Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Are you hiding your body because you're embarrassed about how you look? As summer approaches and your world might be opening up, you might be starting to think about looking your best and dressing for the warmer weather. Feeling attractive on the outside relates to how you feel inside and WILL affect your sexy dating confidence. If you're ready to improve your health and build a better relationship with your body image, listen in! This week, Kimmy interviews Malin Svensson, CEO and Founder of Nordic Body, Jane Fonda's fitness coach(!), and the author of Wake Up: Your Body and Mind After 50. EPISODE 197 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Awakening Your Body To Boost Dating Confidence: Interview With Malin Svensson Kimmy and Malin dive in to talk about the importance of developing a strong mindset in order to increase your physical strength and dating confidence -- at any age! Exercising is, of course, part of a healthy lifestyle, but this conversation will remind you not to focus on the scale. When you nourish your body and engage in movement, the more you will feel connected to your physical self which is an attraction magnet. The more connected you feel, the more present you'll be and the more you'll radiate confidence in all areas of your life, including love. Malin shares some super useful tips about how to motivate yourself to get moving if you're feeling stuck. One key takeaway you'll learn is that it's better to take on what you *can* do, rather than feeling pressure to attempt what you can't. Kimmy and Malin discuss how to take small steps to achieve little wins both in your health and dating life. Kimmy reviews a few tricks you can use with your mind and body to boost your dating confidence. If you are ready to build a more positive body image to increase your sexy confidence, sign up for a complimentary coaching session with Kimmy to get started. Book your time here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough Working on your love life IS working on you! Maybe revamping your closet is the best first step for you to get the motivation you need to find the love you truly deserve. EPISODE 197 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Awakening Your Body To Boost Dating Confidence: Interview With Malin Svensson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

It's no surprise to hear that making a good first impression is essential, especially when dating. In fact, it only takes 7 seconds now to make a first impression. So, what steps can you take to ensure you shine as your true self and attract the right kind of attention when you walk into a room or even on your dating profile? This week, Kimmy interviews Scott Carson, an investor, entrepreneur, marketer and host of the Note Closers Show Podcast. As a proven expert in building relationships in business, Scott knows a thing or two about creating an impact with a first impression. EPISODE 196 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson Kimmy and Scott recollect their first impressions of each other at the New Media Summer for podcasters more than a year ago. This conversation is packed with style and conversation tips you can use when getting ready for your next social event IRL. If you find yourself recycling the same drab, boring clothes over and over again, this episode is your sign it's time for a refresh! Listen in to hear about using color to ensure that you stand out in the crowd or leading with being of service to others in your first interaction to set the tone. Scott and Kimmy trade stories on good and bad first impressions that stuck out to them over the years both in love and business. If you have ever stood in front of your mirror and wondered, "Does this dress look good on me?" or, "Does this outfit reflect a sexy dating image?", listen in how you can improve your image. Before you have a chance to get to know someone on a deeper level, first impressions signal how much you care and can make or break the opportunity to get to know someone better. This lively, fun conversation will remind you to take the time to take care of yourself so that you can start attracting new love and opportunity. It's time to get out there and get noticed! If you really want to learn how to create a great first impression and get out of your pandemic clothes...get a virtual makeover with Kimmy! You'll learn about your body type, what clothes flatter your figure, what to stay away from and Kimmy will pick out outfits for your photoshoot, lifestyle and for dates so that you have the confidence you need to attract a potential date. Click here for more details http://bit.ly/KimVM And, there are still a few spots left for Kimmy's Ultimate Flirt Masterclass, going live TONIGHT at 5pM PST/8p EST. Claim yours while you still can and get the hands-on practice flirting you've been asking for! https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting EPISODE 196 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with current and former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what's changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Alexis, who has gone from struggling with her self-worth to surpassing her dating goals in just 3 short months! Since investing in coaching with Kimmy as a 5-year "divorce-iversary" present to herself, Alexis has made some majors strides in her dating life. EPISODE 195 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Sexy Confidence After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Alexis Alexis begins by sharing the fears that were holding her back from recognizing her self-worth and believing she was deserving of the cake, not just the crumbs! Alexis shares struggling to even get a date to not letting men earn her due to the lack of setting boundaries and not expressing her needs. You'll hear Alexis and Kimmy talk through how she increased her sexy, flirty and feminine confidence through working on her wardrobe, profile and mindset. Listen in to hear great tips about how to diversify the photos on your online dating profiles to showcase every side of you while still highlighting your sexy, feminine side. If you have done a lot of work to build your self-esteem and raise your self-worth, only to be knocked back a few steps after a few bad dates, you will definitely want to listen to this episode! You'll hear how Alexis went from battling her insecurities to now dating up a storm with great men. Old anxiety or troubles from your childhood or earlier dating and relationship experiences will always show up, but if you are equipped with a plan to combat those, you'll start to see success too, just like Alexis! Take the leap like Alexis did and schedule a complimentary call with Kimmy https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough And, who knows? Maybe you'll be sharing your story on another episode of Where Are They Now?! Plus, reserve your spot HERE https://eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting for Kimmy's new Ultimate Flirt Masterclass designed for women and men to create irresistible chemistry, stop feeling nervous when flirting and even get tips on how to put together the perfect date outfit. This is your chance to get hands-on practice out there in the dating world. Space is limited, sign up today! EPISODE 195 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Sexy Confidence After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Alexis. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

When you walk into a room for a social event or date, do you feel anxious and get in your head? You want to feel and come across as magnetic, confident, and secure so that you'll make a good impression. But after spending so much time apart from others, your social muscles might be atrophied or maybe you need to work on building them for the first time. This week, Kimmy interviews Robbie Kramer, an expert who specializes in cultivating social confidence and improving men's interactions and relationships from love to business and beyond. EPISODE 194 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Social Confidence And Dating: Interview With Robbie Kramer Robbie shares his journey from being a golf geek with no dating experience to coaching men internationally to have successful relationships. If you're out of practice creating chemistry in conversations and experience social anxiety, this conversation is for you. Listen in to hear concrete exercises and tips you can try on your own to break unhelpful patterns and start getting comfortable being uncomfortable. Whether you're a man or a woman, you know dating can be intimidating! This discussion digs into how being stuck in your head on dates or focusing on what you're going to say next can blind you to the social cues you need to pick up on to create chemistry. Robbie and Kimmy disclose about some surprising tactics you can experiment with to help you decrease your anxiety and become more confident in your approach. If you want to dive in and work on improving your confidence, you need one thing: experience! Hop on a free 30-minute call with Kimmy here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough and learn how to bring more of your swagger into social and dating situations. And stay tuned for Kimmy's newest Dating Masterclass for both men and women coming to you on May 24th! Click here: https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/ to sign up and get first dibs on your spot in this private class where you will get hands-on practice flirting and creating chemistry on dates. EPISODE 194 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Social Confidence And Dating: Interview With Robbie Kramer. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

How much do you rely on physical or sexual chemistry to create connections with dates? If you answered, "All the time!" then this episode is for you. This week, Kimmy live coaches Maggie, a vibrant woman who's ready to get back into the dating scene to find an intelligent, attractive man. The problem is, she just isn't physically attracted to the guys she's meeting. EPISODE 193 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cultivating Chemistry On Dates: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy asks Maggie to jump in and tell her story. Maggie reflects on how the loss of her husband and her relationship dynamic with her father have impacted her perception of what she deserves. After decades of prioritizing and caring for her family above herself, Maggie recognizes now that she's in a new stage in her life where it's possible to put herself first for the first time. If you consider yourself a people pleaser like Maggie, you may find that it's easier to take care of others instead of yourself. But now, Maggie is having a hard time knowing the steps she can take to allow herself to be in receiving mode. This conversation illuminates how self-reflection relates to the first step to breaking a pattern…even when it comes to attraction! Often the issue that rises to the surface like not having chemistry with your dates, is actually more deeply rooted in something that only you can change. Listen in to find out the surprising reasons why Maggie isn't finding anyone attractive and preventing her from finding someone new. Kimmy reveals actionable tips for Maggie so that she can slow down, be in receiving mode and open herself up for love again. Chemistry is more than just sexual attraction! To find out more about Kimmy's three essential ingredients to creating strong, lasting chemistry... sign up for a breakthrough call with Kimmy right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Just like Maggie, you can begin your journey to crack your code and find out what's blocking you from finding the love you want. You can also get started right now by signing up to be on the priority list for Kimmy's first coed Masterclass on creating chemistry for both men and women on May 17th! Sign up here and you'll be first in line to secure your spot! https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 193 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cultivating Chemistry On Dates: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

What does it mean to be your authentic self? You've heard the buzzwords, but do you really know how to put all these theories into action? This week, Kimmy interviews an expert on living authentically, Michael Brody-Waite. Michael is an acclaimed speaker, Inc. 500 Entrepreneur, three-time CEO, TEDx speaker, and author of Great Leaders Live Like Drug Addicts. As a recovering addict, Michael's mission is to teach as many people as possible how to lead themselves by shedding the masks they hide behind in order to live as their true, authentic selves. EPISODE 192 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Hiding Behind The Masks: Interview With Michael Brody-Waite Michael begins by sharing his recovery journey and the empowerment he gained after moving through a 12-Step program, and the lessons learned that apply to many areas of life including business and love. Kimmy and Michael share stories about how we often try to hide our weaknesses, avoid difficult conversations and hold back our unique perspective in dating in order to be "liked" by someone else. The result of these actions is that we hide our true selves and build relationships not based in truth, or fail to build relationships at all. This conversation shines a light on the actual habits and practices you need to lean into in order to truly live as your authentic self and attract a healthy relationship. Michael shares tips around using the transformative power of starting something new, as opposed to trying to stop something you've been used to doing. If you have already started or want to start working on yourself, this episode will help provide your roadmap to get started. Have you noticed yourself saying "Yes!" when you'd rather say "No!" or constantly avoiding conversations or situations that make you feel uncomfortable? Start doing the work to notice how these moments come up for you and get the support you need to push through the difficult parts and come out on the other side. To connect with your authentic self and find the love you want, set up a time to talk with Kimmy here.https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In just 30-minutes, you may gain a new perspective that leads you to find a match that's the right fit for you! And, if you want to join a close-knit community of women all working on themselves and their love lives, join Kimmy's private Facebook Group: The Love Makeover Insiders. https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers. Also, join her priority list for the upcoming Masterclass in May for both men and women here https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 192 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Hiding Behind The Masks: Interview With Michael Brody-Waite. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Let's face it: dating is tough to navigate! No matter who you are, where you live, how old you are or your previous experience, dating during a global pandemic comes with a whole new set of challenges. This week, Kimmy walks you through the 5 best ways to navigate the new dating landscape and up your game. Whether you've taken a break from dating entirely or you went through a breakup in the last year, you can use these tips to start building back your social muscle and find success in love. EPISODE 191 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Up Your 2021 Dating Game The truth is, dating is different now! In order to jump back into the dating pool, you need to embrace the changes and learn to see the benefits instead of the barriers. So many people have used this time in lockdown to focus on creating meaningful emotional connections as opposed to relying on physical connections only. Listen in to hear important ways to expand your network and meet people in new places -- even online! You'll hear tips from Kimmy based on her work with thousands of clients on how they are meeting new people and landing dates even during and after lockdown. Listen in to hear key elements that create a fun and playful dating environment to reduce the burnout! Set your intention to re-enter the dating world with a positive outlook, instead of out of fear that you'll attract someone who's not right for you. If you are looking to restart your dating life on the right foot, there are 2 things you can do right now! First, sign up here for a free coaching session with Kimmy so that she can help you get started https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Second, click here to get on the priority list to be the first to know about Kimmy's new Dating Masterclass coming this May! https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/. In this Masterclass, both men and women will be in the room so you'll get real-time lessons on how to date, mate and relate! EPISODE 191 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Up Your 2021 Dating Game. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Matt, who found Kimmy through a flirt workshop as he was trying to get back into the dating scene after a divorce. Matt jumps in to talk about the challenges he faced in finding a relationship leading up to his work with Kimmy. EPISODE 190 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Matt You'll hear about how the barriers Matt believed were holding him back were actually not the real reasons blocking him from finding love. Kimmy and Matt talk about the impact of coaching to get him to transition from leading with what he could do for women, rather than by showing them who he is. If you, like Matt, have a tendency to jump into relationships quickly, listen in to hear how creating a goal-oriented dating plan can help slow you down and refocus on your intention. This conversation touches on an essential truth in dating - when you are willing to open up, be vulnerable and show your date who you are even when it feels scary, you begin to attract the kind of person you're looking for. Now, Matt's in a beautiful relationship with the woman of his dreams! Stay tuned to hear how they met and how excited he is that they are such a great match! This conversation will emphasize the fact that you can meet someone special, even with online dating or don't live near one another and even in the midst of a global pandemic! If you're ready to declare what you want and just need help creating the plan to go after it, set up a time to talk with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. And if you are interested in an upcoming Masterclass for men and women around creating chemistry, sign up for the priority list here https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/. As Matt says, if you want to experience something you never have before, you have to try something you've never tried before! EPISODE 190 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Matt. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

How do you come back from a setback? How do you stay resilient after a series of bad dates, no dates, or failed relationships? This week on the show, Kimmy's bringing you a special episode, with a special guest. What began as an interview, transformed into a coaching session with Tim Storey, widely recognized as a legendary life coach to professional athletes and celebrities (including Oprah!). EPISODE 189 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Is Tim Storey Single? Building Dating Resilience Tim's story is powerful, inspirational and will help you understand the strength it takes to stay resilient no matter what. Tim has mastered the art of turning setbacks into comebacks and has built a career on coaching stars to operate and achieve at the highest levels. If you are coming off a setback in your life, big or small - listen in to how you can avoid one of the most major pitfalls people tend to face. Listen in to hear Kimmy and Tim dive into why he's still single! You'll hear all about Tim's upbringing and how he had to learn resilience at an early age. You'll hear how Tim's experience being raised by his mother and his 3 sisters changed his expectations of what a successful relationship looked like. And, tune in to discover Kimmy's coaching advice to Tim about he can change the intention of his conversations in order to go deeper and make connections beyond his professional persona. If you are dealing with setbacks in your life, major or minor take this opportunity to be coached by Kimmy like she did with Tim, and sign up for a free breakthrough call with her right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You will learn how to bounce back stronger than you ever have been before! It just takes one decision, one call to change your dating outcomes forever. And, keep an eye out for our "Part 2" live conversation coming soon to my Amazon Live show, Kimmy's Love Hub on SwayTVlive.com and to discuss his new book, Miracle Mentality. Subscribe to my newsletter here to get more details about all my upcoming new shows and masterclasses coming up! https://jd6421ka.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 189 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Is Tim Storey Single? Building Dating Resilience. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

We all have walls. No matter who you are or where you come from, you might have experiences in your past that you'd rather not repeat. We build up emotional walls to protect ourselves. The truth is, you may not realize you're doing this or even know where it originates from. But, if you're willing to get curious you may find an opening that allows you to start the work of breaking down your walls. This week you'll get the chance to hear Kimmy coach powerhouse beauty icon and influencer Eden Sassoon on her new Amazon Live show. You can see the full episode: Kimmy's Love Hub on SwayTV here on YouTube https://youtu.be/GkC82Ql_2yc. EPISODE 188 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Eden Sassoon, The Black Widow: Coaching With Kimmy Known by her friends as "The Black Widow," Eden talks about her pattern of reeling men in, then letting them go just as fast. Kimmy and Eden deep dive on the current challenges Eden faces in her dating life. You'll hear her open up about the connection between her sobriety and her fear of true intimacy. This conversation makes clear that while Eden knows exactly how to glam up, flirt confidently and make men feel amazing, one of her biggest walls is her fear of not being loved for who she really is. You'll hear Kimmy and Eden uncover the fact that her reliance on physical chemistry can act as a shield that doesn't let men get to know her on a real emotional level. This powerful and emotional conversation may reveal the exhaustion one feels when energy is constantly around keeping the walls up to avoid getting hurt. You'll hear how the walls might be preventing you (like Eden) from finding emotional intimacy. If this conversation resonated with you and you're ready to begin your journey to chip away at the walls you've built, set up a time to chat with Kimmy right here. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. You deserve to be with someone who loves you for your authentic self - with no filters. When you allow yourself to be vulnerable, you give others the opportunity to show you if you can feel safe being your true self. EPISODE 188 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Eden Sassoon, The Black Widow: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

The dating world is changing, and that's due in part to shifting gender roles in our society. If you're a woman who's a high-achiever and knows how to accomplish professional goals, you've probably felt disappointed in the pool of men out there before. In this episode of the Charisma Quotient, you'll hear a conversation that will broaden your horizons about who could be the right match for you. Kimmy interviews Jon Birger, an award-winning magazine writer, accidental dating guru, journalist and author of Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are In Charge. EPISODE 187 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Interview With Jon Birger: Powerful Women Dating In A Modern World Jon dives into the research that's gone into his books. Over the past several decades as women have graduated college higher rates than men, there's been an increase in the number of college-educated women relative to college-educated men. Kimmy and Jon talk about the seismic shift this trend has created and dig into how all people, regardless of gender can reimagine their criteria in a partner to find the right person for them. This conversation shines a light on how interacting on dating apps can be transactional and addictive in nature. While the research shows that it can be tougher to find your soulmate online, if you diversify your dating portfolio and flex your social muscles by engaging in all the ways available to you, you'll increase your chance of success. Jon breaks down the research on the success rates of long-term relationships based on where you meet, whether that's online, in college, or at your place of worship. Kimmy and Jon talk through how you can be more open to different experiences and different people. If you've been single for a long time, you have to look at what you can do differently to get a different result. It's all about keeping an open mind and tossing out the overly-detailed checklists! To create your dating plan and find out how to diversify your dating portfolio, set up a time to talk with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. In just 30-minutes, you may gain new insight as to a dating plan that is right for you. And, if you want to join a close-knit community of women all working on themselves and their love lives, join Kimmy's private Facebook Group: The Love Makeover Insiders. https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Interview With Jon Birger: Powerful Women Dating In A Modern World. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?: Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Molly, a healthcare worker who was feeling burned out by a string of dating experiences that went nowhere. When she heard Kimmy on a podcast talking about closet makeovers, she signed up to work with Kimmy and got a whole lot more than she bargained for! EPISODE 186 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cracking The Love Code: Where Are They Now With Molly Kimmy and Molly dive right in and talk about what Molly's dating experiences were like before she became a client. If you're like Molly and have had a series of short flings that don't progress, it can be discouraging and hard to find the motivation to move forward. You may not even realize that your conversation style or not sharing enough of your emotions may be keeping you from discovering a spark and deeper connection with your date. Molly talks about how she was having a hard time finding men that she really clicked with and how in her work with Kimmy she realized she could shift her perspective and approach and start getting different results. Listen in to hear how Molly tapped into her emotional intelligence, reframed her past in order to look forward to her future, and how she met her new boyfriend! Molly reminisces about their first date, how they made the connection, and shares how supported she feels in this new relationship. If you are debating signing up for a coaching call with Kimmy, take Molly's advice. Working with Kimmy means getting out there and practicing how to date in real-time. And remember, working on your dating life IS working on you! If you want to become better at flirting and gain the skills you need to have fun, successful dates, Kimmy is hosting another Flirt Immersion Workshop on March 20th! The event is small with only a few spots left so grab your ticket now here https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/. You'll join forces with a group of women to participate in interactive games and even speed date with a group of men, chosen by Kimmy. Learn everything you need to know about the art of flirting to start attracting the right guy for you! EPISODE 186 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cracking The Love Code: Where Are They Now With Molly. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Over the past year, the virtual dating scene has exploded. With people all over the world on lockdown due to the pandemic, we've all had to get creative and comfortable communicating using online platforms instead of face to face. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Zach Schleien, co-founder and CEO of Filter Off, a new video speed-dating app that has taken the industry by storm. Kimmy and Zach talk about the ability of video to transform conversations with your matches from boring and awkward to engaging and fun! EPISODE 185 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Virtual Dating: Interview with Zach Schleien Taking the leap to video dates more quickly can actually give you the power to find out sooner if you're really interested in your match. Kimmy and Zach dive into how to make a good first impression on your video dates. Here's a hint, the rules are very similar to in-person! You'll hear about what colors to wear, how to make sure your video is framed well and your audio sounds good so YOU shine on the call. Kimmy talks through how online dating actually forces us to slow down, define what we really want, and actually get to know someone before jumping straight into a physical connection. Now, there are real parameters around who can earn the right to meet you in person, and that's not a bad thing. In fact, you'll learn that in the past year, people have actually been able to take advantage of the virtual space to progress further in their relationships than they otherwise would have. If you are looking to spice up your virtual dating regimen and make genuine connections with great people in your area or who are part of your community, this is your time! Kimmy is excited to announce the next installment of the Flirt Immersion Experience virtual workshop coming to you Saturday March 20. You'll get to experience video speed-dating, learn fool-proof flirting techniques from Kimmy with hands-on exercises and join a community of people who are working on themselves to find love. With a little coaching, guidance, and the right platform, you can work on your online dating skills. Book here now to grab your spot as seats are limited https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 185 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Virtual Dating: Interview with Zach Schleien. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Letting go of what's holding you back often seems easier said than done. Even though the process of letting go of things that don't serve your best interests is often painful in the short term, the long-term benefits have the power to release it so you can attract something positive. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Hale Dwoskin, an New York Times bestselling author of the Sedona Method, who works with individuals and companies to teach them how to transform their lives by letting go. EPISODE 184 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go To Attract The One: Interview With Hale Dwoskin Kimmy and Hale dive right in to talk about how your fear of the unknown can limit you not only from accomplishing your goals but also from being happy. Hale and Kimmy introduce the idea that feelings are just feelings - they are not facts - and you have the power to let them go. Hale does a quick exercise at the top to demonstrate the power of The Sedona Method to help you identify your feelings and release them. This conversation makes the distinction that our emotions do not define who we are and that love and joy are always present within us. You'll learn that the act of letting go actually helps you access your authentic self more directly. And when you're on a date, the more you show up as your true self, the more the other person is likely to feel comfortable being themselves. If you have struggled with feeling needy and attached early on in a relationship, this episode is packed with tips to help you release that need. In fact, you'll hear about how it's healthier and more balanced to operate this way in a relationship than becoming dependent on another person. The more attached you are in life to an outcome, the more you unintentionally sabotage the result. Kimmy and Hale deliver incredible tips on how to gain freedom over your experiences, eliminate dating anxiety and burnout and share specific techniques to counteract nerves and anxiety the moment they arise on a date. If you are in your head during dates, overthinking, and not being present, this is your chance to slow down and actively make a choice to let go of the emotions stopping you from showing up as your best self. If you are looking to let go to attract someone new, hop on a free breakthrough call with Kimmy by booking now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In one half-hour call, you will be able to gain clarity on what might be holding you back in order for you to move forward! EPISODE 184 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go To Attract The One: Interview With Hale Dwoskin. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Raise your hand if you're feeling stuck, frustrated or like you're missing the internal motivation to put yourself out there in the dating scene. Are you doing everything you know how to do to meet potential matches but still getting left out in the cold? If this is you right now, you're not alone! This week on the show, Kimmy live coaches Susan, a dedicated social worker who's dabbled in the dating scene since her divorce but is having trouble progressing with men for different reasons. EPISODE 183 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reasons You're Not Progressing In Love: Coaching with Kimmy Kimmy begins the episode with 4 main contributing factors that might be causing you to not progress in love. We then hear Susan's challenges and attempts at dating hearing that she's on multiple dating apps, offering up Zoom dates, joining online meetups (you name it!), and just isn't making the love connection she wants. Kimmy digs in with Susan on how she's conversing with the men she's talking to, whether she's on the apps or off. Listen in for a real-time example of how to switch the content of your conversations from leading with facts to leading with feelings. If you're like Susan and your flirtations and conversations on dates seem to end in a dead end every time, it's time to change up your approach and start getting different results. Kimmy also uncovers how Susan's image of herself and her pictures might be another culprit to her not attracting the men she wants to meet. You'll even hear a few tips about how to game the dating app algorithm to get new matches more easily. This episode will show you the importance of creating a strategic, dating plan so that you progress in your dating life. It starts with making the decision to try something new and explore more ways to make real love connections. Here's one thing you can do to get unstuck and get moving. Sign up (it's free!) for Kimmy's 2021 Dating Progression Roadmap, bit.ly/2021datingroadmap an intimate virtual fireside chat with Kimmy where you will learn the secrets to progressing online, on Zoom and on dates. And, you'll have the chance to get laser hot seat live coaching from Kimmy! It's never too late to switch up your game plan and start finding out what works instead of getting stuck on what doesn't. EPISODE 183 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reasons You're Not Progressing In Love: Coaching with Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Some relationships - whether romantic, familial, or otherwise - are toxic. If you've been in a toxic relationship before, or if you're in one right now, you know how overwhelming and paralyzing it can feel to walk away from that situation. This week, Kimmy talks to Dr. Heidi Brocke, a Toxic Relationship Awareness and Healing Expert who herself spent years in a toxic marriage. Dr. Heidi specializes in helping people recognize the traits of toxic people in their lives and delivers the tools to get out and start prioritizing themselves again. EPISODE 182 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Rid Of Toxic Relationships: Interview with Heidi Brocke Kimmy jumps in by asking Dr. Heidi to share her story. This conversation will pull back the curtain on the common traits that toxic people share and how to spot them from a mile away. Kimmy and Dr. Heidi discuss the kinds of people that the toxic ones seek out - the helpers, the caregivers, the over-caregivers, and the people-pleasers. If you are primed to want to help, ease other's pain, and provide unconditional emotional support, you are often the most susceptible to becoming attached to toxic individuals. Dr. Heidi dives into the signals and feelings that may arise when you're involved in a toxic cycle. If you're experiencing guilt around spending time with your loved ones or giving attention to matters at work over prioritizing your significant other, there's a very good chance you're in a toxic relationship. Kimmy and Dr. Heidi give surprising tips around how you can get rid of a negative cycle that could be trapping you. If you are finding yourself putting all your effort and energy into a relationship that is not serving your needs or you feel tremendous guilt whenever you want to do something for yourself, there are resources out there for you to seek support. Set a time to talk with Kimmy right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just half an hour, Kimmy can help you strategize how to stop attracting and dating toxic people. EPISODE 182 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Rid Of Toxic Relationships: Interview with Heidi Brocke. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

With Valentine's Day around the corner, now is the time to give yourself a healthy dose of self love! This week, Kimmy invites you to take a moment to celebrate YOU, unapologetically. Whether you're dating up a storm or leaning into the single life or somewhere in between, if you're not feeling good about yourself, it will negatively impact the relationships and situations you attract. Everyone has experienced the sting of criticism and rejection that can hold you back from becoming the best version of you. EPISODE 181 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating From A Place Of Self-Love Kimmy guides you through a checklist of traits you may have that indicates you may suffer from lower self-love. She then reviews the top 5 ways to overcome them so that you attract a different kind of partner. This episode will teach you how to date from a place of self love so that you are able to center the needs and desires that are truly important to you. You'll hear about why real self love allows you to prioritize your values over superficial commonalities and the three essential components of a healthy, happy relationship. If you have a tendency towards people-pleasing and putting other's people's needs before your own as a rule, this is the episode for you. Kimmy digs in on what you can do to stop these repeating the patterns. You deserve to be with someone who loves you for exactly who you are, quirks and flaws and all! Get in touch with Kimmy and set up a time to talk through what's going on for you. In just half an hour you could leave with a new perspective on your options and the opportunity to have support through your journey. Click here to book now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And, if you want to join a close-knit community of women all working on themselves and their love lives, join Kimmy's private Facebook Group right here. https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers EPISODE 181 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating From A Place Of Self-Love. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

If you are trying to improve or learn a new skill set, whether that be in love, in business or something else, you will increase your chance of success if you have a strategy. Creating a new habit takes commitment and practice. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Dre Baldwin, a former professional basketball player turned YouTuber, focused on helping people build the mental toughness they need to accomplish their goals. EPISODE 180 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Gamifying Your Love Life: Interview With Dre Baldwin Kimmy kicks this conversation off by asking Dre to dig into his history and how he got to where he is today. You'll hear Dre's story of staying committed to athletics throughout his college career and beyond, playing professional basketball overseas for nearly a decade. Dre and Kimmy talk through how to identify what skills helped bring you success in one area of your life and how you can transfer those to other areas of your life too. This episode is all about the ingredients needed to put yourself into action to gamify your love life. If you are feeling stuck and aren't taking the necessary steps to go after what you say you want, this conversation will help you take a look in the mirror and truly evaluate if you are willing to put in the effort to make a change. It all comes down to creating an action plan and pinpointing the strategy you need to get going. Listen in to hear a great trick for taking the emotion out of a tough decision, so you can see your path from a bird's eye view and hold yourself accountable. The two discuss how fear of the unknown is often what holds us back from taking action. Dre shares his philosophy of the power of mastering the mental game. Regardless of your talents, personality or physical characteristics that may make you attractive to a potential partner, this conversation draws attention to the mental game going on in your head. The strength of your mental game unlocks the potential of all of the talent you bring to the table. This conversation will prompt you to take stock of your own talents and understand where your confidence lives. If you are ready to break the patterns that are holding you back from finding love, connect with Kimmy to get started. You can schedule a complimentary strategy call with Kimmy right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Plus, if you want to take it one step further, take a look at Kimmy's audioseries, This May Be Why You Suck at Dating! If you've ever wondered why your romantic endeavors tend to fizzle out, this is your answer. It's super simple to sign up (it takes about 30 seconds) and you can listen anywhere, in any app right here https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer.

Caring for and giving to others selflessly is an incredibly powerful quality. It's a beautiful gift to support and uplift others, but when it comes to finding love, it's important to make sure you're seeking reciprocal relationships so that get your needs met too. This week on the show, Kimmy kicks us off by describing the Top 4 Signs You Might Be an Over-Caretaker. You'll learn that you might be so focused on others that you unintentionally attract people who don't return the love and support you give. In this episode, Kimmy coaches Cindy live to tackle the origins of her tendency to people-please. EPISODE 179 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Are You An Over-Caretaker? Coaching With Kimmy After going through a divorce and a handful of long term relationships, Cindy is ready to step out and find someone who gives her the affection and attention she deserves, and she's working on breaking her habit of over-caretaking. If you have ever felt it's 100% your responsibility to provide everything your loved ones need and want, this episode is for you. Cindy talks through her upbringing, her flirtatious side blossoming as a teenager, and explores how her light may have been dimmed early on. Raised by a giving, selfless mother, Cindy was rewarded for putting herself over others and carries that to this day. Kimmy talks through how these patterns show up in relationships and how we fall into them so easily because they're comfortable and gave us confidence throughout life. When it comes to dating - whether you're in person or online - if you're spending time on dates wondering whether or not you seem interested in your date versus how you feel and offer, you might be exhibiting signs of over-caretaking! And, if you grew up in an environment where feelings were not openly discussed, it can be that much harder to identify and speak those feelings in social interactions. You'll hear several tips around how to approach dates with the goal of making genuine connections and how to lead with curiosity. One major takeaway from this conversation is that there are many different kinds of chemistry! We often default to sexual and physical chemistry, without paying attention to the emotional connection. Kimmy shares some advice on how to lead with finding an emotional chemistry for a slow healthy build. If you want to start learning how to focus on yourself more and boost your flirting skills, there's still time to join Kimmy's FREE 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge! Click on the link right here http://bit.ly/flirt2021 to register. Connect with a group of dynamic, goal-oriented women who are all putting in the time and effort to improve their flirting skills so they can attract a healthy, fulfilling, and reciprocal relationship. EPISODE 179 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Are You An Over-Caretaker? Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

A good sense of humor is one of the top attributes single women and men are seeking in their partners. If you're not endowed with the gift of comedy, can you learn it? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on Global Humor Expert, Peter McGraw. Peter is a marketing and psychology professor at the Leeds School of Business at the University of Colorado at Boulder and the author of the book, Shtick to Business. In this episode, Kimmy and Peter have a conversation about comedic theory as it applies to building genuine connections in dating and relationships. EPISODE 178 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Use Humor and Play In Dating: Interview With Peter McGraw If you're not feeling confident in your ability to flex your funny or be playful, this show will deliver you simple tips you can use to make your date laugh and connect with people who share your sense of humor. Tune in to hear all about the kinds of jokes that work no matter who your audience is and the ones that tend to fall flat. You'll hear how sarcasm and self-deprecating humor can be used as a shield and how leading with positive humor can be a big turn on. Peter shares tips on how to introduce humor to your conversations from an authentic place and how to use it as a connection indicator with your date. If you've been struggling to find success in flirting - humor is one of the most powerful tools in your arsenal! Levity and laughter create quick endorphin hits and allow you to feel excitement in the moment. If you want to build your more humorous side with playful skills and flirty techniques, Kimmy is holding a *FREE* 5 Day Flirt Challenge starting January 25 so register now http://bit.ly/flirt2021. This will help you get out of your head and progress on dates without feeling awkward or desperate. You can keep it playful, light and funny by boosting your comedy skills and letting your natural sense of humor shine through. EPISODE 178 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Use Humor and Play In Dating: Interview With Peter McGraw. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

When you take on a major challenge in your work, your best shot at success is to create an action plan and tackle each step intentionally. The same principle applies in your love life. If you want to have a successful relationship, you need to make a plan and execute it guided by purpose. This week, Kimmy interviews Henry Penix, a serial Global Entrepreneur, Consultant, and Best-Selling Author who helps people create the leverage they need to win in business and in life. EPISODE 177 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Your Strategic Love Plan For Fun in 2021: Interview With Henry Penix Henry has built a reputation to take on big companies and big challenges, but don't let his impressive resume fool you, he has dealt with his share of failures over the years. Kimmy and Henry chat about how having a mindset that treats failure as an opportunity for research and growth creates the resilience you need to keep going after a setback. If you've ever looked at another person or a couple and thought that they've simply been lucky in love, this conversation will challenge that myth! Kimmy and Henry talk through the importance of keeping an open mind and shifting your perspective when you're faced with a challenge, especially when it comes to dating. Kimmy shares a client example of how to not take getting ghosted personally. Plus, Henry shares an incredible tip on how to gamify and reframe your time spent on dating apps. If you struggle with perfectionism, this episode was made for you! If you're a high-achiever in your work, but don't see that same success replicated in your love life, it's time to take a look at what you might be doing to contribute to the results you're getting. Kimmy shares some invaluable practical wisdom about creating new dating habits and move beyond the fear of the unknown. Stay tuned to hear Henry talk about not taking first impressions at face value, and recognizing that when someone's passionate in their work, that is also likely to show up in their love life. If you are looking to take control of your love story and want to create a plan to find success in love, find some time with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And if you are ready to take action, Kimmy is doing another 5 Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge starting January 25 so sign up to get in on it http://bit.ly/flirt2021 It's a great way to jumpstart your strategic love plan with some flirty energy. EPISODE 177 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Your Strategic Love Plan For Fun in 2021: Interview With Henry Penix. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since working with Kimmy and the secrets to their success. On this episode, you'll meet Harpreet, a hospital worker who discovered Kimmy by listening to this podcast. Harpreet reached out because of her lack of self-confidence, poor body image and negative feelings around dating which were preventing her from finding love. EPISODE 176 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Making Dating Fun Again: Where Are They Now With Harpreet Harpreet jumps in by talking through the sources of her self-criticism. She shares a bit about her cultural background and the values that were prioritized growing up that have impacted her ability to build relationships with herself and others to this day. Kimmy reminisces about how she and Harpreet worked together to unpack how her negativity around herself and dating was directly related to why she wasn't progressing on dates. Harpreet learns through coaching with Kimmy how to be grateful and to love herself. Plus, if you've ever felt like a complete fish out of water when it comes to flirting, you are not alone! Kimmy and Harpreet review the essential secret sauce she used around how to have fun flirting and take the pressure off of meeting new people. This episode is packed with invaluable tips you can implement in your life right now like how to track and share your true feelings more easily, how to stay present in the moment and how a positive, resilient attitude can benefit all the different areas of your life. If you were like Harpreet before working with Kimmy and you feel stuck in place in your dating life, now is the time to work on YOU, so that you can find dating fun again. You can schedule a complimentary 30-minute call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and begin your journey to finding self-love AND romance in 2021. EPISODE 176 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Making Dating Fun Again: Where Are They Now With Harpreet. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

2020 will go down in history as one of the toughest of our lives. We were thrown endless curveballs -- and dating and relationships were not exempt! As this unprecedented year finally comes to a close, Kimmy brings you an episode dedicated to counting down the Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2020 and how to put those behind us to attract the one in 2021. Women and men looking for love transformed their lives to respond to the pandemic and the dating process seemed to slow WAY down. Whether you used dating apps for the first time, explored the challenge of connecting on video dates (or good old phone calls!), or started a relationship without the benefit of physical touch, the stress of this new virtual reality made it easy to miss the basics. EPISODE 175 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2020 When the stay-at-home orders hit, did you totally shut down and checked out? If you've ever thought, "What's the point of working on your love life now?", this episode is for you! Take this episode as a moment to reflect on your choices and mindset around dating this year. Was your approach rooted in gratitude or were you closed off? Were you totally burnt out and bringing that mindset into your love life? Were you were swiping on the apps, numbing out, neglecting your profile, your photos, or asking your matches predictable, boring questions? You can take action to change your results with a few simple surprising tips and revelations from Kimmy. She does this by reviewing how these top mistakes made this year can help you learn what to do into the new year. Start by surrounding yourself with a powerful group of single women working on their dating lives in Kimmy's private Facebook Group The Love Makeover Insiders https://www.facebook.com/group. Next, you can give yourself the gift of figuring out what your mistakes might have been specifically this year by signing up for Kimmy's audio series This May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. And as always if you're ready to start 2021 off strong and create a love plan for yourself, schedule a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Give yourself the boost you need to leave 2020 in the dust and become your best self in the New Year! EPISODE 175 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2020. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

The first and most essential piece of finding lasting love is to love yourself. Maybe it sounds cliche, but it's true! True self-love is not selfISH -- it's an appreciation of oneself that grows from intentional action to support your physical, emotional and spiritual growth. In today's episode, Kimmy has a deep, honest conversation with Susan Burrell, podcaster and author of Live an Empowered Life! Your 30-Day Journey all about how to empower yourself to experience true self love. EPISODE 173 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Empowerment And Self Love: Interview With Susan Burrell Susan opens up immediately to discuss her life as a fiery redhead and the process she went through to regain her love of herself after a devastating divorce. This conversation shines a light on what it takes you to rebuild your relationship with yourself when a life-altering moment has impacted you. This year has introduced new challenges and has presented us with opportunities to discover new gifts. As this year comes to a close, now is the time to connect with your spiritual side, set goals and look ahead to what's possible when you prioritize self love. Susan and Kimmy talk through Susan's recent realization she was raised by a narcissist and how she ended up attracting that same energy in her ex-husband. Now, armed with renewed confidence in herself Susan shares tips for how to empower yourself to put yourself first. Kimmy shares her perspective on working from the outside in with clients in order to build evidence that change is possible. When you're able to look in the mirror and honestly say you love what you see, it creates the opportunity for others to see that in you. This discussion serves as a reminder that you can't change others -- you have the power to change what you put out there to attract something you actually want without losing the core of who you are in the process. Kimmy and Susan talk through several actions you can take that can help recenter you and introduce peace when life as you know it has been forever changed. Check out a free guided meditation from Susan here: https://www.susanburrell.com/free-gift-meditation And, if you've recently experienced a major change in your life like a relationship ending or you're simply feeling the fire to step into 2021 with a renewed sense of purpose and momentum, begin by committing to love yourself. Kimmy can help you get there by signing up for a FREE 30-minute coaching call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The empowerment you're seeking is already within you! Activate the self love by empowering yourself with a plan and purpose. EPISODE 173 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Empowerment And Self Love: Interview With Susan Burrell. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook

Now more than ever, dating is a challenge! If you're venturing back into the dating world for the first time in a long time or swiping through potential matches on the apps -- it can feel like a whole new world. And, if you consider yourself introverted or shy, striking up a conversation with a stranger on the internet can be even more daunting. On this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Becky, who's ready to get out of her comfort zone and get back out there. EPISODE 172 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Learning To Date Successfully After A Hiatus: Coaching With Kimmy Becky's been single for the last 5 years, but before that, she was a life-long relationship gal. Becky jumps in to tell Kimmy all the things she's tried to reignite her dating life like taking classes, joining community groups, and talking to men on dating apps. Even though she's putting in the effort, she's not getting asked out on dates and is ready to change this pattern. Kimmy asks Becky about her experience growing up and her relationship history to uncover some people-pleasing patterns that have a tendency to attract the type of men Becky wants to avoid. Becky shares that her first and second marriages were not reciprocal and have contributed to her not expressing her true feelings freely. Kimmy shares several actionable tips around how to open up conversations with intrigue on dating apps and the importance of leading with stories that share your emotions so men can feel you. Listen in to hear Becky's surprising realization that she's not letting men earn her and instead contributing to why she isn't progressing with men. Even while we're hunkering down for the winter and not seeing people in-person as much as we once were, there are still plenty of opportunities to flirt (even while you're wearing a mask!). If you're like Becky and you want to shift your intention while dating to put yourself out there and be seen, take the first step with Kimmy. Join her for a FREE Fireside Chat tomorrow, Thursday, December 17 at 4pm PT. She's going to countdown the biggest dating mistakes of 2020 and new trends looking ahead to 2021. If you want to start the new year with a dating plan, sign up and claim your spot! Space is limited. https://e1cb38gp.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 172 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Learning To Date Successfully After A Hiatus: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Here's a fact: ALL successful relationships achieve a balance between masculine and feminine energy. Now, that doesn't mean that men should be aggressive and in control or that women should be submissive and docile. In reality, when you are able to tap into the power of your gender, while understanding and creating space for others, you too can achieve the right balance for you and your partner. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on a guest who knows all about harnessing the power of the masculine, GS Youngblood. GS is a male relationship coach and the author of the acclaimed book, The Masculine in Relationship: The Blueprint for Inspiring the Trust, Lust and Devotion of a Strong Woman. EPISODE 171 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Balancing Masculine And Feminine Energy: Interview With GS Youngblood Kimmy and GS begin by discussing how GS's 10-year relationship with a strong woman broke down. If you've ever bought into the idea that men aren't attracted to strong, capable, intelligent women, this conversation will shine a light on why that misconception exists. Kimmy and GS dive deep on the evolving gender roles in our society and how that affects relationship dynamics between men and women. As women continue to rise into leadership roles and are recognized and sought out for the strength, power and knowledge they bring, it's imperative that men embrace their masculine core and invite women to relax into their feminine energy, too. If you're a woman who spends her days making decisions and leading others, chances are you're craving the space to receive love, be provided for in a relationship! This conversation will help you understand the metaphorical dance between men and women in dating and love relationships. And, for you men listening, GS walks you through one of the essential steps in his blueprint; Respond vs. React. GS lays out a game plan of how to respond in a way that keeps you grounded and helps the woman you're with feel safe, even when emotions are running high. And, if you're having trouble receiving in your dating life, you may be exhibiting the characteristics of one of Kimmy's dating archetypes! As we enter the giving season, why not give yourself some tools to take with you into the new year? Sign up here for Kimmy's exclusive audio series *This May Be Why You Suck at Dating!*https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series was designed to answer your questions about mistakes you're making that are preventing you from meeting the person you've always dreamed of. It's dead simple to sign up (it takes about 30 seconds) and choose the podcast player you want to use. You can listen anywhere, in any app. EPISODE 171 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Balancing Masculine And Feminine Energy: Interview With GS Youngblood. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Kayla, a young medical professional who has made a dramatic transformation since she began coaching with Kimmy. Following a bad breakup after college, Kayla found herself in a series of unbalanced relationships where she focused on what she could do for a man instead of whether that man was worthy of her. EPISODE 170 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Eliminating Unbalanced Relationships: Where Are They Now With Kayla Kayla jumps right in to discuss what her dating life was like before she reached out to Kimmy for coaching. This episode dives into how tough breakups can damage your sense of self, make you question your worth, and narrow your thinking so the vast possibilities out there feel limited. Kimmy and Kayla reflect on Kayla's upbringing and unearth patterns she was unconsciously repeating from childhood. If you're like Kayla and feel that you've hit a plateau and are stuck in a rut without the tools to help you move forward, listen up. This conversation touches on the most important factor for a happy and fulfilling life -- confidence in your own self-worth. Regardless of what stage you're at in your dating life or in life broadly, a strong sense of your own value outside of a relationship is the foundation to everything you'll build. At a certain point, you'll be faced with a decision to try something new and gain new evidence that another outcome is possible. It's up to you to take action, like Kayla did, and begin the process of change. You'll hear how Kayla shifted her path from losing herself and not prioritizing her needs to attracting a relationship that is reciprocal and respectful. Now, after committing to change and learning some invaluable new tools to manage anxiety around uncertainty, Kayla has found a new man in her life who treats her like a queen. And even more importantly, she's found new confidence in herself. If you're ready to start living without regrets, shift into a growth mindset and rise out of your plateau, now is the time. Right now, you can still join Kimmy's Flirt Immersion Experience happening Saturday, December 5! This interactive workshop has been customized for women who are looking to get practice at dating and flirting. In one super-fun LIVE virtual event, you'll learn hands-on flirting techniques, speed-date with men hand-selected by Kimmy and get real-time feedback from a Man-Panel. Get in while you can, space is limited and these spots are going quickly! Last chance for the Black Friday special for half off when you use code "Black Friday" https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 170 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Eliminating Unbalanced Relationships: Where Are They Now With Kayla. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy offers a lesson on how to cultivate an attitude of gratitude. Studies show time and time again that people who exhibit a positive mindset are happier. If you can consistently live in gratitude, it will actually impact your personal wellbeing for the better which will, in turn, make you more dateable! EPISODE 169 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable On this show, Kimmy breaks down her top tips on how to stop negativity in its tracks and transform that bad attitude into positivity and gratitude. First, Kimmy jumps in with 2 pro tips for positive self-reflection. This year has thrown countless challenges at you and now is a great time to do the work needed to fill up your cup of love for yourself. It's all about shifting your perspective. This week, take the time to pay attention to your thoughts and notice if any of your gremlins are popping up and contributing to negative self-talk. The more negativity infiltrates your thoughts the more it will leak out into your energy and conversations. Kimmy brings the tough love in this episode when she shares that what you put out is what you get back, especially on dates! Listen in to hear some expert advice on how to stay in the present, focused on being curious and connected. Of course, switching into a gratitude mindset won't happen overnight but this episode walks you through some tangible steps you can take to get there. If you keep asking yourself why you are still single and feeling powerless and negative about your love life, you'll want to be one of the first to sign up for Kimmy's new LIVE virtual event: The Flirt Immersion Experience! This one-of-a-kind interactive workshop is designed for women who are looking to find hands-on training to increase their sexy confidence and dating skills. This also includes speed-dating with men *hand-selected* by Kimmy and getting feedback with a Man Panel. This is the ultimate way to meet men, go on dates and actually hear what the guys thought so you can learn without the pressure. Plus, right now Kimmy's offering a 50% off deal for Black Friday. Get in while you can, space is limited and these spots will go fast so just click here and enter "BlackFriday" during checkout to receive the discount https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 169 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

In order to have a successful, fulfilling and healthy relationship with someone else, you have to love yourself first. I know what you're thinking -- that's easy to say but it's a lot harder to put into practice! How can you jump into the dating world successfully, all while working on your own self-love? This week on the Charisma Quotient Kimmy interviews award-winning actress, writer and filmmaker Wendy Wilkins to dig into the process of loving yourself on your drive towards success. EPISODE 168 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Falling In Love With Yourself: Interview With Wendy Wilkins Wendy dives right in by sharing her unconventional journey from being a cop, to one of the top realtors in Australia, to her writing and working in the creative arts. Kimmy and Wendy discuss the pitfalls of compartmentalizing your life. If you're experiencing success in your career but your personal life doesn't stack up, this conversation will ask you to identify the strengths you can bring from one area of your life into another. And, you'll hear one of Wendy's secret tricks to boosting confidence that you can use to focus before you spend time on dating apps and especially before you go on a date! If you've ever found yourself prematurely getting into a relationship (or a "situationship") before you're ready, it could be a sign that you are masking a deeper issue with not loving yourself. Right now is the perfect time to work on yourself. Dating is simply a tool you can use at different stages of the process to get clarity on what you want, what works for you and what doesn't. Kimmy brings up a story of a recent client of hers that shows the power of what can happen when you lift the pressure off and let go of the attachment to an outcome. Listen in to hear about the importance of giving yourself what you need instead of waiting for others to do so and being comfortable doing things alone. Once you access the strength within, you'll open yourself up to finding a lasting love that complements your life instead of complicating it. You have endless resources at your fingertips that are designed to help you start loving yourself. First, check out Kimmy's exclusive audio course *This May Be Why You Suck at Dating*! https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. Perhaps you have Chief qualities, just like Wendy. And, if you've noticed that you're just passively swiping through dating apps, numbing out and not getting anywhere, you're invited to join Kimmy's new Flirt Immersion Experience coming up on Saturday, December 5 https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ In this small interactive workshop, you will actually practice your skills that will bring control back into your dating life. Take this opportunity to put yourself in the driver's seat and take direct action to level-up your dating game! But hurry slots are limited. EPISODE 168 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Falling In Love With Yourself: Interview With Wendy Wilkins. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

When you look at your body, what do you see? Do you think of yourself as sexy and confident or do you find faults when you look in the mirror? In this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Julia, who's eager to transform her body image, gain sexy confidence, and find love. Julia has struggled in the past to feel confident in her body, especially because she heard negative messages from men about her weight early in her dating life. Now, she's on a mission to take back control of her sexy confidence and thrive. EPISODE 167 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Sexy Confidence: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy and Julia dive right in and talk through Julia's dating history. If you're like Julia and you lack confidence in your physical body, this episode will challenge you to look into how those feelings have manifested in your dating life. Julia shares that she had been operating in a cycle that wasn't serving her. She was accepting crumbs from men, getting physical too soon, and rushing into a commitment before reaching a mutual level of emotional depth and connection. You'll hear tips from Kimmy on how to create a dating mission statement and layout exactly what you love about your body so you can rebuild that confidence muscle. Remember, working on you *is* working on your dating life! This conversation makes important connections between your upbringing and the nature of your current relationships. If you are familiar with partners being unavailable in your life, you might be replaying that old script and unconsciously attracting unavailable people. The key is to recognize this pattern, maintain your awareness, and make a plan to counteract this familiarity. Sometimes, even when things don't serve us, we go back to them because we're comfortable. Right now, we're all feeling a sense of uncertainty and in dating this feeling can be even more pronounced. You'll hear how Julia has evolved on this issue and is ready to take things in stride, not getting too attached to dating outcomes, and actually having fun in the process! If you are not feeling confident in your skin and it's holding you back, sign up for a free coaching session with Kimmy, just like Julia did. Sign up right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And if you want to learn how to play up your strengths, feel sexy in your skin, and make yourself memorable in the best way through ninja dating and flirting skills, come to Kimmy's special virtual event Flirt Immersion Experience November 21. You will get hands-on flirt training, get advice from men, and put it all to practice through speed dating. Spots are limited so sign up today https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ EPISODE 167 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Sexy Confidence: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Do you feel weighed down by all the negative thoughts, emotions, and feelings swirling around in your head? Whatever your circumstances are, sometimes it's really difficult to get unstuck and release the negative thoughts that dominate your mind when you're feeling the pressure. This week, Kimmy's diving into a term you may have heard: Head Trash. Kimmy interviews an expert in eliminating your Head Trash, Noah St. John. Known widely as the "Power Habits Mentor", Noah is a bestselling author, motivational keynote speaker, and business expert. EPISODE 166 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Rid Of Your Head Trash: Interview With Noah St. John Noah jumps right in to talk through his origins as a poor kid in a wealthy neighborhood, his battle with depression, and a suicide attempt at a young age. From there, Noah was able to rise out of these circumstances and create a successful business helping people to get rid of their own head trash and manifest success for themselves. This conversation will help you get a handle on what your own personal head trash is, so you can discern if it's blocking you from finding the love you deserve. Noah and Kimmy break down the importance of understanding your destination and releasing yourself from negative, cyclical patterns that don't serve you. If you've noticed you're repeating patterns, dating the same people, making the same mistakes, this conversation will help push you to see a different perspective. Listen in to this conversation to understand the steps you need to take to become aware of your limiting beliefs and then take action to combat your head trash one step at a time. This conversation is all about getting out of your head and getting rid of your head trash so that you can get unstuck to find love. If you want help to pinpoint the limiting, negative beliefs you hold about yourself when it comes to love and relationships, sign up for a FREE session with Kimmy right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Remember, what shows up in one area of your life often leaks into others. Take the time to identify what's holding you back so you can let go, move forward, and start seeing the success you deserve! EPISODE 166 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Rid Of Your Head Trash: Interview With Noah St. John. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Spirituality is an integral part of the human experience, and for many of us, our spiritual selves are tied to our desires to find a lasting, loving relationship. If you're working on yourself (and therefore working on your dating life), tapping into your spiritual side could be key to getting to know yourself more deeply and overcoming what's holding you back from achieving your goals. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Laura Michelle Powers, a celebrity psychic who helps her clients to communicate with loved ones, angels, spirits, and other energy beings. Powers is the author of seven books and hosts the Healing Powers Podcast. EPISODE 165 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Spirituality And Your Love Life: Interview With Laura Michelle Powers These two jump in right away to talk through Laura's journey from working in politics to following her intuition to embrace both her psychic abilities and her creativity as a rewarding and successful career path. Everyone has the ability to tap into their empathic self, which is the ability to feel the emotions and energy of others in your body. Laura and Kimmy discuss the value of welcoming this ability and how it can open up new ways of seeing the world, yourself, and others. This conversation will invite you to explore how you can look inwardly for answers and certainty, instead of relying on others to validate for you. You'll learn some helpful tips to distinguish whether fears or hesitations that have blocked you from taking action in the past truly originate from you or from others. If you have a tendency to shapeshift in order to please other people, this episode will help you to investigate what's going on for you internally so you can take full ownership of your needs and desires. This conversation will invite you to develop an awareness of your empathic abilities and work to release the fears you have around the unknown so you can create a plan to go for what you really want. If you've struggled with being in your body, acknowledging or expressing your emotions to others (or to yourself) take 30 minutes and get on the phone with Kimmy by clicking right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The answers you're seeking around your love life are within your reach! If this conversation resonated with you and you're looking for more certainty around dating, take action by starting with a call. EPISODE 165 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Spirituality And Your Love Life: Interview With Laura Michelle Powers. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Are you an "overcaretaker" and focus all of your energy taking care of the emotional needs of others rather than yourself? You might find yourself exhausted by your relationships because in the end you feel depleted and attract the "takers." This week on a live Coaching with Kimmy episode, Kimmy focuses on how it's time to get a little selfish! Being selfish can improve your relationship with yourself, and can actually help build your relationships with other people! You'll hear Kimmy coach Spike, a guy who's on a quest to find a healthy relationship. He's had a hard time putting his needs first and not defaulting to old behavior patterns that only serve the needs of others, sometimes at his own expense. EPISODE 164 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Time To Get Selfish: Coaching With Kimmy Spike opens up immediately and shares how he grew up, the abuse he suffered as a child, and his struggle with addiction. If you find yourself always bending over backward to take care of other people's needs before your own, listen up! Kimmy zeros in on the telltale signs of being a people pleaser, and how that generosity and altruism can leak into your dating life which causes lopsided relationships. This conversation addresses how societal expectations around gender affect everyone from women to men in different ways. If you've ever felt like you didn't fit into societal expectations of your gender, this conversation will speak to you. Spike shares several examples of how some of his fears around dating and relationships have showed up in his life recently. This session zones in on tips on how to better express your needs and trust that your needs are valid -- especially if this is a new practice for you. If you find your confidence in what you can do for others, take a chance to get a little selfish and be open to receiving more! If you've questioned whether you're too needy or you analyze how you can provide for others over you in relationships, sign up for a coaching call with Kimmy and talk it out here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Maybe it's time for you to try putting you first! EPISODE 164 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Time To Get Selfish: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Have you ever met someone you felt an intense emotional and physical connection with at first but then shortly after you date them they slowly disappear or give you crumbs? If your answer is, "Yes! All the time?!" — you might be exhibiting behaviors that attract emotionally unavailable people. On this episode of the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy breaks down five reasons why you could be confusing the chemistry of the emotionally unavailable with true intimacy, and what you can do about it. EPISODE 163 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why You Confuse Chemistry Of The Emotionally Unavailable This episode will show you that you have the power to attract secure, honest relationships if you learn how to open up, emote, and be emotionally available yourself. If you find yourself consistently attracting emotionally or physically unavailable people into your life, this episode will give you the tools to spot someone like that from a mile away and shut it down! Kimmy walks through how you may not be expressing your needs and desires or setting boundaries clearly enough — especially if the relationship you've found yourself in is full of excitement and passion. Sometimes, you have to challenge yourself to investigate your own beliefs about what a loving, supportive relationship looks like — and that means going back into your past. This podcast will help you answer questions like: How was love expressed when you were growing up? Have you found confidence and success in your role as a "fixer"? Do you gravitate towards relationships with suspense, spontaneity, and strong passion and think of stable people as boring, or lacking a spark? Listen in to hear how emotionally unavailable people can confuse you by showering you with compliments and affection in superficial ways. The dating pool does have emotionally unavailable people in it, but there are just as many amazing, emotionally secure people out there waiting to meet you! Once you have the tools to open up, express your boundaries, and let people really feel you on a deep level, you will change who you attract. If you're looking for guidance in helping you identify how you can attract people who are emotionally available, sign up for a complimentary call with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You deserve to have a healthy, secure, honest relationship that brings out the best in you. When you know understand how to become emotionally available yourself, you will attract people who are not afraid of intimacy and you can find peace in that security. EPISODE 163 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why You Confuse Chemistry Of The Emotionally Unavailable. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?: Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Jane, an accomplished, dedicated physician who was realizing she kept attracting narcissists. As a podcast listener, she reached out to Kim on a breakthrough call two years ago, during a stressful time in her career. Now (during quarantine!) she's met an amazing guy and is in a healthy, fulfilling relationship. EPISODE 162 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Narcissists No More!: Where Are They Now With Jane. Jane dives in by talking through the challenges she was facing in her dating life before she got in touch with Kimmy. Jane was struggling with expressing her needs and feelings effectively, along with being an overly generous, caring and giving person. Listen in for an essential tip about recognizing the difference between being truly vulnerable and over-sharing on dates. Kimmy and Jane talk through her online dating profile pictures and Jane's tendency to hide her body on her profile. You'll hear some of the biggest lessons Jane learned, like setting clear boundaries early and getting better at flirting. Kimmy even uses Jane's flirty texts as the gold standard for other clients! Stay tuned to hear all about the new man in Jane's life and how she's handling the uncharted territory of maintaining a healthy relationship with him. You'll hear how Jane actively applied what she learned about setting boundaries with him, despite her previous fear that it would have pushed him away. If you're like Jane -- leading a high-pressure career, attracting narcissists, struggling with online dating or being playful and flirtatious on dates -- take this opportunity to get on the phone with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough If you're feeling stuck in a rut, burnt out, or frustrated with the dating scene (especially now!), that 30 minutes could change the course of your entire life like it did for Jane. And who knows, maybe you will be the next star in her Where Are They Now episodes to talk about your successes. EPISODE 163 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Narcissists No More!: Where Are They Now With Jane. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Did you ever wish that you could be more fun and charismatic? Well, then you'll definitely want to listen to this episode where you'll learn how charisma is a learned skill. If you've been listening to this podcast, chances are you know it's possible through Kimmy's teachings but you'll hear a deeper dive into some tangible tips that will help you be more magnetic and attractive. This week, Kimmy brings on Holley Mignosi who is a speaking coach, storyteller, and hypnotic body language authority and helps leaders and executives master the art of charismatic communication to have a juicy discussion on charisma. EPISODE 161 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mastering Charismatic Communication: Interview With Holley Mignosi Often times we view others who exude charisma as if they were born with it. But the truth is, you can practice techniques to become more charismatic and influence others to be more magnetically attracted to you. Kimmy and Holley dive right in, talking about Holley's journey from the modeling and acting world into her current work. Holley talks about how in Hollywood, charisma is the currency, which can be both a blessing and a curse. You'll hear about a low point in Holley's life that spurred her to transform her relationship with her body image. Listen in to hear Kimmy and Holley discuss how charisma can help you radiate positive energy, make great first impressions, and build the confidence you need to go after what you want. Holley and Kimmy talk through how to tell your story from a place of victory, instead of victimhood. Plus, you'll hear tips from Holley about what kinds of hand gestures to use to show your date they can trust you, along with her 4 Pillars of Charisma. If you are wanting to hone in on your flirt skills to become more magnetic and charismatic, spots are still open for Kimmy's *NEW* 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge. https://28xztw45.pages.infusionsoft.net/ It runs until Oct 2 and it's FREE! Uplevel your charisma, and put those new tools to work in your life today! And as always, you can hop on a FREE call with Kimmy to help you personally map out a flirt plan here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 161 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mastering Charismatic Communication: Interview With Holley Mignosi. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you feeling like all first dates are boring or superficial? What if you had more control over the dates and actually created amazing dates filled with chemistry and desire to see your date again? First dates should be fun, playful, and exciting! But all too often, people describe their first dates as completely dull and dry. This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy is on a mission to eliminate bad first dates for good! Listen in to a lively, fun interview with fellow dating coach for men Matt Artisan, where they tackle your biggest first date fears from both a woman's and man's perspective. EPISODE 160 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Give A Great First Date: Interview With Matt Artisan If you're feeling stressed out, burnt out and sick of virtual dating, the last thing you want is another boring video date! This show will give you the roadmap for how to have an incredible first date, whether you're meeting online or in-person. This episode will empower you to take control of the conversation and uplevel your flirting skills so you can create intrigue and attraction, all while being honestly and authentically YOU! Matt and Kimmy discuss the pressure both men and women put on one another to drive the conversation without taking the reins themselves. If you're nervous, chances are your date is too and that can cause you to forget to open up, be curious and really try to get to know your date on a deeper level. These two experts share hacks both men and women can do to increase their approachability and likability factor. Matt shares some great tips about how to introduce physical touch safely, amazing ideas for first dates that allow you to get to know one another more deeply, and easy tricks to help you think of what to say if you blank out. Kimmy dives in on how to improve your flirt game and body language so that you send the right signals to let your date know you're interested. When you allow yourself to have fun through the dating process and practice opening up and showing your true self, you're building your confidence muscle so you can feel comfortable in your body and show what you have to offer in a relationship. If you're feeling like you're having trouble connecting on first dates and struggling to create chemistry by flirting, sign up for a complimentary Flirt Booster Session with Kimmy where she will diagnose specific challenges you are having in your conversations and on dates and speak to how you can skip the shallow small talk and have better connections overall https://bvjh4x6h.pages.infusionsoft.net/. And to start putting yourself into action, sign up for Kimmy's *NEW* 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge. It runs Sept 28 - Oct 2 and it's FREE! https://28xztw45.pages.infusionsoft.net/. First dates should be fun! Put an end to boring first dates by letting your personality, energy and vibrance shine through every time! EPISODE 160 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Give A Great First Date: Interview With Matt Artisan. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you feeling like ALL of your first dates are boring? Does it feel like pulling teeth just to get the conversation going? This week on the show, Kimmy tackles how to take control of your first-date conversations all while creating chemistry. In this episode, you'll hear Kimmy's live coaching call with Kay, who's been having a series of boring first dates with no attraction factor. EPISODE 159 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy Kay jumps in and describes her desire to find a man who shares her love of bluegrass music, art, and karaoke, but admits she's having trouble finding common ground with the men she's meeting. Kimmy and Kay discuss Kay's tendency to wait for guys to show her what they have to offer before she's willing to open up and share what she feels. Kimmy talks about how the essence of flirting is crucial when it comes to creating chemistry in conversation. When you let go of the pressure of pleasing your date and start to focus on making sure YOU have a good time, you'll start to loosen up! If you've found yourself avoiding sharing your feelings on dates, Kimmy lays out some helpful tips on how to shift your conversation from describing facts to recalling warm memories so your date can feel you on a deeper level. And, if you haven't considered what your body language is signaling to your dates, listen up! Kimmy talks through how you may be physically telling men you're not interested, even if you haven't expressed that out loud. Kimmy gives some hands-on, practical advice on how to overcome boring connections and gives Kay ideas of how she can put it into practice. If you are having trouble connecting on first dates and finding hard to create chemistry by flirting, sign up for a complimentary Flirt Booster session with Kimmy where she will diagnose specific challenges you are having in your conversations and on dates and shed some light around you can skip shallow small talk and have deeper connections overall https://bvjh4x6h.pages.infusionsoft.net/. And to start putting yourself into action, sign up for Kimmy's new 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge. It starts Sept 28-Oct 2 and it's FREE! https://28xztw45.pages.infusionsoft.net/. Flirting, dating, and connecting should be fun! Don't let any more boring first-dates bring down your light and energy! EPISODE 159 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever thought that you should press pause when it comes to working on your dating life in order to work on yourself? This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy addresses this burning question. Since COVID hit, many of us have been spending more time at home. Finding love might seem like the last thing that deserves your focus. Shouldn't you be working on yourself right now instead of focusing on dating? Kimmy's answer to this might surprise you -- working on yourself IS working on your dating life. EPISODE 158 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Working On Yourself While Dating Personal development doesn't come with a deadline. This episode will give you a chance to check-in with your goals to determine why you're really pressing pause on dating. Are you actually becoming the best version of yourself, or are you isolating in order to avoid feeling hurt or rejected? Kimmy will challenge you to redefine how you can focus on your dating life while working on yourself with intention and purpose. If you've been feeling overwhelmed or stressed lately, it's easy to dial-in on what's not working and shut down rather than using your time to focus on an action plan to create movement. Listen in to hear tangible tips from Kimmy about how you can work on yourself while remaining in a dating mindset. This episode will help you look inward, lift you out of a pandemic-induced fog and release the pressure you may feel around "fixing yourself" in order to be ready for a relationship. If you're ready for a reset and want to graduate from personal development standstill into action taking mode, you're in the right place. If you want to learn how to work on yourself while dating book a free discovery call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Don't let analysis paralysis stop you from taking concrete action steps to finding the love you deserve. EPISODE 158 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Working On Yourself While Dating. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you really know what you want...especially when it comes to your dating life and relationships? Getting clarity on what you want is one of the most important things to figure out so that you can attract and design the love you deserve. This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on a special guest, attorney turned Purpose and Productivity Coach and host of the Imperfect Thriving Podcast, Kathryn Ely, for a conversation about ways to discover exactly what you want and how to go get it. EPISODE 157 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: What Do You Really Want?: Interview With Kathryn Ely Kathryn jumps in and describes why she ended her career as an attorney to go back to school at 46 years old and become a licensed counselor. If you've ever thought that you've waited too long to start pursuing what you really want, this episode will show you how to pick back up one step at a time. These two discuss the fact that identifying what you want can be difficult, especially if you've never experienced it before. Kathryn talks through her framework for pinpointing what you want in every area of your life, so you can see the big picture. If you've begun to notice some limiting patterns or beliefs in your actions, you'll learn some steps to take to change your behavior so that you can see different results. Listen in to hear about how perfectionism can hold you back from being the best version of yourself and why allowing yourself to try new things with grace is a healthy practice! If you want to get back on track and get clarity on what you are looking for in your love life, book a free discovery call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. When you zero in what you want, you can uncover the life you've always wanted and gain the focus you need to take action! EPISODE 157 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: What Do You Really Want?: Interview With Kathryn Ely. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to another success story episode of Where Are They Now? This segment features Kimmy's direct, honest conversations with former clients about where they are on their love journey and what's changed since they started working with her. If you're looking for the secret to their success, these episodes provide a roadmap for you to follow. EPISODE 156 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Using Sex For Love: Where Are They Now with Lissette In this episode, you'll meet Lissette who dives right in to describe her life before she started working with Kimmy. Coming from a family and cultural background that places a high value on relationships, Lissette felt insecure about the fact that she was single. Plus, she was having trouble reconciling her worth, using sex to feel and find love and was giving away too much too soon. With Kimmy's coaching and the advantages of the pandemic to force her to slow down, Lissette was able to meet a great guy and begin a relationship like never before! Kimmy and Lissette talk through her lack of experience in monogamous relationships and previous reliance on using sex as a way to feel connected instead of focusing on emotions. If you've ever been confused about how to create emotional intimacy or have limiting beliefs of what value you bring to a relationship, this episode is for you. This conversation shines a light on the ways in which you might be preventing yourself from attracting the kind of partner you really want. Listen in to hear actionable steps that Lissette and Kimmy worked on together that allowed Lissette to start leading with her emotions and start a healthy relationship. You'll hear about how Lissette built her dating muscles through consistent reflection and finally started feeling fulfilled by putting energy and effort into a relationship she cares about. If you're used to leading with your sexuality as a default or find that you have trouble establishing meaningful relationships based on emotional connection, set up a call with Kimmy to talk here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough If Lissette's experience resonated with you, reach out. The work takes time, but if you put in the effort, it can happen for you too! EPISODE 156 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Using Sex For Love: Where Are They Now with Lissette. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever experienced true emotional intimacy in your previous relationships? This week on Charisma Quotient, Kimmy invites world-renowned author, counselor, lecturer and philosopher Rabbi Manis Friedman on the show for an eye-opening and thought provoking conversation about emotional intimacy. Whether you're currently in a relationship or looking to date someone to get a deeper connection with, this conversation delivers a nuanced look at how many elements of modern dating and love prevent us from experiencing true intimacy. If you have noticed a pattern of emotionally unavailable partners in your life, you'll want to listen to this episode! EPISODE 155 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Emotional Intimacy In Relationships: Interview With Rabbi Manis Friedman Kimmy and Rabbi Friedman jump right in to discuss how perceptions of love and relationship dynamics have become warped over the years. These two dial in on the constant presence of instant gratification in our lives and the focus on often materialistic things. In a world that is so tied to technology, swiping left and right, and moving on to the next option the moment things get difficult, this conversation reveals that when we focus on the material, so much value is lost. You'll hear Rabbi Friedman ask some big questions that will prompt you to carefully consider what you want and what you want from others you love. Stay tuned for some actionable tips around how you can begin to shift your actions to discover the level of intimacy you're seeking. Kimmy and Rabbi Friedman explore the tendency many of us have to become complacent or demonstrate a lack of respect to those we've become familiar with. And, you'll hear a surprising piece of advice about how to create spaces in your home that foster sexual intimacy. This episode will remind you to accept and love people for who they are completely, and not to simply tolerate aspects of others that we disagree with. If this episode resonated with you or if you've never experienced emotional intimacy or keep attracting emotionally unavailable people in your life, set up a call with Kimmy to find out if she can help: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In just one, 30-minute call, you could uncover the key to your kingdom -- what is holding you back from finding the intimacy, love, and trust you deserve. To check out Rabbi Friedman's book, The Joy of Intimacy, click here: https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Intimacy-Soulful-Sexuality-Marriage/dp/0986277002 EPISODE 155 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Emotional Intimacy In Relationships: Interview With Rabbi Manis Friedman. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you come from being a target of emotional, verbal or narcissistic abuse in a relationship? Were you blamed, belittled and isolated to the point that it clouds your ability to be open to meeting and trusting new people? This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy takes a measured look at how to recover from a relationship with a narcissist. If you find yourself repeating a pattern of dating narcissists or getting involved in one-sided, toxic relationships, this episode was meant for you. EPISODE 154 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Again After Narcissistic Abuse: Coaching With Kimmy Today, you'll meet Jayne, a woman who runs a successful business coaching business leaders and is used to focusing on what other people want over her needs. She has very little dating experience, has tremendous fear around men really "seeing" her and is having trouble getting past the PTSD effects of her marriage with a narcissist who was very abusive. Kimmy opens this live coaching session with hearing about Jayne's journey of discovering the nature of her husband's behavior how the dynamics of their relationship broke down their marriage of 17 years. Kimmy encourages Jayne to have a raw, honest conversation about the pervasive ways that being with a narcissist can chip away at your self-confidence, self-worth, ability to trust, and your perception of what's real and what's not. This episode pulls back the curtain on what so many people struggle with who have been through these kinds of relationships. Kimmy and Jayne look back to Jayne's childhood and dig into her experience growing up, drawing parallels between how her parents treated her and how she currently reacts in relationships. If you have derived your self worth from what you give to other people, instead of an inner confidence, this episode will pose some questions that can help you break that cycle. Even though it can feel sad, daunting or scary, there are some concrete steps you can take to start rebuilding your confidence from the ground up. Kimmy gives laser coaching advice in how you can reclaim your sense of control if you need to have contact with the narcissist in your life and how you can start to take small, incremental steps to break patterns and build healthier relationships. Kimmy lists actionable tips in how to approach dating and learning to trust again. If you feel stuck in recovering from a narcissistic relationship and patterns and want help moving on, sign up for a free coaching call with Kimmy where she will help you pinpoint areas you are getting stuck in and ways you can break free from them. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And if you want to know if you are the dating archetype of the narcissist magnet, take my quiz right here and see. https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY EPISODE 154 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Again After Narcissistic Abuse: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Let's face it, there's A LOT to pay attention to in your dating life nowadays. You're swiping through matches, trying to figure out if you'll have chemistry with your date virtually, all while dealing with living through a pandemic! At this point, you may have convinced yourself it's not even worth it to date right now. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy dives right into the Top 10 BIGGEST Dating Mistakes you could make during this unprecedented time and ways to avoid them. EPISODE 153 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 10 Dating Mistakes To Avoid During A Pandemic Think of this episode as Kimmy playing devil's advocate to all the obstacles you've faced and excuses you've made about putting dating on hold recently. Right off the bat, Kimmy challenges you to be honest with yourself and determine if you're avoiding breaking bad dating habits out of fear vs. devoting time and effort to improve your love life. If you are committed to finding love, you have to be willing to do the work by sifting through these common dating mistakes and take action against ways to overcome them. Hint: Just because you're meeting via video chat, doesn't mean you should treat your dates like a business meeting! Kimmy talks through how to shift your mindset and make an event of your date. This is the perfect reason to wear an outfit that's been sitting in your closet for months, or talk about your feelings and experiences that go beyond the bounds of this pandemic. You'll hear some easy to implement tips about how to indulge in a lighter and more playful conversation and how to break the monotony of quarantine. Listen in to hear a tip that will probably surprise you about how you might be turning off your dates inadvertently! If you want to know more about specific dating mistakes YOU might be making, take her personalized dating archetype quiz to find out what your archetype might be and how mistakes might manifest on your dates right here https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY. Answer a few questions and you'll get a detailed description of your strengths and challenges when it comes to finding love. Plus, if you want to take it one step further, sign up for Kimmy's new exclusive podcast series, This May Be Why You Suck at Dating! https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series (only $47) is designed specifically to answer your questions about mistakes you're making that are preventing you from meeting the person you've always dreamed of. It's dead simple to sign up (it takes about 30 seconds) and choose the podcast player you want to use. You can listen anywhere, in any app. EPISODE 153 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 10 Dating Mistakes To Avoid During A Pandemic. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you allow distractions to get in the way of your goals? Have you noticed that your ability to focus on achieving the things you want in your love life often feels impossible? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on an expert in helping people harness the power of focus, Debra Kasowski. Debra Kasowski is a Certified Executive Coach, a three-time bestselling author and the host of the podcast The Millionaire Woman Show. She is dedicated to helping her clients discover the power that lies within them so they can rise to the occasion and achieve the success they are capable of. EPISODE 152 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Power Of Focus In Attracting Love: Interview With Debra Kasowski. And If you need a push to help you stop focusing on the end zone and do the work to find joy on your journey, pick up Kimmy's brand new audio course series, This May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series breaks down each of her 5 dating archetypes and gives you tangible tips on how to overcome challenges you're facing so you can focus on the right things in your quest to find love. Click the link, purchase it, and choose the link of the podcast player you want to use. You can listen anywhere, in any app. In today's dating world, there are seemingly endless choices. It's hard to narrow down what you *actually* want and it's easy to let yourself be swept away by distractions. Kimmy and Debra break down why that happens and, if you're stuck in that cycle, how to step out and recenter. Listen in to hear how being intentional about what you want, taking the time to write it down or say it out loud can be a powerful first step on your path to discovering the power that's inside of you. When you understand what you want, where and how to focus your energy becomes more clear. You'll hear actionable tips in shifting your mindset to discover a new focused way of dating. This episode will inspire you to consider what the best next step is in your love life. If you're having trouble emotionally connecting to what you really want, then this episode is for you! Debra walks Kimmy through some incredible techniques you can use right now to express yourself more confidently and in a more focused way. Plus, if you are struggling to stay focused to attract love and know you might be using these distractions to protect yourself, reach out to Kimmy and set a time to talk here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. It's free, it takes just 30 minutes and it will help you get clarity with a focused dating power plan. EPISODE 152 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Power Of Focus In Attracting Love: Interview With Debra Kasowski. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you wonder if it's ever possible to find someone who actually cares for YOU for a change? Are you done with hiding and dimming your light in fear of being seen? These are some of the questions that Kimmy's client asked herself before she found love. Kimmy's back with another installment of Where Are They Now? On these episodes, Kimmy has inspirational conversations with former clients who have achieved success through her or group coaching programs. It's so rewarding to showcase these episodes because they're here to motivate you and show you that success is possible! EPISODE 151 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Stop Hiding: Where Are They Now With Lisa. This episode you'll meet Lisa, who connected with Kimmy for a 14-Day Flirt and Femininity Challenge. Lisa started out not being comfortable in her body, wearing clothes that didn't highlight her sparkle, and often gave her power away to the men she dated. Through working with Kimmy, Lisa began her journey to rediscover her femininity and learn to share her emotions authentically, all without changing who she is. Now, Lisa has found an incredible relationship with a new man who's enamored with this vibrant, confident version of her! Lisa dives right into what inspired her to speak with Kimmy and take the plunge to begin working together. Lisa shares what her dating life used to look like and what it felt like to get the dreaded call that a guy she was seeing had met someone else. Listen in to hear the story of Lisa's red dress moment where she discovered how to come out from hiding. Stay tuned to hear all about how Lisa attracted the new guy in her life who makes her feel like she *matters*. This conversation is uplifting, joyous, and reminds us all that when you take the pressure off, that's when you allow yourself to open up and find the love you deserve. If you need a push to help you stop focusing on the end zone and do the work to find joy on your journey, give Kimmy a call here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And, if you've ever thought, "I wish I knew what I did wrong after a failed dating experience!" go pick up Kimmy's brand new audio course series, The May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series breaks down each of her 5 dating archetypes and gives you tangible tips on how to overcome challenges you're facing in your quest to find love. It's packed with incredible tips and tools you need to rise above your failed dating experiences. It's dead simple and will take no more than 30 seconds. Click the link, purchase it, and click the link of the podcast player you want to use. You can listen anywhere, in any app. EPISODE 151 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Stop Hiding: Where Are They Now With Lisa. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Before shelter-in-place orders were enacted, you may have been a little pickier about who you were willing to date. But now, after months of relative social isolation, perhaps you're starting to think differently and value things you didn't before. This week on the show, Kimmy interviews one of the greatest authorities on relationships between women and men, Dr. John Gray. Back by popular demand, the acclaimed author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus joins Kimmy for a second time to discuss how to achieve better communication, understanding gender roles and managing expectations in relationships, especially in times of stress. EPISODE 150 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Managing Gender Roles And Communication During Stress: Interview With John Gray John and Kimmy get straight to the point, talking through on how to renegotiate expectations and manage what is important to you during this stressful time. Before quarantine, you may have been distracted by shiny objects that were causing you not to pay attention to fundamental values that create healthy, long term connections. They discuss how stress has impacted relationships and dating and steps you can take to determine how to better your interactions with the opposite sex. Although men and women operate differently, it's about how to successfully communicate with your partner or date so you can truly hear and understand them. You'll hear details about how and why opposites attract, and what you can do to determine more quickly if the people you're attracting are a good fit for you or not during this time. Listen in to hear some priceless advice on how to value your partner for being authentically themselves and not trying to "change" or "fix" them to conform to your point of view! John and Kimmy also dig into "The Chief" dating archetype on this episode and uncover why women who fit this archetype have a tendency to attract men that throw off the masculine and feminine power balance. Stay tuned to hear John define masculine and feminine energy in a way that you may not have expected! And, if you've ever thought, "I wish I knew what I did wrong after a failed dating experience!" go pick up Kimmy's brand new audio course series, The May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series breaks down each of her 5 dating archetypes and gives you tangible tips on how to overcome challenges you're facing in your quest to find love. It's packed with incredible tips and tools you need to rise above your failed dating experiences. It's dead simple and will take no more than 30 seconds. Click the link, purchase it, and click the link of the podcast player you want to use. You can listen anywhere, in any app. And, if you haven't taken Kimmy's Dating Archetype Quiz yet to see what you are, check it our right HERE https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY EPISODE 150 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Managing Gender Roles And Communication During Stress: Interview With John Gray. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you have an open mind when it comes to your dating life? Or are you so busy checking your list to see if your date has potential to be your long life partner in fear of picking the wrong one…again? In this segment of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Emily, a single mom who's on a quest to find her ideal date after getting out of a toxic marriage. If you find yourself struggling to progress on dates, you may be dealing with the same need for control and fears you'll hear Emily describe in this episode. EPISODE 149 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Ditch The Dating "List": Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy and Emily dive right in to talk about Emily's previous dating experience and how she grew up as a dedicated student, determined to create the best outcomes for herself. Now as a high achieving, successful career woman she's applying that same energy to her love life by creating checklists. This conversation reveals that the myriad ways Emily is exerting control over her dating life are actually hindering her ability to be open to finding the kind of fulfilling relationship she really wants. If you've escaped from a toxic marriage or relationship and are feeling eager to have a corrective experience with a new person, this show will help demonstrate that slowing down is the antidote -- not racing towards the finish line. Listen in to hear explicit steps you can take to learn how to date differently by prioritizing your needs, giving yourself permission to be a little selfish, and reserving your time and energy for guys that actually deserve you. If you want to find out is you're a List Lady, like Emily, or another one of Kimmy's 5 Dating Archetypes click here https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY to take her quiz. And, if you really want to dive into this full throttle, check out Kimmy's brand new mini audio series, This May Be Why You Suck at Dating here https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series is curated to help you discover why you haven't found success in dating and love and give you concrete, practical tips to change your story. Plus, you'll hear exclusive coaching with five women who fit each one of the archetypes so you can learn how these archetypes show up in practice. Check it out! EPISODE 149 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Ditch The Dating "List": Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

There's a new feeling in the air this summer in this unfamiliar world we're all in together. Maybe you're reopening your dating life or maybe you're feeling tired of trying the same things over and over with little to show for it. This week, Kimmy talks about how you can use this summer to redefine how you date so you can find a healthy, successful relationship. EPISODE 148 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Summer Dating Forecast And Navigating Relationship Trends This week you'll hear Kimmy's top tips for navigating this new reality as the weather gets warmer so you can create attainable goals you can actually accomplish this season. This summer, take the time to check back in with yourself and zone in on what you really want. What are you bringing to the table? What are your non-negotiables? What are some short term steps you can take to make progress? This episode is all about what you can do right now to increase the likelihood that you attract the kind of people into your life who are worthy of you! If you need help navigating the new dating reality we're all living in, you're not alone. First, you'll learn to ride the waves of change as they come. Being social is a muscle you have to exercise to see results. The more you give into isolating yourself from others, the harder it will be to get back out there. Learn about how not being able to meet in person right away isn't all bad! You'll hear how to get back in touch with the long lost art of courtship and how it can benefit your relationships. Hear from Kimmy on why talking on the phone *without* having your video on will help you become a better listener and connector. With modern dating technology, your ability to meet a high volume of people is greatly increased but, you might be surprised to learn how this variety actually gives you *more* control over who you spend time with than not. Kickstart your dating life this summer by signing up for a complimentary coaching call with Kimmy today at https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Don't let this seasons pass you by without building your dating muscles to meet the moment with a new, sexy confidence! Remember the longer you are away from it, the harder it becomes. EPISODE 148 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Summer Dating Forecast And Navigating Relationship Trends. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever had a dating dry spell? No matter how much you're swiping or trying to put yourself out there, you can't get anyone to engage with you. While this is frustrating and can make you feel like there is no one out there, this episode will give you concrete tips on how to stop these spells in their tracks. EPISODE 147 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Over A Dating Dry Spell: Coaching With Kimmy This week on Coaching with Kimmy, you'll hear her live conversation with Lindy who is a teacher, mom of three, and accomplished musician. As an exceptional, independent woman with two master's degrees, Lindy knows her worth and wants to find a man who deserves her. This conversation centers around the unknown armor Lindy's built up around her for protection as a result of trauma from her past marriage that has been preventing her from attracting the men she wants and creating the dry spell she has undergone. Kimmy and Lindy jump right in and talk through Lindy's past dating experience and upbringing to discover why she's in a dry spell and can't progress on dates. If you have ever felt like you'd rather skip flirting and small talk in favor of just getting to the deep conversation like Lindy, you'll want to listen close! Kimmy pin points and uncovers some surprising mistakes that Lindy is doing as a serial relationship gal that has been pushing great guys away. And, if you have a tendency to get in your head instead of being in your body, you'll hear some great tips on how to access your inner sexy before a date. Listen in as you Lindy's insight into how her constant battles of being a people pleaser and sticking to "safe" topics rather than turning her cab light on have acted as a love shield. You'll hear actionable advice on how being playful and creating mystery when you're flirting can yield different results. If you are experiencing a dating dry spell and are operating out of desperation or you've simply disengaged, you have the power to break that pattern! You can sign up for a complimentary call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Learn how to create a new energy when you're flirting so you can start creating chemistry on your dates and interactions. EPISODE 147 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Over A Dating Dry Spell: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers