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Fit To Be Real: & A Little Extra

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Ep 40Emotions, Self-Regulation & Dysregulation with Justin Scaricaciottoli!

Justin Scaricaciottoli is our first ever F2BR reoccurring guest! He enlightened us on Episode 4 and is blowing our minds even more in Episode 40! He walks us through the 3 Rs and the 5 Why’s, the reason behind how he got into the research of self-regulation in the midst of dysregulation and the ways to help ourselves and our children through this emotional journey called life. This is our absolute most important episode to date and our REALEST episode to date. We did not edit out the utter vulnerability included in this conversation, because we know everyone feels like this and everyone could use the tools and help to better ourselves in the inevitable future of feeling burnout and overwhelmed.We truly want to thank Justin for telling us he was returning to talk about this in another episode, yes, we did not ask for this….but this is exactly what we needed. Check the references below for more in-depth research on your own.—————Real Tip of the Day: Recover Your Restorative Energy!Identify one activity that is your restore center. Your reset. Your time to turn inward and slow life down so you can connect to yourself, your emotions, and your life. You can do it! It may be a trial and error until you find it, but you are worth it.Lets make it EXTRA! Journal and Reflect!Take the time to be reflective and take a look at how you are feeling, what stresses you out, and notice patterns of your triggers so you can regulate your emotions and find a more medium energy level to life. You are in the drivers seat of your life, but you have to start the practice of breaking it down first.————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Oct 30, 20231h 5m

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This is our longest blooper reel to date and it is totally appropriate since our guest for the second time, Justin, always brings out the ridiculous in us. He is basically our brother and so you can only imagine the sarcasm, silly, and inappropriate things that come out. You can hear every eye roll haha Episode 40 is, we feel, our most important episode yet and so we hope you learn a lot and also laugh a lot. Smile everyday! Laugh with us!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.cfitfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Oct 29, 20235 min

Ep 39History, Mystery, & Faith: Carly's Senior Story

Trigger Warning: subject matter talks of stalking. In 2004 Carly was a senior in high school, the pinnacle of her 4 year experience, thoroughly thriving with her friends, with her education, and with the path she wanted to take into college: musical theater. Everything took a turn when an event shaped the rest of Carly’s life. She walks us through what happened that second semester and how the ripple affect of not only the incident, but the response of the people who were supposed to protect her when it all unfolds.This is a true story, this ids Carly’s story, and this is something that can not be diminished. If you are a victim of any type of abuse, abandonment, or any traumatic happening at all, please know that your truth does not need to be validated or justified. The more you work through your trauma the more you star to take control of your life verses the other way around.Please seek a professional if you are going through something or have gone through something in the past. Professional care is there to help you and hold your hand as you fight for your self-care and love through the process.—————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Oct 23, 202344 min

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Oh this is a Bloop to tune into! We hope you get curious about Episode 39 and also laugh today! Happy bloop day, RealExtras! Smile everyday :)________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.cfitfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Oct 22, 20232 min

Ep 38Wedding Guest or Wedding Party: Stories & Hacks from Julia Finio!

Wedding craze with our favorite calm voice Barre & Stretch instructor, Julia Finio! She has been dancing with us since she was little starting at Carmela’s Dance Studio and she is still dancing through life whether at the studio or on the wedding reception dance floor. She has been apart of 18 weddings so far in her life…whoa…4 of them were just this past year. So we felt very confident in chatting with her about her experiences, her tips and tricks, her funny moments and how the wedding world has changed over the years.Whether you are planning your own wedding, helping your bride friend plan her wedding, planning showers, attending weddings, attending bachelorette parties…you can relate or get some good tips from this episode!Check out the reference links below for Julia’s dress shopping sites!—————Real Tip of the Day: Julia’s Wedding Hacks!1 glass of water per drink or two, Take off the day after a wedding or bachelorette weekend, shop at a small boutique for your wedding dress, grab a belt and limbo it up on the dance floor, read reviews, numbing spray for your feet, always be prepared with lip gloss, carry a dry brush for sweaty face dabbing, shampoo 2x and blow out straight for stylists, take short videos for the bride & groom!Lets make it EXTRA! All You Need is LoveIf we could take anything from Julia, it would be to go into the craze of it all with positivity and truly live life to lift up your friends and appreciate the love around you!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:Julia’s #1 bridal party dress site, AzazieJulia’s #1 wedding guest dress site, LuLusJulia’s ALSO favorite wedding guest dress site, Amazon

Oct 16, 202348 min

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Weddings are a good time all around, even when you’re just talking about them for podcast! We laughed a lot, got some good tips and stories from Julia Finio and laughed some more. Whether you have a wedding coming up in your schedule or not, we hope you enjoy this chat as much as we did! And we hope you smile and get a chuckle in today!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.cfitfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Oct 15, 20233 min

Ep 37Is it Football or Broadway? Learning the game of American Football with our brother, Billy Mayo!

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With all of the buzz of Taylor Swift and Travis Kielce's football romance, we thought we would finally hunker down and learn how to understand what is going on on the field watching the games on Sunday. Who better to teach us what’s what than our Philadelphia Eagles loving brother, Billy Mayo. This is his second time calling in to F2BR and the dynamics of the three of us do not disappoint. We learn something things, we hope you learn some things, and we make some pretty incredible comparisons to what we know inside and out…Broadway. You know, the way football and Broadway pair so nicely together?? We covered it all.We hope for 30 minutes on whatever day you listen to this episode you learn enough to walk into your next game day party a little more ready to know what’s happening on the big screen, and we always hope you laugh along the way. Merdé, everyone! —————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Oct 9, 202334 min

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When the three of us are together, ridiculousness is bound to ensue. Our guest and our brother, Bill Mayo, does his best to teaches the game of American football and we….well, we are who we are. Most of the bloopers are kept in the full episode, but a few made the Bloop cut. We hop eyou get a taste of what to expect for Episode 37 and we hope you chuckle or smile today!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.cfitfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Oct 8, 20232 min

Ep 36Life Doesn't Have To Be That Hard: Wake Up Call & Guide To Easing Up

Yes, life is hard. But out doesn’t have to be THAT hard! We go through a list of way you are making your life harder than it needs to be, some laughs along the way, and some tips to help you ease things up a bit! We had a lot of fun with this topic and we hope you find it as helpful as we did! Check the show notes for more detailed lists!—————Real Tip of the Day: Ease it up!Pick one realization off of the list we went through that is something you struggle with, and focus on the way you can make an improvement. The more new habits you create the more your enhance your life!Lets make it EXTRA! Easy Peezy Lemon Squeeze!Bake a Lemon Cake….for many reasons :)————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:18 Ways You’re Making Your Life Harder, MarcandAngel100 Ways You’re Making Your Life Harder, TalkSpace

Oct 2, 202340 min

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Laughter is contagious and that’s why we put these Blooper tracks out…so that even for a brief moment you get a giggle in or even just a smile mixed with curiosity about the upcoming Episode…we always have a good time and we’re happy you’re joining us!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.cfitfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnes

Oct 1, 20232 min

Ep 35Inside Scoop: History of Wrong Guys

We were asked to spill the tea, and so tea we spilt. Victoria is the focus and her relationship situationship’s over the years. Changing names of some main characters and picking some highlights of each experience is sure to be worth the stream. To be very clear, we hope all of these stories are living happy lives and thriving wherever they are.—————Real Tip of the Day: Get out there!If you are online dating, be vigilant, be smart, be picky, be open, be yourself and be ready for some amazing and/or hilarious moments.Lets make it EXTRA! Have fun!….this is a reminder to just let grand have fun!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Sep 26, 202347 min

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Episode 35 is filled with juicy stories and some are so ridiculous there is nothing else to do but laugh….so laughing is a lot of what we did! Enjoy some tidbits of stories in this Bloop and as usual, some chuckles! Simple everyday :)________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.cfitfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast * Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Sep 24, 20232 min

Ep 34Ask Us Anything! Questions From Our #RealExtras

We put out on our instagram story a questionnaire asking you to Ask Us Anything! And you did! We answered some fun questions pertaining business, personal lives, silliness and some others in between. She had a total blast with this one, might be one of our favorites! We will definitely be doing another Ask Us Anything! Episode, so if you didn’t ask one this time around, don’t worry!—————Real Tip of the Day: Talk!Grab your friends, your family, your sister, your pup…and have a genuinely normal conversation….human connection! You’ll find how much you need to catch up on and how much fun you can have just connecting with the people you care about!Lets make it EXTRA! Real Extras!We’re on board with #RealExtras….lets go!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Sep 18, 202340 min

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Episode 34 was answering our Real Extra’s questions! Don’t know what a Real Extra is? Tune in to Ep34 to find out ;) We have a bit of fun with this conversation, and we hope you laugh with us, get curious, smile, and spread some joy today!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Sep 17, 20232 min

Ep 33Seasonal Shifts & How To Handle It!

Change is hard, but it is a part of life that is eternally constant. How we handle change is completely up to us, so it is important to try and go with the flow of transitions, letting go, phases of the moon, and roll with the tide….pick your popular phrase of choice and go with it! We give tips, and mostly first hand experience and opinion, on how to adapt to season change. The more you flow the more you grow! Check out the references below!—————Real Tip of the Day: Cinderella CleanDo a deep clean or deep dive into decluttering your house! An organized enviornment is a less chaotic mind! You feel how your home is kept…and each season change is a great time to tidy up and feel lighter. It’s time!Lets make it EXTRA! Can’t Fight The Moonlight!Don’t fight it - go with it - lean in to it! Really surrender to the change of season and find some joy in the little ways, you’ll find how the majority of your year was spent in breathing in joy!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:New Season, New Self-Care, The Shine AppGoodbye Summer, Hello Fall, GoodTherapyChange of Seasons Checklist, Thoughtful Misfit

Sep 11, 202338 min

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We truly want you to feel like you are sitting on the couch with us having a fun chat! The laughs are real, the ridiculous is real and it is ALL extra! Episode 33 had a lot of…moments, here are a few in this Bloop! We hope you laugh with us, get curious, smile, and spread some joy today!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Sep 10, 20233 min

Ep 32The Limit Does Not Exist: Common Reasons of Holding Back

We have hard news to tell you, that it is mostly likely true that you are the reason you are held back in life. We go through the common reasons we hold ourselves back and talk through some motivating quotes that may resonate….how well do you know your famous quotes? Victoria gets put to the test, and you know we have a lot of fun and laughs along the way! Check out the links below!—————Real Tip of the Day: Face ItGrab a notebook - a pen - and make a list of your fears. Small to large and everything in between, name them so you can face them and rise!Lets make it EXTRA! Quote Me!“I Am Amazing!!!”…you sure are! Put it on a post it and put it on your bathroom mirror. Look in the mirror, say the mantra (or any mantra you love) and start building yourself up from the inside out!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:12 Surprising Things Holding You Back, Authentically DelWhat’s Holding You Back, LaunchBox

Sep 5, 202339 min

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We hope you laugh with us, get curious, smile, and spread some joy today!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Sep 3, 20233 min

Ep 31The Great Debate!

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Everyone needs a little friendly debate in their lives, some one-on-one or small group connection in person where you laugh and and talk with no judgement….it can be done! We had so much fun with this conversation giving opinions on some silly to some serious topics. We hope you get a chuckle in and LET US KNOW what YOUR opinions are! Tag us on instagram, info below!—————Real Tip of the Day: My Place Or Yours?!Grab a friend and have a friendly debate over coffee or a bottle of wine and have a blast! Get together and make it a habit to catch up and talk over some hot topics :)Lets make it EXTRA! Look Above ^Actually do it.————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Aug 28, 202338 min

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We hope you laugh with us, get curious, smile, and spread some joy today!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Aug 27, 20232 min

Ep 30Small Changes Make a Big Impact: Victoria's Mystery Reveal!

Oo we love a mysterious reveal! Carly truly had no idea what was going to happen in this chat…sustainability, environment, change, protein, and most importantly making a small impact in a big way to help save the planet. Together we truly can. Check out the references below, its necessary to keep learning. We hope you giggle along the way!—————Real Tip of the Day: Knowledge is PowerDo your research on something you can do to make a small impact tin a great big way for the planet. Food lifestyle, household supplies, sustainable clothing, etc. Learning is a forever thing and maybe it can change the world.Lets make it EXTRA! Cut It Out!Reduce your meat intake (protein) and add a different kind of protein into your life. Cut your carbon footprint on the earth! We’re not saying eliminate….just reduce. See how you feel and how it can change the world.————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:Beginners Guide to Becoming Vege, Healthline9 Scientific Benefits, Everyday HealthSave The Planet, NY TimesOverview of Greenhouse Gases, EPAProtein, Harvard Health Publishing20 Highest Protein Foods, Runners WorldUS Department of Agriculture1

Aug 21, 202342 min

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For Carly being in the dark about what we were chatting about she did a great job for keeping it real…real honest reactions and a lot of laughs along the way! We hope you smile and get curious about Episode 30! And of course we hope you smile!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Aug 20, 20232 min

Ep 29Living In The Now: Tips & Tools

Life seems to be moving extremely fast these days and as a collective we tend to try to be one step ahead of each moment. We know that is no way to live, so we did some research and have some things to say about living more presently. We have tips, tools and experiences to share and we hope you check out the show notes below for links to do your own self study!—————Real Tip of the Day: Just Do It!Monotasking - pick something you know you always do while doing other things. Maybe you drive and do business calls, watch TV and scroll on your phone, eat dinner and watch TV, etc….pick that one task and solely execute that singular task. Keep a log book and be more present!Lets make it EXTRA! Stop and Smell The Roses!Take a mindful walk or run….outside in nature, turn the podcasts or music off and listen to the sounds of the world around you. Take 10 minutes of a run or walk to be alone with your thoughts and connect to yourself and nature!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:Mel Robbin’s Let Them Theory, YouTubeMindful Moment: Self Compassion, PsychCentralLive In The Moment, PsychCentral9 Ways to Be More Present, ŌuraGuided Breathing for Beginners, Wim Hoff7 Breath Work Practices, Everyday Health

Aug 14, 202342 min

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You would think after coming back from vacation we would be more on top of things…nope! Let the ridiculous of reminiscing about VH1 Pop Up Videos ensue. We hope you feel some joy from this one :)________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Aug 13, 20233 min

Ep 28Living In A Post Pandemic World: Pros & Cons

Covid-19, global pandemic, quarantine…just some things that we collectively experienced in a very individual way that changed our lives from 2019 to today… so lets talk about it! We have some personal pros and cons to the experience and the ongoing affects it has on us all. It was a time we will never forget for many reasons and we certainly have thoughts on the mindset of it all.—————Real Tip of the Day: Reflect!Do what we just did in Ep28! Write down your experience from the heart of the pandemic now that life has gotten back to “normal” and remember what ended up being important to you! Maybe you’ve lost sight of this realization or maybe you’re still living it now…you won’t know until you reflect on it!Lets make it EXTRA! Crash My Parrrtay!sung to the song of Luke Bryan’s “Crash My Party” country song for full effect Download the app House Party and gather your friends and/or family for a night of laughs and fun! We did it all of the time during quarantine from the confines of our own couches and connected safely with belly laughs and tears of joy….lets revisit that pro today!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Aug 7, 202338 min

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This Bloop is less laugh out loud funny and more of a silent chuckle with some cutting room floor moments that hopefully perk your ears for Ep28! Even with a serious subject matter, you know we make it light and cheery. We hope you smile today, and every day!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Aug 6, 20232 min

Ep 27Behind The Scenes: Spiegelworld Productions with Andrew Deichman!

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Meet Andrew Deichman! He is Carly’s husband, the CEO of CFIT, Head of Production, Creative of the most incredible production company, Spiegelworld and the greatest Dad ever. This conversation was informational for us all, Andrew gives us the ins and outs of how Spiegelworld’s productions get off the ground and of course, we play a pretty fun game….spoiler alert: he wins.Check out the links below for all of Speigelworld’s shows and their newest one in Atlantic City, The Hook!—————Real Tip of the Day: Check It Out!Give yourself a self-care gift of having a night out! And since were on the topic, go to The Hook! Grab your friends, grab the tickets, make the reservation and have a night of pure fun! You’ll feel how much it is medicinal to laugh alll night, eat great food, and be an absolute awe. Don’t just say it, do it! ….if you’re not near NJ, go to Vegas!Lets make it EXTRA! You Stay Classy, Atlantic City!Put on the fancy outfit! Wear the red lipstick! Wear the suit! What are you waiting for?! You have the clothes already, no need for a shopping spree (but go for it if that’s what you want to do!) and put on the clothes you are “waiting” to wear. Wait no more! Life is too short to keep the fun clothes in the back of the closet. Today is the day!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:Spiegelworld - Andrew’s Company!The Hook & Superfrico in Atlantic City, NJ

Jul 31, 202328 min

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It’s always laughs when it comes to Andrew Deichman! He is the biggest goof and the first one to break the ice with absolutely no cares in the world…it is what we love about him! We hope this short blooper gives you an insight to how down-to-earth Episode 27 is and how we crack each other up daily. We hope you smile!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Jul 30, 20231 min

Ep 26To Swipe or Not To Swipe: Relationships of Today!

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Dating in 2023 is quite the challenge! However, we learn that there is truly something out there for everyone, which is wonderful! It is very different from how Carly met her husband 18 years ago and we talk through how it was for her and how life is now for Victoria and anyone else making connections this day and age! We breakdown the top 20 Dating Apps and share along the way…there’s two much more where this came from (we smell more dating episodes in our future) but we hope this brings some clarity to what’s going on out there and how to navigate the apps!—————Real Tip of the Day: Overcome Fear, but Trust Your Gut!If you are dating currently with the apps…decide to try, put your fears aside, and go for it despite your previous experiences…at the same time, trust your gut! Don’t be afraid and put yourself out there…however, listen to your instinct if something feels off!Lets make it EXTRA! Where My Girls At…?!Grab a friend and let them be your safety net when you are going out on dates with people you are meeting for the first time….make a code word for “yay!” and word for “nay!”. Give them the deets of where, when, and who!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:4 Best Dating Sites of 2023, Forbes20 Best Dating Apps, Women’s Health

Jul 24, 202343 min

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Oh boy, do we have some insight on how our brains work, or don’t work, for you! 9 times out of 10 its hard to just find the words or remember what the heck you’re trying to say, luckily we get to capture it and record for all to hear! Half of this blooper is just trying to figure out what song Carly is singing in her head….we all know how that goes. Once that’s figured out, we have some snippets that hopefully spark your curiosity on Episode 26: Dating Apps and Relationships!!We hope you smile and laugh today :)________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Jul 23, 20233 min

Ep 25Finding Fun In Your Busy Schedule!

**This sound quality of this Ep25 is different than usual and not the caliber of quality we hope for our listeners, while we are extremely proud of ourselves for even making this work, we hope to sound back on track for next week!Episode 25 is the the definition of finding fun in a busy schedule! We had 60 minutes out of a week of an extra busy work schedule to record this episode….however, the universe had other plans for us. The only computer that we use that allows the Garage Band software for our recording & editing updated and outdated GB, so this whole episode was recorded on a regular iPhone without our microphones or mixer or proper editing tools. That 60 minutes turned into many hours of work on trying to make this episode happen….and we did it! When life throws you lemons…make lemonade, lemon meringue, and lemon squares while you’re at it!Finding FUN can come in many forms, and we hope you explore them all! Don’t forget to check out the articles we searched below and get those Real Extra tips going!—————Real Tip of the Day: Follow Through!Read the articles we attach in the show notes and actually follow through with one of the tips! It's as easy as that! We’ve done the research for you, now you get it done and HAVE SOME FUN!Lets make it EXTRA! Time Poor No More!Note the amount of times that you say “I wanted to but I didn’t have time”….write it down. Then take a moment to reflect on whether you actually didn’t have time or if its a phrase of habit. It makes a difference! Start living a fun life, you deserve it!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:4 Ways To Put Fun Back In Your Life, INC29 Ways To Have Fun Daily Even When You’re Busy, LifeHack

Jul 17, 202335 min

Bonus Laughs! [with Melody Deichman]

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If you are a frequent listener of F2BR then you know “I’m a hustler, baby!”….but what is more important in life, which we are slowly and uncomfortably navigating, is knowing when there hustle has becomes greater than the goal itself. We need to listen to our exhausted brains and bodies and breathe this week without recording and editing a full episode - next week for sure though. HOWEVER, we have a super special 4th BONUS episode with our very own animal lover & 8 year old rockstar, Melody! …and Miss Julia from Episode 23! She wanted to be apart of the podcast and so we interviewed her on some 8 year old thoughts….and she is a natural! It’s a short conversation learning the ins and outs of what is important in the mind of a child these days, and we got to learn some fun cat facts as well :)Melody is the coolest cat of them all and has the biggest heart and ever bigger roundhouse kick (check out @teamtkma Tiger Kicks Martial Arts for incredible confidence and training). We want to thank Melody for wanting to be apart of all of the fun and for always keeping Carly in check ;)As always, we hope you smile today!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Jul 10, 202316 min

Ep 24Dance Experience & Life Lessons with the Multitalented Miss Kristin Hackney!

Our Ep 24 guest, Kristin Hackney is a world class artist extraordinaire! She is well rounded in her talent of dance, her mastery in choreography, her ability to judge competitions creatively, her love of teaching and spreading the joy of dance to her students…and MANY more. She wears many hats in this lifetime, and she excels at all of them, but our favorite is her long time friendship and support of us…and it is completely reciprocal! She goes by Miss Kristin or MK and she has earned those letters. The respect she demands and receives is unmatched.We chat about the misconceptions about competition studios and the unfair representation that reality TV has put out for the industry. She drops some amazing wisdom bombs about this dance world that can be filtered into life in general. Kids today with the TikTok craze, and the importance of learning the greats in anything you are interested in!We can't thank Miss Kristin enough for taking the time out to chat with us! We had so much fun reliving some memories from when she taught us and as usual, too much fun figuring out what the heck Carly is up to!—————Real Tip of the Day: MK said it best…“At the end of the day….the goal is the same, to instill the love of dance. Whether you want to compete…or dance with your friends in high school.. it’s about getting that love of dance and opening up so many minds to dit…”Lets make it EXTRA! Keep Dancing!This is a show notes special for this episode…just keep dancing! Never dim your light! If you want to go dancing at a club, at a private lesson, at a party with your friends, at the local bar 80s night…do it! Put movement in your body and feel the joy throughout! Never feel you have outgrown dancing and letting go.————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:Savion Glover, YouTube“Bring in Da Noise” YouTubeGregory Hines, YouTube

Jul 3, 202339 min

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Episode 24 is brought to you by many “Really?!’s” (listen to the episode to find out) and absolute laughter! Our guest Miss Kristin Hackney is our long time friend who never ceases to say it like it is and contagiously laugh with us! We hope this sparks some curiosity into what the heck we’re talking about in 24….and of course, to smile a bit today!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Jul 2, 20232 min

Ep 23Keeping Up with the Get Zs with College Student, Julia Barbier!

Carly & Victoria are 80’s babies and 90’s childhoods….so the slang and vibe of today’s TikTok generation is admittedly confusing to say the least. Luckily they have the BEST Gen Z source to help them stay relevant, Julia Barbier. Julia is Carly’s coveted babysitter for her 3 children. This relationship started when Carly taught Julia dance at Carmela’s Dance Studio, now Julia is a teacher there! She is majoring in Early Education and Special Education at West Chester University and she has her first 2 students in this chat on Gen Z slang and how to stay “cool.”Good luck, Julia!—————Real Tip of the Day: Phone a Friend!Grab a family member or friend of the younger Gen Z generation and have a conversation with them. Learn their language, ask them why, and try to understand what is “cool” these days. It’s fun, its interesting, and it helps keep everyone involved in the conversation! As Julia says, “stay woke.”Lets make it EXTRA! Do Whatever You Want!Do whatever you want to do! It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. Learn the language, learn the rules, learn the vibes…but in the end, you stay true to you and you’re doing it right!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Jun 26, 202326 min

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Oh.OH. This Bloop is almost as long as Episode 23 itself! It’s always a fun time with our guest and totally cool & hip gal pal (she will cringe when she reads that sentence) Julia Barbier! She taught us her Gen Z vernacular and desperately tried to help us apply it for ourselves….needless to say, it did not work. BUT we laughed a lot! And we hope you do too!!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Jun 25, 20233 min

Ep 22Food Conditions: Unlearning Years of Bad Habits

Check out the full articles in the reference links below, there are so many more we didn’t mention! There are some household staples that we have been believing for many years when it comes to our relationship with food, and dietitians are speaking up debunking those ways of thinking. It feels good to lose some of these conditions that are engrained so deep. Enjoy life! Enjoy food! Do it all in moderation and you can’t go wrong!—————Real Tip of the Day: Track Attack!From morning to night, track the specific foods, times, and amounts of food you take in. BE HONEST with yourself. It will be eye opening to see how much, how little, and how healthy….then start making the changes you need to live a healthier life!Lets make it EXTRA! Go Vintage!We have a tendency to fill our plates…but our plate circumferences are so much bigger now than they were years ago! Filling our plates hold a whole new meaning of overfeeding. They used to be 9” diameter….now its between 10-14” diameter! Thats a huge difference. Go out and get smaller plates and see how you feel!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:Bad Nutrition Advice, NBCDietician vs Nutritionist, Women’s HealthMaximum Daily Sugar , Business Insider

Jun 19, 202337 min

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You know we love a good Carly on the Spot…and there was something in the air this week making us extra ridiculous. Word slip ups, big laughs, and so much more in Episode 22. We hope you laugh with us!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Jun 18, 20233 min

Ep 2130 Lessons Learned By Our 30s

There were many more lessons learned between the two sisters ranging from 34 to 37 years old. The ones shared are eye opening, insightful, helpful, and some are simple….no matter what the lesson the conversation had meaning and undeniable lived life. We hope you truly get something out of this chat, we know we sure did! Even with doing the aha moments individually making the lists there proved to be way more to share!We love life and we we love being able to share our experiences and spread some joy in our listener’s day! We want you to feel empowered and strong; ready to navigate life with humor and love. It’s never too extra to be real because you’re always fit to be real extra!—————Real Tip of the Day: Write It Out!DO exactly what we did and write out your learned life lessons so far! However old you are, that is how many lessons you come up with. Think back to your experiences and feelings and get to learning!Lets make it EXTRA! Sharing is Caring!Do it with a friend! Share your findings and realizations with someone else! We guarantee it to be fun as well as insightful.————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Jun 12, 202348 min

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The subject matter of life lessons did not stop us from some utterly ridiculous moments. Episode 21 is probably one of the favorites, and the bloopers do not disappoint! We hope you get a smile or giggle in today!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Jun 11, 20233 min

Ep 20Celebrating Pride and Inclusivity with Christie Lawler!

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Christie Lawler is our longtime friend from dance turned forever friend, an incredible choreographer and dance teacher, school guidance counselor, Mom of two super sweet little girls, police wife, a tough and supportive CFIT bootcamp instructor and uses her voice for the truth in every conversation. She tells us her story of coming out to her family and friends, how she raises her girls through adversity, and gives advice to be an ally and truly live a life of being authentically unapologetic about who you are. It is our first episode in June and were are full of PRIDE to celebrate our 20th episode with Christie and spreading love through rainbows.,We hope you take away some incredible insights from Christie about the LGBTQ+ community and if you know someone who could learn a lot form this conversation we hope you have the courage to share it. All it takes is a conversation to spark change and change is what this beautiful queer community needs for a safer future.—————Real Tip of the Day: One And Done!Take the time to get to know who YOU are! Find how you can love yourself, because that is the most important relationship you will ever have. Show up for yourself, you deserve it!Lets make it EXTRA! Rainbow Bright!Wear the rainbow, share the rainbow, spread the rainbow! Show your love and support for people who love LOVE with no boundaries. Be an friend and advocate out loud!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Jun 5, 202342 min

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Theres always a time to smile and laugh and even through the seriousness of Episode 20! We love Christie and she has one of the best laughs around, so we were so happy to get to laugh with together! We hope you laugh too. Yasssss Queen ;)________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

Jun 4, 20232 min

Ep 19Cruise into Summer: Tips for Packing for Travel to Keep it all Stress Free and Efficient with Patrick Joyce!

We are so pumped for this chat! Our guest, Patrick Joyce, is a Broadway actor and a frequent star on the Royal Caribbean Cruise Lines - oh yea, and he’s also Carly’s best friend from high school…so trust us, its a fun one to listen in on!Get into the summer vibes! Patrick is talking keeping a workout routine in vacation mode, tips for packing your bags and tips for the most efficient airport experience ever! The BEST and simplest ideas from a frequent flier himself! Super helpful. Summer is about soaking up the sun and the energy is much more relaxed, so hopefully travel is in your future for the next few months! Follow through with these tips and travel stress free!—————Real Tip of the Day: One And Done!Minimize your suitcase contents! Pick one pair of shoes for the dinners or events you have planned on vacation and base your multiple outfits off of them! Shoes are bulky and take up space….try one pair! It is a time saver and space saver in one!Lets make it EXTRA! Picture This!Take a picture of yourself in each outfit on your phone before you pack your bag! Jewelry, shoes, clothes and accessories…so then you have a reference when you’re in vacation mode and don’t need to think about the great ideas you had before you left!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:Cruise with Patrick on your next Vacation!, Royal Caribbean Cruise Ships

May 29, 202331 min

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Episode 19 with Carly’s long time best friend, Patrick Joyce, is a vibe in itself!…and for Victoria it’s reliving her teen years of just tagging along…theres more Bloop where this came from, trust us!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

May 28, 20233 min

Ep 18Simple and Mindful Lifehacks!

Oh pay good attention to this one! We found some Life Hacks that you just won’t believe they’re that easy! Its not rocket science, but its clever. And that’s why we love a good Life Hack.—————Real Tip of the Day: Listen to the episode!Take notes of the ones you love or find doable!Lets make it EXTRA! Seriously, Go listen to the Episode!Do them! Actually follow through!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:200 Incredible Lifehacks, Lifehack .orgThe Life Hack Podcast

May 22, 202336 min

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This is a short Blooper because a majority of the shenanigans was kept in the episode! This one is hoot…and definitely leaves you wanting to know more! Tune into Episode 18 to find out ;)________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

May 21, 20232 min

Ep 17Personality Tests, Self-Awareness & Learning Your Purpose

We took some personality quizzes and personally got blown away by the results! Its a fun chat of piecing it all together and truly explaining the why as to why we are the way we are…..but as always, we all are what we decide to be. Learning the strengths and weaknesses of personality types allows you to do some thinking about where you can make changes and use your “weaknesses” and turn them into strengths. The links to the quizzes we took are below….we highly recommend taking them yourself! —————Real Tip of the Day: What? Like It’s Hard?Take one of the quizzes! It’s so easy! Theres nothing too profound about this real tip, it’s just really cool to connect to behaviors and traits on paper. Takes like 10-20 minutes and your mind will be blown! Maybe you’ll make some changes for good and sink into the possibilities!Lets make it EXTRA! Make Moves….or Don’t!Check out your “Strengths and Weaknesses” of your personality type….write them down….soak them in…decide if you wan to really take action on some changes or don’t! No pressure, no strings, just options and insights! ————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences: Multiple Intelligence Test, IDRlabsIntrovert, Extrovert or Ambivert, ideas.Ted.com16 Personality Breakdowns, MyersBriggs16 Personality Types Test, 16Personalities

May 15, 202337 min

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We took Episode 17’s ridiculousness to the next level and theres so much more where this came from! We hope you get a good chuckle or smile out of this track and have a silly 3 minutes of your day! ________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

May 14, 20233 min

Ep 16Confidence: The Tools To Gain It & Keep It with Jaclyn McDevitt!

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She’s beauty, she’s grace, she’s a hustler, she’s confident, she’s a badass boss babe who is letting us in on how she got to where she is and what she does to keep it allowing! Jaclyn McDevitt is CFIT’s favorite Turn Up, Insanity, and Tabata teacher. She brings the spice on Wednesday nights! She also has her own business, Body by Jaclyn, where you can train and dance with her virtually! We were so honored she came in to chat with us and we had such a fun time!—————Real Tip of the Day: AwkwarrrdddddJaclyn said it best - get comfortable in the discomfort. The only way to build resistance to fear of the unknown is to continue to put yourself in new experiences. Sign up for a new class, go to dinner or the movies alone, join a book up with a new group….whatever it is you’ll regulate that feeling of fear and practice turning it into confidence!Lets make it EXTRA! Nah. Nada. Nope. Period!No. Thats it. Just, no. It's a full sentence. Practice the art of being happy with saying no to things you do not want or resonate with. If you are a people pleaser this is a hard one, but you have to build the practice just like anything else. Life is too short to not feel good, strong, and confidence in what route doing!————If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitnessReferences:Body By Jaclyn, InstagramTurn Up/Insanity/Tabata @ CFIT: Sign Up!

May 8, 202336 min

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Laughing is really the best medicine and we laughed a lot in Episode 16. Carly is usually the instigator…this Bloop proves it. We hope you smile or laugh with us and enjoy these few minutes of your day!________If you want to workout with us, at home or in person, check us out www.CFITfitness.com We would love to have you join the CFIT Community :)Follow us for updates, inspiration, and ridiculousness!Instagram: @fittoberealpodcast Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok @cfitfitness

May 7, 20232 min