Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

You have always been a high achiever. You know your worth and you've been recognized for the value you bring to the table in your professional life. But, when it comes to dating, you can't seem to figure out why you haven't been able to find the same success! This week, Kimmy has a fascinating conversation with Executive Coach and Relationship Strategist Dr. Robin Buckely, a leading authority on helping high achievers, executives, and couples improve their careers and relationships through psychology-based strategies. EPISODE 245 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Strategies For Your Love Life: Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley If you have a tendency to conduct your dates like high-pressure job interviews or lead interactions with your long list of accomplishments and have wondered why you rarely get a second date, this episode is for you! Listen in to hear how dating and creating deep, loving connections are rooted in feelings, not facts. You have the power to use your killer business instincts to help improve your love life, but you need a strategy to get there. Kimmy and Dr. Buckley share some key tips you can use to reframe your mindset, lean on your strengths and find success in love. Listen in to hear some incredible tools you can use right away, whether you are in a couple or not! Dr. Buckley and Kimmy discuss how the foundation of a strong relationship is not love, lust or sexual attraction but more that love can be found through intention, strategy and a concrete plan. This conversation will help you see that it's possible to interrupt patterns and behaviors that don't serve you in love. You can retrain your brain to intake information differently and start to see opportunities where you used to see challenges. And, if you've ever felt like a victim, struggling to feel in control, Kimmy and Dr. Buckley share a useful tip to help reframe your perspective to see things in a more positive light. Stay tuned to hear some great tips on how to use quotas in an unexpected way that will make your partner feel seen, heard, and loved every single day. If you need to ignite your sexy confidence with a dating plan and put strategies in place to break your bad habits, grab one of the few seats at Kimmy's new program, Spark Your Sexy: Live! It's a brand *NEW* 6-week course culminating in an in-person retreat in sunny California! Join a group of like-minded single women who are ready to create a plan for their dating life and find the love they've always wanted. Click here to apply and hurry as spaces are limited https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ EPISODE 245 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Strategies For Your Love Life: Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Why does dating seem so easy for other people, but challenging for you? Do you find yourself feeling depleted from giving your energy to relationships or situationships that don't fulfill you? This week on the show, Kimmy live coaches Keyva who has developed a habit of attracting emotionally unavailable men. A self-admitted chameleon, she tends to match the energy of the men she's dating but she has found that she's losing herself in the process. This conversation is all about learning how to show up as your true, authentic self through using healthy boundaries and communication when dating. EPISODE 244 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Boundaries and Communication When Dating: Coaching With Kimmy You'll hear Keyva speak honestly about her upbringing and how she was rewarded and praised for her achievements when she was younger. Kimmy and Keyva uncover some old patterns that are repeating themselves in her dating life. Kimmy breaks down the steps to start to break the habits that don't serve Keyva in her dating life. Listen in to hear the key difference between setting healthy boundaries and putting your guard up in a way that shuts people out. Kimmy talks about the value of communicating in a clear and assertive way to define your wants and needs without worrying about what anyone else thinks. When you are able to communicate effectively when dating you will avoid developing feelings of resentment, anger and disappointment and weeds out the people that don't respect you more easily. Kimmy uncovers how to reframe your mindset to approach dating as a skill-building exercise instead of as an interview for your next significant other. Kimmy shares some quick, tangible tips you can use on your next date to shift your conversations immediately and start to see who's really there for you! If you are finding yourself in lopsided relationships or accepting crumbs when you deserve the whole cake, it's time to demand more for yourself. Reach out to Kimmy for a FREE introductory call here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough In half an hour, you can map out a strategy to find the loving, fulfilling relationship you deserve. EPISODE 244 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Boundaries and Communication When Dating: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

We all have learned beliefs that shape how we see the world. Did you know you probably have hidden biases that are keeping you single? The beliefs and attitudes you hold are informed by your experiences -- stay tuned to hear why it's important to know the limits of your own perspective. Your thoughts and actions are directly impacted by how you see things, which contributes to your results when dating. This week, Kimmy shares the top 5 most common dating biases out there and what to do about them. This episode is all about making a choice to change your lens on life and see the power in becoming aware of your biases. Kimmy talks about how we're all susceptible to our biases and how they are mostly subconscious. EPISODE 243 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Surprising Biases That Keep You Single You'll hear tips around the 5 surprising types of biases and what you can do to become more conscious of them. Whether you always go for the same "type" or let one thing cloud your view of someone, you could be missing out on meeting someone great for you! If you have a tendency to keep making the same mistakes or attracting narcissists into your life, Kimmy's tip for catching confirmation bias can shift your love life dramatically. If you are stuck and are feeling anxious about going out there and meeting new people, listen in to hear a valuable "hack" around how to take small steps to override that bias. If you are ready to get over your hidden biases that might be keeping you stuck in dating, save your spot in Kimmy's brand new workshop for women on May 11th called Dating Secrets Decoded https://bl394.isrefer.com/go/DSDpodcast/KSeltzer/. This is a 2-hour interactive event where you will learn Kimmy's proven system for strategically spotlighting your dating archetype to boost your confidence, break bad dating habits, and become a fun dater that men can't wait to flirt with. If you're looking for tangible strategies to improve your dating life, sign up today - but hurry it starts soon and there are limited spots! EPISODE 243 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Surprising Biases That Keep You Single The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever thought about surrendering to create love? That doesn't mean compromising your values or letting someone else or external expectations dictate your future. Truly surrendering to love isn't about losing yourself -- it's about showing up as your authentic self and letting your highest self guide your next move, one step at a time. This week on the show, Kimmy has an inspiring conversation with Kute Blackson, a celebrated, emerging thought leader in personal development and the author of The Magic of Surrender https://kuteblackson.com/products/themagicofsurrender/. If you have been searching for a sign to release yourself from the pressure of expectations or patterns that don't serve your deepest desires, this episode will invite you to think differently. EPISODE 242 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Surrendering To Create Real Love: Interview With Kute Blackson Kute tells the story of growing up in Ghana under the guidance of his father, a minister and a healer, to arriving in the US determined to make a name for himself in his own right. After studying for years with gurus, sages and monks across the world, Kute developed his own unique style of coaching people to make transformational shifts in their life, based on a theory of "un-conditioning". If you feel family or societal expectations of what you "should" want or do are creating obstacles for you to succeed and fulfill your purpose in life, listen in. Kimmy and Kute talk through how to set goals that are authentic to you and the key factors that help you push past arising fear to stay on your chosen path. Stay tuned for a killer tip that will help you determine if you are on a path that is aligned with your highest self. If you are coming up against challenges over and over and you don't seem to be progressing beyond them, you'll hear some incredible advice on releasing yourself from those limitations and becoming more open. Kute shares the unbelievable story of how his parents met, and truly speaks to the power and magic of surrender to lead you to where you are meant to be. Kimmy and Kute dive into the incredible benefits of maintaining an open mind and open heart, not getting attached to the outcome, and how to spark meaningful change in your life by taking intentional action. If you are feeling the weight and pressure of external obligations and don't feel that you are living and searching for love from a place of alignment, maybe it's time to surrender. Reach out to Kimmy for a free 30-minute call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough When you are ready to do the work to uncover the kind of relationship you truly want, the power of surrender could be the key to leading you to where you want to be! EPISODE 242 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Surrendering To Create Real Love: Interview With Kute Blackson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her former clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working with Kimmy. Listen in to hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and how they are different since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the successes of others like you! EPISODE 241 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Smarter Not Harder: Where Are They Now With Chandra This week, you'll meet Chandra who decided to start working with Kimmy after a recommendation from a friend whose other friends had worked with her. Chandra shares what life was like for her around the time she reached out. She shared struggling to make genuine connections in friendships or relationships, had trouble letting go of her professional persona on dates, had a hard time letting her guard down and being vulnerable and would default to people-pleaser mode a lot. She also was hiding in her clothes and was uncomfortable showing her flirty, sexy side. Listen in to hear how her work with Kimmy changed all of that. Chandra shares stories of a key style trick and deeper exercises she did with Kimmy that has completely changed how people respond to her to this day. Stay tuned for actionable tips that will help you discover joy in dating and socializing and how Chandra used these to attract several men. When you release the pressure on finding your forever person, you unlock the ability to enjoy the process to date smarter not harder. Kimmy and Chandra talk all about the "Charisma Glow" she carries throughout her life now and how she is able to show her authentic self with confidence. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that success lies within you and when you feel good about you others will too. If this episode inspires you to want to achieve your version of success, whether that's finding a relationship or finding yourself, take the next best step. Reach out to Kimmy to find time to talk here: http://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. One conversation may just be the springboard you need to begin your journey of self-discovery! EPISODE 241 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Smarter Not Harder: Where Are They Now With Chandra. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Toxic and abusive relationships come in many shapes and sizes. Sometimes abuse is glaring, and sometimes it's more insidious and hidden. This week, Kimmy has a powerful conversation with Tiphany Kane, host of the Radical Audacity Podcast and survivor of a toxic and abusive relationship. Tiphany has dedicated her life's work to empowering women to elevate their voices and stand in their power. In this episode, Tiphany shares her journey to leave an abusive relationship. EPISODE 240 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Leaving Abusive Patterns Behind: Interview With Tiphany Kane After growing up in a cult-like religion that distorted her perception of dating and marriage, Tiphany entered into a relationship that escalated from gaslighting to harmful abusive patterns. Kimmy highlights a strategy that Tiphany used to rebuild her self-esteem on her journey to find herself. When you are able to counteract the negativity you receive from an abusive partner with positive self-talk and new behaviors that boost your confidence, you are able to strengthen your self-worth. Whether you invest in yourself by improving your physical health, your self-image or a hobby you love — small investments can make a big impact over time. Tiphany and Kimmy share tips about the power of meeting like-minded people who can provide camaraderie and accountability to help you stick with your plan. You'll hear a helpful framework to think about how you can remove yourself from toxic cycles. You'll learn on this episode how to demand a new level of respect for yourself and set boundaries accordingly. Listen in to hear Tiphany's inspiring story of how she attracted a wonderful new man into her life, and what they've built together. You'll hear all about the power of flirting, vulnerability, gratitude and patience that has allowed their relationship to blossom. If you're ready to release yourself from a toxic or abusive relationship, reach out for support and take the first step to set you on a path of change for the better. Set up a free call with Kimmy here: http://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to map out a plan to begin your journey to the healthy, fulfilling, loving and supportive relationship you deserve! EPISODE 240 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Abusive Patterns Behind: Interview With Tiphany Kane. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy where Kimmy has conversations with clients who are navigating dating challenges and searching for practical advice they can use in their love lives right now. In this episode, you'll meet Dustin, a single guy in his early 40s who's looking to improve the quality of boring conversations on dates by showing his true, authentic self more easily in a flirty way. A self-described "rebel without a clue," Dustin is on a journey to support his personal growth in learning how to go from the friendzone to the funzone with women and progress on dates. EPISODE 239 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Friendzone To Funzone: Coaching with Kimmy Kimmy and Dustin jump in by talking about Dustin's upbringing as an only child and the struggles he had with socializing growing up. Kimmy extracts how his upbringing now holds him back from his inner playfulness or spontaneous spirit, causing him to get in his head and hesitate on dates. Instead of letting a conversation flow naturally, Dustin talks about how his tendency to pre-plan topics, overcorrects himself and appears inauthentic while dating. This conversation is a great reminder of the power of curiosity to change the game when it comes to having captivating conversations. Instead of worrying about how you come off or trying to force a particular result, what if you went in with the intention to be curious about your date? Kimmy and Dustin do some dating role play where Dustin shares a funny story about something that happened to him recently. Kimmy and Dustin break down the story and discuss how emotions can enhance the stories you tell. Storytelling is an incredibly effective tool to create genuine emotional connection and empathy when dating! You'll hear great tips on how to improve your storytelling, get out of your head and create deeper connections more quickly. If you're tired of feeling emotionally drained on dates from trying to keep up the flow of conversation or you're just plain BORED, book a free 30 minute call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Kimmy can help you map out a plan to get out of the friend zone and into the fun zone! EPISODE 239 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Friendzone To Funzone: Coaching with Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you consider yourself a courageous leader in love? This week, Kimmy has an uplifting conversation with Trent Clark, a celebrated sports and leadership coach and founder of Leadershipity. Kimmy and Trent define courageous leadership as someone who listens to and implements feedback, is willing to engage in difficult conversations, always has an eye towards innovation, and approaches challenges with openness. If you have struggled in the past with moving away from unhealthy or unhelpful relationships, this episode was made for you. EPISODE 238 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Being A Courageous Leader In Love: Interview With Trent Clark Listen in to hear all about how to approach your love life with a positive attitude where you see challenges as an opportunity to grow, rather than something to fear or avoid. You'll hear a juicy tip on how to reframe and even gamify conflict so that you are able to let go of the expectations around an outcome, and see it as a learning opportunity. The best leaders exude confidence, and if you've been listening to this show you know Kimmy defines confidence as experience! The more willing you are to step outside your comfort zone, the more you will be able to build true resilience in life. Trent shares his expertise working with professional athletes on the importance of prep and reps and how you can apply this to your love life. Kimmy and Trent talk about how to manage your fear of making mistakes. When you work with a coach to develop and execute a strategy around dating, which includes getting crystal clear on what you really want, you'll be surprised at how quickly you can start to see results. Trent shares a moving story about a time he jumped to judgment and the importance of not letting the small stuff overtake your larger goals. Kimmy ends on a positive note to love who you are, not who you aren't! If you are ready to become a leader in your love life, jump on a free call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to map out a love plan and with Kimmy's help you'll be on your way to finding the love you've always wanted. EPISODE 238 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Being A Courageous Leader In Love: Interview With Trent Clark. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

As pandemic restrictions lift and daily life starts to feel closer to normal, you may find yourself feeling totally out of practice in social and dating situations. This week, Kimmy shares her Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game! Now is the time to get practice flexing your social muscles again and put your best self out there. You can come up with every excuse in the world to postpone this work, but ultimately the power lies within you to invite new amazing people into your life, socially and romantically! EPISODE 237 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game After collectively spending so much time in isolation, you may be feeling fear around getting close to someone else again or just plain awkward having conversations with strangers. That's ok! Only through practice can you start to see improvements in your results. Kimmy starts off by sharing a story of a recent client who went through a divorce right before the pandemic began and started working with Kimmy to help him refresh his dating profile, wardrobe, and dating strategy to start meeting women who are great for him. You'll hear about the importance of recognizing the shifts in the dating landscape and using them to your advantage. It's all about dating smarter, not harder! Listen in to hear strategies around how to make the most of every opportunity to meet new and exciting people. Maybe your next date isn't the one, but perhaps they'll introduce you to someone who could be. If you have a strict checklist that anyone you date has to meet, this episode is a reminder to throw that out! Stay tuned for a juicy tip about how to approach your dates in a way that prioritizes your happiness, not someone else's. You deserve to have a fulfilling life and you can have it! It all starts with making the decision to invest in your own happiness which starts with investing in you. Find a time to speak with Kimmy directly here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In one 30-minute call, you could have a plan mapped out to discover yourself again and meet new, amazing people in the process! EPISODE 237 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

On this episode of Where Are They Now, Coaching with Kimmy, you'll hear from Kimmy's clients about how their love lives have improved since working with her! We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to celebrate and be inspired by the success of others. This week, you'll hear a conversation between Kimmy and her amazing client, Kit who discovered Kimmy through a flirt workshop. Kit shares her story about how scary dating was before she found Kimmy. These two discuss the dating crash course Kimmy created for Kit, how she got past her traumatic experiences with dating and all the progress she's made in less than a year. And because all of the work she did, she landed a new man in her life! EPISODE 236 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Without Fear: Where Are They Now With Kit You'll hear how coaching helped Kit feel happier, more inspired, and less fearful about dating. Kit shares how she made the decision to invest in working with Kimmy on her love life -- the origin story may surprise you! Stay tuned to hear what clicked for Kit that changed her definition of dating for good. And, you'll hear about how doing a red dress moment photoshoot helped inspire Kit to feel playful, fun, and flirtatious in her body which helped her land her new man. Listen in to hear all about Kit's new guy and what she's hoping for in the future. This conversation is a great reminder that confidence comes from experience! If you need to boost your dating skills, personal style, or self-confidence to get past some of your fears when dating, Kimmy can help. Set up a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and you could be the next success story on this podcast! You could be celebrating a new relationship just like Kit when you commit to working on yourself! EPISODE 236 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Without Fear: Where Are They Now With Kit The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Finding a healthy, fulfilling love relationship is only possible once you love yourself! You've heard it all before, but did you know that deep self awareness is key to achieving true self love? This week, Kimmy interviews Dr. Denise McDermott, a board-certified, practicing psychiatrist who joins the show for a conversation on how self awareness can unlock the best version of you when it comes to love. EPISODE 235 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self-awareness and Sacred Sexuality: Interview with Dr. Denise McDermott Becoming more self aware means being brutally honest with yourself, your beliefs, values and biases and being willing to honestly express your truth to others. It's not always easy, but as Kimmy and Dr. Denise will talk about, it's essential to finding a partner or love relationship that is right for you. You'll hear about how awareness is the foundation for Dr. Denise's paradigm for creating happiness. Kimmy and Dr. Denise break down some amazing tips for how to take small actions to get unstuck and start moving forward again in your life. Listen in to hear an amazing tip on how to actively encourage change in your life when you're ready for something new. These two geek out over the science behind creating out-of-this-world chemistry and the power of play to attract and magnetize people to you. Stay tuned to hear Dr. Denise's surprising take on how sacred sexuality is incompatible with shame. When you actively choose to become aware of who you truly are, you will be able to access a deep self love that will open you up to new opportunities for love. If you are ready to find a more honest self awareness of what's driving you to open doors in your love life, reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In this free, 30-minute conversation you will start to uncover what stands between you and finding the love you want. EPISODE 235 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self-awareness and Sacred Sexuality: Interview with Dr. Denise McDermott The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Does it feel like you're constantly meeting people who don't spark your interest? And perhaps you also discover there are certain dating patterns that you keep falling into where you attract the same type of person over and over again. This week, you'll hear Kimmy live coach James, who's ready to find out what dating patterns could be holding him back from making genuine and deeper connections with women. EPISODE 234 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Serial Dating Patterns: Coaching With Kimmy James dives in by sharing the story of how he's rebuilding his life and setting ambitious career goals in sports media after being incarcerated. Kimmy and James discuss how his past has followed him through his relationships and dating experiences. Each one of us carries different experiences, fears, and traumas that can leak into different aspects of our lives. James shares how his self-confidence has grown as he attains more success, but says he's still holding onto his fear of rejection which impacts his dating process. If you're like James, you may be unconsciously coming off as closed off to others. Listen in to hear Kimmy's tips about how to combat your fear by dating without attachment to focus on what you really want. Stay tuned to hear a tip on how recognizing your strengths and positive qualities will help you approach others with a more positive outlook. This conversation is an amazing reminder that playfulness, curiosity, and levity are key ingredients to staying present and attracting others in a healthier way. If your conversations on the apps or in-person are one-note, uninspired, or cookie-cutter, this episode is for you! When you lead with what you've created, what you're looking forward to, or what makes you tick, you will start drawing like-minded people to you. If you are ready to break the patterns that are holding you back from finding love, March 7th, Kimmy is starting a 6-week interactive, co-ed class on how to improve your dating life from the ground up. You'll learn how to convert conversations to dates, navigate online dating, how to flirt and get a dating plan in place to break your dating patterns and attract the right partner for you. Reach out HERE to find out if you're the right fit and secure your seat. Space is limited! https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/dating-by-design/# EPISODE 234 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Serial Dating Patterns: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

When you are dating, do you have a plan and intention with it? If you're ready to find love, the most effective thing you can do is map out a strategic plan. When you have a clear dating strategy, you create more opportunities for success so that you date smarter not harder. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Damona Hoffman, a widely recognized celebrity dating coach and OKCupid's official coach. Damona is well-versed in current dating trends and has been a regular on-air contributor to The Drew Barrymore Show. EPISODE 233 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Plan and Intention: Interview With Damona Hoffman Damona shares her story of how she went from Hollywood casting director to certified dating coach. Kimmy and Damona discuss how shifting your mindset when dating is crucial to your success. Everyone has a history, whether you have extensive dating experience or not, and we bring our past with us to every new relationship. Of course, we all fear getting hurt, but it's how you manage that feeling that matters. Damona shares an unexpected tip about how to tell the difference between a dealbreaker and an opportunity to have an honest conversation. If you're clear on the non-negotiables that really matter like your values, it's easier to navigate different dating behaviors. Listen in to hear tons of juicy tips about how to level up your online dating profile. You'll hear Damona's three key tips on how to choose the best photos that showcase your true, authentic self at a glance. This conversation is a reminder that as difficult as the past two years have been during the pandemic, one positive around dating is the resurgence of slow love by being patient while allowing a relationship to grow at its own pace. If you want help in creating a dating plan that is right for you, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out strategy to do that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In half an hour, you can work with Kimmy to build a plan you can execute against to find the love you want. EPISODE 233 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Plan and Intention: Interview With Damona Hoffman. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

When you set out to find love, it's important to develop a positive mindset around dating. Truly knowing what you want and having fun while you pursue it, will change your dating game and help you define who you are and what you want! This week, Kimmy has an inspiring conversation with Amit Sodha, a transformational coach who helps people develop positive mindsets to become the best versions of themselves. Listen in to find out what you risk if your mindset isn't aligned with your dating goals. EPISODE 232 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating A Dating Mindset: Interview With Amit Sodha If you often feel like you don't know what you're doing wrong when dating, this conversation is for you. Amit shares how he went from being a clueless dater, to someone who became dedicated to learning and doing everything he could to get better. He shares his story of going on 300 dates and the benefits he experienced. Kimmy and Amit discuss the importance of taking bold action to start seeing different results in your love journey. Stay tuned to hear about how storytelling and other sleek techniques can be your secret weapons to create amazing chemistry and connect on a genuine, emotional level on dates. Dating provides the opportunity to open yourself up to meeting exciting new people! If you struggle getting clarity on having the right dating goals and mindset, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out strategy to help you. Book a call with Kimmy personally here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. EPISODE 232 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating A Dating Mindset: Interview With Amit Sodha. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Are you more of a serious, intellectual type of person? Did you know that being fun and playful are the top attributes that people inherently look for when dating and ultimately landing a partner? A sense of fun is more important to many people than whether someone has a degree or are super intelligent. So not taking yourself so seriously may actually be a great dating advantage! This week, Kimmy talks about the importance of being playful and fun when dating and how to get out of your head to do it. EPISODE 231 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be Playful & Fun When Dating Kimmy starts with sharing studies and facts on the benefits of play in all aspects of your life and how the opposite sex views play when dating. She tells success stories about how her clients went from boring to fun and how that helped them attract the partner of their dreams. Kimmy spells out tangible tips and ideas of how you can start exercising the playful muscle so you have more fun, create chemistry and are seen as more attractive when dating. Listen in as she calls out the biggest mistakes people make, why people tend to be so serious and ways you can stop overthink things. She discusses key elements of how to be more in your body and present which ultimately helps you connect with your dates in an authentic, feeling based way. If being silly seems awkward and a waste of time, you need to listen to this episode! And to take it one step further, sign up for her Flirt Like A Pro interactive co-ed workshop coming up February 11. Whether you need to get back out there or get out of the friend zone, it's time to learn how to be playful and fun by flirting with everyone! Plus, you will be in a truly collaborative community with like-minded, like-motivated dating men & women who can provide the practice and support you need to play! Seats are almost gone so register now here https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirtlikeapro/ EPISODE 230 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: EPISODE 231 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be Playful & Fun When Dating. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

If you've been through a divorce, you know it can turn your world completely upside down. Whether your divorce was contentious or not, you're tasked with the daunting step of forming a new identity, beyond your ex. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Daniel Herrold, co-founder of the fast-growing community Divorced Over 40 (DO40), that provides support for men and women in the aftermath of divorce. As people form their new identities as single people or single parents, having the support of a community that deeply knows what you're going through is so important! This conversation honestly tackles how you can re-enter the dating world in an emotionally healthy way after divorce later in life. EPISODE 230 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Back In The Game After Divorce: Interview With Daniel Herrold Daniel shares his story with Kimmy. If you're like Daniel, you may have met your ex young and really lacked the modern dating experience you need to date successfully in today's world. You may be tempted to dive right back into a long-term relationship, put out the wrong signals, or simply have no clue what you really want! These two swap stories about what life was like immediately following their divorces and how intimidating it was to build up their confidence to get back out there once they were ready. This conversation is a reminder that dating is a journey to find yourself, leverage dating skills that you may need to learn and to build confidence through experience. Daniel shares a surprising perspective that dating is not only an opportunity to find love, but an opportunity to expand your world and get to know new people with different beliefs, experiences and interests. Listen in to hear more on how to intentionally distinguish between your "wish list" and your "non-negotiables". One of the biggest mistakes people make in dating is conflating one for the other! If you are struggling to date after divorce and are looking for ways to get your mojo back, sign up for Kimmy's Flirt Like a Pro Workshop, coming February 11! In this co-ed virtual workshop, you'll learn and practice proven flirting techniques directly from Kimmy to help you give great conversation and create playful chemistry with anyone you meet! Sign up now by clicking here, space is limited. https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirtlikeapro/. EPISODE 230 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Back In The Game After Divorce: Interview With Daniel Herrold The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

This week, Kimmy dives deep on the relationship between fear and flirting. If you're preoccupied with a fear of rejection, your ability to be playful and flirt could be hindered. In this episode, Kimmy live coaches Janus, who wants to get back out there and find a healthy, fulfilling relationship. Janus shares her past experience in controlling relationships, which has contributed to her denying the true expression of herself. EPISODE 229 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting Without Fear: Coaching With Kimmy As a high-achieving artist with a background in eastern medicine, Janus is comfortable leading with her intelligence and experience. Kimmy and Janus talk through some of Janus's past experiences from her brief marriage in her 20s and dating as a single mom before she came to the realization that she was ready to face her past trauma and move forward. Janus talks about how her fears and past trauma caused her to be more guarded and fearful of dating. Listen in to hear about how after many years being in her cocoon has been finally taking baby steps to open herself up and put herself out there for possibilities. Janus tells the recent story of how she turned drinks with a girlfriend into a flirtatious interaction with an interesting new man! Kimmy shares some actionable tips for Janus to reframe her mindset around online dating, and use it as a tool to practice flirting and conversation skills. This conversation is a reminder that showing up as your full self AND being flirty and feminine is possible! If you are struggling with obstacles in your love life that seem unmovable, reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In half and hour you'll come away with a roadmap unique to you, designed to chart your path to love. If you're ready to take your flirting skills to the next level, sign up now for Kimmy's Flirt Like a Pro Workshop, coming February 11! In this co-ed virtual workshop, you'll learn proven flirting techniques directly from Kimmy to help you give great conversation and create playful chemistry with anyone you meet! Sign up now by clicking here, space is limited. https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirtlikeapro/ EPISODE 229 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting Without Fear: Coaching With Kimmy The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

The secret to realizing your dreams is to manifest them. You have the power to attract the love you want but first, you must become what you want to attract. If you're curious to learn how, listen to Kimmy's interview with an expert in manifestation -- best-selling author and speaker, Natalie Ledwell. EPISODE 228 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love: Interview With Natalie Ledwell Kimmy shares a story about a client who held on to negative messages about men from her childhood and how these messages were leaking into her love life. You'll learn that common beliefs like, "There are no good men out there," can actually attract more of the wrong kind of men for you. Kimmy and Natalie discuss why becoming the best version of you is the most effective way to find the kind of love you desire. As Kimmy always says, what you put out is what you get back! Natalie shares the details behind the vision board tool she created to help millions of people visualize and feel their dreams, Mind Movies. Natalie tells the surprising story of how she met her amazing guy nearly two years ago and how she used this platform and special exercises to capture his eye online. Stay tuned for Natalie's answer to a question about the struggles she faced to be able to build truly close relationships and how she worked to overcome that. Often we hold on to patterns or beliefs from past relationships that aren't serving us. Once you make a decision to let those stop holding you back and act on what you really want, your world will open up. Plus, an excellent example of one of Kimmy's go-to flirting techniques! Taking action is an essential part of manifesting your dreams. Book a complimentary call with Kimmy to help you visualize yours here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to get started and map out a strategy to manifest the love you want! And then grab Natalie's MindMovies tool to start putting your desires into action here https://www.mindmovies.com/products/order_mindmovies.php?30390 EPISODE 228 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love: Interview With Natalie Ledwell. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Welcome back for another episode of Where Are They Now, Coaching with Kimmy! On this segment, you'll hear honest reflections from Kimmy's current and former clients. These conversations focus on how their lives have changed and where they are on their love journey since working with Kimmy. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success! This week, Kimmy catches up with Liz, a high achieving podcast listener who invested in coaching because she was ready to learn how to date and find real love. She decided to coach with Kimmy because she had been successful in everything else in her life except for love. Listen in how she did with work with Kimmy and landed her fiancé! EPISODE 227 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How High Achievers Find Love: Where Are They Now With Liz Liz shares the story about the first time she heard Kimmy's 5 Dating Archetypes, discovered that she was the quintessential high achieving "List Lady" and why she knew she needed to reach out for support on her love journey. Kimmy and Liz talk through the valid and real fears that many of us face when it comes to putting ourselves out there in the dating world. Kimmy helped Liz develop an understanding how her family of origin and cultural background was contributing to her dating patterns and challenges. Liz talks about her experience developing confidence in being flirty and feminine without losing herself or dumbing down for anyone. Knowing how to flirt and be more open were essential skills that helped Liz initially, where she then created attraction to land her man. If you are carrying insecurities or feel a lack of self worth at times, this conversation helps illuminate the importance of building those skills for a healthy, positive outlook. You'll hear tips around how to have more positive, playful conversations to help dates progress. Liz tells us how she stopped letting work talk infiltrate her conversations on dates and how she has given herself permission to indulge in pampering herself more! Liz shares the story around meeting her fiancé and how she almost swiped left on him had she not been coaching with Kimmy. If you get inspired by this episode and want to find love this year, do what Liz did, by starting off with a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Decide if you are ready to invest in your happiness and start seeing the changes you want to see in your love life right now. EPISODE 227 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How High Achievers Find Love: Where Are They Now With Liz. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you self-sabotage in dating and relationships? Are you quick to judge others? This week, Kimmy interviews Brandon Wilson, a communications and executive consultant who helps leaders and organizations identify the barriers that stop them for fulfilling their dreams. Brandon shares his story about the business relationship that nearly cost him everything. You'll hear how that experience helped him develop a sabotage framework which he outlines in his book, Sabotage. EPISODE 226 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self Sabotage When Dating: Interview With Brandon Wilson This fascinating conversation will give you practical tools to start noticing patterns in your personal and love relationships that could cause you to sabotage your love life. Kimmy and Brandon discuss the key signs to know if you're vulnerable to sabotage from others and yourself. Qualities like jealousy and arrogance are red flags when it comes to creating a healthy, growth-minded, loving relationship. You'll hear an insightful answer to Kimmy's question about what motivates people who self-sabotage or sabotage others. This conversation is packed with amazing, actionable tips you can use to see the relationships and dating patterns you have in a new light. Listen in to hear some surprising facts about what holds you back from attracting and developing the positive, strong relationships you really want. Once you can recognize the signs of sabotage, the more power you have to stop it in its tracks. If you are ready to stop self-sabotaging and grow into the best version of yourself, take the first step by booking a FREE call with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In half an hour, you will get a roadmap to build your dating plan and start your love journey. EPISODE 226 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self Sabotage When Dating: Interview With Brandon Wilson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Have you been experiencing a pessimistic outlook or self doubt lately around dating? With the New Year right around the corner, it's the perfect time to reflect on your love life and determine if you could use a reboot. Right now, many people are experiencing dating burnout -- you're numbing out swiping on matches, you keep meeting people you can't see yourself with and you're starting to wonder if there's even a point to all this! This week, Kimmy talks through the steps to pull yourself out of this rut and start to reinvent your love life, one step at a time. EPISODE 225 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Combat Dating Burnout: Reinvent Yourself Kimmy shares the top signs and symptoms of dating burnout and how this can be negatively impacting your dating life. The key to rising out of your rut is to take action to break the patterns that have been holding you back so you can be open to new options. Kimmy talks about how to shut down the dating burnout and focus on transforming yourself and key things in your life in a more positive direction. You'll hear 5 strategies around how to get unstuck by first starting to get rid of things that no longer serve you. Listen in to hear why creating and maintaining healthy habits is essential to being your best self. When you get to know yourself better, it helps you connect on a more genuine level with others. This could be the perfect time to take time off work, unplug and nurture yourself. Listen in for a tip on how to meet people who share your interests. If you've been attracting the same type of people that aren't working for you, this could be your moment to step our of your comfort zone and try to date people that are NOT your type at all. This episode is all about how you can re-energize your love life and bring a new optimism to your dating experiences. If you are feeling burnt out but you have no idea where to begin, schedule a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In this complimentary, 30 minute phone call you will get the help you need to map out a plan and find a new direction to take your dating life. In the new year, become the best version of you and find the love you desire. EPISODE 225 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Combat Dating Burnout: Reinvent Yourself. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you feel like you're dating the same person over and over again? You try to vet potential dates as best you can but somehow you always end up attracting the fixer-upper, the narcissist, the emotionally unavailable... and you're over it! In the end, you realize that your "picker" might be off. This week, listen in as Kimmy live coaches Ashley, who found Kimmy through her free Facebook group, The Love Makeover Insiders. Ashley is ready to meet someone great after finding herself and defining the kind of person she really wants, but dating has been challenging. She's not meeting the kind of guys she's looking for and she's starting to wonder if her picker is off. EPISODE 224 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be A Better Picker: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy begins the episode by decoding and dissecting what has been challenging for Ashley. Ashley discloses that she had a concussion a while back which definitely affected her confidence and feeling overly sensitive on dates. You'll hear how Kimmy uncovers some unexpected and surprising revelations of what the real reasons her picker is off and why dating has been hard beyond the concussion. Kimmy then helps Ashley reveal connections about how her upbringing and experiences with boys in her younger years are related to what has been holding her back now. Ashley begins by talking about her perception of flirting and why being playful and light on dates never was easy for her. Kimmy gives tangible flirting tips to get you out of your head and into your body. Kimmy talks about how being present and positive can allow you to share more of yourself and have authentic, interesting conversations. When you release the pressure of getting in a relationship or everything on your list -- you can relax, become more present, and have fun on your terms. If you're tired of bad dates and feel your picker might be off, reach out to Kimmy and set up a FREE coaching call: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Kimmy will help you map out a strategy to help you like she did with Ashley. EPISODE 224 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be A Better Picker: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you feel a sense of self-empowerment? It is a buzzword that is thrown out all of the time but what does it really mean? When you are empowered, you are confident and that confidence gets you the opportunities you want. This week, Kimmy interviews a guest who knows a thing or two about empowering people to live a fantastic life, Dr. Allen Lycka, who is a pioneer in cosmetic surgery, transformational speaker, author, celebrity and mentor in his field. EPISODE 223 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self-Empowerment Hacks For A Fantastic Love Life: Interview With Dr. Allen Lycka. Dr. Lycka dives in to share his remarkable and inspirational story about how he was blindsided by a horrible medical scare where he was told he was going to die and how he overcame it in a very powerful way, which drove him to better lives of others. If you have ever struggled with feeling disempowered and being in victim mode, listen in to hear tips on how you can get out of your own way and face your fears. Kimmy and Dr. Lycka discuss how understanding the stages of grief can be instrumental in coping with hard times and developing an accepting and positive mindset. Dr. Lycka talks about the importance of the phrase by Epictetus, "It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." He goes on to give tangible tips around his theory of how you can live a fantastic life with his 13 Golden Pearls of Empowerment that will help you take your love life to the next level. Kimmy drives it home with how you can use these pearls in your dating life. When you are ready for a change, it's imperative to surround yourself with positivity and gratitude that will help you break patterns that are holding you back. This powerful conversation is a reminder that you have the power to create the life you want and deserve. Listen in to hear Dr. Lycka call out a challenge to you that will help you transform your mindset. If you keep asking yourself why you are still single and feeling powerless about your love life, book a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to help you get out of your own way. EPISODE 223 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self-Empowerment Hacks For A Fantastic Love Life: Interview With Dr. Allen Lycka. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

If you've been a listener of this show, you know that Kimmy's philosophy is all about working on yourself from the outside in. It's the fastest gateway to embody the most confident version of you. This week, Kimmy interviews an authority on building a positive body image, transformational coach, Justine Sloan. EPISODE 222 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building A Positive Self-Image To Attract Love~Interview With Justin Sloan Justine dives in to share her story about how she struggled with her body image from a young age, causing her to yo-yo diet, engage in excessive exercise and develop an eating disorder. From starting her career as a personal trainer to competing in fitness competitions, now Justine has left that lifestyle behind for a healthier outlook that brings her joy. If you have ever struggled with body image issues, listen in to hear tips on how to take the first steps to truly loving your body and more importantly, loving yourself. Kimmy and Justine discuss the importance of being ready to hear positive messages in your life. When you are ready for a change, it's imperative to surround yourself with positive encouragement that will help you break patterns that are holding you back. This conversation is a reminder that when you do not love yourself, others will treat you accordingly. Justine shares that when she was at her lowest point, she was attracting men into her life that were extremely critical of her appearance because she was critical of her own appearance. Listen in to hear why building your self-worth is an essential first step to achieving a healthy relationship with yourself, how emotional eating can be curtailed with a simple reframe, and how to start to break the habits that hold you back from being your best self. If you are ready to rewrite your story and take steps to overhaul your self-image, reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Working on your self-worth and self-image is working on your dating life! When you are your most confident, radiant self, you will attract others who treat you accordingly. EPISODE 222 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building A Positive Self-Image To Attract Love~Interview With Justin Sloan. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

If you have dated or been in relationships before, you know that getting hurt or rejected is part of the deal. We've all been there! It's scary to get rejected and it's easy to become guarded or fear being vulnerable. This week, Kimmy live coaches Stacey, a people-person who thrives in social groups but is having trouble opening up and sharing her true self when dating. EPISODE 221 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting your guard down when dating: Coaching with Kimmy If you've found yourself attracting the emotionally unavailable like Stacey, this episode will show you how you may actually be unavailable yourself. Kimmy asks Stacey about her dating history and upbringing. You'll hear how Stacey's family dynamics growing up and the role she played as the peacemaker contributes to her dating life today. If you have trust issues, experience a lack of intimacy in relationships, or have dealt with infidelity in the past, listen in to hear about some of the possible sources of these patterns that you have the power to change. Kimmy talks about the definition of real vulnerability and gives tangible steps to be more open when dating. When you are able to open up and lead with how you feel, you invite people to do the same and you begin to attract emotional intimacy into your life. Right now, Stacey's dating someone who she'd like to see more but is having trouble expressing what she wants. Kimmy shares her conversational formula for expressing your feelings in a clear, direct, and positive way. You'll hear Stacey try out this formula live on the episode! If you are struggling to express your needs and desires when dating, this conversation will give you a roadmap to practice and start seeing different results. If you are ready to start making deeper connections when dating, reach out to Kimmy and have a conversation. Book a complimentary call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and in just half an hour you could have a concrete plan to improve your love life. EPISODE 221 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting your guard down when dating: Coaching with Kimmy The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you feel stressed and negative around this time of year? Being single can be really hard as holidays approach and it's easy to be sucked into a negative spin. This week, Kimmy shares an impactful and motivational episode around the power of gratitude. As Thanksgiving approaches, it's a reminder that we have a lot to be grateful for. You deserve to acknowledge what makes you happy! When you live with a positive mindset, you are setting the stage for happy dates and satisfying relationships in the future. Kimmy shares an episode from last year around why being thankful for the positives in your life cultivates healthy, fulfilling partnerships and dating experiences. EPISODE 220 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: ICYMI: An Extra Dose Of Gratitude Attitude To Attract Love Studies have shown that people who exhibit a positive mindset are happier. Kimmy breaks down a few easy, actionable tips you can start doing now that will help you have a more positive outlook on life. You'll hear how to stop negative thoughts and reframe them to impact you for the better. Listen in to hear about 4 major ways negative thoughts and feelings about yourself can impact your behavior and what you can do to start seeing changes in your love life. Stay tuned to hear all about how you can combat the "gremlin talk" and invite more of the positive energy you want to see into your life! When you have a gratitude attitude, you will attract the love you are looking for. It all starts with you! Finding yourself and falling in love can happen, and it's fun and exciting to discover all you have to be grateful for and bring that attitude into your life. If you keep asking yourself, "Why am I still single?" and and feeling powerless and negative about your love life, set a time to talk to Kimmy. You can book it here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In half an hour you can develop a plan to move forward that will bring you closer to finding the person of your dreams! EPISODE 220 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: ICYMI: An Extra Dose Of Gratitude Attitude To Attract Love The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you feel that you are worthy of love? Maybe on the surface, you want that but deep down you are not sure. The first step to achieving anything you want is to feel and believe you deserve it. It's true when it comes to happiness, business and love. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews an authority on helping people become leaders of their own destiny, Daniel Gomez. Daniel is an award-winning keynote speaker, author, coach and podcast host who empowers his clients to build epic success in all areas of their life. EPISODE 219 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Being Worthy Of Love: Interview With Daniel Gomez This energized, deep and powerful conversation will remind you that building your self-worth is essential to finding love. When you feel you are worthy and deserving of a secure relationship, you will start to see changes in who you attract and how you show up. Daniel shares his upbringing in a military family and how that contributed to a lack of foundation for creating lasting long-term relationships. From building his sales skills at his first job to becoming an expert in the automotive industry to marrying his wife and becoming an entrepreneur, Kimmy asks Daniel about the keys to his success. You'll hear how Daniel recovered from one of the lowest points in his life to how he got back on his feet. Listen in to hear how shifting your perspective and seeing something through another person's eyes can not only build empathy but also open your mind to new possibilities. Kimmy and Daniel talk about the different factors at play that can empower you to be the best version of yourself. This conversation touches on the importance of trust, the ability to forgive others, receiving affection and support from others -- even taking compliments! If you think that your low self-worth is impacting your ability to find a healthy love, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out a strategy to help you here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough It's free, and only takes half an hour! Create time for yourself to start working towards the healthy, fulfilling relationship you've always wanted AND deserve. EPISODE 219 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Being Worthy Of Love: Interview With Daniel Gomez The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Expectations and norms around dating have shifted drastically over the years. Now, technology has a massive impact on the culture of dating. If you're in your 40s, 50s or 60s and entering the dating scene for the first time, learning all these new rules can make you feel like a total fish out of water! In this episode, Kimmy breaks down how to navigate the modern dating world by demystifying the biggest changes and how you can get up to speed. EPISODE 218 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Navigate Modern Dating World If your dating experience is outdated and you feel overwhelmed by all there is to do, this episode is for you. It's exciting to be able to discover yourself as you learn and date your way through this new landscape. Kimmy dives into the 5 specific areas where dating has changed over the years and how they might be impacting your dating life. Kimmy talks about how social media, dating apps and new technology is creating new opportunities to meet even more people. You can learn to use the apps to your advantage to flirt while being true to yourself, even via text! Listen in to hear how the rules, expectations, and norms in dating today have shifted and how you can develop an intentional plan to find a healthy, happy relationship for who you've grown into. You'll hear why getting comfortable sharing your feelings and being vulnerable is surprisingly essential to your success in this modern dating world. Kimmy shares the powerful ingredient to creating chemistry and attracting the kind of person you really want. If you're ready to get back out there and find love, sign up for your spot in Kimmy's next workshop, How to Date in Your 40s, 50s and 60s here https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/dating-in-your-40s-50s-60s/. Join a group of men and women who will work with Kimmy to overcome dating fears, create a dating plan, dial-up your sexy confidence, flirt skills and learn to create chemistry in every conversation. Space is limited! You can apply by clicking the link above or email Kimmy directly at askkimmy.com to find how more. Gaining experience is how you combat anxiety around dating. You deserve to be happy and attract the love that's right for you this time around. EPISODE 218 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Navigate Modern Dating World The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Is your voice not as strong as you would like it to be? Do you find yourself bending over backward to please others, while pushing your own needs and desires to the side? In this LIVE episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Debra who's venturing back into the dating world after leaving an 18-year marriage. She is working on finding her voice and letting go of people-pleasing behaviors so that she can stop attracting controlling and narcissistic kinds of men. EPISODE 217 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Voice: Coaching With Kimmy Debra decided to do a live coaching session on the podcast with Kimmy in order to seek strategies to find her voice and around creating a dating plan to attract the kind of partner who's right for this season of her life. Kimmy starts off by acknowledging that finding your voice and the strength to demand what you deserve is the first skill to learn to date smarter this time around. If you find yourself apologizing often (and for no good reason!), consistently attracting lopsided relationships with narcissists or fixer-uppers or feeling responsible for the emotions of others, this episode is for you. Debra shares some insight into the patterns she tends to fall into in relationships, connecting back to her upbringing as the middle child seeking approval, validation and praise from her parents. You'll hear about some of the challenges Debra has encountered in meeting and dating guys while she determines what qualities she wants and the ones she wants to avoid. Kimmy stresses the importance of getting rid of Debra's ex-husband's hold on her and ways to set boundaries for her and her family. Kimmy then shares some tangible strategies of how to raise your self-worth including the key questions to ask to discern what you want before considering what someone else wants, the impact of enriching your social life and the benefits of learning how to just "date" while not getting attached to the outcome. Listen in at the end where Kimmy gets Debra (and to her own surprise) to find her voice right here on this episode! If this show resonated with you and you're ready to stop hiding your voice and date with confidence, get in touch with Kimmy and book a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough And, if you are getting back out there in the dating world later in life and want to learn how to date to attract the right partner, feel desirable and flirt and have fun, you can put your name down now to attend Kimmy's new program, How to Date in Your 40s, 50s and 60s! It starts November 15 and space is limited! Go to askkimmy.com to ask for more information on how to sign up or go here to apply https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/dating-in-your-40s-50s-60s/ EPISODE 217 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Voice: Coaching With Kimmy The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Have you ever felt like you keep dating the same person? No matter what you do, you keep ending up attracting the same type of guy or gal and you're ready to make a change. If you're a regular listener of this podcast, you may have heard Kimmy's five dating archetypes for women. To hear more about each one, check out her exclusive audio course This May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer In this episode, you'll hear about one expert's dating archetypes for men! Kimmy brings in Hafeez Bakou, co-host of The Roommates Podcast, a man's guide to becoming the best version of himself by leveling up physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially. EPISODE 216 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Toxic Dating Decoding: Interview With Hafeez Bakou Whether you're a man or a woman, you'll want to hear these archetypes for men and how they intersect with the archetypes for ladies! Listen in to hear some unexpected parallels between women and men that you may not have heard before. These two dive right in to shed some light on the most common types of men you'll meet in the dating world. You'll hear about key signs to look for to tell if you're talking to the Mama's Boy, the Player/Charmer, the Overly Ambitious Guy, the Bad Boy and even more. Kimmy and Hafeez talk about how the energy you put out may be attracting a specific type of guy. This conversation is a great reminder that all relationships are about balance and finding the dynamic that works for you and your partner. This conversation touches on the effect on each gender of putting out masculine and feminine energy. Here's a hint, what you put out impacts who you attract and how you're perceived on dates. This episode will show you some of the broad signs to look for to know if you are pursuing a relationship with someone who's not healthy or ready for what you're looking for. If these archetypes resonated with you and you want to start working on your dating life, first take the Dating Archetype Quiz for women here to see what kind of dater you are https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY and then set a time to talk with Kimmy here about it: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough It's free, and she will give you ideas around how to stop your dating patterns. EPISODE 216 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Toxic Dating Decoding: Interview With Hafeez Bakou The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you follow your intuition? As you move through your love journey, trusting your gut can be a huge advantage, but how do you know how to interpret what you feel? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews a leader in listening and leaning into her intuition, Noel Elie. Noel is an entertainment industry professional, model and actress, and founder and CEO of Noel Elie productions where she works with people to help build their brands, get media features, and more. EPISODE 215 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Trusting Your Intuition: Interview with Actress Noel Elie Kimmy and Noel kick off when Noel shares the story of how she moved to New York City, just months after graduating college with a dream to break into the modeling world. You'll hear how Noel developed her confidence and trusted her intuition to move her career forward in unexpected ways. You'll hear some incredible gold nuggets from Noel about the building blocks you need to have in place to make it easier to trust your gut. If you've identified or gained your confidence as a caretaker of others before yourself, listen in to hear some tangible tips on how to prioritize your own needs. Kimmy shares that intuition comes from a place of certainty. You'll hear a great tip about how you can increase your confidence daily by using a simple trick Noel uses to get through tough times and put things into perspective. And, Noel shares a story about her recent health journey and how her intuition played an essential role in her progress. If you feel that you are comparing yourself to others on social media or have anxiety tied to that, this episode is for you. Finally, Kimmy and Noel talk about how improv and dancing are powerful tools to help you play out different emotions, allow you to make mistakes, and have fun. If you are having trouble trusting your gut and because of that fall into bad dating and relationship patterns, take the first step and reach out to Kimmy to build your confidence and intuition. Schedule your call right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and get the right guidance towards attracting the right person for you! EPISODE 215 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Trusting Your Intuition: Interview with Actress Noel Elie The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you know how to network to increase your chances of meeting potential dates? Your ability to build strong relationships is essential to your success in dating. The stronger your network, the more likely you are to meet or be introduced to someone who could end up being the love of your life! This week, Kimmy interviews an authority on creating and cultivating connections in business, Michael Roderick. A former high school English teacher, Michael capitalized on the power of strong connections to transition to a career as a Broadway producer in record time. Now, as the CEO of Small Pond Enterprises and host of the podcast Access to Anyone, Michael works with people and brands to help make them more memorable through his frameworks on how to create influence. EPISODE 214 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building Relationships For Dating Success: Interview With Michael Roderick This conversation is all about how to make a lasting impression on the people you meet so that those relationships bear fruit for years to come. Kimmy breaks down the top 3 mistakes YOU might be making on dates that are preventing you from making real connections with those you meet. Kimmy and Michael discuss how Michael developed a framework around how to make yourself referable. What are the factors that make others want to introduce people to you? You'll learn the key factors and qualities you can increase to raise your likability and actually show up as your authentic self. And, if you've been dreading going to a social event or have been avoiding them, listen in to hear Michael break down how to improve your interactions with fun animal avatars! This episode is a great reminder that it's a wonderful gift to help others, but you have to remember to let others help you, which will in turn create more opportunities in your dating life. If you are over 40 and having a hard time meeting people and building connections for your dating life, Kimmy's back with another Flirt Workshop! Coming to you on October 19, Kimmy is inviting both women and men together for an interactive virtual workshop designed for folks in their 40s, 50s, and 60s to get back in the game! Whether you are shy, feel awkward, or have been out of the dating scene for a while, you'll learn about the fundamentals of flirting so you can create irresistible chemistry, experience unforgettable first dates and have fun conversations! Space is limited. Register for your spot today: https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building Relationships For Dating Success: Interview With Michael Roderick. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Have you noticed a pattern of dating or attracting emotionally unavailable people? Do you find it difficult to open up with new friends or in potential relationships? In this episode, you'll hear Kimmy live coach Dawn, a self-described social butterfly who has no trouble having fun and attracting men, however you'll be surprised to hear how her flirting has been used as a love shield to deflect her from going deeper in her interactions. As an proclaimed extrovert and waitress, Dawn is great at making sure everyone else is taken care of and focus on others, but often doesn't ensure her emotional needs are met. Now, she's come to Kimmy looking for help on how to create a fulfilling relationship that lasts. EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Attracting The Unavailable: Coaching With Kimmy At the top, Kimmy shares three reasons why you may find yourself in emotionally unavailable relationships or situationships. Listen in to hear about how you may be unconsciusly recreating a pattern from your childhood or history in your current interactions. Often, we repeat relationship dynamics that are familiar to us. Kimmy and Dawn dig into Dawn's history to uncover some of the possible traces of this pattern for her. If you're like Dawn, you may have developed certain behaviors to protect yourself from getting hurt in the past. Kimmy talks through some simple first steps to notice and shift these behaviors to get a different result. You'll hear tips around expanding your social circle, the benefits of expressing your feelings early and often, and how to build up your self-worth so that you attract more opportunities for deeper connections. And, if you're over 40 and find yourself feeling lost about how to navigate today's dating scene, come check out Kimmy's Flirt Workshop! Back by popular demand on October 11, Kimmy will gather both women and men together for an interactive virtual masterclass designed for folks in their 40s, 50s, and 60s to get back in the game! So whether you are shy, feel awkward or have been out of the dating scene for awhile, you'll learn about the fundamentals of flirting so you can create irresistible chemistry, experience unforgettable first dates and have fun conversations! Space is limited. Register for your spot today: https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Attracting The Unavailable: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Are you dating later in life? Dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s is different! Especially if you're jumping back into the dating world after a divorce or a long-term relationship in adulthood. Often, your identity was tied to your partners for so long that it can be tough to find who YOU are again. Dating has also changed in the last decade and now is the perfect time to understand how to date smarter so you can find who's right for you now. In this week's episode, Kimmy addresses the biggest dating mistakes people make after 40. EPISODE 212 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes Kimmy jumps right in by sharing the beginnings of her own dating journey after divorce and the biggest misadventures she made, including why she found herself attracting narcissists initially! You'll hear about some of the new rules of the dating world, and how you can start out dating smarter not harder this time around. If you've ever thought, "Can't I just skip all this dating and get to the relationship part?!" this episode is for you where you'll learn how you might actually be prolonging the process by diving in too fast too soon. Kimmy walks through the top 5 dating mistakes people make in their 40s, 50s and 60s and how it can negatively impact your dating life. She shares some actionable tips for you to reframe your mindset around how to date. Tune in to hear a story about a 68-year-old woman she worked with who successfully got back out there and found love in an unexpected place... Tinder! And, if you are over 40 and having a hard time navigating the dating scene she has an exciting opportunity coming up October 11. By popular demand, Kimmy's Co-ed Flirt Masterclass is here again but this time focusing on how to do it in your 40s, 50s and 60s! Join a motivated group of women and men ready to learn to get their sexy on, create attraction and land dates at ANY age. Space is limited so sign up today here https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting EPISODE 212 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Have you ever gotten swept up in the magic and romance of a movie or a song? Do you ever ask yourself, "Why can't I find love?" The truth is that it's a lot easier to depict a picture-perfect whirlwind courtship in a romantic comedy than to replicate that experience in real life. When it comes to finding love, it may be more beneficial to *create* the love you want, instead of searching for it. This week, Kimmy talks to Adam Gilad who is an Emmy-nominated producer and writer and founder of Kyynder about developing deep love connections between men and women. EPISODE 211 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Love, Not Finding It: Interview With Adam Gilad Kimmy begins the episode with the importance of why it's better to create love vs. finding it. Kimmy and Adam jump right in to talk about how you have the power to build skill sets that make you more likely to create the kind of love you're looking for. Adam shares his journey of how his world was turned upside down when he found himself single at 39 and how he picked up the pieces to put his life back together. If you have gone through a breakup of a long-term relationship or a divorce, listen in to Adam's story. This conversation between old friends is a reminder that navigating the dating world is a journey and so many of us go through very similar things throughout this process. Adam shares some of the top skills that successful daters and couples can use through practice to help them have more healthy and happy relationships. You'll hear about how raising your awareness of certain personal triggers helps you interpret the behaviors of others with more clarity. Kimmy and Adam touch on the power of having a community surrounding and supporting you in order to start to shift your consciousness around the relationship skills you want to build. And, Adam shares some lessons he's learned in his new relationship about not making assumptions about others because everyone has grown up differently with different experiences. If you're ready to start honing your relationship skills, get some time on Kimmy's calendar here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In a FREE 30-minute session with Kimmy you could start to uncover some of the central challenges you face when dating and begin to craft a roadmap of how to practice and navigate where you want to go. Also if you want the practice join Kimmy and other amazing experts in Adam's Kyyndr interactive summit. This is a curated community of men and women who meet every week to learn advanced dating and relationships skills together and to connect in a deeper way online. Click here to join! www.kyyndr.com/seltzer EPISODE 211 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Love, Not Finding It: Interview With Adam Gilad. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Everyone experiences extreme life events that impact how we think, act and behave throughout our loves. If you've experienced trauma, physical, verbal or emotional abuse in your family or past relationships, this week's episode will resonate with you. You'll hear Kimmy have a coaching call with Margaret, a healthcare worker who is struggling to move beyond her past and find love again. After leaving an abusive 11-year marriage, Margaret is focused on how she can shift her perspective to start attracting different people into her life. EPISODE 210 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Trauma Prevents You From Finding Love: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy dives in by describing the signs of the 3 most common responses to fear: fight, flight or freeze. If one of more of these responses feels like you, listen in to hear proven strategies to begin breaking those patterns for yourself, while still prioritizing your own health and safety. Margaret jumps in to share that she has no problem meeting guys, but when it comes to trusting their motives, it's a different story. If you've built in some questions to "test" your dates early on, Kimmy explains reasons why this tactic may backfire when trying to filter through red flags. Margaret also shares what the dynamics in her family looked like growing up and Kimmy identifies how those patterns could be repeating themselves in her dating life today. If you've found success in "fixing" or helping others, this conversation will illuminate how this dynamic creates unhealthy dating dynamics. Kimmy shares some tips on how to check in with yourself and what you're feeling to make sense of the reactions you may have to different behavior. If you have a tendency to focus on making others happy at the expense of getting your own needs met, stay tuned to hear how you can take small steps to start breaking those patterns. Learn how to shift the focus back to you, instead of trying to predict what the person you're dating may or may not be concealing. If Margaret's experience resonates with you and you're looking for a path that could release you from your past trauma in relationships, reach out to Kimmy for a complimentary coaching call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough When you learn to shift your focus from others to yourself at this stage, you'll be able to build a sense of empowerment, raise your standards and go after what you want and deserve in a relationship. Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Dating in today's landscape can be intimidating. Gone are the days of being introduced to your person through family or friends as nowadays people are more and more likely to meet online. The world of dating apps is big, and without a concrete plan, you may feel like you're out in the wilderness. This week, Kimmy speaks with an authority on how to navigate dating online, Dawoon Kang, the co-founder and Chief Dating Officer of popular dating app Coffee Meets Bagel. EPISODE 209 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating Virtual Dating: Interview With Coffee Meets Bagel Dating Expert Kimmy and Dawoon dive into Dawoon's experience going on hundreds of first dates and how that informed her work at Coffee Meets Bagel. Dating smarter (not harder!) means diversifying your options by socializing with other single people, trying new things, and getting out of your comfort zone, which includes a healthy relationship with the apps. Dawoon and Kimmy talk through why it's so important not to begin your dating journey by focusing on finding "the one" but instead, focusing on how you feel with the other person. These two geek out about the science behind great, long-lasting relationships and what signals to look out for online to see if you and your date are compatible. Tune in to hear the biggest red flags you should watch out for to tell if a dating profile is real or fake. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that your dating profile can be a space curated to showcase your authentic self. You can signal to others who you are and what you want by choosing flattering photos, and sharing personal information that showcases what matters to you. Find out how to focus on the story, not the facts, in a profile and why you'll get better results by doing that. If you are tired of numbing out and swiping through people who you don't see a real connection with, get in touch with Kimmy for a complimentary, 30-minute call to map out a dating plan here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough One call can set you on the path to clarifying what you're looking for and even tips on how to date smarter. EPISODE 209 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating Virtual Dating: Interview With Coffee Meets Bagel Dating Expert. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with current and former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what's changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Maricus, who is starting his dating journey for the first time since leaving his marriage and finding himself in the process. EPISODE 208 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Discovering Yourself After A Breakup: Where Are They Now With Maricus Kimmy and Maricus dive in by talking about how his marriage to his ex-wife was lopsided. If you're like Maricus, chances are you've spent a lot of time focusing on what others want and not a lot of time considering what you want. This conversation touches on strategies to ensure that your needs are met, especially if you don't have a lot of dating experience under your belt. And, you'll expand your definition of what dating is all about! You don't need to date with the intention of getting into a relationship, you can date in order to expand your social skills and get to know how you show up and how you want others to show up for you. You'll hear how through working with Kimmy, Maricus was able to come out of his shell, find his confident voice and be more true to who he is in order to find potential partners. Plus, Maricus tells stories about how he's been able to put himself out there more through meetups and getting out of his comfort zone, which has led to him making new connections with new people where he lives. Stay tuned to hear about the new relationship Maricus is in and how it's totally different than anything he's been in before. If Maricus's experience resonated with you and you have been hesitant about reaching out to speak with someone to get your love life on track, listen in to hear his advice about how to get started. When you're ready to take the next step whether that's strengthening your relationship with yourself, your personal confidence, or forging new love relationships, get in touch with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough One phone call could be the difference between you staying stuck and you moving forward and finding the fulfilling relationship you've always wanted. EPISODE 208 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Discovering Yourself After A Breakup: Where Are They Now With Maricus. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

How do you care for yourself? Nurturing yourself and taking care of your needs is an essential part of being the best version of yourself. This week, Kimmy has an introspective conversation with Dr. Gertrude Lyons, a life coach, speaker, podcast host of Rewrite The Mother Code, and self-described mothering revolutionary. This week, Kimmy and Gertrude invite you to think about the art of mothering in all its' forms, regardless of your gender. This episode is all about how to mother and nurture yourself and attract the kind of love you want. EPISODE 207 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mother Yourself To Attract Love: Interview with Dr. Gertrude Lyons Gertrude talks about her family upbringing and early career discovering her love of connecting with people and how it led her to find her core self through the years. If you're a highly analytical and high-achieving person like Gertrude, it's even more important to tap into your emotional side so you can connect on a deeper level with the people you date. Kimmy and Gertrude talk about the concept of mothering as a way to foster a healthy sense of self-love without feeling selfish so that you attract more reciprocity in your interactions. Listen in to hear why securing support and accountability is the best decision you can make when it comes to nurturing your relationship with yourself. You'll hear tips on naming emotions as you feel them so you can better express yourself and gain self-awareness. This conversation will remind you to look at your love journey as a process to grow through. These two experts review some real, practical tips to help you develop the self-care you need to create a healthy relationship with yourself and others. If you listen to this and you are struck with knowing you are focusing too much on others and want to learn how to empower yourself to attract love, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out a strategy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Remember, working on yourself is working on your dating life! EPISODE 207 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mother Yourself To Attract Love: Interview with Dr. Gertrude Lyons. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever felt like you were just dating the same person over and over again? Even though you've been working on yourself and listening to podcasts (like this one!), you still can't seem to break free from experiencing the same patterns. This week, Kimmy is going to help you tackle some issues you may not have been able to see before. Listen in to hear her Top 5 Love Shields that may be preventing you from finding the one. EPISODE 206 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Things That Block You From Love You'll learn time-tested techniques to help you look inward and determine what you can do to start attracting a different kind of a person into your life. When you mirror the kind of partner you want to be with, you'll connect more deeply with the kind of people you are seeking. The more you know yourself and show up as your authentic self (quirks included!) the more you'll be able to set the standard you desire in a relationship. This empowering episode will show you that you cannot change or control others, you can only change yourself. Kimmy delivers some tough love in this episode with tips and tricks that will help you determine if you are conflating reality with fantasy in your dating life. Listen in to hear how fear can create habits that keep you from getting hurt. Learn how taking risks and going outside your comfort zone will help you have an experience or create an opportunity to meet someone you never would have otherwise. If you recognize that you are being held back by your fears and you need help seeing past your own barriers, book a free call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Your first half an hour with Kimmy is complimentary to see if you could benefit from working with her to crack your love code! Also, Kimmy will be in NYC in September and is opening up 1-2 slots for private coaching and possibly a small group gathering. If you are interested, inquire at Askkimmy.com for more info to apply. EPISODE 206 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Things That Block You From Love The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In these episodes, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with her clients to find out how their life has changed since working with her, and the secrets to their success. Today, you'll meet Meredith, who found Kimmy on a friend's recommendation and now has completely changed her story and has found love. EPISODE 205 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Vulnerability Attracted Love: Where Are They Now With Meredith Meredith dives in by sharing what she struggled within dating. From uncovering habits and behaviors tied to growing up in a household where emotions were not shared to dating men who gaslit her and invalidated her needs, Meredith was ready to make a drastic shift. Listen in to hear how she came to the realization that she could make different choices and start seeing different results. If you have ever felt like you were too broken or had too much baggage to deserve a happy, healthy and fulfilling relationship, this episode is for you. And if you're like Meredith, you may have unconsciously been creating some of the conflict you were desperately trying to avoid by people pleasing and worrying about everyone else's needs before your own. Kimmy and Meredith break down the key factors in the coaching process that led to breakthroughs for Meredith -- in love and at work! This conversation is a beautiful reminder that what shows up in one area of your life often leaks into other areas, including business. And, listen in to hear the words that helped Meredith feel valued and seen for her authentic self, not who she used to try to be to impress the guys. Stay tuned to hear Meredith's incredible story of how her new relationship has blossomed from a totally unexpected place! Hopefully, some of the insights from Meredith's journey to discover self-love, confidence and the power of saying no will resonate with you! You can change your story with just one call to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Just like she was for Meredith, Kimmy can be a built-in accountability partner to guide you and keep you on track to work on your love life. EPISODE 205 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Vulnerability Attracted Love: Where Are They Now With Meredith. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Does the idea of confronting conflict in a relationship make you cringe? Would you rather avoid sharing your true feelings because you're afraid that sharing how you feel will cause more problems? If this sounds like you, tune in to hear Kimmy's interview with David Wood. David runs the world's largest coaching business for high-performing entrepreneurs, is the celebrated author of Get Paid for Who You Are, and is an expert in having tough conversations. EPISODE 204 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Tough Conversations To Improve Your Love Life: Interview With David Wood If you have ever decided not to speak up because you were afraid that communicating your truth would damage a new or existing relationship, this conversation is for you. Listen in to hear Kimmy and David talk through David's method to reduce fear when having hard conversations. David shares one powerful question that will help you clearly see the upside to sharing your true feelings. Addressing conflicts with others can feel quite intimidating, but rest assured that you don't need all the answers upfront. When you engage in a discussion with someone else, clarifying your goals or what you might want from the other person can help demystify this process and make it easier to get started. David and Kimmy discuss the possible effects of conflict avoidance, which might surprise you! When you are armed with a strategy to address conflict in a healthy way, you will be more able to express yourself and get what you want. This episode will show you that you do not need to modify your behavior just to please someone else. Listen in until the end to hear David breakdown exactly how to structure your next tough conversation. If YOU are avoiding hard conversations in your life and it's preventing you from finding an intimate relationship or the right partner, get in touch with Kimmy and find a time to chat to give you the plan and courage to do so: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. EPISODE 204 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Tough Conversations To Improve Your Love Life: Interview With David Wood. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

When was the last time you truly leveled up? Are you comfortable where you are right now or are you ready for the next level in your love life? This week Kimmy interviews an expert in reaching the next level of success, Joe Sanok. He's a keynote and TEDx speaker, business consultant, and hosts the #1 podcast for counselors, The Practice of the Practice Podcast. EPISODE 203 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Leveling Up Your Career & Love Life: Interview With Joe Sanok Joe dives in to talk about how he set out on a career path that ended up differently than he ever expected. He talks through how he moved out of a conformity mindset from doing what was expected of him to forging his own path and the challenges that came along the way. If you have arrived at a place in your life where you're seeking more happiness and fulfillment in your love relationships, listen in to hear the surprising concept Joe introduces that will change the way you think about rejection. This conversation is a reminder that in order to progress in dating (or in anything!) you have to rise out of your comfort zone and the ONLY way to do this is practice. Listen in to hear two concrete tips on how to combat the fear of failure that we all have. Joe and Kimmy talk about the power of setting small, achievable goals that you can take action to accomplish with the intention to make things easier for yourself. And, Joe and Kimmy break down the signs that you ARE actually pushing past your comfort zone into the next level you're seeking. When you lean into your curiosity and actively seek experiences that challenge your current mindsets, you're on the right path. If you want to reach a new goal in your love life and need support transcending your comfort zone, reach out to Kimmy and set a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. It's free, it's 30-minutes and at the end, you'll leave with a new perspective and a road map towards accomplishing your goals. EPISODE 203 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Leveling Up Your Career & Love Life: Interview With Joe Sanok. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

What does it mean to embrace your feminine power? Are you open to receiving, letting men earn you, and learning to flow in your feminine energy? This week on the podcast, Kimmy interviews Petia Kolibuva, a women's transformation coach who helps her clients release what is holding them back so they can become the loving, nurturing, powerful women they've always dreamed of being. If you are struggling with giving off masculine energy or constantly being in work mode in your dating life, listen in! This conversation will deliver you some of the key factors to gaining a new sense of femininity without giving off the "wrong" impression. EPISODE 202 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Using Feminine Flow To Attract The One: Interview With Petia Kolibova Petia shares a vulnerable personal story about the struggles she experienced in her youth and how she emerged from that darkness into feeling that she was deserving of abundance and happiness in her life. If you're like Petia, you may have grown up on the offensive, feeling as if you had to fight or protect yourself from people and situations. Stay tuned to hear how you can begin to break down your masculine habits and build softer, feminine ones. Kimmy and Petia walk through some of the steps that you can take to identify limiting beliefs that you may have that are blocking you from embracing your truth. This episode will redefine your perception of feminine energy as everything from softening your approach, to reconnecting with nature, to being open to receiving to being more present. Kimmy talks through the important distinction between being "sexy" and truly being "in your feminine" while commanding respect in every aspect of your life. Petia leads an exercise in breathwork to remind us what is in and out of our control. If you are looking to embrace your feminine side and have no idea where to start, Kimmy can help! As always, you can sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with her here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In one short call you could walk away with concrete tips on how to be more in your feminine to attract the kind of partner you're seeking. Also, inquire about her exclusive 6-week class coming up called Get Your Sexy Back. This interactive and fun coaching program will teach you how to look and feel attractive, desirable and feminine so that you capture a man's interest no matter who you are with and where you go. If you are interested in attending go to askkimmy.com EPISODE 202 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Using Feminine Flow To Attract The One: Interview With Petia Kolibova. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you flirt intentionally to capture someone's eye? Flirting is one of the most common challenges people face when dating. If you're not a confident flirt, chances are you're holding back because you don't want to come off as cheesy, unintelligent or give someone the wrong impression. On today's show, you'll learn the *REAL* definition of flirting and hear Kimmy coach Keren, a travel nurse who's had some bad luck in relationships and wants to get back out there but worries because she doesn't know how to flirt. EPISODE 201 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting With Intention: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy asks Keren about her interpretation of flirting and digs into what about it feels uncomfortable. If you have ever felt nervous, anxious or repelled from flirting in the past, this conversation will help shift your perspective about what flirting is so that it's fun and intentional. Keren and Kimmy talk about approaching flirting and dating from a proactive place, as opposed to a reactive place. You'll hear about Keren's upbringing in a big family where learning and observing were valued and how that plays into her current dating life. If you are like Keren, a high achiever who is often focused on doing the *right* thing, this episode will help you let go of the outcome a bit more and just focus on being purposely playful while staying present. Listen in for Kimmy's expert tips about the science of flirting, how being direct is more effective than being ambiguous and how to put out the right smoke signals to let people know you're open and interested in making connections. With such a demanding job, one of the biggest challenges in dating for Keren is her schedule. With being so busy, Kimmy talks to Keren about dating herself and practicing getting comfortable speaking with men without the intention of getting into a relationship. This episode stresses the importance of practicing with baby steps and not getting ahead of things. If you're like Keren and bite size assignments motivate you and are hitting a roadblock in flirting, Kimmy can support you on your journey! In just one 30-minute conversation, you might see your love life in a new way. Book your time here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And, Kimmy is launching a brand new program just for women called, Get Your Sexy Back! To find out more, go to askkimmy.com and drop her a note mentioning you're interested. Space will be limited so sign up now to get on the priority list and get your sexy back! And if you just want to start with the bite size assignment, you can Awaken Your Feminine Energy to be sexy, flirty and confident with Kimmy's new FREE dating video series by just signing up here awakenyourfeminine.com. There is NO excuse to not inquire about any of these opportunities to get you going. EPISODE 201 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting With Intention: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

This week on the Charisma Quotient, we're celebrating 200 episodes! Over the years, we've heard stories from women and men all over the world around their journey to grow, work on themselves and find love. Today's show is about honoring the process of dating, finding success in each dating phase and learning to love each step for its challenges and gifts. EPISODE 200 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Dating To Finding Love: Special 200th Episode Kimmy breaks down the three phases of dating and finding love: having fun during courtship, dating with consistency, and getting to a committed relationship. At each phase, she illuminates how people she's worked with have overcome challenges at each phase to move onto the next. You'll hear Kimmy's expert tips on how to boost your self-esteem and love yourself in each phase from dating to a committed relationship. Learn how dating can be fun when you let yourself be playful, flirtatious and curious in the courting phase and how to be vulnerable and emotionally available to sustain a healthy relationship. Stay tuned to catch up with amazing women, Harpreet and Molly, who first joined the show on Where Are They Now episodes after finding success in dating. And, stick around to hear a special bonus interview and announcement from Jane who's worked with Kimmy to help make connections, build her confidence and help her find the love she always wanted! No matter where you are in your dating phase, Kimmy can help you reach the next step in your love journey! Find a time to chat with Kimmy for free for 30 minutes https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And you can Awaken Your Feminine Energy and be sexy and confident with Kimmy's new FREE dating video series by just signing up here awakenyourfeminine.com. Maybe you'll be next in celebrating a love milestone before you know it! EPISODE 200 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Dating To Finding Love: Special 200th Episode. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you know if you are marketing yourself so that you attract the right partner? It's not about changing who you are, it's about marketing yourself well to create the right opportunity to find love. This week on the show, Kimmy interviews Steve Werner a webinar, presentation and event expert and founder of Monetize Your Tribe. Steve jumps in to share his story about how he went from knowing very little about marketing events to becoming a go-to authority in his space on how to market and present yourself successfully. EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Marketing Yourself To Attract Love: Interview With Steve Werner Kimmy and Steve have a lively, fun conversation that pinpoints the truth that making genuine connections with others is not about what you do or what's on your resume, it's all about if you can get someone to know, like, and trust the real you. Listen in to hear all about how telling personal stories is one of the best ways to make authentic connections with others and put your best foot forward every time. If you're not too sure where to start, stay tuned to hear an amazing tip from Steve about how to use descriptive words to catch someone's attention. Kimmy and Steve dig into storytelling as a method to safely express vulnerability, and how men and women tend to experience it differently. If you're having trouble maintaining conversations on dates and want a few tricks you can try the next time you're out, this is the episode for you! Plus, Steve shares some secrets about superheroes and well-known TV characters that translate into patterns we see in dating and love. If you find yourself getting in your head on dates you'll want to hear concrete tips on how to avoid oversharing and emotionally connect in a genuine way. As we begin to reenter the world, you may have started to notice social anxiety popping up around dating and socializing. Click HERE to hop on a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kimmy, who can help you create a plan to put yourself out there with confidence. And, Kimmy is announcing a brand new FREE video series called Awaken Your Feminine Energy that is packed with actionable tips and exercises on how to give good conversation, upgrade your body language and flirting skills so you can show up as the best version of you in your dating life. All you have to do to sign up is click this link and you'll be IN awakenyourfeminine.com EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Marketing Yourself To Attract Love: Interview With Steve Werner. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you have a tendency to attract narcissists? Have you noticed that your dates aren't genuinely curious about who you are? Do your relationships feel amazing at first and then fizzle out just as quickly as they began? This week on the Charisma Quotient, you'll hear Kimmy live coach Christina, who has noticed a pattern of attracting narcissists in her love life. As an army veteran, olympian and veterinarian, Christina has accomplished so much and is committed to regaining trust in herself after two failed relationships with narcissists. EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Free From Attracting Narcissists: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy and Christina dive in to talk about Christina's dating history and the toll that her previous relationships have taken on her trust in herself and her outlook on dating. As a self-proclaimed PhD in detecting narcissists, Christina shares her struggle of letting go of her fears due to her knowledge she has and the PTSD she had experienced in these toxic relationships. Listen in as Kimmy calls Christina out on how she has been getting in her head too much trying to diagnose her dates to protect herself from getting hurt again. If you identify as an empath or highly sensitive person like Christina, this episode is for you. Kimmy shares several strategies on how you can maintain your confidence through caring for others, while still ensuring that your own needs are prioritized. You'll hear about the pink and red flags to look out for in order to set behavioral boundaries on dates and how to not get attached to the outcome so you can notice how your date responds to you. And, if you have a tendency to overshare, especially early on in dating, you'll hear some great tips to keep the conversation light, while still leading with your feelings and playfulness. If you are continually attracting narcissists and you want to know what you can do to start seeing different results book a call with Kimmy directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. It's completely free to you, and in just 30 minutes you could walk away with a new outlook and strategies that get you closer to what you truly want. Also, inquire about her exclusive 6-week class coming up in July called Get Your Sexy Back. This interactive and fun coaching program will teach you how to look and feel attractive, desirable and feminine so that you capture a man's interest no matter who you are with and where you go. If you are interested in attending go to askkimmy.com. EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Free From Attracting Narcissists: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Most of us recognize that networking is an essential part of advancing in business or a career. But, have you considered using networking to create opportunities to date and find love? The more well connected you are, the more opportunities you'll have to meet someone you might never have otherwise. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Amber Spears, recognized as a well-connected industry leader, entrepreneur, and Internet Marketing Expert who helps companies develop and optimize their sales and online marketing strategies through networking. EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Networking: Interview With Amber Spears Amber dives in by sharing how she started her current business and how networking has been integral to her success now. Kimmy connects Amber's story to the fact that building a robust network in your professional life can also serve your love life. You'll hear about the pitfalls many people fall into, including being too target-specific looking for their soulmate. Listen in to hear the two key factors in creating a strong relationship where people truly get to know, like and trust you. If you are working on being more present in your conversations, this episode will show you the incredible power of getting curious with everyone you meet. Then, Amber shares a powerful personal story about making the leap from believing that she was only valuable to others based on how she helped their business, rather than who she is as a person. If you have fallen out with a group of friends who haven't served you or have been blind-sighted by what others thought of you, this episode will help you. Kimmy and Amber talk through some of the steps that Amber took in order to raise her self-worth and demand the kind of respect she knew she deserved. Listen in to hear tips on how to transform what at first was a negative experience into a powerful growth moment for yourself. Finally, you'll hear some incredible insight from Amber about how investing in your success for love and career can be a game-changer. When you commit to making a change in your life, you will start to see different results. If you are sick of only swiping right and left and want to build a dating network to attract the right potential partners, here's your first step. Book a time to have a free session with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. That one call could potentially change the course of your path to love by simply mapping out a plan to get there. EPISODE 199 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Networking: Interview With Amber Spears. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever met someone and immediately jumped on an emotional roller coaster together? You had great chemistry and super high highs, but the lows were even lower. Before you knew it the relationship was over just as quickly as it started. If this sounds familiar, you've probably experienced a toxic relationship. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy shares five key steps to help you avoid getting involved in toxic relationships or "situation-ships" in your love life. EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Detox From Unhealthy Relationships: A Healthy Dating Diet Toxic relationships come in all shapes, sizes, and degrees. While every dynamic created by two people is different, there are some commonalities when it comes to toxic relationships that this episode will break down. Listen in to learn how to clearly see the signs of a toxic date from day one. If you find yourself always attracting narcissists, this episode will give you actionable ways to stop repeating that pattern. You'll get tips on the importance of setting boundaries early and often and how to hold yourself and others accountable. This episode will help you recognize your own unhealthy patterns and how to stop them by creating a healthy dating diet. If you want to start attracting reciprocal, growth-focused relationships in your life, it's easier than you think to get started. First, find out your dating archetype (like the Narcissist Magnet!) by listening to Kimmy's exclusive audio course, This May Be Why You Suck At Dating. https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer/. This course features conversations between Kimmy and women who fit each of her five dating archetypes. Purchase the course which you can access where you listen to podcasts to see which one aligns most with you and learn concrete action steps to find more success when dating. And, you can always find time to speak with Kimmy in a complimentary breakthrough call here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Now is the time to start to develop new, helpful habits that get you closer to what you want! EPISODE 198 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Detox From Unhealthy Relationships: A Healthy Dating Diet. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers