Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Do you know how to find your JSpot? No you didn't read this wrong..the "J" stands for joy and if you are not feeling excitement and bogged down with a lot of stress, it will be hard to find dating fun! You can make the process more enjoyable by approaching dating with a lighthearted joyful attitude, focusing on the present moment, and being yourself. This week on the show, Kimmy has a conversation with best-selling author and speaker Shari Alyse, who is known as the Joy Magnet who works with people to live joyful lives. EPISODE 294 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Find Your JSpot: Interview With Shari Alyse Shari shares candidly about experiencing childhood sexual abuse and how that trauma impacted the trajectory of her life and her ability to feel true joy. Shari shares how she felt disconnected from herself and her journey to reconnect to herself, and her happiness. Kimmy asks Shari what her life was like when she was in a dark place and what strategies she used to move forward. Shari discusses strategies around healing, starting with finding joy and acknowledging where you are and what really feels good to you. Shari and Kimmy talk about Shari's dating life and how she started to turn her life around and prioritize what she wanted. Listen in to hear Shari's top tips about how to ignite joy in your life. This conversation will remind you that joy, levity and play are within your reach! If you are not feeling the spark of joy or flirtiness in your life, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you. First, join Kimmy May 23 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy where you will learn to unleash your natural charm and charisma. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude! Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it's fit. She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later! ************************************************⁣ EPISODE 294 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Find Your JSpot: Interview With Shari Alyse. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Have you been attracting emotionally unavailable people? Are you constantly frustrated by the quality of men or women you meet? This week on Coaching With Kimmy, you'll hear a candid conversation with someone like you looking to date and find love. Kimmy addresses how to stop attracting emotionally unavailable people. Listen in to hear the signs that you are building walls in order to protect yourself, because of pain you experienced in the past and how it is acting as your love shield. EPISODE 293 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Attracting The Emotionally Unavailable: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy has a conversation with Bianca, a fun-loving person and successful professional who is struggling to make deeper emotional connections with men. Bianca has worked on herself and is aware of dynamics at play growing up that led her to gain confidence based on her achievements, instead of who she is at her core. If you have trouble expressing your emotions or feel overwhelmed when you're being vulnerable, this conversation is for you. Kimmy and Bianca talk through the barriers Bianca feels to diving back into the dating pool. Bianca vulnerably shares her journey with body confidence and self-worth. Kimmy and Bianca discuss her reluctance to open up and let men really get to know her. If you want to stop attracting people that are not right for you, Kimmy dishes about how to become the Queen Bee and focus on what you really want! If you feel after listening to this that you may have some emotional walls built up which is acting as your love shield, hop on a call with Kimmy to see how she can help you become more available for love. Book it here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough ************************************************⁣ EPISODE 293 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Attracting The Emotionally Unavailable: Coaching With Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Are you the hero or the villain in the story of your life? If you have experienced any level of trauma in your past, it's very likely that you're bringing remnants of that trauma into your journey to find love. This week, Kimmy has a raw, vulnerable conversation with Michael Unbroken the Founder of Think Unbroken, best-selling author, award-winning speaker, podcast host, coach, and advocate for adult survivors of childhood trauma. EPISODE 292 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go Of The Past: Interview With Michael Unbroken Michael shares his heart-wrenching story of trauma, abuse and the pain he experienced growing up. From enduring physical abuse as a child to battling addiction to nearly ending his life, Michael has come out the other side with a completely new perspective on his ability to control his future. If you have struggled with your mental health and self worth due to trauma in your past, listen up. Kimmy and Michael share countless tangible tips and advice on how to reframe your mindset and get out of your own way to progress towards a new, healthy version of you. Stay tuned to hear the difference between setting goals and finding true alignment. You may think you know exactly what you want, but have you ever asked yourself if that desire is internal or external? If you are struggling with insecurity or low self-worth, it's more likely that you will attract people who hold the same qualities. If you are struggling with behaviors that numb you out and disconnect you from your body, your mind or from supportive relationships, this conversation is for you. This episode is packed with tough love and hard truths, but it may just be exactly what you need to hear to decide to make a change for the better. If you are having a hard time letting go of the past to attract love in your life and want to find ways to move past the fear, take action by signing up for a free coaching call with Kimmy so that she can help you map out a plan to do that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ ************************************************⁣ EPISODE 292 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go Of The Past: Interview With Michael Unbroken. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Creating healthy sexual boundaries is different for everyone. How and when do you decide to connect with someone in a sexually intimate way? This week, Kimmy dives into the nitty gritty when it comes to sex in a revealing interview with Heather Shannon, a Certified Sex Therapist, who shares her personal journey about how she got into this work. Heather helps people discover their sexual selves and deepen their intimate relationships with one another. EPISODE 291 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Sexual Boundaries: Interview with Heather Shannon Listen in to hear a story about a former client of Kimmy's who would use sexual interactions as a way to feel emotionally close to guys she dated. If you struggle to create boundaries or gravitate towards sex before making an emotional connection with someone, this conversation will help put that experience into perspective. Heather and Kimmy talk about how sex is discussed and portrayed in culture and media, and how that can have a big impact on our own self-worth and confidence. Ultimately, you are the one in control of the choices you make. Physical intimacy can be exhilarating, fun, vulnerable, and scary all at the same time. Stay tuned to hear some tips and tricks from Heather about how to communicate openly and honestly about your boundaries without having to over-explain or get into the weeds. This conversation will help remind you to embrace what you want and let go of what doesn't serve you! If you are ready to learn how to create healthy boundaries around sex or anything else when dating, reach out to Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and find time to speak with Kimmy for free for 30 minute coaching call. Just one conversation could change the trajectory of your love life for good! EPISODE 291 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Sexual Boundaries: Interview with Heather Shannon. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Welcome back one of our favorite segments, Where Are They Now, a series of episodes designed to inspire and motivate you with the stories of Kimmy's past clients. Success looks different for everyone and it can happen for you too! This week, you'll hear a celebratory conversation between Kimmy and Susan, a client she met a little more than a year ago who had some fears around flirting and being seen which was impacting her ability to put herself out there and date. EPISODE 290 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Feeling Invisible: Where Are They Now With Susan You'll hear Susan and Kimmy talk through Susan's journey going from feeling insecure and invisible to recognizing that she wanted to be seen despite her fear around it. Listen in to hear all about how Susan went from hiding herself and being controlled by her fear of being judged to feeling and looking effervescent. If you have ever felt that if people got to know the "real" you, they wouldn't like what they saw, this episode is for you. If you have struggled with people pleasing, this episode has tips and strategies you can use to help flip that script. This conversation touches of the importance of exploring what femininity means to you and the empowerment you can feel if you embrace that energy within yourself. Susan and Kimmy talk through the progress Susan has made since she started working with Kimmy and how she has become able to feel and express her feelings in an authentic way. Hear Susan's experience working through various workshops Kimmy has offered and the impact they had on her sexy confidence. If you are ready to take the next step to put yourself out there but don't really know how, sign up for Kimmy's newest workshop April 11th, First Impression Makeover www.stophatingdating.com! This coed, interactive workshop will help you increase your sexy confidence by focusing on being irresistibly sexy and confident, using your clothing and body language to create a powerful and unforgettable first impression. EPISODE 290 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Feeling Invisible: Where Are They Now With Susan. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

It only takes 7 seconds to make a first impression with someone you meet. Whether you want to make an impact in dating or in business, this episode will illuminate how you can create attraction from the moment you walk into the room. On this episode, Kimmy brings back a fan-favorite episode with Scott Carson, an investor, entrepreneur, marketer and host of the Note Closers Show Podcast. As a proven expert in building relationships in business, Scott knows how to make a lasting first impression. EPISODE 289 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson Kimmy and Scott recount their first impressions of one another at the New Media Podcast Summit. Listen in to hear what elements of your style and attitude are the most memorable to people you meet. If you show up with a curious, positive attitude you have the power to shift the energy of those around you. When you socialize, network and date out in the world, owning who you are and what you're working with is key. These two talk wardrobe tips, including power colors and moving towards sexy confidence. If you have ever stood in front of your mirror and wondered, "Does this dress look good on me?" or, "Does this outfit reflect a sexy dating image?", listen in how you can improve your image. Scott and Kimmy talk about the common factors that define the most charismatic, confident people in business and in dating. You may be surprised to hear how these skills can be learned! The more you show up as intentionally and authentically as yourself, it helps people trust and believe you. This lively, fun conversation will remind you to take the time to take care of yourself so that you can start attracting new love and opportunity. If you are ready to make an impactful, memorable first impression for all the right reasons, here are two things you can do right now. First, dig into Kimmy's Style Guides at kimmyseltzer.com/style to find out your body type and what styles will flatter your figure today. Take it to the next level, and check out Kimmy's upcoming interactive co-ed First Impression Makeover Workshop. Here you will learn how to create your own confident style and master body language for your dating success. If you desire to feel confident in your skin, market yourself attractively and attract dream partners in a fun-fill experience grab your spot here www.stophatingdating.com. EPISODE 289 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?! In this segment, you will hear inspiring conversations between Kimmy and her clients all about how their lives have transformed since working with Kimmy. In this episode, you'll hear an intimate, candid conversation with Deirdre, who found Kimmy though a free flirting workshop she was leading on Facebook Live. EPISODE 288 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Unleashing Dating Confidence With Style: Where Are They Now With Deirdre She decided to invest in coaching because she recognized that she needed a plan to increase her dating confidence, discover her sexy, flirtatious, playful side and learning how to emote to create vulnerability and attraction when dating. Deirdre opens up by sharing how she made the decision to begin working with Kimmy at the onset of the pandemic, and how that global shift inspired her to look inward and uncover what she really wanted. Kimmy asks Deirdre to share what her love life looked like before she chose to start working with Kimmy. Looking ahead towards her 50th birthday, Deirdre decided that she wanted to address the loneliness and disconnection she was feeling by finding herself and finding love. Kimmy and Deirdre reflect back some of Deirdre's key learning moments throughout her coaching journey. If you struggle with a fear of rejection or a total lack of dating experience, this conversation will resonate with you. Listen in to hear a deep dive into one of Deirdre's most transformational moments, a Virtual Makeover. Deirdre shares how she went from having a total of ZERO dresses in her closet, to finding her signature color to looking and feeling damn good in her clothes! Deirdre shares more about how the skills she gained through working with Kimmy have translated into many areas of her life, even outside of love and relationships. When you create the space for yourself to be playful, confident, and show up knowing your worth, you will find that you start to make an impact the moment you enter the room and people will flock toward you. If you are feeling frumpy and not very sexy in your dating life, Kimmy has a FREE style guide for men and women that you can download here www.kimmyseltzer.com/style. These guides will help you determine your body type, what clothes flatter your figure, and provide specific fashion tips just for you so that you feel that sexy confidence in your clothes and body. EPISODE 288 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Confidence With Style: Where Are They Now With Deirdre. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

All strong relationships are built on a foundation of emotional chemistry. The more you can connect authentically with another person, the deeper your emotional bond can grow. This week, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Ridgely Goldsborough, a serial entrepreneur, international speaker and author who shares the power of emotional intelligence with audiences around the globe. EPISODE 287 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating & Influencing Emotional Attraction: Interview With Ridgely Goldsborough Ridgely and Kimmy discuss the important connections between creating relationships in business and in love. You'll learn about the four different kinds of chemistry she works with her clients to master. The more emotionally connected you are to someone, the more your chemistry in other areas will increase. They may even become more physically attractive to you! Ridgely and Kimmy dive into the key factor to building resilience in relationships. When you look at potential failure as an opportunity to learn and evolve, the less scary it becomes. When you begin to see rejection as an opportunity to meet someone better for you, the more you will release the fear of rejection. Kimmy asks Ridgely to share key tips from his signature Partner Attraction Formula and explain why he views authenticity as the ultimate currency in relationships. Listen in to hear Ridgely and Kimmy have a mock conversation as if they were on a first date, packed with tips you can use on your next date. To dig in more on Ridgely's signature formula, click here: https://ccf.groovesell.com/a/kqBs7dbtaIrA If you feel you are not attracting what you want or anyone at all, hop on a call to map out a plan for creating chemistry and love in your life with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You deserve a loving relationship that brings out the best version of you, and that starts with authentically expressing who you are to see who shows up for you. EPISODE 287 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating & Influencing Emotional Attraction: Interview With Ridgely Goldsborough. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you feel stuck in your life and often caught in a constant negative loop? And because of that you might have a hard time making changes that you know you need to make to shift. Making a pivot in your life begins with self-awareness. It begins with realizing the circumstances around you are flawed and admitting that you're not perfect and never will be. This week Kimmy interviews award-winning author, former pro curves model and driven success architect, Amber Ybarra to discuss how to pivot your life to create success in business and love. EPISODE 286 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Power Of The Pivot: Interview With Amber Ybarra Amber begins by sharing her personal and business struggles that led her to constantly rebuild and pivot to achieve the success she has now. Listen in to hear about how she's used her own challenges and turned them into gifts and motivation to constantly up level herself. You'll hear Kimmy and Amber talk about how learning how to pivot your mindset, approach and perspective can improve your dating experiences and current relationships. Amber reveals her unique pivot re-model method and how you can apply it in your business and dating life. This lively and "real talk" discussion will infuse inspiration and motivation to what is keeping you stuck. If you are feeling caught in a negative loop and need to pivot to create success in your love life, hop on a call with Kimmy to help you map out a plan and spark a change here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 286 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Power Of The Pivot: Interview With Amber Ybarra. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Many men have been raised with the belief that they should be unfeeling and detached when pursuing romantic relationships and that women only like "bad boys" and that "nice guys" will never succeed. This week, you'll hear Kimmy have a conversation with Tripp Kramer, that dispels both of these false narratives and sheds light on how men can overcome their insecurities. Tripp is the founder of Tripp Advice, where he has helped thousands of men around the world excel in their love lives. If you're a guy looking to release yourself from the friend zone, or a woman looking to understand how guys think when dating, this conversation is for you! EPISODE 285 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Insecurities: Interview With Tripp Kramer Tripp tells his story of growing up as a nice Jewish boy from Chicago who constantly found himself in the friendzone. Through solving that issue on his own, he talks about his developed process to help others discover their own sense of self-confidence. Tripp and Kimmy talk about how men and women are wired differently and what the key differences are that can pose challenges for men struggling with self-worth and instead seeing the world from a place of abundance. Tripp provides several small, tangible examples of how you can begin to build your self-esteem this week when it comes to socialization and flirtation with women. If you have noticed that you tie your self-worth to the opinions of others, this conversation will provide concrete advice you can use to change your perspective. Tripp and Kimmy talk through the biggest dating fears held by most men across the board. This conversation highlights the burdens and pressure men feel when dating and acknowledges how this impacts dating and love. Tripp talks through some of the key qualities most women are looking for when dating men. If you are struggling with your sexy confidence and attracting dates, hop on a call with Kimmy to strategize mapping out a plan to that here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough . When you bring your own sense of self-worth and confidence to dating and social interactions, you will begin to see those interactions improve instantly! EPISODE 285 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Insecurities: Interview With Tripp Kramer The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Are you that person who says "yes" to everything and have difficulties setting boundaries? You love helping just as much as you hate letting someone down. But when your default is set to yes, you will end up squashing the things that can truly make you thrive and live your authentic life, and worse yet attract unhealthy and lopsided relationships. This week Kimmy has a powerful episode on how to set boundaries and demand respect so that you attract healthy reciprocal relationships. EPISODE 284 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Setting Boundaries When Dating: Are You Too Nice? Kimmy shares the top reasons why people have difficulties setting boundaries and how that is problematic when dating. She talks about a surprising phenomena of why FOMO is a contributing factor of why people might avoid boundaries. You'll hear 5 strategies to develop healthier boundaries overall and specifically, when dating. Listen in to hear practical questions you can ask yourself to help you avoid on-the-spot pressure around things people ask of you and reduce feeling resentment for others. If a discussion with someone you're newly dating veers into territory that you're not OK with, you'll want to learn these key strategies so that you are being true to yourself and what you value. And when you do that, you won't be sacrificing your desires for other people. Stay to listen in the end when Kimmy reveals some tough love and hard truths to a listener who wrote in about her difficulties setting boundaries. If you have a hard time setting boundaries and realize that being too nice is causing people to take advantage of you, hop on a FREE strategy session with Kimmy to map out a plan to help you here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 284 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Setting Boundaries When Dating: Are You Too Nice? The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you have difficulties finding your voice and really saying how you feel? What if you could harness the power of vulnerability to ask for what you need or express your emotions without fear of rejection or conflict? This week, you'll hear Kimmy coach Jazmine LIVE, who reached out to Kimmy to help her get more comfortable sharing more of herself after having dealt with a string of toxic relationships. Jazmine is a single mom, who was in an emotionally abusive relationship in the past. Right now, she's hesitant to date for fear of getting hurt. EPISODE 283 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Voice: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy asks Jazmine to tell her more about her past relationships and what she wants to see change in the future. If you have ever noticed that you feel fear around growing and deepening relationships when things start to feel more serious, this episode is for you. If you have been hurt in the past, and it's impacting your ability to make new connections, listen in. Kimmy digs in with Jazmine on how she's currently meeting and interacting with men these days. Stay tuned to hear key tips on how to date without getting attached, in order to reduce the anxiety around the possibility of getting hurt down the line. You'll hear strategies about how to stop overthinking in its tracks, and take a more playful approach to meeting new people. If you tend to have a hard time expressing your needs and having a voice, hop on a free coaching with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Imagine getting some ideas for breaking the cycle you have been dealing with for so long in one call. EPISODE 283 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Voice: Coaching With Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣Are you feeling unhealthy, depleted or lethargic in your body and it's affecting your love life? It's important to feel and look your best, so that you show up as your best self when dating. This week just in time for Valentine's Day, Kimmy has a conversation with Allison Melody host of Food Heals podcast, who works with people to transform the way they support their bodies naturally with nutrient-rich foods to being hotter, healthier and happier. EPISODE 282 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Natural Secrets To Make You Hotter: Interview With Allison Melody Allison shares the story of how she found this passion, after losing her parents to cancer before the age of 25. Allison talks about how she started learning more about functional medicine and what she personally needed in order to start feeling and looking better. If you have ever been curious about exploring how your body is impacted by the foods you eat or cosmetics you use, this conversation is for you. When you are not feeling your best, it's not easy to be playful, flirty, and curious about people on dates -- or even just socializing! Tune in to hear how physical health and fitness are the foundation for you to show up as the sexiest, most confident version of yourself. If you are feeling tired, uninspired, or unsexy, get started on your journey by focusing on feeling confident in your body. Allison and Kimmy talk about some of the unexpected, but common signs that thinking holistically about your health could help improve. Stay tuned to hear one of Allison's best-kept skincare secrets to look and feel glowy, and beautiful. You'll hear about some of Allison's favorite natural remedies and book recommendations to learn more about the power of plants and beyond. If you are going down a dark path in your health and it's affecting your love life and how you feel about yourself, hop on a call with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Feeling sexy and confident is possible for you by working from the outside in. EPISODE 282 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Natural Secrets To Make You Hotter: Interview With Allison Melody. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever been in a relationship with a narcissist? If you've noticed that you second guess yourself or spend all your energy trying to make your partner happy at your expense and everything feels out of control, you may be in a relationship with one. This week, Kimmy has a vulnerable conversation with Sabrina Victoria, Creator and CEO of Human 365, a human transformation company where she works with people to organize their work and home life. As a survivor of an abusive relationship with a narcissist, Sabrina shares her experience openly and honestly to help you notice the signs of toxicity in your relationship. If you have ever felt like your partner was making you feel crazy, this episode will show you that you are not alone. EPISODE 281 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Escaping Narcissistic Chaos: Interview With Sabrina Victoria Kimmy breaks down the classic signs of a narcissist and demonstrates how they manufacture chaos, keep themselves at the center of your world and refuse to take accountability for the suffering they cause. Sabrina and Kimmy talk through the trauma that this kind of relationship causes, and Sabrina shares examples from her own former relationship to help you identify if this happens to you. You'll hear how Sabrina discovered that she was suffering from abuse, how she made a plan to escape and how shadows of her past relationship still resurface in her current one. Sabrina shares a story about how her old habits and triggers arose in her new relationship and how she handled it. Kimmy and Sabrina talk through concrete strategies and mindsets to hold when you realize you are in an unhealthy situation so that you can protect yourself and your loved ones. If you are struggling to get out of a relationship with a narcissist or are recovering from one and need new strategies to rediscover yourself again, reach out to Kimmy at meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You deserve to have a healthy, loving relationship that allows you to be your best self. Reach out for help and remember that you are not alone. EPISODE 281 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Escaping Narcissistic Chaos: Interview With Sabrina Victoria. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you feeling bored and stifled in your dating life? Are you ready to get more in tune with your confidence and creativity? This week, Kimmy has a fun conversation with Vinny Potestivo, a talent developer and casting director who spent decades working for MTV making shows like Punk'd, Newlyweds, and The Osbournes. Kimmy and Vinnie break down the creative success strategies he's lived by through his career and how that applies to dating. EPISODE 280 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building Creative Success In Your Love Life: Interview With Vinny Potestivo Vinnie shares his experience forging a path forward in media, and how he sustained his confidence over the years. When you tap into your creative self, it can open up your dating life to possibilities that you would never expect. Listen in to hear the importance of knowing your strengths and what you want in a partner so you can choose who is best for you. Vinnie and Kimmy talk about the connection between casting TV shows and approaching your dating live with a similar mindset. This conversation will remind you that dating invites you to be bold, take risks and trust yourself. When you approach life with a positive and abundant outlook, you attract better more aligned opportunities for connection. You'll hear tips around staying consistent, listening to your gut, standing out from the crowd and reframing negative thoughts to positive ones. If you would like help in using a creative mindset to have a successful love life and make dating FUN, hop on a call with with Kimmy to strategize mapping out a plan to that by booking a free session with her herehttps://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Bring a sense of playfulness and adventure to your dating love and start experiencing the differences. EPISODE 280 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building Creative Success In Your Love Life: Interview With Vinny Potestivo. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever noticed yourself running worst case scenarios of what could be in your head, instead of focusing on being present in the moment? When your mind wanders, it tends to dwell on negative for limiting thoughts and you feel like you have no control. This week, you'll hear Kimmy coach Patrick LIVE, who is ready to put himself out there and find love but is struggling to quiet his negative thoughts around dating and relationships. EPISODE 279 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Out Of Your Head: Coaching With Kimmy Listen in to hear Patrick share his background, and how he has found himself re-entering the dating world. Patrick and Kimmy explore his people-pleasing tendencies and how his solution-oriented upbringing has impacted his interactions when dating. If you are paralyzed by residual pain from your past or your uncertain future this episode is for you. Kimmy talks about how we are wired as human beings toward negative bias as a protective mechanism. However, the more strategies and tools you have to intercept that bias and take action, the more opportunities you have to make new connections with people you are attracted to. Hear how conversation and social skills can be learned with practice interacting with others without overthinking or talking yourself out of it. Stay tuned to hear Kimmy's key tips that will stop others from perceiving you as creepy or anti-social! If you are spending your time trying to predict how others may react to you instead of making a move, this conversation will help you shift your mindset. If you are a high achiever with a tendency to overthink and you're ready to get out of your own way, reach out to Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to start the conversation. In a 30-minute, complimentary call you could walk away with specific, actionable strategies to break that cycle and start making better connections online and in person. EPISODE 279 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Out Of Your Head: Coaching With Kimmy Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you now motivated to find love? As we head into the new year many make new year resolutions to start dating. But at the same time, dating in the modern world can be overwhelming and intimidating. To date successfully in today's world, online dating has to be part of the equation. This week, Kimmy has a fascinating conversation with Michael Kaye, Associate Director of Global Communications at OKCupid. Listen in to hear an inside look at global dating trends and tips to enhance your online profile to attract better quality matches more often. EPISODE 278 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: OKCupid Exclusive Interview With Michael Kaye: Dating Trends & Online Tricks Dating online has redefined how we date and apps like OKCupid have impacted the dating landscape forever. On your journey to find a loving, lasting relationship, a savvy understanding of online dating is an essential part of your success. Kimmy asks Michael about the most common and most surprising trends in dating he's seen over the years and how the pandemic has impacted dating behaviors. You'll hear all about the inner workings of OKCupid's platform, data-driven approach and goals as they meet the needs of daters now and in the future. If social, cultural, environmental and political values have been top of mind for you as you seek a loving partner, you're not alone! You'll hear what people are really looking for in today's world. HINT: It's not what you might be thinking! Listen in to hear a surprising fact about what topics could be fair game that you may have been worried were TMI. Kimmy and Michael talk through the purpose behind different dating apps, including OKCupid. Stay tuned for some ninja insider tips on how to enhance your profile and entice others to engage you in conversation. Find out the best day to interact on the apps to get the best matches! You'll find out how your answers to prompts, how frequently you update your profile, and how the presence of questions on your profile can all impact how many people see you and therefore how many opportunities you have to match with the one! If dating online sounds like your worst nightmare, you need a clear strategy to create a great profile! To get started, take Kimmy's new Dating Diagnosis Quiz https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/quiz/ to find out what kind of dater you are. Once you understand how you date, you can identify what you need to do to have more success! EPISODE 278 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: OKCupid Exclusive Interview With Michael Kaye: Dating Trends & Online Tricks. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Many people date to find a soul mate, not to find themselves. This week, Kimmy has a conversation that is a great reminder that loving yourself is key to loving someone else. Listen in to Kimmy's candid conversation with Keyen Lage, a former NFL athlete and transformational life coach. After a career-ending injury in the NFL, Keyen transitioned from life as a professional athlete to a coach who helps people find self-acceptance. EPISODE 277 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating A Healthy Self-Relationship To Attract Love: Interview With Keyen Lage Keyen tells the story of how he finally found the strength to pursue what he truly desired, as opposed to the path that was expected of him. If you are a people pleaser, a caretaker or a helper in your personal or professional life, this episode may resonate with you. Kimmy asks Keyen to share actionable tips that help you begin to define what you want, beyond social or societal expectations. Keyen and Kimmy talk about the importance of getting out of your comfort zone and not being afraid to be a little (or a lot!) messy. You'll hear what the critical step is on your journey to self-acceptance and putting yourself first. Listen as these two discuss ways to find yourself while staying true to who you are. Self-discovery is all about exploration! If you struggle to see yourself in a positive light and want to create a healthy relationship with yourself to attract the right partner for you, hop on a call with Kimmy to help you crack the code in this part of your life here www.meetme.so/kimbreakthrough When you are ready to give yourself permission to change things up, invest in yourself and go after what you actually want, then you're ready to do the work on you to find love. EPISODE 277 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating A Healthy Self-Relationship To Attract Love: Interview With Keyen Lage. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

On these Coaching With Kimmy segments, you'll hear live coaching with Kimmy and real people with challenges they face when dating and what they can do right now to start seeing different results. Confidence is the number one element both men and women find attractive in each other. When you feel confident, you attract love and opportunity in your life. However, feeling secure when it comes to dating after divorce is easier said than done. When the person who you were most vulnerable with breaks your heart or hurts you, it's easy to feel inadequate and worthless, even if you have a laundry list of reasons you should feel good about yourself. When it comes to love, your rational mind isn't running the show. Instead, breakups often make you think the worst things about yourself. This week's inspirational and emotional episode, you'll meet Teresa, a woman who is trying to find herself again after divorce and regain her confidence to learn how to actually date. She has been struggling knowing where to start and feels alone in the process. EPISODE 276 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Yourself After Divorce: Coaching With Kimmy Teresa starts by sharing her story about being married to a narcissist and never really had experience dating beyond that toxic relationship. She reveals how her poor body image, lack of support system and masculine work energy has caused her to feel stuck in putting herself out there to date. Kimmy talks through how her past is connected to her current state and gives her some ninja tips in how to start motivating herself and get past her fears. Listen in to hear Kimmy's laser coaching in helping Teresa have a major emotional breakthrough live on the episode which catches her by surprise. Kimmy breaks down some simple action steps to empower Teresa to start gaining a renewed sense of herself. If you are having a hard time finding yourself after a painful breakup or divorce and don't know how to gain sexy confidence and learn how to date, hop on a free coaching call with Kimmy to map out a plan here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Imagine getting some ideas of breaking the cycle you have been dealing with for so long in one call. EPISODE 276 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Yourself After Divorce: Coaching With Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you been experiencing a pessimistic outlook or self doubt lately around dating? With the New Year right around the corner, it's the perfect time to reflect on your love life and determine if you could use a reboot. Right now, many people are experiencing dating burnout -- you're numbing out swiping on matches, you keep meeting people you can't see yourself with and you're starting to wonder if there's even a point to all this! This week, Kimmy talks through the steps to pull yourself out of this rut and start to reinvent your love life, one step at a time. EPISODE 275 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: ICYMI: Combat Dating Burnout: Reinvent Yourself Kimmy shares the top signs and symptoms of dating burnout and how this can be negatively impacting your dating life. The key to rising out of your rut is to take action to break the patterns that have been holding you back so you can be open to new options. Kimmy talks about how to shut down the dating burnout and focus on transforming yourself and key things in your life in a more positive direction. You'll hear 5 strategies around how to get unstuck by first starting to get rid of things that no longer serve you. Listen in to hear why creating and maintaining healthy habits is essential to being your best self. When you get to know yourself better, it helps you connect on a more genuine level with others. This could be the perfect time to take time off work, unplug and nurture yourself. Listen in for a tip on how to meet people who share your interests. If you've been attracting the same type of people that aren't working for you, this could be your moment to step our of your comfort zone and try to date people that are NOT your type at all. This episode is all about how you can re-energize your love life and bring a new optimism to your dating experiences. If you are feeling burnt out but you have no idea where to begin, schedule a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In this complimentary, 30 minute phone call you will get the help you need to map out a plan and find a new direction to take your dating life. In the new year, become the best version of you and find the love you desire. EPISODE 225 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Combat Dating Burnout: Reinvent Yourself. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Does the thought of going up to a stranger at a bar, the park or the grocery store make you break out in hives? When you hear the phrase, "That's a bold move!" do you recoil in fear? In this week's episode, Kimmy has a lively conversation with Fred Joyal, author of Superbold: From Under-Confident to Charismatic in 90 Days. These two dive deep into how to exude confidence in social settings, stop feeling like you have to carry the conversation, and make bold moves! EPISODE 274 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Be Bold In Your Dating Life: Interview With Fred Joyal If you are struggling with having lopsided relationships or not feeling seen or heard, this episode is for you. You'll hear Fred share how he uniquely works with people to increase their ability to approach life boldly with confidence. Kimmy and Fred dynamically talk about the powers of using descriptive, emotion-based words to describe yourself and your date. Fred shares the value of preparation and how it allows you to be spontaneous. When you enter a conversation prepared with stories that allow you to be a little more vulnerable, the quality of the conversations you have will improve immediately. Listen in to hear one of Fred's secret weapons, a phrase that will help you learn more about your date than you would otherwise! Kimmy and Fred chat about the pitfalls of trying to impress your date from the outset of a conversation. If you are tired of waiting for permission to act and you're ready to take your first bold action, get in touch with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You have a unique purpose and value that you can choose to contribute to the world however you like. EPISODE 274 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Be Bold In Your Dating Life: Interview With Fred Joyal. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

When it comes to having a healthy, fulfilling, loving relationship, it's important to acknowledge all that you bring to the table. That includes your hopes and dreams, what brings you joy and lifts your spirit, but also the pain and trauma you may have experienced. Trauma is defined as a deeply distressing or disturbing experience that impacts you, both consciously and subconsciously. Often, even without your knowledge, experiences from your past may have been traumatic for you, and may show up in unexpected ways in dating and relationships. On this segment, Coaching With Kimmy, you'll hear live coaching with Kimmy and real people with challenges they face when dating and what they can do right now to start seeing different results. This week, you'll meet Karen, a woman who wants to get back into the dating world and find love and is navigating how the trauma and abuse in her past is impacting her dating journey now. EPISODE 273 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating After Trauma: Coaching with Kimmy Karen shares her background of childhood and relationship trauma that still impacts how she approaches relationships today. Kimmy introduces several different ways that trauma might manifest itself in your life, such as mistrusting others, hyper-vigilance to guard yourself against getting hurt again, low self-esteem and a pessimistic outlook on life, among many other possibilities. You'll hear Karen discuss her fears around dating and how that prevents her from making connections with men. Kimmy and Karen have a candid conversation around how your experience of trauma can impact and influence your confidence in social relationships. Kimmy pinpoints specific strategies for Karen and listeners to improve confidence and success in dating and love despite the challenges and trauma that is experienced. If you have experienced any kind of traumatic experiences in your life where it's making hard to date and is impacting your self esteem, hop on a free coaching call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Imagine getting some support around how you can get past feeling stuck and perhaps paralyzed for so long in one call. EPISODE 273 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating After Trauma: Coaching with Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you absolutely hate dating right now and feel lost on what to do and where to go as you re-enter the post pandemic dating scene? Did you know there is not only a hesitation around dating, but also a fear of dating and intimacy that has emerged recently? If you've been feeling this way, you're not alone! Since the onset of the pandemic in 2020, we have had to change our social and dating lives completely. Now that we are gathering in person again, it feels like we need to re-learn how to interact with one another! In this weeks episode, Kimmy breaks down her top 5 tips for navigating what she calls a pandemic dating hangover! EPISODE 272 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating The Pandemic Dating Hangover Listen in to hear Kimmy define the most buzz-worthy dating terms in use these days like FODA and "hesidating." Kimmy walks through her dating hangover recovery plan so that you can re-learn how to date and relate. This episode dives deep into the ways in which you can start to safely put yourself out there again and exercise your social muscle once more. Discover why it's important to with intention and an action plan. It's not easy to put yourself out there again, but this episode will give you concrete strategies to explore new hobbies with social components, help you increase your confidence to introduce yourself to others, and break your social and dating slump! If you are in total dating burnout and need a reboot to get over your pandemic dating hangover.. hop on a free call with Kimmy here so she can map out a plan with you in doing so https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 272 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating The Pandemic Dating Hangover. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

These days, many of our conversations around health include both physical and mental health. As a human being, taking care of your whole self — physical, mental and spiritual is essential! On your journey to find love, getting connected to your body as a first step is a great place to start. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Dr. Maritsa Yzaguirre-Kelley, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and founder of Obtaining Mastery, where she coaches people to help them lead lives of purpose and influence. This conversation is all about getting back to basics and prioritizing your own wellness on your path to find love, happiness and fulfillment. EPISODE 271 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Applying Wellness To Attract Love: Interview With Dr. Maritsa Yzaguirre-Kelley Maritsa shares the story of how she became passionate about her current work as a coach and how that interest evolved from her foundations as a fitness trainer. Growing up in an environment where addiction and loss were prevalent, Maritsa shares how going off to college helped her break away from old patterns that didn't serve her vision for her future. Listen in to hear tangible, concrete tips about how to set yourself up for success from the moment you wake up each day. Kimmy and Maritsa discuss the importance of taking care of your physical body as a way to support your mental and spiritual wellness. This episode is a beautiful reminder that our whole health and wellness is all connected, and it begins with your relationship with yourself. You have the power to set your intentions, take action toward your goals and start to change your results. If you are finding yourself in a bad emotional and physical state and it is affecting your love life, hop on a call with Kimmy to help you map out a plan in getting you into a wellness state here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Explore ways to improve your relationship with yourself and set yourself up to find the love you seek. EPISODE 271 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Applying Wellness To Attract Love: Interview With Dr. Maritsa Yzaguirre-Kelley. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you completely uninterested in dating and dreading starting a new relationship? Maybe you have some fear around being powerless and caught, once again, in an emotionally unavailable or Narcissist relationship? If this sounds like you, you may be suffering from co-dependency. In this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll hear real conversations between Kimmy and her clients about the challenges they face when dating and what they can do right now to start seeing different results. EPISODE 270 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Hacks For Codependents: Coaching with Kimmy This week, Kimmy starts the episode with symptoms of co-dependency and tips to help you get out there if you have those tendencies. You'll hear Kimmy coach Teresa LIVE on the call, who's looking for strategies to help her date successfully. After getting divorced, she has dealt with being ghosted, being in lopsided relationships, and with a series of co-dependent relationships. She has been tired of having bad dating experiences and is ready to throw in the towel. Teresa shares the details of one particular relationship that stuck with her, even though she knew it could have ended badly. Teresa and Kimmy talk through how elements of co-dependency have shown up in Teresa's life and relationships in the past. Teresa speaks to her family history and the dynamics that she grew up around without realizing the impact it could have on her own relationships in the future. As a recovering people-pleaser, Teresa grapples with how she has internalized some of the experiences from her childhood and how she was praised for taking care of others. Listen in to hear Kimmy's tips around how implementing positive self-talk consistently can start to boost your self-esteem and your image of yourself. Kimmy and Teresa talk through the connections between how she approaches relationships and how she approaches her work. Stay tuned to hear Kimmy's tips on how to take your power back and create healthy boundaries where you demand more respect for yourself. If you are ready to combat co-dependency, it's time to take action. If you tend to have codependent tendencies and are exhausted around the thought of dating, hop on a free coaching call with Kimmy like she did with Teresa and book it here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Imagine getting some ideas of breaking the cycle you have been dealing with for so long in one call. EPISODE 270 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Hacks For Codependents : Coaching with Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

When you're dating, you need to manage your energy accordingly. You never know how long a relationship will last. You can put all your energy front and center only for that relationship to last a week. Start meditating to have a clearer picture of what you want and what you can put up with. If you think your relationship isn't going well, don't push forward. Listen to what you want. EPISODE 269 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Katie Krimitsos On Why You Need Time And Energy Management When Dating Join Kimmy Seltzer as she talks to the creator of the Women's Meditation Network, Katie Krimitsos. Katie starts out by sharing how she turned around her busy life and stress to slowing down with intention to meet her husband. Learn why you need to manage your time and energy while dating and during a relationship. Find out why meditation is good for you, especially in this fast-paced world. Listen in to hear tips on how to slow down and manage your energy so that you date smarter not harder. Katie talks about how meditation can reduce anxiety and even demonstrates a sample of it right in this episode! If you struggle being to busy and managing your energy to date, check out Katie's amazing meditations and hop on a call with me to map out a plan a path to your love life. Just click the link here to schedule that and who knows..that one call could change the entire course of your life https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. EPISODE 269 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Katie Krimitsos On Why You Need Time And Energy Management When Dating. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to Where Are They Now, where you'll hear candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients who reflect on how their love lives have changed since investing in coaching. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts they've experienced since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the success of others like you! EPISODE 268 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be Playful When Dating: Where Are They Now With David Does dating seem hard and serious? It shouldn't be. This week you'll meet David, who decided to work with Kimmy to learn how to date, practice flirting, progress on dates and open himself up more so that women could feel chemistry with him. He starts by sharing his limited dating experience after divorce and was having a hard time even getting dates. Listen in to hear how David struggled being playful and fun on the dates he had and would fall flat in conversations because he was so in his head. He knew there were some deeper issues to explore around self-expression and trust and needed help with learning how to be more open when dating. Kimmy and David talk about how the coaching and co-ed classes helped him upgrade his sexy style, be more approachable, vulnerable and playful to attract more women. You'll hear exactly how Kimmy worked with David to ramp up his flirt skills which even surprised him! Stay tuned to hear a shocking result he got with women he never thought he could attract. If you want to learn how to date with confidence, ease and flirtation, then check out Kimmy's new, immersive co-ed retreat program, Dating Reimagined Experience. Work with Kimmy and an intimate group of motivated single men and women like you in a 6-week virtual course designed to prepare you to date successfully in real life. Then, join this group for a 3-day luxury in-person retreat in Arizona where you will put your skills to the test and start to enjoy dating again! Get in touch with Kimmy here to find out if this experience is right for you: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/ EPISODE 268 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be Playful When Dating: Where Are They Now With David. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you hate the thought of playing games when dating? Do you wish you didn't have to worry about who is pursuing who when meeting someone and skip right to the relationship? The truth is the art of pursuit is a crucial part of dating that leads to the relationship yet there is a lot of debate and confusion on what that should be. It doesn't matter if you are 18 or 80 years old, pursuit will never go out of style. The most powerful women still want to feel seen and known in ways that make them feel loved and empowered. This week listen to Kimmy's interview with professional dancer, life coach and author, Andre Paradis, about how to help smart, strong, successful women understand the art of pursuit in the dating process. EPISODE 267 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Art of Pursuit: Interview With Andre Paradis Kimmy dives into a fun discussion with Andre about his life journey from being a shy awkward kid to a powerful sought after dancer that increased his confidence with both his career and with women. These two candidly talk about how the different gender roles play an important part in dating and why it's an important factor later on in a relationship. Listen in to hear about the common challenges women have in receiving and how to overcome them. This episode really flushes out ideas for both men and women in the courting stages of dating and the mindset around how each gender can make it easier for one another. Tune in to hear why Kimmy thinks both men and women have responsibility in approachability when dating. If you want to learn more about the art of pursuit as a man or a woman, then check out Kimmy's new, immersive co-ed retreat program, Dating Reimagined Experience. Work with Kimmy and an intimate group of motivated single men and women like you in a 6-week virtual course designed to prepare you to date successfully in real life. Then, join this group for a 3-day luxury in-person retreat in Arizona where you will put your skills to the test and start to enjoy dating again! Get in touch with Kimmy here to find out if this experience is right for you: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/ EPISODE 267 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Art of Pursuit: Interview With Andre Paradis. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you have trouble expressing your emotions? Do you find that you keep attracting people who in the end are no where for you? Are you sick of dating people who are totally emotionally unavailable? In this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll hear a real coaching conversation between Kimmy and a woman about the challenges she is facing in attracting available men. EPISODE 266 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why You Attract Unavailable Partners: Coaching with Kimmy This week, you'll hear Kimmy live-coach Karen, who's tired of meeting men who just don't meet her standards. After getting married to and divorced from her high-school sweetheart, Karen is back in the dating pool and searching for a fulfilling, "available" relationship. Kimmy and Karen talk about Karen's upbringing and identify a few key patterns that have impacted her ability to share her feelings. If you grew up in a household where feelings were not talked about or you only felt recognized for your accomplishments, this conversation will resonate with you. Listen in to hear Kimmy's answer to Karen's question on how to manage pacing when you meet someone you really like. When you are able to express your emotions clearly, playfully and early in a new relationship or on dates it helps your date understand who you really are. If you never learned how to express your emotions, don't worry! It's a skill you can learn, just like Karen. If you are ready to start attracting new and better people into your life, it's time to take action. Space is open now for Kimmy's new, immersive workshop, Dating Reimagined. Work with Kimmy and an intimate group of motivated single men and women like you in a 6-week virtual course designed to prepare you to date successfully in real life. Then, join this group for a 3-day luxury in person retreat in Arizona where you will put your skills to the test and start to enjoy dating again! Get in touch with Kimmy here to find out if this experience is right for you: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/ EPISODE 266 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why You Attract Unavailable Partners: Coaching with Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you feel responsible for the emotions of others? If you have ever felt emotionally exhausted, taken advantage of, or resentful in your relationships, this conversation is for you. This week, listen in to Kimmy's interview with empowerment strategist and podcaster, JJ Flizanes, who started her podcast Fit 2 Love to help others achieve health, success, and love. EPISODE 265 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Emotional Responsibility In Relationships: Interview With JJ Flizanes Kimmy asks JJ about her journey to the work she does now. JJ emphasizes the importance of understanding our own responsibility to control our own emotions and not project them onto others. These two talk through why many people have difficulty with their emotions and what you can do to take back your power as it relates to dating and relationships. If you have a tendency to self-sabotage or blame others for how you're feeling, stay tuned to hear key strategies to identify the beliefs that hold you back. When you understand how to name the emotions you feel and identify how to get your needs met on your own, you create the power to achieve the life you want. If you are ready to start taking responsibility for your emotions and start finding success in love, there are two options! First, find a time to talk with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In this free, 30-minute call you can start to map out a plan to work on you, and work on creating the love you want. And if you are ready to take action right now... join Kimmy's new workshop, Stop Hating Dating October 18! If you're back in the dating world again later in life and have no clue where to begin, this is the class for you. Join this 2-hour interactive workshop with other single men and women who want to build their dating skills. Space is limited! Sign up here: https://bit.ly/3BP4Ms4 EPISODE 265 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Emotional Responsibility In Relationships: Interview With JJ Flizanes. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

When you are dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s, the dating landscape looks totally different than it was in your 20s and 30s. There's new technology to contend with, and the rules of the game have changed, not to mention the global pandemic we are still feeling the impact of. Dating over 40 doesn't have to be boring or tiresome or tedious. It should be fun! If you've always been a long-term relationship person or have been married for decades, it's imperative to acknowledge that your needs and desires have shifted since the last time you were in the dating pool. In this episode, Kimmy breaks down the five biggest red flags she's seen when helping her clients find love over 40. EPISODE 264 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Red Flags In Dating Over 40 Listen in to hear a surprising tip that will help you check in and determine if you're moving too fast. Genuine connections take time to form. Even though you might feel like time is not on your side, slowing down is essential to dating smarter, not harder. Stay tuned to hear Kimmy's take on emotional intelligence and dating. Does your date share their feelings with you? Do they listen to you when you share your feelings? Do they go from 0 to 100 in mere moments? This episode is packed with actional tips you can use right away to find out if your date is mature, level-headed, and clear on what they want. You can find your soul mate at any age and now is the chance to create the lasting love you want, and deserve this time around! For those who are motivated to change their love life right now, join Kimmy's new co-ed live interactive workshop Oct 18, Stop Hating Dating! If you're back in the dating world again later in life and have no clue where to begin, this is the class for you. This 2-hour workshop will be a mix of strategy, fun, and practice with both men and women in the virtual room who want to build their dating and flirt skills. Space is limited! Sign up here: https://bit.ly/3BP4Ms4 EPISODE 264 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Red Flags In Dating Over 40. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to Where Are They Now, where you'll hear candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients who reflect on how their love lives have changed since investing in coaching. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts they've experienced since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the success of others like you! EPISODE 263 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Sexy Confidence: Where Are They Now With Peter This week you'll meet Peter, who decided to work 1:1 with Kimmy to learn how to date again after coming out of a 22-year marriage. Peter talks about how he knew he was ready to go all in on coaching, and they reminisce about what his life was like before he joined a virtual dating workshop with Kimmy about a year ago. If you've been struggling to have interesting conversations, flirt, or make the lasting connections you want, this conversation is for you! It's all about building dating skills -- socialization and flirting are not innate! Listen in to hear Kimmy and Peter talk about how he upgraded his style, started sending more playful texts, and feeling more confident than ever before when dating. You'll hear exactly how Kimmy worked with Peter to tailor a program that fit his needs so he could actually have fun dating again. To sign up for a free coaching call with Kimmy, reach out here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Get the expert support you need to map your personal plan to find and build the healthy, loving relationship you deserve! For those who are motivated to change their love life right now, join Kimmy's new workshop series, Stop Hating Dating! If you're back in the dating world again later in life and have no clue where to begin, this is the class for you. Join this 2-hour workshop with other single men and women who want to build their dating skills. Space is limited! Sign up here: https://bit.ly/3BP4Ms4 EPISODE 263 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Sexy Confidence: Where Are They Now With Peter. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Sexual confidence is a feeling of being comfortable in your body and knowing you deserve pleasure, and being able to articulate what you enjoy as well as listening to the needs of your sexual partner. But how can we build that confidence in the bedroom and overcome the performance anxiety when getting intimate with a partner? Here to answer all these and more is Intimacy Expert Susan Bratton. Susan is the CEO and co-founder of The20, LLC. and Personal Life Media, Inc. She is an expert on sex and intimacy with features on multiple major media outlets such as the New York Times and frequent appearances on ABC, CBS, the CW, Fox, and NBC. EPISODE 262 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Enhancing Your Sexual Self Confidence With Intimacy Expert Susan Bratton In this episode, Susan shares an empowering message to help women access levels of sexual pleasure and enhance their sexual self-confidence. With tips on intimate communication, lovemaking, and self-pleasuring, this episode has everything you need to know to own your sexuality and achieve incredible pleasure. You'll hear juicy tips and techniques to give feedback in the bedroom without crushing egos. Listen in to also hear about the importance of boundaries and agreements with sexual relationships. If you struggle with your sexy confidence and it's affecting your self esteem when dating, hop on a call with Kimmy to help you be more comfortable in your skin and give off the signals to attract more dates. Book a time here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ EPISODE 262 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Enhancing Your Sexual Self Confidence With Intimacy Expert Susan Bratton. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you noticing a pattern of failed relationships and dates in your life? If so, your subconscious mind may be sabotaging your dating life. Jay Noland is here to speak on just how this happens and what you can do to overcome it. Jay is a former professional baseball player and now a keynote motivational speaker for over 25 years and a life confidence coach. His work focuses on helping people maximize their potential by harnessing the power of their subconscious minds. EPISODE 261 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Sabotaging Your Dating Life By Conquering Your Subconscious Mind With Jay Noland Joining host Kimmy Seltzer, Jay shares his experiences and how his past trauma contributed to a failed marriage. Jay figured out the deep-rooted cause for all this, conquered it, and is now happily married to his soulmate. Don't let past experiences and unhealthy thoughts sabotage your dating life much longer. Tune in to this episode and discover how you can bring your conscious desires into your subconscious and start living the way you want. If you find yourself repeating bad dating patterns and want to override them to attract an abundant love life, hop on a call with me to help you map out a plan to do that by booking a session with me here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ EPISODE 261 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Sabotaging Your Dating Life By Conquering Your Subconscious Mind With Jay Noland. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you have trouble getting past the first date? Are you feeling frustrated that you're not meeting the kind of people you want to be with? Especially if you don't have a ton of dating experience you may be unintentionally radiating negative energy, coming off as needy, or just not flirting effectively. In this episode of Coaching With Kimmy, you'll meet Nikki who's diving back into the dating world for the first time after divorce. As a relatively new dater, Nikki is looking for strategies she can use to attract the right kind of person for her. After moving on from her narcissistic ex, Nikki has done a lot of work on herself and is ready to get back out there and find someone that is truly right for her. As someone who works in a male-dominated field, Nikki is comfortable around men, but she is finding that on dates she tends to be more in her masculine energy than feminine. If you're like Nikki, you may find yourself having conversations that sound more like a high-pressure interview than a playful date or having trouble connecting and getting your date to feel you. EPISODE 260 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Dates Don't Progress: Coaching with Kimmy You'll hear Nikki tell key stories from her recent dating experiences, that will probably be relatable to you! Stay tuned to hear some tangible tips that Kimmy shares with Nikki about how to get out of your head and into your body, become more playful and lighthearted in conversations, and be present and curious about your date. You'll hear all about the benefits of using online dating platforms to practice conversation skills like asking specific, fun questions that get your matches engaged. If you want to take action to get past the first date, get a FREE coaching call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You have the power to change your actions! You can start taking simple, small actions that will have an impact on the outcomes you've had in the past. It all starts with a little practice that leads to the bigger change you want to see! EPISODE 260 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Dates Don't Progress: Coaching with Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

When you look in the mirror, do you see yourself as sexy? Having a healthy body image is core to building high self-esteem! No matter what your body type, weight or fitness level, being body confident impacts the strength of your relationship with yourself. This week, Kimmy has a conversation on significant shifts you can make to increase your body confidence with Bryce Henson, the CEO of Fit Body Bootcamp. EPISODE 259 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Elevate Your Body Image And Sexy Confidence: Interview With Bryce Henson Bryce is passionate about helping people gain confidence through fitness. You'll hear Kimmy ask Bryce to share his story and actionable tips you can take to bolster your body image and take that confidence into other areas of your life. Whether you have an established fitness routine or are trying to develop one as part of a healthy lifestyle, listen in to Bryce's advice on how to get early wins that build momentum towards your future success. If you are a high achiever who is accustomed to experiencing success, this conversation will help you evaluate the goals you set so you are able to stack wins. Confidence is built when you keep promises to yourself! If you are bored of your old fitness routine or if you're just feeling unmotivated or uninspired, listen in to hear a few ways to jumpstart your new routine. You'll hear about the benefits of looking at the world through curious eyes and with a sense of adventure. And, stay tuned to hear Bryce's serendipitous story of how he met his wife in an unexpected place! If you struggle with your own self-esteem and body image when dating, get in touch with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Your journey to find yourself and find love all starts with you taking action towards your goals. When you have an accountability partner in a coach, you will exponentially increase your chances of success. EPISODE 259 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Elevate Your Body Image And Sexy Confidence: Interview With Bryce Henson. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Resilience is a big buzzword these days. In order to successfully traverse the challenges life presents us, we have to strengthen our ability to bounce back. Resilience is just as important when dating! In order to move on from a breakup, a rejection or simply a bad date you need to be resilient. This week, Kimmy shares her top tips for building dating resilience. EPISODE 258 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Avoiding Dating Rejection & Building Resiliency If you are struggling to tap into your inner tenacity or you tend to quit when the going gets tough, this episode is for you. Kimmy breaks down how to get started by tackling one of the biggest fears in the dating world, rejection. It never feels good not to be invited on a second date -- but what if you could file those interactions into the "not right for me" bucket, instead of overanalyzing what you could have done differently to get your date to like you? Listen in to hear key tips on springing back into shape, even when feeling defeated. Stay tuned for actionable advice on how to maintain an optimistic outlook, even in the midst of dating burnout. If you are ready to start tackling your sensitivity to rejection and begin building the resilience you need to have successful dates, get in touch with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. When you get clear on what you want and recognize your own worth, you'll be more able to identify partners who will respect and care for you, just as you are. Dating doesn't have to be so painful! Reach out to Kimmy and begin your journey of developing healthy dating practices. EPISODE 258 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Avoiding Dating Rejection & Building Resiliency. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? Listen in to hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working together. You'll hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and their biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We share these conversations to motivate you to take action and get inspired by the successes of others. In this episode, you'll meet Haley who connected with Kimmy to help release the pressure she felt around finding "the one" and begin to enjoy the dating process more. Through a commitment to the work and Kimmy's actionable coaching style, Haley was able to find balance, relax more and have fun while dating. EPISODE 257 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Authenticity and Femininity: Where Are They Now With Haley Kimmy and Haley kick off by reminiscing about what life was like for Haley before she started working with Kimmy. If you're like Haley, you may have trouble setting boundaries, become overwhelmed or anxious about what others think of you, or struggle to progress in relationships. Stay tuned to hear some incredible tips Haley put into practice that helped her find her sexy confidence, discover the strength to let go of the opinions of others, and how gamification made dating fun again! You'll hear Haley's success story coaching live with Kimmy in her flirt session. Plus, Haley shares a beautiful story about how setting a healthy boundary helped her reach a turning point in her relationship with her family. If you're ready to release the limiting beliefs you hold about dating and relationships, reach out to Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Before you decide to invest in coaching, you can speak with Kimmy in a complimentary, 30-minute call where you'll start to map out your unique plan to find success in love. EPISODE 257 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Authenticity and Femininity: Where Are They Now With Haley. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you feeling stuck in a rut? Maybe it is time for a dramatic change through a personal transformation. The power of taking a journey of self-discovery and acceptance will help you thrive, enjoy positive wellbeing and attract love. This week, Kimmy has a powerful conversation with Joe Kelley, a cherished football star turned now life coach who helps people overcome obstacles through personal transformation. EPISODE 256 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Power Of Transformation To Attract Love: Interview With Joe Kelley. Joe kicks off the episode by sharing his story of his personal transformation from cherished football star to respected police officer to felon serving prison time. Using his book theme from "sinning to winning", he now uses his dark moments to lift others up and show what it takes to survive and thrive regardless of circumstance. Listen in as Kimmy has Joe reveal tools to motivate you to make major shifts in your life, even when things feel hopeless. Joe shares how his transformation contributed to him finding self love and attracting his wife. Kimmy and Joe share some simple steps to take towards personal growth and how that can improve your love life. If you are having a hard time getting out of your own way with challenges you are dealing with or getting out of your comfort zone to change, hop on a FREE call with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to help you map out a plan to transform your life to attract love. EPISODE 256 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Power Of Transformation To Attract Love: Interview With Joe Kelley. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

How do you engage in healthy dating relationships after experiencing trauma? If you are a survivor of trauma in any form, it's important to recognize that healing takes time, patience and there will be peaks and valleys. This week, Kimmy has a vulnerable and honest conversation with Ed Squire, a survivor of childhood abuse who works to support and advocate for other childhood trauma survivors. EPISODE 255 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Moving Beyond Abuse: Interview With Ed Squire In order to build healthy, trusting relationships -- acknowledging past trauma may be an important first step in your journey to find love. Ed shares his story about the series of sexual abuses he experienced as a child and how they impacted his life. From struggling to find his own identity, to battling addiction and increasing his self-worth, Ed has come a long way. Listen in to hear incredibly valuable tips and advice from Ed on how to begin to strengthen your relationship with yourself when healing from a traumatic or abusive past. Kimmy and Ed discuss the importance of regaining trust in yourself and others. Ed shares a story about learning the meaning of living in the present and not taking anything for granted. You'll hear about the power of journaling to help you process and recognize the emotions you are feeling in the moment, without judgement. Stay tuned for a transformative tip about giving yourself credit and building up your record of success, no matter how small. When you start to recognize your progress and how small wins add up to the big picture, it can help permanently shift your view of yourself as you continue on your personal journey to heal, find yourself and find love. Healing from a traumatic past can be incredibly difficult and you do not need to do it alone. Removing yourself from isolation and finding support systems is essential. If you are ready to explore what your next steps are and begin the healing process, you can reach out to Kimmy here for a FREE breakthrough call: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 255 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Moving Beyond Abuse: Interview With Ed Squire. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever wanted to know how to make your date crave you? You might see this in the movies or even with some friends who seem to do it so easily…so what is it that they do that creates an attraction factor instantly? Confidence and charisma are key qualities that make others desire you and — they can be learned! This week, Kimmy teaches you all about how build your confidence and increase your charisma. If you are tired of not progressing on dates, never getting asked out for a second date, and always being put in the friend zone, this episode is for you. EPISODE 254 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Your Date To Crave You Listen in to hear examples from Kimmy's work with her clients who go from closing themselves off to others to being open, curious and even flirtatious(!) with more people. You'll hear 5 key tips from Kimmy about how to boost your sexy confidence and become irresistible to the people you actually want to attract. If you take less than 30 seconds to answer a text and are always available for dates, this could be a major turn off! Listen in to these tips to give yourself permission to enjoy this process as it enriches your life. This episode is a reminder that in order to change and make major shifts, you need to be uncomfortable. With support from a coach like Kimmy and clear goals, your path forward to gaining more sexy confidence and charisma could be just one phone call away. Get in touch with Kimmy here for a FREE coaching call: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 254 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Your Date To Crave You. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever met someone new who instantly sweeps you off your feet, showers you with compliments, and makes you feel like the most special person in the world only to discover that it was all too good to be true? If this sounds like you, you may have been the victim of love fraud. This week, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Donna Andersen, a journalist and author of Lovefraud.com, a website that teaches people how to recognize and avoid sociopaths. EPISODE 253 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Recognizing Love Fraud: Interview With Donna Andersen Listen in to hear Donna's story of marrying a man who she later found out had scammed and betrayed her completely. Kimmy and Donna define the characteristics of a sociopath and list the key signs and red flags to look out for. As you are learning to date smarter not harder, these tips will help you determine how to spot a scammer more quickly so you can move on without getting trapped in a fraudulent relationship. Stay tuned to hear useful conversation tricks and questions to ask to help you find out if someone is telling the truth! Plus, listen into a surprising tip from Donna about how to be certain your connection is genuine. If you are ready to stop attracting sociopaths, narcissists or any other kind of toxic people and instead find a genuine, supportive love connection, set up a time to speak with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Work with an expert to help you avoid scammers, detect red flags and meet higher quality people that want the same things you do. EPISODE 253 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Recognizing Love Fraud: Interview With Donna Andersen. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Beauty is not only skin deep. Being attractive also comes from your confidence – the ability to let loose and be yourself. Learn how to have fun and be confident in your own skin. Today, join Kimmy Seltzer as she talks to Angela Jia Kim about what makes you more attractive. Angela is a former concert pianist and the Founder of Savor Beauty + Spa. She is also the author of Radical Radiance, a book that can help radiate your inner and outer glow. Learn some attraction secrets that can help you in your love life. Discover some of Angela's personal stories about dating. Also, find out some skincare rituals you can do today. EPISODE 252 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Radical Radiance: Attraction From The Outside In With Angela Jia Kim If you have a hard time being seen and feel your image affects your self esteem when dating, hop on a call with me to talk through ways to break that pattern here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Who knows..that one call could change the entire course of your life! EPISODE 252 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Radical Radiance: Attraction From The Outside In With Angela Jia Kim. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations between Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since investing in coaching. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts they've experienced since working with Kimmy. EPISODE 251 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reducing Dating Anxiety To Attract Love: Where Are They Now With Mary This week you'll meet Mary, who made a decision to invest in coaching with Kimmy because she wanted expert advice. Mary felt she was ready for a long-term relationship, but had no idea how to release the anxiety she felt around dating in the past. If you're like Mary, you may have stayed in relationships that didn't serve you for too long or trusted people without evidence that they would respect that trust. Mary and Kimmy walk through Mary's journey to build her sense of self and get clear on what made her feel secure in relationships. Listen in to hear what worked for Mary around reducing her anxiety when dating, communicating honestly, and setting boundaries in a respectful and kind way. This conversation will show you how to recognize when someone isn't the right fit for you, even if they're a good person! Stay tuned to hear about the new amazing guy in Mary's life who loves dancing, not taking things too seriously, and being creative, just like Mary. As Mary gets to know her new guy even better, she has some questions for Kimmy about how to build trust and whether or not taking things slow physically is worth the wait. If you have felt anxiety around having "the talk" with someone you're dating, stick around to hear a great tip on how to reinforce the behavior you want to see through taking action. If you are ready to ease your anxiety around dating and finally feel supported, at peace, and calm when it comes to love, reach out to Kimmy right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Just like Mary, one 30-minute phone call could change the course of your love life for good. EPISODE 251 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reducing Dating Anxiety To Attract Love: Where Are They Now With Mary. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever wondered how to create more open, inviting, sexy energy when dating? The key is closer to home than you might think! This week, Kimmy explores the benefits of having a "vacation mentality" when dating. Listen in to hear her valuable tips and advice on the benefits of approaching your dating life the same way you approach a fun vacation. EPISODE 250 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Vacation Mentality When work, family and life start to create burnout in your life, keeping up with socializing and dating can start to feel like a chore. But, if you've made a commitment to putting yourself out there and meeting new people, you need strategies to help stop burnout in its tracks. Kimmy illuminates the benefits of having a vacation mentality in your dating life and simple steps you can take to start seeing the benefits quickly. Think back to the last time you were on vacation and you felt relaxed, curious and open to new experiences. Now ask yourself, how can you recreate that attitude and outlook in your everyday life? When you've got your head down, grinding away at work, it's easy to get into a rut. Listen in to learn how you can break your patterns and approach life with curiosity and energy which will instantly make you more attractive. Kimmy shares a key piece of advice that will resonate with high achievers. If you default to figuring things out on your own, this is your opportunity to learn how to use a vacation mentality in order to be more spontaneous, fun and less rigid. And, if you are feeling out of touch with your body, this is your cue to find that connection again. If you are battling burnout and losing your motivation to date, get in touch with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Set up a time to chat with Kimmy in a free, 30-minute call. This conversation could change the direction of your love life and serve as the push you need to reset your outlook and date with a vacation mentality. EPISODE 250 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Vacation Mentality. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you believe that being vulnerable is TMI on a first date? How do you balance sharing enough of yourself to make an authentic connection without going overboard? Kimmy is here to help you navigate this essential piece of dating in one of our favorite segments, Coaching With Kimmy. Listen in to candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients looking to improve their love lives with practical advice they can use immediately. EPISODE 249 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Vulnerability And Dating: Coaching With Kimmy In this episode, you'll meet Garfield who's ready to put herself out there again after divorce and finds it challenging to be vulnerable and trust men when dating. Garfield shares her story and reflects on some of the challenges with scammers on dating apps she's experienced before. Newly single after leaving a long-term relationship, Garfield is working on defining what she wants, getting out of her head, and uncovering her confidence again when meeting new people socially. Kimmy shares some foundational advice for how to begin to open yourself up to other people again after being hurt. If you're like Garfield and have had a string of traumatic or painful experiences, it can feel overwhelming to begin putting yourself out there again. Listen in to hear some impactful and emotional breakthroughs Garfield has on this live call. You'll hear about the importance of taking small, intentional steps to work up to your loftiest goals. If you recognize that you are still in the process of healing, setting clear, attainable goals is key to making progress. This transformational conversation is a reminder that you have the power to shine and when ready, will attract people who want to help you shine even brighter! If you are finding yourself in lopsided relationships due to your walls being up, reach out to Kimmy and find a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You deserve a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship! When you invest in yourself and your growth, you will be able to have the love life you have always wanted. EPISODE 249 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Vulnerability And Dating: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

When you consciously or even unconsciously ruin things to make them end, this is called self-sabotage. They say people who self-sabotage are somewhat afraid of intimacy in various forms and can act in different ways that can hurt themselves or others around them. Brandon Wilson is a communications and executive consultant who helps leaders and organizations identify the barriers that stop them from fulfilling their dreams. Brandon imparts his experience and story about his business relationship that cost him nearly everything. That experience has helped him develop a sabotage framework, which he wrote down in his book, Sabotage. On this replay episode of The Charisma Quotient Podcast, host Kimmy Seltzer interviews Brandon Wilson. In this conversation, practical tools will be given to help you notice the patterns in your personal and love relationships that could sabotage your love life. They will also talk about different key signs to know if one is prone to sabotage from others and even yourself. The different red flags when establishing a healthy, growth-minded, and loving relationship. Once you can identify the signs, the more you are enlightened and capable of stopping these behaviors. Tune in on this episode to find out more! The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ************************************************ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Is your relationship in a bad place? What are the signs that your relationship is ending? Here to help you get to the bottom of a dying romance is Matthew Fray. Matthew is a relationship coach, writer, and subbed by the New York Times as "the man who coaches husbands on how to avoid divorce." He joins host Kimmy Seltzer to share the things he learned in his own divorce journey to help others save their relationships. They talk in-depth about the different behaviors and habits that lead to a dwindling intimacy you might not even be aware of with insights from his book, This is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships. Tune in and learn valuable lessons on relationships and the value of communication and self-awareness.

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working with her. Listen in to hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the successes of others like you. This week, you'll meet Taylor, a high-achieving entrepreneur who was confident in every area of his life except dating. EPISODE 247 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Confidence: Where Are They Now With Taylor Taylor shares that after his divorce, he was struggling with getting into relationships quickly, not sharing his emotions, and ultimately, not making the kind of connections he truly desired. Navigating a brand new dating scene and showing up as his authentic self online was challenging. Once Taylor recognized that he wanted to be in a healthy, lasting relationship he knew he needed to ask for help. Kimmy and Taylor discuss the different phases of dating and the goals for each phase. If you have struggled with focusing on what you can do for another person as opposed to how they make you feel when you're together, listen up! This conversation focuses on the power of shifting your mindset and learning to enjoy the processs while you build skills that will help you create more genuine connections when dating. Taylor shares the story of how he met a wonderful new woman, and how they hit it off! Here's a hint: being open and transparent about what he was looking for helped create a foundation for them both to be emotionally honest with one another. If you're like Taylor, and you're ready to understand the tools and strategies to find success in dating and meet higher quality people who are a good fit for you, all it takes is that first call. Reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a free 30-minute call. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. But hurry, the program starts soon and only a few spots left! EPISODE 247 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Confidence: Where Are They Now With Taylor. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

We've all heard the phrase "living your best life," but what does that really mean? This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Tracy Pattin, host of the celebrated Wondery podcast Hollywood and Crime, and expert on living her best solo (not single!) life. Tracy and Kimmy discuss the empowering nature of finding comfort and confidence in being alone. EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Fall In Love With Yourself: Interview With Tracy Pattin Kimmy shares a story about the invaluable advice given to her by her mother in the aftermath of her divorce. Listen in to hear Kimmy identify the difference between internal and external validation and how to detect which one is driving your happiness. When you allow yourself to slow down and not rush towards a new relationship for comfort, but rather focus on relying on yourself to find peace, you will be stronger for it and attract healthier relationships. The moment you begin to discover that power within you, the more you will attract healthy, secure people into your life. Tracy talks about how she uses the ritual and routine to keep her present, focused and centered each day. Stay tuned for a lesson from Tracy based on a career in entertainment to provide strategies around facing the fear of rejection. You'll hear how having a kind, loving relationship with yourself is a key factor in not attracting relationships that don't serve you. If you are struggling with being alone or a crippling fear of rejection, reach out to Kimmy for a FREE 30-minute call https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ to map out a strategy to enrich your solo life. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. Space is limited so reach out to Kimmy here to save your spot! EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Fall In Love With Yourself: Interview With Tracy Pattin. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers