Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast

How does a man measure if he is actually his best version? Well we have thought about this and came up with a method to do just that. Listen to this 3 part series on Assessing your best version of a man to see what is coming your way real soon. The BVOM will be a great tool for all men! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

Rick Aldred was born in Springfield, MO, and he graduated from Missouri State University. In 2010, he received his commission as a 2LT in the US Army. Rick spent the next 8 years on active duty, deploying to Iraq, Afghanistan, as well as numerous training exercises in Europe. During his time in Europe, Rick began a series of emotional and physical affairs with multiple women. He eventually confessed his sin to his wife in October of 2016, 1 month after their first "miracle" baby was born. Rick was given the ultimatum to leave the military or his wife was going to leave. This began a long road of recovery and reconciliation, and, through it all, Rick discovered a desire to help others through his own brokenness. He will graduate from Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in May of 2021 with his M.A. in Counseling. Boots on the Ground Give your wife full access to your devices. Be transparent about all areas of your life. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

Technology was made to help us but it can also hinder our families and especially our kids. In this episode we will give you 5 tools to help you tech proof your home and help your kids to thrive. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

TODD WILSON, is a dad, grand dad, writer, conference speaker, and former pastor. Todd's humor and down to earth realness have made him a favorite speaker at homeschool conventions, retreats, and churches across the country…each year speaking to thousands of dads and moms. As founder of Familyman Ministries, his passion and mission are to remind dads and moms of what's most important through a weekly e-mail for dads, seminars, and books and products that encourage parents. Todd, and his wife Debbie, presently homeschool three of their eight children (FIVE have graduated…FOUR are Married) in northern Indiana and travel America in the Familyman Mobile RV. You can read more at www.familymanweb.com Boots on the Ground: When your kid/kids come to you and ask you to do something with them, just say "SURE." www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

1. You are a homeschool dad. You are the ultimate teacher. 2. Don't give up on your kids. Don't give up on fathering. 3. Just say SURE! 4. Smile at your kids. Make sure they know you like them. They know you love them, but do they know you like them? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

This interview with Jay Penton is a Regular Joe Episode. Jay is 52 and lives in Prattville, AL with his wife Dana. They have 2 children. Delaney who is 21, a special needs adult who helps mom at home and Joey who is 19 and attends the University of Alabama-Huntsville. Jay has been in law enforcement most of his adult life. He joined the Army as a MP in 1989. Was part of the US invasion of Panama and the first Gulf War. In 1996 left active duty and joined the National Guard and retired after a total of 22 years in the military. In 1997, Jay became an Alabama State Trooper and is still there. Jay became a Christian at the age of 8, but wandered as a young adult. After marrying his wife God moved on his life and drew him back to Him. Now, after wading around in the mud for so many years he now gets to pull other guys out of the mud with His strength. He has been a member of Boones Chapel Baptist Church since 2006. Jay was ordained as a deacon in 2009 and was called to men's ministry in 2013. Jay serves as the Men's Pastor at Boones Chapel. Boots on the Ground Create a crisis, Find the people you love and ask them where you need to grow. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

Do you regularly make the easy decisions for the soft and easy life? In this episode Jim will challenge you to make the tough decisions. The ones that most men won't choose. The ones that cause you to have discipline. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

Jay Payleitner spent a decade in major market advertising. (Chicago, Michigan Avenue) But God called him into Christian media. And he became a busy freelance radio producer for Josh McDowell Radio, Today's Father, Jesus Freaks Radio for Voice of the Martyrs, Project Angel Tree with Chuck Colson, and others. He speaks at marriage conferences, men's retreats, and Iron Sharpens Iron events in 20 states. Jay has written more than 25 books and sold more than a half million copies including the bestselling 52 Things Kids Need from a Dad, What If God Wrote Your Bucket List? and The Jesus Dare. Jay's books have been translated into more than ten languages. Jay and his high school sweetheart, Rita, live in the Chicago area where they raised five great kids, loved on ten foster babies, and just welcomed grandchild #7. The Prayer of Agur Boots on the Ground: Read Proverbs 30 and write a prayer for your life. Leave us a positive review. Find us on social media and engage in a conversation about this podcast. Men in the Arena on Facebook www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us. Instagram

Jim Ramos unpacks 3 things that men believe about courage. 1. Courage is not a spiritual gift. 2. Courage is not a fruit of the spirit. 3 Courage is not one of the Ten Commandments. Leave us a positive review. Find us on social media and engage in a conversation about this podcast. Men in the Arena on Facebook www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us. Instagram

Elmo Winters is the Founder/Executive Director of the KINGDOM Group International, Inc., an organization dedicated to racial healing, unity and reconciliation utilizing the life changing Gospel of Christ. The KINGDOM Group hosts events to bring diverse groups together for dialogue and relationship building. Reverend Winters has been in ministry for over 42 years as a Church Planter, Pastor, Bible Institute Instructor and Hospice Chaplain. Additionally, he has served as a short-term Missionary to Kenya, Mexico, and Russia, where he trained pastors and ministry leaders. Working with EndPoint Ministries of Nairobi, Reverend Winters continues to assist with church/school planting in the south eastern region of Kenya. Having earned a Masters in Business Administration (MBA), he provides business consulting to non-profit organizations, ministries, and small businesses. Winters serves on the boards of Gulf South Men of Louisiana, the National Coalition of Ministries to Men (NCMM), the Louisiana Lagniappe Country Walk to Emmaus (LCWE) and the Mercy Education Foundation of Liberia, Africa. Elmo Winters is married to the lovely Therese Winters and reside in Baton Rouge, LA. They are proud parents of five children and nine grandchildren. Boots on the Ground: Walk across the room to someone who is different than you and look them in the eyes and shake their hand. Start to see people with the eyes of Christ. KINGDOM GROUP WEBSITE Order OVERCOMING RACIAL AND CULTURAL BARRIERS To Disciple Men www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

Kent Evans with Manhood Journey joins us again to break down the 3 steps that each man should do to become their best version. Climb Down - Humility - Admit you need help. Determine the Gaps - What are some areas you need to grow as a man? Spot Helpers - You need guys around you that can help you identify your week spots. www.manhoodjourney.org www.fatheronpurpose.org www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

Kent Evans is the Executive Director and co-founder of Manhood Journey, a ministry that helps fathers become disciple-makers. After a twenty-year career as a business leader, he embarked on biblical Fatherhood ministry projects. He's appeared on television, radio, web outlets and podcasts. He's spoken at parenting and men's events. His first book, Wise Guys: Unlocking Hidden Wisdom from the Men Around You, was written to help men learn how to find mentors and wise counsel. Learn more at manhoodjourney.org or fatheronpurpose.org. Kent's life has been radically affected by godly mentors and his lovely wife, April. They have been married twenty-five years and have five sons and one daughter-in-law. He lives in Louisville, Kentucky, USA. You can find him on social media @manhoodjourney www.manhoodjourney.org www.fatheronpurpose.org Boots on the Ground: When was the last time you observed another man's expertise and asked him to help you with that skill? Seek out this guys and ask. Have coffee or lunch together. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

We believe many are confused what courage look likes. Jim Ramos gives us Four things that we should know. Courage is a personal choice. Courage is a character trait over time. Courage is a call to action. Courage is a sign of strength. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

Joe Myall has been married three times and has four biological children, 3 sons and 1 daughter, as well as two stepsons. He has 13 grandchildren, with number 14 due in November. Joe's first marriage ended in divorce in 1989 after 19 years for a multitude of reasons, most of which can be boiled down to one statement- "He was not the man God wanted him to be." Joe married Robyn in 1990. Although he had made an intellectual decision to accept Christ as Savior in 1968, it was 1998 before Joe truly had a conversion experience. That fall, Joe decided he was tired of having to always be right, being judgmental of others and he turned his life over to God. In 2002, Joe was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma, went through chemotherapy and is now 17 years post-chemo. In 2006, Joe and Robyn "retired" and moved 1000 miles from the Central Coast area of California, about mid-way between LA and SF, to western Washington across the Puget Sound from Seattle. Robyn had worked as a psychiatric RN and Joe had been in law enforcement. Eventually, Robyn went to work part time for the local mental health agency and Joe worked with the county drug court program for a few years. Between 2006 and early 2019, Joe was involved in several ministries in his church and his community, including working with the youth pastors, men's ministry and as a chaplain with the local fire district. In the Spring of 2015, Robyn became ill and was diagnosed with stage-4 metastatic cancer of unknown origin, with a prognosis of 2-3 months to live. Robyn declined any diagnostic tests or treatment, opting for quality over quantity of life. God gave Joe and Robyn 2.5 more years together, before she began experiencing extreme pain in August of 2017. In September, Robyn was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Lymphoma with weeks to live. She passed away at home with Joe, her sons and a daughter in-law by her side. Boots on the Ground Sit down with your wife face to face. Look her in the eye and tell her you love her. And share with her why you are thankful for her. Grief Share- 13 week programmed study Experiencing Grief by Norm Wright Shattered Dreams by Larry Crab www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

So many spend a great deal of money and attention on the wedding, but when it comes to the marriage they fail to invest financially or put in the work to make it great. As a parent, what will you be willing to do to help your kids' marriage succeed? Pay for an expensive wedding or invest in their marriage? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

Marsh Bull is a technical type guy working with computers for 5 decades. His focus until turning 51 was on my career & getting ahead in the corporate world. He believed he was a good man, working hard to take care of his family. Focusing on his career, he had allowed his home life to crumble. He was working 14 hours a day for IBM when his brokenness finally caught up with him. It was Sat. October 21, 1995 when he pulled off the road and shouted a one-word prayer, "Help." Instantly a sensation of total love permeated his entire body. It felt like a warm molasses covering him from head to toe. At the time, He didn't understand it was the Holy Spirit entering his body. This is what defines Marsh, his life before Christ & his life after Christ. He was probably like you if you don't know Christ! Boots on the Ground: Head on over to Marsh Bull's website and pick up some of his free resources, grab some guys and start a group. Website: https://www.mensgroup.org/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mensgroupfoundation/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/c-b-1983119/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/mensgrouptopics/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mensdiscussiontopics/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/mensgrouptopics Tumblr: https://www.tumblr.com/blog/mensgrouptopics www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

Men, it so important for our daughters to hear from us that they are beautiful. They need to be hugged by us and told they are loved. If we don't do it some hormonal boy will fill in the gap. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.

For decades Patrick Morley has been regarded as one of America's most respected authorities on the unique challenges and opportunities facing men. Through his speaking and writing, he is a tireless advocate for men, encouraging and inspiring them to change their lives in Christ. "The ministry of Man in the Mirror exists," says Patrick Morley, "in answer to the prayers of all those wives, mothers, and grandmothers who have for decades been praying for the men in their lives." Patrick Morley graduated with honors from the University of Central Florida. He has earned a PhD in management, completed postgraduate studies at the Harvard Business School and Oxford University, and graduated from Reformed Theological Seminary. He lives in Winter Park, Florida, with his wife, Patsy. They have two married children and five grandchildren. www.christianmanbook.com www.maninthemirror.org Boots on the Ground. Got to website download the free coaching guide. and Buy the book The Christian Man. Read it. Daily prayer of a Husband. Father, I said til death do us part. I want to meet it. Help me to love you more than her and her more than anything or anyone else, help me bring her into your presence today. Make us one like you are three in one. I want to hear her, cherish her, and serve her so she would love you more and we can bring you glory. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Do your kids know you love them? Do they know that you are proud of them? This episode is short, but could be the most impactful thing for your kids if you can learn from it. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Intimacy anorexia is relationship disorder that is marked by a lack of intimacy in a relationship. It occurs when someone in a relationship actively withholds emotional, spiritual and sexual intimacy from their spouse or partner. This lack of intimacy harms the marriage, damages the relationship causing pain and loneliness and impacts the spouse or partner significantly. Dr. Douglas Weiss coined the term "intimacy anorexia" when he started seeing a separate, yet related aspect of sexual anorexia in his private psychological counseling practice. He was able to link these cases of sexual anorexia into a broader spectrum of related issues and noted that people engaging in this type of withholding behavior did it for other reasons that those typically associated with sexual anorexia. So, what is your grade? No marriage is perfect. But with hard work it can become better each day. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

The late Regi Campbell authored the book, What Radical Husbands Do: 12 Steps to Win and Keep Your Wife's Heart, This is one of the greatest books on marriage! It is short but packed full of great principles. True manhood, masculinity, mentoring, marriage success. and men's ministry tips can be found in this episode. Regi Campbell was an experienced investor and entrepreneur by trade, having been involved in the founding of 15 companies. He wrote four books and spoke on mentoring, marriage, and marketplace ministry. His real passion was mentoring younger men. In 2007, Regi founded Radical Mentoring to help encourage and equip mentors and churches to build disciple-makers through intentional small group mentoring. Boots on the Ground Moment: Make a list of the top 5 things that your wife loves. Start loving those things with her. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum Contact us.

Emerson Eggrichs author of Love & Respect has gieven us a recipe to disarm our angry wife. www.loveandrespect.com What phrase can you say to disarm your angry wife? As men, we have tried many and failed miserably. We wish to give you the tools to respectfully stop the crazy cycle. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

5 Simple Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage . . . When You're Stuck at Home Together By Dr. Gary Chapman Let Sheltering in Place Together be an Opportunity to Renew Your Relationship The COVID-19 pandemic has affected all facets of life. The health crisis has overwhelmed medical workers, business closings have exacerbated financial stress, and—perhaps most unexpectedly—sheltering in place has placed married couples in endless, unprecedented proximity. Whether this has been challenging or delightful for you and your spouse, let this time be an opportunity to renew your love. Learn how to do so in 5 Simple Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage… When You're Stuck at Home Together by Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The New York Times bestseller The 5 Love Languages®. This guide will help enrich your time stuck together. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

There are certain things that separate men from women. Jim calls these 5 things characteristics the Manhood Pentagon. What are are these and how do they contribute to our masculinity? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Learning how to parent by using the art of questioning and not lecturing. Join us with Hal Perkins as he shows us how to ask the right questions to our children. Hal and Debbi have given 40 years in studying and strategically applying the principles of making disciples that Jesus modeled and commanded of His followers. Both formally and informally, they relationally discipled their four children (now all in full-time Christian ministry) and those in their churches willing to invest time in their own relationship with Jesus and then to help others. HeartWalk Foundations In 1969 Hal was dramatically called into professional ministry. He and Debbi began their first full time pastoral role in June 1 of 1970 and concluded 40 years of pastoral ministry on June 30, 2010. They have been married 41 years. At marriage, Hal was a math teacher and coach. Debbi finished college to become an elementary teacher. During their 40 years of professional ministry, Hal and Debbi served five Nazarene churches as senior pastor. Debbi taught in both public and Christian schools, served as administrative assistant to the Lieutenant Governor of Oklahoma, and ministered as a chaplain in 10 corporations. https://discipledbyjesus.org If Jesus Were a Parent www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Men are made to carry heavy loads. What does that mean? What different things are men required to carry to be a Man? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Jody Burkeen is the Lead Pastor / Elder for Ignite Church. Jody is an author, speaker and a lover of the word of God. In 2010 he founded Man Up God's Way, a national men's ministry that is challenging men to step up for the kingdom of God. The MAN UP! ministry was birthed out of a desire to change the way Christian men do Christianity. Jody's self-described "Damascus Road Transformation" led him on a journey to search the scripture to find what he had been missing his whole life, which was Jesus Christ. did. The MAN UP! Gods Way ministry is Jody's hope that he can challenge men to live a separated life. "All men have only five problems: sex, women, work, kids and money. That's how simplistic we are. So somewhere out there, there is an accountability partner for you. You just have to want it. We will continue to have these problems until we lay them at the feet of Jesus. Get someone to help you. Begin the process together." -Jody Burkeen Boots on the Ground: Head over to www.ManUpGodsWay.org and pick up a copy of Jody's book, Man Up God's Way and go to the back of the book and take the 30 day challenge. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Do you know your loved one's love language? Check out the quiz online. We encourage you to take it and have your spouse and kids take it. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Bill Hendricks is President of The Giftedness Center, a Dallas-based consulting firm specializing in organizational effectiveness and individual career guidance. He is the author or coauthor of twenty books, including Your Work Matters to God, Living by the Book, and The Power of Uniqueness. He has written for numerous publications and shares his thoughts regularly at www.BillHendricks.net. Bill holds an undergraduate degree in English from Harvard University, a master of science in mass communications from Boston University, and a master of arts in biblical studies from Dallas Theological Seminary. He is the proud father of three grown daughters by his late wife, Nancy, and is now married to Lynn Turpin Hendricks. Specialization or Expertise: author of Men of Influence: The Transforming Impact of Godly Mentors, coauthored with his father, the late Dr. Howard Hendricks. www.thegiftednesscenter.com Boots on the Ground: Ask yourself this question: If it were not for blank, I would not be who I am today. Call them and thank them. If you don't have one, find a mentor. And you also need to find someone to mentor. Enter to win Men of Influence at www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

This Equipping in Ten breaks down some practical steps that you can do to create a climate of connection in your blended family. Jim takes some nuggets from Ron Deal's book Building Love Together in Blended Families. Jim also shares what his family did when he was in the growing up in his blended family. Enter to win your Free Copy of Building Love Together in Blended Families. Use this LINK to access A Guide To Building Love With The Five P's of Stepparenting. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, the author of over a dozen books and video resources on stepfamily living including the bestselling books Building Love Together in Blended Families with Dr. Gary Chapman His podcast FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal and his one-minute radio feature are heard around the world and his work has been quoted/referenced by multiple news outlets such as the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNBC.com, and USA Today. www.familylife.com www.familylifeblended.com www.smartstepfamilies.com Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, the author of over a dozen books and video resources on stepfamily living including the bestselling books Building Love Together in Blended Families with Dr. Gary Chapman His podcast FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal and his one-minute radio feature are heard around the world and his work has been quoted/referenced by multiple news outlets such as the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNBC.com, and USA Today. The 5 P's 1. Partnering- With your spouse 2. Pursue- The kids hearts, pursue a relationship with the kids. 3. Pace- Your Pursuit 4. Patience- Tell yourself that it's ok to take time building a relationship. 5. Persistence- Keep on Bonus P – Prayer Use this LINK to access A Guide To Building Love With The Five P's of Stepparenting. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

This is the first of a half dozen strategic times a year we interview what we call our "Average Joes Arena Heroes". We also highlight these guys on our weekly E-Blast through our WAMGI (When a man Gets It) story. These are guys like you and me who are in the arena fighting for those people and causes they love. Don't get me wrong, our experts and authors are WILL continue to be our bread and butter but it's the Average Joe who is the local hero of the Men in the Arena organization. George Sielski is 73 from Jamestown, NY. George has been married to Annette for 54 years in July. George is retired and drives a bus two days a week doing medial transportation. He has been a Gideon for 20 years. He is a Deacon in his church, runs a Virtual Men in the Arena Team as well as helping lead the MITA forum on Face book as an Arena Coach. Quotes: "The Lord will put things in my way. It's up to me to say yes or no." "Loyalty is a rare commodity nowadays." "If you are messed up in your marriage you need to take a look at that. If you are looking at her you have a problem." "There is a special crown in heaven for the people that work with little kids." "You don't know how things will affect you later in life when you are young." "You are what you eat, That's a fact." "Spend as much time planning your marriage as you do your wedding." "If you don't want your prayers hindered, do right by your wife." "I know He is proud of me when I take care of my wife." "You are going to run into storms. Your vows are going to be the only thing that keeps you there." "Are you thinking about cheating? You think its greener on the other side? Let me tell you something. The devil fertilizes it with a lot of manure." Boots on the Ground If you are lacking Grit, get around Men who will challenge you to be a man of Grit. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

In Mark Batterson's book, Play the Man, he writes about the 7 virtues a man should have to become the man God created him to be. Jim Ramos breaks each one down in this short equipping podcast. 1. Tough Love 2. Childlike Wonder 3. Will Power 4. Raw Passion 5. True Grit 6. Clear Vision 7. Moral Courage www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

We believe that too many men these days lack Grit. If things get hard some males bail. If the "Feeling" of love dwindles they bail. "Men are made for pressure" - Brian Doyle In this episode we challenge men to have Grit. Boots on the Ground If you are lacking Grit, get around Men who will challenge you to be a man of Grit. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

In this episode Jim shares about those areas in our lives that we may need to build some grit into. For some it may be our diet. For some it might be purity or thought life. Only you know what that is for you. Jim wants to encourage you to build some grit where you may be lacking. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Gary Chapman has a passion for helping people form lasting relationships. He is known around the world as a marriage counselor, director of marriage seminars, and his nationally-syndicated radio programs air nationally on Moody Radio Network and over 400 affiliate stations. He has authored many books including Five Love Languages that has sold over 12 MILLION copies. He is also the co-author of CHOOSE GREATNESS: 11 Wise decisions that Brave Young Men Make Quotes: -"Our definition of a "great life" is taking what you have and using it to enrich the lives of others." -"However, you will only reach your full potential if you choose greatness". -"We are now looking back on our own lives and realize that many of our most important decisions were made when we were teenagers." -"Life was never meant to be lived alone. As young men, we need the wisdom of our fathers and mothers. Otherwise, we may make decisions based solely upon our feelings rather than upon facts." -"It Is not a sign of weakness to seek help. It is a sign of strength" -"But what else is involved in respecting women, and why should we?" -"We want you to be a man who respects all women in public and in private." - "In every generation there are young men who grow up to make the world a better place, and others who leave behind a trail of pain because of their poor decisions" Choose Greatness "Let's get our Boots on the Ground": What's next? What action step will you take because of today? What will you do because of what you heard? Here it is! Compare the 5 Love Languages and discover which on matches. Your wife the best. Take the test. www.5lovelanguages.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

During uncertain times we may find ourselves scared or fearful. Jim Ramos shares what our response to fear should look like. What has caused you fear recently and where is your focus? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Robert Lewis - Founder, BetterMan Few have had as significant an impact on discipling men in the past forty years than Robert Lewis. As a pastor, speaker, and author, Robert's passion for leading men to grow in biblical manhood led him to produce the Men's Fraternity film series in 1995. This three-year men's curriculum quickly spread into churches, businesses, colleges, and even correctional facilities across the United States and later to over 20 countries. Today, Men's Fraternity and its follow up series, 33, have impacted millions of men worldwide. Author of numerous books including best selling The Church of Irresistible Influence, Raising a Modern-Day Knight, and Rocking the Roles: Building a Win-Win Marriage, Robert is known for helping men build their lives on practical biblical truth that gets real-life results. Now, in authoring the "BetterMan" curriculum, Robert offers a new way for men, especially younger men, to get their hands around God's timeless design for authentic manhood. "Without a vision men turn toxic!" Boots on the Ground Get involved with some virtual men's group. Betterman.com or Men in the Arena. And, Get involved in your churches men's ministry. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

This episode is from our Covid-19 series which we have been producing Live on Facebook each day at 4pm PST. To find all of these video messages follow this link. With all the distractions in this world what is causing you not to focus on Jesus so you can find your joy and peace? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Chad Hennings joins us and shares about his service to our country flying the A10 Thunderbolt in combat to playing in the NFL and winning 3 Super Bowls with the Dallas Cowboys, to starting Wingmen ministries and being a part of Promise Keepers. Boots on the Ground Get into some kind of virtual group. Find some sort of online men's small group. Let us know if you need help. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

In this episode Jim shares some practical advice from scripture on staying CALM in the midst of the storms of life. Especially in the midst of Covid-19. What does it look like to stay CALM? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Paul Cole shares from his book Just a Bartender, Unexpected People Change Their World. Paul Louis Cole is President of the Christian Men's Network Worldwide and Founding Pastor of C3 Church in Dallas, Texas. CMN is active in 138 nations, connecting over 86,000 leaders. Paul is married to Judi Cole, a wonderful leader and talented designer. Paul writes, speaks and travels extensively encouraging and advancing the men's movement around the world. He and Judi started Hope C3 Church in 1999 and in 2011 transitioned into full-time mens ministry as his son Brandon and wife Meredith accepted the role as Lead Pastors of C3 Church DFW. Paul and Judi are proud grandparents of the wonderful Reese Holsinger, Dylan Holsinger, and Cameron Holsinger, daughters and son of Pastor Niles and Lindsay Cole Holsinger. Niles is associate pastor at Gateway Church, Grand Prairie. They have two sons, creator and pastor Brandon Cole, married to Meredith, and noted musician and coach Bryce Cole. Brandon is the Lead Pastor at C3 Church with his wife Meredith. Bryce, now living in Nashville, is a songwriter and a High School basketball coach. Paul's sisters are Lois Crase and Joann Webster. Lois is an attorney and she and her husband Mark live in the Fort Worth area. Joann Webster is the CMN Vice President and publisher of Resolute Books. She and her husband Richard live in Satellite Beach, Florida. Paul has been a business owner, global marketing consultant and award winning television/film producer for over 30 years… and he has a lifetime membership at Starbucks. You can read his blog at paullouiscole.com. Boots on the Ground Find a quiet place. Carve out time to sit and listen to God. Find out who you are in Jesus. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Sam Black from Covenant Eyes has some great free resources for you. Plus a free month of monitoring and accountability through this link. Get your free ebook today. Get your Free ebook! Get Covenant Eyes! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Nathan from Minnesota, ‪How do you go about meeting single Christian women... I mean seriously, there seems to be an issue within Christian men and Christian culture or maybe it's me. I just don't get it. Dating is the dumbest thing and same with courtship. I'm darn near just becoming a bachelor for life. Aaron lives in Missouri ‪Why is it so hard to get the church involved in the discipleship of men? Joe lives in Washington ‪Jim, you have referred to Job 29 as the counterpart to Proverbs 31. Please unpack that. Ryan lives in New York ‪What's your advice for someone who's experienced spiritual abuse from a church, lost their faith, has recently come back to faith in God but has a hard time attending a church due to past experiences? Aaron lives Oregon. How to pick a church after you have moved to a new state? Boots on the Ground: What can you do to make the movement, Men in the Arena push back the darkness's, We are looking for arena coaches. Men to lead virtual teams, and admin skills. We want to challenge you men. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

In this episode Cody from Skyway Roasters from Buffalo Wy, shares his expertise on roasting your own coffee at home. You don't have to stockpile coffee from the can. You can have your own awesome coffee even if the world is shut down! Enter the Drawing! Skyway Roasters Facebook Page Skyway Roasters Website [email protected] www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Sam Black is the VP of Covenant Eyes. At Men in the Arena we believe that every man should protect his family by protecting all of the devices in his home with Covenant Eyes. We are affiliates with Covenant Eyes and you get 30 days free by using our link below. Sam shares the statistics that includes kids and ages that struggle and are exposed porn during this pandemic. You may think this doesn't affect you, but you may be surprised. Boots on the Ground: Get Covenant Eyes on ALL your devices in your home. Get your Free ebook! Get Covenant Eyes! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

The 5 B's: Body, Beans, Bandaids, Bullets, Bullion Jim breaks these all down for you in the podcast. These are things you should have on hand to take care of your family. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Gary McCusker and Ray De La Nuez help us tackle these Men in the Arena questions. Matt from IL. If a single never married man marries a woman who divorced her previous husband, but there was no infidelity is that marriage a continual sin? Joshua from in New Hampshire. I struggle most with balancing my life. God, full time single Dad, raising a toddler, work (self employed in my case), church, family and friends, all while trying to improve myself. My question is what do other men do to find and maintain balance? Dennis from in Nevada. Why do men have a problem stepping up and being the man God needs them to be? Joe from New York. How does a man make more of an impact on his children than this worldly, unbiblical culture? Luke I have been in the military for the past 13+ years and move around a lot. One thing I found hard is finding Godly men to connect with and lean on. So my question is how do you go about finding those men to confide in? Carl from Nebraska What advice would you give a single man who's never married about sex and understanding his sexuality? Robert from NY. What does spiritual leadership in the home look like? Danny from San Luis Obispo. Like a lot of guys i have struggled with porn in the past. It has taken me a while to learn that even though i'm no longer consuming it, it has had an effect on my sex life with my wife. My relationship with sex was the desire for instant gratification which I think porn had a very real influence over. I have done a lot of work in trying to re-wire my brain and check my intentions in all my interactions with my wife but I'm wondering if ya'll have any tips for that. How to have a healthy loving sex life with your wife rather than just a pleasure first approach? Boots on the Ground We have three ways to engage in this ministry. Enlist in the Army like this. A. Subscribe to the Podcast B. Join the Men in the Arena Facebook Group for Men. C. Go to our Website and sign up for the Equipping E-Blast and receive your free copy of the Bathroom Book for Men. The Field Guide.

This episode covers the 3's. What should every man carry on or near him for 3 seconds, 3 minutes, 3 days, 3-6 months, or 3 years? Jim reveals what he thinks is important for every man to have. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum