Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

***This episode is not intended for children***Topics discussed in this episode: The story of Chanel Contost How can school & home collaborate on sex education? Access to information Sex education needs to be wholistic & comprehensive Rape & Sexual Assault Research & AdvocacySpring FeverBig Talk EducationFor a happy family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode:Justin speaks with Ant Williams about his career in sports psychology, his accomplishments in free diving and how doing so has taught him life lessons that helped him become a better parent.Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Dr Justin Coulson speaks with Lenore Skenazy - president of Let Grow, a non-profit promoting childhood independence and resilience, and founder of the Free-Range Kids movement. Lenore is a mother who lives in Queens and her controversial decision to let her then-9-year-old son take the New York City Subway home alone became a national story and prompted massive media attention. She was dubbed, "America's Worst Mom." For a happy family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: What's the right age for a sleepover? Get to know the families & ask the right questions Talk to your child & go over the ground rules Give them an out For a happy family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Coulson daughter #2 is working with children and getting a sense of what life is like post-school Why traditions matter Traditions give you a sense of identity Traditions gather your family together Purchase The Do's & Don't of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: I-spy Spotto I went to the shops and I bought The alphabet game Car cricket Old MacDonald Had A Farm Bingo This Is The Song That Never Ends Peel The Avocado The Fart Game Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Kylie's struggling with a particularly challenging child The negativity bias The importance of reflection Justin plays Push Dad Off The Bed with his girls Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Problematic Internet Use and Depression Fathers' Involvement in Infant Parenting Over-responsive parenting For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Madonna shares about how she wrote her newest book Ten-Ager What issues are 10 year old girls facing? Friendships & the drive to fit in Do our daughters know how to cultivate their friendships? Labelling Bullying Physical fitness Physical affection Learn more about Madonna King and purchase her book Ten-AgerPurchase The Do's & Don't of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: What happens to children whose parents pay them to succeed? What are the cons? Explore, Explain, Empower Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Kylie shares the story of their first daughter learning how to drive. It didn't end well! Fast is slow and slow is fast Justin shares a story about working for his father & how he learnt about the process of induction Kylie takes one of their daughters through the process of induction in laundry Purchase The Do's & Don't of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Does helping out our kids with forgotten items make us good or bad parents? Justin shares how he dealt with a daughter who refused to put on her seat belt "Autonomy supported parenting is hard work" For a happy family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Emotional work, admin work & project work Kylie tests Justin on his level of involvement in the cognitive load Justin & Kylie discuss what they do to share the load together Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or Parenting On The Same Page or find them in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Melinda shares about the story of Chanel Contost Sexist culture grooms sexist boys The porn industry is corrosive to connection Consent education is setting the bar far too low We must address the conditioning role of pornography How can we teach consent in our own home? Learn more about Melinda Tankard Reist & Collective ShoutPurchase How to Talk To Your Kids About Pornography & Good Pictures Bad PicturesMelinda’s essay mentioned in the podcastPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Watch Justin's viral Goalcast Video Autonomy supported parenting Do we trust that our children will make the right decisions? Strength based parenting Defining strengths Join Kylie for the final week of Book Club via our Happy Families Membership.Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Tonight's Happy Families Member Webinar on Parenting on the Same Page John Gottman's research around how you not only take on a set of problems with your spouse or partner, but you become a set of problems for them You can't change your spouse/partner Trusting your partner Purchase The Do's & Don't of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Kylie went on a road trip with her girls & used some conversation starters with the kids Kylie shares a story about something naughty she did as a kid Justin has started running with his daughter every morning & they came across an obstacle Conversation starters - The Art of ConversationPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie discuss 3 pieces of research Teenagers & sleep 3 E's of effective discipline Boys & reading How our children have faired during Covid19 For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Susie shares about how she got to this point in her career Comparing how our parents parented vs how we parent Permission to parent the way you want to Learn to say yes/no when you want to Learn more about Susie O'Brien or purchase her book The Secret to Half-Arsed ParentingPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: A sneak peek into what they'll be discussing in Book Club tonight Kylie shares about a not-so-nice memorable experience from school We are wired for resilience Fixed mindsets Justin shares the story of Olly Neal Join Kylie for week 3 of Book Club in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Purchase Tweens, Teens & ScreensPurchase 9 Ways to a Resilient ChildFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Making friends gets trickier the older we get Has it become taboo to just show up at a friend's house? The positive impacts of sharing intimate relationships with those around us For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin took one of his daughters on a Daddy-Daughter date Kylie shares about an experience she had with their youngest daughter #208 I'll Do Better TomorrowBluey Sleepytime episodePurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Mature content warning. This is not an episode suitable for children*Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie speak with Rebecca Sparrow Who is responsible for teaching students about consent? What are we missing when teaching our children about sex? Consent isn't only about sex Personal boundaries Permission & respect Justin reads from his book Miss-Connection, page 204-206 Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Gossip is a healthy form of curiosity How to foster boredom in your children with the down sides Susan answers some rapid fire questions from Kylie & Justin Find out more about Susan Engel & her books The Hungry Mind & The Intellectual Lives of ChildrenListen to the other 2 podcasts here - #206 Curious Kids with Susan Engel & #211 We Don't Need To Know Everything with Susan EngelPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Kylie shares some sneak peeks into this week's Book Club topics The marshmallow experiment Self control can be taught Adversity, Belief & Consequence Ethan Kross podcast episode - #128 Self Control Can Be A Learned Behaviour (Featuring Ethan Kross)Episode with Taryn - #207 Taming That Voice Inside Your HeadJoin Kylie for Book Club on 9 Ways to a Resilient Child in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin's life motto is "Always bite off more than you can chew!" 3 tips to help you create margin in your life "The things that matter most must never be at the mercy of the things that matter least." - Steven R. Covey Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: The Coulson's experienced a first in over 20 years of parenting Justin's decided he's not paying up anymore! For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie had a rough night with their youngest in their bed What is the best time to put the kids to bed? Routine is everything Sleep hygiene Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How do we help our children become more curious? Allow children opportunities to be surprised Let go of the idea that you need to be right and to know everything Learn the pleasure of not knowing things Find out more about Susan Engel & her books The Hungry Mind & The Intellectual Lives of ChildrenPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Sneak peeks into what you'll be learning from 9 Ways to a Resilient Child Responsive parenting Why are winners less resilient? Purchase 9 Ways to a Resilient Child and join Kylie for Book ClubPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Cathy joins Justin & Kylie on the podcast & shares her thoughts on 21 Days to a Happier Family Where does the sense of inadequacy come from for parents? Justin shares an excerpt from his book 21 Days to a Happier Family Purchase a Spacetalk Adventurer WatchPurchase 21 Days to a Happier FamilyFor a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Kylie shares a funny story about how her gym sessions are going Justin shares about their quarterly getaway The youngest Miss Coulson has been struggling getting back into structured life Justin shares about how he apologised to one of his daughters Purchase a Spacetalk Adventurer WatchPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: A listener wrote into the show with a curly question for Justin & Kylie Could there be an indirect impact on our children based on what we say about ourselves? Intergenerational transfer of cognitive mindset Tips on how to filter our own mindsets Self-talk Our words create our worlds Purchase a Spacetalk Adventurer WatchPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Susan shares about her childhood & her family now How do you balance the tension between letting children have a childhood vs giving their children opportunities via extra curricular activities One of the most important things parents can do with their children (and it's not hard!) Find out more about Susan Engel & her books The Hungry Mind & The Intellectual Lives of ChildrenPurchase a Spacetalk Adventurer WatchPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: The theory behind homework The benefits of homework What are Justin's grievances with homework? Find the letter Justin sends to his children's teachers - The Homework Letter I Send To School Each YearPurchase a Spacetalk Adventurer WatchPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin shares a sneak peek into tonight's webinar, Teaching Kids Kindness. Justin & Kylie share what they were like as a big brother & sister What are the skills a parent needs to be a good parent? Justin shares a simple but effective technique for how to deal with sibling conflict Why is 'punishing in private' terrible advice? Purchase a Spacetalk Adventurer WatchPurchase a ticket to Teaching Kids Kindness or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin needs to do better at remembering to put the bins out Parenting is not about the children, it's about the parents Kylie shares the moments that make mother heart sing Justin had a terrible, no good, very bad week Parenting is the ultimate self developing course Purchase a Spacetalk Adventurer WatchPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: 3 secrets to strengthening your relationship as a couple Connection is being seen, heard & valued Justin shares what he does every time he passes Kylie Purchase a Spacetalk Adventurer WatchFor a Happy Family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie speak with Michelle Mitchell about her new books on puberty Justin & Kylie share about their Birds and the Bees talks with their parents Kylie asks Michelle a curly question Purchase a Spacetalk Adventurer WatchPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find Michelle Mitchell's books hereFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin shares about a Facebook post that didn't quite go to plan Kylie shares about a time she was completely misunderstood in a Facebook post Get curious, not furious Turn your hearts toward each other The importance of face-to-face communication Purchase a Spacetalk Adventurer WatchPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie have a listener call in and ask them a question about how to juggle extra curricular activities What is an appropriate age to begin extra curricular activities? Try our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Kylie shares how she made the most of their Australia Day We have to create moments - they don't always happen on their own Hear the whole Coulson family serenade you with an Australian classic Sometimes our biggest mistakes give us the best insights Justin shares one of his recent parenting regrets Sometimes it's really hard to practice what you preach Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Jessica Rowe joins the podcast for a special episode Find out why Jess's daughter's lunchbox made national headlines Lunchbox tips Find our last episode with Jessica Rowe here - #122 Crap Housewives, IVF & Mental Health (Featuring Jessica Rowe)Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Micromotives Is the standard path for you? WHY are you passionate about the things you're passionate about? The most important thing you can do for your kids. Pursue what fulfills you Learn more about Todd Rose or purchase The End of Average or Dark HorsePurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin copped some slack for his music choices Justin & Kylie answer a question from a listener about how to get her kids to do their chores Kylie explains the 10 Minute Tidy and why it works for them, as well as other chore strategies 3 key principles to remember when it comes to chores Find the episode with Alfie Kohn here - #137 Punishment & Rewards with Alfie KohnFind the pocket money episode here - #5: Turning your children into “Savers”For a happier family, try our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: The importance of couples discussing decisions that will impact on family life Sacrifices that mums make Timing - not now, but one day For a happier family, try our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie share their first review under 5 stars Justin shares how he turned around his bad mood & saved the night Justin & Kylie have been reading Michelle Mitchell's puberty books with their girls Download the Happy Helpers Chore ChartFor a happier family, try our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find Michelle Mitchell's books hereFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: The bucket metaphor Your morning starts the night before How to wake up with connection, rather than correction or direction Don't tell, ask. Use gentle reminders Purchase 21 Days To a Happier Family Email us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How to get your kids engaged in learning Should every child go through 13 years of school + university? How to deal with children who want to make life choices you disagree with Learn more about Todd Rose or purchase The End of Average or Dark HorsePurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Ticking off the back to school checklist Second hand uniforms Should I really buy the expensive shoes? Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.