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Ep 285LOVE FEST! Brayden Bowers & Christina Mandrell On The Competition To Serve - Ep 285

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by Bachelor Nation's latest power couple, Brayden Bowers and Christina Mandrell! These happen to be two "villains" Shandy never believed were villains in the first place, and it was so fun to finally hang out IRT to hear behind-the-scenes tidbits and learn about their relationship dynamic!Today Brayden and Christina share their thoughts on true "contentment", how they overcame their early hurdles, and of course, how they fight! We're also treated to an exclusive Brayden-and-Andy freestyle rap and beatbox performance! Finally, a hilariously chaotic Newlyweds Game you do NOT want to miss! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%!More Christina:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/christinamandrellMore Brayden:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/braydenbowersofficialTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@braydenbowersofficialTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Brayden & Christina!3:01 - Did Being “Villains” Help Bond Them?6:27 - The Beginning9:02 - Brayden’s Near-Death Experience & Subsequent Realizations16:31 - Contentment & Brayden On His Season22:12 - How They Complement Each Other26:35 - How They Fight37:29 - How Brayden Is So Zen42:04 - Early Hurdle49:46 - Common Misconceptions About Their Relationship52:23 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed Since Finding Each Other54:51 - The Newlyweds Game1:12:21 - Brayden Freestyles While Andy Beatboxes!!!!!!!!!!!!1:16:18 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 15, 20241h 20m

Ep 284Bachelor Recap: Eps 4 & 5 | Tag, You're Villain - Ep 284

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down this week's back-to-back episodes, episodes 4 & 5!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order!Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors...- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:15 - Episode 4 Kick Off3:29 - Lexi’s 1-On-117:12 - Evening8:58 - Group Date11:27 - Evening16:04 - The Next Day/2-On-1 Date26:07 - Evening29:46 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party36:15 - Episode 5 Kick Off37:03 - Rose Ceremony39:58 - Kelsey A’s 1-On-141:36 - Evening43:56 - Group Date49:10 - Evening51:16 - Rachel’s 1-On-152:10 - Evening53:36 - The Next Day53:45 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party1:02:23 - Rose Ceremony1:02:56 - Andy’s A-Game1:03:51 - Shandy Word Watch1:06:20 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 14, 20241h 9m

Ep 283Tap Into Your Intuition With Natalie Miles - Ep 283

For our first Hot Topic episode of 2024, we wanted to shake things up a bit! We often bring on therapists to discuss matters of the mind, but since so many of us struggle with overthinking and analysis paralysis, Sharleen felt it was time for a different conversation. What if we weren't haunted by the choices not chosen, the pros and cons lists, the indecision that keeps us from feeling truly confident in our decisions? What if, instead of attempting to "logic" our way through life, we listened to—gasp!—our *intuition*?Our guest today is Natalie Miles, acclaimed channel, psychic medium, writer and author of the best selling book “You Are Intuitive. Trust Your Truth. Take Back Your Power.” But whether or not you believe in psychic abilities, this conversation is still for you. Natalie is not here to change your beliefs, but rather to help you tap into your OWN intuitive gifts, the "higher power energy" inside you that is there to guide you towards your truest self and most fulfilled life.Today, with Natalie's help, we discuss intuition vs instinct, intuition vs hopes/goals, and how to distinguish between intuition and anxious thoughts. She gives us tips on getting out of our head and into our body, explains why Google isn't your friend, and inspires you to notice the part of yourself so many of us have lost touch with. That's right, Shandies, today we're going a bit woo-woo (or as Andy puts it, wee-woo), and we hope you're as inspired by this conversation as we were!More Natalie Miles:- The Book, "You Are Intuitive": https://youareintuitive.com- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnataliemiles- "Things That Die" Podcast: https://natalie-miles.com/things-that-die- Natalie's upcoming series, "Everyday Intuition" begins Feb 18: https://natalie-miles.com/everyday-intuition (use code SHANDY11 for 11% off)Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Natalie Miles!4:21 - What Is ∞, this “Higher Power” intuitive energy?6:30 - Is Everyone Intuitive?7:33 - Intuition Vs Instinct & Andy On The Woo-Woo Scale15:29 - How Did Natalie Find Conviction And Come To Trust In Her Own Intuitive Gifts?20:57 - Are There People With Bad Intuition?21:53 - How To Distinguish Between Intuition And Anxious Thoughts29:13 - Where’s The Line Between Trusting Our Intuition And Being “Realistic”?33:00 - Where’s The Line Between Our Intuition And Our Hopes And Goals?36:34 - Getting Out Of The Head And Into The Body39:18 - Googling43:17 - Dreams46:00 - Bravery49:03 - Noticing And Believing52:14 - Death And Endings54:20 - Mourning The “Death” Of Paths Not Chosen56:33 - What Natalie Wants You To Take Away From This Conversation58:01 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 8, 20241h 7m

Ep 282Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | To Bully Or Not To Bully - Ep 282

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors...- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:43 - Episode 3 Kick Off5:18 - Group Date #110:10 - Evening20:05 - The Next Day22:17 - Jenn’s 1-On-123:42 - Evening26:58 - Group Date #228:23 - Evening31:20 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed37:47 - The Next Day/The Pool Party52:12 - Preview52:18 - Credits53:03 - Andy’s A-Game54:22 - Shandy Word Watch57:08 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 6, 202459 min

Ep 281Q&A! Unrequited Generosity, The Gossip Mill, And Once Ick, Always Ick? - Ep 281

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What are Shandy's thoughts on giving it another go with an ex who used to give you The Ick—Is it "Once Ick, Always Ick"? If your generosity with friends feels under appreciated, is it worth bringing up? And if your bestie plans an elaborate Bachelorette party getaway, as a bridesmaid, does not wanting to go make you the A-hole? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box and 2 free wellness shots per box while subscription is active!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: I’m Interested In Trying Again With My Newly Single Ex-Turned-Friend Who Used To Give Me The Ick—Shandy’s Advice?11:08 - Q2: How Should I Handle My Toxic Ex-Coworker And Her Gossip Mill?23:36 - Q3: I Was Generous With My Friends But Was Shown Little Appreciation—Who’s The A-Hole Here?38:04 - Q4: AITA For Not Wanting To Attend An Entire 8-Day Bachelorette Getaway?46:04 - Q5: I’m Furious My Mother-In-Law Is Backing Out Of A Very Costly Agreement—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 1, 202459 min

Ep 280Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | 30 Is The New 60 - Ep 280

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://magicspoon.com/SHANDY to grab a variety pack and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save five dollars off your order!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to save 20%!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors...- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:02 - Episode 2 Kick Off3:56 - Group Date #113:09 - Evening19:49 - Daisy’s 1-On-122:08 - Evening24:20 - Group Date #227:17 - Evening32:15 - The Next Day34:02 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party45:14 - Rose Ceremony45:51 - Andy’s A-Game46:50 - Shandy Word Watch49:03 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 30, 202451 min

Ep 279Your Situationship Is Too Comfortable - Ep 279

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Lauren. She's found herself in a longterm, on-and-off yet surprisingly comfortable FWB situation with a "friend". It's time for this to end.... or is it? Is there actually any harm in enjoying the comforts of familiarity? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Lauren!20:14 - The Question22:10 - Shandy Sleuthing41:13 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 25, 202447 min

Ep 278Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | Everything's A Game And It's Joey's Serve - Ep 278

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor...- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:09 - Joey4:06 - Premiere Kick Off5:57 - Night One7:40 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails13:19 - Joey’s Toast15:38 - Notable 1-On-1 Time32:42 - Lea & Her “Special Card”37:27 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Cont’d40:17 - First Impression Rose41:22 - Rose Ceremony42:29 - Andy’s A-Game43:38 - Shandy Word Watch45:05 - Shandy’s Predictions49:19 - Shandy’s Wild CardsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 23, 202453 min

Ep 277Q&A! Anxiety Talking On The Phone, The Middle Name, & If Shandy's Changed Their Tune On A 3-Year-Old Take - Ep 277

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! In Episode 10, Shandy told a caller not to put "doesn't drink" in her dating profile—3 years and a sober social movement later, have they changed their tune? If your mother-in-law calls just to chat on the phone too often for comfort, how to ease phone-talking anxiety or to lessen the pressure without hurting anyone's feelings? And what if your husband wants to give your baby daughter a middle name you hate? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order!- Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction1:27 - Q1: You Once Told A Shandy Not To Put “Doesn’t Drink” In Their Dating Profile—3 Years Later, Do You Still Feel This Way?8:51 - Q2: My Mother-In-Law Calls Too Often And It Gives Me Anxiety—Help!27:14 - Q3: My Friend Is Now Married To My Narcissist Ex And I Feel Guilty She’s Ended Up With Him—Help!38:04 - Q4: My Husband Wants To Honor His Grandmother Using Our Daughter’s Middle Name But I Don’t Like The Name—Help!49:19 - Q5: My Husband Won’t Watch Rom-Coms With Me!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 18, 202459 min

Ep 276UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 3! - Ep 276

Happy 2024, Shandies!!! We're back from our vacation and so excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... today is our 3rd installment of UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks!We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!Thanks to our sponsors!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction1:07 - Episode 42: Caller Maya - https://youtu.be/gwJyzdS8NgM?si=pS0LVXjKgqE091IT7:40 - Episode 154: Q6, from S - https://youtu.be/qyYKy-XiJ1A?si=NFZjCWlELmF_TU5u12:00 - Episode 170: Q5, from Scared of Falling: https://youtu.be/7kVFN__wbAU?si=-uthJ85Sod6YgX6414:41 - Episode 183: Caller Rosemary - https://youtu.be/pJdsPIfB3es?si=miKOsexlois7Oet420:28 - Episode 193: Caller 2, Siobhan - https://youtu.be/4DPlS4HCDLc?si=Qfgi7lzIZCdDeq-725:23 - Episode 197: Q3, from Pickle - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho?si=rwsAq2x_UwIWh6zX35:47 - Episode 218: Q7 from C - https://youtu.be/W0GWXzZwU0c?si=uZ0NTC7aXui3vNmU39:55 - Episode 239: Q2 from K - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb43:47 - Episode 239: Q4 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb46:57 - Episode 239: Q5 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb51:56 - Episode 263: Q3 from N - https://youtu.be/Ofw1rNoMDiw?si=EjX_gcIlbYVpLaWo55:15 - Episode 270: Q4 from Anonymous - https://youtu.be/ga4wgRlzIjE?si=WatAdVjOraPqTWaO1:02:20 - Not An Update But A Shandy LetterThe referenced article written by the Shandy from the final letter:https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 11, 20241h 9m

Ep 2752023 IN REVIEW! 🎊 Your Favorites of 2023 Questions + Our Fave Q&As Of The Year! - Ep 275

It's our last episode of 2023 and today's all about reflecting on past year! We're blending 2 ideas today: keeping with tradition in highlighting our Best Q&As of the year, as well as answering YOUR questions about our personal favorites/bests of 2023. After this, we'll be taking a 2 week break, so we'll see you back here on Jan 11! THANK YOU, Shandies, for another fantastic year of kinship and laughs. We wish you the happiest holiday season and will see you soon! XOXOThanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off!- Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!0:00 - Introduction1:31 - Favorite Book of 20233:56 - Favorite Escape Room of 20234:52 - Favorite Animal Interaction of 20237:07 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 270, Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car18:20 - Favorite Socks of 202318:51 - Favorite Beauty Finds of 202320:54 - Favorite City Visited in 202321:18 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 214, Q2: My Friend Group Imploded Over Pickleball—Help!37:03 - Favorite Restaurant of 202339:33 - Favorite Way We Grew As People in 202342:31 - Favorite Outfit of 202343:04 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 206, Q7: The Ethics Of Tickling52:41 - Favorite Green Thumb Tip of 202354:10 - Favorite Video Game of 202354:23 - Favorite Ad Jingle of 202356:32 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 245, Q2: My Boyfriend Wants A Private, Locked Room In Our Shared Home—Thoughts?1:10:20 - Favorite Movie of 20231:12:23 - Favorite Deep Conversation of 20231:14:55 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 214, Q5: I’ve Been In An Arranged Marriage For 13 Years & Missed Out On Romance—Help!1:28:04 - Favorite Moment of Self-Insight of 20231:33:21 - Favorite Song We Performed in 20231:34:21 - Thank You Shandies!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 21, 20231h 37m

Ep 274Q&A! Andy's Advice To Guys On Approaching Women IRL, Phone Addiction & House Key Etiquette - Ep 274

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it acceptable for your best friend to give her boyfriend a key to your shared apartment? For guys wanting to approach women outside the apps, but don't know where to start, Andy gives his 101 tips. Are we all addicted to our phones, and what's an otherwise happily married couple to do when screen time routinely becomes fight time? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:34 - Q1: My Roommate Gave Her Boyfriend A Key To Our Shared Apartment—Am I The Asshole For Being Upset?11:05 - Q2: My Partner Goes Out Partying Late Every Weekend—Am I Being Disrespected?24:25 - Q3: Shandy’s Advice To Men On How To Approach Women IRL42:39 - Q4: Our Marriage Is Good But Our Phone Addiction Isn’t—Any Advice?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 14, 20231h 2m

Ep 173Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale | It's Always About The F***ing Ring - Ep 273

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to save 20%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:45 - Finale Kick Off5:17 - Kat & John Henry’s Date11:40 - Back On The Beach12:57 - Eliza & Aaron B’s Date14:45 - Back On The Bach26:24 - The Next Day28:35 - Kenny & Mari29:24 - Wedding32:28 - Rave Wedding Reception41:16 - The Next Day41:29 - “Take Time & Think”43:19 - The Couples Make Or Break50:21 - Overnights55:04 - Proposal Day59:35 - Where Are They Now Montage1:03:02 - Credits1:05:00 - Andy’s A-Game1:06:02 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 8, 20231h 8m

Ep 272Golden Bachelor Recap: Finale | The Good, The Bad & The Gerry - Ep 272

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand FINALE!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.marinelayer.com/SHANDY15 to get 15% off your entire order!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://www.jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your first order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:05 - Finale Kick Off1:32 - Theresa Meets Gerry’s Family2:34 - Evening3:35 - Leslie Meets Gerry’s Family10:35 - Evening25:40 - Live: Leslie33:05 - Back In Costa Rica 36:06 - Proposal37:34 - Shandy’s Bet40:16 - After The Final Rose42:05 - Joey44:32 - Special Announcement47:50 - Overall Thoughts50:23 - Shandy Word Watch52:08 - Reviewing Night One PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 4, 202357 min

Ep 271Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Relationships Crumble & The Dogs Come Sniffing - Ep 271

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 9!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.StoryWorth.com/DEARSHANDY today and save $10 on your first purchase!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.jennikayne.com/DEARSHANDY to get 25% off your first order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:37 - Episode 9 Kick Off/Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party34:55 - Rose Ceremony40:59 - Credits42:22 - Andy’s A-Game45:00 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 1, 202347 min

Ep 270Q&A! Pre-Date Sleuthing, An F Sans The Buddy, & Red Wine Lucy - Ep 270

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Are we ALL pre-date sleuthing one another online, and should you mention what you found to your date? If you're dating someone "perfect", what does it mean when you keep thinking about your ex? And if someone who routinely got in car accidents asked to borrow your new car, what would you say? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://hellofresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for free breakfast for life!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: My Pre-Date Googling Revealed Something About My Date—Should I Bring It Up With Him?12:33 - Q2: My Grandmother Has Passed But Wanted Me To Have Her Wedding Ring—How Do I Bring This Up With Family?24:23 - Q3: My Boyfriend Is Perfect But I Keep Thinking About My Ex—Help!39:50 - Q4: We’ve Gone From Friends To Dating To Friends Again—Shandy’s Take?56:30 - Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car1:06:55 - AnnouncementsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 29, 20231h 8m

Ep 269Will We Ruin A Good Thing By Moving In Too Soon? Help! - Ep 269

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by two lovely callers. It may be very early in their relationship but "C" and her boyfriend are madly in love—would moving in this early on ruin a good thing? Our next caller, Hannah, is childfree by choice, yet her boyfriends never seem to believe her when she says this. Are they all jerks who don't believe a woman when she tells them who she is, or is she the common denominator in the types she's attracting? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller C!20:53 - Shandy Debrief22:59 - Welcome To Caller Hannah!48:42 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 22, 202353 min

Ep 268Golden Bachelor Recap: Fantasy Suites | Two Women, One Restaurateur - Ep 268

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down Fantasy Suite Week!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.StoryWorth.com/DEARSHANDY today and save $10 on your first purchase!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40% off the Cuddle Blanket now!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://www.jennikayne.com/DEARSHANDY to get 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off the new Cuddle Blanket!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:00 - Episode 8 Kick Off4:11 - Leslie’s Overnight5:31 - Evening15:31 - The Next Morning18:02 - Theresa’s Overnight20:02 - Evening23:48 - The Next Morning25:22 - Credits30:07 - Andy’s A-Game35:15 - Shandy Word Watch37:49 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 20, 202343 min

Ep 267Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 8 | Katie Thurston Hosts A Roast - Ep 267

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 8!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.jennikayne.com/DEARSHANDY to get 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:08 - Episode 8 Kick Off4:03 - Michael’s Date4:45 - Back On The Beach8:38 - Back On The Date10:24 - Jordan & Tayler14:13 - Jordan’s Date16:57 - Evening36:18 - The Next Day36:53 - Double Date38:58 - Katie Thurston44:49 - Paradise Roast51:17 - The Next Day51:22 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party52:54 - Andy’s A-Game53:18 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 17, 202355 min

Ep 266Confessions With Katie Thurston - Ep 266

It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick the lovely Katie Thurston's brain since we first recapped her Bachelorette season 2.5 years ago, and at long last, that day is here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled this former Bachelorette and current star of F-Boy Island could make the time to join us!Katie's had a very busy and very public last 3 years, so today we talk the ins and outs of watching yourself back on TV, whether contestants behave differently IRL versus on TV, what she's learned about human nature after being on the receiving end of MILLIONS of opinions. What has been the key difference between dating "civilians" versus celebrities, has her notoriety helped or hurt her love life, and has her time on TV changed her personal relationships? And for our longtime Shandies, don't worry, Andy also brings up THOMAS! Multiple times. (See time stamps!)Don't miss Katie on Season 3 of F-Boy Island, currently airing on Hulu and the CW!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for a free Gentle Body Scrub with your razor kit subscription!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off!More Katie:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekatiethurston- Comedy: https://beacons.ai/katiethurstonTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Katie Thurston!2:47 - How Has She Navigated Honoring Her Needs While Accommodating Production?4:49 - The Most Common Misconception About Being The Lead Of A Dating Show7:06 - Backlash That Has Surprised Her7:45 - Thomas8:31 - Have People She Met On TV Been Totally Different IRL?9:52 - Has She Ever Felt Her Choices Were Misrepresented?12:51 - What Have The Last 3 Years Taught Her About Herself?15:00 - What Has She Learned About Human Nature?17:34 - Resilience19::49 - Parasocial Relationships21:45 - Is IRL Dating Easier Or Harder Now?23:54 - Dating “Civilians” Vs Celebrities27:03 - Is Dating On TV A Microcosm For Dating IRL?28:20 - Thomas29:21 - Would She Always Pick Someone On TV That She Would Have Picked IRL?30:34 - How Has What She’s Looking For In A Partner Changed?33:21 - How Notoriety Affects Personal Relationships 38:30 - Does She Consider Herself A Private Person?39:18 - In What Ways Is Her Personality Suited To This And In What Ways Is It Not?43:35 - Would She Have Had The Courage To Pursue Comedy Without All This?48:53 - One Regret & One Choice She’s Proud Of51:30 - Blake Moynes53:22 - Her Social Media Habits54:26 - True Or False55:17 - Thomas56:20 - True Or False, Cont’d59:02 - Shandy Debrief1:04:02 - ThomasIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 15, 20231h 5m

Ep 265Golden Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | A Tell All For The Ages - Ep 265

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down Women Tell All.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off!- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off the new Cuddle Blanket!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:47 - Overall Thoughts3:56 - Women Tell All Kick Off7:30 - Unseen Footage11:32 - Joan’s Hot Seat18:19 - Ellen’s Hot Seat23:20 - Gerry30:25 - Rose Ceremony34:46 - Faith Hot Seat39:04 - Bloopers41:55 - Previews42:23 - Andy’s A-Game43:01 - Shandy Word Watch44:37 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 13, 202351 min

Ep 264Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 7 | The King & The Kat Burglar - Ep 264

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com /SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:03 - Episode 7 Kick Off11:27 - The Next Day11:45 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party34:36 - Rose Ceremony39:51 - The Next Day48:43 - Previews49:27 - Credits49:42 - Andy’s A-Game52:19 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 10, 202355 min

Ep 263Q&A! When A Good Guy's A Bad Kisser, "No Eggshells" Vs Shared Humor, & Having A Hot Dad - Ep 263

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does it make you the A-hole to crush on someone you know is unavailable? When your guy is a winner but his kissing is terrible, can you teach an old dog new tricks? And in a romantic relationship, where's the line between the "no eggshells" rule and shared humor? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: Am I The A-Hole For Crushing On An Unavailable Co-Worker?6:24 - Q2: My Wonderful Husband Is A Terrible Kisser—Are My Hot Make Out Days Over?15:33 - Q3: I Have Fallen For My Best Friend—Help!34:06 - Q4: In A Relationship, How Does The “No Eggshells” Rule Apply To Humor?47:18 - Q5: A Guy At My Gym Makes Me Uncomfortable—Shandy’s Take?1:01:32 - Q6: My In-Laws Make Comments About My Hot Dad—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 8, 20231h 11m

Ep 262Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | When Hometowns Hit Different - Ep 262

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://drinkAG1.com/SHANDY for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D + 5 travel packs with your order!- Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:00 - Episode 6 Kick Off1:49 - Theresa’s Hometown16:00 - Faith’s Hometown24:34 - Flashpoint27:27 - Leslie’s Hometown33:53 - Los Angeles38:49 - Rose Ceremony40:38 - Previews41:19 - Credits41:43 - Andy’s A-Game42:29 - Shandy Word Watch43:24 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 3, 202345 min

Ep 261Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 6 | The Scandal You Never Saw Coming - Ep 261

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:44 - Episode 6 Kick Off12:56 - Genevie23:02 - Becca30:33 - Genevie’s Date32:24 - Back At The Beach35:10 - Becca’s Date36:31 - Evening42:10 - Charity46:28 - Credits47:01 - Andy’s A-Game48:27 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 3, 202349 min

Ep 260Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | A Rollercoaster To Hometowns - Ep 260

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/50Shandy and use code 50Shandy for 50% plus free shipping!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://drinkAG1.com/SHANDY for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D + 5 travel packs with your order!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:06 - Episode 5 Kick Off4:10 - Faith’s 1-On-115:18 - Evening18:10 - Group Date32:08 - Rose Ceremony37:33 - Credits37:57 - Andy’s A-Game38:33 - Shandy Word Watch40:19 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 27, 202347 min

Ep 259Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 5 | Another Cake Bites The Dust - Ep 259

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/50SHANDY and use code 50SHANDY for 50% plus free shipping!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 15% off your first order today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:16 - Episode 5 Kick Off6:10 - Rose Ceremony9:19 - The Next Day, Aka Kat’s Birthday12:32 - Rachel’s Date16:43 - Davia26:08 - Evening26:25 - Davia’s Date27:30 - Back On The Beach36:53 - The Next Day41:04 - Credits41:42 - Andy’s A-Game42:11 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 27, 202346 min

Ep 258Women Without Kids With Ruby Warrington - Ep 258

Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to cover the topic of childlessness for quite some time, and when Sharleen read Ruby Warrington's newest book, Women Without Kids, she wouldn't take no for an answer in getting Ruby on the podcast!This conversation is for every person, with or without kids. Few books have impacted Sharleen the way Ruby's did, and today we dive deep into the world of Womanhood WITHOUT Motherhood. How often have you heard terms like "maternal instinct" and "labor of love", or phrases like "You don't know true love until you have children" and "But who will look after you when you're old?"Today, with Ruby Warrington's expertise, we examine The Motherhood Spectrum, the truth behind "having it all", and whether or not we can argue with "nature". We discuss the (very real) fear of regret, finding meaning and legacy as a non-parent, the guilt in not bestowing our parents with grandchildren, how to age as a woman in our youth-obsessed society, and of course, Climate Change.This conversation will hopefully guide your heart and help you hear to something inside yourself, versus listening to what so many of us have been conditioned to believe for a lifetime. If you experience grief over the path not traveled or have felt your dearest friendships wither as you and/or your friends have started making babies, this episode is very much for you.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!More Ruby Warrington:- "Women Without Kids", The Book: https://amzn.to/3MfLT7T- Women Without Kids Podcast: https://www.rubywarrington.com/women-without-kids-podcasts- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rubywarrington- Website: https://www.rubywarrington.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Ruby Warrington!2:58 - What Inspired Her To Write ‘Women Without Kids’ And How Is The Result Different Than Anticipated?8:59 - How Many Tears Did She Shed Writing This Book?10:00 - The Motherhood Spectrum14:46 - The Mommy Binary19:19 - Who Are We To Argue With “Nature”?25:41 - Labor Of Love29:54 - “Having It All”33:19 - Climate Change35:29 - Regret41:54 - Purpose44:54 - Legacy46:42 - Guilt Over Not Bestowing “Grandparenthood” To Our Parents53:03 - Finding Positivity In Aging As A Woman In Society55:10 - Female Friendships1:00:17 - Fear-Based Decisions1:03:16 - Grieving The Path Not Traveled1:06:36 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 25, 20231h 20m

Ep 257Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | Pickle Me Pink - Ep 257

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://drinkAG1.com/SHANDY for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D + 5 travel packs with your order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:03 - Episode 4 Kick Off1:47 - Trista Sutter3:39 - Group Date11:54 - Group Date Cocktail Party22:35 - Leslie’s 1-On-128:18 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party36:45 - Rose Ceremony37:29 - Credits37:46 - Andy’s A-Game39:45 - Shandy Word Watch42:03 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 20, 202344 min

Ep 256Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Bacon, Eggs & A Side Of John Henry - Ep 256

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 4!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:05 - Episode 4 Kick Off3:59 - John Henry6:51 - John Henry’s Date9:06 - John B12:16 - Evening14:03 - John B’s Date15:08 - A Lot Happens At The Beach31:22 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party39:29 - Credits39:42 - Andy’s A-Game40:26 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 20, 202342 min

Ep 255Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Kathy & Theresa Take It Outside - Ep 255

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://www.franklyapparel.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first purchase!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:58 - Episode 3 Kick Off3:53 - Group Date8:10 - Evening10:41 - The Next Day16:39 - Ellen’s 1-On-126:14 - At The Mansion26:47 - Cocktail Party35:06 - Rose Ceremony36:12 - Post-Rose Ceremony39:11 - Credits39:37 - Andy’s A-Game39:58 - Shandy Word Watch41:53 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 16, 202344 min

Ep 254Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Cold Kat And Hot Sh$t - Ep 254

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 3!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com /SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/SHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription plus free shipping!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:45 - Episode 3 Kick Off11:48 - Tanner’s Date15:26 - Tyler24:11 - Evening30:54 - Tyler’s Date33:10 - Back On The Beach36:25 - Credits37:25 - Andy’s A-Game38:24 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 13, 202340 min

Ep 253Q&A! Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs, Paying For A Friend's Birthday, And Wanting A New Ring - Ep 253

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions, and today is an Am-I-The-Asshole BONANZA! If you're invited to a birthday gathering by the birthday boy, who's paying? Is it wrong to want a new ring when being proposed to for a second time? And is asking a woman to shave her legs akin to a woman asking a man to shave his balls? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 15% off your first order today!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: My Boyfriend Won’t Let Me Go On A Mixed-Gender Climbing Trip—Help!8:24 - Q2: I Was Invited To A Birthday Gathering And Sent A Venmo Request By The Host The Next Day—Who's In The Wrong?18:38 - Q3: My Boyfriend Wants To Re-Propose But I Want A Different Ring—Help!31:29 - Q4: My Boyfriend Hates My Friend And Wants Me To End The Friendship—Help!38:26 - Q5: Was He Just Not That Into Me?47:36 - Q6: Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs Vs Asking A Man To Shave His Balls1:02:12 - Q7: Bad Breath Vs Frizzy HairIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 11, 20231h 9m

Ep 252Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Gerry, Take The Wheel - Ep 252

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.franklyapparel.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Overall Thoughts1:48 - Episode 2 Kick Off5:51 - Theresa’s 1-On-116:24 - Group Date27:09 - Gerry’s Birthday Party32:51 - Rose Ceremony35:24 - Credits35:57 - Andy’s A-Game37:38 - Shandy Word Watch39:39 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 6, 202344 min

Ep 251Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Hannah Brown's Bonfire Of Bummers - Ep 251

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 2!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:24 - Episode 2 Kick Off3:02 - Aven6:59 - Aven’s Date17:32 - Hannah Brown24:10 - Bonfire28:03 - Evening30:00 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party37:25 - Rose Ceremony39:00 - Previews39:25 - Credits 40:56 - Andy’s A-Game41:37 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 6, 202344 min

Ep 250Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | It's Gerrrrrr-ific - Ep 250

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:03 - Overall Thoughts2:50 - Getting To Know Gerry5:14 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails13:33 - Jesse And Gerry14:06 - Night One24:44 - First Impression Rose26:09 - Rose Ceremony31:16 - Previews32:11 - Credits33:53 - Andy’s A-Game34:31 - Shandy Word Watch36:22- Shandy’s Predictions42:25 - Closing ThoughtsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 29, 202345 min

Ep 249Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | These Toes Were Made For Sucking - Ep 249

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the Season Premiere!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Head to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:20 - Episode 1 Kick Off4:27 - Meet The Cast10:42 - Arrivals24:27 - Paradise Begins25:43 - Evening28:42 - Kylee’s Date35:16 - The Next Day43:16 - Credits44:13 - Andy’s A-Game45:29 - Shandy Word Watch46:16 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 29, 202347 min

Ep 248LOVE FEST! Hayley Kiyoko & Becca Tilley Are An Island & A Wave - Ep 248

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by overwhelmingly beautiful power couple for a Love Fest that has been nearly a year in the making! In what has been your top-requested Love Fest to date, celebrated pop sensation Hayley Kiyoko and Becca Tilley (Bachelor S19 and S20) join Shandy from their Los Angeles home to share the ins and outs of their partnership!Today Hayley and Becca share their first impressions of one another and how those have changed, how they complement each other, how they handle the distance when Hayley's on tour, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a particularly exciting Newlyweds Game filled with laughs and a few surprises to boot ! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/SHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/50Shandy and use code 50Shandy for 50% off plus 15% off the next 2 months!More Becca:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/beccatilley/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@beccatilley5Scubbing In Podcast - https://app.mykeylive.com/keychain/profile/scrubbinginMore Hayley:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/hayleykiyoko/TikTok - https://www.instagram.com/hayleykiyoko/Latest Album, "Panorama" - https://open.spotify.com/album/2TJlASpVb5tgcEY0RMyZjQBook - https://static.macmillan.com/static/wednesday-books/girls-like-girls/Fragrance - https://www.huebyhayley.com/Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Becca & Hayley!3:16 - How They Met7:57 - Did Hayley Know Of Becca When They Met?10:32 - Their First “Date”14:45 - First Impressions & How Those Have Changed21:11 - How They Complement Each Other24:28 - Love Languages26:30 - Early Hurdle29:24 - Did Becca Have Reservations About Hayley’s Fame?35:15 - How They Fight38:48 - Common Misconceptions 44:00 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed47:09 - The Newlyweds Game1:02:56 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 27, 20231h 9m

Ep 247I Accidentally Stoked My Boyfriend's Jealousy—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 247

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Elizabeth. Elizabeth and her boyfriend have a great relationship but there's one issue, and it's an elephant in the room: his jealousy. An event occurs where she's invited out by a colleague, sending her boyfriend into a jealous frenzy. Was Elizabeth the "A-hole" in how she handled that situation, or is her boyfriend's mistrust a red flag? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Referenced Q&A:- https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlosTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Elizabeth!34:23 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 21, 202341 min

Ep 2463 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 246

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 3 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received quite the selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of laughs, rabbit holes, and analogies. We deeply appreciate you and the community we've built. Come join us in our living room to chat!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://prose.com/SHANDY for 15% off your first order today!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com /SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!1 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE9711623600.mp3?updated=16946174112 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE8112889855.mp3?updated=1694627652Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction2:15 - What Is Your Favorite Feature On Each Other’s Bodies?5:39 - Did Sharleen Always See Herself Moving To The US?6:35 - Does Shandy Have Plans To Move To A Bigger Apartment?8:50 - Are You More Or Less Goofy In Real Life?9:42 - How Many White V-Necks Does Andy Own?11:00 - Is Sharleen Embarrassed By Andy’s White V-Necks?11:12 - How Does Shandy Fight?15:57 - Why Can’t We Know What Andy Does For A Living?17:11 - Do You Think Your Relationship Would Be What It Is If You’d Met Younger?19:32 - What Are The Hardest And Easiest Parts Of Being A Public Figure Couple? 24:45 - Do You Ever Get Annoyed When Recording With Each Other? 28:26 - How Many Couples Have Declined Or Ignored Love Fest Requests?29:16 - How Do You Feel When Love Fest Couples Break Up?30:28 - Has There Been A Reaction To An Episode That Has Been Challenging To Reckon With?39:09 - If You Knew Then What You Know Now, Would You Still Have Started Dear Shandy? 40:31 - Who Would Be Dream Moderators For Your Own Love Fest? 41:28 - Can We Get A Refresher On The Correct/Incorrect Use Of “You’re Welcome”?46:12 - If You Could Monologue About One Topic Of Your Choice For 30 Minutes, What Would It Be? 46:31 - Based On Your Experience, What Advice Do You Have On Things To Look For In A Partner?51:47 - If You Were A Cat, What Kind, Color, And Personality Of A Cat Would You Be? 53:29 - Power Rank (Least Favorite To Favorite): Chicken, Beef, Pork, Tofu, Fish 57:23 - Why Doesn’t Shandy Eat Meat?57:45 - Would You Rather a) Every Night For The Rest Of Your Life Have To Watch Your Parents Have Sex, Or b) You Can Avoid That By Joining In One Time 58:30 - No Wine Ever Again, Or No Charcuterie Boards Ever Again?58:57 - Power Rank: Amelia Earhart, Massages, Soup Dumplings, MLK, Contact Lenses, The Color GreenIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 14, 20231h 3m

Ep 245Q&A! "Always A Cheater", A Locked Room In A Shared Home, & Helping A Shandy Make Friends - Ep 245

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it weird if your partner wants a private, locked room in your shared home? What are Shandy's thoughts on "Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater"? Is there a "right" way to break up with someone? And let's help a Shandy find friends in her new city! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: Are My Boyfriend’s Friendships Weird?7:30 - Q2: My Boyfriend Wants A Private, Locked Room In Our Shared Home—Thoughts?20:14 - Q3: I’ve Moved Cities And Am Having A Hard Time Making Friends—Help!28:28 - Q4: I’ve Been The Cheater—What Are Shandy’s Thoughts On “Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater”?41:27 - Q5: I Just Learned About My Boyfriend’s Cheating History—Is This A Dealbreaker?1:05:38 - Q6: I Know I Need To End It But Am Dreading It—Tips On Breaking Up?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 7, 20231h 20m

Ep 404LOVE FEST! Chelsea Vaughn & Austin Tinsley On Life After Paradise Canada - Ep 244

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined AT HOME for their third ever in-person Love Fest, by a couple whose relationship Shandy got to witness firsthand when Sharleen hosted Bachelor In Paradise Canada! Last Summer Chelsea Vaughn (Bachelor S25 & BIP S7) and Austin Tinsley (Bachelorette S17) met on Canadian soil and left as a couple in love. Because the season didn't air until a near year later, Chelsea and Austin had to keep their relationship under wraps for a whopping 13 MONTHS! Needless to say, they've learned a thing or two about each other in the interim!Today Chelsea and Austin join Shandy to share fun Paradise Canada #BTS, how they complement each other, what it felt like learning to text each other (yes, really!), and of course, how they fight! Finally, a kooky Newlyweds Game with answers you will not see coming! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/50SHANDY and use code 50SHANDY for 50% off plus free shipping!More Chelsea:https://www.instagram.com/chelseavaughnhttps://linktr.ee/vaughnerableMore Austin:https://www.instagram.com/austinsleyShandy on Vaughnerable: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000612139370Austin on Vaughnerable, P1: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000621364510Auston on Vaughnerable, P2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000622115759Referenced Hot Cheetos Reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsXB9Q5NnoPTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Chelsea & Austin!6:50 - Shandy’s Appearance On Chelsea’s Podcast, Vaughnerable7:41 - Did They Feel A Cultural Difference In Canada?9:29 - First Impressions21:40 - Being “In Hiding” For 13 Months (!)26:21 - How They Complement Each Other30:33 - How They’re Different Than Expected34:26 - How Austin’s Different Than What Chelsea Imagined For Herself36:44 - Early Hurdle42:47 - How They Fight48:15 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed51:53 - The Newlyweds Game1:06:48 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 31, 20231h 9m

Ep 243I'm Accidentally Involved In A Cheating Scandal—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 243

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Kelly. Kelly's cousin's choices in her relationship have had a ripple effect in their shared friend circle and Kelly has wound up more involved than she ever intended to be or would have liked. When is someone else's infidelity your information to share, and in Kelly's case, should she have done anything differently? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.fabfitfun.com/DEARSHANDY and get 20% off your new membership!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off plus free shipping!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Kelly!36:48 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 24, 202342 min

Ep 242Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Charity Finds Love & Other Stuff Happens - Ep 242

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/SHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com/SHANDY NOW to get FIFTEEN PERCENT OFF your entire order!- Head to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Our Word Watch sponsor!- https://www.alianaroseeyewear.com - use code SHANDY15 for 15% off! (expires Sept 5)Time Stamps:1:04 - Finale Kick Off2:10 - Aaron B’s Return3:45 - Rose Ceremony9:43 - Live: Aaron B10:44 - Charity With Her Family12:43 - Joey Meets Charity’s Family13:49 - Live14:29 - Dotun Meets Charity’s Family19:18 - Charity Seeks Clarity22:45 - Joey’s Final Date24:58 - Live26:00 - Dotun’s Final Date28:47 - Neil Lane31:34 - Proposal Day33:17 - Joey36:23 - Live: Joey 37:30 - Live: Charity Joins39:19 - Dotun41:32 - Live42:27 - Live: Charity & Dotun45:34 - Bachelor Reveal48:42 - Overall Thoughts On Charity’s Season49:45 - Shandy Word Watch50:37 - Reviewing Night One PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 23, 202353 min

Ep 430Navigating Narcissism With Dr. Ramani - Ep 241

Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to tackle the ever-relevant topic of NARCISSISM since Dear Shandy's inception, however, we insisted on waiting until we could get the best of the best to join us. Our patience paid off as today we're joined by the acclaimed, unparalleled expert on narcissism, the one and only Dr. Ramani. Trust us, she does NOT disappoint!Today Dr. Ramani sets the record straight on the definition on narcissism, how social media has changed the narcissist landscape, and how many of us fall on the narcissism spectrum. She gives us insight on how aware of their own narcissism narcissists are, whether or not they have a moral compass or can improve, and whether or not you can "win" in your battle against a narcissist. We wrap with actionable tips for those healing from their relationship with narcissists, those who have no choice but to live or work with narcissists, and what "red flags" to look out for.Our minds were blown multiple times during this conversation and this is easily one of our all-time favorite Hot Topics to date. We promise you will learn something new (and useful) to apply to your most challenging relationships. Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!More Dr. Ramani:- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani- Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/navigatingnarcissismpod- Website & Healing Program: https://doctor-ramani.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Dr. Ramani!2:59 - The Clinical Definition of Narcissism (So We’re All On The Same Page)4:35 - Is There A Point On The Spectrum Where A Personality Style Becomes A Personality Disorder?8:27 - Nature And Nurture13:09 - How Wrong Is It To Throw The Term “Narcissist” Around?15:41 - What Percentage Of People Fall On The Narcissism Spectrum?17:40 - Social Media22:56 - Can A Person Be Narcissistic In Some Ways But Not In Others?23:58 - Can They Help It?27:52 - When Narcissists Are Acting Out, Are They Drinking Their Own Kool-Aid?30:25 - Do Narcissists Have A Moral Compass?32:31 - Shame33:54 - Can Narcissists Know They’re Narcissists?35:06 - Has She Ever Seen Narcissists Improve?38:59 - Is There A Correlation Between Narcissism And Enormous Wealth?39:50 - Is There A Way To “Win” With Narcissists?42:39 - When Dating Someone New, What Are Red Flags To Look Out For?47:46 - Are People Raised By Narcissists More Likely To End Up In A Relationship With One?48:47 - For People Who Have Fallen For Narcissists, What Questions Should They Ask Themselves?51:45 - What Do Narcissists Truly Want In A Partner?54:53 - Navigating Narcissism In The Workplace58:04 - When Your Colleagues Are Drinking The Narcisisst’s Kool-Aid, Can You Make Them See The Light?1:01:52 - The Basic Rules For Handling A Narcissist1:04:51 - How Can One Tell If *They* Are A Narcissist? 1:06:21 - Are There Benevolent Narcisissts?1:09:22 - First Steps Victims Of Narcissists Should Take Towards Healing1:12:34 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 17, 20231h 28m

Ep 240Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | FP and Lukewarm Tea - Ep 240

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down Men Tell All!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Our Word Watch sponsor!- https://www.alianaroseeyewear.com - use code SHANDY15 for 15% off! (expires Sept 5)Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:35 - Men Tell All Kickoff7:35 - A Guy Named Peter10:43 - Brayden’s Hot Seat17:02 - Xavier20:28 - Charity Arrives27:16 - Xavier’s Hot Seat37:13 - Unseen Footage40:04 - Captain Tom40:45 - Former Bachelorettes41:22 - Gerry, Our Golden Bachelor45:18 - Credits45:44 - Andy’s A-Game46:37 - Shandy Word Watch49:37 - Overall ThoughtsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 15, 202352 min

Ep 239Q&A! Massively Passive, Don't Tell Me I'm Pretty & A Womp-Womp Wedding Gift - Ep 239

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a red flag if your date leads with compliments about your physical appearance? If your mother's wedding gift is a check that seems to be missing a "0", is it worth bringing up? And if your brother has created a web of lies so big you're forced to play a part in the charade, when is enough enough? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://prose.com/SHANDY for 15% off your first order today!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction2:48 - Q1: Don’t Tell Me I’m Pretty… Yet13:57 - Q2: My Boyfriend Lacks Initiative—Should I Be Concerned?26:04 - Q3: My Mother Gifted Us A Surprisingly Low Amount Of Money For Our Wedding—Can I Say Something?44:34 - Q4: My LDR Is Rocky But We’re So In Love—When Is It Too Much To Overcome?54:14 - Q5: My Boyfriend Didn't Do Anything For My Birthday :(1:07:39 - Q6: My Brother Can’t Keep It In His Pants—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 10, 20231h 28m

Ep 238Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | What Could Go Wrong In Fiji? - Ep 238

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7, aka Fantasy Suite Week!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com/SHANDY NOW to get FIFTEEN PERCENT OFF your entire order!Our Word Watch sponsor!- https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:44 - Episode 7 Kick Off3:34 - Xavier’s Overnight35:31 - Joey’s Overnight40:55 - Flashpoint46:21 - Dotun’s Overnight55:11 - Aaron B58:40 - Credits1:01:16 - Andy’s A-Game1:02:12 - Shandy Word Watch1:05:59 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 8, 20231h 9m

Ep 397LOVE FEST! Alexis Waters & Tyler Fernandez Prove Opposites Attract - Ep 237

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor Nation's favorite "dolphin", Alexis Waters (Bachelor S21) and her fiancé, Tyler Fernandez! We knew going into this Love Fest that the "fun meter" would not be a concern, but we did not expect our cheeks to hurt as much as they did from laughing so hard!Today Alexis and Tyler join Shandy to share how they were introduced by former Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay, how they went from party acquaintances to lovebirds, what it feels like to receive pressure to get engaged, and of course, how they fight! Finally, an absolutely hilarious Newlyweds Game that we promise will have you in stitches. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!More Alexis:https://www.instagram.com/alexiswaters_https://www.tiktok.com/@alexiswaters244https://www.instagram.com/girlsnighthangouthttps://www.instagram.com/hoopnationbyalexisMore Tyler:https://www.instagram.com/tylerfernandezTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Alexis & Tyler!2:54 - True Or False: Rachel Lindsay Introduced Them6:03 - Did Tyler Watch Alexis On The Bachelor?9:08 - How Did They Go From Party Acquaintances To Serious Couple?10:06 - First Impressions14:57 - How They Complement Each Other17:52 - Early Hurdle20:47 - How They Fight24:46 - The Pressure To Get Engaged28:02 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed32:00 - True Or False32:55 - The Newlyweds Game49:29 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 3, 202353 min

Ep 236Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | What's Love Got To Do With It? - Ep 236

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off plus free shipping!Our Word Watch sponsors!- https://www.cozy.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% offTime Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:24 - Aaron’s Hometown9:55 - Joey’s Hometown19:20 - Xavier’s Hometown27:11 - Dotun’s Hometown30:41 - Los Angeles32:14 - Rose Ceremony36:13 - Credits36:36 - Andy’s A-Game37:11 - Shandy Word Watch39:14 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 1, 202340 min