Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast

Jim Whitmore shares about his "unique" relationship with his father and how he was still able to honor him. His father was married 15 times, and walked out of Death Row in the State Texas! His story should challenge all men in the area of honoring our parents. Jim Whitmore has worked at FamilyLife for 23 years and currently serves as the Event Producer for FamilyLife events, like the Love Like You Mean it Marriage Cruise, FamilyLife Donor Events, Blended and Blessed, and the Summit on Stepfamilies Livestream. Jim currently serve as the President of the National Coalition of Ministries to Men, leading the Men's ministry at his church. He is passionate about reaching young men to experience God in a real, personal and practical way. The Tribute and the Promise Boots on the Ground: Write a tribute letter to your dad. And share it with us. Tribute (Blessing) Letter From NCMM President Jim Whitmore to His Father Edited: May 27, 2021 Dad, you never let me tell you how much I appreciate you and need you in my life. I guess it's your tough outer skin that hides on the softest hearts I have ever known. So, in the presence of my friends and family I would like to take the time to honor you publicly and to thank you. I am so very glad that I didn't have the typical father; I don't know that I would have become the man that I am. You were no Ward Cleaver that's for sure. But I know that no father could love a son more than you did. Ever since I can remember you have told me you love me more than life itself and I have never doubted that. So much of who I am is because of the experience you gave me. I took the best of your qualities and made them a part of who I am and learned from your mistakes, and there were plenty of them as well. We don't always see eye to eye, but you have at least respected my values and beliefs even when they clashed with yours. I can never express my gratitude for the experiences you have given me. You showed me the world through your eyes, our trips around the world expanded my horizons. You always wanted me to see the real side of life but more important than that, you wanted me to experience them. You have never sugar coated or hid the truth and for that I am eternally grateful. So many of my greatest gifts have come from you. You gave me the gift of speech, the ability to be comfortable in any environment, and the confidence to look any man in the eye and consider him my equal. You have taught me to fear no one, except God. You weren't the model Dad, but you were my friend. I always knew that I could tell you the truth about anything and you loved me with all your heart. You gave me a liberal education and made me student of life. What a precious gift. I confess before my friends and family you were the perfect father for me, you were my greatest fan, confidant, and supporter. You loved me and always affirmed me. Dad I love you. I accept you for who you are and thanks for always being there and giving me more than a last name and I will always be there for you. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

This equipping episode is inspired by our interview with Michelle Watson Canfield. This is the T.A.L.K. method to use with your daughter. Time: Carve It Out Affection: She Will Get It Somewhere Listen: Your Greatest Gift Kindness: If It is Broken, DON'T Fix It www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Kenneth Joyner is the director and co-founder of Boys With A Purpose, a nonprofit After-school Mentoring Organization for young boys. The organization has been serving the Charleston, South Carolina area since 2016. Growing up without his father sparked a passion to help young men develop their gifts and to ultimately find their life's purpose. The passion started in 1998 when he led a youth group at his church in Baltimore, Md. Boys to Men was the beginning of a lifelong mission to help build and develop strong young men. In 2016 this journey led him to Memminger Elementary School where he helped to start the organization he now runs. Kenneth structured his book Without A Father: From Fear To Faith, around twenty core principles of being a father figure, which isn't necessarily about being the biological father (although it can be), but it's about playing the role of a father figure. These principles will be called W.O.W for Words of Wisdom. W.O.W #9 Love Beyond Your Pain. W.O.W #10 Don't Worship Money. W.O.W #11 Transform Your Thinking. W.O.W #12 Be Responsible. W.O.W #13 Be Present. W.O.W #14 Finish What You Start. W.O.W #15 Failure Produces Success W.O.W #16 Do you - Discover Your Purpose. W.O.W #17 Know and Develop Your Self-Worth. W.O.W #18 Walk by Faith. W.O.W #19 Play Until You Win. W.O.W #20 Leave a Legacy. W.O.W #21 Live in Truth and Obedience. Boots on the Ground: Get the Book and Get the Equipping Blast https://www.boyswithapurposesc.org www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Inspired by our interview with Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield: What are 5 things a dad whisperer does? #1 HE LIKES HIS DAUGHTERS AND ENJOYS BEING WITH THEM #2 HE LETS THEM LEAP, LAUGH AND LOVE BEACUSE HE LETS THEM BE WHO THEY ARE #3 HE LISTENS TO HIS DAUGHTER #4 HE SETS LIMITS #5 HIS DAUGHTERS FOLLOW HIS LEAD IN HONORING HIS FAITH IN JESUS www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Kenneth Joyner is the director and co-founder of Boys With A Purpose, a nonprofit After-school Mentoring Organization for young boys. The organization has been serving the Charleston, South Carolina area since 2016. Growing up without his father sparked a passion to help young men develop their gifts and to ultimately find their life's purpose. The passion started in 1998 when he led a youth group at his church in Baltimore, Md. Boys to Men was the beginning of a lifelong mission to help build and develop strong young men. In 2016 this journey led him to Memminger Elementary School where he helped to start the organization he now runs. Kenneth structured his book Without A Father: From Fear To Faith, around twenty core principles of being a father figure, which isn't necessarily about being the biological father (although it can be), but it's about playing the role of a father figure. These principles will be called W.O.W for Words of Wisdom. W.O.W #1 Know Who You Are. W.O.W #2 Learn to Forgive. W.O.W #3 Be Humble. W.O.W #4 Learn How to Die. W.O.W #5 Embrace Wisdom. W.O.W #6 Let Life Teach You. W.O.W #7 Learn to Love Knowledge. W.O.W #8 Friends Equal Future. Boots on the Ground: Pick one of these principles above and teach it to a young boy this week. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

You are not meant to be anonymous. God has placed you in the time place you are in to be a light for Him. So pray this prayer. God put me on display so that I can bring you glory. No more hiding in the pews at your church. Get into the arena! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

In January 2010 Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield founded The Abba Project where she leads dads of daughters ages 13 to 30 to dial in with more intention and consistency to their heart space. She leads a local group in Portland, Oregon annually every year from September through May. (you can read more under The Abba Project) Dr. Michelle has coached offspring Abba Project groups in Virginia and Washington State, with more to come. Dr. Michelle has written a book for dads of daughters titled, Dad, Here's What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter's Heart and it's also available in audiobook form in her own voice on Audible here. Her second book, "Let's Talk, Conversation Starters for Dads and Daughters" is filled with scripts for dads to equip them to strategically lead their daughters into conversations that matter, with a focus on greater depth that will allow her to know herself better! Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield hosts a radio program called The Dad Whisperer where her purpose is to provide practical resources for dads, especially those with daughters. (available here, iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and Google Podcasts) http://www.drmichellewatson.com/ Boots on the Ground For every daughter you have sit down with them and ask them to talk and ask to hear their heart. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Persecution of Christians is very prevalent around the world. In America we really don't experience it. But the day is coming. How soft are we when it comes to our faith? We may need to pray for persecution. Are you ready? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Justen Overlander is the associate producer of The Chosen, the first-ever multi-season show about Jesus and His followers. The global success of The Chosen has allowed Justen to reach and remind people that Jesus meets you where you're at. As a former teacher and coach, Justen is passionate about bringing the best out of everyone and reminding them that nothing can separate them from the love of God. Boots on the Ground: Download The Chosen app on your device and watch it with your family. "Wow, we were amazed by the pilot episode of The Chosen. Our family would absolutely love to see a TV series about the life of Jesus created. We'd binge watch the whole season all at once... we're praying for the success of this project." -The Robertsons (Stars of "Duck Dynasty") www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

… Accepting your wife Our first year of marriage was hell and you can read about it in my book Strong Men, Dangerous Times. We were married 9 months after dating and really didn't know each other the way we probably should have. I discovered that it was easier to love her than to accept her. I needed to accept who she was. I had to accept I had no power to change Shanna, but I could change my attitude towards her and try to win her. We win our wives when we accept, love and serve them. Boots on the Ground Without using physical features, make a list of what you love about your wife. Then take her on a date and share this list with her. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Dan Wobschall has been in sexual addiction ministry since 2012 and joined the team at Be Broken Ministries in 2015 where he currently serves as Director Gateway to Freedom. Dan is the currently Executive Director for BoldPath Life Strategies. He is a sexual addiction recovery coach for men, has been a contributor to the Covenant Eyes blogging team, and worked with them at a few Covenant Eyes events. This article from Covenant Eyes includes a self-assessment. Self-Assessment - "Am I a Sex Addict?" Private Sex Addiction Self-Assessment www.bebroken.com [email protected] Gateway to Freedom workshop Boots on the Ground: Take the assessment above. How do you score? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Why it is Bad???? The Bible GEN 2:24 For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. 1 COR 7: 1Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. 3 The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. HEB 13:4 Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge 1 Cor 6:18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. 19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your bodies. Testing the relationship creates a cracked broken relationship foundation because it is a relationship that based on a test and not commitment Marriage and children will never be convenient. If your marriage is based on this myth you will struggle. It dishonors the woman you are called to protect by parading her around. Statistics prove that it is a BAD idea with 70% of cohabitator divorcing over the already high 50%. Again, the Bible proves itself over the world's wisdom Psychology Today The new study is by Michael Rosenfeld and Katharina Roesler. Their findings suggest that there remains an increased risk for divorce for those living together prior to marriage and that prior studies suggesting the effect went away had a bias toward analyzing shorter versus longer-term effects. They found that living together before marriage was associated with lower odds of divorce in the first year of marriage, but increased odds of divorce in all other years tested, and this finding held across decades of data. SOLUTION "IF you are claiming to follow Jesus" If you do not, then do what you want. Get married asap Move out asap Keep doing what you are doing and pay for it. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

In this episode we will hear from Jim Ramos speaking At Boones Chapel in Prattville, Alabama. Every so often we will feature Jim speaking live at one of his event. At the end of this episode go to www.meninthearena.org and pick up Jim's newest Book, Strong Man Dangerous times. Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World. Jim speaks on Grit. Men, never give up. They don't throw in the towel. They don't hide and defer. They get in the arena and fight each day and finish well. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Have you ever been called soft? Or maybe, you think you are so hardcore with no flaws. We all have something we need to work on. What is yours? A man in the arena allows other men to speak into their lives and help them identify their weaknesses. www.bvoam.com Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Dr. Clarence Schuler was filmed as a marriage expert for one session of Oprah's "Love Goals" reality show in 2020. He & his wife Brenda are members of FamilyLife's Weekend to Remember Marriage Getaway Speaker Team. He serves on the Fatherhood CoMission Board. Clarence partners with Gary Chapman and speaks at The Five Love Languages and Date Night events. He has authored 10 books including our book for today, Making your Wife your Best Friend. "Conflict is not about winning. It's about understanding." "If couples prays together, they have a 1 in 10000 chance of divorcing." "How I treat the gift (my wife) is a reflection of my worship for God." Boots on the Ground Ask yourself this question, and your wife. Are you a pleasure to be married to? www.bvoam.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

The TRAIL'S END is FINISHING STRONG because it is the functional as well as foundational component of manhood. Why do so many men finish wrong and so few finish strong? Men in the Arena. Men in the Stress Bubble raising kids right now, listen up! Do you want to finish strong? GOOD! Here is how. Finish every day strong (6:00 -9:00), compounded over time, will equal a strong LIFE finish. Without these four things, a man is in SERIOUS danger of finishing wrong. This is so important guys! REPUTABLE (1 Timothy 3:7) There is nothing in my private life that could cause embarrassment to me or my family if it became public. Those who know me best, respect me the most. WISE (1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:8) People often come to me for advice. I seek the advice from people I trust before making and big decision. TACTFUL (1 Timothy 3:3, and Titus 1:7) I try to make peace when a conflict begins, rather than welcoming a fight. I am not considered to be argumentative. BALANCED (1 Timothy 3:2) I rarely overcommit myself. I regularly make time to regroup, reflect, and refresh. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Kent Evans is the Executive Director and co-founder of Manhood Journey, a ministry that helps fathers become disciple-makers. After a twenty-year career as a business leader, he embarked on biblical Fatherhood ministry projects. He's appeared on television, radio, web outlets and podcasts. He's spoken at parenting and men's events. His first book, Wise Guys: Unlocking Hidden Wisdom from the Men Around You, was written to help men learn how to find mentors and wise counsel. Learn more at https://manhoodjourney.org/ or https://fatheronpurpose.org/ THE TOOLS TOOL #1: TRUST GOD "If you're headed down the path of being a godly dad, you won't get too far without something guiding your direction. You're gonna need a true north. Trusting God is the first tool you need in your pack." TOOL #2: KNOW SCRIPTURE TOOL #3: PRAY FERVENTLY "The more you trust God and the more you know His Word, the more you realize you need Him. You can't do this alone. You need help. Reliance on God requires communication with God. It's a two-way transmission that never stops." TOOL #4: BUILD RELATIONSHIPS "You're not built to go through this life alone. Forces are waging war against you. For you to have the tool of building relationships, you'll need to head these relationship killers off at the pass— PRIDE: Self-focus is so subtle you often don't see it until it's too late CULTURE: You're told real men keep silent–if you talk, you're the odd-man-out COMPETITION: You compete all the time and it's exhausting." TOOL #5: SERVE OTHERS "When we serve out of duty, we're doing it begrudgingly. We do it because we have to. When we're serving from a place of devotion, we're serving because we care about the other person. We do it because we choose to. When we serve from a heart of delight, we're actually, looking forward to serving. We do it because we get to." TOOL #6: STEWARD RESOURCES "The Godly dad understands everything he has is not his own. His money, time, family, possessions, influence. These are all gifts that must be stewarded well." TOOL #7: MAKE DISCIPLES "The Godly dad makes disciples. There are two places where you should be discipling others." www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

The DESCENT is LEADING COURAGEOUSLY because it is the functional as well as foundational component of manhood. Every year more people die on the DESCENT than the climb. SERVANT (1 Timothy 3:1, and Acts 20:28) I find true joy in serving others. My family would say that I am a willing servant. TEACHER (1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:9) I regularly share my Christian beliefs. I often share with others what I have learned in the Bible. LEADER (1 Timothy 3:4 and Titus 1:6) I consistently lead by Joshua 24:15, "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." My wife trusts my spiritual leadership. SELFLESS (Titus 1:7) I live by C.S. Lewis' quote that, "Humility is not thinking less of yourself. It is thinking of yourself less." I am willing to listen and adjust if someone's idea is better than mine. Head on over to the website at www.meninthearena.org and grab your FREE Electronic version of Guts and Manhood! www.bvoam.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Patrick is the founder and Executive Director of Ironman Outdoors, a men's ministry whose mission is to "Connect Men to Christ in the Outdoors." Patrick and his army of volunteer pro staffers lead over 40 weekend hunting and fishing retreats for men each year. From humble beginnings in his Sunday School class, the ministry has grown to 14 states and offers life changing weekends for men each year. Patrick and his wife Sheron have 4 children and reside in Blythewood, SC. Our ministry reaches men for Christ through our "manhood discussions." We create a Bass Pro Shop atmosphere where men feel safe taking off their camo! Boots on the Ground: Go to BVOAM Measure where you are as a man to see where you need to take your face paint off. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

The summit is PURSUING GOD PASSIONATELY because it is apex of masculinity It is the summit of manhood. PURSUING GOD PASSIONATELY HOSPITABLE (1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:8) I come alive when I can bless someone with a gift or help them in a time of need. I love to make people feel welcome. GENEROUS (1 Timothy 3:3 and Titus 1:7) I give at least 10% my income to the causes I care about. I am known as a generous man. GOOD (Titus 1:8) I long for the things that please God. I do not allow anything into my mind that would hinder me from becoming God's best version of me. DEVOUT (Titus 1:8) I strive to find victory in my life over sin. My life looks different than those who do not follow Christ. www.bvoam.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Thane Marcus Ringler is a former professional golfer turned speaker, writer, and development coach living in Denver, CO with his wife Evan. Thane is the host of The Up & Comers Show, a podcast all about the process of becoming and living with intentionality, while sharing stories from other inspiring up and comers along the way. Today we are talking about his short ebook called, Catalysts For Hope: Unlocking Energy, Optimism, And Your Full Potential, which is today's topic for the show. thanemarcus.com Boots on the Ground Hit Thane up on his website. And go listen to EP 415 The Two Most Important Questions a Man Needs To Answer, and Jim will help you craft your own purpose statement. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Fighting Apathy - FAITHFUL (1 Timothy 3:2) 1. I follow strict moral boundaries to ensure my fidelity. 2. My wife would say that I consider her the most important person to me. MODERATE (1 Timothy 3:3; Titus 1:7) 1. There is no food, drink, or foreign substance that has mastery over me. 2. I am not overweight for my age, body type, and height. PEACEMAKER (1 Timothy 3:3) 1. People tell me that I am a team player who works well with others. 2. When I have a problem with someone, I go to them instead of ignoring it. DISCIPLINED (1 Timothy 3:6) 1. I exercise at least 3-4 times a week. 2. I do not engage in gossip or negative talk. www.bvoam.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Joe Rigney is assistant professor of theology and literature at Bethlehem College & Seminary in Minneapolis, Minnesota. He is also a pastor at Cities Church in St. Paul and the author of: 5 Books including our book for today— More Than a Battle: How to Experience Victory, Freedom, and Healing from Lust. He lives in Minneapolis with his wife and three sons. Boots on the Ground: Women, have a conversation without being threatened about lust with your husband. Men, get into a group of men who will push you because they want you to win. www.bvoam.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

PROTECTING INTEGRITY A. RESPECTED (1 Timothy 3:2) I have been told that I am a role model. I am known as a man of my word. B. PATIENT (Titus 1:7) Those closest to me would say I am a great listener. I model thinking before speaking. C. GENTLE (1 Timothy 3:3) I am careful not to inflict guilt or shame upon someone when they make a mistake. I am sensitive to the feelings of others. D. FAIR (Titus 1:8) I judge a person by their character more than their color, religion, appearance. I am known as a someone who is fair. www.bvoam.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Greg Stoughton was born with ectrodactyly, a rare genetic condition causing him to miss a few fingers and toes at birth, with some of those have being fused. Yet, Greg is an overcomer! Greg Stoughton has served in full time ministry for over three decades with Cru—formerly Campus Crusade for Christ—with Athletes in Action. Throughout Greg's 30-years in ministry, a passion to reach and equip men is evidenced in many roles. Greg authored a book about his faith and life journey, Born Wrong, Made Right: Thinking Differently to Unleash Your Potential. It's our focus of today's conversation. [email protected] Boots on the Ground: Take a piece of pare and draw a straight line and make a timeline of your life thus far. Write down you highlights and lowlights. Then identify where God was in your life. www.bvoam.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Jim Ramos Reveals his Life Work that we believe will be live changing for 1000's of men around the world. With the help of God's word Jim helps men to identify what a godly man looks like and for men to identify where they are at on their journey. www.bvoam.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Did you know that more and more families have a step situation in them today. In this Podcast Ron Deal helps dads win in step parenting through the day to day conflicts that arise. Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is founder of Smart Stepfamilies, Director of FamilyLife Blended, the author of over a dozen books and video resources on stepfamily living including the Smart Stepdad which we will be talking about today. His podcast FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal and his one-minute radio feature are heard around the world and his work has been quoted/referenced by multiple news outlets such as the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNBC.com, and USA Today. smartstepfamilies.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. When we step into manhood we think Her first. When we act like a male AKA, a boy we think of ourselves first. If you want to have more satisfaction in the arena of sex, then put her first. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

This is a special episode with Jim and Shanna Ramos, and Dr's Paul and Virginia Friesen. You do not want to miss this one! Dr's. Paul and Virginia Friesen have been involved in Family Ministries for more than 40 years through family camps, church staff positions, speaking, consulting, and writing. In 2003, they founded Home Improvement Ministries (www.HIMweb.org), a non-profit organization dedicated to equipping individuals and churches to better encourage marriages and families in living out God's design for healthy relationships. As the lead resource couple at Home Improvement Ministries, the Friesen's regularly speak at marriage, men's, and women's conferences in the US and internationally, as well as local family and parenting seminars, and have an ongoing ministry with professional athletes. Paul and Virginia both have Doctorates in Marriage and Family Therapy from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary. Between them they have authored more than fifteen books and curriculums on parenting and marriage, including Letters to My Daughters, In Our Image, Raising a Trailblazer, Before You Save the Date, The Marriage App, and most recently, Lovin' Your Wife Like Christ When You Ain't No Jesus. Paul and Virginia were married in 1976 and are the parents of three young adult women, two of whom are now married to wonderful, Godly men. Their middle daughter is living fully for Christ as a single woman and trusting God for His best. Paul and Virginia's greatest joy in life is knowing that their children are "walking in the truth." The Marriage App is available to you for 50% off during the month of March with code: Arena at check out. Boots on the Ground Sit down with your wife and ask each other for forgiveness. Also, take notes on these applications and do them. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Jim Ramos answers the question, Why your wife wants to control you. Wether it is conscious or subconscious she has a natural propensity to do this and it has been happening since the beginning of time. Why is this? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

We live in a world that has fallen so far from biblical truth regarding sex, and many in Church have bought the lie. I regularly battle "Christian" men and their anti-biblical views of cohabitation, homosexuality, divorce, and sex outside of marriage. Dr. Sean McDowell is a gifted communicator with a passion for equipping the church, and in particular young people, to make the case for the Christian faith. In addition to his role as Associate Professor in the Christian Apologetics program at Talbot School of Theology, Biola University, Sean travels throughout the United States and abroad, speaking at camps, churches, schools, universities, and conferences. Sean is the co-host for the Think Biblically podcast, which is one of the most popular podcasts on faith and cultural engagement. He has written, co-written, or edited more than twenty books and has a leading apologetics blog at seanmcdowell.org. In April 2000, Sean married his high school sweetheart, Stephanie. They have three children and live in San Juan Capistrano, California. https://seanmcdowell.org/item/chasing-love www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

Do you pray with your spouse? Is this something you never do or maybe just when you are in crisis? We would like to encourage you to make this an ongoing habit in your marriage and you will be surprised at how God moves in your relationship. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

In this episode we interview Clair Hoover with NCMM, National Coalition of Ministries to Men. Clair shares about that gut shot that every man gets. Are you ready for the gut shot when it comes? Because it will come. Clair is a business owner specializing in commercial real estate development and management and has a calling to challenge and encourage men as Christ followers. Clair has a background in the marketplace with an emphasis in Accounting and Information Technologies and a degree from Millersville University. For the past 14 years, he has also led the Men's Ministry Leadership team at his home church and has had the opportunity to minister to and encourage over 10,000 men. Clair is currently serving as the Executive Director for the National Coalition of Ministries to Men. Clair has a passion for encouraging men at all points in their journey to become all God designed them to be. Clair and his bride Bonnie reside with their two sons in Manheim, Pennsylvania. "Boots on the Ground" What's next? What action step will you take because of today? What will you do because of what you heard? Here it is. Guys if you are not involved with at least another guy in a Bible Study you have been gut shot already. Get plugged in and join or start one. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

A more fulfilled life comes with having a mentor/ confidant. Where do you find this guy? Why do so many guys lack this person in their life? We would love to hear from you on this. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

Have you ever been asked what your mission in life is? What are you here for? Or do you have a vision for your life? Guys we have to answer these questions. You knowing this will help you to live your life with direction. It is a tragedy to live your life aimless, with no vision. Don't be that guy. Live out your purpose. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

How are you goals coming along that you set for the year. Jim shares some things that have worked for him in the past when it comes to achieving his goals in hopes that they will help you on your journey. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

Dan Meers is a man on a mission. Living his life to brighten the day of others is what he is committed to. Being a mascot for Jesus is a big deal to Dan! Dan Meers has been KC Wolf, the mascot of the Kansas City Chiefs, for more than 30 years. In 2006 he was selected as the first NFL mascot inducted into the Mascot Hall of Fame. Dan travels throughout the United States and the world entertaining thousands of people both in and out of costume. He has performed in over 30 states and ten different countries. He is in high demand not only as a mascot but also as a humorous and motivational speaker to audiences of all ages. His enthusiasm, optimism and love for life are contagious and make Dan an inspiration to all those he meets. Be it young or old, executive or blue collar, his audiences walk away with a smile and a renewed spirit to live life to the fullest. Whether you're a Kansas City Chiefs fan or not, you'll enjoy Dan Meers as he shares his unique wit and wisdom about life. Wolves Can't Fly – Faith, Family and Fur Mascot on a Mission – Living a Life of Influence www.danmeers.org Tyranny of the Urgent by Charles Hummel Boots on the Ground: Men, get Into a group now. You need to be in some sort of group with other men. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

We all worship something, and the way we spend our money and resources shows what we love and worship. Are you a generous person, giving to kingdom causes? Or are you building wealth for your comfort? What does the way you spend and invest in say where your heart is? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

Tom Wilson has been in ministry for over 50 years. 30 plus years with Young Life. The last 15 he has been working with National Young Life, mentoring and leading "leaders", Tom spent 10 years as CEO of Leadership Network------ working with the top innovative churches in the country, and CEO of Halftime with Bob Buford. Bob wrote the book "Halftime, help men move from Success to Significance. During those 10 years, Tom had the opportunity to help coach men who wanted to do something "that mattered" during their second half of life. During this time, he has taught Men's Fraternity for five years with several hundred men. Now Tom is the CEO of BetterMan, helping build this new ministry and rolling out the new curriculum that Robert Lewis wrote. In this episode you will learn what can make your life more fulfilled. What will help you be a better husband and father as well. https://betterman.com Boots on the Ground: Get a confidant. Get an older guy in your life that you can confide in. Who will walk with you. Who will meet with you once a week to help you become your best version. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

Are your goals SMART? Specific Measurable Attainable Realistic Time Sensitive In order to reach your goals these are very important things to consider. Link to Jim's Message https://meninthearena.org/sermons www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

Scotty Kessler is the Director of The Robert Coleman School of Discipleship and The Wes Neal School Of Sports Ministry at Faith International University and Seminary in Tacoma (WA) (https://faithseminary.edu/) where he is also an adjunct professor in both programs. Scotty is also a consultant on initiatives related to advancing the Kingdom of God through prayer, discipleship and the integration of sport and faith. He has over 35 years of Head and Assistant Football Coaching and Consulting experience, having coached primarily at the college level with stops in Illinois, Tennessee, Texas, California, Florida and Washington State. Scotty received a Doctor of Humane Letters (honoris causa) from Faith International University and Seminary for his body of work and intensive approach to leadership and character development, spanning over three decades, equipping (discipling) men who disciple other men He lives in Omaha (NE) with his wife Tammy and daughter Rylee. Additionally, he has two adult sons, Taylor and Reid Roelofs Scotty has written multiple documents on making disciples, prayer and the integration of sport and faith, including YouTube seminary/university video course content/teachings of the previous subjects on the website - https://scottykessler.com/ Boots on the Ground: Find a FATC guy. And Start discipling him. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

God has done some amazing things in and through the ministries of Men in the Arena. We are beyond excited about what He has accomplished and what we know He will do in 2021. Listen to what is ahead for all of us in The Arena! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

This is our second part of our interview with Jack Alan Levine. Jack has authored nine books, including My Addict Your Addict, and his newest books Addiction and Recovery Handbook to be released in January. He is the creator of the online video program "Free for Life At Last" for those struggling with addiction and their families and speaks frequently at churches and men's conferences on "Overcoming Addiction" He currently serves as Executive Pastor at his church. Jack's Website https://www.jackalanlevine.com/shop Promo Code NOW at checkout. Boots on the Ground: If you have identified an addictive behavior in your life, get in a group now. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

The episode is from a message Jim Ramos gave to the men at our weekly Arena Men's Gathering. Bro-lationships are so important and Jim unpacks what they should look like. Are your bro-lationships unhealthy and co-dependent? Or are you and your bro's sharpening each other? Are you calling each other out and upward? Do you need a small group? We have teams of men meeting around the country on virtual teams. Reach out and let us know. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

Jim Ramos preaches at Yamhill Community Church. What is in a name? In Jesus Name? This Christmas do you celebrate the Jesus in the Bible? The Messiah. The only uncreated one. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

In this episode Jim shares how he built his garage gym to stay fit during the pandemic. Jim shares what to look for and what to avoid. Follow @themeninthearena on instagram to see pictures of Jim's garage gym. Reach out if you want more info. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

Jack Alan Levine has authored nine books, including My Addict Your Addict, and his newest books Addiction and Recovery Handbook to be released in January. He is the creator of the online video program "Free for Life At Last" for those struggling with addiction and their families and speaks frequently at churches and men's conferences on "Overcoming Addiction" He currently serves as Executive Pastor at his church. Jack's Website

When asked what is the manliest thing a guy can do, what comes to mind? In this equipping episode we want to challenge you to think differently. When you think of confession what does this cause you to think of? What does it look like? This is the last few days to get your free download of the Field Guide, so get it now! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

Many of us have experienced being in a season of obscurity. Maybe we are in it right now. What is God doing in us in this season? You are challenged to think about the fact that he is activating your anointing. Dr. Scott Silverii is a son of the Living God. Thankful for the gift of his wife, Leah, they share seven kids, a French bulldog named Bacon and a micro-mini goldendoodle named Biscuit. A highly decorated, twenty-five year law enforcement career promptly ended in retirement when God called Scott out of public service and into HIS service. The "Chief" admits that leading people to Christ is more exciting than the twelve years he spent undercover, sixteen years in SWAT, and five years as chief of police combined. Scott has earned a Master of Public Administration and a Ph.D. in Cultural Anthropology. Education and experience allow for a deeper understanding in ministering to the wounded, as he worked to break free from his own past pain and abuse. In 2016, Scott was led to plant a church. Exclusive to online ministry, Five Stones Church.Online was born out of the calling to combat the negative influences reigning over social media. Scott's alpha manhood model for heroes is defined by, "Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love." (1 Corinthians 16:13-14) Scott and Leah love the Lord and the passion He's placed on their hearts for ministering to people. An experienced speaker, mentor and confidential accountability partner, Scott is available for workshops, conferences and churches. He and Leah operate a nonprofit Christian publishing house that helps people share their stories with the world. Contact Five Stones Press for more information. Five Stones Church Online - https://www.facebook.com/FiveStonesChurchOnline ScottSilverii.com Boots on the Ground: Ask God to show you what season your'e in. If you are in a season of obscurity hang in there and let God work in you. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us

When asked what is the manliest thing a guy can do, what comes to mind? In this equipping episode we want to challenge you to think differently. When you think of confession what does this cause you to think of? What does it look like? This is the last week to get your free download of the Field Guide, so get it now. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us