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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bennett Jordan (Bachelorette S16) and his lovely fiancée, renowned yoga instructor Emily Chen. This Love Fest came about rather unexpectedly; Bennett and Emily were kind enough to jump in last minute when our previously planned couple cancelled. We're so happy we spontaneously got to meet and hang out with these two!Today Bennett and Emily join Shandy to share how persistence paid off, how they're the yin to the other's yang, and of course, how they fight! (Do yogis fight??) Finally, a Newlyweds Game with a twist ending that Shandy decides perfectly sums up this couple. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks To Our Sponsors!- Go to https://www.jennikayne.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to get 15% off your first order!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Go to https://prose.com/SHANDY for 15% off your first order today!More Bennett:https://www.instagram.com/bennettandrewjordanhttps://www.instagram.com/litneypartnershttps://www.tiktok.com/@bennettandrewjordanMore Emily:https://www.instagram.com/emilykchenhttps://www.instagram.com/joinlila/https://www.tiktok.com/@emilykchenTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Bennett & Emily!4:38 - How They Met9:59 - Had Emily Seen Bennett’s Season?11:44 - First Impressions16:54 - Defining The Relationship23:51 - How They Complement Each Other26:56 - How They Fight34:52 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed40:30 - True Or False41:19 - The Newlyweds Game1:03:41 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day and today we're joined by not one but TWO lovely callers! First we're joined by Megan, who has been wrestling with her dating requirements and being labeled a "gold digger" by friends. Are professional and fiscal success too superficial to put in the "needs" column? Next we're joined by Sarah, who's been scratching her head over pre-first-date etiquette. Is it a bad chess move to send a check-in text before the first date, and if so, where's the line between being pursued and simply getting logistical information? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.manukora.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY to get a free pack of honey sticks with your order - a $15 value!- For Hello Tushy, the sale is actually 40% OFF ALL BIDETS through 6/9! (It was just updated after recorded this!) Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for a whopping 40% off your purchase!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Megan!18:31 - Shandy Speaks30:08 - Shandy Debrief36:47 - Welcome To Caller Sarah!44:19 - Shandy Speaks54:13 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you know you have no future with a person, is it still worth a potentially great hookup? Is it wrong to feel envious when your friends are all getting engaged? And is secretly chatting with an ex on the regular emotional cheating? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: Without A Future, Is It Still Worth The Hookup?16:22 - Q2: I’m Green With Engagement Envy!27:48 - Q3: Two Weddings, One Weekend—Help Us Decide!36:45 - Q4: I’m Secretly Chatting With My Ex Every Day—Am I Emotionally Cheating?52:30 - Q5: My Husband’s Friend’s Wife Is Coming Onto Him—What Should He Do?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day and today we're joined by two lovely callers! We're joined by our first ever caller COUPLE (!), Barbie and Ken. They plan to secretly elope even though Ken's mother has explicitly asked them not to. Should they alter their plans to avoid future friction, or do what feels true to them and let the chips fall where they may? Caller Elana a very relatable Am-I-The-Asshole question involving her best friend. Where's the middle ground when you both think you're in the right? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free at https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 for 16 free meals plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Callers Barbie & Ken!12:09 - Shandy Speaks31:27 - Shandy Debrief40:21 - Welcome To Caller Elana!59:51 - Shandy Speaks1:09:41- Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This Hot Topic episode has been one of THE! MOST! hotly requested conversations to date! Ask and you shall receive, Shandies, because today we are joined by professor and therapist Dr. Kirk Honda, aka @PsychologyInSeattle, famed for his reaction videos and analyses of reality TV relationship dynamics.Today Dr. Honda has answers to our personal musings about the psychological aspects of falling in love on TV. We also cover the manipulation, the aftermath, the audience, and last but not least, the ethics. Sharleen shares several experiences from her Bachelor days and Dr. Honda helps break them down. Frankly, this conversation is overdue and probably one of the most quintessential "Shandy" conversations to date. Come and listen to why we call this the elusive and final collector's card of Dear Shandy Hot Topic episodes!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY40 and use code SHANDY40 to get 40% off your first box!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!More Dr Honda:- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@PsychologyInSeattle- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle- Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/psychology-in-seattle-podcast/id767626637- Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Dr. Kirk Honda!1:19 - What’s His Favorite & Least Favorite Aspects Of Watching Reality Dating Shows?4:41 - Does Feeling “Chosen” On These Shows Amplify Romantic Feelings?8:45 - Can A Desire For Money And/Or Fame Result In Chemical Love?20:56 - Sensory Deprivation And Behavioral Shaping27:43 - Contestant Autonomy And Learned Helplessness32:14 - Can Trauma Expedite A Relationship?35:07 - If He Had Met His Wife On A Reality Show, Would Their Relationship Have Progressed In The Same Way?36:46 - The Ethics Of Producing Reality TV46:04 - What Has He Learned About The Reality TV Audience?53:58 - Do Reality TV And Social Media Reward Narcissism?58:48 - His Favorite Shows1:04:13 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there an age where never having been married or engaged is a red flag? If your car is towed while your first date is making a move on you, who pays? And if you don't particularly like your coworker but she's a hugger, to hug or not to hug? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com/SHANDY to get 15% off your entire order!- Go to https://www.prose.com/SHANDY for 15% off your first order today!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: When is Never Having Been Married a Red Flag?10:06 - Q2: My Car Was Towed At His Place—Should He Have Paid For It?27:39 - Q3: My Fiancé’s Friends Are Taking Advantage Of His Generosity—Help!41:32 - Q4: Can I Expect A Partner To Move With Me?47:29- Q5: When Single And Dating, Is It Ok To Keep Photos Of My Late Spouse On Social Media?56:54 - Q6: My Coworker Keeps Forcing Me To Hug Her—Help!1:10:18 - Q7: I’m 4 Years In And The Thrill Is Gone—Is It Over?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down the Finale and Reunion!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.manukora.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY to get a free pack of honey sticks with your order - a $15 value!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Head to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:02 - Finale27:44 - Reunion1:05:18 - Best Dressed1:07:13 - Overall ThoughtsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's Hot Topic tackles a recurring theme among our Shandies' questions: MONEY, BABY!! 💵💵💵 We're joined by superstar Ramit Sethi, who not only wrote 2009's megahit and NYT bestseller "I Will Teach You To Be Rich", but whose very own Netflix show, "How To Get Rich" just premiered on April 18th!Today Ramit begins by helping us define what our own individual "Rich Life" looks like. But he goes even further with the clearest, most concise, direct answers to your most burning relationship-meets-money questions: When one partner has a significantly higher income, should that be reflected in the bills? When and how should you bring up your debt with your partner? Is there a "gold standard" when it comes to shared and separate bank accounts? And what about PRENUPS?? What bank accounts and credit cards does Ramit himself use? (Oh yeah, we go there!) Listen on for your lesson in getting RICH.Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off plus free shipping!More Ramit:- The Book, 'I Will Teach You To Be Rich', 2nd edition (2019): https://amzn.to/3NhoRi1- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ramit- Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-will-teach-you-to-be-rich/id1577864998- Website: https://ramitsethi.com- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ramitsethiTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Ramit Sethi!2:22 - What Is A “Rich Life”?3:38 - How Can One Change From Being A Spender To A Saver?9:38 - Join Sharleen In An Exercise: Define Your “Rich Life”18:42 - How Can You Design Your Rich Life When You Feel Like You’re Struggling To Get By?22:30 - Investing And Saving 10127:49 - Ramit’s Picks For Bank Accounts & Credits Cards (WITH ACTUAL ANSWERS)31:02 - How Should You Divvy Up Finances When One Partner Makes More $$$?37:31 - Is The A Certain Number You Should Have In The Bank Before Starting A Family?39:24 - Prenups44:59 - When Should One Broach The Topic Of Money And/Or Debt In A New Relationship?49:50 - Have Debt Or Bad Credit? These Are Your First Steps53:38 - Andy’s Selfish Question56:55 - What Would Ramit Like Your Takeaway To Be?1:01:22 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 9-11, aka Seattle Part 2.Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://bumpinblends.com and use the promo code SHANDY to get 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $10 off your first month's subscription!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:55 - Episode 929:04 - Episode 1055:21 - Episode 111:08:02 - Predictions1:10:45 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you have a history of staying in relationships longer than you should, what are Shandy's tips on knowing it's time to break up? (Don't miss Andy's tips on the post-breakup withdrawal!) Is it a red flag if your boyfriend of 6 months didn't get you a birthday gift? And when it comes to adult friendships, where's the line between blind loyalty and pursuing the relationships that might fulfill us? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://prose.com/SHANDY for 15% off your first order today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: How Do I Know It’s Really Over & We Shouldn’t Get Back Together?17:12 - Q2: My Friend Group Imploded Over Pickleball—Help!31:37 - Q3: My Long Distance Boyfriend Didn’t Get Me A Birthday Gift—Is This A Red Flag?42:22 - Q4: I’d Like To Befriend My Friend’s Ex-Husband’s New Girlfriend—Would This Make Me Disloyal?49:46 - Q5: I’ve Been In An Arranged Marriage For 13 Years & Missed Out On Romance—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 6-8, aka Seattle Part 1.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:50 - Episode 630:14 - Episode 743:48 - Episode 81:11:33 - Predictions1:13:33 - Who We Would Go For1:13:56 - A Request From ShandyIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by engineer Ivan Hall (Bachelorette S16 & Bachelor in Paradise S7) and his fiancée, anesthesiologist Tailour Robison. These two *just* got engaged and Tailour has never done a public interview to date, so we're thrilled to get the exclusive on this legit power couple.Today Ivan and Tailour share how young love can be mature love as well, how they complement each other, how they fight, and they even prove Shandy wrong on the adage "you break up because it's broken"! Finally, a hilariously academic Newlyweds Game that has Andy on the edge of his seat even more than usual. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks To Our Sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!More Ivan:https://www.instagram.com/ivanbhallhttps://www.tiktok.com/@ivanbhallMore Tailour:Nice try!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Ivan And Tailour!3:50 - How They Met8:49 - Did Tailour Watch Ivan On TV?11:18 - Considering Their History, What Are Their Thoughts On “You Broke Up Because It was Broken”13:25 - First Impressions20:43 - How They Complement Each Other25:10 - Did Going On The Show Bring Ivan Out Of His Shell?27:15 - Early Hurdle29:53 - How They Fight36:18 - Was There A Moment When They “Knew”? Do They Believe In “The One”?41:06 - Any Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed44:42 - Is The Plane Ivan Is Working On The Plane From ‘Top Gun: Maverick’?49:50 - The Newlyweds Game1:07:20 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 4 and 5, aka MEXICO.Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box!- Try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free at https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!Time Stamps:0:00 - Intro0:46 - Episode 439:34 - Episode 51:14:53 - PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's Hot Topic will likely resonate with many a Shandy. If you struggle with perfectionism, your inner critic, feeling the need to prove yourself, and/or analysis paralysis, this conversation is a must. We're joined by Homaira Kabir, author of ‘Goodbye Perfect: How To Stop Pleasing, Proving and Pushing For Others… and Live For Yourself’, whose career is built on the research of how you (yes, you!) can flourish. Today we cover everything from the difference between being a perfectionist and just having high standards, how to not grow resentful when others can't live up to your "perfect" ideals, whether or not perfectionism equates to competitiveness, how not to raise perfectionist children, and how our purpose ties into all of the above. This one really tugged on Sharleen's heart strings and she thinks it will speak to you, too. Listen on for a lesson in letting go...Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!More Homaira:- The Book, 'Goodbye Perfect: How To Stop Pleasing, Proving and Pushing For Others… and Live For Yourself’: https://amzn.to/3KcGcpq- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/homaira.kabir- Website: https://homairakabir.com- Podcast: Life Is A Highway Podcast: https://homairakabir.com/podcast/Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Homaira Kabir!3:48 - What Are Optimal Confidence and Fragile Confidence?6:42 - Can We Have Fragile Confidence In Some Parts Of Our Lives And Optimal Confidence In Others?9:30 - Since So Much Is Programmed Into Us As Infants, How Much Free Will Do We Even Have?13:35 - What Are We Looking For When We Put So Much Out There And Are Disappointed By The Response?16:05 - Is To Desire Perfection To Live In The Past?19:30 - Is Perfectionism a Result Of Nature Or Nurture?21:42 - How To Avoid Passing On This Trait To Children22:58 - Are Perfectionists Trapped In The Wrong Gear?26:53 - Is To Be A Perfectionist To Either Competitive Or Envious?28:23 - Is It Possible To Keep The Benefits Of Perfectionism While Letting Go Of The Rest Or Is It All Or Nothing?31:07 - What’s The Difference Between Perfectionism And High Standards?33:22 - How Can One a) Not Put Their Perfect Ideals On Their Partner, and b) Not Resent Them For It38:43 - What’s The Driving Force Behind Perfectionism? (Including Another Discussion About Shame!) 44:20 - Advice For Those Who Logically Know Perfectionism Isn’t Their Friend But Still Feel It’s Part Of Their Identity 48:33 - Tips For Those Who Suffer From Analysis Paralysis55:07 - How Does One’s “Purpose” Play Into All This?1:00:03 - What Would She Like Your Takeaway From This Conversation To Be?1:02:27 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with something new! By very popular demand, Shandy is testing the waters with recapping the 4th season of the hit show Love Is Blind. Today, in addition to a recap, we're also sharing our first impressions of the show. Listen on for episodes 1-3 (+ a few minutes), aka THE PODS.Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:44 - Episode 133:04 - Episode 21:00:15 - Episode 3If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Sarah, whose ex broke things off around 6 months ago. While things ended with a lot of question marks on Sarah's end, he did tell her he'd like to remain friends. Should Sarah take his recent text as a sign to embark on a platonic friendship? Listen on for the Shandy take!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sarah!11:32 - Shandy Sleuthing37:06 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand finale!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://prose.com/SHANDY for 15% off your first order today!- Go to https://www.dailyharvest.com/SHANDY to get up to $40 off your first box!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:09 - Finale Kick Off2:59 - Live: Ariel5:42 - Back In Thailand7:26 - Gabi Meets Zach’s Family11:31 - Kaity Meets Zach’s Family13:57 - Kaity’s Last Chance Date21:10 - Evening24:08 - Gabi’s Last Chance Date27:23 - Evening29:53 - Live: It’s Sean Lowe Time32:24 - Back In Thailand33:06 - Proposal Day: Gabi40:54 - Live: Gabi44:29 - Zach Joins49:58 - Proposal Day: Kaity50:49 - Live: Zach & Kaity56:29 - Reviewing Night One Predictions57:56 - Charity’s Season Preview59:23 - Shandy Word Watch1:00:13 - Special Announcement1:01:15 - Special SurpriseIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you've had a missed connection with someone who no longer seems to check the dating app, is it creepy to reach out on an outside platform? Is it ever OK to ask a single friend to be their plus-one to a mutual friend's wedding? And is tickling your partner a form of endearment or a form of torture? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY60 and use code SHANDY60 for 60% off plus free shipping!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: My Match Isn’t Checking The Dating App—What’s The Least Creepy Way to Reach Out?5:38 - Q2: Is It OK To Ask A Single Friend To Be Their Plus-One To A Mutual Friend’s Wedding?19:16 - Q3: His List Of Wants In The First 1.5 Months Of Dating Have Me Wondering: Is He A Risk?26:39 - Q4: Did We Accidentally Schedule An Orgy? 34:30 - Q5: I Love My Boyfriend But Not His Male Pattern Baldness—How Can I Get Him To Shave His Head?45:18 - Q6: My Ex-Husband Is My Best Friend—Is This Holding Me Back From Finding A New Romantic Connection?53:18 - Q7: Shandy Weighs In On The Ethics Of TicklingIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 9, aka Fantasy Suite Week!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com /SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY60 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:20 - Episode 9 Kick Off4:36 - Ariel’s Overnight7:37 - Evening12:26 - The Next Day12:42 - Gabi’s Overnight20:37 - Evening25:02 - The Next Day26:53 - Zach Is Honest36:52 - Kaity’s Overnight52:06 - Evening54:13 - Rose Ceremony59:43 - Credits1:00:37 - Andy’s A Game1:01:46 - Shandy Word Watch1:05:43 - PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor Franchise power couple Danielle Maltby (Bachelor S21) and Michael Allio (Bachelorette S17), whom you watched meet on Bachelor In Paradise S8! We're happy to report that not only is this a Love Fest of legend, but our producer Gabby even called it one of her ALL TIME favorites (and trust us, she's picky!)Today Danielle and Michael join Shandy to share how and why their relationship has blossomed post-show, how they complement each other, and of course, how they fight! There are also countless tangent gems covering everything from imposter syndrome to thoughts on what *really* matters in life. Finally, a Newlyweds Game that is flagrantly disrespected by its players to the point where Shandy has no choice but to show them who's boss. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks To Our Sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!More Danielle:https://www.instagram.com/dmmaltbyhttps://www.instagram.com/nursedaestheticshttps://www.womedpodcast.comMore Michael:https://www.instagram.com/michael_alliol4Reference WoMed episodes:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-womed/id1464767919?i=1000592844163https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-womed/id1464767919?i=1000594247788Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Danielle & Michael!14:54 - Was There Anything They Think Viewers Missed Out On With Their Love Story20:37 - Traits They’ve Learned About One Another Post-Show25:26 - How Their First Impressions Have Changed30:17 - How They Complement Each Other40:03 - When Did Michael “Know”46:15 - Early Hurdle53:14 - How They Fight1:06:53 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game1:22:22 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down Women Tell All!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:42 - Women Tell All Kick Off4:19 - Christina Mandrell7:53 - Anastasia vs Everyone10:57 - Katherine vs Brooklyn14:33 - Jess’ Hot Seat18:04 - Greer’s Hot Seat22:24 - Katherine’s Hot Seat24:37 - Charity’s Hot Seat27:05 - Unseen Footage29:34 - Zach32:09 - Bloopers34:36 - Bachelorette AnnouncementIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Hometown Week!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!- Try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free at https://www.warbyparker.com/shandy!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:05 - Episode 8 Kick Off2:14 - Gabi’s Hometown5:11 - Evening9:23 - Ariel’s Hometown20:30 - Evening25:07 - Charity’s Hometown30:00 - Evening30:57 - Katie’s Hometown35:51 - Evening44:26 - Sean Lowe47:17 - Rose Ceremony50:40 - Credits52:29 - Andy’s A-Game53:12 - Shandy Word Watch56:24 - PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Nina who has found herself in the early stages of a situationship and wants to "suss out" her next move. Is there a potential future here or is she just wearing a pretty pair of rose-colored glasses? Listen on for the Shandy take!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Nina!15:12 - Shandy Sleuthing38:45 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://www.dailyharvest.com/SHANDY to get up to $40 off your first box!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:58 - Episode 7 Kick Off4:27 - Kaity’s 1-On-17:35 - Evening11:26 - Group Date22:00 - Evening29:57 - Greer Time39:13 - Brooklyn’s 1-On-146:58 - Evening50:36 - Rose Ceremony1:02:26 - Credits1:02:33 - Andy’s A-Game1:03:10 - Shandy Word Watch1:05:13 - PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's Hot Topic dives deep into the world of open relationships! We're joined by author and ghostwriter Emily Gindlesparger, who not only opened her own relationship years ago but discovered her own bisexuality throughout the process. Her new memoir, "Please Make Me Love Me", describes her journey from traditional, straight monogamist to becoming polyamorous with multiple serious girlfriends. Today she shares how she shed her jealousy once and for all, the impact an open relationship had on her primary partnership, the challenges of logistics, and her advice to couples interested in non-monogamy. Emily manages to answer a TON of questions thoughtfully and succinctly, so if you've ever been curious about exploring polyamory—or are just curious how others manage it!—this conversation is for you.More Emily:- The Book, "Please Make Me Love Me": https://amzn.to/3Zwrhfz- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emilygindle- Website: https://www.emilygindlesparger.comReferenced Links And Books:More Than Two - https://www.morethantwo.comEsther Perel’s “The State Of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity” - https://amzn.to/3SDhO43Jessica Fern’s “Polysecure” - https://amzn.to/3ZuwKU5Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Emily Gindlesparger!1:47 - What Do People Most Commonly Ask When They Learn She’s Written A Memoir About Open Relationships And Discovering She’s Queer3:27 - Was There A Moment Where She Went From Jealous To Non-Jealous7:06 - Would She Say The More She Leaned Into What Was Making Her Jealous, The Less Jealous She Became8:16 - Did Jealous Get Flipped On Its Head To Where She Found It Enjoyable10:43 - What Made Her And Her Partner Decide To Disclose Everything To Each Other (Versus “I Don’t Want To Know”)14:02 - Did They Ever Fight About This15:06 - How Much Of Her Decision To Open The Relationship Stemmed From A Desire To Live Life To The Fullest Versus Wanting To Explore Her Sexuality19:42 - What Does She Think Is The Most Common Misconception About Open Relationships22:41 - Is It Worth Bringing Up That You Want An Open Relationship If You Know Your Partner Is Deeply Monogamous24:33 - Does She Believe One-Way Open Relationships Can Work26:59 - What Advice Would She Give To Someone Whose Partner Wants To Open The Relationship28:27 - Would She Have Ever Opened Her Relationship Had She Been In A Different Community30:47 - Is A “Logistical Toll” Part And Parcel With Maintaining Open Relationships33:06 - What’s Easier: Monogamy Or Polyamory34:54 - Let’s Say A Couple Wants To Open Things Up—Where To Start39:43 - When Did She Realize She Wasn’t 100% Straight43:31 - What Advice Would She Give Her Younger Self On The Topic Of Her Sexuality45:31 - Does She Consider It A Shame To *Not* Explore One’s Bisexuality48:32 - Would She And Her Partner Even Open Things Up Again51:17 - Did She Tell Her Family And If So, Why54:41 - What Self Work Does She Recommend For Those Contemplating Opening Their Relationship58:05 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://prose.com/SHANDY for 15% off your first order today!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:23 - Episode 6 Kick Off7:45 - Charity’s 1-On-119:10 - Evening22:54 - Group Date Card24:05 - The Next Day24:17 - Group Date27:19 - Evening40:19 - Flashpoint46:37 - Ariel’s 1-On-151:58 - Afternoon54:56 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party1:00:34 - Rose Ceremony1:01:36 - Credits1:02:30 - Andy’s A-Game1:02:49 - Shandy Word Watch1:04:29 - PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your romantic proposal was underwhelming at best, is there any way to fix it? Is what feels like a Hallmark Love Story to good to be true? And, as The Mistress, just how long is too long to wait for him? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 55% off your subscription!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY60 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Q1: I Never Got My Romantic Proposal—How Can I Fix This?9:11 - Q2: Am I The (Oblivious) Asshole?19:36 - Q3: Am I Crazy To Consider Moving For This Hallmark Christmas Love Story?32:40 - Q4: I’m Seeking Advice On How To End A Friendship42:43 - Q5: I’m The Mistress—How Long Should I Wait For Him?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY65 and use code SHANDY65 for 65% off plus free shipping!- Head to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:44 - Episode 5 Kick Off4:50 - Gabi’s 1-On-17:36 - Evening At The Hotel11:38 - Evening On The Date21:12 - Group Date26:13 - Evening27:11 - The Next Day28:42 - Evening30:03 - Virtual Cocktail Party48:27 - Virtual Rose Ceremony52:29 - Credits55:05 - Andy’s A-Game55:33 - Shandy Word Watch57:57 - PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor icon Chris Bukowski (Bachelorette S8; Bachelor Pad S3; BIP S1, S2, S6) and Anna Redman (Bachelor S25; BIP S7), who join us from their shared home in Chicago. Shandy has known Chris for years and are delighted to catch up with him and meet lovely Anna in today's double date.Today Chris and Anna join Shandy to share how fellow Bachelor alums set them up, how they complement one another, whether or not "villain-y" has helped them connect, what they play on game nights (and who wins), and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a particularly entertaining nail biter of a Newlyweds Game. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks To Our Sponsor!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!More Chris:https://www.instagram.com/chrisjbukowskihttps://kcmcreate.comMore Anna:https://www.instagram.com/anna_redmanhttps://www.tiktok.com/@annaredmanhttps://annathecreative.comTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Anna And Chris!2:14 - How They Met4:21 - How Familiar With Each Other Were They?9:35 - First Impressions15:12 - How They Complement Each Other18:36 - The Biggest Misconception About Their Relationship21:00 - Does Being Former “Villains” Help Them Relate To Each Other?24:20 - How They Fight28:14 - What’s Different About This Partnership Versus Past Ones That Makes It Successful?29:46 - Early Hurdle34:43 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed37:46 - Rapid Fire True/False38:47 - The Newlyweds Game1:00:37 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today, for the first time ever, we're joined by guests for a recap: Claire and Emma of the Love To See It podcast help us break down episode 3.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Head to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!More Love To See It:- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id995039015- https://www.instagram.com/claireandemmapodTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Claire & Emma1:45 - Episode 4 Kick Off7:00 - Kat’s 1-On-19:00 - Evening At The Mansion16:40 - Evening On The Date25:52 - Group Date34:02 - Evening51:40 - Brooklyn’s 1-On-152:50 - Evening56:03 - The Next Day56:32 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party1:06:05 - Rose Ceremony1:08:27 - Credits1:09:57 - Andy’s A-Game1:11:50 - Shandy Word Watch1:14:18 - PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by two lovely callers! Our first caller, Michelle, is frustrated with members of her core friend group routinely bringing their significant others to Girls Night. Is this something she can actually address without causing a rift, and if so, how? Caller Siobhan was with her ex for 6 months but is left scratching her head over what even happened. How can two people see the same relationship so differently, and what should she have done differently? Brutal Andy honesty ensues. Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Michelle!23:16 - Shandy Debrief33:02 - Welcome To Caller Siobhan!40:22 - Shandy Sleuthing1:06:54 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.dailyharvest.com/SHANDY to get up to $40 off your first box!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:38 - Episode 3 Kick Off4:50 - Kaity’s 1-On-16:04 - Evening12:30 - The Next Day13:11 - Group Date19:54 - Evening34:36 - Aly’s 1-On-136:34 - Evening39:29 - The Next Day/Pool Party53:03 - Rose Ceremony59:47 - Credits1:00:54 - Andy’s A-Game1:01:28 - Shandy Word Watch1:04:18 - PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's Hot Topic delves into the fascinating world of professional matchmaking! We're joined by 4th generation matchmaker Maria Avgitidis—aka the famed "Matchmaker Maria". Maria is the founder and CEO of award-winning Agape Match, the exclusive NYC-based matchmaking service with a whopping 93% success rate. Ever wonder what a matchmaker would give you as "homework", what demographic makes the hardest client to match, what it costs to hire a matchmaker, or what tops men's and women's lists of desires? Maria pulls back the curtain on this generations-old industry and we promise you'll leave, as Shandy puts it, "enlightened"!More Maria:- Agape Match: https://agapematch.com- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermaria- Ask A Matchmaker Podcast: https://plinkhq.com/i/1521530338?to=pageTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Maria Avgitidis Pyrgiotakis!1:52 - Why Matchmaking?4:42 - Are We Searching For Functionality & How To Branch Out7:10 - Is There A Higher Likelihood Of Any Particular Religions/Cultures That Seek Matchmaking?9:55 - Can People From Very Different Religions Or Cultures Be A Good Match?14:28 - Does She Work With More Men Vs Women & How Do Clients Come Her Way?16:48 - In General, Which Demographic Is The Hardest To Work With?23:03 - Matchmaking Costs Money—How Is This Reflected In Her Clientele?25:22 - Is She Ever Tempted To Take On Clients For Free?35:18 - Top 3 Things Men Are Looking For40:55 - Top 3 Things Women Are Looking For46:28 - How Swipe Culture Has Affected Dating And Has It Affected Her Business50:02 - Standy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.TryFirstleaf.com/SHANDY to get your first 6 bottles for $39.95 plus free shipping!- Go to https://prose.com/SHANDY for 15% off your first order today!- Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.franklyapparel.com/SHANDY for $20 off!Info on Sharleen's current opera (Edmonton):https://www.edmontonopera.com/2023/orpheeTime Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:23 - Episode 2 Kick Off3:34 - Group Date #17:32 - Evening14:48 - The Next Day15:40 - Christina Mandrell’s 1-On-130:56 - Group Date #240:38 - The Next Day41:35 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party1:00:50 - Rose Ceremony1:01:14 - Credits1:01:53 - Andy’s A-Game1:05:03 - Shandy Word Watch1:06:42 - PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a guy won't commit until after sex, is that a red flag? When someone cancels a date, what's the statistical likelihood that their excuse is a lie? And if your brother and best friend showed up at Christmas, hand in hand and without warning, what would you do? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 55% off your subscription!- Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY60 and use code SHANDY60 to get 60% off your first box!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!0:00 - Q1: The Guy I’m Interested In Won’t Commit Until We Sleep Together—Is This Normal?14:16 - Q2: When A Date Cancels, What’s The Statistical Likelihood That Their Excuse Is A Lie?26:57 - Q3: My Brother Showed Up To Family Christmas With My Best Friend On His Arm—Help!37:44 - Q4: I’m In Love With A Man 28 Years Older—Am I Wasting My Youth? 1:08:42 - Q5: My Ex And I Have Remained Friends But His New Relationship Is Affecting Me—Does This Mean I Still Have Feelings And Should Cut Ties?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY21 and use code SHANDY21 for 21 free meals plus free shipping!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Info on Sharleen's current opera (Edmonton):https://www.edmontonopera.com/2023/orpheeTime Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:32 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 11:41 - Episode 1 Kick Off6:46 - Intro Videos11:30 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails21:06 - Zach’s Toast26:03 - Notable 1-On-1 Time37:14 - Madison38:18 - 1-On-1 Time, Cont’d40:12 - First Impression Rose45:51 - Madison, Cont’d49:22 - Rose Ceremony50:08 - Credits50:18 - Andy’s A-Game51:49 - Shandy Word Watch52:47 - Predictions57:29 - Wild CardsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Emily, who has found herself in a platonic friendship with her ex for whom she still harbors romantic feelings. His ED also played a part in their relationship and breakup. Should she believe there's a future for them? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Rosemary!47:55 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask and you shall receive! For literal YEARS you've been asking "where are they now?" when it comes to our Shandies' quandaries, and today's the day we find out! This episode includes all updates that have not already been shared on Instagram Reels, and in typical Shandy fashion, updated commentary and analogies. Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 55% off your subscription!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.dailyharvest.com/SHANDY to get up to $40 off your first box!Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction3:03 - Episode 6: Caller Gabby - https://youtu.be/j19BAzjMGZ87:21 - Episode 28: Q2, From Danielle - https://youtu.be/z75XlTPG9XI10:44 - Episode 28: Q3, From Cassandra - https://youtu.be/z75XlTPG9XI14:11 - Episode 45: Q3, From Urszula - https://youtu.be/JeX3_ZPUQfM22:56 - Episode 57: Caller Dayna - https://youtu.be/77fO41yQO6Q30:15 - Episode 114: Caller Anna - https://youtu.be/EIuFdyyB2dc35:01 - Episode 130: Caller Kelsey - https://youtu.be/eFFakWC0zgU41:06 - Episode 133: Q2, From Anonymous - https://youtu.be/H8ul2qEWrOQ56:18 - Episode 137: Q3, From Tina - https://youtu.be/ANzS4y7vTGI1:00:54 - Episode 146: Q2, From P - https://youtu.be/ygmeFYPyYMk1:09:04 - Episode 154: Q4, From An Embarrassed Shandy - https://youtu.be/qyYKy-XiJ1A1:12:57 - Episode 158: Caller Hanna - https://youtu.be/f5zKwVHMvLwIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Due to an unexpected change in Sharleen's singing schedule, today's episode contains two Dear Shandy firsts: 1) we're recording remotely, and 2) we're breaking down our personal "greatest hits" Q&As of 2022! We recap and air our favorite Q&As of the year and explain why they stood out to us (and whether or not we'd answer differently). This will be our last episode of 2022 and we'll be taking a 2 week break, so we'll see you back here on Jan 12! THANK YOU, Shandies, for another great year of kindness, analogies, weirdness, specificity, and laughs. We adore you and hope you have the happiest of holidays! xoxoThanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!0:00 - Intro2:55 - Ep 133, Q2 - Anonymous18:57 - Ep 125, Q5 - from S38:51 - Ep 137, Q3 - from Tina53:04 - Ep 154, Q4 - from An Embarrassed Shandy1:07:44 - Ep 170, Q3 - from H1:41:26 - Ep 146, Q3 - from CIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How much should you consider an ex's feelings when dating within the same circles? Is the opposite of hate truly indifference, and if so, does my partner "hating" his ex mean he isn't over her? And one Shandy requests that Shandy "snaps her out of" her 1.5 situationship—will they oblige? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription!- Go to https://www.fahertybrand.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY to get 20% off your order!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY18 and use code SHANDY18 for 18 free meals plus free shipping!0:00 - Q1: I Have A Crush On My Tour Guide—Should I Make A Move?7:20 - Q2: My Guy Feels Hatred For His Ex—Will He Ever Get Over Her?21:04 - Q3: How Much Should I Consider My Ex’s Feelings When Considering Dating In His Circle?33:22 - Q4: My Normally Gentle Boyfriend Showed A Flare Of Anger Towards Me—Is This A Red Flag?53:31 - Q5: The Guy I’ve Been Seeing For 1.5 Years Won’t Commit—Snap Me Out Of It?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Rosemary who has been with her partner for 2.5 years. The two always thought they might be open to non-monogamy one day, but she's suddenly faced with the reality of that idea and isn't sure what to do. Should she lay down the law and wait for circumstances to be just right, or is there never a "just right" circumstance and should she take the plunge? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to become a member and get 50% off your first order with free shipping!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and enter code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Rosemary!52:17 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When timing doesn't feel like your friend, should you send a "If you're single in the future" message? Is it wrong to be turned off that your boyfriend lives with his mom? If your partner's dying to dance with you but you're uncomfortable on the dance floor, who's got to give? And don't pretend it hasn't happened to you: when you send the wrong text to the wrong person... 😱 Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%!- Go to https://www.TryFirstleaf.com/SHANDY to get your first 6 bottles for $39.95 plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!0:00 - Q1: Is It Ever A Good Idea To Send A “If You’re Single In The Future” Message?8:39 - Q2: This Guy Keeps Ghosting, Then Explaining—Am I Being Too Forgiving?23:18 - Q3: I Dislike That My Boyfriend Still Lives With His Mother—Am I Being Judgy?35:58 - Q4: I Accidentally Sent A Venting Text To The Person I Was Venting About—Help!1:01:10 - Q5: My Boyfriend Loves To Dance But I Do NOT—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's Hot Topic is one that has been a loooong time coming. We're joined by bestselling author, professor, and psychologist Dr. Marisa G Franco. Having written "Platonic: How The Science Of Attachment Can Help You Make—And Keep—Friends", Marisa is particularly well equipped to help us tackle the complicated world of platonic friendships. If you struggle when it comes to friendships, or you'd like more friends but don't know how to get started, or feel like you're doing all the work in your friendships, OR perhaps you'd like to end a toxic friendship.... let's just say this conversation is for you.More Marisa:Book: Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and—Keep FriendsInstagram: DrMarisaGFrancoWebsite: www.DrMarisaGFranco.com (take a quiz to assess your strengths and weaknesses as a friend!)Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Dr. Marisa G Franco!1:25 - What Inspired Her To Write A Book On Platonic Friendship3:15 - Biggest Thing She Learned About Herself In Writing “Platonic”7:25 - The Most Surprising Fact About Platonic Relationships9:48 - Attachment Styles12:35 - How To Make New Friends24:55 - Is She An Introvert Or Extrovert?26:01 - How To Maintain Long Distance Friendships27:24 - Does Our Easy Access Culture Affect Our Friendships?31:18 - What If It Feels Like You’re Doing All The Work?35:02 - Vice Versa36:49 - When You’re The Connector But End Up Feeling Left Out40:45 - Can You Be Friends With Someone You’re Attracted To?45:22 - The Proper Way To End A Toxic Friendship49:29 - Is It Ever OK To Power Fade A Friendship?52:23 - How To Maintain Friendships When Your Lives Are Heading In Different Directions55:25 - Script For How To Turn An Acquaintance Into A Friend56:06 - How To Deal With A Friend Who Constantly Copies You58:38 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 16, aka the finale part 2!Thanks to our sponsors!-Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap!-Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:28 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 163:27 - Reunion23:45 - Tyler & Brittany29:32 - Michael & Danielle34:57 - Johnny & Victoria1:03:40 - Brandon & Serene1:09:27 - Credits1:10:02 - Andy’s A-Game1:10:40 - Shandy Word Watch1:11:56 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 15, aka the finale part 1!Thanks to our sponsors!Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE!Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:32 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 152:22 - Episode 15 Kick Off3:36 - Evening6:03 - Rose Ceremony15:40 - The Next Day37:33 - The Final Couples41:32 - Overnight Dates46:19 - Credits46:36 - Andy’s A-Game48:24 - Shandy Word WatchIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Ben Zorn (The Bachelorette Season 11, Bachelor In Paradise Season 4) and his lovely wife Stacy Santilena. To say Shandy enjoyed getting to know these two is a massive understatement (in the words of Sharleen afterwards: "I want to be friends with them.")Today Ben and Stacy join Shandy to share how they went from "just friends" to married with a baby, how they overcame a very relatable early hurdle, Stacy's journey from believing she didn't want kids to wholeheartedly loving their son Logan, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, an unprecedented Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game that will BLOW YOU AWAY. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!More Ben:https://www.instagram.com/benzornlifehttps://www.zornfitness.comMore Stacy:https://www.instagram.com/ssantilenaTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Ben & Stacey!0:46 - How They Met7:32 - First Impressions19:24 - How They Began Dating (After Friendship)30:18 - Stacey’s Thoughts On Ben On The Show32:00 - How They Complement Each Other33:31 - Early Hurdle40:04 - How They Fight44:21 - How Parenthood Has Changed Their Relationship54:16 - Relationship Beliefs That Have Changed1:02:15 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game1:21:21 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 13 & 14!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY65 and use code SHANDY65 for 65% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and enter code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:46 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 13 & 140:54 - Word Watch Disclaimer1:30 - Episode 13 Kick Off4:44 - Baltimore9:33 - Back On The Beach14:20 - Evening15:07 - Mara’s Date With Justin15:29 - Back On The Beach28:10 - The Next Day36:53 - Ency’s Date With Andrew37:45 - Back On The Beach38:58 - Credits39:05 - Episode 14 Kick Off43:50 - Evening45:40 - The Mic Room55:22 - Tyler’s Date With Brittany57:14 - The Next Day1:01:08 - Sadie Hawkins Dance1:16:09 - Credits1:16:38 - Andy’s A-Game1:18:24 - Shandy Word Watch1:20:29 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it wrong to vent to others about your partner? Is it worth revisiting things with an old flame? And a sticky "Am I The Asshole?" question! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsor!- Head to https://www.go.factor75.com/SHANDY60 and use code SHANDY60 to get 60% off your first box!0:00 - Q1: Is It Wrong To Vent To Others About My Partner?14:21 - Q2: I Ran Into An Old Flame And There Was Chemistry—Worth Revisiting?24:58 - Q3: Am I The Asshole?33:42 - Q4: I Know She’s Not The One But Logistics Are Complicated—Should I End It?40:35 - Q5: My Partner And I Can’t Agree On TV—Who Should Give?48:13 - Q6: I Want To Rename My 6-Year Old Cat—Yay Or Nay?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 12!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to become a member and get 50% off your first order with free shipping!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and enter code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free!Our Word Watch sponsor!- Go to https://www.etsy.com/shop/furanostudio and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Info on Sharleen's opera:https://www.operacolorado.org/event/verdis-rigoletto/Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:52 - Episode 12 Kick Off/Evening6:51 - The Next Day13:33 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party26:07 - Rose Ceremony34:52 - The Next Day37:19 - Michael’s Date With Danielle44:01 - Back At The Beach52:04 - Eliza Heads To Baltimore53:39 - Credits53:50 - Andy’s A-Game54:46 - Shandy Word Watch56:05 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Elizabeth who has quite the complicated high school sweetheart story that ended in her breaking the guy's heart. Fast forward to 5+ years later and he's still on her mind—but is she on his? And if so, is it worth closing the distance and potentially becoming the "other woman" to pursue, or are some things better left in the past? Listen on for the Shandy take!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Elizabeth!48:00 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.