidence/">Confidence #406</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Less than 10 spots available. Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Why didn’t we use the term addiction in last week’s conversation? An email from a husband asking about the differences in desire vs. priorities. On […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/hold-onto-yourself/">Hold Onto Yourself #405</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Less than 10 spots available. Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a husband looking for ways to help his wife who has pain during intercourse. Plus an email from a wife who’s husband […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/cruelty-marriage/">Cruelty In Marriage #404</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Two voicemails with some additional ideas to explore from last week’s email from a husband who’s wife only likes missionary position sex. On the Xtended version … A discussion about […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/missionary-position-love-languages/">Missionary Position and Love Languages #403</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email looking for our thoughts about his wife’s unwillingness to do anything other than missionary position sex. A discussion with Dr. Debi Silber about her work in helping women […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/healing-betrayal/">Healing From Betrayal #402</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … What this past weekend’s Super Bowl can teach you about marriage. An email from a wife looking for more information about how sex is used as […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sex-as-a-weapon/">Sex As A Weapon #401</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Celebrating 400 Episodes of Sexy Marriage Radio. Messages from the Sexy Marriage Nation as well as hear from old voices that have helped make this milestone […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/celebrating-400/">Celebrating 400 Episodes #400</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show … Is marriage more of a partnership than longing and love like we believe going into it? What makes saying […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/saying-yes/">Saying Yes #399</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show … How do you make sense of desire differences for sex when both spouses are higher desires? A follow-up to […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/desire-differences-and-communication/">Desire Differences and Communication #398</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show … A caller who practices natural family planning yet struggles with some of the roles each of them have agreed […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/repeated-betrayals-and-power/">Repeated Betrayals and Power #397</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show … A voicemail from a Rape Crisis Counselor concerned about one of our past messages of leading towards what you […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/too-tired-for-sex/">Too Tired For Sex #396</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>