45 - You only date or chase emotionally unavailable people, if you are emotionally unavailable too

Constantly chasing after hot and cold men and women? One moment they are interested, the next they aren’t? They say they want to hang out but then they disappear? You get close, then they pull back. This episode is for you - and we have one hard truth to swallow: you only date or chase emotionally unavailable people, if you are emotionally unavailable too

Louise Rumball & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack look in today’s episode at: 

⇢What is unconscious attraction 

⇢Why you choose people who reinforce how we feel about ourselves

⇢Why we are attracted to partners who recreate our patterns, roles, templates from childhood

⇢Why you can think you want a relationship, but be blocking yourself

⇢What have you been conditioned with that has shaped your beliefs around love, dating and more?

⇢The psychology of breadcrumbing + how to stop engaging with it

 

Louise also shares:

 ⇢How she has been breaking her unconscious attraction in micro moments

⇢Why it’s ok for the process to take a while

⇢And who she has been missing from her past 

And more! 

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