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Childood Trauma Makes it Hard to Make Friends as an Adult

Are you the adult child of a toxic, alcoholic, or narcissist? If so, you may find it hard to make meaningful friendships. If this is the case for you, that is not your fault. Survival strategies created during childhood to keep you safe, may be keeping you stuck and in fear as opposed to taking chances on making new friends. Childhood trauma, emotional neglect and narcissistic abuse, inhibit our ability to trust others and it also disrupts our ability to trust the self. Making friends is incredibly challenging for adult children of narcissistic and alcoholic parents, because we have been programmed to associate pain, rejection, and abandonment with close relationships. However, it is possible to find your way back to the divine self through inner child recovery work. If you are interested in working with Lisa one to one or if you would like to begin one of her healing self study courses, visit: https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp Or reach out at [email protected]

Oct 16, 202320 min

Narcissistic Abuse: Gaslighting and Psychological Manipulation

Narcissistic abuse is a form of psychological manipulation that relies on dominance, power, and control, and is enforced most often through various forms of mental abuse. Gaslighting is a tool that narcissists rely on to cause their victims to consistently doubt the validity of their thoughts. Whether a narcissist is aware of their mind games is not as important as recognizing these forms of abuse. Once you recognize gaslighting, projection, and various forms of invalidation, you can far more guard yourself against the trauma bonds these relationships create. In a trauma bonded relationship, your cognitive ability to trust your thoughts, emotions, needs, ideas, opinions, and perceptions will become hindered due to being manipulated to believe that questioning a narcissist is a form of disloyalty. Your very thoughts and emotions will work against you, that is until you gain the invaluable insights you need to arm yourself against narcissistic abuse. If you are ready to heal and commit to the authentic self, check out this limited time offer. For a short time, I am offering you the opportunity to register for three of my powerfully healing programs for less than the price of one. https://www.lisaaromano.com/btwm-special

Oct 13, 202311 min

Codependency Recovery: What Every People Pleaser Needs to Know

Codependency is a deeply ingrained pattern of behavior that can be challenging to confront and overcome. It stems from a dysfunctional relationship dynamic where one person enables and relies on another to meet their emotional and psychological needs. As a result, the codependent individual often loses touch with their identity, desires, and boundaries. Confronting codependency can be difficult for several reasons. Firstly, it often arises from childhood experiences and learned behaviors, making it a deeply rooted pattern that feels familiar and comfortable, even if it is unhealthy. Confronting codependency means facing these deeply ingrained beliefs and behaviors, which can be unsettling and uncomfortable. Furthermore, codependency often involves a fear of abandonment or rejection. The codependent individual may have developed a strong sense of responsibility for others' emotions and well-being, fearing that if they assert their own needs or boundaries, they will be met with rejection or abandonment. This fear can make it incredibly challenging to confront codependency, as it requires stepping out of the caretaker role and prioritizing one's own well-being. However, it is important to remember that confronting codependency is an essential step toward reclaiming your own autonomy, self-worth, and emotional well-being. It requires a willingness to explore and challenge deep-seated beliefs. You can learn how to expand your awareness, and become more honest with yourself, although this is incredibly challenging for someone who fears abandonment, criticism, and rocking the boat. If you are ready to breakthrough codependency, here is a link to a FREE 10 Day Challenge! https://www.lisaaromano.com/10-day-challenge

Oct 9, 202323 min

Inner Child Healing: How to Begin the Journey Within

The inner child is that part of ourselves that holds the truth of our traumatic pasts. The inner child has been parented by those who may have been unaware they are unaware. When you are raised in a dysfunctional home, the ones in control do not admit that the home is toxic and often rely on denial to keep the sick family system going. The vulnerable narcissistic father, and angry codependent mother, who are stuck in a toxic relationship, can become blind to the damaging effects their immaturity, or lack of awareness is causing their children. However, if you have been raised by toxic parents, all is not lost. Your inner child is an innate, authentic aspect of you that you can learn to honor and connect with at any time. Often, wounded adult children are able to far more for others than themselves. We can benefit from this dynamic by perceiving our inner child as an actual little person within, that is worthy of our love, protection, and compassion. It is my hope, that this episode allows you the ability to begin your inner child healing journey. Dear One, you are enough, but your subconscious mind may be working against you and by default, keeping you stuck in survival patterns that require that you abandon the self. The 21 Day Inner Child Journaling Program can help you begin that journey back to the divine inner child. https://www.lisaaromano.com/journaling-adventure

Oct 6, 202310 min

The Effects of a Narcissistic Mother and the Journey to Authentic Healing

⭐️ The Effects of a Narcissistic Mother and the Journey to Authentic ❤️‍🩹 In today's episode, you will hear from the daughter of a narcissistic mother, who has found her way back to the authentic self. A narcissistic mother has a significant impact on a child's life and without taking the time to heal, the patterns that develop in childhood as a way to survive, become a way of life. Growing up under the influence of a narcissistic mother can be emotionally and psychologically challenging. The constant criticism, manipulation, and lack of empathy can leave deep scars that affect our self-worth, relationships, and overall well-being. The journey towards reclaiming our authentic selves involves unraveling the layers of conditioning, breaking free from the patterns of self-doubt, and redefining our sense of self-worth. It requires us to confront and process the pain, to explore our emotions with compassion, and to learn to trust and love ourselves unconditionally. This, of course, takes time, and that is why I created The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program. Committing to your healing journey is an act of self-love and a powerful step towards creating a life that aligns with your true essence. When you embrace the process, honor your emotions, and know that as you heal and reclaim your authentic self, you are creating a brighter and more fulfilling future despite a painful past. Remember, the brain can only play with the tools that are in the shed, so if you grew up living in fear, and toning yourself down to keep others happy, there are neurological pathways that need to understood and reprogrammed in order for you to BREAKTHROUGH the veil of consciousness and live the authentic life you were born to live. For a limited time only, you can participate in this program for 50% off; https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

Oct 2, 20231h 0m

What Are The Emotional Effects of Growing up With Alcoholic Parents

Whether you are the adult child of an alcoholic, or emotionally immature or neglectful parents raised you, it is important to contemplate the effects of such a childhood. Do you worry more about what other people think about you than what you think about yourself? Were you raised to feel as if your emotions were insignificant? Was your home unpredictable, and did you feel like at any moment, your house could explode? In this episode, Lisa A. Romano, a world-renowned mental wellness expert, dives deep into some of the not so obvious effects of growing up in an alcoholic, toxic family system. The good news is, there is a way to heal and to break through the damaging effects growing up in a dysfunctional home creates. The first step is coming out of denial. Lisa's been there and paved the way for those willing to live above the veil of consciousness, challenging their faulty negative childhood programming. Begin your journey with Lisa's 12 Week Recovery Program today. https://www.lisaaromano.com/btwm-special

Sep 25, 20239 min

Inner Child Healing: Conquering the Fear of Abandonment 12 Week Transformation

The inner child is that part of us we can easily lose touch with, who knows our truth and has witnessed and experienced every pain, known and unknown. For adult children of alcoholics or those raised in emotionally neglectful or abusive homes, the inner child is forced to go underground, minimize their emotions, make excuses for being abused, and often have no choice but to live in fear of abandonment. Lisa A. Romano is a world-renowned Life Coach specializing in mental wellness, codependency recovery, and narcissistic abuse. She believes that most, if not all, of our adult upsets can be linked directly to a faulty, negative subconscious belief that originated in childhood. She offers those ready to commit to the conscious healing path her 12 Week Program, which has recently been endorsed by psychologist Dr. Robin Bryman Ph.D., who routinely suggests Lisa's course to her patients to help them develop their self-awareness and self-confidence. In this episode, Lisa sits down with Holly, a member of her conscious healing community. She discusses the path to healing the inner child through her holistic and integral approach to healing, which encompasses brain science, spiritual teachings, cognitive behavioral techniques, tough love, and self-compassion. If you'd like to become a member of Lisa's Healing Conscious Community, you can register for the 12-Week Recovery Program here, qualifying you as a member. https://www.lisaaromano.com/btwm-special

Sep 22, 20231h 10m

Do You Love to Be Loved? Break Free of Unhealthy Relationship Dynamics

Love can be complicated especially when unhealed wounds are at play outside of self awareness. It's easy to focus on the output or the return when it comes to love and keep your heart and eyes focused on what you are receiving or not receiving from another person. Whenever we focus on the outside, we lose our way and lose our alignment with the purity of the now moment. If I love you, and focus on what you are doing for me in return, then my intention is tainted because my attention on you comes with strings attached. Unhealthy relationship dynamics can be confusing to sort out and that's why self awareness, and self accountability are so important. To be healthy in a relationship you must be willing to address in yourself the beliefs, assumptions, or behaviors you hold that might be working against your desire to be loving. Codependency is not love. It is a mask for unhealed wounds, and manifests in varied ways, one of which is to love others wishing to be loved in return. Curious and want to hear more? Listen in as renowned Life Coach and bestselling author, Lisa A. Romano, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse recovery, explains why and how, loving to be loved is working against your chances of developing healthy relationships. To work with Lisa, or to participate in one of her online courses, visit; https://www.lisaaromano.com

Sep 19, 202310 min

Inner Child Healing; Live Life Coaching with Lisa A. Romano

We all have an inner child. However, not all of us are aware of our inner child, or the unhealed wounds we have carried around with us, since childhood. Many who are on the healing path feel a calling to heal the inner void. Those not on the healing path may not and may not be aware of an inner emptiness, or perhaps they truly are fulfilled human beings. For those of us who are aware of this gaping hole in our hearts, who have carried a sense of dread with us most of our lives, are those who feel called to heal at the level of our soul, and so we throw ourselves into the fire of our own dragons. In this podcast, you will hear Lisa A. Romano, the Breakthrough Life Coach, address members of her conscious healing community, discuss their personal breakthroughs, and how they are successfully navigating the many layers of emotional recovery. If you would like to become a member of Lisa's conscious healing community, you can do so here: https://www.lisaaromano.com/btwm-special You may also participate in Lisa's FREE 10 Day Healing Challenge https://www.lisaaromano.com/10-day-challenge

Sep 18, 20231h 17m

Codependency Isn't Sexy: Conquering Unhealthy Relationship Behaviors

Codependency in relationships isn't sexy and conquering issues related to being codependent are incredibly challenging. Codependency is often related to emotional trauma tied to childhood abandonment and neglect. Feeling invisible, uncared for and unseen arrests a child's emotional growth. Feeling abandoned, a child assumes it is their fault, which causes shame. Below the veil of consciousness, shame causes the ego to live in a defensive state, skirting around abandonment issues. Things like people pleasing, enabling, caretaking and looking to fix others, can be tied to expectation, disappointment, anger and even rage. And because codependency is rooted in the subconscious mind, we often don't even know we are codependent until our lives become unmanageable. That is the value of podcasts such as this, and the work of renowned Life Coach and bestselling mental wellness expert Lisa A. Romano. Listen in as she helps us face the unhealthy ways in which codependency expresses itself in our relationships. And if you are ready to breakthrough the chains of the past, Lisa's online courses can be an invaluable lifeline. Learn more about her limited time offer here, to participate in three of her programs for less than the price of one. https://www.lisaaromano.com/btwm-special

Sep 11, 202328 min

Feeling Not Good Enough--The Problems Childhood Trauma Create

Welcome to another insightful episode of Breakdown to Breakthrough with Lisa A. Romano, where we delve into topic the fascinating of "Feeling Not Good Enough." In this episode, we explore the profound impact of childhood trauma on our self-worth and how it can lead us to seek validation from external sources. Join us as we uncover the roots of this behavior and discuss empowering strategies to break free from this cycle and cultivate a healthier sense of self. Childhood trauma can have a lasting impact on our self-perception, often causing us to internalize feelings of inadequacy. As a result, we may find ourselves constantly seeking validation from others, looking for external sources to make us feel good enough. This pattern can manifest in various aspects of our lives including relationships,, career choices, and personal achievements. However, by understanding the connection between childhood trauma and the need for external validation, we can begin to reclaim our self-worth and break free from this detrimental cycle. By addressing the root causes of our insecurities and nurturing self-acceptance, we can embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth, ultimately finding fulfillment and contentment from within. In this thought-provoking episode, we delve deep into the impact of childhood trauma on our self-esteem and the tendency to seek external validation. Join us as we explore the transformative potential of understanding and healing these wounds, allowing us to break free from the cycle of not feeling good enough. By embracing our own worthiness and cultivating self-compassion, we can pave the way for a more fulfilling and empowered life. Tune in and gain valuable insights and actionable strategies to embark on your journey towards self-acceptance and personal growth. For a limited time only, Lisa A. Romano is offering three of her emotional recovery programs for one low fee. Get lifetime access to The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program, Membership and 21 Day Inner Child Healing Adventure. https://www.lisaaromano.com/btwm-special

Sep 8, 202318 min

Ego Mind: It's Not the Real You

Are you stuck in the wounded ego, hearing your mind tell you you're not good enough? What if I told you, your ego mind is not the real you and that the real you is waiting for you to awaken to the illusion your ego has you falsely believing in? What if the critical voice in your head was a shadow of the past; an echo of those who raised you as a child? And what if, you could develop the mental skills to raise your awareness, and consciousness to the point that you could program your mind as you desired and in alignment with the divinity you are? The ego is a part of the mind that represents the 'I' within. It is not the real, authentic, divine you. It is the you that has been shaped by the default settings of the brain and external experiences. The real you; the authentic you is not limited by ego attachments, negative beliefs about the self, trauma or triggers. And while trauma is valid, as are trigger respones, each of these can be viewed as effects of a cause that resides in the past. The ego attaches to thoughts, beliefs, emotions and perceptions all outside detached awareness. If you are ready to expand your awareness and level up your consciousness, this episode is for you. Lisa A. Romano, Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach, breaks ego consciousness down in this episode. Take Lisa's 10 Day Living Above the Veil Challenge Here: https://www.lisaaromano.com/10-day-challenge

Sep 4, 202326 min

Conquer Loneliness: Expert Tips

Loneliness is common for adult children of alcoholics and those who have grown up in dysfunctional homes. As a healing adult child myself, I understand the deep-rooted struggles that individuals from toxic childhoods face, particularly when it comes to loneliness. Those who have grown up in toxic environments often struggle with forming healthy and meaningful relationships due to the lack of love, support, and emotional connection they experienced during their formative years. This can lead to a profound sense of loneliness, as they struggle to trust others and fear being hurt or abandoned once again. Furthermore, individuals from toxic childhoods may also struggle with feelings of unworthiness and low self-esteem. The negative messages and constant criticism they received as children can leave lasting scars, making it difficult for them to believe that they are deserving of love and companionship. This self-doubt can further isolate them, creating a vicious cycle of loneliness and self-sabotage. It is essential for those who have experienced toxic childhoods to seek healing and support, as they deserve to break free from the chains of loneliness and build healthy, fulfilling relationships. In this episode, you will learn a few of my expert tips that can help you conquer toxic loneliness. Ready to breakthrough the veil of consciousness and leave those subconscious self sabotaging patterns behind? Check out my 3 for 1 Coaching Package. https://www.lisaaromano.com/btwm-special

Sep 1, 202310 min

Codependent Narcissist Tango: Unpacking the Attraction

Codependency recovery is not for the faint of heart. Codependents often find themselves attracted to individuals with high narcissistic traits due to a complex interplay of psychological factors. One key reason is that codependents tend to have a deep-seated need to care for and please others. They derive a sense of self-worth and validation from being needed and relied upon by others. Narcissists, on the other hand, have an insatiable need for attention, admiration, and validation. This creates a dynamic where the codependent's desire to nurture and the narcissist's desire to be the center of attention align initially. The codependent may believe they can fulfill the narcissist's needs, while the narcissist provides the codependent with a sense of purpose and importance. Additionally, codependents often struggle with low self-esteem and an excessive need for validation from others. They may have grown up in dysfunctional or neglectful environments with unmet needs. This can lead them to seek validation and approval from external sources, such as a narcissistic partner. The grandiose and charismatic nature of narcissists can initially be captivating to codependents, as they see the narcissist as someone who can fill the void within and provide the validation they crave. However, this dynamic can become toxic over time as the codependent becomes increasingly enmeshed in meeting the narcissist's insatiable demands, losing sight of their own needs and well-being. It is important to note that not all codependents marry individuals with high narcissistic traits, and not all narcissists seek out codependents. Relationships are complex, and various factors contribute to their formation. However, understanding the dynamics that can attract codependents to narcissistic individuals can be crucial to breaking free from unhealthy patterns and fostering healthier, more balanced relationships. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano the Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Expert, takes you deep into the codependent narcissist tango. If you are ready to breakthrough the veil of consciousness, and live an autonomous and self-actualized life, free of codependency, check out Lisa's 3 in 1 Coaching Program offer. https://www.lisaaromano.com/btwm-special

Aug 28, 20239 min

Faking Happiness; 3 Reason Why You Do It

Do you fake happiness, or try to pretend you are more okay than you are? If so, you're not alone. Faking happiness is something many of us do without even noticing we are doing it. If you grew up feeling unworthy, and not good enough, you may have been brainwashed and psychologically conditioned to fake happiness. Adult children react to adult situations much like a child would, feeling subordinate to those we perceive as authorities in our lives. Healthy well adjusted adults can make mistakes without being overwhelmed with shame, guilt, and overresponsibility. On the other hand, those of us who struggle with a poor sense of self, who are codependent, who seek approval are those who don't know how to tap into our authentic selves without recoiling. We are those who have been raised to seek approval and deny our true emotions for the sake of validation, acceptance, and in fear of rejection. In this episode, you will learn about why so many of us fake happiness and how you can begin living a more authentic life. If you are ready to breakthrough the veil of consciousness so that you can live a more self actualized authentic life, check out this 3 in 1 offer. 3 Coaching Programs in 1 Offer

Aug 25, 202319 min

Intelligent Ways to Outsmart a Narcissist

In this podcast, Lisa Romano dives deep into how to outsmart a narcissist without them realizing what you are doing. By choosing not to engage with them and by letting go of your need to prove them wrong, you get to win and outsmart a narcissist. Learning to set boundaries with a narcissist is outsmarting them. Remember, narcissists win when you engage, so don't. Become the one a narcissist cannot attach to. Developing a willingness to not argue with a narcissist or to punish a narcissist, helps you stay out of the ring with a narcissist who is built for emotional brawls. Remember, setting boundaries is not only about protecting yourself but also about fostering self-respect and reclaiming your personal power. Are you ready to set boundaries like a boss? If so, Lisa A. Romano has created a one-hour mp3 and a downloadable Boundary Building Workbook that you can access here; https://www.lisaaromano.com/boundary-building-workshop

Aug 21, 202310 min

Spiritual Awakening: The Bittersweet Path to Enlightenment

Spiritual awakening is a bittersweet path to enlightenment. Awakening shatters our perception of reality. We are not taught to observe our thoughts, actions, perceptions, opinions or beliefs. Sadly, if we are raised by toxic parents, or suffer abuse, especially in childhood, as adults, we can remain unaware of how our brain, minds, and bodies have acclimated to trauma. By default, the brain is wired for survival. Below the veil of consciousness, triggers cause particular reactions within us. And because we are not taught to look within, and the world around us is so noisy and full of distractions, we simply react to all that is happening within us and cannot see the loopholes. Awakening is bittersweet because you will need to come out of denial, and you will also need to start paying more attention to emotions you may have pushed away. It is not your fault if you do not know how to process emotions healthily and if your subconscious mind was programmed to believe hiding your true self was what you should do. However, it is possible to reclaim your personal power, silence the outer noise, and learn how to connect to your authentic self. Enlightenment is a journey by which your consciousness expands beyond the limits of egoic constructs. However, ego is as necessary as the higher self. We are here to awaken, learn, expand, and remember who we truly are. Suppose you are ready to break through the veil of unconsciousness. In that case, Lisa A. Romano has created online courses and private communities to help you ascend the various matrixes in our world today, from childhood programming, to collective unconsciousness, doctrine, and relationship trauma. Start Your Healing and Awakening Journey Today! https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

Aug 18, 202332 min

Awakening to the Authentic Self: Reprogramming The Faulty Perception of the Self:

Living a conscious takes self mastery. The human mind is designed for automation. And just like an email system can be built with 'triggers' to respond to certain actions, as a result of being programmed, the human mind works the same way. You, Dear One, have been programmed by parents, teachers, society, and any other form of indoctrination including religion. If you were raised by alcoholic, or narcissistic parents, what you experienced in childhood has become part of your 'subconscious auto pilot programming.' What you feel on the emotional level affects every cell of your body. And what you think repeatedly, results in your program. And just like machines can be automated by programming certain triggers that result in a desired action, you can become triggered too. To escape this matrix, we must confront the faulty perception of self. And in order to confront our false self, we must first stabilize our awareness enough to be able to tap into the power of metacognition, which is our ability to observe the way we think. Buckle up, Dear Ones, we are taking a deep dive with Lisa A. Romano. In this episode, she explains how each of us is living below the veil of consciousness, unaware we are unaware, and that awakening is the first step toward becoming our powerful, creator authentic selves. Inspiration, motivation, compassion, and wisdom at its best. Lisa has made it her mission to create courses that help others awaken from the matrix faulty negative childhood programming creates. To begin your journey back to the divine self and to become a member of Lisa's Breakthrough Living Above the Veil Community, visit; https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

Aug 14, 202331 min

Embrace Your Healing Journey: Unleashing the Power of The Law of Attraction for Inner Transformation

Ever wonder about emotional healing and the law of attraction? It's not a coincidence that the airwaves we bask in are disorienting. Television, radio, and various social media outlets clammor for our attention. The more distracted we are, the more split our energy is and the less stable is our point of focus, and therefore our energy. Whether we are discussing governments, separation ideologies, politics, or the rights of individuals, or we are contemplating relationship dramas, that which causes us mental unrest makes us weak in every sense of the word, including our energy. Although many poo-poo, the principles of the law of attraction, or they are open to the exploring the subatomic world, is irrelevant. The human imagination cannot tell the difference between real and imagined. Your body can only respond to what is in the mind. If you feel unworthy, your body is weakened, as is your ability to make autonomous decisions that will lead to an empowering life. If you believe you need approval, at the subconscious level, every atom in your body vibrates at that resonance. And while you are worthy of respect, fun, and mutually satisfying relationships and friendships, you will not resonate with these experiences. The good news is, you can change your life when you embrace the principles of the law of vibration. To learn more about Lisa A. Romano and her transformational courses, especially her course on Mastering Your Reality, visit: https://www.lisaaromano.com/master-your-reality-coaching-program

Aug 11, 202328 min

Awakening the Wounded Adult Child From Toxic Homes: From Automation to Authenticity

Adult children of alcoholics, or those raised by narcissistic parents have grown up feeling disconnected from their authentic selves. We are those who have grown up feeling like aliens as if we don't fit in. We can tell you how other people feel, but we can't tell you how we feel. We are often those who have followed gurus and spiritual teachers all over the planet without relief. We have experienced toxic shame in childhood, and have been brainwashed to edit ourselves for the sake of others. We have never felt accepted as we are, and so we have never known true authenticity. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano the Breakthrough Life Coach, gently helps those who have felt forgotten, unloved, and like they don't belong to better understand how to come to terms with the idea that just because someone is talking and walking does not mean they are fully conscious. We all act out whatever we were conditioned to believe was true as children. We also rarely question how the default mechanisms of the brain come into play when considering what we believe. Our beliefs become our perceptions and our perceptions become our reality. We see what we believe. Lisa A. Romano has found the loophole out of the matrix of the world of the superficial automation that is the human life experience of the one who has yet to awaken their consciousness. Lisa has committed her life to helping others awaken and escape the trauma matrix, so that they can live lives of autonomy, personal fulfillment, and free thinking. Her programs help to awaken awareness step by step. Her flagship program is a great place to start if you are the adult child looking to regain your sense of self, despite parental or spousal narcissistic abuse, and or if you have grown up editing yourself for the sake of approval, validation, or the fear of abandonment. For a limited time, you may register for three of Lisa's programs for the price of one. https://www.lisaaromano.com/btwm-special

Aug 7, 202336 min

Dealing with a Narcissist: 5 Steps to Help You Deal With Crazymaking Communication

Crazymaking communication with a narcissist can be an incredibly frustrating and bewildering experience. Narcissists often employ manipulative tactics and gaslighting techniques to control and confuse their victims. They may constantly change the narrative, deny or distort reality, and make you question your own sanity. This crazymaking communication undermines your self-confidence and keeps you off balance, making it difficult to trust your own perceptions and judgments. The narcissist may engage in circular arguments, deflect blame, and use tactics such as projection or deflection to avoid taking responsibility for their actions. This constant manipulation and gaslighting can leave you confused, invalidated, and emotionally drained. Furthermore, a lack of empathy and genuine understanding often characterizes crazymaking communication with a narcissist. Narcissists are primarily focused on their own needs, desires, and self-image. They may dismiss or trivialize your feelings, invalidate your experiences, and consistently prioritize their own agenda. Their communication style may be filled with condescension, criticism, and belittlement, designed to assert their superiority and maintain control. Engaging in healthy, constructive communication becomes nearly impossible with narcissists as they are more interested in maintaining their power and manipulating the situation to their advantage. Recognizing the crazymaking communication patterns with a narcissist is a crucial step towards protecting your mental well-being. Remember, you cannot change a narcissist, but you can empower yourself to disengage from their toxic communication and prioritize your own emotional health. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano the Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Life Coach, explains 5 steps to help you better deal with crazymaking communication. Take Lisa's FREE 10 Day Video, Journaling and Meditation Challenge; https://www.lisaaromano.com/10-day-challenge

Aug 4, 20239 min

Extreme Parenting Robs You of Your Right to Set Healthy Boundaries

Extreme parenting, characterized by excessively strict or permissive behavior, can have a profound impact on our self-esteem and ability to set boundaries as adults. When parents are overly critical, demanding, or perfectionistic, it often leads to feelings of inadequacy and low self-worth in their children. Constant criticism and unrealistic expectations can erode a child's self-esteem, making them believe they are never good enough. As a result, they may grow up with a deep-seated fear of failure and an overwhelming need for validation. external This can make it incredibly challenging for them to set healthy boundaries as adults, as they constantly seek approval and fear disappointing others. On the other hand, permissive parenting, characterized by a lack of structure, discipline, and boundaries, can also harm self-esteem and boundary-setting. When parents fail to establish appropriate limits and consequences, children may struggle to develop a sense of responsibility and self-discipline. They may grow up with a blurred understanding of their own needs and limits, making it difficult to assert themselves or say no. This can lead to a pattern of people-pleasing behavior, where they prioritize others' needs over their own, even at the expense of their own well-being. Breaking free from the impact of extreme parenting requires a conscious effort to rebuild self-esteem and learn healthy boundary-setting skills. It involves recognizing and challenging the negative beliefs instilled in childhood, seeking therapy or support to heal past wounds, and practicing self-compassion and self-care. With time and effort, developing a stronger sense of self-worth and cultivating the ability to set firm, healthy boundaries in our adult relationships is possible. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano the Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Life Coach, helps us understand how growing up in a dysfunctional home can impede our ability to set healthy boundaries as adults, leading to codependency in relationships. Take this opportunity to participate in Lisa's Free 10 Day Living Above the Veil Challenge! https://www.lisaaromano.com/10-day-challenge

Jul 31, 202319 min

Narcissistic Manipulation: Truths Narcissists Will Hide From You

Narcissists are masters of manipulation. Understanding how they operate and view the world can help you navigate the webs of deception they use to coercively control their victims into submission. When dealing with a narcissist, at first you may be captivated by them. However, over time, you will notice a pervasive pattern of deception, exploitation, and emotional manipulation. In this podcast on narcissistic manipulation, you will learn about how to spot a narcissist. Listen in and learn about the truths that a narcissist will hide from you in order to get you to trust them. Remember, trusting a narcissist is key. Once you trust them, cognitive dissonance kicks in and spotting red flags becomes nearly impossible. The more you understand about how a narcissist thinks, the better able you will be to detach and remain objective, which will prevent you from being caught in their web of deception. Are you ready to set boundaries like a boss? If so, Lisa A. Romano has created a one hour mp3 and a downloadable Boundary Building Workbook that you can access here; https://www.lisaaromano.com/boundary-building-workshop

Jul 28, 20239 min

When You Reject a Narcissist Their Worst Nightmare Comes True

Beware, when you become the narcissist's worst nightmare come true, and you begin to see what they don't want you to see. Narcissists rely on others for narcissistic supply. By manipulating the emotions, and perceptions of others, a narcissist can maintain dominance and control. Without feeling a sense of superiority over others, a narcissist experiences a sense of vulnerability that causes them to react poorly. Narcissists fear rejection because they have an inflated sense of self-importance and believe they are entitled to admiration and adoration from others. When someone rejects a narcissist, it challenges their sense of superiority and can cause them to feel inadequate or inferior. Additionally, rejection can be seen as a threat to their ego, which they will go to great lengths to protect. Narcissists may also fear rejection because it could expose their vulnerabilities and flaws, which they try to keep hidden from others. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano the Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Expert dives into what happens when you become the narcissists worst nightmare come true. Take part in Lisa A. Romano's FREE 10 Day Healing Challenge; https://www.lisaaromano.com/10-day-challenge

Jul 18, 20238 min

Playing Dirty With a Narcissist; Beware Try This Instead

Are you thinking about playing dirty with a narcissist as a form of revenge? You might want to rethink doing so. In this podcast, you will learn about some of the things you can do to get revenge on a narcissist, so you can be set free. Are you tired of living under the shadow of a narcissist? Are you ready to take back your power and live life on your own terms? Then listen to this episode to learn tips on surviving and thriving in a Narcissistic Relationship. Lisa A. Romano explores the must-know strategies for dealing with narcissists, from mastering the art of setting boundaries to understanding when and how to disengage. Lisa shows you how to spot the red flags of narcissism, and offers you expert insights into the psychology of the narcissist. But if you really want to stick it to your narcissistic partner, then pay close attention to the ultimate revenge tactics. Lisa shows you how to let go of any guilt, shame, or self-blame, and instead, take charge of your life like never before. Lisa knows that it can be difficult to break free from a narcissistic relationship and that healing can take time. But with Lisa's insights and practical advice, you'll be on the road to recovery in no time. So if you're ready to say goodbye to the pain and confusion of a Narcissistic Relationship, then grab a cup of tea, sit back, and hit that play button. Lisa is here for you every step of the way. Start your journey to ultimate revenge and ultimate freedom! Are you ready to set boundaries like a boss? If so, Lisa A. Romano has created a one-hour mp3 and a downloadable Boundary Building Workbook that you can access here; https://www.lisaaromano.com/boundary-building-workshop

Jul 15, 20238 min

How Emotional Intelligence Can Help You Let Toxic People Go

Are you tired of toxic people draining your energy and bringing negativity into your life? It's time to break free and live a happier, healthier life! And the best way to do it is by improving your emotional intelligence. 🧠 Join Lisa Romano in this episode as she explores the power of emotional intelligence and how it can help you recognize and let toxic people go. Don't let their toxic behavior hold you back from achieving your goals and living your best life! Lisa Romano dives deep into the nitty-gritty of emotional intelligence, its benefits, and valuable tips on how to develop it. Lisa shares her insights on how emotional intelligence has helped her break free from toxic relationships and strengthen her emotional resilience. So if you want to learn how to strengthen your emotional intelligence and free yourself from toxic people once and for all, this episode is for you! Tune in now and take the first step towards a better, brighter future. Your mental and emotional health will thank you for it. If you are ready to elevate your consciousness and heal the patterns that have been instilled within the recesses of the subconscious mind, so you can experience emotional freedom and self mastery, The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program is for you. You can learn more by clicking this link. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

Jul 10, 202314 min

What Is A Codependent Person Like? 13 Characteristics Of Codependency

Ever wonder what a codependenty person is like? And have you ever found yourself in a relationship where you were giving more than you were receiving? Do you feel like you're always putting others' needs before your own? If those questions resonate with you, then tune in to this episode! Lisa Romano discusses the 13 characteristics of codependency and helps you identify if you or someone you know might be struggling with this issue. Discover what a codependent person looks like and how it can negatively impact their lives and relationships. In this episode, you'll learn about the effects of low self-worth, untreated mental health issues, and childhood experiences that lead to codependency. Lisa also offers guidance on how to break free from codependent patterns and create healthier relationships that nourish your well-being. Join Lisa for this eye-opening and empowering discussion and finally understand how to identify and heal from the negative effects of codependency. If you are ready to elevate your consciousness and heal the patterns that have been instilled within the recesses of the subconscious mind, so you can experience emotional freedom and self-mastery, The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program is for you. You can learn more by clicking this link. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

Jul 7, 202312 min

How Do You Heal A Wounded Ego? Childhood Trauma And The Ego

Are you ready for a powerful and transformative discussion? Then you won't want to miss this episode! In this episode, Lisa Romano explores the deep connection between childhood trauma and the ego. She shared her knowledge and offer practical steps to help you navigate the healing process. Discover the key insights into why childhood trauma can leave us deeply wounded and how this is connected to our egos. Lisa Romano explores the effects of negative self-talk, and low self-esteem, and techniques to help you nurture your inner child and rediscover your true sense of self-worth. Learn essential strategies to overcome fears and doubts that hold you back from experiencing true freedom and happiness. Lisa shares practical guidance on how to confront self-limiting beliefs and finally break free from the mental chains that bind us. Join Lisa for a transformative discussion that will leave you feeling empowered, inspired, and ready to make a positive change in your life! If you are ready to elevate your consciousness and heal the patterns that have been instilled within the recesses of the subconscious mind, so you can experience emotional freedom and self mastery, The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program is for you. You can learn more by clicking this link. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

Jun 26, 202316 min

How Emotionally Intelligent People Manifest Healthy Relationships Despite Toxic Pasts

In today's podcast episode, Lisa Romano delves into the fascinating world of emotional intelligence and how it can transform toxic relationships! Do you feel like your past experiences have hindered your ability to form healthy relationships? If so, then this episode is for you! In this episode, Lisa shares valuable insights on how emotionally intelligent people manifest healthy relationships despite toxic pasts. Discover the key principles of emotional intelligence and how they can help you navigate relationships with ease and grace. Lisa, discuss the effects of unresolved trauma, negative self-talk, and limiting beliefs that can stand in the way of creating meaningful connections. Lisa also explores how to develop self-awareness, empathy, and communication skills that promote healthy boundaries and mutual respect. Join Lisa for an eye-opening and inspiring conversation that will empower you to overcome the challenges of a toxic past and create the healthy relationships you deserve. If you are ready to elevate your consciousness and heal the patterns that have been instilled within the recesses of the subconscious mind, so you can experience emotional freedom and self mastery, The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program is for you. You can learn more by clicking this link. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

Jun 23, 202316 min

How Emotionally Intelligent People Set Boundaries

Emotionally intelligent people set boundaries in healthy ways because they do not attach to outcomes. This is just one of the tips offered by Lisa A. Romano Life Coach and bestselling author in this podcast episode. Have you ever wondered how to stand up for yourself with difficult people? If so, this podcast episode will drop the truth bombs you need to set boundaries like a boss. Lisa offers a workbook and bonus mp3 to help you set healthy boundaries in your life. https://www.lisaaromano.com/boundary-building-workshop

Jun 23, 202311 min

Toxic Family Dynamics: How Toxic Parenting Affects Sibling Relationships

Toxic family dynamics impact every family member's mental, emotional and physical health as well as the relationships between the members themselves. Narcissistic, emotionally immature, and or neglectful parents are known to triangulate siblings. Creating tension between siblings is a way to garner narcissistic supply. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano the Breakthrough Life Coach and expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse recovery, explores what it means to grow up in a toxic family system and why understanding the dynamics at play helps you rise up and out of the chaos that is a sick family's unconscious paradigm. If you are ready to elevate your consciousness and heal the patterns that have been instilled within the recesses of the subconscious mind, so you can experience emotional freedom and self mastery, The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program is for you. You can learn more by clicking this link. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

Jun 19, 202317 min

Relationship Tips to End Resentment

Resentment can cause relationship issues that lead to breakups, fights, divorce, and hard feelings. When resentment begins to build, couples can find it difficult to navigate and find their way back to a healthy middle ground. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano gets candid about her struggles with resentment and how she managed to overcome her mind's propensity to do the thing it did to protect her from having to expose her vulnerabilities. Lisa eventually learned to master her thoughts, beliefs, emotions and intentions so well, that she is now in a loving committed relationship with her husband that is void of unnecessary resentment. Ready to learn from this master? If so, tune it! Lisa believes there is no healing until the body feels safe to release the unprocessed emotions of the past. Her psychologist-approved 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program is assisting members with the tools, wisdom, and understanding they need to begin healing stored trauma in the body. To learn more, visit: https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

Jun 12, 202313 min

Childhood Trauma and Free Will

Healing childhood trauma is one of the most empowering things any human can do. Childhood trauma leaves behind an emotional, cognitive, and psychological residue that can make perceiving the world in a healthy way as well as ourselves almost impossible. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano the Breakthrough Life Coach and mental wellness expert who specializes in codependency and narcissistic abuse recovery, dives into the question of free will. As trauma survivors, this is an important question to ask ourselves as we consider how the brain and mind are wired to perceive the world based on personal biases. Lisa's own recovery was one of the consistent shifts in consciousness that helped her reclaim her lost self. She hopes to help other trauma survivors follow in her footsteps and learn to question the beliefs they hold that shape their view of the world, others and the self. The best beginners program out there for raising consciousness and overcoming abandonment issues from childhood is The Psychologist Approved 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

Jun 9, 202325 min

Truths A Narcissist Will Hide From You

Narcissists tend to gravitate toward those who are highly agreeable, and who are also highly empathic. These two qualities can make it difficult to recognize when one is being manipulated by someone with high narcissistic traits. In this episode, you will learn about secret truths a narcissist will hope you never figure out. If you understood the mind of a narcissist, you would be able to see right through them, and that is not what they want. They want you thinking you're crazy and that you cannot trust your perception of reality. Lisa A. Romano, the Breakthrough Life Coach breaks it all down. Are you ready to set boundaries like a boss? If so, Lisa A. Romano has created a one hour mp3 and a downloadable Boundary Building Workbook that you can access here; https://www.lisaaromano.com/boundary-building-workshop

Jun 5, 202319 min

Gaslighting Phrases A Narcissist Uses Against You and Why They Choose Them

Gaslighting is an insidious tactic that makes you question your own reality, and it's no laughing matter... Or is it? Today, we're going to dive into the world of gaslighting and expose the 6 key phrases that narcissists use against you - and why they choose them. Ever been told "You're crazy" or "You're being too sensitive"? Well, those are just some of the classic gaslighting phrases that narcissists use to manipulate you. On today's episode, we'll dissect each phrase, giving you the lowdown on why a narcissist would say such a thing and, more importantly, how to laugh it off. So if you've ever questioned your own sanity because of a narcissist, fear not. Grab a glass of your favorite drink and join us for an episode that'll have you laughing and feeling empowered. If you are ready to heal thy self, and live fearlessly, without the need for assurance and approval or the fear of abandonment, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbp

Jun 2, 202318 min

Setting Boundaries with Crazymaking Family Members; 4 Steps

Are you struggling to set healthy boundaries with family members who constantly push your buttons and leave you feeling drained? If so, you're not alone. In this podcast episode, Lisa A. Romano will explore practical strategies for setting boundaries with "crazymaking" family members who may be toxic, intrusive, or disrespectful. Lisa will discuss the importance of identifying problematic behaviors, communicating your boundaries clearly and assertively and sticking to your boundaries even when it's difficult. We'll also explore how abandonment trauma and codependency can make it challenging to set boundaries and offer tips for healing and reclaiming your self-worth. Whether you're dealing with a narcissistic parent, a manipulative sibling, or any other type of crazymaking family member, this video will provide you with the tools and insights you need to set healthy boundaries and protect your well-being. So if you're ready to break free from toxic family dynamics and reclaim your power, be sure to tune in today. Are you ready to set boundaries like a boss? If so, Lisa A. Romano has created a one hour mp3 and a downloadable Boundary Building Workbook that you can access here; https://www.lisaaromano.com/boundary-building-workshop

May 29, 202317 min

How to Regulate Strong Negative Emotions

Strong emotions can be difficult to navigate. Understanding the purpose of strong emotions can help you regulate your state of being from a higher plane of consciousness. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano teaches you tips on how to manage how you respond to strong, and sometimes painful emotions. It is important to remember, that with the right mental training, you can learn to observe your emotions, without reacting to them. Lisa believes in the power of an organized mind and teaches her clients how to manage their beliefs, thoughts, and behaviors through the awakening of consciousness. If you would like to work with Lisa, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com to learn more

May 26, 202328 min

Healing Insecure Attachments in Relationships

Healing an insecure attachment is key to developing healthy long-lasting relationships with others. Those who have been raised by emotionally abusive, or neglectful parents, have been conditioned to live in fear. Childhood abandonment wounds that go unresolved manifest as codependency, insecurity, a need to please, and a fear of abandonment. One who suffers from an insecure attachment will find it impossible to trust. They may become jealous and seek constant reassurance from the ones they love. To heal, from an insecure attachment style, it is essential to identify this in yourself as a starting point. From there, recognizing the behaviors that drive people away, and fuel your need for reassurance can be accomplished through a commitment to healing the wounded inner child, as well as consciousness. In reality, all beings are enough and the only thing that is wrong with them, is their programming. The journey back to the divine self, requires an awakening from the false self. If you are ready to heal thy self, and live fearlessly, without the need for assurance and approval or the fear of abandonment, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbp

May 22, 202327 min

6 Questions a Narcissist Cannot Answer With A Straight Face

In this podcast, you will learn about 6 questions a narcissist cannot answer with a straight face. As we navigate through life, we encounter different types of people. Some are kind, empathetic, and caring, while others are self-centered, manipulative, and narcissistic. Narcissists have an inflated sense of self-importance, lack empathy, and constantly need admiration and attention. They can be charming and charismatic, but they can also be emotionally abusive and toxic. Identifying a narcissist early in a relationship is essential to avoid getting trapped in their web of manipulation and abuse. Narcissists rarely admit when they are wrong because they believe they are always right. They have an inflated sense of self-importance and believe they are superior to others. Admitting they are wrong would mean acknowledging that they are imperfect, which they cannot accept. Narcissists rarely apologize because they believe they are never wrong. They see themselves as victims and believe that others are always to blame. Apologizing would mean taking responsibility for their actions, which they cannot do. Narcissists lack empathy, which means they cannot understand or share the feelings of others. They are only concerned with their own needs and desires and have no regard for the feelings of others. Narcissists cannot handle criticism because they see it as a personal attack on their character. They have a fragile ego and cannot tolerate any form of criticism or rejection. Narcissists have difficulty accepting responsibility for their actions because they believe they are always right. They blame others for their mistakes and refuse to take responsibility for their actions. Narcissists have difficulty maintaining healthy relationships because they are only concerned with their needs and desires. They use others for their own benefit and have no regard for the feelings of others. Identifying a narcissist early in a relationship is essential because it can save you from emotional abuse and manipulation. Narcissists can be charming and charismatic, but they can also be emotionally abusive and toxic. They can make you feel like you are the problem and that everything is your fault. Trusting your instincts and looking for red flags early on in a relationship is essential. Toxic relationships hinder your personal growth. Narcissists use manipulation to mess with your psychology. To help you maintain your mental health and wellness, it is important to work on your personal development, and to learn what you can about healthy as well as toxic relationships. The more you know and understand about narcissists, the greater your chances of avoiding a toxic relationship. To learn more about Lisa and her work you can visit https://www.lisaaromano.com Learn More with Lisa on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/lisaaromano1/ Contact Us At [email protected]

May 12, 202319 min

11 Things Narcissists Can't Say Healthy People Can

In this episode, you will learn about 11 things a narcissist can't say that healthy people can. Narcississt fast track relationships, idealize their potential love partners, and eventually begin devaluing them once they become bored or feel the need for more narcissistic supply. It can be difficult to spot a narcissist which is why so many unassuming people can become trapped within toxic dynamics, sometimes for a lifetime. By educating yourself, you arm yourself with knowledge that can help you avoid becoming locked into painful circular relationships. As you learn about the 11 things narcissists can't say healthy people can, and why they can't say them, you will better understand the dynamics of the one who lacks empathy for others. As you gain knowledge and understanding you also learn how to spot a narcissist before your life spins out of control. To learn more about how you can work with me, or participate in one of my transformative courses, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com

May 11, 202320 min

Dealing with Someone With High Narcissistic Traits

Get ready to grab your headphones and buckle up because we're diving deep into a juicy topic in this week's episode. Are you tired of dealing with someone who has high narcissistic traits? Do you find it challenging to handle such people? Well, today is your lucky day because I'm here to help you out. We're discussing the behavior of narcissists and providing our listeners with the tools necessary to combat their toxic ways. In this episode, we're going to discuss a topic that will surely resonate with everyone - Dealing with Somebody Who Has High Narcissistic Traits. If you've ever found yourself in a situation where you're dealing with a narcissist, you know it can be challenging. Whether it's at work, in a relationship, or within your own family, narcissists are everywhere. They're not honestly interested in you, and they don't care if their actions harm you. So, how can you handle these people? Well, in this podcast episode, we're going to give you some tips that will make you feel empowered when dealing with those high-narcissistic individuals. This podcast will help you understand the behavior of narcissists, and show you how to set boundaries that will protect you from their manipulative tactics. Plus, I've provided some fun anecdotes and real-life examples to help lighten the mood. By the end of this episode, you'll be able to handle narcissists with ease and protect yourself from harm. So, get ready to be entertained and informed in this week's episode. To work with Lisa, or to participate in one of her personal development, healing coaching programs, visit: https://www.lisaaromano.com

May 8, 202311 min

11 Not So Obvious Signs You Experienced Childhood Emotional Neglect

In this episode, you will learn about '11 not-so-obvious signs that you experienced childhood emotional neglect'. Childhood emotional neglect can have a profound impact on our lives and relationships. We can live an entire lifetime and never recognize how our childhoods may have impacted our adult lives. Childhood emotional neglect is a type of childhood trauma that occurs when caregivers do not meet a child's emotional needs. Emotional neglect can take many forms, including ignoring a child's emotional needs, failing to provide emotional support, or failing to validate a child's feelings. Emotional neglect can be intentional or unintentional and can occur in families of all backgrounds and socioeconomic levels. Children who experience emotional neglect may grow up feeling disconnected from their emotions and struggle to identify and express their feelings. They may also have difficulty forming close relationships with others, setting boundaries, and trusting others. Emotional neglect can have long-lasting effects on a person's mental health and well-being, impacting their ability to function in their personal and professional lives. Emotional neglect can be difficult to recognize, as it often occurs in the absence of overt abuse or neglect. However, with awareness and support, individuals who have experienced emotional neglect can heal and learn to form healthy relationships with themselves and others. It is not uncommon to struggle with the need for approval and validation as an adult when you have suffered emotional neglect as a child. Codependency is one of the manifestations of childhood emotional neglect. To work with Lisa, or to participate in one of her personal development, healing coaching programs, visit; https://www.lisaaromano.com

May 1, 202326 min

Narcissists Make You Sick; Here's How

Welcome to the Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach Inc. podcast. In this episode, we will be discussing how narcissistic abuse can make you sick. Narcissistic abuse is a form of emotional abuse that can have a significant impact on your physical and mental health. When you are in a relationship with a narcissist, your emotions are constantly being manipulated, which can hijack your reticular activating system. The reticular activating system is a part of your brain that controls your attention and focus. When your emotions are being manipulated, your brain is constantly on high alert, which can lead to an increase in cortisol, the stress hormone. This increase in cortisol can have a negative impact on your nervous and immune systems, making you more susceptible to illness and disease. Furthermore, narcissistic abuse can lead to a range of physical symptoms, including headaches, digestive issues, and chronic pain. It can also lead to mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder. If you are experiencing narcissistic abuse, it is essential to seek help and support. This can include therapy, life coaching, support groups, and self-care practices such as meditation and exercise. It is also important to set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being. Remember, you deserve to be in a healthy and loving relationship, and it is never too late to make positive changes in your life. Thank you for listening to this episode of the Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach Inc. podcast. If you are ready to live life for yourself rather than for others, and you want to know how you can break free from the chains of the past, you can work with Lisa and her team within her online 12 Week Breakthrough Program. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp This program is for you if you are ready for a no nonsense approach to healing the past.

Apr 28, 202324 min

Mind Games Narcissist Play

Welcome to the latest episode of my podcast, where we explore the intricate and often harmful world of narcissism. In this episode titled "Mind Games Narcissists Play," we take a deep dive into the psyche of narcissists and the games they play to manipulate and control their victims. As someone who is passionate about understanding human behavior, I bring my unique perspective and insights to the table, shedding light on the dark and often misunderstood world of narcissism. Throughout the episode, we examine the tactics that narcissists use to gain power and control, and we discuss practical strategies for identifying and protecting ourselves from their harmful influence. But this episode is more than just an academic exploration of psychology - it is a personal journey of discovery and healing. As someone who has had their fair share of run-ins with narcissists, I share my own experiences and struggles, providing a relatable and authentic voice that listeners can trust. Listeners will appreciate the thoughtful and compassionate approach that I bring to the topic, as well as the practical advice and strategies that I offer. From identifying the red flags of narcissism to setting healthy boundaries and breaking free from toxic relationships, this episode is a comprehensive guide for anyone who has ever been impacted by the mind games of narcissists. So tune in now to "Mind Games Narcissists Play," and join me on this journey of discovery and healing. Together, we can gain the knowledge and tools we need to protect ourselves and live a life free from the toxic influence of narcissism. June 1st, join Lisa and her life coaches for the relaunching of her groundbreaking healing coaching program. Become immune to narcissists, heal abandonment trauma, and learn to advocate for yourself from a place of authenticity. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp Register before May 1st, to take advantage of the early bird registration fee.

Apr 24, 202310 min

Sons and Their Mother Wounds

In this podcast episode, Lisa A. Romano delves into the topic of son's and mother wounds. She explains how men have been conditioned to suppress their emotions, especially when it comes to expressing vulnerability or seeking help. This conditioning is often reinforced by toxic messages regarding men and emotions, which can lead to a man struggling with suppressed rage. Romano also discusses how emotionally unavailable mothers can cause a son to crave maternal love in the future. This can lead to a man seeking out relationships with women who remind him of his mother, hoping to finally receive the love and validation he never received as a child. However, this can also lead to a cycle of disappointment and frustration, as the man may never truly find the love and validation he seeks. Throughout the episode, Romano emphasizes the importance of healing these wounds and breaking free from the conditioning that has led to emotional suppression. She encourages men to seek help and support and to work through their emotions in a healthy and productive way. By doing so, men can break free from the cycle of pain and find true healing and fulfillment in their lives. If you or someone you love is looking to heal from emotional abandonment, which so often leads to codependency and attachment issues, please visit https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp Lisa A. Romano's healing 12 week program has just recently been endorsed by psychologist Robin Bryman as a life changing program for those struggling to advocate for the self and who find themselves in the grips of codependent narcissistic relationships. To work with Lisa one to one, reach out at [email protected]

Apr 21, 202334 min

Narcissists Tell You It's All in Your Head: Tell tale Signs of a Toxic Relationship

In this week's episode, we're diving deep into the world of toxic relationships and discussing the telltale signs of a narcissistic partner. Narcissists are experts at gaslighting their partners, often saying things like "It's all in your head" or "You're being too sensitive." But we're here to tell you that it's not in your head, and that you deserve to be treated with love and respect. We'll be sharing stories from real people who have been in toxic relationships, discussing red flags to watch out for, and giving practical advice on how to safely leave a toxic situation. We'll also talk about healing and what steps you can take to reclaim your life after a narcissistic relationship. So, whether you're currently in a toxic relationship or are looking to help a friend who might be, this episode is for you. Join us as we unpack the signs of a toxic relationship and offer insight on how to recognize and overcome it. Tune in and listen now! June 1st, join Lisa and her life coaches for the relaunching of her groundbreaking healing coaching program. Become immune to narcissists, heal abandonment trauma, and learn to advocate for yourself from a place of authenticity. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp Register before May 1st, to take advantage of the early bird registration fee.

Apr 17, 202315 min

Anxiety and Why You Fear Making Decisions

In this episode, learn about why you fear making a decision and what you can do to reduce anxiety and boost your self-confidence. The human mind is a tool that needs to be understood and explored. Sadly, most humans do not take the time to explore their minds, and falsely assume that whatever thoughts and emotions they are aware of are factual. Emotions should not be confused with facts. A child can assume they are bad, and unworthy as a result of emotional neglect, and parental retaliation. If this child's beliefs remain unchecked, at the level of the subconscious mind and at the neurological level, these beliefs harden into facts the mind accepts as truths. Codependency is the manifestation of such unchecked emotions and beliefs. When one is suffering from codependency, they are stuck in the past, reliving and reenacting their childhood trauma survival strategies. Fawning, people-pleasing, and reliance on others for validation and approval keep codependent adults in the role of the wounded inner child. To break free from anxiety, we must awaken to how the mind works and the many ways in which it was divinely designed to help us avoid pain. By default, the human mind can cut itself off from the emotions one needs to accept, in order to avoid the pain of abandonment. This is self abandonment and this results in anxiety, depression, narcissistic, entangled relationships and a myriad of mental and physical health issues. The power of an organized mind, can set you free from psychological upset, however, to gain this mental clarity, one must possess the tools to embrace what the mind is designed to deny. If you are ready to heal the self, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp to learn how you can gain the tools, and insights to live an awakened, healed and empowered life.

Apr 16, 20239 min

The Power of Emotional Detachment

Today's podcast episode is all about the power of emotional detachment. Emotional detachment is the ability to detach oneself from one's emotions and observe them from a distance. It is a powerful tool that can help us navigate through life's challenges with ease and grace. In this episode, we will explore the benefits of emotional detachment and how it can help us lead a more fulfilling life. We will also discuss some practical tips on how to cultivate emotional detachment in our daily lives. Firstly, emotional detachment can help us avoid getting caught up in negative emotions such as anger, fear, and sadness. By observing our emotions from a distance, we can gain a better understanding of them and respond to them in a more constructive way. Secondly, emotional detachment can help us maintain healthy relationships. When we detach ourselves from our emotions, we can communicate more effectively and avoid getting caught up in the unnecessary drama. Lastly, emotional detachment can help us achieve our goals and dreams. By focusing on our goals and not getting caught up in our emotions, we can stay motivated and take action toward achieving our dreams. To cultivate emotional detachment, we can practice mindfulness, meditation, and self-reflection. We can also learn to identify our triggers and develop healthy coping mechanisms. In conclusion, emotional detachment is a powerful tool that can help us lead a more fulfilling life. By practicing emotional detachment, we can avoid getting caught up in negative emotions, maintain healthy relationships, and achieve our goals and dreams. Thank you for tuning in, and I hope you found this episode helpful. Are you ready to lean into unexplored emotions, and heal from mother wounds, codependency, and even narcissistic abuse? If so, check out Lisa A. Romano's groundbreaking 12 Week Breakthrough Program. This program fosters mindfulness, self compassion and consciousness to help members learn to heal the shame unresolved childhood trauma leaves behind. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp

Apr 14, 202323 min

When You Tick a Narcissist Off This Happens

Welcome to today's episode of the podcast, where we explore the fascinating and sometimes frightening world of narcissism. In this episode, we'll be discussing what happens when you tick off a narcissist. Narcissists are known for their self-centeredness and lack of empathy, but what happens when someone challenges their inflated sense of self? The answer is not pretty. First, let's talk about what a narcissist is. Narcissism is a personality disorder characterized by a grandiose sense of self-importance, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. Narcissists believe that they are superior to others and often have a sense of entitlement. They crave attention and will go to great lengths to get it. Now, let's get into what happens when you tick off a narcissist. When you challenge a narcissist's self-image or sense of superiority, they will often react with anger and aggression. This is because their ego is fragile, and any perceived threat to their self-image is seen as a personal attack. One common tactic that narcissists use when they feel threatened is gaslighting. Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse where the narcissist will manipulate the victim into questioning their own reality. They will deny their behavior, twist the truth, and make the victim feel like they are crazy. This is a way for the narcissist to maintain their sense of superiority and control over the victim. Another way that narcissists react when they are challenged is by becoming defensive. They may lash out at the person who challenged them, accusing them of being jealous or envious. This is a way for the narcissist to deflect attention away from themselves and onto the person who challenged them. In extreme cases, narcissists may even become violent. This is because they see any challenge to their self-image as a threat to their very existence. They may become physically aggressive in an attempt to maintain their sense of control and superiority. So, what can you do if you find yourself in a situation where you've ticked off a narcissist? The best course of action is to disengage and remove yourself from the situation. Don't engage with the narcissist or try to reason with them. This will only escalate the situation. It's also important to seek support from friends, family, or a professional therapist. Dealing with a narcissist can be emotionally exhausting and can take a toll on your mental health. Having a support system can help you cope with the situation and protect yourself from further harm. To work with Lisa privately or to participate in her online training course, visit; https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp Contact Information [email protected]

Apr 10, 202311 min

Recognizing Signs of a Toxic Relationship; 5 Questions Help You Heal

Welcome to the newest podcast episode, where I discuss issues that matter to you. In today's episode, we'll take a deep dive into the topic of leaving a toxic relationship. We'll provide practical advice for identifying toxic behavior and safely exiting a toxic relationship. Toxic relationships are more common than we think, and it can be hard to acknowledge that you're in one. The signs can be subtle but manifest in different forms, such as emotional manipulation, isolation from friends and family, and abusive behavior. In this episode, we'll explore some common signs indicating you must leave a toxic relationship. We'll also provide insights into different types of toxic relationships and share how to differentiate between occasional conflict from what could be an unhealthy relationship. In addition, we'll discuss some common reasons why people stay in toxic relationships and provide helpful tips on overcoming those barriers. Most importantly, we'll dive into the crucial steps of leaving a toxic relationship: creating a safety plan, seeking help from a counselor, and building a support network. We'll explain why having a safety plan is critical and what items to consider. We'll also provide practical tips on finding support and guidance from licensed therapists, counselors, or other healthcare providers. Leaving a toxic relationship can be a daunting experience, but you don't have to go through it alone. Join us in this episode and learn about the resources available to you and how to build a support network that will help you stay safe and recover emotionally. Thank you for listening to our podcast. If you or someone you know may be in a toxic relationship, don't hesitate to seek help. Share this episode and spread the word that leaving a toxic relationship is possible and that recovery and healing are within reach. To work with Lisa privately or to participate in her online training course, visit; https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp Contact Information [email protected]

Apr 7, 202315 min