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Due to an unexpected change in Sharleen's singing schedule, today's episode contains two Dear Shandy firsts: 1) we're recording remotely, and 2) we're breaking down our personal "greatest hits" Q&As of 2022! We recap and air our favorite Q&As of the year and explain why they stood out to us (and whether or not we'd answer differently). This will be our last episode of 2022 and we'll be taking a 2 week break, so we'll see you back here on Jan 12! THANK YOU, Shandies, for another great year of kindness, analogies, weirdness, specificity, and laughs. We adore you and hope you have the happiest of holidays! xoxoThanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!0:00 - Intro2:55 - Ep 133, Q2 - Anonymous18:57 - Ep 125, Q5 - from S38:51 - Ep 137, Q3 - from Tina53:04 - Ep 154, Q4 - from An Embarrassed Shandy1:07:44 - Ep 170, Q3 - from H1:41:26 - Ep 146, Q3 - from CIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How much should you consider an ex's feelings when dating within the same circles? Is the opposite of hate truly indifference, and if so, does my partner "hating" his ex mean he isn't over her? And one Shandy requests that Shandy "snaps her out of" her 1.5 situationship—will they oblige? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription!- Go to https://www.fahertybrand.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY to get 20% off your order!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY18 and use code SHANDY18 for 18 free meals plus free shipping!0:00 - Q1: I Have A Crush On My Tour Guide—Should I Make A Move?7:20 - Q2: My Guy Feels Hatred For His Ex—Will He Ever Get Over Her?21:04 - Q3: How Much Should I Consider My Ex’s Feelings When Considering Dating In His Circle?33:22 - Q4: My Normally Gentle Boyfriend Showed A Flare Of Anger Towards Me—Is This A Red Flag?53:31 - Q5: The Guy I’ve Been Seeing For 1.5 Years Won’t Commit—Snap Me Out Of It?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Rosemary who has been with her partner for 2.5 years. The two always thought they might be open to non-monogamy one day, but she's suddenly faced with the reality of that idea and isn't sure what to do. Should she lay down the law and wait for circumstances to be just right, or is there never a "just right" circumstance and should she take the plunge? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to become a member and get 50% off your first order with free shipping!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and enter code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Rosemary!52:17 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When timing doesn't feel like your friend, should you send a "If you're single in the future" message? Is it wrong to be turned off that your boyfriend lives with his mom? If your partner's dying to dance with you but you're uncomfortable on the dance floor, who's got to give? And don't pretend it hasn't happened to you: when you send the wrong text to the wrong person... 😱 Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%!- Go to https://www.TryFirstleaf.com/SHANDY to get your first 6 bottles for $39.95 plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!0:00 - Q1: Is It Ever A Good Idea To Send A “If You’re Single In The Future” Message?8:39 - Q2: This Guy Keeps Ghosting, Then Explaining—Am I Being Too Forgiving?23:18 - Q3: I Dislike That My Boyfriend Still Lives With His Mother—Am I Being Judgy?35:58 - Q4: I Accidentally Sent A Venting Text To The Person I Was Venting About—Help!1:01:10 - Q5: My Boyfriend Loves To Dance But I Do NOT—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's Hot Topic is one that has been a loooong time coming. We're joined by bestselling author, professor, and psychologist Dr. Marisa G Franco. Having written "Platonic: How The Science Of Attachment Can Help You Make—And Keep—Friends", Marisa is particularly well equipped to help us tackle the complicated world of platonic friendships. If you struggle when it comes to friendships, or you'd like more friends but don't know how to get started, or feel like you're doing all the work in your friendships, OR perhaps you'd like to end a toxic friendship.... let's just say this conversation is for you.More Marisa:Book: Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and—Keep FriendsInstagram: DrMarisaGFrancoWebsite: www.DrMarisaGFranco.com (take a quiz to assess your strengths and weaknesses as a friend!)Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Dr. Marisa G Franco!1:25 - What Inspired Her To Write A Book On Platonic Friendship3:15 - Biggest Thing She Learned About Herself In Writing “Platonic”7:25 - The Most Surprising Fact About Platonic Relationships9:48 - Attachment Styles12:35 - How To Make New Friends24:55 - Is She An Introvert Or Extrovert?26:01 - How To Maintain Long Distance Friendships27:24 - Does Our Easy Access Culture Affect Our Friendships?31:18 - What If It Feels Like You’re Doing All The Work?35:02 - Vice Versa36:49 - When You’re The Connector But End Up Feeling Left Out40:45 - Can You Be Friends With Someone You’re Attracted To?45:22 - The Proper Way To End A Toxic Friendship49:29 - Is It Ever OK To Power Fade A Friendship?52:23 - How To Maintain Friendships When Your Lives Are Heading In Different Directions55:25 - Script For How To Turn An Acquaintance Into A Friend56:06 - How To Deal With A Friend Who Constantly Copies You58:38 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 16, aka the finale part 2!Thanks to our sponsors!-Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap!-Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:28 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 163:27 - Reunion23:45 - Tyler & Brittany29:32 - Michael & Danielle34:57 - Johnny & Victoria1:03:40 - Brandon & Serene1:09:27 - Credits1:10:02 - Andy’s A-Game1:10:40 - Shandy Word Watch1:11:56 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 15, aka the finale part 1!Thanks to our sponsors!Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:32 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 152:22 - Episode 15 Kick Off3:36 - Evening6:03 - Rose Ceremony15:40 - The Next Day37:33 - The Final Couples41:32 - Overnight Dates46:19 - Credits46:36 - Andy’s A-Game48:24 - Shandy Word WatchIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Ben Zorn (The Bachelorette Season 11, Bachelor In Paradise Season 4) and his lovely wife Stacy Santilena. To say Shandy enjoyed getting to know these two is a massive understatement (in the words of Sharleen afterwards: "I want to be friends with them.")Today Ben and Stacy join Shandy to share how they went from "just friends" to married with a baby, how they overcame a very relatable early hurdle, Stacy's journey from believing she didn't want kids to wholeheartedly loving their son Logan, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, an unprecedented Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game that will BLOW YOU AWAY. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!More Ben:https://www.instagram.com/benzornlifehttps://www.zornfitness.comMore Stacy:https://www.instagram.com/ssantilenaTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Ben & Stacey!0:46 - How They Met7:32 - First Impressions19:24 - How They Began Dating (After Friendship)30:18 - Stacey’s Thoughts On Ben On The Show32:00 - How They Complement Each Other33:31 - Early Hurdle40:04 - How They Fight44:21 - How Parenthood Has Changed Their Relationship54:16 - Relationship Beliefs That Have Changed1:02:15 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game1:21:21 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 13 & 14!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY65 and use code SHANDY65 for 65% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and enter code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:46 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 13 & 140:54 - Word Watch Disclaimer1:30 - Episode 13 Kick Off4:44 - Baltimore9:33 - Back On The Beach14:20 - Evening15:07 - Mara’s Date With Justin15:29 - Back On The Beach28:10 - The Next Day36:53 - Ency’s Date With Andrew37:45 - Back On The Beach38:58 - Credits39:05 - Episode 14 Kick Off43:50 - Evening45:40 - The Mic Room55:22 - Tyler’s Date With Brittany57:14 - The Next Day1:01:08 - Sadie Hawkins Dance1:16:09 - Credits1:16:38 - Andy’s A-Game1:18:24 - Shandy Word Watch1:20:29 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it wrong to vent to others about your partner? Is it worth revisiting things with an old flame? And a sticky "Am I The Asshole?" question! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsor!- Head to https://www.go.factor75.com/SHANDY60 and use code SHANDY60 to get 60% off your first box!0:00 - Q1: Is It Wrong To Vent To Others About My Partner?14:21 - Q2: I Ran Into An Old Flame And There Was Chemistry—Worth Revisiting?24:58 - Q3: Am I The Asshole?33:42 - Q4: I Know She’s Not The One But Logistics Are Complicated—Should I End It?40:35 - Q5: My Partner And I Can’t Agree On TV—Who Should Give?48:13 - Q6: I Want To Rename My 6-Year Old Cat—Yay Or Nay?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 12!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to become a member and get 50% off your first order with free shipping!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and enter code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Info on Sharleen's opera:https://www.operacolorado.org/event/verdis-rigoletto/Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:52 - Episode 12 Kick Off/Evening6:51 - The Next Day13:33 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party26:07 - Rose Ceremony34:52 - The Next Day37:19 - Michael’s Date With Danielle44:01 - Back At The Beach52:04 - Eliza Heads To Baltimore53:39 - Credits53:50 - Andy’s A-Game54:46 - Shandy Word Watch56:05 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Elizabeth who has quite the complicated high school sweetheart story that ended in her breaking the guy's heart. Fast forward to 5+ years later and he's still on her mind—but is she on his? And if so, is it worth closing the distance and potentially becoming the "other woman" to pursue, or are some things better left in the past? Listen on for the Shandy take!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Elizabeth!48:00 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 10 and 11!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.tryfirstleaf.com/SHANDY to get your first 6 bottles for $39.95 plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.fahertybrand.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY to get 20% off your order!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Info on Sharleen's opera:https://www.operacolorado.org/event/verdis-rigoletto/Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:59 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 10 & 111:56 - Episode 10 Kick Off3:50 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party8:33 - Rose Ceremony9:39 - The Next Day10:43 - Victoria’s Date With Johnny12:55 - Justin24:06 - Shandy Roleplay33:30 - Justin’s Date With Eliza35:32 - Credits36:46 - Episode 11 Kick Off36:54 - Hayden43:20 - The Next Day43:56 - Hayden’s Date With Kate46:36 - Back On The Beach54:22 - Joey And Justin55:35 - Double Date59:44 - Aaron & Genevieve1:13:12 - Credits1:14:49 - Shandy Word Watch1:16:53 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's Hot Topic theme addresses the relationship you have with yourself—your deepest desires, your beliefs, and what might be getting in the way of your own goals and happiness. Our guest, Roxie Nafousi, wrote THE book on manifesting and has been hailed “the manifesting queen” by Forbes and “the face of manifesting” by The Times. While the idea of manifesting might seem surprising for longtime Shandies, we were truly blown away by the ideas and perspectives Roxie shared in this delightful conversation. If you've ever felt your dreams were too lofty or have struggled with fear and imposter syndrome, trust us, this episode's for you.Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://dailyharvest.com/SHANDY to get up to $40 off your first box!More Roxie:Book "Manifest: 7 Steps To Living Your Best Life" - https://amzn.to/3Fgu5GVInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/roxienafousi/Website - https://www.roxienafousi.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Roxie Nafousi!1:13 - What Motivated Her To Write A Book About Manifesting4:52 - What Is Manifesting And How Is It Scientific?8:31 - What Are The Top Misconceptions About Manifesting?11:22 - Is The Term “Manifesting” Overused?12:53 - How Should One Get Started?19:38 - Sharleen’s Q: What If You Don’t Even Know What You Want?25:33 - Andy’s Q: What About Misdirected Talent?30:59 - Are There Certain Areas Of Life That Are “Easier” To Manifest?33:40 - How Does She Reconcile Manifesting And The Adage “You’ll Find It When You Stop Looking”?37:59 - Thoughts On Realism, Entitlement, And Toxic Positivity44:28 - What About True Skeptics?45:56 - Tips For Recovering When What You Manifested Didn’t Come To Be?51:31 - How Do You Know What You *Think* You Want Will Actually Make You Happy?54:00 - If There’s One Takeaway She Wishes The Shandies Would Have From This Conversation, What Would It Be?56:09 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 8 and 9!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY65 and use code SHANDY65 for 65% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription!- Download the FREE Upside App and use promo code SHANDY to get $5 or more cash back on your first purchase of $10 or more!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to become a member and get 40% off your first three months with free shipping!Info on Sharleen's opera:https://www.operacolorado.org/event/verdis-rigoletto/Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:12 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 8 & 91:42 - Episode 8 Kick Off8:03 - The Next Day11:48 - Andy’s Question For The Shandies27:38 - Kate’s Date With Logan34:13 - Victoria’s Date With Alex40:40 - Brittany And Tyler45:22 - Shanae46:32 - Credits46:54 - Episode 9 Kick Off50:23 - Genevieve Returns To The Beach51:49 - Shanae And Logan1:00:47 - Kate Versus Shanae1:02:49 - Jill And Jacob1:06:50 - Brittany1:07:35 - Serene And Brandon1:08:14 - Victoria And Johnny1:19:13 - Evening1:22:10 - Credits1:22:19 - Andy’s A-Game1:22:46 - Shandy Word Watch1:24:24 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What should you do if you've always dreamed of living elsewhere but your partner has no interest in moving? If your baby name is stolen by someone close to you, is it cause for confrontation? And is refusing to put down the toilet seat a simple act of laziness or a sign of something more? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! 0:00 - Q1: I’m Secretly Dating My Brother’s Friend After He Explicitly Told Me Not To—How Should I Proceed?7:52 - Q2: I've Long Dreamed Of Moving But My Partner Has No Interest—Help!21:25 - Q3: My Brother-In-Law Used Our Baby Name For His Dog—Should I Just Get Over It? 51:59 - Q4: My Husband’s Vocal Fry Drives Me Up The Wall—Should I Mention It?1:02:04 - Q5: My New Guy Actively Refuses To Put Down The Toilet Seat—Should I Be Concerned? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 6 and 7!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.TryFirstleaf.com/SHANDY to get your first 6 bottles for $39.95 plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and enter code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://www.franklyapparel.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $20 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to become a member and get 40% off your first three months with free shipping!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:47 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 6 & 71:48 - Episode 6 Kick Off2:23 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party27:23 - Danielle29:47 - Rose Ceremony31:46 - The Next Day32:03 - Danielle’s Date With Michael41:49 - Jesse Addresses The Group52:20 - Credits53:17 - Episode 7 Kick Off54:29 - Evening1:02:48 - Jesse Addresses The OG Ladies1:05:53 - The Next Day1:07:20 - Shanae’s Date With Tyler1:16:22 - Sarah’s Date With Logan1:17:42 - Evening1:19:49 - The Next Day1:20:37 - Rodney’s Date With Eliza1:25:34 - Credits1:26:05 - Andy’s A-Game1:26:39 - Shandy Word Watch1:28:39 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 4 and 5!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY65 and use code SHANDY65 for 65% off and free shipping- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to become a member and get 40% off your first three months with free shipping!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:47 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 4 & 51:28 - Episode 4 Kick Off/Evening13:10 - The Next Day24:02 - Ashley And Jared’s Date27:05 - Back At The Beach28:52 - Evening29:37 - Brandon And Serene’s Date30:39 - Back At The Beach36:21 - Credits36:37 - Episode 5 Kick Off38:35 - Salley51:40 - The Next Day54:42 - Peter And Brittany’s Date58:22 - Back On The Beach1:11:00 - Jacob And Jill’s Date/Evening1:13:18 - Back On The Beach1:16:17 - Kira1:25:44 - Credits1:26:54 - Andy’s A-Game1:27:47 - Shandy Word Watch1:29:25 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by not one, but TWO delightful callers. Our first caller, Ray, has been texting with a guy daily for 6 whopping months. The catch? They live in different countries and have never even kissed. How can she take things to the next level? Our second caller, James, had his "number" used against him towards the end of his last relationship. When, if ever, should one share The Number, and is honesty really always best? Listen on for the Shandy take!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Ray!27:03 - Shandy Debrief29:21 - Welcome To Caller James!51:48 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 2 and 3!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.franklyapparel.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $20 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to become a member and get 40% off your first three months with free shipping!- Go to https://www.fahertybrand.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off every order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 2 & 31:40 - Episode 2 Kick Off17:52 - Evening49:56 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party59:12 - Credits59:50 - Episode 3 Kick Off1:06:56 - Rose Ceremony1:12:05 - The Next Day1:22:57 - Evening1:27:08 - Andy’s A-Game1:27:32 - Shandy Word Watch1:29:07 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's Hot Topic conversation finally tackles a common theme among our Shandies' relationship questions over the last 2 years: What to do when one partner wants to get frisky way more than the other? Shan Boodram, our esteemed expert joining us today, could not be more qualified to take on this subject: Shan is a certified sexologist and sex and intimacy educator, among her many other qualifications, and she helps us navigate how to broach the topic of wanting more sex, how to work towards raising one's own libido, how to communicate likes/dislikes in the bedroom (without killing the mood), and how to get back into sexy time postpartum. Shan is as fun as she is knowledgeable and we guarantee you'll both laugh and learn something new throughout this conversation!More Shan:Book "The Game Of Desire" - https://www.thegameofdesire.com/buyLovers And Friends Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1586679298Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shanboody/Website - https://www.shanboodram.comShan's Turn-On Trigger Quiz - https://www.thegameofdesire.com/quizTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Sexologist And Intimacy Educator Shan Boodram!3:16 - What Is Sexology And Why Did She Get Into It?8:36 - Tips For Couples Navigating Mismatched Libidos13:55 - Does Bringing It Up More Scare It Away?20:14 - For The Partner Who Wishes They Wanted Sex More27:56 - Comfort and Familiarity29:29 - Turn-On Triggers31:12 - Where’s The Line Between Maintaining A Sex Life With A Low Libido Versus Agreeing To Have Sex When You Don’t Want To? 35:44 - Does More Beget More?37:55 - Advice For Sex And Intimacy Postpartum 40:53 - Tips For Orgasming43:44 - Tips On How To Get A Partner To Change What They’re Doing Without Killing The Mood?46:12 - True Or False: Ejaculation Is Good For Men’s Health50:32 - Thoughts On Today’s Swipe Culture And Dating Climate 57:42 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to HelloFresh.com/shandy65 and use code shandy65 for 65% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and sign up for free to book a top-rated doctor!- Download the Flip app for FREE today and save thirty percent on your first order with code shandy!- Go to https://www.dailyharvest.com/SHANDY to get up to $40 off your first box!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:38 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 13:56 - Episode 1 Kick Off9:57 - Paradise Is Open32:18 - Jesse Threatens The Group36:17 - Evening36:40 - Andrew And Teddi42:29 - Genevieve And Justin44:23 - Andrew And Teddi, Continued45:47 - Johnny And Hunter46:23 - Lace51:29 - Lace And Logan1:02:35 - Sierra And Michael1:04:09 - Jill1:04:29 - Jill And Romeo1:05:53 - Kira1:07:43 - Kira And Romeo1:11:07 - Kira Versus Jill1:13:46 - The Next Day1:14:26- Victoria F1:14:39 - Credits1:15:08 - Andy’s A-Game1:16:42 - Shandy Word Watch1:19:09 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you like a guy but not his pet name for you, is it worth saying something? If reconnecting with a former flame via LinkedIn has reached a roadblock, when is it OK to up the ante? Plus a classic Andy-I-Need-Your-Male-Perspective-On-This-Guy's-Intentions question! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! 0:00 - Q1: I Like The Guy But Hate His Pet Name For Me6:29 - Q2: What Are His Intentions?13:45 - Q3: I’m Finding Myself Attracted To Someone I Should NOT Be Attracted To—Am I Normal?23:04 - Q4: My Partner Keeps Making Jokes About What’s Obviously An Insecurity—Thoughts?37:03 - Q5: Our Libidos Don’t Line Up—Thoughts?50:37 - Q6: Rekindling With A Former Flame Via LinkedIn—Should I Try Again? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 12, aka the GRAND FINALE!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:35 - Finale Kick Off3:43 - Last Week, Continued7:14 - Rachel’s Last Date With Tino10:32 - The Ladies Chat In Mexico12:29 - Rachel’s Proposal17:37 - The Breakup House: Gabby And Rachel24:57 - The Breakup House: Tino And Rachel48:11 - Live: Rachel 49:27 - Live: Rachel And Tino53:20 - Aven57:21 - Gabby’s Proposal1:04:03 - Live: Rachel And Erich1:12:09 - Wrapping The Season1:12:27 - Next Bachelor1:16:54 - BUT WAIT THERE’S MORE1:21:14 - Shandy Word Watch1:21:40 - Reviewing Premiere PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Kenny Braasch (The Bachelorette, Season 16) and Mari Pepin (The Bachelor, Season 25), who you watched meet and get engaged on Bachelor In Paradise Season 7! They're now over a year into their relationship (just ask Andy about his famous bet!) and they live together in Chicago. Today they join Shandy to share their first impressions, how their 15 year age gap works for—not against—them, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game that will have you on the edge of your seat! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and enter code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!- Go to https://go.factor.com/SHANDY130 and use code SHANDY130 at checkout to save $130 across 6 boxes!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!More Kenny:https://www.instagram.com/kennybraasch10/https://www.instagram.com/theboybandnightchicago/https://www.instagram.com/115bourbonstreet/More Mari:https://www.instagram.com/mari_pepin/https://www.tiktok.com/@mari_pepinhttps://www.instagram.com/innovessa.co/Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Kenny And Mari!2:24 - How Familiar Were They With Each Other Before Meeting On Paradise?5:16 - First Impressions8:41 - How They Complement Each Other11:29 - The Most Common Misconception About Their Relationship16:00 - What About This Partnership Makes It Successful Versus Past Ones?22:27 - Early Hurdle23:14 - How They Fight21:05 - How Do They Actively Work On Their Relationship?32:03 - Shandy’s Bet33:08 - Getting To Know Mari And Kenny38:48 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed41:41 - The Newlyweds Game1:04:45 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 11, aka the Finale, Part 1!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to www.franklyapparel.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $20 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 to get up to 16 free meals across 7 boxes, plus 3 free gifts!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:37 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 114:17 - Episode 11 Kick Off4:54 - Zach Speaks With Rachel11:16 - Rose Ceremony12:39 - Live: Zach And Rachel18:46 - Aven Meets Rachel’s Family32:21 - Rachel Chats With Her Friends37:02 - Rachel Chats With Aven47:34 - Erich Meets Gabby’s Family51:15 - Tino Meets Rachel’s Family56:46 - Aven’s “Last Shot”1:06:04 - Rachel1:11:54 - Live: Aven And Rachel1:14:00 - Gabby’s Final Date With Erich1:22:24 - Shandy Word Watch1:24:13 - Shandy's PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Hanna, is happily married with 3 young children. Everything's as it should be in their very small town, but she feels drawn to nurture her personal and social lives with a move elsewhere. Sounds simple enough, but when she considers one option, she can't help but weigh the pros of the other. At what point does a fear of a choice not taken become a fear of making any choice at all? Listen on for the Shandy take!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Hanna!50:43 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 9 and 10, aka Fantasy Suites Part 1 and 2!Thanks to our sponsors!-Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!-Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to become a member and get 40% off your first three months with free shipping!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 9 & 102:45 - Episode 9 Kick Off5:45 - Erich’s Overnight10:13 - Evening13:36 - The Next Morning16:35 - Meanwhile, Tino16:53 - Aven’s Overnight18:06 - Meanwhile, Jesse Chats With Tino22:44 - Evening26:50 - The Next Morning27:59 - Tino’s Overnight29:30 - Evening33:39 - Johnny’s Overnight39:30 - Jesse Chats With Jason40:43 - Erich55:11 - Episode 10 Kick Off59:44 - Gabby Chats With Jesse1:02:09 - Jason’s Overnight1:05:20 - Evening1:17:49 - The Next Morning1:19:00 - Gabby Chats With Jason1:24:19 - Zach’s Overnight1:25:47 - Evening1:26:27 - The Next Morning1:29:29 - Zach Chats With Jesse1:32:35 - Rose Ceremony1:33:49 - Gabby Visits Erich1:35:16 - Cliffhanger1:36:35 - Andy’s A-Game1:37:30 - Shandy Word Watch1:39:43 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 2 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and you sure delivered with quite the variety of Qs about this podcast, our relationship, and in general, our thoughts on a ALL THE THINGS. Thank you, Shandies, for another year of making us feel so seen, understood, and appreciated. Come join us in our living room to chat!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction2:24 - Who Is On Each Of Your Celebrity Hall Pass Lists?5:59 - Do You Have An All-Time Favorite Podcast Episode?8:19 - Would You Ever Do A Live Show?9:28 - What’s Something Your Partner Does That Instantly Calms You?11:09 - What Have Been Your Favorite Places To Travel To Together?12:17 - Will You Always Live In New York?14:38 - Does Traveling Together Test Your Relationship?15:48 - What Were Your Top 3 Dating Dealbreakers?20:44 - Didn’t You Guys Have A Cat At One Time?24:05 - If You Could Have Any Animal As A Pet, What Would It Be?25:00 - What’s The Most Annoying Thing About Having A Podcast?33:30 - Do You Follow The News? How Do You Deal With All The Bad Things Happening In The World?35:50 - What Has Been Your Weirdest Fan Encounter?40:48 - I Can’t Imagine Andy Living In San Francisco. Why Did He Move There?46:06 - How Did Sharleen Come To Be An Opera Singer And If She Could Do Anything Else, What Would It Be?55:55 - What Are Your Favorite Quirks About Each Other?1:02:20 - Could We Hear Your Thoughts On Your Age Difference?1:05:35 - What Are Your Thoughts On Aliens, Ghosts, And The Supernatural?1:18:06 - Thank YouIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Aven's Hometown and Men Tell All.Thanks to our sponsor!-Go to https://www.Nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:57 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 8/Men Tell All1:57 - Episode 8 Kick Off3:52 - Aven’s Hometown10:53 - Evening14:15 - “Rose Ceremony”14:45 - Men Tell All Kick Off22:28 - Chris24:46 - Hayden26:20 - Logan34:14 - Nate38:50 - Paradise39:44 - Jesse41:56 - Gabby And Rachel Arrive42:07 - Mario44:18 - Jordan V44:45 - Jacob45:19 - Tyler46:19 - Shameless Movie Plug49:11 - Shandy Word Watch50:55 - PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend accidentally sees your fetish in your search history, should you address it or leave it be? Is it worth it to explore a crush on your tutor? And is a relationship with a man 25 years older doomed to fail? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and sign up for free to book a top-rated doctor!0:00 - Q1: How Should I Break Up With Him If I’d Have To Travel To Do It In Person?11:18 - Q2: Does He Only Want What He Can’t Have?24:37 - Q3: I Exchanged A Gift My Boyfriend’s Mother Gave Me And Now She Won’t Drop It—What Should I Do?40:12 - Q4: My Boyfriend Saw My Fetish In My Search History And Now I Want To Hide Forever 51:21 - Q5: I’ve Had A Longtime Crush On My Tutor—Should I Make Move?1:04:44 - Q6: I’m Dating A Man 25 Years Older—Are We Doomed To Fail?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7.Thanks to our sponsors!-Go to https://www.dailyharvest.com/SHANDY to get up to $40 off your first box!-Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription! Referenced Today.com article: https://www.today.com/popculture/tv/bachelor-podcasts-rcna43186Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping (And Other Tangents)3:25 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 74:13 - Episode 7 Kick Off5:53 - Jason’s Hometown10:24 - Evening14:12 - Zach’s Hometown15:21 - Evening23:00 - Johnny’s Hometown25:26 - Evening29:06 - Tyler’s Hometown42:53 - Erich’s Hometown50:36 - Evening53:09 - Tino’s Hometown1:10:05 - Credits1:10:36 - Andy’s A-Game1:10:55 - Shandy Word Watch1:13:06 - Predictions: Gabby1:14:53 - Predictions: RachelIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Blake Horstmann (The Bachelorette, Season 16) and Giannina Gibelli (Love Is Blind, Season 1), who met filming Paramount Plus' All-Star Shore! They share how familiar they were with each other prior, some early hurdles post-filming, how they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a questionable Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game but all's well that ends well! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!More Blake:https://www.instagram.com/balockaye.h/https://www.tiktok.com/@balockaye.hhttps://www.instagram.com/officialroadhouse/More Giannina:https://www.instagram.com/gianninagibelli/https://www.tiktok.com/@gianninagibelliMore All Star Shore:https://www.instagram.com/allstarshoreofficial/https://www.tiktok.com/@allstarshoreTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome Blake And Giannina!4:19 - Were They Familiar With Each Other Before Meeting On All-Star Shore?6:13 - First Impressions12:07 - Do They Think The Powers That Be Intended For Them To Meet?14:13 - How They Complement Each Other22:19 - What’s The Most Common Misconception About Their Relationship?24:21 - How They Fight27:01 - What Was An Early Hurdle In Their Relationship?29:44 - What Has It Been Like Being Exposed To The Other’s Dating Show Culture?33:25 - What Makes This Relationship Successful Versus Past Relationships?42:32 - The Newlyweds Game59:29 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to save $15 off your first dermatology visit!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save thirty-five percent!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap!Gabby's Group Date blouse: https://bit.ly/3C6UghCOur Episode On Kaitlyn Bristowe's Off The Vine podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grape-therapy-bachelorette-s-analogies-with-sharleen/id1240420549?i=1000575742834Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 62:24 - Episode 6 Kick Off4:00 - 1-On-1 Date Cards7:20 - Jesse Chats With The Bachelorettes10:03 - Nate’s 1-On-1 With Gabby15:46 - Zach’s 1-On-1 With Rachel25:57 - Evening33:37 - Gabby Visits Her Guys35:24 - Gabby’s Group Date40:21 - Evening (aka Logan)44:58 - Rachel’s Group Date46:52 - Evening58:47 - The Next Day1:02:22 - Rose Ceremony1:06:57 - Andy’s A-Game1:07:45 - Shandy Word Watch1:10:56 - Predictions: Gabby1:13:09 - Predictions: RachelIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Abby, has a family dynamic she has been navigating her entire adult life. While her parents divorced well over a decade ago, her father continues to badmouth Abby's mother and stepfather while deflecting his responsibility in the marriage's demise. Should Abby just "keep the peace" by continuing to bite her tongue, or is it time for a confrontation? Listen on for the Shandy take!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Abby!40:55 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and enter code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 to get up to 16 free meals across 7 boxes, plus 3 free gifts!Time Stamps:00:41 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 501:41 - Episode 5 Kick Off2:30 - Logan Visits Rachel7:47 - Rachel’s Group Date9:15 - Jesse Visits Rachel13:42 - Logan Visits Gabby17:36 - Gabby Visits Rachel28:00 - Evening31:24 - Gabby’s Group Date34:50 - Evening44:15 - Aven’s 1-On-1 With Rachel45:29- Evening50:07 - Johnny’s 1-On-1 With Gabby51:30 - Evening55:16 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party56:51 - Rose Ceremony58:29 - Andy’s A-Game59:50 - Shandy Word Watch1:02:13 - Predictions: Gabby1:05:58 - Predictions: RachelIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's conversation has been a loooong time coming! So many of your questions over the last 2 years have swirled around whether or not to become a parent, or seeking #parenthoodclarity. Since Shandy is far from qualified to give you advice on the matter, we're thrilled to be joined by clarity coach Keltie Maguire who also happens to be #ChildfreeByChoice. Obviously none of us can answer this deeply personal question for you, but what we can do is have a conversation. We chat about everything from how Keltie came to make her decision, the shades of grey of uncertainty, "but who will look after you when you're old", and our thoughts on regret. Just as this is personal for you, it's personal for Shandy, too, so please respect us and each other when discussing.More Keltie:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/keltiemaguireWebsite - https://www.keltiemaguire.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Clarity Coach Keltie Maguire!3:07 - Getting To Know Keltie5:03 - When And How Did She Decide To Be Childfree?14:07 - Does She Get This Question As A Clarity Coach?17:30 - How Much Does She Think Her Lifestyle Has Informed Her Decision?20:30 - Her Thoughts On The Following: "Having a baby is like getting a tattoo on your face. You really need to be certain it’s what you want before you commit.”24:44 - Does She Find People Get Defensive When They Hear Her Choice?26:01 - Advice For Dealing With Friends And Family Who Judge Or Don't Accept Your Choice?29:03 - How Did Her Parents/In-Laws Handle Her Choice?31:24 - "But You Would Make Such Great Parents"33:36 - "But Who Will Look After You When You're Old?"36:23 - Freedom39:28 - The Happiness Quotient43:27 - Why Is It Such An Emotional Topic?45:06 - Regret51:45 - What Are Her Husband's Feelings?55:06 - The State Of The World1:01:54 - Are We Overthinking This?1:04:52 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.Thanks to our sponsors!-Go to https://www.fahertybrand.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off your Spring staples!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to get 50% off your first month of premium CBD delivered directly to your door!Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:27 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 42:36 - Episode 4 Kick-Off8:13 - France!!!11:37 - 1-On-1 Dates27:12 - Gabby's Group Date35:22 - Rachel Confronts Her Guys38:57 - Rachel's Group Date49:36 - Logan50:00 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party1:00:24 - Rose Ceremony1:02:19 - Andy's A-Game1:03:42 - Shandy Word Watch1:05:02 - Predictions: Gabby1:07:08 - Predictions: RachelIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a woman is open to dating older, what should that actual bracket be on the apps? If a guy won't let you see his place, is that a red flag? And how does Sharleen *really* feel about Andy's white V-neck uniform? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and sign up for free to book a top-rated doctor!0:00 - Q1: What Should Be My "Max" Age When Dating Online?12:08 - Q2: My Boyfriend Won't Let Me Visit His Apartment—Is He Hiding Something?26:35 - Q3: "Can Flatulence Portend The Waning Of Sexual Attraction?"45:37 - Q4: Shandy's Thoughts On A Woman Accompanying Her Boyfriend Engagement Ring Shopping?56:20 - Q5: How Does Sharleen Feel About Andy's White V-Neck Uniform? And Does Andy's Age Beliefs Apply To Women In Their 70s?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.Thanks to our sponsors!- Download the free Upside app and use code SHANDY to get up to $5 cash back off your first purchase of $10 or more!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:42 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 34:31 - Episode 3 Kick-Off6:32 - Zach's 1-On-1 With Rachel15:06 - Matt White (Platinum Package)16:10 - Zach's Date, Resumed22:29 - Erich's 1-On-1 With Gabby34:35 - Group Date51:08 - The Next Day56:23 - Rose Ceremony1:04:36 - Credits1:05:02 - Andy's A-Game...?1:05:54 - Shandy Word Watch1:07:11 - Predictions: Gabby1:08:31 - Predictions: RachelIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Abigail Heringer (The Bachelor, Season 25) and Noah Erb (The Bachelorette, Season 16), who you saw meet and date on Bachelor In Paradise, Season 7! They share the behind-the-scenes we didn't see on Paradise, when and how Noah reached back out to Abigail post-filming, how they complement each other today, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!More Abigail & Noah:https://www.instagram.com/abigail_heringer/https://www.instagram.com/noah_erb/Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Abigail And Noah!1:57 - Did They Watch Each Other's Seasons and First Impressions6:31 - How First Impressions Have Changed9:41 - How They Complement Each Other14:01 - The Biggest Misconceptions About Their Relationship18:27 - Had They Not Broken Up On Camera, Would Their Edit Have Played Out Differently?22:38 - Early Hurdle25:15 - How Long After The Show Did They Get Back Together?30:12 - How They Fight39:36 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed45:21 - The Newlyweds Game1:04:50 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!- Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY to cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping4:00 - Episode 2 Kick-Off5:39 - Group Date/"Pageant Of Sorts"9:15 - Evening14:12 - Jordan V's 1-On-1 With Rachel20:27 - Evening25:46 - Nate's 1-On-1 With Gabby28:12 - Evening32:12 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party34:29 - Chris42:43 - Rose Ceremony45:21 - Andy's A-Game46:04 - Shandy Word Watch48:56 - Predictions: Gabby52:20 - Andy's A-Game Revisited54:05 - Predictions: RachelIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's a 2-for-1 Caller Day! Today's first caller, Nicki, is in the thick of wedding planning, and while she and her fiancé agree on just about everything, they don't see eye to eye on wedding vows. He wants to opt out of writing them at all. Should she insist or prioritize his comfort zone?Our second caller, Kate, finds herself involved in a confusing "friendship", years after extricating herself from the emotionally manipulative ex they have in common. How should she handle this relationship, and should she be concerned by the old emotions that still seem to linger? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 35% off all bedding and loungewear!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Nicki!23:35 - Shandy Debrief32:00 - Welcome To Caller Kate!1:04:06 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to get 50% off your first month of premium CBD delivered directly to your door!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 35% off all bedding and loungewear!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 to get up to 16 free meals, plus 3 free gifts!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:42 - Overall Thoughts9:08 - Intro Videos (Or Lack Therof)9:58 - Opening13:46 - Night One19:36 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails26:13 - Notable 1-On-1 Time41:10 - First Impression Roses42:25 - Eliminations50:39 - Rose Ceremony52:33 - Credits53:04 - Andy's A-Game (New Segment!)55:23 - Shandy Word Watch57:49 - Predictions: Gabby1:06:02 - Wild Cards: Gabby1:07:21 - Predictions: Rachel1:12:50 - Wild Cards: RachelIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a dealbreaker if a guy asks you to Venmo him for your first date together? Is it reasonable to expect your date to be as invested in safe sex as you are? Where's the line between sharing the laughs and respecting your partner? Finally, a beautiful letter written by a Shandy. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.prose.com/SHANDY for your free in-depth hair consultation and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order of custom hair care!- Go to https://www.fahertybrand.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off your Spring staples!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!0:00 - Q1: My Date Asked Me To Venmo Him Back For Our First Date—Is This Weird?11:40 - Q2: How Can I Make Sure HIs Parents Like Me?24:50 - Q3: I'm East Asian And My New Guy Has A History Of Mainly Dating East Asians—Am I Being Fetishized? 38:18 - Q4: Is It Reasonable In A New Relationship To Expect Both Partners To Make An Equal Effort In Protection?56:37 - Q5: My Boyfriend's Upset I Shared His "Personal Medical Information" With Our Friends—Am I The Asshole?1:09:49 - A Shandy's LetterIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Emily, is at her wit's end. Her boyfriend still lives with his ex, and while he has his reasons, she's wondering how patient she should be. At what point is having empathy detrimental to our own selves, and is this relationship automatically doomed by its rocky start? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and sign up for free to book a top-rated doctor!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Emily!49:06 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This is Sharleen's all-time favorite Hot Topic conversation. You will probably also learn more about Andy's mind and thought process here than in any other episode Shandy's ever done. Are you deeply moved by sad music? Do you find comfort in a rainy day? Does the word "poignant" resonate with you? If you answered "yes" to these, you just may be the Bittersweet type. (Spoiler alert: so are both Sharleen and Andy!) According to our esteemed guest, author Susan Cain: "Bittersweetness is a tendency to states of long­ing, poignancy, and sorrow; an acute aware­ness of passing time; and a curiously piercing joy at the beauty of the world." She argues there's great power in the bittersweet outlook on life and why our society has been so blind to its value. We discuss everything from being inherently melancholic in a happiness-obsessed culture, to navigating being a Bittersweet type's partner, to several existential questions of Andy's.To say this episode was a highlight of Shandy's near two years of podcasting is an understatement. And be sure to listen to the Shandy Debrief to understand why speaking with Susan meant so much to Sharleen!Thanks to our sponsors!- Download the free Upside app and use code SHANDY to get up to $5 cash back off your first purchase of $10 or more!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!More Susan:- Buy "Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole": https://amzn.to/3OxeUdN- Buy "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking": https://amzn.to/3QFXeyv- Instagram: http://instagram.com/susancainauthor- Website: https://susancain.net0:00 - Welcome To Our Esteemed Guest, Author Susan Cain!3:21 - What Does “Bittersweet” Mean?4:35 - What Strengths And Weaknesses Do Bittersweets Have And How Do Those Play Out In Relationships?6:56 - Advice For Non-Bittersweets In Relationships With Bittersweets?9:50 - Is There A Correlation Between Bittersweetness And Introversion?11:24 - Sad Songs And Lullabies And Fragility And Mortality21:35 - Are Some People More Predisposed To Melancholy And Is It Cultural?26:41 - Is Sadness More Potent An Emotion Than Happiness Or Contentment?29:27 - Is There A Correlation Between Bittersweetness And Intelligence?31:37 - Is It Possible To Be Truly Happy And A Great Artist?33:55 - Are We Sadder Than We Would Be If We Weren’t In A Happiness-Obsessed Society?35:53 - What Might Bittersweetness Or Melancholy Actually Be Depression?38:14 - How Can One Overcome The Fear Of Joy When Joy Is Fleeting And The Loss Of Joy Hurts More Than Joy Itself?40:22 - Is It Possible To Let Go Of All Of Life’s What-Ifs?42:00 - Is Ignorance Of The Bittersweet Bliss, Or Is Bliss Discovered Through The Bittersweet?43:57 - Without Death, Would There Be Human Motivation To Do Anything Ambitious?45:29 - Andy’s Dark “Would You Rather” Question52:14 - Awareness Versus Acceptance Of Importance54:13 - Is One Of The Reasons For Today’s Prevalence Of Mental Health Issues Because Parents Are Not Giving Children A Proper Version Of Reality?57:46 - Her Advice For Finding Purpose And Motivation After A Long Period Of Sadness1:00:05- From A Shandy: “I Feel The Most Sadness After I Make A Big Life Decision, Even When I know It’s The Right Choice. Why Is This?”1:03:49 - Tips For How To Not Absorb Others’ Grief1:05:14 - Another Existential Question Of Andy’s1:08:50 - Shandy’s Final And Self-Indulgent Question1:13:10 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you like the guy but not his style, is it superficial to want to change it? Andy has long said the "maturity threshold" for men is age 36—does he have an age equivalent for women? And is refusing to go down on your partner a potential dealbreaker in the world of dating? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 to get up to 16 free meals, plus 3 free gifts!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY to cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!0:00 - Q1: What Is The Straight Woman's Equivalent To Andy's "You're Not A Mature Man Until Age 36"?11:12 - Q2: When Can I Tell My Friend She Sucks At Dating?26:44 - Q3: I Have Zero Interest In Giving A Blowjob—Shandy's Thoughts?39:59 - Q4: I Was A Covid Bride And Can't Decide If We Should Have A Wedding Do-Over—Shandy's Thoughts?54:51 - Q5: I Like My New Guy But I Hate His Style—Am I Superficial For Wanting To Change It?1:01:16 - Q6: My Husband And I Squabble Over The Fact That I Don't Like Hanging With His Friend—Thoughts?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by a true ambassador for body positivity, Sarah Nicole Landry, and her partner in crime, her husband Shane Landry.You already know Sarah from her massive The Birds Papaya empire, spanning her Instagram, blog, app, and podcast, and we're thrilled Shane agreed to join so we could talk the dynamics of their partnership in true Shandy fashion! We learn about their "high school"-like courtship, how parenting four (yes, FOUR!) children affects their relationship, how their prior divorces influenced their mindset in dating, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Newlyweds Game outcome we were not expecting! Who knows who better? Listen on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY and use code SIXNINE to get the Hello Tushy bidet for only $69 (30% off) when you buy 2 or more!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to get 50% off your first month of premium CBD delivered directly to your door!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 35% off all bedding and loungewear!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!More Sarah:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebirdspapayaThe Papaya Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-papaya-podcast/id1469615517The Birds Papaya Blog - https://thebirdspapaya.comThe Pink Papaya App - https://www.instagram.com/pinkpapayaappMore Shane:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/i_m_fury0:00 - Welcome To Sarah And Shane!3:12 - How They Met6:01 - First Impressions20:30 - How They Complement Each Other25:57 - Early Hurdle31:42 - Jealousy36:37 - Divorce46:35 - How They Fight59:40 - How Parenthood Plays Into Their Partnership & How Shane Grew Into Being A Father Figure To Sarah's First 3 Children1:06:11 - The Newlyweds Game1:16:36 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

And just like that... it's Caller Day again! Today's lovely caller, Taylor, was in a passionate romance that felt like The One. But when she confronted her partner about something that made her uncomfortable, things unraveled pretty quickly. Who was in the right, and did she overreact or execute poorly? And looking bigger picture, was this relationship always doomed? Listen on for the Shandy take!0:00 - Welcome to Caller Taylor!45:50 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.