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And just like that... it's Caller Day again! Today's lovely caller, Taylor, was in a passionate romance that felt like The One. But when she confronted her partner about something that made her uncomfortable, things unraveled pretty quickly. Who was in the right, and did she overreact or execute poorly? And looking bigger picture, was this relationship always doomed? Listen on for the Shandy take!0:00 - Welcome to Caller Taylor!45:50 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today we have the pleasure of speaking with Blair, the “exvangelical” brains behind @TalkPurityToMe, a humorous account dedicated to unlearning the shame taught by purity culture, both on Instagram and TikTok. Purity culture, based on the belief that sex should be had only within heterosexual marriage and that all lustful thoughts before marriage are sinful, has been a theme among our Shandies' questions, so we're excited to finally have a conversation on the topic. With Blair's help, we unpack everything from how to go from sex being bad to suddenly a beautiful part of marriage, navigating judgment from friends and family, and the ways in which purity culture resembles abuse. If you're currently struggling to shed the shame "purity" has cursed you with, or if you experience shame but aren't exactly sure where it comes from, today's conversation just might be for you.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.talkspace.com and use code SHANDY to get $100 off your first month of therapy!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and sign up for free to book a top-rated doctor!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!More Blair:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkpuritytome- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talkpuritytomeTime stamps:0:00 - Welcome to Talk Purity To Me's Blair!2:52 - Defining Purity Culture4:54 - Blair's History With Purity Culture10:10 - How Far Into Her Own "Deconstruction Process" Is She And Does She Still Struggle?13:12 - Her First Sexual Experience14:04 - What Inspired Her To Start An Account Dedicated To Unlearning Purity Culture?15:35 - How Have Her Family And Friends Reacted?20:39 - What Are The Most Common Themes She's Seen In Terms Of The Damage Purity Culture Can Cause?23:52 - Has She Found A Stronger Response From A Particular Age Range?24:14 - Have Any Responses She's Gotten Taken Her By Surprise?25:48 - Are There Any Less Obvious Ways She Thinks Purity Culture Manifests?27:05 - Tips For Shedding The Deeply Ingrained Mindset That Sex = Shame29:17 - Do People Who Leave Purity Culture Tend To Swing In The Opposite Direction?32:21 - Tips For Being More Open-Minded Sexually35:53 - What Advice Would She Give To Someone Staying With Their First Sexual Partner Solely Due To Their History With Purity Culture?40:28 - Tips For Trusting Your Intuition/Hearing That Inner Voice42:06 - Was There A Pivotal Moment That Changed Her Mindset?49:03 - Her Advice To Anyone Wanting To Go On Their Own "Deconstruction" Journey While Maintaining Meaningful Relationships With Loved Ones51:30 - What Is Her Relationship With Christianity Like Today?56:24 - Does She Think There's A Correlation Between Being Raised In Purity Culture And Difficulty Orgasming?57:24 - Does She Consider Purity Culture A Form Of Abuse?59:02 - Does It Ever Get Better?1:01:07 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does "The Ick" speak to good instincts or just being overly picky? Should we trust that if a man wants to make a move, he will? Is sending an ex a letter always a bad call or are there exceptions? Finally, a great "Am I An Asshole?" question. (Turns out we like those!) Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.fahertybrand.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off your Spring staples!- Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY to cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!0:00 - Q1: I Always Seem To Catch The "Ick" From My Dates—Am I Being Too Picky?18:31 - Q2: Is "If He Wanted To, He Would?" Always True?33:08 - Q3: My Engagement Ended Recently And I Want To Send My Ex A Letter—Yay or Nay?57:32 - Q4: I'm Dating A Guy My Girlfriend Introduced Me To And She Doesn't Speak To Me Anymore—What's Shandy's Take? 1:18:25 - Q5: To Kill Or Not To Kill?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by a Bachelor Nation icon, Courtney Robertson Preciado, and her husband, Humberto Preciado!You certainly know Courtney as the winner of season 16 of The Bachelor (and the New York Times Bestselling Author of her subsequent tell-all, "I Didn't Come Here To Make Friends") and we're thrilled Humberto agreed to join for his first ever pod appearance! These lovely parents struggled finding a sitter for their 5 month old daughter, Paloma, so we get a very cute cameo partway through. :)Today we learn how meeting in your 30s just may be reflected in a relationship, how Courtney and Humberto feel parenthood has affected their bond, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a tight race of a Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Listen on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to get 50% off your first month of premium CBD delivered directly to your door!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 to get up to 14 free meals, plus 3 free gifts!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.prose.com/SHANDY for your free in-depth hair consultation and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order of custom hair care!More Courtney:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bugrobertsonBook - https://amzn.to/3M6FoSLWebsite - https://courtneyrobertson.comMore Humberto:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/_humberto_preciado/Preciado Real Estate:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/preciadorealestateaz/Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome to Courtney and Humberto!2:06 - How They Met10:23 - First Impressions15:56 - How They Complement Each Other21:53 - Early Hurdles26:13 - Andy Has Some Questions27:28 - How They Fight31:27 - How Parenthood Has Affected Their Partnership36:57 - What's Different About This Relationship Versus Past Ones?40:20 - Has Humberto Seen Courtney's Bachelor Season?49:29 - Relationship Beliefs That Have Changed54:05 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game1:08:49 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's guest, Allison Raskin, is a New York Times best selling author and mental health advocate. Her 3rd and latest book, “Overthinking About You: Navigating Romantic Relationships When You Have Anxiety, OCD, and/or Depression” just came out on Tuesday (May 3). When we polled you, our Shandies, over on Instagram about this topic, the floodgates of messages and emails opened, so we do our best to cover the most common themes today, including when to reveal your mental health struggles in a new relationship, how to communicate your needs (and what to leave out), and how to tell the difference between your anxiety and your gut instincts. If you've ever found yourself obsessively agonizing over whether or not someone's right for you, today's conversation just might be for you.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!- Go to https://go.factor75.com/SHANDY120 and use code SHANDY120 to save $120!More AllisonBuy Her Book - https://amzn.to/3MRMPNyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/allisonraskinInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/emotionalsupportladyPodcast - https://foreverdogpodcasts.com/podcasts/just-between-us0:00 - Welcome To Allison Raskin!5:19 - When Should One Share Their Mental Health Struggles With Someone They're Dating?9:32 - The Difference Between Process And Content—How Much Should You Share?15:43 - Where's The Line Between Unnecessary Anxiety And Listening To Your Gut?17:28 - Attraction21:24 - How To Combat A Lifetime Of Being Told What A "Right" Relationship Looks Like25:21 - What If Your Partner Doesn't Know How To Help Or Understand?28:35 - Thoughts On If One's Partner (Or Partner-To-Be) Expresses Hesitation Because Of Their OCD?36:01 - How To Prevent Your Partner From Eventually Taking Things Personally?39:58 - Must One Have Their Mental Health Struggles Under Control Before Dating?41:40 - Tips For Navigating Dating When It's A Cause Of Anxiety48:16 - What To Do If Your Partner Refuses To Help Themself?51:43 - Advice For Couples Where Both Parties Are Struggling Individually53:34 - Medication57:31 - What's The Gold Star Response To Give When Your Partner Opens Up About Their Struggles To You?58:49 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Kelsey, introduces us to a popular new term (Platonic Life Partner, or "PLP"), redefining what one's "soulmate" might look like. But Kelsey also has quite the conundrum: she has developed romantic feelings for her PLP. Are these feelings real and should she act on them, even at the risk of the special platonic bond and partnership they've developed? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.talkspace.com and use code SHANDY to get $100 off your first month of therapy!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 35% off all bedding and loungewear!0:00 - Welcome to Caller Kelsey!52:06 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it wrong to fantasize about other people if you're in a committed and happy partnership? If you find someone great but just can't come to find them attractive, is that worth ending things over? And just how important does Shandy find sleep compatibility? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.fahertybrand.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your Spring staples!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY to cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 35% off all bedding and loungewear!0:00 - Q1: I'm Happily Married But Fantasize About Someone From The Gym—Help!6:45 - Q2: Should I Tell My Friend That I Slept With Our Mutual Friend?23:08 - Q3: My Boyfriend Talks In His Sleep And It's Affecting My Ability To Function By Day—Help!33:12 - Q4: My Crush Is In A Relationship With A Clear Expiration Date And He's Already Emotionally Cheated With Me—Thoughts On Possibly Being The Other Woman?56:03 - Q5: I've Been Seeing An Amazing Guy But Just Can't Find Him Attractive—Should I End It?1:08:28 - Q6: My Boyfriend Won't Sell The Ring From His Former Engagement—Thoughts?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's couple has been hotly requested for so many months, it's about time we brought them into the Shandy fold for a double date!Dave Neal, standup comedian and host of the wildly popular Bachelor Nation News Youtube channel, and his fiancée, blogger Tasha Courtney, join us to chat. We learn about the long journey that led to their courtship (complete with a grand gesture or two), how their first impressions have changed, how they navigate working together, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game with the most shocking score to date. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 to get up to 14 free meals, plus 3 free gifts!- Go to https://www.prose.com/SHANDY for your free in-depth hair consultation and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order of custom hair care!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!More Dave:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dnealzYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/user/DaveNealActorMore Tasha:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tashacourtneyYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/user/tashamcourtneyMore TaDa:Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-sap-comedians-talk-motivation-dating/id744156889Blog: https://www.wearetadatravels.com0:00 - Welcome to Dave and Tasha!5:17 - How They Met23:33 - First Impressions And If/How Those Have Changed28:00 - What Is Different About This Relationship Versus Previous Ones?30:13 - How Do They Fight?34:38 - How Do They Navigate Working Together?36:42 - How Involved Is Tasha In Dave's Bachelor Empire?41:31 - Is Tasha Surprised By Dave's Youtube Success?49:16 - Any Beliefs About Relationships That Have Been Changed By This One?56:04 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game1:09:13 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's lovely guest, Nicole Sodoma, is a seasoned divorce attorney of over two decades and the managing principal at Sodoma Law, based in Charlotte NC. Her debut book, "Please Don't Say You're Sorry: An Empowering Perspective on Marriage, Separation, and Divorce from a Marriage-Loving Divorce Attorney" will be released on May 24. She has also been through a divorce of her own, so needless to say, she's beyond qualified for today's "Confessions" episode! Nicole answers all of YOUR burning questions, and our conversation covers everything from her personal observations to (oftentimes surprising) divorce stats to invaluable life advice.Thanks to our sponsors:- Go to https://go.factor75.com/SHANDY120 and use code SHANDY120 to save $120!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to get 50% off your first month of premium CBD delivered directly to your door!- Go to https://www.magicspoon.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $5 off!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 35% off all bedding and loungewear!More NicoleBook - https://amzn.to/3K8j8XvInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/nicolesodoma/Website - https://nicolesodoma.comArticles For HuffPost - https://www.huffpost.com/author/nicole-h-sodomaTime Stamps3:57 - Did She Always Want To Be A Divorce Attorney?5:41 - If She Could Go Back In Time And Do Something Else, What Would It Be?8:54 - Is Divorce One Of The Most Expensive Things In The World?13:40 - What's The Average Time A Divorce Takes From Beginning To End?16:32 - If You Get Married In One State But Reside In Another, Which State's Divorce Laws Apply?17:22 - What Percentage Of The Divorces She's Dealt With Had Prenups? (Are Prenups In And Of Themselves An Indicator For Separation?)23:50 - What Are The Top 3 Reasons She Sees For Divorce?26:16 - What Percentage Of Divorces Are Amicable Versus Contentious?29:53 - What's The Most Common Thing Couples Fight Over, And What's The Most Shocking Thing She's Seen A Couple Fight Over?32:46 - Do Couples Ever *Not* Fight Over Custody?36:35 - What Percentage Of Couples Who Make It To Her Office End Up Not Going Through With It?38:10 - What's The Most Romantic Thing She's Ever Seen During A Divorce?39:14 - How Is Debt Calculated?42:32 - What Are Her General Thoughts On Prenups?52:50 - How Many Years Into Marriage Are The Most Common For Divorce?54:39 - What Are The Most Common Ages She Sees?56:04 - What Are Some Things She Wishes Couples Would Consider Before Marriage?59:08 - Did She Represent Herself In Her Own Divorce?59:59 - What Are Some Red Flags She Wishes People Would Look Out For?1:01:34 - Let's Say You Know It's Over—What Are The Best First Steps?1:04:17 - What Advice Would You Give To Someone Going Through A Divorce Right Now?1:06:02 - Is Marriage Worth The Risk?1:07:42 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today's call will likely be very relatable for those dating out there. Today we're joined by Lauren, a young single mom who knows what she wants and has been crystal clear in what she's looking for. However, the guy in question says one thing and does another. Is this a dealbreaker? And how much does "double dipping" affect things? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 35% off all bedding and loungewear!- Go to https://www.talkspace.com and use code SHANDY to get $100 off your first month of therapy!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!0:00 - Welcome to Caller Lauren!52:06 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How should you proceed if you love your partner but not his very frequent, very loud hobby? Why do guys stop trying when they get the girl? And what are Shandy's thoughts on the woman proposing to the man? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.magicspoon.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $5 off!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY to cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap!0:00 - Q1: Why Do Men Stop Trying When They Get The Girl?13:42 - Q2: I Want To Ask A Semi-Celebrity Out Via DM—Any Tips?27:23 - Q3: I'm A Woman And Am Considering Being The One To Propose To My Boyfriend—Thoughts?39:09 - Q4: I Have A Crush On My Manager—How Should I Make A Move Or Is It Too Risky?50:27 - Q5: I Love My Fiancé But Can't Stand His Constant Singing—What Should I Do?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand finale.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!- Go to https://www.fahertybrand.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your Spring staples!- Go to https://www.magicspoon.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $5 off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!0:00 - Housekeeping04:09 - Overall Thoughts On The Finale04:26 - Finale Part 1 Kick Off7:41 - The Rose Ceremony From Hell33:37 - Clayton's Family35:35 - Gabby Meets Clayton's Family36:23 - Rachel Meets Clayton's Family47:41 - Finale Part 2 Kick Off52:06 - Susie56:15 - The Breakup1:05:21 - Live: Gabby1:10:46 - The Breakup, Continued1:13:45 - Live: Rachel1:20:28 - The Show Resumes1:21:41 - In The Countryside1:25:29 - After The Final Rose1:27:56 - Next Bachelorette1:29:44 - Overall Thoughts1:32:59 - Recapping Our Original Predictions1:34:54 - Shandy Word WatchIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Parasocial relationships are defined as one-sided relationships, where one person extends emotional energy, interest and time, and the other party, the persona, is completely unaware of the other’s existence.Have you ever wondered how the celebrity in this situation, or the "persona", feels about this dynamic? Today we're joined by accomplished actor, writer, and Youtuber Josh Peck, to chat how it feels to be on the other side. With 3.5 million Youtube subscribers, 7 million TikTok followers, 12.6 million Instagram followers, and having been on TV since age 10, it's safe to say Josh is on the receiving end of millions of parasocial relationships.Can he even process that so many people caring about him or feeling like they know him? How does it feel to know he could be shaping the identities of so many? And does he ever feel a reverse dynamic, where he feels attached to his fans or even betrayed by them? Listen on for a fascinating discussion about human nature, our relationship with ourselves, and the strange dynamic that is parasocial relationships.Thanks to our sponsor:- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 to get up to 14 free meals, plus 3 free gifts!More JoshHis Book "Happy People Are Annoying" - https://amzn.to/3tdttvdInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/shuapeckTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@joshpeckYoutube - https://www.youtube.com/c/joshpeckCurious Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/curious-with-josh-peck/id1378163166If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today's is Andy's all-time favorite call. We're joined by Fiona, who is in a one year old relationship. As things have become long distance she finds herself and her partner fighting more than usual. However, the more questions we asked, the more we learned there's more to her story and her reservations. Listen on for the Shandy take!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down Overnights.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to get 40% off your first 3 months of premium CBD delivered directly to your door!0:00 - Housekeeping2:53 - Women Tell All4:31 - Cassidy6:54 - Shanae14:27 - Sarah17:30 - Teddi20:40 - Serene22:33 - Clayton29:39 - Bloopers30:00 - Jesse's Season Recap34:34 - Episode 9 Kick Off37:51 - Rachel's Overnight48:12 - Gabby's Overnight57:27 - Susie1:34:26 - Credits1:35:29 - Shandy Word Watch1:36:47 - Shandy's PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

After Our Wedding Story episode, we were overwhelmed by follow-up questions. We asked if you wanted a Part 2 and you said yes! So, combining your emails, comments, DMs, and Instagram poll questions, here are our answers!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 35% off all bedding and loungewear!- Go to https://www.talkspace.com and use code SHANDY to get $100 off your first month of therapy!0:00 - Introduction1:58 - Who Was At Our City Hall Wedding?6:47 - What Was The City Hall Process Like?8:38 - Did Anyone Give Us a Hard Time For Doing City Hall Initially?9:16 - Thoughts On First Look Versus Waiting Until The Aisle?10:54 - Did Either Of Us Have Last Minute Jitters/Cold Feet?17:59 - Advice On Plus-Ones? And What About Kids?23:25 - Did You Take It Personally If Someone Did Not Come?27:05 - What Was Our First Dance Song? 29:14 - Did We Do A Choreographed Dance?32:03 - Did We Drink?35:19 - Thoughts On Guests Who Only Attend The Reception?41:13 - How Did You Pick Your Photographer?50:28 - How Did You Pick Your Wedding Party?58:06 - How Can We Have Energy For The Bedroom That Night?59:43 - Did Either Of Us Experience Guilt Trips From Our Families During Planning?1:02:16 - What Did We Do For A Gift Registry?1:03:37 - Did We Have A Honeymoon?1:04:11 - What Did Guests Compliment The Most?1:04:21 - What's Something You Wish You'd Had On Hand?1:04:39 - If You Could Have A Do Over, Would You Do Anything Differently?1:05:35 - Which Anniversary Do You Celebrate?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down Hometown week.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!- Go to https://www.talkspace.com and use code SHANDY to get $100 off your first month of therapy!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 35% off all bedding and loungewear!0:00 - Housekeeping0:34 - Overall Thoughts on Episode 82:13 - Susie's Hometown 11:34 - Gabby's Hometown32:43 - Serene's Hometown52:46 - Rachel's Hometown1:07:56 - Back In Los Angeles1:08:52 - Rose Ceremony1:09:57 - Shandy Word Watch1:12:30 - Shandy's PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there *ever* a case to be made for keeping the engagement ring after the relationship ends? Is a DWI an absolute dealbreaker, or should one focus instead on the honesty in revealing it? And is it cause for concern if your new boyfriend reveals he misses his ex's family? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!0:00 - Q1: After A Broken Engagement, Should The Woman *Always* Return The Ring, Regardless Of Circumstance?6:40 - Q2: Is A Recent DWI A Dealbreaker?18:01 - Q3: Should I Still Make The Guy Chase If The First "Date" Was Virtual?39:10 - Q4: I've Been With My Partner For 11 Years But Still Wonder About Our Mutual Friend With Whom I've Had An Emotional Affair56:42 - Q5: My New Boyfriend Is 6 Months Out Of A 6-Year Relationship And Has Expressed Missing Parts Of That Life—Should I Be Concerned?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode7.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.stance.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.thefab.co/shandy for 25% off Fabulous Premium!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY to cancel unwanted subscriptions and save $$$ with one tap!0:00 - Housekeeping2:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 73:12 - Episode 7 Kick Off6:08 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party12:54 - Rose Ceremony15:45 - Vienna, Austria20:52 - Susie's 1-On-127:02 - Group Date56:58 - Serene's 1-On-11:01:44 - Rose Ceremony1:04:43 - Shandy Word Watch1:06:30 - Shandy's PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Bachelor Nation's most iconic women, Krystal Nielson and her partner, Miles Bowles!You may remember Krystal from Arie's season of The Bachelor and season 5 of Bachelor In Paradise. We learn how Krystal and Miles balance each other out, how parenthood has changed their lifestyle, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game with questionable scoring but sufficient entertainment to make it A-OK. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!More Krystal:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachkrystal_Website: https://www.krystalnielson.comMore Miles:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/milesbowlesPül Smartcap: https://www.instagram.com/pulhydrationIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 to get up to 14 free meals, plus 3 free gifts!0:00 - Housekeeping2:29 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 65:29 - Episode 6 Kick Off (2-On-1 Date Resumes)25:02 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party30:19 - Rose Ceremony32:39 - Hvar, Croatia35:42 - Teddi's 1-On-142:40 - Group Date55:43 - The Clocktower "Date Card"57:51 - The Next Day59:46 - Sarah's "1-On-1"1:06:38 - Credits1:07:23 - Shandy Word Watch1:09:24 - Shandy's PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Anna, newly single and looking to mingle. Her casual fling was great while it lasted, but things have taken a turn. Does this guy think he played a role in her career-driven move? Watch on for the Shandy take!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.Thanks to our sponsors:- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to get 40% off your first 3 months of premium CBD delivered directly to your door!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month!0:00 - Housekeeping1:25 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 52:18 - Episode 5 Kick Off5:10 - Serene's 1-On-115:37 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party34:44 - Rose Ceremony36:04 - They're Going To Toronto!36:51 - Toronto39:46 - Gabby's 1-On-148:19 - Group Date1:04:07 - 2-On-1 Date1:05:15 - Shandy Word Watch1:06:47 - Shandy's PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Are you waiting for The One to finally begin living your life? Or are you in a partnership so comfy you've lost sight of your own individuality? Today we're joined by John Kim, aka The Angry Therapist, to discuss how singledom is more opportunity than pitfall.John Kim is a licensed marriage and family therapist, life coach, best-selling author, and host of The Angry Therapist podcast. His latest book, Single. On Purpose. helps you prioritize your relationship with yourself, with or without a partner, and is available now.Thanks to our sponsor:- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 35% off all bedding and loungewear!More JohnInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/theangrytherapistBlog - https://angrytherapist.medium.comYoutube - https://www.youtube.com/user/theangrytherapistIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 35% off all bedding and loungewear!- Go to https://shop.analuisa.com/SHANDY for up to 40% off your jewelry purchase!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!0:00 - Housekeeping0:53 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 42:28 - Episode 4 Kick-Off3:18 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party21:43 - Rose Ceremony34:09 - Rachel’s 1-On-147:39 - The Next Day 50:14 - Group Date 1:02:06 - Credits1:04:33 - Shandy Word Watch1:07:01 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If the guy you're into goes radio silent, is is possible to salvage things? Is it possible a few years of experience could turn an ex from a bad lover into a good one? And what are Shandy's thoughts on a sexless marriage of 8 years? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 to get up to 16 free meals, plus 3 free gifts!0:00 - Q1: I'm 23 And Stuck In A Cycle Of Situationships—Should I Take Myself Off The Market For Now?12:21 - Q2: My Crush Has Gone Radio Silent—What's My Next Move?25:36 - Q3: I Have Anxiety Over Interacting With My Ex-Best Friend At An Upcoming Wedding—Am I Overreacting?33:14 - Q4: I Have Been In A Sexless Marriage For 8 Years—Give Me Guidance!55:01 - Q5: My Longtime Friend And Ex Was Bad In Bed Then But It's Been Years—Is It Worth Risking The Friendship To Pursue Romance Again?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY to cancel unwanted subscriptions and save $$$ with one tap!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://shop.analuisa.com/SHANDY for 10% off your jewelry purchase!- Go to https://www.thefab.co/shandy for 25% off Fabulous Premium!0:00 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 31:18 - Cassidy's FWB-Gate, Continued15:59 - Rose Ceremony26:06 - Group Date #135:52 - Sarah's 1-On-158:21 - Group Date #21:13:53 - Shandy Word Watch1:16:29 - Shandy's PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Sharleen's closest Bachelor Nation friends, Jacqueline Trumbull, and her fiancé Paul Seli!You may remember Jacqueline from Arie's season, where she, like Sharleen, withdrew in Week 7. She and Paul are both in psychology (Jacqueline is a PhD student at Duke University, where Paul is a professor of Psychology and Neuroscience), so needless to say, there's fun analysis of relationship dynamics in today's conversation. We learn how Paul overcame jealousy in the early stages, how their psychology backgrounds play a role in their relationship, and their thoughts on The One. Finally, a real nail-biter of a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://shop.analuisa.com/SHANDY for 10% off your jewelry purchase!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!More Jacqueline:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trumbullinaA Little Help For Our Friends Podcast:https://www.alittlehelpforourfriends.com/episodes.htmlMore Paul:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.seli.artIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers. Our first caller, Lisa, is in the very early stages of dating a guy who seems accompanied by red flags. Should she end things before she gets invested, or is it too soon to throw away the first "butterflies" she's felt in awhile? Our second caller, Danielle, is an introvert in a relationship with a full-blown extrovert, and she feels their differences in this regard could be causing a red flag. Should she attempt change her ways or does this speak to a deeper problem? Watch on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to get 35% off all bedding and loungewear!0:00 - Welcome to caller Lisa!34:42 - Shandy Takeaways42:56 - Welcome to caller Danielle!1:09:20 - Shandy TakeawaysIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to get 35% off all bedding and loungewear!- Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription, plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY14 and use code SHANDY14 to get up to 14 free meals, plus 3 free gifts!0:00 - Housekeeping1:20 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 22:34 - Episode 2 Kick Off5:50 - Group Date #131:15 - Susie's 1-On-137:08 - Group Date #254:24 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party1:07:53 - Shandy Word Watch1:10:10 - Shandy's PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there such a thing as the "right" number of dates in the early stages? What does it mean when a coworker flirts but never makes a move? And how can we protect a new relationship from growing annoyances? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Q1: In The Early Stages, How Many Dates A Week Is "Normal"?Q2: I'm Interested In The Housemate Of A Guy Friend I Used To Date—How Should I Proceed?Q3: My Coworker Is Very Flirty But Never Asks Me Out! How Do I Get Him To Make An Actual Move?Q4: My Ex-Fiancée Broke My Heart But Is Still Keeping Tabs On Me Online—Can I Reopen The Lines Of Communication?Q5: My Partner Has A Very Annoying Habit—Help!Referenced book:Breakup Bootcamp by Amy Chan - https://amzn.to/3xiCCDfIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY to cancel unwanted subscriptions and save $$$ with one tap!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5!- Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to get 40% off your first 3 months of membership, plus free shipping!0:00 - Housekeeping1:55 - Overall Thoughts On Clayton's Season Premiere2:42 - Clayton Surprises His Mom7:14 - Jesse Palmer8:13 - Getting To Know Clayton11:46 - Intro Videos20:34 - Salley26:39 - Andy's Burning Question28:53 - Shandy's Limo Exit Wins And Fails36:11 - Clayton's Toast36:54 - Notable 1-On-1 Time53:05 - First Impression Rose53:57 - Rose Ceremony56:37 - Shandy Word Watch58:53 - Shandy's Predictions1:04:42 - Wild CardsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In keeping with tradition, we're doing something a little different to ring in the New Year. This topic has been requested for awhile now, so today, inspired by Episode 1 (How We Met) and Episode 21 (Our Proposal Story), we're doing another throwback! We're going back in time to January 2015 thru September 2017, to what happened after Andy proposed. Listen on to hear why we waited 2.5 years for a wedding, what expenses got out of hand, how "influencer"-dom played a role, "The Moment" that made it all worthwhile, and in retrospect, what we would have done differently!0:00 - Introduction2:35 - City Hall5:33 - Considering A Wedding10:23 - Choosing A Venue14:15 - Postponing14:54 - Deciding To Hire A Planner15:38 - The "Influencer Wedding"20:49 - Thoughts On Having A Planner21:43 - The Dress34:10 - Tasting35:23 - The Cake35:33 - Our Cake Topper36:31 - The Dress, Continued38:06 - Wedding Day41:02 - The Big Reveal42:37 - Our City Hall Officiant43:57 - "The Most Important Day In Your Life"46:03 - Wedding Day, Continued46:47 - The Ceremony50:11 - Cocktail Hour/Reception50:38 - The Moment53:50 - Wedding Favors54:06 - Jewish Traditions54:30 - In Retrospect: Regrets, Surprises, Things We're Happy About1:08:48 - Overall TakeawaysIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down the finale.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.magicspoon.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $5 off!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're thrilled to be joined by the power couple behind The East Family Youtube and media empire, Shawn Johnson East and Andrew East! Shawn and Andrew share the behind-the-scenes of how they met, how they complement each other, their early relationship hurdles, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!More Shawn:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shawnjohnsonTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnsonMore Andrew:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andrewdeastTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewdeastRedirected Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redirected/id1366095841More Shawn & Andrew:The East Family Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ15Zl-v8-ghTgEOTpxHdGwCouple Things Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/couple-things-with-shawn-and-andrew/id1485740243Uniqorn Coffee: https://uniqorncoffee.comTeddy & Bear Toy Shop: https://www.instagram.com/teddyandbearkidsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.magicspoon.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $5 off!- Go to https://www.rothys.com/SHANDY for $20 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to get 35% off all bedding and loungewear!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today's caller, Anna, was broken up with exactly one week before this call. However, instead of being able to sever ties with her ex, she has a complicated hurdle to overcome: custody of their dog, Zeke. Should Anna honor her ex's wishes for shared custody, even if it means hindering her healing from this fresh breakup? Watch on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://franklyapparel.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $20 off your first order!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and sign up for free to book a top-rated doctor!- Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY to cancel unwanted subscriptions and save $$$ with one tap!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today we're diving deep into a topic you've been requesting since Dear Shandy's earliest days: Enmeshment. We're joined by psychotherapist Alyssa Mancao to define this dynamic, how to navigate it, and when and how to set boundaries. This conversation also spawns a lot of interesting tangents on subtopics ranging from culture norms to differentiating between irritation and impairment.Alyssa Mancao is a psychotherapist and the founder of Alyssa Marie Wellness, a therapy practice in Los Angeles. She is a writer, speaker, and educator focused on Social Justice & Mental Health. Her writing has been featured in Huffington Post, Elle, Women’s Health, Oprah Magazine, and Re-Spin, among many others.More AlyssaInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/alyssamariewellnessThanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to get 35% off all bedding and loungewear!- Go to https://www.betterhelp.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first month of therapy!- Go to https://www.manscaped.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off + free shipping!Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your FWB relationship is firmly in the past, should you still tell your current partner about it? How important is it to have a social life outside of one's relationship? And how reasonable an excuse is "bad timing"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Q1: My Partner Wants To Replace Our Planned Couple Getaway With Yet Another Annual Family Visit—Am I Being Difficult?Q2: My Boyfriend And I Are In A Healthy Long-term Relationship But We Both Don't Have Any Close Friends—Is This Normal?Q3: Should I Tell My New Partner About My Former Friend Group FWB?Q4: My Boyfriend Insists That I Should Change My Name If We Get Married But I Love My Name—Thoughts?Q5: My Ex And I Ended On Bad Terms And I Want To Tell My Story But It Involves Sharing A Secret Of His—Right Or Wrong?Q6: The Guy I've Been Hooking Up With Blames "Timing" For Us Not Making It Official—Is This BS?Referenced book (with the pie chart):Breakup Bootcamp by Amy Chan - https://amzn.to/3xiCCDfSharleen's blog post about not changing her name:http://www.alltheprettypandas.com/blog/2016/to-change-or-not-to-changeIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.magicspoon.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $5 off!- Go to https://www.postmates.com (or use the app!) and use code SHANDY to get 50% off your first 5 orders of $50 or more!- Go to https://franklyapparel.com/SHANDY for $20 off your first order!Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Sarah Herron (who you may remember from Sean Lowe's season of The Bachelor, as well as the 1st and 3rds seasons of Bachelor In Paradise) and her fiancé, award-winning photographer and videographer Dylan Brown. These two join us from Colorado to share how first impressions may not be what they seem, how they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a neck-and-neck Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsor - HELLO TUSHY! Visit http://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off and free shipping on your Hello Tushy bidet!More Sarah and DylanInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarahherronInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dylan.h.brownIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to get 35% off all bedding and loungewear!Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Caller Day! Today's caller, Claire, is in a happy relationship. However, her boyfriend's sister is rude in small ways. Are these slights a matter of obliviousness, dominance, or maturity? And is confronting her the right path? Can we *ever* hope for genuine harmony with our partner's family? Watch on for the Shandy take!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.postmates.com (or use the app!) and use code SHANDY to get 50% off your first 5 orders of $50 or more!- Go to https://www.betterhelp.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first month of therapy!Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's topic came hotly requested and we're thrilled to be joined by a familiar face: Whitney Bischoff Angel, winner of The Bachelor Season 19! As an experienced fertility nurse, as well as a woman who has gone through the egg freezing process herself, Whitney is more than qualified to answer the Shandies' burning fertility questions!Whitney shares the leading contributing factors to infertility, whether or not the age 35 is overblown as being THE age when fertility begins to drop, the step-by-step process of egg freezing (as well as the cost!), and her thoughts on the media's messaging around fertility in general. Whitney really is a wealth of knowledge and this conversation was both so enjoyable AND informative for us. We hope you think so, too!More Whitney Bischoff AngelInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/whitb624Ova Clinic - https://ovaeggfreezing.com/Thanks to our sponsor!- Go to https://www.manscaped.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off + free shipping!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Please note this episode contains spoilers about the next Bachelor—refer to time stamps below.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to get 35% off all bedding and loungewear!- Go to https://www.manscaped.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off + free shipping!0:00 - Episode 3 Kick-Off1:44 - Group Date #127:35 - Bachelor Spoiler Warning - Skip To Next Section28:12 - Resume Here30:36 - Rodney's 1-on-145:01 - Group Date #249:55 - Bachelor Spoiler Warning - Skip To Next Section50:00 - Resume Here1:03:43 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party1:16:17 - Rose Ceremony1:18:31 - Shandy Word Watch1:20:43 - Shandy's PredictionsSharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Why might a guy disappear after sex? If you want to rekindle with an ex, or "double dip", where's the line between following your heart and being cavalier with someone's feelings? And "number ratings": uncomfortable truth or unnecessarily cruel? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Q1: Did He Hit It And Quit It?Q2: The Guy I'm Seeing Rated Me A "7 Or 8"—Is He For Real?Q3: Living Together Led To Our Breakup, But Now That He's Moved Out, I Want Him Back. Do I Have A Chance?Q4: My Longtime Gym Crush Hasn't Made A Move—How Should I Proceed?Q5: My Ex From Several Years Back Is Single And I Feel I've Made It Clear I'm Interested Again—Thoughts?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevinePrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.rothys.com/SHANDY for $20 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.postmates.com and use code SHANDY for 50% off your first 5 orders of $50 or more!Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.- Sharleen's Bachelor recap archives:http://www.alltheprettypandas.com/bachelor- Sharleen's Bachelor glossary:http://www.alltheprettypandas.com/glossaryIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.