Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Resilience is a big buzzword these days. In order to successfully traverse the challenges life presents us, we have to strengthen our ability to bounce back. Resilience is just as important when dating! In order to move on from a breakup, a rejection or simply a bad date you need to be resilient. This week, Kimmy shares her top tips for building dating resilience. EPISODE 258 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Avoiding Dating Rejection & Building Resiliency If you are struggling to tap into your inner tenacity or you tend to quit when the going gets tough, this episode is for you. Kimmy breaks down how to get started by tackling one of the biggest fears in the dating world, rejection. It never feels good not to be invited on a second date -- but what if you could file those interactions into the "not right for me" bucket, instead of overanalyzing what you could have done differently to get your date to like you? Listen in to hear key tips on springing back into shape, even when feeling defeated. Stay tuned for actionable advice on how to maintain an optimistic outlook, even in the midst of dating burnout. If you are ready to start tackling your sensitivity to rejection and begin building the resilience you need to have successful dates, get in touch with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. When you get clear on what you want and recognize your own worth, you'll be more able to identify partners who will respect and care for you, just as you are. Dating doesn't have to be so painful! Reach out to Kimmy and begin your journey of developing healthy dating practices. EPISODE 258 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Avoiding Dating Rejection & Building Resiliency. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? Listen in to hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working together. You'll hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and their biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We share these conversations to motivate you to take action and get inspired by the successes of others. In this episode, you'll meet Haley who connected with Kimmy to help release the pressure she felt around finding "the one" and begin to enjoy the dating process more. Through a commitment to the work and Kimmy's actionable coaching style, Haley was able to find balance, relax more and have fun while dating. EPISODE 257 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Authenticity and Femininity: Where Are They Now With Haley Kimmy and Haley kick off by reminiscing about what life was like for Haley before she started working with Kimmy. If you're like Haley, you may have trouble setting boundaries, become overwhelmed or anxious about what others think of you, or struggle to progress in relationships. Stay tuned to hear some incredible tips Haley put into practice that helped her find her sexy confidence, discover the strength to let go of the opinions of others, and how gamification made dating fun again! You'll hear Haley's success story coaching live with Kimmy in her flirt session. Plus, Haley shares a beautiful story about how setting a healthy boundary helped her reach a turning point in her relationship with her family. If you're ready to release the limiting beliefs you hold about dating and relationships, reach out to Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Before you decide to invest in coaching, you can speak with Kimmy in a complimentary, 30-minute call where you'll start to map out your unique plan to find success in love. EPISODE 257 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Authenticity and Femininity: Where Are They Now With Haley. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you feeling stuck in a rut? Maybe it is time for a dramatic change through a personal transformation. The power of taking a journey of self-discovery and acceptance will help you thrive, enjoy positive wellbeing and attract love. This week, Kimmy has a powerful conversation with Joe Kelley, a cherished football star turned now life coach who helps people overcome obstacles through personal transformation. EPISODE 256 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Power Of Transformation To Attract Love: Interview With Joe Kelley. Joe kicks off the episode by sharing his story of his personal transformation from cherished football star to respected police officer to felon serving prison time. Using his book theme from "sinning to winning", he now uses his dark moments to lift others up and show what it takes to survive and thrive regardless of circumstance. Listen in as Kimmy has Joe reveal tools to motivate you to make major shifts in your life, even when things feel hopeless. Joe shares how his transformation contributed to him finding self love and attracting his wife. Kimmy and Joe share some simple steps to take towards personal growth and how that can improve your love life. If you are having a hard time getting out of your own way with challenges you are dealing with or getting out of your comfort zone to change, hop on a FREE call with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to help you map out a plan to transform your life to attract love. EPISODE 256 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Power Of Transformation To Attract Love: Interview With Joe Kelley. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

How do you engage in healthy dating relationships after experiencing trauma? If you are a survivor of trauma in any form, it's important to recognize that healing takes time, patience and there will be peaks and valleys. This week, Kimmy has a vulnerable and honest conversation with Ed Squire, a survivor of childhood abuse who works to support and advocate for other childhood trauma survivors. EPISODE 255 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Moving Beyond Abuse: Interview With Ed Squire In order to build healthy, trusting relationships -- acknowledging past trauma may be an important first step in your journey to find love. Ed shares his story about the series of sexual abuses he experienced as a child and how they impacted his life. From struggling to find his own identity, to battling addiction and increasing his self-worth, Ed has come a long way. Listen in to hear incredibly valuable tips and advice from Ed on how to begin to strengthen your relationship with yourself when healing from a traumatic or abusive past. Kimmy and Ed discuss the importance of regaining trust in yourself and others. Ed shares a story about learning the meaning of living in the present and not taking anything for granted. You'll hear about the power of journaling to help you process and recognize the emotions you are feeling in the moment, without judgement. Stay tuned for a transformative tip about giving yourself credit and building up your record of success, no matter how small. When you start to recognize your progress and how small wins add up to the big picture, it can help permanently shift your view of yourself as you continue on your personal journey to heal, find yourself and find love. Healing from a traumatic past can be incredibly difficult and you do not need to do it alone. Removing yourself from isolation and finding support systems is essential. If you are ready to explore what your next steps are and begin the healing process, you can reach out to Kimmy here for a FREE breakthrough call: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 255 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Moving Beyond Abuse: Interview With Ed Squire. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever wanted to know how to make your date crave you? You might see this in the movies or even with some friends who seem to do it so easily…so what is it that they do that creates an attraction factor instantly? Confidence and charisma are key qualities that make others desire you and — they can be learned! This week, Kimmy teaches you all about how build your confidence and increase your charisma. If you are tired of not progressing on dates, never getting asked out for a second date, and always being put in the friend zone, this episode is for you. EPISODE 254 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Your Date To Crave You Listen in to hear examples from Kimmy's work with her clients who go from closing themselves off to others to being open, curious and even flirtatious(!) with more people. You'll hear 5 key tips from Kimmy about how to boost your sexy confidence and become irresistible to the people you actually want to attract. If you take less than 30 seconds to answer a text and are always available for dates, this could be a major turn off! Listen in to these tips to give yourself permission to enjoy this process as it enriches your life. This episode is a reminder that in order to change and make major shifts, you need to be uncomfortable. With support from a coach like Kimmy and clear goals, your path forward to gaining more sexy confidence and charisma could be just one phone call away. Get in touch with Kimmy here for a FREE coaching call: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 254 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Your Date To Crave You. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever met someone new who instantly sweeps you off your feet, showers you with compliments, and makes you feel like the most special person in the world only to discover that it was all too good to be true? If this sounds like you, you may have been the victim of love fraud. This week, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Donna Andersen, a journalist and author of Lovefraud.com, a website that teaches people how to recognize and avoid sociopaths. EPISODE 253 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Recognizing Love Fraud: Interview With Donna Andersen Listen in to hear Donna's story of marrying a man who she later found out had scammed and betrayed her completely. Kimmy and Donna define the characteristics of a sociopath and list the key signs and red flags to look out for. As you are learning to date smarter not harder, these tips will help you determine how to spot a scammer more quickly so you can move on without getting trapped in a fraudulent relationship. Stay tuned to hear useful conversation tricks and questions to ask to help you find out if someone is telling the truth! Plus, listen into a surprising tip from Donna about how to be certain your connection is genuine. If you are ready to stop attracting sociopaths, narcissists or any other kind of toxic people and instead find a genuine, supportive love connection, set up a time to speak with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Work with an expert to help you avoid scammers, detect red flags and meet higher quality people that want the same things you do. EPISODE 253 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Recognizing Love Fraud: Interview With Donna Andersen. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Beauty is not only skin deep. Being attractive also comes from your confidence – the ability to let loose and be yourself. Learn how to have fun and be confident in your own skin. Today, join Kimmy Seltzer as she talks to Angela Jia Kim about what makes you more attractive. Angela is a former concert pianist and the Founder of Savor Beauty + Spa. She is also the author of Radical Radiance, a book that can help radiate your inner and outer glow. Learn some attraction secrets that can help you in your love life. Discover some of Angela's personal stories about dating. Also, find out some skincare rituals you can do today. EPISODE 252 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Radical Radiance: Attraction From The Outside In With Angela Jia Kim If you have a hard time being seen and feel your image affects your self esteem when dating, hop on a call with me to talk through ways to break that pattern here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Who knows..that one call could change the entire course of your life! EPISODE 252 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Radical Radiance: Attraction From The Outside In With Angela Jia Kim. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations between Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since investing in coaching. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts they've experienced since working with Kimmy. EPISODE 251 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reducing Dating Anxiety To Attract Love: Where Are They Now With Mary This week you'll meet Mary, who made a decision to invest in coaching with Kimmy because she wanted expert advice. Mary felt she was ready for a long-term relationship, but had no idea how to release the anxiety she felt around dating in the past. If you're like Mary, you may have stayed in relationships that didn't serve you for too long or trusted people without evidence that they would respect that trust. Mary and Kimmy walk through Mary's journey to build her sense of self and get clear on what made her feel secure in relationships. Listen in to hear what worked for Mary around reducing her anxiety when dating, communicating honestly, and setting boundaries in a respectful and kind way. This conversation will show you how to recognize when someone isn't the right fit for you, even if they're a good person! Stay tuned to hear about the new amazing guy in Mary's life who loves dancing, not taking things too seriously, and being creative, just like Mary. As Mary gets to know her new guy even better, she has some questions for Kimmy about how to build trust and whether or not taking things slow physically is worth the wait. If you have felt anxiety around having "the talk" with someone you're dating, stick around to hear a great tip on how to reinforce the behavior you want to see through taking action. If you are ready to ease your anxiety around dating and finally feel supported, at peace, and calm when it comes to love, reach out to Kimmy right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Just like Mary, one 30-minute phone call could change the course of your love life for good. EPISODE 251 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reducing Dating Anxiety To Attract Love: Where Are They Now With Mary. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever wondered how to create more open, inviting, sexy energy when dating? The key is closer to home than you might think! This week, Kimmy explores the benefits of having a "vacation mentality" when dating. Listen in to hear her valuable tips and advice on the benefits of approaching your dating life the same way you approach a fun vacation. EPISODE 250 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Vacation Mentality When work, family and life start to create burnout in your life, keeping up with socializing and dating can start to feel like a chore. But, if you've made a commitment to putting yourself out there and meeting new people, you need strategies to help stop burnout in its tracks. Kimmy illuminates the benefits of having a vacation mentality in your dating life and simple steps you can take to start seeing the benefits quickly. Think back to the last time you were on vacation and you felt relaxed, curious and open to new experiences. Now ask yourself, how can you recreate that attitude and outlook in your everyday life? When you've got your head down, grinding away at work, it's easy to get into a rut. Listen in to learn how you can break your patterns and approach life with curiosity and energy which will instantly make you more attractive. Kimmy shares a key piece of advice that will resonate with high achievers. If you default to figuring things out on your own, this is your opportunity to learn how to use a vacation mentality in order to be more spontaneous, fun and less rigid. And, if you are feeling out of touch with your body, this is your cue to find that connection again. If you are battling burnout and losing your motivation to date, get in touch with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Set up a time to chat with Kimmy in a free, 30-minute call. This conversation could change the direction of your love life and serve as the push you need to reset your outlook and date with a vacation mentality. EPISODE 250 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Vacation Mentality. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you believe that being vulnerable is TMI on a first date? How do you balance sharing enough of yourself to make an authentic connection without going overboard? Kimmy is here to help you navigate this essential piece of dating in one of our favorite segments, Coaching With Kimmy. Listen in to candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients looking to improve their love lives with practical advice they can use immediately. EPISODE 249 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Vulnerability And Dating: Coaching With Kimmy In this episode, you'll meet Garfield who's ready to put herself out there again after divorce and finds it challenging to be vulnerable and trust men when dating. Garfield shares her story and reflects on some of the challenges with scammers on dating apps she's experienced before. Newly single after leaving a long-term relationship, Garfield is working on defining what she wants, getting out of her head, and uncovering her confidence again when meeting new people socially. Kimmy shares some foundational advice for how to begin to open yourself up to other people again after being hurt. If you're like Garfield and have had a string of traumatic or painful experiences, it can feel overwhelming to begin putting yourself out there again. Listen in to hear some impactful and emotional breakthroughs Garfield has on this live call. You'll hear about the importance of taking small, intentional steps to work up to your loftiest goals. If you recognize that you are still in the process of healing, setting clear, attainable goals is key to making progress. This transformational conversation is a reminder that you have the power to shine and when ready, will attract people who want to help you shine even brighter! If you are finding yourself in lopsided relationships due to your walls being up, reach out to Kimmy and find a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You deserve a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship! When you invest in yourself and your growth, you will be able to have the love life you have always wanted. EPISODE 249 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Vulnerability And Dating: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

When you consciously or even unconsciously ruin things to make them end, this is called self-sabotage. They say people who self-sabotage are somewhat afraid of intimacy in various forms and can act in different ways that can hurt themselves or others around them. Brandon Wilson is a communications and executive consultant who helps leaders and organizations identify the barriers that stop them from fulfilling their dreams. Brandon imparts his experience and story about his business relationship that cost him nearly everything. That experience has helped him develop a sabotage framework, which he wrote down in his book, Sabotage. On this replay episode of The Charisma Quotient Podcast, host Kimmy Seltzer interviews Brandon Wilson. In this conversation, practical tools will be given to help you notice the patterns in your personal and love relationships that could sabotage your love life. They will also talk about different key signs to know if one is prone to sabotage from others and even yourself. The different red flags when establishing a healthy, growth-minded, and loving relationship. Once you can identify the signs, the more you are enlightened and capable of stopping these behaviors. Tune in on this episode to find out more! The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ************************************************ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Is your relationship in a bad place? What are the signs that your relationship is ending? Here to help you get to the bottom of a dying romance is Matthew Fray. Matthew is a relationship coach, writer, and subbed by the New York Times as "the man who coaches husbands on how to avoid divorce." He joins host Kimmy Seltzer to share the things he learned in his own divorce journey to help others save their relationships. They talk in-depth about the different behaviors and habits that lead to a dwindling intimacy you might not even be aware of with insights from his book, This is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships. Tune in and learn valuable lessons on relationships and the value of communication and self-awareness.

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working with her. Listen in to hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the successes of others like you. This week, you'll meet Taylor, a high-achieving entrepreneur who was confident in every area of his life except dating. EPISODE 247 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Confidence: Where Are They Now With Taylor Taylor shares that after his divorce, he was struggling with getting into relationships quickly, not sharing his emotions, and ultimately, not making the kind of connections he truly desired. Navigating a brand new dating scene and showing up as his authentic self online was challenging. Once Taylor recognized that he wanted to be in a healthy, lasting relationship he knew he needed to ask for help. Kimmy and Taylor discuss the different phases of dating and the goals for each phase. If you have struggled with focusing on what you can do for another person as opposed to how they make you feel when you're together, listen up! This conversation focuses on the power of shifting your mindset and learning to enjoy the processs while you build skills that will help you create more genuine connections when dating. Taylor shares the story of how he met a wonderful new woman, and how they hit it off! Here's a hint: being open and transparent about what he was looking for helped create a foundation for them both to be emotionally honest with one another. If you're like Taylor, and you're ready to understand the tools and strategies to find success in dating and meet higher quality people who are a good fit for you, all it takes is that first call. Reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a free 30-minute call. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. But hurry, the program starts soon and only a few spots left! EPISODE 247 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Confidence: Where Are They Now With Taylor. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

We've all heard the phrase "living your best life," but what does that really mean? This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Tracy Pattin, host of the celebrated Wondery podcast Hollywood and Crime, and expert on living her best solo (not single!) life. Tracy and Kimmy discuss the empowering nature of finding comfort and confidence in being alone. EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Fall In Love With Yourself: Interview With Tracy Pattin Kimmy shares a story about the invaluable advice given to her by her mother in the aftermath of her divorce. Listen in to hear Kimmy identify the difference between internal and external validation and how to detect which one is driving your happiness. When you allow yourself to slow down and not rush towards a new relationship for comfort, but rather focus on relying on yourself to find peace, you will be stronger for it and attract healthier relationships. The moment you begin to discover that power within you, the more you will attract healthy, secure people into your life. Tracy talks about how she uses the ritual and routine to keep her present, focused and centered each day. Stay tuned for a lesson from Tracy based on a career in entertainment to provide strategies around facing the fear of rejection. You'll hear how having a kind, loving relationship with yourself is a key factor in not attracting relationships that don't serve you. If you are struggling with being alone or a crippling fear of rejection, reach out to Kimmy for a FREE 30-minute call https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ to map out a strategy to enrich your solo life. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. Space is limited so reach out to Kimmy here to save your spot! EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Fall In Love With Yourself: Interview With Tracy Pattin. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

You have always been a high achiever. You know your worth and you've been recognized for the value you bring to the table in your professional life. But, when it comes to dating, you can't seem to figure out why you haven't been able to find the same success! This week, Kimmy has a fascinating conversation with Executive Coach and Relationship Strategist Dr. Robin Buckely, a leading authority on helping high achievers, executives, and couples improve their careers and relationships through psychology-based strategies. EPISODE 245 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Strategies For Your Love Life: Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley If you have a tendency to conduct your dates like high-pressure job interviews or lead interactions with your long list of accomplishments and have wondered why you rarely get a second date, this episode is for you! Listen in to hear how dating and creating deep, loving connections are rooted in feelings, not facts. You have the power to use your killer business instincts to help improve your love life, but you need a strategy to get there. Kimmy and Dr. Buckley share some key tips you can use to reframe your mindset, lean on your strengths and find success in love. Listen in to hear some incredible tools you can use right away, whether you are in a couple or not! Dr. Buckley and Kimmy discuss how the foundation of a strong relationship is not love, lust or sexual attraction but more that love can be found through intention, strategy and a concrete plan. This conversation will help you see that it's possible to interrupt patterns and behaviors that don't serve you in love. You can retrain your brain to intake information differently and start to see opportunities where you used to see challenges. And, if you've ever felt like a victim, struggling to feel in control, Kimmy and Dr. Buckley share a useful tip to help reframe your perspective to see things in a more positive light. Stay tuned to hear some great tips on how to use quotas in an unexpected way that will make your partner feel seen, heard, and loved every single day. If you need to ignite your sexy confidence with a dating plan and put strategies in place to break your bad habits, grab one of the few seats at Kimmy's new program, Spark Your Sexy: Live! It's a brand *NEW* 6-week course culminating in an in-person retreat in sunny California! Join a group of like-minded single women who are ready to create a plan for their dating life and find the love they've always wanted. Click here to apply and hurry as spaces are limited https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ EPISODE 245 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Strategies For Your Love Life: Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Why does dating seem so easy for other people, but challenging for you? Do you find yourself feeling depleted from giving your energy to relationships or situationships that don't fulfill you? This week on the show, Kimmy live coaches Keyva who has developed a habit of attracting emotionally unavailable men. A self-admitted chameleon, she tends to match the energy of the men she's dating but she has found that she's losing herself in the process. This conversation is all about learning how to show up as your true, authentic self through using healthy boundaries and communication when dating. EPISODE 244 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Boundaries and Communication When Dating: Coaching With Kimmy You'll hear Keyva speak honestly about her upbringing and how she was rewarded and praised for her achievements when she was younger. Kimmy and Keyva uncover some old patterns that are repeating themselves in her dating life. Kimmy breaks down the steps to start to break the habits that don't serve Keyva in her dating life. Listen in to hear the key difference between setting healthy boundaries and putting your guard up in a way that shuts people out. Kimmy talks about the value of communicating in a clear and assertive way to define your wants and needs without worrying about what anyone else thinks. When you are able to communicate effectively when dating you will avoid developing feelings of resentment, anger and disappointment and weeds out the people that don't respect you more easily. Kimmy uncovers how to reframe your mindset to approach dating as a skill-building exercise instead of as an interview for your next significant other. Kimmy shares some quick, tangible tips you can use on your next date to shift your conversations immediately and start to see who's really there for you! If you are finding yourself in lopsided relationships or accepting crumbs when you deserve the whole cake, it's time to demand more for yourself. Reach out to Kimmy for a FREE introductory call here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough In half an hour, you can map out a strategy to find the loving, fulfilling relationship you deserve. EPISODE 244 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Boundaries and Communication When Dating: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

We all have learned beliefs that shape how we see the world. Did you know you probably have hidden biases that are keeping you single? The beliefs and attitudes you hold are informed by your experiences -- stay tuned to hear why it's important to know the limits of your own perspective. Your thoughts and actions are directly impacted by how you see things, which contributes to your results when dating. This week, Kimmy shares the top 5 most common dating biases out there and what to do about them. This episode is all about making a choice to change your lens on life and see the power in becoming aware of your biases. Kimmy talks about how we're all susceptible to our biases and how they are mostly subconscious. EPISODE 243 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Surprising Biases That Keep You Single You'll hear tips around the 5 surprising types of biases and what you can do to become more conscious of them. Whether you always go for the same "type" or let one thing cloud your view of someone, you could be missing out on meeting someone great for you! If you have a tendency to keep making the same mistakes or attracting narcissists into your life, Kimmy's tip for catching confirmation bias can shift your love life dramatically. If you are stuck and are feeling anxious about going out there and meeting new people, listen in to hear a valuable "hack" around how to take small steps to override that bias. If you are ready to get over your hidden biases that might be keeping you stuck in dating, save your spot in Kimmy's brand new workshop for women on May 11th called Dating Secrets Decoded https://bl394.isrefer.com/go/DSDpodcast/KSeltzer/. This is a 2-hour interactive event where you will learn Kimmy's proven system for strategically spotlighting your dating archetype to boost your confidence, break bad dating habits, and become a fun dater that men can't wait to flirt with. If you're looking for tangible strategies to improve your dating life, sign up today - but hurry it starts soon and there are limited spots! EPISODE 243 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Surprising Biases That Keep You Single The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever thought about surrendering to create love? That doesn't mean compromising your values or letting someone else or external expectations dictate your future. Truly surrendering to love isn't about losing yourself -- it's about showing up as your authentic self and letting your highest self guide your next move, one step at a time. This week on the show, Kimmy has an inspiring conversation with Kute Blackson, a celebrated, emerging thought leader in personal development and the author of The Magic of Surrender https://kuteblackson.com/products/themagicofsurrender/. If you have been searching for a sign to release yourself from the pressure of expectations or patterns that don't serve your deepest desires, this episode will invite you to think differently. EPISODE 242 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Surrendering To Create Real Love: Interview With Kute Blackson Kute tells the story of growing up in Ghana under the guidance of his father, a minister and a healer, to arriving in the US determined to make a name for himself in his own right. After studying for years with gurus, sages and monks across the world, Kute developed his own unique style of coaching people to make transformational shifts in their life, based on a theory of "un-conditioning". If you feel family or societal expectations of what you "should" want or do are creating obstacles for you to succeed and fulfill your purpose in life, listen in. Kimmy and Kute talk through how to set goals that are authentic to you and the key factors that help you push past arising fear to stay on your chosen path. Stay tuned for a killer tip that will help you determine if you are on a path that is aligned with your highest self. If you are coming up against challenges over and over and you don't seem to be progressing beyond them, you'll hear some incredible advice on releasing yourself from those limitations and becoming more open. Kute shares the unbelievable story of how his parents met, and truly speaks to the power and magic of surrender to lead you to where you are meant to be. Kimmy and Kute dive into the incredible benefits of maintaining an open mind and open heart, not getting attached to the outcome, and how to spark meaningful change in your life by taking intentional action. If you are feeling the weight and pressure of external obligations and don't feel that you are living and searching for love from a place of alignment, maybe it's time to surrender. Reach out to Kimmy for a free 30-minute call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough When you are ready to do the work to uncover the kind of relationship you truly want, the power of surrender could be the key to leading you to where you want to be! EPISODE 242 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Surrendering To Create Real Love: Interview With Kute Blackson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her former clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working with Kimmy. Listen in to hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and how they are different since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the successes of others like you! EPISODE 241 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Smarter Not Harder: Where Are They Now With Chandra This week, you'll meet Chandra who decided to start working with Kimmy after a recommendation from a friend whose other friends had worked with her. Chandra shares what life was like for her around the time she reached out. She shared struggling to make genuine connections in friendships or relationships, had trouble letting go of her professional persona on dates, had a hard time letting her guard down and being vulnerable and would default to people-pleaser mode a lot. She also was hiding in her clothes and was uncomfortable showing her flirty, sexy side. Listen in to hear how her work with Kimmy changed all of that. Chandra shares stories of a key style trick and deeper exercises she did with Kimmy that has completely changed how people respond to her to this day. Stay tuned for actionable tips that will help you discover joy in dating and socializing and how Chandra used these to attract several men. When you release the pressure on finding your forever person, you unlock the ability to enjoy the process to date smarter not harder. Kimmy and Chandra talk all about the "Charisma Glow" she carries throughout her life now and how she is able to show her authentic self with confidence. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that success lies within you and when you feel good about you others will too. If this episode inspires you to want to achieve your version of success, whether that's finding a relationship or finding yourself, take the next best step. Reach out to Kimmy to find time to talk here: http://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. One conversation may just be the springboard you need to begin your journey of self-discovery! EPISODE 241 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Smarter Not Harder: Where Are They Now With Chandra. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Toxic and abusive relationships come in many shapes and sizes. Sometimes abuse is glaring, and sometimes it's more insidious and hidden. This week, Kimmy has a powerful conversation with Tiphany Kane, host of the Radical Audacity Podcast and survivor of a toxic and abusive relationship. Tiphany has dedicated her life's work to empowering women to elevate their voices and stand in their power. In this episode, Tiphany shares her journey to leave an abusive relationship. EPISODE 240 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Leaving Abusive Patterns Behind: Interview With Tiphany Kane After growing up in a cult-like religion that distorted her perception of dating and marriage, Tiphany entered into a relationship that escalated from gaslighting to harmful abusive patterns. Kimmy highlights a strategy that Tiphany used to rebuild her self-esteem on her journey to find herself. When you are able to counteract the negativity you receive from an abusive partner with positive self-talk and new behaviors that boost your confidence, you are able to strengthen your self-worth. Whether you invest in yourself by improving your physical health, your self-image or a hobby you love — small investments can make a big impact over time. Tiphany and Kimmy share tips about the power of meeting like-minded people who can provide camaraderie and accountability to help you stick with your plan. You'll hear a helpful framework to think about how you can remove yourself from toxic cycles. You'll learn on this episode how to demand a new level of respect for yourself and set boundaries accordingly. Listen in to hear Tiphany's inspiring story of how she attracted a wonderful new man into her life, and what they've built together. You'll hear all about the power of flirting, vulnerability, gratitude and patience that has allowed their relationship to blossom. If you're ready to release yourself from a toxic or abusive relationship, reach out for support and take the first step to set you on a path of change for the better. Set up a free call with Kimmy here: http://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to map out a plan to begin your journey to the healthy, fulfilling, loving and supportive relationship you deserve! EPISODE 240 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Abusive Patterns Behind: Interview With Tiphany Kane. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy where Kimmy has conversations with clients who are navigating dating challenges and searching for practical advice they can use in their love lives right now. In this episode, you'll meet Dustin, a single guy in his early 40s who's looking to improve the quality of boring conversations on dates by showing his true, authentic self more easily in a flirty way. A self-described "rebel without a clue," Dustin is on a journey to support his personal growth in learning how to go from the friendzone to the funzone with women and progress on dates. EPISODE 239 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Friendzone To Funzone: Coaching with Kimmy Kimmy and Dustin jump in by talking about Dustin's upbringing as an only child and the struggles he had with socializing growing up. Kimmy extracts how his upbringing now holds him back from his inner playfulness or spontaneous spirit, causing him to get in his head and hesitate on dates. Instead of letting a conversation flow naturally, Dustin talks about how his tendency to pre-plan topics, overcorrects himself and appears inauthentic while dating. This conversation is a great reminder of the power of curiosity to change the game when it comes to having captivating conversations. Instead of worrying about how you come off or trying to force a particular result, what if you went in with the intention to be curious about your date? Kimmy and Dustin do some dating role play where Dustin shares a funny story about something that happened to him recently. Kimmy and Dustin break down the story and discuss how emotions can enhance the stories you tell. Storytelling is an incredibly effective tool to create genuine emotional connection and empathy when dating! You'll hear great tips on how to improve your storytelling, get out of your head and create deeper connections more quickly. If you're tired of feeling emotionally drained on dates from trying to keep up the flow of conversation or you're just plain BORED, book a free 30 minute call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Kimmy can help you map out a plan to get out of the friend zone and into the fun zone! EPISODE 239 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Friendzone To Funzone: Coaching with Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you consider yourself a courageous leader in love? This week, Kimmy has an uplifting conversation with Trent Clark, a celebrated sports and leadership coach and founder of Leadershipity. Kimmy and Trent define courageous leadership as someone who listens to and implements feedback, is willing to engage in difficult conversations, always has an eye towards innovation, and approaches challenges with openness. If you have struggled in the past with moving away from unhealthy or unhelpful relationships, this episode was made for you. EPISODE 238 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Being A Courageous Leader In Love: Interview With Trent Clark Listen in to hear all about how to approach your love life with a positive attitude where you see challenges as an opportunity to grow, rather than something to fear or avoid. You'll hear a juicy tip on how to reframe and even gamify conflict so that you are able to let go of the expectations around an outcome, and see it as a learning opportunity. The best leaders exude confidence, and if you've been listening to this show you know Kimmy defines confidence as experience! The more willing you are to step outside your comfort zone, the more you will be able to build true resilience in life. Trent shares his expertise working with professional athletes on the importance of prep and reps and how you can apply this to your love life. Kimmy and Trent talk about how to manage your fear of making mistakes. When you work with a coach to develop and execute a strategy around dating, which includes getting crystal clear on what you really want, you'll be surprised at how quickly you can start to see results. Trent shares a moving story about a time he jumped to judgment and the importance of not letting the small stuff overtake your larger goals. Kimmy ends on a positive note to love who you are, not who you aren't! If you are ready to become a leader in your love life, jump on a free call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to map out a love plan and with Kimmy's help you'll be on your way to finding the love you've always wanted. EPISODE 238 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Being A Courageous Leader In Love: Interview With Trent Clark. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

As pandemic restrictions lift and daily life starts to feel closer to normal, you may find yourself feeling totally out of practice in social and dating situations. This week, Kimmy shares her Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game! Now is the time to get practice flexing your social muscles again and put your best self out there. You can come up with every excuse in the world to postpone this work, but ultimately the power lies within you to invite new amazing people into your life, socially and romantically! EPISODE 237 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game After collectively spending so much time in isolation, you may be feeling fear around getting close to someone else again or just plain awkward having conversations with strangers. That's ok! Only through practice can you start to see improvements in your results. Kimmy starts off by sharing a story of a recent client who went through a divorce right before the pandemic began and started working with Kimmy to help him refresh his dating profile, wardrobe, and dating strategy to start meeting women who are great for him. You'll hear about the importance of recognizing the shifts in the dating landscape and using them to your advantage. It's all about dating smarter, not harder! Listen in to hear strategies around how to make the most of every opportunity to meet new and exciting people. Maybe your next date isn't the one, but perhaps they'll introduce you to someone who could be. If you have a strict checklist that anyone you date has to meet, this episode is a reminder to throw that out! Stay tuned for a juicy tip about how to approach your dates in a way that prioritizes your happiness, not someone else's. You deserve to have a fulfilling life and you can have it! It all starts with making the decision to invest in your own happiness which starts with investing in you. Find a time to speak with Kimmy directly here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In one 30-minute call, you could have a plan mapped out to discover yourself again and meet new, amazing people in the process! EPISODE 237 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

On this episode of Where Are They Now, Coaching with Kimmy, you'll hear from Kimmy's clients about how their love lives have improved since working with her! We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to celebrate and be inspired by the success of others. This week, you'll hear a conversation between Kimmy and her amazing client, Kit who discovered Kimmy through a flirt workshop. Kit shares her story about how scary dating was before she found Kimmy. These two discuss the dating crash course Kimmy created for Kit, how she got past her traumatic experiences with dating and all the progress she's made in less than a year. And because all of the work she did, she landed a new man in her life! EPISODE 236 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Without Fear: Where Are They Now With Kit You'll hear how coaching helped Kit feel happier, more inspired, and less fearful about dating. Kit shares how she made the decision to invest in working with Kimmy on her love life -- the origin story may surprise you! Stay tuned to hear what clicked for Kit that changed her definition of dating for good. And, you'll hear about how doing a red dress moment photoshoot helped inspire Kit to feel playful, fun, and flirtatious in her body which helped her land her new man. Listen in to hear all about Kit's new guy and what she's hoping for in the future. This conversation is a great reminder that confidence comes from experience! If you need to boost your dating skills, personal style, or self-confidence to get past some of your fears when dating, Kimmy can help. Set up a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and you could be the next success story on this podcast! You could be celebrating a new relationship just like Kit when you commit to working on yourself! EPISODE 236 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Without Fear: Where Are They Now With Kit The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Finding a healthy, fulfilling love relationship is only possible once you love yourself! You've heard it all before, but did you know that deep self awareness is key to achieving true self love? This week, Kimmy interviews Dr. Denise McDermott, a board-certified, practicing psychiatrist who joins the show for a conversation on how self awareness can unlock the best version of you when it comes to love. EPISODE 235 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self-awareness and Sacred Sexuality: Interview with Dr. Denise McDermott Becoming more self aware means being brutally honest with yourself, your beliefs, values and biases and being willing to honestly express your truth to others. It's not always easy, but as Kimmy and Dr. Denise will talk about, it's essential to finding a partner or love relationship that is right for you. You'll hear about how awareness is the foundation for Dr. Denise's paradigm for creating happiness. Kimmy and Dr. Denise break down some amazing tips for how to take small actions to get unstuck and start moving forward again in your life. Listen in to hear an amazing tip on how to actively encourage change in your life when you're ready for something new. These two geek out over the science behind creating out-of-this-world chemistry and the power of play to attract and magnetize people to you. Stay tuned to hear Dr. Denise's surprising take on how sacred sexuality is incompatible with shame. When you actively choose to become aware of who you truly are, you will be able to access a deep self love that will open you up to new opportunities for love. If you are ready to find a more honest self awareness of what's driving you to open doors in your love life, reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In this free, 30-minute conversation you will start to uncover what stands between you and finding the love you want. EPISODE 235 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self-awareness and Sacred Sexuality: Interview with Dr. Denise McDermott The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Does it feel like you're constantly meeting people who don't spark your interest? And perhaps you also discover there are certain dating patterns that you keep falling into where you attract the same type of person over and over again. This week, you'll hear Kimmy live coach James, who's ready to find out what dating patterns could be holding him back from making genuine and deeper connections with women. EPISODE 234 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Serial Dating Patterns: Coaching With Kimmy James dives in by sharing the story of how he's rebuilding his life and setting ambitious career goals in sports media after being incarcerated. Kimmy and James discuss how his past has followed him through his relationships and dating experiences. Each one of us carries different experiences, fears, and traumas that can leak into different aspects of our lives. James shares how his self-confidence has grown as he attains more success, but says he's still holding onto his fear of rejection which impacts his dating process. If you're like James, you may be unconsciously coming off as closed off to others. Listen in to hear Kimmy's tips about how to combat your fear by dating without attachment to focus on what you really want. Stay tuned to hear a tip on how recognizing your strengths and positive qualities will help you approach others with a more positive outlook. This conversation is an amazing reminder that playfulness, curiosity, and levity are key ingredients to staying present and attracting others in a healthier way. If your conversations on the apps or in-person are one-note, uninspired, or cookie-cutter, this episode is for you! When you lead with what you've created, what you're looking forward to, or what makes you tick, you will start drawing like-minded people to you. If you are ready to break the patterns that are holding you back from finding love, March 7th, Kimmy is starting a 6-week interactive, co-ed class on how to improve your dating life from the ground up. You'll learn how to convert conversations to dates, navigate online dating, how to flirt and get a dating plan in place to break your dating patterns and attract the right partner for you. Reach out HERE to find out if you're the right fit and secure your seat. Space is limited! https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/dating-by-design/# EPISODE 234 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Serial Dating Patterns: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

When you are dating, do you have a plan and intention with it? If you're ready to find love, the most effective thing you can do is map out a strategic plan. When you have a clear dating strategy, you create more opportunities for success so that you date smarter not harder. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Damona Hoffman, a widely recognized celebrity dating coach and OKCupid's official coach. Damona is well-versed in current dating trends and has been a regular on-air contributor to The Drew Barrymore Show. EPISODE 233 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Plan and Intention: Interview With Damona Hoffman Damona shares her story of how she went from Hollywood casting director to certified dating coach. Kimmy and Damona discuss how shifting your mindset when dating is crucial to your success. Everyone has a history, whether you have extensive dating experience or not, and we bring our past with us to every new relationship. Of course, we all fear getting hurt, but it's how you manage that feeling that matters. Damona shares an unexpected tip about how to tell the difference between a dealbreaker and an opportunity to have an honest conversation. If you're clear on the non-negotiables that really matter like your values, it's easier to navigate different dating behaviors. Listen in to hear tons of juicy tips about how to level up your online dating profile. You'll hear Damona's three key tips on how to choose the best photos that showcase your true, authentic self at a glance. This conversation is a reminder that as difficult as the past two years have been during the pandemic, one positive around dating is the resurgence of slow love by being patient while allowing a relationship to grow at its own pace. If you want help in creating a dating plan that is right for you, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out strategy to do that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In half an hour, you can work with Kimmy to build a plan you can execute against to find the love you want. EPISODE 233 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Plan and Intention: Interview With Damona Hoffman. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

When you set out to find love, it's important to develop a positive mindset around dating. Truly knowing what you want and having fun while you pursue it, will change your dating game and help you define who you are and what you want! This week, Kimmy has an inspiring conversation with Amit Sodha, a transformational coach who helps people develop positive mindsets to become the best versions of themselves. Listen in to find out what you risk if your mindset isn't aligned with your dating goals. EPISODE 232 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating A Dating Mindset: Interview With Amit Sodha If you often feel like you don't know what you're doing wrong when dating, this conversation is for you. Amit shares how he went from being a clueless dater, to someone who became dedicated to learning and doing everything he could to get better. He shares his story of going on 300 dates and the benefits he experienced. Kimmy and Amit discuss the importance of taking bold action to start seeing different results in your love journey. Stay tuned to hear about how storytelling and other sleek techniques can be your secret weapons to create amazing chemistry and connect on a genuine, emotional level on dates. Dating provides the opportunity to open yourself up to meeting exciting new people! If you struggle getting clarity on having the right dating goals and mindset, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out strategy to help you. Book a call with Kimmy personally here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. EPISODE 232 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating A Dating Mindset: Interview With Amit Sodha. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Are you more of a serious, intellectual type of person? Did you know that being fun and playful are the top attributes that people inherently look for when dating and ultimately landing a partner? A sense of fun is more important to many people than whether someone has a degree or are super intelligent. So not taking yourself so seriously may actually be a great dating advantage! This week, Kimmy talks about the importance of being playful and fun when dating and how to get out of your head to do it. EPISODE 231 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be Playful & Fun When Dating Kimmy starts with sharing studies and facts on the benefits of play in all aspects of your life and how the opposite sex views play when dating. She tells success stories about how her clients went from boring to fun and how that helped them attract the partner of their dreams. Kimmy spells out tangible tips and ideas of how you can start exercising the playful muscle so you have more fun, create chemistry and are seen as more attractive when dating. Listen in as she calls out the biggest mistakes people make, why people tend to be so serious and ways you can stop overthink things. She discusses key elements of how to be more in your body and present which ultimately helps you connect with your dates in an authentic, feeling based way. If being silly seems awkward and a waste of time, you need to listen to this episode! And to take it one step further, sign up for her Flirt Like A Pro interactive co-ed workshop coming up February 11. Whether you need to get back out there or get out of the friend zone, it's time to learn how to be playful and fun by flirting with everyone! Plus, you will be in a truly collaborative community with like-minded, like-motivated dating men & women who can provide the practice and support you need to play! Seats are almost gone so register now here https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirtlikeapro/ EPISODE 230 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: EPISODE 231 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be Playful & Fun When Dating. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

If you've been through a divorce, you know it can turn your world completely upside down. Whether your divorce was contentious or not, you're tasked with the daunting step of forming a new identity, beyond your ex. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Daniel Herrold, co-founder of the fast-growing community Divorced Over 40 (DO40), that provides support for men and women in the aftermath of divorce. As people form their new identities as single people or single parents, having the support of a community that deeply knows what you're going through is so important! This conversation honestly tackles how you can re-enter the dating world in an emotionally healthy way after divorce later in life. EPISODE 230 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Back In The Game After Divorce: Interview With Daniel Herrold Daniel shares his story with Kimmy. If you're like Daniel, you may have met your ex young and really lacked the modern dating experience you need to date successfully in today's world. You may be tempted to dive right back into a long-term relationship, put out the wrong signals, or simply have no clue what you really want! These two swap stories about what life was like immediately following their divorces and how intimidating it was to build up their confidence to get back out there once they were ready. This conversation is a reminder that dating is a journey to find yourself, leverage dating skills that you may need to learn and to build confidence through experience. Daniel shares a surprising perspective that dating is not only an opportunity to find love, but an opportunity to expand your world and get to know new people with different beliefs, experiences and interests. Listen in to hear more on how to intentionally distinguish between your "wish list" and your "non-negotiables". One of the biggest mistakes people make in dating is conflating one for the other! If you are struggling to date after divorce and are looking for ways to get your mojo back, sign up for Kimmy's Flirt Like a Pro Workshop, coming February 11! In this co-ed virtual workshop, you'll learn and practice proven flirting techniques directly from Kimmy to help you give great conversation and create playful chemistry with anyone you meet! Sign up now by clicking here, space is limited. https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirtlikeapro/. EPISODE 230 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Back In The Game After Divorce: Interview With Daniel Herrold The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

This week, Kimmy dives deep on the relationship between fear and flirting. If you're preoccupied with a fear of rejection, your ability to be playful and flirt could be hindered. In this episode, Kimmy live coaches Janus, who wants to get back out there and find a healthy, fulfilling relationship. Janus shares her past experience in controlling relationships, which has contributed to her denying the true expression of herself. EPISODE 229 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting Without Fear: Coaching With Kimmy As a high-achieving artist with a background in eastern medicine, Janus is comfortable leading with her intelligence and experience. Kimmy and Janus talk through some of Janus's past experiences from her brief marriage in her 20s and dating as a single mom before she came to the realization that she was ready to face her past trauma and move forward. Janus talks about how her fears and past trauma caused her to be more guarded and fearful of dating. Listen in to hear about how after many years being in her cocoon has been finally taking baby steps to open herself up and put herself out there for possibilities. Janus tells the recent story of how she turned drinks with a girlfriend into a flirtatious interaction with an interesting new man! Kimmy shares some actionable tips for Janus to reframe her mindset around online dating, and use it as a tool to practice flirting and conversation skills. This conversation is a reminder that showing up as your full self AND being flirty and feminine is possible! If you are struggling with obstacles in your love life that seem unmovable, reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In half and hour you'll come away with a roadmap unique to you, designed to chart your path to love. If you're ready to take your flirting skills to the next level, sign up now for Kimmy's Flirt Like a Pro Workshop, coming February 11! In this co-ed virtual workshop, you'll learn proven flirting techniques directly from Kimmy to help you give great conversation and create playful chemistry with anyone you meet! Sign up now by clicking here, space is limited. https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirtlikeapro/ EPISODE 229 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting Without Fear: Coaching With Kimmy The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

The secret to realizing your dreams is to manifest them. You have the power to attract the love you want but first, you must become what you want to attract. If you're curious to learn how, listen to Kimmy's interview with an expert in manifestation -- best-selling author and speaker, Natalie Ledwell. EPISODE 228 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love: Interview With Natalie Ledwell Kimmy shares a story about a client who held on to negative messages about men from her childhood and how these messages were leaking into her love life. You'll learn that common beliefs like, "There are no good men out there," can actually attract more of the wrong kind of men for you. Kimmy and Natalie discuss why becoming the best version of you is the most effective way to find the kind of love you desire. As Kimmy always says, what you put out is what you get back! Natalie shares the details behind the vision board tool she created to help millions of people visualize and feel their dreams, Mind Movies. Natalie tells the surprising story of how she met her amazing guy nearly two years ago and how she used this platform and special exercises to capture his eye online. Stay tuned for Natalie's answer to a question about the struggles she faced to be able to build truly close relationships and how she worked to overcome that. Often we hold on to patterns or beliefs from past relationships that aren't serving us. Once you make a decision to let those stop holding you back and act on what you really want, your world will open up. Plus, an excellent example of one of Kimmy's go-to flirting techniques! Taking action is an essential part of manifesting your dreams. Book a complimentary call with Kimmy to help you visualize yours here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to get started and map out a strategy to manifest the love you want! And then grab Natalie's MindMovies tool to start putting your desires into action here https://www.mindmovies.com/products/order_mindmovies.php?30390 EPISODE 228 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love: Interview With Natalie Ledwell. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Welcome back for another episode of Where Are They Now, Coaching with Kimmy! On this segment, you'll hear honest reflections from Kimmy's current and former clients. These conversations focus on how their lives have changed and where they are on their love journey since working with Kimmy. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success! This week, Kimmy catches up with Liz, a high achieving podcast listener who invested in coaching because she was ready to learn how to date and find real love. She decided to coach with Kimmy because she had been successful in everything else in her life except for love. Listen in how she did with work with Kimmy and landed her fiancé! EPISODE 227 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How High Achievers Find Love: Where Are They Now With Liz Liz shares the story about the first time she heard Kimmy's 5 Dating Archetypes, discovered that she was the quintessential high achieving "List Lady" and why she knew she needed to reach out for support on her love journey. Kimmy and Liz talk through the valid and real fears that many of us face when it comes to putting ourselves out there in the dating world. Kimmy helped Liz develop an understanding how her family of origin and cultural background was contributing to her dating patterns and challenges. Liz talks about her experience developing confidence in being flirty and feminine without losing herself or dumbing down for anyone. Knowing how to flirt and be more open were essential skills that helped Liz initially, where she then created attraction to land her man. If you are carrying insecurities or feel a lack of self worth at times, this conversation helps illuminate the importance of building those skills for a healthy, positive outlook. You'll hear tips around how to have more positive, playful conversations to help dates progress. Liz tells us how she stopped letting work talk infiltrate her conversations on dates and how she has given herself permission to indulge in pampering herself more! Liz shares the story around meeting her fiancé and how she almost swiped left on him had she not been coaching with Kimmy. If you get inspired by this episode and want to find love this year, do what Liz did, by starting off with a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Decide if you are ready to invest in your happiness and start seeing the changes you want to see in your love life right now. EPISODE 227 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How High Achievers Find Love: Where Are They Now With Liz. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you self-sabotage in dating and relationships? Are you quick to judge others? This week, Kimmy interviews Brandon Wilson, a communications and executive consultant who helps leaders and organizations identify the barriers that stop them for fulfilling their dreams. Brandon shares his story about the business relationship that nearly cost him everything. You'll hear how that experience helped him develop a sabotage framework which he outlines in his book, Sabotage. EPISODE 226 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self Sabotage When Dating: Interview With Brandon Wilson This fascinating conversation will give you practical tools to start noticing patterns in your personal and love relationships that could cause you to sabotage your love life. Kimmy and Brandon discuss the key signs to know if you're vulnerable to sabotage from others and yourself. Qualities like jealousy and arrogance are red flags when it comes to creating a healthy, growth-minded, loving relationship. You'll hear an insightful answer to Kimmy's question about what motivates people who self-sabotage or sabotage others. This conversation is packed with amazing, actionable tips you can use to see the relationships and dating patterns you have in a new light. Listen in to hear some surprising facts about what holds you back from attracting and developing the positive, strong relationships you really want. Once you can recognize the signs of sabotage, the more power you have to stop it in its tracks. If you are ready to stop self-sabotaging and grow into the best version of yourself, take the first step by booking a FREE call with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In half an hour, you will get a roadmap to build your dating plan and start your love journey. EPISODE 226 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self Sabotage When Dating: Interview With Brandon Wilson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Have you been experiencing a pessimistic outlook or self doubt lately around dating? With the New Year right around the corner, it's the perfect time to reflect on your love life and determine if you could use a reboot. Right now, many people are experiencing dating burnout -- you're numbing out swiping on matches, you keep meeting people you can't see yourself with and you're starting to wonder if there's even a point to all this! This week, Kimmy talks through the steps to pull yourself out of this rut and start to reinvent your love life, one step at a time. EPISODE 225 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Combat Dating Burnout: Reinvent Yourself Kimmy shares the top signs and symptoms of dating burnout and how this can be negatively impacting your dating life. The key to rising out of your rut is to take action to break the patterns that have been holding you back so you can be open to new options. Kimmy talks about how to shut down the dating burnout and focus on transforming yourself and key things in your life in a more positive direction. You'll hear 5 strategies around how to get unstuck by first starting to get rid of things that no longer serve you. Listen in to hear why creating and maintaining healthy habits is essential to being your best self. When you get to know yourself better, it helps you connect on a more genuine level with others. This could be the perfect time to take time off work, unplug and nurture yourself. Listen in for a tip on how to meet people who share your interests. If you've been attracting the same type of people that aren't working for you, this could be your moment to step our of your comfort zone and try to date people that are NOT your type at all. This episode is all about how you can re-energize your love life and bring a new optimism to your dating experiences. If you are feeling burnt out but you have no idea where to begin, schedule a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In this complimentary, 30 minute phone call you will get the help you need to map out a plan and find a new direction to take your dating life. In the new year, become the best version of you and find the love you desire. EPISODE 225 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Combat Dating Burnout: Reinvent Yourself. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you feel like you're dating the same person over and over again? You try to vet potential dates as best you can but somehow you always end up attracting the fixer-upper, the narcissist, the emotionally unavailable... and you're over it! In the end, you realize that your "picker" might be off. This week, listen in as Kimmy live coaches Ashley, who found Kimmy through her free Facebook group, The Love Makeover Insiders. Ashley is ready to meet someone great after finding herself and defining the kind of person she really wants, but dating has been challenging. She's not meeting the kind of guys she's looking for and she's starting to wonder if her picker is off. EPISODE 224 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be A Better Picker: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy begins the episode by decoding and dissecting what has been challenging for Ashley. Ashley discloses that she had a concussion a while back which definitely affected her confidence and feeling overly sensitive on dates. You'll hear how Kimmy uncovers some unexpected and surprising revelations of what the real reasons her picker is off and why dating has been hard beyond the concussion. Kimmy then helps Ashley reveal connections about how her upbringing and experiences with boys in her younger years are related to what has been holding her back now. Ashley begins by talking about her perception of flirting and why being playful and light on dates never was easy for her. Kimmy gives tangible flirting tips to get you out of your head and into your body. Kimmy talks about how being present and positive can allow you to share more of yourself and have authentic, interesting conversations. When you release the pressure of getting in a relationship or everything on your list -- you can relax, become more present, and have fun on your terms. If you're tired of bad dates and feel your picker might be off, reach out to Kimmy and set up a FREE coaching call: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Kimmy will help you map out a strategy to help you like she did with Ashley. EPISODE 224 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be A Better Picker: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you feel a sense of self-empowerment? It is a buzzword that is thrown out all of the time but what does it really mean? When you are empowered, you are confident and that confidence gets you the opportunities you want. This week, Kimmy interviews a guest who knows a thing or two about empowering people to live a fantastic life, Dr. Allen Lycka, who is a pioneer in cosmetic surgery, transformational speaker, author, celebrity and mentor in his field. EPISODE 223 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self-Empowerment Hacks For A Fantastic Love Life: Interview With Dr. Allen Lycka. Dr. Lycka dives in to share his remarkable and inspirational story about how he was blindsided by a horrible medical scare where he was told he was going to die and how he overcame it in a very powerful way, which drove him to better lives of others. If you have ever struggled with feeling disempowered and being in victim mode, listen in to hear tips on how you can get out of your own way and face your fears. Kimmy and Dr. Lycka discuss how understanding the stages of grief can be instrumental in coping with hard times and developing an accepting and positive mindset. Dr. Lycka talks about the importance of the phrase by Epictetus, "It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." He goes on to give tangible tips around his theory of how you can live a fantastic life with his 13 Golden Pearls of Empowerment that will help you take your love life to the next level. Kimmy drives it home with how you can use these pearls in your dating life. When you are ready for a change, it's imperative to surround yourself with positivity and gratitude that will help you break patterns that are holding you back. This powerful conversation is a reminder that you have the power to create the life you want and deserve. Listen in to hear Dr. Lycka call out a challenge to you that will help you transform your mindset. If you keep asking yourself why you are still single and feeling powerless about your love life, book a FREE call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to help you get out of your own way. EPISODE 223 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Self-Empowerment Hacks For A Fantastic Love Life: Interview With Dr. Allen Lycka. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

If you've been a listener of this show, you know that Kimmy's philosophy is all about working on yourself from the outside in. It's the fastest gateway to embody the most confident version of you. This week, Kimmy interviews an authority on building a positive body image, transformational coach, Justine Sloan. EPISODE 222 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building A Positive Self-Image To Attract Love~Interview With Justin Sloan Justine dives in to share her story about how she struggled with her body image from a young age, causing her to yo-yo diet, engage in excessive exercise and develop an eating disorder. From starting her career as a personal trainer to competing in fitness competitions, now Justine has left that lifestyle behind for a healthier outlook that brings her joy. If you have ever struggled with body image issues, listen in to hear tips on how to take the first steps to truly loving your body and more importantly, loving yourself. Kimmy and Justine discuss the importance of being ready to hear positive messages in your life. When you are ready for a change, it's imperative to surround yourself with positive encouragement that will help you break patterns that are holding you back. This conversation is a reminder that when you do not love yourself, others will treat you accordingly. Justine shares that when she was at her lowest point, she was attracting men into her life that were extremely critical of her appearance because she was critical of her own appearance. Listen in to hear why building your self-worth is an essential first step to achieving a healthy relationship with yourself, how emotional eating can be curtailed with a simple reframe, and how to start to break the habits that hold you back from being your best self. If you are ready to rewrite your story and take steps to overhaul your self-image, reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Working on your self-worth and self-image is working on your dating life! When you are your most confident, radiant self, you will attract others who treat you accordingly. EPISODE 222 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building A Positive Self-Image To Attract Love~Interview With Justin Sloan. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

If you have dated or been in relationships before, you know that getting hurt or rejected is part of the deal. We've all been there! It's scary to get rejected and it's easy to become guarded or fear being vulnerable. This week, Kimmy live coaches Stacey, a people-person who thrives in social groups but is having trouble opening up and sharing her true self when dating. EPISODE 221 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting your guard down when dating: Coaching with Kimmy If you've found yourself attracting the emotionally unavailable like Stacey, this episode will show you how you may actually be unavailable yourself. Kimmy asks Stacey about her dating history and upbringing. You'll hear how Stacey's family dynamics growing up and the role she played as the peacemaker contributes to her dating life today. If you have trust issues, experience a lack of intimacy in relationships, or have dealt with infidelity in the past, listen in to hear about some of the possible sources of these patterns that you have the power to change. Kimmy talks about the definition of real vulnerability and gives tangible steps to be more open when dating. When you are able to open up and lead with how you feel, you invite people to do the same and you begin to attract emotional intimacy into your life. Right now, Stacey's dating someone who she'd like to see more but is having trouble expressing what she wants. Kimmy shares her conversational formula for expressing your feelings in a clear, direct, and positive way. You'll hear Stacey try out this formula live on the episode! If you are struggling to express your needs and desires when dating, this conversation will give you a roadmap to practice and start seeing different results. If you are ready to start making deeper connections when dating, reach out to Kimmy and have a conversation. Book a complimentary call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and in just half an hour you could have a concrete plan to improve your love life. EPISODE 221 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting your guard down when dating: Coaching with Kimmy The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you feel stressed and negative around this time of year? Being single can be really hard as holidays approach and it's easy to be sucked into a negative spin. This week, Kimmy shares an impactful and motivational episode around the power of gratitude. As Thanksgiving approaches, it's a reminder that we have a lot to be grateful for. You deserve to acknowledge what makes you happy! When you live with a positive mindset, you are setting the stage for happy dates and satisfying relationships in the future. Kimmy shares an episode from last year around why being thankful for the positives in your life cultivates healthy, fulfilling partnerships and dating experiences. EPISODE 220 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: ICYMI: An Extra Dose Of Gratitude Attitude To Attract Love Studies have shown that people who exhibit a positive mindset are happier. Kimmy breaks down a few easy, actionable tips you can start doing now that will help you have a more positive outlook on life. You'll hear how to stop negative thoughts and reframe them to impact you for the better. Listen in to hear about 4 major ways negative thoughts and feelings about yourself can impact your behavior and what you can do to start seeing changes in your love life. Stay tuned to hear all about how you can combat the "gremlin talk" and invite more of the positive energy you want to see into your life! When you have a gratitude attitude, you will attract the love you are looking for. It all starts with you! Finding yourself and falling in love can happen, and it's fun and exciting to discover all you have to be grateful for and bring that attitude into your life. If you keep asking yourself, "Why am I still single?" and and feeling powerless and negative about your love life, set a time to talk to Kimmy. You can book it here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In half an hour you can develop a plan to move forward that will bring you closer to finding the person of your dreams! EPISODE 220 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: ICYMI: An Extra Dose Of Gratitude Attitude To Attract Love The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you feel that you are worthy of love? Maybe on the surface, you want that but deep down you are not sure. The first step to achieving anything you want is to feel and believe you deserve it. It's true when it comes to happiness, business and love. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews an authority on helping people become leaders of their own destiny, Daniel Gomez. Daniel is an award-winning keynote speaker, author, coach and podcast host who empowers his clients to build epic success in all areas of their life. EPISODE 219 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Being Worthy Of Love: Interview With Daniel Gomez This energized, deep and powerful conversation will remind you that building your self-worth is essential to finding love. When you feel you are worthy and deserving of a secure relationship, you will start to see changes in who you attract and how you show up. Daniel shares his upbringing in a military family and how that contributed to a lack of foundation for creating lasting long-term relationships. From building his sales skills at his first job to becoming an expert in the automotive industry to marrying his wife and becoming an entrepreneur, Kimmy asks Daniel about the keys to his success. You'll hear how Daniel recovered from one of the lowest points in his life to how he got back on his feet. Listen in to hear how shifting your perspective and seeing something through another person's eyes can not only build empathy but also open your mind to new possibilities. Kimmy and Daniel talk about the different factors at play that can empower you to be the best version of yourself. This conversation touches on the importance of trust, the ability to forgive others, receiving affection and support from others -- even taking compliments! If you think that your low self-worth is impacting your ability to find a healthy love, hop on a call with Kimmy to map out a strategy to help you here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough It's free, and only takes half an hour! Create time for yourself to start working towards the healthy, fulfilling relationship you've always wanted AND deserve. EPISODE 219 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Being Worthy Of Love: Interview With Daniel Gomez The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Expectations and norms around dating have shifted drastically over the years. Now, technology has a massive impact on the culture of dating. If you're in your 40s, 50s or 60s and entering the dating scene for the first time, learning all these new rules can make you feel like a total fish out of water! In this episode, Kimmy breaks down how to navigate the modern dating world by demystifying the biggest changes and how you can get up to speed. EPISODE 218 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Navigate Modern Dating World If your dating experience is outdated and you feel overwhelmed by all there is to do, this episode is for you. It's exciting to be able to discover yourself as you learn and date your way through this new landscape. Kimmy dives into the 5 specific areas where dating has changed over the years and how they might be impacting your dating life. Kimmy talks about how social media, dating apps and new technology is creating new opportunities to meet even more people. You can learn to use the apps to your advantage to flirt while being true to yourself, even via text! Listen in to hear how the rules, expectations, and norms in dating today have shifted and how you can develop an intentional plan to find a healthy, happy relationship for who you've grown into. You'll hear why getting comfortable sharing your feelings and being vulnerable is surprisingly essential to your success in this modern dating world. Kimmy shares the powerful ingredient to creating chemistry and attracting the kind of person you really want. If you're ready to get back out there and find love, sign up for your spot in Kimmy's next workshop, How to Date in Your 40s, 50s and 60s here https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/dating-in-your-40s-50s-60s/. Join a group of men and women who will work with Kimmy to overcome dating fears, create a dating plan, dial-up your sexy confidence, flirt skills and learn to create chemistry in every conversation. Space is limited! You can apply by clicking the link above or email Kimmy directly at askkimmy.com to find how more. Gaining experience is how you combat anxiety around dating. You deserve to be happy and attract the love that's right for you this time around. EPISODE 218 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Navigate Modern Dating World The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Is your voice not as strong as you would like it to be? Do you find yourself bending over backward to please others, while pushing your own needs and desires to the side? In this LIVE episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Debra who's venturing back into the dating world after leaving an 18-year marriage. She is working on finding her voice and letting go of people-pleasing behaviors so that she can stop attracting controlling and narcissistic kinds of men. EPISODE 217 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Voice: Coaching With Kimmy Debra decided to do a live coaching session on the podcast with Kimmy in order to seek strategies to find her voice and around creating a dating plan to attract the kind of partner who's right for this season of her life. Kimmy starts off by acknowledging that finding your voice and the strength to demand what you deserve is the first skill to learn to date smarter this time around. If you find yourself apologizing often (and for no good reason!), consistently attracting lopsided relationships with narcissists or fixer-uppers or feeling responsible for the emotions of others, this episode is for you. Debra shares some insight into the patterns she tends to fall into in relationships, connecting back to her upbringing as the middle child seeking approval, validation and praise from her parents. You'll hear about some of the challenges Debra has encountered in meeting and dating guys while she determines what qualities she wants and the ones she wants to avoid. Kimmy stresses the importance of getting rid of Debra's ex-husband's hold on her and ways to set boundaries for her and her family. Kimmy then shares some tangible strategies of how to raise your self-worth including the key questions to ask to discern what you want before considering what someone else wants, the impact of enriching your social life and the benefits of learning how to just "date" while not getting attached to the outcome. Listen in at the end where Kimmy gets Debra (and to her own surprise) to find her voice right here on this episode! If this show resonated with you and you're ready to stop hiding your voice and date with confidence, get in touch with Kimmy and book a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough And, if you are getting back out there in the dating world later in life and want to learn how to date to attract the right partner, feel desirable and flirt and have fun, you can put your name down now to attend Kimmy's new program, How to Date in Your 40s, 50s and 60s! It starts November 15 and space is limited! Go to askkimmy.com to ask for more information on how to sign up or go here to apply https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/dating-in-your-40s-50s-60s/ EPISODE 217 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Voice: Coaching With Kimmy The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Have you ever felt like you keep dating the same person? No matter what you do, you keep ending up attracting the same type of guy or gal and you're ready to make a change. If you're a regular listener of this podcast, you may have heard Kimmy's five dating archetypes for women. To hear more about each one, check out her exclusive audio course This May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer In this episode, you'll hear about one expert's dating archetypes for men! Kimmy brings in Hafeez Bakou, co-host of The Roommates Podcast, a man's guide to becoming the best version of himself by leveling up physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially. EPISODE 216 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Toxic Dating Decoding: Interview With Hafeez Bakou Whether you're a man or a woman, you'll want to hear these archetypes for men and how they intersect with the archetypes for ladies! Listen in to hear some unexpected parallels between women and men that you may not have heard before. These two dive right in to shed some light on the most common types of men you'll meet in the dating world. You'll hear about key signs to look for to tell if you're talking to the Mama's Boy, the Player/Charmer, the Overly Ambitious Guy, the Bad Boy and even more. Kimmy and Hafeez talk about how the energy you put out may be attracting a specific type of guy. This conversation is a great reminder that all relationships are about balance and finding the dynamic that works for you and your partner. This conversation touches on the effect on each gender of putting out masculine and feminine energy. Here's a hint, what you put out impacts who you attract and how you're perceived on dates. This episode will show you some of the broad signs to look for to know if you are pursuing a relationship with someone who's not healthy or ready for what you're looking for. If these archetypes resonated with you and you want to start working on your dating life, first take the Dating Archetype Quiz for women here to see what kind of dater you are https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY and then set a time to talk with Kimmy here about it: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough It's free, and she will give you ideas around how to stop your dating patterns. EPISODE 216 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Toxic Dating Decoding: Interview With Hafeez Bakou The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you follow your intuition? As you move through your love journey, trusting your gut can be a huge advantage, but how do you know how to interpret what you feel? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews a leader in listening and leaning into her intuition, Noel Elie. Noel is an entertainment industry professional, model and actress, and founder and CEO of Noel Elie productions where she works with people to help build their brands, get media features, and more. EPISODE 215 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Trusting Your Intuition: Interview with Actress Noel Elie Kimmy and Noel kick off when Noel shares the story of how she moved to New York City, just months after graduating college with a dream to break into the modeling world. You'll hear how Noel developed her confidence and trusted her intuition to move her career forward in unexpected ways. You'll hear some incredible gold nuggets from Noel about the building blocks you need to have in place to make it easier to trust your gut. If you've identified or gained your confidence as a caretaker of others before yourself, listen in to hear some tangible tips on how to prioritize your own needs. Kimmy shares that intuition comes from a place of certainty. You'll hear a great tip about how you can increase your confidence daily by using a simple trick Noel uses to get through tough times and put things into perspective. And, Noel shares a story about her recent health journey and how her intuition played an essential role in her progress. If you feel that you are comparing yourself to others on social media or have anxiety tied to that, this episode is for you. Finally, Kimmy and Noel talk about how improv and dancing are powerful tools to help you play out different emotions, allow you to make mistakes, and have fun. If you are having trouble trusting your gut and because of that fall into bad dating and relationship patterns, take the first step and reach out to Kimmy to build your confidence and intuition. Schedule your call right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and get the right guidance towards attracting the right person for you! EPISODE 215 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Trusting Your Intuition: Interview with Actress Noel Elie The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Do you know how to network to increase your chances of meeting potential dates? Your ability to build strong relationships is essential to your success in dating. The stronger your network, the more likely you are to meet or be introduced to someone who could end up being the love of your life! This week, Kimmy interviews an authority on creating and cultivating connections in business, Michael Roderick. A former high school English teacher, Michael capitalized on the power of strong connections to transition to a career as a Broadway producer in record time. Now, as the CEO of Small Pond Enterprises and host of the podcast Access to Anyone, Michael works with people and brands to help make them more memorable through his frameworks on how to create influence. EPISODE 214 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building Relationships For Dating Success: Interview With Michael Roderick This conversation is all about how to make a lasting impression on the people you meet so that those relationships bear fruit for years to come. Kimmy breaks down the top 3 mistakes YOU might be making on dates that are preventing you from making real connections with those you meet. Kimmy and Michael discuss how Michael developed a framework around how to make yourself referable. What are the factors that make others want to introduce people to you? You'll learn the key factors and qualities you can increase to raise your likability and actually show up as your authentic self. And, if you've been dreading going to a social event or have been avoiding them, listen in to hear Michael break down how to improve your interactions with fun animal avatars! This episode is a great reminder that it's a wonderful gift to help others, but you have to remember to let others help you, which will in turn create more opportunities in your dating life. If you are over 40 and having a hard time meeting people and building connections for your dating life, Kimmy's back with another Flirt Workshop! Coming to you on October 19, Kimmy is inviting both women and men together for an interactive virtual workshop designed for folks in their 40s, 50s, and 60s to get back in the game! Whether you are shy, feel awkward, or have been out of the dating scene for a while, you'll learn about the fundamentals of flirting so you can create irresistible chemistry, experience unforgettable first dates and have fun conversations! Space is limited. Register for your spot today: https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building Relationships For Dating Success: Interview With Michael Roderick. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Have you noticed a pattern of dating or attracting emotionally unavailable people? Do you find it difficult to open up with new friends or in potential relationships? In this episode, you'll hear Kimmy live coach Dawn, a self-described social butterfly who has no trouble having fun and attracting men, however you'll be surprised to hear how her flirting has been used as a love shield to deflect her from going deeper in her interactions. As an proclaimed extrovert and waitress, Dawn is great at making sure everyone else is taken care of and focus on others, but often doesn't ensure her emotional needs are met. Now, she's come to Kimmy looking for help on how to create a fulfilling relationship that lasts. EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Attracting The Unavailable: Coaching With Kimmy At the top, Kimmy shares three reasons why you may find yourself in emotionally unavailable relationships or situationships. Listen in to hear about how you may be unconsciusly recreating a pattern from your childhood or history in your current interactions. Often, we repeat relationship dynamics that are familiar to us. Kimmy and Dawn dig into Dawn's history to uncover some of the possible traces of this pattern for her. If you're like Dawn, you may have developed certain behaviors to protect yourself from getting hurt in the past. Kimmy talks through some simple first steps to notice and shift these behaviors to get a different result. You'll hear tips around expanding your social circle, the benefits of expressing your feelings early and often, and how to build up your self-worth so that you attract more opportunities for deeper connections. And, if you're over 40 and find yourself feeling lost about how to navigate today's dating scene, come check out Kimmy's Flirt Workshop! Back by popular demand on October 11, Kimmy will gather both women and men together for an interactive virtual masterclass designed for folks in their 40s, 50s, and 60s to get back in the game! So whether you are shy, feel awkward or have been out of the dating scene for awhile, you'll learn about the fundamentals of flirting so you can create irresistible chemistry, experience unforgettable first dates and have fun conversations! Space is limited. Register for your spot today: https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Attracting The Unavailable: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Are you dating later in life? Dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s is different! Especially if you're jumping back into the dating world after a divorce or a long-term relationship in adulthood. Often, your identity was tied to your partners for so long that it can be tough to find who YOU are again. Dating has also changed in the last decade and now is the perfect time to understand how to date smarter so you can find who's right for you now. In this week's episode, Kimmy addresses the biggest dating mistakes people make after 40. EPISODE 212 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes Kimmy jumps right in by sharing the beginnings of her own dating journey after divorce and the biggest misadventures she made, including why she found herself attracting narcissists initially! You'll hear about some of the new rules of the dating world, and how you can start out dating smarter not harder this time around. If you've ever thought, "Can't I just skip all this dating and get to the relationship part?!" this episode is for you where you'll learn how you might actually be prolonging the process by diving in too fast too soon. Kimmy walks through the top 5 dating mistakes people make in their 40s, 50s and 60s and how it can negatively impact your dating life. She shares some actionable tips for you to reframe your mindset around how to date. Tune in to hear a story about a 68-year-old woman she worked with who successfully got back out there and found love in an unexpected place... Tinder! And, if you are over 40 and having a hard time navigating the dating scene she has an exciting opportunity coming up October 11. By popular demand, Kimmy's Co-ed Flirt Masterclass is here again but this time focusing on how to do it in your 40s, 50s and 60s! Join a motivated group of women and men ready to learn to get their sexy on, create attraction and land dates at ANY age. Space is limited so sign up today here https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting EPISODE 212 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Have you ever gotten swept up in the magic and romance of a movie or a song? Do you ever ask yourself, "Why can't I find love?" The truth is that it's a lot easier to depict a picture-perfect whirlwind courtship in a romantic comedy than to replicate that experience in real life. When it comes to finding love, it may be more beneficial to *create* the love you want, instead of searching for it. This week, Kimmy talks to Adam Gilad who is an Emmy-nominated producer and writer and founder of Kyynder about developing deep love connections between men and women. EPISODE 211 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Love, Not Finding It: Interview With Adam Gilad Kimmy begins the episode with the importance of why it's better to create love vs. finding it. Kimmy and Adam jump right in to talk about how you have the power to build skill sets that make you more likely to create the kind of love you're looking for. Adam shares his journey of how his world was turned upside down when he found himself single at 39 and how he picked up the pieces to put his life back together. If you have gone through a breakup of a long-term relationship or a divorce, listen in to Adam's story. This conversation between old friends is a reminder that navigating the dating world is a journey and so many of us go through very similar things throughout this process. Adam shares some of the top skills that successful daters and couples can use through practice to help them have more healthy and happy relationships. You'll hear about how raising your awareness of certain personal triggers helps you interpret the behaviors of others with more clarity. Kimmy and Adam touch on the power of having a community surrounding and supporting you in order to start to shift your consciousness around the relationship skills you want to build. And, Adam shares some lessons he's learned in his new relationship about not making assumptions about others because everyone has grown up differently with different experiences. If you're ready to start honing your relationship skills, get some time on Kimmy's calendar here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In a FREE 30-minute session with Kimmy you could start to uncover some of the central challenges you face when dating and begin to craft a roadmap of how to practice and navigate where you want to go. Also if you want the practice join Kimmy and other amazing experts in Adam's Kyyndr interactive summit. This is a curated community of men and women who meet every week to learn advanced dating and relationships skills together and to connect in a deeper way online. Click here to join! www.kyyndr.com/seltzer EPISODE 211 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Love, Not Finding It: Interview With Adam Gilad. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Everyone experiences extreme life events that impact how we think, act and behave throughout our loves. If you've experienced trauma, physical, verbal or emotional abuse in your family or past relationships, this week's episode will resonate with you. You'll hear Kimmy have a coaching call with Margaret, a healthcare worker who is struggling to move beyond her past and find love again. After leaving an abusive 11-year marriage, Margaret is focused on how she can shift her perspective to start attracting different people into her life. EPISODE 210 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Trauma Prevents You From Finding Love: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy dives in by describing the signs of the 3 most common responses to fear: fight, flight or freeze. If one of more of these responses feels like you, listen in to hear proven strategies to begin breaking those patterns for yourself, while still prioritizing your own health and safety. Margaret jumps in to share that she has no problem meeting guys, but when it comes to trusting their motives, it's a different story. If you've built in some questions to "test" your dates early on, Kimmy explains reasons why this tactic may backfire when trying to filter through red flags. Margaret also shares what the dynamics in her family looked like growing up and Kimmy identifies how those patterns could be repeating themselves in her dating life today. If you've found success in "fixing" or helping others, this conversation will illuminate how this dynamic creates unhealthy dating dynamics. Kimmy shares some tips on how to check in with yourself and what you're feeling to make sense of the reactions you may have to different behavior. If you have a tendency to focus on making others happy at the expense of getting your own needs met, stay tuned to hear how you can take small steps to start breaking those patterns. Learn how to shift the focus back to you, instead of trying to predict what the person you're dating may or may not be concealing. If Margaret's experience resonates with you and you're looking for a path that could release you from your past trauma in relationships, reach out to Kimmy for a complimentary coaching call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough When you learn to shift your focus from others to yourself at this stage, you'll be able to build a sense of empowerment, raise your standards and go after what you want and deserve in a relationship. Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups