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S2 Ep 9292 - ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT: How to heal (Pt. 4)

Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] 100,000 people have streamed our anxious attachment episodes! To celebrate the one year mark, we bring you a magic moment, asking if an anxious attachment just a superpower to sniff out danger? In this magic moment, join Louise & Sarah Murphy, the ultimate biology of trauma expert, as she unravels the mysteries of why our anxious attachment style causes us so much grief. The pair explore: The origins of anxious attachment styles and their wild adventures in babyhood. Neuroception: The super skill of scanning for danger that we're all born with. How caregivers hold the keys to shaping our nervous system and why they should be crowned the rulers of neurobiology The consequences of even the tiniest disruptions in caregiver responsiveness. The rollercoaster of nervous system dysregulation: Overreacting and underreacting The link between maternal stress levels during pregnancy and our stress hormone saga. The concept of self-soothing We also chat tips and tricks to help you start to understand how to unpick and unravel your anxious attachment style at the biological level. Louise also shares her experience of how her ex reaching out to her after two years impacted her on a VERY interesting biochemical level. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT DOWNLOADS ⇢The Ultimate Guide - How to navigate & heal your anxious attachment style when dating - A 26 page PDF guide created by clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack & Louise Rumball - linked HERE ⇢The Ultimate Script - How to communicate your anxious attachment style when dating - a 14 Page Script PDF - linked HERE –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– 40% OFF YOUR HEALING GIRL OUTFIT WITH LILYBOD This episode is sponsored by Lilybod. To redeem your 40% off click here, using code ⭐ OPENHOUSE40 ⭐ at check out: AU: https://lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE UK: https://uk.lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE Louise selects: Sam Shelf Bra - https://lilybod.com/collections/tops/products/lilybod-sam-shelf-bra-top-tarmac-black-lc95-tb Sam Shelf Shorts - https://uk.lilybod.com/products/lilybod-sam-shelf-short-tarmac-black-ls24-tb?_pos=4&_sid=65a3ab4cc&_ss=r Astrid Sports Bra - https://lilybod.com/products/c12-sports-bra-astrid-tarmac-black?_pos=1&_sid=f23f65ea9&_ss=r Harmony Ribbed Tank - https://lilybod.com/products/core-collection-top-harmony-ribbed-tank-white?_pos=2&_psq=ribbed%20tank%20white&_ss=e&_v=1.0 ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 25, 202338 min

S2 Ep 9191 - Mommy Issues + the connection to body issues

Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Did your mom shape your eating habits and relationship with yourself? Today, we unveil her powerful influence on YOU. Join us for Part 2 as we delve into the forbidden realms of the Mother Wound. Louise & Stephanie explore the drivers behind the controlling mother, the suppressed mother, enmeshment, body image, and beyond. They also get into the concepts of: Unmasking Mom's hidden control tactics When your identity can threaten your Mom Navigating enmeshment between Mother and Daughter How we can get caught in the crossfire of our parent's marriage How Mom's influence shapes our eating habits Unveiling the roots of emotional eating Why eating is often a bid for connection And more. Louise also shares a funny story about a Mom becoming the third part in her friend’s relationship, cue: a throuple. Other recommended listening episodes to supplement exploring the Mother Wound: Episode 89 - Mother Wound Pt. 1 - The Toxic, Attacking or ‘Tidy’ Mom Stream the full OPENHOUSE catalog here on Spotify and here on Apple Podcasts. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– 40% OFF YOUR HEALING GIRL OUTFIT WITH LILYBOD This episode is sponsored by Lilybod. To redeem your 40% off click here, using code ⭐ OPENHOUSE40 ⭐ at check out: AU: https://lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE UK: https://uk.lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 22, 202342 min

S2 Ep 9090 - Healing Loneliness: The 3 Relationships That Matter Most

Join Louise Rumball on another highly requested, always entertaining solo episode as she provides you with some quality time. In her well-known "voice notes from Lu" style episodes, she shares her personal journey and reveals what has been happening in the past few months since her return to Tulum with her boyfriend. Take a break from your therapy journey and have some fun as Louise explores the following topics: The unfiltered reality of loneliness and her own personal experience with it (and why it's not commonly discussed) The three essential types of relationships we all need, and the crucial missing piece that often goes unnoticed A sneak peek into Louise's exciting summer plans AND The burning question: Will Louise's boyfriend relocate to Europe, or is their future uncertain? 40% OFF YOUR HEALING GIRL OUTFIT WITH LILYBOD This episode is sponsored by Lilybod. To redeem your 40% off click here, using code ⭐ OPENHOUSE40 ⭐ at check out: AU: https://lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE UK: https://uk.lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE Louise selects: Baseline Legging - https://lilybod.com/products/c12-leggings-baseline-black?_pos=1&_sid=aba8df7b0&_ss=r Sam Shelf Bra - https://lilybod.com/collections/tops/products/lilybod-sam-shelf-bra-top-tarmac-black-lc95-tb Astrid Sports Bra - https://lilybod.com/products/c12-sports-bra-astrid-tarmac-black?_pos=1&_sid=f23f65ea9&_ss=r Harmony Ribbed Tank - https://lilybod.com/products/core-collection-top-harmony-ribbed-tank-white?_pos=2&_psq=ribbed%20tank%20white&_ss=e&_v=1.0 Layla Sweater - https://lilybod.com/collections/tops/products/c14-tops-jackets-layla-obsidian-gray Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 15, 20231h 2m

S2 Ep 8989 - Mommy Issues / The Mother Wound (Part. 1) ft. Stephanie Therapy

Move over Daddy Issues, Mommy Issues is in town - yet no one is talking about them. Today, Louise & Stephanie Therapy explore the Mother Wound. They discuss: What the mother wound is, how it shows up differently to the father wound How the mother wound runs deep through generations The attacking mother, the critical or toxic mother The OCD mother and the connection to cooking, cleaning and ironing How mothers try to maintain control The identity as a 'mother' and how tied people get tied to that They also talk about the topics of forgiveness and when it is, and is not, the right route of action. 40% OFF YOUR HEALING GIRL OUTFIT WITH LILYBOD This episode is sponsored by Lilybod. To redeem your 40% off click here, using code ⭐ OPENHOUSE40 ⭐ at check out: AU: https://lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE UK: https://uk.lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE Louise selects: Baseline Legging - https://lilybod.com/products/c12-leggings-baseline-black?_pos=1&_sid=aba8df7b0&_ss=r Sam Shelf Bra - https://lilybod.com/collections/tops/products/lilybod-sam-shelf-bra-top-tarmac-black-lc95-tb Astrid Sports Bra - https://lilybod.com/products/c12-sports-bra-astrid-tarmac-black?_pos=1&_sid=f23f65ea9&_ss=r Harmony Ribbed Tank - https://lilybod.com/products/core-collection-top-harmony-ribbed-tank-white?_pos=2&_psq=ribbed%20tank%20white&_ss=e&_v=1.0 Layla Sweater - https://lilybod.com/collections/tops/products/c14-tops-jackets-layla-obsidian-gray Coming soon: Mommy Issues - Pt. 2 - The Overbearing / Critical Mother + Body Image Mommy Issues - Pt. 3 - How the mother wound differs from the father wound & reparenting our parents Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 8, 202339 min

S2 Ep 8888 - Why healthy relationships feel boring

Chasing hot and cold behavior, tolerating inconsistency & trying to change emotional unavailability doesn’t sound attractive, so why the F is it attractive to some of us? Does the truth lie within our nervous system? Sarah Murphy, biology of trauma expert, would say yes and that someone with a dysregulated nervous system, who is wired for a high baseline of stress, will find stable relationships and people *boring* and will search for a chemical cocktail of excitement from people who are just not quite right for them. The pair get into: How attraction ties back to our nervous system Why we keep attracting the same types of people repeatedly Why we search for a highs through romantic love and romantic drama Why stable relationships feel so boring to some of us Why Mr. Nice Guy, or Mr. Nice Girl can feel so uncomfortable too Why the spark disappears as the relationship progresses The biology of the ick ‘Love addiction’ and whether being addicted to someone is the same as being addicted to a drug The biochemical drivers of cheating Louise also shares her experience of how her ex reaching out to her after two years impacted her on a VERY interesting biochemical level. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– 40% OFF YOUR HEALING GIRL OUTFIT WITH LILYBOD This episode is sponsored by Lilybod. To redeem your 40% off click here, using code ⭐ OPENHOUSE40 ⭐ at check out: AU: https://lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE UK: https://uk.lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE Louise selects: Baseline Legging - https://lilybod.com/products/c12-leggings-baseline-black?_pos=1&_sid=aba8df7b0&_ss=r Sam Shelf Bra - https://lilybod.com/collections/tops/products/lilybod-sam-shelf-bra-top-tarmac-black-lc95-tb Astrid Sports Bra - https://lilybod.com/products/c12-sports-bra-astrid-tarmac-black?_pos=1&_sid=f23f65ea9&_ss=r Harmony Ribbed Tank - https://lilybod.com/products/core-collection-top-harmony-ribbed-tank-white?_pos=2&_psq=ribbed%20tank%20white&_ss=e&_v=1.0 Layla Sweater - https://lilybod.com/collections/tops/products/c14-tops-jackets-layla-obsidian-gray The Mental Health Mushroom - LIONS MANE - 20% OFF with code OPENHOUSE: https://mytwentytwo.co.uk/ Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 30, 202353 min

S2 Ep 8787 - Healing: herpes really can be no big deal ft. Bek Antonucci

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Could an STI be your ultimate permission slip for healing and changing your life for the better? Bek Antonucci would say yes, 100%. In this episode, Louise interviews the incredible Bek Antonucci about how her experience with herpes was the most healing thing that ever happened to her. Bek helps listeners understand: ✨ STIs are no big deal to some, and a huge deal to others - and WHY that is ✨ how to go beneath the iceberg of shame and stigma to identify your core wounds ✨ the concept of warmth vs. coldness, connection vs. isolation; and ✨ why she thinks that this is the least vulnerable thing about her Louise also shares her thoughts and the pair discuss how important love, connection, care and warmth is in the space where cold, judgmental silence is the domineering emotion. Who knew an STI could lead to such an inspiring and empowering journey of self-discovery? This episode is powerful, moving, life changing, and relevant for anyone who has ever battled something that made them feel 'LESS THAN'. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 24, 20231h 8m

S2 Ep 8686 - Daddy Issues (Part 3)

Are you ready to explore the tangled web of daddy issues, the alpha male, toxic masculinity, sexualization, bedroom dynamics with a bad boy and fantasy bonding? Together, Louise and Stephanie explore all of this and more. They discuss the reasons that a Father Wound may drive us to date people who are emotionally unavailable or who breadcrumb us, as well as the allure of being the other woman or the "saviour" in a relationship. Louise & Stephanie also examine the alpha male, the wounded masculine and the toxic masculinity and how this can manifest in our relationships negatively (and why we're attracted to it!). The conversation also delves into sexualization, hyper-sexualization, and performance in the bedroom. The hosts discuss the controversial topic of "dick slapping", why we do things we don't want to do, as well as the connection of sex to dopamine, ADHD, and neurodivergency. Other recommended listening episodes to supplement exploring the Father Wound: OPENHOUSE Episode 77 - DADDY ISSUES - Pt. 1 - the 'Emotionally Unavailable' Father OPENHOUSE Episode 82 - DADDY ISSUES - Pt. 2 - Hyper-independence & overachieving Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 16, 202350 min

S2 Ep 8585 - How to date better: understanding chemistry vs. compatibility

Understanding the difference between chemistry and compatibility can help us understand that just because it feels good, doesn’t mean it will be good. We confuse chemistry with compatibility, intensity with intimacy and attention with intention, without every talking about the foundations of what compatibility actually means. Louise & therapist Dr. Tari Mack cover some game changing advice: The concepts of chemistry vs. compatibility Why love isn’t enough 6 signs of toxic chemistry (trauma bonding, breadcrumbing, toxic chemistry, rollercoaster dating, inconsistency, the anxious-avoidant cycle) Why you can’t sustain a relationship on just chemistry What compatibility is The 12 signs of chemistry that you need to establish to really see if you are a good match. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 10, 20231h 6m

S2 Ep 8484 - Trauma, stress, anxiety + depression

Today, we take your therapy journey deeper into the mind-body connection and explore how stress, trauma, and our subconscious mind can affect our physical health in ways we may not have even realized. If you struggle with anxiety or depression, or are trying to help someone who does, this episode is a must-listen for you. Louise Rumball is joined by guest, Sarah Murphy, as the two dive into how and why: ⠀ Some people are naturally more sensitive than others, both to pain and to emotions ⠀ Trauma, and childhood stress, can impact the cellular functioning of our body, our brain chemistry and hormonal systems (leading to adverse health effects later in life) ⠀ The subconscious mind is like a hard drive where the body stores overwhelming energy. ⠀ A major trauma or life crisis can tip the scales and cause the subconscious mind to show up in the body, leading to the manifestation of health issues. ⠀ How dysregulated hormones, impacted neurotransmitters, and our HPA axis can can lead to mental illness, anxiety, and other health issues ⠀ You might be living, tolerating and thriving in 'high stress situations' thinking they are normal Louise also shares her experience with the manifestations of emotions in her body and what she has learned from her own personal experience. -- Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 3, 202348 min

S2 Ep 8383 - How to attract a high value man

...and to repel mediocre ones at the same time. Get ready to revolutionize your dating life with today's HOMETRUTH episode of OPENHOUSE! Louise takes the mic to share her personal experience of mediocre and disappointing dating, as well as some serious gems on how she overhauled her dating standards to attract an amazing, high-value partner, and how you can too. Louise dives into: Her own disappointing dating experiences in her 20s What reasonable dating standards should look like The concept of being "high maintenance" or a "princess" The difference between the "cool girl" and the "real girl" ⠀ The OPENHOUSE Dating Standards - a surefire way to revolutionize your dating life, change the way you allow people to treat you, and how to communicate around each of them Ever wondered what it means to be a high-value man? Louise breaks it down and helps you understand what to look for in a partner. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– Recommended listening on: #33 & 44 - how to break your connection to the emotionally unavailable man/woman #64 - stop asking why their behavior is confusing, and ask why you're attracted to it instead Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 27, 202353 min

S2 Ep 8282 - Hyper-independence in dating and relationships (+ Daddy Issues)

Ever find yourself saying “I don’t need a man” or “it’s easier if I do everything myself”? Maybe you hate relying on people, or maybe you feel uncomfortable asking for help. Maybe your career takes over your life in a cycle of never-ending overachieving, over succeeding and a need for more. Or maybe, just maybe, you are used to doing live yourself but there is something underneath it that wishes you could do it with someone else? In part 2 of our 3 part Daddy Issues episode, Louise sits down again with Stephanie Therapy to go deeper into the Father Wound. They discuss how the Father Wound can be deeply connected to strong, hyper independent women, but those who often silently crave intimacy. The pair discuss: Hyper independence, overworking and overachieving as a coping mechanism Relying on others / relying on men The development of core beliefs in childhood Why we date people like Mom or Dad (trauma reenactment) And more. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 20, 202355 min

S2 Ep 8181 - Why do I cry after sex ft. Dr Massimo Fontana

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Have you ever experienced post-sex tears and wondered WTF? Do you worry that something might be wrong with you, that it's not normal, or that no one else does it? Fear not, because clinical psychologist Dr Massimo Fontana is here to share his expertise and insights on this fascinating topic that happens to so many of us - but that none of us ever talk about. In this episode, Louise Rumball and Dr Fontana discuss the different reasons why people cry after sex, from emotional and physical release to past sexual trauma and our own unique sexual story. We get into all the things that no one is talking about. So whether you've shed a few tears after a steamy session or are simply curious about this phenomenon, or want to better understand and support a partner or friend, this episode is for you. Join us for an enlightening and compassionate conversation that will leave you feeling more empowered, aware, and connected to your own sexuality and journey. Don't forget to subscribe to our podcast and leave us a review if you enjoy the show! –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– Additional recommended listening: 70 - Sex happens in our bodies, so why do we get so damn stuck in our heads? 66 - If casual sex traumatizes the f**k out of you, you are not alone - but why? Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 12, 202344 min

S2 Ep 8080 - The psychology of Lovebombing ft. Dr Tari Mack

Lovebombing is a deeply misunderstood behaviour pattern. It's not just coming on 'too fast, too soon', lovebombing actually goes a lot deeper. In today's episode, Louise & Dr. Tari Mack discuss: The psychology of lovebombing; The motives behind lovebombing; The difference between speed & pressure; The difference between lovebombing & emotional immaturity; The dark side of lovebombing & the abuse that can come next; Louise's experiences and more. Other recommended OPENHOUSE episodes to supplement this episode: #12 - codependency - what Hailey and Justin Bieber teach us about... couple goals & codependency ft. Dr Tari Mack #13 - I don't judge Justin or Hailey, I've been on both sides of a toxic relationship #67 - Hard work partner or toxic relationship? ft. Dr Tari Mack #24 - How to leave your toxic relationship ft. Maddy Anholt THE FOUR STAGES OF LOVEBOMBING - linked here Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 6, 202346 min

S2 Ep 7979 - LIFE UPDATE - My Ex Texted Me, Premium Content + Sex Toys

Crazy news! Join Louise for a solo episode as she gets to tell you some of the juiciest things that are going on at the moment for her: The new OPENHOUSE premium deep dive content *NOW LIVE* Her ex texting her?! Yes really A deep dive into sex toys + which toys are going to revolutionize your life Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 28, 202344 min

S2 Ep 7878 - HEALING - Does trauma come from an overwhelmed nervous system? ft. Sarah Murphy

Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Did you know trauma isn't always an event? It is sometimes just something that was too much, too soon or without enough support at the time. So what *ACTUALLY* is trauma? Today, Louise gets to the root of how stressful situations impact our nervous system and what we need to understand before we start to heal from the events. Louise is joined by Sarah Murphy, an integrative practitioner who practices a multi-modality approach to root cause medicine and healing. She's certified in holistic nutrition, clinical herbalism and practices Traditional Chinese Medicine and polyvagal theory as well as nervous system health and healing as certified in the biology of trauma. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 27, 202349 min

S2 Ep 7777 - Healing Daddy Issues - The Emotionally Unavailable Father

Ever thought about how the relationship with your father impacts the relationship with your partner, or the men / women you date or are interested in? It sounds weird, but maybe it's true. Louise is joined by Stephanie Therapy, a psychotherapist who specialises in childhood trauma, attachment and parental wounding. Join Louise & Stephanie as they start to look into the foundations of 'Daddy Issues' in a 3 part series. The ladies cover: The difference between Daddy Issues and the Father Wound The many ways that the Father Wound can develop and show up What does 'an emotionally unavailable Father' actually mean Why children think the world revolves around them (and what happens when they learn it doesn't) How to assess a parent's emotional unavailability The 4 types of 'emotional' parent What we need vs. what we didn't get + Your ‘Daddy’ Blueprint And more! Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 20, 202350 min

S2 Ep 7676 - Trauma Bonds (via Megan Fox & MGK) ft. Dr Tari Mack

Can you love someone better? Can someone else save you from crisis? Should it be you and your partnership against the world? Louise asks celebrity therapist and clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack about Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly's *potential* break up and the pair use the couple as a vehicle to explore: The concept of whether you can 'love someone better' Codependency and enmeshment Why we try to fix people, help them and love them Why boundaries don't work in toxic relationships Why 'twin flames' is often spiritual bypassing and makes an excuse for toxic love And more! Louise & Dr. Tari Mack also look at Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly's childhoods to understand why their unconscious attraction and models of love attracted them to each other, and this type of relationship and what they should do moving forward. Other recommended OPENHOUSE episodes for listening: #12 - Codependency - what Hailey and Justin Bieber teach us about... couple goals & codependency ft. Dr Tari Mack #13 - I don't judge Justin or Hailey, I've been on both sides of a toxic relationsihp #67 - Hard work partner or toxic relationships? ft. Dr Tari Mack #24 - How to leave your toxic relationship ft. Maddy Anholt Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 16, 202343 min

S2 Ep 7575 - Louise Life Updates + Morning Routine

Join Louise as she openly and honestly discusses her experience living in Tulum so far (the good, the bad and the funny) as well as how it's been since being back in London. She discusses what she's learning in therapy at the moment, why she's exploring a slower pace of life, as well as how she's trying to create a morning routine as the ultimate 'anti-morning-routine-girl' including her experiences with: Morning sunlight Morning breakfast Cold water therapy Meditation & breathwork Mushrooms Nature Louise also shares some very exciting OPENHOUSE news coming soon that you DON'T want to miss. Cold water therapy resources: The scientific benefits of cold exposure for mental health: https://discovermonk.com/blogs/blog/mental-health-benefits-of-cold-water-therapy Study showing: cold exposure increasing dopamine by 250% after cold exposure Study showing: cold exposure & norepinephrine increase by 530%. Lion's Mane mushroom resources: Twenty Two Lions Mane - https://mytwentytwo.co.uk/ 20% discount code: OPENHOUSE Blog - can Lions Mane cure anxiety and depression? Wim Hof Breathing Track: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5ug6QHGuKYaL0K9160BJBt?si=JMyK8raGTN-MAXx7uxghng The Monk Ice Bath: https://discovermonk.com/ Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 12, 20231h 5m

S2 Ep 7474 - How to feel your feelings

Ever wondered how to manage emotions like anger, anxiety, jealously and rage before they become so overwhelming that they ruin your hour, day, week or even your relationship? Louise is joined by Angie Lila River, embodiment coach, who helps Louise understand why: Why we are never actually taught to 'feel' our feelings The concepts of intellectualizing vs. feeling Why we suppress, distract and avoid from discomfort + the follow on impacts How to navigate intense bouts of sadness, anxiety anger and jealousy The concept of rage release + how to practice it safely Is movement really medicine? + how Louise is learning to feel for the first time ever - and more! Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 6, 202354 min

S2 Ep 7373 - How to have better sex ft. Dr Massimo Fontana

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Ready to take your sex life or self-pleasure journey to the next level? This episode is for you. Join Louise and Dr. Massimo Fontana, sexologist, sex therapist & clinical psychologist, as they discuss: How breath, breath play and breath restriction can elevate your orgasms The difference between the 'hold' and the 'choke' and the 'strangle' The 101 guide on how to neck hold safely Cosmic orgasms, what they are and how to get there Erotic massage and what this entails Edging towards orgasm & how vibrators can help you The internal and external orgasm and how to pair them well together The vaginal barbell (yes REALLY) And more! Additional recommended listening: 70 - Sex happens in our bodies, so why do we get so damn stuck in our heads? 66 - If casual sex traumatizes the f**k out of you, you are not alone - but why? Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 30, 202341 min

S2 Ep 7272 - How to heal heartbreak ft. Em On The Brain

Louise is joined by neuroscientist, Emily McDonald to discuss the neuroscience behind heartbreak and: The 3 ways to speed up the withdrawal stage of the break up The one supplement that can be miraculous for a break up The psychology of romanticising the f**k out of a break up Why your brain drives you back even to unhealthy relationships The ‘Cold Turkey’ breakup vs. The ‘Slow Taper’ The 3 Point List you HAVE to make straight after a break up A reflection on mistakes + and why your brain kicks yourself once a relationship is over The science behind whether men or women get over breakups quicker And more! 5HTP Recommendation: https://www.thorne.com/products/dp/5-hydroxytryptophan DISCLAIMER: This does not constitute medical advice. Always consult your Doctor before starting any new medications or supplements. Rat Park Study: https://livrepository.liverpool.ac.uk/3028403/1/Rat-Park-acceptedmanuscript.docx FMRI & Physical Pain Study: Social rejection shares somatosensory representations with physical pain' https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3076808/ Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 24, 202350 min

S2 Ep 7171 - Dating advice / situationships: attention isn't intention

Louise jumps on a solo HOME TRUTHS episode to discuss 3 recent dating stories from ladies inside The House. She breaks these down and gives her honest opinion on what is going on, as well as sharing insight into: Her 1.5 year situationship (what she learned from this experience) The neuroscience behind flirting + why it feels so damn good The attention / intention conundrum; and How to break down and analyze someone’s behaviour to avoid dating disappointment And more. Recommended listening on dating: ⇢#16 - how to deal with out of bounds relationships / why we keep it quiet ⇢#64 - why are you attracted to people’s confusing behaviour? ⇢#33 - why you’re attracted to inconsistent men / women (+ how to break these cycles ⇢#44) Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 16, 202340 min

S2 Ep 7070 - Better sex, ADHD and being in your head

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Louise joins Dr. Massimo to discuss why - when pleasure is a body-based experience, why do so many of us get stuck in our heads. The pair discuss: How much sex is the right amount of sex? The concept of the Orgasm Wall and how everyone's wall is built differently How body image, stress and lifestyle impact libido How climax anxiety and performance anxiety are real The concept of spectatoring - when we are in our head rather than our body How to get out of our head and into our body And so much more. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 9, 202338 min

S2 Ep 6969 - 4 secrets to avoiding breakups and divorce

Louise joins Dr. Tari Mack to discuss the 4 predictors of relationship breakdown and divorce and how these show up in conflict and communication. The pair also discuss: the difference between criticism and feedback; why eye-rolling ties into a belief of superiority; why defensiveness covers up deep rooted vulnerability; why stonewalling can be so infuriating; age regression when being triggered and more. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 30, 202230 min

S2 Ep 6868 - Healthy relationships after toxic ones

In a new solo HOMETRUTH segment, Louise hops on a solo episode to ask 'why does no one talk about how hard a healthy relationship is after years of toxic ones? ' Louise talks about the truths you need to accept, why healthy relationships feel uncomfortable after toxic ones, what to do about it, and more, including: ⇢ healthy love after toxic love ⇢ suspicion & being hyper vigilant to every future partner ⇢ self sabotage & why you might just want to f**k it all up ⇢ why healthy sometimes feels boring or gives you the “ick” ⇢ the nervous system activation of “butterflies” & attachment trauma ⇢ what we need to learn about baby butterflies; and ⇢ why even the sex might feel different in a healthy relationship. Recommended listening on toxic relationships: ⇢#16 - how to deal with out of bounds relationships / why we keep it quiet ⇢#67 - ‘hard work partner or toxic abuse?’ ⇢#24 - how to leave a toxic relationship, safely ⇢#64 - why are you attracted to people’s confusing behaviour? ⇢#33 - why you’re attracted to inconsistent men / women (+ how to break it #44) ⇢#13 -Louise's experiences in a toxic relationship ⇢#12 - how codependency can also suggest toxic trauma bonds ⇢#47 - d**khead or narcissist? The 101 guide to narcissism and Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 26, 202240 min

S2 Ep 6767 - "Is my partner abusive or just difficult" ft. Dr Tari Mack

In this OPENHOUSE Submission, Dr. Tari Mack, clinical psychologist, breaks down a question submitted to the OPENHOUSE Hotline around whether someone’s husband is just ‘hard work’ and that’s why her friends don’t like him or whether his behaviour is actually emotional abuse and leaning into narcissistic behavior and traits. The person explains that there have been a number of issues around being rude to her, belittling and demeaning her, flirting with other people, borrowing and repaying money, and more. Louise Rumball & Dr. Tari Mack look at: ⇢ The difference between one off behavioural incidents and repeating patterns ⇢The warning signs of an emotionally abusive relationship and how to avoid falling for one ⇢ Why violence in a relationship does not have to be just physical ⇢ The connection between money, showing off and some forms of narcissism ⇢ How your relationship & marriage can impact your children long before you realize it ⇢ Why narcissistic behavior, emotional abuse and manipulation often get overlooked Recommended listening: Episode 47 - NARCISSISM - Did I spend years of my life with a narcissist or was he just a really sh*t person? The ultimate 101 guide to identifying a narcissist Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 19, 202237 min

S2 Ep 6666 - Why hookup culture and casual sex hurts

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Does casual sex strike fear, regret, guilt, sadness and rejection in you when for others it seems to be fun, free and easy? In today’s episode, Louise is enjoyed by Dr. Massimo Fontana to ask WHY! The pair discuss why casual sex can be so damn traumatic for some of us, and not others, while also sharing Louise's personal experiences so you can feel just a little bit less alone. Louise & Dr. Massimo get into: ⇢The tie to anxious attachment ⇢How sex can be mini traumas ⇢The grief cycle of casual sex ⇢Why it’s particularly bad for those who are anxiously attached or with an abandonment wound ⇢The concept of ‘giving yourself away’ and why we feel empty the next day ⇢How to handle grief, regret, shame connected to sex; and ⇢The chemicals behind being 'love drunk' And more. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 12, 202243 min

S2 Ep 6565 - What's a normal sex life? girl talk ft. Monica Yates

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In this episode of Girl Talk, Louise and Monica meet in Tulum and record the episode *together* to discuss the things that people aren't talking about online - sex, pleasure, libidos, sex lives and, more importantly, the reality of sex that no one talks about. In a world of everyone else looking perfect, it’s easy to get sucked into the belief that everyone is having the best sex of their life, constantly. The truth? That’s just not true. The pair discuss: ⇢The truths about sex that no one is talking about ⇢Louise’s recent experience with dengue fever & how it impacted her sex life ⇢Pressure to sleep together, pressure-to-orgasm and how to relieve this pressure (and the impact it has on your body) ⇢How your environment can impact your nervous system and your libido ⇢Sexual blueprints & the different ‘types’ of sex we can enjoy ⇢How FIFA, gaming & stress can get in the way of your sex drive And more. Other GIRL TALK episodes: episodes 36 and 43 of the OPENHOUSE Podcast Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 5, 202233 min

S2 Ep 6464 - Why Is He So Confusing? ft. Dr Tari Mack

Louise & Dr Tari jump on a quick OPENHOUSE HOTLINE episode to answer a submission about a guy who's behaviour has been confusing, unclear and misleading since a listener first started dating, interacting and sleeping with him. The episode takes an interesting turn when Dr Tari starts to talk more about the listener, than the guy in question. Dr Tari talks focuses the episode talking about the concepts of intentional dating, communication, pacing, boundaries and more and helps shift our perspective on a situation that so many of us have experienced before. Louise shares her personal experience with a similar situation, as well as the concepts of: ⇢Why silence drives a cycle of 'pick me, choose me' ⇢Why stupid games lead to stupid relationships ⇢Why the cool girl needs to die ⇢How communication can alleviate the likelihood of pain, rejection and ghosting ⇢Why you don't 'have to test the sex before investing in them' And more. There are also multiple features from an OPENHOUSE guest - a very noisy cat. Other recommended listening episodes: ⇢Episode 11 & 29 - unconscious attraction & how childhood drives adulthood ⇢Episode 30 - pacing ⇢Episode 22 - getting over ghosting Welcome home! Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 27, 202232 min

S2 Ep 6363 - Being 'The Other Woman' ft. Dr Tari Mack

The OPENHOUSE therapists discuss a user submission on someone who has been the ‘Other Woman’ for too long. She asks the team: ⇢ *HOW* did this situation happen? ⇢ How did she get so brainwashed? ⇢ What sort of man (or woman) entertains a long term affair? ⇢ Why and how does this person have so much power over her?; and ⇢ Where does she go from here? Louise and the therapists discuss: ⇢ How affairs start ⇢ The type of man or woman who are most susceptible to being ‘The Other’ ⇢ The statement ‘I can’t leave’ and what this really means ⇢ The concept of power play and adrenaline ⇢ The difference between attention & intention ⇢ The darker, shadow sides of when we accept shameful love ⇢ How to leave or end an affair and ⇢ How to avoid one happening in the first place And more. Louise also shares her own personal experience with ‘being the other’ and discusses The Thimble Analogy - the game changing therapy analogy that radically changes the way that you understand how, and why, you accept less than loving love - and how to change this. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 21, 202241 min

S2 Ep 6262 - Anxious attachment and dating

⭐ ACCESS THE SOMATIC / NERVOUS SYSTEM CLASSES THAT HEALED MY ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT STYLE!: HERE ⭐ Therapy PDFs: ⇢The Ultimate Guide - How to navigate & heal your anxious attachment style when dating - A 26 page PDF guide created by clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack & Louise Rumball - linked HERE ⇢The Ultimate Script - How to communicate your anxious attachment style when dating - a 14 Page Script PDF - linked HERE ⇢ The Ultimate Guide - How to navigate & heal your anxious attachment style when dating - A 26 page PDF guide created by clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack & Louise Rumball - linked HERE ⇢ The Ultimate Script - How to communicate your anxious attachment style when dating - a 14 Page Script PDF - linkedHERE ---- Do you feel full of dread every time you go on a date, or when it has ended? Do you constantly focus on whether they are into you or whether they’re going to text back or ask you out again - rather than focusing on getting to know you? Do you hate it when they don’t reply, or are sat online and constantly wonder if they are about to ghost you or reject you? If you’re anxiously attached and in the dating world- it’s painful, and you’re not alone. Louise talks with Dr Tari Mack, clinical psychologist and relationship expert on how to make the dating world a little more manageable. The pair talk: ⇢ Why dating and an anxious attachment style do not mix well together ⇢ The 6 things you need to understand to navigate the dating stage more easily ⇢ The concept of neutral, negative and positive cues when dating ⇢ How and when you can start talking about things they do that trigger you ⇢ When you should talk about your anxious attachment (and how) ⇢ The psychology of words and actions aligning ⇢ The concept of ‘communication’ and then ‘observation’ And more Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 15, 202238 min

S2 Ep 6161 - How to Start Tough Money Conversations in Relationships ft. Ellie Austin-Williams

In this episode, Louise is joined by psychologist Dr. Alex Melkumian and writer, speaker and Louise's great friend, Ellie Austin-Williams of This Girl Talks Money to discuss all things money and how it has us in such a chokehold. The group discuss: ⇢ How our money habits start to form before we are even born (+ the intergenerational cycles of money) ⇢ A discussion around which caregiver drives our money habits the most; ⇢ The connection between money, sex & food - and which is Louise’s favorite; ⇢ The threshold at which money stops making us more happy; ⇢ The concept of retail therapy - is this just normalized addiction; ⇢ The big money taboo; ⇢ Why we’re happy to share a bed with someone but not discuss money; and ⇢ How to start having the conversations that will And more! Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 7, 202252 min

S2 Ep 60BONUS: Live Update + My experience with Dengue Fever

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A bonus update and solo episode from Louise as she discusses her recent life challenge in Mexico and what she learnt from it. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 2, 202246 min

S2 Ep 6060 - Celibacy Can Heal Your Heartbreak, Sex Life and Love Life ft. Jordan Jeppe

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Join Louise and Shadow Work Guide, Jordan Jeppe, as they discuss how the simple act of giving space to your relationships and sex life can revolutionise them With the pair coming to you from Mexico, Jordan shares her experience with 13 months of conscious and intentional celibacy, and Louise shares her 2 year experience of being a ‘naughty celibate’ as well as discussing: ⇢Healing from heartbreak, jealousy, and toxic traits and patterns ⇢Why celibacy is nothing like you think it is ⇢The concept of the 'sexual pause' ⇢Why we all need space to reflect on our past and present ⇢How our shadow drives our past relationships ⇢Are you masturbating intentionally? and ⇢How to review your connection with self pleasure And MORE! Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 17, 202251 min

S2 Ep 5959 - Faking Orgasms + How to have Better Sex

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Our sex episodes are back. Join Louise & OPENHOUSE sex therapist, psychologist, & intimacy coach, Massimo Fontana, as the pair discuss: ⇢Making love in the dark; ⇢The balance between receivership and service in the bedroom; ⇢The impact of pornography and ‘fake it till you make it’ culture on our sex lives today ⇢The fragile ego + why we take things personally if our partner doesn’t orgasm ⇢Why we’re not creating space to explore our sexual self ⇢How to communicate what you like and what you don’t like in the bedroom ⇢How to build a space of intimacy where it doesn’t matter whether you orgasm or not ⇢The importance of being in your body rather than cerebrally being in your head ⇢And the importance of aftercare, safety and non-violent sexual play Massimo and Louise also chat breath play, blindfold play, creating sex tapes, the Master’s and Johnson Orgasm curve & crying in the shower after sex + the HEARTSPACE trick to bring you and your partner closer together. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 10, 202244 min

S2 Ep 5858 - Louise Life Update

As summer draws to an end, Louise hops into the studio to give you a *QUICK* solo episode and life update. After a busy summer and things growing fast at OPENHOUSE, she's juggling lots of plates and hasn't taken a hot second in a while to tell you what's going on, behind the scenes, in her life. So, grab a tea, grab a coffee, go for a walk and join Louise as she chats a little dose of real life reality (because not everything can be sex, love and intimacy): ⇢Why did she come back from Mexico? ⇢Is she going back? ⇢What are her thoughts on long distance love? ⇢What is the future of OPENHOUSE ⇢What is she still working on in therapy? ⇢Who trolled her; and more! Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 6, 202228 min

S2 Ep 5757 - Is It Normal to Fantasize About Someone Else? ft. Dr Tari Mack

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In today’s first ever OPENHOUSE Hotline episode, Louise reads clinical psychologist, Dr Tari, Mack and sex therapist Massimo Fontana a listener’s question that explains she is in a happy, long term relationship but has started to think about someone she has met at work …. A lot. Louise asks the therapists their thoughts on what to do when you start to think about someone who is not your partner. The group discuss: ⇢ Is this normal? Does this happen to everyone? ⇢ What to do when it happens; ⇢ Why this is often more about you, rather than the person outside of the relationship; ⇢ But what the other person can show you about yourself and your relationship; ⇢ Why stepping out of bounds isn't always the solution; ⇢ The shame and guilt that people experience when they do engage with the 'other person' thinking it might make them feel better; As well as asking; Is it normal to fantasize about someone who isn’t your partner? and What tips and tricks that you can introduce into your relationship to re-connect both inside and outside of the bedroom. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 3, 202240 min

S2 Ep 5656 - The Mother Wound / Mommy Issues ft. Stephanie Therapy

Mothers define our childhood, so it only makes sense that they might define our adulthood too, right? In today’s episode, Louise is joined viral TikTok Therapist, LMFT and EMDR/TRM trained therapist and the powerful pair discuss all things Mummy issues and look at the complex relationships we can have with our Mother’s. They look at the positives we can take from our Mother’s in childhood and adulthood but also the way that they can push our buttons like no others. Louise & Lisa look at healthy relationships all the way through to toxic relationships, setting boundaries, commenting on our lives and decision making and more including: ⇢ The psychological model of the ‘Good Enough Mother’ ⇢ What we learn from Mom, and what we learn from Dad; ⇢ How often we look at the parent who made the ‘loudest’ or most ‘painful’ wounds - and ignore the quieter one; ⇢ How to understand Mum’s judgment, criticism and constant feedback - as well as the guilt when she always calls and you’re ‘too busy’ to talk; ⇢ How to set boundaries, why they are important and how to handle the backlash; ⇢The ‘Fleet’ Analogy - about how to have a healthy relationship with your parents (and family) that doesn’t lead into isolation or enmeshment; ⇢ The ‘Characters We Play In Our Families’ - how everyone is taught to play a role in the family and how you can change this when you shine a light on it. And so much more. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 21, 202237 min

S2 Ep 5555 - How to find love on a dating app

Do you hate dating apps? Do you think people are lazy? Never reply? Always think there are more fish in the sea? Always keep meeting useless people and heading back to the apps? Louise talks with Dr Tari Mack, clinical psychologist and relationship expert on how to make these damn apps work for you. The pair talk: Approach & intentionality - clarity around shopping list and qualifiers that you HAVE to be clear on before you download the app; Dealbreakers, red flags - how to talk about them and how to identify them; How you can get in your own way with search criteria; How to set up your profile to share your true self - and to weed out people who are interested in your fake self; How to stop wasting mental time and energy engaging with the wrong people; How to start conversation; How long should you talk before meeting? And more. Louise also shares: Some of the amazing stories she has experienced through dating apps; And how many hilariously BAD stories she has also experienced thanks to her poor use of dating apps. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 19, 202256 min

S2 Ep 5454 - Why don't I trust them? ft. So My Mom's A Therapist

Welcome to ‘No Mans Land’ - when you have no trust issues in your relationship and no reason to not trust your partner but you struggle with trust & insecurity. It’s a sticky in between area when sometimes you feel uncomfortable and you find yourself thinking ‘do I trust them!?’ or ‘do I not trust myself? Is this the problem coming from me or is it being caused by them? Is it because of a partner or incident before? Should they be doing more to help me or should I be pulling myself together? Am I being irrational? Are they being irrational? If you can relate, this episode is for you. Today, Louise is once again joined by Lisa Smith, of TikTok’s ‘So My Mom’s A Therapist’ notoriety to discuss all things TRUST. They pair discuss: ⇢ The concept of silence, suppression, the crazy girl and the cool girl ⇢ How the cool girl and crazy girl show up in our cognition and in our brain patterns ⇢ Why it’s not needy to have needs but why we don’t act on our feelings because of rejection ⇢ The physical impacts of ignoring our own needs ⇢The real of ‘reasonable’ - what can you ask your partner to do to make you feel better? ⇢ How to understand the difference between overactive anxiety and an overactive nervous system response vs. our gut trying to tell us the truth ⇢ The secret to soothing your nervous system, alone, and with your partner; ⇢ How to navigate these situations when our bodies aren’t happy and we don’t feel safe. And so much more. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 7, 202245 min

S2 Ep 5353 - Big d*cks, pussy shaming, sexual shame ft. Dr Massimo Fontana

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Friends, I am beyond excited to introduce you to my Sex Therapist, Massimo Fontana. He is the most incredible sex therapist and he is the man that is going to help the OPENHOUSE audience start reach the pinnacle of sex, intimacy and deep connection. While I am all for female empowerment, I LOVE that Massimo brings a bit of ‘male’ to the podcast, because the way he looks at what we discuss is revolutionary and allows us to consider today’s sexual conditioning from all stand points. In today’s episode, I introduce Massimo and then we jump straight into the juicy stuff, including: The rise of designer vaginas and how pornography has led to a misguided belief that your pu$$y should be ‘perfect’ What you’d think about your genitals if you were stranded on a desert island How religion sets the foundations for sexual shame and keeping pleasure inside the marital home How many of us are not connected to our sexual self Why society glorifies big penises, and focuses on performance based sex The Bell Curve for male & female orgasm; Why today’s society overlooks foreplay; and more! I also share my personal stories of what I have learnt in my own sex life over the past decade and Massimo doesn’t hold back with any of his questions. It’s a juicy one, and is the first of many very important, intimate discussions to come. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 5, 202253 min

S2 Ep 5252 - How to Stay in Love

In this bonus episode, Louise jumps into the podcast studio at Shoreditch House to discuss something she's been thinking about lately - the significance of the small and how we can use tiny, 30 second moments to make people feel loved, cared for, cherished and adored. A little really goes a long way in a world lonelier and more disconnected than ever before. Louise discusses her top 10 tips on how the little things can become the big things - and how she has put some of these into action in the last few weeks of her life with those around her. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 31, 202227 min

S2 Ep 5151 - Introduction to the Nervous System ft. Dana Doswell

Ever feel like everything is just a little too much and that you feel more sensitive than most people? Or that you are either hyper stressed out, with 101 things on your to-do list that all need to be done at once? Or, alternatively, do you not feel much at all? Are you lethargic and struggling with motivation and can think of nothing better than lying on your sofa, never leaving the house & eating take out and binging netflix? Has the pandemic changed you as a person and the outside world doesn’t feel as good as it used to? In today’s episode, Louise sits down with nervous system coach and somatic therapist Dana Doswell to discuss how our relationships, community, city and even the pandemic can either hurt or heal your nervous system. Dana & Louise get into: What is somatic bodywork; How and why emotions show up in the body; Louise’s personal tendency to shift into fight & flight as opposed to rest & digest or freeze; and How so many of us are disconnected & numb to what is really going on around us and inside of us. The pair also discuss the impact that coming back to London has had on Louise’s nervous system as well as discussing how other big changes, like the pandemic, are deeply distressing to so many people’s nervous systems (even if you didn’t realise it) and how it has shifted the entire way that your body (and mind) may function. Dana also runs through the three ‘states’ of the nervous system and how these are supposed to work in a healthy functioning and resilient nervous system, as well as discussing the impact that loving and stable relationships can have on your biology and physiology vs. those that are unhealthy And so much more! Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 29, 202256 min

S2 Ep 5050 - Why am I single ft. Dr Tari Mack

Ever wondered why you keep dating, and dating, and never really getting anywhere? Maybe you find yourself jumping from relationship to relationship or attracting and engaging with people that turn out to be total disappointments.In this OPEN(HEART) episode of OPENHOUSE, Louise is joined by head OPENHOUSE therapist, clinical psychologist & celebrity relationship expert, Dr Tari Mack as she discusses the three key areas that she sees people missing time and time again when they are trying to find their life partner. The two discuss: the importance of a shopping list; the importance of building foundations before jumping into bed together; why you keep going for the same types of men on repeat, even though it’s not working; the importance of leading with consistency rather than chemistry alone; how to break the chemistry cycle; why you have to be able to communicate about what you want and what you don’t want before you start jumping into bed together And more. Louise also shares all she has learnt about: how you can be your own red flag how you often can be perpetuating the cycles of wrong partner choice due to your own unconscious attraction & bias; how much therapy has helped her to move from poor communication, conflict styles & partner choice to her healthiest relationship yet. Dr Tari Mack also shares more about her exclusive “Single To Engaged” course launching this month (enrolment closes August 30th 2022) and how the 3 month, 12 module course (including a 1-1 individual relationship reading of your blind spots - plus option of a & live coaching group and WhatsApp access) could be the perfect way for you to deep dive into therapy and find the partner for you. Even if you’re not ready to find your forever person, Dr Tari will prepare you for healthy dating, While the Single to Engaged live coaching group is only open until Aug 31, the online course is self-paced and always available. Sign up to Single to Engaged HERE Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 22, 202244 min

S2 Ep 4949 - Overwhelmed? 12 Steps To Reset Your Life + Manage Anxiety

In today’s episode, Louise discusses coming back to London and how it has been a total shock to the system. She starts with a solo episode discussing something she has a lot of experience with - living a high energy, hectic, calendar full, big city life that can often lead to you feeling very overwhelmed - and how she is now back into the thick of it. As things have got increasingly stressful, Louise shares the 12 things that help her navigate when life gets just a little bit too much. Louise shares the ‘Jenga Analogy’ - a way that she has found incredibly helpful to help share her feelings and communicate when others that things are getting too much At the back end of the episode, Monica joins Louise to discuss how her actionable tips and tricks on what to do when life, business, relationships and the world get too much. Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 13, 202256 min

S2 Ep 4848 - "Are they a narc"? The ultimate guide to identifying a narcissist

Ever dated a really, really sh*t, mean, hurtful, poorly communicative or downright disrespectful person? Us too - but today, so many people throw the term ‘narcissist’ around so much that it seems like those with Narcissist Personality Disorder are around every corner. The truth? Experts estimate that up actually only around 5% of people have Narcissist Personality Disorder - and a lot of people are not actually suffering from the personality disorder that we tell everyone they are. So, why are we pathologizing this so much? Is every relationship with a narcissist a trauma bond? Is an angry person always a narcissist? In today’s episode, Louise and clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack help you understand the difference between someone with some negative personality traits or damaging, disrespectful & destructive learned behavior / coping mechanisms vs. being able to actually identify those with a narcissist personality. The two look at: ⇢ What narcissism is ⇢ How it starts ⇢ Can you get rid of it ⇢ The 3 different types of narcissism ⇢ How we mistreat it ⇢ How we enable it ⇢ What it gets confused with, and more. Louise Rumball & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack look at: ⇢ What is really beneath narcissism; ⇢ What traits do people cover it with; ⇢ The 3 different types of narcissist; ⇢ How obsessively taking instagram photos might come onto that continuum; ⇢ How it develops, and why; ⇢ Whether you can ever change a narc; ⇢ Or whether a narc is ever likely to commit to changing themselves; and more. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/⁠ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 8, 202247 min

S2 Ep 4747 - Meeting someone + micro moments (my love story)

If you are on TikTok, it’s almost impossible to not have come across Lisa Smith - better known as ‘So, My Mom’s a Therapist’. Lisa takes people’s TikToks and breaks down the psychology of what is going on behind the scenes and with over 600,000 followers, Lisa is doing so much good in this world. Based out of California, Lisa is a trauma therapist and is EMDR and TRM trained and honestly - her charisma and personality is next to none. Lisa invited me on her podcast which was a *major* fangirl moment for me - and I asked her if I could share the recording with my beloved OPENHOUSE Audience. She said sure, so, here we are! In this episode, Louise & Lisa discuss: ⇢ The 3 key things Louise has learnt from 3 years of therapy; ⇢ The cutest story re: how Louise met her new boyfriend & what she is learning from her healthiest relationship yet; ⇢ The micro moment approach + how to let love in; ⇢ The flip flop analogy and how to avoid emotional suppression or emotional outbursts ⇢How to cultivate a deeper relationship with yourself and those around you And so much more. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 3, 202253 min

S2 Ep 4646 - Em Rata, Cheating + Protecting Your Relationship from Cheating ft. Dr Tari Mack

In light of the recent news that beautiful specimen Em Rata got cheated on, the whole world is shouting 'WTF'... and we are too. People are thinking - if it could happen to her, then it could happen to anyone, and are any of us truly safe from the big bad concept of infidelity and a partner being unfaithful? It is thought that 1 in 4 adults are unfaithful at some point in their life and in today’s episode, Louise & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack go deep into why people cheat, but perhaps more importantly and interestingly - how you can build a relationship that will withstand the likelihood of infidelity. The pair discuss personality traits, communication, needs, boundaries, intimacy, sex, curiosity and more and a ton of free therapy tips on how to navigate love and attraction both inside your relationship and outside of it. Louise shares her very personal insights from her own journey around infidelity and learning the hard way that often it says a lot more about you, than the person you are cheating with. Louise Rumball & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack look at: ⇢The epic formula that explains cheating in 6 words ⇢The 8 main reasons that people cheat ⇢How to build intimacy in your relationship without scaring your partner off ⇢The importance of boundaries and a mutual understanding of what classifies as cheating in a relationship ⇢How to discuss cheating and infidelity long before it happens ⇢Why cheating is often not about the other person ⇢ What to do when you meet someone that you have even the smallest spark with Louise also shares: ⇢ How she has built a relationship of trust & communication after cheating in her younger relationships; ⇢ How many men seem to think it is ok to message her while being in a relationship ⇢ What discussions, boundaries & conversations she is putting in place with her new man. And more! Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 25, 202240 min

S2 Ep 4545 - You only date or chase emotionally unavailable people, if you are emotionally unavailable too

Constantly chasing after hot and cold men and women? One moment they are interested, the next they aren’t? They say they want to hang out but then they disappear? You get close, then they pull back. This episode is for you - and we have one hard truth to swallow: you only date or chase emotionally unavailable people, if you are emotionally unavailable too Louise Rumball & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack look in today’s episode at: ⇢What is unconscious attraction ⇢Why you choose people who reinforce how we feel about ourselves ⇢Why we are attracted to partners who recreate our patterns, roles, templates from childhood ⇢Why you can think you want a relationship, but be blocking yourself ⇢What have you been conditioned with that has shaped your beliefs around love, dating and more? ⇢The psychology of breadcrumbing + how to stop engaging with it Louise also shares: ⇢How she has been breaking her unconscious attraction in micro moments ⇢Why it’s ok for the process to take a while ⇢And who she has been missing from her past And more! Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 18, 202243 min

S2 Ep 4444 - How to be the Breadwinner Without Emasculating Your Man ft. Monica Yates

In this episode of Girl Talk, Louise is joined by her great friend Monica Yates where the two get into a juicy conversation about how to work hard, make a lot of money & let your man (energetically) still be the provider, rather than finding the situation emasculating, unattractive or awkward. The high-energy pair discuss: ⇢Their own personal experiences with men and money - past & present - and how they have learnt to navigate; ⇢Why so many more women today are challenging traditional gender roles; ⇢How to manage your man making the same or less money than you; ⇢Why men being the provider needs to be looked at differently; ⇢Why making money is sexy; ⇢Examples of how your man can love, care and lead for you in other ways other than money. + plus the incredible concept of 'Provision vs. Execution' which will change everything for your relationship. Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠] Real talk, honest conversations, and stories that make you think—welcome to The Healing Honeys. Hit play and let’s get into it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 11, 202236 min