Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

How to avoid materialism in your children this ChristmasTopics discussed in this episode: How to avoid materialism in your children Don't try to keep up with the Jones's Get creative Plan ahead Change the focus Be an example Material Parenting: How the Use of Goods in Parenting Fosters Materialism in the Next GenerationPurchase How To Unspoil The Kids This Christmas or find it in your Happy Families MembershipPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families MembershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: What research says about how we can help those suffering from depression. Connection, physical activity and mentors. Why curiosity and a desire to learn can help overcome depression. You can contact Kids Helpline anytime on 1800 55 1800.You can call Lifeline anytime on 13 11 14.Invest in your family with a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Subjects up for discussion: Littlest Miss Coulson was excited for a special Saturday chore Justin took one of his daughters out for a special birthday ice-cream Kids spell love T.I.M.E Kylie left the kids with a list of chores and she came home to a wonderful surprise If we don't give our children opportunities to surprise us, they never will Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this best of episode Justin & Kylie chat about ways we can be more playful with our kids. It's a really important conversation, especially ahead of the holidays!Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie speak with Alfie Kohn about report cardsIn this episode, they discuss: Alfie's opinion on report cards When children are being evaluated, it reduces their motivation Intrinsic vc extrinsic motivation Grades for effort What should parents do with the report cards? Learn more about Alfie Kohn#137 Punishment & Rewards with Alfie Kohn#150 Unconditional Parenting with Alfie Kohn#160 The Trouble With Time Out with Alfie Kohn#249 Best of - Discipline, Punishment & Rewards with Dr Alfie KohnPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: A listener question about co-parenting when the other parent is not quite meeting their responsibilities The 7 C's of Separation and Divorce Why and how you need to work together with your ex when it comes to parenting Read Dr Justin Coulson's 7 C's of Separation and Divorce.Invest in your family with a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Kylie's week off at her health retreat Is taking holidays apart a good or bad thing? Appreciating your partner Invest in your family with a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Podcast listeners share what they learnt from Parental GuidanceIn this episode, they discuss: Black Friday sales! Coparenting, boundaries, setting routines, nature parenting Which parents did you connect the most with? Justin's tender moment with his most difficult child Kylie's experience with her daughter who didn't get a "gold hat" Measuring kids by 'awards' and 'rewards' Click here to locate our Black Friday SalesPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie speak with Deb from Parental Guidance!In this episode, they discuss: What made her want to go into homeschooling? How does she juggle everything? What is the hardest thing about homeschooling? Do her kids really get along well? Her daughter's struggle to give up her screen How did the experience on the show affect her family? What were her biggest learnings? Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie speak with Brett & Tony from Parental Guidance!In this episode, they discuss: How did Tony & Brett end up with quadriplets? What made them want to have kids? What was their biggest learning? Were they disappointed they didn't go through to go camping? Which parents would they put through to the Crowded House? Would you recommend a season 2? Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie speak with Andrew & Miriam from Parental Guidance!In this episode, they discuss: What did they hope to gain from being on the show? Their impressions while watching the show How did the kids feel about being on TV? How did the show impact their parenting? Which parenting style impacted them the most? How did the show strengthen your family? For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin shares his favourite part of the whole show from Parental Guidance! In this episode, they discuss: What were their expectations going into the show? Debbie's disappointment in how she was portrayed on the show Did they question their own parenting style? Were they always on the same page with their parenting? "Never Give Up" Justin's favourite part of the entire show How has the experience strengthened their family? Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss: The Coulson family discussed how they can make their family happy after watching the show The girls share which parenting style they think Justin & Kylie use The girls share which set of parents they liked the most Which parenting style will the girls use when they're parents? What would the girls like to do more of? Purchase Tweens, Teens, & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss: What it was like working with Justin Ally's parenting style Ally's favourite parenting style on the show How Ally's parenting has changed since the show Are Justin & Ally perfect parents? What has changed in Ally's home since the show Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Justin & Kylie speak with Penny & Daniel, the winners of Parental Guidance How they feel about winning Were they always on the same page about their parenting? How their childhoods effected their parenting Parenting from fear How being on the show effected their parenting How the experience strengthened their family For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss: a recap of last night's episode of Parental Guidance giving kids instruction a review on Brett and Tony's approach of using routine emotions are contagious tips to reign our own emotions back in anger, fear, control Purchase Tweens, Teens, & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss: a recap of last night's episode of Parental Guidance ways to notice strengths in our kids an analysis of free range parenting Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Kylie is working with an emotion coach Kylie shares what she's learnt with her daughter ABC model Stinking thinking Justin nailed it this week with Miss 7 at bedtime For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss: a recap of last night's episode of Parental Guidance how different parenting styles affect compromise within our families why forcing kids to apologise is teaching kids to lie Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Justin & Kylie discuss last night's episode of Parental Guidance Kids earning money How far do you push your kids? Kylie shares a story from her childhood Facing your fears When to let children trust their gut It's not about pushing. It's about encouraging and supporting. Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: We look back at the new parents we met last night in Parental Guidance Washing kids' mouth with soap Screen time use from little kids to teens Setting boundaries with screens Purchase Tweens, Teens, & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: We look back at the little lies that came up during the cake decorating challenge in Parental Guidance Why our kids lie and how we can respond The fact that telling lies is a normal part of growing up For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Kylie shares some feedback from a listener about a sensitive episode last week Justin shares some feedback from a listener about sleep training Kylie shares her reflections she's had while watching Parental Guidance Justin wants to get into nature with the family and spend some quality time For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Family photos The chocolate test Why does self control matter? 7 ways we can help build self control Out of sight, out of mind Be consistent & follow through Gentle reminders Self control games Motivation Support their autonomy Be a model Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

***Trigger warning - Episode discussses child abuse***Topics on the podcast today: Justin & Kylie discuss last night's episode of Parental Guidance Stranger danger conversation Statistics around child abuse 5 important things to talk to your kids about Most strangers are good people If a stranger approaches you, check with a parent If you're going somewhere with a stranger, always stay in public Heirarchy of helpers If you ever feel unsafe, find another adult Common sense rules If you feel unsafe, move away If a stranger promises you things, say no If a stranger ever touches you in a way that makes you feel unsafe, scream as loud as you can! How to help your children be safe around family/friends Your body is yours No one should ever touch your body If a person ever tells you to keep a secret related to your body, they're an untrustworthy person Talk to your parents Keeping our Children Safe from Child AbusePurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Parental Guidance aired last night The spanking debate We do the best we can until we know better The science is clear - smacking is ineffective Should smacking be illegal? What does the word punishment mean? The 3 E's Articles mentioned in this episode:The Fallacy of the ‘I Turned Out Fine’ ArgumentThe Spanking Debate: Changing Minds Takes a Generation7 Reasons Australia is WRONG about smacking our kidsPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie respond to a listener's question about why some kids thrive despite adversity. Children's personalities, temperaments and environments. One stable adult in a child's life. A sense of mastery over life. Listen to episode #375 Not What I Expected here.Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

***Trigger Warning - Episode discusses infant loss***Topics on the podcast today:Kylie shares an emotional experience that made her reflect on her experiences with her childrenFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We spoke to some of the Happy Families Podcast listeners to discover what their most recent 'it's all been worth it' moment was.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics on the podcast today: The history about sleep training Kylie shares her experience with sleep training What can we do? Educate yourself on normal sleep behaviour for your baby's age Be flexible Room sharing Breast milk supply Contact naps Baby wearing Partner involvement Little Sparklers & their Facebook pageThe Beyond Sleep Training Project & their Facebook pagePurchase Teens, Tweens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics on the podcast today: 6 more sleeps until Parental Guidance airs Justin & Kylie respond to a listener's question about boundaries Behaviour regulation Little People, Big Feelings Consistency Understanding developmental stages Lighten up For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Here's why you should not imitate Mila Kunis, when she dished out some on-the-fly conflict resolution advice to her child.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Up for discussion in this week's I'll Do Better Tomorrow is using family traditions to help our children know that they belong to something bigger than themselves.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Links to studies mentioned: Screen time and early adolescent health Developing a Representational Theory of Mind Physical Activity and Mental Health For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How our phones distract us from life Distraction free phones Nudge theory What Amantha has done in her home to make it a distraction free zone How to make hard work fun Chronotypes How I Work with Amantha ImberGreg McKeown, EffortlessPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Getting started, pushing through & keep things moving Learning to be comfortable with feeling uncomfortable An analogy about space shuttles & perserverance Kylie shares an anecdote about their family choosing to do something hard For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Why there's no such thing as the perfect school Why kids, especially our senior students, should stress less when it comes to grades and test scores School marketing and university created scarcity Read Justin's thoughts on homework in this article.Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's that time of the week where we sit back and reflect on the wins, and what we can do better next time.Topics discussed in this episode: Going to bed on time, "night guy" Messy rooms and cleanup Teaching their kids to drive Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode we take a deep dive into all the weird, crazy and downright disgusting things our kids have done.A big thank you to everyone who sent us a story, and fair warning - most of them include bums, penises, poo, wee and a little dose of vomit just for good measure!Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Michael Parker wrote a book called Talk With Your Kids About Things That Matter Getting back into the swing of things after lockdown What to do if your child would prefer to be at home than at school? How are the seniors coping? Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie answer a question about how important are extracurricular activities for children's development? Am I good enough as a parent? Kylie's experience growing up with no extracurricular activities How many extra-curricular activities to get involved in? When to start extra-curricular activities? The power of free play Children exploring lots of different activities and giving things up fast Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: the hit Netflix show 'Squid Game' why this show is a hard no for viewing by children ways we can discuss with our kids what they should do if their friends show them clips from 'Squid Game' why you should not be letting your kids play versions of 'Squid Game' online Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Happy birthday Mrs Happy Families The Coulson family go on vacation One of the Coulson girls gets a little scare on a boat An accidental trip to a nudist beach Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie speak with Dr Jessica Kaufman about Covid 19 vaccines for kids How are Australian parents feeling about vaccinating their kids? Do children need to be vaccinated? What side effects to children experience from the vaccine? Does it matter which brand children receive? Needle phobia Learn more about Dr Jessica KaufmanPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin and Kylie discuss asking hypothetical questions with your kids Philosophy and curiosity Justin and Kylie share an experience they had with their kids asking hypothetical questions Michael shares tips for talking about meaningful things with your kids Asking 'Why' Find Michael's book here: Talk With Your Kids About Things That MatterFor a happy family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: A very big announcement about a new TV show How to respond when your child does something out of character The Miss-Connection Summit For a happy family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today it's a public holiday in Queensland, so we've prepared a short tip for the day so you can spend more time with your family!For a happy family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: School holidays is ending 5 Questions to ask your kids at bedtime to create high quality night time nurture experiences Gratitude Optimism Open conversations Admitting your mistakes Endearing acknowledgements of love For a happy family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: What to do when the expert's parenting techniques 'don't work' Getting parenting right isn't about habits, it's about our hearts Are we supposed to intervene? Knowing when to step out The vicious cycle For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: What to do when the kids just won't stop fighting Better ways to resolve conflict Emotion catching Intervening Shorter disputes - warmer relationships For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.