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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com /SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:03 - Episode 7 Kick Off11:27 - The Next Day11:45 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party34:36 - Rose Ceremony39:51 - The Next Day48:43 - Previews49:27 - Credits49:42 - Andy’s A-Game52:19 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does it make you the A-hole to crush on someone you know is unavailable? When your guy is a winner but his kissing is terrible, can you teach an old dog new tricks? And in a romantic relationship, where's the line between the "no eggshells" rule and shared humor? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: Am I The A-Hole For Crushing On An Unavailable Co-Worker?6:24 - Q2: My Wonderful Husband Is A Terrible Kisser—Are My Hot Make Out Days Over?15:33 - Q3: I Have Fallen For My Best Friend—Help!34:06 - Q4: In A Relationship, How Does The “No Eggshells” Rule Apply To Humor?47:18 - Q5: A Guy At My Gym Makes Me Uncomfortable—Shandy’s Take?1:01:32 - Q6: My In-Laws Make Comments About My Hot Dad—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://drinkAG1.com/SHANDY for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D + 5 travel packs with your order!- Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:00 - Episode 6 Kick Off1:49 - Theresa’s Hometown16:00 - Faith’s Hometown24:34 - Flashpoint27:27 - Leslie’s Hometown33:53 - Los Angeles38:49 - Rose Ceremony40:38 - Previews41:19 - Credits41:43 - Andy’s A-Game42:29 - Shandy Word Watch43:24 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:44 - Episode 6 Kick Off12:56 - Genevie23:02 - Becca30:33 - Genevie’s Date32:24 - Back At The Beach35:10 - Becca’s Date36:31 - Evening42:10 - Charity46:28 - Credits47:01 - Andy’s A-Game48:27 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/50Shandy and use code 50Shandy for 50% plus free shipping!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://drinkAG1.com/SHANDY for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D + 5 travel packs with your order!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:06 - Episode 5 Kick Off4:10 - Faith’s 1-On-115:18 - Evening18:10 - Group Date32:08 - Rose Ceremony37:33 - Credits37:57 - Andy’s A-Game38:33 - Shandy Word Watch40:19 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/50SHANDY and use code 50SHANDY for 50% plus free shipping!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 15% off your first order today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:16 - Episode 5 Kick Off6:10 - Rose Ceremony9:19 - The Next Day, Aka Kat’s Birthday12:32 - Rachel’s Date16:43 - Davia26:08 - Evening26:25 - Davia’s Date27:30 - Back On The Beach36:53 - The Next Day41:04 - Credits41:42 - Andy’s A-Game42:11 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to cover the topic of childlessness for quite some time, and when Sharleen read Ruby Warrington's newest book, Women Without Kids, she wouldn't take no for an answer in getting Ruby on the podcast!This conversation is for every person, with or without kids. Few books have impacted Sharleen the way Ruby's did, and today we dive deep into the world of Womanhood WITHOUT Motherhood. How often have you heard terms like "maternal instinct" and "labor of love", or phrases like "You don't know true love until you have children" and "But who will look after you when you're old?"Today, with Ruby Warrington's expertise, we examine The Motherhood Spectrum, the truth behind "having it all", and whether or not we can argue with "nature". We discuss the (very real) fear of regret, finding meaning and legacy as a non-parent, the guilt in not bestowing our parents with grandchildren, how to age as a woman in our youth-obsessed society, and of course, Climate Change.This conversation will hopefully guide your heart and help you hear to something inside yourself, versus listening to what so many of us have been conditioned to believe for a lifetime. If you experience grief over the path not traveled or have felt your dearest friendships wither as you and/or your friends have started making babies, this episode is very much for you.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!More Ruby Warrington:- "Women Without Kids", The Book: https://amzn.to/3MfLT7T- Women Without Kids Podcast: https://www.rubywarrington.com/women-without-kids-podcasts- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rubywarrington- Website: https://www.rubywarrington.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Ruby Warrington!2:58 - What Inspired Her To Write ‘Women Without Kids’ And How Is The Result Different Than Anticipated?8:59 - How Many Tears Did She Shed Writing This Book?10:00 - The Motherhood Spectrum14:46 - The Mommy Binary19:19 - Who Are We To Argue With “Nature”?25:41 - Labor Of Love29:54 - “Having It All”33:19 - Climate Change35:29 - Regret41:54 - Purpose44:54 - Legacy46:42 - Guilt Over Not Bestowing “Grandparenthood” To Our Parents53:03 - Finding Positivity In Aging As A Woman In Society55:10 - Female Friendships1:00:17 - Fear-Based Decisions1:03:16 - Grieving The Path Not Traveled1:06:36 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://drinkAG1.com/SHANDY for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D + 5 travel packs with your order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:03 - Episode 4 Kick Off1:47 - Trista Sutter3:39 - Group Date11:54 - Group Date Cocktail Party22:35 - Leslie’s 1-On-128:18 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party36:45 - Rose Ceremony37:29 - Credits37:46 - Andy’s A-Game39:45 - Shandy Word Watch42:03 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 4!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:05 - Episode 4 Kick Off3:59 - John Henry6:51 - John Henry’s Date9:06 - John B12:16 - Evening14:03 - John B’s Date15:08 - A Lot Happens At The Beach31:22 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party39:29 - Credits39:42 - Andy’s A-Game40:26 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://www.franklyapparel.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first purchase!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:58 - Episode 3 Kick Off3:53 - Group Date8:10 - Evening10:41 - The Next Day16:39 - Ellen’s 1-On-126:14 - At The Mansion26:47 - Cocktail Party35:06 - Rose Ceremony36:12 - Post-Rose Ceremony39:11 - Credits39:37 - Andy’s A-Game39:58 - Shandy Word Watch41:53 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 3!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com /SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/SHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription plus free shipping!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:45 - Episode 3 Kick Off11:48 - Tanner’s Date15:26 - Tyler24:11 - Evening30:54 - Tyler’s Date33:10 - Back On The Beach36:25 - Credits37:25 - Andy’s A-Game38:24 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions, and today is an Am-I-The-Asshole BONANZA! If you're invited to a birthday gathering by the birthday boy, who's paying? Is it wrong to want a new ring when being proposed to for a second time? And is asking a woman to shave her legs akin to a woman asking a man to shave his balls? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 15% off your first order today!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: My Boyfriend Won’t Let Me Go On A Mixed-Gender Climbing Trip—Help!8:24 - Q2: I Was Invited To A Birthday Gathering And Sent A Venmo Request By The Host The Next Day—Who's In The Wrong?18:38 - Q3: My Boyfriend Wants To Re-Propose But I Want A Different Ring—Help!31:29 - Q4: My Boyfriend Hates My Friend And Wants Me To End The Friendship—Help!38:26 - Q5: Was He Just Not That Into Me?47:36 - Q6: Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs Vs Asking A Man To Shave His Balls1:02:12 - Q7: Bad Breath Vs Frizzy HairIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.franklyapparel.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Overall Thoughts1:48 - Episode 2 Kick Off5:51 - Theresa’s 1-On-116:24 - Group Date27:09 - Gerry’s Birthday Party32:51 - Rose Ceremony35:24 - Credits35:57 - Andy’s A-Game37:38 - Shandy Word Watch39:39 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 2!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:24 - Episode 2 Kick Off3:02 - Aven6:59 - Aven’s Date17:32 - Hannah Brown24:10 - Bonfire28:03 - Evening30:00 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party37:25 - Rose Ceremony39:00 - Previews39:25 - Credits 40:56 - Andy’s A-Game41:37 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:03 - Overall Thoughts2:50 - Getting To Know Gerry5:14 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails13:33 - Jesse And Gerry14:06 - Night One24:44 - First Impression Rose26:09 - Rose Ceremony31:16 - Previews32:11 - Credits33:53 - Andy’s A-Game34:31 - Shandy Word Watch36:22- Shandy’s Predictions42:25 - Closing ThoughtsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the Season Premiere!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Head to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:20 - Episode 1 Kick Off4:27 - Meet The Cast10:42 - Arrivals24:27 - Paradise Begins25:43 - Evening28:42 - Kylee’s Date35:16 - The Next Day43:16 - Credits44:13 - Andy’s A-Game45:29 - Shandy Word Watch46:16 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by overwhelmingly beautiful power couple for a Love Fest that has been nearly a year in the making! In what has been your top-requested Love Fest to date, celebrated pop sensation Hayley Kiyoko and Becca Tilley (Bachelor S19 and S20) join Shandy from their Los Angeles home to share the ins and outs of their partnership!Today Hayley and Becca share their first impressions of one another and how those have changed, how they complement each other, how they handle the distance when Hayley's on tour, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a particularly exciting Newlyweds Game filled with laughs and a few surprises to boot ! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/SHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/50Shandy and use code 50Shandy for 50% off plus 15% off the next 2 months!More Becca:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/beccatilley/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@beccatilley5Scubbing In Podcast - https://app.mykeylive.com/keychain/profile/scrubbinginMore Hayley:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/hayleykiyoko/TikTok - https://www.instagram.com/hayleykiyoko/Latest Album, "Panorama" - https://open.spotify.com/album/2TJlASpVb5tgcEY0RMyZjQBook - https://static.macmillan.com/static/wednesday-books/girls-like-girls/Fragrance - https://www.huebyhayley.com/Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Becca & Hayley!3:16 - How They Met7:57 - Did Hayley Know Of Becca When They Met?10:32 - Their First “Date”14:45 - First Impressions & How Those Have Changed21:11 - How They Complement Each Other24:28 - Love Languages26:30 - Early Hurdle29:24 - Did Becca Have Reservations About Hayley’s Fame?35:15 - How They Fight38:48 - Common Misconceptions 44:00 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed47:09 - The Newlyweds Game1:02:56 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Elizabeth. Elizabeth and her boyfriend have a great relationship but there's one issue, and it's an elephant in the room: his jealousy. An event occurs where she's invited out by a colleague, sending her boyfriend into a jealous frenzy. Was Elizabeth the "A-hole" in how she handled that situation, or is her boyfriend's mistrust a red flag? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Referenced Q&A:- https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlosTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Elizabeth!34:23 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 3 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received quite the selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of laughs, rabbit holes, and analogies. We deeply appreciate you and the community we've built. Come join us in our living room to chat!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://prose.com/SHANDY for 15% off your first order today!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com /SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!1 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE9711623600.mp3?updated=16946174112 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE8112889855.mp3?updated=1694627652Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction2:15 - What Is Your Favorite Feature On Each Other’s Bodies?5:39 - Did Sharleen Always See Herself Moving To The US?6:35 - Does Shandy Have Plans To Move To A Bigger Apartment?8:50 - Are You More Or Less Goofy In Real Life?9:42 - How Many White V-Necks Does Andy Own?11:00 - Is Sharleen Embarrassed By Andy’s White V-Necks?11:12 - How Does Shandy Fight?15:57 - Why Can’t We Know What Andy Does For A Living?17:11 - Do You Think Your Relationship Would Be What It Is If You’d Met Younger?19:32 - What Are The Hardest And Easiest Parts Of Being A Public Figure Couple? 24:45 - Do You Ever Get Annoyed When Recording With Each Other? 28:26 - How Many Couples Have Declined Or Ignored Love Fest Requests?29:16 - How Do You Feel When Love Fest Couples Break Up?30:28 - Has There Been A Reaction To An Episode That Has Been Challenging To Reckon With?39:09 - If You Knew Then What You Know Now, Would You Still Have Started Dear Shandy? 40:31 - Who Would Be Dream Moderators For Your Own Love Fest? 41:28 - Can We Get A Refresher On The Correct/Incorrect Use Of “You’re Welcome”?46:12 - If You Could Monologue About One Topic Of Your Choice For 30 Minutes, What Would It Be? 46:31 - Based On Your Experience, What Advice Do You Have On Things To Look For In A Partner?51:47 - If You Were A Cat, What Kind, Color, And Personality Of A Cat Would You Be? 53:29 - Power Rank (Least Favorite To Favorite): Chicken, Beef, Pork, Tofu, Fish 57:23 - Why Doesn’t Shandy Eat Meat?57:45 - Would You Rather a) Every Night For The Rest Of Your Life Have To Watch Your Parents Have Sex, Or b) You Can Avoid That By Joining In One Time 58:30 - No Wine Ever Again, Or No Charcuterie Boards Ever Again?58:57 - Power Rank: Amelia Earhart, Massages, Soup Dumplings, MLK, Contact Lenses, The Color GreenIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it weird if your partner wants a private, locked room in your shared home? What are Shandy's thoughts on "Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater"? Is there a "right" way to break up with someone? And let's help a Shandy find friends in her new city! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: Are My Boyfriend’s Friendships Weird?7:30 - Q2: My Boyfriend Wants A Private, Locked Room In Our Shared Home—Thoughts?20:14 - Q3: I’ve Moved Cities And Am Having A Hard Time Making Friends—Help!28:28 - Q4: I’ve Been The Cheater—What Are Shandy’s Thoughts On “Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater”?41:27 - Q5: I Just Learned About My Boyfriend’s Cheating History—Is This A Dealbreaker?1:05:38 - Q6: I Know I Need To End It But Am Dreading It—Tips On Breaking Up?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined AT HOME for their third ever in-person Love Fest, by a couple whose relationship Shandy got to witness firsthand when Sharleen hosted Bachelor In Paradise Canada! Last Summer Chelsea Vaughn (Bachelor S25 & BIP S7) and Austin Tinsley (Bachelorette S17) met on Canadian soil and left as a couple in love. Because the season didn't air until a near year later, Chelsea and Austin had to keep their relationship under wraps for a whopping 13 MONTHS! Needless to say, they've learned a thing or two about each other in the interim!Today Chelsea and Austin join Shandy to share fun Paradise Canada #BTS, how they complement each other, what it felt like learning to text each other (yes, really!), and of course, how they fight! Finally, a kooky Newlyweds Game with answers you will not see coming! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/50SHANDY and use code 50SHANDY for 50% off plus free shipping!More Chelsea:https://www.instagram.com/chelseavaughnhttps://linktr.ee/vaughnerableMore Austin:https://www.instagram.com/austinsleyShandy on Vaughnerable: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000612139370Austin on Vaughnerable, P1: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000621364510Auston on Vaughnerable, P2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000622115759Referenced Hot Cheetos Reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsXB9Q5NnoPTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Chelsea & Austin!6:50 - Shandy’s Appearance On Chelsea’s Podcast, Vaughnerable7:41 - Did They Feel A Cultural Difference In Canada?9:29 - First Impressions21:40 - Being “In Hiding” For 13 Months (!)26:21 - How They Complement Each Other30:33 - How They’re Different Than Expected34:26 - How Austin’s Different Than What Chelsea Imagined For Herself36:44 - Early Hurdle42:47 - How They Fight48:15 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed51:53 - The Newlyweds Game1:06:48 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Kelly. Kelly's cousin's choices in her relationship have had a ripple effect in their shared friend circle and Kelly has wound up more involved than she ever intended to be or would have liked. When is someone else's infidelity your information to share, and in Kelly's case, should she have done anything differently? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.fabfitfun.com/DEARSHANDY and get 20% off your new membership!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off plus free shipping!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Kelly!36:48 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/SHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com/SHANDY NOW to get FIFTEEN PERCENT OFF your entire order!- Head to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Our Word Watch sponsor!- https://www.alianaroseeyewear.com - use code SHANDY15 for 15% off! (expires Sept 5)Time Stamps:1:04 - Finale Kick Off2:10 - Aaron B’s Return3:45 - Rose Ceremony9:43 - Live: Aaron B10:44 - Charity With Her Family12:43 - Joey Meets Charity’s Family13:49 - Live14:29 - Dotun Meets Charity’s Family19:18 - Charity Seeks Clarity22:45 - Joey’s Final Date24:58 - Live26:00 - Dotun’s Final Date28:47 - Neil Lane31:34 - Proposal Day33:17 - Joey36:23 - Live: Joey 37:30 - Live: Charity Joins39:19 - Dotun41:32 - Live42:27 - Live: Charity & Dotun45:34 - Bachelor Reveal48:42 - Overall Thoughts On Charity’s Season49:45 - Shandy Word Watch50:37 - Reviewing Night One PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to tackle the ever-relevant topic of NARCISSISM since Dear Shandy's inception, however, we insisted on waiting until we could get the best of the best to join us. Our patience paid off as today we're joined by the acclaimed, unparalleled expert on narcissism, the one and only Dr. Ramani. Trust us, she does NOT disappoint!Today Dr. Ramani sets the record straight on the definition on narcissism, how social media has changed the narcissist landscape, and how many of us fall on the narcissism spectrum. She gives us insight on how aware of their own narcissism narcissists are, whether or not they have a moral compass or can improve, and whether or not you can "win" in your battle against a narcissist. We wrap with actionable tips for those healing from their relationship with narcissists, those who have no choice but to live or work with narcissists, and what "red flags" to look out for.Our minds were blown multiple times during this conversation and this is easily one of our all-time favorite Hot Topics to date. We promise you will learn something new (and useful) to apply to your most challenging relationships. Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!More Dr. Ramani:- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani- Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/navigatingnarcissismpod- Website & Healing Program: https://doctor-ramani.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Dr. Ramani!2:59 - The Clinical Definition of Narcissism (So We’re All On The Same Page)4:35 - Is There A Point On The Spectrum Where A Personality Style Becomes A Personality Disorder?8:27 - Nature And Nurture13:09 - How Wrong Is It To Throw The Term “Narcissist” Around?15:41 - What Percentage Of People Fall On The Narcissism Spectrum?17:40 - Social Media22:56 - Can A Person Be Narcissistic In Some Ways But Not In Others?23:58 - Can They Help It?27:52 - When Narcissists Are Acting Out, Are They Drinking Their Own Kool-Aid?30:25 - Do Narcissists Have A Moral Compass?32:31 - Shame33:54 - Can Narcissists Know They’re Narcissists?35:06 - Has She Ever Seen Narcissists Improve?38:59 - Is There A Correlation Between Narcissism And Enormous Wealth?39:50 - Is There A Way To “Win” With Narcissists?42:39 - When Dating Someone New, What Are Red Flags To Look Out For?47:46 - Are People Raised By Narcissists More Likely To End Up In A Relationship With One?48:47 - For People Who Have Fallen For Narcissists, What Questions Should They Ask Themselves?51:45 - What Do Narcissists Truly Want In A Partner?54:53 - Navigating Narcissism In The Workplace58:04 - When Your Colleagues Are Drinking The Narcisisst’s Kool-Aid, Can You Make Them See The Light?1:01:52 - The Basic Rules For Handling A Narcissist1:04:51 - How Can One Tell If *They* Are A Narcissist? 1:06:21 - Are There Benevolent Narcisissts?1:09:22 - First Steps Victims Of Narcissists Should Take Towards Healing1:12:34 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down Men Tell All!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Our Word Watch sponsor!- https://www.alianaroseeyewear.com - use code SHANDY15 for 15% off! (expires Sept 5)Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:35 - Men Tell All Kickoff7:35 - A Guy Named Peter10:43 - Brayden’s Hot Seat17:02 - Xavier20:28 - Charity Arrives27:16 - Xavier’s Hot Seat37:13 - Unseen Footage40:04 - Captain Tom40:45 - Former Bachelorettes41:22 - Gerry, Our Golden Bachelor45:18 - Credits45:44 - Andy’s A-Game46:37 - Shandy Word Watch49:37 - Overall ThoughtsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a red flag if your date leads with compliments about your physical appearance? If your mother's wedding gift is a check that seems to be missing a "0", is it worth bringing up? And if your brother has created a web of lies so big you're forced to play a part in the charade, when is enough enough? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://prose.com/SHANDY for 15% off your first order today!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction2:48 - Q1: Don’t Tell Me I’m Pretty… Yet13:57 - Q2: My Boyfriend Lacks Initiative—Should I Be Concerned?26:04 - Q3: My Mother Gifted Us A Surprisingly Low Amount Of Money For Our Wedding—Can I Say Something?44:34 - Q4: My LDR Is Rocky But We’re So In Love—When Is It Too Much To Overcome?54:14 - Q5: My Boyfriend Didn't Do Anything For My Birthday :(1:07:39 - Q6: My Brother Can’t Keep It In His Pants—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7, aka Fantasy Suite Week!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com/SHANDY NOW to get FIFTEEN PERCENT OFF your entire order!Our Word Watch sponsor!- https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:44 - Episode 7 Kick Off3:34 - Xavier’s Overnight35:31 - Joey’s Overnight40:55 - Flashpoint46:21 - Dotun’s Overnight55:11 - Aaron B58:40 - Credits1:01:16 - Andy’s A-Game1:02:12 - Shandy Word Watch1:05:59 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor Nation's favorite "dolphin", Alexis Waters (Bachelor S21) and her fiancé, Tyler Fernandez! We knew going into this Love Fest that the "fun meter" would not be a concern, but we did not expect our cheeks to hurt as much as they did from laughing so hard!Today Alexis and Tyler join Shandy to share how they were introduced by former Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay, how they went from party acquaintances to lovebirds, what it feels like to receive pressure to get engaged, and of course, how they fight! Finally, an absolutely hilarious Newlyweds Game that we promise will have you in stitches. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!More Alexis:https://www.instagram.com/alexiswaters_https://www.tiktok.com/@alexiswaters244https://www.instagram.com/girlsnighthangouthttps://www.instagram.com/hoopnationbyalexisMore Tyler:https://www.instagram.com/tylerfernandezTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Alexis & Tyler!2:54 - True Or False: Rachel Lindsay Introduced Them6:03 - Did Tyler Watch Alexis On The Bachelor?9:08 - How Did They Go From Party Acquaintances To Serious Couple?10:06 - First Impressions14:57 - How They Complement Each Other17:52 - Early Hurdle20:47 - How They Fight24:46 - The Pressure To Get Engaged28:02 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed32:00 - True Or False32:55 - The Newlyweds Game49:29 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off plus free shipping!Our Word Watch sponsors!- https://www.cozy.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% offTime Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:24 - Aaron’s Hometown9:55 - Joey’s Hometown19:20 - Xavier’s Hometown27:11 - Dotun’s Hometown30:41 - Los Angeles32:14 - Rose Ceremony36:13 - Credits36:36 - Andy’s A-Game37:11 - Shandy Word Watch39:14 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Cierrah. Cierrah lives in the basement suite of her parents' house but they haven't been displaying the most role model-esque behavior of late. Is she within her right to pick a side and get involved, or is her parents' dynamic their business and no one else's? Should what happens between our parents STAY between our parents?Listen on for the Shandy take!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Cierrah!31:27 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.fabfitfun.com/DEARSHANDY and get 20% off your new membership!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.skims.comAndy’s Official Bachelor Instagram Repost: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cu3LiITOncvTime Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:29 - Episode 5 Kick Off3:51 - Joey’s 1-On-17:28 - Evening15:48 - 2-On-1 Date20:04 - Evening27:12 - Dotun’s 1-On-129:54 - Evening36:24 - Sean 38:51 - Group Date47:06 - Evening51:26 - Credits53:07 - Andy’s A-Game53:46 - Shandy Word Watch56:10 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever found yourself wondering "where are they now?" when listening to our caller episodes and Q&As? Well... drumroll, please... UPDATES ARE BACK, BABY! This is our second ever installment of what we hope to make a biannual tradition.We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, good or bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction0:55 - Episode 32: Q3, from Gabby - https://youtu.be/GvYfIlViSnk5:40 - Episode 40: Q1, from Claire - https://youtu.be/GLK2kbK78j411:05 - Episode 80: Q5, from Aria - https://youtu.be/550ahd6ZtF424:42 - Episode 95: Q3, from Christina - https://youtu.be/JjSsIJaFGzI28:28 - Episode 107: Caller 2, Danielle - https://youtu.be/pFIEaZXDV5031:03 - Episode 125: Q2, from H - https://youtu.be/Y0GLNYRq2qo33:27 - Episode 125: Q5, from S - https://youtu.be/Y0GLNYRq2qo35:20 - Episode 129: Q5, from Lisa - https://youtu.be/0HD8P34ITQI38:54 - Episode 140: Q1, from Danielle - https://youtu.be/Et2s0pt-7lI42:25 - Episode 146: Q3, from C - https://youtu.be/ygmeFYPyYMk47:04 - Episode 166: Caller 1, Ray - https://youtu.be/JWaxbrWEwMw48:24 - Episode 182: Q1, from Roni - https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos54:07 - Episode 182: Q4, from Anonymous - https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos1:00:56 - Episode 184: Q3, from Bass - https://youtu.be/5G1JlNLmwLE1:04:48 - Episode 197: Q4, from Snooty - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho1:09:47 - Episode 197: Q5, from The Mistress - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho1:14:37 - Episode 214: Q5, from Mrs Missus - https://youtu.be/LDTzewx3uQUIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping 1:32 - Episode 4 Kick Off3:38 - Dotun’s 1-On-111:33 - Evening25:11 - Group Date34:30 - Evening48:16 - Xavier’s 1-On-150:30 - Evening1:00:32 - The Next Day/Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party1:02:36 - Brayden Returns1:17:32 - Rose Ceremony1:21:08 - Credits1:21:24 - Andy’s A-Game1:23:05 - Shandy Word Watch1:25:15 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend still has "favorited" photos of his ex on his phone, is that cause for concern? Are you shallow if you'd like your partner to make a cosmetic change? If your mother-in-law's perfume stays in the house long after she's gone, is it worth saying something? And whatever happened to taking things slow? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping (Sort Of?)1:39 - Q1: My Boyfriend Still Has Photos Of His Ex On His Phone—Is This A Red Flag?6:09 - Q2: My Brother’s Girlfriend Is Sensitive That He Used To Date My Friend—Should I Distance Myself In The Friendship To Support My Future Sister-In-Law?9:45 - Q3: Is “Taking Things Slowly” A Lost Art?21:38 - Q4: I Love My Husband Except For One Cosmetic “Flaw”—Should I Bring It Up Or Am I Just Shallow?36:47 - Q5: A Friend Called Me By The Wrong Name—Should I Correct Him Or Is This A Fluke?41:03 - Q6: At What Point Do You Weigh Stability Against Happiness?59:35 - Q7: My Mother-In-Law’s Perfume Is Stinking Up Our House—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.drinkLMNT.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:29 - Episode 3 Kick Off5:41 - Brayden’s 1-On-113:42 - Evening21:54 - Group Date34:09 - Evening41:53 - Warwick’s 1-On-146:50 - The Next Day47:12 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party1:10:28 - Rose Ceremony1:11:13 - Credits1:12:01 - Andy’s A-Game1:11:25 - Shandy Word Watch1:15:43 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Riley who is calling about her 6 year relationship. Riley made some poor financial decisions in the past which has caused her boyfriend to pull back and distrust her. Can he get over this, what does this mean for their partnership, and how long is too long to be punished for past mistakes? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Riley!50:33 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com /SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order!- Head to https://www.manukora.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY to get a free pack of honey sticks with your order - a $15 value!- Head to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 55% off your subscription!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:20 - Episode 2 Kick Off4:36 - Aaron B’s 1-On-19:50 - Evening19:02 - 1st Group Date26:40 - Evening41:03 - 2nd Group Date43:56 - Evening51:18 - Joey’s Hard Earned 1-On-1 52:57 - BBQ1:03:12 - Rose Ceremony1:07:07 - Credits1:07:14 - Andy’s A-Game1:09:23 - Shandy Word Watch1:12:30 - Shandy’s PredictionsCharity’s 2 piece set from the Group Date: https://bit.ly/44tVpe1Charity’s leather double breasted blazer: https://bit.ly/44vYNW2 // look for less: https://bit.ly/3rawb6aIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today is our second ever in-person Love Fest and an absolutely epic one! You watched them meet and get engaged on Paradise S7, and now 2 years later, Bachelor Power Couple® Joe Amabile and Serena Pitt join us in the living room to dissect the ins and outs of their relationship.Today Joe and Serena share their honest first impressions of each other—in Serena's eyes, was Joe in fact the "George Clooney" of Bachelor Nation we described him to be? They get specific with adjectives about each other (yay!), discuss how and when the 11 year age difference rears its head, unpack the early hurdle that took time to overcome, and of course, describe how they fight! This episode is loaded with goodies including Serena and Sharleen's biggest City Hall regret and the surprising ways in which the native Chicagoan and native New Yorker are similar. Finally, a Newlyweds Game that is heavy on "OR"s but not remotely lacking on fun! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks To Our Sponsors!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 for 16 free meals plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%!More Joe & Serena:https://www.youtube.com/@JoeandSerenaMore Joe:https://www.instagram.com/joeamabile1https://www.instagram.com/sundaywithjoehttps://www.tiktok.com/@joe_amabile1More Serena:https://www.instagram.com/serena_pitthttps://www.tiktok.com/@serenapittTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Joe & Serena!3:03 - Their City Hall Wedding8:47 - Serena & Sharleen’s City Hall Regret10:53 - How Familiar Were They With Each Other? (Was Joe “George Clooney” As Shandy Described In Their Recaps?)17:09 - First Impressions27:47 - Specificity!38:22 - The 11 Year Gap40:08 - How They Complement Each Other43:07 - Early Hurdle53:45 - How They Fight59:56 - Why New York + How We All Feel About East Vs West Coasts1:07:26 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed1:12:15 - The Newlyweds Game1:28:20 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big Premiere!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com/SHANDY NOW to get FIFTEEN PERCENT OFF your entire order!- Head to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free at https://www.warbyparker.com/shandy! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:01 - Overall Thoughts On The Premiere2:17 - Episode 1 Kick Off4:03 - Charity’s Dress5:45 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails12:43 - Charity’s Speech13:06 - Notable 1-On-1 Time20:45 - Nehemiah22:02 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Continued32:46 - Nehemiah’s Reveal/Nehemiah Reports To Charity42:40 - Brayden46:13 - Rose Ceremony47:38 - Credits49:48 - Andy’s A-Game50:34 - Shandy Word Watch53:01 - Shandy’s Predictions56:34 - Wild CardsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's Hot Topic conversation is great for just about anybody, but *especially* those who have considered therapy but haven't pulled the trigger for whatever reason (accessibility, cost, finding the right match...)! Our guest, Owen O'Kane, is an acclaimed London-based psychotherapist and the best selling author of Ten Times Happier, Ten to Zen, and most recently, How To Be Your Own Therapist. But that's not all! Before pursuing psychotherapy, Owen spent a decade working with the dying as a Clinical Nurse Specialist in Palliative Care, which we think adds a unique dimension to his perspective. Needless to say, he is abundantly qualified to help us tackle the journey of self-therapy today!Today, beyond sharing his own personal story of self acceptance, Owen discusses what drives us, victim mentality, gratitude, tips for handling our anxious episodes, what 10 minutes of self therapy a day looks like, and what "The Goal" of therapy even is (happiness? meaning??). Last but not least, Andy picks Owen's brain after his experience working in Palliative Care—what did caring for the dying on a daily basis teach him? This episode has a little something for everyone and even includes a peek into Andy's own thoughts and fears. Whether you consider "therapy" a dirty word or part of your regular vernacular, you won't want to miss this chat!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!More Owen O'Kane:- The Book "How To Be Your Own Therapist": https://amzn.to/3NnIpzS- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/owenokaneten- TEDX Talk: https://youtu.be/SenbZnxn_N8- Website: https://www.owenokane.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Owen O’Kane!1:54 - Is The UK Behind The US In Terms Of Therapy “Taboo”?4:32 - Owen’s Story, Part 17:10 - What’s “The Goal”? Happiness?8:49 - What Drives Us?11:09 - Owen's Story, Part 216:24 - Our Thought Process25:35 - Where Does One Begin With Self Therapy?28:35 - Do Some Personality Types Struggle More With Self Therapy Than Others?31:23 - Victim Mentality33:42 - What Does 10 Minutes A Day Of Self Therapy Look Like?36:51 - Gratitude And Fear Of Loss43:18 - Advice For Anyone Who’s Been in Therapy For A Long Time And Isn’t Seeing A Difference49:05 - Tips For Those Who Experience Anxious Episodes55:50 - Our Phones1:00:07 - Andy Asks Owen For His Takeaways After A Decade Spent In Palliative Care1:07:09 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your long distance relationship is at a standstill because he doesn't have a passport, how long is too long to wait? If you and a friend are each passionate about vastly different beliefs, has the friendship run its course? What to do when "Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind" isn't an option? And finally, Shandy gives a backup plan for a particularly amusing fetish. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: How Can “Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind” Work When We WORK Together??10:10 - Q2: He’s My First And The Sex Is Uncomfortable—Any Guidance?27:31 - Q3: My Long Distance Relationship Is At A Standstill Because He Doesn’t Have A Passport—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?37:03 - Q4: My Friend And I Have Differing Beliefs—Is It Against My Values To Stay Friends With Her?46:27 - Q5: My Friend Keeps Sending Unwelcome Messages To My Wife—Should I Say Something?1:01:00 - Q6: Do I Have A Right To Be Annoyed That My Friends Don’t Attend My Performances?1:10:14 - Q7: My Husband Is Perfect But His Fetish Makes Me Squirm—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bennett Jordan (Bachelorette S16) and his lovely fiancée, renowned yoga instructor Emily Chen. This Love Fest came about rather unexpectedly; Bennett and Emily were kind enough to jump in last minute when our previously planned couple cancelled. We're so happy we spontaneously got to meet and hang out with these two!Today Bennett and Emily join Shandy to share how persistence paid off, how they're the yin to the other's yang, and of course, how they fight! (Do yogis fight??) Finally, a Newlyweds Game with a twist ending that Shandy decides perfectly sums up this couple. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks To Our Sponsors!- Go to https://www.jennikayne.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to get 15% off your first order!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Go to https://prose.com/SHANDY for 15% off your first order today!More Bennett:https://www.instagram.com/bennettandrewjordanhttps://www.instagram.com/litneypartnershttps://www.tiktok.com/@bennettandrewjordanMore Emily:https://www.instagram.com/emilykchenhttps://www.instagram.com/joinlila/https://www.tiktok.com/@emilykchenTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Bennett & Emily!4:38 - How They Met9:59 - Had Emily Seen Bennett’s Season?11:44 - First Impressions16:54 - Defining The Relationship23:51 - How They Complement Each Other26:56 - How They Fight34:52 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed40:30 - True Or False41:19 - The Newlyweds Game1:03:41 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day and today we're joined by not one but TWO lovely callers! First we're joined by Megan, who has been wrestling with her dating requirements and being labeled a "gold digger" by friends. Are professional and fiscal success too superficial to put in the "needs" column? Next we're joined by Sarah, who's been scratching her head over pre-first-date etiquette. Is it a bad chess move to send a check-in text before the first date, and if so, where's the line between being pursued and simply getting logistical information? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.manukora.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY to get a free pack of honey sticks with your order - a $15 value!- For Hello Tushy, the sale is actually 40% OFF ALL BIDETS through 6/9! (It was just updated after recorded this!) Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for a whopping 40% off your purchase!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Megan!18:31 - Shandy Speaks30:08 - Shandy Debrief36:47 - Welcome To Caller Sarah!44:19 - Shandy Speaks54:13 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you know you have no future with a person, is it still worth a potentially great hookup? Is it wrong to feel envious when your friends are all getting engaged? And is secretly chatting with an ex on the regular emotional cheating? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: Without A Future, Is It Still Worth The Hookup?16:22 - Q2: I’m Green With Engagement Envy!27:48 - Q3: Two Weddings, One Weekend—Help Us Decide!36:45 - Q4: I’m Secretly Chatting With My Ex Every Day—Am I Emotionally Cheating?52:30 - Q5: My Husband’s Friend’s Wife Is Coming Onto Him—What Should He Do?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day and today we're joined by two lovely callers! We're joined by our first ever caller COUPLE (!), Barbie and Ken. They plan to secretly elope even though Ken's mother has explicitly asked them not to. Should they alter their plans to avoid future friction, or do what feels true to them and let the chips fall where they may? Caller Elana a very relatable Am-I-The-Asshole question involving her best friend. Where's the middle ground when you both think you're in the right? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free at https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 for 16 free meals plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Callers Barbie & Ken!12:09 - Shandy Speaks31:27 - Shandy Debrief40:21 - Welcome To Caller Elana!59:51 - Shandy Speaks1:09:41- Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This Hot Topic episode has been one of THE! MOST! hotly requested conversations to date! Ask and you shall receive, Shandies, because today we are joined by professor and therapist Dr. Kirk Honda, aka @PsychologyInSeattle, famed for his reaction videos and analyses of reality TV relationship dynamics.Today Dr. Honda has answers to our personal musings about the psychological aspects of falling in love on TV. We also cover the manipulation, the aftermath, the audience, and last but not least, the ethics. Sharleen shares several experiences from her Bachelor days and Dr. Honda helps break them down. Frankly, this conversation is overdue and probably one of the most quintessential "Shandy" conversations to date. Come and listen to why we call this the elusive and final collector's card of Dear Shandy Hot Topic episodes!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY40 and use code SHANDY40 to get 40% off your first box!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!More Dr Honda:- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@PsychologyInSeattle- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle- Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/psychology-in-seattle-podcast/id767626637- Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Dr. Kirk Honda!1:19 - What’s His Favorite & Least Favorite Aspects Of Watching Reality Dating Shows?4:41 - Does Feeling “Chosen” On These Shows Amplify Romantic Feelings?8:45 - Can A Desire For Money And/Or Fame Result In Chemical Love?20:56 - Sensory Deprivation And Behavioral Shaping27:43 - Contestant Autonomy And Learned Helplessness32:14 - Can Trauma Expedite A Relationship?35:07 - If He Had Met His Wife On A Reality Show, Would Their Relationship Have Progressed In The Same Way?36:46 - The Ethics Of Producing Reality TV46:04 - What Has He Learned About The Reality TV Audience?53:58 - Do Reality TV And Social Media Reward Narcissism?58:48 - His Favorite Shows1:04:13 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there an age where never having been married or engaged is a red flag? If your car is towed while your first date is making a move on you, who pays? And if you don't particularly like your coworker but she's a hugger, to hug or not to hug? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com/SHANDY to get 15% off your entire order!- Go to https://www.prose.com/SHANDY for 15% off your first order today!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: When is Never Having Been Married a Red Flag?10:06 - Q2: My Car Was Towed At His Place—Should He Have Paid For It?27:39 - Q3: My Fiancé’s Friends Are Taking Advantage Of His Generosity—Help!41:32 - Q4: Can I Expect A Partner To Move With Me?47:29- Q5: When Single And Dating, Is It Ok To Keep Photos Of My Late Spouse On Social Media?56:54 - Q6: My Coworker Keeps Forcing Me To Hug Her—Help!1:10:18 - Q7: I’m 4 Years In And The Thrill Is Gone—Is It Over?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down the Finale and Reunion!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.manukora.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY to get a free pack of honey sticks with your order - a $15 value!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Head to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:02 - Finale27:44 - Reunion1:05:18 - Best Dressed1:07:13 - Overall ThoughtsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's Hot Topic tackles a recurring theme among our Shandies' questions: MONEY, BABY!! 💵💵💵 We're joined by superstar Ramit Sethi, who not only wrote 2009's megahit and NYT bestseller "I Will Teach You To Be Rich", but whose very own Netflix show, "How To Get Rich" just premiered on April 18th!Today Ramit begins by helping us define what our own individual "Rich Life" looks like. But he goes even further with the clearest, most concise, direct answers to your most burning relationship-meets-money questions: When one partner has a significantly higher income, should that be reflected in the bills? When and how should you bring up your debt with your partner? Is there a "gold standard" when it comes to shared and separate bank accounts? And what about PRENUPS?? What bank accounts and credit cards does Ramit himself use? (Oh yeah, we go there!) Listen on for your lesson in getting RICH.Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off plus free shipping!More Ramit:- The Book, 'I Will Teach You To Be Rich', 2nd edition (2019): https://amzn.to/3NhoRi1- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ramit- Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-will-teach-you-to-be-rich/id1577864998- Website: https://ramitsethi.com- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ramitsethiTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Ramit Sethi!2:22 - What Is A “Rich Life”?3:38 - How Can One Change From Being A Spender To A Saver?9:38 - Join Sharleen In An Exercise: Define Your “Rich Life”18:42 - How Can You Design Your Rich Life When You Feel Like You’re Struggling To Get By?22:30 - Investing And Saving 10127:49 - Ramit’s Picks For Bank Accounts & Credits Cards (WITH ACTUAL ANSWERS)31:02 - How Should You Divvy Up Finances When One Partner Makes More $$$?37:31 - Is The A Certain Number You Should Have In The Bank Before Starting A Family?39:24 - Prenups44:59 - When Should One Broach The Topic Of Money And/Or Debt In A New Relationship?49:50 - Have Debt Or Bad Credit? These Are Your First Steps53:38 - Andy’s Selfish Question56:55 - What Would Ramit Like Your Takeaway To Be?1:01:22 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 9-11, aka Seattle Part 2.Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://bumpinblends.com and use the promo code SHANDY to get 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:55 - Episode 929:04 - Episode 1055:21 - Episode 111:08:02 - Predictions1:10:45 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.