Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast

Keith Collins shares a simple concept of being a victor in life instead of being a victim. Most have had unfortunate things happen in their life, but those things don't define us. www.meninthearena.org

Keith Collins shares about his book, Fatherless. Keith Collins believes that we are all more than our past. In a motivational guide for men of all ages, Collins details his own past as he grew up in Atlanta, witnessed his parents' breakup at the age of three. Then he helplessly watched as a string of males entered his life without any commitment to being the father figure he needed. Collins faced many challenges and obstacles for several years as he struggled to find his way. Collins, who today travels the country motivating men and fathers to rise above their past, shares a practical roadmap that guides men to learn from their life experiences and reach their fullest God given potential. While offering insight into his personal experiences, Collins also examines the biblical and societal role of the male in today's society, the effects of a fatherless household, the victim mentality, and the ABCs of salvation. Included with each chapter are introspective questions that will help men look within for answers, discover self limiting beliefs, and unleash the endless possibilities. Fatherless shares a guidance and wisdom that empowers and encourages men to overcome obstacles and become all they are called to be. "Keith's purpose in writing this inspirational book is to stimulate all young men to persevere to be the best that they can be!" -James H. Burton, Ph.D. Author, Human nature meditations-Concentrations for managers and other human beings Boots on the Ground: Leaders are readers. Find one book on manhood, and read it. https://www.keithcollins360.com

Change doesn't just happen. When you change your diet you will change your life. We hope this podcast inspires you to become the best version of you! www.meninthearena.org

Yves Johnson is the President of Christ Is My Savior Ministries. He is a leader in developing and facilitating training programs for team building, team growth and executive coaching, and motivational speaking to Faith-Base organizations, military, government, private organizations, as well as not for profit entities. The training programs directly aided employees in promotions, personal development and skills development. Boots on the Ground: Pray and Develop an battle plan for your life. Outside the Wire

In this episode Jason Karampatsos shares from his book The Elephant in the Marriage on what is means to draw closer to your wife. How is this done and what are the effects of doing so? The Elephant in the Marriage www.meninthearena.org

Be ambitiously curious about your spouse. Dr. Jason Karampatsos is the lead pastor of New Life Assembly of God in Janesville, Wisconsin, the co-founder of the City of Refuge Counseling Network and the author of The Elephant in the Marriage. As an ordained minister and a licensed counselor with a Ph.D. in pastoral counseling, he helps men navigate both spiritual and mental health challenges. He writes extensively on the impact of perspectives and perceptions upon everyday realities and especially upon marriages. He is an active speaker for men's conferences, marriage retreats and workshops, and speaks to pastors and churches across the country on how to thrive in their relationships. www.june3rd.com Boots on the Ground Moment: Sit down with your wife and listen to her, to discover one new nugget about her. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

This part 2 episode covers The Man Card Book, 5 Characteristics Separating Men from Boys. We live in a confusing world where many have no idea what a man is and does. We will unpack this in this two-part equipping podcast. Order your copy of The Man Card today! www.meninthearena.org

BJ Foster gives us tools to become a better dad. We tackle the importance of fully engaging with our kids as they grow. Being a dad who takes care of our kids financially is not enough. Men, there is more to be done. BJ Foster is Director of Content Creation for Family First, a national nonprofit that helps families love each other well. Family First includes three programs (All Pro Dad, iMOM, and the Family Minute with Mark Merrill) that offer parenting and marriage advice that receive over ten million visitors every year. BJ has written hundreds of articles and has been a speaker on the subjects of manhood, marriage, and fatherhood. He utilizes his experience in the corporate world, politics, and over fifteen years working with adolescents. BJ grew up in Philadelphia, but currently lives in Tampa, FL with his wife and two children. However, he remains a passionate Philadelphia sports fan. Boots on the Ground Moment: Go to allprodad.com Subscribe Get your daily dose of All-Pro Dad. [email protected]

This episode covers The Man Card Book, 5 Characteristics Separating Men from Boys. We live in a confusing world where many have no idea what a man is and does. We will unpack this in this two-part equipping podcast. Order your copy of The Man Card today! www.meninthearena.org

We as men are great at protecting others. But, we are not so great at protecting ourselves. There are some questions we need to ask our wives that will help us be protectors of ourselves as well. www.meninthearena.org

Brett Clemmer is a husband, father, disciple-maker, outdoor enthusiast, and avid Boston sports fan. Brett joined Man in the Mirror in 2000 and serves as President. His passion is to make the church relevant to younger men and men on the fringe. In his writing and speaking, Brett breaks through the resistance that many men feel toward spiritual topics with his use of personal stories and humor. Boots on the Ground Moment: Do one thing. Find out when and plan on attending the next men's event at your church. If you don't go to church, grab your family this week and go! [email protected] Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

As men, we possess power in our words. What we speak over our wife and kids can bring life or destruction. This episode should challenge you in the way you speak over them. www.meninthearena.org

Men need to reach out, raise your hand, ask another man to mentor you, disciple you, help you to become stronger in your weak areas. Simply raising your hand and asking another man to come along side you on this journey is the beginning of great things. Scott Wiggins has spent the last 30 plus years leading men and women. For over 26 years of that time, Scott served in the United States Air Force. A retired Brigadier General, he held numerous positions of leadership from flight to squadron to group to wing commands. As a pilot, he has extensive combat experience and the unique honor of working for Air Force One for two years. Since leaving the Air Force, Scott has served as the Director of Staff of Pinelake Church. Pinelake is a multi-site church with five campus locations in Mississippi. Scott pastors and oversees the staff of 150 who, in turn, shepherd a weekly congregational attendance of over 11,000. Boots on the Ground Moment: Raise your hand. Ask a guy you respect to help you. [email protected] www.meninthearena.org

Men are made to carry heavy loads. What does that mean? Listen and find out. www.meninthearena.org

Corey Davis was on a fishing boat when the bow cracked and started sinking. He almost died 3 times while helping to save the crew. Enjoy this heroic story! Boots on the Ground Assignment. Find One Thing that you will do to express your love for your wife and children everyday. www.meninthearena.org

To be known or to be anonymous is the question. There is a tension between the man and the fan in the arena. What do we see in the church? Are men being put on display for Jesus or are they sitting back quietly so as to not bring attention to themselves? How are we suppose to live? What does the Bible say about this? www.meninthearena.org

Jim and Bill discuss the book that Jim reads to and with his wife daily. The Jesus Story blends all four Gospel accounts into a single harmonious narrative while capturing the essence of each writer. Bill Perkins has conducted business and leadership seminars across the country for companies such as Alaska Airlines and McDonald's. Bill has appeared on nationally broadcast radio and television shows, including "The O'Reilly Factor." He addresses men's groups around the world and has conducted chapels for major league baseball teams. Bill served as a senior pastor for 24 years and is the founder and CEO of Million Mighty Men, White Horse Press and White Horse Ministries. He is a graduate of the University of Texas and Dallas Theological Seminary. Bill has authored or collaborated on 22 books, including the best selling Six Battles Every Man Must Win and When Good Men Are Tempted. He also wrote 6 Rules Every Man Must Break, the Jesus experiment, and When Good Men Get Angry. Bill coauthored the business book Give 'Em the Pickle!, and the Handbook to Leadership. He also published The Jesus Story, a blending of the four Gospels. Boots on the Ground Moment: Pick a study or devotional and commit to doing it daily. http://www.readthejesusstory.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Many men are merely fans in the Arena! What the world needs, is more men in the Arena! We hope this podcast motivates men to rise up and get into the arena of manhood. www.meninthearena.org

Lonnie Berger is the Global Director TWR Men's Ministry and the author of Every Man A Warrior, a men's ministry discipleship curriculum that has sold more than 100,000 books in 25 countries and been translated into 9 languages. Before coming to TWR, Lonnie served with The Navigators for 40 years. 90% of a man's life energy will be spent on the issues of: Money, Marriage, Children, Sex, Work, and Hard Times. Every Man a Warrior helps men to succeed in each of these areas. Lonnie's passion is to help men love God, succeed in life and spiritually multiply. When men are trained, and the Lord transforms their hearts, divorce rates drop, children are protected, and men begin to love and lead in the family in a way that makes our Christianity attractive to those without Christ. Changing the hearts of men is the KEY to reaching a culture for Christ. Boots on the Ground Moment: Memorize the Marriage Commitment - Set up a weekly meeting with each of your children and go through the 6 step process. Make it safe, learn to ask the questions, make it about them, shut up and listen, pray with them and speak building blocks of truth into their lives. https://everymanawarrior.com

There are some major differences between men and women. And a Man in the Arena does certain things. Enjoy this episode as we dive into what is a man in the arena. www.meninthearena.org

Kirk M Samuels is "The Intimacy Incubator". He is a gifted speaker and an award-winning member of Toastmaster's International. For thirty of the first forty years of his life, Kirk was addicted to pornography. Numerous relationships and careers suffered as a result. At his lowest point, Kirk was ready to end his life. Then, after the most significant of breakthroughs, Kirk created a class for men called Free Indeed. Kirk's real, practical experience makes him uniquely qualified to speak about today's porn consumer and relationships. His book For Your Eyes Only: The Inside Scoop About Men, Porn, and Marriage reveals to women how her man can become addicted to her. Kirk is a featured radio personality on The Real Traci Rock Show and The Corner Café Radio. In June 2018, Kirk launched the Uplift communities, where people who have been impacted by pornography can connect and learn from experts how to grow in mind, body, and soul. Uplift consists of a platform for men and a platform for women to connect through bi-monthly webinars. Connect with Kirk: www.kirkmsamuels.com www.uplifther36.com www.uplifthim36.com Twitter - @kirkmsamuels Facebook Page - @kirkmsamuels https://www.facebook.com/kirkmsamuels/ Instagram - kirkmsamuels 720-515-6536 Call me! Boots on the Ground: Part 1 Get CovenantEyes App. Part 2 Go home and make love to your wife. Lights on face to face. Tell her you love her. Pray for her.

What does she really mean? Your wife says, "what are you thinking about"? What is she really asking? When she asks certain questions is she really asking that question or is it code for something else? We did some research and have the chilling answers. www.meninthearena.org

What are the questions a man should be asking his friends? Do you care about their eternity? Jeff Hart answers these questions and more. Jeff Hart is the Portland Area Director of Search Ministries, since 1992. He leads Open Forum outreaches to seekers, and organizes seeker-sensitive events. He meets on a regular basis to disciple new and mature believers in the essentials of the Christian faith. Jeff leads apologetics and lifestyle evangelism courses in homes, churches, and organizations. He manages Advisory Team. Prepares annual strategic plan and budget, and implements all fundraising initiatives. His Highlights: Developed unique Apologetics leadership training intensive study course. Established volunteer-based supervised ministry. Oregon State Director, Fellowship of Christian Athletes, 1986-1992 Ministered to Oregon state coaches. Coordinated athletic camps. Established FCA Huddles in area junior high schools, and colleges. Inspirational and educational speaker. Trained adult leaders and youth in small group mechanics and lifestyle evangelism. Athletic Career: Offensive Lineman, Los Angeles Express (United States Football League) 1984-1985 Team Captain. Player Representative. Offensive Right Tackle, Baltimore Colts (National Football League) 1979-1984 Team Captain. Assistant Player Representative. Two Year Starter, Winnipeg Blue Bombers (Canadian Football League) 1977-1978 Offensive Tackle and Special Teams. Offensive Tackle, New Orleans Saints 1976-1977 Offensive Tackle and Special Teams Offensive Tackle, San Francisco Forty Niners (National Football League) 1975-1976 Third Round Draft Pick Boots on the ground moment: Pick one of your buddies, ask them about their spiritual journey. www.meninthearena.org

It is so important that the whole world knows that your wife is #1. Do other women know you are married and unavailable? There is a simple way to let them know. Enjoy this episode. www.meninthearena.org

Checking out and retiring from life and your purpose is not an option for the Christian Man. He lives each day to the fullest, giving back to others, and making his world a better place. Bud Lindstrand was the former CEO of Moda Health Plans, now MODA Health, a major provider of health insurance in Oregon. When he began with Moda Health, it was a small company with 23 employees and $4 million in revenues. When he retired, Moda Health had over 400 employees and revenues in excess of $400 million. Lindstrand received a B.A. in History from Northwestern in 1954, attended Western Conservative Baptist Seminary (1955) and the University of Oregon (1956-57) and is a 1983 Alumnus of the Harvard Business School. He worked with Aetna Life & Casualty in various management positions (1957-74) before going to work with Moda Health. Lindstrand was married to Roxann from 1953 until her death in 2000. They raised two children, Marty and Deon. In May 2002 he married Gail, a family friend of 35 years. Their marriage brought her children, Dodd and Paige, into his family. They have fourteen grandchildren. Born and raised in a Christian home, Lindstrand made a public profession of Christ and was baptized at age nine; however, he says his true conversion took place during his freshman year at Northwestern. Lindstrand has taught adults in Sunday school and other Bible study settings for more than 40 years, and has served on church boards wherever he has worshipped. An interest in music, which began at Northwestern, has grown to include singing with church choirs and special music groups, as well as solo work. Lindstrand's board work includes the Western Conservative Baptist Seminary, Oregon Health and Science University, Oregon Symphony Association, American Symphony Orchestra League, Business Committee for Arts, The Capital Initiative, Association for Portland Progress, WorldVenture Mission Board, IDEAS-Christian Humanitarian Society, Oregon Symphony Foundation, Lewis & Clark Trustee, and Medical Society of Metropolitan Portland. Bud and his wife, Gail, currently serve as volunteer National Prayer Coordinators with the Luis Palau Evangelistic Association in Portland, Oregon. Boots on the Ground Moment: Find a guy 10-20 years plus ahead of you. Approach him and meet regularly to have him help you in your journey.

Who am I and why am I hear is asked by many men? Well, what brings you life? Not sure of your calling? This episode will help you to do a few things that will help you on your journey. www.meninthearena.org

Gary Barkalow has a passion and desire to help men know their calling and live into it. Check out his links below. Boots on the Ground: Collect the dots in your life. Collect all the intel that you have Gary of the past and present that bring me to life. Who are you and what is your calling? Gary Barkalow [email protected] www.thenobleheart.com www.WhatAreYouDoingHere.info

What phrase can you say to disarm your angry wife? As men, we have tried many and failed miserably. We wish to give you the tools to respectfully stop the crazy cycle. www.meninthearena.org

So many men live the sedentary life when they are created to live The Adventurous life. They must choose to live a life of adventure or let life just happen. We suggest you choose the latter. "Genius is the capacity to retrieve wonder at will." Jeff Andrechyn Captain American Airlines 35 years Boots on the Ground Moment- Plan an adventure, Death Ruck, scuba certified, Back to school, dream job, take your wife on a vacation. [email protected] www.meninthearena.org

In every woman, there is a gland called the security gland. She is asking you 4 questions. What are they and are you making sure that she is secure with you? www.meninthearena.org

Life in the Arena (AKA the Bubble) is hectic. It can be exhausting at times with no end in sight. Are you stressed out? Has the busyness of life knocked you off kilter? How do we get a win over busyness and find elusive balance? Today's show will help you win in the Arena. Join us with the founder of Bowtech Archery and serial entrepreneur John Strasheim as he shares his wisdom, experiences, and regrets of being a tremendously successful businessman. Boots on the Ground Moment this week is to do something BIG in 2019 and tell us about it.

Should we be passive as Christian men or are we called to step in and defend the weak? What are you doing to defend the weak and powerless? www.meninthearena.org

Much of what hinders us as men, is our inability to live as FREE MEN. We carry the scars, and wounds of our past. Things like unforgiveness, being violated or watching a loved one suffer, slows us down in our journey to manliness. Our brokenness often comes from a father or authority figure that disappointed us, which not only increases our load in life. But hinders our view of God as a loving Father and renders us less effective in the Arena. Tim Spykstra- Pastor and President of Oceans Ministries. Boots on the Ground Moment: Write a blessing letter to your father or a man who has been a father to you. https://oceansministries.org www.meninthearena.org

It's easy to sign up for the comfortable life. We were created for the strenuous life, where we strive for greatness and climb the mountains of adversity. This new year how will you choose the strenuous life and reject the passive comfortable life? www.meninthearena.org

What is the difference between being a man and a boy? Can you be a man and also, posses the attributes of toxic masculinity? In this episode, we weigh in on the commercial from Gillette. www.meninthearena.org

Is there really a Man Card? How do we define Manhood? In this episode, we address the confusing topic of Manhood. The world can cause us to think that Manhood is achieved by age, strength, gender, or financial status. We disagree with these things. We are sure you will enjoy this episode. The Boots on the Ground Moment: Get your copy of The Man Card, Five Characteristics Separating Men from Boys www.meninthearena.org

Men have problems building friendships sometimes. It is so important that you find a cultivate real friendships in your life. Who has your back? Who will be there for you when life gets tough? Justin & Patrick Born just over 36 hours apart, Justin & Patrick are life-long friends with a rich, deep relationship that spans beyond 40 years. They travel together, live life together through its ups and downs, and most importantly, will do anything for each other. I'll Push You is a story of friendship and love, a story of hope and sacrifice, a story that explores the raw, deep human condition and the connections we all long for. The Camino de Santiago serves as a backdrop to the lives of Justin Skeesuck and Patrick Gray. I'll Push You provides insight into what it means to live for one another, what it means to overcome limitations, and what it means to push one another toward who we each long to be. At first glance, this story appears to be an adventure tackling a physical challenge in order to fulfill the dream of a man who lives life from a wheelchair. The reality of I'll Push You is there are many ways we can push one another. Justin's perspective on life and the way in which he lives it pushes Patrick beyond his fears and doubts. Join us as we discover what it means to let go of safety and what it means to rest completely in faith.

How much do you know about your kids? Do you lecture or listen? What is on their hearts? What do they struggle with? In this Equipping in Ten, episode we will look at the most important questions that parents should ask.

Listen to the amazing story of Brian Trent who lost over 300lbs after his obesity led to him losing his eyesight. In this episode, we get a glimpse into his amazing journey. www.meninthearena.org

Good dad's do certain things that are key in connecting with their kids. How well are you doing in these areas? What do you need to commit to today? www.mancardpodcast.com

Is your marriage in the crazy cycle? Is there mutual respect in your marriage? Emerson Eggerichs, author of the best selling book Love and Respect, joins us to discuss the crazy cycle and how to get your marriage out of it. https://loveandrespect.com

How well are you doing in the Three Legged Race with your spouse? Where does your relationship need a tune up? www.mancardpodcast.com

Many call sex the glue that bonds a marriage together. What does your sex life say about your marriage? How often are you and your wife having sex? Bill and Pam Farrel are popular speakers for marriage conferences, date nights, singles and parent groups. Here are some of their most popular topics: Men are like Waffles, Women are like Spaghetti Red Hot Monogamy The Marriage Code The Best Decisions Every Parent can Make www.love-wise.com Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

In this episode, we discuss the thing that bonds a marriage together. You guessed it! Sex. By the amount of sex you and your wife have how healthy is your marriage? www.mancardpodcast.com

Learning how to parent by using the art of questioning and not lecturing. Join us with Hal Perkins as he shows us how to ask the right questions to our children. Hal and Debbi have given 40 years in studying and strategically applying the principles of making disciples that Jesus modeled and commanded of His followers. Both formally and informally, they relationally discipled their four children (now all in full-time Christian ministry) and those in their churches willing to invest time in their own relationship with Jesus and then to help others. HeartWalk Foundations In 1969 Hal was dramatically called into professional ministry. He and Debbi began their first full time pastoral role in June 1 of 1970 and concluded 40 years of pastoral ministry on June 30, 2010. They have been married 41 years. At marriage, Hal was a math teacher and coach. Debbi finished college to become an elementary teacher. During their 40 years of professional ministry, Hal and Debbi served five Nazarene churches as senior pastor. Debbi taught in both public and Christian schools, served as administrative assistant to the Lieutenant Governor of Oklahoma, and ministered as a chaplain in 10 corporations. https://discipledbyjesus.org www.mancardpodcast.com

What are the components of a healthy marriage? Join us in this Equipping in Ten as we discuss the Leave, Weave, and Cleave components of a marriage. www.mancardpodcast.com

No man wants to be a wimp. Every man wants to be a warrior. Join us in this conversation will Michael Thompson as we learn what it is to have the heart of a warrior. Michael Thompson helped birth Zoweh Ministries and Authored: Search and Rescue: The Life and Love Looking for You (2011) The Heart of a Warrior: Before You Can Become the Warrior You Must Become the Beloved Son (2015) Brazen: Fearless, Bold and Without Shame (2019) Zoweh is a Discipleship and Friendship Initiative that serves and functions as both a Medic Unit and an Outpost for people to know and experience the Life God has for them. The context of our days could best be described as the greatest of love stories set in the midst of the fiercest of wars. We need help. We all need help. A Medic Unit: A group of people, also in the battle, but willing to help those who have been wounded or taken out. As our team, friends, and allies advance in this great battle for the hearts of men and women, we often come across wounded and hurting people—the casualties of war. Wounded and disoriented hearts desperately need Christ to bring healing to their brokenness, freedom from their bondage, and orientation and restoration to their lives. Zoweh aspires to provide relationships and environments for people to recover and experience the love, life, freedom, and restoration offered by Jesus Christ in the midst of a fierce battle for the heart. An Outpost: A place that exists to provide essential equipment and provisions for Life—shovels and swords, maps and a compass, food and clothing, wisdom and understanding—a place where men and women can receive resources, information, and tools to walk well with God. We all need good information, but just as important, we all must understand the experience we are having in this larger story. The Sons and Daughters of God, His family, need to know more than just the theology of the Bible (though this is a very good thing). They must also know the experience they are to have with the truth. That is when one becomes more free, more alive, and ultimately more of who God created them to be… Oriented! www.zoweh.org www.heartofawarriorbook.com www.mancardpodcast.com

What is the most important guardrail around your marriage? Is it smart to talk about your wife negatively with other women? Or, is it really necessary and wise to have lunch/coffee dates with other women for "work"? The cultural norms are killing marriages every day! www.mancardpodcast.com

No man wants to be a wimp. Every man wants to be a warrior. Join us in this conversation will Michael Thompson as we learn what it is to have the heart of a warrior. Michael Thompson helped birth Zoweh Ministries and Authored: Search and Rescue: The Life and Love Looking for You (2011) The Heart of a Warrior: Before You Can Become the Warrior You Must Become the Beloved Son (2015) Brazen: Fearless, Bold and Without Shame (2019) Zoweh is a Discipleship and Friendship Initiative that serves and functions as both a Medic Unit and an Outpost for people to know and experience the Life God has for them. The context of our days could best be described as the greatest of love stories set in the midst of the fiercest of wars. We need help. We all need help. A Medic Unit: A group of people, also in the battle, but willing to help those who have been wounded or taken out. As our team, friends, and allies advance in this great battle for the hearts of men and women, we often come across wounded and hurting people—the casualties of war. Wounded and disoriented hearts desperately need Christ to bring healing to their brokenness, freedom from their bondage, and orientation and restoration to their lives. Zoweh aspires to provide relationships and environments for people to recover and experience the love, life, freedom, and restoration offered by Jesus Christ in the midst of a fierce battle for the heart. An Outpost: A place that exists to provide essential equipment and provisions for Life—shovels and swords, maps and a compass, food and clothing, wisdom and understanding—a place where men and women can receive resources, information, and tools to walk well with God. We all need good information, but just as important, we all must understand the experience we are having in this larger story. The Sons and Daughters of God, His family, need to know more than just the theology of the Bible (though this is a very good thing). They must also know the experience they are to have with the truth. That is when one becomes more free, more alive, and ultimately more of who God created them to be… Oriented! www.zoweh.org www.heartofawarriorbook.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Knowing who you are? Knowing where you are? Knowing why you are? It is important to be an oriented man. You need to know who you are. www.mancardpodcast.com