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<p>We are excited to announce a brand new resource aimed to help make your marriage fun and sexy ... Intimately Us</p> <p>You can find the App in the App Stores for both Apple and Android, or read more about it here https://intimately.us/</p> <p>Today we talk with the man who helped us create this app, Dan Purcell. Learn more about Dan at https://getyourmarriageon.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Pam and I have a conversation about the importance of novelty in marriage - and some ways you can add novelty that you may not think about.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Intimately Us: The fun and flirty app for married couples that want to spice up their sex life and deepen their intimate connection. Find it in any App Store or at https://intimately.us/</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/intimately-us/">Intimately Us #480</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Kathleen Smith and I discuss her book, Everything Isn't Terrible, and how appropriate it is for our lives here in 2020.</p> <p>Learn more about Kathleen on her site https://kathleensmith.net/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Kathleen and I dive into the world of Bowen Systems Theory. Yes we geek out a little but it's a great way to understand what's going on in families.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smr.fm/smracademy</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/everything-isnt-terrible/">Everything Isn’t Terrible #479</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A voicemail from a wife looking to keep the connection and intimacy with her husband, who had a stroke 17 years ago. </p> <p>A follow up email from a listener struggling with power plays around his sexuality and sex life with his wife.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A clarification from last week's XTD content. And a conversation about the main concepts taught by Schnarch and our understanding of them.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/power-plays/">Power Plays #478</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a wife whose husband regularly views porn and when confronted replies with "I have needs."</p> <p>A husband emails in asking our thoughts about how if his sexual desire has waned over the past couple years is it because he's stopped viewing porn over that timeframe or is it because sex is only on his wife's terms.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>We share a blog post from an author where he gives 8 steps to confront your wife's sexual refusal - and our reaction.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Sponsors ...</p> <p>Hello Fresh: Visit www.HelloFresh.com/smr80 and use code smr80 to get a total of $80 off, including free shipping on your first box.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sex-is-only-on-my-spouses-terms/">Sex Is Only On My Spouse’s Terms #477</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Sheila Wray Gregoire joins me to discuss her new book 31 Ways To Great Sex, available now.<br /> Check out more of Sheila's work here - https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...<br /> Sheila and I continue a conversation about how Christianity and the church have addressed sex - especially the message towards women.</p> <p>Sponsors ...<br /> Beach Body: Try our Beach Body On Demand. Over 1300 different workouts to choose from, streamed right into your home on any device. Text SMR to 303030 to try it out for FREE.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/31-days-to-great-sex/">31 Days To Great Sex #476</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation based on two emails from listeners who are each struggling to understand and navigate a big gap in desire between themselves and their spouse. </p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>What is the difference between intention vs. action?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/intention-or-action/">Intention or Action #475</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Justin Lehmiller joins me to talk about his research surround fantasies and sex.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Justin and I continue the conversation about fantasies and discuss more about where they come from and what to do with them.</p> <p>Sponsors .. SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smr.fm/smracademy</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/fantasies-tell-me-what-you-want/">Fantasies, Tell Me What You Want #474</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today's show ...<br /> An email from a wife who has discovered the eroticism and freedom that can happen when masturbating together with her husband. </p> <p>What's the difference between sexual thoughts and lust?</p> <p>A husband wanting to know what to do when he's tried to live in a way that ignites his wife's passion (according to an old post I wrote - https://smr.fm/heads-up-husbands-5-ways-to-ignite-your-wifes-passions/) and yet his wife had an affair.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...<br /> How do you confront gridlock in your marriage and what are the forced choice dilemmas that come along with them?</p> <p>Sponsored by SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smr.fm/smracademy</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/mutual-masturbation/">Mutual Masturbation #473</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a husband who loses his erection when the direct stimulation stops. </p> <p>A wife wanting to know if there are dangers to porn use in their marriage. </p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>What's your marriage story? It's important to be living something larger than yourself and your marriage if you want to live fully alive. </p> <p>Sponsors -SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smr.fm/smracademy</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/your-marriage-story/">Your Marriage Story #472</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the regular version ... An email from a husband whose wife believes if they can't orgasm together at the same time then there must be something wrong.</p> <p>A husband seeks our thoughts on how he can reestablish connection with his wife sexually and emotionally when she doesn't really like him currently.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Pam and I talk through the concepts of desire and how it's part of our process of growth in life and marriage.</p> <p>Today's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by Beach Body On Demand. Over 1300 different workouts to choose from, streamed right into your home on any device. Text SMR to 303030 to try it out for FREE.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/simultaneous-orgasms/">Simultaneous Orgasms #471</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A voicemail from a wife wanting to increase the erogenous zones on her body.</p> <p>An email from a wife whose husband only touches her when he wants sex, usually in the middle of the night, leaving her wide awake after.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A deeper conversation about how living more from your core and as designed increases passion, energy and eroticism.</p> <p>This episode of Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by the SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smr.fm/smracademy</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/securely-attach-your-genitals/">Securely Attach Your Genitals #470</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Melanie Greenberg joins me to talk about her research surround the brain and stress.</p> <p>Read more from Melanie on her site - https://drmelaniegreenberg.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Melanie and I continue the conversation about how stress impacts married life.</p> <p>This episode of Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by the SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smr.fm/smracademy</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/stress-proof-your-brain/">Stress Proof Your Brain #469</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a husband asking for ideas on how he show more appreciation to his wife for her supporting him in some stressful times. </p> <p>A wife wants to know if there are different ways to change the way she tastes since her husband doesn't like the taste when he goes down on her. </p> <p>A voicemail from a woman who has experienced vaginismus and wants to tell her story about her experiences. The resource we mention on the show is here - https://www.womentc.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A husband in the Academy shared that his wife has come to the belief that she has not been sexually attracted to him and can't see that she will be in the future. We go deeper into what he can possibly do in this dilemma. </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>Today's episode is sponsored by Let's Get Checked: Convenient and confidential hormone testing from your own home. Get 20% off today - https://trylgc.com/smr use code SMR20</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/wife-is-not-sexually-attracted-to-me/">Wife Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me #468</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Peggy Orenstein joins me to talk about her research surround the messages girls and boys are experiencing and have experienced with the subject of sex.</p> <p>Read more from Peggy on her site - https://www.peggyorenstein.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Peggy and I continue the conversation about how the messages regarding sex and sexuality differ between parts of the world and the States.</p> <p>This episode of the Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr This episode of the Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by Beach Body: Try our Beach Body On Demand. Over 1300 different workouts to choose from, streamed right into your home on any device. Text SMR to 303030 to try it out for FREE.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/girls-and-boys-and-sex/">Girls and Boys and Sex #467</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Margaret Rutherford joins me to tackle perfectionism and how it can actually be something that is covering up depression. </p> <p>Learn more from Dr Rutherford on her site - https://drmargaretrutherford.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Dr Rutherford and I continue the conversation about how perfectionism impacts our sex life and marriage.</p> <p>This episode of the Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by Let's Get Checked: Convenient and confidential hormone testing from your own home. Get 20% off today - https://trylgc.com/smr use code SMR20</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/perfectionism/">Perfectionism #466</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a husband asking about sex during pregnancy and how they can stay connected and intimate.</p> <p>A husband is wondering how he can handle rejections so his wife doesn't feel guilty. </p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Much of what we face in married life is quite simple, if we look at it correctly. But after our view is simplified, the difficult comes into play.</p> <p>This episode of the Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by Let's Get Checked: Convenient and confidential hormone testing from your own home. Get 20% off today - https://trylgc.com/smr use code SMR20</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/simple-but-difficult/">Simple But Difficult #465</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Gary Thomas joins me again to discuss the idea of cherishing your spouse. Listen to hear how this idea transformed his marriage and sex life.</p> <p>You can learn more about Gary and his books here - http://www.garythomas.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Gary and I have a conversation about the church's history handling the topics of marriage and sex.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/cherish/">Cherish #464</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins me to answer an email from a wife who thinks she may be using sex as a form of emotional attachment and it possibly isn't helpful for her, or her husband.</p> <p>You can find more about Dr. Jennifer on her site http://www.finlayson-fife.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Dr Jennifer and I talk about the factors that can come up when the husband is the lower desire spouse.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sex-for-emotional-attachment/">Sex For Emotional Attachment #463</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation with Dr Nan Wise about her work in the field of sex and sexuality - specifically about the importance of pleasure in life.</p> <p>You can find more about Dr. Nan on her site http://askdoctornan.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Dr Nan and I talk about her research and the science of orgasms. </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/healthy-hedonism/">Healthy Hedonism #462</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation with Vanessa Marin, a fellow sex therapist, about the stress and issues couples will face in their sex lives during times of quarantine and uncertainty.</p> <p>You can find more about Vanessa on her site https://vmtherapy.com/</p> <p>Pick up her checkin for free here https://vmtherapy.com/checkin</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/quarantine-sex/">Quarantine Sex #461</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>With almost a fifth of the world's population in quarantine or distancing for the next couple of weeks, how do you navigate married life better?</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>An email from a husband who's frustrated with our response to another husband about his sex life and desire for more novelty and eroticism.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/marriage-in-the-time-of-quarantine/">Marriage in the Time of Quarantine #460</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Lori Brotto joins me to discuss how stress impacts life and sex. Specifically sexual desire.</p> <p>Learn more about Dr Brotto on her website - www.debunkingdesire.com also find her on social media using this #debunkingdesire</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Dr Brotto and I talk more in depth about the myths surrounding sexual desire and her research on the subject.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/stress-and-sexual-desire/">Stress and Sexual Desire #459</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Dr Laura Dabney joins me to answer a couple of questions from the SMR Nation.</p> <p>A husband asks for help in getting his wife to be willing to try new things in sex.</p> <p>And a wife emails wanting to know how to get her husband to seek help with his ED issues.</p> <p>Learn more about Dr Dabney on her website - https://www.drldabney.com/ or call her at 757-695-3925</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Dr Dabney and I discuss the trend of our field and society seeking to medicate problems rather than address them head on.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/spouse-wont-try-anything-new/">Spouse Won’t Try Anything New #458</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation about slowing down in life and marriage.</p> <p>A question from a husband asking for help with a position they both enjoy but want it to last longer for him/or quicker for her.</p> <p>A caller speaking up about pain in sex for women.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Is it possible that you can make things too easy for your spouse? Yes!</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/too-easy-for-your-spouse/">Too Easy For Your Spouse? #457</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation with Dr Emily Nagoski, author of Come As You Are, about all things sex. What's normal? What about responsive desire? Context is king?</p> <p>Check out Emily's work on her site http://www.emilynagoski.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Dr Emily and I continue a conversation exploring the world of sexual non-concordance.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/responsive-desire/">Responsive Desire #456</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A question from a wife about a condition her husband has called phimosis and how this impacts their sex life. </p> <p>Another wife wants to know how to get her husband to be more romantic.</p> <p>A wife calls wanting to know how to be more free and let go in her sex life.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A caller asks us three questions - female-led relationships - pleasure derived from pain during sex - and vibrators. </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/question-potpourri/">Question Potpourri #455</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation with Vanessa Marin, a fellow sex therapist, about the most common issues couples face in their sex lives today. You can find more about Vanessa on her site https://vmtherapy.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Vanessa and I continue the conversation about sex, only this time we're focusing solely on the female orgasm.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/the-female-orgasm/">The Female Orgasm #454</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A husband calls in asking for our thoughts about his wife's habit of touching herself most every morning and night.</p> <p>A newly-wed wife calls wanting help with her infrequent sex life and struggling attraction for her husband. </p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>How do you confront change with your spouse? Where you want more for them and they don't want it for themselves?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/daily-self-touching/">Daily Self Touching #453</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A husband asks for our thought regarding a better term to use when referring to a specific part of his wife's body.</p> <p>An email from a spouse asking for help in approaching their sex life when one of them is disabled. </p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Love and Respect, is one more important than the other in marriage? What role and meaning do each of these play?</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/labels-disabilities-and-meanings/">Labels, Disabilities and Meanings #452</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A couple of emails about fantasies ... from threesomes to aggressive sex almost like rape. Are these common? What do they mean?</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>An email from a wife whose husband has performance anxiety during sex, making it quite difficult to connect and enjoy their sexual encounters.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/fantasies-threesomes-and-anxiety/">Fantasies, Threesomes and Anxiety #451</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A couple of emails on the topic of Anal Sex. What do you do when one spouse is unwilling to try it? And what are some tips for those who are willing to try it?</p> <p>Plus an email from a wife whose husband is turned off by sex during pregnancy - and after it.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>We unpack an email from a wife who found out her husband masturbates regularly to porn because she set up a hidden camera in their bedroom.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/anal-sex/">Anal Sex #450</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>I'm joined by Melissa Orlov, of ADHD Marriage and we discuss how ADHD impacts life and relationships. Read more from Melissa on her site here - https://www.adhdmarriage.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Melissa Orlov and I continue the conversation about ADHD and marriage but venture into how it impacts sex.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/adhd-and-marriage/">ADHD and Marriage #449</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Welcome to 2020. Join us as we go through our 3 words for the year. What are yours?</p> <p>An email from a listener wondering how to get his wife more comfortable with lingerie and role playing.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...<br /> A voicemail about how gender roles and egalitarian roles impact married life and sex. </p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/role-playing/">Role Playing #448</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A look back in the SMR archives at one of the most popular shows to date. Birthday sex, shower sex, oral sex.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>The importance of boundaries in life and marriage.</p> <p>Enjoy the show!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/best-of-smr-three-kinds-of-sex/">Best Of SMR: Three Kinds of Sex #447</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>Jessa Zimmerman joins me to answer an email from listeners who say they have a great marriage but real struggle in their sex life.</p> <p>A conversation about the idea of foreplay for foreplay. </p> <p>On the XTD content.</p> <p>What books I've read this year and their impact on my life and marriage.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/foreplay-for-foreplay/">Foreplay For Foreplay #446</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>As a gift from us to you this Holiday Season both versions of today's episode are free. </p> <p>Today we are joined by author Gary Thomas as he discusses his new book, When To Walk Away: Finding Freedom From Toxic People. </p> <p>You can learn more about Gary and his books here - http://www.garythomas.com/</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/when-to-walk-away/">When To Walk Away #445</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a husband concerned about how the Holiday Hallmark movies impact his wife and their marriage.</p> <p>Plus a husband seeks our help in understanding how to play with his wife’s vagina.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/holiday-movies-and-vaginas/">Holiday Movies and Vaginas #444</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A sex ed quiz for my wife and co-host, Pam.</p> <p>An email from a listener asking for a reading list to help him not only in the counseling world but also in marriage.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/reading-list/">Reading List #443</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation with Dr Sarah Hunter Murray, a therapist who has a new book exploring the science of men, sex and relationships.</p> <p>Check out her work and pick up her book here https://sarahhuntermurray.com/</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>Dr Sarah joins me to answer a question from a husband whose wife initiated sex and then informed him she did so only because she knows he needs it.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/not-always-in-the-mood/">Not Always In The Mood #442</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>An email from a listener about how to bring up the idea that his parents need counseling.</p> <p>Plus a 2 part email from a higher desire wife who wants help addressing the desire difference and oral sex.</p> <p>On the Xtended version ...</p> <p>A discussion about how to recover from fights in married life.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/help-my-parents-and-confronting-desire-differences/">Help My Parents and Confronting Desire Differences #441</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>A conversation with Dr Laura Dabney, a Psychiatrist who works with clients by helping the deal with emotions better - especially the emotions we've often deemed as bad.</p> <p>Check out her work here https://www.lauradabney.com/</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/selfish-and-needy/">Selfish and Needy #440</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today’s show … A conversation with Dr Claudia Grauf-Grounds about her research and work around the subject of conflict and fighting in married life. Check out her work here https://drclaudiagg.com/ On the Xtended version … We continue the conversation with Dr Claudia about her thought about the Marriage and Family […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/had-this-fight-before/">We’ve Had This Fight Before #439</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today’s show … An email from a listener who wishes we would have addressed the “you complete me” line differently in episode #431. A caller wanting information about Sensate Focus exercises for their sex life. And an email from a wife whose husband found a vibrator she bought and completely […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sensate-focus/">Sensate Focus #438</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Jennifer Findlayson-Fife, a fellow therapist and we discuss the dynamic of desire differences and the lower desire wife. Learn more about Dr Jennifer at http://www.finlayson-fife.com On the Xtended version … Dr Jennifer and I discuss her research with LDS Women and sexuality and […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/the-lower-desire-wife/">The Lower Desire Wife #437</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Deb Thomas, a fellow LMFT and Sex Therapist and we discuss how metaphors can be helpful when it comes to addressing your sex life. Learn more about Deb at https://nwioi.com/ On the Xtended version … Deb Thomas and I continue our conversation although for […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/metaphors-and-sex-therapy/">Metaphors and Sex Therapy #436</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Steven Stosny as we discuss how abuse happens in marriage and relationships – and how compassion is the key to breaking the patterns. Learn more about Dr Stosny at his site https://www.compassionpower.com/ On the Xtended version … Pam and I have a conversation […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/abuse-in-marriage/">Abuse In Marriage #435</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s show … We’ve combined the Regular and the XTD versions into one show – this week only. The whole show we are talking about trust and hurt … and how there is a tremendous difference in handling these two aspects of betrayal, lies, and broken promises. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/trust-and-hurt/">Trust and Hurt #434</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … My wife Pam is tested on her knowledge with a 10 Question Sex Quiz And an email from a husband looking for our thoughts about helping his marriage and their struggles with weight, desire, infertility and adoption. On the Xtended version … What’s the difference between arousal […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/arousal-and-desire/">Arousal and Desire #433</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … A conversation with Ann Gadd, author of Sex and the Enneagram. You can learn more about Ann by visiting her website. You can also email her at [email protected] On the Xtended version … The continued conversation with Ann Gadd. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/sex-and-the-enneagram/">Sex and the Enneagram #432</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>

<p>On today’s regular version of the show … A conversation with Jeff Abraham, the CEO of Promescent, and how to create intimacy in marriage by being willing to address the struggles many men and women face when it comes to sex and life together. On the Xtended version … How do you adjust better with […]</p> <p>The post <a href="https://smr.fm/podcast/challenges-intimacy/">The Challenges of Intimacy #431</a> first appeared on <a href="https://smr.fm">Sexy Marriage Radio</a>.</p>