Jabulujule 9 -12

Ngiyabingelela Ku Mam Khoza nabalaleli bo Khozi FMngicela ukuba ngu anonymous ngibike udaba lwami. Ngingowesilisa oseneminyaka engu 8 eganiwe, uNkosikazi akaze anginikeisizathu sokungamethembi kodwa manje usanda kunginika sona shuthi keezinsukwini nje ezedlule bengibheka ucingo lwakhe uMama wakwamingahlangana nengxoxo ephakathi kwakhe noNkosikazi kaMfowethuomncane Ibiveza ngokusobala ukuthi uNkosikazi kaMfowethu uyajola kanti yonke intouyayixoxa noNkosikazi wami, yonke lendaba ingiphathe kabi ukwazi njeukuthi kudlalwa ngomfowethu kanti uNkosikazi wami uyingxenye yakhokonke lokhu, yize kungekho engikutholile okuveza ukuthi hlampe noMamawakwami naye kukhona akwenzayo eceleni kodwa angisamethembi njenhlobo kungenza ngizibuze ukuthi uma ekwazi ukuthula futhi aseke umuntuophingela umnyeni wakhe yena yini emuvimbayo ukuthi akwenze ngoba phela shuthi akakuboni akubi ngakho sekunzima nje nokuthi ngimthintengoba kunzima ukuzitshela ukuthi yena uthembikile kuminaNgiyamthanda kakhulu uNkosikazi wami, sino mndeni omuhle kakhulu kantifuthi sisuka kude sinaye angifuni ukumosha umshado wami ngentookungenzeka ukuthi ayikho , ngesimo samfowethu sokujolelwangizomtshela lokho ngiyakwazi kodwa mina into engifisa ukulekelelwangayo yile yowami umshado, ngingamthemba kanjani futhi uNkosikazi wamingiphinde ngikwazi ukumthemba njengasekuqaleni, ngingajabula umangingezwa izeluleko kwabanye abafwethu abaseke badlula kulokhu ukuthibabhekana nakho kanjani, ngibonge ithuba ngizolalela emsakazweni.

Ngibingelele Mam Lady-D nethimba lakho, ngithe angedlulile namiokusenhlizweni yami, ngikhungathekile.Ngingowesilisa oneminyaka engaamashumi amathathu (30years) bengikade ngisebudlelwaneninowesifazane osekhulile kunami ngoba uneminyaka engamashumi amane (40 years) ekusho ukuthiungishiya ngeminyaka eyishumi ubudala.Inkinga yami iqala emuva kokuthi sambatha sbbabili savuka sibathathu, shukuthi wakhulelwangokusho kwakhe ngoba ungumuntu engamthola ngase khaya kodwa njengamanje mina ngihlala eGolingisondelele amatoho, inkinga iqala emuva kokuthi sike salahlalekelana ngoba ngangihlushwa ucingo,sangaxhumana kahle kodwa shukuthi wazama ukungithola ngoba emuva kokuthi sengizamileukulungisa ucingo ngikwazile ukubona imilayezo yakhe nezithombe zengane isizelwe.Ngizamile ukondla ingane ngilokhu ngithumela imali yengane njengoba ewumuntu ongasekhaya minangise Goli, ngizamile ukumcela ukuthi ingane ngizocela ukuthi iye ekhaya ukuze izobonwa ngabazalibami, wanqaba waphetha , kanti lona wesifazane ingane akuyona eyakhe yingane yendodakazi yakheendala, shuktuhi ubeqamba amanga sonke lesi sikhathi , lokhu ngikuthola ezinkundleni , ngibonekubhale ingane yakhe ifake yona lengane engithi yeyami kanti akuyona eyami, mangimbuza ukuthiwethuleleni ngesikhathi ngiyobona ingane ekhaya kubo wangitshela ukuhi ubecabanga ukuthi uMamawakhe uayyikhulumela nje.Ingane isisenminayak emithathu manje, sengiyenzele lezozinto ezincane ebengilokhu ngizithumela ,ngimnikeza nemali ebeyifuna, ngapha nengane besengakhe ubudlelwane nayo, lokhu okwenzekayokuyangihlukumeza angazi ngingabhekana kanjani nakho. Ngicela abalaleli bangicebise ukuthingingabhekana kanjani nalesimo.

inkinga iqala ngesikhathi undodakazi wakhe ephikwa umfana asola ukuthi uyen aomkhulelisile kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi unezinsolo lapho elokhu ebona umuntu wesilisa olokhu engena ngewindi emzini wakhe kanti uyena Yise wengane lona, evunyelwa undodakazi wakhe, umfana lona owayiphika intombazane wathi akayazi uma kuyobikwa isisu kodwa uyakwazi ukungena kulomuzi evulelwa yindodakazi, manje sekunenkinga njengoba umzukulu lona engena iphuma ezibhedlela odokotela labo ababonayo bathi ingane izolokhu igula ngoba shukuthi kumele ilungiselwe izinto kodwa kubo kaYise abazimisele ngalokh

Ngibingelele Mam Lady-D nethimba lakho, ngithe angedlulile namiokusenhlizweni yami, ngiyazi baningi abahlezi bebhalela kuloluhlelo le Tea time, angazi nokuthingiqalephi , inhliziyo ibuhlungu ngoba sengingenil Phakathi kukhona okuyizimpawu kpdwa angizangengizinake.Mam Khoza, ngisebudlelwaneni futhi sishadile ngokwaka (home Affairs) ulobolile waqeda thenwambesa, then sayobhala, angazi noma ukuvaleka amehlo uthando yini.Siqale ukuzwana ngonyaka ka 2012 uze walobola ngonyaka ka 2021, bese wambesa ngonyaka ka2022. Abukho ubudlelwane obuhlezi buhamba kahle kuba khona ukungaboni ngaso linye noma lezozinkinga obonanyo ningakwazi ukubhekana nazo kodwa kukhona okunye obonayo ukuthi kuyagqilazangoba uzitshela ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuzoshintsha…Ngingumuntu okwaziyo ukubekezela noam ngabe sekukubi angithandi kuthiwa ngishintshaamadoda.Sinezingane ezimbili, siyasebenza sobabili kodwa ngokwezimali mina uyazi ukuthi ngitholakangconywana ngavezela ngoba umsebenzi ngawuthola ngenx ayakhe, uyena owabona isikhangisosomsebenzi wangikhutahza ukuthi angifake isiscelo , ngemepla ngafaka ngabizwa ngagcianngitahthiwe.Inkinga manje ukuthi useyangiyekelela angazi noam ngifela lesi khathi bengikade ngingasebenzi yini,ngoba kunezinto aziyeka ngamabomu anagzikhokhela ngikhokhe iziznyanga zize zilandelane athulenoma uma egodukile akayifaki imali kwi akhawunti esifaka kuyona ukuze sikhokhele izidingozalapaha ekhaya.Lento seyenzeke isiskhathi eside angazi ngibhekane nayo kanjani ngoba nginezingane, sinomuzi, mina kuthi kupehla inyanga angisenayo imali ngoba ikhokhela zonek izinto zasendlini, angikwazi ukusebnzakodwa kube ngathi ngisebenzela izikweletu, kumele ngimncenge ukuthi enze izimfanelo zakhenjengendoda yomuzi, kumele ngimncenge ukuze angiphe imali, njengesithandwa sakho ukubonakalisaukuthi uyalibona iphutha lakho kuyenzeka uvale ihlazo noma kungemali ka petrol kodwa yena lutho.Ngithi ngibhale nje Mam Khoza, mhlampe bakhona abakulesimo engikusona, ngiyazi ukuthi isinqumosilele kumina, ngithi ngikhiphe okusesifubeni sami. Sengiyabona ukuthi ngathi sengizoyehla lenqola,sengicabangela izingane zami, udaba lokuthi zikhule abazali bengekho endaweni eyodwa kubanomthelela omubi kodwa angikwazi ukufa ngiphila ngibualwa yisimo engakwazi ukuzihlangulakusoona, kubuhlungu ukuhlukunyezwa “financially “ okubuhlungu kakhulu umuntu engithi uyithemba lami.

Sikhuluma nowesilisa okhala ngonkosikazi wakhe, ofake isicelo eCourt sokucisha isehlukaniso somshado kodwa yena lona wesilisa akasafuni ukuthi baqhubeke nomshado. uthi “ Kumanje ngineminyaka emibili ngingakwazi ukubona abantwabami, ukhiya isango. Yena unikeza amadoda imoto yethu ushintsha amadoda phambi kwabantwana sebazi amadoda akhe angaphezulu Kuka 6 ababengibalela wona. Ngaze ngamcela ukuthi akamusa ukwenza lokho phambi kwabo”. Manje uthi udidekile ukuthi kumele enze njani ngoba ulandele yonke imigudu yomthetho ngokusho kwakhe. Sizophinda sikhulume no Mpumelelo Zikalala oqhamuka kwa Zikalala attorneys ozozama ukulekelela lowesilisa.

#Jabulujule :Mpumelelo Zikalala :ukubaluleka kozinzo ngemuva kokhetho kosomabhizinisi