Jabulujule 9 -12

Ngibingelele Mam Lady-D kanye ne thimba lakho,ngingumlalel wokhozi FM... ngicela ukungadalulwa igama ..ngino Baba wenganesisebancane sobabile ngina 20 iminyaka no mntwana wethu usemncane, mina MaKhoza ngaqala ukudla imishanguzo yesandulela ngculaza from ngisazalwa kodwakusukela siqala ukuthandana kwami naye azange ngimtshele ukuthi ngidlaimishanguzo ngoba bengingazi nokut singagcina siba nengane nokuthi uzimisele yiningami nganingakaboni lutho, namanje ngisamfihlele, kodwa manje lento iyangidlaangazi ngizomtshela kanjani ngoba sixabana njalo sibanga nento engekho manjengiyasaba angazi ngizomtshela kanjani ... Kodwa ngibona sengathi uyangithandakodwa ukumtshela angazi ngizomtshela kanjani ngicela owake waba nenkingaenjengalena angisize angicebise , ngiyazi angingedwa baningi abantu abangakazebabatshela ophathina babo ukuthi badla imishanguzo yesandulelangculazi..Ngiyazibuza kulabo abaphumela obala babatshela, bona benza kanjani ..ngiyabonga Mam Khzoa nakumallei woKHOZI FM.

Ngiyabingelela mam Khoza nethimba loKHOZIFM nomlaleliohmab phambili, ngenkinga Mah angazi noma ngiqale kuphi angazi,ngingowesifazane ona 29,ngifundile nje impela yikho nje ukthi umsebenzi angutholi. Nayi inkinga yami Mah, ngi first born ekhaya sizalwa sibabili, ubaba sewashonasasala no Mah, uBaba wayeyi phoyisa, sasijabule ekhaya then wa cheater uBaba ,emuva kwalokho lokho impilo yajika waba physical abusive ku mama wethu...Kwaze kwaba uyadlula emhlabeni uBaba ngo 2009.(angazi noma ngifela ukufana nobaba yini)Sakhula nje sikhuliswa uMamah ngaphasa uMatric ngayofunda Ongoye, by Godgrace ngathola I bursary ngaze ngaqeda ukufunda.Into eyenza ngithi uMah uyangizonda nayi, lomfana pngilamayo ongilamayo una 23unezingane ezu 4 zonke lezingane zonke zondliwa umama, wathi emithise leyesithathu ngathi mina akabuye esikoleni azogada ingane yakhe " amazwi ka mamaathi ngeke abuye ngoba uzophazamiseka esikoleni" nakhona uze ayofunda eNkandlaingoba ubesehluphile ezikoleni ezingasekhaya, bayiletha abokubo kantombazane lengane Ine nyanga eyodwa nje VO,Ngiyazama ukwenza yonke into ukujabulisa umama but not even once wake wathiuyabonga, ngonyaka ka 2022 July kwaphuma imali kwi policy ka Baba it was thatmuch kwaku R12000 uMama mina wanginika uR200 wayithatha leyomali wenzela loongilamayo ukuthi ambulwe ingubo, 2023 May kwaphida kwaphuma enye imaliwanginika R500 yena wamnika R3500 excluding le enikwa Lezi ngane Zakhe ezu 4.Noma nginganzama uMah asoze mina wangikhetha uncamela abantu bangaphandlekunami, angiqashwa ngisho ezindawen ezidinga only Matric, kwathiwa nginenkingayemimoya/imimoya ka mama ayiganiswanga, uMama uyazi kodwa akakhathali, 2weeks back ngicele ukuthi angiphe imali yokuya kwa Nongoma komunye uBabawesiZulu okuthiwa uyasiza... Wangnika u R200 a day after lapho lo ongilamayowafona, umah wamfakela R1500 same time.Mah lendaba inde futhi ngiyabon amandla asengiphelele, ngicela ningsiza...uma kunjkwezniwa njani.Abazali bethu bayasiqatha ngendella abaenza ngayo, ukuthibasikhethe basibangela inzondo engenzsidingo ngoba akasiphathi ngendlela efanayonjengezingane zakhe. ..Ngicela ukuzwa kumlallei nakwabanye abazali ukuthi intoenje yenziwa njani? Angibonge futhi ngixolise ukuba mude mam KHOZA.

: Sawubona sis Thembeka, ngiyabingelela kuwena nomlaleliwoKHOZI FM. Ngike ngizwe niyabasiza abantu ababhekane nezinkingaezahlukahlukene khona lapha emskaazweni. Ngicela usizo lana, ngiyintombazeeneminyaka ewu 29, ngaba nenkinga ngadlwengulwa ngabantu engibabizangokuthi ngoMalume , babili labantu , konke lokhu bakwenza ngesikhathi ngihlalakubo emakhaya.Ngicela ningisize ngolibo fuzo phecelezi DNA test, ngidinga nokuthi bajezengabakwenza kumina futhi kunengane eyaba umphumela yalokhu okuthi mangabeingivakashele ngiyibuke ngivele ngibone bona ngqo abenzi bobubi,umoya wamiawuzixoleli, sengike ngazama nokuthi ngithathe impilo yami kodwa akuphumeleli, nginokuzinyanya abakwenza kumina. Sebake bazama ukungisizaesibhedlela kodwa angikhulumanga ngokuningi, ngidinga nokululekwa minanengane yami, kunjalo nje nengane abayinakile iyasokola. Ngiyafisa ukuyixoxaindaba ngomlomo wami ngicela ningifihle igama lami.

Sawubona mamkhoza ngicela ungifihle nginenkingaLana ngihlushwa umntwana, ingane yomfana enenminyaka ewu 15,uyaganga kakhulu ungenelwe ubugebengu utshotsha imali angene emziniyabantu ayiboleka, kuningi mam Dudu akwenzayo, uganga kakhuluamaphoyisa athi ( he is under age) udinga ama (social worker) if ngiyakuwo awangisizi nawo. Ngihlukumezekile kakhulu emoyeni ngisanda kwedlulelwaumama ongizalayo ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule kwathiwa une depressionnayo edalwe nguye lomntwana ethatha imali kamama, even nase bankuthatha imali ayitransfere, Umama washawa istroke ne depression wadlulaemhlabeni,manje uhlukumeza wonke umuntu even ekhaya angisazi manjesengifisa ngisho ukufa makunje angisazi ngenze njani ngisizeni, ngidinganingicebise ukuthi ngenze njani makunje.Lommntwana uno 15yrs amaphoyisa awangisizi ngicela usizo noma Ilanaokugcinwa khona abantwana abangezwa please manje nami angikho safetylana engikhona kufika umphakathi uzomfuna ngilele ebusuku angisazi manjengenze njani. Ngicela ningisize ngingenza njani uma kunje ngoba lomuntuusazokhula manje ngiyabuka kusaya phambili nalomkhuba. Anonymous.