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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your guy says ILY in the heat of the moment but later on "forgets" this happened, is that a sign you need to end things? If your 19 year old sister starts dating a 34 year old, can you express your disapproval or should you back off? And if your family sells a possession of your grandparents that you wanted and even offered to pay for, should you hold onto that grudge and confront them? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.lolavie.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off!- Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYAPPS and use code SHANDYAPPS to get FREE appetizers for life!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction3:29 - Q1: Was He Sleep-Talking When He Said He Loved Me?13:10 - Q2: Was I The A-Hole For Fact-Checking My Guy?20:54 - Q3: I Hate That My 19 Year Old Sister Is Dating A 34 Year Old—Am I Just Being An Age Gap Hater?33:31 - Q4: Am I The A-Hole For Not Wanting To Visit My Friends In New York?41:29 - Q5: Have I Been Using My Hardships As An Excuse To Not Be “30 And Flirty”?53:09 - Q6: My Aunts Sold A Belonging Of My Grandparents That I Really Wanted—Should I Let This Grudge Go?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By very popular demand and for the very first time, Shandy is recapping Netflix's Perfect Match! Today we're breaking down the second batch of season 2, meaning episodes 7-9!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop the Skims t-shirt shop and get free shipping on orders over $75!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction2:30 - Episode 717:03 - Episode 829:30 - Episode 91:04:57 - Andy’s A-Game1:06:25 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed1:06:51 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand and for the very first time, Shandy is recapping Netflix's Perfect Match! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 2, meaning episodes 1-6!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order!- Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction1:02 - Episode 119:49 - Episode 234:56 - Episode 346:21 - Episode 41:06:26 - Episode 51:15:33 - Episode 61:29:41 - Andy’s A-Game1:32:48 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed1:34:17 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is officially on the Dawg Side! As you may know, 3 months ago we adopted a small dog named Ruby! We hadn't planned on doing a fur baby episode, but it came so hotly requested (and we were so touched by the enthusiasm!), we couldn't help but oblige. Today we're answering YOUR questions all about our pup, her adoption story, and whether or not the famed Cat Person (Andy) has been converted. Warning: unfettered gushing ahead!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box, plus 20% your next month!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off!- Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off!0:00 - Introduction1:35 - Ruby’s Adoption Story10:28 - Andy’s Adjustment To Dog Person12:23 - Ruby’s Personality14:52 - Tips For Fellow Germaphobes16:10 - What Took You So Long?20:22 - But I Thought Andy Was A Cat Person?21:05 - Does Ruby Give Cat Vibes?21:12 - What Are Your Favorite Dog Toys?21:58 - Has Andy Been Giving Ruby More Attention Than Sharleen?24:38 - Who Watches Ruby When You’re Away?24:50 - What Is Your Favorite Thing Ruby Does?26:34 - Have There Been Any Hurdles/What Have You Learned About Yourself?31:26 - What Kind Of Food Do You Feed Ruby?31:31 - How Does Ruby React To Sharleen’s Singing?32:02 - Who Is The Stricter Parent?32:42 - Nicknames33:34 - Where Does Ruby Sleep?34:39 - Is Having A Dog What You Expected?37:36 - What’s Been The Hardest Part Of Having A Dog?39:12 - Did You Buy Pet Insurance?39:15 - Who Is Ruby’s Favorite?40:44 - How Has Ruby Changed Since You Got Her?41:04 - How Has Ruby Changed Your Life?46:44 - In ConclusionIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You met your boyfriend shortly after getting laid off—with a new job lined up, is it morally wrong to never tell him about the layoff? If you're single and sharing an Airbnb with couples and even some families, should you pay the same amount for a room in the rental, even if there's only one of you? If your friend unexpectedly invites her boyfriend on your planned girls trip, are you the a-hole if you pull out? And finally, what to do if you simply *dislike* your best friend's fiancé?? Where does Shandy stand on unintentional door slamming? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Shop the Skims t-shirt shop at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYSWEET for FREE dessert for life!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction0:53 - Q1: If I Have New Job, Is It Morally Wrong Not To Tell My Boyfriend I Got Laid Off From My Previous Job?6:22 - Q2: I’m The Single Friend In A Large Trip Of Couples And Their Kids—Am I Being Unreasonable About This Airbnb Split?14:21 - Q3: My Friend Added Her Boyfriend To Our Girls Trip—AITA For Wanting To Pull Out?30:53 - Q4: My Boyfriend Bailed On Driving Me To My Hometown & I Had To Pay $$$ For A Flight Instead—AITA For Wanting Him To Help Cover The Cost?46:07 - Q5: My Best Friend’s Fiancé Is Just “OK”—How Do I Get Over The Fact That She Deserves Better?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Attachment Styles are at the core of SO many relationship dynamics yet so few of us know much beyond "secure", "anxious", and "avoidant". Isn't it about time we learned WHY we behave the way we do so we can learn how to stop getting in our own way?We're thrilled today to be joined by Eli Harwood, aka @attachmentnerd , therapist, author, and attachment theory expert! Eli has amassed a massive following on Instagram with her attachment expertise and analysis. She is the author of "Securely Attached: Transform Your Attachment Patterns Into Loving, Lasting Romantic Relationships" and the upcoming "Raising Securely Attached Kids: Using Connection-Focused Parenting To Create Confidence, Empathy, and Resilience", so we could not be in better hands!Today Eli breaks down those famed Attachment Patterns (spoiler alert: there's WAY more to this than secure, anxious, and avoidant!) and how and why we as adults behave the way we do in our relationships. (As Andy puts it at one point, Attachment is "EVERYTHING"!) We learn how much of a role gender plays, why some of us are different in platonic vs romantic relationships, and how much is nature vs nurture. There are also parenting questions for our caregiver Shandies out there! Shandy also gets personal with their own experiences that have shaped their own attachment patterns. Finally, the big question: HOW DO WE HEAL? Eli has the answers you've been waiting for and manages to deliver them in the most relatable and easy-to-understand way. As Shandy puts it, you just might see your childhood flash before your eyes! Listen on for a masterclass in YOURSELF. 🤯Thank you to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!More Eli Harwood, Aka Attachment Nerd:- Books: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/series/0DV/attachment-nerd/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentnerd- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentnerd- Website: https://attachmentnerd.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Eli Harwood, Aka @AttachmentNerd!3:20 - What Is Attachment Theory?6:21 - Can I Have More Than One Attachment Style?9:48 - Attachment Pattern Breakdown20:38 - Are Our Attachment Styles Set In Stone?22:43 - Where Or How Do We Heal These Wounds?26:32 - More Attachment Pattern Breakdown31:39 - Can I Have BOTH Polar Opposite Attachment Styles?34:21 - Does The Caregiver’s Gender Matter?34:31 - How Much Is Nurture Vs Nature?36:47 - Is There A Connection Between Which Caregiver And Which Type Of Adult Relationship (Eg. Romantic Vs Platonic) ?38:38 - Shandy Asks Questions For “Friends”43:23 - Where Does Attachment Rank In Terms Of Difficulty To Change?45:53 - Is Finding Your “People” A Form Of Healing?46:28 - Does The Anxious-Avoidant Romantic Dynamic Ever Work? At What Point Is It Not “Worth It”?57:51 - Tips For Anxious Types When They Spiral In The Wrong Direction1:02:44 - How To Know If A Child Is Securely Attached1:04:56 - How Self Aware Is The Parent Who Even Asks These Questions?1:07:24 - Is Your Grief As Bad As You Think It Is?1:07:43 - 4 Steps For Raising Securely Attached Kids1:11:00 - Andy Plays Devil’s Advocate1:15:36 - What If Your Child Is Behaving Inappropriately?1:19:39 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is marriage necessary, or even at all what it's cracked up to be? If your partner struggles in the friendship department, how can you help? How should you respond to a question you hate being asked? And finally, an epic Am-I-The-Asshole question! Where does Shandy stand on unintentional door slamming? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save 35%!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY for an additional 15% off!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction1:40 - Q1: To Marry Or Not To Marry?9:11 - Q2: I Feel Weird Contributing To My Friend’s “Honey Fund” As A Wedding Gift—Thoughts?18:06 - Q3: Strangers Constantly Ask Me A Question I Hate—How Should I Respond?31:58 - Q4: My Fiancé Has No Friends—How Can I Help Him?48:45 - Q5: Am I The Asshole—Door Slamming EditionIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Caller sessions are BACK, baby! This is our SECOND Caller episode of 2024 (!) and we're thrilled we're joined by a lovely (and lively!) caller named Erin. Erin, whose relationship began with beautifully romantic gesture. However, 2+ months in, there are still kinks that need ironing. Erin is quick to defend her boyfriend, but when are excuses just... excuses? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Erin!42:39 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This episode is a surprise all around because Shandy had absolutely zero intention of recapping their experience officiating their friends' wedding. However, on Instagram you requested this with a fiery passion that couldn't be ignored! So today is all about Shandy as WEDDING OFFICIANTS!As you may know, on Saturday April 26th, 2024, Shandy officiated the wedding of Nick Viall and Natalie Joy, their longtime friends. This episode will contain reflections on the experience, tips (and regrets!) for those planning their own weddings/officiant speeches, unexpected moments, and overall takeaways! Listen on for this unique Dear Shandy episode!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off!- Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!0:00 - Introduction2:37 - How/When Did Nick & Natalie Ask You To Be Officiants?5:58 - How Did You Make The Decision To Officiate As A Couple?6:10 - Was One Of You The “Official” Officiant?8:13 - Would You Have Accepted For Any Couple In Your Life Or Only A “Special” Couple?9:05 - How Did You Prepare?11:27 - What Sort Of Planning Did You Do With The Couple?14:50 - Humor17:20 - How Much Did You Share With The Couple Beforehand?17:43 - Have Either Of You Ever Officiated A Wedding Before?17:47 - Since You’ve Known Nick Longer Was It Difficult To Make It Feel Equally Personal For Natalie?18:59 - Were You Nervous? Who Was More Nervous?22:55 - Overall Tips/Regrets25:31 - Did It Make You Nostalgic For Your Own Wedding?28:58 - Do You Feel More Responsible To Stay Together Now?29:38 - Can Shandy Officiate My Wedding?30:40 - How Did You Enter The Ceremony?30:58 - The Couple’s Vows31:07 - Unexpected Moment33:05 - Was The Baby A Part Of The Ceremony?33:23 - Did Nick Cry?34:08 - Did You Cry?35:06 - How Are You Friends With Nick?38:28 - Did You Ride The Mechanical Bull?39:09 - Was There Anyone Who Made You Starstruck?40:22 - Did They Tell You What To Wear?40:47 - Sharleen’s Looks44:04 - Did You Bring Ruby?44:50 - People Article Misspellings46:44 - What Was Your Favorite Things About Savannah?48:02 - Overall ThoughtsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you have a tumultuous relationship history, is "boring" maybe a good thing? If you feel yourself becoming resentful in your relationship because your sacrifices outnumber your partner's, what to do? And not one, not two, but THREE heavy-hitting platonic friendship questions! What does Shandy consider a "friendship-reconsidering" level crime? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: Does Healthy = Boring?10:35 - Q2: My Friend Accused Me Of “Bitching & Complaining” And Our Friendship Is Suddenly Over—What Happened?!23:50 - Q3: My Friend Moved Out Of Town And Now Zoom-Joins Our In-Person Hangs—Am I The Asshole For Disliking This?33:46 - Q4: Should I Let My Friend’s Outrageous Wedding Request Make Me See Her Differently?46:03 - Q5: I’ve Sacrificed More For This Relationship Than My Boyfriend Has And Am Feeling Resentful—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

At the heart of so many relationship questions we've received—and relationships in general—is a common thread: EMPATHY. This "healing force", as our esteemed guest calls it, has the power to not only heal our relationships with others, but with ourselves. So why do so few of us understand its powers?Today we're honored to be joined by THE foremost expert on empathy, Dr. Judith Orloff, dubbed “the godmother of the empath movement.” Dr. Orloff is a board-certified psychiatrist and the New York Times best-selling author of several books, including 2017's landmark "The Empath’s Survival Guide" and her latest, "The Genius of Empathy: Practical Skills to Heal Your Sensitive Self, Your Relationships, and the World". Today she helps dispel the misconceptions around empathy, demonstrates how to draw healthy boundaries, and explains the transformative, healing power of SELF-empathy. She explains why it's OK that your partner isn't the same empathy "type" as you, whether or not you can have too much empathy, and how to approach someone whose beliefs you fundamentally disagree with. Today's conversation is the warm hug you needed and will hopefully inspire healing in your more complicated relationships, especially the one you have with yourself.Thank you to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions with just a few taps!More Dr. Judith Orloff:- The book, "The Genius Of Empathy": https://bit.ly/3U6uCRk- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/judith.orloff.md- Website: https://drjudithorloff.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To The Legendary Dr. Judith Orloff!3:41 - What Is Empathy & Empathy Vs Compassion5:10 - What Are Her Thoughts On The Term “Empath” Becoming Mainstream?6:52 - The Biggest Misconceptions About Empathy10:32 - Drawing Boundaries16:19 - Is Empathy Something We’re Born With? Nature Vs Nurture17:31 - Can One Really Become *More* Empathic?20:38 - The Empathy Types23:13 - Mismatched Empathy In Relationships29:19 - Tips For Self Empathy31:24 - How Can I Make Empathy Work In A Way That Isn’t Ultimately To My Disadvantage?34:04 - Is Self Awareness A Prerequisite to Self Empathy?34:54 - Tips For Avoiding Empathy-Deficient Types37:10 - When It Feels Like Someone Doesn’t Deserve Empathy39:19 - Empathy Vs Enablement43:29 - Is There Such A Thing As Too Much Empathy?45:12 - Sharleen’s Takeaways46:11 - Tips For Empathizing With Someone Whose Beliefs You Fundamentally Disagree With49:06 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Just 3 weeks after our Love Fest with Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist, the couple announced in a Good Morning America interview that, after only 3 months of marriage, they're getting divorced. Many of you wanted to hear our take on this bombshell news, particularly in the wake of such a recent Love Fest. So today, in a first-of-its-kind bonus episode, we're answering your burning questions Q&A style.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off!Our Love Fest with Gerry and Theresa:https://youtu.be/hWCr91mBGb0?si=y_xga_xJH9MhReo3Referenced "bet" of Andy's:https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ce-GWUtDbhq/?igsh=Znhkamk2bGhrNDAwTime Stamps:0:00 - Introduction2:41 - How Shocked Is Shandy?6:46 - When Did You Record The Love Fest With Gerry & Theresa?7:29 - Was Dear Shandy The Source Of The Tea That They Were Living Apart?10:07 - Why Do You Think It Didn’t Work Out?16:20 - When Recording The Love Fest, Did You Sense Anything Was Off?20:28 - Do You Think They Were Honest On Your Love Fest?20:39 - Did ABC Push Them To Come On Dear Shandy?21:20 - Is There A Dear Shandy Love Fest Curse?26:07 - Did Andy Bet Money On How Long They Would Last?27:00 - Do You Think 3 Months Was Enough To Determine It Wouldn’t Work?27:10 - If You Two Met At Gerry & Theresa’s Age And Lived Far Apart, What Would You Have Done?29:00 - Does This Make You Love The Golden Bachelor Less?29:44 - Do You Think Gerry Will Get Back Together With Leslie?30:25 - Should Golden Bachelor Follow A Love Is Blind Format And Cast People From The Same City?31:06 - Should The Franchise Scrap Golden Bachelorette?32:27 - Why Do You Think They Did The Televised Wedding & Do You Think Production Feels Guilty?34:37 - Bonus Question 35:03 - Closing ThoughtsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

She's baaaack! For the first time ever, and by popular request, we've brought BACK a Hot Topic guest to pick up where we left off! Our first episode with Maria Avgitidis—4th generation matchmaker and host of the Ask A Matchmaker podcast—was such a hit that you asked for more! In case you missed our Confessions Of A Matchmaker episode with Maria, aka Part 1, it's here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-shandy/id1525795747?i=1000597672805Today Maria returns to answer follow up questions from Part 1, but also to give us her tough-love and honest take on the rules of dating. Sharpen your pencils, Shandies, because Dating School is in session! How is swipe culture affecting dating today? What's Maria's 12-Date Method, and her Pre-Date 3-2-1 Prep? Who pays on the first date, and does she believe in living together before getting engaged? Finally, what is Maria's "controversial" opinion, and will Shandy agree or disagree? As always, Maria's brutal honesty is a breath of fresh air and Shandy's delighted to welcome her back!Thank you to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off!- Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off!More Maria:- Agape Match: https://agapematch.com- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermaria- Ask A Matchmaker Podcast: https://plinkhq.com/i/1521530338?to=pageTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome BACK To Matchmaker Maria!2:41 - How Does She Define Her 93% Success Rate?8:49 - What’s The Most Awkward Conversation She’s Had To Have With A Client?11:38 - Decisions Paying Clients Make That Frustrate Her16:21 - What Would She Say To People Who Think Her Matchmaking Fees Are Too High?24:46 - How Swipe Culture Affects The World Of Matchmaking29:01 - The 12-Date Rule40:30 - Pre-Date 3-2-1 Prep47:44 - Who Pays On The First Date?52:29 - Maria’s Controversial Opinion56:30 - What If Someone Never Gets Asked On A Second Date?59:39 - Living Together Before Getting Engaged1:09:01 - Moving For Love & “Importing”1:14:53 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How important is "niceness" in a partner, and is it enough? If you have a massive crush on someone out of town, how do you escalate from casual, sporadic dates to long-distance relationship? If you and your partner agree to boycott an establishment and he lies about having caved, is this a red flag? Finally, an epic Am-I-The-Asshole question, board game edition! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction0:54 - Q1: Is “Nice” Enough?7:06 - Q2: My BF Lied About Visiting An Establishment We Had Agreed To Boycott—Is This A Red Flag?21:28 - Q3: I Have A Huge Crush On A Girl & Don’t Know How To Escalate Things—Help!42:37 - Q4: The Transient Nature Of My Career Has Left Me Unmotivated To Date—Help!53:08 - Q5: Am I The Asshole, Board Game EditionIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's GOLDEN Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by a couple whose love story they are very familiar with, as Charity's season was hotly recapped here at Dear Shandy! The world fell in love with Charity & Dotun's relationship, and Shandy is thrilled to have them join for what can truly be described as a double date!Today Charity and Dotun give the juiciest, most satisfying and SPECIFIC answers about their first impressions, common misconceptions, beliefs that have changed, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a hilariously exhausting Newlyweds Game, exhausting because too much fun was being had! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off!More Charity:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/charitylawsonTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@charity.lawsonMore Dotun:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dotunolubekoTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@dotunolubekoTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Charity & Dotun!4:20 - Is Shandy Together?5:23 - First Impressions20:20 - How They Complement Each Other23:10 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves31:50 - Early Hurdle35:59 - How They Fight42:25 - Most Common Misconception49:49 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed55:33 - The Newlyweds Game1:14:53 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down the Finale and After The Final Rose!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:39 - Finale Kick Off3:07 - Joey’s Family10:31 - Daisy’s Final Date17:52 - Kelsey’s Final Date22:15 - Proposal Day24:51 - Daisy & Kelsey28:18 - The Breakup35:27 - The Proposal37:14 - After The Final Rose42:07 - Bachelorette51:10 - Andy’s A-Game52:12 - Shandy Word Watch53:32 - Night One Predictions54:58 - Special IntroductionIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's GOLDEN Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by none other than the Golden Bachelor himself, Gerry Turner, and his blushing bride, Theresa Nist! The world stopped to watch these two fall in love late last year, then again when they tied the knot on live television in January, and Shandy is beyond thrilled to host this exclusive post-wedding interview! (Psst: turns out Theresa is a Shandy!!!)Today Gerry and Theresa describe how they complement each other, their love languages, what their early hurdle has been (spoiler alert: it's ongoing!), and of course, how they fight! Finally, a delightful Newlyweds Game revealing many fun tidbits about this beautiful couple! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!More Gerry:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/goldengerryturner/More Theresa:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theresa_nist/Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Gerry & Theresa!2:34 - First Impressions 6:32 - Three Adjectives8:13 - How They Complement Each Other13:00 - Gerry Becoming Golden Bachelor15:29 - Love Languages16:46 - Early Hurdle22:24 - How They Fight25:27 - Common Misconceptions28:01 - Beliefs That Have Changed30:29 - Love Advice32:17 - The Newlyweds Game44:14 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 10, aka Women Tell All!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:30 - Women Tell All Kick Off4:17 - The Hashing Out Of Drama12:11 - Lexi Hot Seat12:55 - Jenn Hot Seat16:39 - Maria Hot Seat24:23 - Tulum/Last Week’s “Cliffhanger”29:59 - Rose Ceremony31:17 - Rachel Hot Seat35:32 - Joey Hot Seat36:16 - Bloopers39:32 - Previews40:05 - Shandy PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the Reunion!Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping + Surprise For Andy1:33 - Overall Thoughts6:13 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed7:56 - Amy & Johnny9:25 - Jeramey, Sarah Ann & Laura19:11 - Trevor25:04 - AD & Clay31:52 - Highlights36:36 - Jessica & Jimmy40:05 - Megan Fox43:31 - Chelsea45:39 - Brittany & Kenneth48:26 - Matthew50:13 - Chelsea & Kwame50:56 - The EndIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 9, aka Fantasy Suites!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 35%!Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor...- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi!- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY20 for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:58 - Episode 9 Kick Off2:31 - Rachel8:38 - Kelsey15:13 - Daisy23:56 - Cliffhanger30:39 - Andy’s A-Game32:00 - Shandy Word Watch35:20 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the finale, episode 12!Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:42 - Chelsea & Jimmy16:53 - Bachelorette Party18:24 - AD & Clay42:55 - Amy & Johnny47:07 - Ending Moments & ThoughtsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Hometowns!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor...- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY20 for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping4:13 - Kelsey’s Hometown14:20 - Rachel’s Hometown28:14 - Daisy’s Hometown36:20 - Maria’s Hometown48:34 - Rose Ceremony52:53 - Andy’s A-Game53:19 - Shandy Word Watch55:00 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the third Netflix release, episodes 10 and 11!Thanks to our sponsor...- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:59 - Amy & Johnny6:22 - AD & Clay17:30 - Laura & Jeramey24:50 - Sarah Anne33:01 - Chelsea & Jimmy53:43 - Jessica57:46 - Trevor59:33 - Chelsea & Jimmy, Cont’dIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors...- Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY20 for 20% off!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/DEARSHANDY50 and use code DEARSHANDY50 to get 50% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:39 - Episode 7 Kick Off4:00 - Daisy’s 1-On-18:19 - Evening12:02 - The Final Group Date15:06 - Evening24:30 - Kelsey A’s 1-On-126:33 - Evening31:59 - Rose Ceremony33:56 - Andy’s A-Game35:46 - Shandy Word Watch38:51 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the second Netflix release, episodes 7-9!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:32 - Amy & Johnny6:56 - Brittany & Kenneth22:28 - AD & Clay35:55 - Chelsea & Jimmy48:59 - Jessica51:59 - Chelsea & Jimmy, Cont’d54:08 - Laura & Jeramey1:05:48 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off!- Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDYFREE for 40% off plus a free welcome bundle!Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors...- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY for 50% off!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:46 - Episode 6 Kick Off4:56 - Group Date9:46 - Evening24:19 - Kelsey T’s 1-On-127:21 - Evening29:37 - Maria’s 1-On-132:55 - Evening34:34 - Lexi36:54 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party43:50 - Rose Ceremony47:45 - Andy’s A-Game49:27 - Shandy Word Watch52:22 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first release of season 6, meaning episodes 1-6. Because there is so much to cover, we're dividing this recap into two parts. This is part 2 of 2!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:59 - Chelsea & Jimmy11:14 - Jessica & Jimmy15:33 - Chelsea & Trevor18:15 - Post-Fight & Breakups22:49 - Chelsea & Jimmy, cont’d 27:58 - Beach Party33:01 - After The Party37:14 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first release of season 6, meaning episodes 1-6. Because there is so much to cover, we're dividing this recap into two parts. This is part 1 of 2!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to save 20%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:00 - Matthew4:36 - Amy & Johnny8:30 - Brittany & Kenneth19:33 - AD & Clay34:02 - Sarah Ann & Jeramey40:21 - Laura & JerameyIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by Bachelor Nation's latest power couple, Brayden Bowers and Christina Mandrell! These happen to be two "villains" Shandy never believed were villains in the first place, and it was so fun to finally hang out IRT to hear behind-the-scenes tidbits and learn about their relationship dynamic!Today Brayden and Christina share their thoughts on true "contentment", how they overcame their early hurdles, and of course, how they fight! We're also treated to an exclusive Brayden-and-Andy freestyle rap and beatbox performance! Finally, a hilariously chaotic Newlyweds Game you do NOT want to miss! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%!More Christina:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/christinamandrellMore Brayden:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/braydenbowersofficialTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@braydenbowersofficialTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Brayden & Christina!3:01 - Did Being “Villains” Help Bond Them?6:27 - The Beginning9:02 - Brayden’s Near-Death Experience & Subsequent Realizations16:31 - Contentment & Brayden On His Season22:12 - How They Complement Each Other26:35 - How They Fight37:29 - How Brayden Is So Zen42:04 - Early Hurdle49:46 - Common Misconceptions About Their Relationship52:23 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed Since Finding Each Other54:51 - The Newlyweds Game1:12:21 - Brayden Freestyles While Andy Beatboxes!!!!!!!!!!!!1:16:18 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down this week's back-to-back episodes, episodes 4 & 5!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order!Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors...- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:15 - Episode 4 Kick Off3:29 - Lexi’s 1-On-117:12 - Evening8:58 - Group Date11:27 - Evening16:04 - The Next Day/2-On-1 Date26:07 - Evening29:46 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party36:15 - Episode 5 Kick Off37:03 - Rose Ceremony39:58 - Kelsey A’s 1-On-141:36 - Evening43:56 - Group Date49:10 - Evening51:16 - Rachel’s 1-On-152:10 - Evening53:36 - The Next Day53:45 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party1:02:23 - Rose Ceremony1:02:56 - Andy’s A-Game1:03:51 - Shandy Word Watch1:06:20 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

For our first Hot Topic episode of 2024, we wanted to shake things up a bit! We often bring on therapists to discuss matters of the mind, but since so many of us struggle with overthinking and analysis paralysis, Sharleen felt it was time for a different conversation. What if we weren't haunted by the choices not chosen, the pros and cons lists, the indecision that keeps us from feeling truly confident in our decisions? What if, instead of attempting to "logic" our way through life, we listened to—gasp!—our *intuition*?Our guest today is Natalie Miles, acclaimed channel, psychic medium, writer and author of the best selling book “You Are Intuitive. Trust Your Truth. Take Back Your Power.” But whether or not you believe in psychic abilities, this conversation is still for you. Natalie is not here to change your beliefs, but rather to help you tap into your OWN intuitive gifts, the "higher power energy" inside you that is there to guide you towards your truest self and most fulfilled life.Today, with Natalie's help, we discuss intuition vs instinct, intuition vs hopes/goals, and how to distinguish between intuition and anxious thoughts. She gives us tips on getting out of our head and into our body, explains why Google isn't your friend, and inspires you to notice the part of yourself so many of us have lost touch with. That's right, Shandies, today we're going a bit woo-woo (or as Andy puts it, wee-woo), and we hope you're as inspired by this conversation as we were!More Natalie Miles:- The Book, "You Are Intuitive": https://youareintuitive.com- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnataliemiles- "Things That Die" Podcast: https://natalie-miles.com/things-that-die- Natalie's upcoming series, "Everyday Intuition" begins Feb 18: https://natalie-miles.com/everyday-intuition (use code SHANDY11 for 11% off)Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Natalie Miles!4:21 - What Is ∞, this “Higher Power” intuitive energy?6:30 - Is Everyone Intuitive?7:33 - Intuition Vs Instinct & Andy On The Woo-Woo Scale15:29 - How Did Natalie Find Conviction And Come To Trust In Her Own Intuitive Gifts?20:57 - Are There People With Bad Intuition?21:53 - How To Distinguish Between Intuition And Anxious Thoughts29:13 - Where’s The Line Between Trusting Our Intuition And Being “Realistic”?33:00 - Where’s The Line Between Our Intuition And Our Hopes And Goals?36:34 - Getting Out Of The Head And Into The Body39:18 - Googling43:17 - Dreams46:00 - Bravery49:03 - Noticing And Believing52:14 - Death And Endings54:20 - Mourning The “Death” Of Paths Not Chosen56:33 - What Natalie Wants You To Take Away From This Conversation58:01 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors...- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:43 - Episode 3 Kick Off5:18 - Group Date #110:10 - Evening20:05 - The Next Day22:17 - Jenn’s 1-On-123:42 - Evening26:58 - Group Date #228:23 - Evening31:20 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed37:47 - The Next Day/The Pool Party52:12 - Preview52:18 - Credits53:03 - Andy’s A-Game54:22 - Shandy Word Watch57:08 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What are Shandy's thoughts on giving it another go with an ex who used to give you The Ick—Is it "Once Ick, Always Ick"? If your generosity with friends feels under appreciated, is it worth bringing up? And if your bestie plans an elaborate Bachelorette party getaway, as a bridesmaid, does not wanting to go make you the A-hole? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box and 2 free wellness shots per box while subscription is active!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: I’m Interested In Trying Again With My Newly Single Ex-Turned-Friend Who Used To Give Me The Ick—Shandy’s Advice?11:08 - Q2: How Should I Handle My Toxic Ex-Coworker And Her Gossip Mill?23:36 - Q3: I Was Generous With My Friends But Was Shown Little Appreciation—Who’s The A-Hole Here?38:04 - Q4: AITA For Not Wanting To Attend An Entire 8-Day Bachelorette Getaway?46:04 - Q5: I’m Furious My Mother-In-Law Is Backing Out Of A Very Costly Agreement—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://magicspoon.com/SHANDY to grab a variety pack and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save five dollars off your order!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to save 20%!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors...- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:02 - Episode 2 Kick Off3:56 - Group Date #113:09 - Evening19:49 - Daisy’s 1-On-122:08 - Evening24:20 - Group Date #227:17 - Evening32:15 - The Next Day34:02 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party45:14 - Rose Ceremony45:51 - Andy’s A-Game46:50 - Shandy Word Watch49:03 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Lauren. She's found herself in a longterm, on-and-off yet surprisingly comfortable FWB situation with a "friend". It's time for this to end.... or is it? Is there actually any harm in enjoying the comforts of familiarity? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Lauren!20:14 - The Question22:10 - Shandy Sleuthing41:13 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor...- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:09 - Joey4:06 - Premiere Kick Off5:57 - Night One7:40 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails13:19 - Joey’s Toast15:38 - Notable 1-On-1 Time32:42 - Lea & Her “Special Card”37:27 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Cont’d40:17 - First Impression Rose41:22 - Rose Ceremony42:29 - Andy’s A-Game43:38 - Shandy Word Watch45:05 - Shandy’s Predictions49:19 - Shandy’s Wild CardsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! In Episode 10, Shandy told a caller not to put "doesn't drink" in her dating profile—3 years and a sober social movement later, have they changed their tune? If your mother-in-law calls just to chat on the phone too often for comfort, how to ease phone-talking anxiety or to lessen the pressure without hurting anyone's feelings? And what if your husband wants to give your baby daughter a middle name you hate? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order!- Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction1:27 - Q1: You Once Told A Shandy Not To Put “Doesn’t Drink” In Their Dating Profile—3 Years Later, Do You Still Feel This Way?8:51 - Q2: My Mother-In-Law Calls Too Often And It Gives Me Anxiety—Help!27:14 - Q3: My Friend Is Now Married To My Narcissist Ex And I Feel Guilty She’s Ended Up With Him—Help!38:04 - Q4: My Husband Wants To Honor His Grandmother Using Our Daughter’s Middle Name But I Don’t Like The Name—Help!49:19 - Q5: My Husband Won’t Watch Rom-Coms With Me!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Happy 2024, Shandies!!! We're back from our vacation and so excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... today is our 3rd installment of UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks!We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!Thanks to our sponsors!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction1:07 - Episode 42: Caller Maya - https://youtu.be/gwJyzdS8NgM?si=pS0LVXjKgqE091IT7:40 - Episode 154: Q6, from S - https://youtu.be/qyYKy-XiJ1A?si=NFZjCWlELmF_TU5u12:00 - Episode 170: Q5, from Scared of Falling: https://youtu.be/7kVFN__wbAU?si=-uthJ85Sod6YgX6414:41 - Episode 183: Caller Rosemary - https://youtu.be/pJdsPIfB3es?si=miKOsexlois7Oet420:28 - Episode 193: Caller 2, Siobhan - https://youtu.be/4DPlS4HCDLc?si=Qfgi7lzIZCdDeq-725:23 - Episode 197: Q3, from Pickle - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho?si=rwsAq2x_UwIWh6zX35:47 - Episode 218: Q7 from C - https://youtu.be/W0GWXzZwU0c?si=uZ0NTC7aXui3vNmU39:55 - Episode 239: Q2 from K - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb43:47 - Episode 239: Q4 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb46:57 - Episode 239: Q5 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb51:56 - Episode 263: Q3 from N - https://youtu.be/Ofw1rNoMDiw?si=EjX_gcIlbYVpLaWo55:15 - Episode 270: Q4 from Anonymous - https://youtu.be/ga4wgRlzIjE?si=WatAdVjOraPqTWaO1:02:20 - Not An Update But A Shandy LetterThe referenced article written by the Shandy from the final letter:https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's our last episode of 2023 and today's all about reflecting on past year! We're blending 2 ideas today: keeping with tradition in highlighting our Best Q&As of the year, as well as answering YOUR questions about our personal favorites/bests of 2023. After this, we'll be taking a 2 week break, so we'll see you back here on Jan 11! THANK YOU, Shandies, for another fantastic year of kinship and laughs. We wish you the happiest holiday season and will see you soon! XOXOThanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off!- Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!0:00 - Introduction1:31 - Favorite Book of 20233:56 - Favorite Escape Room of 20234:52 - Favorite Animal Interaction of 20237:07 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 270, Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car18:20 - Favorite Socks of 202318:51 - Favorite Beauty Finds of 202320:54 - Favorite City Visited in 202321:18 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 214, Q2: My Friend Group Imploded Over Pickleball—Help!37:03 - Favorite Restaurant of 202339:33 - Favorite Way We Grew As People in 202342:31 - Favorite Outfit of 202343:04 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 206, Q7: The Ethics Of Tickling52:41 - Favorite Green Thumb Tip of 202354:10 - Favorite Video Game of 202354:23 - Favorite Ad Jingle of 202356:32 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 245, Q2: My Boyfriend Wants A Private, Locked Room In Our Shared Home—Thoughts?1:10:20 - Favorite Movie of 20231:12:23 - Favorite Deep Conversation of 20231:14:55 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 214, Q5: I’ve Been In An Arranged Marriage For 13 Years & Missed Out On Romance—Help!1:28:04 - Favorite Moment of Self-Insight of 20231:33:21 - Favorite Song We Performed in 20231:34:21 - Thank You Shandies!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it acceptable for your best friend to give her boyfriend a key to your shared apartment? For guys wanting to approach women outside the apps, but don't know where to start, Andy gives his 101 tips. Are we all addicted to our phones, and what's an otherwise happily married couple to do when screen time routinely becomes fight time? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:34 - Q1: My Roommate Gave Her Boyfriend A Key To Our Shared Apartment—Am I The Asshole For Being Upset?11:05 - Q2: My Partner Goes Out Partying Late Every Weekend—Am I Being Disrespected?24:25 - Q3: Shandy’s Advice To Men On How To Approach Women IRL42:39 - Q4: Our Marriage Is Good But Our Phone Addiction Isn’t—Any Advice?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to save 20%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:45 - Finale Kick Off5:17 - Kat & John Henry’s Date11:40 - Back On The Beach12:57 - Eliza & Aaron B’s Date14:45 - Back On The Bach26:24 - The Next Day28:35 - Kenny & Mari29:24 - Wedding32:28 - Rave Wedding Reception41:16 - The Next Day41:29 - “Take Time & Think”43:19 - The Couples Make Or Break50:21 - Overnights55:04 - Proposal Day59:35 - Where Are They Now Montage1:03:02 - Credits1:05:00 - Andy’s A-Game1:06:02 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand FINALE!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.marinelayer.com/SHANDY15 to get 15% off your entire order!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://www.jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your first order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:05 - Finale Kick Off1:32 - Theresa Meets Gerry’s Family2:34 - Evening3:35 - Leslie Meets Gerry’s Family10:35 - Evening25:40 - Live: Leslie33:05 - Back In Costa Rica 36:06 - Proposal37:34 - Shandy’s Bet40:16 - After The Final Rose42:05 - Joey44:32 - Special Announcement47:50 - Overall Thoughts50:23 - Shandy Word Watch52:08 - Reviewing Night One PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 9!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.StoryWorth.com/DEARSHANDY today and save $10 on your first purchase!- Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today!- Go to https://www.jennikayne.com/DEARSHANDY to get 25% off your first order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:37 - Episode 9 Kick Off/Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party34:55 - Rose Ceremony40:59 - Credits42:22 - Andy’s A-Game45:00 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Are we ALL pre-date sleuthing one another online, and should you mention what you found to your date? If you're dating someone "perfect", what does it mean when you keep thinking about your ex? And if someone who routinely got in car accidents asked to borrow your new car, what would you say? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://hellofresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for free breakfast for life!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: My Pre-Date Googling Revealed Something About My Date—Should I Bring It Up With Him?12:33 - Q2: My Grandmother Has Passed But Wanted Me To Have Her Wedding Ring—How Do I Bring This Up With Family?24:23 - Q3: My Boyfriend Is Perfect But I Keep Thinking About My Ex—Help!39:50 - Q4: We’ve Gone From Friends To Dating To Friends Again—Shandy’s Take?56:30 - Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car1:06:55 - AnnouncementsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by two lovely callers. It may be very early in their relationship but "C" and her boyfriend are madly in love—would moving in this early on ruin a good thing? Our next caller, Hannah, is childfree by choice, yet her boyfriends never seem to believe her when she says this. Are they all jerks who don't believe a woman when she tells them who she is, or is she the common denominator in the types she's attracting? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller C!20:53 - Shandy Debrief22:59 - Welcome To Caller Hannah!48:42 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down Fantasy Suite Week!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.StoryWorth.com/DEARSHANDY today and save $10 on your first purchase!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40% off the Cuddle Blanket now!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Our Word Watch sponsors!- Go to https://www.jennikayne.com/DEARSHANDY to get 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off the new Cuddle Blanket!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:00 - Episode 8 Kick Off4:11 - Leslie’s Overnight5:31 - Evening15:31 - The Next Morning18:02 - Theresa’s Overnight20:02 - Evening23:48 - The Next Morning25:22 - Credits30:07 - Andy’s A-Game35:15 - Shandy Word Watch37:49 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 8!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.jennikayne.com/DEARSHANDY to get 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:08 - Episode 8 Kick Off4:03 - Michael’s Date4:45 - Back On The Beach8:38 - Back On The Date10:24 - Jordan & Tayler14:13 - Jordan’s Date16:57 - Evening36:18 - The Next Day36:53 - Double Date38:58 - Katie Thurston44:49 - Paradise Roast51:17 - The Next Day51:22 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party52:54 - Andy’s A-Game53:18 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick the lovely Katie Thurston's brain since we first recapped her Bachelorette season 2.5 years ago, and at long last, that day is here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled this former Bachelorette and current star of F-Boy Island could make the time to join us!Katie's had a very busy and very public last 3 years, so today we talk the ins and outs of watching yourself back on TV, whether contestants behave differently IRL versus on TV, what she's learned about human nature after being on the receiving end of MILLIONS of opinions. What has been the key difference between dating "civilians" versus celebrities, has her notoriety helped or hurt her love life, and has her time on TV changed her personal relationships? And for our longtime Shandies, don't worry, Andy also brings up THOMAS! Multiple times. (See time stamps!)Don't miss Katie on Season 3 of F-Boy Island, currently airing on Hulu and the CW!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for a free Gentle Body Scrub with your razor kit subscription!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off!More Katie:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekatiethurston- Comedy: https://beacons.ai/katiethurstonTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Katie Thurston!2:47 - How Has She Navigated Honoring Her Needs While Accommodating Production?4:49 - The Most Common Misconception About Being The Lead Of A Dating Show7:06 - Backlash That Has Surprised Her7:45 - Thomas8:31 - Have People She Met On TV Been Totally Different IRL?9:52 - Has She Ever Felt Her Choices Were Misrepresented?12:51 - What Have The Last 3 Years Taught Her About Herself?15:00 - What Has She Learned About Human Nature?17:34 - Resilience19::49 - Parasocial Relationships21:45 - Is IRL Dating Easier Or Harder Now?23:54 - Dating “Civilians” Vs Celebrities27:03 - Is Dating On TV A Microcosm For Dating IRL?28:20 - Thomas29:21 - Would She Always Pick Someone On TV That She Would Have Picked IRL?30:34 - How Has What She’s Looking For In A Partner Changed?33:21 - How Notoriety Affects Personal Relationships 38:30 - Does She Consider Herself A Private Person?39:18 - In What Ways Is Her Personality Suited To This And In What Ways Is It Not?43:35 - Would She Have Had The Courage To Pursue Comedy Without All This?48:53 - One Regret & One Choice She’s Proud Of51:30 - Blake Moynes53:22 - Her Social Media Habits54:26 - True Or False55:17 - Thomas56:20 - True Or False, Cont’d59:02 - Shandy Debrief1:04:02 - ThomasIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down Women Tell All.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off!- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off the new Cuddle Blanket!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:47 - Overall Thoughts3:56 - Women Tell All Kick Off7:30 - Unseen Footage11:32 - Joan’s Hot Seat18:19 - Ellen’s Hot Seat23:20 - Gerry30:25 - Rose Ceremony34:46 - Faith Hot Seat39:04 - Bloopers41:55 - Previews42:23 - Andy’s A-Game43:01 - Shandy Word Watch44:37 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com /SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:03 - Episode 7 Kick Off11:27 - The Next Day11:45 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party34:36 - Rose Ceremony39:51 - The Next Day48:43 - Previews49:27 - Credits49:42 - Andy’s A-Game52:19 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.