Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Dating in today's landscape can be intimidating. Gone are the days of being introduced to your person through family or friends as nowadays people are more and more likely to meet online. The world of dating apps is big, and without a concrete plan, you may feel like you're out in the wilderness. This week, Kimmy speaks with an authority on how to navigate dating online, Dawoon Kang, the co-founder and Chief Dating Officer of popular dating app Coffee Meets Bagel. EPISODE 209 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating Virtual Dating: Interview With Coffee Meets Bagel Dating Expert Kimmy and Dawoon dive into Dawoon's experience going on hundreds of first dates and how that informed her work at Coffee Meets Bagel. Dating smarter (not harder!) means diversifying your options by socializing with other single people, trying new things, and getting out of your comfort zone, which includes a healthy relationship with the apps. Dawoon and Kimmy talk through why it's so important not to begin your dating journey by focusing on finding "the one" but instead, focusing on how you feel with the other person. These two geek out about the science behind great, long-lasting relationships and what signals to look out for online to see if you and your date are compatible. Tune in to hear the biggest red flags you should watch out for to tell if a dating profile is real or fake. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that your dating profile can be a space curated to showcase your authentic self. You can signal to others who you are and what you want by choosing flattering photos, and sharing personal information that showcases what matters to you. Find out how to focus on the story, not the facts, in a profile and why you'll get better results by doing that. If you are tired of numbing out and swiping through people who you don't see a real connection with, get in touch with Kimmy for a complimentary, 30-minute call to map out a dating plan here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough One call can set you on the path to clarifying what you're looking for and even tips on how to date smarter. EPISODE 209 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating Virtual Dating: Interview With Coffee Meets Bagel Dating Expert. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with current and former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what's changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Maricus, who is starting his dating journey for the first time since leaving his marriage and finding himself in the process. EPISODE 208 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Discovering Yourself After A Breakup: Where Are They Now With Maricus Kimmy and Maricus dive in by talking about how his marriage to his ex-wife was lopsided. If you're like Maricus, chances are you've spent a lot of time focusing on what others want and not a lot of time considering what you want. This conversation touches on strategies to ensure that your needs are met, especially if you don't have a lot of dating experience under your belt. And, you'll expand your definition of what dating is all about! You don't need to date with the intention of getting into a relationship, you can date in order to expand your social skills and get to know how you show up and how you want others to show up for you. You'll hear how through working with Kimmy, Maricus was able to come out of his shell, find his confident voice and be more true to who he is in order to find potential partners. Plus, Maricus tells stories about how he's been able to put himself out there more through meetups and getting out of his comfort zone, which has led to him making new connections with new people where he lives. Stay tuned to hear about the new relationship Maricus is in and how it's totally different than anything he's been in before. If Maricus's experience resonated with you and you have been hesitant about reaching out to speak with someone to get your love life on track, listen in to hear his advice about how to get started. When you're ready to take the next step whether that's strengthening your relationship with yourself, your personal confidence, or forging new love relationships, get in touch with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough One phone call could be the difference between you staying stuck and you moving forward and finding the fulfilling relationship you've always wanted. EPISODE 208 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Discovering Yourself After A Breakup: Where Are They Now With Maricus. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

How do you care for yourself? Nurturing yourself and taking care of your needs is an essential part of being the best version of yourself. This week, Kimmy has an introspective conversation with Dr. Gertrude Lyons, a life coach, speaker, podcast host of Rewrite The Mother Code, and self-described mothering revolutionary. This week, Kimmy and Gertrude invite you to think about the art of mothering in all its' forms, regardless of your gender. This episode is all about how to mother and nurture yourself and attract the kind of love you want. EPISODE 207 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mother Yourself To Attract Love: Interview with Dr. Gertrude Lyons Gertrude talks about her family upbringing and early career discovering her love of connecting with people and how it led her to find her core self through the years. If you're a highly analytical and high-achieving person like Gertrude, it's even more important to tap into your emotional side so you can connect on a deeper level with the people you date. Kimmy and Gertrude talk about the concept of mothering as a way to foster a healthy sense of self-love without feeling selfish so that you attract more reciprocity in your interactions. Listen in to hear why securing support and accountability is the best decision you can make when it comes to nurturing your relationship with yourself. You'll hear tips on naming emotions as you feel them so you can better express yourself and gain self-awareness. This conversation will remind you to look at your love journey as a process to grow through. These two experts review some real, practical tips to help you develop the self-care you need to create a healthy relationship with yourself and others. If you listen to this and you are struck with knowing you are focusing too much on others and want to learn how to empower yourself to attract love, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out a strategy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Remember, working on yourself is working on your dating life! EPISODE 207 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mother Yourself To Attract Love: Interview with Dr. Gertrude Lyons. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever felt like you were just dating the same person over and over again? Even though you've been working on yourself and listening to podcasts (like this one!), you still can't seem to break free from experiencing the same patterns. This week, Kimmy is going to help you tackle some issues you may not have been able to see before. Listen in to hear her Top 5 Love Shields that may be preventing you from finding the one. EPISODE 206 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Things That Block You From Love You'll learn time-tested techniques to help you look inward and determine what you can do to start attracting a different kind of a person into your life. When you mirror the kind of partner you want to be with, you'll connect more deeply with the kind of people you are seeking. The more you know yourself and show up as your authentic self (quirks included!) the more you'll be able to set the standard you desire in a relationship. This empowering episode will show you that you cannot change or control others, you can only change yourself. Kimmy delivers some tough love in this episode with tips and tricks that will help you determine if you are conflating reality with fantasy in your dating life. Listen in to hear how fear can create habits that keep you from getting hurt. Learn how taking risks and going outside your comfort zone will help you have an experience or create an opportunity to meet someone you never would have otherwise. If you recognize that you are being held back by your fears and you need help seeing past your own barriers, book a free call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Your first half an hour with Kimmy is complimentary to see if you could benefit from working with her to crack your love code! Also, Kimmy will be in NYC in September and is opening up 1-2 slots for private coaching and possibly a small group gathering. If you are interested, inquire at Askkimmy.com for more info to apply. EPISODE 206 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Things That Block You From Love The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In these episodes, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with her clients to find out how their life has changed since working with her, and the secrets to their success. Today, you'll meet Meredith, who found Kimmy on a friend's recommendation and now has completely changed her story and has found love. EPISODE 205 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Vulnerability Attracted Love: Where Are They Now With Meredith Meredith dives in by sharing what she struggled within dating. From uncovering habits and behaviors tied to growing up in a household where emotions were not shared to dating men who gaslit her and invalidated her needs, Meredith was ready to make a drastic shift. Listen in to hear how she came to the realization that she could make different choices and start seeing different results. If you have ever felt like you were too broken or had too much baggage to deserve a happy, healthy and fulfilling relationship, this episode is for you. And if you're like Meredith, you may have unconsciously been creating some of the conflict you were desperately trying to avoid by people pleasing and worrying about everyone else's needs before your own. Kimmy and Meredith break down the key factors in the coaching process that led to breakthroughs for Meredith -- in love and at work! This conversation is a beautiful reminder that what shows up in one area of your life often leaks into other areas, including business. And, listen in to hear the words that helped Meredith feel valued and seen for her authentic self, not who she used to try to be to impress the guys. Stay tuned to hear Meredith's incredible story of how her new relationship has blossomed from a totally unexpected place! Hopefully, some of the insights from Meredith's journey to discover self-love, confidence and the power of saying no will resonate with you! You can change your story with just one call to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Just like she was for Meredith, Kimmy can be a built-in accountability partner to guide you and keep you on track to work on your love life. EPISODE 205 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Vulnerability Attracted Love: Where Are They Now With Meredith. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Does the idea of confronting conflict in a relationship make you cringe? Would you rather avoid sharing your true feelings because you're afraid that sharing how you feel will cause more problems? If this sounds like you, tune in to hear Kimmy's interview with David Wood. David runs the world's largest coaching business for high-performing entrepreneurs, is the celebrated author of Get Paid for Who You Are, and is an expert in having tough conversations. EPISODE 204 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Tough Conversations To Improve Your Love Life: Interview With David Wood If you have ever decided not to speak up because you were afraid that communicating your truth would damage a new or existing relationship, this conversation is for you. Listen in to hear Kimmy and David talk through David's method to reduce fear when having hard conversations. David shares one powerful question that will help you clearly see the upside to sharing your true feelings. Addressing conflicts with others can feel quite intimidating, but rest assured that you don't need all the answers upfront. When you engage in a discussion with someone else, clarifying your goals or what you might want from the other person can help demystify this process and make it easier to get started. David and Kimmy discuss the possible effects of conflict avoidance, which might surprise you! When you are armed with a strategy to address conflict in a healthy way, you will be more able to express yourself and get what you want. This episode will show you that you do not need to modify your behavior just to please someone else. Listen in until the end to hear David breakdown exactly how to structure your next tough conversation. If YOU are avoiding hard conversations in your life and it's preventing you from finding an intimate relationship or the right partner, get in touch with Kimmy and find a time to chat to give you the plan and courage to do so: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. EPISODE 204 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Tough Conversations To Improve Your Love Life: Interview With David Wood. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

When was the last time you truly leveled up? Are you comfortable where you are right now or are you ready for the next level in your love life? This week Kimmy interviews an expert in reaching the next level of success, Joe Sanok. He's a keynote and TEDx speaker, business consultant, and hosts the #1 podcast for counselors, The Practice of the Practice Podcast. EPISODE 203 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Leveling Up Your Career & Love Life: Interview With Joe Sanok Joe dives in to talk about how he set out on a career path that ended up differently than he ever expected. He talks through how he moved out of a conformity mindset from doing what was expected of him to forging his own path and the challenges that came along the way. If you have arrived at a place in your life where you're seeking more happiness and fulfillment in your love relationships, listen in to hear the surprising concept Joe introduces that will change the way you think about rejection. This conversation is a reminder that in order to progress in dating (or in anything!) you have to rise out of your comfort zone and the ONLY way to do this is practice. Listen in to hear two concrete tips on how to combat the fear of failure that we all have. Joe and Kimmy talk about the power of setting small, achievable goals that you can take action to accomplish with the intention to make things easier for yourself. And, Joe and Kimmy break down the signs that you ARE actually pushing past your comfort zone into the next level you're seeking. When you lean into your curiosity and actively seek experiences that challenge your current mindsets, you're on the right path. If you want to reach a new goal in your love life and need support transcending your comfort zone, reach out to Kimmy and set a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. It's free, it's 30-minutes and at the end, you'll leave with a new perspective and a road map towards accomplishing your goals. EPISODE 203 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Leveling Up Your Career & Love Life: Interview With Joe Sanok. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

What does it mean to embrace your feminine power? Are you open to receiving, letting men earn you, and learning to flow in your feminine energy? This week on the podcast, Kimmy interviews Petia Kolibuva, a women's transformation coach who helps her clients release what is holding them back so they can become the loving, nurturing, powerful women they've always dreamed of being. If you are struggling with giving off masculine energy or constantly being in work mode in your dating life, listen in! This conversation will deliver you some of the key factors to gaining a new sense of femininity without giving off the "wrong" impression. EPISODE 202 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Using Feminine Flow To Attract The One: Interview With Petia Kolibova Petia shares a vulnerable personal story about the struggles she experienced in her youth and how she emerged from that darkness into feeling that she was deserving of abundance and happiness in her life. If you're like Petia, you may have grown up on the offensive, feeling as if you had to fight or protect yourself from people and situations. Stay tuned to hear how you can begin to break down your masculine habits and build softer, feminine ones. Kimmy and Petia walk through some of the steps that you can take to identify limiting beliefs that you may have that are blocking you from embracing your truth. This episode will redefine your perception of feminine energy as everything from softening your approach, to reconnecting with nature, to being open to receiving to being more present. Kimmy talks through the important distinction between being "sexy" and truly being "in your feminine" while commanding respect in every aspect of your life. Petia leads an exercise in breathwork to remind us what is in and out of our control. If you are looking to embrace your feminine side and have no idea where to start, Kimmy can help! As always, you can sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with her here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In one short call you could walk away with concrete tips on how to be more in your feminine to attract the kind of partner you're seeking. Also, inquire about her exclusive 6-week class coming up called Get Your Sexy Back. This interactive and fun coaching program will teach you how to look and feel attractive, desirable and feminine so that you capture a man's interest no matter who you are with and where you go. If you are interested in attending go to askkimmy.com EPISODE 202 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Using Feminine Flow To Attract The One: Interview With Petia Kolibova. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you flirt intentionally to capture someone's eye? Flirting is one of the most common challenges people face when dating. If you're not a confident flirt, chances are you're holding back because you don't want to come off as cheesy, unintelligent or give someone the wrong impression. On today's show, you'll learn the *REAL* definition of flirting and hear Kimmy coach Keren, a travel nurse who's had some bad luck in relationships and wants to get back out there but worries because she doesn't know how to flirt. EPISODE 201 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting With Intention: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy asks Keren about her interpretation of flirting and digs into what about it feels uncomfortable. If you have ever felt nervous, anxious or repelled from flirting in the past, this conversation will help shift your perspective about what flirting is so that it's fun and intentional. Keren and Kimmy talk about approaching flirting and dating from a proactive place, as opposed to a reactive place. You'll hear about Keren's upbringing in a big family where learning and observing were valued and how that plays into her current dating life. If you are like Keren, a high achiever who is often focused on doing the *right* thing, this episode will help you let go of the outcome a bit more and just focus on being purposely playful while staying present. Listen in for Kimmy's expert tips about the science of flirting, how being direct is more effective than being ambiguous and how to put out the right smoke signals to let people know you're open and interested in making connections. With such a demanding job, one of the biggest challenges in dating for Keren is her schedule. With being so busy, Kimmy talks to Keren about dating herself and practicing getting comfortable speaking with men without the intention of getting into a relationship. This episode stresses the importance of practicing with baby steps and not getting ahead of things. If you're like Keren and bite size assignments motivate you and are hitting a roadblock in flirting, Kimmy can support you on your journey! In just one 30-minute conversation, you might see your love life in a new way. Book your time here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And, Kimmy is launching a brand new program just for women called, Get Your Sexy Back! To find out more, go to askkimmy.com and drop her a note mentioning you're interested. Space will be limited so sign up now to get on the priority list and get your sexy back! And if you just want to start with the bite size assignment, you can Awaken Your Feminine Energy to be sexy, flirty and confident with Kimmy's new FREE dating video series by just signing up here awakenyourfeminine.com. There is NO excuse to not inquire about any of these opportunities to get you going. EPISODE 201 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting With Intention: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

This week on the Charisma Quotient, we're celebrating 200 episodes! Over the years, we've heard stories from women and men all over the world around their journey to grow, work on themselves and find love. Today's show is about honoring the process of dating, finding success in each dating phase and learning to love each step for its challenges and gifts. EPISODE 200 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Dating To Finding Love: Special 200th Episode Kimmy breaks down the three phases of dating and finding love: having fun during courtship, dating with consistency, and getting to a committed relationship. At each phase, she illuminates how people she's worked with have overcome challenges at each phase to move onto the next. You'll hear Kimmy's expert tips on how to boost your self-esteem and love yourself in each phase from dating to a committed relationship. Learn how dating can be fun when you let yourself be playful, flirtatious and curious in the courting phase and how to be vulnerable and emotionally available to sustain a healthy relationship. Stay tuned to catch up with amazing women, Harpreet and Molly, who first joined the show on Where Are They Now episodes after finding success in dating. And, stick around to hear a special bonus interview and announcement from Jane who's worked with Kimmy to help make connections, build her confidence and help her find the love she always wanted! No matter where you are in your dating phase, Kimmy can help you reach the next step in your love journey! Find a time to chat with Kimmy for free for 30 minutes https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And you can Awaken Your Feminine Energy and be sexy and confident with Kimmy's new FREE dating video series by just signing up here awakenyourfeminine.com. Maybe you'll be next in celebrating a love milestone before you know it! EPISODE 200 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Dating To Finding Love: Special 200th Episode. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you know if you are marketing yourself so that you attract the right partner? It's not about changing who you are, it's about marketing yourself well to create the right opportunity to find love. This week on the show, Kimmy interviews Steve Werner a webinar, presentation and event expert and founder of Monetize Your Tribe. Steve jumps in to share his story about how he went from knowing very little about marketing events to becoming a go-to authority in his space on how to market and present yourself successfully. EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Marketing Yourself To Attract Love: Interview With Steve Werner Kimmy and Steve have a lively, fun conversation that pinpoints the truth that making genuine connections with others is not about what you do or what's on your resume, it's all about if you can get someone to know, like, and trust the real you. Listen in to hear all about how telling personal stories is one of the best ways to make authentic connections with others and put your best foot forward every time. If you're not too sure where to start, stay tuned to hear an amazing tip from Steve about how to use descriptive words to catch someone's attention. Kimmy and Steve dig into storytelling as a method to safely express vulnerability, and how men and women tend to experience it differently. If you're having trouble maintaining conversations on dates and want a few tricks you can try the next time you're out, this is the episode for you! Plus, Steve shares some secrets about superheroes and well-known TV characters that translate into patterns we see in dating and love. If you find yourself getting in your head on dates you'll want to hear concrete tips on how to avoid oversharing and emotionally connect in a genuine way. As we begin to reenter the world, you may have started to notice social anxiety popping up around dating and socializing. Click HERE to hop on a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kimmy, who can help you create a plan to put yourself out there with confidence. And, Kimmy is announcing a brand new FREE video series called Awaken Your Feminine Energy that is packed with actionable tips and exercises on how to give good conversation, upgrade your body language and flirting skills so you can show up as the best version of you in your dating life. All you have to do to sign up is click this link and you'll be IN awakenyourfeminine.com EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Marketing Yourself To Attract Love: Interview With Steve Werner. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you have a tendency to attract narcissists? Have you noticed that your dates aren't genuinely curious about who you are? Do your relationships feel amazing at first and then fizzle out just as quickly as they began? This week on the Charisma Quotient, you'll hear Kimmy live coach Christina, who has noticed a pattern of attracting narcissists in her love life. As an army veteran, olympian and veterinarian, Christina has accomplished so much and is committed to regaining trust in herself after two failed relationships with narcissists. EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Free From Attracting Narcissists: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy and Christina dive in to talk about Christina's dating history and the toll that her previous relationships have taken on her trust in herself and her outlook on dating. As a self-proclaimed PhD in detecting narcissists, Christina shares her struggle of letting go of her fears due to her knowledge she has and the PTSD she had experienced in these toxic relationships. Listen in as Kimmy calls Christina out on how she has been getting in her head too much trying to diagnose her dates to protect herself from getting hurt again. If you identify as an empath or highly sensitive person like Christina, this episode is for you. Kimmy shares several strategies on how you can maintain your confidence through caring for others, while still ensuring that your own needs are prioritized. You'll hear about the pink and red flags to look out for in order to set behavioral boundaries on dates and how to not get attached to the outcome so you can notice how your date responds to you. And, if you have a tendency to overshare, especially early on in dating, you'll hear some great tips to keep the conversation light, while still leading with your feelings and playfulness. If you are continually attracting narcissists and you want to know what you can do to start seeing different results book a call with Kimmy directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. It's completely free to you, and in just 30 minutes you could walk away with a new outlook and strategies that get you closer to what you truly want. Also, inquire about her exclusive 6-week class coming up in July called Get Your Sexy Back. This interactive and fun coaching program will teach you how to look and feel attractive, desirable and feminine so that you capture a man's interest no matter who you are with and where you go. If you are interested in attending go to askkimmy.com. EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Free From Attracting Narcissists: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Most of us recognize that networking is an essential part of advancing in business or a career. But, have you considered using networking to create opportunities to date and find love? The more well connected you are, the more opportunities you'll have to meet someone you might never have otherwise. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Amber Spears, recognized as a well-connected industry leader, entrepreneur, and Internet Marketing Expert who helps companies develop and optimize their sales and online marketing strategies through networking. EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Networking: Interview With Amber Spears Amber dives in by sharing how she started her current business and how networking has been integral to her success now. Kimmy connects Amber's story to the fact that building a robust network in your professional life can also serve your love life. You'll hear about the pitfalls many people fall into, including being too target-specific looking for their soulmate. Listen in to hear the two key factors in creating a strong relationship where people truly get to know, like and trust you. If you are working on being more present in your conversations, this episode will show you the incredible power of getting curious with everyone you meet. Then, Amber shares a powerful personal story about making the leap from believing that she was only valuable to others based on how she helped their business, rather than who she is as a person. If you have fallen out with a group of friends who haven't served you or have been blind-sighted by what others thought of you, this episode will help you. Kimmy and Amber talk through some of the steps that Amber took in order to raise her self-worth and demand the kind of respect she knew she deserved. Listen in to hear tips on how to transform what at first was a negative experience into a powerful growth moment for yourself. Finally, you'll hear some incredible insight from Amber about how investing in your success for love and career can be a game-changer. When you commit to making a change in your life, you will start to see different results. If you are sick of only swiping right and left and want to build a dating network to attract the right potential partners, here's your first step. Book a time to have a free session with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. That one call could potentially change the course of your path to love by simply mapping out a plan to get there. EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Networking: Interview With Amber Spears. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever met someone and immediately jumped on an emotional roller coaster together? You had great chemistry and super high highs, but the lows were even lower. Before you knew it the relationship was over just as quickly as it started. If this sounds familiar, you've probably experienced a toxic relationship. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy shares five key steps to help you avoid getting involved in toxic relationships or "situation-ships" in your love life. EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Detox From Unhealthy Relationships: A Healthy Dating Diet Toxic relationships come in all shapes, sizes, and degrees. While every dynamic created by two people is different, there are some commonalities when it comes to toxic relationships that this episode will break down. Listen in to learn how to clearly see the signs of a toxic date from day one. If you find yourself always attracting narcissists, this episode will give you actionable ways to stop repeating that pattern. You'll get tips on the importance of setting boundaries early and often and how to hold yourself and others accountable. This episode will help you recognize your own unhealthy patterns and how to stop them by creating a healthy dating diet. If you want to start attracting reciprocal, growth-focused relationships in your life, it's easier than you think to get started. First, find out your dating archetype (like the Narcissist Magnet!) by listening to Kimmy's exclusive audio course, This May Be Why You Suck At Dating. https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer/. This course features conversations between Kimmy and women who fit each of her five dating archetypes. Purchase the course which you can access where you listen to podcasts to see which one aligns most with you and learn concrete action steps to find more success when dating. And, you can always find time to speak with Kimmy in a complimentary breakthrough call here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Now is the time to start to develop new, helpful habits that get you closer to what you want! EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Detox From Unhealthy Relationships: A Healthy Dating Diet. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you hiding your body because you're embarrassed about how you look? As summer approaches and your world might be opening up, you might be starting to think about looking your best and dressing for the warmer weather. Feeling attractive on the outside relates to how you feel inside and WILL affect your sexy dating confidence. If you're ready to improve your health and build a better relationship with your body image, listen in! This week, Kimmy interviews Malin Svensson, CEO and Founder of Nordic Body, Jane Fonda's fitness coach(!), and the author of Wake Up: Your Body and Mind After 50. EPISODE 197 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Awakening Your Body To Boost Dating Confidence: Interview With Malin Svensson Kimmy and Malin dive in to talk about the importance of developing a strong mindset in order to increase your physical strength and dating confidence -- at any age! Exercising is, of course, part of a healthy lifestyle, but this conversation will remind you not to focus on the scale. When you nourish your body and engage in movement, the more you will feel connected to your physical self which is an attraction magnet. The more connected you feel, the more present you'll be and the more you'll radiate confidence in all areas of your life, including love. Malin shares some super useful tips about how to motivate yourself to get moving if you're feeling stuck. One key takeaway you'll learn is that it's better to take on what you *can* do, rather than feeling pressure to attempt what you can't. Kimmy and Malin discuss how to take small steps to achieve little wins both in your health and dating life. Kimmy reviews a few tricks you can use with your mind and body to boost your dating confidence. If you are ready to build a more positive body image to increase your sexy confidence, sign up for a complimentary coaching session with Kimmy to get started. Book your time here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough Working on your love life IS working on you! Maybe revamping your closet is the best first step for you to get the motivation you need to find the love you truly deserve. EPISODE 197 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Awakening Your Body To Boost Dating Confidence: Interview With Malin Svensson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

It's no surprise to hear that making a good first impression is essential, especially when dating. In fact, it only takes 7 seconds now to make a first impression. So, what steps can you take to ensure you shine as your true self and attract the right kind of attention when you walk into a room or even on your dating profile? This week, Kimmy interviews Scott Carson, an investor, entrepreneur, marketer and host of the Note Closers Show Podcast. As a proven expert in building relationships in business, Scott knows a thing or two about creating an impact with a first impression. EPISODE 196 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson Kimmy and Scott recollect their first impressions of each other at the New Media Summer for podcasters more than a year ago. This conversation is packed with style and conversation tips you can use when getting ready for your next social event IRL. If you find yourself recycling the same drab, boring clothes over and over again, this episode is your sign it's time for a refresh! Listen in to hear about using color to ensure that you stand out in the crowd or leading with being of service to others in your first interaction to set the tone. Scott and Kimmy trade stories on good and bad first impressions that stuck out to them over the years both in love and business. If you have ever stood in front of your mirror and wondered, "Does this dress look good on me?" or, "Does this outfit reflect a sexy dating image?", listen in how you can improve your image. Before you have a chance to get to know someone on a deeper level, first impressions signal how much you care and can make or break the opportunity to get to know someone better. This lively, fun conversation will remind you to take the time to take care of yourself so that you can start attracting new love and opportunity. It's time to get out there and get noticed! If you really want to learn how to create a great first impression and get out of your pandemic clothes...get a virtual makeover with Kimmy! You'll learn about your body type, what clothes flatter your figure, what to stay away from and Kimmy will pick out outfits for your photoshoot, lifestyle and for dates so that you have the confidence you need to attract a potential date. Click here for more details http://bit.ly/KimVM And, there are still a few spots left for Kimmy's Ultimate Flirt Masterclass, going live TONIGHT at 5pM PST/8p EST. Claim yours while you still can and get the hands-on practice flirting you've been asking for! https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting EPISODE 196 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with current and former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what's changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Alexis, who has gone from struggling with her self-worth to surpassing her dating goals in just 3 short months! Since investing in coaching with Kimmy as a 5-year "divorce-iversary" present to herself, Alexis has made some majors strides in her dating life. EPISODE 195 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Sexy Confidence After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Alexis Alexis begins by sharing the fears that were holding her back from recognizing her self-worth and believing she was deserving of the cake, not just the crumbs! Alexis shares struggling to even get a date to not letting men earn her due to the lack of setting boundaries and not expressing her needs. You'll hear Alexis and Kimmy talk through how she increased her sexy, flirty and feminine confidence through working on her wardrobe, profile and mindset. Listen in to hear great tips about how to diversify the photos on your online dating profiles to showcase every side of you while still highlighting your sexy, feminine side. If you have done a lot of work to build your self-esteem and raise your self-worth, only to be knocked back a few steps after a few bad dates, you will definitely want to listen to this episode! You'll hear how Alexis went from battling her insecurities to now dating up a storm with great men. Old anxiety or troubles from your childhood or earlier dating and relationship experiences will always show up, but if you are equipped with a plan to combat those, you'll start to see success too, just like Alexis! Take the leap like Alexis did and schedule a complimentary call with Kimmy https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough And, who knows? Maybe you'll be sharing your story on another episode of Where Are They Now?! Plus, reserve your spot HERE https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting for Kimmy's new Ultimate Flirt Masterclass designed for women and men to create irresistible chemistry, stop feeling nervous when flirting and even get tips on how to put together the perfect date outfit. This is your chance to get hands-on practice out there in the dating world. Space is limited, sign up today! EPISODE 195 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Sexy Confidence After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Alexis. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

When you walk into a room for a social event or date, do you feel anxious and get in your head? You want to feel and come across as magnetic, confident, and secure so that you'll make a good impression. But after spending so much time apart from others, your social muscles might be atrophied or maybe you need to work on building them for the first time. This week, Kimmy interviews Robbie Kramer, an expert who specializes in cultivating social confidence and improving men's interactions and relationships from love to business and beyond. EPISODE 194 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Social Confidence And Dating: Interview With Robbie Kramer Robbie shares his journey from being a golf geek with no dating experience to coaching men internationally to have successful relationships. If you're out of practice creating chemistry in conversations and experience social anxiety, this conversation is for you. Listen in to hear concrete exercises and tips you can try on your own to break unhelpful patterns and start getting comfortable being uncomfortable. Whether you're a man or a woman, you know dating can be intimidating! This discussion digs into how being stuck in your head on dates or focusing on what you're going to say next can blind you to the social cues you need to pick up on to create chemistry. Robbie and Kimmy disclose about some surprising tactics you can experiment with to help you decrease your anxiety and become more confident in your approach. If you want to dive in and work on improving your confidence, you need one thing: experience! Hop on a free 30-minute call with Kimmy here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough and learn how to bring more of your swagger into social and dating situations. And stay tuned for Kimmy's newest Dating Masterclass for both men and women coming to you on May 24th! Click here: https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/ to sign up and get first dibs on your spot in this private class where you will get hands-on practice flirting and creating chemistry on dates. EPISODE 194 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Social Confidence And Dating: Interview With Robbie Kramer. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

How much do you rely on physical or sexual chemistry to create connections with dates? If you answered, "All the time!" then this episode is for you. This week, Kimmy live coaches Maggie, a vibrant woman who's ready to get back into the dating scene to find an intelligent, attractive man. The problem is, she just isn't physically attracted to the guys she's meeting. EPISODE 193 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cultivating Chemistry On Dates: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy asks Maggie to jump in and tell her story. Maggie reflects on how the loss of her husband and her relationship dynamic with her father have impacted her perception of what she deserves. After decades of prioritizing and caring for her family above herself, Maggie recognizes now that she's in a new stage in her life where it's possible to put herself first for the first time. If you consider yourself a people pleaser like Maggie, you may find that it's easier to take care of others instead of yourself. But now, Maggie is having a hard time knowing the steps she can take to allow herself to be in receiving mode. This conversation illuminates how self-reflection relates to the first step to breaking a pattern…even when it comes to attraction! Often the issue that rises to the surface like not having chemistry with your dates, is actually more deeply rooted in something that only you can change. Listen in to find out the surprising reasons why Maggie isn't finding anyone attractive and preventing her from finding someone new. Kimmy reveals actionable tips for Maggie so that she can slow down, be in receiving mode and open herself up for love again. Chemistry is more than just sexual attraction! To find out more about Kimmy's three essential ingredients to creating strong, lasting chemistry... sign up for a breakthrough call with Kimmy right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Just like Maggie, you can begin your journey to crack your code and find out what's blocking you from finding the love you want. You can also get started right now by signing up to be on the priority list for Kimmy's first coed Masterclass on creating chemistry for both men and women on May 17th! Sign up here and you'll be first in line to secure your spot! https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 193 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cultivating Chemistry On Dates: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

What does it mean to be your authentic self? You've heard the buzzwords, but do you really know how to put all these theories into action? This week, Kimmy interviews an expert on living authentically, Michael Brody-Waite. Michael is an acclaimed speaker, Inc. 500 Entrepreneur, three-time CEO, TEDx speaker, and author of Great Leaders Live Like Drug Addicts. As a recovering addict, Michael's mission is to teach as many people as possible how to lead themselves by shedding the masks they hide behind in order to live as their true, authentic selves. EPISODE 192 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Hiding Behind The Masks: Interview With Michael Brody-Waite Michael begins by sharing his recovery journey and the empowerment he gained after moving through a 12-Step program, and the lessons learned that apply to many areas of life including business and love. Kimmy and Michael share stories about how we often try to hide our weaknesses, avoid difficult conversations and hold back our unique perspective in dating in order to be "liked" by someone else. The result of these actions is that we hide our true selves and build relationships not based in truth, or fail to build relationships at all. This conversation shines a light on the actual habits and practices you need to lean into in order to truly live as your authentic self and attract a healthy relationship. Michael shares tips around using the transformative power of starting something new, as opposed to trying to stop something you've been used to doing. If you have already started or want to start working on yourself, this episode will help provide your roadmap to get started. Have you noticed yourself saying "Yes!" when you'd rather say "No!" or constantly avoiding conversations or situations that make you feel uncomfortable? Start doing the work to notice how these moments come up for you and get the support you need to push through the difficult parts and come out on the other side. To connect with your authentic self and find the love you want, set up a time to talk with Kimmy here.https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In just 30-minutes, you may gain a new perspective that leads you to find a match that's the right fit for you! And, if you want to join a close-knit community of women all working on themselves and their love lives, join Kimmy's private Facebook Group: The Love Makeover Insiders. https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers. Also, join her priority list for the upcoming Masterclass in May for both men and women here https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 192 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Hiding Behind The Masks: Interview With Michael Brody-Waite. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Let's face it: dating is tough to navigate! No matter who you are, where you live, how old you are or your previous experience, dating during a global pandemic comes with a whole new set of challenges. This week, Kimmy walks you through the 5 best ways to navigate the new dating landscape and up your game. Whether you've taken a break from dating entirely or you went through a breakup in the last year, you can use these tips to start building back your social muscle and find success in love. EPISODE 191 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Up Your 2021 Dating Game The truth is, dating is different now! In order to jump back into the dating pool, you need to embrace the changes and learn to see the benefits instead of the barriers. So many people have used this time in lockdown to focus on creating meaningful emotional connections as opposed to relying on physical connections only. Listen in to hear important ways to expand your network and meet people in new places -- even online! You'll hear tips from Kimmy based on her work with thousands of clients on how they are meeting new people and landing dates even during and after lockdown. Listen in to hear key elements that create a fun and playful dating environment to reduce the burnout! Set your intention to re-enter the dating world with a positive outlook, instead of out of fear that you'll attract someone who's not right for you. If you are looking to restart your dating life on the right foot, there are 2 things you can do right now! First, sign up here for a free coaching session with Kimmy so that she can help you get started https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Second, click here to get on the priority list to be the first to know about Kimmy's new Dating Masterclass coming this May! https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/. In this Masterclass, both men and women will be in the room so you'll get real-time lessons on how to date, mate and relate! EPISODE 191 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Up Your 2021 Dating Game. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Matt, who found Kimmy through a flirt workshop as he was trying to get back into the dating scene after a divorce. Matt jumps in to talk about the challenges he faced in finding a relationship leading up to his work with Kimmy. EPISODE 190 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Matt You'll hear about how the barriers Matt believed were holding him back were actually not the real reasons blocking him from finding love. Kimmy and Matt talk about the impact of coaching to get him to transition from leading with what he could do for women, rather than by showing them who he is. If you, like Matt, have a tendency to jump into relationships quickly, listen in to hear how creating a goal-oriented dating plan can help slow you down and refocus on your intention. This conversation touches on an essential truth in dating - when you are willing to open up, be vulnerable and show your date who you are even when it feels scary, you begin to attract the kind of person you're looking for. Now, Matt's in a beautiful relationship with the woman of his dreams! Stay tuned to hear how they met and how excited he is that they are such a great match! This conversation will emphasize the fact that you can meet someone special, even with online dating or don't live near one another and even in the midst of a global pandemic! If you're ready to declare what you want and just need help creating the plan to go after it, set up a time to talk with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. And if you are interested in an upcoming Masterclass for men and women around creating chemistry, sign up for the priority list here https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/. As Matt says, if you want to experience something you never have before, you have to try something you've never tried before! EPISODE 190 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Matt. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

How do you come back from a setback? How do you stay resilient after a series of bad dates, no dates, or failed relationships? This week on the show, Kimmy's bringing you a special episode, with a special guest. What began as an interview, transformed into a coaching session with Tim Storey, widely recognized as a legendary life coach to professional athletes and celebrities (including Oprah!). EPISODE 189 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Is Tim Storey Single? Building Dating Resilience Tim's story is powerful, inspirational and will help you understand the strength it takes to stay resilient no matter what. Tim has mastered the art of turning setbacks into comebacks and has built a career on coaching stars to operate and achieve at the highest levels. If you are coming off a setback in your life, big or small - listen in to how you can avoid one of the most major pitfalls people tend to face. Listen in to hear Kimmy and Tim dive into why he's still single! You'll hear all about Tim's upbringing and how he had to learn resilience at an early age. You'll hear how Tim's experience being raised by his mother and his 3 sisters changed his expectations of what a successful relationship looked like. And, tune in to discover Kimmy's coaching advice to Tim about he can change the intention of his conversations in order to go deeper and make connections beyond his professional persona. If you are dealing with setbacks in your life, major or minor take this opportunity to be coached by Kimmy like she did with Tim, and sign up for a free breakthrough call with her right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You will learn how to bounce back stronger than you ever have been before! It just takes one decision, one call to change your dating outcomes forever. And, keep an eye out for our "Part 2" live conversation coming soon to my Amazon Live show, Kimmy's Love Hub on SwayTVlive.com and to discuss his new book, Miracle Mentality. Subscribe to my newsletter here to get more details about all my upcoming new shows and masterclasses coming up! https://jd6421ka.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 189 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Is Tim Storey Single? Building Dating Resilience. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

We all have walls. No matter who you are or where you come from, you might have experiences in your past that you'd rather not repeat. We build up emotional walls to protect ourselves. The truth is, you may not realize you're doing this or even know where it originates from. But, if you're willing to get curious you may find an opening that allows you to start the work of breaking down your walls. This week you'll get the chance to hear Kimmy coach powerhouse beauty icon and influencer Eden Sassoon on her new Amazon Live show. You can see the full episode: Kimmy's Love Hub on SwayTV here on YouTube https://youtu.be/GkC82Ql_2yc. EPISODE 188 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Eden Sassoon, The Black Widow: Coaching With Kimmy Known by her friends as "The Black Widow," Eden talks about her pattern of reeling men in, then letting them go just as fast. Kimmy and Eden deep dive on the current challenges Eden faces in her dating life. You'll hear her open up about the connection between her sobriety and her fear of true intimacy. This conversation makes clear that while Eden knows exactly how to glam up, flirt confidently and make men feel amazing, one of her biggest walls is her fear of not being loved for who she really is. You'll hear Kimmy and Eden uncover the fact that her reliance on physical chemistry can act as a shield that doesn't let men get to know her on a real emotional level. This powerful and emotional conversation may reveal the exhaustion one feels when energy is constantly around keeping the walls up to avoid getting hurt. You'll hear how the walls might be preventing you (like Eden) from finding emotional intimacy. If this conversation resonated with you and you're ready to begin your journey to chip away at the walls you've built, set up a time to chat with Kimmy right here. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. You deserve to be with someone who loves you for your authentic self - with no filters. When you allow yourself to be vulnerable, you give others the opportunity to show you if you can feel safe being your true self. EPISODE 188 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Eden Sassoon, The Black Widow: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

The dating world is changing, and that's due in part to shifting gender roles in our society. If you're a woman who's a high-achiever and knows how to accomplish professional goals, you've probably felt disappointed in the pool of men out there before. In this episode of the Charisma Quotient, you'll hear a conversation that will broaden your horizons about who could be the right match for you. Kimmy interviews Jon Birger, an award-winning magazine writer, accidental dating guru, journalist and author of Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are In Charge. EPISODE 187 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Interview With Jon Birger: Powerful Women Dating In A Modern World Jon dives into the research that's gone into his books. Over the past several decades as women have graduated college higher rates than men, there's been an increase in the number of college-educated women relative to college-educated men. Kimmy and Jon talk about the seismic shift this trend has created and dig into how all people, regardless of gender can reimagine their criteria in a partner to find the right person for them. This conversation shines a light on how interacting on dating apps can be transactional and addictive in nature. While the research shows that it can be tougher to find your soulmate online, if you diversify your dating portfolio and flex your social muscles by engaging in all the ways available to you, you'll increase your chance of success. Jon breaks down the research on the success rates of long-term relationships based on where you meet, whether that's online, in college, or at your place of worship. Kimmy and Jon talk through how you can be more open to different experiences and different people. If you've been single for a long time, you have to look at what you can do differently to get a different result. It's all about keeping an open mind and tossing out the overly-detailed checklists! To create your dating plan and find out how to diversify your dating portfolio, set up a time to talk with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. In just 30-minutes, you may gain new insight as to a dating plan that is right for you. And, if you want to join a close-knit community of women all working on themselves and their love lives, join Kimmy's private Facebook Group: The Love Makeover Insiders. https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Interview With Jon Birger: Powerful Women Dating In A Modern World. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?: Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Molly, a healthcare worker who was feeling burned out by a string of dating experiences that went nowhere. When she heard Kimmy on a podcast talking about closet makeovers, she signed up to work with Kimmy and got a whole lot more than she bargained for! EPISODE 186 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cracking The Love Code: Where Are They Now With Molly Kimmy and Molly dive right in and talk about what Molly's dating experiences were like before she became a client. If you're like Molly and have had a series of short flings that don't progress, it can be discouraging and hard to find the motivation to move forward. You may not even realize that your conversation style or not sharing enough of your emotions may be keeping you from discovering a spark and deeper connection with your date. Molly talks about how she was having a hard time finding men that she really clicked with and how in her work with Kimmy she realized she could shift her perspective and approach and start getting different results. Listen in to hear how Molly tapped into her emotional intelligence, reframed her past in order to look forward to her future, and how she met her new boyfriend! Molly reminisces about their first date, how they made the connection, and shares how supported she feels in this new relationship. If you are debating signing up for a coaching call with Kimmy, take Molly's advice. Working with Kimmy means getting out there and practicing how to date in real-time. And remember, working on your dating life IS working on you! If you want to become better at flirting and gain the skills you need to have fun, successful dates, Kimmy is hosting another Flirt Immersion Workshop on March 20th! The event is small with only a few spots left so grab your ticket now here https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/. You'll join forces with a group of women to participate in interactive games and even speed date with a group of men, chosen by Kimmy. Learn everything you need to know about the art of flirting to start attracting the right guy for you! EPISODE 186 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cracking The Love Code: Where Are They Now With Molly. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Over the past year, the virtual dating scene has exploded. With people all over the world on lockdown due to the pandemic, we've all had to get creative and comfortable communicating using online platforms instead of face to face. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Zach Schleien, co-founder and CEO of Filter Off, a new video speed-dating app that has taken the industry by storm. Kimmy and Zach talk about the ability of video to transform conversations with your matches from boring and awkward to engaging and fun! EPISODE 185 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Virtual Dating: Interview with Zach Schleien Taking the leap to video dates more quickly can actually give you the power to find out sooner if you're really interested in your match. Kimmy and Zach dive into how to make a good first impression on your video dates. Here's a hint, the rules are very similar to in-person! You'll hear about what colors to wear, how to make sure your video is framed well and your audio sounds good so YOU shine on the call. Kimmy talks through how online dating actually forces us to slow down, define what we really want, and actually get to know someone before jumping straight into a physical connection. Now, there are real parameters around who can earn the right to meet you in person, and that's not a bad thing. In fact, you'll learn that in the past year, people have actually been able to take advantage of the virtual space to progress further in their relationships than they otherwise would have. If you are looking to spice up your virtual dating regimen and make genuine connections with great people in your area or who are part of your community, this is your time! Kimmy is excited to announce the next installment of the Flirt Immersion Experience virtual workshop coming to you Saturday March 20. You'll get to experience video speed-dating, learn fool-proof flirting techniques from Kimmy with hands-on exercises and join a community of people who are working on themselves to find love. With a little coaching, guidance, and the right platform, you can work on your online dating skills. Book here now to grab your spot as seats are limited https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 185 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Virtual Dating: Interview with Zach Schleien. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Letting go of what's holding you back often seems easier said than done. Even though the process of letting go of things that don't serve your best interests is often painful in the short term, the long-term benefits have the power to release it so you can attract something positive. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Hale Dwoskin, an New York Times bestselling author of the Sedona Method, who works with individuals and companies to teach them how to transform their lives by letting go. EPISODE 184 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go To Attract The One: Interview With Hale Dwoskin Kimmy and Hale dive right in to talk about how your fear of the unknown can limit you not only from accomplishing your goals but also from being happy. Hale and Kimmy introduce the idea that feelings are just feelings - they are not facts - and you have the power to let them go. Hale does a quick exercise at the top to demonstrate the power of The Sedona Method to help you identify your feelings and release them. This conversation makes the distinction that our emotions do not define who we are and that love and joy are always present within us. You'll learn that the act of letting go actually helps you access your authentic self more directly. And when you're on a date, the more you show up as your true self, the more the other person is likely to feel comfortable being themselves. If you have struggled with feeling needy and attached early on in a relationship, this episode is packed with tips to help you release that need. In fact, you'll hear about how it's healthier and more balanced to operate this way in a relationship than becoming dependent on another person. The more attached you are in life to an outcome, the more you unintentionally sabotage the result. Kimmy and Hale deliver incredible tips on how to gain freedom over your experiences, eliminate dating anxiety and burnout and share specific techniques to counteract nerves and anxiety the moment they arise on a date. If you are in your head during dates, overthinking, and not being present, this is your chance to slow down and actively make a choice to let go of the emotions stopping you from showing up as your best self. If you are looking to let go to attract someone new, hop on a free breakthrough call with Kimmy by booking now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In one half-hour call, you will be able to gain clarity on what might be holding you back in order for you to move forward! EPISODE 184 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go To Attract The One: Interview With Hale Dwoskin. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Raise your hand if you're feeling stuck, frustrated or like you're missing the internal motivation to put yourself out there in the dating scene. Are you doing everything you know how to do to meet potential matches but still getting left out in the cold? If this is you right now, you're not alone! This week on the show, Kimmy live coaches Susan, a dedicated social worker who's dabbled in the dating scene since her divorce but is having trouble progressing with men for different reasons. EPISODE 183 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reasons You're Not Progressing In Love: Coaching with Kimmy Kimmy begins the episode with 4 main contributing factors that might be causing you to not progress in love. We then hear Susan's challenges and attempts at dating hearing that she's on multiple dating apps, offering up Zoom dates, joining online meetups (you name it!), and just isn't making the love connection she wants. Kimmy digs in with Susan on how she's conversing with the men she's talking to, whether she's on the apps or off. Listen in for a real-time example of how to switch the content of your conversations from leading with facts to leading with feelings. If you're like Susan and your flirtations and conversations on dates seem to end in a dead end every time, it's time to change up your approach and start getting different results. Kimmy also uncovers how Susan's image of herself and her pictures might be another culprit to her not attracting the men she wants to meet. You'll even hear a few tips about how to game the dating app algorithm to get new matches more easily. This episode will show you the importance of creating a strategic, dating plan so that you progress in your dating life. It starts with making the decision to try something new and explore more ways to make real love connections. Here's one thing you can do to get unstuck and get moving. Sign up (it's free!) for Kimmy's 2021 Dating Progression Roadmap, bit.ly/2021datingroadmap an intimate virtual fireside chat with Kimmy where you will learn the secrets to progressing online, on Zoom and on dates. And, you'll have the chance to get laser hot seat live coaching from Kimmy! It's never too late to switch up your game plan and start finding out what works instead of getting stuck on what doesn't. EPISODE 183 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reasons You're Not Progressing In Love: Coaching with Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Some relationships - whether romantic, familial, or otherwise - are toxic. If you've been in a toxic relationship before, or if you're in one right now, you know how overwhelming and paralyzing it can feel to walk away from that situation. This week, Kimmy talks to Dr. Heidi Brocke, a Toxic Relationship Awareness and Healing Expert who herself spent years in a toxic marriage. Dr. Heidi specializes in helping people recognize the traits of toxic people in their lives and delivers the tools to get out and start prioritizing themselves again. EPISODE 182 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Rid Of Toxic Relationships: Interview with Heidi Brocke Kimmy jumps in by asking Dr. Heidi to share her story. This conversation will pull back the curtain on the common traits that toxic people share and how to spot them from a mile away. Kimmy and Dr. Heidi discuss the kinds of people that the toxic ones seek out - the helpers, the caregivers, the over-caregivers, and the people-pleasers. If you are primed to want to help, ease other's pain, and provide unconditional emotional support, you are often the most susceptible to becoming attached to toxic individuals. Dr. Heidi dives into the signals and feelings that may arise when you're involved in a toxic cycle. If you're experiencing guilt around spending time with your loved ones or giving attention to matters at work over prioritizing your significant other, there's a very good chance you're in a toxic relationship. Kimmy and Dr. Heidi give surprising tips around how you can get rid of a negative cycle that could be trapping you. If you are finding yourself putting all your effort and energy into a relationship that is not serving your needs or you feel tremendous guilt whenever you want to do something for yourself, there are resources out there for you to seek support. Set a time to talk with Kimmy right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just half an hour, Kimmy can help you strategize how to stop attracting and dating toxic people. EPISODE 182 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Rid Of Toxic Relationships: Interview with Heidi Brocke. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

With Valentine's Day around the corner, now is the time to give yourself a healthy dose of self love! This week, Kimmy invites you to take a moment to celebrate YOU, unapologetically. Whether you're dating up a storm or leaning into the single life or somewhere in between, if you're not feeling good about yourself, it will negatively impact the relationships and situations you attract. Everyone has experienced the sting of criticism and rejection that can hold you back from becoming the best version of you. EPISODE 181 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating From A Place Of Self-Love Kimmy guides you through a checklist of traits you may have that indicates you may suffer from lower self-love. She then reviews the top 5 ways to overcome them so that you attract a different kind of partner. This episode will teach you how to date from a place of self love so that you are able to center the needs and desires that are truly important to you. You'll hear about why real self love allows you to prioritize your values over superficial commonalities and the three essential components of a healthy, happy relationship. If you have a tendency towards people-pleasing and putting other's people's needs before your own as a rule, this is the episode for you. Kimmy digs in on what you can do to stop these repeating the patterns. You deserve to be with someone who loves you for exactly who you are, quirks and flaws and all! Get in touch with Kimmy and set up a time to talk through what's going on for you. In just half an hour you could leave with a new perspective on your options and the opportunity to have support through your journey. Click here to book now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And, if you want to join a close-knit community of women all working on themselves and their love lives, join Kimmy's private Facebook Group right here. https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers EPISODE 181 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating From A Place Of Self-Love. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

If you are trying to improve or learn a new skill set, whether that be in love, in business or something else, you will increase your chance of success if you have a strategy. Creating a new habit takes commitment and practice. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Dre Baldwin, a former professional basketball player turned YouTuber, focused on helping people build the mental toughness they need to accomplish their goals. EPISODE 180 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Gamifying Your Love Life: Interview With Dre Baldwin Kimmy kicks this conversation off by asking Dre to dig into his history and how he got to where he is today. You'll hear Dre's story of staying committed to athletics throughout his college career and beyond, playing professional basketball overseas for nearly a decade. Dre and Kimmy talk through how to identify what skills helped bring you success in one area of your life and how you can transfer those to other areas of your life too. This episode is all about the ingredients needed to put yourself into action to gamify your love life. If you are feeling stuck and aren't taking the necessary steps to go after what you say you want, this conversation will help you take a look in the mirror and truly evaluate if you are willing to put in the effort to make a change. It all comes down to creating an action plan and pinpointing the strategy you need to get going. Listen in to hear a great trick for taking the emotion out of a tough decision, so you can see your path from a bird's eye view and hold yourself accountable. The two discuss how fear of the unknown is often what holds us back from taking action. Dre shares his philosophy of the power of mastering the mental game. Regardless of your talents, personality or physical characteristics that may make you attractive to a potential partner, this conversation draws attention to the mental game going on in your head. The strength of your mental game unlocks the potential of all of the talent you bring to the table. This conversation will prompt you to take stock of your own talents and understand where your confidence lives. If you are ready to break the patterns that are holding you back from finding love, connect with Kimmy to get started. You can schedule a complimentary strategy call with Kimmy right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Plus, if you want to take it one step further, take a look at Kimmy's audioseries, This May Be Why You Suck at Dating! If you've ever wondered why your romantic endeavors tend to fizzle out, this is your answer. It's super simple to sign up (it takes about 30 seconds) and you can listen anywhere, in any app right here https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer.

Caring for and giving to others selflessly is an incredibly powerful quality. It's a beautiful gift to support and uplift others, but when it comes to finding love, it's important to make sure you're seeking reciprocal relationships so that get your needs met too. This week on the show, Kimmy kicks us off by describing the Top 4 Signs You Might Be an Over-Caretaker. You'll learn that you might be so focused on others that you unintentionally attract people who don't return the love and support you give. In this episode, Kimmy coaches Cindy live to tackle the origins of her tendency to people-please. EPISODE 179 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Are You An Over-Caretaker? Coaching With Kimmy After going through a divorce and a handful of long term relationships, Cindy is ready to step out and find someone who gives her the affection and attention she deserves, and she's working on breaking her habit of over-caretaking. If you have ever felt it's 100% your responsibility to provide everything your loved ones need and want, this episode is for you. Cindy talks through her upbringing, her flirtatious side blossoming as a teenager, and explores how her light may have been dimmed early on. Raised by a giving, selfless mother, Cindy was rewarded for putting herself over others and carries that to this day. Kimmy talks through how these patterns show up in relationships and how we fall into them so easily because they're comfortable and gave us confidence throughout life. When it comes to dating - whether you're in person or online - if you're spending time on dates wondering whether or not you seem interested in your date versus how you feel and offer, you might be exhibiting signs of over-caretaking! And, if you grew up in an environment where feelings were not openly discussed, it can be that much harder to identify and speak those feelings in social interactions. You'll hear several tips around how to approach dates with the goal of making genuine connections and how to lead with curiosity. One major takeaway from this conversation is that there are many different kinds of chemistry! We often default to sexual and physical chemistry, without paying attention to the emotional connection. Kimmy shares some advice on how to lead with finding an emotional chemistry for a slow healthy build. If you want to start learning how to focus on yourself more and boost your flirting skills, there's still time to join Kimmy's FREE 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge! Click on the link right here http://bit.ly/flirt2021 to register. Connect with a group of dynamic, goal-oriented women who are all putting in the time and effort to improve their flirting skills so they can attract a healthy, fulfilling, and reciprocal relationship. EPISODE 179 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Are You An Over-Caretaker? Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

A good sense of humor is one of the top attributes single women and men are seeking in their partners. If you're not endowed with the gift of comedy, can you learn it? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on Global Humor Expert, Peter McGraw. Peter is a marketing and psychology professor at the Leeds School of Business at the University of Colorado at Boulder and the author of the book, Shtick to Business. In this episode, Kimmy and Peter have a conversation about comedic theory as it applies to building genuine connections in dating and relationships. EPISODE 178 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Use Humor and Play In Dating: Interview With Peter McGraw If you're not feeling confident in your ability to flex your funny or be playful, this show will deliver you simple tips you can use to make your date laugh and connect with people who share your sense of humor. Tune in to hear all about the kinds of jokes that work no matter who your audience is and the ones that tend to fall flat. You'll hear how sarcasm and self-deprecating humor can be used as a shield and how leading with positive humor can be a big turn on. Peter shares tips on how to introduce humor to your conversations from an authentic place and how to use it as a connection indicator with your date. If you've been struggling to find success in flirting - humor is one of the most powerful tools in your arsenal! Levity and laughter create quick endorphin hits and allow you to feel excitement in the moment. If you want to build your more humorous side with playful skills and flirty techniques, Kimmy is holding a *FREE* 5 Day Flirt Challenge starting January 25 so register now http://bit.ly/flirt2021. This will help you get out of your head and progress on dates without feeling awkward or desperate. You can keep it playful, light and funny by boosting your comedy skills and letting your natural sense of humor shine through. EPISODE 178 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Use Humor and Play In Dating: Interview With Peter McGraw. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

When you take on a major challenge in your work, your best shot at success is to create an action plan and tackle each step intentionally. The same principle applies in your love life. If you want to have a successful relationship, you need to make a plan and execute it guided by purpose. This week, Kimmy interviews Henry Penix, a serial Global Entrepreneur, Consultant, and Best-Selling Author who helps people create the leverage they need to win in business and in life. EPISODE 177 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Your Strategic Love Plan For Fun in 2021: Interview With Henry Penix Henry has built a reputation to take on big companies and big challenges, but don't let his impressive resume fool you, he has dealt with his share of failures over the years. Kimmy and Henry chat about how having a mindset that treats failure as an opportunity for research and growth creates the resilience you need to keep going after a setback. If you've ever looked at another person or a couple and thought that they've simply been lucky in love, this conversation will challenge that myth! Kimmy and Henry talk through the importance of keeping an open mind and shifting your perspective when you're faced with a challenge, especially when it comes to dating. Kimmy shares a client example of how to not take getting ghosted personally. Plus, Henry shares an incredible tip on how to gamify and reframe your time spent on dating apps. If you struggle with perfectionism, this episode was made for you! If you're a high-achiever in your work, but don't see that same success replicated in your love life, it's time to take a look at what you might be doing to contribute to the results you're getting. Kimmy shares some invaluable practical wisdom about creating new dating habits and move beyond the fear of the unknown. Stay tuned to hear Henry talk about not taking first impressions at face value, and recognizing that when someone's passionate in their work, that is also likely to show up in their love life. If you are looking to take control of your love story and want to create a plan to find success in love, find some time with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And if you are ready to take action, Kimmy is doing another 5 Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge starting January 25 so sign up to get in on it http://bit.ly/flirt2021 It's a great way to jumpstart your strategic love plan with some flirty energy. EPISODE 177 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Your Strategic Love Plan For Fun in 2021: Interview With Henry Penix. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since working with Kimmy and the secrets to their success. On this episode, you'll meet Harpreet, a hospital worker who discovered Kimmy by listening to this podcast. Harpreet reached out because of her lack of self-confidence, poor body image and negative feelings around dating which were preventing her from finding love. EPISODE 176 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Making Dating Fun Again: Where Are They Now With Harpreet Harpreet jumps in by talking through the sources of her self-criticism. She shares a bit about her cultural background and the values that were prioritized growing up that have impacted her ability to build relationships with herself and others to this day. Kimmy reminisces about how she and Harpreet worked together to unpack how her negativity around herself and dating was directly related to why she wasn't progressing on dates. Harpreet learns through coaching with Kimmy how to be grateful and to love herself. Plus, if you've ever felt like a complete fish out of water when it comes to flirting, you are not alone! Kimmy and Harpreet review the essential secret sauce she used around how to have fun flirting and take the pressure off of meeting new people. This episode is packed with invaluable tips you can implement in your life right now like how to track and share your true feelings more easily, how to stay present in the moment and how a positive, resilient attitude can benefit all the different areas of your life. If you were like Harpreet before working with Kimmy and you feel stuck in place in your dating life, now is the time to work on YOU, so that you can find dating fun again. You can schedule a complimentary 30-minute call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and begin your journey to finding self-love AND romance in 2021. EPISODE 176 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Making Dating Fun Again: Where Are They Now With Harpreet. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

2020 will go down in history as one of the toughest of our lives. We were thrown endless curveballs -- and dating and relationships were not exempt! As this unprecedented year finally comes to a close, Kimmy brings you an episode dedicated to counting down the Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2020 and how to put those behind us to attract the one in 2021. Women and men looking for love transformed their lives to respond to the pandemic and the dating process seemed to slow WAY down. Whether you used dating apps for the first time, explored the challenge of connecting on video dates (or good old phone calls!), or started a relationship without the benefit of physical touch, the stress of this new virtual reality made it easy to miss the basics. EPISODE 175 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2020 When the stay-at-home orders hit, did you totally shut down and checked out? If you've ever thought, "What's the point of working on your love life now?", this episode is for you! Take this episode as a moment to reflect on your choices and mindset around dating this year. Was your approach rooted in gratitude or were you closed off? Were you totally burnt out and bringing that mindset into your love life? Were you were swiping on the apps, numbing out, neglecting your profile, your photos, or asking your matches predictable, boring questions? You can take action to change your results with a few simple surprising tips and revelations from Kimmy. She does this by reviewing how these top mistakes made this year can help you learn what to do into the new year. Start by surrounding yourself with a powerful group of single women working on their dating lives in Kimmy's private Facebook Group The Love Makeover Insiders https://www.facebook.com/group. Next, you can give yourself the gift of figuring out what your mistakes might have been specifically this year by signing up for Kimmy's audio series This May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. And as always if you're ready to start 2021 off strong and create a love plan for yourself, schedule a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Give yourself the boost you need to leave 2020 in the dust and become your best self in the New Year! EPISODE 175 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2020. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

The first and most essential piece of finding lasting love is to love yourself. Maybe it sounds cliche, but it's true! True self-love is not selfISH -- it's an appreciation of oneself that grows from intentional action to support your physical, emotional and spiritual growth. In today's episode, Kimmy has a deep, honest conversation with Susan Burrell, podcaster and author of Live an Empowered Life! Your 30-Day Journey all about how to empower yourself to experience true self love. EPISODE 173 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Empowerment And Self Love: Interview With Susan Burrell Susan opens up immediately to discuss her life as a fiery redhead and the process she went through to regain her love of herself after a devastating divorce. This conversation shines a light on what it takes you to rebuild your relationship with yourself when a life-altering moment has impacted you. This year has introduced new challenges and has presented us with opportunities to discover new gifts. As this year comes to a close, now is the time to connect with your spiritual side, set goals and look ahead to what's possible when you prioritize self love. Susan and Kimmy talk through Susan's recent realization she was raised by a narcissist and how she ended up attracting that same energy in her ex-husband. Now, armed with renewed confidence in herself Susan shares tips for how to empower yourself to put yourself first. Kimmy shares her perspective on working from the outside in with clients in order to build evidence that change is possible. When you're able to look in the mirror and honestly say you love what you see, it creates the opportunity for others to see that in you. This discussion serves as a reminder that you can't change others -- you have the power to change what you put out there to attract something you actually want without losing the core of who you are in the process. Kimmy and Susan talk through several actions you can take that can help recenter you and introduce peace when life as you know it has been forever changed. Check out a free guided meditation from Susan here: https://www.susanburrell.com/free-gift-meditation And, if you've recently experienced a major change in your life like a relationship ending or you're simply feeling the fire to step into 2021 with a renewed sense of purpose and momentum, begin by committing to love yourself. Kimmy can help you get there by signing up for a FREE 30-minute coaching call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The empowerment you're seeking is already within you! Activate the self love by empowering yourself with a plan and purpose. EPISODE 173 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Empowerment And Self Love: Interview With Susan Burrell. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook

Now more than ever, dating is a challenge! If you're venturing back into the dating world for the first time in a long time or swiping through potential matches on the apps -- it can feel like a whole new world. And, if you consider yourself introverted or shy, striking up a conversation with a stranger on the internet can be even more daunting. On this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Becky, who's ready to get out of her comfort zone and get back out there. EPISODE 172 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Learning To Date Successfully After A Hiatus: Coaching With Kimmy Becky's been single for the last 5 years, but before that, she was a life-long relationship gal. Becky jumps in to tell Kimmy all the things she's tried to reignite her dating life like taking classes, joining community groups, and talking to men on dating apps. Even though she's putting in the effort, she's not getting asked out on dates and is ready to change this pattern. Kimmy asks Becky about her experience growing up and her relationship history to uncover some people-pleasing patterns that have a tendency to attract the type of men Becky wants to avoid. Becky shares that her first and second marriages were not reciprocal and have contributed to her not expressing her true feelings freely. Kimmy shares several actionable tips around how to open up conversations with intrigue on dating apps and the importance of leading with stories that share your emotions so men can feel you. Listen in to hear Becky's surprising realization that she's not letting men earn her and instead contributing to why she isn't progressing with men. Even while we're hunkering down for the winter and not seeing people in-person as much as we once were, there are still plenty of opportunities to flirt (even while you're wearing a mask!). If you're like Becky and you want to shift your intention while dating to put yourself out there and be seen, take the first step with Kimmy. Join her for a FREE Fireside Chat tomorrow, Thursday, December 17 at 4pm PT. She's going to countdown the biggest dating mistakes of 2020 and new trends looking ahead to 2021. If you want to start the new year with a dating plan, sign up and claim your spot! Space is limited. https://e1cb38gp.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 172 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Learning To Date Successfully After A Hiatus: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Here's a fact: ALL successful relationships achieve a balance between masculine and feminine energy. Now, that doesn't mean that men should be aggressive and in control or that women should be submissive and docile. In reality, when you are able to tap into the power of your gender, while understanding and creating space for others, you too can achieve the right balance for you and your partner. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on a guest who knows all about harnessing the power of the masculine, GS Youngblood. GS is a male relationship coach and the author of the acclaimed book, The Masculine in Relationship: The Blueprint for Inspiring the Trust, Lust and Devotion of a Strong Woman. EPISODE 171 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Balancing Masculine And Feminine Energy: Interview With GS Youngblood Kimmy and GS begin by discussing how GS's 10-year relationship with a strong woman broke down. If you've ever bought into the idea that men aren't attracted to strong, capable, intelligent women, this conversation will shine a light on why that misconception exists. Kimmy and GS dive deep on the evolving gender roles in our society and how that affects relationship dynamics between men and women. As women continue to rise into leadership roles and are recognized and sought out for the strength, power and knowledge they bring, it's imperative that men embrace their masculine core and invite women to relax into their feminine energy, too. If you're a woman who spends her days making decisions and leading others, chances are you're craving the space to receive love, be provided for in a relationship! This conversation will help you understand the metaphorical dance between men and women in dating and love relationships. And, for you men listening, GS walks you through one of the essential steps in his blueprint; Respond vs. React. GS lays out a game plan of how to respond in a way that keeps you grounded and helps the woman you're with feel safe, even when emotions are running high. And, if you're having trouble receiving in your dating life, you may be exhibiting the characteristics of one of Kimmy's dating archetypes! As we enter the giving season, why not give yourself some tools to take with you into the new year? Sign up here for Kimmy's exclusive audio series *This May Be Why You Suck at Dating!*https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series was designed to answer your questions about mistakes you're making that are preventing you from meeting the person you've always dreamed of. It's dead simple to sign up (it takes about 30 seconds) and choose the podcast player you want to use. You can listen anywhere, in any app. EPISODE 171 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Balancing Masculine And Feminine Energy: Interview With GS Youngblood. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Kayla, a young medical professional who has made a dramatic transformation since she began coaching with Kimmy. Following a bad breakup after college, Kayla found herself in a series of unbalanced relationships where she focused on what she could do for a man instead of whether that man was worthy of her. EPISODE 170 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Eliminating Unbalanced Relationships: Where Are They Now With Kayla Kayla jumps right in to discuss what her dating life was like before she reached out to Kimmy for coaching. This episode dives into how tough breakups can damage your sense of self, make you question your worth, and narrow your thinking so the vast possibilities out there feel limited. Kimmy and Kayla reflect on Kayla's upbringing and unearth patterns she was unconsciously repeating from childhood. If you're like Kayla and feel that you've hit a plateau and are stuck in a rut without the tools to help you move forward, listen up. This conversation touches on the most important factor for a happy and fulfilling life -- confidence in your own self-worth. Regardless of what stage you're at in your dating life or in life broadly, a strong sense of your own value outside of a relationship is the foundation to everything you'll build. At a certain point, you'll be faced with a decision to try something new and gain new evidence that another outcome is possible. It's up to you to take action, like Kayla did, and begin the process of change. You'll hear how Kayla shifted her path from losing herself and not prioritizing her needs to attracting a relationship that is reciprocal and respectful. Now, after committing to change and learning some invaluable new tools to manage anxiety around uncertainty, Kayla has found a new man in her life who treats her like a queen. And even more importantly, she's found new confidence in herself. If you're ready to start living without regrets, shift into a growth mindset and rise out of your plateau, now is the time. Right now, you can still join Kimmy's Flirt Immersion Experience happening Saturday, December 5! This interactive workshop has been customized for women who are looking to get practice at dating and flirting. In one super-fun LIVE virtual event, you'll learn hands-on flirting techniques, speed-date with men hand-selected by Kimmy and get real-time feedback from a Man-Panel. Get in while you can, space is limited and these spots are going quickly! Last chance for the Black Friday special for half off when you use code "Black Friday" https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 170 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Eliminating Unbalanced Relationships: Where Are They Now With Kayla. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy offers a lesson on how to cultivate an attitude of gratitude. Studies show time and time again that people who exhibit a positive mindset are happier. If you can consistently live in gratitude, it will actually impact your personal wellbeing for the better which will, in turn, make you more dateable! EPISODE 169 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable On this show, Kimmy breaks down her top tips on how to stop negativity in its tracks and transform that bad attitude into positivity and gratitude. First, Kimmy jumps in with 2 pro tips for positive self-reflection. This year has thrown countless challenges at you and now is a great time to do the work needed to fill up your cup of love for yourself. It's all about shifting your perspective. This week, take the time to pay attention to your thoughts and notice if any of your gremlins are popping up and contributing to negative self-talk. The more negativity infiltrates your thoughts the more it will leak out into your energy and conversations. Kimmy brings the tough love in this episode when she shares that what you put out is what you get back, especially on dates! Listen in to hear some expert advice on how to stay in the present, focused on being curious and connected. Of course, switching into a gratitude mindset won't happen overnight but this episode walks you through some tangible steps you can take to get there. If you keep asking yourself why you are still single and feeling powerless and negative about your love life, you'll want to be one of the first to sign up for Kimmy's new LIVE virtual event: The Flirt Immersion Experience! This one-of-a-kind interactive workshop is designed for women who are looking to find hands-on training to increase their sexy confidence and dating skills. This also includes speed-dating with men *hand-selected* by Kimmy and getting feedback with a Man Panel. This is the ultimate way to meet men, go on dates and actually hear what the guys thought so you can learn without the pressure. Plus, right now Kimmy's offering a 50% off deal for Black Friday. Get in while you can, space is limited and these spots will go fast so just click here and enter "BlackFriday" during checkout to receive the discount https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 169 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

In order to have a successful, fulfilling and healthy relationship with someone else, you have to love yourself first. I know what you're thinking -- that's easy to say but it's a lot harder to put into practice! How can you jump into the dating world successfully, all while working on your own self-love? This week on the Charisma Quotient Kimmy interviews award-winning actress, writer and filmmaker Wendy Wilkins to dig into the process of loving yourself on your drive towards success. EPISODE 168 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Falling In Love With Yourself: Interview With Wendy Wilkins Wendy dives right in by sharing her unconventional journey from being a cop, to one of the top realtors in Australia, to her writing and working in the creative arts. Kimmy and Wendy discuss the pitfalls of compartmentalizing your life. If you're experiencing success in your career but your personal life doesn't stack up, this conversation will ask you to identify the strengths you can bring from one area of your life into another. And, you'll hear one of Wendy's secret tricks to boosting confidence that you can use to focus before you spend time on dating apps and especially before you go on a date! If you've ever found yourself prematurely getting into a relationship (or a "situationship") before you're ready, it could be a sign that you are masking a deeper issue with not loving yourself. Right now is the perfect time to work on yourself. Dating is simply a tool you can use at different stages of the process to get clarity on what you want, what works for you and what doesn't. Kimmy brings up a story of a recent client of hers that shows the power of what can happen when you lift the pressure off and let go of the attachment to an outcome. Listen in to hear about the importance of giving yourself what you need instead of waiting for others to do so and being comfortable doing things alone. Once you access the strength within, you'll open yourself up to finding a lasting love that complements your life instead of complicating it. You have endless resources at your fingertips that are designed to help you start loving yourself. First, check out Kimmy's exclusive audio course *This May Be Why You Suck at Dating*! https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. Perhaps you have Chief qualities, just like Wendy. And, if you've noticed that you're just passively swiping through dating apps, numbing out and not getting anywhere, you're invited to join Kimmy's new Flirt Immersion Experience coming up on Saturday, December 5 https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ In this small interactive workshop, you will actually practice your skills that will bring control back into your dating life. Take this opportunity to put yourself in the driver's seat and take direct action to level-up your dating game! But hurry slots are limited. EPISODE 168 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Falling In Love With Yourself: Interview With Wendy Wilkins. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

When you look at your body, what do you see? Do you think of yourself as sexy and confident or do you find faults when you look in the mirror? In this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Julia, who's eager to transform her body image, gain sexy confidence, and find love. Julia has struggled in the past to feel confident in her body, especially because she heard negative messages from men about her weight early in her dating life. Now, she's on a mission to take back control of her sexy confidence and thrive. EPISODE 167 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Sexy Confidence: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy and Julia dive right in and talk through Julia's dating history. If you're like Julia and you lack confidence in your physical body, this episode will challenge you to look into how those feelings have manifested in your dating life. Julia shares that she had been operating in a cycle that wasn't serving her. She was accepting crumbs from men, getting physical too soon, and rushing into a commitment before reaching a mutual level of emotional depth and connection. You'll hear tips from Kimmy on how to create a dating mission statement and layout exactly what you love about your body so you can rebuild that confidence muscle. Remember, working on you *is* working on your dating life! This conversation makes important connections between your upbringing and the nature of your current relationships. If you are familiar with partners being unavailable in your life, you might be replaying that old script and unconsciously attracting unavailable people. The key is to recognize this pattern, maintain your awareness, and make a plan to counteract this familiarity. Sometimes, even when things don't serve us, we go back to them because we're comfortable. Right now, we're all feeling a sense of uncertainty and in dating this feeling can be even more pronounced. You'll hear how Julia has evolved on this issue and is ready to take things in stride, not getting too attached to dating outcomes, and actually having fun in the process! If you are not feeling confident in your skin and it's holding you back, sign up for a free coaching session with Kimmy, just like Julia did. Sign up right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And if you want to learn how to play up your strengths, feel sexy in your skin, and make yourself memorable in the best way through ninja dating and flirting skills, come to Kimmy's special virtual event Flirt Immersion Experience November 21. You will get hands-on flirt training, get advice from men, and put it all to practice through speed dating. Spots are limited so sign up today https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 167 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Sexy Confidence: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Do you feel weighed down by all the negative thoughts, emotions, and feelings swirling around in your head? Whatever your circumstances are, sometimes it's really difficult to get unstuck and release the negative thoughts that dominate your mind when you're feeling the pressure. This week, Kimmy's diving into a term you may have heard: Head Trash. Kimmy interviews an expert in eliminating your Head Trash, Noah St. John. Known widely as the "Power Habits Mentor", Noah is a bestselling author, motivational keynote speaker, and business expert. EPISODE 166 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Rid Of Your Head Trash: Interview With Noah St. John Noah jumps right in to talk through his origins as a poor kid in a wealthy neighborhood, his battle with depression, and a suicide attempt at a young age. From there, Noah was able to rise out of these circumstances and create a successful business helping people to get rid of their own head trash and manifest success for themselves. This conversation will help you get a handle on what your own personal head trash is, so you can discern if it's blocking you from finding the love you deserve. Noah and Kimmy break down the importance of understanding your destination and releasing yourself from negative, cyclical patterns that don't serve you. If you've noticed you're repeating patterns, dating the same people, making the same mistakes, this conversation will help push you to see a different perspective. Listen in to this conversation to understand the steps you need to take to become aware of your limiting beliefs and then take action to combat your head trash one step at a time. This conversation is all about getting out of your head and getting rid of your head trash so that you can get unstuck to find love. If you want help to pinpoint the limiting, negative beliefs you hold about yourself when it comes to love and relationships, sign up for a FREE session with Kimmy right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Remember, what shows up in one area of your life often leaks into others. Take the time to identify what's holding you back so you can let go, move forward, and start seeing the success you deserve! EPISODE 166 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Rid Of Your Head Trash: Interview With Noah St. John. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Spirituality is an integral part of the human experience, and for many of us, our spiritual selves are tied to our desires to find a lasting, loving relationship. If you're working on yourself (and therefore working on your dating life), tapping into your spiritual side could be key to getting to know yourself more deeply and overcoming what's holding you back from achieving your goals. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Laura Michelle Powers, a celebrity psychic who helps her clients to communicate with loved ones, angels, spirits, and other energy beings. Powers is the author of seven books and hosts the Healing Powers Podcast. EPISODE 165 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Spirituality And Your Love Life: Interview With Laura Michelle Powers These two jump in right away to talk through Laura's journey from working in politics to following her intuition to embrace both her psychic abilities and her creativity as a rewarding and successful career path. Everyone has the ability to tap into their empathic self, which is the ability to feel the emotions and energy of others in your body. Laura and Kimmy discuss the value of welcoming this ability and how it can open up new ways of seeing the world, yourself, and others. This conversation will invite you to explore how you can look inwardly for answers and certainty, instead of relying on others to validate for you. You'll learn some helpful tips to distinguish whether fears or hesitations that have blocked you from taking action in the past truly originate from you or from others. If you have a tendency to shapeshift in order to please other people, this episode will help you to investigate what's going on for you internally so you can take full ownership of your needs and desires. This conversation will invite you to develop an awareness of your empathic abilities and work to release the fears you have around the unknown so you can create a plan to go for what you really want. If you've struggled with being in your body, acknowledging or expressing your emotions to others (or to yourself) take 30 minutes and get on the phone with Kimmy by clicking right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The answers you're seeking around your love life are within your reach! If this conversation resonated with you and you're looking for more certainty around dating, take action by starting with a call. EPISODE 165 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Spirituality And Your Love Life: Interview With Laura Michelle Powers. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Are you an "overcaretaker" and focus all of your energy taking care of the emotional needs of others rather than yourself? You might find yourself exhausted by your relationships because in the end you feel depleted and attract the "takers." This week on a live Coaching with Kimmy episode, Kimmy focuses on how it's time to get a little selfish! Being selfish can improve your relationship with yourself, and can actually help build your relationships with other people! You'll hear Kimmy coach Spike, a guy who's on a quest to find a healthy relationship. He's had a hard time putting his needs first and not defaulting to old behavior patterns that only serve the needs of others, sometimes at his own expense. EPISODE 164 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Time To Get Selfish: Coaching With Kimmy Spike opens up immediately and shares how he grew up, the abuse he suffered as a child, and his struggle with addiction. If you find yourself always bending over backward to take care of other people's needs before your own, listen up! Kimmy zeros in on the telltale signs of being a people pleaser, and how that generosity and altruism can leak into your dating life which causes lopsided relationships. This conversation addresses how societal expectations around gender affect everyone from women to men in different ways. If you've ever felt like you didn't fit into societal expectations of your gender, this conversation will speak to you. Spike shares several examples of how some of his fears around dating and relationships have showed up in his life recently. This session zones in on tips on how to better express your needs and trust that your needs are valid -- especially if this is a new practice for you. If you find your confidence in what you can do for others, take a chance to get a little selfish and be open to receiving more! If you've questioned whether you're too needy or you analyze how you can provide for others over you in relationships, sign up for a coaching call with Kimmy and talk it out here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Maybe it's time for you to try putting you first! EPISODE 164 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Time To Get Selfish: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Have you ever met someone you felt an intense emotional and physical connection with at first but then shortly after you date them they slowly disappear or give you crumbs? If your answer is, "Yes! All the time?!" — you might be exhibiting behaviors that attract emotionally unavailable people. On this episode of the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy breaks down five reasons why you could be confusing the chemistry of the emotionally unavailable with true intimacy, and what you can do about it. EPISODE 163 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why You Confuse Chemistry Of The Emotionally Unavailable This episode will show you that you have the power to attract secure, honest relationships if you learn how to open up, emote, and be emotionally available yourself. If you find yourself consistently attracting emotionally or physically unavailable people into your life, this episode will give you the tools to spot someone like that from a mile away and shut it down! Kimmy walks through how you may not be expressing your needs and desires or setting boundaries clearly enough — especially if the relationship you've found yourself in is full of excitement and passion. Sometimes, you have to challenge yourself to investigate your own beliefs about what a loving, supportive relationship looks like — and that means going back into your past. This podcast will help you answer questions like: How was love expressed when you were growing up? Have you found confidence and success in your role as a "fixer"? Do you gravitate towards relationships with suspense, spontaneity, and strong passion and think of stable people as boring, or lacking a spark? Listen in to hear how emotionally unavailable people can confuse you by showering you with compliments and affection in superficial ways. The dating pool does have emotionally unavailable people in it, but there are just as many amazing, emotionally secure people out there waiting to meet you! Once you have the tools to open up, express your boundaries, and let people really feel you on a deep level, you will change who you attract. If you're looking for guidance in helping you identify how you can attract people who are emotionally available, sign up for a complimentary call with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You deserve to have a healthy, secure, honest relationship that brings out the best in you. When you know understand how to become emotionally available yourself, you will attract people who are not afraid of intimacy and you can find peace in that security. EPISODE 163 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why You Confuse Chemistry Of The Emotionally Unavailable. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?: Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Jane, an accomplished, dedicated physician who was realizing she kept attracting narcissists. As a podcast listener, she reached out to Kim on a breakthrough call two years ago, during a stressful time in her career. Now (during quarantine!) she's met an amazing guy and is in a healthy, fulfilling relationship. EPISODE 162 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Narcissists No More!: Where Are They Now With Jane. Jane dives in by talking through the challenges she was facing in her dating life before she got in touch with Kimmy. Jane was struggling with expressing her needs and feelings effectively, along with being an overly generous, caring and giving person. Listen in for an essential tip about recognizing the difference between being truly vulnerable and over-sharing on dates. Kimmy and Jane talk through her online dating profile pictures and Jane's tendency to hide her body on her profile. You'll hear some of the biggest lessons Jane learned, like setting clear boundaries early and getting better at flirting. Kimmy even uses Jane's flirty texts as the gold standard for other clients! Stay tuned to hear all about the new man in Jane's life and how she's handling the uncharted territory of maintaining a healthy relationship with him. You'll hear how Jane actively applied what she learned about setting boundaries with him, despite her previous fear that it would have pushed him away. If you're like Jane -- leading a high-pressure career, attracting narcissists, struggling with online dating or being playful and flirtatious on dates -- take this opportunity to get on the phone with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough If you're feeling stuck in a rut, burnt out, or frustrated with the dating scene (especially now!), that 30 minutes could change the course of your entire life like it did for Jane. And who knows, maybe you will be the next star in her Where Are They Now episodes to talk about your successes. EPISODE 163 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Narcissists No More!: Where Are They Now With Jane. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Did you ever wish that you could be more fun and charismatic? Well, then you'll definitely want to listen to this episode where you'll learn how charisma is a learned skill. If you've been listening to this podcast, chances are you know it's possible through Kimmy's teachings but you'll hear a deeper dive into some tangible tips that will help you be more magnetic and attractive. This week, Kimmy brings on Holley Mignosi who is a speaking coach, storyteller, and hypnotic body language authority and helps leaders and executives master the art of charismatic communication to have a juicy discussion on charisma. EPISODE 161 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mastering Charismatic Communication: Interview With Holley Mignosi Often times we view others who exude charisma as if they were born with it. But the truth is, you can practice techniques to become more charismatic and influence others to be more magnetically attracted to you. Kimmy and Holley dive right in, talking about Holley's journey from the modeling and acting world into her current work. Holley talks about how in Hollywood, charisma is the currency, which can be both a blessing and a curse. You'll hear about a low point in Holley's life that spurred her to transform her relationship with her body image. Listen in to hear Kimmy and Holley discuss how charisma can help you radiate positive energy, make great first impressions, and build the confidence you need to go after what you want. Holley and Kimmy talk through how to tell your story from a place of victory, instead of victimhood. Plus, you'll hear tips from Holley about what kinds of hand gestures to use to show your date they can trust you, along with her 4 Pillars of Charisma. If you are wanting to hone in on your flirt skills to become more magnetic and charismatic, spots are still open for Kimmy's *NEW* 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge. https://28xztw45.pages.infusionsoft.net/ It runs until Oct 2 and it's FREE! Uplevel your charisma, and put those new tools to work in your life today! And as always, you can hop on a FREE call with Kimmy to help you personally map out a flirt plan here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 161 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mastering Charismatic Communication: Interview With Holley Mignosi. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers